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Your post reminded me about thought experiment I had - is it possible for someone to be truly nice without expecting any kind of reward, anything that benefits you? Though it's a bit off topic, I feel it relates. My conclusion was that it's impossible and every nice thing a person does leads to some kind of expectation, sometimes on a deeper and subconscious level, eg. giving homeless person money would make them feel good about themselves for being so generous, therefore still a selfish action.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/18 11:52 PM
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He's not defending her and it's not blue pill, lmao. It's quite opposite, he's just seeing things the way they are. He put himself in that state and he's not denying it. Blue pill would be something to say 'oh yeah what a bitch she was, I was such a nice guy and she didn't even have sex with me'
/r/TheRedPill14/08/18 05:17 AM
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Thank you, that's helpful. That's the term I was looking for - 'plausable deniability'. And what do you think about the timing? I kind of think the sooner the better but doesn't this come off as desperate? I've also had experiences where I'd isolate girl and try to escalate (given things are going smooth) and they would just blabber something about not leaving friends. Do you think this is more of a lack of plausible deniability or SMV or could be both?
/r/askTRP25/02/18 11:24 AM
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It's more like 'I read through most of it and I haven't taken in the chapter about escalation but I don't want to watch 20 seasons of TV show again just to find that one episode'
/r/askTRP25/02/18 11:11 AM
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Can you specify? I asked for direction / advice / articles specifically for escalation. Sidebar has many things, and it mostly discusses things that matter prior to reaching the point of escalation (upping your SMV, approaching, taking shit tests etc.) Hence my post and my question about opinions and/or articles
/r/askTRP25/02/18 12:31 AM
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Not because I've had trouble with women in the past, but just because it's harder to get them after college. No it's not. In fact, it should be easier to get women the older you get into 20s. Chicks dig older guys and the experience they carry. And of course, younger guys usually have very little clue what to do and to say, they're full of insecurities. Blue pill nurturing contributes a lot as well. But then again, I'm not from Murica. I figure things tend to be slightly different here on Europe…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 09:55 PM
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I'd change the first rule to: He who hesitates - masturbates. Such realization punches straight in the mental nuts.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 09:40 PM
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You guys come here looking for the quick fix to your woman problems. You can learn all these tips how to be alpha, non-needy, to “pretend you’re busy”, clever witty responses to shit test that aren’t your own, but you’re just putting a bandaid over a gun shot wound. This. A lot of people here doesn't realize imo, that going TRP road is a marathon, not a sprint. Blue pill is the definition of stagnation - aka 'love yourself the way you are', thus guys believe that suddenly knowing the truth and l…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 07:43 PM
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From what it sounds - strongish? It all depends how confident you felt and presented the presentation, how many fucks did you give / appear to have given when pointing out your stain, how insecure it made you feel/look. There are things like vibes, that people catch on real quick, so it's hard to pinpoint with honesty. edit: Just wanted you to ask yourself additional question: the fact that you did presentation and did not postpone it - was it because of your choice or because you had to?
