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This may very well be true. Ugly beta husbands that do the chores might make women happy. Problem is, women don't actually - want - to be made happy. Realizing that women don't prioritize happiness-seeking, and don't value happiness as men do, is essential. You will always encounter evidence that this or that makes women happy. Dad bods make women happy, ripped guys make women happy, good listeners make women happy, funny personality makes women happy, being loved and cherished makes women happy…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/19 07:26 AM
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The lesson here is one of action, of taking risks and pushing for what you want with urgency, versus sitting back on the backburner. You spent how many years hovering around this chick, wanting her and listening to her stories about boning dudes? This is why no matter how romantic you are, always always always get to sex as soon as possible. You will encounter girls who you know aren't dating material but you still want badly and jerk off too. That's OK but the only solution is to either try to …
/r/TheRedPill24/10/19 09:12 AM
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Prostitutes will always be an interesting topic for TRP. There are two problems with trying to discuss this with TRPers - 1 - VERY few people have ever reached the point where time >> money, and specifically, interesting experiences >>> money. It's a paradigm that you can conceptually understand, but until you really experience it specifically with women, it's all just conceptual to you. People here who are asking for advice on TRP or posting strategies, etc, they tend to undervalue their time. …
/r/TheRedPill21/10/19 07:24 AM
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He was completely lost in his own world, and completely blind to what was happening in front of him. Many guys are like this, but he is a particularly good example. He moved his tiger mom and bitchy parents in, who disrespected his wife and he didn't hold frame with them or enforce any boundaries. No woman can or should ever, ever sustain attraction to a momma's boy, it's the death of all relationships, no chick survives her bitchy MIL coming to stay and the husband bending over backwards to acc…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/19 06:23 AM
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Posts like this are generally correct, but it should be understood that 99% of you don't any generally enough dread or any at all, and give your women way too much comfort -- especially when they are "LTR worthy women". The problem with TRP is that it can lead you into this very common trap where by learning more and more about women, you become more confident that accurately assessed your little cherished gem of a NAWALT as "different". One-itis sets in, and the ambient dread she once felt in t…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/19 08:26 AM
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It wouldn't fucking matter. It is pure naivete to think people act on knowledge. Some do, sure. But, in 2018, everyone knows excessive sugar and carbs are bad for you. Lotta fat people. Everyone knows about keto, they know about low carb, and they know about general restriction diets, and all 3 will melt fat. Looooottttta fat people. Everyone knows that women like higher value men. Everyone knows women like attractive men. Everyone knows women like confidence. everyone knows PUA concepts even if…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 07:14 AM
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Resist cynicism and negativity and nihilism and pessimism -- not because are wrong, but because they are not useful. Weak people who are smart will often figure out that society is pure bullshit, values are bullshit, achievement is bullshit, the American dream is bullshit, etc. But, because they are weak, they cannot take the "reality shock" and it kills them, and they slink around on reddit bitching about how other men are just cogs in the machine. Don't be those people, even if you see them ge…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/19 06:55 AM
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I call it, the internship model. Treat your plates like an unpaid intern. If she impresses you and the opportunity and cirumstance lines up, she gets an offer. Otherwise, she gets some good dick experience and another job on her resume. As Kanye said "at least a blow-job is better than no job". An intern has raw talent, but needs to prove themselves and needs guidance. They can be cut for any reason at any time, and they are in a state of competing with other interns that want an offer. ] If she…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/19 08:04 AM
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Naturally. So try to understand a component of it then: The second type is you. They weathered reality shock, and they realized there is nothing there, there's no inherent worth or redemption for us in anything we can do, because nothing we could ever do could magically make our lives mean anything, and there's no real objective metric to say a hardworking family man's miserable life was better than, say, a hedonistic junkies. "The worth of a life" is a made up concept, anyway.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/19 04:56 AM
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Can reddit ban us already jesus fuck
/r/TheRedPill07/10/19 08:54 AM
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Dude he talked to a tinder thot for months on end to set up one singular fuck, and this is a girl he described as homely. He's in school and trying to "focus on his career". There's homely fast food bitches dating lame dudes within a 5 mile radius of him, I guarantee it. This is over-investment in a singular lead that very well could have backfired and fucked him out of his time and cash, and his driving motivation for this was what he described at the end "the ego boost when she texted me after…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/19 08:52 AM
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He's right. There are men who are so desperate to fuck your bitch that they'd miss 3 days of work and cop a flight across the country. It's true. What can you learn from this? Well, really, just not to be OP. If I was the LTRing type, I'd make my fucking money and not be trying to fly across the country for a bitch, nor be worried about guys like OP. If they fuck my bitch, well, they fuck my bitch. Oh well. Get another one. But, at least I didn't waste 3 fucking days tinder gaming and flying out…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/19 08:47 AM
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The thing about nihilism that sucks is that it is correct. It's true. Shit doesn't really matter. There is no real intrinsic worth or value to anything we can ever really do. People generally will have experiences in life that open them up to this truth for a time period, and they see the raw, emptiness of modern life, and how everything really is just a bunch of made up bullshit. The ability to weather this reality-shock is a defining difference between alphas, betas, omegas, whatever you want …
/r/TheRedPill07/10/19 08:33 AM
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Women want all kinds of things, and ultimately don't logically or strategically work towards their goals -- otherwise, every woman would play the AF/BB strategy better, and beat the "wall" and manage to marry someone who was higher SMV / higher RMV. Basically, their strategy is very rational, hypergamy is very rational and logical, AF/BB is very rational. They even try to evaluate men in a rational way. But, somewhere in the mix, them being human / being women comes into play, and they make irra…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/19 08:01 AM
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This is good shit. I recommend non-autistic people read it too. I am not autistic, but I've always been somewhat fucked in the head. I did really well initially with early era PUA and I fucked up my development for a long time by getting to play natural very early in life. I always phrase it like this - I started getting laid at 15-16, but I became a natural at around 26. It took 10 years to cross that threshold where I can honestly say, deep down, I wasn't striving to prove myself, get validati…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/19 08:10 AM
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If you must date instead of plate, then pick a girl with a job, a degree, no CC debt, her own car, her own plate. You will have ample access to these kinds of women if you yourself are high powered. If you must marry, which is retarded, but if you cannot be stopped by the collective wisdom of TRP, then at least marry a equally wealthy bitch so when she takes half, she takes her own half back. Your divorce settlement won't be that bad if you make 150k and she makes 85k -- it'll suck still, but wa…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/19 05:20 AM
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This was likely not someone on here -- because, it sounds like he was genuinely busy with his work week and life, and just straight up forgot to reply and had zero mental space going towards bitches. Yall motherfuckers might achieve the same result, but you're "heh, I'm going to not respond for 3 days, oh shit dis bitch texting again, I better act busy." Just be busy. Not every schedule-wise -- mentally. Have shit going on at all times such that even a great weekend fuck and promising plate beco…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 07:15 AM
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This guy is a fucking asshole, like most men of AITA. He's sitting their bitching about it, but he's not willing to SEE REALITY FOR WHAT IT IS. His girl would never think to try this shit if she was fucking a baller. Athlete, musician, famous dude, rich dude, boss motherfucker. Alpha. Shit, even a beta in alpha skin, the most BP dude with some clout and sway, some element inflating his SMV, she'd be shaving and plucking. The fault is his own. He's not high enough value, she feels completely comf…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 06:10 AM
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Right, these women are angel investors. Appreciate what they provide, sure, but don't make the mistake of thinking that they aren't keeping one eye fixed on your potential, and when that potential doesn't pan out, they will follow Briffault's Law. Just like your VC, just like your angel investor. Yeah, they're realllll fucking nice, they buy you sushi dinners, they pay for your branded startup patagonia vests, but hey, you best understand a hopedigger don't run on hope forever. Potential doesn't…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/19 06:34 AM
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I at least know it's somewhat real. Regardless of how high or low your SMV is, it is always up to you to lead your woman and lead the relationship. Therefore the "realness" of the relationship is primarily up to you.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/19 06:30 AM
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Exactly -- for women, failure is cope-able with antidepressants and cats. For men, failure is a parallel of death -- failing as a man is catastrophic. Failing to fuck transmutes men into Eliots, failing to earn resources turns men into whiny socialists or hardened criminals. Failure to take responsibility and own your mind firmly results in suicide and depression. Life is toxic, masculinity is toxic, to be a male is to deal with toxicity and to express your own toxicity through actions that pret…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/19 06:28 AM
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The power via wealth comes from freedom. Freedom from needing a job and thus being reliant upon an employer, freedom from the threat of ruination via one lawsuit, one bad decision, etc. The amount of money you need to hit this barrier is probably around 4-6M, maybe as high as 10M if you plan to also live in a NY/LA/SF tier city and live the good life. This is the point at which your money is earning you enough interest such that you can sustain a lifestyle from that money working. This is power …
/r/TheRedPill12/09/19 06:39 AM
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My advice: Read your own post and reflect. You know what the deal is. You say she's beautiful, kind, smart, etc etc = you see her as better than you, and you feel needy and want to know for sure that she's committed to and in love with you. You've "warned her" about guys who flirt with her but she entertains them because she "doesn't pick up on it". Lol. She picks up on it. Women are 1000000x better than you at "picking up on it" -- she's entertaining it because it stimulates her. She cheated on…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/19 09:20 AM
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I think it's a fine idea if your business hits certain metrics before you leave. Work your 9-5 and pour your heart and soul and weekends into your business, and after you hit certain metrics (I don't know what exactly, but basically the profitability and customer base at which you can self-sustain a reasonable income), then you should go to Chang Mai. Don't go before you're actually earning money. Don't go expecting your friends to pan out -- some will give up, teach english, spend their money f…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/19 07:31 AM
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Depends on your innate skillset, motivation, ability to sustain a long term effort towards something, willingness to relocate, etc. Being a good plumber will be more lucrative than being a bad software engineer. It depends on what you will succeed at. And I make less money than my friends of a comparable seniority in IB/finance, but I can't be fucked to deal with that lifestyle. My skills are basically a mix of technical and ability to push people to work cohesively towards a goal, and ability t…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/19 09:13 AM
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My belief on this, and my take on incel / looksmax / black pill communities is this: Build an MVP. Everyone can build a MVP. Minimum viable product. The MVP is the bare minimum you need to engage the market as a real contender. In the SMV, the MVP is "you need to be slottable into the alpha-fucks slot" -- basically, you should be worth a dirty club bathroom fuck. That's the MVP -- you have to be hot enough that she's OK losing a notch and accruing some mileage on her pussy for you. That is rough…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/19 10:23 PM
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This will get you some results, this is worth trying if you want and seeing where it gets you. Nothing wrong with trying this, it's better than doing nothing. I do think it's going in the wrong direction and I'll explain why. The only thing you need to do to extend the life of your plates is not give a shit about extending the life of your plates. Girls choose when to come and go, who to come and go to, and how they want to deal with it. Don't worry about whether she orgasms. Guys have no reason…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/19 07:52 AM
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Most girls are like this if you're attractive and try to rape them. It's one of those horribly awkward facts of life -- girls respond to forceful, aggressive men and if you are escalating and she's not into it, you can keep pushing and eventually she'll let you fuck her. If your GF was being raped by an attractive stronger guy, there's a 50% chance she'd probably not fight back, she'd lay there and take her pounding, and probably orgasm. When you're a star, they let you do it -- except you don't…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/19 09:59 AM
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Congratulations, you fuck now. "On the way out, I went to shake her hand, but she gave me a hug." You are a clean slate, tabla rasa. Honestly, be excited, the world is your oyster. Enjoy being young and inexperienced. You're basically a 23 year old at around the 17 year old level in terms of your career and experience. That's OK. Don't make the same choices you see other 23 year olds making. Make the extreme choices. Be ruthless and firm with yourself, hold yourself to a higher standard. You hav…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/19 07:09 AM
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Just goes to show you, you have to play to win. If you're getting divorced because you found out your wife has been cheating on you, and you want to make her miserable, you have to proactively try to fuck her over. This dude's lawyer went Cochran-mode. He came ready to fight and win, he did his homework instead of despairing and posting on the internet about how much he loves his wife and how does he "fix the marriage" and "win her back". This is why if you're in a shitty marriage, you need to b…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/19 07:06 AM
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if alpha bitch rejected OP, and then his chances with HB6 would've evaporated Good! Let it go then, because it was pussy you weren't going to get anyways. Be willing to risk losing the 6, never be concerned with trying to latch on and "secure" pussy. If she ostracizes you, she ostracizes you -- by not being willing to risk ostracization, OP made himself more likely to be ostracized. He was in scarcity mode, he was trying to cling to the 6 and trying to cling to his position in the group. He prob…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/19 06:04 AM
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Your perspective on this is off. This is going to sound critical, but try not to interpret it personally. There are of course higher SMV women and lower SMV women, and leaders in social groups, etc etc -- all of that is true. But the status this woman had is all status you guys gave her. It's a product of you thinking she has high status. I deal with this all the time in SF because there's always some high powered high status 8 who wants to control everything -- you didn't effectively deal with …
/r/TheRedPill24/07/19 05:15 AM
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I'm hopping in as this is relevant to me. My question is, how the fuck do I found my purpose? I keep seeing people saying focus on your mission and what not, well how do I find my mission? A purpose is a collection of goals and aspirations that have very high personal meaning to you. They can change, or you can keep them the same for many years. The first step to find your purpose is reductive. The second step doesn't matter, because you and I both know you're not going to stop with the "wake up…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/19 05:56 AM
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You NEVER explicitly tell someone to kill himself. That is the mentality I believe you need to have. It is very difficult for real failure betas to actually change. Being a weak, purposeless beta is honestly a fate so terrible, I'd rather just be dead than to be stuck that way. To be stuck constantly friendzoned, inceled, etc, watching and witnessing everyone else make the money and fuck the bitches you fantasize about. Either change or kill yourself, that's my general advice to people like OP. …
/r/TheRedPill19/07/19 05:46 AM
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You're broken and lost because you and your friends are really miserable, desperate pussies. You all sniffed after her and orbited her until she broke up with your friend, and you all were besides yourself to fuck her. You're desperate for pussy, you're not interacting with other girls, so she's your only hope. You probably felt like she was the light of your life, and you'd feel so happy and excited when she wanted you to come over to do homework together or something. You're in severe scarcity…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/19 09:06 AM
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A group of weak desperate boys will act like this for a 6 who's cute and seems achievable. This girl was probably not that hot, I have seen this situation before it's always over a cute but achievable girl who's even a little nerdy or into gaming for bonus points. She will run through a beta friend group like a pro NFL tackle running through a high school linemen. It's their desperation and inner worthlessness that makes them behave this way, not her appearance.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/19 08:47 AM
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The best thing in life you can learn from women is to never, ever argue. Don't argue with men, don't argue with women, only argue if you get paid to argue. This is a big part of why I only log onto reddit a couple times a month now. I enjoy arguing with yall, even the shitheads, it's probably residual leftovers of an academic background that I've otherwise cleansed myself of. Women love to argue because they know the same secret kids know. While the argument rages on, they have your complete att…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/19 05:53 AM
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India has a very red pill culture in some regards, but often blue pill applications / net results. For example, Indian culture is one of the cultures on this planet that was able to accurately codify and understand that people are inherently worth more or less depending on their socio-economic status -- and they then grouped people into castes. Girls are looking to marry up within the cast, or even jump a caste which would be the ultimate win, and parents tell their kids that in order to get a g…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/19 07:53 AM
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I've dealt with this a lot going out. There is no way to avoid it -- women in the nightlife environment are basically put into a sensory overload state and existing in an alternate reality where they are celebrities. For them, it is LARPing, except instead of being the Elf Queen, she gets to roleplay as a celebrity. Normal girls take on raging entitled cunt behavior because to them, this is what being a hot shit celebrity is imagined to feel like. You cannot avoid it, and to avoid it is counterp…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/19 09:39 PM
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Non-degenerate country in Latin America Bruh. I have been through central and south america and there's no country where girls aren't having casual sex, cheating on their husbands, etc. There are more conservative areas, sure, but you've got blinders on if you think your women aren't degenerate whores too. Men have a better handle on it, but most men are either fucking side pieces or whoring, and their women know it. And condom use was abyssmal, I was into raw dogging hoes in that chapter of my …
/r/TheRedPill28/06/19 06:01 AM
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I'm still waiting for OPs post on how to realize/convince/delude myself into thinking I'm hot shit. I might be way too hopeful. I will tell you how I did it -- I was always very optimistic and positive about whatever progress I was making. Always took pride in my own actions (I approached, great fucking job, she gave me her number, superbowl win, woohoo, etc). That was how I thought because I was able to admit to myself that I was a little spergy fuck with an aggressive edge that repelled women.…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/19 03:42 AM
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This is actually less than I would think, and I would assume this is because half of the women who do free dinners etc are incapable of rationalizing it as free dinners, and hamster it as "well it was just a fun date, he was happy to do it!" etc. Always, always, always try to get your tinderette to meet you at your place, or somewhere cheap and janky. $2 tacos kinda places near your apartment, the more ghetto the better. Always be qualifying her even with your logistical decisions -- if she's no…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/19 09:45 PM
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maybe YOU are not ugly I am ugly, Indian, and at the time, I was 30-40 lbs overweight. Well-off, but not a high status or sexual career (software engineer). Looks matter. I can tell you how much they matter. But, being a pussy in spirit is the ultimate vagina-dryer. Ugly people with low self esteem and no supplementary sources of SMV almost always have a bitchmade attitude. Conflating your bitchmade attitude with your looks is not helpful. An ugly dude can go read like fucking David DeAngelo and…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/19 09:41 PM
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The thing to always remember about women is that they do evaluate SMV, but they do it about as rationally and methodically as women do anything. Which is, not at all. They do try to suss out your SMV and evaluate it against their own and what they think they can get, but her evaluation isn't logical. When I was fat I was fucking more than I am now, and girls would literally they thought I was buff and I shouldn't lose weight, and they liked me tummy, it was sexy, etc. Of course I knew they didn'…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/19 06:18 AM
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What is it about being foreign that augments one's game / success with women? There is an evo bio explanation, and a more social / sexual market place explanation. Evo bio theory would be that girls are attracted to different DNA for genetic diversity. The more important answer is that due to a general sort of post-colonial malaise hanging over many nations, people are socialized to think of the west as cool and as an ideal, and their media and society worships a white ideal. This is true in Per…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/19 06:03 AM
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Pick a major international city (ie, Budapest). Plan to spend a few days taking in that city. Plan out 3 destinations that are cheap and easy to access from there (ie, small towns, midsized cities, cheap train destinations, etc). Research what to do and where to go and where to stay. Figure out safety concerns, weather, what to wear. Budget out the trip, make sure you can afford to do enough to make it worthwhile. Then just go. I like to plan out a circuit (ie, last year I saw Lagos, Abuja, Accr…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/19 08:37 AM
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Few reasons -- shift work & perma on call is crazily bad for your mental health, and combine that with a high stress job, you are basically set up to be alienated from your family. It takes a toll on your physical health too - that's why a lot of docs don't practice what they preach. It's not just overwork, it's the nature of the work and the irregular schedule, which forces you to sort of remain disengaged and desynced from your family. The money is what it is, but a lot of these guys have life…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/19 06:23 AM
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Long-term happiness isn't necessarily the best goal to chase. I don't think happiness-chasing has ever been what produced or delivered the durable feeling of real happiness. I don't even think men / "the masculine" even wants to exist in a state of happiness (in a similar way to how women don't really want to be happy, they want to be unhappy and then happy and then unhappy and then happy). Spinning plates is great for you if you find it engaging -- the key being, you're engaged with a challengi…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/19 06:17 AM
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You will be fine if you aren't a jackass about it. Research where to go and where not to. Start out the first day in the tourist areas. Anyone who offers you anything or starts a conversation (you want a woman, my friend? etc) completely ignore it and keep walking. Be clear on whether a girl wants money or not. Any girl no matter how sweet may be tempted to swipe shit from your room. Keep your cash / passport seperately and keep a dummy wallet. If you get mugged, handover the dummy wallet. This …
/r/TheRedPill18/06/19 06:00 AM
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Travelling and fucking foreign bitches teaches you sexual communication and universal "intuition" with women. You learn that all women play games, all sex is transactional, and all forms of LMR can be clobbered with enough knowledge of female nature. You also learn to take extreme self responsibility. Learn the rules. Learn how much money to have in small bills to lubricate social interactions. Understand you need to slip the hotel guy a few shitcurrencies to make him fix the damn A/C. Understan…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/19 05:50 AM
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Well what do you think happens when it's a crowd of people who are willing to pay 2k to be there. The crowds at these things are extremely self-selecting. When people are trying to make money and get viral and be badass celebrities to their male harem of fanboys, it's time to leave that whole industry / community. The manosphere has become that, so pick it up, throw it in the garbage, and live a life without it.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/19 06:42 AM
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They are social media jackasses and has beens. I will always appreciate the rsd of old but they have lost their way, it's marketing and repackaged TRP ideas, watered down and sold with a side of "your looks / money / status doesn't matter if you buy our dvd / bootcamp".
/r/TheRedPill21/05/19 06:37 AM
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I think the most important thing you articulated in your FR is how guys who went through TRP and improved their value still hang on to the "well she's hot so she's probably a stuck up bitch" judgmentalism. It's similar to how guys see a natural or stud and they think it's an asshole spoiled Chad and they already hate him. Try to use this experience to cut that aspect of your personality out. We all know the SAME girl has two different personalities. Just like you do when you're talking to a tele…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/19 09:26 PM
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Women know their inherent worth comes from their appearance and other people desiring them; they are looking for validation from alpha men because they want these men to see them as more than sex objects. Deep down, they know the reason people treat them special and society treats them well is not because of their quirky personality, academic achievements, photography insta, or charming personality -- they know that their worth does not stem from anything intrinsic, but rather from other people …
/r/TheRedPill04/05/19 09:18 PM
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Great find. I hadn't heard of this dude. The 90s and early 00s were a fascinating time, because a bunch of software engineery IT "I wear loose white button downs and pleated khaki" types started to decide enough was enough, we're going to use our problem-solving analytical minds to crack this whole women thing. Spoiler, they did. Now most of them still couldn't action upon their knowledge, but they did figure it out. Even some of the PUA cheeseballs had some really solid ASF posts and cliffs lis…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/19 09:25 AM
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The expanded version of "it's just your turn" is "all relationships are transactional and based of perceived value and benefit, and when the value and benefit that you are providing is no longer desired or competitive with what she can get from someone else, the relationship will be terminated." It doesn't mean that every relationship is doomed to fail, it just means that all relationships naturally expire, and actively trying to resist this natural turn of events can wind up leading to headache…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/19 10:43 PM
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Also, I'm not sure what drama you are talking about. She telling me that she fucked another guy - that's pretty much only drama I'm getting and in the end, that drama is only in my head if I want to make a drama about it. You wrote an entire post about how much of a "sheer nuclear shit test" it was, not me. Call it something other than drama if the word drama triggers you - you spend hours of your time contemplating and mentalling framing this thing that happened. If you want to see it as "my gi…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/19 05:53 AM
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Your're just really strong and really big and really attractive to girls. Sure. But the most efficient way to put on muscle mass and "look good to girls" is not to become an advanced or even intermediate strength athlete. You can look better in a shorter amount of time if you're getting in appropriate volume along and following a hybrid program, especially as a novice with the capability to put on a good 25 lbs of muscle mass their first year. This dude is saying "don't think about bodybuilding …
/r/TheRedPill19/04/19 05:39 AM
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I am not promoting anything, I haven't done 8/8/8. My holy grail program is 5/3/1 + BBB (Boring But Big - basically adding in 10-12 rep sets of hypertrophy work after you've done your 5/3/1 progression). I am also a big fan of PHAT and Arnold's intermediate BB workout from his training bible. For me, it was not a program shift, but a mental shift, that fixed my fat ass.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/19 05:56 AM
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Reaching an advanced level of strength training is A) a sport at that point, only vaguely related to maximizing SMV. And B) it's ~2 years out. In those 2 years before you're average joe becomes an "advanced strength athlete", they could have fully recomped their body already. Basically, the logic of "get advanced strength lifts before even thinking about bodybuilding routines" is silly, because that point in time is 2 years out. In that time, you could have had drastically better aesthetic devel…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/19 05:48 AM
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In 2015 I was in musclefat mode. Honestly, putting up the big numbers feels good, eating a lot while also putting on muscle feels good, full, powerful. You actually think you look good. These Jason Blaha dudes actually feel like they are badasses. You even delude yourself into thinking chicks dig it. I don't even trust myself anymore to be honest with myself, I just use calipers and if I am testing at over 15% bodyfat, it's time to cut back to sub 10%. The brain on a bulk diet and strength progr…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/19 06:37 AM
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Strength training is a tool, and an amazing tool, but aesthetics are everything. The looksmax incel faggots aren't wrong -- they are just whiny faggots.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/19 06:25 AM
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This is excessive; I used to think like this, but there's no real magic that happens when you can deadlift 500 or bench 315. After you learn the nuts and bolts of doing compound lifts with good form, and you're adhering to a reasonable strength routine for your experience level, you should add in volume in the aesthetic areas you want to work on. A novice doing starting strength can absolutely add on 3x10 curls, tricep extensions, calf press, and a few sets of supplementary abs work, for example…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/19 06:15 AM
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Why do you have a desire to pair bond with a woman who's fucking other dudes? You are putting up with the drama and headaches of a LTR, but only getting a plate out of it. Instead, you should aim to put in the low effort / care that you'd put into a plate -- let her worry about trying to get you to "pair bond" with her. There's nothing wrong with your plate fucking other dudes, in fact, it's expected, but why would you want to be burdened with the type of relationship where she shares and tells …
/r/TheRedPill13/04/19 07:53 PM
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Looksmaxing, and "looks determinism" and the black pill are all rooted in elements of reality. If you want recognition, you've got it. Your skull shape, hunter eyes, jaws, height, etc, all determine your sexual success, women don't fuck subhumanoids, blah blah blah. It's all rooted in reality and validated as a general trend. It's just a fucking retarded way of viewing the world that leads you to be less successful, not more successful. Tinder has a much, much higher attractiveness bar than cold…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/19 05:06 PM
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Yes and once you get what you need out of this community to fix your shit, get off reddit too. If you're playing reddit like a game and you're just competing for addictive internet validation points from strangers, and rationalizing it as "I'm just learning more and more, and contributing back to a community", then maybe it's time to shut down reddit too. Try to hop off reddit for a few weeks or months, block yourself off for a while after you've written down a few things to focus on. It does yo…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/19 02:28 AM
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inb4 i'm a piece of shit, but it's true. You're on this subreddit, so that shouldn't be an issue. Moralfags have the rest of reddit. I wouldn't LTR a woman who was psychologically damaged, regardless of the reason -- I wouldn't date a broke chick either. It's nothing personal. Men also already have a very strong drive to help and heal "broken women" and derive ego fulfillment from "fixing" their partner. Women do it, but so do men. Just avoid that whole mental trap for yourself, many betas are i…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/19 07:59 PM
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A guide can be written up and followed, but there's no way to "do" this, you have to just be it. There is no "practical applications" really, it's a state of being called prioritizing yourself first, always and ruthlessly so. You have to be self-absorbed and wrapped up in your own missions and goals and general life trajectory, and that path has to be completely unflinching and uncompromising. The best practical example I can give is genuinely not checking your phone because you're creatively en…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/19 01:48 AM
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Women can love you as much as a heroin addict loves heroin. If you make her feel good enough, she'll love you and support you while you're bringing home STDs, beating the shit out of her, spending her money, alienating her, etc, doing all sorts of horrible shit. Because women love the way you make them feel, and they love hitting those highs, they love that you give them those highs that validate their entire existence. I'm not even talking about sex or your dick game -- you give them raison d'ê…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/19 07:29 AM
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Because charismatic people have to "set the tone" in a step by step fashion, that leads people from a logical place to a more emotionally spiked place. The way the set the tone is by being slightly more of X and less of Y, and then the other person buys into to that frame and gets into that mood, and then they push X even further. In pick up and sales people call this buying temperature - you keep upping their buying temperature and then close on a high note, when their emotions are spiked. The …
/r/TheRedPill30/03/19 07:07 AM
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It will get you an IOI here or there. Up to you to convert that into something. More guys will notice than girls though - it's kind of like the girl doesn't know a lick of difference between a 60k BMW and a 200k BMW, she just sees BMW. It's not really more of a chick magnet than just having a nice watch, and in fact can work against you if you're being obvious about trying to impress via status symbols.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/19 08:05 AM
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It's doable. Because you're not expecting or worrying about if they give you the boot after a few years. We know logically women try to maximize what their SMV can bat for, but always remember it's still women's judgment piloting this hypergamy drive. Basically, yeah they have "female mate selection strategy" but women do retarded shit and justify it after (aka hamster).
/r/TheRedPill27/03/19 06:16 AM
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Charisma is best understood as a leading frame, but you're leading people towards desirable emotional states. You're setting the tone and vibe, and you're inducting people into that vibe. If me, one girl, and her friend are all talking and that other girl is a huge negative bitch, "charisma" is what lets me keep talking and bringing them both over into my emotional plane, not hers. Historically charismatic people do this too - usually charisma comes from being in situations where you have to con…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/19 06:08 AM
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Because these guys don't ever want to acknowledge and believe that brown dudes are out there fucking white bitches. They just want to complain and corroborate each other's loser perspective - aka they want to treat TRP like it's the incel community. If you try to help them, they don't believe it, and they get upset or mad that you're trying to explain the shit they asked you to explain. They have a weird complex about it, which comes from a place and needing validation in both their masculinity …
/r/TheRedPill24/03/19 08:36 PM
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I agree. Men should be able to rationally understand that something is negative or suboptimal, and admit to themselves that when they engage in it, it's generally mildly harmful. Then if you still do it, fine. I drink, but I don't justify it by acting like it isn't bad for me. Too many people on reddit dont understand the logical retardation of "well X person can drink a lot and he's ripped, so...." Cool, your fat ass on the otherhand might as well try shaving the excess cals and see what happen…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/19 07:29 AM
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Approach it from a mental / physical / emotional angle. Harden yourself physically by taking up a competitive sport, ie boxing. While lifting is great for the SMV boost, it doesn't simulate combat and force you to grapple with reality in as direct of a way as boxing. (If you are bad or out of shape or otherwise deficient, you wind up losing a lot, and this pain / humiliation puts pressure on you to work harder. Mentally, you should be doing something wherein your survival / success requires you …
/r/TheRedPill17/03/19 07:15 AM
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To cross the beta / alpha threshold, you must experience things that actually transform you and re-wire how you see yourself, your life, etc. You need to an actual experience that forces you to develop your own faculties, stop caring about who women like, and because you're fully engaged and passionate -- or even fighting for your own survival -- you don't have the attention span to your own insecurities and your own bitch quests for validation from the world. Knowledge is cool, but to actually …
/r/TheRedPill16/03/19 07:07 AM
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I read a lot and thus speak in a very literary way - I sense that turns girls off too. This probably does come off as tryhard and unattractive, as through you're excessively speaking with more thought and less naturally in order to sound impressive. You're misunderstanding my point though, I'm not saying "women don't understand that this is a form of intelligence". I'm saying it's literally not a form of intelligence. As reddit will show you, any college kid can speak pompously / write as though…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/19 05:31 AM
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The variable is super dicey and will become / has become VERY controversial to talk about. With emerging / growing industries generally being driven by the outliers in terms of intelligence and ambition and risk tolerance, we are hard coded to have a set up where 80-90% of senior leadership and top paid performers are male. Bringing up this variability is going to be equated with fighting with the "women at the helm" initiatives that are rampant in basically every hot field from tech to gaming t…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/19 07:09 AM
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This is not being intelligent, this is signalling intelligence - exactly what the dude above you told you. Being a top ranked player in fortnite or League of Legends (or chess, or Magic the Gathering, etc) takes intelligence, but telling girls your ladder rankings whatever will get you anti-attraction. Classical history and whatever your passions are, are about as relevant to female attraction as these above games. Women care about practical or applied intelligence, as reflected through the syst…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/19 06:59 AM
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This can be extended to testosterone in general - "high T" is a coveted alpha thing around here, but you'll also find your local state penitentiary full of high T males. Brain capacity / matter is one example, but men have several natural and societal factors that push them towards higher degrees of differentiation.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/19 06:47 AM
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yeah i still wonder why dudes choose to be in LTRs Because they wouldn't get pussy regularly otherwise. When they see a bitch of equal or even lesser SMV, they are quick to lock it down because they are so afraid of another 6 month dry spell. Most guys exist in a spectrum of dry spells punctuated with a random lay here and there, so when they get a little attention, they are rabid to convert that into a "sustainable pussy source". If you're a 5-7 SMV, then it sorta makes sense. Your best bet if …
/r/TheRedPill02/03/19 07:16 PM
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Because most "Chads" arent actually high school caricatures, they are just naturally attractive people who have more abundance with women, and no longer feel the need to compete or one up another dude. When I first fucked someone's bitch back in college, I felt like hot shit, like a dude in a rap video or something. But that was a product of me being a loser and me being eager to prove something, like prove that "I'm the one who fucks now, bitch". I would feel all superior because I would be lik…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/19 07:12 PM
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This is completely the wrong mentality. Your goal as a young man (and older man too) should be to be getting enough pussy such that you're not worried about passing up pussy. The whole end game here is to be A-OK dropping pussy - that is actually how you GET pussy. Being willing to drop pussy and being apathetic about any particular pussy -- any dude who's been actually getting results with TRP for a year or two, they should be working towards this as a goal. Women can feel that and it actually …
/r/TheRedPill01/02/19 05:27 AM
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Want to call out here that for a FR, you're doing a great job of self-assessment and being aware of bad thought patterns, which is refreshing and beneficial for other members. What I would recommend is understanding a few things: 1) Women do not operate logically or consistently. She gave up the pussy to two club strangers, and now she expects you to date her for it? For us, it's obviously inconsistent bullshit. For her, she feels like she is a good girl now, so she feels socially compelled to f…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/18 09:04 PM
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Imagine all of the traits of the perfect, habitual customer. Or in the modern age, a perfect, habitual content consumer. Does a perfect customer run out and buy whatever they see other customers buying? What type of consumer responds to sensationalist advertising? Does your perfect consumer use feelings of insecurity and a desire for social validation to purchase status symbols that they can't afford? If you're selling non-essential luxury items, don't you want customers who come with a co-signe…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 04:53 PM
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This goes to show that there is no sexual strategy stronger that FHF. Fuck Her Friends. There is nothing you can do to redeem a 15 year hard friendzoning where a girl doesn't even see you as having a penis. There is no game that will succeed here. Maybe a SMV raise from like 6 -> 9 will do it, but honestly a raw SMV raise is not going to be enough to fuck if youre a hard, sexual orbiter. Action that actually forces her to reconsider your SMV and makes her see fucking you as a socially validated …
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 04:40 PM
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Just delivering my observations and trying to refine it to a theory. Everyone can decide on their own if they want to make use of it or not or if it even correlates with ones experiences. Right, I am explaining to you why the theory is terrible in theory and even worse in practice. Even if a needy call / text could successfully control her behavior once in a while, it's still a bad strategy because it won't work the majority of the time, and more times than it will help, it will push the girl aw…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 03:06 PM
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As a general rule of thumb, you can't stop a girl from riding the CC, and you sure as shit can't stop her from riding the CC with texts, and you doubly-sure as shit can't stop her from riding the CC with beta needy texts. You are still in the frame of policing a woman's fidelity. This is a bad frame, not simply because it's beta, but because women are essentially children who want to do the thing they aren't supposed to do. They want what they are not getting - you provide emotional sustenance a…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/18 08:41 AM
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You are misreading my post - I am saying that these girls have stronger female game because they have been raised with the mentality of "get a rich guy", they are better adjusted to hypergamy than your average BP is at recognizing and dealing with hypergamy. It's not that they become whores, it's that whoring isn't a point of shame, it's a point of pride.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/18 03:12 AM
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This skit is so good because it was in the 80s. Women with no internet, no social media, etc, from countries who didn't have nearly as much media or information were still able to figure out how to come over as a bush bitch and walk out as a high status thot. Imagine now that most of these countries are developed / developing and they have all the same shit culture as we do, same social media exposure, same smartphone rates etc. Women in these countries aren't retarded country bumpkins, they kno…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 06:31 AM
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This is very true of basically any country where the national sport is "pimp your daughters out to rich men". These colombian girls chew up these fat balding pink round men and spit them out, these thai girls are finessing them out of cash for her "sick family back who needs medicine" and I find it hilarious. Like of course, this bitch has been training for this her whole life, she's Mayweather in the ring, and the only thing keeping her ego in check and keeping her level and in her "place" is t…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 06:27 AM
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People here do not understand what poverty / 3rd world upbringing does to people's psyches. They don't see it as wrong, these girls are desperate, it's their draft day, it's what they've been training for. They are often trying to provide for their parents or family, they often have stronger motivations to get the better lifestyle than you have to wake up and go the gym. They are more RP than you, but they are also still women so their are illogical and do batshit emotional shit too. I know a LO…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 06:14 AM
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It is definitely not worth it to maintain a blue pill mentality (I want to find a girl and settle down and get married) and combine it with another blue pill mentality (all girls in the phillipines / colombia / ukraine / thailand) are feminine and will treat me as an alpha), and then use a little sprinkle of RP strategy to try to make it happen. Fulfilling BP goals using RP ideas generally leads to cognitive dissonnance and dissatisfaction. You know the deal with your Columbian gf / wife, you kn…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 06:02 AM
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Ah, the good ol' "woman who is paid primarily in tips to be bubbly and friendly to a predominantly male clientele was receptive to my flirtations!" You're cutting and lifting 2 months. This is good. Congrats. But you don't need to be the the tall jacked huge chiseled guy to get girls - this is a common incel misconception. Take what you have now, start actually talking to real girls in the wild, and don't be obsessed with "value scanning" the room to score everyone from alpha to beta.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/18 05:47 AM
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Being red pill doesn't mean making some rambly chick statement with 10 "I'm going to hate myself for saying this, but...."s in there. Like who gives a singular shit about what Lindsay Lohan thinks about any subject whatsoever? She's the bitch who's taken 100 exec facials on the casting couch and doesn't have anything now to show for it, she was snorting coke of bruckheimer's dick and she's missed the train to get her deferred dicksucking benefits. She's not red pill, she's just being contrarian …
/r/TheRedPill10/08/18 05:29 AM
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I mean, the sticking your dick generally isn't the problem. The problem is either the lack of protection, or it's that you fucked up and tried to treat the ho like a housewife. If you were enchanted by a BPD girl, or drawn in by a crazy single moms story of always being abused and discarded by men, or you felt inspired to save or help a crazy girl not be crazy... and the result was that you got burned, then the fucking was not the issue. Again, the fucking is not the issue. The chucking was the …
/r/TheRedPill09/08/18 09:17 AM
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Weaker men need to have sex to build confidence. Building confidence will make them stronger men in the long run. Stronger men can take or leave sex, and when they do have sex, they actually are doing it out of wanting to fuck the girl, to enjoy the act of sex. Not out of a desire to validate themselves, feel cool, look badass to male friends, prove that they "got revenge" on the bitch cheerleader in high school, or defeated their inner demons. Sex for weaker men is an opportunity for exorcism. …
/r/TheRedPill09/08/18 09:05 AM
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Most people you develop friendships with won't really ever be your friend in the sense of they just enjoy you as a person and want nothing from you. Generally these are only friendships that are forged in childhood when you're both boys and you don't really have the capacity yet to think about value / validation / etc, and you just like each other in a boyish, slightly gay way. Or these are friendships forged by men depending on each other in serious shit (war, really tough industries, long time…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/18 02:44 AM
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I read this article and I know people who work at Riot. This is pretty much true tbh. The culture is correct - of course you should be passionate about gaming (and not fake passionate) to work at a gaming company. Of course you should be playing the product you work on. Of course assertive behavior and networking with your fellow superiors is more important than raw merit / intelligence when it comes to ladder climbing. It's all true pretty much - and it should be true. The type of culture Riot …
/r/TheRedPill08/08/18 02:25 AM
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Standard operating procedure as a tourist is never leave her alone with your valuables, watch her leave then piss :) Everywhere there's broke bitches, they are going to be trying some kind of finesse
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 07:40 AM
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This is very true - go to places like ljubljana in Slovenia, it's a beautiful uni town with water that grows 9s. Bratislava is a little touristy but good too - many of the bitches there you just bite the bullet, pay for a cheap dinner and drinks with them that will legit be great booze / food, then fuck them. Many girls there just need to hamster they've been taken out before the fuck.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 07:38 AM
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Take this philosophy and extend it to everyone. NO one gives a singular fuck about your failings and negative experiences, and they get negative vibes, they start to associate you with those negative traits (ie being cheated on, being dumped, being broke, being fired, etc). Never be fired, never be cheated on, never be the loser in your gay little stories. You control the narrative - make yourself the victor already, always, even when you're not. Yeah you got laid off. Tell your girl you quit. D…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 07:25 AM
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The biggest way that most people are poisoning their mind is by being on reddit on a daily basis. There should be no hamstering of it - if you use TRP as your daily entertainment or you crowdsource your perspective from a bunch of other men also crowdsourcing their perspective, you're poisoning your mind too. There are guys reading this now who spend so long reading TRP, incels, MRA shit, etc, that they legit won't go approach women because they don't think they are 9/10 ripped Chads. There are …
/r/TheRedPill24/07/18 07:01 AM
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I am surprised that this is controversial. "But but it's not sustainable for LTRs"... of course it fucking is. It's MORE important in a LTR. This is someone you love supposedly, you LTR'd them after all - push them to grow, push them to become better, don't push them to be happy. Happy women create problems and self-sabotage. Invested women - aka women who's challenges have been properly aligned with their capabilities - grow and improve their ability to be good partners. You have to let her sol…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 07:06 AM
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Women don't dislike a little fresh man smell, as long as you're sanitary and not actively bad smelling, over-showering, over-soaping, over-exfoliating, over-perfuming, etc, it's pointless. I used to always worry about this shit. But if you are high SMV, you're muscular, you're eating clean, getting water, etc, women will be smelling you and liking it. For example, at least half of the girls I've fucked have been turned on by a little ball smell, a little armpit smell, because it's a raw blast of…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 02:41 AM
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If you do not have money now, the best thing you can do is research and plan out a career path, make a 5 year plan. Getting a little gain here or there from investing, it's nice, but it shouldn't be the meat right now. For example, let's say you can get a job that will pay, say, 75k a year and give you the gold standard 6% 401k matching and -15% ESPP. I don't know what your degree is or where you are at in your career, but you need to be earning money to invest it. Focus on increasing salary, no…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/18 12:13 AM
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Modern life is essentially built around cram-packing in as much shit food down human gullets as possible, so that agriculture / pharmaceutical industries can maximize profits. The government is full of shills, all science is funded by people with a vested interest in the results (science is expensive, coca-cola isn't funding a study on aspartame unless it's going to help them). The western public has been bamboozled to an extent - everything, literally every mainstream processed food has corn sy…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 08:09 PM
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The problem with "TRP is about helping you actualize whatever life you want to live" is that when you are BP / low value / incel / beta / etc, you want retarded things. You don't know what you want, you just want avoidance of pain, happiness, ego fulfillment, and validation. So you hamster it into "I want X and Y". Which is fine and dandy, but when you try to recruit the entire sub to help twist and contort TRP ideology to help you get your BP goals achieved (validation, oneitis, feeling cool ab…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/18 07:43 PM
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This is massive, massive overthinking. Colombian girls dance like this, it doesn't necessarily mean you're a serious sexual contender. Only way to know is escalate. In my experience in colombia most non-working girls are happy to dance and drink with you if you're a part of their social scene (ie you're not a tourist / sex tourist), it's just culturally how it is, she can grind your dick for 10 mins then go to the bathroom and you see her leave with another dude. I wouldn't overthink it. Lead th…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/18 10:09 AM
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Yes - my posture and APT improved / almost near fixed by stretching hips and strengthening hams. Even though I train hams, they are weak from years of not being properly engaged when I deadlifted, squatted, walked / hiked, ran, etc. This is very common, and until you fix it, you cannot really get proper mileage out of any exercise involving legs. Tight hip flexors are a bitch, and they are unavoidable, you have tight hip flexors if you work a 9-5 seated job. For the vast majority of men, they ne…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/18 12:47 AM
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This is the most aspie shit that would totally work - my go-to strategy for tinder is to ONLY use on thursday / friday / saturday (thursday get your swipes in, friday / saturday you push for same night meetups after dinner). Schedule 3-4 of them for the same venue, and it has to be a venue where you can talk to girls organically to pass the time. (Girls are way more likely to meet you if you're like "I'm at X venue, it's pretty lit you should come out" - aka you're already there and it's already…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/18 12:41 AM
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Elliot is right about so many fucking things, but he's also become the same slimy internet snake oil salesmen that he would rail against. I remember he was trying to sell stool tests where you paid like 100 bucks to ship a shit sample to his uncle and he would give you a biological energy assessment of your shit. I had to unsubscribe from all his shit because instead of good content it was just all affiliate marketing. All these youtube whores are the same, whether they pump good content or not.…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 06:25 AM
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Go pick up women. Fuck, this entire anti-PUA circlejerk has reached hilarious extremes. If you can learn to develop a pipeline and lead attractive women through it, you can damn well convince some dude to buy a car, or some company to buy your shitty software. The reason men need to be going out and regularly getting laid with strangers from cold pick up, not social game, is because you learn shit like this very quickly. It's not as good as working in sales, obviously, but it's the next best thi…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 03:36 AM
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MGTOW, like many things, is fine when applied with an alpha mentality, by an alpha. Alpha here defined as a sexually successful male who's high SMV and can with 100% honesty know he can get high value girls. Now the problem is that literally every MGTOW I've ever met, the MGTOW philosophy (again, sound philosophy for alphas) was attracted to MGTOW because it makes them feel better about themselves. It feeds their hamster. They liked MGTOW precisely because they cant effortlessly get women. You h…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/18 01:21 AM
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This is some inspiring shit. To all yall NON-cancer having, NON-paralyzed, privileged indians and asians and short people bitching and moaning about how "game doesn't work" and "looks is the only way" and there's no way you can be alpha and be fucking women... it's time to just kill yaselves. Because a 5'4'' fucked up little cancer brown boy showed you it was possible. So if you still can't admit that you just need to take responsibility and fix yourself from the foundation up, then just off you…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 01:37 AM
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Elliot Rodger didn't need game, he needed therapy and perhaps a rite of passage / enlistment into some kind of challenge. He's a rich kid son of a hollywood producer living in LA riding the BMW his daddy bought for him, and he has decent facial aesthetics, he's lean, he's white looking, and his ONLY barrier to successful interactions with women is that socially he sounds fucking mental. And in this case, he socially comes off as an autist because internally he is obsessed with the pussy and gett…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/18 09:24 AM
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OK, so you're driven to "prove the haters wrong" and feel cool in front of your friends. That's human, you want to be that dude with a hot chick as your girlfriend. You want to get a girlfriend because it's a thing people do. Well, you're not alone, this is why most people date. It's a shitty reason and I'd tell you that the validation doesn't mean shit when you have it, and it won't feel as good as you think it will. But you have to know that to experience it. So let's answer the quetion - you …
/r/TheRedPill10/07/18 08:41 AM
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How old are you? How many women have you fucked? How is the social status of having a girlfriend going to improve your life? Why do you want to be in a relationship? Are you lonely? You want to seem cool and peer-approved by having some arm candy? Post this to asktrp, but be ready to be ripped a new asshole because generally the type of guys who WANT to be in a relationship are 100% the guys who really shouldn't be in one.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/18 01:16 AM
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I'm not talking about OP specifically, I'm talking about in general. If you can get metoo'd at work and be fine walking out to a better job, then sure, go for that grocery store pussy. OPs problem wasn't that he was fucking the chick, it was that he was fucking the chick and caught feelings and acted irrationally because he had caught feelings. Well, what do you think happens to most of these guys or girls when they are fucking their office piece? Either the guy comes out too beta (as OP did, in…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/18 01:06 AM
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Then you deal with the consequences. Shit isn't like it was 70 years ago. Don't get metoo'd and then bitch about how it's not your own damn fault - generally when women get hit with alpha dick and then it becomes clear to them that you know you're too good for a LTR with them, and you just wanted her as your slampiece, they get pissed off and act irrationally and spitefully. When you're a lower value man, you have to worry about your approach coming off as creepy and that getting reported to HR.…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/18 05:21 PM
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No, dear god no, why would we want equality of outcome? The concept of every man having their one loyal wife, like some sort of Oprah "and you get a woman! you get a woman!" socialism is the stuff of incel fantasy. TRP is an inherently libertarian understanding of the world and the sexual marketplace. To each according to their SMV. To the victor goes the spoils - and most of you cannot really be victors, you cannot really have the spoils. Because you are not willing to do what's required to bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/18 09:30 PM
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Judges regularly chuck prenups for a variety of reasons. It's not an entirely unreasonable practice in theory, it's just of course applied by a disgusting, heavily biased system. For example, let's say you draft a prenup saying that in the event of divorce, you pay no alimony and no child support. That will be chucked. Because while she agreed the to terms, the terms are not something that the court would deem fair to the child. (This is an extreme example to show the point). Let's say the prenu…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/18 08:06 PM
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The problem with whoring as an incel is that if you look at most incels, they are not actually hurting from a lack of pussy per se, but they are fractured by a lack of attraction and attention from women. That's what makes them so sad - they've never known what it was like to have a girl genuinely feel attracted to them, and pay them attention, and laugh at their jokes, and just be bubbly and flirty with them. They are more desperate than we could ever imagine to just have girls like them for wh…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/18 07:55 PM
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We should tell them 3 things. They have 3 valid options. Option 1: Try to succeed anyway. Go full bald, get ripped, go see a stylist and good barber, go take body language and voice classes to project a dominant voice and frame. It's doable - it might take 3-4 years, but it's doable. I mean, look, if you want to do it, there IS a way. I fucked my nose up big time in high school wrestling and smashing it, and when I had the money, I got surgery to fix it, and paid out of pocket for an out-of-netw…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/18 09:39 AM
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Why. We know yall thirsty ass motherfuckers won't listen when the bitch is fine enough. 99% of guys have no concept of selectivity, they are in scarcity mode, and they don't like to venture out of their comfortable social circles for pussy, they just orbit and lust over whatever is in front of them. And when you work 8+ hrs a day and you don't go out and you don't have the balls to talk to hot girls at the grocery store and shit, the only hot girls you have access to are through work. There is n…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 11:31 PM
3

