| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 10 | Broken and seeking advice. | saltytar | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/10/23 03:23 PM | |
| 9 | Question for men who were barred from entering their own homes/left overnight with no support & don't know how to cook - like me | saltytar | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/12/23 06:45 AM | |
| 6 | OT - Just to stop thinking & being lonely on this holiday | saltytar | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/11/23 02:36 PM | |
| 4 | Advice requested | saltytar | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/11/23 05:08 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 5 | What is something you always wanted to do but couldn't before divorce and now you're doing?As a sailor, I can guarantee that you'll absolutely love Sasebo, Yokosuka, Yokohama, etc. The women are just wonderful. You'll never want to come back to USA. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/07/24 03:58 AM |
| 0 | Do I remove STBX from my health insurance immediately?Yes. Unless she too is paying for something on your behalf. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/02/24 12:59 PM |
| 2 | I feel broken from the inside. Took my anger on my kids.To add to what No-Exit6560 said, not to mention that what you did today is not only something that you'll remember for the rest of your life, but also you'll hate & cuss yourself for it, everytime that you'll remember it, for the rest of your life. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/02/24 02:21 PM |
| 5 | Ex reached out after almost 2 yearsIf I were you, I'd restrict my correspondence with my ex thru email, especially after that fake phone call from the police. That way, if things go south, you've a written record and proof. Besides, why court unnecessary & avoidable complications in life? :) Dint forget to ask her to mail you your stuff, if you really want it back! | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/01/24 09:08 PM |
| 5 | Ex reached out after almost 2 yearsAnd maybe that's why she didn't open the door. 'Coz he was in there and she was riding the cock carousel. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/01/24 08:48 PM |
| 4 | Ex reached out after almost 2 yearsHow did she contact you? Text? Email? She can use the same method of delivery to tell you the reason for contacting you and correspond further. Perhaps, you should respond via the same medium to keep everything nice, sanitized and have a record, as a safety backup, instead of calling, recording, saving and keeping track of that audio call? Maybe, use it as an opportunity to ask her to give back your stuff, if you still want it? I think that the written word will carry more weight than a recorded… | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/01/24 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Evry father should watch "We the Parents - Movie"Thanks. Educating, illuminating and yet depressing. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/24 05:25 AM |
| 1 | Grew an inchMy bad 🤷🏾 lol Even in Indian stores, it's an expensive herb. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/01/24 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Grew an inchYou should be telling that to the mods, not me. I was asking for pics of whatever that he claims he is taking. Especially, as I've never seen Ashwagandha in Walmart. That's too specialized a herb and not cheaply Made in China for Walmart to carry. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/01/24 05:05 PM |
| 7 | Grew an inchI'm an Indian and I know what ashwagandha is. It is Ayurvedic and has been used in India for 4000 years. Although primarily It is used to calm the brain & reduce stress, it is also known to increase libido & sperm count. However, increasing the length of the dick is not one of the properties. This entire post is a scam. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/01/24 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Grew an inchWhat's the formula? Pics? 🤔 | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/01/24 06:13 AM |
| 1 | Dying alone... We shouldn't be scared of that.Alzheimer & Dementia. As a sailor, I've physically abused my body so much, with irregular hours of sleep and hard labor, I'm scared. Facing divorce at this age and with not much to show for relatives and almost wiped out of savings and retirement, I'm terrified of dying at an old age of either of these 2. Although, they are one and the same. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/12/23 08:59 AM |
| 2 | Dying alone... We shouldn't be scared of that.Where can I find more info on SPIA? Thanks much 🙏🏽 | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/12/23 08:53 AM |
| 2 | Walked away from my wife and her daughterPlaying in traffic will only make you look weaker and you're a male. Does she earn more than you and is your name on the birth certificate? | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/12/23 04:27 PM |
| 3 | Walked away from my wife and her daughterI agree with you and you certainly don't deserve this. But, it would be unfair to you also if it was not pointed out that when the rage subsidizes, you're going to hate yourself for walking out on the young one. That hate and maybe, pain, towards the young one, is not worth it. You'll end up hurting yourself more. Just my $0.02 :) | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/12/23 04:17 PM |
| 6 | Walked away from my wife and her daughterI empathize. It's a hard one. Love vs hatred. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/12/23 04:09 PM |
| 7 | Walked away from my wife and her daughterIf you've been caring for her from day 1, she's going to wonder where you are and miss you. Dad's are typically a daughter's rock. This is not her fault. Maybe, reconsider your attitude towards her? | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/12/23 04:01 PM |
| 2 | Should I Watch My Ex's Dog for Her?It's written in the middle that he has 2 kids - 9 & 11. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/12/23 05:09 AM |
