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| 4 | Iam a bartender just dropping red pill for you guys about woman being alone in pubs/clubs (Part1)I don’t doubt women’s sluttiness, but I think it is really amplified in a nightclub / bar environment | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/21 03:20 AM |
| 8 | Is having a LTR really worth it?I think so for the experience. But modern women aren’t worth the lifetime commitment of marriage. So you just gotta enter the deal knowing that it will end at some point. And when it does end, be ready to move on to the next girl. If you don’t think you can handle the pain at the end, then it’s not worth it. From my experience though, so long as you keep improving, you can keep upgrading girls / getting better pussy. Each girl I get is better than the last because I’ve improved, am more RP, and … | /r/askTRP | 05/01/21 04:01 AM |
| 21 | Did you notice a substantial increase in female attention as you passed your mid 20's?I’m 30. Best year yet for pussy. Probably because I know the game now. When I was 25, I had no idea how to handle women and all their bs | /r/askTRP | 05/01/21 03:52 AM |
| 2 | SextingWe’ve been hooking up for 6 weeks | /r/askTRP | 12/12/20 04:42 PM |
| 10 | Proposed a date a week ago, she reschedule for Friday, what now?Lets do X at 700 pm. Show some leadership | /r/askTRP | 26/11/20 04:00 PM |
| 11 | Confronting girlfriend about guy whose name keeps popping up on her phoneBeen there too brother. Don’t ask her. Nothing productive comes from it. Just dump her. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/20 04:59 PM |
| 4 | Women who get Tats after breakup?Most screwed up chick I ever hooked up with was covered in tattoos | /r/askTRP | 21/10/20 11:28 AM |
| 1 | What are respectable natty gym PRsExplain what those #s mean? | /r/askTRP | 16/10/20 12:39 PM |
| 148 | On Romantic Love and HeartbreakErotic love is a lower, selfish form of love. It is selfish because it entails using another person as a means of inflating our own ego, our own sense of self worth. We love someone in correlation to their ability to inflate our pride. For this reason, all erotic love is very painful because when it ends, a man comes crashing down to earth to face reality. He becomes disillusioned. Erotic love blinds and negates - we only see what is good and forget temporarily the darkness within us and around … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/20 03:20 PM |
| 59 | Closure is BullshitHad dinner tonight with a chick. She was showing me the monologue of texts her ex Bf had been sending her over the last month begging for her to come back. Don’t be this guy, ever. You leave and don’t look back. That’s your only option. Otherwise, you look like a weak, needy wimp. I’ve wanted to talk rationally to ex girlfriends but it’s never a good choice, ever. Don’t ever be the guy that your ex shows to the new guy. No matter what you say, your ex and either her friends or new lover will be … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/20 05:25 AM |
| 3 | What does it mean when a girl replies saying that "she doesn't know what she wants" after you ask her what she is on online dating for?Don’t ask her that | /r/askTRP | 19/09/20 04:22 PM |
| 28 | Why do girls care about what their ex’s are up to?They want to confirm that dumping you was the right decision. Best revenge is simply to improve yourself, not out of vindictiveness but for your own health, happiness, and well-being. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/20 10:46 PM |
| 4 | Plate who I know has LTR interest for me mentioning other dudes she has been seeing?She’s trying to pressure you into exclusivity | /r/askTRP | 10/07/20 03:18 PM |
| 113 | Love makes a Fool of a Man but rarely a Woman.A great man seeks to master his work. A woman seeks to master a great man. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/20 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls cheat (when you’re doing everything right)?Because of the possibility of loss? | /r/askTRP | 15/03/20 04:38 PM |
| 5 | Red Pill Valentine's Day?Stop overthinking. She texted you yesterday hoping you’d lead the way into a date for today. As far as gifts, since it’s still so early in your relationship, I wouldn’t get her anything unless she has already bought you gifts | /r/askTRP | 14/02/20 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Starfishin'Yes | /r/askTRP | 06/02/20 07:08 AM |
| 11 | Do shit tests increase with your attractiveness?Yeah. If you’re getting shit tested more it’s a good thing. It’s an IOI and an opportunity to increase her interest and get her tingling. The difficulty initially is not taking anything personally. Girls will say some nasty shit to you and you can either be butt hurt about it or crush her tests. Another difficulty is recognizing that you’re getting tested. I’ve had girls transform before my eyes when I pass a test with flying colors. Girl recently was being bitch and standoffish with me and I wa… | /r/askTRP | 02/02/20 02:28 AM |
| 3 | LTR Girls TripThink the better play is to trust someone until they prove they are not worth trusting. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/20 05:08 PM |
| 3 | How does an introvert find abundance?If you’re an introvert, you must have enough interests in your private life to sustain you beyond your ltr. I am also an introvert and frankly, I’ve just stopped trying to be the sociable guy that our society glorifies. I find my sustenance by pursuing what matters to me: learning, reading, writing, being creative, being financially solid, and being lucrative with my interests. Socializing here and there is always good, but I don’t need it more than 1 or 2 days a week to sustain me. You just nee… | /r/askTRP | 17/01/20 03:59 PM |
| 2 | LTR acting disrespectfulThat’s not a big deal dude and you acted insecure which turns her off. Best reaction is no reaction. It’s inevitable that she will interact with other men and so you must genuinely learn to not give a fuck. But there are obviously levels to it: Says hi to a friend and gives him a hug. Interaction lasts a couple minutes. DNGAF. LTR flirts with another dude in front of your face for a minute? Probably a shit test. Ignore. LTR is texting another dude and spends 20 minutes flirting and talking to hi… | /r/askTRP | 04/01/20 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Women's Desire Is In Proportion To Your Effort. (Or never go full retard/effort)As I learned from AMS, if she sees you as low value and has low attraction, you have to demonstrate higher value and put in effort. But if she already sees you as valuable, then everything in your post applies. A girl isn’t going to pursue a loser who doesn’t put in any effort. You have to be valuable before going low effort works at all. But I agree completely with your post, the less effort I put in with my ltr, the more effort she puts in. Indifference seems like a subtle form of dread. There… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/19 02:28 PM |
| 26 | A King has no Friends, only Follower and Foe; on PowerReminds me of The Prince by Machiavelli | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/19 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Those who have tried NoFap for a great length of time, what is your opinion?Changed my life for the better | /r/askTRP | 13/12/19 02:18 PM |
| 9 | Update: Ex gf texted me, againJust move on dude. Only going forward not backwards. Unless it has major social repurcussions for cutting her out by blocking (share the same social circle), I would just block her and get busy doing other things including seeing other women to forget. She's using you as a validation dispenser with those texts FYI. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/19 04:23 AM |
| 8 | Suffer, you must.I feel you dude. My point is that it’s in the rumination, in the struggle to figure out your problems that you actually learn. Struggling is improvement if you use it correctly. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/19 06:04 PM |
| 12 | Anyone catch the post on ask men today about guys giving up on girls?Yeah. Well the culture has shifted too. Women no longer need to rely on men financially as much so there is no necessity of marriage. And women can now go on alpha sprees to get their sexual rocks off, while not needing the resource providing beta anymore. There’s no incentive for women to settle down and marry your average bloke and I think it’s causing a lot of torment for men who don’t understand self improvement = greater access to women | /r/askTRP | 05/12/19 05:41 AM |
| 15 | Anyone catch the post on ask men today about guys giving up on girls?I think a life without pussy is respectable if it’s about retaining your semen, if it’s about asceticism. Think it’s pathetic if you’re hiding out in your house jacking off all day long and playing video games. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/19 05:00 AM |
| 2 | Tinder girl, lunch at my place. Advice for unexperienced guy?Don’t be thinking about hooking up the whole time. Just enjoy yourself. Stay calm cool and collected. She’s probably gonna shit test you a bunch. If you’re inexperienced with this, what matters most is that you don’t let her upset your emotional equilibrium, stay grounded in yourself, and either amplify her shit or pressure flip it so the tension reflects back on her. And if she initiates touch, it’s a real good sign. Touch her casually too to test the waters. See how she reacts. Once the kino s… | /r/askTRP | 05/12/19 02:40 AM |