Yes, people act like everything discussed here in TRP wasn't around on various pua forums back in the day. TRP is a repackaging of concepts - we say beta, they said afc. We say Chad, they said natural. Etc. The reason PUA was probably the greatest breakthrough in the mens movement is because it did the impossible, which is prove that in the height of the materialistic 00s, a nerdy beta male could learn to sleep with hot women. Period, no if ands or buts, it is possible. Even today, if you load u…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 06:20 PM
15

By focusing on self-improvement, generally you don't really self improve. The inside, core "you" is built brick by brick through experiences. Go out and fuck 100 girls using PU - that will change you, that will cause self-improvement. Strategy talk is important because the only way you'll learn how to be confident socially and deal with women from a high status perspective is if you actually succeed socially to the point where you can have those interactions. See what I mean, does a neckbeard wi…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 07:13 AM
3

Just for example, if I'm addicted to the sugar, what should I do? Simply drop sugar? No way, it will not work. Should I drink a spoon of an olive oil? It is fucking disgusting. Next, drop alcohol. How the hell is that easy? Drop energy drinks - ok, and what if I have a habit - I am tired and I drink a bottle of a red bull rush or whatever this shit is being called this day. How can I live without it? Drink coffee? Jerk off to become energised? Should I say "fuck off" to everyone who asks me to j…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 06:41 PM
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"It's a lot of real G's doing time, cause a groupie bit the truth and told a lie"
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 03:28 AM
2

I mean, OPs momma did him a solid, he could have had billy beta genes in him
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 03:21 AM
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Listen to this. True shit. Most of your beloved single mothers just tried and failed to keep a Chad, and then demonized the dad to you, when really he's just a good dude who wouldn't put with your mommas shit.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 03:21 AM
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The problem with TRP and married TRP is that they go on about dread game this, dread game that. "Go nuclear" etc. When your marriage is in the toilet because you're a depressed has-been beta and she's bored and wants more, and treats you with disrespect, is meeting with a lawyer behind your back, etc... then what "dread game" can the beta really pull? None, because he has exposed himself as lower SMV and undesirable by other women. There is no dread game for that situation, there is only actual …
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 03:17 AM
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Don't run beta bucks game, it's a bad deal even if it's all you can get. If you can't be the AF, then go pussyless until you make some money, get below 12% bf, and learn good bodylanguage / voice tone. I'd rather go pussyless than engage with the sexual market as a BB.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/18 04:07 AM
9

Yes, this is the extent I would go with for a friend that wasn't either very close or family. Think about what type of guy gets into that situation - the type of guy who was not cut out to be the dude who can take charge of himself and his woman. Knowledge is only going to make him more aware of how he's been weak and cucked by his own faults, and this will make his brain literally implode. He can't think beyond the general and vague. Give him a teaser if he's someone who's welfare you genuinely…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 01:52 AM
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Hopefully now you understand TRP advice isn't about the girl, it's about you. When I give advice like that, it's not like I'm trying to assess the girl and whether or not she'll cheat in the future. I'm assessing you - what does it mean for you if you accept back a girl that burned you? What does that do to your growth? TRP is here to challenge you, to help you take the pain up front, to the chin, now. So rather than defering your pain, you take it on the chin now - you go through the pain of br…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 06:03 AM
2

With women. Entitlement isn't going to help you pass the MCATs. Entitlement is going to help you fuck a high SMV woman. Believing that you deserve her time, believing that she will respond to you well because you are you, prioritizing yourself first, and being the prize is the core of TRP *as it pertains to women*. No one is saying this shit is going to get you ripped or make you money. It's not "being like women" - but since you want to interpret that way, let's run with it. When you talk to th…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 05:52 AM
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Being entitled and comfortable enough to just show up and expect her to do shit for you is the definition of an alpha frame with women. Entitlement is the single most important RP concept right after understanding the concept of SMV/SMP - the #1 problem with most guys is they don't feel entitled, they aren't selfish, they aren't narcissistic, and they resent women for being all of those things.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 09:31 PM
3

Generally if you push obnoxious logistics on a woman (drive 30 mins to my place, then I'll take you to this 2$ taco joint near me, etc) then you filter out who's trying to fuck anyway. Sometimes I'll invite myself over just to see if she's DTF, or if she is and the logistics are actually bad, she'll say "I have a roommate we share rooms lol". It sounds dumb, but push obnoxious demands on women, they either say no in which case you probably weren't getting pussy anyway, or they say yes. When they…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 09:29 PM
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This is why I don't think of women as lying. They don't lie. They convince themselves and then they deeply believe their version of events and history that allows them to perceive themselves as whatever they want to be perceived as. Then when they tell you something false, it's not a lie to them because they actually believe it. Obviously we know it's a lie if we're smart - if you have the experience to read women, and you are humble enough to realize that regardless of your SMV (or even because…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 07:48 PM
14

The more alpha you become, the more comfortable you are being polarizing and offensive, and you also learn to take quick risks right off the bat. You value your time, you don't have time for the safe route. For me, I like the cards to be on the table quick - she knows damn well if she wants to fuck or not, I'm going to find out as cheaply and efficiently as possible. TRP will help you be louder, more aggressive, more comfortable, more direct. You'll have a higher SMV and generate attraction, and…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 08:42 AM
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There is never any reason to take any kind of conservation like this at all seriously. Simply by answering it is with candid honesty, like you were actually trying to logic through what the right or true answer would be based on your actual morals... simply by doing that, you communicate the wrong things. I know it sounds extreme, but they reacted badly because you conveyed low value, low confidence, and low social IQ. The fact that you have been in this conversation 10 times with the same resul…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 08:25 AM
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I have watched it all. It is great, but the material is not what is great. The way Jordan sells the course and the material is great. It is similar to the "lambo in my garage" guy on youtube. Tai or whatever. His original video is a masterpiece of marketing. You can learn more about viral marketing and ad psychology from dissecting that video than by actually taking his course. SLS is really good and I recommend it. Mind you I don't think a lot of it is stuff you want to directly apply to red pi…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 05:55 AM
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I mean, that's not really true, that's something people giving seminars say. The most important thing is that you understand how to fit the product's offers to whatever the needs / desires are of the client. If you're selling shit, say a shakeweight, and you can sell it to the human desire to get maximal results while avoiding work in a minimal amount of time, then you will sell like crazy. Your SMV is the product, your game is marketing, it's how well you sell the product. Great products are ea…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 05:48 AM
2

I feel like older dudes do best with either nerdy shy girls or with trashy golddigger girls (the latter for obvious reasons)
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 05:59 AM
5

Exactly. The nature of life is that betas pay for the collective fallout brought about by alpha "sinning". When corporate alphas dodge taxes and trade favors with political alphas, your economic betas - especially the relatively successful hardworking upper-middle class betas - pay the ~46% federal + state taxes to keep the machine running. When alphas take advantage of hookup culture to run train on 16-25 year old women and leave them as dick-widows, guess who has to cherish the scraps and put …
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 05:57 AM
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I've seen older dudes get reasonable quality without paying for it. Typically older guys get it through having situational value - ie within some ecosystem they have access to younger women, and that ecosystem gives them value to bat with. For example they are senior at the company and they chat up the intern whos eager to impress them, they are professors within the university ecosystem, they are rich dudes who sponsor poor hotties, they are providing some service that puts them in contact with…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 05:48 AM
3

No most Chads aren't dating hot girls. Girls know damn well they are supposed to hook up, and date down. The guys they hook up with are generally always higher SMV, the guys they date are lower SMV or equal. That's really as simple as it gets - you want to date them? Don't focus on becoming the AF in the AFBB equation.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 05:59 AM
3

I don't miss the point, I'm literally addressing the point that tech is biased against Chads. It's not. It's biased against socially retarded Chads, like OP. Chad doesn't have to overcompensate with nerdiness to gain approval - he just has to be an actual nerd in the sense of being able to relate and geek out about tech and tech culture with nerds. That is not unfair to expect from someone out the gates - and even if it was, so what, life is unfair. Inclusive / diversity etc etc is obviously hyp…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/18 09:53 AM
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No, he won't be a pariah unless he is socially retarded or unable to swallow his pride and behave in a relatable way. For example, when Star Wars dropped, a lot of people in the office were talking about it. I still haven't seen the last one, because I thought the first new SW was hot garbage, and frankly I think it's a bit gross that grown ass men are still so into SW, when it's clearly a disney film aimed at teens and particularly teen girls. But regardless, I don't have to enter in those conv…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/18 07:35 PM
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The problem was not that they thought of you as a meathead, the problem is that you don't know how to build rapport and manufacture "culture fit" with people who don't resemble you. This is your failing, not theirs. Companies value culture fit, I worked for a big 4 or whatever out of college before moving to startup, you didn't not get the job because you "weren't willing to act like a beta male". You didn't get the job because you probably displayed poor CULTURAL FIT. I could do a post on what …
/r/TheRedPill28/04/18 08:43 AM
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Social media is very effective as a marketing tool for your SMV if your SMV is already really high, and doubly so if you have some sort of local fame / status in your city. For 99% of men, it's a better option to go talk to women literally anywhere in real life. This debate always comes up on TRP and it's really simple. If you are already famous / shredded / GL / big social network / lotta social proof, then social media is a great amplification tool. If you don't have any of that, then you are …
/r/TheRedPill27/04/18 06:35 AM
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The reason you need to put evolutionary pressure on yourself is very simple. Civilization is essentially the guarding against evolutionary threats (predators, starvation, rival tribes, etc). You're under no real pressure to be fit, jacked, ripped, smart, cunning, socially perceptive, etc etc. These are all traits that men would develop in order to navigate danger and stay alive in a world of threats. But we have eliminated most of these threats - you can be an unfit sack of stupid shit and every…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 05:50 AM
10

Yes, this is exactly what I am talking about, and this is exactly the mentality that will stunt your growth. I know it sucks, but you have to understand and accept this, or really it will fuck you up. Just understand that A) it will get easier. Right now you work and grind for the pussy because you're higher SMV than before, but still not really high enough. You've got better game than before, but not great. You're not better than your Chad friend just because you fucking read TRP and did the li…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/18 05:59 AM
7

It is completely based on the experiences you A) have been through and B) are willing to go through. For example, you take a soft doughy 18 year old Israeli kid, put him through tough bootcamp and 2 years of mandatory military service, where he's repeatedly put in harms way, and when he comes out, he'll have changed a lot. Now you take a 18 year old kid and have him do Krav Maga and read about manliness and lift, and in 10 years do you think he'll have grown as much as that kid did in 2 years? (…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/18 05:47 AM
2

Being a massively aggressive dickhole with fake confidence, loud as fuck voice, and assertive body language will at least polarize women enough that you quickly cleave them into 2 camps, the ones that you could fuck and the ones who you never will. It's HUGE progress from timid beta. Obviously its cringey and not "alpha" in the idealized way we understand alpha, but developing these traits will definitely get you more pussy. Aggressive betas are better than passive betas.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 10:12 PM
1

Why does it make you so mad that TRP / PUA say this? This is the better question - it doesn't really matter if obese men can fuck through sheer non-physical SMV (status, money, game, personality, fame, etc). We know some of them can, and we also that being fat is a huge, huge minus, even if you have game. but the better question is why do you (and your general crowd who talk about looksmaxing and how game doesn't matter) feel so strongly about it? Did a fat dude fuck your bitch? Are you fat and …
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 10:08 PM
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I mean if you understand Chad to be a EFFORTLESS NATURAL, then it's very clear that by virtue of being here you won't be Chad. Chad is essentially a Gatsby-like construct, a thing imagined up by teenagers about how they want to be. Chad's are people who float to the top naturally, by way of superior genetics, superior upbringing, luck, whatever it is. But that's not ever really going to be any of us, because if it was, we wouldn't have found ourselves on here. The blessing/curse of being a non-n…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 10:01 PM
10

Who gives a shit about "how things should be" certainly not the court, certainly not her lawyer, certainly not the government. "A signed prenup should stand on its own" -> Obviously, but that's not the case. "If this is the case then I should be able to default on loans and get out of it because..." -> OK you try that defense. Practicality and pragmatism. Avoid the assrape by drafting a prenup that isn't toilet paper - I'd rather have as many of my franklins as possible at the end of the day ins…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 09:38 PM
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You just need social experience. Think of it like lifting. Your social muscles are weak as fuck because you've never pushed them to grow. So you suck ass with women, just admit it, I suck dick with women. I suck at socializing with women. I can't even go talk to them at a convention where they are literally there to talk to me. Be honest with yourself (as you are doing in this post). Audit your skills. Then every day if you actually grind on this, the same day everyday you lift, you will improve…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 07:25 PM
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For this reason most lawyers will advise you that "that bitch gets nothing" prenups can be drawn up, but aren't your best bet at actual asset protection. Your best bet is something like A) assets earned prior stay seperate, assets gained during the marriage (or growth on assets owned previously) is split at some rate that is pretty fair to her. And your prenup should pre-emptively include some alimony with limitations on for how long. A good prenup is one that doesn't "fuck her over" but rather …
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 02:46 PM
3

Good. Next time do it the first time. PUA's greatest contribution to mankind might be the 3 second rule - if you bitch out in the first 3 seconds of thinking "damn that girls hot I should go chat her up" then you already start to make it so that your chances are slimmer when you make your move. Think about it this way - a hot girl at a Starbucks notices a customer who checks her out subtly and respectfully, but checks her out all the same. Every couple weeks, he doesn't say anything, but one tim…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 07:26 AM
13

The bottom line is no one is going to force you to really do anything in our society now. You want to not do shit and live in a chilled out state literally your whole life, never really having to critically think and spending 8 hrs a day working, 8 sleeping, and 8 playing video games and smoking weed? You can do that and no one will stop you. No one will give a shit, no one will give you a rite of passage. No one told you when to run, you missed the starting gun This is how life is now - growing…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/18 08:16 AM
13

Hope the prof fails this, this is unrelated to HCI or the topic, has no general argument or overarching thesis that you defend or conclusion you build towards, and you have no idea how to organize a paragraph, which is likely a result of you not knowing what you want to say. In fact, you anticipate the negative response similar to how redditors say "I'll probably get downvoted but..." which comes off to a prof as "I know that I'm not doing the assignment, but I think my deep thoughts are so impo…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/18 04:48 AM
5

Yeah this shit happens, I used to have a pick up blog back in the day that was reasonably popular, told literally one person in the world and convinced him to go out with me and stop being a whiny mopey bitch. It was all good for a while until I fucked the girl he had a crush on (but of course no real dibs on since she didn't know he even had a penis), and then boom, the chain starts and the girl I was with suddenly is reading posts I wrote about how I fucked her. You have to think about WHY as …
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 08:28 AM
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Upload a pic of your body shirtless and we'll figure out reallllllll quick whether you could benefit best by some more time spent in the gym with sweaty men. You can go biking running snowboarding and mma to your hearts content. Do you know what those guys at high levels to for strength? They lift too. Sprinters? They lift dude. IDK about snowboarders, but MMA fighters definitely incorporate resistance training. And let's be fuckin real, you're not going to snowboard and MMA or do any of this sh…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 08:14 AM
3

If you are skinnyfat and untrained, you should be putting on muscle and losing fat at the same time. Noobie gains are legit - and so are "I got fat as fuck after being in shape" rehab gains. For example, in 2015 I was 225 lbs at 6'2', and about 24% bodyfat. Fat, but I had been rationalizing my weight because I was strong and still felt like I looked solid, and I was still getting female attention. Hamster overdrive. At this point cutting is the obvious answer, but even on my cut, I gained some m…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 06:28 AM
3

Alright, I'll bite. I read about this Snake Diet on the website - what I'm seeing is a lot of sound stuff that I've personally seen enough evidence through leangains 16/8 style fasting to believe in some of it. But why is 48 hrs optimal or superior or necessary at all? That's an absurdly long fast and while I don't believe your muscles will cannibalize themselves, what is the benefit? It's been proven you can stay lean on conventional meal planning or normal intermittent fasting, so what is the …
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 06:01 AM
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My dad has diabetes and won't get up off his ass to lose weight. 2 years ago I figured I'm he's going to be the insulin junkie, I'll be the plug. Bought novo-nordisk and bristol myers stock and they've both done pretty well. Figure these obese children we grew up hearing about are now obese adults now and they're going to get their insulin, and if they can't, then we'll make the taxpayers fund it for them.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 05:48 AM
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Yeah learned this shit quick in 2009 or so with PUA shit. GF at the time: OMG have you heard of PUA this is so disgusting, how could this ever work? Me: Wow they sound like a bunch of faggots. This shit must only work on insecure women with no self-esteem."
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 05:42 AM
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Yeah, this is a "women like bald guys who are muscular / fit / alpha". It's not that baldness gives you bad boy sex appeal, it's that bad boy sex appeal (on a guy that happens to be bald) still works. This is generally the case with all "some women like.." Some women like nerdy guys... who are socially cool and make bank working on their passion projects, have a kickass life and are fit. In this case it's the latter traits that matter. Pretty much all "some women likes.." can be thrown straight …
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 08:51 AM
2

Women are driven by impulses that are rational. They themselves, however, are not rational actors. For example, they (rational evolutionary behavior) feel attraction for high SMV males. No shit sherlock. But they are still women, and thus prone to making terrible judgments about a man's real SMV, because they have the ability to hamster. A 101 example would be a hot high school cheerleader who's fucking some skeevy loser 27 year old male teacher, because in her eyes, he's worldly and experienced…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 06:44 AM
4

In the words of Tupac, 'real niggaz do what they want to do, bitch niggaz do what they can'. Well done dude. So many times back when I was too retarded to realize that arguing with incels was a waste of time, I'd try to explain that while most people can never be 10s, pretty much anyone can be a solid 8. You went from being headed towards a early (and wide) grave, and now you're well above average. TRP is sometimes just about wanting the right things, and then doing what you want to do.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/18 07:46 AM
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Roosh claims this shit all the time because it's easy to sell, like the MAGA Trump narrative. Things were great then, they are shit now, it's because of WIDESPREAD SOCIETAL IDEOLOGICAL DEGRADATION! The betas have been robbed of their women! The sexual market has changed. It's always moving forward. Sucks to get left behind, but look at this way, betas males are coal workers, they are the factory workers of yesteryear, the employees made irrelevant by the forward forces of market change. The sexu…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/18 07:42 AM
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Losing weight is a matter of diet. Period, all of you have to do is eat less food; if the scale doesn't go down, you ate too much. If you're depressed get off reddit, get off social media, go caveman. Reduce the number of things you have to think about, focus on doing 2 things well. Sleeping and eating. If you get that straight, you build a platform of decent life habits. Then add in weightlifting, just do literally any program that has lifts that accomodate your injury. It doesn't matter how op…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/18 07:24 AM
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"I have done everything except the hard important part, please give me credit"
/r/TheRedPill27/03/18 05:28 AM
2

This wouldn't get you very far with dudes either - guys will just think you're a weaselly little autist who can't real social situations. The lesson from that isn't "don't mess with the female hive mind" its don't be so eager for a little social validation that you throw someone under the bus, and make them feel like an idiot for thinking you were worth talking to about anything. What was the plan, Carol is indebted to you for revealing Amy's backstabbing ways so Carol dumps her long time work f…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 09:34 AM
1

The best way is to have fun with the dynamic. In this case OP was trying to fuck on girl 3. Girl 3 is probably somewhere between Sarah and Cunt in terms of status. By simply busting on girl 3 and having a fun vibe with her, Cunt will immediately try to react to the attention going towards a new lower status girl. Which gives you all the power. Specifically if you're all in a set like at a table or at a bar where you can't break off girl 3, then you're best bet is to tilt your body language away …
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 09:29 AM
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The problem here is NOT that you white knighted. The problem here is that you displayed your social incompetence by failing to identify the group dynamic and vibe with it. For example, if the group dynamic is that Cunt is the queen bee and Sarah is the punching bag, then by stepping in and standing up for Sarah, you're showing you don't understand the social dynamic. They have a certain friend dynamic - it's kind of like if you're hanging out with black dudes and they call each other nigga and t…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 09:23 AM
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The fact that posts like these need to be made amongst a sea of "wow have some respect, this man is a hero for his selfless sacrifice!" on TRP is a bad sign. Things done changed....
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 09:11 AM
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You can't be taught this skill; it has to be learned by tons of experience in high stakes (or at least some stakes) environment. It's similar to why you can't learn to be emulate sociopath behavior by reading wikipedia. Your best bet is to get into a high stakes industry (sales, management, consulting, etc) where your ability to persuade, push, and keep people moving is required for you to get anything done.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 07:06 AM
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Pretty much all girls don't give a shit about risk prevention if the guy is hot enough, and vice versa for guys with hot girls. I've had a bunch of girls ask me to fuck raw or just be like "that's OK" if I didn't have a condom. Back in my retarded years I would go raw a lot, like it's a miracle I'm clean, and pretty much if she wants you bad enough she doesn't give a shit. She's more likely to insist the stable boyfriend uses protection compared to say, the club player dude who's having sex with…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 07:03 AM
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Honestly no man, not really, it's a bad strategy. You are in college or HS, yes? The nerdy girls or gamer girls aren't really always fucking the gamer guys. You see, as a guy your dating pool is limited to the girls in your clique - the anime guy ONLY has exposure to anime girls. But what happens is the girls who are in these areas (anime, cosplay, gamergirls, etc) start getting attention from external guys from higher value groups. Trust me, these girls trade up when the time comes - not many o…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/18 04:48 AM
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Zuckerberg is/was incredibly intelligent in how he identified a specific need and took the best aspects of various emerging social platforms and mashed them together into something. Facebook itself may suck ass now, and IMO it always did, but he as an entrepreneur and CEO has for the most part still done a brilliant job. You can't separate your own hatred for what is most likely your own beta insecurities from Zuck. Facebook is trash. Zuckerberg himself was driven, ambitious, intelligent, and cr…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/18 03:34 AM
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Hot girls go where the value is. Value to young hot girls is: excitement, attention, money, drugs, danger, hot guys, rich guys, etc etc. So your social circle has to have some of those elements. For example you should go to parties, you should have friends who are partiers and can bring girls too - i.e. if all your friends are low value losers or antisocial or introverted, well, you become entrenched in a social circle of loserdom with no females. But you don't have to follow traditional frat / …
/r/TheRedPill22/03/18 02:54 AM
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This is all great advice for a 17 year old to follow. I'd be working at a gas station or some shit if I hadn't gotten a good scholarship (born poor), and all I had to do was keep playing a sport and try hard in school. I remember thinking at the time how much I was busting my ass, how terrible practice and HW and all this shit was, but in reality, it's a 1 unit of effort now -> 100 units of reward later guarantee. Pick a good major, suck up to profs if you have to, go to their office hours and s…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/18 07:17 AM
29

