Experienced AWALT for the first time and that anger phase has returned stronger than ever

Questionablechoice · 2016-01-27T07:45:28+00:00

You're lucky. You experienced it in a sense but this is all second hand. You're more a witness. You didn't get cheated on, divorce raped, falsely accused or sexually exploited under false pretenses.

You didn't really have to dodge a bullet or taken one to see beyond the veil. I think you might have a glimpse of the reality which we speak of here without being burned by it.

Dustin_Bromain · 2016-01-27T07:52:11+00:00

You need to significantly lower your expectations of women.

Kakistokratic · 2016-01-27T10:20:06+00:00

"white-girl wasted". Never heard this word before yet knew instantly what was meant.

sweetleef · 2016-01-27T11:23:48+00:00

What exactly is making you angry? That they're sluts, or that they told you, or that they have nothing to talk about besides sexually manipulating men, or that they weren't sluts with you, or something else? Identifying that can help you adjust your expectations.

And FWIW, these women may be vapid sluts, but this is all they do and they're very adept at it. If they're parading themselves as sluts for you, they either see you as a beta who they're trying to dominate into their orbit, using you as a gossip messenger, or they want you next on their blowjob list. Whatever it is, the conversation wasn't accidental.

Diabolo_Advocato · 2016-01-27T08:30:57+00:00

you are right, 100% because women are human. Humans lie to get what they want.

The expectation from men spoon fed to us by the mouthful over years and years of media is that women don't lie, women don't hurt others, women aren't selfish manipulative creatures. Women will do whats best for others and are natural care givers.

They have been told all their lives they can do what they want and say what they want while only getting so much as a slap on the wrist. It is ok that they lie to trap men in their webs. It is what they do.

I too recently slipped back into the anger phase and i fear it will be significantly harder to get out of it. Because I was lied to by my SO cause she "wanted to impress me" and she feared i would leave her if she said no to my requests which would have probably been the case. Now I'm in a position where its not as easy as "we should break up", so only time will tell, hopefully it will get better.

jiggly_atom · 2016-01-27T15:10:30+00:00

Why feel angry? They're the ones fucking up their prime years of pair bonding. A man's sexual value doesn't peak in his early years, but a woman's sure does. The longer they ride the CC the more damage they are doing to themselves. Being passed around by so many men without any sort of commitment alters a woman's mental and physical state. So as men the only thing we need to be aware of is to not be that beta bux bitch that tries to swoop these sluts up when they hit the wall and the CC spits them out. Don't commit and you'll have nothing to be angry about. Once the wall comes, they'll be the angry ones.

The__Tren__Train · 2016-01-27T08:54:00+00:00

when you take a step back and look at things objectively, you realize that there is simply nothing to be mad about.

just women being women.. why do you care? you don't have to marry them.

abdada · 2016-01-27T13:35:49+00:00

As a dude who is 99% a non drinker, I'll tell you that staying sober among alcoholics is the best way to confirm TRP.

Go to a club and stay sober and hang out til last call. See who the hottest women remaining pair up with.

Life is clear when you're not living in a fog of addiction.

Nice work.

phibetared · 2016-01-27T11:33:37+00:00

I can't look at them the same anymore.

You shouldn't look at them the same any more. You should look at them and think "I can have sex with them if I want to".

To anyone that is in college/university: Be on the lookout for women that want to have sex. They are all over the place, but you must make it happen.

I went to a college with nothing but good girls. I had plenty of them - and I was a band/math geek. If I knew trp theory I would have had even more - as I realize (much) after the fact how many opportunities I missed because I didn't realize they were golden opportunities.

E.g. if a girl asks you over to study, she doesn't want to study. I wanted to have sex, not study and it ticked me off that she just wanted to study, so I didn't go. sigh

Archwinger · 2016-01-27T15:35:16+00:00

You know how you're some kind of nerdy geeky guy with a real college major and a real future, but you hide that sometimes? Like you don't tell girls you're into video games, anime, Dungeons and Dragons, fantasy sports, or whatever other geeky shit guys do nowadays that girls laugh at? You keep that under wraps so people think you're cool?