| 2 | Question for men who were barred from entering their own homes/left overnight with no support & don't know how to cook - like meThank you 🙂 | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/12/23 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Had it and Lost it AgainYour dreams are like me trying to quit smoking. Instead of the STBXW, I'm running to sticks of white cigs in my dreams. Gotta stop 😒 | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/12/23 10:04 AM |
| 2 | Question for men who were barred from entering their own homes/left overnight with no support & don't know how to cook - like meThanks. Got myself a Costco membership. Will lookout for those mentioned brands as containers are high on the list. Also for old ladies 😄 | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/12/23 06:48 AM |
| 1 | Question for men who were barred from entering their own homes/left overnight with no support & don't know how to cook - like meThank you 🙂 | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/12/23 06:45 AM |
| 1 | Question for men who were barred from entering their own homes/left overnight with no support & don't know how to cook - like meThanks. So I dont need to buy a different airfryer and/or a crockpot? | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/12/23 06:44 AM |
| 1 | Question for men who were barred from entering their own homes/left overnight with no support & don't know how to cook - like me@ u/cshoonmaker Duo Crisp, right? Reading the points on Amazon, I won't need to buy an air fryer, right? Just making sure that I'm understanding correctly 🙂 What's the difference between this and crockpot? | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/12/23 06:43 AM |
| 1 | Question for men who were barred from entering their own homes/left overnight with no support & don't know how to cook - like meCrockpot or Instapot? 🤔 Finding out that these are 2 different pots. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/12/23 06:38 AM |
| 1 | Question for men who were barred from entering their own homes/left overnight with no support & don't know how to cook - like meThanks a lot. I owe you one 🙂🙏🏽 | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/12/23 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Question for men who were barred from entering their own homes/left overnight with no support & don't know how to cook - like meThank you 🙂 | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/12/23 03:26 AM |
| 1 | Question for men who were barred from entering their own homes/left overnight with no support & don't know how to cook - like meGood bot | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/12/23 03:25 AM |
| 2 | Question for men who were barred from entering their own homes/left overnight with no support & don't know how to cook - like meGotcha. Will add 1 baking pan. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/12/23 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Question for men who were barred from entering their own homes/left overnight with no support & don't know how to cook - like meThank you 🙂 | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/12/23 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Question for men who were barred from entering their own homes/left overnight with no support & don't know how to cook - like me😳😳😳😳😳 Reads my list. Reads your post. Rereads my list. 😴 Takes the easy way out & prints your post. Thanks dude 🙂 | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/12/23 06:19 PM |
| 2 | Question for men who were barred from entering their own homes/left overnight with no support & don't know how to cook - like meThanks. Insta pot with air fryer lid - Got it. What capacity? Can you please give me the brand name that you're using? | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/12/23 06:14 PM |
| 2 | Question for men who were barred from entering their own homes/left overnight with no support & don't know how to cook - like meI don't eat pork. Ship board pork & turkey has done it for me. Thanks for the advice. Thermometer added 🙂 | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/12/23 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Question for men who were barred from entering their own homes/left overnight with no support & don't know how to cook - like meThanks. I'm starting with veg & soup only before I advance to meat. Most of your suggestions are already on the list. But, a baking pan? Googled it. Where do I use it? For what? 🤔 | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/12/23 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Question for men who were barred from entering their own homes/left overnight with no support & don't know how to cook - like meThanks. I've printed your post and edited my list accordingly 🙂 I'm on CT and what I've near me is Caraluzzi (kinda expensive), Trader Joe's & Stop and Shop. Will start googling thrift stores, etc with the list and the suggestions added. Shopping should be fun 🙂 | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/12/23 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Question for men who were barred from entering their own homes/left overnight with no support & don't know how to cook - like meThanks much. I've copied and printed your post as a guide and added your recommendations to the list that I've prepared. I prefer Asian too, as lately my ship is on the Far East run. I prefer mostly veg food and noodles when I'm on land. At sea, diet is heavily meat based, which drives up my cholesterol and the USCG has a limit to which I cannot exceed. Veg keeps it down and I hate pork🙂 | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/12/23 05:56 PM |
| 2 | Question for men who were barred from entering their own homes/left overnight with no support & don't know how to cook - like meThanks. Bought 2 books re coming from a crock pot and an air fryer from Walgreens. I'm starting with cooking veg first and then advancing to meats. 🙂 | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/12/23 04:59 PM |