Being alpha is being at the top of a sexual and social pyramid. That is it - the alpha male of the group is the leader and the highest value'd individual in that group. Therefore when we say "that's alpha" it's really like "these are behaviors that correlate with men who dominate the social and sexual pyramids." Alphas can be incredibly disrespectful or they can be respectful, it's irrelevant - they can be raging douches or good guys. Their alphaness or lack thereof is defined by their value, po…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/18 06:21 AM
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Testosterone levels are not as cut and dry as many people think, for example most docs will say that a healthy testosterone range is anywhere from around 250ng/dl to 1000 ng/dl. So while someone who is on the lower end of the test spectrum could boost their levels with exercise and diet and sleep, avoiding stress, etc, there is only so much that can be done. Likewise some people genetically just have higher testosterone. That is not to say that test levels are purely genetic, but it's a combinat…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/18 09:53 PM
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It's a different meaning, OP at over 6 ft under 140 lbs likely did have some sort of hormonal issues, low T, etc. Lifting and trying to gain muscle mass if you genuinely have low T due to some medical disorder is shitty. Medically prescribed TRT is not bodybuilding level blasting, and it's probably simply restoring his testosterone to that of a normal healthy male. In fact, the sole value I would take from this post is if you have low T symptoms, go ask a few different doctors about TRT and coll…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/18 06:16 PM
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You haven't yet realized that women derive their concept of who they are externally. Her toxic family = her concept of who she is and where she stands. Which means she isn't going to just choose you over them because you said so. She doesn't respect you. And why should she, you presented these options like a bitch - women don't respond well to options and decisions and "your actions have consequences!" type logic. That logic is literally masculine logic, it's if/then autistic programmer logic bu…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/18 11:26 PM
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No, walking away shows his power to walk away. Ultimatums are negotiating tools that work (or don't work) based on whether or not they put the fear of god into the bitch. In this case, she didn't actually believe the consequences, she didn't actually believe her disrespect had any consequences, so his ultimatum was impotent beta rage. Kinda like saying "IF YOU CHEAT AGAIN, I'LL DUMP YOU" after she cheated. Impotent.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/18 11:13 PM
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"Wouldn't it be a lot more RP to... never use RP to improve one self? Would it be more RP to follow RP, or would it be less RP to follow RP because it means I am easily affected by others?" ---> You have very little actual life experiences, and most of your thoughts about what "the red pill" or "sexual dynamics" or "value" is has been formed by reading reddit (which is 90% fanfiction, really) and these 1-2 experiences with women. You need to go out into the real world and not worry about forming…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/18 07:44 PM
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Buy the book Way of the Superior Male, read the first chapter, "Live as Though Your Father was Dead" and then do what you want with the rest of the book. If you internalize that chapter, it will literally help with everything in your life, especially everything youre writing about. It doesn't mean you ignore your dad or you love him less. He's your dad, people would literally kill for a present father. It does mean that you don't base your concept of how the world works, who you are as a person,…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/18 02:48 AM
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Women like changing feels. They don't want to feel one type of way for too long. Make them feel sad so they can appreciate feeling happy, and vice versa - they rely upon men to give them a full emotional spectrum or they start acting up. If it ever seems like you're with a bitch and she's acting like she's trying get smacked across the face, then that's how you know you need to put her in a negative mood for a while and let her marinate.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/18 01:53 AM
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Farmers walks won't make your traps as sore as other exercises because while the time under tension is massive, there's no real eccentric movement, and that's where your muscle really gets the majority of the tearing. Do 10x10 shrugs with heavy enough dumbbells, but not so heavy that you can't do a very long, slow eccentric movement - you will be so sore that your t-shirt falling on your traps will cause you pain.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 11:12 PM
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Many nice guys are actually nice in the sense of they want her to be happy, they want everyone to win, they want others interests to be fulfilled first, and they can't feel comfortable if there's tension of awkwardness or impoliteness. The trope of nice guys not really being nice is overstated in my opinion - there are a lot of nice guys who are genuinely nice people, and they will help you out and they do care about others. They are progressive, enlightened snowflakes who want to make the world…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 11:09 PM
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Hell yeah, my top 3 exercises for any guy interested in becoming more masculine is deadlifts, farmers carries, and pullups. Thick yoke, solid back, V taper, bicep and forearm development. Corrects all your office worker posture issues and imbalances, and it adds the width and thickness. Supplement with some rear delt raises and shoulder presses, you'll build a thick, tapered back and rounded, wide shoulder caps. This is the key, this is the golden ratio. Obviously do all the other shit too (benc…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 07:32 PM
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It's a common theme amongst reddit and it has roots in movies/tv, which is how most of these redditors develop their world view. Essentially any strong male who is willing to fight hard against some social grain is "damaged" and a "sociopath". Kind of like every guy who's a womanizing playboy actually is damaged and unhappy and has momma issues. The guy does come off a little retarded sometimes, and I think he has a super simplistic view that will bite him in the butt (that part where he's descr…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/18 10:21 PM
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Crazy. The only reason this guy was able to do the smart thing despite the heaps and heaps of people telling him to feel ashamed is that he seems vaguely aspie himself from his comments. On some level to deal properly with a sociopathic system (lawyers, family court, visitation agreements, no fault divorce, alimony, child support, women, etc) you have to be able to think sociopathically yourself. Scorched earth - burn it to the ground and rebuild. Because if you don't play to win versus someone …
/r/TheRedPill13/03/18 10:12 PM
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Being introverted is objectively worse for some pursuits, better for others. If what you want to achieve (ie, have the most sex with the hottest women possible), then being extroverted will help you. There's no point hamstering "I'm just introverted" - the entire point of TRP is that men can change their behaviors and personality. Accepting yourself as you are is fine for things that are fixed - height and race for example. For things that can be changed, and have a real effect on your success i…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/18 08:49 AM
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Women are much better at transference, and they can transfer the feelings they have for one man onto the next man, and quickly plug whatever emotional or mental holes existed. Her narrative and identity quickly gets patched, and the status quo for her rolls onwards
/r/TheRedPill02/03/18 06:34 AM
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"I explained I wanted to take my time and commitment was implied through (past commitment behaviors)" This is terrible masculine logic. Women don't keep a spreadsheet of past times where you proved commitment. She cheated on you because IN THAT MOMENT, the other guy offered something she wanted, and in that moment she could have her cake and eat it too. What you did for her in the past? Irrelevant and actually, it's non-existent too. Women don't have memory in the spreadsheet sense - there's no …
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 07:17 AM
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This is all absolutely true, but the best way to deal with any attempts at wrangling out commitment and defining the transactional nature of the relationship is to not take it seriously. It's just a stupid shit test, just like any others, and the goal is to suss out how beta you really are. Because deep down she knows if you are willing to commit to her, you aren't really all that cool, are you? That's it, it's just an opportunity to have fun. I don't view it as a black mark against her, because…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/18 08:57 AM
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3 things - A. Weak male leadership (weak husbands make weaker fathers to their kids) B. Pussy pass. No one punishes them for bad behavior = they believe bad behavior is the way to get what they want. C. Rationalization - aka as we know it, hamstering. Women (and people really) are predisposed to try to take as much credit for successes as possible, and as little responsibility for failures. I.e. If something good happens, I made it happen. If something bad happens, it's that guys fault, it's not…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/18 09:22 PM
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There is one good thread that's come out of this Weinstein thing and it's the thread about Weinstein himself and how his apex status combined with extreme neediness essentially gollumized him. This is what I would recommend men learn from - try to understand why these celebrities who have money and power beyond your wildest dreams ruin their lives by needing that SPECIFIC girl to suck their dick. The #metoo, like most things twitter / women cook up, is not worthy of attention. What IS interestin…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/18 09:05 AM
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There's no magic solution; the only way to become perfectly internally validated is to experience your own ability to get - and keep - whatever it is you feel you deserve. You become comfortable with a 10/10 when you know you can get one by next week - that's when you don't care about losing the girl you have. There's no other way. I spent a lot of time trying to find other ways, and it's why I think it took me 10 years to actually get to a point in life where I felt like I actually perceived my…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/18 07:44 AM
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This is something that middle school girls actually instinctively understand - you become uncool and whatever the female equivalent of a "kissless nerdy virgin" if you have out around those kids. This is why social groups that are able to effectively hold power and their "cool" status are ruthlessly self-pruning - there's regular falls from grace, rare ascendancy to the top group from other groups, and when there is, the person who joins needs approval of the top bitch. Don't fuck around hanging…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/18 09:46 AM
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When you grow up past the college / "young coworkers who do everything together and drink after work" phase of life, you have to shift your mentality from "finding a group of bros to kick it with" to "assembling my own group." You take control, you cultivate your relationships and people and by bringing people together, you build a pack. You're the cool guy, you're bridging people together. For example a 101 example if you have a few acquintances divided amongst 2 groups, maybe invite 1-2 guys f…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/18 09:36 AM
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Tinder is pretty much a complete waste of time unless your in an area with high 18-25 y/o female density, and you're good looking, fit, and willing to invest time in doing it right. (Photos, instagram, work out the logistics so that you have a go-to place to take the bitches for a drink thats near your apt). I pulse out my messages friday night and try to get a girl who's going to meet up THAT night, and I'll try to get them to come meet up at X venue that I know has the right vibe. If she's not…
/r/askTRP10/02/18 10:05 AM
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One-itis is projection, that's why it's so powerful and it appeals to recently red pilled guys so much. You want confirmation that you're the man, you want validation that you're newfound SMV is high enough to get you a hot funny unique 'cool girl'. So what your mind does is project whatever traits you want your ideal girl to have onto her. She's chill, she's actually logical, she's driven and has a career, she's so feminine and submissive, etc. Instead of viewing her as she is, you're viewing h…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/18 09:45 AM
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I say this all the time and it triggers people who want to think they know everything about women because they read about it online. You're not ready to make educated choices about LTRs until you've fucked over 30 bitches. Prior to that point, you can't accurately evaluate women, you haven't seen enough to know whether you are really in love or just in love with a woman you are projecting onto her. You won't know how to tell when they are selling you a fantasy, you won't know how to tell when yo…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/18 07:13 AM
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Are you in college aiming towards a well paying major? If you're on track into a worthwhile field, and your parents are footing the bill, then your best bet is to just take advantage of the free ride. If you cant live in the dorms or split housing for some bros, and the only option is to live with your parents, suck it up. Don't worry about managing your non-existent money (beyond basic frugality - you don't need starbucks everyday when you're not generating any money.) You are investing in your…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 09:10 AM
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This guys post is more about not having internal standards and self-respect. Why should I have to eat healthy and develop a lean physique? Because as a male, married or not, you should have a base-level amount of self-respect, and being a physically unfit, doughy specimen should sicken you. Why should I have to be attractive to have a marriage where the woman is attracted enough to fuck me frequently? Because you should have self-respect and high standards for yourself. You should want your wife…
/r/askMRP06/02/18 06:51 AM
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It's all in your head, homie. Every single thing, you over-analyzed it. Women do things and say things to create drama and push/pull. You probably thought negging and push pull and dread game is "male game" - nah, it's all forms of shit testing. You're going way out of your element to thoughtfully respond to some inconsequential ho shit. Because you have oneitis. Let me explain this from a UMiami thot's perspective. She's 18, there's multiple attractive dudes in the picture. She fucks one of the…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 05:51 AM
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And his genes don't get passed down. Sometimes, mother nature really knows how to auto-correct. Never forget that there's a % of people who are actually just that irredeemably beta. In my more idealistic years I used to think all incels and betas and nice guys could be reformed and embrace masculine and self-confidence and build value. But really, many just can't, they are evolutionarily unfit to be more than what they are. Defunct creatures, just kinda filling space and doing their job and neve…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/18 07:56 AM
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For women, group consensus becomes reality. it isn't real until the group believes it. If you dumped her and she internally knows you were just an asshole, that isn't enough. It only becomes real and her story of being the victim only gets validated after it enters the group lexicon as truth.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 06:09 AM
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So... what, you apply the red pill in your life and don't want to put our theories on women, work, health, etc, out of your mind. But you want to selectively take all this information and also simultaneously believe that LTRs are superior to spinning plates? You can do that, I mean, I don't think it's a particularly good call for you since I'm pretty sure you've actually experienced both sides of the table with actual options and abundance. But if you want to make a judgment call based on what y…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 06:04 AM
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The thing is women actually like dread game when applied the right way, it turns them on to feel in competition with other women and they feel driven by this life quest to own and conquer you, and squirrel you away from the other hoes in line. Obviously if they ever succeed they wind up feeling disgust and contempt, but they need to stay trapped in that whirlwind. They need it in the same way men need some outlet for their ambition and competitiveness. This is why in LTRs where the male leads an…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 07:02 AM
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More like keeps them lean. I blame shitty nice husbands and fathers for allowing this landwhale epidemic to inflate in the Western world. The dread game diet is the most successful diet mankind has ever known.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 06:57 AM
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Every accomplishment requires sacrifice and pain. For example, to be a good wrestler in high school, I had to endure a lot of pointless, obnoxious shit, dieting and water denial that had me feeling nauseus, public humiliation when you literally get forced into submission by a superior male, and so on. So I decided in college I wasn't going to join the team there, because to me the result (being a collegiate wrestler) was not worth the PAIN OF TRANSFORMING INTO A COLLEGE LEVEL ATHLETE. So this is…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 06:37 AM
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Islam and Christianity are RP in their own ways and BP in others. The thing to remember is religion is a means of beta control and organization; it's codifying rules that in theory help a society run and grow. Islam and the qu'ran's focus is heavily on property management and establishing a system of laws to organize and settle disputes with regards to property (and property here including women). In this regard, the laws do enforce a dynamic that enables alpha males to a degree, while simultane…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 06:12 AM
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Yeah, it's interesting because the Moors have been trying to colonize Europe for millennia, and militarily they had their ups and downs. This is an absolute down point for them in terms of economic and military strength - their countries are weak, wartorn shitholes. And yet now is when they are going to be most successful - at their weakest. Because European leadership has decided that the moors are now on the right side of history, and Europe has to atone for its guilt by handing over the keys …
/r/TheRedPill28/01/18 10:46 PM
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Yeah, East is way different. But they will face the same choices and the same cultural pressure, and it will chip away - so far many slavic / soviet countries have remained pretty red pilled but give it 100 years and we'll see
/r/TheRedPill28/01/18 10:36 PM
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Pretty much. I used to be big into that kind of thing when I was in college - my school would cover most of the expenses if you were doing some sort of approved list of volunteering projects, and I got to spend a summer abroad. There's two types of girls in these kind of places. One fucks the hostel guys and ignores the locals for the most part and focuses on sourcing dick from other western / euro guys who are travelling. The other type fucks the locals, like the little surfer dude giving her d…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/18 10:34 PM
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Male sexpats go to thailand or the philippines, female sexpats go to volunteer in some god-forsaken hellhole and fuck the local 16 year olds there. It is what it is, women have been sourcing dick through the guise of charity and caring for a long time. The important thing here is to understand what lengths women will go to - and not just for dick, but for the feeling of being dangerous, being taken, being wanted. As far as I'm concerned, Europe deserves it. You want to play cuck games with your …
/r/TheRedPill28/01/18 12:52 AM
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I'd say like 17-18%. Keeping cutting and lifting and you should be able to lose weight and build some muscle thx to noobie gains / being 16. Then re-evaluate once you have abs definition. You can tell that you'd gained a little arm definition and chest definition, but you can't showcase it because you've got a little plumpness around them. You will look completely different after you lose maybe 12-15 more lbs - more arm and shoulder definition, cut in love handles giving you a nice v-taper, and …
/r/TheRedPill27/01/18 03:04 AM
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It's no mistake that slutwalk is a thing, or pussyhats, or all the dominant feminist movements of the day all revolve around some sort of "reclaiming" sex. For women, the battlefield is a sexual battlefield - or rather a social battlefield where their main weapon and currency is SEX. Everything they do is driven by it; it is the lens through which they see and understand the world. To expect more from them is to expect calculus from a bear, it just doesn't make sense. They use sex to try to recl…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/18 01:35 AM
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Yes. Also see this chart - https://www.gll-getalife.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/bodyfat-men.png 15% is generally where if you have some abs definition, you can vaguely see the seperation and maybe suck in real tight and fake like you have "abs". IE it's really the fattest you want to be; when I hit ~ 15%, it's time to cut. Then I don't go below 8-9% because there's diminishing returns for a natural non-competitor like myself, there's lowered T, lower energy, some muscle loss, etc, and you loo…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/18 01:29 AM
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You have to prioritize your needs. Something like not being homeless / not being an addict > healthy fit body > hold down a job that let's you afford a middle class millenial life (apt, car, social life, gym) > a healthy sex life. You CAN have a healthy sex life if you're broke and a drug addict or mentally unwell, but devoting energy to lower priorities while neglecting higher ones is a common mistake. You CAN work on things simultaneously, but you can't really work on maybe more than 1 thing w…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/18 08:03 AM
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Well, the mentality that it's normal for guys your age to fuck young girls and that a lot of young girls are regularly having sex with guys your age is healthy. You need that mentality because she derives her sense of normality from you - ie if you see a girl and think she probably takes professor dick on the side, it's normal, she probably has a thing for older men, and then you approach as though of course she has a thing for older men, then you're A) non-judgmental and B) she assumes it is no…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/18 07:46 AM
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And surprise surprise, your girls are the only ones that break a collective 7 average in Canada
/r/TheRedPill26/01/18 06:35 AM
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Mike Pence rule is so simple and genius. It's calm acknowledgement of the fact that yes, the media will try to fuck you and ruin you, and women can and will lie for attention. So the only way for a politician to navigate this is to have an iron-clad rule to never be in a situation where someone else could conceive of sexual wrongdoing. You don't get dinner with female coworkers, no female coworkers can say you demanded sexual favors for a promotion after you took them out and liquored them up.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/18 06:32 AM
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At 16 GTFO TRP and go build your SMV. You need to build yourself up socially, physically, and mentally. Socially, it's simple, go socialize and befriend high value guys, and regularly flirt with high value girls. Go up the social ladder of HS / college by learning the art of vibing with cool people and making connections. We cannot teach you this, we can only explain how to do it, you only learn through grinding social experience. Physically, go read a good bodybuilding / diet guide and stick to…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/18 06:29 AM
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They still do (want the 30 year olds). It's just a very small % of those 30 year olds that are going to do all the fucking. Many, MANY girls I've fucked from the 18-22 range have an older guy they fuck. Now about 50% of those guys are sponsors in some capacity, but that's still a sizeable number that get to fuck with no strings. Most young women have fucked older men and that isn't changing, especially as the beta faggot production facility of the 2010s has ramped up to max capacity. Most men th…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/18 06:16 AM
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There's two problems with this approach - first off plating is not easy, and the ideal model for a high SMV / RMV quality girl relies upon you leading the way through a plate-internship model. Second, you have to regularly be able to fuck a girl of her caliber if you want to date her properly and wield the power / correct mentality in the relationship. Plate, sample her pussy and personality, upgrade her to mainstay if she checks out, keep the leadership position and power / ability to walk away…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 08:48 AM
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It's crazy going back to where I grew up. You see clerks who are still clerks, like dude literally a decade has passed and you do the same exact routine, everything is the same, except you're fatter, eyes look blotchy and old, and you got that drinkers redness about your face. It's like Westworld or some shit, you go and it's a bunch of bodies just sorta letting life have their way with them.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 08:25 AM
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It is insecure, it's a mateguarding behavior and ideally to her you want to have the delusional sort of "I know I'm literally the most attractive guy you could ever hope to get" kind of confidence. This is the ideal. But now what happens when you go and commit to a woman, when you LTR the bitch? Well, now you've already shown that you're at best a hybrid, you're providing stability and commitment, and you've committed yourself to her pussy alone. That ship has sailed. This is a RP for LTR guys t…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/18 05:57 AM
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It's not really a skill many people write about -- a lot of the guides here are pretty bad in this regard. IE figure out her n-count, but no in depth guide of how to figure it out or know if you're being lied to. The best way to learn this skill is to understand sales and the art of building rapport and making people feel comfortable revealing themselves to you. This is crucial in sales because you have to figure out what they need and get them qualifying themselves to you, and giving up informa…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/18 03:29 AM
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Its fine to have that mentality but you have to realize it sends mixed signals - the reason I called it beta male behavior is because it gets perceived that way. She's trying to slot you into one of the two categories, AF or BB. So when she's flirting, talking about sexual stuff, her apt, etc, but then also shutting down and also delaying and postponing sex until she's gotten commitment, why do you think that is? You're sending mixed signals, beta and alpha. She cannot figure out how to slot you…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/18 03:21 AM
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She's actually running good female game. In medicine there's tons of cheating and slampieces and non-exclusive fuckery and whatnot, and she knows this. Now what happens to her if she, having developed this flirty fun vibe with a guy, gives the pussy up before getting commitment? IE if she gives up the pussy WHILE you are in a non-committed relationship, then she becomes a slampiece. A plate. It's a gamble at that point - maybe she can use her pussy to get you to commit, but experience has taught…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 04:05 PM
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Don't overcomplicate it. Guys in their 20s should be fucking. If you're not fucking, something is wrong with you. Not with America, not with society, not with women, with you. You. I firmly believe that no man has any business in a LTR until he's fucked 30 chicks. Until you hit that mark (and it is sooner or later depending on how quick you learn and how willing you are to see each girl for what she is - some guys can fuck 100 girls and not learn shit). Until you fuck 30 girls, you have literall…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/18 10:05 PM
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They always come out, but for guys who don't know how to tease out the trickle truths in a crafty, deliberate fashion... the trickle truths aka the HoFax report often comes out after they've wifed the bitch
/r/TheRedPill20/01/18 10:02 PM
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Unicorns definitely exist, but they don't behave like unicorns to all men. She'll behave super bitchy to a low value guy trying to hit on her in the subway - she'll still feel disgust towards low value men. In fact, only superior men to her really get to see her "unicorn" side at all. A unicorn continuing to behave in a unicorn fashion is completely conditional upon you remaining higher status than her. It's the briffault's law of unicorns. When she does not see you as a superior male, however y…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/18 10:01 PM
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Honestly? Don't go any further. Don't read RPW. Don't ask for their help. Don't read RoK. Go back into society. Believe in the general "blue pill" ideas about marriage and whatnot. The only thing for you here is the knowledge of your deteriorating value - ie you need to take from TRP the fact that you do not have time on your side. Urgency. You do not need to compete with other girls. If you go to a hot downtown club, then yeah, you're competing with physically superior women and you'll lose. Fi…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/18 08:15 AM
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Your comment literally makes zero sense - you can tell from your writing that you have zero idea what you're talking about and what point you're trying to make. I actually said your post provided value - it's a great insight into beta male psychology and the way that they understand concepts, but can't make heads or tails of what to do with them, and can't assemble them into any kind of coherent philosophy or meaning. Here is what I would recommend if you really want to continue posting here - l…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/18 07:16 AM
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You can lift and put on muscle mass and take care of your skin, diet, acne, body language, voice tone, grooming, fashion etc without being a whiny little faggot about the whole thing. Of course "looksmaxing" (what is your guys obsession with making everything sound as autistic as possible?) helps your SMV increase. My question is why can't you do that while also recognizing that game and personality and SOCIAL EXPERIENCE is also very important and worth doing? It's pure hamstering - because it's…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 06:12 PM
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This is a valuable insight into how beta males see alpha males as essentially more successful beta bucks. To betas, everything is hazy and obscurred; their concept of alpha or high value or successful is something they've lifted from TV shows and books and media, not something they've actually unpacked in reality. People commenting that OPs wall of text is disorganized, incoherent, contradictory, and essentially a beta hamstering of the "Golden Beta path" to success... That is actually the point…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 05:56 PM
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This isn't necessarily for OP since he at least offered some analysis and some of his own perspective, but... Why the fuck are all you idiots posting in relationships and twox and all these other subreddits? What do you hope to achieve by "slipping in your red pill wisdom" amongst the hamsters? What you think they will be red pilled and then you'll be crowned Moses of the cucks and feminists? Why do you guys always act surprised when they ban / downvote you. You went in trying to get some attent…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 07:25 AM
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This is a very accurate post - especially the bit about unicorns. She's lucky enough to have had good influences, and as a result, she developed some degree of character and hamster management. Put her in with some new friends who all party and cheat on their men, very soon she'll be guarding her phone too. This is why women decide they were raped years later. They tell some friends their super biased mis-remembered story, as their own hamster has molded it. Those friends act appalled and say sh…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 08:37 AM
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We also can be pretty sure she's right around 27-29. Bitches on the wall go completely insane when they use the potential of a relationship to bait them in, then just try to pump and dump. Her wrath is that of one who was forced to realize that to a nerdy brown short male, she's too low value to get him to think of her as LTR material. She thought she found Captain save a ho, but it turns out he was "the same as all the other guys." So, since he's doing what all the other guys did, well, it's ti…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 08:32 AM
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Her revenge was only something that she wanted when she saw him at the golden globes wearing the timesup pin or whatever. Having her face rubbed in the fact that he's a celebrity doing famous ppl shit ... that is what made her re-pissed off, and made her reconsider the encounter and decide she thought it was sexual assault. Happens all the time, guy makes some money and fame in his late 20s and some chick said in college he was "sexually aggressive and raped her while she was intoxicated" - aka …
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 08:15 AM
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Aziz isn't an idiot, he knows how to pander to the common denominator - which in this case is millennials who watch a lot of netflix, aka nice guy betas and hipster white chicks. He knows the character cannot be sexually powerful and successful because this audience doesn't want a show about a man like that. They want something comfortable, and no one - including indian millennials - wants to see the short indian awkward guy actually being cocky and confident and taking leadership. His mannerism…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/18 08:58 PM
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Yes, she gave him the classic not yet, which he interpretted wrong. Obviously it's a great injustice and all to live in a world where a fumbled sexual encounter means career implosion and potential jail time, but if your dick is literally in her mouth and you can't escalate to sex, you fucked up.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/18 08:52 PM
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Master of None is one of the more successful netflix shows, I don't think they'll cancel it over this. I think Aziz will have to spin this right and remain adamant that he did no wrong; as soon as you give an inch, they take a mile, and they will take everything from him if he lets them. If this snowballs into some big thing, then yeah he'll lose his show, but as long as he just keeps frame he'll be fine.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/18 08:50 PM
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asked her .... "asked her to perform oral sex" Aka the definition of consent, asking.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/18 08:46 PM
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"Apparently there is a whole country full of young women who don't know how to call a cab, and who have spent a lot of time picking out pretty outfits for dates they hoped would be nights to remember," Flanagan wrote. "They're angry and temporarily powerful and last night they destroyed a man who didn't deserve it." Imagine that. Girl gets put into the slutzone when she was fishing for a relationship, freaks out, claims rape, and takes advantage of the current media climate to ruin a man's reput…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/18 08:44 PM
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The best answer is you have to have something outside of women that drives you - ie you have to want to "do something" rather than just "be a somebody". This is something women can never take away from men - men want to achieve and build shit, they want to create something that is a symbol of their pride, or at the very least, they want to get power and money. When you're on that track and successful, you don't have to go MGTOW. You can go chase pussy, and you can make an adult decision about th…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/18 08:30 AM
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It is the frame. By not giving a shit and focusing on sex as something you're going to be present in and enjoy selfishly to the fullest (as opposed to thinking like "well if I hit at this angle and stimulate the clit from behind while I pound her, I can get her to cum" ) you will on average be better in bed. By not worrying about her pleasure and clearly being in it for you, you won't give every woman a world class sexual performance, but as long as you're competent, most of them will orgasm as …
/r/TheRedPill13/01/18 03:41 AM
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I strongly recommend not giving a shit about what people do in general. PUA is a building block of TRP; these guys like Mystery, David D, early RSD etc they made invaluable contributions to our understanding of game, women, masculinity, etc etc. They literally saved lives and helped guys continue on their genetic lineage who would otherwise be hardline incels. Many PUAs are also validation fags and total internet losers. Oh well. Doesn't invalidate the fact that PU was pretty much the only inter…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/18 03:20 AM
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Women will suffer - but not high value women or even mid value women. The losers are of course the ugly women, who due to our societal programming feel entitled to a high value man. For them, the erosion of 80/20 -> 95/5 -> 99/1 will have dire consequences that will hurt their sanity, mental health, etc. Think of it this way - the losers pay for the sins of the winners. Beta males bear the societal cost of alpha males pillaging the women, creating alpha widows, single mothers, cuck spawn, and so…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/18 03:09 AM
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No, but I am saying that some low % (I think 10% might be accurate, but it's just a number from my ass to demonstrate a point) of betas are capable of crossing over under realistic circumstances. Betas change, they self-improve, they get better at things and do better stuff. And betas may move up and down in their ranks - but it's all internal movement. For example, a TRPer might improve at getting laid. Or he might improve his body, and then gain some confidence from getting female attention. B…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/18 06:54 AM
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"Betas have little incentive to work when there's no woman for them at the end of it. So why not do as little work as possible, and play computer games instead? Why spend all that time becoming a doctor if women will walk past you to shag the bikers down the road instead?" Because betas are not rational actors. This is the problem with 80s economics - they were also obsessed with their perception of humans as rational actors with access to good information. And so their theories were based on co…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/18 02:48 AM
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It would be "prudent" for high value / high reputation males to avoid banging their groupies and the women near them... But high value men are not prudent, prudency is actually more common amongst betas. (Not that being prudent is beta, but rather high T males behave in high risk / high reward fashion, and high status men are always going to try to bang a shit ton of women off their status.) Britney the bar slut and Courtney the concert groupie will find some alpha dick, dick will always be free…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/18 02:35 AM
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Right, but I'm not talking about going on strike like Atlas Shrugged or something and deciding not to work. The "economic betas" of America are a whole different story and there is a definitely a parallel to sexual betas and a big mutual pool. The sexual marketplace doesn't depend on betas like corporate America or various industries do. The sexual marketplace follows economic rules in some ways ie supply and demand, but whereas betas provide the lion's share of the manpower in a traditional ind…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/18 06:17 PM
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If we lived in a society where all of this information was legible and available to betas - ie betas were acutely aware of how bad they have it versus how good alphas have it, and they were able to visualize these trends - then yes. You'd have a splitting effect where the betas who had the capability to man up would do so (maybe 10% of the betas), and the rest quickly realize that being a low value orbiter isn't worth their time, and they are best served by going MGTOW. But for that to happen, m…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/18 05:02 PM
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Yes - if you are young and broke and ugly, you have your dreams, you have your potential, and society treats you with this "will he or won't he" kind of curiousity because maybe you'll be the man one day, maybe you'll step up! When you hit that age where you just know in your bones that whatever you were going to be is behind you... that's when it all crumbles down. You have no value, no future, you are a worthless product in a market that you're old enough to understand. Smart enough to realize…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/18 04:55 AM
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Yes. Any guy thinking about paying 200-400$ an hr to a therapist or psychiatrist or whatever the fuck to deal with their stress and depression should spend that money on any number of things more likely to help you manage stress and depression. Pay an elite pro coach the same rate to work your lazy ass to the bone for 60 minutes. Pay 200 bucks to get the omakase of your life prepared by a chef that has studied the art of sushi for 60 years. Get yourself a nice massage. Get yourself a nice massag…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/18 04:50 AM
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It will keep getting worse for average men and keep getting better for top %er men (who are smart enough to avoid the false rape accusations and sexism scandals and reputation assassination). People think "well if all the betas drop out of the race, it will change women because they won't have betas providing support" -- well, yeah, that's the point of the past 30 years of female-first economic feminism. Young women make more money and have better career prospects, and if they don't, daddy govt …
/r/TheRedPill11/01/18 03:57 AM
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PUA guys hate MGTOWs and vice versa because each party mentally invalidates each others core concepts. It's not that, in a vaccuum, the PUA cannot see the sense in MGTOW. It's that for the PUA to respect the principles of the MGTOW, he has to entertain the notion that everything he bases his identity on is by and large bullshit. And vice versa. TRPers ideally are intelligent enough to conceptually understand the pros and cons of both the PUA and the MGTOW movement, and make educated choices abou…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/18 03:53 AM
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If you are going to do something as stupid and pointless as try to voice your opinion on twitter about SJ issues when you have an occupation you'd like to keep, the absolute worst thing you can do is back down to SJWs. Getting involved and chiming in on the NFL debate was stupid, but what sealed the deal is that he didn't stand his ground. As much as I hate bringing things back to Trump, this is what Trump understands - he immediately seeks vindication by clapping back harder than he was clapped…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/18 02:36 AM
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Your standard deduction is increased, but for higher income males paying high alimony, it's not nearly close - this is a huge hit. For example in CA, let's take a 125k income. Not even a high income. That's about 85k after state and federal taxes with your 11.5k in deductions. Paying alimony after that - say 40k alimony - leaves you with 45k. This was through some online calculator for CA, so it's numbers from my ass, but not completely fabricated. Compared to the previous case of 40k in alimony…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/18 02:22 AM
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Here's my take and you're not going to like it. First off, the very concept of tabbing up the wins and losses as though they matter in some "alpha / beta" arithmetic is inherently a very beta lens. It's the wrong perspective to analyze your results because your "wins" and "losses" are based on nothing objective that you did or didn't do. It's like this frame where good and bad things just happen to you - you're trying to tab up whether this girl brings a net balance of wins or losses into your l…
/r/askTRP10/01/18 02:29 AM
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Alphas are the individuals who are on top of the sexual/power pyramid. These individuals will in general display a set of shared behavior and traits, and some of these behaviors are directly responsible for their alpha status (ie, ambition), whereas some of these behaviors are correlated with being on top of the pyramid (ie, good body language). When we discuss alpha traits and behaviors, we're discussing the traits and behaviors that directly or indirectly play a role in climbing / keeping the …
/r/TheRedPill09/01/18 05:20 PM
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This is a reasonable list of the 5 worst cities in NA to get typical white basic bitches. If you go to a city, fuck the local fare. Don't be like the guy who goes to thailand and is only trying to fuck the elite russian girls - go fuck the thai girls in thailand. Fuck the black chicks in Atlanta. Fuck the filipina, latina, hipster, and asian chicks in SF. Toronto, easy, first focus your efforts on getting coke / ecstasy / etc, then fuck the skinny druggy chicks. French and Arab chicks aplenty. L…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/18 01:12 PM
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That's the thing about TRP. Give this guy the knowledge of how to get more pussy, and it'll just fuck his life up more and invite more drama. Betas don't get bitches, because they can't handle bitches. In a "you can't handle the truth" kind of way, they mentally would crumble and disintegrate if they were applying their beta ways of thinking about women (providing, courting, expensive dates, orbiting, taking care of their brood, etc) to an abundance of women.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 04:17 PM
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Because if you could pay 50 bucks to have an instagram model licking your ass you probably would. There will always be people for whom your 50 bucks is their 20,000. In every culture, in every society, rich men will realize their X amount of money it takes to fuck a 8-9 is cheap enough in terms of time/effort. Typically what these men crave is a woman who can make it not FEEL like a transaction - they will pay their thai girlfriend a 2000 / wk fee to hang out with them and give them a tour guide…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/17 02:28 PM
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Women do not evaluate their own SMV because 'evaluate' implies some sort of logical assessment of the components that sum up the whole. She's not like "well I have decent tits and a nice butt, B face, and I'm 10 lbs overweight but know how to hide it, so I'm a 7." She gets her sense of self-worth and value from what guys want to fuck her, and what guys want to date her. If a hardworking alpha wall street guy is dating her, she thinks she has achieved something and she gets the feeling of accompl…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/17 08:19 AM
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Quit being a weak little cunt. If you need to bust a nut, close your eyes and think about Cassie from math class and get it on. Masturbation isn't the issue (I mean, to be technical porn isn't even the issue). The issue is twofold, it's the excessiveness of your masturbation and that you choose porn over other productive activities because it's accessible, super stimulating, 4k, etc etc always available entertainment. If you are a weak cunt, you need to go cold turkey on entertainment as a whole…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/17 12:29 AM
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How old are you? You're a "self-diagnosed dark triad, sociopath, narcissist, bipolar, psychopath, and alpha"? You're typing in all caps and you say "get rekt?" And you have a bunch of faggoty 13 year old autistic comments in your post history? Holy shit dude you're cool. Let's crown you king quick.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 05:57 AM
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Because we enjoy learning from people's real experiences too. This whole thing only works if there's enough people actually going out and learning from the real world. Otherwise the entire community generates TRP ideas from their own imagination and their own hamster, and then as a result, all the stories and ideas traded around are pointless. I don't really care what people do. But if you're going to want to be a contributor on TRP and if you're going to claim to be some level of knowledgable o…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 05:53 AM
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If you haven't fucked 30 bitches at least at bare minimum, you don't know shit about women. If you haven't gotten up 20-25 lbs of muscle above your starting point and cut down to below at least 12% bf, you don't know shit about fitness. And if you can't bring home at least double your state's average annual income, you're not in a position to share wisdom on career shit. If you've never actually spun multiple plates and had a soft harem, you've never known what it's like to actually be on top of…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 10:10 AM
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This is the problem though. We can preach read the sidebar all we want but no one does and even if they do, they still didn't figure this shit out with no community and mentors. They didn't do their 1000 approaches in nightclubs, they haven't fucked at least 20 women through social circle game and a good 50 through cold approach - all of their opinions and writings about women are just creative fanfiction derived from what other guys here and posting (and some of those guys aren't even actually …
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 09:56 AM
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Stuff was better back then not because the ideas were more profound, but because you could tell the guy writing it was actually aware of it and living it to some extent. The actual content wasn't all that different, but when an idea first comes, it is delivered by people out there in the field implementing it. Because they are the ones who would know it. Then what happens is you hear those ideas again and again - something written up really well by more talented writers. But those writers are ju…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 09:51 AM
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I don't disagree that it was a stupid post, but if you disagree, go post it there and duke it out there. This attention seeking "my criticism of his post is so important that it needs my own post" is silly. You think OP is a fag, you tell OP he's a fag in the comments. No one here who self-diagnoses as Narcissist, Dark Triad, Sociopath, etc etc should really be taken seriously. Probably just a 17 year old who has read Nietzche and combed through a few too many "psych 101: Why sociopaths get the …
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 09:44 AM
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Some guys go to thailand to hide and die in a peaceful state where they can play make believe and live in lalaland. AKA take the blue pill, but not just take it, I honestly got the feeling from a lot of the farangs there they just wanted to die in it. One guy I met there was divorced and his plan was to spend up the ~200k or so he walked away with over a few years and then kill himself when it was all done. Every girl he paid the extra cost to fuck without a condom too because what's the point. …
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 01:14 AM
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Yeah, they won't stop until we are fully optimized as consumers. Stuck into various mediums where every second we are force fed targetted ads. It's not crazy to believe; cable was the single biggest thing in consumerism for it's time, a vehicle that oriented and shaped people's habits and behaviors around consumerism, particularly women's. And everyone knows that the internet + always online + interconnected age means a nearly infinite potential to condition people towards buying shit. Everyone …
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 12:57 AM
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Narcissism is essential to being a high value man whether in the sexual market or corporate ladder. The key is tempering your narcissism with reality, and understanding your shortcomings and faults instead of living truly in narcissist lalaland. Narcissist LaLaland is Weinstein land, it's "I can do whatever because I'm me, I need that hot chick because I'm me, I need that, I deserve this, no one is plotting on my downfall, my brother wouldn't use a scandal to do me in, etc" Narcissists fall into…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 09:36 PM
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Women are capable of using TRP ideas, they are capable of understanding the ideas, but they are not capable of understanding how their responsibility, and how they are the creators of the various shortcomings in their lives. They do not take responsibility. Many men can't either, but some can. With women, maybe 1 in a 1000. So when women talk TRP, some of them get it as a concept. They understand, they can even admit it's true. But what they cannot do is use TRP to take responsibility in their l…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 10:07 PM
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JBY is actually the end goal of TRP, it's what it's all about and it's the only way any of this matters. The hard work and the effort required is making sure that "yourself" is actually something of value that's attractive and powerful, as well as socially skilled, high status, and ambitious, and driven. When anyone under 25 says "that's not me" or "I'm not that type of person" or "this is who I am" or "I am just this way" it's all horseshit. You are not anything yet, you are not "who you are go…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 09:57 PM
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Think about it this way - your family has a non-zero importance to you. How much, and how much time and effort out of each day can you budget for them? 1 hr a day? 2? Put that time aside. If I've budgeted 2 hrs to go visit my mom and take her out to brunch and chat every sunday, then I'm going to just be calm and present and polite during that time. Because I chose to budget it. If she is late or decides she wants to go to some shitty vegan place or she berates me, FINE, I am a grown ass man, I …
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 09:35 AM
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You need to reduce the problem and organize your mind. Boil it down, distill it down the the core. Fixate on what you can control. New dude is around your daughter. You cannot prevent this. You say it's 50/50 split? Sit down with the mother and plan out exactly how custody will work with your living arrangements, and make sure everyone knows it will not be screwed with, for the child's mental health. If you agree you get weekends, every weekend it needs to happen, that kind of routine is for the…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 09:21 AM
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You are probably not "lean muscled" at 5'8'' 130 lbs, your the Autist from Auschwitz dude. Lifting is 20%, nutrition is 80%, go bulk up. Not that your physique is the main problem. People with legit asps, like not just "oh that dude is so aspie" but like you actually have aspergers, then you need speech therapy from a qualified professional. Aspies cannot read social cues properly and they do not use the right intonations and enunciations when they speak, so it sounds rehearsed or unnatural or r…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 09:04 AM
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As a manager, your goal is not to be the "alpha", but rather to be effective and be a leader. Do not try to just be alpha, try to think about who needs to do what in order to maximize your branch effectiveness. What is your goal? Get some ambition, what do you want to do other than manage people's turns to clean the shitter? This is management - you want to become the district manager or whatever the fuck, you want that pay bump and responsibility bump, right? So you have to get results. How do …
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 07:56 AM
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Many baby boomers are dead people already, just kinda going through the motions and doing what they always did. You visit my hometown, you see people who are the same people they were 15 years ago, except fatter, uglier, puffy and red cheeked, shitty teeth, etc. It's disgusting. My father worked at a gas station. I respect him though, because despite being from a traditional indian family that was religious, he didn't really give a shit and he taught me I didn't have to give a shit either about …
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 08:26 AM
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There is an old school saying "The map is not the territory" that needs to be drilled into everyone's head here from time to time. The idea is that a theory or a system of beliefs or some manmade construct that represents the universe... is just a map of the actual thing itself. SMV and SMP (sexual market value, sexual market place) are ways of understanding an economy and our role in it; there is no real such thing as an SMV. It is a map of the thing itself, a vehicle we can use to understand w…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 07:15 AM
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Think about it this way - if real chicks were like "yo check out this pic of my tits, btw do you want dick in my mouth pls repond" to dudes all day long, you'd probably respond sooner or later. If you were down and feeling un-self assured, then you'd take the ego boost from girls ugly and hot both wanting to pay you attention and treat you like you were so interesting. And now keep in mind women are "self-assured" like 20% of the time at most. TRP can help you minimize your chance of getting cuc…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 09:48 AM
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Alright dude, not bad at all, I use that test on indian race whiners because they either never follow through or it's really bad and proof that it's definitely not their race holding them back. You seem decently put together and your voice isn't uncomfortable and shaky. So you definitely don't have a judgy attitude about people who drink and smoke? College girls do dumb shit and they hate feeling judged; whatever it is, like if she's talking about getting DP'd or fucking a lot of guys, you have …
/r/TheRedPill19/11/17 08:40 PM
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You haven't heard the news? This sub is getting cannibalized with MGTOW / black pill / incel faggots that don't actually believe learning to get laid is possible, and now TRP is all about rationalizing why women are too hard and take up too much effort. Effort that instead could go towards "developing your purpose" but really, we know these guys are just going to instead jerk off and play video games. This is why I like PU. PUA is full of fucktards and monetizers and BS artists. But the fundamen…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/17 08:18 PM
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You can fuck a lot in college and not impregnate girls. Just like you can join a frat and not be an alcoholic, or play sports and also have a good GPA. These kind of false dichotomies (dumbjock versus successfulnerd) are not the answer; they are really just rationalizations that people cling to in order to feel superior. IE dude who didn't get laid in college: "Well, I didn't fuck any of these super hot slutty girls in their prime, but I got a good degree and now I make decent money, and surely …
/r/TheRedPill19/11/17 08:10 PM
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Lol, this is the most whiny faggotry I've seen on here in a while. "I'm part of gun club but I don't get laid!" boo hoo poor me, only the "alcoholic weed smokers" get laid. Yes, all the guys with goals and guys who go the gym don't get laid. Literally zero normal guys who go out and socialize with women in college are getting laid. Yup. Here is what I'd bet is the case. Upload a headless pic of your body - you are probably skinnyfat and look low SMV. Upload a sound byte of yourself saying "hey w…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/17 08:04 PM
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This is a really bad idea. The reason people are best served by looking autistic and following the script is that in the heat of the moment, talking to you conversationally aka "like normal people" leads to fuck ups. Which is why most cops will just try to talk to you on your level when you first say you're lawyer / silent speal. "We're just normally having a convo" is a frame, and in that frame, many many many a person has let slip more than they otherwise would. Just repeat the exact words you…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/17 12:58 AM
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It is better to say that you're invoking your right to remain silent, and you're requesting a lawyer to each question. You qualify for the right to remain silent, but you have to "use" it and you want it on the record that you requested legal represantation and responded with a choice to be silent (rather than not responded at all).
/r/TheRedPill19/11/17 12:53 AM
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Say 2 things. First, am I free to go. If they say no, then you say you're invoking your right to remain silent and would like an attorney.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/17 12:50 AM
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There is a reason every successful startup is that has the escape velocity to avoid the typical first year problems that ruin 90% of startups is predominately male. Both male-led and powered by male coders. You have to be three things - able to embrace risk and lack of security, able to work hard and late without receiving top dollar comp, and you have to be able to manage yourself and your relationship with others without there being a hardset rule structure or social schema in place. All three…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 05:51 PM
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Porn, low self-confidence / inexperience leading to nervousness, and desensitizing your junk due to tight hand grip are all contributing factors. Even if the head is shitty, having a chicks warm lips near your dick should get you rock hard at 22. A general rule of thumb test is this. If you cannot get erect without touching your dick - ie you think sexually and feel your dick getting hard, and then it can stay hard for a while without you needing to stimulate it manually, then you are not where …
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 03:51 AM
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People do give a shit, but the people who give a shit are generally fucking losers. Case in point - how many guys who really care so much about every slut that cheats, or every feminist who does what feminists do, etc, are really winners in life? The guys who follow every scandal and care so hard about, IDK, Anita Saarkesian being a cunt or mens rights not being taken seriously at UToronto, etc. They're fucking losers, and if you care and give a colossal shit about what some bitch does or some d…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 05:17 AM
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The problem is that beta bucks aren't actually wifing up and pedestalizing these post wall once-hotties because of their sexual drive. They are doing it out of ego and validation drive - they feel good when with the hot girl (even though she's not as hot now). Their concept of who they are is that they are the good guy who did the right thing, so they "get" the reward of marrying her whereas the other guys just got to sample her pussy for a night. Men typically don't marry CC riders out of sheer…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 05:03 AM
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Do not marry this one is my feedback, and I'm sure it won't be appreciated, but let me explain. You are presumably working in the bay area and you will want to buy housing. You will also be working a lot and scaling up in income over the next 5-10 years. You will work in companies where you are going to have exposure to women with similar financial values to you who are going to be bringing in 150k-200k of their own. Marry one of these women. This is how people buy houses in Sillicon Valley. "Sh…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 03:38 PM
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The entire female gender subscribes to this type of kayfabe and actively takes a collective shit upon women who go against the grain. Women who out the feminine imperative / female sexual strategies to betas are quickly thrown under the bus, attacked, criticized, etc. Women have to maintain the illusion that men are the dirty cheaters, that paternity fraud doesn't exist, every woman is getting sexually harassed, false rape accusations never happen, all careers automatically underpay you if you'r…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/17 06:13 PM
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You have no emotional control, you care way more about how you are perceived and about having your newfound "TRP knowledge" validated than actually leading by example and getting the results. On a subconcious level, maybe she even picks up on this and knows you weren't meant to be a cocky asshole because you're ready for it yet and it wouldn't genuine. I would recommend re-evaluating why you care about this so much, and why it bothers you. You've undergone this massive mental upheaval for all of…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/17 07:30 PM
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Yeah the only way to stop being bitter about it is to fuck chicks with BB hubbys and BFs, and understand that their shitty behavior is required for alphas to have an "alpha fucks" role to occupy in the AF/BB dichotomy. There are so many TRPers who are moral fags about this idea, but honestly the pain and bitterness will never leave you until you are the one who can cuck lesser men. Then the natural order becomes clear and the anger starts to dull, and you actually appreciate reality for being wh…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 07:54 PM
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Or she'll enjoy #1 for years and then marry a rich #2 or 3 who will put her in a mom BMW just for shitting out a kid. Let's not kid ourselves and indulge in these "she'll get hers!" fantasies. Women can have their cake and eat it too, and as long as they pull out before they get completely ruined and addicted, they can escape all consequences. Realizing this is the cornerstone of TRP - there's no equality, she can win using amoral, indulgent strategy and so can you