/r/askTRP10/10/17 05:32 AM
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I'm not disagreeing that it revolves heavily about sexual strategy either. The purpose of the post, the core idea is to put self-improvement above pussy. It's not twisting it away from sexual strategy In fact, it's probably the best strategy to follow, as contradicting as it may sound. I'm not trying to create an image of sex being the root of all evil or whatever. I'm trying to relay a message of getting rid of neediness and shatter the fantasies that arises from a blue pill mindset. I'm just s…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/17 05:19 AM
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The core mistake you make imo is that your mindset is set on the results itself, rather than improvement. It feels like you want to accumulate as much knowledge as you can, become the best version and then muster all your courage and theories into one big shot, where you make it perfect and hook up with girl with zero mistakes done, avoiding any embarassment. That's not how it works. Try this the next time you're in a bar / party - when you walk up to girl, don't think of the result. Concentrate…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/17 04:04 AM
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Imagine this scenario - John has to attend the party tonight. He sets his mindset to have fun, no matter what. But as soon as John arrives to the party someone accidentally spills a drink on his t-shirt and now he has to walk with a giant ugly stain on it. Weak frame - John gets enraged. He spends the rest of the night thinking how much of a fool he looks with that huge stain on his shirt. That's a weak frame right there, it got shattered by a simple drink. Strong frame - John laughs it off and …
/r/askTRP09/10/17 03:43 AM
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I don't know where you dug up that definition and I don't care. It's all over the sidebar, this one straight out from the rules. I could give you few more from TRP 101 but I think it would benefit you more if you read that yourself. Therefore, you should care. NOBODY said pussy should be your main goal. You're missing the point. Nobody has to say that. It's in between the lines already. It's literally the lure of TRP - how to get pussy, otherwise it wouldn't be that popular. Most of us were blue…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/17 02:50 AM
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TRP's mission is to discuss men's identity, sexual strategy, and options in the context of our current global culture for the benefit of men It's not just all about sex. There's MGOTW tag for a reason as well. Just like food isn't all about eating and cooking. There's a deeper layer which can be analyzed, for example breaking down nutrients and how a combination of them can affect one's body.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/17 09:40 PM
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To each their own. For you - TRP is all about getting sex. To me it's a road of improvement and accepting harsh truths. In the end our views converge with each other. One cannot just 'get' a high enough SMV to get laid. One has to shatter their blue pill fantasies and work their ass off to get there. And of course - one naturally craves for sex, it's what life revolves around. It just doesn't have to stop there. One can go further beyond that. Sex is significant to you, we get it. But saying tha…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/17 07:17 PM
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I feel like the two can be combined as going your own way, reaching your own dreams and becoming the best version of yourself is one core purpose in life, while leaving a successor behind is another.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/17 02:30 PM
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Once you start enjoying self-improvement road sex becomes insignificant, petty conquest, a mere drop in the ocean. But that was the point of the comparison - I have started to enjoy the taste of victory, the constant challenge of my own limits... Compared to the power of feeling limitless, of confidence levels to what they were at the start of my journey - sex had insignificant impact to add up to such feelings. The only thing it did, was shoot dopamine levels high up at the time but afterwards …
/r/TheRedPill08/10/17 02:13 PM
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Yes, I did. Although it may seem trivial to some, such things build up discipline. Every small thing counts and everyone's got their own flaws that they try to improve. We're only as strong as our weakest links are, isn't that right?
/r/TheRedPill08/10/17 01:54 PM
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I did not mention anything about her disappointment, my friend. In fact, she thought quite the opposite - that my inability to keep it hard was due to the 'all the previous girls that were in this bedroom' her words, not mine. It was quite obvious that she loved it, whatever it was by the way she tried to get into LRT (trying to steal my shirt, get my fragrance, inviting to go out next night etc..). I'm not saying I'm experienced but I'm not clueless either. I've had a girlfiend before, for some…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/17 03:55 AM
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Glad you enjoyed it. I'll start with the easiest improvement I have done - refresh my style. Although it may seem trivial, clothes are one of the few things that represents you on the first impression, along with how fit/handsome you are and your posture. It's important to dress well enough and not only for hooking up chicks but making connection in life too - everyone wants to befriend a successful person rather than a bum, it's quite obvious right. Following up with that, I had a major improve…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/17 10:04 PM
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I suppose it's bound for us to crave for things we don't have... we fantasize about it and worship it in our minds because it's out of reach for us at that moment and therefore seems like something divine, something that only chosen ones manage to receive. And in the end, after putting in the hard work to achieve it you can see it is no longer divine, because you - a mere mortal, a dust of the universe - were able to achieve it. It's not like having sex once changed me, it was a long process and…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/17 09:44 PM
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It must explain it partially, I guess. I practised nofap for the past 6 months though, getting in and out of the habbit but generally aiming to get rid of this waste of time and libido, so albeit I'm still doing it occasionally - it's nowhere close to what used to be an everyday morning fap or whatever. However, it still contributed towards wrong expectations set. I feel like giving up pussy altogether is another extreme of the spectrum, it's not like I'll stop playing but it's definetily someth…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/17 09:28 PM
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This is weird... I went to the gym and actually did deadlifts right after seeing the girl out. Similar minds think alike huh
/r/TheRedPill07/10/17 09:13 PM
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