| 1 | I’m sick and tired of girls who can’t conversationsDon't know if its been said but girls find it disgusting and selfish when a man says more than a sentence about himself. You should simply get her talking about herself and keep the conversation centered around her. Lead the conversation and if she does ask about you, keep it very brief and concise so that mystery remains. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/19 11:12 PM |
| 1 | LTR Brother AMOGing meMost of the insults were subtextual and malicious. Nothing playful or direct about it. Wasn't really something you could directly respond to with playful shit back. More like little jabs intertwined into the conversation. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/19 12:03 AM |
| 2 | Please help me, no idea if i should do anything in returnYou don’t recover. Just move on and completely forget. You only validate her more if you try to fix it. And she’ll lose respect | /r/askTRP | 30/11/19 01:54 AM |
| 5 | Please help me, no idea if i should do anything in returnMaybe she found someone better than you. OR could have been a shit test that also gave her her validation for the evening. If she was constantly looking at you, means she was gauging your reaction. Proper reaction on your part should have been DNGAF. Should have talked to other girls and generated your own fun evening rather than depending on her to make your evening. You letting her get to you means you need a stronger frame. Next her. Don’t hit her up. Don’t talk to her. Unfollow her. Pay her … | /r/askTRP | 30/11/19 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Kill the puppy?Yeah. I give her my time, attention, and affection when I'm with her. But I'm cold and distant when I'm not with her. Not sure if she's just trying to strong arm me into more commitment or is just generally less enthusiastic about being with me. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/19 07:47 PM |
| 6 | Kill the puppy?Are you saying that her desire to get into my phone is motivated by her own guiltiness? | /r/askTRP | 19/11/19 06:14 PM |
| 21 | Reading Women; Maintaining ControlThis is a fucking comment worth reading. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/19 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Womanese subcommunicationsYeah, she has been pushing a lot to be exclusive, and as of last time we hung out, I told her I would be exclusive with her | /r/askTRP | 07/11/19 02:57 AM |
| 2 | Girls I meet just want to get into a "serious relationship". How do I get out of this trap?Thanks so much | /r/askTRP | 07/11/19 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Text message bombsYeah I’m not worried about that. I don’t think she is really either. But she’s rather bombing me with it to see what I do. I normally am pretty good at handling tests but don’t know how to handle this one really | /r/askTRP | 29/10/19 01:49 AM |
| 0 | Girls I meet just want to get into a "serious relationship". How do I get out of this trap?You sure it’s still linked there? Just looked - couldn’t find it | /r/askTRP | 24/10/19 05:07 AM |
| 9 | Help me find a thread: every girl is singleThis may be of interest. Likely not the thread your referencing but probably conveys a similar idea. Check out the entire index for some red pill truths Article: http://masculineprinciple.blogspot.com/2015/02/women-who-want-to-cheat-with-you.html?m=1 Index: http://no-maam.blogspot.com/2004/01/book-of-bonecrker.html?m=1 | /r/askTRP | 16/10/19 05:00 AM |
| 1 | She's the oneSomebody get this guy a Dr. He has a bad case of ONEITIS. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/19 05:33 PM |
| 21 | 57, no friends, stressful job, minimal family life, haven't dated in 8 yearsRough truth - but you are not genetically attractive at all considering what you described. I would stop worrying about friends, lovers, or anything external. Perhaps you are needy because you are so desirious of all these things beyond yourself. I would instead suggest that you begin to grow a good relationship with your soul. Not typical Red Pill advice. That means learning to be content with silence, with yourself, with a lack of anything existing beyond yourself. Instead of looking outward, … | /r/askTRP | 29/09/19 05:53 PM |
| 1 | When a plate knows they are a platewomen are not plate spinners because spinning a plate requires work. To have sexual abundance, all women have to do is open their legs and not say no. To have sexual abundance, men need a strong frame, DGAF attitude, and much more. Spinning plates is a man's game, not a woman's. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/09/19 08:35 PM |
| 6 | How to handle the shit test when a girl says other guys are attractive to you?Just a shit test / frame test. Be unreactive. That could mean silence. That could be AA “I bet he has cute nipples.” That could be a pressure flip “I didn’t know you were a gold digger.” All that matters is you DGAF | /r/askTRP | 19/09/19 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Pushing for comittmentHow did it play out for you? | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 02:53 AM |
| -4 | Pushing for comittmentlots of green flags for this girl - she has potential to be an LTR, but I'm not making a commitment for at least a couple more months | /r/askTRP | 16/09/19 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Pushing for comittmentWhat's a good way to respond to "Is sex all I am to you?" | /r/askTRP | 16/09/19 03:20 PM |
| 1 | An analysis of a woman's hamster regarding the beta-bucks/alpha-fuck dynamic.Needed this. Indifference to the max. Thanks | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/19 05:53 PM |
| 5 | A Shit storm of shit testsWhen she didn’t follow through with your date scheduled at 8:30, you should have soft nexted right there. Tell her “I already made plans for the rest of the night” then go cold. What you did is tolerate and accept a bunch of bad behavior | /r/askTRP | 04/09/19 01:42 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else stopped giving a fuck about women once they (truly) found their mission?Don’t hate on a man trying to improve his life | /r/askTRP | 22/08/19 04:03 AM |
| 16 | LMR keeps screwing me over. How do I close successfully?If she denied your attempts to escalate, and you still continued to make out with her anyways - you are validating her without her having to go all the way with you. If she thwarts your attempts to escalate, your best defense is to simply stop being sexual with her. Go cold. Don’t make out with her any longer. But don’t act butt hurt or reactive. Keep it lighthearted. Act non-chalant. But do remove your attention. Do not validate her anymore. Say your tired and want to go home. Make no big deal … | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 04:34 AM |
| 1 | How to avoid "The talk"I don’t think it’s in the sidebar - I just looked. Could you link it? | /r/askTRP | 18/08/19 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Was fucking a girl for 30 mins but I was limp n didn’t finish. This happened to anyone?Don’t put pressure on yourself to perform if you’re doing so. Anxiety can soften your dick real quick. I find once I get out of my head and tap into that primal ravenous beast within, things get pretty ecstatic for both parties | /r/askTRP | 17/08/19 09:25 PM |
| 19 | Meet The Endorsed Contributors: FereallyRedI agree shouts to fereallyred - always insightful and helpful. Never condescending or smug | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/19 05:48 PM |
| 8 | Going to have sex for first time. Any basic guide?Agree with you totally. I get turned on from getting her off and if you get her off good, she’ll be coming back around for seconds | /r/askTRP | 16/08/19 12:51 PM |
| 1 | If you want to extend the life of your plates, do these two VERY simple things...LOL dropping acid with a plate? I don't know about that, don't even want to smoke with them let alone get in deep | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/19 03:41 PM |
| 12 | "I have a boyfriend."Don’t say this op. Try hard and cringy | /r/askTRP | 14/08/19 12:40 PM |
| 50 | Anyone else look around and realise that everyone around them is not where they want to be in life?Well, we all have ideals. But life teaches a harsh lesson and that is utopia doesn’t exist. There is a lot of suffering and unfulfillment here and it’s inescapable. Even if you’re red pilled. Even if your Steve jobs. Elon musk. No one escapes the human condition. It is nothing to be solved because it is unsolvable. The only true progress occurs once you accept your condition and begin to release your mind from its utopian expectations. A well rounded man has integrated and accepted suffering int… | /r/askTRP | 11/08/19 09:15 PM |
| 2 | I need help with shit testReframe it: sounds like you have no standards | /r/askTRP | 11/08/19 01:29 PM |
| 14 | Patience Is KeyGuess it depends how much of a fuck you give. I’ve learned not to care about what girls do with other man, how could you ever control them? It is your own mentality and attachment that punishes you | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/19 12:03 AM |
| 17 | Patience Is KeyMy mantra as of lately has been patience, patience, patience in regards to my dating life. And it’s played out pretty well so far. The good thing about patience is it demonstrates to women that you are not thirsty and desperate. It also demonstrates that you have restraint and self control. It’s expected to want things fast in today’s age, but there is a fall out for such misguided thinking and it is this: you train your brain to only desire short term gratification. By getting what you want fas… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/19 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Do you kiss on first date?I agree with you, but do not understand why. If you fail to fuck a chick on the first date even though she wants it, why does this ruin your future chances? Happened to me recently. Date went well, made out, talked a lot about sex but failed to make it happen. Have had no success getting her out on a second date | /r/askTRP | 09/08/19 02:03 PM |