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 07:11 AM
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Fair enough - I still think it's a poor calculation on his part that happened to work out, but sure, he's obviously doing it from a point of cold rationality, which is what led to his success in many other areas.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/17 03:38 AM
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I know right, who the fuck goes to a B&N when they need to do work SO bad that they can't spit a little game at a chick who's literally moaning for attention.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/17 03:36 AM
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Wait a second I remember your username, you been posting this faggot shit for a minute now. Why do you post here? Keep to incels where they dont believe it's possible for guys who weren't born Chads to fuck. You will get nowhere arguing it here because many of us were actually 3/10s etc etc who became attractive enough to fuck hot girls. Like you will never convince me that ugly guys can't fuck because when I first learned game I had a belly and a fugly face - I could upload an old pic of my dic…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/17 03:34 AM
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you can tell OP doesn't give a shit about actually solving his problems because he responds to every positive / pity party post, but ignores all the ones saying "you need to change your perspective and behaviors"
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 06:40 AM
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You will be fit to be a father when you've stopped with this incel Chad worship faggotry. Yeah, you try to convince your teenage kid to get surgery so he can look more Chaddy and see what that does to his self-esteem. "Make sure he never has bad breath" like WTF you going to check his breath? Boys breath stanks sometimes, that's why you brush and floss and shit, why is this something that has to be explained? Here's a better though - quit projecting your Chaddy little sad fantasies onto a PERSON…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 06:38 AM
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When you are the CEO of a 750 billion dollar company, your PR matters. Costs nothing at all to pay the bitch, but if you don't, you get a scandal that could potentially cost much more. Moral absolutism is not very TRP - you don't pay the bitch because of her blackmail, you pay the bitch because you recognize you lived in a cucked society that will rake you over the coals over this. Of course she doesn't DESERVE a cent, but why are you saying that as though it's relevant, or as though you think I…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 06:25 AM
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Thank you. None of these little teenage kids on here respect that Jobs was actually engaging in some of the toughest, hardest battles in tech / business that have been fought, period. And whilst that was happening, this young hippie chick he fucked was strung out and trying to get her bottomless pit served through manipulating and juicing him, threatening him, etc. TRP talks all this shit about wanting to be dark triad and alpha and machiavellian. Well, Jobs is your guy, you want to see the bad …
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 04:41 AM
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Jobs is one of my idols because he's a true absolutist. But at the same, I can recognize that he was fucking retarded in many ways too, and his mismanagement of Brennan and Lisa was one of them. Jobs is technically correct that he was being blackmailed. But for someone worth billions, he stood to lose more money through damage to his reputation and scandals and court troubles then just paying the bitch 100k a year stipend or settling for a lump sum 1 million with a confidentiality clause / gag o…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 04:31 AM
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No I'm more referring to people like Weinstein or other celebrities who get into drugs / depression / weird sex or rape scandals. Julien just seems like a guy who tried way too hard to be edgy and different to speak to the disenchanted "women are holes to fuck" crowd, and didn't understand how to manage his PR and hold frame. I maintain that if Julien had just doubled down instead of cucking himself over by trying to apologize, he'd be way more successful.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 03:26 AM
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I mean, something isn't adding up here. You had a year off and you weren't in school, you're presumably living with your parents, and a 40 hr a week min wage job wound up throwing you into a depressed insomniac schedule that crippled your self-esteem? No, the job isn't the issue, and this whole "boo hoo I was so humiliated by having to bag groceries" is just whiny hamstering. Plenty of people do shit jobs and maintain some pride. You had no other shit to handle - I worked through college because…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/17 10:34 PM
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No, that's not my point. Internal validation is problematic too - Harvey was internal validation motivated. He wanted to perceive himself as being a powerful sex god who could have any starlet he wanted. Obviously external motivation is worse, but my point is a bit more subtle - being motivated by the need to think of yourself as somebody (which is internal validation - ie you validating yourself) is a hamster treadmill. Wanting to be rich is not bad - but wanting to be rich as someone who doesn…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/17 10:13 PM
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The reason to aspire to have alpha male traits is that they enable you do actually do the things you want to do. For example, having higher dominance and leadership quality gives you the ability to, say, build a product and run a company. Being in good shape and training allows you to compete in X sport or hike Everest or whatever it is for you. You start with what you want to do - and then reverse engineer what traits you will need to have to do those things. IE if you legitimately want to just…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/17 10:04 PM
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Ranting is dependent on how you do it. Complain and whine about shit? Terrible. Entertain her with a rant story about something she can relate to, sure. I'll rant about shit, but in a self-amused way where I'm not actually expecting anything out of her except to laugh and say something irrelevant back. And that is what I'm trying to get at - you shouldn't be communicate to a woman in way that NEEDS something from her for the conversation to continue. Don't try to "get" something from her. If you…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/17 07:32 AM
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This is a good description and it reminds me a lot of the Ayn Rand characters that are essentially the "could have been" alphas. Instead of working to build an empire out of pride and passion for their trade, they did it because they craved recognition and societal approval and power. They wanted to "be somebody" whereas the first-rate alpha wants to "do something". This to me has always been the differentiator of successful versus unsuccessful people, even within the realm of people who are alr…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/17 07:28 AM
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You 100% can be vulnerable, and in fact, you should sometimes. But you have to accept the consequences. This will always be a consequence to some extent. Married men with a perfect wife who genuinely loves and nurtures and comforts them... there is STILL a threshold. Every time you show vulnerability and let her be your rock, you push the line. You use up your credits and pretty soon there will be none left. In life, a man must be vulnerable in some senses of the word - this is kind of the point…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 06:08 AM
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Yeah she's average, nothing out of the ordinary here. The difference between her and a girl TRP would call "LTR worthy" is the LTR worthy girl would be a better actress and go through the mandatory motions. If your father is ill, go be with family, go talk with male friends. I can't imagine if my father were to die what I'd feel, but I do know the #1 thing I'd not want to do is try to explain it to a woman and have her circle-relate it back to her in some way so she can try to process it. That's…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 05:58 AM
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Not all MGTOWs are LHBs. But the ones who aren't typically aren't the ones talking about how they are swearing off women and GTOW because "women cause pain and misery and you can't figure them out." There are two types of MGTOWs. The first type has fully handed women and understands how to attract them, how to manipulate them, how to manage them, how to insulate himself from the damage they can do, how to spin them, etc. And has consciously decided after doing that with TONS of women that he can…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/17 06:02 AM
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If you reread my comment you'll see I'm agreeing with you. The autism is people misreading then commenting with something unrelated ("I got laid when I was broke").
/r/TheRedPill05/10/17 05:49 AM
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Jesus dude you have delved deep into this weird pit of TRP autism that I didn't even know existed. People will argue anything just to argue, and misinterpret your point in the most insipid way possible. There is 10x social pressure on men to be financially successful, and you as a man need to be financially afloat not to get laid, but to actually have a life that's capable of reeling in high quality women WITHOUT you having to constantly put large effort in. It streamlines the process, it change…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/17 04:46 AM
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They do that, but they don't do it logically or intelligently - they do it based on their emotions. They aren't disciplined - they will know they should not eat the cookie, but they eat the fucking cookie. Same principle - they will put out because they are horny even when their natural programming is telling them to hold off because he's loaded. Especially younger girls. Most younger girls especially those from upper middle class homes that spend 500 bucks a month of makeup while their daddy pa…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/17 07:16 AM
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Because girls aren't like programmed robots that follow if/then logic wherence if they see a nice house they think "initiate dry pussy sequence, let's grab us a meal ticket." Girls are dumb, some understand how to use their pussy as bait, some just wanna sleep around with hot rich guys and then wonder afterwards why those guys don't want to be their boo. They understand the game on an instinctual level, but they don't play it very well. I have a pretty posh apartment and maybe 1 out of 5 chicks …
/r/TheRedPill30/09/17 09:04 PM
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Well, ok, upload a pic of yourself in a tight T shirt or a shirtless, blur out the head. And also upload a soundbyte of yourself saying "Hi, I'm Jason, what's up" or something like that. What I bet will come out is you actually don't have a good physique, and you don't have a good voice tone and ability to speak in a way that doesn't immediately out you as low confidence / beta. I am not trying to argue, I'm trying to help, so just be honest, is the above true? If so, then plastic surgery and ch…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/17 06:47 PM
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I agree with looksmaxing to some extent. I myself got a nose surgery done after getting it busted in a wrestling injury in high school and not having the money then, but then at 23 I had the income to get it done through a good private surgeon. I've also got lasik, invisalign, etc. So I know first hand what it does - it boosts your confidence and it boosts your sex appeal by women thinking you're naturally just a Chaddish, symmetrical guy. But there is diminishing returns. You need to improve yo…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/17 06:41 PM
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You know what? I don't actually hate the blackpill / incel guys who decide autistically that women only care about looks, and then go figure out how to max their looks. Active problem solving is fine. Give me those guys over the whiny little bitches who want pussy given to them as they are ANYDAY. Like if you are a minority bitching about women don't like indian or asian dudes, and you think the solution is to get surgery to have western eyes, fix your nose, dress super chaddish, get in good sha…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/17 06:26 PM
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No, lessons learned should be: Don't be the guy your ex phones to talk about how she's getting drunk and piped. Don't be involved with girls who cry rape about shit like this. It's someone else's problem, it shouldn't be yours. It doesn't matter if you're still getting pussy from her - you are doing two dumb things. First trying to explain to a woman that getting drunk at a guy's house alone 1 on 1 isn't an invitation to fuck - she will never understand that because her hamster will never allow …
/r/TheRedPill29/09/17 07:29 PM
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Adderall typing frenzies aren't a substitute for having a well thought out, coherent point
/r/TheRedPill23/09/17 05:44 AM
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Ultimately the reason women cheat is because their husbands make other men seem like a young George Clooney by comparison. Women cheat because they can, men cheat because they can. This is why when a man reaches a comparable SMV to a super hot 21 year old - say like Tiger Woods, etc, what do they do? They cheat their high SMV asses off. Women cheat because when they are with a beta, the beta keeps further digging a deeper hole and losing respect, until ultimately simply being a nearby beta male …
/r/TheRedPill22/09/17 04:01 AM
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Beta males are very similar to women in some aspects of their hamstering. They have an autistically male sense of morals and values and beliefs, like self sacrifice, serving the needs of others particularly women in hopes of earning rewards later, etc. But their actual mental hamster works very similarly. This is why betas are typically haters in the same way fat girls hate fit girls. Poor guys hate rich guys - there is NO WAY I could get that kind of success, you were born talented and lucky. F…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/17 03:47 AM
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They are doing this because socialists always need a new way to spend someone else's money, and giving the government the power to collect money from men who were reported to have spoken to a woman is a way they can actually do that in 2017. France's shit is cucked up. Has been for a long time. Just like with child support and alimony and their ban on paternity testing, the point of these laws is to target the men who have the ability to pay. This is the government being greedy and opportunistic…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/17 03:33 AM
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Give them a little bit of comfort. Girls have egos - they need to be able to plausibly think they aren't just a flesh hole to you.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 08:05 PM
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I didn't say be dark triad or be a "straight up antisocial retard". Obviously there is successful applications of asshole behavior and unsuccessful. Ultimately, it's about being comfortable with the highly assholic world we live in. I don't actually care if TRPers behave assholey or not, but they need to COMFORTABLE behaving like an asshole. It needs to be in their toolbox, it needs to be more than in their toolbox - it should be something you can tap into in order to get a result. If you are ph…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 08:04 PM
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And to fellow TRPers, just SHUT THE FUCK UP if you think to yourself, I'm going to post on some thread saying "you don't have to be an asshole, assholes aren't real alphas." You do. You don't have to be an asshole completely, but you generally have to be more of an asshole than I guarantee 99% of you are comfortable with. Every single person who says that, every single one, is just on the same old, same old "benevolent alphas who care are the best healthy example of male masculinity hurr durr" k…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 03:10 AM
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Because fake FRs teaching lessons is essentially like watching movies or tv shows to derive lessons about how to be alpha or to see TRP principles in action. You can learn a lot from it, yes, but it's a fantasy created with certain biases and in-built logical fallacies. It's someone's narrative, and it can be good or bad. Think of it this way - when I listen to rap, I don't care if the rapper is actually selling drugs and shooting up ppl. Because it's just fun entertainment, with a sprinkling of…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/17 04:38 AM
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I have no idea if this is true or false as a FR, but it's completely possible to get blown in an uber without being Leo. My BS detectors generally do get triggered by 90% of most FRs, but that is not to say that the FRs are not plausible - it's just usually you can tell from the guys writing style it's all fabricated. But then the guys in the comments always cherry pick some random detail like "I gave her a facial" and that is so incompatible with their realities that they are like "fake FR OP i…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/17 07:57 PM
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Your problem is you are pretentious. You probably don't like making friends with the dumb jocks and frat guys either because they don't "intellectually resonate" with you or some BS. So you have no cool male friends aka a autistic tier social circle in college, and you aren't even sharpening your social skills on these "dumb student" girls, so you have no females in your social circle. College is 100% social circle game and cold PU skills are only useful insofar as they teach you a certain menta…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/17 04:46 PM
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The key is that women shouldn't necessarily be kept "happy". Happiness is worthless. Attracted? Engaged, passionate, submissive, creatively involved, motivated, etc, that is real. But happy? Shit everyone knows if a woman stays at a high baseline level of happiness she goes fucking insane and starts inventing drama / problems to experience swings. Men like a stable baseline undercurrent of fulfillment and contentment, and they get to feel this when they are making progress towards their goals. W…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/17 03:42 PM
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Yall gotta study up your history. This ain't no J Cole quote - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UGobXsmPx78 Probably one of the funniest music videos with the truest message. Three six and Juicy J have been trying to red pill ppl for decades
/r/TheRedPill18/09/17 04:26 AM
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Ah, yes, and the smartest people in the world are the best compensated, happiest individuals who climb up corporate and socio-economic ladders the best. Business majors are complete jokes, yes. But the real joke is the hours upon hours the physics / math dual major puts in and the fact that he is leveraging his superior brain for inferior rewards - the real joke is that the business major networked at keg parties all through his MBA, and doesn't really even know linear alg or MV calc, and got a …
/r/TheRedPill18/09/17 04:23 AM
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This is not true. Banking is not a passion career. Sales is not a passion career. In this regard, it is like prostitution - working IB hours for a decade will hurt your health, cause you premature aging, etc etc, and the goal here is to trade that 22-35 decade(s) to create enough value for you to have financial freedom to pursue passion projects or value creation later. Software engineering is interesting because gifted, passionate SWEs can work on passion projects for good comp (not finance com…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/17 04:18 AM
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The core of what he wants to say is that there is a subtext in everyday, normal situations. Cut out the shit about tea leaves and french presses, and you have a very typical, boring scenario that is a cliche that no one bats their eyes around. Girl dragging BF around shopping, answering IDK to all of her questions, just passively trying to make her happy by letting her lead the way. This is bad. Now, it's entirely possible that the chick wasn't getting moist just because OP was confident and had…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/17 03:48 AM
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It is an investment in yourself. Being hot has made a difference in my general life quality that's worth the money to me. For you and for other men, sure, it may not be worth it. For me it was, as looking like a 9 as opposed to a 7 cuts down on time, effort, etc, spent to get the same outcome from women. The benefits extend to work too, as you're perceived as more competent, better reaction from female coworkers, etc. But none of that really matters - if you have the money such that it's no big …
/r/TheRedPill18/09/17 02:29 AM
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Yes, the word cuck is used a lot here, but she is actually using dread game to soft cuck OP and condition him mentally to be cucked. It's probably not conscious on her part, but she's got him all worked up and stressed and worried, which makes him act even more beta and helps her justify the branch swing.
/r/askTRP17/09/17 07:40 PM
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"She texted me yesterday that she will be hanging with her male friend after work and to let her know when I'm done work so that she can call me. Right off the bat, I'm completely fine with this. I've met this guy and even though he's a charming handsome guy, he's also a real class act." Bruh. Is he a eunuch? "GF hangs out with guy friend for the night, forgets I exist. Fails to update me on plans, and shows subconscious/ conscious disrespect." Guessing he's not a eunuch then. Regardless of whet…
/r/askTRP17/09/17 07:37 PM
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Stop having a LDR relationship when you are 20, this is cancer, just stop. You need to go get sexual reference experiences and then you will understand from having experience with 30-40 women what you like sexually and how to get girls to be wild in the bedroom. Every guy wants to be fucked by a pornstar chick, but they only way you learn how to turn girls on enough to bring out their inner pornstar is through experience fucking. You're never going to get that experiencing being a LTR in college…
/r/askTRP17/09/17 07:33 PM
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Do what you want to do, but don't take this seriously or catch feelings. I fuck a lot of young hoes and there's basically two ways this goes. Either she's in it for dick and excitement and feeling rebellious and cool, which means you get your turn on that premium pussy until she moves on / grows up. Or she falls in love with you and her behavior starts to rapidly deteriorate and you just want her out of your life. You have an extremely naive outlook, as does any man who's talking about how his 1…
/r/askTRP17/09/17 07:28 PM
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Abundance mentality does come very naturally to attractive women in a way. But the key is that even attractive women find it difficult to get alpha males to commit to them - they have attention abundance beyond anything we can ever imagine, they will never be short of validation from ages 15-35. But they have a scarcity mentality still when they are with alphas because having beta orbiters doesn't satisfy their need for commitment from an alpha. True abundance in a LTR is not just straight up cu…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/17 03:07 PM
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TRP is about optimizing what you've got. Stay in good shape, look up Bret Contreras butt program, by now I'm sure at 43 you know how to dress classy but sexy, have good skincare and makeup game. This the same advice you get on TRP if you're an ugly awkward short Asian male or whatever - OK, you weren't gifted with 6'3'' scandinavian jaw model looks, so you optimize what you have. Don't develop an eating disorder, calculate how many calories you need and eat them from filling sources of clean pro…
/r/askTRP15/09/17 02:59 PM
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The advantage to clubs outweighs the disadvantages if you are not high enough in the aesthetics apartment to get free lays off Tinder. And even then, a decent club in a major city will have 50+ hot girls, a top tier venue will have more. A girl at a club has already put forth the effort to look fuckable and get attention, and she's already stimulated by the lights / music / environment / people around her grinding and shit. She's like a sales lead that shows up the car dealership with 20k cash i…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 05:20 PM
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He doesn't have a void in his heart. Jesus Christ, what faggotry. He is a beta male who prioritizes relationships because he wants the validation of being the "boyfriend" of a hot girl, and that blinds him to the fact that he's LTRing dumpster trash (high n-count women off dating app), and then behaving from a point of scarcity. He wouldn't behave this way if he was fucking other girls on the regular. Abundance mentality is the solution to his extreme neediness / low self-value / scarcity mental…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 02:53 PM
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I don't really give a shit about introverted versus extroverted anymore. I used to think it mattered, but really, it's just a label you use to justify why you are the way you are. I am probably an introvert, but I've undergone extensive efforts to be more social and genuinely love and thrive off of social interaction and vibing and networking. Because like it or not, that is what our society / econnomy / women reward. You can be an introvert, but if you use that as an excuse to not be able to be…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 05:56 AM
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Overconfidence is fine. You may lose lays here and there to overconfidence, but you'll reel in more than you use. This is the purpose of all strong polarizing traits, like being an asshole, being alpha, etc. Betas are high agreeableness, betas are low confidence. Fantastically high confidence aka overconfidence is bad in avenues where there are real consequences - you don't want delusional confidence as a driver, as a stock trader, as a doctor, etc etc. But there is no real consequences here oth…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 05:52 AM
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The reason is because people on here get salty if you say you banged 9s left and right, but if you bang a 7 that's nothing to write home about because no one on here doesn't want to admit they can't bang 7s at least. It's this weird point of "I want to brag about this hot girl I'm banging, but because you guys won't believe that a guy who writes up a 1000 word FR is actually banging 9s, if I say it's an 8, it's believable and still impressive."
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 05:41 AM
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This post is supposed to show you have real world experiences, when interpretted wrong, can lead you to further entrench yourself into thinking about things the wrong way.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 05:37 AM
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Some kids are more "alpha" than others even from a young age, usually through growing early / being stronger or bigger, or from how they are nurtured by their parents / what kind of upbringing they have. Basically, nature and nurture determine how "alpha" or "beta" Johnny is on the playground. But as for this kid, it's not alpha or not alpha, we have no idea what is actually going through his mind. If I was 11 and this happened I probably would have figured she was fucking with me and posting th…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 05:33 AM
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"90% Trash posts like this, 10% good content that is worth contemplating and applying in your life"
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 05:21 AM
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I mean, it's hard to argue rationally with natural selection. Most arguments against women trying to date wealthy high SMV men boil down to moral arguments - ie "It's not fair, she's a 7, she should date 7's, that's what is right! She SHOULD!" Ok, cool, but women only want to breed with the top % of men - even bottom 20% of the hoes are trying to get mid range 60%er guys. The low value uglies and the poors and the spergs don't breed up a brood of future creeps to unleash on society.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 05:19 AM
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Yes but think about it this way - do you as a parent encourage your children to be middle-ground moderately average people? She's been brought up her whole time to to want the Asian / Indian version of a Disney marriage, and their version of a Disney story involves marrying up. Many women will fail and then marry horizontally because their looks / their family couldn't merit better. But similar to how Americans don't grow up wanting to be a busdriver, middle class girls in Beijing don't grow up …
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 02:36 AM
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It's supply and demand plus it's survival / security in a more concrete sense than most westerners can understand. Similar situation in India with the caste system, which still exists even if it's not as big of a deal. If you marry downwards, you're basically subjecting yourself to a life a misery and poverty relative to what you could have had. Who would do that do themselves? It means your kids don't go to good schools, you don't get to have nice clothes and cars and makeup to show off to your…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/17 09:23 PM
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The rich have monopolized the wealth (what else was feudal times or colonial times or even ancient societies) and society goes on. Alphas will monopolize and continnue to monopolize the sexual prime of the top women. Betas will support and pay a premium for the crumbs. You re right that's it's not a good deal for the women, and you are right that the rich monopolizing the wealth does lead to revolts. We'll see if the western world has the balls to change the status quo, but I doubt it. The syste…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/17 09:10 AM
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The problem isn't that you paid or didn't pay, and arguments over whether to pay or not is not really the issue here. The problem is you knew what you thought was right and what you wanted (to not spend a bunch of money on her) and you in your head thought "shit I don't want this" but you were too frightened by the prospect of losing the date or looking like a cheapass to say something. You cared more about her approval than being in congruence with your own values. That is unattractive, and tha…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/17 05:51 AM
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The worst thing that happens is not random strangers calling you a cuck. The reason I responded is because unlike other shit posts, it's very clear in your post that the same motivations and mentality that is causing you to post this post (and rationalize it later) IS the motivations / mentality that's resulting in your flaws in the real world. Reinforcing and further hamstering the way that you are is the worst thing that can happen here. This is why my main beef was not that you're treating TR…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/17 02:05 AM
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And now, after calling up the Chads to use as your personal therapist, you come to TRP to use it as your personal diary. "I don't know why I am the way I am, but I do know that nobody gives a fuck about why I am the way I am" Pretty much. You've apparently gone through this humiliation 10 years after these Chads have not thought about you once most likely, and you have no real insight or reflection about why it is you are fucked up, and why it is you harbor such an inferiority and resentment com…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/17 10:59 PM
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No one will ever ride your dick like a single latina mother trying to secure a stable stimulus plan for her children.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/17 05:44 AM
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Or because you work with them, you let them be and continue to fuck your hotter plate. Nothing to be gained trying to teach women lessons
/r/TheRedPill09/09/17 05:06 AM
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You don't talk about shit expecting them to understand or level with you like an equal. You lowkey roast them for your own amusement in a fun way. I like to play a game where I see how much I can make fun of them without them realizing it. Younger girls want daddy's validation, and you of course get to dangle it and move it away at your leisure.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/17 05:04 AM
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Just wait until you see how much dumber middle aged corporate gossipwhores are. I'll take a 19 year old with nothing going on upstairs over that anyday
/r/TheRedPill09/09/17 05:01 AM
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The bottom line is that in the eyes of society, a low status male should accept their lot in life, sacrifice for the good of the collective, and work / pay into a system that will support the agency of alpha males and women. This is what is optimal for society, provided betas don't get disillusioned and stop providing the stability / order in society that allows women to slut around and alphas to tap freely with no strings. This, provided that betas play their part, is optimal for the controller…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/17 04:48 AM
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Caught. You caught oneitis. This one might be expired now, and you have only yourself to blame, not the girl or the friend. It was bad, and this paragraph here is where it all turned to hilarious tragedy: "My girlfriend then sarcastically said something to the effect of, "I'm going to do stuff with my guy friends just to piss you off." To which I replied back jokingly, "Don't make me reconsider picking you." She got incredibly upset and cried telling me I shouldn't have said it in that way and t…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 10:13 AM
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Write down everything you don't like about yourself. Let's start with the concrete, and deal with your fucked up psychology having been raised by cuck parents and repeated their programming my getting cucked yourself and all that. That is drama for another day, forgive yourself for whatever you did while under their roof, but do not forget the lessons. So let's start with the actionable. You are unhealthy physically. Lift, cardio, good sleep, healthy diet, etc, be autistically obsessed with perf…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 08:01 AM
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It's a trash article but what do you expect? This writer had zero interest in actually trying to understand "Lauren" or whomever's POV, and only really seemed interested in asking "slot machine" style questions where you just roll the machine, pull the lever until the answer you want gets spat out. I think RPW as a sub is full of many misguided women and women who use RP theory to circlejerk their own delusions, with help from similarly minded women. But of course, this is what women do best, it…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 03:32 AM
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Yeah, exactly. If blacks learned to deal with their stereotype as athletes, gangbangers, drug dealers, and pimps and shit, and spin that into a positive where girls are attracted by the dangerous stereotype, yall can too. I lived with my friend in Kuwait for 4 months in between college semesters and he took me all over the middle east. Yall are doing fine, and for the most part there's higher expectation on males to be alpha, and it works on most white european tourists who visit. I'd love for m…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 02:48 AM
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All of your cons are your fault, or rather, even if they are her fault they are fixable by you behaving more alpha. Her pros are decent, but her cons are from her not being confident / sure in how to categorize you. Are you alpha fucks, beta bucks? She can't decide, so she does shit like feel the dread when you get hit on, but that doesn't lead to her inhaling your dick. She's clingy and jealous, which is how girls get around higher value guys, but she's not doing that from a place of attraction…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 02:50 AM
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Lotta threads lately with people bastardizing statistics to mean whatever the fuck they want it to mean. The average american male may fuck 7.2 women over the course of their life, but this is not a meaningful statistic, unless your aspiration in life is to merely be above the average male (like, fucking kill yourself if that's your aspiration). That number is hilariously low because it's deriving from a generation that had decent marriage rates and more monogamy, before the onset of hookup slut…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 02:37 AM
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Thank you for dismantling this retarded post. Acting like earning more than 14k per year puts you in the top 1% like have you lost your fucking mind, that is below poverty level poor. Women aren't choosing from a pool of every single person in the united states, they are choosing from within their social circle or city. A top 1% salary (as in top 1% of employed people) is 389K. http://www.businessinsider.com/top-one-percent-every-us-state-2016-11 Not that it matters because this entire attempt t…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 11:55 PM
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Bulk up to 15-16, cut down to 9-10. I try to stay sub 10 during beach season. I tripled my tinder rate by using good pics of me chilling at the beach at my most cut. Bitches just want to see cut abs - tinder is not reflective of game in it's entirety, but in terms of figuring out how to open girls off of looks alone, it's a great tool.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 11:38 PM
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Being tall does make a difference, the reason you don't notice it is because of how status disqualification works with women. A 3 is equally incapable of arousing attraction as a 4. A 5 is definitely higher value than a 2, but he's going to get the 2's results in the club because to a girl, it's still strictly too low value for herself to rationalize being with. So for example, I used to be tall (6'2''), facially not aware of how to groom and frame correctly, average college kid fashion, average…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 11:34 PM
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Mayweather = genetic monstronsity + decades of training and being reinforced mentally as being the highest value. Boxing nerd = tons of knowledge, perhaps more knowedge of physiological theory, exercise science, boxing statistics, technical terms. Mayweather is the super hot girl. Boxing nerd is the beta. Boxing nerd is smarter and more knowledgable. Mayweather will thrash him in his environment. Boxing nerd could beat Mayweather on the SATs, but the ring is Mayweather's element. Manipulating me…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 09:52 PM
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And you can tell who's reading Models and spouting it when they say stuff like "you can't bully mentally heathy girls into having sex with you". Fact - you can, and that's something you're admitting later. I am not saying it is the only way or best way, but simply that the notion of asshole game or bullying only working on sluts / low self-esteem girls is false. Being nice or not to women is up to the individual, but it's armchair jerking to act like it's necessary or superior for getting ONS. S…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 06:03 PM
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Dude most people aren't capable of reading beyond TRP's horrid PR and image. You tell your friend you are into this, he tells someone else, etc, it's not a great look for you. I have tried to introduce people to pick up when I was younger and proven in front of their eyes that it works, and they'll be like "this is a bunch of faggoty shit, I don't need this I do fine with girls" when they are super dry-dicked betas, or they will tell people I"m into this weird creepy shit. There are individuals …
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 10:40 AM
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No, and you even should not be here more than necessary. High school ain't the time to be thinking about PU terminology, divorce rape, sluts hitting the wall, and a lot of the shit we talk about. Focus on building your potential. Getting set up physically, mentally, financially, etc to live a rockstar life in your 20s is going to help more than knowing about hypergamy and solipsism. It's important to know about all that shit too. But you should focus on learning now through real life experience.…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 10:35 AM
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The most important thing is to do what turns you on, provided it's not scraping her bits in an chafing manner, she'll love it if she can feel how it's exactly what you want to do with her. You should never fall into the frame of wanting to be good at sex and wanting to rock her world so she thinks of you as a sex god, that's not the right mindset to perform in. These are all great tips. Sex God Method also is really full of great tips to be a good lover. But it's also important to recognize that…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 04:28 AM
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Yes, this reminds me of the Wolf of Wallstreet line. When I face my problems, I face them from the back of a limo. Whatever shit you've heaped on your life, you can face it as a ripped, disciplined, confident man. Or you can face it as a depressed, skinnyfat loser. When everything in my life sucks, I at least suffer over quinoa and chicken breast, so my brain at least functions clearly, and my body is energetic and posturally sound. This alone makes everything in life seem that much more possibl…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 04:13 AM
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Your excuses are as real as you want them to be. They can be concrete walls if you want them to be. Understand this - the time will pass anyway. My friend used to bitch about how he didn't make much money, and I would tell him to learn how to code or go back to school, and he'd always say that would take 2 years! 2 whole years before there would be any return, maybe 3 whole years of toil while the whole time you're thinking "well shit maybe I won't get anything out of this". But what's the godda…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 04:10 AM
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You absolute can bully pretty much any girl into having sex with you if you are high enough value. A lot of people having this misconception of "good intelligent high self esteem girls" requiring a more upstanding gentlemanly "benevolent alpha" sort of game, whereas the trash thots with father issues and tattoos will take your negging and abuse and get wet as a lake. This is not entirely wrong, but it's a false dichotomy, and it's missing the key point. How much of a bully / actual asshole (as i…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 03:59 AM
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One of my best friends has been in the Navy for 9 years. His #1 advice is "get all the pussy you can get when you're docked from local girls and prostitutes if you have to. When you're deployed, enjoy beating it and not giving a shit about getting laid." This dude is an animal, he's a fucking artist at trying to get foreign hookers / bar girls to fuck for free and shattered my reality in that regard. But when he's on a ship with like 30:1 men / women, he goes monk mode and leaves the pussy alone…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 03:48 AM
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If knowing TRP allowed you to apply it in real world situations, the world would be a different place. Many guys do understand this kind of shit conceptually, whether through TRP or through some masculine culture that tends to stray on the RP side. It doesn't help them, because the problem wasn't a lack of knowledge. On the flip side, you have girls who have never intellectualized or logically grasped any of this shit. But they know it; it's a part of them, and they have been applying it to get …
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 03:39 AM
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Fairly simple fix here, despite you thinking you are such a complicated nutcase. Stop watching porn, jerk off with normal mental fantasies and if you can't get it up to that, don't jerk it. Gain muscle mass and stop being a low T skinnyfat male. This will all correct itself. You live in fantasyland, your fantasies will consume you whether they are BP or RP fantasies.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 07:18 AM
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The game is random but not in the way the dude I was responding to understands it. He's saying that OP's spoken to 120 women, and so even with a low SMV surely one of them would have been willing to fuck him. But that's not how it works, and it's not some weird statistical anomaly that not 1 approach of his led to sex, it's about what I'd expect for a socially awkward dude learning game. There is far less randomness when you are way below her fuckability threshold. The extremes get less random o…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 12:38 PM
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You sound like you are way too in your head when you go out. I am very, very physical with girls, to the point where I will sometimes have their male orbiter friends or female friends come over to see if she needs rescuing. Like I'll move her, I'll pull her in, I'll turn her around / turn her away physically, I'll confiscate her phone, etc. But this all comes from being genuinely turned on. When you are talking to a hot girl and you stop thinking and just drink in the fact that she is hot as hel…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 08:52 AM
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If a beta goes out and approaches 20 women in 1 night, and he does that Fri and Sat every week, he'll easily do that many approaches. He is new to cold approach game and pick up, and this is not a random game. A sufficiently low value male can get rejected by 1000 out of 1000 women, especially because if you don't reguarly go out and you aren't comfortable doing cold approach, you will give off weird vibes. This is why in the old school PU world, before RSD, back when game was essentially learni…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 08:35 AM
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Your dad has maintained and grown his dad swag with age. This is very important, and it gets at a truth I read in Victor Frankl's memoir of his time in a concentration camp. Which is that no matter how little freedom you actually have, you can still choose your response and choose your behavior. Frankl's example was talking about his mentality while starving in a cell watching his kin die, but the same principle applies to marriage. A married man has lost his freedom, he's on the hook via our le…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 05:16 AM
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The reason marriage rates are going down is not just because women have turned into CC riding sluts. Marriage has gone down AND gotten pushed back to a higher average age - people are marrying later. In fact, the age is right around the wall, and this is very bad for women. The #1 way that women have always secured a good marriage or an upwards marriage - aka what women want, a marriage to a alpha bucks kind of guy - is by "negotiating" in the sexual market while their SMV is peaked. At 24 she i…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/17 10:34 PM
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Islam was and is a code / structure for how to govern & grow society and women - if you read the Qu'ran for example vast swaths of it are dedicated to specifying punishments for crimes such as fucking another mans wife and various other crimes that endangered the optimal growth. The bible is the same way - it was a blueprint for surviving and growing a civilization in the desert. This is why there's so much focus on not laying with another man or spilling your seed through masturbation - for soc…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/17 10:23 PM
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The reason there is no plan to becoming a better person is that when people say "better person" what they really mean is "a better person at X and Y things". Better at what? The "at what" is the key question, and that's where any plan has to come from. I can't be like "I want to be a better person than these cool guys I see". I can't be a better person - but I can be better at doing things. Failures in life are focused on "being somebody" and their goal is to be a better person to feel good abou…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/17 02:16 AM
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This is a good honest post from someone new to this who is expressing the visceral, physical pain that swallowing the red pill can induce. You either can choke it down or cough it back up violently and still kinda have the taste in your mouth. How many guys would cheat if they were married to a dumpy chick and a young Sofia Vergara came up to them and wanted to fuck them, and genuinely made the guy believe that she wanted to fuck him and there was no way the girl would find out? 99% of the strai…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 08:28 AM
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This is a good post. This is the same attitude one of my friends who is it top salesmen at his company does. Push hard, polarize, you cleave through the leads and quickly with ruthless efficiency - those were going to buy will be making that decision quickly, and those who wouldn't have bought no matter what you did are quick to react and get out of the way. If she wasn't going to fuck me, I'd rather know now that after I put 26$ of drinks and 2 hours of my time into the bitch. Some people at hi…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 08:11 AM
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Does it really matter whether or not he's let himself go? She thinks of it as true, so to her, it is true. When she thinks of him as letting himself go, she gives herself permission and moral justification for doing what she wanted to do regardless. So it is true to her - we will never know if it's true or not and frankly it doesn't matter. When she wants to cheat, she'll find some excuse. He doesn't make enough money, he doesn't spend time with her, he's not emotionally present, he's let himsel…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 08:01 PM
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In an ideal world, yes. In the real world, there is absolutely no reward to trying to "teach women to be better" - you do the teaching and see where it gets you. Women cannot be saved from hypergamy / hamstering / solipsism by a stern lecture from a man anymore. Maybe there was a time when she was growing up that her father could have sat her down and taught her integrity, but that time has long passed. Your argument on this matter is purely hypothetical - like what if we could as a society tran…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 07:54 PM
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There's nothing wrong with depending on hookers and yearly trips to Thailand to get your fucking quota in. The problem is when these men try to act like what they are doing qualifies them to be experts on women or dole out this "real talk" RP advice. Nothing wrong with exchanging cash for sex and I recommend all guys do it once to understand the raw reality of the sexual marketplace that is honest about what is being traded. But that in turn does not give you any kind of wisdom or knowledge on w…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 08:53 AM
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Women have succeeded in reaching their peak as soon as they turn 14-18 and their hips are round and their tits are perky. They are already high value, higher than pretty much any non-celebrity guy, simply for being young and hot. Evolutionarily they are in their prime condition to fulfill everything they have been programmed to do. Imagine if I gave you 10 million, a ferarri, and a muscled bod at 16 just for existing. Imagine how much you would know about anything. You'd know nothing. Literally,…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 07:44 AM
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And about 20 million of those 40 and being dicked down on the low by the same 2 million guys. That's some statistics for your ass. If she doesn't fuck you like she's trying to make sure you don't stray, then it's not love.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/17 08:58 AM
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I have gone out alone countless times in multiple countries, even sometimes when I didn't speak the language. The first thing to do is this. Accept it is a disadvantage, and decide not to worry about it. Not having social proof going in is a big red flag. Always acknowledge this and try to work groups and ambient people into social proof. Befriend everyone. Be loud and pull people in, talk to everyone and slowly start to assemble a loose group. Have fun, make fun of other people, and be aggressi…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/17 05:41 AM
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I think NoFap as a community is fucking retarded, but the practice of not masturbating didn't turn you into a desperate beta. Take some goddamn self-responsibility. If you are at a point in your life where you cannot interact with women with proper sexual polarity and sexual confidence unless you're regularly stroking the sausage, it is you that is the problem. An incel guy would try TRP for a few days, fail miserably, and declare that TRP makes you socially awkward and an embarassment of a man.…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/17 05:31 AM
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You almost got her full buy it, but you short circuited your brain. You needed to have taken charge and slowed down your new friend, and not let your LTR orgasm hard until after she was fully inducted into the threesome. You did everything else fine, and 100% you acknowledged that you may lose the LTR over this, decided it was worth it because LTRs all have expiration dates, and you made your play. But like you said "my LTR was in heaven!" squirting and shit. You have to carrot and stick the bit…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 09:07 AM
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"So I met this 7/10 6 months ago..." And you still give a shit? Look at how you slip the L bomb in there you sneaky little dude, you know damn well that's the key problem here (or symbolic of the entire deep problem) and you slip it in your wall of text like it's just some random detail. There is nothing else to see here - you caught oneitis like a bitch, and that ruined a decent attraction / game you had going. You sealed your fate by getting needy as shit when you access to her was limited (sh…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 07:54 AM
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Life is competition. You should be trying to fuck my bitch. Go for it you little shits, and if you're better than me, well, that's life. This is the core of TRP (competition, more specifically the concept of a sexual marketplace). One time I was gaming a girl who was with her beta bucks, and after we were popping off while he stood there awkwardly interjecting himself every once in a while, she went off to the bathroom. He said "dude I'm already like 3 drinks and a dinner into this girl, can you…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 03:02 AM
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More like found the guy who posts to everyday carry and The_Donald
/r/TheRedPill22/08/17 06:15 AM
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This subject comes up in many forms and I can always predict the top level comment. I say stop playing video games, they are a waste of time building no real life skills, and tricking your brain into thinking you are improving / conquering challenges / facing down real competition. And thus sapping your will to find those opportunities in real life for masculine growth. Top level comment says "dude maybe YOU had a problem with video games but that's on you, video games are fine in moderation. I …
/r/TheRedPill20/08/17 06:16 PM
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Quit with this Jaden Smith shit, stop being philosophical. This is a strategy. If you do X, you will tend to get Y result. Not always, not now, but on a continuum given enough effort on your part. You want to become confident and social and make friends and fuck bitches? You need to have self esteem and know you are fundamentally a person that they should WANT to get to know. You have to know you have something to offer, that you have value. "But but but... I don't have value so it's just a lie.…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/17 11:09 AM
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Don't be in an LTR until you've fucked 30+ women. After you fuck a few bitches you think you understand women, you think you know what you want, and you think you want a LTR. You think you know how to tell when women are selling you a fiction that you are too invested in maintaining to see clearly. The only way you get the perceptive sharpness to cut to the core of a woman and understand who she is as a person, what is her RMV, why she is with you, and what you need to do to remain her king... i…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/17 11:04 AM
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Michael is really pathetic; the entire show can be interpreted as an depiction of how empty, clueless betas build meaning out of shared delusions. I think that's the genius of office - how funny it is while also being pretty tragic.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 06:20 AM
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Well, this is why you need to be getting laid as part of your NoFap. If you go out and you're on NoFap and you channel that motivation into approaches, you'll get to clean the pipes and you won't deal with the downsides of abstinence. I don't think NoFap should be implemented without actually trying to get laid as well.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 07:53 AM
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I think NoFap is a great concept if applied like an intelligent person and not a zealot. It is true that jerking off to porn frequently is bad for you, and it's also true that most normal guys don't realize what effects constantly masturbation and porn have upon their brain and body. I think NoFap is also a great discipline builder, similar to taking cold showers everyday. But it isn't a substitute for hard work. All these autistic redditors get a massive boner for themselves and act like they a…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 07:51 AM
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Women shit test you where you are insecure. A short guy will get shit tests about being short, a fat guy will get shit tests about his belly. If you are getting shit tests about you not being very masculine, then it means she is fishing to see if you are secure in your masculinity. If a shit test is disrespectful, then the entire point of the shit test is for you to call her out. It means she's acting up and she knows it, and she wants to be spanked verbally at least. I don't know what it was wh…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 07:43 AM
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This is a top, essential post that I think needs to be hammered in. All these "TRP is a tool bro, I can use it to be a beta if I want! I can use it to be incel and I can rationalize that as alpha if I want bro, stop using your labels to define me!" dudes on here are getting too much. It's worse than whiteknighting. Whiteknighting at its core is acting against your own best interests to support the agenda of a woman / womenkind, in the hopes that doing so will earn you their appreciation and attr…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 07:33 AM
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It is not about the harm. No one aside from like 90s era parents think video games are actually going to ruin your mind or whatever. When you say "2-3 hrs of gaming a day does no harm" it's about the opportunity cost. What else could have been done in that time? Reddit loves to approach this with the "well, if it wasn't gaming, I'd just be watching TV how is that any better?" attitude, which is shitty and a copout. Imagine if you worked on literally any other skill that was either marketable or …
/r/TheRedPill12/08/17 10:48 AM
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Yup, it's seeking approval in the form of upvotes for cleverness, and trying to be likeable with self deprecation. Reddit is full of this, packed to the brim with guys who say shit like that for zero purpose.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/17 10:44 AM
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Female ratings (SMV, not RMV) assess how universally attractive a woman is. Not how subjectively attractive she is to you. Not her PhD, not even her personality. It's her looks, period, with maybe a little influence from her body language / posture / sensuality. The key that you identified is that legit 9s and up live in an alternate reality. Without make-up, without dressing slutty, they can go out and capture the attention of men 10-80 years old, and other women are innately aware of their pre…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/17 07:50 PM
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The problem with your post, as well as your attitude, is that you are going in with a pre-conceived opinion and pretending to search for advice and debate, but really just fishing for confirmation that what you ALREADY think is true. You are also using a cheap defense, which is the "you guys will probably downvote me for this / disagree / I won't make friends here" defense. The "if you disagree you're just hating on me because you're insecure / weak frame / beta / etc" argument. Then when you ge…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 08:50 AM
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You have to kill every unattractive part of you. The reason incel guys stay incel is because like you saw so well on reddit, these guys make an identity out of it. It's a part of who they are, it's a part of their narrative, their DNA. People are attached to the concept of who they are. For example, I used to have a chip on my shoulder about how I was smart. I got into a top college on a scholarship, I was too smart to party with the dumbos, etc. This mentality leads to pain because my concept o…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 11:44 PM
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Good post, I think it's really a sign of what men have become that whenever you see a chick posting up a sexy pic online there's 30000 dudes like "I wanna shove my ass so deep in your ass" and "baby here's my number call me I'm a good guy I'll treat you right fuck these fuckbois" There's two rules of dealing with girls who know they are hot. (Online or in the real world). First, if she knows she's hot, don't mention it and ignore it completely. Second, if you get caught staring / perving, you ha…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 08:36 PM
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Doesn't have to do with feminism. It has to do with men wanting to believe in what they are sold rather than trusting their eyes. I see it a lot, and this is why I don't tell my friends this shit. In hindsight, you probably knew the signs - you knew he was a average chump who was clinging onto this hot slutty girl and would be too desperate to keep her. Yet being a man with some pride, he can't keep a girl who's actively trying to cheat. The ONLY outcome there is that he can rationalize that A) …
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 08:51 AM
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It's obviously a red flag for a LTR, any girl who's behaving this way is plate material at best. But in turn when she's already plate material, who really gives a shit if she says trashy things. If you seriously trying to date hot slutty girls than you're a moron, but if you're standards are so high for getting your dick wet that you can't abide general thot behavior, then that's silly. I agree OP (like with all field reports) is tooting his horn for - gasp - fucking a girl who was going to hop …
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 07:02 AM
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You know what you have to do, but you want us to pull a rabbit out of a hat and provide you with an alternate solution. Being a leader means being warm when it's best for you and those in your charge, and not being warm when that's what's required. Marriage is leadership; everything else is secondary. Lead her, she behaves better and stays in love and acts sweet and feminine, meaning you get to be warm 80% or even 95% of the time. Women will always act out. They act out because they like the neg…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 07:47 AM
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Yeah, I think this is a world-wide phenomena. For example I was very surprised to see in Thailand a lot of the local dudes are actually decently alpha, working out a lot, and monopolizing the "good" thai girls (and ignoring the ones who whore themselves out for the western $). They've dealt with the socio-economic "cucking" they faced from thai girls there prefering western dudes out of economic motivation by focusing on fitness and treating those girls like low RMV trash. Which has allowed the …
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 08:02 PM
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You're seeing things how you want to see them. It's not that what you're saying is wrong, it's just the incomplete opposite of the "men in their 30s+ can slam through young women all day" idea you are arguing against. Older guys with SMV and game can do really well with younger women. Not as easily with girls in sororities or some specific subgroups of girls, but in general they can have good options if they make an effort to be in the spaces where these girls are. Your point is "well they have …
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 01:45 AM
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The end goal of TRP has to be something you produce, we cannot define it for you. What do you want? Stop with the "how will my wife react to me doing X, will it get a good TRP response?" Do you want to be fucking other girls? Fuck other girls. Weigh up the consequences and risks - divorce, etc - with the potential rewards, make a decision, and be a man and accept the risk / rewards as they come. Quit being a permission boy. Do what you want to do deep down, and if you don't know what that is, we…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/17 01:33 AM
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The fundamental problem with 90% of societal advice towards dating is it assumes the man is HERE and the woman is UP HERE. Or as you say, she's a 9 and I'm a 7. With that attitude, she'll catch on to the fact that you're not this idealized alpha she thought you were. View yourself as a 9, be confident, don't worry about what happens. Don't fall in love, keep your head straight, understand you are probably seeing things in her that aren't there because you're so hyped about this 9 being into you.…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 06:48 AM
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I'll give you the same advice I told my younger brother about Tinder. He's been using tinder a lot and he isn't getting anywhere, whereas I'll reel in 1-2 bitches a month from light tinder use. I told look, you're 19, skinny, and Indian. You're trying to have a presence on a site that is completely focused on looks, where the stereotype of our race is really bad (and it's rightfully so, I'm the ultimate anti-race whiner, and our shitty results on tinder are from many, many indian dudes spam mess…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 06:38 AM
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You can do it if you are cool and fun - ideally she knows or suspects you are raking it in. If it looks like you are trying to hide or dance around the question ebcause you're not comfortable / you don't think your career would validate itself, that tactic will fall. If you already have a good vibe, pretty much anything is game. If you don't have a good vibe going, these kind of answers are a little too confrontational.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 06:25 AM
1