That's what girls do about the fact that they're drunken sluts.

growlancer · 2016-01-27T15:48:10+00:00

Guys talk about which girl to fuck, and which ones are ugos too. We all the same dude. Stop watching disney movies

[deleted] · 2016-01-27T12:14:01+00:00

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WeAreGlidingNow · 2016-01-27T08:51:29+00:00

co-ed fraternity

Well, there's your problem right there.

ferengiprophet · 2016-01-27T15:20:56+00:00

I went through a terrible anger phase that lasted around 1.5 years. The root cause behind it was that I was brought up to have greater expectations of women than what was realistic. Once I understood that the problem was with me, I got over it pretty quickly.

batfish55 · 2016-01-27T12:48:17+00:00

Dude, you're not a shitty little Bp'er anymore, you're 1) reprogramming yourself after 20ish years (you sound young) of conditioning. That takes time. You're bound to fall back to old habits. And 2) you are biologically hardwired to be stupid for females.

Press on and learn.

PantsonFire1234 · 2016-01-27T13:51:01+00:00

College is probably the worst place, you're gonna hear nasty shit. But all in all nothing was personal. I've loved a good open slut ever since puberty. It's not those that you gotta worry about, it's the lying and scheming 'prudes'.

crisprcas9 · 2016-01-28T09:11:36+00:00

I don't get it. I find perfectly fine for women to be like that. I even incite my fuck friends to go around and get as many cocks they like. Marriage and shit is out dated. Let there be anarchy, bigamy, and whatever. Why the fuck do we disguise our human nature? Such hypocrisy, unnecessary pudism. People nowadays are full of shit in their heads.

IM_PRETTY_RACIST · 2016-01-28T14:06:23+00:00

So 2 girls that you work with screw around more than you thought and you're angry because of that?

You still have a long way to go.

rrealnigga · 2016-01-27T12:32:46+00:00

I don't really get what you're trying to say or why you were surprised. You are surprised that girls in college want to sleep with guys? Did they pretend that they are pure virgins before that night? Did they lie before that night?

imadazhell · 2016-01-27T10:23:44+00:00

Many have swallowed TheRedPill, but its bioavailability takes time. Stay the course.

Hopefully the next chance a pair of recently-single sorostisluts attempt plying you with alcohol, your mindset realizes their IOI.

Nieben · 2016-01-28T07:49:20+00:00

Honestly it sounds like you're mostly salty because you're not included in the action or you aren't getting much by yourself. That and your little projection of them being Good Girl™ was shattered.

People want to fuck and therefore people do fuck. Society made sex related things pretty taboo and so if you're not part of the crowd that's in on all the sex, you're not seeing it for what it actually is.

kmoran1 · 2016-01-27T18:42:53+00:00

You're still blue pilling i can tell from your post. This may help you get closer to the right direction? If it angered you that much, you seriously haven't experienced AWALT yet though. Especially not until you see it in your mother.

JP_Whoregan · 2016-01-27T15:16:22+00:00

Forgive my old schoolness here, but, um...

fra·ter·nal frəˈtərnl/Submit adjective 1. of or like a brother or brothers.

If it's got bitches in it, how can it be a "fraternity"? This defies the laws of Marriam-Webster.

Cardioman · 2016-01-29T14:29:01+00:00

Of course they are having sex you child. That is like the most Beta shit you can ever worry about.

The-Battletoad · 2016-01-31T02:36:14+00:00

What's with all these "I hear about women having sex and I'm angry because of it" posts? Reeks of jealousy. Sex is great. Most of us love sex. Maybe it is even something to get jealous over, but projecting it like this is cringe-y.

NeoreactionSafe · 2016-01-27T14:51:01+00:00

The Blue Pill is actually consciousness suppression.

In other words the Blue Pill places a sort of mental blind spot so all the magicians tricks being pulled on you aren't noticed.

All we do here on Red Pill is remove those blinders so that you see things as they really are.

Ultimately you learn Game yourself and you become the magician and begin to bend reality yourself.

Since ancient times the rulers, shamens, priests, politicians, have all guarded their magic in order to hold power.

All things are made "occult" which means "hidden" from you.

We wake people up and expose the "secrets".

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Così_fan_tutte

thenemaxofredpill · 2016-01-27T17:58:30+00:00

So, you found out that girls in college are sluts....

Next on news at 10....fire is hot.

stonepimpletilists · 2016-01-27T12:50:43+00:00

Now what?

sit and stew or learn from it and grow.