| 3 | Post Sex Beta TransformationYeah that’s how it felt to me too | /r/askTRP | 07/08/19 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend has been annoying tf out of me. How do I successfully demote her to plate?Get this chick out of your life ASAP | /r/askTRP | 04/08/19 09:26 PM |
| 9 | The Great and Powerful Rollo TomassiThought the same thing. Jung actually had some profound and accurate insights into intersexual dynamics | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/19 04:02 PM |
| 3 | Meet The Endorsed Contributors: mallardcoveAny good advice on bulking? | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/19 07:29 PM |
| 13 | How to deal with people who insult/put you down in front of others but try to play it off as just banter?Just stop hanging out with him. He’s not a friend | /r/askTRP | 27/07/19 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Plausible Deniability / did not pullThanks. Using plausible deniability - should it always be phrased as a statement rather than a question? IE - "I'm taking you for some coffee so you don't fall asleep on the drive home" vs "Would you like some coffee at my place to perk you up before your drive?" | /r/askTRP | 17/07/19 05:46 PM |
| 12 | The most important thing in todays world: focus - but how to improve it?Reading 50 pages in a stretch | /r/askTRP | 14/07/19 02:41 PM |
| 3 | Dark Triad game>Cold approach pick up( Insider tells all, evidence inside+field reports)Bonecrcker has some great content related to picking up women WHO SHOW INTEREST. Cold approach will have a better conversion rate if you first determine whose actually interested in you through IOI. It’s a lot harder to pick up a chick if she is completely cold and uninterested. You’re going to have much more success if the chick has an inkling if interest | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/19 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Girl left because I played a song before we fuckedSounds like a shit test to me | /r/askTRP | 05/07/19 10:13 PM |
| 5 | The you’re too young shit testNah she is just poking you until your boundaries break - don’t let them, don’t give her a straight answer | /r/askTRP | 26/06/19 04:06 AM |
| 7 | The you’re too young shit testWhenever a girl gives me shit about my age I just tell them I’m 14 with a smirk and that she’s a child molester | /r/askTRP | 26/06/19 02:43 AM |
| 5 | Finally Tackling My Biggest Obstacle in Swallowing TRP. Looking for adviceBeen in the exact same situation. Use to blaze 24/7. It definitely helped me access a spiritual consciousness, but I became addicted to that state and was always trying to get there. If I missed a day of smoking, I became easily agitated and angered. All those mellow good vibes left me so quick. It obviously feels good to get high and that’s why it’s such a bitch to quit. But it was making me non social, isolated, lofty in my ideals but unmotivated to achieve them. Time was passing by me very qu… | /r/askTRP | 17/06/19 02:44 PM |
| 2 | Flakey DateWell aware brother! | /r/askTRP | 24/05/19 02:02 AM |
| 3 | Flakey DateGood point. Thanks | /r/askTRP | 24/05/19 12:57 AM |
| 0 | Low teatosterone - what should I do next?You probably exhaust yourself at work and thus working out 4 days a week only tires you further. I’d suggest working out less and taking more time to recover / sleep. I know that has worked for me. Do you masturbate frequently? Might help to practice semen retention | /r/askTRP | 20/05/19 10:09 PM |
| 2 | Living with 3 femalesDon’t live with women - it’s an annoying distraction | /r/askTRP | 13/05/19 02:04 PM |
| 7 | I'm learning that as a man nobody is going to step in and give me a helping hand if things go downhill. As a result I am gradually taking on more and more responsibility because I'll be damned if I go down as a victim.Thank you for this comment | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/19 04:20 AM |
| 1 | My Journey BeginsCan anyone link me to the DARE & DEER post? Having trouble finding it | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/19 08:26 PM |
| 5 | I Need Help Deciphering This SituationBad idea to put a woman on the spot like that in front of her peer group because if she agrees to come over than she looks like a slut to her friends. Not necessarily a bad line but bad to use when there’s people around who can and will judge her | /r/askTRP | 13/04/19 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Nuke the hamsterI’ve been dealing with it for a year. I don’t think it, I know it | /r/askTRP | 09/04/19 06:05 PM |
| 3 | Recommend me some booksOne flew over the cuckoos nest by Ken Kesey is a fantastic exploration of power dynamics between men and women. Also a great portrayal of alpha maleness through the character of mcmurphy | /r/askTRP | 02/04/19 10:20 PM |
| 1 | I know this community advises against pursuing single moms but they are so tempting! Omg! They seem to give less fucks.The trouble with single mothers is that they potentially have ulterior motives. In other words, you’re at risk of her burrowing into your life and financial resources so her and her kid are better of. I’ve had some chances to hook up with single moms and turned it down for this reason. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/19 04:37 AM |
| 2 | My girlfriend got a strange callShit test level: advanced | /r/askTRP | 07/03/19 04:41 AM |
| 1 | Anytime I get confidence or high self-esteem all the sudden I begin to get shit-testedInsult and shit test are usually one in the same. You’re giving chicks too much power over your own frame. Pound it into your head that you should never take a chicks button pushing seriously for the moment you do that, the power has shifted to her and your operating in her world rather than vice versa | /r/askTRP | 14/02/19 06:49 PM |
| 2 | Anytime I get confidence or high self-esteem all the sudden I begin to get shit-testedDon’t know about men, but with women it is a means of testing congruency. IE - is this guy a fraud or the real deal? In women’s eyes, the purpose is not to cut you down but rather to test if you’re as strong, dominant and competent as you appear | /r/askTRP | 14/02/19 06:35 PM |
| 8 | "If you don't bang her now, you'll regret it when you're married' - 10 years later my coworker was right. I should have banged her and I'm kicking myself that I didn't.Spot on with that last paragraph. I think sexual thirst is perhaps the hardest compulsive behavior to conquer. If you can do so, you can rule the world | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/19 01:46 AM |
| 93 | "If you don't bang her now, you'll regret it when you're married' - 10 years later my coworker was right. I should have banged her and I'm kicking myself that I didn't.I know morality isn't really preached here and that when it is, it could be labeled as "white knighting." My two cents is I've had opportunities like these and have turned them down because of my own character and values. I don't want to be someone who potentially wrecks a relationship, wrecks my own relationship, or gets charged with "rape" after the woman changes her mind (in order to save face w/ her partner), or used by someone simply because they want sexual validation. I've seen things go … | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/19 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Need Advice Regarding a Nasty Move by RoomateAll about perspective. You’re taking it as a personal attack. He probably just had to piss and was too lazy to get up. He sounds like a slob, but I don’t think his intent was to be disrespectful to you. It’s ultimately up to your mom. If you’re of age, you should move out of the house. Not sure what the dynamic is like at home, but I generally think mothers can bring out the boyish qualities of men | /r/askTRP | 13/12/18 05:56 AM |
| 1 | How to stop being such a beta maleOne step at a time. Get in shape. Get disciplined. A life worth living is slowly built, not achieved in an instant. Think about your long terms goals and orient your life so that everyday is a step forward on your mission. Ridding yourself of video games and getting in shape should be some of your first goals if you actually want to change | /r/askTRP | 11/12/18 04:52 AM |
| 18 | I have no sex drive what so ever. I quit smoking and I’ve been taking vitamins to regain vitality still seeing no progress. I’m not to attracted any woman, not even butterflies even with my crushes what’s going on?Stop masturbating for a month and see if your better. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/18 02:08 AM |
| 1 | How often did you guys fail at LMR?What’s a disconnect? | /r/askTRP | 21/11/18 03:24 PM |
| 10 | Play the slow game?Lacking desperation and neediness is always an attractive quality but that doesn’t necessarily mean it should move slow. Don’t base this off a schedule. Strike while the iron is hot | /r/askTRP | 20/11/18 02:10 PM |
| 7 | Kinda fucked up and shes being annoying.What are you doing... Here’s a scenario for: you hook up with, she gets that itch scratched, her husband finds out, she doesn’t want to take responsibility, and so she accuses you of rape. Not saying that’s what will happen, but it’s a high stakes decision to hook up with a married woman whose friends with your family. How about you do yourself a favor and find some single women. There’s a lot less risk and potential backlash in that situation | /r/askTRP | 15/11/18 05:01 PM |