IT =/= a mid-senior role at top tier tech company or unicorn startup. I have impressed a SMALL PERCENTAGE of girls - typically your average bay area overeducated nerdy chick here - with my title at a reasonably hot startup. But these guys you're talking about as well as myself are the exception, it's a distorted reality when you live here and you hobknob with PMs and managers and young grads getting 180k+ offers right out of berkeley. That's a small, small slice, the majority of IT workers are A…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/17 06:21 AM
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My philosophy on shit tests is that everything should be treated as non-serious no matter how seemingly "real" or "serious" the matter is. If she's playing offended or hurt or annoyed or scandalized, focus on the fact that she's playing, it's flirting, and just stay on the offensive. Never get defensive, never go backwards. If you really can't think of a response, completely ignore it and move on to a different topic. But if you can, then have fun with it. You'll see these posts occasionally on …
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 07:41 AM
4

If you extend MGTOW to mean the general worldwide wave of men choosing to give up on attracting women, then yeah, sure, it really does. For example in Japan entire porn sectors have boomed in sync with the growth of the "herbivore men" epidemic which is essentially the original MGTOW. Pornhub becoming like an alexa top 10 site is definitely related to the spread of MGTOW-LIKE ideas taking root in many different societies. Yes, it's a stretch to lump all of these in with MGTOW, but it is really t…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/17 09:42 AM
3

He's not the first great man to achieve amazing success then raise a spoiled shitstain of a son, and he won't be the last.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/17 09:35 AM
13

There are way more alphas getting respect, do not kid yourself. The beta being "attractive" trope has risen - dad bods getting girls SAYING "I like a dad bod", skinnyfat celebrities, etc. But for every one of these guys, there's alphas getting more respect. Now, caveat, the MEDIA does glorify beta males to reinforce the idea that being a sacrificial cuck is attractive and valued. But in terms of who is famous to a lot of people, and who women want to fuck... nothing has changed. Look at who butt…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/17 09:26 AM
3

"I'm terrified." I appreciate the honesty dude. It really is scary because the Red Pill means everything you've learned has to be relearned. Part of what the mind does (at least until trained to do otherwise) is work to maintain stable beliefs about who you are, what your reality is, what you believe, and are you happy. You are not going to want to shake up those pillars of your life, because then you have confusion, you have a lack of immediate direction, and you have to deal with the realizati…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/17 09:07 AM
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Before I offer any advice, let me ask you a question. Do you want to solve the problem, or do you want to feel vindicated and "heard" and have us agree with you, so you get the immediate payoff of feeling better about your problems? I'm not asking this to be a cunt, it's a real question. Do you want to solve your problems, or do you want to feel better about your problems?
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 07:07 AM
5

Yeah, good point. She gave up all her cards and then some, and this supports the point that he got extremely lucky that she played along without putting up a fight or consulting a lawyer.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 06:52 AM
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Red Pill hasn't left you conflicted. You are conflicted because you have no fucking idea what you want to do with yourself and your life, and you don't know what's important to you. For me, learning this skillset and conquering this territory was everything to me. From 17 - 23 or so, all I cared about was coming out on top and winning this stupid social game. Money, status, girls, game, social skills, value signalling, etc. This brought me a lot of happiness and it didn't leave me as a bitter cy…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/17 07:40 AM
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CS / alimony / divorce / parental rights etc are no time for morals. Hunt or be hunted. This guy understood - or at least he got the right advice at the right time. The system is fucked up beyond all reason, and I wouldn't take too much away from this other than to do your research. If you want to be in the sexual marketplace, know the risks. Have a plan for shit like this, have a plan for how to deal with false rape accusations, have a plan to deal with social fallout, have a plan to deal with …
/r/TheRedPill17/07/17 07:16 AM
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Be useful things. I am a misogynist by my own admission, but I don't like stew in a misogynist mindset for very often, maybe like 5 minutes a week, because it isn't really useful. So don't "be" a misogynist or misanthrope for that matter (I would say TRP condemns men much harder than it does women, and TRP can lead to you hating all beta friends, resenting all your Chad friends, etc if you let it). You can think misogynist things, sure, that's healthy and shows you can read reality. But don't ma…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/17 11:24 AM
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"Venture capital is more of a boys club than even Wall Street. Of the five top venture firms — Sequoia, Greylock, Accel, Andreessen Horowitz and Benchmark — four lack a female partner. (Benchmark, the largest investor in Uber, has one female partner, whom it poached from Greylock in May, amid the controversies at the ride-hailing giant.)" And you wonder why, when the rest of America was crumbling in the 2008 financial crisis, or really any of the "down" periods for other industries, we were boom…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/17 09:22 AM
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There's a lot going on here, and the goal of TRP in this situation is reduction. Reduce the problem down to a fundamental values question. Do you want to date a liar? (And before someone responds "all women lie", they do, but you know damn well this is above and beyond - she lied and then hamstered this elaborate tale, and then only came clean after circumstances forced her to do so.) This is a fundamental values question. For me it's a no. For you it should be a no too, but I can't tell you tha…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/17 03:36 AM
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The LMS doesn't matter PUA era (00s) where you had all these PUAs selling DVDs and bootcamps and shit was IMO an unfortunate necessity to get where we are. Looks money and especially status does matter, incredibly so, but in the pre-game, pre PUA era guys literally thought you had to have a roley and benz to get laid. It was guys bragging and peacocking their wealth, guys excusing their lack of success with the race card or the ugly or short card, etc. We were so caught up on looks and money tha…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 08:59 AM
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This is why smart beautiful women really demand a very sharp understanding of TRP ideas and sharp perceptiveness to deal with. I've dealt women like the above who aren't dumb as dirt and do know how to do crafty shit to make you think they are "soo different". One girl who I used to fuck (who now is married to the director of engineering at the startup she was working in as a recruiter) insisted on splitting bills and little shit, just to show she was not a gold digger. If they are smart and man…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 08:51 AM
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This is a crucial post and it's why I take a 3 month break from TRP every once in a while. Reddit is an MMO of sorts, it's a stupid game of validation and bullshit, and it's a treadmill of stimulation and triggering and negativity and circlejerking. If you feel like you are ready to do monk mode as a newbie, then take the plunge. Along with quitting LoL and excessive porn and weed, quit Reddit. Completely. TRP will be there when you get back. This is one thing I liked about PUA. Old school PUA w…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 08:42 AM
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It's all connected and ultimately to be content as a man you have to be pushing at your edge and seeking to conquer new challenges. When getting laid is the greatest challenge and approaching a hot is the scariest thing in your life, then that is your axe to bury, that's your great war, that's your mission. You have to solve it and conquer that challenge because let's be honest, for a 18 year old with high T, you will not think about anything else until you do. When you master that skill or even…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 08:09 AM
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What? Yes getting laid is a metric of success; the entire point of TRP, like the baseline assumption behind all of our science and psuedoscientific theories is that women are biologically programmed to fuck the top % of guys. It doesn't mean the dude fucking like crazy has life figured out or is someone you should consider "successful" in other unrelated categories... but it does mean that if he's talking about women or sex or game, he's probably making a more valid point than 95% of the other p…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/17 08:03 AM
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Lol. All you guys need to just quit. Literally every Indian / Asian guy I've gone down this road with winds up being beta as shit, and the type of guy that would get NO MORE pussy if he was white, like literally no more outside of maybe 1-2 high school fucks he might have picked up from not having low self confidence. It's all horseshit and it needs to stop. Yes, ethnicity is a factor, yes being white gives you a little help in the SMV department. Yes, being indian hurts a little. Sure. And I kn…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 07:53 AM
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I agree with this and I have accepted that TRP isn't going to come around on social media. Male solipsism is what allows TRP to discount it and disdain it - because it is a fucking stupid joke to the male mind, and it is hilariously dumb to think about posting shit behind a phone to be more than a masturbatory exercise. But the thing you can count on is female herd mentality and a female need for validation and attention. Social media - or more specifically, the social status accrued and display…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 07:05 AM
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You're completely misunderstanding what I'm saying. I'm saying that if you want something - and you do, you little hamsters do want to fuck hot women, have beautiful high quality women around in your life, have social status, be physically fit, etc - you have to do what is required to get there. I am not saying to be fucking Ronnie Coleman literally, I'm not saying to be X or be Y. I'm saying that most men, like you said THINK they want to "improve themselves and learn how to deal with women" bu…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/17 06:39 AM
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This is basically "Everybody wanna be a bodybuilder, don't nobody wanna lift to heavy ass weights." Everyone wants to be machiavellian and Chaddish. Do you actually want to put yourself into situations that will force you to build cold logic and an ability to manipulate people? Do you want to actually go through the mental work of stomping out useless relationships and friendships in your life, and force yourself to network and cultivate relationships with people who can offer you something? Do …
/r/TheRedPill06/07/17 03:01 AM
1

Yup. Don't worry about this specific incident, just focus on the root issue behind this, which is that you didn't have the right vibe with the girl from the get-go. You weren't kinoing, you weren't close, and it looked like she was just disengaged enough to be up for grabs. Then when you knew what the deal was, you KNEW what you needed to do, you just didn't man up and do it. Wrong action is generally better than inaction - do something. She'll respond to that at least. You did a good writeup th…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/17 02:22 AM
1

It's not insecure if you genuinely aren't insecure. Women can pick up on it really well, and that's why it has to be something you do very dismissively and not in an upset way. Worst case, she thinks in that instant that you're insecure. Oh well. Continue vibing and she'll forget it and her reality will bend to yours, especially if you two were having fun before. It's not a clear indication you can't handle people in a social situation, it's a clear indication that you know the drill and you kno…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/17 02:18 AM
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Yup. You can tell from watching a man and woman talk for like 5 seconds if he's her BF or he's orbiting. OP 100% asked a girl out on tinder and then communicated with orbiter / male best friend body language. No kino, no busting on her, no sitting close on the train, disengaged looks from her, no vibe in the conversation, etc.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 07:09 AM
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The problem here is that most of what you read on the internet is going to revolve around you trying to act all chill and engage the guy, and try to essentially pick him up, disarm him, peace him out. I don't do that strategy unless I 100% have to, like it's her male friend orbiter and I have to win him over and be tactical. Usually I've found the best approach is to be direct. "Nah dude, we're in the middle of the conversation, peace." Turn back to her and say anyway -> continue on bullshitting…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 07:07 AM
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The problem with democracy is that if popular ideas were the ones that were objectively superior, we'd be defined by the lowest common denominator. For example, for 9/10 men, the reality they live in suggests that women don't respond sexually, don't enjoy aggressive guys, don't put out without dating obligations, etc. If popular ideas rule, betas get to create reality. In this case, alphas are those who have experienced life from the top of the pyramid. These guys see a completely different real…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 06:48 AM
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Why do you think she charges 400 instead of 200? Because a 200 dollar whore doesn't create a fantasy. A 400 dollar whore does. Everything out of her mouth is a narrative that she knows men enjoy, and it's what she has found will get her tips and repeated customers. She knows men want to feel like the alpha fucks, she knows men want to think of her as horny and needing sex (that you, the hero of the story, is there to provide!). Maybe her story is true, maybe it isn't, but escorts typically shoul…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 05:33 PM
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This is a case of getting a good outcome due to decent SMV and correcting your behavior (self-awareness). From your post, it's clear you had oneitis for her (she's so smart, she's nerdier than other girls so I can have a real conversation with her, etc) at least back 8 years ago, and you couldn't seal the deal then. Fine, that's all well and good, we all do that shit due to not knowing better. The key there is to then create distance and go do other shit, because at this point she knows you want…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 02:02 AM
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Social class doesn't mean shit - women who are more educated like to put on a front as though they appreciated traits like refined intellect and sensistivity and body-positivity. They like to think that they are less base and less physically oriented, and more mental. Like they look for a "connection" first. It's all horseshit. I deal with these overeducated rich bitches all the time in SF, of the blonde, asian, hipster brunette, and indian variety. They all virtue signal to make it seem like th…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 12:03 AM
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I'd take this a step further. Women don't have a conception of their SMV outside of the guys they can get - and to a lesser extent the way that other women / society treats them. They do not use internal evaluation or self-reflection like we do - there is no "I'm a 6 because I have an OK body and butterface, no interesting hobbies, but I'm a functionable vagina that looks OK in make-up." Women aren't capable of that. They truly internalize their value based upon who they are with. This gives the…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/17 11:57 PM
3

Can I make a recommendation? You're theorizing and telling us about what these random "guys" are going through as someone who is not there yet, and hasn't experienced it. You haven't experienced being the Chad yet, you haven't experienced what it feels like to be a 28 year old dude or a 35 year old dude, with an abundance of pussy (or a shortage of pussy). You are saying the "ceiling is not as high" for 30 year old guys. I mean, it is and it isn't, it depends on the guy and his attitude. You say…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 08:53 AM
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This is a good take on the subject, and this is a subject that I have definitely done a flip flop on over the past 4 years. The TRP mode of analysis is to examine results produced, and examine the strategy's success or failure rather than it's theory. It's a reductive method - remove the moral and societal baggage that's coupled to the strategy, and try to reduce the strategy down to likelihood of improving your life versus risk / effort. This means that social media (like many other subjects we…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 08:34 AM
1

The bottom line is that women always have a good excuse for what they do. Society tends to err on the side of their excuses too - so that makes women see their rationalizations confirmed by a group. They really believe it and it enters the social group's lexicon of facts. Of course you as a man should never accept or forgive cheating or anything else that's disrespectful like that. But her failure is that her brain and her attitude / belief system are shitty. You do not have to accept it, but at…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/17 03:37 AM
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Why would you be depressed? You can actually change the way you are. Before TRP you thought you were just going to be that way forever, always being a passive scared little permission boy around women. That is a depressing thought. But having a shot at something better? At 22 when you haven't fucked your life up yet? Forgive yourself for being a BP. But if you do engage in behaviors that you now know are wrong... do not cut yourself slack on that. To do that is to waste the gift of enlightenment…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 07:39 AM
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Here is the bottom line. The more testosterone a man has, the higher his sex drive. No matter how you slice it, there is a Maslow's hierarchy that we as humans generally - not always, but generally - do conform to. We can debate where sex is on that heirarchy, but I believe it's one of the most important needs because like other animals in nature, we are programmed to need to pass on our genes. It's as much a part of our subconscious as the need women experience is to take high status semen from…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/17 09:44 AM
5

Respect is very important, but what's far more important is you keeping a self-amused DGAF attitude throughout the circumstances. I generally will have most bitches try to disrespect as a shit test at least once (if it happens twice, it's because I fucked up handling the first). They HAVE to test it once to see what you would do, to see how alpha you are and how much you care about their behavior / words. This happens when she wants to be sure about her choice. She's hoping to have me put her ba…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/17 09:18 AM
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You set the frame wrong, dude. You screwed it from the beginning and you can't blame her for being thoughtless / inconsiderate. That's what chicks do, they try to push your buttons. Here's what you said - "She made her and I wait for him for 30 minutes." What the fuck? That is absurd, you should be leading her not the other way around. She planned this outing with these intentions and you didn't want to do it, but you sat there passively waiting. I'd put my foot down "Yeah we aren't waiting for …
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 08:56 AM
1

Being happy boils down to two main things, and this has been explored in a million different ways, but the gist of it is you need to A) be socially, financially, and sexually successful, and you need to be mentally engaged with ambitions that have meaning to you. The first is good, but the second is what makes you have a more robust happiness that cannot really be taken away by random luck or twists and turns. This is why people who become rich and successful sexually enter into a deep depressio…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 09:47 PM
1

Being happy boils down to two main things, and this has been explored in a million different ways, but the gist of it is you need to A) be socially, financially, and sexually successful, and you need to be mentally engaged with ambitions that have meaning to you. The first is good, but the second is what makes you have a more robust happiness that cannot really be taken away by random luck or twists and turns. This is why people who become rich and successful sexually enter into a deep depressio…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 09:46 PM
1

Being happy boils down to two main things, and this has been explored in a million different ways, but the gist of it is you need to A) be socially, financially, and sexually successful, and you need to be mentally engaged with ambitions that have meaning to you. The first is good, but the second is what makes you have a more robust happiness that cannot really be taken away by random luck or twists and turns. This is why people who become rich and successful sexually enter into a deep depressio…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 09:46 PM
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Hi I'm Thotwrecker and I'm here to help. But you have to be honest. What do you honestly look like? Could you lean up some, get a professional haircut, torch your shitty wardrobe, and learn how to actually groom your face? That's 2 points right there, which gets you from a 5 to a 7. Where are you approaching girls? Day game? Cool, day game is easy but you typically don't get fucks sameday unless you really know what you are doing. Your goal should be numbers. Keep it simple - chances are you suc…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 08:49 AM
5

It is so fucking easy. I find the sweet spot is bullshit corporate events like this that have basically two types of women. Photogenic company reps who having some front-facing role to make the company look hip and feminist, and women like above who are fans / cosplayers / twitter twats etc who only have attention because they are sufficiently hot. These women (and TBH rightfully so) see 99% of the men there as dirt. Chubby skinnyfat gamers nerding out about some cosplay girls and some stupid ne…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 08:18 AM
1

The first thing you need to do to develop some real vision and ambition beyond bitches is stop worrying about Elon Musk or Jobs or Chad or Alexander the Great or whoever the fuck. Stop idolizing - these are just men that shit piss and die, they are just people who don't give a fuck about you and have no bearing on your life. Learn lessons from their successes but don't take it too far. You don't really know their full story either. A vision is the core of what you are as a man, it's your reason …
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 06:01 AM
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She went out to go get fucked up and cheated on her husband, and of course blows off her gamer fans or whoever the fuck is pathetic enough to religiously follow these hotgirl-brunette-streamers, and the entire internet cannot fathom that she's just a party girl who wanted to do coke and suck dick while in LA. Girls are thots first and people second, always remember that. The first assumption is always she didn't want her friends to know she was a slut so she didn't tell them where she was going.…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 05:01 AM
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This is good general advice for most recent grads. I'd add one thing - actually be interested in learning the politics and understanding the organization / bureaucracy. It's interesting, I don't care how badass you may seem to yourself when you and your engineer friends bitch about politics and the PMs and SVPs who know jack shit about the actual product. You have to genuinely want to become organizationally literate. I mean, that is unless you have some grand skill that you can convert to $$$ b…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 05:54 AM
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Here's my take on it. I will not downvote or post a rude response to someone talking about something they experienced in the REAL WORLD. If you are genuinely OUT of your house and you had some epiphany based off observing real people, then you may be ass wrong, but you are operating from a legitimate perspective. The problem is people post these stupid ass theories they concocted either in their own head or by analyzing what some buzzfeed clickbait article says or some post on twox or relationsh…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 08:03 AM
4

You don't have to lift at all. But you do if you never seriously played a sport that trained you up some decent muscle and kept you decently lean. If you're ~ 15% bodyfat and have 10-15 lbs more muscle than the standard male, then you are probably good to go. You won't score pussy off tinder just by posting a shirtless pic, but you'll do fine. You look good in a T-shirt. The problem is, I'm willing to bet 90% of men on here straight up fail that basic test. For these men, you gotta lift. The log…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 07:54 AM
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Here's the thing - as a dude trying to up his game, make money, fuck bitches, etc, you have to avoid being too academic and scholarly about the whole thing. For 80% of the people on here, doing literally anything is probably better than how they spend their non-working hours. Playing adult kickball and doing the Michelle Obama 3 30 minute jogs per week is an improvement and will lead to slightly better pussy rates for most of these guys, because they are at least going to be exposed to IRL peopl…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 07:50 AM
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Right, this is a very common redditor problem far beyond TRP. It's the "It's possible to play video games a lot and make 250k+ a year and fuck hot bitches, so therefore your post about giving up video games is wrong" syndrome. Like ok, are you that dude? No, so you don't get to do what he does. Are you the guy who despite being a doughey fatass still pulls? Probably not, so you need to lift. It's this sort of faulty logic where a select group of men can do X or Y beta / unhelpful behavior and st…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 07:38 AM
1

Do you really think that being machiavellian means having killed someone or having served time? What the fuck, you watch too much TV. You don't have to be El Chapo to benefit from integrating machiavellianism, narcissism, and to a lesser extent psychopathy in your life. Being machiavellian is as simple as, say, knowing how to take a shortcut at work that creates success and attention, and then leverage that into a promotion, while pinning the inevitable fallout of that shortcut on someone else. …
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 03:17 AM
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I'm glad you learned something here but you're problem goes a lot deeper than what you're identifying. Try to treat the root, not the leaves - the problem is not that this one chick was a little cunty, most of them are. Any 8.5+ in LA (or any 6 who can front on instagram like they are an 8.5) is 90% going to be a little cunty. The problem is that you're sensitive. You care what she thinks about you. Even deeper, it's that you haven't stopped having "sore spots". Lot of reformed beta -> almost al…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 10:22 AM
2

For newcomers to actually flirting and attracting random women, being comfortable enough to look at them and hold eye contact is a huge step. Shouldn't minimalize that; it's a big deal. It won't get you laid, but it will remove a huge beta 'tell' that stops many guys from getting laid. If you do not feel entitled enough to her time and her body to say "I am going to visually take in the sight in front of me", there's no possible confidence there, there's no leadership. Entitlement is super impor…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 06:16 AM
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Yup, always understand your value in the market and your value to the company. If your value to your company is higher than your value in the market, you need to stay at your current job while developing your skills and market value. If your market value is higher than your value to the company, you can negotiate a higher salary elsewhere. If your value to the company is low and your market value is low, the axe is coming. Try to make yourself indispensible, worm your way into some niche role or…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 06:06 AM
3

