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I'm not being defensive, I was trying to make discussion but a lot of what you're saying makes no rational sense. That's why I checked your post history. You're still digesting TRP. I can see why you're not seeing results, you seem insufferable to deal with. I hope that changes and I wish you the best of luck.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 09:34 PM
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Thanks for the feedback. Yes, I agree, the structure could use some work. I'll make edits before I publish.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 07:33 PM
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Gotcha. I would have you do it, but I haven't come up with a good domain name yet. Any suggestions lol?
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 07:31 PM
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Thank you so much for the offer! But I think I should be able to take care of it, I've set up a few blogs in the past.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 02:34 PM
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Wait, what? I just checked out your post history. My advice would be to re-read the sidebar, read the top posts of all time on this sub, and start reading and internalizing the books this sub suggests. The Red Pill, in itself, is a friggin mindset shift. If you don't think information on mindset is practical, than most of the writing on this sub is not practical. Cheers.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 11:01 PM
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You don't have to "easily" be able to get girls to get into an LTR. You can be a dud in world of game and still get a girlfriend. Mindset is practical information because without a shift in mindset, there's no way to take action effectively. You'll fuck it up because your paradigm is telling you one thing, and you're doing another. Shift your paradigm first, then take action. When everything is in sync, your results will be better. Change your mindset, change your life. Read Gorilla Mindset by C…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 01:20 PM
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You overcome it by accepting the fact that women will drop you. It's in their nature. You have to control what you can control and let go of what you cannot control - which is women moving on to another guy. It's a mindset shift, there is no magic pill to suddenly give you an abundance mentality. Once you accept this ideology, you can take action based on your newfound mindset and reinforce it. If you're not abundant, you're living in a scarcity mindset and are likely focusing too much mental en…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 08:19 AM
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Gotcha. Thanks for the feedback, I'll make some edits. But in response to that, I don't think I'm necessarily "hamstering" why scarcity sucks. It does suck, and there's really no way around it. And getting rid of that scarcity mindset has a lot to do with just internalize the ideas I mentioned in the post, and then taking action based on that new mindset. It'll suck in the beginning, and sure it'll be tough, but you simply have to accept the nature of women and act accordingly.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 04:44 AM
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LOL, this is why I love this sub. At a certain point, she started to say that we were "bad influences on each other"... yes, you blacking out every time and me having to carry your ass back to my apartment is my fault. Women, I tell ya...
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 10:40 PM
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That's the law that made me accept that she was broken and that I was better off without her. She was making my life significantly worse. I was picking up her bad habits and tendencies.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 10:33 PM
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I saw her friend the other day who's been trying to get us to start dating officially for some time now. I looked at her a bluntly said, "too many red flags, but you already know that?" She agreed with me lol.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 09:26 PM
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I was with a girl at my University for about 6 months who had a drug-addict father who was in-and-out of rehab and would steal money from her a bunch. She was also molested when she was younger. As of now, she blacks out almost every time she drinks, does coke a bunch and just lives life incredibly recklessly. She's also dirty as fuck and supposedly bi-polar (she told me when I ran into her a few months ago). I'd put her in category 4. We were never officially in a relationship but she told me s…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 09:20 PM
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This is 100% me. I don't really approach, I just kind of let girls come to me and I've gotten comfortable with it because it does happen. And yeah, I can see why those types of girls would be so low quality. I guess it's time to start approaching.
/r/askTRP10/09/17 08:40 PM
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Well, at least there's that.
/r/askTRP09/09/17 07:03 PM
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Yeah, you answered my question. Since I started improving myself in the past 12-14 months, the three college aged girls I've slept with (being a virgin prior) have all come on to me. And go figure, they're all low-quality, broken hoes. I guess it's time for me to start approaching.
/r/askTRP09/09/17 07:02 PM
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Next. Don't waste your time, plenty of fish in the see.
/r/askTRP06/09/17 01:17 AM
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Haha! I did that once too.
/r/askTRP04/03/17 07:57 PM
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This is gold.
/r/askTRP04/03/17 07:56 PM
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Usually it's because they have demons of some sort - or just something bothering them in the moment. I have a friend who almost killed someone he was close too at one point and quit drinking because of it.
/r/askTRP04/03/17 02:10 AM
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I've had girls ask me to take their picture a few times. My default line is "you can take one with me" and it's worked out pretty well haha.
/r/askTRP04/03/17 02:01 AM
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It's weird, isn't it? I've felt unfulfilled for a very long time. All my life I based my value on whether or not I could get girls and I figured that once I began to get them, I'd be fulfilled and finally be happy. Well, I finally did get laid several months ago and had a few plates for a while and I realized that I was still unfulfilled. Sex didn't really help anything. It gave me a confidence boost, sure, but it really didn't change anything. I don't really have an answer for you, because I'm …
/r/TheRedPill02/07/16 03:41 AM
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Didn't have a rubber so I pulled out with a plate this past Saturday night drunkenly. Was so disappointed in myself the next morning with the risk I just took. Glad everything is good with you, this was definitely a wake up call for me. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 09:13 PM
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Makes a lot of sense thank you. Can't imagine the anger induced from 3.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 04:26 AM
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It's a business fraternity, genius. Most professional fraternities are co-ed and people join them to make business connections and have access to good internship opportunities.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 03:34 AM
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That mostly every girl is a slut. I read on TRP, yes, but part of me just didn't believe it as much as I wanted to until last night.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 07:24 PM
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I mentioned this in another comment, but I think what happened is part of me understood the true nature of women by reading TRP but the other part of me didn't want to believe... until I saw/heard it from my own eyes last night. So, yes, I agree with you.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 06:57 PM
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I do blame myself. Sure, I'm angry that girls are the way they are. But I get that it's biological. I completely blame myself and understand that it's up to me to change.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 06:53 PM
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I agree. Would you mind letting me know what parts struck you at BP?