| 3 | Relaxation is Key for everythingits great for your immune system and skin. If i'm feeling anxious, its the quickest way to change my state of mind. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/11/18 05:22 PM |
| 111 | Relaxation is Key for everythingNothing teaches me to relax better than sitting in 190 degree sauna for 30 minutes followed by 5 minutes of cold shower, with consistent, slow breathing the method that gets me through the shock of both hot and cold. And you're completely right, given that women are highly emotionally attuned creatures, doesn't matter at all what you say, but how you feel. If you're tense and try to flirt, it comes across anxiously. If you're relaxed and flirt, it comes across naturally and you establish a mutua… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/11/18 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Purposely "failed" shit tests on date, somehow she's still interested?Why are you going on another date if you’re not into her? | /r/askTRP | 05/11/18 02:07 PM |
| 13 | Why are testosterone levels dropping in the West?Too complex of a sentence for you huh | /r/askTRP | 04/11/18 02:56 PM |
| 7 | Why are testosterone levels dropping in the West?Excessive masturbation via the internet | /r/askTRP | 04/11/18 02:28 PM |
| 8 | Gaming girls who are friends with each other, possible?You’ll be surprised to learn the more you fuck A, the more B will want to fuck. Preselection and dread game at work. I had a similar situation in college. After I hooked up with girl A, I thought she’d be pissed that I hooked up with her friend, girl B. Rather, girl A started to hit me up more to hook up, which likewise caused girl B to want more as well. Turned into a positive feedback loop :). Think this scenario only really works for casual hook ups, not so well for a girl who wants a ltr | /r/askTRP | 02/11/18 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Will you Poop where you eat?How did that pan out? 😼 | /r/askTRP | 02/11/18 08:09 PM |
| 0 | Will you Poop where you eat?Not a bad plan, would save you a lot of trouble. Saving that semen too helps you build an empire | /r/askTRP | 02/11/18 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Will you Poop where you eat?Never fuck a roomate either | /r/askTRP | 02/11/18 06:26 PM |
| 7 | its amazing how LJBFs gets flipped when you play it right.Aha amazing. Double standards and irrational minds! | /r/askTRP | 28/10/18 08:07 PM |
| 11 | Why does this ALWAYS happenStrike while the iron is hot. Or your being used for your attention & validation to boost her ego and self worth. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/18 12:45 AM |
| 4 | Women Are Like Children, With ExamplesI just think of all the times when girls used tears to try and manipulate me. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/18 04:31 PM |
| 18 | The best "game technique" I know and probably only one you really need.Women don’t speak that overt language. She’ll tell you she’s not interested covertly without using your phrase. You just have to be attuned enough to know... Pretty beta too to overtly tell her to rate and judge the interaction, giving her the power | /r/TheRedPill | 24/10/18 03:52 PM |
| 2 | Negative EmotionsExercise is often all that is needed. Get that blood flowing. Stop doing drugs too if you’re smoking a lot of weed or drinking too much caffeine | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 02:10 PM |
| 4 | How do i stop being The pathetic credulous naive ingenuous easy simple minded poor Nice Guy?? How to stop trying to be liked by everyfucking one?Be comfortable with making other people uncomfortable. I’m not advising you to purposefully try and hurt other people. But your needs, goals, and dreams should be top priority. If something or someone gets in the way of that, you should feel no guilt shutting it down. You are watching out for your best interest and when you start doing that, you stop being nice. Read: No more mr nice guy - Robert Glover The book of pook The rational male - rollo tomassi | /r/askTRP | 18/10/18 03:13 PM |
| 1 | "I don't feel so good today, so we won't have sex, ok?"Sounds pretty spot on to me | /r/askTRP | 17/10/18 02:13 AM |
| 4 | How often do you get the eyes when you’re walking?Far and few between for me until I start retaining semen. Nothing turns a girl on more subconsciously than sniffing out that you have a healthy seed and high t levels. Save your semen, become a magnet 🔋 | /r/askTRP | 16/10/18 09:42 PM |
| 9 | The best way to have abundance mentality is to have an abundance of optionsI wouldn’t be surprised if you heard from her soon | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/18 03:12 AM |
| 5 | The best way to have abundance mentality is to have an abundance of optionsI was curious if ditching girl 3 got her hamstering....did she hit you up post date? | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/18 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Congratulations, Fortnite has been successfully uninstalled.Hey man, thought I should recommend you try retaining your semen indefinitely. I made it 6 months without busting and life became straight magic: way more energy, focus, and discipline for my desires and dreams. Utmost respect from men. Intense interest from women. In tune with a spiritual undercurrent. Maybe its worts seeing how a month of not jerking it will effect your life. Def not for everyone, but I’ve had a transformative experience and thus the recommendation | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/18 03:17 AM |
| 22 | Advice for the Red Pill and WeedGod I love weed, but it’s not a very good drug for building your frame or smv. Generally makes you lazier and slower so all your goals and long term dreams are forgotten or pushed aside. Creates an apathetic vibe at its worst and women generally aren’t into that. If you’re gonna smoke, I’d suggest using it Infrequently - once / week, if even that. Weeds great in moderate use. It’s fun to get stoned with girls and get on the same vibe, but it’s really damaging and detrimental if you’re using it d… | /r/askTRP | 11/10/18 10:33 PM |
| 4 | One night stands/casual sex leaves me feeling empty and seems like a waste of time?You sound like a good candidate for /r/semenretention | /r/askTRP | 09/10/18 12:00 AM |
| 5 | Letting women misbehaveLots of valuable posts on RP today. I think what you say has broader implications for life itself - in some situations, the more we wrestle with control, domination, and bending reality to our will, the greater we increase our chances of being punished when things unfold out of our favor. We create our own suffering by this means. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/18 04:38 PM |
| 11 | Always Assume The Worst. Protect Yourself From Getting ‘Metooed’.I don’t get how conviction occurs in the absence of evidence. Guilty until proven innocent! | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/18 03:02 PM |
| 10 | Ignoring girls I'm attracted to qt workDon’t shit where you eat my friend. Plenty of fish in the sea and your obsessing over one... | /r/askTRP | 02/10/18 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Tinder, What I Have LearnedI’m 28 years old and get some good looking matches but all of them are 24 years of age or older. Have any of you guys had success hooking up with girls a lot younger via tinder? | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/18 04:01 PM |
| 28 | Weekend FR - Fucking a Girl in a LTR, Hamster Overdrive (Screenshot)Yeah I get that man. Its a cold world, we all gotta struggle to get our own. But, we are also the potential gateways for characteristics of a higher beauty. Its up to you what you choose to be and no one escapes leaving a legacy... | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/18 08:59 PM |
| 62 | Weekend FR - Fucking a Girl in a LTR, Hamster Overdrive (Screenshot)Yeah humorous. TRP is fairly toxic in some ways in that it encourages we cheat a fellow male brethren behind his back like OP. And then wonder why the moral fabric of the society is ripping apart. Ahem ahem. Jesus it’s fucking pathetic. What trp lacks and utterly needs is a spiritual element. At this point, it just a bunch of fucking undisciplined baboons trying to get their nut. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/18 07:33 PM |
| 52 | Weekend FR - Fucking a Girl in a LTR, Hamster Overdrive (Screenshot)I’m high on acid. There is no more god damn grace existing anywhere, anymore. Isn’t that right op? | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/18 05:55 PM |
| 7 | Confident Vs CockyI’d say confidence is being secure and comfortable in your own skin. It is a willingness even to acknowledge that you are imperfect and lacking in some facets of life. It is being content in an imperfect world. Cockiness I think is the exact opposite. It an attempt to appear comfortable and competent when really one feels insecure and lacking. Cockiness is thus a stress response to feelings of insufficiency. It is an attempt to mask over ones own feelings of worthlessness. And thus is it both fa… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/18 12:58 PM |
| 10 | Why a natural is a naturalGuys who spend a lot of time around women understand their wavelength better and thus have an easier time connecting on an emotional level. The primary issue that exists between men and women is a language barrier. The sexes have difficulty connecting with one another simply because men are usually square and women are usually circular. Your friends simply have been around women enough that they can round out their edges to speak the language of a circle. And it isn’t forced, it isn’t an act. Th… | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone else here look at their friends or other peoples relationships and just wait for them to fail?Dude just tell him a blunt truth before it’s too late and he enters marriage with resent. That’s a terrible reason to get married | /r/askTRP | 03/09/18 02:03 PM |