You don't shut them out completely; you feed them a narrative to be a part of. But in that bubble she gets to live in, you're the king, you're the star of the movie, and this does make you what in movies or books would be a "2-D character" or a "Mary-Sue" or whatever. You have to let her in to a degree, but generally it's easier to just feed her the overall story she wants to buy into. Women buy into your lifestyle - they want to believe you're the alpha badass with a heart of gold who just happ…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 06:53 AM
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Internalize this truth - if you cheat on her and she still believes you are the mate capable of giving her the best possible life for her and her offspring, she will stay. She may bitch and moan and struggle to hamster staying, but she will do it. Your problem is that you're not winning anymore, not that you cheated. Figure out a plan and inspire some confidence - if she thinks you are a sinking ship, she'll try to screw as much cash out of you now as she can before you crash and burn. Make mone…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/17 04:53 PM
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The thing is, women are really really good at acting like they respect your vulnerabilities and need to hear your weaknesses and low points. They really lay it on thick and make it seem like it's all about wanting to know the man behind the face, body, income, and dick. But man is ugly behind all of that. It isn't pretty - I would argue masculinity is a very beautiful thing, but it's not pretty and pleasant in the way women understand things. They are attracted to masculinity, but they don't wan…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/17 09:47 AM
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This is one of those situations where the only correct response would have never to be in that situation. What you did was fine, but I'd recommend reflecting on how and why it got to that point? How many times did she mini disrespect you to the point where it grew and she felt entitled to behave this way. You were passively stewing and being pissed, and then it bubbled over after one tipping event. This is beta rage kind of pattern - take all kinds of shit from a woman in quiet indignance and th…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 07:54 AM
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Of course betas can get girlfriends. And on some level, sure their GFs love them. But not on the same scope, not on the same level as the way girls feel and react to guys that are higher value. What are those guys giving up for that relationship? Who puts in more? Does she give him her best and try to fuck his brains out, show him her most reduced, feminine side? Is she pulled to him by raw attraction or by logically figuring that he's a good choice and there's some easy camaraderie, so she can …
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 07:39 AM
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Western women are way less put off by sex than other nationalities, and they are perfectly comfortable slutting it up for an alpha or encouraging their GFs to be a party slut in college, a serial monogamist branch jumper in their 20s, a cheating ho in their 30s, etc. They are not put off by sex, they are put off by the idea of a BETA getting sex. Betas shouldn't be bred with, it's against their biological programming and the idea of a beta learning or developing this outer shell that allows them…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 04:58 AM
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Married girls are super easy if you are in the right venues. Because they are prequalified - like if a married girl is out at the club, she's either fishing for dick or she's trying to feel validated sexually and confirm that she's still attractive (and then retreat back to her boring life). Either way, it's easy. It's like in sales - if they walked in, they obviously want to be helped to purchase something, they wouldn't be here if they didn't want a car or a suit or bauble or a membership. Alw…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 08:05 AM
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Think about it this way - you are 65. You've got what, 5-10 more years of good dick slangin' left in you. Don't waste it shopping, watching TV, listening to nags and complaints, and spending up your retirement cash. Ain't no time left for you to do a beta experiment - let the young 22 year olds finance pussy and throw their money down a bottomless hole, they can make it back. You don't have that luxury.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 07:46 AM
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Here's the thing - at 65 and 56, you two may think that shit is different because you're both older and different rules and so on. But really, it's the same deal. She's not going to be as driven by sexual hypergamy (aka, getting a young Adonis seed up in her belly), but she will be driven by seeking a good stable provider. So that is why she is probably going to just keep you around - you're safe and reliable and because she knows she can keep enforcing this frame of "I'm the high value one, I'm…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 07:44 AM
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Mods will probably delete this, but here's what you need to do. You want this girl more than she wants you. Don't argue with that, it's evident in your language. When you are in that situation, you will lose. Why, because she knows she is hot and can have better, hotter guys and she knows you want her sexually. She knows you want her back and she's probably trying to see right now if she can get a better guy - and if not, maybe she'll use you for another round of sex / emotional tending until sh…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 07:31 AM
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Any strategy on TRP or dating or life or anything at all that is based on self-reporting from women or women rating what they think is hot is pretty much useless. It might be correct, but it's also useless. Face is very, very important to women when it comes to determining their physical attraction right off the bat. But physical attraction is really not that important when it comes to getting them to fuck you. It's a big factor, it's not the only factor - see we don't really have any reason to …
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 07:20 AM
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I would think about it this way. The most attractive men in the 20s, 30s, and 40s are all fucking plenty. The % of men within each subgroup is unimportant - I have personally seen that sex is a lot easier to get as a young professional (22-26) than it is for MOST guys in college, but who really gives a shit? The number of guys who have sexual options, like 12+ bangs a year, are in the top %, and as far as I'm concerned that's the only tier worth being in. Like if you aren't trying to at least ba…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 08:05 AM
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Yup. They would just increase taxes further on the bay area until all the tech companies realized "hey you know what's awesome, tax advantages in WA and TX, we don't actually have to be in this tiny overtaxed shithole" and they left. All of the midlanders and essentially everyone not along the coast would move to Nevada, Colorado, etc.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 07:32 AM
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It's fucking terrifying. I don't know how enlightened dads do it, pouring their life and love into 18 years of a precious human being, cultivating something of beauty and pride, only to watch it turn into trash being passed around. And it's not even a female thing only, there's this comic I saw of a 90s era dad in one frame with his newborn son talking about how the world would be his, and in the next frame it's 18 years later, he's a emo trans SJW addicted to the internet, trans fats, and not b…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 07:24 AM
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Because if you don't, you might as well kill yourself. What is the point in living a shitty life because you're not willing to do what is required to live a good life? If you don't do it, your life will suck, and it probably already does, but it will only get worse. The world changes. You are resisting that change and thinking that in a different time, you'd get to put in low effort and still fuck hot women and make bank because you're a man. What is happening is that traditional beta rewards - …
/r/TheRedPill13/04/17 08:23 AM
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Additionally white guys are beta as shit for the most part, I stay in SF and travel up to Seattle a lot and white guys have really made a name for themselves as grade A nice guy faggots around here. Embrace your ethnicity and standout, don't be trying to fit into uniqlo skinnies like every reddit hipster, don't be trying to wear sperries and salmon colored shorts like you're in a frat if you're 28. Ethnic dudes suck ass when they try to emulate a watered down version of what white people already…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 07:43 AM
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You have to work hard because men have to distinguish themselves physically, financially, socially, etc, to make life worth living. If that sounds like a hyperbole, then you have low standards or you don't get the red pill or whatever you want to call it. Life is what it is. I used to be poor, fuck that, I would rather die than be trapped in poverty for decades. As a man, at least. If you're not making decent bank, or your not at least en route to doing so, then life will suck balls for you. Sam…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 07:37 AM
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Right. Being obsessed with sports is no better than being obsessed with League of Legends esports or some shit. It's alpha to be in the arena, it's alpha to profit from the charade (and we've give Dave Portnoy credit for being a millionaire and CEO even if he's behaving like a faggot here), but being a spectator? Even if you're spectating an alpha sport, just appreciating the MMA techniques or bitching about a manager's choice in baseball because you know the stats better is worthless. A fat bet…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 09:36 AM
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There is a difference between not tolerating disrespect and mateguarding. And keep in mind, this post is for GFs. It's a completely different strategy for how to deal with AMOGing when it's a chick you just met or a plate. Not tolerating disrespect means you act decisively to shut down someone trying to step over your boundaries. It doesn't mean you act violently or even confrontationaly, but it means you are not afraid of confrontation and you're comfortable with the concept of fighting. You're…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/17 03:57 AM
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This sounds like some David DeAngelo from back in the day with this affirmation shit. Some of these are also very hyperbolic. Saying "having intercourse with at least one person is more important to my happiness than my bank account and social status" is pretty hilarious. Your social status is easily one of the most important things when it comes to naturally attracting hot chicks. And if you've brushed with reality, then you know your bank account's wellbeing is more important than getting the …
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 08:24 AM
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Yes, this is part of the red pill and if you don't accept it, you're not really swallowing the pill. Women always try to get the best they feel they can get - if they are staying with you, it's because they feel they couldn't get better. If she could have gotten the higher value, more alpha guy to commit to her, she would have. I'm not saying all women are always going to perform hypergamous acts, but they will always have hypergamous impulses that will drive the majority of their sexual choice.…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 08:14 AM
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You're overcomplicating things. TRP is saying "this is a set of ideas that surround sexual strategy and related topics that you can use to improve your sexual success - and other areas you'd like to be more successful in" You don't have to only apply TRP to sex. TRP is objective, fact-based logic applied to a specific set of areas - but you can still apply that same fact-based objective approach to other areas of your life. If you have broken down the logic behind how running works for you, and …
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 07:43 AM
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I'm not going to upload a mugshot, but trust me, I am a personal testament to the fact that you're face matters less than you think it does. Facially ugly dudes do suffer, but like with short men, it's a disadvantage that can be overcome.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 12:53 AM
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I'll admit this is super basic to the point of being shitposty. I just find this subreddit overrrun by two types of people. Type 1 who thinks you have to be 6'2''+, 200lbs, 8%bf, 150k+, white, good facial aesthetics, etc to fuck 8s. Nope. And Type 2 who thinks that they are high SMV because they have internalized the principles and knowledge that high SMV men tend to have. They think their failure must stem from some larger sociological wave or conspiracy. Racism / classism is real, but you're a…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 12:39 AM
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Word. Shoulder to waist ratio is our golden ratio, and being in that shape you're describing is sadly more than most 20 year olds are accomplishing today. The work required is definitely way higher for you, so all the more props for keeping it.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 12:29 AM
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Yeah, there's definitely a lot to go into in terms of posture and how kyphotic posture is very beta. Normally I don't describe things as beta or alpha, but if you think about what kyphosis is - abducted shoulders (curved in, minimizing V taper), head / chin forward (minimizing height, looking down), depressed / tight chest (closed, uncomfortable, defensive), hunched / hyper-extended spine (minimizing your height like you're trying to hide) - it's really exposing a ton of beta give-aways. You're …
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 12:25 AM
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He's a cuck because he has performance anxiety and nerves because he's a sexually inexperienced nofapper, and he was almost happy to have some easy out where he could not risk embarassing himself and salvage his pride. He rationalized that as morals, but let's be real, he's not deciding this out of morals, he's deciding it out of anxiety and self-consciousness and lack of confidence. He's so in his head that he can't just go with his and her natural programming.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 07:46 AM
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This is why I always say men can hamster HARDER than women. We have the logical faculties to create these intricate system of webs and beliefs and axioms to support our inner pussy. It's like.. when a bitch hamsters, she'll say "I JUST FEEL THIS WAY" and stick her fingers in her ear and scream "LALALALALA". Whereas a man will hamster by sitting you down and having an intellectual debate about how indeed actually his seemingly weak result was due to his moral superiority - and he'll have an elabo…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 07:43 AM
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Remember this then - the long term is everything, and 99% of guys can't accomplish shit with their lives because their long term vision falls apart or changes every 3 months. They can't stick to something. Always remember that the problem isn't women or the world or med school or whatever. There's so much fucking going on in med school, it's absurd. If you're not where you want to be with women, it's because you're weak. If you're not where you want to be fitness-wise, it's because your mind is …
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 05:06 AM
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That's fine man, you can choose to react and deal with the red pill as you want - I choose to just try to enjoy them for what they are, but you can think the opposite. I definitely agree that as a man you'll never really have a "first mate" because you are alone, and just being submissive and feminine and sexy and whatever else doesn't make someone capable of being a part of your "ship". And stupid analogies aside, it's about seeing the "red pill" or reality for itself and then deciding a strate…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 08:24 AM
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Why should it disgust you? You should be her captain, as cringey as it sounds, you are ultimately responsible for you, her, and your ship if you should choose to LTR her. It's your job to lead and to grow her into a woman who's capable of maintaining her hamster, and it's not your job to let her talk back or argue back about dumb shit. While I think most RPWs are hilariously hamstery on reddit, the concept of captain-firstmate is good. It's the only way a successful LTR can work.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 07:36 AM
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Yeah, but look, we can't fix the world. We can't fix womenkind, we have to just deal with it as they are. You get yourself the best you can get - not necessarily the best educated, but a girl who has had to learn to support herself and not be a spoilt basic bitch - and you do your best to not be bothered when she does dumb shit. That's the apple pie, that's really as good as it gets. See, girls can be smart - they just aren't intellectual, and they don't like being in "smartmode". They like bein…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 07:33 AM
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You can talk about it whenever you want, however much you want. You just can't hamster about it and think it's building attraction. You can't be doing it to try to build an intellectual connection. Everything you do doesn't have to build attraction, as long as your very heavy in the positive it's fine. It's like paying for bitches dinners - if it really makes you happy, then do it, but don't think it's earning you attraction. I'll talk about shit I know she doesn't understand or can't even begin…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 07:28 AM
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You should want to. Why do I need her to provide me with intellectual fulfillment and stimulating scholarly observations and deep conversations about reality, morality, etc etc? That comes from me. I'm responsible for knowing how I view the world, and I'm responsible for finding intellectual fulfillment through my career, my hobbies, and so on. Normal guys say "blah blah blah I want someone who I look to for advice, someone who can engage my intellectual curiousity!" Well, that's because their a…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 06:46 AM
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If you are halfway through your 3rd year, there's no feasible way you can get into any halfway decent med school if you're just now laying the groundwork. And if you have been, then there's no way you've accrued the courses you need for CS. The kids who get into even very middling med schools have tons of prereqs, volunteering, somewhat relevant internships, etc. Likewise if you're thinking you're going to get Uber and FB tangled up in a bidding war over you and snag a 150k+ offer right out of c…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 09:22 AM
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No, it's more like this - TRP - All women want to ride the CC and fuck the highest SMV guys around, typically white guys and black athletes, and then find a betabucks. Indian men - But indian girls do it more! It's fucked up. They think of us as low social value. TRP - That's because you are low social value. Learn to accrue social and sexual value - it's harder for you, but doable. Indian men - But I want to fuck blonde girls, why do all that to get indian girls? Just tell me how to fuck the bl…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 09:06 AM
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I don't feel bad for Asian / Indian guys. Ultimately, there is really nothing worth complaining about because you can do really well if you stand out. No one will help you - your parents tried to fuck it up for you, the stereotype makes people already perceive you as beta / nerdy / feminine, your own race's women will associate you with being lower social value, and yeah, white guys won't want you sniffing around their women. But there's really nothing on earth that can fuck with having a high S…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 08:59 AM
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Indian chicks don't shape up after college man, that's wishful thinking. These hoes go strong up until like 30 now, especially in big cities. More and more indian divorcees are popping up because the stigma around divorce has eroded and these 35 year old women are bored of dating their software engineer husband. There's old ass indian hoes on the CC aplenty - not as numerous as white of course, but they'll catch up soon enough.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 08:49 AM
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I remember this post when it first came out and I remember thinking that the father is stuck in this state of purple pill limbo. He knows the deal, he knows his daughter has degraded her value, shit upon the sacrifices he has made for her, and he feels the discomfort and cognitive dissonance. But at the same time, he lacks (or rather, lacked) the strength to be the bad guy early on and shut this shit down when the slut was in her formative years. As a father you must lead, and you have to be wil…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 08:42 AM
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The reason this happens is not because girls try to box guys into the "Beta bucks" box. They do, but that's not what's causing this. It's not a function of race, of Toronto being a shitfest of pussified males and entitled females, or of your physique. It's your demeanor and attitude, your behavior and body language. I can tell from how you are describing. You want girls to respect you? You want them to perceive you as alpha and not give you the same treatment they give other low SMV guys? You ha…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 01:48 AM
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You learn through writing. Anyone on here who claims to be a natural alpha is likely full of shit. Let's be fucking honest - you found this area of the web, be it pickup or TRP or whatever - because you weren't pulling ass. So you have to learn and internalize the concepts that will let you improve your sexual strategy and be more 'alpha'. It is selfish. If you approach a lot of girls and get laid a lot, you know this shit is messy, and the process to getting there is not easy if you came from b…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/17 10:38 AM
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It is normal to be emotional and sentimental. It's very abnormal to not have emotions or to be in complete control of your emotions. It is terrible to be overemotional, it's terrible to not be in control of your emotions, and it's worst of all to have your emotional state be manipulated by others. If she can control your emotions through typical chick behaviors, she'll feel zero respect for you. The ideal you should shoot for is to have complete control of your emotions - which means not denying…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 07:14 AM
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No it won't, because these guys are essentially adding on a NEGATIVE trait - supplication, beta friend zone status, etc whatever you want to call it - to their already low SMV. High SMV guys can get away with helping women move for free, being a shoulder to cry on, and then still find a way to slip her the D when she breaks up with her asshole BF. It's still a terrible strategy but it can work for them. But low SMV guys, the more effort they put in, the more disgusting and repulsive they are to …
/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 03:13 AM
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If getting laid is a lot of work, then you're not as high SMV or naturally charismatic as you think you are. Like you said, you have a introverted and reclusive nature, which is not necessarily a beta trait, but it's definitely a trait that many betas have and can lead to you getting characterized as a beta. So you have to work hard to be the outgoing extroverted alpha guy to get laid, and that requires effort because it's you being someone who you're not naturally. If you want my advice, it's t…
/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 03:07 AM
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There's two strategies. One is to not give a shit, not worry about your looks, just focus on success in general and trust that if you go for chicks, many will reject you, but some wont. This approach 100% works and I've seen it work for guys who genuinely have the balls to just not be self-conscious and not be a little bitch about how they look. The second approach is to focus on your looks intensely. No man has any excuse for not being muscular and ripped, unless they are in crippling medical c…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 07:14 AM
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This is why you get legal and tax advice. This is a very standard trick, a single mom I used to bang told me about how she did this to her ex-husband. Any counsel worth his salt should sit you down and cover some of these common edge cases.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 06:50 AM
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I never said anything about telling random girls that you were an engineer. You seem like you're under the impression I'm saying being a SWE is an alpha career or alpha field to be in, which is the complete opposite of what I'm saying. The few who are alpha - the exceptions - stand out a lot in an ecosystem that is flooded with betas. Inside the ecosystem. I'm not saying college thots, bar girls, and so on give one iota of a shit. If you are alpha in a overly beta space, you'll attract more atte…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 06:37 AM
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Yup. This is what OP needs to read, never take it seriously, never assume there's a problem if it's just normal bitching. All she wants is to know where her place is because OP is being unclear and giving mixed signals through combining alpha and beta behavior. Never interpret chick whining seriously if you can instead just treat it like a hilarious opportunity to give her a verbal or physical spanking.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 04:01 AM
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I don't know why these purple pill faggots have started talking about how you need to be 50% alpha 50% beta on TRP. They've clearly never figured down the art of holding down a 9+ chick. It's easy to hold down a 6-7 and keep her interest with like 30% alpha 70% beta, it doesn't fucking matter. But for the female top % that gets hit on 3x if they go to check the mail wearing a potato sack, it's different. Her value is stratospheric while she's 18-25 and she wants to be constantly reminded of your…
/r/askTRP31/01/17 03:59 AM
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Do you read? My point is that most people in this space are so fucking beta that if you are alpha and masculine, you stand out from the crowd very easily.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 03:39 AM
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Do you people read? The vast majority of people on this peninsula are so fucking beta that if you are remotely alpha and masculine, you'll stand out. What you are saying is exactly my point.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 03:39 AM
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Being a virgin is shame worthy if you are a man. We cannot say that we are going to shame sluts and understand that your success rate with women is a reflection of your masculine traits, and then get mad at people who virgin shame. JKR is right. If you're trolling on twitter with a Pepe avatar and you spend all your time online, then you probably are a virgin loser. And being a male virgin is shameful, because it means you are defunct in some critical capacity. Now you can argue she's being sexi…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 09:47 PM
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Yeah, your SMV comes out through your behaviors and how people react to you, and her evaluation of you does come in a large part from how her friends think of you. For younger chicks especially, social value is everything. Tinder and the club are both different ecosystems where due to the meatmarket nature, SMV, particularly looks, is inflated greatly in importance, so I'll leave that point alone. But for real life situations, social value is everything - and social value is not something that's…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 04:51 PM
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She's not wrong. If you are an alpha SWE at a airbnb / uber tier successful startup or even a big 4, it's so fucking easy to stand out from the crowd. You get your pick of pretty much any company 20-something you want who works in a shit-tier field (recruiting, marketing, office management, human resources, etc). And these women are fishing for a big fish, they are not planning to be a recruiting coordinator their whole life. If you're stupid, you'll give into the buffet until you fuck yourself …
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 08:37 AM
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SMV is a great term if you understand it as how desirable / high value you will seem on average to most women. It's objective and subjective, and it's made up of objective components (wealth, physique) and subjective (game / social skills, social capital, network, confidence, other alpha traits. We need to evaluate SMV as objectively as possible so we can chisel out a plan for improving ourselves across multiple fields. But it's just important to take a step back and realize that she doesn't rea…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 08:07 AM
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SJW one-upsmanship ("I am more oppressed...") combined with the humble-brag, all marinated in a victim-glorification stew. Throw a hamster in the pot and let it simmer, and you get a standard issue college liberal chick.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 06:02 AM
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Location matters because immersion breeds confidence and learning. It's like how going to prison and being in the mindset of "my asshole is going to get widened if I don't look tough" will compel you to lift and eat cals at a madman rate. The environment itself is far worse than a cushy LA fitness and a Safeway for getting your gains in, but the immersion 24/7 forces you to adapt and learn. Med school is filled up with sluts, so if you party you'll get decent exposure, but the bartender is deali…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 05:56 AM
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I wasn't disagreeing with your original post, I just wanted to explain why TRP is by design and necessity cultish about certain ideas. We have to be to give men less room to hamster. I know your point wasn't to give up on sexual success or go MGTOW - I'm just explaining why ECs and mods are intolerant of those opinions (despite those opinions having some merit).
/r/TheRedPill29/01/17 11:23 PM
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The issue is it's just too easy for men who suck at sexual strategy to hamster their failures as "eh I'm just so evolved and I've realized, in my wise state of TRPery, that sex is indeed a waste of time and should not be a priority." It's so obvious, and while I agree that sex should not be your priority in life, it's leads to annoying preachers who talk about how "TRP is not really about X, it's about Y." I will tell you what happens next, it's the mods noticing an epidemic of new people trying…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/17 12:25 PM
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Plates or plate theory is a model of dating that swings the balance in favor of men - if applied well. If applied poorly, it doesn't do that, it leads to negative outcomes. The reason spinning plates is important is very simple - it's not that it's a solution to one-itis, it's a solution to women wanting commitment before sex, and wanting commitment and emotional progression before you've evaluated them. No plate lasts forever, because no woman will be happy as your slampig indefinitely unless s…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/17 12:17 PM
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Psych is fucking terrible, there's a reason it's super popular amongst sorority girls. It's shit for employment until you have a masters, and even then, it's still subpar. The most "alpha" careers aren't important. The careers that you can excel in are. To demonstrate what I mean using a retarded example, bodybuilding or boxing is alpha as fuck, but you will not excel in that field. Software engineering is a pretty beta field with the exception of a 10% elite group who knows how to leverage comp…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 09:14 AM
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Trump gets good praise around here because he did do a phenomenal job during the republican primaries of using repeated language, interruptions, and attitude to deal with a coordinated media campaign + a bunch of skilled politicians gunning for his head. He did a great job of not letting any negative jab slip, and he was really strong at stopping the shit hurled at him from sticking. While his debates with Hillary were less impressive, the way he controlled the room and made himself the center o…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 08:36 AM
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You're not going to like the answer, but there's certain situations where your optimal route will lose you some primal attraction from your girl. Yes, her pussy would have gotten wet if you'd gone outside, whipped their asses, then gone back in. But A) that's not doable, they'd probably gang up on you and fuck up your shit real quick, and B) you'd end the night in jail. You don't gotta be black to catch phony charge and/or bullet from some hometown buttbuddy cops. So you have to do what's logica…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 08:23 AM
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I agree with you. I know I'm being solipsistic to a degree. But I'd argue that reality is even more uncaring and even more predisposed to the "go kill yourself" mentality. Look at how people - namely these liberal SJW women - treat low income men. Like fucking parasites - their attitude is have value... or kill yourself. I was born poor, I get it, it's fucking hard. But ultimately your own life is your fault. If you are bad with women, it's your fault. It's not daddys fault, it's not Sarah Oneit…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 03:51 AM
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Any man can become an 8. Let's describe an 8 as the minimum viable product required to do decently on the dating market and occupy the AF role instead of the BB. To do that, you don't need 1%er qualities, you need basically 1-2 years of lifting and dieting, maybe 6 months of intense social practice where you go out 2 times a week and talk to a shit ton of girls (and guys and really anyone you can) to grow your social circle and social skills, and enough money to afford a place in a hip area, a d…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 09:51 AM
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Male solipsism is the root of the problematic thinking you're describing. Men think that women evaluate using hypergamistic logic and then do what's in their best interest. They think hypergamy means she analyzes "OK which dick will provide for me the best and give me the most tingles, hmm let's branch swing because Todd has a better ROI and has a 10% better body and 15% more dominance." That's not how it works. It's feelings based for her - and the reason I said male solipsism births this flawe…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 06:13 AM
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Great post, but I don't think men can be made great again, at least in our lifetimes. Some men can be made great, and these men will join the top % ers, the elites who already occupy the tip top of the pyramid. But very few men will ever be capable or willing to do what's required to get there. Women are only what we require them to be - they are only as good as they have to be to keep men. Men are only as good as they have to be to survive in their environment. If their environment is comfortab…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 05:55 AM
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"You know what kinda grosses me out now? When I'm folding laundry and have to touch her underwear. Yeah, it's come to that." From the comments. Wow. This sub is more tragic and pathetic than incels subreddit. That imagery is just sad. The problem with masculinity is that we do have a very strong ability to just "grin and bear it" out of duty. It's in our DNA, we can stay in the trench and shit our guts out thanks to the dysentery, but we won't desert, we'll die in that trench if we have to. We k…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 09:28 AM
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Because Musk is extremely overconfident (and justifiably so) and like guys like Jordan or Jobs or Schwarzenegger it bleeds over to all areas of their live. They have shaped the world and the reality we live in by believing that their intelligence, when applied correctly, could "make things so". It's like the skit by Bill Burr where he's like "why the fuck wouldn't Arnold Schwarzenegger think he could get away with fucking his maid? He's won Mr Universe, been in blockbuster franchises, become the…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 09:15 AM
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Very true. Abundance is the key, not necessarily "abundance mentality", but actually taking actions to build and maintain greater options. The problem with how PU and to a lesser extent TRP perceives abundance is that they view it solely as a mentality. "Have abundance mentality with girls bro" - yeah no shit, but if you literally have 1 girl who you feel you have a shot at, you simply cannot fuck your brain into thinking abundantly. I have faked abundance mentality for interviews and salary neg…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/17 08:53 AM
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Women do not actually enjoy being kept in a happy state. They enjoy the rollercoaster, they want drama, not happiness. Happiness as men know it - a cool buzz of fulfillment - just doesn't hit their buttons. They want the change in emotion. It's similar to the ancient PU equation of attraction = HV + delta-E. Higher value and changing her emotions - negatively OR positively - get's attraction. It's the change that she wants. Women cannot regulate their emotions, they just can't do it. They cannot…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/17 09:39 AM
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The problem with a teenTRP separate sub is that essentially what teens need is advice from people who are connected to the teenage experience (ie able to empathize and understand the current playing field of high school), yet are not teens themselves. What you don't want is a bunch of internet teens playing Chad advising each other about stuff they have no knowledge and experience with. If you are a teen, you need advice from adults and you need to put your teen ego aside and not argue all the d…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/17 01:06 AM
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I'm glad gamergate red pilled many of you, but I've always been in the camp of "who gives a flying fuck." You - not you OP but the general "you", a 20-something male on reddit - haven't pulled ass once in your life. If you get laid, it's through investing disproportionate time and resources into a female friend and converting that one out of every 20 into a delayed lay. You're value is nothing; you're not a 4 or a 5, you're not in the sexual marketplace at all. You may make decent money, you may…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/17 12:50 AM
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I mean you certainly can it's probably not going to risk your job or reputation. But I'd rank it next to playing LoL or masturbating in terms of how useful it is towards improving your life. You get to dump a mental load off on somebody, but you're still trying to debate an idiot for an imaginary internet victory. I know many of us here fall into that trap trying to debate people on r /relationships or askmen but you might as well be cheesegrating your dick, even if it's anonymous and risk free.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 06:51 AM
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He's brain damaged and close to paralyzed but he'd better find a way to get that CS money flowing in the right direction or he'll be the one with jail time. The world sucks. These stories are important for moralists to understand that there's no such thing as karma, and you're life can be wrecked and you'll get no justice. Embrace it and use the knowledge to protect yourself. Use protection, don't date white trash chicks, don't date any race of trash, don't fuck company hoes, don't talk about TR…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 06:50 AM
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I broke up with my senior year GF to work in the bay at a top tier startup, and I was actually rejected from Google after being deep in the interview process. Many of my friends are 25-26 now and they are exiting big 4 / top tier tech companies, so I feel like it's my responsibility to lay some truth onto you. I also am an Indian-American and many of my friends are either eastern euro or Indian or Asian who came here to work in tech. Let me explain something, since I am guessing you are young. Y…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 02:37 AM
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Get an internship with a good company instead of slumming in your hometown. Start getting your career set up, learn a skill. Goddamn I sound old, but look, in 4+ years, maybe about 2/3 of your SMV is going to be your lifestyle, social status, and money. Every career that hits the gate right out of college at 80-120k/yr generally requires you to do a competitive internship in your junior year summer (when you are a rising senior). To get that elite internship, you need prior work experience or st…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/16 09:02 AM
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Spectatorism / spectator culture / escapism through following other people rather than living live yourself is the #1 thing that's going to fuck up younger generations. It's a bigger problem and bigger threat to blue pill teens than feminism / women / anything else really. Our society has really fucked itself to the point where people would rather watch and live vicariously through other people.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/16 08:39 AM
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That's a good way to avoid oneitis too. Fuck and pass, then you don't have to deal with any drama.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/16 07:59 AM
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There are two types of male friends. Beta male friends will be loyal and will make sacrifices for you, but their lack of pussy makes them weak; they will always prioritize pussy over you because they cannot get it elsewhere. They'll dig through your trash before they go to the club and pull a chick. Alpha male friends are generally have enough abundance that they don't feel upset if any individual friendship is ended. They will be less likely to ruin a friendship over a hoe because are not in th…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 02:29 AM
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It is very simple. Most men are beta and pursue relationships. When a man pursues commitment and clearly wants something more after they've been flirting / fucking a little, it creates a massive power swing in her direction and it's takes the challenge and intrigue and fun away; it becomes cloying and the same-old song to her. If you pursue the relationship with her, she may or may not go along with it, but because you wanted the relationship more than her, she loses a considerable amount of att…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 02:10 AM
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N-Count is literally THE hardest thing to unplug some guys about. Most guys instinctively get it because we are hard-wired to feel repulsed by finding out girls have a huge past, so they just figure "the reason I'm so appalled by this must be rooted in reality and to my advantage to follow." They don't need to know about hypergamy or any of our ideas to instinctively get the flaw in making a housewife out of a ho. But there's that % of guys who just prefer to stick their head in the sand and cry…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/16 02:50 AM
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I agree, but I believe you're splitting hairs with addiction / dependence. Guys who can't get hard when they fuck their woman because they are ... dependent ... on porn, and they are low energy, they have focus / attention problems, normal vanilla porn isn't doing it for them, they jerk of 5 times a day, etc... at some point, the common understanding of the word "addiction" is enough.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 07:12 PM
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The bottom line is that women's choices reveal their personality and character, and shape who they become. Just like men. So if she's spent her 20s sucking and fucking all kinds of dick with no commitment, or even serially hopping from one relationship to the next (branch-swinging), then it shapes her personality. Even if you don't see it, and even if it can be overcome by proper leadership on your part. Her values, her future decisions, her ability to deeply pair-bond, her propensity for future…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 07:09 PM
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I mean, look, they've axed people making fun of fat people, they've axed / axing right-wing European talk, and they are going haywire with this "quarantine" option to hide offensive subreddits from the public's eye. Reddit doesn't actually give a fuck about banning content because it's offensive; they want the media & investors to not see any eye sores when they look at Reddit. TRP is an eyesore. We are not huge yet, but we are an eyesore because we use language that is the most blunt, sexist, a…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 06:51 PM
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Loneliness must be mastered before you can successfully manage a LTR and successfully be "with people" while retaining a comfortable, abundance mentality. If you are not A-OK going back to being alone, you WILL cling, and she will pick up on it and give you substandard behavior. Now, you asked HOW to do it, but you need to understand the why. See, your default instinct is going to be to try to escape loneliness. You've escaped loneliness all your life. Escapism in the form of internet communitie…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 04:24 AM
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My problem with the "50%" logic is it assumes the 50% who remained married are happy. It's flawed logic; there's the 50% (or 40 or 30%, whatever) who divorce, and then there's the X percent of married couples who are no longer "in love" but "love each other" for the kids and social appearances and sunk costs. That is the true horror. If you get divorced at 30, fine, you take your losses and restart and you go better. We got plenty of those guys who have gone on to become successful. But the slow…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 11:03 PM
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Assuming the story is real, he didn't flaunt wealth / provider status. He didn't say shit about the car and didn't bring it out until it was a necessity; it's not like "look at my rolex". He hooked her attraction / attention before she saw the status symbol, and then used the status symbol to axe some ASD. If you are already AF rather than BB in her eyes and that categorization is done, showing money will often cause her to try to withdraw sex and act like she's the LTR girl. But then if you sta…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 06:09 PM
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100k could build a couple schools for girls in Africa. Instead it's going to be used to line pockets of professional victims a la Anita Sarkesian. WATTBA.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/16 05:16 AM
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Why are you debating women? Da fuck? You want to debate political / social ideology / intellectual engagement? With women? You got ghosted because you communicated that you don't get it, you don't "get" how to give her chill good fun vibes and loosen her up. When a bitch is being uptight about something, she wants you to loosen her, to soften her. Not get all rigid and debatey like this is gender studies 101. Never, ever debate with a woman because there are NEVER any stakes at that table. You s…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/16 03:35 AM
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First off, you sound like your game is off. If you're bringing home 40 and fucking 9, that means 75+% of the chicks you bring home aren't putting out. Something is off in your protocol once you get them home. As for being indian, here's what I've noticed as an americanized Indian dude running game in a few different cities. Are you ABI (or Canadian born indian) or Fob? Typically white girls are easy if you are a pretty "white" indian, so the desis who grew up here and speak, dress, act etc like …
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 09:15 PM
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Betas aren't really human beings to women
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 04:57 PM
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True shit, I felt physically uncomfortable watching that movie and knowing that there's definitely women that crazy out there who could completely ruin my life if they had the motive - and feel completely justified in doing so. That's what the movie captures; the woman completely believes she's justified and in the moral right, and women are actually rooting for her because of how her husband "wronged" her. It may be a shitty movie, but it is a savage insight into the female hamster.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 09:23 AM
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All I can say is if you're looking for intellectual stimulation or a kindred spirit from a woman, you're fucking up big time. See, I provide enough intellectual stimulation for the both of us; I don't need her to be smart, I got that base covered. Just like I don't need her to have the same interests as me; I already HAVE those interests and qualities - the fuck do I need her to provide them for? Why are you attracted to highly intelligent strong and powerful women? Do you not provide enough pow…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 08:52 AM
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I agree that RPW's issues are unavoidable. It's inevitable. TRP seemed to really want to have this attitude of "TRP and RPW use the SAME knowledge and SAME ideological underpinnings, but TRP is a discussion on male sexual strategy and RPW on female strategy." But while TRP focused on building a great product capable of attracting women (aka improving and building male SMV), it seems that RPW focuses on "how to get a great product" - aka how to get a high SMV guy. But this is literally what we sa…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 06:44 PM
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The problem is that at 19 you do not really KNOW what you want to do, so the conventional wisdom is to get a strong education, strong degree, and that way when you are 22 and have a different idea, you have options. If you have a scholarship to a college, go plan out a major that will make you good money, and suck it up and do it. When people say "college isn't the best fit" it's generally not because they are stupid, it's because they just lack the work ethic and the task management / life skil…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 08:00 AM
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This is really good stuff. This is up there with Way of the Superior Man for me in terms of what you need to know to properly manage a LTR / marriage. From what I've read so far, I like the detail and the writing style a lot. Instead of relying upon already understood cliches / TRP terms and labels to cover his ideas, BPP is going well beneath the surface. Lotta RPers can parrot the terms (AWALT! Hypergamy! Briffault's!) while clearly not having an understanding of the what and why beneath the t…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 06:59 AM
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The most powerful realization I've ever had is that from ages 1-18 or so, you are not "you". You are just a product of your upbringing and surrounding influences, you literally do not have a personality that is your own yet. This is why it is hilarious when 16 year olds opine on politics or philosophy or anything really; they are just spitting out whatever has been put in them, nothing is their own yet. But from 18+, it's all on you. You can rationalize your personality and decisions and general…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/16 10:49 PM
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Are you serious? If you're going to be a leer-boy who never actually approaches and just "drinks in" women from afar, then why do you give a fuck what they think? Just feast your eyes, how can we instruct you on how to look at shit. If you're going to approach and talk to them, then make eye contact. Don't leer at their tna, you are a hunter not a masturbator. You look them in the eye to convey attraction and also to catch their attention and have a moment of mutual eye contact. Then, you altern…
/r/askTRP02/05/16 07:18 AM
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It's not a bad diet for weight loss, in that keto will help you cram less total calories down your gullet. Long term I recommend learning to eat at a deficit where you're eating protein, good carbs, and good fats to lose weight; I believe there's solid support for that being the most muscle-sparing on a cut. Keto will help you shit weight, but ultimately what is best is to lose weight slowly while maintaining maximum muscle (or even gaining if you are a noobie). So keto is a good diet, it's just…
/r/askTRP02/05/16 04:27 AM
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First off, you cannot take what women say about what they are attracted to at face value. They don't fundamentally get causation versus correlation. For example, if you have a alpha nerd who makes good tech money and has social skills, she will tell everyone "I love geeky nerdy guys!" But she doesn't actually; she loves alpha guys. If they happen to be geeky and nerdy it's OK, and him being comfortable and confident and successful in who he is amplifies the attraction. But she doesn't understand…
/r/askTRP01/05/16 07:47 PM
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No, I do I 1, maybe 2 shit comments (I always dumb it down though, never try to sound too smart and never sound like you read through all 30 of her "likes" or reference random shit from her 7th photo). 0-100 works in mass numbers game, but it's not going to work if you're explicitly asking / talking about sex. You have to talk about something sexual, without saying "lemme shove my tongue up your pussy". Some of the shit I'll say is like "If I poured a tequila shot on my abs would you lick it up?…
/r/askTRP01/05/16 07:18 PM
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Numbers based game, dude. Don't feel any type of way about any individual conversation. When she doesn't respond, I'll say really dumb or offensive shit to try to polarize them into telling me to fuck off or bang. Like the text equivalent of shit or get off the pot. So if she's not responding, I'll do ONE more ping, and I'll make it overtly sexual. That will generally either get a response - positive or negative - which lets me close the lead or escalate to the next step. Generally, chicks do th…
/r/askTRP01/05/16 06:54 AM