So far your post doesn't fill me with confidence on the latter

WidmerBeer · 2016-01-27T14:42:36+00:00

There's a term called 'sorostitute' for a reason.

dabayer · 2016-01-27T16:43:54+00:00

Women are just like men sometimes, but pretend they're not. We admit in our teens we wanted to have sex with a good percentage of the girls we know and as we get older our standards rise. Most girls would do anything to get some Chad even if it's just a BJ in der parking lot, but they lie to give the false assumption of high SMV (High demand, low offer = high price). But in contrast their standards get lower due to the decrease in SMV.

RatsSewer · 2016-01-27T23:08:47+00:00

So you think all females are represented by 2 sorority chicks?

You didn't need drinking to fuck up your judgement.

4ABO · Wed Jan 27 18:46:07 2016 UTC

What made you assume they were innocent in the first place? I'm guessing they were Indian or Asian girls and you assumed they only study all the time. They are actually the best at fucking around on the side.

strps · 2016-01-27T20:55:50+00:00

Lessons Learned: Don’t believe most shit ~~women say~~ you want to believe about women.

5t3fan0 · 2016-04-29T18:59:06+00:00

I’m sorry I just needed to vent, I’m so angry.

FUCKING NEVER BE SORRY FOR YOUR EMOTIONS, BRO! NEVER!

when you hear in the news that somebody went insane and people died, does the neighboor says "oh he was such an angry dude, we saw that coming big time?" NOOOPE they always say "he was so calm, never upset, always niiiiiiiiiice"

real, masculine, ALIVE men feel emotions, be it love or anger, and that's fucking legit and natural and healthy... only broken individuals and psychos are never angry.

favours_of_the_moon · 2016-01-27T11:51:32+00:00

The anger we feel is legitimate and justified.

But bear in mind when you're experiencing it, she gets SPECIAL TINGLES to whatever extent she is able to make you feel that burn.

scubar · 2016-01-27T12:01:22+00:00

Women gonna women, keep in mind that most men also act this are way.

dmystery · 2016-01-27T12:15:09+00:00

Can you point me in the right direction for the college binge-drinking post?

I'm a uni student also and always had my doubts as to whether the "benefits" truly outweigh the costs

ashurrutia · 2016-01-27T15:00:12+00:00

I have been lied to multiple, and emotionally(Never got any proof of anything physical beyond kissing(which I had no proof but she admitted to it), and she always denied it) cheated on twice by what I thought was a unicorn. I mean, a girl that was born 3 blocks away from me, whom I knew since I was 12 years old, she remembers me since she was a little kid. Yet that didn't stop her from breaking my BP world view of relationships to pieces. Worst part she still thinks she was the victim in all of this! As in, she cannot control her emotions or actions, and when I'm not around her(As in LDR due to work reasons) or I am emotionally distant and some other John Doe comes around riding, her fee-fees become uncontrollable. In fact, I totally understand the first time she did it, since I was overweight, let myself go, and the guy was pretty alpha at the time. However second time around was with some guy who couldn't be more Beta, to the point that he is willing to have an LTR with her even though she spent months fucking with me while having an emotional(I know there was no physical contact because they are on different states in the US) relationship with him. This idiot is telling her" "how she is his everything", and "he had nearly given up on life until he found her", "that he feels like a kid again", so it is any wonder she doesn't want to get in a relationship with this fellow because according to her own words: "She will get tired of him in a couple of months, because he is too needy". As for me, I have been stabbed in the heart(I mean limbic system) twice, so now my cerebral cortex tells my limbic system to take a hike everything it gets all fuzzy feeling about love!

That was my rude awakening to the RP. Best part is I'm still married to this person, so I don't really know what to do in terms of divorce, since there is a very clear possibility for alimony if she requested it.

Stationarity · 2016-01-27T16:42:32+00:00

Any country that is serious about its survival wouldn't tolerate co-ed dorms/fraternities.

zxDanKwan · 2016-01-27T16:46:06+00:00

I can't look at them the same anymore.

Here's your problem. Despite all you've been told, you're still trying to look at women "the same."

Now, you're asking Morpheus why your eyes hurt so much.

The sooner you accept that you never even knew what a woman was the sooner you'll understand what needs to happen.

Edit: for clarity, this is not your fault, anymore than it was Neo's fault he was born into the Matrix. Now's a good time to really pull your plug.

bdub85 · 2016-01-27T19:02:16+00:00

I don't get the anger. Just be glad you learned all this useful knowledge before you are 50 divorced with two kids and in debt up to your eyes.