| 33 | What is TRP's advice on girls with kids?Dude chicks like this are looking to nest, to lure you into a relationship in which you have to support her. I’ve seen this go down first hand to a blue pilled guy. Nothing is more infuriating than watching a woman use a man for his resources while she aims for the next branch to swing. It sounds like you are red pill aware so you can avoid the pitfalls if you do hook up with her. Be careful though, there are plenty of red flags already to encourage you to run. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/18 03:34 AM |
| 5 | When other men in your same peer group (who you are not close with) call you 'buddy' is it meant to be condescending?No. Think of it this way - perhaps you call people dude, brother, or man, not to be offensive, but rather as a term of endearment, a symbol of brotherhood. Perhaps the receiving person has thought about the use of such words (such as yourself) and deemed them to be belittling so that whenever they are spoken, he takes offense even though the speaker isn't trying to convey that meaning with the use of those words. And if someone is trying to belittle you, there is no point in acknlowedging it and… | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 04:30 PM |
| 33 | Decided To Stop Theorizing And ActSeriously. Knowing this is a game changer. I assume many of you are intellectuals / information hoarders just like me. I always tried to connect with women mentally rather than emotionally. And didn’t understand my lack of progress, until I recently learned women prefer fun, emotional connection rather than serious, ideological connection | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/18 04:50 PM |
| 2 | How do you quit alcohol?The key to changing a habit is not to extinguish it but instead to replace it with a new, healthier habit. It typically takes 40 days of repetition to replace a habit. So, every time you want to drink, force yourself to go the gym instead, or read a book, or game woman, or swim some laps, or go for a bike ride. If you replace your habit with a new activity with a 40 day stretch of consistent dedication, you can defeat this issue no problem. I got faith in you brother! I speak from experience, I … | /r/askTRP | 28/08/18 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Bouncer Tales 4: Bartender Beat-downAre you suggesting I get involved in the messiness of life? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/18 11:41 PM |
| 7 | Bouncer Tales 4: Bartender Beat-downThis is why I’m incredibly hesitant to get involved with anyone | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/18 07:00 PM |
| 2 | Some Observations And Lessons Reaffirmed While Starting A Small BusinessA means of communicating that furthers your frame and goals? | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/18 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Some Observations And Lessons Reaffirmed While Starting A Small BusinessCould someone explain PowerTalk to me? Or perhaps link me to some resources? From what I’ve read it sounds like a type of communication in which individuals are jockeying for status, position, and power | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/18 01:36 AM |
| 2 | What's the deal with tattoo culture?jeez thats epic you should get an inspirational quote tattooed below that about freedom. In the meantime, I gotta get back to the deepfryer | /r/askTRP | 06/08/18 08:50 PM |
| 13 | What does it mean when I girl that’s into you stops giving you shit tests?I don't think the shit tests really stop until you are placed back in the category of "someone I won't sleep with." | /r/askTRP | 06/08/18 08:47 PM |
| 7 | What's the deal with tattoo culture?dope dude, did you get mickey mouse wearing a wizard cape? or the monster logo? | /r/askTRP | 06/08/18 08:43 PM |
| 14 | What's the deal with tattoo culture?Reminds me of this Hornitos commercial. It’s a rarity nowadays to meet someone without a tattoo. Maybe I’m wrong on this one but I’ve always thought of it as a measurement of intellect - “fuck yeah, put this design on my body that lasts forever and cost me money that I could otherwise use towards building a business, investing, saving for my children. I’d rather just waste it on this dope ass Mickey Mouse design” I remember this chick I used to work with had this tattoo that said “with pain come… | /r/askTRP | 06/08/18 06:18 PM |
| 4 | Women's social media habits with relationships?God my friend just got married to this chick and she keeps posting these selfies with cleavage post wedding.... It seems she’s pretty hungry for attention and validation. I swear man the time we live in is the desecration of marriage. Feel like the population in western world is gonna decrease in size because the whole relationship dynamic is going south. Women are becoming more brazen and men don’t want to put up with the bullshit | /r/askTRP | 05/08/18 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Women's social media habits with relationships?God my friend just got married to this chick and she keeps posting these selfies with cleavage post wedding.... Fuck man | /r/askTRP | 05/08/18 03:26 AM |
| 8 | How to STFU ?!?Head to the side bar and read that article about power talk. You need to get comfortable with not showing your hand to anyone. No one will ever fully understand you or your motives. Thus when you get all loose lipped other people are going to make assumptions and judgements about you that aren’t based on the entire data set therefore their judgement of you is a caricature, a downsample version of what you actually are. If you learn to quiet down, be stoic, and reserved people will respect you mo… | /r/askTRP | 05/08/18 03:22 AM |
| 5 | Steps to rebuild a damaged reputation?I wouldn’t necessarily seek out to purposefully change your reputation. When it’s forced, it’s fake. Go do things that your passionate about and creat positivity in your life. By doing so, you will change how others see you | /r/askTRP | 04/08/18 07:40 PM |
| 3 | [Personal Advice.] [M28.] I've seen SO MUCH LIFE-DESTROYING INFIDELITY in my life. I now look at all women now feeling great reactivity unconscious anger. What else can I do here, and not MGTOW after ALL THIS STRAIGHT TRUTH?At my friend's wedding a couple weeks ago, the bride was staring me down with a thristy look in her eye. I was pretty bummed out to say the least. Your just angry because you're waking up to a truth you've ignored your whole life. It will pass. I was angry for three months straight! Then I just realized to let it be as it is, realize women are like children, realize that you life is the most important thing to build, not a relationship. Relationships will come and go, they will be both fun and s… | /r/askTRP | 03/08/18 01:50 AM |
| 5 | Roommate keeps saying I remind her of guy she's seeingDon’t shit where you eat | /r/askTRP | 01/08/18 12:56 PM |
| 9 | Remember to be kind to yourselfSorry for your loss my friend. At the heart of abundance mentality principle, I believe, is self love. When you truly accept yourself, flaws and all, then you are fully and genuinely capable of accepting another. When you can accept yourself and the other, flaws and all, then you are willingly opening yourself to a world that is both beautiful and vicious. This is an act of courage and strength because you are willing to love even when the world is brutal. Someone who is capable of such love is … | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/18 04:27 AM |
| 8 | Say Less Than Necessary - My Silent Teacher JonWoman speak primarily an emotional language. If you give them nothing but stoicism, then they can't read you, which aids in the development of a mysterious air. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/18 08:29 PM |
| 36 | Lessons from an entrepreneur #3: The "real" secret to successI hate crowds and groups. I always feel smothered as if my individual identity is sacrificed for likability and cohesion within the group. Groups also create a well-trodden path to the envisioned goal. Thus, individuals (especially rational men) become too dogmatic by following a procedure step by step to achieve said goal. There is nothing wrong with this approach, but it is extremely safe and has already been walked numerous times. Going your own way breaks the spell of dogmatism and allows yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/18 01:19 AM |
| 3 | Tell me the thousand ways I could have done better. Forst time not being a social recluse in several months.I’m in the same boat as you. Great to get the general gist of trp, very helpful framework for sexual strategy. But there comes a time where studying ends and implementation begins | /r/askTRP | 28/07/18 08:08 PM |
| 10 | Tell me the thousand ways I could have done better. Forst time not being a social recluse in several months.You're not going to learn anything further online. You just have to keep going out and get some real experience under your belt. Go out. Interact. Take notes / reassess Repeat | /r/askTRP | 28/07/18 07:57 PM |
| 35 | How to handle a rude, insulting, entitled feminist woman with a superiority complex?silence. do not acknowledge. she just wants attention. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 01:17 AM |