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I mean, it's suitable if a part of your general life plan is becoming independent. Fat, 31 living in yo mammas basement is at that point where I'd suggest not worrying about girls at all. But yeah if you've decided that you want to try to fuck girls while living at your mommas crib, then the best route is probably going to fully embracing it and just running "scumbag game" or whatever.
/r/askTRP01/05/16 06:47 AM
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Most music is shitty dude. I love metal too, but a lot of it is complete ass-trash. With any genre you have to accept that a lot of it will blow, and find what you like.
/r/askTRP30/04/16 03:05 AM
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Rap is essentially what feminists refer to as "toxic masculinity". Toxic masculinity saved my life. Toxic masculinity is the idea that you as a man will be bullied and shit on if you're a pussy little faggot. It's the idea that to the victor go the spoils, and the spoils include pussy and money. It's an acknowledgement of the inherently unfair nature of life, and that's why people are trying to demonize toxic masculinity. A lot of my good friends are latino and it's the same thing - machismo is …
/r/askTRP30/04/16 03:00 AM
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Ignoring it only works if it's not a direct test. She's saying it because she's confused about your status as alpha or beta; she likely sees you as in between and isn't sure where to slot you. So she's trying to be a bitch and see how you take it. Do your pupils dialate and you shrink down and lose your swagger? Or are you truly confident in who you are? Just say this "yeah I'm like buddha with the belly, come here and rub it." If you can get her to rub your belly and then she giggles, 9 times o…
/r/askTRP29/04/16 08:54 AM
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You shouldn't go in with the mentality of "I'm trying to LTR a girl" that is cancer. She should be trying to LTR you; you should be the only deciding whether you'll let it escalate to a ltr or not. It's a subtle difference, but it completely makes or breaks the power balance.
/r/askTRP29/04/16 08:44 AM
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Just do it anyway. Get good sleep and minimize distractions. My theory is that too much screen time or shit hobbies IS inherently linked with depression and it causes this minor kind of lazy haze where you just want to chill and mentally zone away from the boring, repetitive grind. So you smoke weed or do some mindless fun shit, and kill time. But if you tough it out and resist letting bullshit creep back into your life, the week will pass and you'll go back onto your cloud. You cannot allow sli…
/r/askTRP29/04/16 08:22 AM
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Either nut up and do something, or just ignore it and become independent when you can. Decide; there's no right answer, but waffling and getting all bent out of shape about it isn't helping anything. Personally, I'd tell me dad the truth and say you're a grown ass man, do what you want with it. It is 100% true, but if you want to ignore it, then that's your call. You cannot make him have self respect. Also, consider that your father knows, but is telling you he doesn't believe it / it's not true…
/r/askTRP29/04/16 08:14 AM
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Flip it into preselection. Walk up to a hot girl watching it go down and tell her to act like she's your GF so they will leave you alone. Girls love to do the pretend GF thing. Don't get uncomfortable, you're not a chick getting triggered by dudes catcalling. Either engage or disengage, but when everyone sees you being uneasy and a little off, then it's not good. Just laugh it off and say "eyes up here" or "you can look but don't touch". Alternatively, I love black girls, especially carribbean g…
/r/askTRP29/04/16 08:03 AM
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You have nothing to gain, and potentially something to lose. GLO is trying to make a living out of RP, whereas for RPS I imagine it's like a job - you can't hide that from your SO so you might as well introduce them on your terms. Don't talk about TRP if you have the inner urge to "share it" with someone. That is a sign that you are still craving someone to validate your newfound ideas. My ex chick knew I was into PU and knew I posted about how I got different chicks. She had a freakout, but she…
/r/askTRP29/04/16 07:53 AM
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The same way that liberals try to shoehorn black people into boxes, and then get upset and ostracize those who don't conform to what their ideal. It starts as "how can you think that, you're voting against your own interests but you're just too dumb to realize it" as we see happening when black people voted largely for HRC instead of Bernie. They do the same with women who don't behave as they believe women should, and they do the same with gays who don't fit the box of what a gay person should …
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 04:09 PM
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Typical LA girl mentality - "all I did was fuck around and snort coke in some washed up TV star's house for my 20s, and now I'm 30 but no one respects me as much as they respect the girl who spend her twenties building her education, career, family, and so on." But I respect Bree more than the Duke pornstar chick because Bree is actually being honest about it and not hamstering it into some pro-porn feminist delusion. Duke chick acting like it was empowering and hamstering her decision to go int…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 04:05 AM
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Yeah, I recommend this + a minibar cabinet thingy (they are like $200-300 for a cheap one). Keep it with all the thot brands of booze that college girls think are fancy (Patron) and make them a cocktail with dinner, or to sip while you two cook and you order her around. Learn how to make a few basic girl cocktails.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 12:42 AM
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As a general rule of thumb, different cities work better for different types of guys / styles of game. Every city I might completely shit on (like Toronto, fuck Toronto) is admittedly a great city to get easy pussy if you're situated right. IE in Toronto most hot young chicks have moved in from their boring ass high school lives and are looking to party, get fucked up, do drugs, and that's pretty much it. You have to be connected into some kind of scene - art, music, party scenes, athletics, col…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 06:50 PM
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I love Savannah but the weather is straight sweaty ass. Definitely a great scene with hordes of easy young women though. GA as a whole actually if you take the time to get connected and set up in a niche location, you can do very well for yourself. Athens too.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 06:29 PM
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The bottom line I think for newcomers (male at least) is this. Is your sex life what you want it to be? For 99% of you, the honest answer is no. You are a liar if you cannot admit that you'd like to have more frequent sex with more attractive women. Yes, you may get laid. You may be in good shape and have good social skills already. But can you walk into a party and have a decent chance of pulling that night? Can you see a girl who's beautiful and walk up to her and start a conversation? Can you…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/16 03:29 AM
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You don't have to be a DT or "asshole" to attract women. However, to attract and manage the HOTTER women, the 8.5s and up, you have to not give a fuck about them. They have to sense that you do not give a fuck if they like you, and you couldn't care less if they left you. This generally will make you feel like an asshole, but it's not really. It's actually you just not being affected by her beauty. Typically, only selfish assholes are capable of behaving this way, which is why they stand out fro…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/16 12:01 AM
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If she's not mentally and emotionally healthy, then she's ONS / plate material, period. All girls are a little crazy, and all girls who grow up in our fucked up society are going to have a pretty fucked up self-esteem complex where they are simultaneously full of themselves yet very critical and very fragile. That is fine. But anything beyond that, anything that says she's damaged goods or just has too much baggage, etc, makes her plate material.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/16 11:48 PM
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You must have a long term vision of who you want to be, and then backwards engineer the qualities and skills you'll need to get there. IE if you want to be a ripped, rich guy working in his dream field of X or Y, who fucks alternative hipster music / artsy chicks, then that is your long term vision. To get there, you can plan out a 2 year physical training and diet plan, a career plan, pick 2-3 skills to master, and so on. Every single day, because I get the sense that socially you're not where …
/r/TheRedPill24/04/16 11:45 PM
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She cannot think of you as being a depreciating asset. She cannot think of you as having a downwards trajectory. IE if you're physique has gone from good to decent over the course of 1 year of dating, then she's going to be thinking of you as on a downwards trajectory. You have to keep improving and keep forcing her to see you as higher value than her. She will extrapolate this. You may not lose her immediately, in fact, you probably wont. But once she starts to see you as a depreciating asset, …
/r/TheRedPill24/04/16 11:38 PM
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You should make it clear that you're not looking for a LTR. Not because I'm a moralfag, but because you get really crazy chick behavior if you set yourself up in their mind to be their captainSAH and you cut them off. That's when they'll try to get you fired, fuck with your car, etc, and feel completely justified.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/16 11:33 PM
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It doesn't matter. It's a common misconception that you need to wait for IOIs or signals of her being attracted to make a move, or escalate. That is what I call permission-boy game. A guy only wants to approach when he sees that she's eyeing him. That is requiring her to make the first step, and it's fine if it happens that way, but relying on it is bad practice. Go in if you are interested. Who cares if she's teasing you or just fishing for validation or genuinely interested, or it's all in you…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/16 11:31 PM
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The trick is to always appear non-judgmental and cool and comfortable with what you think, and avoid rustling feathers needlessly. For example, if a girl is going on about how it's wrong that girls are judged for having sex, and it's a double standard, blah blah, I'll just agree & amplify. If it's a girl I've banged, I'll be like "yeah, you should be able to feel damn proud about that shit you did last night. Damn proud." If it's a random girl / girl I haven't banged yet, I'll say "Yeah girls ca…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 06:58 PM
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The better question is what role does wittiness actually play in sexual attraction, and why do you want to be "witty". It's a fiction that you need to have grade-A James Bond lines and "daaammmn" comebacks for every situation. That is like a beta conception of what "alpha" looks like, and it's why you see alphas written by comic book nerds / male-fantasy TV shows always being so smooth and witty. It's not actually that helpful, and often trying to be witty or snappy with your words will make you…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 06:50 PM
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Briffault's Law is the key to using what we know about female hypergamy, solipsism, and ability to hamster (reverse rationalize any type of behavior or outcome). It makes everything fit together. I think it's very interesting that many comedians have touched on this subject. Eddie Murphy "what have you done for me lately?" and Chris Rock "women can't go backwards in lifestyle, if you lose your job or your way of providing her with the type of life she enjoys, you'll lose your woman." Many others…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 03:55 PM
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When I linked it, it had 150 upvotes and like 100+ comments, many of whose were him responding. I think I just fucked up the link - go check it on TBP now.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 04:47 PM
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Yup, attraction is not a choice. And about morality, you can discuss it here, you just can't be a moral fag about it. For example, if I want to type up a logical argument on why it's beneficial for men to follow the moral idea of "don't fuck married / LTR'd up girls" then I believe that would be permitted if I approached it from a "this is why you'll reap more benefits in the long term if you do it". If I approach it from a "you should do this because.. well... it's just RIGHT!" then that's wher…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 04:46 PM
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Yeah this lesson is potentially the best thing that ever happened to him if he's willing to learn
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 04:42 PM
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It's a test. Just ignore her, or treat her like she's at the bottom of the social totem pole. Like if two people say something at the same time, I'll turn over and engage the person who's not her. If she makes a joke I'll deadpan, and others will see that I didn't laugh and sometimes also not laugh. I'll treat her kinda like a hot girl treats a weird creepy DnD ponytail type. Basically, don't give a fuck. I'd recommend even texting like "nah in my eyes now you'll always be that sweet girl who ch…
/r/askTRP19/04/16 11:12 PM
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For a woman eating maintenance, they don't really have the test to put on much muscle at all. I'm guessing she's not rigidly following a bulk or cut, meaning she's eating maintenance even with the whey. She's not going to put on much muscle, chicks don't really have the test to gain 1.5 lbs a muscle a month like guys. Upper body work is easier than lower body, but its more important for women. Putting on a little muscle in the hips, glutes, lower back, hams, quads, etc is how you'll get a nice, …
/r/askTRP19/04/16 11:07 PM
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If you're getting this, you're either not Chaddy enough, or you ask beta male questions. Beta questions are those that are not offensive at all; they do not establish you as any kind of sexual prospect. "Hey! I saw you go to State U, what major are you?" is that kind of question. If you are very Chaddy in your profile, you can say "hey what u doin tonight?" and get a decent response. But even then you're better off saying something that will pop out of her 100 messages / day. Girls respond like …
/r/askTRP19/04/16 08:40 PM
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Yeah, marriage without taking the husband's last name is a complete dealbreaker for me. I find it very disrespectful, it's like "I'm going to risk my financial future, purchase you an expensive ring, wedding, honeymoon, give up on all the other pussy I could have, and you're not willing to give up ONE shitty thing?" It means her feminist convictions are stronger than her desire to make you happy. It's basically the one shitty thing a man gets out of marriage; being able to continuing his name wi…
/r/askTRP19/04/16 08:01 PM
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Trust your gut as well as your logical analysis of the situation. The objective and subjective must both be saying Yes if you're talking about a serious LTR GF. Never make decisions with your dick. Dick decisions aren't decisions at all. Yes, she should be hot, but you had major misgivings about her career focus and how it brought her depression, as well as her desire to have kids. Kids are very important to you, and it sounded like she wasn't really into having kids at all. So on one side, we h…
/r/askTRP19/04/16 07:58 PM
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Get her on a program, give her clear direction. Being a leader means understanding what carrots to dangle (motivators) in front of the horse. The motivators for a woman are not the same. She wants to FEEL graceful and sexy and fit when doing a movement; if the exercise is too hard or too manly, she feels unfit and weak and fat. Then she won't enjoy doing it and won't do it properly. Her motivators are not numerical; BPing 50 lbs versus 100 lbs for a girl is meaningless. Again, some girls are int…
/r/askTRP19/04/16 07:51 PM
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College girls are often girls who have had everything paid for by their daddy and thus don't need any kind of support or help from men; they only are looking for fun, partying, social validation, and "social climbing". Why are girls in general not hoes? Because of social systems that restrict and shame their sexuality. In college, you don't have this social system. Girls do get shit for hooking up with randos and low value guys, but typically she's gaining social status by boning guys who are co…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/16 06:23 PM
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In tier 2 type cities you'll find a greater variation in women. A small portion of the rich girls are looking more for the party / hot / fun type of guys and you'll want to be networked into a social circle if you're not very Chady. Poorer girls (aka most) are going to be looking for boyfriends from guys of the higher social class. This means girl waiting tables is going to be trying to date upper-middle class locals or foreigner guys. This breeds a little resentment in the local guys, so I try …
/r/TheRedPill18/04/16 09:32 PM
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Because I was retarded in college, I went raw for a long time because it felt amazing and I wasn't thinking clearly. I rationalized as "well most other guys are using condoms, so it's OK if one guy doesn't" or "she said I could stick it in w/o". Like it is a goddamn miracle I didn't get anything, I don't know what I did to luck out, but I didn't get anything. For like 2 years I was fucking chicks and only using condoms when they insisted. I hated condoms. Couldn't bust nuts in them unless I jack…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/16 08:39 PM
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You guys arguing if its moral are not are missing the damn point. OP's point is about sexual strategy and the differences between men and women. Moral or not, his strategy is NOT in his best interest and not good sexual strategy. He is likely feeling so shamed and so worried about appearing like some douchebag in the public eye, and that is causing his behavior to be altruistic and sacrificial. Whether this is moral or not is a subjective issue. OBJECTIVELY - aka what we care about, it's poor se…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/16 03:07 AM
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There's gyno and there's fat. You have a little of both. Your nipples are puffier, softer and larger than they should be, which is PROBABLY not going to revert not with fitness/diet, given that you've carried them well out of puberty. There's also extra fat on your chest which WILL come off if you get down to 10-12% bodyfat. First step is to control what you can control. Get leaner and remove estrogenic compounds in your diet / lifestyle. This will help you harden up and get less bloated, which …
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 07:25 PM
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AKA what TRPers need is a healthy re-indoctrination. I get it, the Romantic / Plutarchian concept of love is sweet. It feels good when it works. It feels good to believe in the angelic nature of women, and the inevitable triumph of love and persistance. It's the American Dream in a way - its similar to how we believe if you work hard and give everything you've got to your craft, you'll reach the upper echelons of success. In the same way, Western society wants to believe that if you truly dedica…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 05:29 PM
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I'm not interested in LTRs and don't think they make sense for guys under 25-28 or so. From HS to around mid-twenties, you are setting up your career trajectory, nose-to-grindstone, and you need 100% focus on building up yourself. Your SMV as well as your skillset / education / resume. You also are pre-peak value - meaning in 2-3 more years, I'll be able to get a hotter, higher value girl because I'll have grown both internally and in terms of appearance/status. There's no point forming LTRs now…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 12:29 AM
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There is nothing she could do now, because I've put in work into myself. I'm not Leonardo, but I've put in the work to the point where I know I can LTR an 8 if I wanted to. In the process of finding an 8+, I might deal with some rejections, I might lose one here or there, but that's a price I'm willing to pay, since I'm as numb as you can get to rejections. The good news for 5/6s is that even if they are flat chested, flat butted, and have a butt for a face.... they can still get in great shape.…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 07:48 PM
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Greed? Hahaha naw dude, what happened is you wanted the validation of the "harder to get" girl liking you. I put harder to get in quotes because she's giving it up easy, you just went along with her "hard to get" act. Because girl A was easy, chill, didn't play hard to get, didn't run games, gave the pussy up free, you didn't get as much validation from it. Now girl B who SHOULD be easier to get because she's less hot comes along and puts you on the delayed sex track. That gets you feeling some …
/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 11:35 PM
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on the 0 to 1 bang or not bang binary spectrum, she's basically a bang if I could pull a time machine out of my ass.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 06:00 AM
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You could tell the older woman was thinking "oh, you poor, poor dear" the whole time the younger one was getting indignant and insecure. You can wear all the "I love myself, I don't care about what shallow men think" armor you want, but losing the pedestal you've enjoyed all your life will cut deep. The older woman knows the futility of trying to call the younger out on her delusions. She's humoring the toddler.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 05:57 AM
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Took like 2 weeks for me, but I was never that fucked up about it. Some guys can't even get hard or cum in condoms, or cum when getting head like OP described - that will take more serious work. For me, I decided I'd only jerk off when I was actually too horny to function, and not when I was just bored and wanted to be stimulated. And when I did jerk off, I'd do it without porn, and I'd do it without a death grip. I actually got inspired to do this when I was reading about porn auditions, and on…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/16 08:05 PM
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Death Grip + Porn-induced ED is no joke. Shit's real. Enjoy your porn, enjoy a wank, but keep that shit in moderation. When you realize you start to need more and more kinky shit, or you realize you can't get "hands free" boners anymore, that's when you've got a problem. Not watching porn has helped me get to the point where I can basically "will" my dick to get rock hard just by thinking about some girl I want to fuck, and really immersing myself. It's like how I was at 15, and it's a great fee…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/16 03:28 AM
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Damn 7s these days really like to put half of a Sephora store on their face before they make their attention whoring videos.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/16 02:46 AM
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Great reality check. Women screen for the top % of men. But women also screen and make decisions - if you can even call it decisions - in a way that is neither conscious nor logical. We get hung up on the breakdown on SMV into separate categories, because that's how the divide & conquer male mentality works. Systematic analysis of all of the parts that form the whole. Women just look at the 'whole.' Then they look around and see how OTHER women are looking at the 'whole'. If they get a good vibe…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/16 02:43 AM
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Buy small, if it doesn't quite fit, she'll put in more time at the gym. Seriously though, you can see her size on her panties and any other clothes you need. If you don't want to spend money or can't figure out the size there's many other ways to go about getting her to dress sexier for you.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/16 07:25 AM
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Pick her out a sexy outfit, leave it on the bed, text her on your way home saying to put it on. Don't "ask" for what you want, give her a directive. Tell her you like it when she wears thongs for you, and if she's not into being "sexy" for you, then the relationship isn't working. Assert your expectations.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 10:51 PM
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Preventative dread game - ie passive dread game - is the most powerful. Active dread game is responsive, it's reactive. You realized you lost or are in danger of losing control, so you have to give her an explicit reminder that she could lose you should she continue. But she's already started up some kind of undesirable path - losing respect, straying emotionally, getting lazy in the bedroom / gym, or whatever it may be. It's so much better if you curb that without actually having to pay attenti…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 09:32 PM
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Direct her, never ask her. If you're "asking her" to be more X or Y for you, and if "negotiating" with her to be more sexual or more interested in you or more respectful... You have lost already. He's a cuck already even if she's hasn't got her side dick yet, it's just a matter of time. 21 years old too, that makes it especially hilarious.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 09:23 PM
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I think it is not a cop out. Science is important, verified facts and correctly done studies are important. However, like in fitness, what you'll find is that many, many studies are intellectually disingenuous. They are not done properly, the data is garbage in garbage out, and the headlines are as clickbaity as a HuffPo article. Which means if you want to be that guy who always has to bring citations and stats and studies... you need to do it with a goddamn brain. Review and think critically ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/16 09:03 PM
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If you want to do that strategy, here's what you need to do. FHF. Fuck her friends. High school and college is ALL social status. You might be tall and studly, but you don't have the prerequisite social status to get her to not blow you off. You can get that by fucking her friends, which gets her to see you as a sexual threat and it puts her in direct competition with her friends. My point in that post is that IF nothing is lost by further persistance, you might as well sit your ass there and pl…
/r/askTRP01/04/16 08:40 PM
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Kindness works fine for most people, but typically attractive girls are used to everyone being nice to them because they are attractive. This makes them interpret EVERYTHING as "oh that guy did it because he wants to impress me or he wants to supplicate to me." So you don't want to do extra favors or kindnesses for her in that situation, because it will be interpreted as "this guy is trying to attract me the same way every beta does." Think about it like this. You walk onto the Hummer lot and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/16 12:28 AM
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By being a cuck I meant "being into the cuck fetish" and participating in the cuck / hotwife lifestyle. We weren't talking about the historical or Victorian definition of a cuckold as in every man who's been cheated on. We were talking about the fetish / lifestyle of being a cuckold where one is deriving sexual pleasure and an identify out of being submissive and/or replaced completely in the bedroom. Being beta / alpha isn't a singular choice, it's a aggregation of choices you've made over year…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 12:04 AM
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This is one of the stupidest questions I've ever seen on here. This is exactly what I mean, that is a retarded comparison. RP isn't "anti" or "pro" gay and neither am I. Homosexuality isn't a choice, that has been proven by this point. Being a cuck is a choice, and it's acting like a beta bitch and getting off to your genetic line getting supplanted is not equivalent with being attracted to men. Being gay is not a choice. Acting like a flamboyant faggot with a lisp is something that I personally…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 09:03 PM
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Good work, get rid of this faggotry. The western world in general has always had a boner for this idea of "___ relativism" Moral relativism. Cultural relativism. Everything is subjective, nothing is right or wrong or good or bad, everything is justifiable because that's just how that person or race or culture or religion is. Don't judge from your ivory tower, it's all relative anyway. This gets applied to sexuality too. Men have a healthy sexual urge to dominate, and women have a healthy sexual …
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 06:57 AM
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Haha, I'm about to win the American Psycho award, but here goes. Depends on what your problem is and what your face responds do. Rule of thumb - avoid strong / very concentrated acids / bases, fragrances, alcohols, comodogenic oils, and abrasive "microbeads" in facial products. Do not overscrub, do not overdry your face. This both can contribute to acne. Often this the problem - you're using some harsh benzl peroxide of high % salyclic acid on your face, which is drying it to the bone. Then you'…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/16 10:44 PM
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High SMV / RMV is always best because life as a whole gets ugly if you aren't decently cash-positive, and all the pussy in the world doesn't help if you cannot life the lifestyle you want. Once in a while a ho will try to gold-dig, but at the end of the day, you're life has enough value that another will be drawn quickly enough. The high RMV guy just has to be smarter. I would say it's better to be higher SMV / RMV, but with increased RMV comes increased responsibility. You have to be smarter an…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/16 10:25 PM
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Appearance is very important. Appearance, though, is not just physical looks. If you have great physical looks, you just have to do much less. If you don't, you need to push up whatever other "appearance" levels you can control. Dress well, don't dress like a beta bucks. Get in good shape. Exfoliate and moisturize and sunscreen. Get lasik, go bald if you're dealing with early hair loss. Get a high end watch that's not gaudy, but tells people "I have money and class." Women are brand-whores. Spea…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/16 09:42 PM
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Your Dad is a grown ass man. You can't change who he is, and it's unfortunate. He's spent 36 years being irrational about women when he's obviously a very rational person elsewhere, as displayed by his success in business whilst having a kid at 18. If life has not clued him in by now, you're not going to convince him. Here's how 18 year olds sound to older people. "I know everything about women because I dated one girl. I know everything about people because I'm 18 and the world is black and whi…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/16 09:10 PM
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Yes. It is easy to be cold and rational when evaluating the ho your best friend is getting juiced by. It's easy to be rational and objective 99% of the time, but when she's soft and pretty and sweet, and you think she's different and special, the male hamster goes into overdrive. Most people really want to find the exception; they want it so bad that like you said, when they become interested in a woman, their empathy centers flare up and they start seeing things that aren't there.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/16 07:54 PM
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Yup. Once she sees into the beta bitch lurking behind an alpha facade, she can't unsee it. A married guy who's turned beta has only one hope of salvation. He has to go completely nuclear and be willing to kill the relationship (full dread game, prepare divorce papers, fuck another woman, etc, to change her perception of him. It only works if he completely comes to terms with losing her, and even then, it often still won't work. A friendzoned guy has to disappear for months and return as a high S…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/16 07:52 PM
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The Weeknd is great because he's both rp and bp, and he's pretty honest about his flaws on Trilogy. Trilogy was like the process of him swallowing the RP about women and himself. Plenty of rappers who act like they were smashing hella women before they were famous are full of shit, you can feel it in their music. But you can see how he's not BSing, he got women before the fame and understands women through and through.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 09:55 PM
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Toronto is the worst city on the earth for game, it's the #2 beta capital in the world after Sweden. Guys who are in the party / drug / music scene get laid like crazy because there's no competition. They have access to the only thing girls 15-25 care about, which is fun, parties, drugs, and so on. You can be beta or low SMV, but if you have pad downtown and you throw parties, you'll get laid constantly. Throw druggy loft parties and you'll draw in college girls trying to live the "big city life…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 09:52 PM
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Great insight - I think OP and other men, including myself TBH, have this fantasy of being the "patriarch". The man of the house, the head of the family, the Godfather, the Don. It's a fantasy, it doesn't exist anymore. A lot of us who came from cultures where this is a thing (Latin cultures, Asian cultures, etc) have this fantasy of being the head of the family and a positive, dominant captain of own ecosystem. But it's never really your ecosystem if you can lose it because she decides she "lov…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 09:42 PM
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Well, I see two options. You can either fight or run. Either you can transform her into a good wife through positive dominance, leadership, variety / unpredictability, and sexual polarity. It may not be doable depending on how beta she sees you, but if she still respects you, you can do it. Once respect is gone, however, then I see it being too much of an uphill battle. If the "positive leadership and positive dominance" doesn't work, then you need to use dread game. Get ripped. Hit on other chi…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 09:37 PM
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I think there is merit to an idea that you just need to find your complement in a yin yang sense. IE most guys are a composite of masculine and feminine - no one is 100 / 0 masculine to feminine, except like Mike Tyson. So if I'm 80 masculine / 20 feminine, my ideal mate is 80 feminine / 20 masculine. So for guys who are 60/40, they can feasibly find a 40/60 and be happy that way. Their relationship will not have the raw sexuality / magnetic attraction that comes with a more polarized relationsh…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 09:30 PM
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Gaming the system is good, but this seems like it wouldn't work. I have no idea what your organization / company is like, but I think people would see very clearly what you are doing, and you'd just wind up losing professional respect. IE if you can feasibly get in as a male, but applying as a woman raises someone's eyebrow and you get X'd by some HR junkie because "Zachary Stevens" being female sounded fishy... then you could get rejected when you COULD have been accepted had you just been hone…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 09:12 AM
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You need to stop worrying about being "good in bed" or thinking about "impressing her". Focus on enjoying her body. Do whatever you want to do. Just go with what your dick-mind wants you to do. For example, if you feel like massaging her some and slowly fingerfucking her for a while, because it's arousing you to tease her, do it! If you want to smell her neck and kiss it, do it, don't worry if it's "out of character" or whatever. If you're thinking "goddamn she has such a pretty face with all th…
/r/askTRP26/03/16 09:05 AM
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A pretty face still will get you some pussy when you are older. But not nearly as much. You get validation from having a life that women want to hop into. At 16 it's basically your social status and looks that determine sexual attraction. At 30 it's your money, social status, and looks. If you are very strong in one category (ie model / amazing physique) you'll get laid plenty of looks alone. But for most guys, to get laid a lot they will want to be strong in 2 categories, say they are high soci…
/r/askTRP26/03/16 08:52 AM
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Tinder is not going to teach you full cold approach & social game & game. It's decent filler. What are your goals? Do you want to learn about how to develop a sales mentality and try to set up a system where you can put minimal effort in and still line up a OK low quality "drinks date" a couple times a week? Tinder is not bad for that. (Provided you've got the body and face. Go get aesthetic before fucking with Tinder). Are your goals to develop confidence with women, get the most ass possible, …
/r/askTRP26/03/16 08:45 AM
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Of course it's emotionless. That is the reality of things. Women are loyal and loving and sweet and beautiful and caring and so on. They really are. But when their back is against the wall and they need financial security for themselves and their kids, all of that goes out of the window. There's no emotions when you're 33 watching all your friends' husbands buying property and mom Lexuses while you clip coupons. There's no romance without finance, as Eddie Murphy says. When you are better than h…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 08:29 AM
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That is true, one rule of women (and people in general) is that "their side of the story" is generally a very incomplete, manufactured picture.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 08:26 AM
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Look dude, I get it, I understand depression very well. But in life, no one gives a shit what you're stupid excuse is, no matter how real and justified the excuse is to you. I get that you see me as being unempathetic, but look, the world has no empathy. As a man, you must find a way. Depression is not unbeatable; losing to depression means you cannot even beat YOURSELF. That is, to women, pathetic - it's a man who's incapable of being the captain of his own mind. How can he be the captain of hi…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 08:24 AM
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Until you've actually gone through enough of life to know what it is you want, how to actually UNDERSTAND AND READ women for what they are, then and only then are you ready to make an educated decision about whether or not you should take a woman on board. Marriage is not a terrible concept historically, as it is the foundation of the nuclear family, which was beneficial to society as a whole. As well as MOST men. Historically - that is the key word. You're talking about thousands of years of pa…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 08:06 AM
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Don't underestimate the influence a chick's mother and family play on her after marriage as she ages. These are the women who will be influencing your grandkids, who will try to backseat parent, who will try to influence her and manipulate her. If you must marry, it's best to marry someone who either has unobtrusive parents or marry a girl who's clearly adult enough to not GAF what her parents think. Relationships with people who are influenced heavily by their family / friends / parents / etc g…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 12:39 AM
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I don't see what the problem is. If you are married and you are working a full time job, providing your 50% to the pot... then why should you be subsidizing a partner who's going to be at home watching netflix and jerking off all day? Just because he's "depressed"? Yes, women are hypergamous, yes women do seek financial security from their partners. But why should he get to stay home unemployed for basically a year? There are consequences to your actions, do you guys really expect her to spend h…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 12:29 AM
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Yup. It's the same thing when these fat balding betas talk about how RP it is to go wife up a hot colombian chick. Yeah, if you're a stable employed guy in the US you can go meet and subsidize and support a Colombian girl who's way out of your league by US standards, but you're deluded if you think it's anything more than a financial contract. You see it on here about EE women, russian women, Asian women, etc too. Yeah they are RP all right in that they will adhere to feminine roles at first, bu…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/16 07:05 PM
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I work with a lot of college interns. Let me tell you what you should be asking yourself. Am I using the advantage of going to college to build up real skills? Am I building a network, am I building my SMV? You are clay. Stop worrying about how alpha or beta your clay is. Start molding it into something. What is going to happen in the next 5 years is that social position will stop being determined by stupid quirks like who "leans back the most" and has the most dominant handshake. It will be det…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/16 05:53 PM
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"She told me that I have to deal with it." You've fucked up, you're dealing with someone who understands that marriage means what's yours is hers. Poor chicks from Eastern Europe are notorious for this shit, they don't care about you, you are a ATM in their eyes. You need to nut up and stand up for yourself, and start preparing for divorce if it comes to it. Stop sharing financial information like your salary with her. When your money comes in, partition it and put 1/2 or so into a seperate bank…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/16 05:44 PM
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I'll tell you my process for deciding when to intervene and when to just disregard her and talk to another woman. There's two scenarios. A) She's getting approached by dudes when I am not there (very few guys approach a girl who's clearly with a tall 200 lbs guy.) B) I'm in the social situation - ie sitting at lunch with a bunch of people and my girl - and then someone's clearly flirting. In Scenario A, I'm not going to rush over. She either thinks I'm high value enough that she's going to come …
/r/TheRedPill24/03/16 04:15 AM
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Women need emotional support, but what they define as emotional support is "someone to help them hamster." Emotional support is basically someone telling her it's not her fault, she's special, other people did her wrong, other people are just jealous, she's going to be fine forever because she's special, she's an exception to the rule, and so on. When her brain is overloaded with a situation that she cannot compute and rationalize around, she's going to latch onto someone who will help her hamst…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/16 09:21 PM
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Yeah he should work on his life, but he has no reason to go through life head down getting no pussy. He might be a loser piece of shit, but he can still have good posture, speak assertively, and so on. If he's working hard at improving his life, he's earned the right to have some swag in his step. Bottom line is as long as your confidence isn't just hamstering an excuse to avoid self-improvement (IE, I already fuck hot chicks, why do I need to workout and eat healthy), then it's good confidence.…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/16 07:53 PM
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The entire education process is beyond fucked. It goes far beyond indoctrination of ideas and attitudes; our education system has been designed to create people who are dependent, who have learned little of actual substance and thus need social programs, institutions, and continued expensive education to continue to function. Societies used to want men; the idea was to create rites of passage where weak men / boys would fail and be eliminated from the society, and men would pass. This would crea…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 08:55 AM
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She can do just that if she's hot enough, and if she takes care of herself. It's important in RP to accept that sometimes women do get to eat their cake and have it too. The problem is that by the time she marries the rich beta, she will have become so addicted to free alpha cock that she's unable to actually be happy in that relationship. But, yeah, she'll drive that Porsche and fuck her Chad personal trainer on the side, and find a way to deal with it. If she fails, then yeah she's screwed. Bu…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 08:14 AM
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Nexting is difficult when you get oneitis. I used to get oneitis a lot because I would be thirsting hard for confirmation of my status and game. I needed her to be with me, to be attracted, to stay attracted, etc, because if she does that for me, then it confirms in my mind that I'm this super mega alpha dude. So what I'm saying is it's all your ego. Nexting is easy when you stop needing thots to confirm your value. You cannot fake an abundance attitude; you only get an abundance attitude when y…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 05:00 AM
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It's all industry specific. There's an arcane set of do's and don'ts for recent grads in Wall Street, and a different set for guys who got into tech, sales, and so on. I'd begin with AskTRP and make sure to include relevant information about your situation, make sure to read the responses from people who actually are in your industry. Since you asked about dress - One rule of thumb - aka not always applicable - is to see how people dress who are one rung senior than you, and set that as your tar…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 07:10 PM
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You have no idea how fast rich celebrity-wives can disappear money up their nose lol
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 01:16 AM
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Poly is for cucks, plating is for alphas. It's very simple - you are an idiot if you're emotionally supporting and committing to a girl who's having physical and/or emotional relations with other men. If you have a GF, this is a sure way to just nuke your status in the relationship and have her to get do trial runs to screen for better options until she finds one. Unless your SMV is much higher than hers (remember a 7 guy versus a 5 girl, the 5 girl can still get way more dick than he can get pu…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 01:07 AM
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FHF. Fuck her friends. She comes back from abroad and realizes most of her friends have gotten dicked down by you, and as a bonus, you will get over your one-itis by doing this. Get off her social media and get into her friends, shit is simple. Don't overanalyze shit with her. She is likely confused about you because she sees beta and alpha qualities, which means she is going to be shit testing and LMRing hard to see what you are actually made of. She comes back, you're in superior physical and …
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 10:04 AM
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It's much better to run volume game online because generally if she's not going to swap #s (aka get off tinder or OKC) after a few back and forth messages, she is looking for validation and a texting buddy. If after giving the # she's not willing to meetup (and if she's busy the times you go for, if she does not propose times of her own) she's not serious about it. So this may seem to contradict what I'm saying in my post, but with tinder especially, it really pays to have a fuck or walk attitud…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 09:49 AM
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You are getting flack because your friends can tell you're a bitch, you're not congruent to the person you're trying to portray. You don't OWN the shit you do. If you want to work out, go balls to the wall. Be proud of your newfound hobby; don't preach about it, but make it clear you love it and you're proud of your body. With girls you are all fucked up in your logic. "I'm a great looking guy with a decent body type that can't get pussy." Well, shit, Mr. Great looking guy, how many girls did yo…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 09:29 AM
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OK. #1 rule. If you both make that "Yeah I caught you checking me out while I was checking you out" eye contact, then that is THE window. You know that moment where you realize she eyed you up, but you only realized that because you were eyeing her up? That's the perfect moment, do not wait next time. Once you get caught staring a few times but not approaching, you're just like every guy. You want to ogle her but you're not actually a serious sexual candidate. I would just walk over during a res…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 10:53 PM
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Yeah. Lotta people overvalue IOIs. They are looking for some indicator that she wants them to escalate. They want a guarantee that she's actually into them before they put themselves "out there". Often you have to just act when there is zero assurance that it will work. If you wait for the IOI, then you're a permission-boy, you're only acting when she's given you permission to do so. A subtle difference like this can determine whether she slots you into the AF role or the BB role.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 10:35 PM
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Yeah, great point. Everything is negotiable. Guys learn a logical framework where A means A, and B means B. But in reality, nothing is cemented and nothing cannot be arranged for a man with enough pull. You won't always have a way, you won't always think of it in time. But by just keeping the negotiation open for a longer period of time, you increase the likelihood you'll find the leverage you need to get what you want.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 04:58 PM
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Always good to hear from someone with decades of experience on us. I have banged about 20-30 escorts / bar girls in non-US countries (SE Asia, Europe, Turkey, etc) but I've only seen 3-4 in the US where I live. Definitely if you've got the money, it's a very good experience. Cheaper than a therapist, about the same as a good CMT. All in all you're getting great stress release and an opportunity to work your problems out on a young woman's cooch instead of a therapist's couch. Better deal. I'm pr…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 08:44 AM
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Especially when you are talking about 18-19 year old athletes who have basically had their lives run by their parents and coaches. No real life experience. Sheltered and controlled, with as much stifled testosterone as a bull, and then what happens, a sexy instagram ho wants to fuck you. It's a pretty sad story - it's also why a lot of very successful athletes had either older players or coaches take them under their wing and explain everything to them.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 08:34 AM
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This can happen if she feels you are a "caste" above her. IE if you're a IT beta bucks type who's with a 24 y.o community college student who waitresses to feed herself... you're playing with fire.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 08:30 AM
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Imagine a negotiation table. You have to have something women WANT, or you are walking up to the negotiation table with nothing on your hands, except your time. If you walk up with nothing but time to offer, then she will take the time. (You become a Beta Orbiter, offering your time and validation and emotional support, because that's all you have to offer. She'll take it, but she's not giving up anything in return for it other than the ability to continue to be near her.) If you have time and m…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 01:10 AM
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Do mock interviews. Ask people who actually do interviews in your field to work with you. IE if you are trying to ace a technical interview, ask a friend who's a hiring manager in tech to grill you some. Practice builds confidence. You need more practice than most.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 12:56 AM
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A man does what he wants to do, but a smart man makes sure what he wants to do actually benefits him. You can use the "a man does what he wants" to justify any sexual fetish. Like cuckoldry - if it gets you going, what's the problem, if you are into it, then doesn't a man pursue what he wants? And I'd say that there IS a degree of objectivity. There is beta fetishes and alpha fetishes. Like I said, a smart man tries to indulge what he wants, but ensures that what he wants is actually what he NEE…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 12:53 AM
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Lean bulk + slow cut cycles for the rest of your life. Loose skin surgery. Control your diet and stick to a 2 year training regimen to put on some slowly-acquired, lean muscle. I cut from about 30% to 15%, and I'm trying to get down to 10%. My plan then is to bulk to 15, cut to 10. Bulk to 15, cut to 10. That's just life. I have accepted that I will need to be anal about my diet and exercise for probably my whole life if I want to maintain a good physique. I have very annoying stretchmarks too. …
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 12:40 AM
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Look above their eyes. Don't smile like a leering jackass. Look at her, she looks at you, then there's that moment where it's both people are thinking "oh they see me looking at them, I'm caught." That's when you give a small smile. Either a "I caught you checking me out" cocky smile or a "Yeah, I was checking you out, guilty as charged" smile. This is when you should approach and say hi, you should do something or you are not being congruent to the intent signaled in your eye contact.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 12:13 AM
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Bust a nut or two every week. If your masturbation is so excessive that your social skills are hurting, then you'll get a lot of mileage out of just severely reducing it. Quit using porn, but if once a week you feel a complete need to bust a nut, then... bust a nut. Unless you have porn induced ED or problems with your sexual performance that you are trying to remedy by nofap, then there's no need to be a nazi about it (and then flagellate yourself mentally when you screw up).
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 11:56 PM