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 06:42 PM
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You're right. I need to definitely change how I look at them. I think part of me understood the truth but the other part just didn't want to accept it until I saw it for myself. And I did last night. This really got to me in a way that nothing has before. I literally did not sleep last night because I was so pissed.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 06:42 PM
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My perspective of her completely changed. Not really interested in any further contact.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 06:39 PM
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It's actually absurd. Joining may have been a mistake.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 06:38 PM
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I don't know. All I know is that I'm one of the most BP motherfuckers out there are and I have a lot of slip ups. I definitely bought into the disney princess bullshit of how innocent and perfect women are.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 06:37 PM
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Here's my plan of action so far: Gym 3-4 times a week Sticking to a higher calories diet About to go out and buy kindle after I stop responding to comments here to so I can read more books (Here's my list: http://www.thumotic.com/great-books-for-men/) I've already secured a part-time, at-home internship over the summer that pays, but I'm going to try and grab another with a bigger company And as I mentioned, I'm going to cut back on alcohol. I don't smoke. Obviously, I have to implement and stic…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 06:34 PM
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http://www.thumotic.com/alcohol-hurting/ Was linked to on TRP, but the blog is completely TRP based. Really good content honestly. Will be checking back there more often.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 06:18 PM
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As weird as it is, the girls are referred to as brothers too.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 06:16 PM
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Can't say I didn't play out the scenario of disaffiliating from them in my head a few times.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 06:14 PM
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Wow, I have actually noticed that. The girl who got the STD was in some of my freshman year classes before I actually knew her. She actually looked really cute. A couple years later she put on a bit of chub that's noticeable and just doesn't seem to give a fuck about her appearance.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 06:13 PM
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Goddamn it. You made me feel dumb as fuck, but much appreciated.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 06:11 PM
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Maybe a little of the fact that they never came across as sluts to me (they always showed me the good girl side), and honestly, a little of the fact that they weren't sluts with me. But I guess it was my fault for not making a move and escalating things. I'm still pretty awful with that even if I notice IOI's, which I feel like I've been getting a lot of lately ever since my personality and physique have began to change.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 06:04 PM
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Thanks, looking forward to see how different the nightlife. Although, I can only imagine how difficult it is considering those drunk girls were annoying the absolute fuck out of me while I was sober last night. Drunk people and sober people don't mix very well.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 06:01 PM
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Totally. I've held them in way to high standards.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 05:59 PM
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They might have been blacked out honestly haha.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 05:58 PM
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I know exactly where you're coming from. I swallowed the pill over the summer and saw an instant change when I came back for my junior year at college (I'm 20). I started to see success, but there was some bad that came with swallowing the pill. I had this source of anger in me - and I still very much do - that would come out every now and then. I developed an edge to my personality that's started to make me a bit of a controversial person. Before the pill, I was a people pleaser who just tried …
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 03:45 AM
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Awesome response. Thanks for the detail and clarity, makes a lot of sense.
/r/askTRP12/11/15 11:41 PM
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Wow, it was so simple haha. Can't believe I didn't see it. She truly is just being a slut. I wouldn't mind fucking her, but I'm so new to game at the moment that I don't even know how to start physically escalating. It's what I'm trying to learn next.
/r/askTRP12/11/15 11:25 PM
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Thank you for this post. I was lifting and eating healthy over the summer and just returned for my Junior year of college. This past week has been incredible with the women, in comparison to the past, but I realized that I'm starting to get one-itis. I've also been drinking excessively, staying out too late, not eating right not lifting. And guess what? I feel the beta coming back. I'm pedestalizing women again and I need to return to myself from a week ago. I guess I'll be off to the gym now.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 08:08 PM
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Any excuse you make at this point is all rationalization. Approach!
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 07:03 AM
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Your last two points are awesome.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 07:01 AM
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She gave me hers
/r/askTRP29/08/15 06:49 PM
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Phew, that was brutal. But you're right. Thanks for the write up, much appreciated!
/r/askTRP29/08/15 06:39 PM
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Thanks for the solid advice bro. Shit definitely went south after she brought up the PDA thing, so makes a lot of sense. Going out again tonight to continue working on my game.
/r/askTRP29/08/15 01:11 PM
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It's sort of fun in a University setting, but it's a time waster nonetheless. I may end up deleting it as well.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 03:08 PM
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UMD? Lots of TRP Yaks on there lately. Shits spreading like wild fire.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 03:10 AM
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She didn't actually cry, but I definitely didn't mean to go so nuclear. That's why I came here for advice.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 05:45 PM
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That makes sense. I plan on treating this summer sort of like my monk mode. I want to lift, eat right (and a lot), I got my first summer internship in the city and hopefully when I start to build my confidence I'll start opening to multiple women to begin getting comfortable.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 05:44 PM
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This is awesome. I'll try to shift my responses in more of this direction.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 03:32 AM
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I'll definitely check it out, thanks. I've been a nice guy my whole life and I started to change that after readying "No More Mr. Nice Guy" but it's so damn hard. I've never been called an asshole before and I've been called one three times this week and it eats at me. Each one individually. I guess it'll eventually pass.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 08:57 PM
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