| 2 | Women insinuate that I'm gay or straight up ask "are you gay?"One day, I pulled out a floral pattern blue collared shirt from my closet to wear out to dinner. That night alone multiple woman insinuated I was gay. Although at the time I figured it was just shit testing, it might simply have been my shirt which wasn’t really typical for my style | /r/askTRP | 25/07/18 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Improve your ugly face.Skin tips part 2: Don’t jack off. Abstain from drugs and alcohol. Drink a lot of water. Eat an alkaline diet. You will be glowing if you do this | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/18 07:57 PM |
| 2 | Interesting article about the endstate of the sexual marketplaceLol, people will always want to have sex, an impulse government could never control. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/18 01:29 PM |
| 44 | My ex-wife has gone off the deep end as a result of my transformation. Has this broken her monkey-branching calculations? Are there any resources for this? I can't seem to find any other examples of this question being asked.The paradox is this - OP, would you have made these changes if it wasn't for the split? Perfect example of why you should put your needs & interests first, even if you're in a relationship | /r/askTRP | 20/07/18 07:55 PM |
| 5 | Male Equivalent to Hypergamy?A male will branch swing and sleep with the females who are most vibrant and youthful. Men are attracted to women who are the healthiest reproductively. So a man who sits with his 50 year old post menopause wife can’t help but to at least look at a sexy 20 year old chick licking his lips. And worst case scenario will sleep with her. “Men are pigs” this is why | /r/askTRP | 20/07/18 05:05 PM |
| 3 | You Are Poisoning Your Mind Every DayLol that’s the recent past, you think any of these people will be remembered in 10,000 years? Time destroys everything. I tell you this, there was a high and mighty civilization which met its demise roughly around 10,500 BC and we don’t even remember them. The only thing that remains is a partial stone legacy | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/18 03:30 PM |
| 25 | You Are Poisoning Your Mind Every DayEveryone is eventually forgotten to the long, destructive forces of time | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/18 12:54 PM |
| 2 | Why are girls attracted to guys who are aloof towards them?I discovered this paradox recently - mind blowing! | /r/askTRP | 19/07/18 11:55 AM |
| 3 | Do women like strong masculine men because they would have been the least likely to be killed and often the most good and protection?Will man succumb to the forces beyond himself, or will the forces beyond him succumb to his will? Historically, those who could submit reality to their will built great empires, kingdoms, had more posterity, and were powerful figures worth remembering. Those who are powerful and competent are sexier to women because it entails that such a man will not be crushed by the hardships of life, but will rather own them and thus is a safe gamble for a woman because it entails a more secure future for he… | /r/askTRP | 18/07/18 02:20 PM |
| 19 | How to stop desperately seeking validation from everybody when you’ve never felt validated by others before? How to become self-validated?You’ve gotta validate yourself first by doing things with your life that bring you joy and value. Like to play chess? Get fucking get good at it. Interested in psychology? Read about it. Like to hike? Go fucking hike a bunch. Do stuff that makes your life better whether or not there are people there with you. You must have to create a life which is valuable to you and you alone. Being validated by others is whack and delusional - it skews your perception. Some people only seek validation from ot… | /r/askTRP | 18/07/18 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Why is it so difficult to get into a lifting routine?Just fucking do it even if you don’t want to. And quit smoking weed man. I was in your same boat, but changed a lot for the better once I gave up smoking | /r/askTRP | 15/07/18 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Why are women facinated at my natural pokerface?You’ll be amazed at how much more of an edge it gives you. And the energy boost to. You could move a mtn if you wanted.... Led to a lot more respect from men and increased sexual interests from women | /r/askTRP | 15/07/18 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Why are women facinated at my natural pokerface?Lyft is a great way to practice social skills and try out trp principles. Honestly man, I feel for the young men out there. The fathers of our generation did not do a good job raising their boys to be masculine. Additionally, our educational system is predominantly female. Now we have the female empowerment movement too in which masculinity is being portrayed as toxic. All that said, it’s a cold and confusing world for young males. SR is worthy giving a try dude! There’s some seriously magical b… | /r/askTRP | 15/07/18 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Why are women facinated at my natural pokerface?I drive for Lyft so people can always gauge my face from the rear-view. If I smile a lot, am talkative, and friendly, women lose their interest so fast. Contrary to what I thought, if I keep a stoic poker face, say very little, and focus on the road, women go crazy. They play with their hair, orient their legs towards me, are submissively looking at me through the rear view, and letting out these sexual high pitched giggles if they’re talking to a friend. I guess this is what you call holding fr… | /r/askTRP | 15/07/18 02:33 PM |
| 2 | How do you gain status in a practical way?You guys are forgetting the fuel for status: passion. Status is gained simply by infusing your heart and soul into the world. You can lift all you want, read all you want, work all you want, but if your soul isn’t in it, then everything you do is inherently fake. You must find meaning and passion in everything you do. This will create a lightheartedness within you, a radiance if light. When you become like a sun, everything gravitates towards you. People will want to be around you. Customers wil… | /r/askTRP | 15/07/18 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Joe Breaks Up With Girlfriend, Wants To Stay Friends With HerLet him get burned, maybe he’ll learn something | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/18 03:38 AM |
| 2 | Are girls naturally redpilled?I absolutely love this quote - think it encapsulates so much, so simply "men test ideas, women test men" | /r/askTRP | 14/07/18 03:06 AM |
| 6 | how long to wait for the girl of your dreams to break up with her boyfriend?Go find other girls, do not put all your hopes into an imaginary relationship | /r/askTRP | 14/07/18 02:45 AM |
| 18 | Are girls naturally redpilled?Women become reproductively viable at a very young age. In order to take care of a baby sufficiently, the female psyche matures much more rapidly than a man’s. But the downside for women is their minds plateau and generally circulate solely around reproductive and mating strategies, whereas a man has his entire life for his psyche to develop. This has its roots biologically as well for men were always pushed to take care of their females, fend off their territory, develop new strategies for the … | /r/askTRP | 14/07/18 01:48 AM |
| 2 | Theory in Progress: Making a woman actually addicted to you.Lol why would you want this | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/18 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Why do women over-value themselves so much?Seriously, doesn't take much to be masculine anymore. We've created a generation of worthless, puppy dog men. Over the past couple months, I've been working out a lot more, have been retaining my semen (currently 100+ days) which has helped me become more assertive, have changed my body language alot, and am no longer taking shit from anyone. I definitely feel masculine and its unbelievable how different women treat me now. I swear porn is one of the biggest reason men are becoming emasculated. … | /r/askTRP | 12/07/18 02:48 AM |
| 3 | Why do women over-value themselves so much?Because our society has been indoctrinated with feminist, beta male expectations. In other words, men are being feminized. Men are being taught to put pussy way up on the pedestal. Most males don't have strong male figures in their life so they are lacking in healthy leadership and development. Men are lacking in self-esteem and self-value, someways rightfully so. This is giving more power to women. Women, especially those who are good looking, are over valuing themselves because desperate men a… | /r/askTRP | 12/07/18 02:22 AM |
| 2 | Shit tests from momImplying i'm gay even though I've had plenty of girls in my life over the years. Trying to get me to sign and tip on her restaurant bills | /r/askTRP | 11/07/18 04:54 PM |
| 1 | "I have a boyfriend"Poetically written. Thank you. Being empty vs. being full. Are you completely self-fufilled now? If so, how has it changed your life? I have definitely noticed the most attraction and interest from women when I am content with my own world and content with my own being. No neediness. Thus I am familiar with the concepts. The trouble I have is wavering between empty and full. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/18 05:02 PM |
| 1 | "I have a boyfriend"Very insightful thought, thank you. Explain the energy vacuum? | /r/askTRP | 10/07/18 04:26 PM |
| 3 | Should I have escalated when she wanted to see my room?Damn you need some self love bro | /r/askTRP | 10/07/18 01:05 PM |