Manospherian · 2016-01-27T21:54:11+00:00

Calm down, read the sidebar, and lift.

frogstud · 2016-01-28T21:10:17+00:00

"2. Unicorns don’t exist"

I know M A Larson can make some pretty bad decisions (plot wise), but don't worry. You still have Rarity...

tgeda · 2016-01-27T16:07:33+00:00

I see every STD as permanent. If i found out a girl got something she might as well be an AIDS crackwhore for how im gunna view her for the rest of the time we are in contact.

F_Dingo · 2016-01-27T16:33:03+00:00

Long story short, the two girls went on rants of who they wanted to give blowjobs to, who they’ve fucked, how one of them just picked up an STD, and all the typical things TRP tells you about girls.

Listen, they're both disgusting people, stop hanging out or associating with them.

Benny757 · 2016-01-27T16:51:21+00:00

Good that you learned the lessons now and found TRP early. However, you are not immune. Just wait until it happens directly to you.

Remember the cardinal rule: Always be ready and willing to step back, and walk away. That is your golden power. Like walking into a beautiful golden sunset..... ahhhhh. The freedom of it.

cholomite · 2016-01-27T18:52:23+00:00

The blue pill community and feminists always discount AWALT as purely the behavior of club sluts and bar skanks. That, if we (red pill) are just out to fuck and spin plates, then OF COURSE we're going to see this type of behavior. It's sampling bias they say and we're insane for being so angry at the behavior of sluts. The problem is that if it were only the honest sluts engaging in these behaviors, then AWALT wouldn't even be a thing. It's when we see it in the girls who we've know for years, who have told us time and time again that they're "not like that", the girls that shame the "sluts" for being so open and honest about their AWALT behaviors. I'm not angry because all women are like that, I'm angry because so many women blatantly lie about being like that and only admit the truth when they are drunk. All girls know these behaviors, and they do make sense on an evolutionary sense, I can't harbor any negative feelings about their sexual strategy. It's the grand lie they all conspire to tell men that makes me the most angry.

redarkane · 2016-01-27T19:41:51+00:00

College girls are sluts. Stay away and do your own tinny. They sicken me tbh.

monsieurhire2 · 2016-01-27T20:49:10+00:00

"Now, this isn’t such a terrible thing. So what, they’re sleeping around and catching STD’s, right?"

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p8-HDUBbtgQ

Moldy_Gecko · 2016-01-28T05:08:04+00:00

Hooked up with this girl 2 weeks ago. She lives in somewhere a short plane flight away. But her parents live her (She's 21). I've always been good at comfort tests and the comfort phase of seduction so I got her to spill her "Supposed" real number. I can usually tell if it's real or fake. She said she'd been with over (going to make a close, but fake number in case this gets back to her) 50 people. That's more than 2 guys a month for 3 years. I'm pretty sure there was a boyfriend now and then that slowed it down and then 10 in one month or something. Beautiful body though, but she even admitted she isn't sure she would be able to hold a relationship anymore. She was nervous to tell me because she knew it was high.

So, I live with a lot of roommates as well. Get good with comfort and ask them. You'll find that 90+% of them have had over 20 partners. Shoot, the ones I love hooking up with the most are the ones that "appear" shy and innocent. They're usually the freakiest.

Now, I don't judge for what's in their nature, especially when in the last month I've been with 4 girls (twice her monthly average). It's in all our nature to procreate, it just sucks it fucks with the female psyche so much. They are fun to hook up with though.

Thotwrecker · 2016-01-28T08:03:39+00:00

These are girls in a co-ed fraternity (da fuck is that anyway?) who are Wednesday drinking.

What the fuck did you expect? Awalt is true, but these are turbo thots, man. Like if you expected these types of girls to be chaste and professional and focused on their school / career... then that's on you, not them.

Anyway, it's good this has taught AWALT, but don't be angry at them for being thots. Thwack yourself upside the head for not being a good thot-identifier.

KamaCosby · 2016-01-28T03:19:45+00:00

Lol co-ed "fraternity". No wonder you're Beta. It's too late now, but you should have joined a real fraternity

SpeedMetalPunker · 2016-01-28T11:49:22+00:00

I can't look at them the same anymore.

Same thing happened to me with several girls. 1 of them being a girl that was raped and she became more of a whore than ever ever. I can't even talk to her anymore.

Title	Experienced AWALT for the first time and that anger phase has returned stronger than ever
Author	samarui
Upvotes	178
Comments	168
Date	January 27, 2016 6:17 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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