| 2 | Question for men who were barred from entering their own homes/left overnight with no support & don't know how to cook - like meThanks 🙂 I'll update the list from 4 to 6. And utensils to wood, where possible. Forgot the cutting boards. You saved me a trip 🙂 | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/12/23 04:56 PM |
| 3 | Question for men who were barred from entering their own homes/left overnight with no support & don't know how to cook - like meYeah, I've the same financial mindset. I am in CT and don't want to pay $2.5k+. So, looking at a town which is 20mins drive away for 2br apt and has a garage. The garage is too store the car when I'm at sea and the second bedroom doubles up as my storage unit + gym. All that for $1850/pm. So reading the advice given, this is my list - Air fryer Cock pot Toaster (mostly for the son) Blender 2 saucepans 2 skillets 2 pots 4 bowls 4 dishes spatula 2 knives some cutlery measuring cups bread, cereals,… | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/12/23 04:54 PM |
| 2 | Question for men who were barred from entering their own homes/left overnight with no support & don't know how to cook - like meThanks. Yeah, I do lift weights and need that extra nutrition. You cook all that using an air fryer? That's awesome 'coz my 13yo son is getting into wrestling and being able to cook all that will enable me to have him more often and stay overnights 🙂 I'm in the NE. CT to be specific. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/12/23 04:32 PM |
| 2 | Question for men who were barred from entering their own homes/left overnight with no support & don't know how to cook - like meThanks. Air fryer, toaster & Lysol (how could I forget Lysol!?) on the list. What about Crock pot? What brand am I looking at seasoning? Anything particular that you'd suggest? The closest to me are Trader Joes & Stop & Shop. I took one look at the choices in the aisles and left. Edit - What's a minute rice? 🤔 | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/12/23 07:39 AM |
| 2 | Question for men who were barred from entering their own homes/left overnight with no support & don't know how to cook - like meThat's breakfast. But what about lunch and dinner? Forgot cooking spray/oil - thanks. What sizes in bowls and skillets? Any particular brand? From Amazon? | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/12/23 07:10 AM |
| 5 | Question for men who were barred from entering their own homes/left overnight with no support & don't know how to cook - like meShe changed the lease by taking my name off and lock on the door while I was at sea and threatened to get an order from the court. I could not afford that as a sailor. I sold our house so that she could take up a better paying job & benefits 2 states away. In a hotel for 26 days and paid $4300 for those many days. The problem in fighting over the lease and involving the landlord is schooling and my kid will unnecessarily suffer. Poor kid has already suffered by losing friends & roots several tim… | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/12/23 07:08 AM |
| 4 | Sad Post. No need to respond. I'm just venting.Happy birthday 🎉 🙂 | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/12/23 05:52 AM |
| 2 | Skandalouz👍. There you go 😄 | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/12/23 03:58 AM |
| 5 | SkandalouzA sleazy tart! | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/12/23 03:48 AM |
| 5 | SkandalouzThat's not the first adjective that comes to mind. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/12/23 03:31 AM |
| 2 | Who has gone to a female therapist during divorce and what was your exoerience like?The girls in my group of classmates on WhatsApp do not know my wife (have never even met her) or my life and have already decided that I'm at fault. Girls/Women can be real bitches. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/12/23 04:23 AM |
| 2 | Connecticut legal experiencesI'm in CT too. Can you please keep me/us updated? Thanks. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/12/23 10:27 AM |
| 18 | Wife trying to come back after leaving me for affair partnerThis. Sex and a romp in the bed is not everything. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/12/23 04:17 AM |
| 4 | I changed and it still wasn’t enough.I'm going to steal and use this. Thanks 🙂 | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/12/23 02:02 AM |
| 0 | Passive aggressive stbxw (rant)My apologies for being dumb .... but what do these 2 things signify? Thanks | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/12/23 07:05 AM |
| 1 | OT - Just to stop thinking & being lonely on this holidayI've no one. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/11/23 05:17 PM |
| 1 | OT - Just to stop thinking & being lonely on this holidayDunno what to say 😟 | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/11/23 05:17 PM |
| 1 | OT - Just to stop thinking & being lonely on this holidayThanks. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/11/23 05:16 PM |
| 1 | OT - Just to stop thinking & being lonely on this holidayMy fave. Mid-century modern. That's what she all took 😟 | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/11/23 02:45 AM |
| 2 | Advice requestedThank you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/11/23 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Advice requestedThank you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/11/23 01:24 PM |
| 3 | Broken and seeking advice.Thanks. I don't do drugs. USCG has surprise checks. Alcohol - yes. When I'm ashore on leave. But, never on the ship. Alcohol is what she's using as a reason. Her family interference, not concentrating on her career and health, her addiction to cheap romance (e-books and more on the lines of soft porn) and tv shows, general neglect of the house etc drove me towards despair and alcohol the few weeks when I would be home. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/10/23 07:09 PM |
| 4 | Broken and seeking advice.Thank you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/10/23 05:03 PM |
| 4 | Broken and seeking advice.Thank you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/10/23 05:03 PM |
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