| 1 | "I have a boyfriend"Thanks, any recommended reading on "qualifying?" | /r/askTRP | 10/07/18 03:23 AM |
| 2 | "I have a boyfriend"I don't really go out of my way to hit on chicks while I'm driving unless we are really vibing. Great place though to understand women better. Unbelievable conversations I hear sometimes....women rip people apart | /r/askTRP | 10/07/18 03:02 AM |
| 0 | "I have a boyfriend"Yeah, obviously not going to dig deep with her. Now that I am on RP, I am starting to see a lot more of a reality that I never noticed before, just asking in a general sense...to understand trp principles further. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/18 02:53 AM |
| 14 | Night and day difference with womenYou are attractive physically, probably not mentally. Go talk to girls until you figure it out | /r/askTRP | 09/07/18 11:27 PM |
| 1 | My ex got her life in order while I became a directionless loser.Just know what you want and work towards it. Easy to do if you can discipline yourself. Eat healthy, cut out bad habits, get up at the same hour every morning, create healthy habits, create routines, work towards a future you would want. We all have hard times. The difference between winners and losers is how easy you fold when times are rough | /r/askTRP | 09/07/18 11:25 PM |
| 25 | The Worth Of Your TimeI read a book about a year by tim Ferris called tools of titans. In summary, he interviewed many successful people and compiled all their wisdom into one book. The most important lesson I learned? The art of saying no. If you’re not passionate about something, if you’re not invested with your heart, the simple answer is NO | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/18 06:11 AM |
| 1 | Two years of lifting but SMV seems stuckYour value is determined by more factors than just strength | /r/askTRP | 09/07/18 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Barely legal trollop ghosts me out of nowhere and I am reminded of some important Red Pill lessons.Gotten a lot of juice out of the seven sermons, profound wisdom in there. Here's the audio book version (40 min): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FTb0q_HQPQc | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/18 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Barely legal trollop ghosts me out of nowhere and I am reminded of some important Red Pill lessons.Me as well. Have you ever read the Nag Hammadi codex? Or any of Jung's Gnostic work such as the seven sermons to the dead? | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/18 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Barely legal trollop ghosts me out of nowhere and I am reminded of some important Red Pill lessons.Irrelevant comment - you dig Gnosticism?! | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/18 01:59 PM |
| 1 | How does one increase his level of awareness and reality?You have to find the things that are worth suffering for because suffering is going to be present no matter what. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/18 02:52 AM |
| 12 | A word of warning: Learn from IcarusWhat goes through a female's head when she does something like this? Does she justify it to herself? Does she never feel guilt for her actions? You both know the actual truth of what unfolded...I don't understand how a woman could lie, potentially send a man to jail, and feel that this is somehow alright | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/18 08:36 PM |
| 6 | Scared incelShe's reinforcing that you are masculine which is good news. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/18 07:30 PM |
| 14 | How to deal with betas at workStop caring. Stop giving him attention. Let him do his thing. He can dig his own hole | /r/askTRP | 06/07/18 06:48 PM |
| 9 | What's wrong with nice guys?Not pushing this on anyone. Just sharing my own experience. I am not stating this vaguely like a conspiracy, rather lets look at in pure logistics. Porn companies make money from producing porn. Men consume porn perhaps as frequent as once a day. Each viewing entails an ejaculation. Ejaculation is a release of energy. Energy is what you use to build a life, build power, build a fortune. I am not saying your are not capable of doing any of this because you ejaculate, but I would think the more en… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/18 04:18 AM |
| 12 | What's wrong with nice guys?I don't believe that shit for a second. I've been retaining for 100+ days and my life has only gotten more magical. Powerful people will purposefully try and lure you into ejaculating constantly so that you lose your power. I swear the porn industry is ruled by evil fucks who gain power by draining you of yours | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/18 04:05 AM |
| 30 | What's wrong with nice guys?stop ejaculating frequently. More testosterone with no outlet will give you more of an aggressive edge. Half the reason guys are such pussies is because they get rid of their semen constantly, draining themselves of their masculinity. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/18 01:06 AM |
| 1 | parents fucking around like ik their toyI have had to unfortunately be somewhat mean with my parents lately in order to establish some boundaries. I don’t work for my parents, but mine try to control me with money and taking me out to eat all the time. Ultimately, my scenario has arisen because my parents love me a lot and do not have much going on in their life’s so I’ve become a means of their emotional fulfillment. They want me to still be their little boy. Although it sounds like your mom is harsh, I would guess that you’re in a s… | /r/askTRP | 02/07/18 03:54 PM |
| 2 | When girls respond to texts instantly, do you ever feel bad waiting a long time to respond?What about not texting back at all? I've had a couple chicks who I haven't seen or talked to in years blow me up with these paragraph-long messages. I simply do not want to unpackage the whole thing so I simply haven't responded at all.... Definitely feel guilty, but I have other things to do too and don't want to waste a bunch of time answering a novel of a text especially for someone I'm not interested in whatsoever | /r/askTRP | 24/06/18 06:10 PM |
| 2 | The Red Pill IRL: Double Standard SituationHere's some ammo for you https://youtu.be/aMcjxSThD54 | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/18 04:06 PM |
| 13 | Any one else realizing women are not as important as they pretend to be?No one is fucking important.....really. We have to pretend we are important or else the burden of the realization of our insignificance would kill us! Only those who can distinguish themselves from the crowd, speak from the heart, reveal the soul, and inspire others is worth noting. No one is important who cannot show the fire of their heart | /r/askTRP | 23/06/18 12:08 AM |
| 4 | Why do you think suicide rates are rising so exponentially in the West?Porn. Way too many people happily dump their life essence out everyday to fake depictions of sex. I've been retaining for 3 months now. Can't tell you how much better I feel. Especially starting to feel much more masculine, which women are responding to well. Also, women are trying to shit test the entire culture and men are failing massively and becoming much more submissive living life's that are not in accordance with their own wants and needs but with that of others | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 02:47 AM |
| 19 | How do you become less inhibited and more free to do what you want?You are a highly sensitive person. You are more in tune with the psychic underlying currents of reality. One option is to purify yourself in the sense you interact with outward reality as little as you have to. Once you've done so you'll have more free time to pour your excess mentally energy into a hobby or pursuit such as starting a business. As someone else said, get some excercise. This will help release some of your mental energy. It's simply a matter of creating healthy pathways to channel… | /r/askTRP | 12/06/18 10:11 PM |
| 37 | Get comfortable with being uncomfortableJordan Peterson is constantly advising to face the one thing that makes you the most uncomfortable because the most potential to grow paradoxically lies in the situations that are the hardest. I'm a masochist in the sense that I sit in the sauna uncomfortably long. Great for feeling healthy and learning to endure during discomfort. Just a recommendation. Cheers brothers. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/18 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Friend Belittles MeInterestingly, I actually called him out a couple years ago and he claimed that his insults were attempts at helping me lol. I'll take your advice and ditch the friendship if the bs continues this weekend | /r/askTRP | 11/06/18 01:15 PM |
| 2 | Being Stoic , Serious , Straightforward, Silent & Gaming women.Find people who appreciate you for who you are and develop relationships with them. Don't think there is a point of nurturing a relationship with someone if you are not in resonance whatsoever | /r/askTRP | 10/06/18 09:18 PM |
| 1 | The subconscious results of lifting. (For beginners)Started lifting a couple months ago, definitely improving the overall quality of my life! Also, most likely your gym has a sauna, use it! It's a great place to learn how to endure. Crank up the heat, sit there for 30 minutes, sweat away all your anxieties and toxin, and become a resilient mofo. Great place to teach yourself about not breaking frame! | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/18 09:43 PM |
| 14 | The subconscious results of lifting. (For beginners)Unless you smoke salvia, then you can exit the car. Just make sure not to smoke at the gym | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/18 09:01 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on Jordan Peterson?Just because some clueless, directionless young man latches onto Peterson doesn't make him a dupe. Peterson is simply an intellect of great power and talks about the conclusions he has come about life. Apparently, his wheelhouse of topics appeals massively to young men who haven't had influential male influences in their life. He is worth way more than $200 for 45 minutes. Guy is a genius and people want to pay to see that just like you pay to see a live band. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/18 04:30 AM |
| 6 | About fucking cougars, psychedelics and cold approachesPsychedelics are life altering. They usually reveal that you live in a world of your own creation which arises out of your limited thinking. Psyched expand your consciousness into new territory giving you the potential to glean new existential meaning. But sometimes that meaning is too much for people. Do your research, treat drugs with respect, and most importantly always remember set and setting. If you're in a bad place mentally and or physically, then the trip is likely going to be bad | /r/askTRP | 31/05/18 11:25 PM |
| 1 | How to be sociable without "blabbing?"Give and take. People usually respond very well if you are receptive to their state of being. Men are more prone to waiting to answer without actually listening. Think it's a pretty big turn on for women if you can tune more into the subtlety of what they are actually conveying by listening intently. If your not listening, but still proceed to answer & talk, it conveys not only your inability to be receptive but also communicates that what you have to say is more important than what anyone else … | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 02:09 PM |
| 3 | Be the priest AND the chiefTo be spiritual is to have access to an inward state of being that transcends the theater of time. Having such access is sweet, for meaning and value is found inward rather than outward. A true measure of spiritual richness is the consideration of losing everything g. If you can lose everything and still find strength in yourself, then your spirit is enduring and unbreakable, which in RP vocabulary would equate to IDGAF,but not in a cocky, arrogant manner. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/18 10:47 PM |
| 1 | What do we call girls that have lots of beta orbiters?succubus | /r/askTRP | 27/05/18 02:06 PM |
| 34 | To Those Who Haven't Completely Swallowed the PillI've started to notice the dynamic between my parents and am pleased to say that my dads been Red Pilled since the 70s Honest question - you think divorce often results from BP men? | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/18 01:27 AM |
| 10 | Girl coworker has been texting me a lot. Is saying "please" all the time a sign of submissive?This is what overthinking looks like | /r/askTRP | 26/05/18 11:30 PM |
| 16 | How to stay off the radar with men and women in class? I'm in hardcore monk mode.You are already expending to much energy on this silliness just by thinking & writing about it. Stop giving a fuck. Silence is the best weapon for people like Tina | /r/askTRP | 26/05/18 08:58 PM |
| 1 | 23M, Kissless virgin, how to go in for the kiss?as for the kiss itself, start with just a sensual peck, don't try to open your mouth right away and stick your tongue in her mouth | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 07:18 PM |
| 46 | How do you deal with women with massive frames?Came here to say the same, I just ignore them. Had this fat chick screaming at me in a domineering manner the other day. Ignoring someone never felt better. People like that just want reassurance that they exist | /r/askTRP | 20/05/18 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Made a girl cry...Red flag for crazy.... Sounds like you barely know each other too. Why would she cry over that? I guess it's good for you cause it means she digs you a lot, but you don't want that kind of girl in your life. She sounds psycho l, unstable, and manipulative. My friend dated a chick like this and she would trap him in her apartment, threaten to call the police if he left, and inform them that he had raped her In the future, steer clear of chicks like this! | /r/askTRP | 20/05/18 04:18 AM |
| 1 | Reminder: Never discuss your feelingsThe only woman I dump my emotions on is my mother. I did so last night in the sauna and immediately after I stated my problems, she had to get out. I generally don't like to be emotionally vulnerable so I rarely ever show my emotions. Interestingly, seems like my mother didn't even want to hear it. So yeah, very verifiable. Woman want strong men who are mentally and physically fit. I mean it makes sense but it's fucking annoying that they want you to show more emotion, yet when you do is perceiv… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/18 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Need suggestions on great books about - people who achieved greatness, how to achieve financial independence, how to be meticolously organizedTools of titans by Tim Ferris is a gem | /r/askTRP | 06/05/18 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Men think logically, women think emotionally - need help, just not getting it.Women read vibes meaning they will be attracted or repulsed by you more based on your mood and how it's conveyed rather than any rational fact that flows out your mouth. You could say "your a bitch" and their response will entirely depend on the emotion behind the words. Woman in my experience rarely talk to convey rational statements but rather talk merely to display their current mood. Something humorous I learned from my mother - when a woman is angry, don't engage with her in a fight, for sh… | /r/askTRP | 05/05/18 06:48 PM |
| 3 | What do you think about tattoos on girls?It's a sign of carelessness which will pour over into other facets of their life. Perhaps I am too judgemental, but tattoos for me have always been a symbol for stupidity and a lack of long term consideration. Always a red flag for me | /r/askTRP | 05/05/18 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Why is testosterone decreasing in men as a general trend?Your point about diet effecting t levels piqued my interest....could you elaborate or share a link? | /r/askTRP | 04/05/18 11:34 PM |
| 2 | How to get my life togetherclean your room | /r/askTRP | 04/05/18 09:53 PM |
| 2 | What's the first thing to say when approaching a new woman?Drrrrrr errrrrmmmm gurgggggle hi. Just be confident and playful | /r/askTRP | 03/05/18 11:34 PM |
| 2 | Post-post-wall single women figure out that when they're old enough to have gray hair, men don't find them attractive anymore. Wow, who knew? Now they call it "gray-shaming" and pretend it's another way that "society" is being sexist to women.Feel like people just aren't comfortable with themselves no matter what and then endlessly seek validation for the enormous hole of self loathing they e created in their psyche. I know personally all my problems arise out of one cause: not valuing my self worth | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/18 03:25 AM |
| 25 | Unsure of continuing relationship due to differences in moralityNo solid marriage can be built upon differing values. It will likely end in disaster | /r/askTRP | 01/05/18 07:41 PM |
| 1 | I'm a skinny 20 years old guy, I want to start lifting but I don't know how to start !Just look up a basic routine, go the gym, and start lifting. Don't be intimidated by anyone in there. Your not in there to impress anyone. Your there to improve yourself. You are only competing against yourself. Make it a habit and enjoy the workout high! | /r/askTRP | 28/04/18 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Is there any way to display potential wealth?Humility is more attractive than bragging. Plus showing your hand will attract all the wrong people into your life - leaches | /r/askTRP | 25/04/18 08:53 PM |
| 3 | Any advice for quitting pot?Replace your smoking habit with an alternative. Next time you have an urge to light up, go for a run instead. I smoked dope for seven years straight, the only thing that worked was developing new habits | /r/askTRP | 23/04/18 09:46 PM |
| 3 | Being A People-Pleaser: what it actually means, and how to rid yourself of this disgusting conditionGod, I had a friend who did that exact same thing. He lied so much that I stopped believing anything that came out of his mouth. He would do it for the same reasons as you, while also doing so to make people pity him. I could not do it anymore and am no longer friends with him. Don't know if I'm typical or not as far as judgement, but I'd watch the lies. If you build relationships upon lies, everything will eventually fall. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/18 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Long term field report which even boggled my mind...oh wait, not really.Well don't really agree with you snooping around behind your girls back. Given your standards, then she is free to sneak around too. Would that hurt you? Sounds like she might know though if she's giving you more attention. I learned about this paradox in college when I hooked up with these two girls who were friends. Initially, I expected the first girl I hooked up with to be pissed off when she learned that I slept with her friend. Did the reverse. Each girl wanted me more, the more I hooked u… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/18 05:23 PM |
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