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Since you're posting on TRP and not relationships or deadbedroom, I assume you want the ugly truth. Quit being a little bitch. Decide what you want, stick with the decision. Don't wait around for her or us or whomever to give you "permission" to cheat on her, don't wait around expecting her to magically change. What you're doing is entertaining these "cheating" fantasies in your head that you KNOW you are too beta to actually act on - "I don't even know how to go about cheating on her!" - as a w…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 11:21 PM
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Yeah, I've seen that video, it's one of the best. Sometimes you have to admit that someone else can get away with a lot of bullshit and laziness than you can.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 10:50 PM
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It's very simple; the amount of effort and dedication required for different individuals to reach the top is wildly different. Guy A might have to rise up out of brokedom, get his fat ass in shape, learn to dress, take speech therapy, fix his body language, see a therapist to work through social anxiety, relocate his life, burn old limiting friendships, and go out approaching women for a year. He might have to do all of that to become successful as a man and successful with women. Guy B had to p…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 09:08 PM
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Standing, walking, talking, and moving properly should not hard enough to stress you out and distract you from your goals. As you get better at it, it requires less and less thought, to the point where it's natural and requires zero effort. It is a baseline requirement, like brushing your teeth, where a little effort everyday goes a long way.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 07:49 PM
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Well, look, one RP for you is that eventually the truth has a nasty way of getting itself found out. Like you said, she's irrational and crazy, and when a woman gets away with cheating on her man, she always becomes a little contemptuous of him. In a sense, she feels its his fault for not being man enough to realize what was going on and reign her in and put her in her place. This leads to her getting sloppy and him figuring it out. Bottom line is, it's going to come out. There's three things yo…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/16 09:05 AM
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What happened is he was "trying on" cocky/funny humor because he finally felt like he had "permission" to behave that way. Through his humor, hopefully he revealed a truth to himself, which is that he brings more to the table than she does.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/16 08:13 AM
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Raise your hand if you don't know what the law is regarding common law marriage in your state. Educate yourself. Because you bet your ass she is. "Half" is her favorite word. All women are gold diggers. Some are just more honest about it than others.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/16 08:09 AM
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After enlightenment comes the laundry. Keep hustling. The motivation will fade and mediocrity will tempt you after you start to get a little results. A little noobie gains, a little positive validation. TRP is worthless if not applied over a significant continuum of time. In fact, I'd say TRP is actually very detrimental if you're not going to actually apply it and convert it to action. Writing this shit down is helpful. Keep a journal. Most people fail when they try to change their life in any …
/r/TheRedPill13/03/16 12:37 AM
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Same principle behind internships and at will employment. If she has promise, you give her an internship. Let her prove her worth, give no money and minimal time / commitment, and see what she can do. If she surprises you, she gets the job, she's a steady plate. If you really think she's exceptional and you've done a good background check, you can promote her. LTR if you really must. But it's at-will employment. She can be fired for any reason, at any time, with no prior notice. Every employee s…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/16 12:20 AM
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If your life is shit, whatever gets you in motion and working to improve it is a good thing. If the desire to feel cool by having hot girl on your arm gets you in the gym, then fine, that's at least something. The problem with validation as primary motivation is it only gets you so far. Once you start getting good reactions, you ultimately realize that those good reactions are meaningless and don't actually do anything for you. And you reach a point where you're already getting validation, so wh…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/16 09:49 PM
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In the beta capital of the world? This is very surprising.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/16 07:17 AM
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Mainstream = Marketed to chicks and teens, the main consumers. I am not being a faggot hipster, I don't stop liking artists that become successful. But that being said, you need to understand that maybe .1% of music is what you're hearing on the radio. Saying music sucks because the radio is playing Rihanna and Fetty Wap all day is silly - the 40 or so artists that are popping now represent a tiny slice of music. For example, 2014-2015 were awesome years for rap. There's more diversity than ever…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/16 12:45 AM
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49 on the website is gold. Trust is based on emotion, not logic. If you want people to trust you, build an emotional connection with them. Also, recognize that the people you trust and do not trust is most likely just a reflection of who you emotionally resonate with. I know I fall prey to thinking that my sense of how trustworthy people around me are is based upon a strictly logical evaluation of their history, demeanor, motivations, and so on. But that's not generally the case; you trust peopl…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/16 12:23 AM
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He also might want to delete this post, if this girl sees it somehow he's going to get in the news as a red piller, which is probably career suicide.
/r/askTRP06/03/16 08:54 PM
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If you stand on greek row asking every sorority girl some canned line, this is what happens. If you send out mass messages to women on Facebook WITHIN THE SAME TIGHT COMMUNITY, this is what happens. Don't be absurd, college is not a meatmarket LA club, nor it is Okcupid. You have the same ~400 girls in Greek life. They all live with each other and have to guard their reputation as popular, not a slut, not a prude, etc. Stop thinking with PUA terminology on a college campus. To fuck these girls, …
/r/askTRP06/03/16 08:47 PM
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It has to be 80% real 20 % enhanced. Pick things that fit in with your character. Take advantage of the fact that women seek a very surface level understanding of most things. For example, if you buy a lightly used BMW M3 and keep it in good condition (~20k), most thots don't know the difference between a new 120k M6. They just see the surface, the label. Now guys will care, guys will know. But chicks just know the brands that say "I have money". Buy cheap designer clothes that fit well and crea…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 06:36 PM
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No downvotes, but what do you propose people do about it? Women are programmed to behave this way, this has been the case throughout history. It's also clear that our government is not going to go Saudi and repress women to the degree where they cannot use their dualistic mating strategies to fuck over beta males. (And even if the govt did, women would find a way). If women "winning" causes suffering for men and women, then the only solution I see is to study up on how women play and try to beat…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 06:22 PM
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I think your story goes back to Briffault's Law, aka women do not place value upon past things you've done for them, they only value what you are doing for them now and what you will do for them. When you are in the army and married, you're already financing her lifestyle - the money is coming in regardless, that's something that has been set up and solidified in the past. In the present, there's nothing you can do for her. In the future, you coming home means she has to end her period of gettin…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 06:08 PM
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Got deleted for some reason by the automod :(
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 08:02 PM
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Thanks. That analogy is spot on. Creating the illusion comes into play when you start to hamster that you can't get girls yet because you're not in shape yet or not financially rolling. Ideally, you want your life to actually be so awesome that no illusion maintenance is required. On top of that, however, it's very powerful to calibrate it to what she wants - and hold it just of of reach. So you're not always creating an illusion from scratch, you're just tailoring it. It can be high or low effo…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 07:31 PM
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Gotta double down and look for more ways to put yourself out there. You are in college so try to make all of your activities social; that will help the most with depression. Workout with buddies and if you are more experienced, lead them. Make friends with people who party and make yourself go out 2x a week. You don't have to drink, just socialize and build up your contacts, make a game out of it. There is more to beating depression and living a kickass life than pouring yourself into "healthy" …
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 10:47 AM
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This is not a terrible idea in theory - ie there should be some way for people to verify that they actually are living what they are talking about. It's trickier than you would think though, because we are talking about something hard to quantify - where you stand on the sexual pyramid. (Alphas are those on top of the sexual pyramid, that's really it). So I could upload myself in my tesla, but what would that really prove? Some guys would say I'm a retard beta for purchasing a depreciating asset…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 06:02 AM
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India has gotten incredibly cucked, and it's very sad to see. Divorce rape is incredibly penalizing for men - men who make it up to middle / upper class are typically working 60+ hrs a week for decades, subsidizing a girl that's with them for their caste status, and at any point in time the girl can walk away with 60%.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/16 11:23 PM
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Jacking it is honestly the best thing out of all that he listed. I think teenagers especially need to conceptually understand WHY jacking off is both healthy and detrimental depending on how you incorporate it in your life. You have more energy that you will ever have in your life, and as a teenager, you have the freedom (assuming supportive parents) to use that energy to all kinds of constructive shit. No bills yet, no life headaches, no healthcare & finance woes. Just energy that can find usef…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 09:25 AM
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"Her comedy career is like a poor kid's Xbox controller, it won't be able to last much longer with just the double As that it came with." Dead.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 10:47 PM
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He can pull all the dread game he wants, the bottom line is he made a terrible deal - when he was a med student (aka low current value, high potential value) he wifed based on what he could get at the time. Now he's obviously realizing he fucked up, and it's manifesting in these behaviors, but this is not calculated dread game. This is him realizing he has fucked himself and not knowing what to do, because he either gets divorce raped or has to spend his life with a downgrade. Either prospect bl…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 10:01 PM
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This is disgusting. No one has to live in SF without a roommate. Share an apartment in Daly City or Oakland, these cities aren't that ghetto anymore, and they have direct transportation into the city. Dumb bitch can't manage her money, and can't say no to stupid shit in order to meet her daily expenses... If you are making minimum wage, it's because you have no skills. Yelp customer support is notoriously horrible, and their sales is notoriously 90s and outdated. A ton of their sales people appl…
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 01:48 AM
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This is a strategy that's not going to be good for most guys, because a prime cause of "regret sex -> rape" happens when she thought she was giving casual sex to an alpha, and then it turns out he was a beta. She feels cheated, as if you misrepresented yourself and lied, and she rationalizes it as rape. This is probably #2 after "I was drunk -> rape" in terms of prevalence. You're right that this can work, but it can also backfire terribly. Many women when seeing a weak man in a crippled state w…
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 01:20 AM
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One of the standout posts, truly. I think many guys do not realize it's not just about becoming high SMV, it's about using your SMV intelligently to make good deals - and walk away from bad deals. The fundamental idea at play is that the lower value party "gives up the goods" first - if you're a lower value man dating a higher value woman (assuming your in a close enough ballpark to be dating), she's certainly going to shoot for dates, commiment, financial buy-in on your part BEFORE giving up th…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 10:37 PM
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Not "over" a male lawyer. Choose the best candidate for the job. One advantage female lawyers do have is they can do a better job garnering sympathy and un-demonizing the male party. They have likely lynched males before, so they know exactly how it's done. But just go with whoever seems best.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 08:12 AM
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Do not worry about which career is the most DT. You do not necessarily need to be in a very "alpha" career from the get-go when you are low in value (recent grad) and low in actual experience (recent grad). I personally would recommend focusing on building up your skillset now. Think about it like this - negotiation skills and being "alpha" might help you get the icing on the cake when it comes to a job offer, but having a superior, in-demand skillset will help you negotiate way harder. This is …
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 12:11 AM
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The wonderful thing about women is that you don't have to listen to what they say about what they do. You can just watch what they do. Women have one preference, and it's higher value. Many of the girls I've been with say they never thought they would be with an Indian guy or they don't think Indian-American guys are attractive. Or they will say that they aren't attracted to X trait or they don't like guys who are like Y, and I'm X and Y. I used to get bummed out by the shit women say - I only l…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 11:46 PM
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Training mental toughness comes down a few linear progressions. Improve your mental toughness, improve your tolerance for boredom / repetitive grind, and eliminate your addiction to dopamine response. Pick 1-2 ways to improve each department and make yourself do it for 3 months. Take 10 minute ICE COLD showers everyday, do long, strength based workouts with things like farmers carries, dead hangs, grip training, high sets, etc. Force yourself to talk to strangers on a daily basis, force yourself…
/r/askTRP10/02/16 11:17 PM
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You need a lawyer. I'll explain what I'm seeing, and perhaps someone who's experienced with divorce in your state can offer more in depth info. 1) They are trying extra hard to get you to bite because they know they don't have any evidence of abuse. They are constantly going to contact you and try to rile you in different ways; this is a common strategy to unhinge you and provoke some kind of emotional response, which they can use as evidence of you being angry or however they plan to make their…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 10:00 PM
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This is why this shit is real. Beta men invite not only suffering onto themselves, but onto their kids as well. You can be a great dad, a loving man, intelligent, thoughtful, and basically everything that makes parents what they are - but you have to be hard too, you have to fight to the last for every scrap, and play to win. The courts rely upon your complicity when they try to destroy you. You have to play the game like you're Kobe to not lose.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 09:51 PM
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I go to Equinox, and although it's overpriced as hell (a bit less painful with a company gym subsidy), the best part about it is the clientele is completely the type that shuns the power rack / squat rack. In addition to what you mentioned, people don't want to believe that the basics can give them great results - they want to feel like they are doing something "extreme and different". They believe the pathway to getting better results than your average person is to do more complicated, "secret"…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 05:13 PM
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Yeah, this is normal in fitness too. It's see-sawing, and the cure is to realize that you're not shit until you're upper echelon. Never be satisfied. Get addicted to challenges, get addicted to the shittiness of being RP'd. Train your mind - read, medidate, learn new skills, bite off new fitness challenges (sports, rock climbing, martial arts, hiking, etc, not just lifting), and talk to strangers everyday. Get into pursuits that give you slow growth - grip training, learn to program, learn a new…
/r/askTRP10/02/16 10:49 AM
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I'll tell you how incels / undesirables can get our help. If they post with TWO crucial bits of information, I guarantee you I can explain why they aren't getting laid, and what they need to do to get laid. 1. Upload a faceless, shirtless photo of your torso. 2. Tell us how often you go out, where you typically go out, and how many approaches you do See, most of these internet undesirables are either in lumpy shitty shape, or they just aren't going out and talking to women frequently. Every SING…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 06:34 AM
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Shkreli is a young, intelligent sociopath who let his rapid climb get to his head. He ultimately become a scapegoat, a face of pharma villainy that the public could lynch and feel like something was accomplished. Meanwhile, the prices still got raised and the executives behind the scenes are reaping the profit. Meanwhile, he trolled the public and acted untouchable, as though he couldn't be bothered to protect his rep in the eyes of the public. This kind of IDGAF mentality is useful to someone l…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 04:30 AM
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I like SimplePickup. They do a good job making easily digestible content for BP schmucks, and if their viewers actually go apply the ideas, they will definitely get better success than they get doing nothing. They are trying to appeal to the masses, create viral content that's spreadable on twitter / FB without getting shamed, and get themselves covered as an alternative to RSD / TRP / Roosh / Mystery style creepery. But they should never mistake their rising popularity with content quality. In …
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 02:29 AM
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Yes - this is a great book because it goes in on FEMALE seduction strategy as well. As a man you get much better success by being able to recognize and deal with incoming manipulations - it is better, IMO, to learn to recognize and deal with manipulations / seductions than it is to be a "great master manipulator" or whatever. Friends, family, women, coworkers, etc, the people you spend 99% of your social life with are generally going to - knowingly or not - be trying to seduce you into things th…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 12:13 AM
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Yup, to actually enjoy the highs in life you cannot have them all the time. Smoke a blunt when you achieve something, treat yourself to a $100 bottle of whiskey when you get a promotion or hit a major goal. Take a vacation and do nothing but play your favorite video games and masturbate... 1 week out of 52 weeks of hard ass work. Then you really will enjoy those dopamine pleasure bombs in their full glory. When you design your life to create these constant pulses of micro-pleasure, like constant…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 11:18 AM
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Most men fulfill their inherent social programming by social media, multiplayer gaming / gaming communities, reddit, and chatting / acquantainces at work. None of these people are really and truly your friend - yeah, yeah I know your old guildie from WoW and you go way back, but seriously, is he the dude who's going to let you crash if something happens and you need a hand? No, these are all illusory friendships. They are social kickbacks and social behavior, sure, but they are BP alternatives, …
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 03:18 AM
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Some people are just weak, like leaves getting pushed around by the wind. They have some vague idea of what they should be doing, but can't because they are constantly drawn in a different direction by their emotions. Being able to make tough decisions is the essential core of masculinity. Avoiding making the choice and trying to get the best of both worlds until the situation is forced to a boiling point is how women behave. The world will let women get away with it, but if you try to avoid dec…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 02:42 AM
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I was in a top tier frat as well, and what you are forgetting is that within every ecosystem, a new totem pole gets created. There's a hierarchy within the frat, and plenty of guys are not behaving alpha at all. Even if they are sociable, athletic rich good looking kids, girls who go to the frat are still looking to screen for the top %. Your bottom % frat boys do better than bottom tier GDIs for sure, but they aren't swimming in it. Additionally, these guys are 18-22, they don't know their ass …
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 02:03 AM
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No dude, you need to be thinking LTR-shopping when you have A) fully internalized and explored your SMV, as well as learned more about how women work and B) when you are at a PEAK in value. After you get your career going, get your lifestyle set up, car & crib and all that... you can bat much higher. Get dat Christian Troy swag on. Be patient, that is what you have learned and mastered by now on your path to becoming a surgeon. Stay the course. I have no problems with LTRs, but you sound like yo…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 08:12 AM
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Great post. Women who behave as actors, who drive their own behavior and take responsibility for it, and cause others to react to them do exist, but these women are either highly masculine & very rare anomalies -OR they constantly work very hard at resisting their programming and they wind up exhausted and miserable from swimming against the water their whole life. The career women who outside when they are all put together almost seem "alpha" to you and you think "damn, that's an exception" - y…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 07:49 AM
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This is the most beta thing I've ever seen. I've seen cucks, I've seen guys buying girls cars, I've seen guys who have committed suicide over unrequited love, I've seen guys pay to cuddle with a hoe in Japan, I've seen male feminists. I've seen guys who believe it is deeply shameful to "fuck" girls and it's exploitative, I've seen guys who raise another man's kid with a wife that is openly contemptuous, but they won't leave because they are terrified of being alone and they think their manly dut…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/16 08:59 AM
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Yeah, I agree, and I think the key is that girls react to your lifestyle, because as a girl, she knows your lifestyle is what she's negotiating for. Even if she's the purest, non-gold-diggingest unicorn, she's still fundamentally aware that if she attaches to you, she gets to have your lifestyle. Which is why guys I know who make decent money, but live in a shit house with a bunch of their deadbeat college friends, don't wear nice clothes, don't drive a nice car, etc, don't get girls. It's not t…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/16 11:03 PM
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The bottom line is that if you do not have money AS WELL as the good sense to protect it from grubby hands in all forms, then you're a slave. If you have to work in order to stay alive (keep a roof over your head, feed yourself etc), then you are a slave. You have no option to quit. You can change jobs, you can move around, you can take a break, but you cannot quit the basic premise of having to have a job. This means that you do not own 8-10 of your 16 hours of being awake. I know I'm being hyp…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/16 07:31 AM
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This is a pretty big generalization to derive from one dude's circumstance. All that "partylife" is an environment where women are encouraged and enabled to go full hamster with no sense of responsibility or consequences. Whether you're talking about a frat party or a nightclub, it's an environment that dudes have designed to attract girls, get them uninhibited and get them to abandon their natural slut defense. Partying is literally THE best way for most young guys to get laid, get a lot of soc…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/16 07:02 AM
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And now she's probably screwed over someone else.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/16 01:44 AM
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We all serve corporate interests in some way, that's how you make money. If you get paid by a company, be it a megacorp or a startup, they are paying you because your work supports their interests. If I make 200k as a software engineer, it's likely the company is making millions off of the software I produce. Joining the military is getting paid to serve corporate interests, but so is everything else. If you don't have great educational prospects, then it's really not that bad off a deal. You ca…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/16 11:00 PM
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It's a values question - it's kind of outside the scope of alpha / beta. Saying a military career is beta is like saying being an engineer is beta or being an professor is beta. It just is a misuse of the terms alpha and beta. Ultimately, if you do something because deep down, it's your mission as a man, and you have to take that road, then that's really the end of the story. If you do something because someone else convinced you to, or you were indoctrinated into it, or you're doing it out of s…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/16 10:51 PM
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You see it in r relationships all the time - it's guys who have not internalized that she is not their woman anymore. They are trying to protect her interests and do right by her and be fair & be the good guy... while she's trying to take the skin off their back. If you play to not lose in family / divorce court, you get raped. If you play to win, then you MIGHT be able to draw, which for men is a victory. OP's wife fucked up by not getting a shark attorney who could regulate her hamster and hel…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/16 10:31 PM
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On a side note, lotta guys are too pussy to do an approach in a gym. Like it's against r fitness code or it's a sure rejection, or it's unmanly to take 2 seconds out of your workout. One of the hottest girls I've plated I started talking to her while she was doing hamstring curls with her headphones in. The collective asshole-circumference of twox shrunk .1 cm as I broke the "never ever talk to girls with headphones in" rule. Most girls won't be that receptive, but some will. Sometimes it'll jus…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 11:04 AM
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The bottom line is that men have extremely powerful hamsters in their heads too. It's not an exclusively female trait - we can hamster any kind of unsuccessful behavior as reason to feel superior. One of these fantasies is the idea that all these young hos are going to be sad, worn out cat-ladies as a product of their slutting around. All the jocks are going to be fat beer belly losers in their 30s. It's all hamsterbating to make the beta feel superior. Another is that you are superior for looki…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 10:21 PM
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Yeah, Ron Paul was an OG. He's stuck to the same brand of libertarianism and never folded or flopped in 30 years. Rand Paul is watered down koolaid, he's offbrand tepid soda - he has neither the charisma nor the identity to get very far in this one.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 07:48 AM
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This was interesting - clash of the titans in terms of "people who are great interruptors, brow-beaters, and talking over people." But O'Reilly ultimately cannot sway Trump even 1% despite throwing everything and the kitchen sink at him. So he surrenders, generating some fun camaraderie towards the end and acting like old friends, and Trump rolls with it, allowing O'Reilly to gracefully bow out.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 07:44 AM
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Good analysis. One way the dealers fuck you is by keeping the conversation focused on financing and monthly payments, not on the variables you want to be actually discussing (total price of vehicle, your trade in value, downpayment, APR, etc). Simply by defining what the negotiation is going to be about (Let me see if I can find a monthly rate you're dumb ass will sign off on! I know you don't think 3 years down the line, you short-sighted motherfucker!) the dealer already wins. If you negotiate…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 07:08 AM
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You have a psychopath, a hamster, and beta enabler of both parties. You are the only one who doesn't buy into their BS delusional world about how the sister is a troubled victim who the family pushes to such extremes. They will all turn on you in a heart beat, and even if betadad knows your right, he will not risk everyone's ire by standing up for you. When this situation blows up like a methlab, there is going to be someone who has to pay. If you are around, you'll certainly be the one who does…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 05:50 AM
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Probably a better question for AskTRP, but I'll answer here anyway. You should not argue about small things. I never argue with my girl. It's a waste of time, you wouldn't argue with a kid. Don't get into that frame of my opinion v your opinion. If a girl tries to argue with me about something, I will either not take it at all seriously and just turn it into something light and fun. Or if she's actually being rude and offensive, not just testing me, I'll keep being in a good mood and say "hey, l…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 09:34 AM
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Old school Star Wars was heavily influenced by Kurosawa movies and samurai, so the RP there is basically a residual of RP elements of medieval Japan. Jedi are basically samurai and monks rolled into one - and these cultures had the attitudes towards women which you're describing. So I agree, but it's not like SW came up with this characterization of women - they most likely did it as an unintentional byproduct of bastardizing samurai / bushido when conceiving of Jedi. I doubt they were setting o…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 09:21 AM
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We used white-girl wasted to describe girls who were not really drunk, but because everyone's drinking and they've had maybe 1-2 drinks, they start feeling justified in acting sloppy drunk. It's like an amazing sociological thing at work - girls who aren't drunk will behave drunk as shit to the point they believe they are drunk if everyone around them is drunk.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 08:05 AM
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These are girls in a co-ed fraternity (da fuck is that anyway?) who are Wednesday drinking. What the fuck did you expect? Awalt is true, but these are turbo thots, man. Like if you expected these types of girls to be chaste and professional and focused on their school / career... then that's on you, not them. Anyway, it's good this has taught AWALT, but don't be angry at them for being thots. Thwack yourself upside the head for not being a good thot-identifier.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 08:03 AM
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Yeah. Let's define "Swallowing the RP" as learning to accurately diagnose reality, disillusion yourself, and replace societal programming with reality-based knowledge. Is there any purpose to doing that if you're not focusing on self-improvement? What is the benefit to understanding everything we talk about here from career advice to 48 Laws to game to fitness... if it's all just "internet knowledge" to be contemplated in a vaccuum. Why would I read a 2-3 page long post about boozing your client…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 07:59 AM
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This was a great perspective, thanks for sharing. It's true, his making an enemy out of Fox might be his best play at taking advantage of the growing disdain across party lines for Fox and what it represents - old school, bloated wimpy republicans. He loses the battle, but he reiterates that the war is really about him. There's no other candidate we give a fuck about seeing - if Chris Christie didn't want to show up, no one would give a damn. All eyes are indeed on Trump, and his absence might j…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 07:41 AM
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Self-improvement to me does seem like the next logical step, though. Consider - we can all agree TRP is, as a recent mod post put it, based on the rule zero of "increasing man's sexual power and options". This is increasing SMV. Now... you can increase SMV without improving yourself, I suppose. But let's break down SMV into categories, let's say Physical (body, fitness, dress, looks), Lifestyle (finances, career, status, location, social proof), Game (social skills, body language, voice tone, ha…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 12:50 AM
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Reminds me of that ex-wife who tried to get a man's joint custody of their child revoked because he said No when the child wanted McDonalds. Hamsters were like "oh that's child abuse!" Definitely one of those "abandon your faith in society if you haven't already" moments.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 12:24 AM
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That's why this is smart by Trump. Megyn Kelly tried to shit on Trump, and expected Trump to fold and flop under the very real, logical argument that he's a misogynist and terrible person, and has a history of crap that should disqualify him from the highest office. Trump just dumped on her and slipped the noose set up for him - ONCE. He cannot do that again and he knows it. She will be out for blood, and she's very good at what she does. I have no hate for Megyn Kelly because she plays her role…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 12:22 AM
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Like any category of people, some of highly effective and some are highly ineffective. Many are highly ineffective as you described, and their better DT traits are marred by short-sightedness, hedonism, need for validation / compliance from others, financial woes, and addiction. Others are running the country, managing hedge funds, top 1%er salespeople, and so on. There's no black and white way to see this - surgeons tested highest for psychopathy out of all of the careers in one study, and it m…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 09:37 AM
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Only if you want to plate her. If your friends with her but not getting sex out her than you are an ORBITER providing emotional support to her for nothing in return. Unless you broke up with her and downgraded her to a plate, there is no benefit. You'll get distracted by being her friend and hearing about the new dick she's getting. If you still love her, all the more reason to cut her loose completely. If you don't have feelings for her, then... what the fuck you get out of being friends with h…
/r/askTRP27/01/16 06:39 AM
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I only buy drinks for girls I've made out with Can substitute for danced with or anything similar. The point is, you want to communicate - I have no problem buying you a drink, I'm not a cheapass and I'll shell out the 12 bucks for your appletini if that means I'll plow you tonight. But I'm not a chump and I only reward bitches with drinks, I'm not looking to buy you a drink for nothing. This happens generally if the girl is A) drunk or B) in need of validation / looking to confirm she's still g…
/r/askTRP27/01/16 06:37 AM
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I have a very kino based game, and while I'm 24, I don't see any reason older guys need to change up their game. Kino is not necessarily making out / hair playing / putting your arm around her, etc. It can be subtle and bring her up to a slow boiling point. Casually lay your hand on a girl's thigh who you've been flirting with, and if she doesn't move it and leans into it, she's 100% down to fuck. I've done that in the middle of a social interaction in front of some people we were chatting with,…
/r/askTRP27/01/16 06:19 AM
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Ok, so you need to make you some money. Health & wealth are really all that count - power is only useful insofar as it can help you defend and secure further health & wealth. So let's start with health. Get good sleep, eat meats and vegetables, supplement with multis and fish oil, take care of your skin, SPF your face, avoid too much screen time, take cold showers. This will help depressed feelings. Wealth? You need a career plan, a 5 year plan you can start executing on today. This is beyond th…
/r/askTRP27/01/16 06:11 AM
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20 percent BF with a lot of muscle can look good on some guys - pull off a tank Bane style body for example... but on most guys, it just looked fat. It doesn't quite look great in clothes either - you just look big and undefined, whereas the 10% bf guy can get away with wearing tight fitting clothes that show off his V taper. Think a slim fit shirt and straight modern fit jeans. The 10%er will pull off a more fashionable look in any style, and look a lot better at the beach or in a basic T shirt…
/r/askTRP26/01/16 09:13 AM
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Because being a little bitch-ass boy was probably what caused the problem in the first place. You can't attract her with the behaviors that pushed her away. If you are not ready to lose her completely and move the fuck on, you have much less of a chance of getting her back. Abandon hope, accept that it's over, and go in with the attitude of "I'm going to build my value now, and if she happens to come around, great, I'll be higher value than when she left. If she doesn't come, I'll be higher valu…
/r/askTRP26/01/16 09:00 AM
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The issue is that you should never try to "explain yourself" or offer rationalizations for your behavior. This is what friends, coworkers, GFs, unsupportive family etc will take hold of and pick at. Don't say like "well the reason I can't get pizza with you guys is I'm on a low carb diet to get in shape for the summer." Just say "Nah I don't eat pizza." My ex used to bitch about how I would wake up at 5:30am and need to be asleep by 10:30 / 11 on weeknights. I could explain how I have a 60 hr / …
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 03:46 AM
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The 2 best career opportunities are CS and IB / Consulting. If you aren't going to a top target school, a business degree for undergrad is pretty meh, and you better damn well be a top performer in your grade if it's not top 10. If you are and you are going to excel, land internships, etc, then it is still the king. If you are going to a school that's not on the map in terms of IB / consulting, then your best bet is to go for CS. It's hard, yeah, but don't believe the redditors who fetishize it …
/r/TheRedPill25/01/16 10:01 AM
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It's too late to have the same dating life that someone who started when they were 15. But you can develop the skills. It takes guys anywhere from 6 mo to 2 years to get good with women depending on their personality and how fucked up they are. If for 2 years you structure your week so you are constantly approaching women (go out 2x a week to clubs to practice cold game, line up dates for as many dinners as humanly possible to practice social / date game. Both are crucial.) Every single week for…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/16 09:34 AM
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This is pretty silly. If you are in the bottom 5% of SMV for men, then you do not have the traits required to just "go DT". If you did, you wouldn't be in the bottom 5%. IE if you are too weak to get a career going and build your body into something not disgusting, then how are you going to magically have the delusional confidence required to be narcissistic? If you have no frame and no inner game (as most bottom %ers don't) how can you have the low-reactor emotional control required to go even …
/r/TheRedPill25/01/16 01:23 AM
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Men control empires, and the men who have controlled empires in the past have been severely influenced by pussy. You are right in that no woman collapsed an empire, but many societies have been shaped by female influence over the male controllers.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/16 01:11 AM
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Day Bang / Bang is pretty good. Roosh has turned into a ridiculous troll / hate-bait, but he used to 100% "get" that guys want something that will yield results. I don't care about your philosophy on the morals of PU or how to date / court women, I don't care about this "campfire principle" shit. I want actionable strategies. Really though, Day Game is about confidence and volume and social skills. Do you have the location where you can go approach 5-10 women in an afternoon? Do you have the con…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/16 01:07 AM
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Some gems from this are: "Yes, you'll still be straight no matter how many times you suck her dick" and "Some girls have vaginas. Some girls have penises. It's not a big deal, you'll get used to it." What the fuck? If you put a dick in your mouth and enjoy it, you're a gay ass motherfucker. It doesn't mean you're a bad person, it just means you're homosexual or bisexual. How the fuck can you rationalize around that? Some girls have penises, NBD... WTF? Has the world lost it's goddamn mind... I g…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 07:49 PM
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At 18 the best thing you can do is go experience life rather than reading about it. You determine what you have to look forward to. Women can be good if you are a great man; they are as good as they have to be to get the desirable males in their life. I endorse plates because you're at an age where you are still forming your frame and sense of identity. A hot girl who's had more experience being high value and getting what she wants through manipulation WILL stunt on your face and WILL pull you …
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 07:02 AM
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This is proven by the fact that women have convinced the world being a housewife is a full time job. I could knock out the household maintenance and errands in 2hrs per day of concentrated grind-time, and spend the remaining 7-8 hrs chilling if I was a SAHD. Maybe 3-4 hrs max if I had kids. It's not that women are better at cooking / cleaning / maintenance / supporting tasks... it's that they suck less at those than anything else, so it's for society's best that they focus on that. Everyone else…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 06:31 AM
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I mean, either the objective is to fuck or not to fuck. If you're in TRP trying to lay pipe, then it's good to reward girls for being depraved whores. If your goal is to train women into being... better than women, then yeah, I guess not fucking to "teach her a lesson" is the way to go. Women can't learn shit about self-responsibility and foresight, if they could they would have by this point in evolution. Most girls with healthy sex drives have sent nude pics at some point, and most girls (all …
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 06:13 AM
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Very few in my experience have straight up preferred it. Most women will really enjoy head for 1-3 orgasms, but after being stimulated to a point, they want a deep, hard fucking. Fingers and tongue is just the appetizer, it feels really good, but doesn't give them the deep, whole body type satisfaction. Even if she comes quicker and harder with clitoral stimulation, most women in my experience get to a level of wetness where they start craving a cock.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 06:04 AM
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Upload a pic of your body and tell us 1) how often to you go out, 2) how many approaches do you do, 3) walk us through what happened the last time you generated interest but couldn't seal the deal. We can get to the bottom of it. You should be able to bat below your SMV with OK game, and bat at your SMV with quite good game. You should be having no problem attracting 6s and 7s if you're a well-employed, conversationally-skilled, fit & muscular, well-dressed guy who makes the effort to approach a…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 05:58 AM
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Some people need to bitch about something. His entire argument revolves around the idea that stereotypes of "alphadom" aka the black inner city pimp or the European jiggalo are this ultimate tier of alpha. Like seriously, outside of rap music videos, pimps have very high risk, often get locked up, are being bred out by online / self-managed girls, and do not make nearly good enough money to justify the incredibly stressful nature of their work. This idea of "if you're not an extreme caricature o…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 05:50 AM
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Ex-pill junkie, 2x divorcee, botox'd up, 14 years older than you... Having an obsession with pitbulls is like the best outcome you could have had. All things considered given the women you're choosing to pursue, this is pretty mild.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 04:22 AM
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You should aim to raise your son to be successful. As a child and teenager, he does not really know "what he wants to be" or "what his path will be" so you want to arm with the intellectual, emotional, and physical faculties to achieve whatever he could want to one day be. You're building a platform; one day he will think for himself and take his own path to mastery / fulfillment on his own terms... but until that day, your job is to make sure he's building the tools he needs FOR that day. A few…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 06:59 AM
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Jeffy is the OG. Saw him speak in SF 4-5 years ago, he went out after with some people who stayed behind and just ran game with people. It's tough to say whether he's as good as RSD guys chalk him up to be, but he has amazing vocal projection in the club - like he single handedly taught me the importance of having a loud ass piercing voice in the club. Anyway, Aussie men are busy going to other countries and fucking their hotter women. They know how to enjoy the decline. Sadly its left their cou…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 08:55 AM
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RSD isn't near a 100M dollar company, let alone Owen's net worth. They actually have pretty slim margins from bootcamps and DVDs (which no one buys anymore). Unless Tyler has other business ventures and investments, I'd be surprised if his net worth was 10 mil, let alone 100.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 08:49 AM
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"I'm looking for something real" "Don't message me if you're looking to hookup" I need plausible deniability - I can't think of myself as someone who hooks up with strangers online, so approach me as though your a high value alpha who's going to save me from the tail end of the thotlife. If you're above a 8-9, escalate quickly, ask me out to drinks, and after 1-2 rounds, pull me. If you're a high-value beta (typically OKC guy who has interesting pictures, a good job, not bad looking, but is usin…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 08:46 AM
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India has a huuuuuugeeeee white knight infestation. There's cities where men get beaten to death in the streets over vigilante response to accusations, and no one says shit.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 06:48 PM
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Yup. Before 10+ one is too ignorant of women to KNOW that he is ignorant, so he has this know-it-all kind of attitude. Like a young dude who's made a little money and thinks he is ready to starting spending big and giving unsolicited financial advice to people. Dudes get a little pussy and think they've become experts, and they get worked by a gold digger who's had years of practice.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 06:12 PM
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Because these white youngins are extra butthurt about non-whites fucking their women, and they are insecure as hell. This plate I'm fucking is in an open relationship with her BF, and she was telling me the one rule her BF has is no sex with black dudes. These guys are very insecure, that's all. It's kind of like how some black women get when successful black dudes date white chicks.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 04:17 PM
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Game will not fill the hole in you. It will help you fill the hole in her, sure, but not in you. Find out what makes you happy and energized even when it's working you hard - could be game, could be career related, could be a hobby, could be a dream. Chasing your mission and getting closer and closer to accomplishing it... is pretty much the only thing that helps after you no longer can access the refuge of ignorance and childish bliss.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 12:39 AM
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It's interesting how this has projected into the "Cuckservative" meme. Which is so stupid, yet hilarious too. Like how does this shit 4chan cooked up get taken seriously by actual right-wingers in media. It comes down to men have become gayer as a society and get sexually stimulated not by the pussy, but the by thought of a strapping muscular dick fucking it. Maybe it has to do with the fact that porn is inherently cuckoldry; you are watching or even paying to watch a man enjoy a beautiful woman…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 11:57 PM
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In season one he was God mode, because he was red in a sea of purple. He was a DT frying up guppies in the shallow end of the pool, like Donald Blythe and the other reps and naive journalists and fuck-ups like Russo. He was on some Kobe level shit. Like Kobe taking down an entire WNBA team with one hand tied behind his back. This is why the first scene was kind of pandering to what the viewers enjoy seeing. Political buttfuckery where Frank always wins. Season two, he graduates to the big league…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 11:39 PM
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I'm going to tell you something that will seem completely useless, but will help if you let it. Accept responsibility for being fooled in your high school years by a early peaking girl. Girls develop in many ways better than guys, and a pretty 16 year old girl is going to school you in terms of manipulation and lying if you're a boy getting indoctrinated by public education, parents, and TV. You are not a loser yet, you lost a mismatched fight, and now you're going to go Rocky mode and win the n…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 10:39 PM
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What? Ultimatums are great for managing bratty children and women. All ultimatums are in reality is iron standards. If you have zero followthrough on your ultimatums, then the solution is to fix the bitch-in-you that's preventing your followthrough. You are absolutely right that if she doesn't respect you and view you as a prize, she will do the exact opposite of your ultimatum. But if she deeply feels in her bones that you'll put her out on the street if she does X, and she views you as high va…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 07:01 AM
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You need to accept your fears and worst possible outcomes. You know, she probably will go marry a more successful guy and live a better life than you. That's what you say is your worst case scenario? Accept it. She's hot, smart, and willing to improve her SMV and female game (laser hair removal, move to the big city to chase top guys, etc). She'll be in the mom-benz with her adorable alpha seedlings living the thot dream. You have to accept that it's irrelevant. Who gives a fuck. Wish her the be…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/16 10:17 PM
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Exactly. Look as ashamed and bashful as humanly possible for 5 minutes of your life, bullshit like an artist, and walk away unscathed. People think alphas value their pride over all. It's actually the other way around; betas are so hung up on their pride and need to be recognized / feel like a "somebody" that they will make an irrational, unproductive decision and take a loss to do the prideful thing. Alphas have transcended giving a shit. Betas are easy to bait, as the teacher did - use their p…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/16 11:46 AM
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Exactly. Some things are worth fighting for. This is not one of them. Go fuck her daughter or something if you want to feel better about it. You cannot teach her shit. Secure the A, then go make complaints with the school administration if it's worth it to you.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/16 07:15 AM
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The best entrepreneurs I know have one weird trait, which I still do not fully understand, but I can fake or talk myself into to use it semi-effectively. They understand sunk cost fallacy and how to divorce failures quick and move the fuck on. So you botched 1 business deal. You burned through your series A funding quicker than expected. Whatever it is, is it conceivable that SOME mega-successful entreprenuer has been in the exact same boat and wormed a way out of it to greater success? Can you …
/r/TheRedPill13/01/16 07:03 AM
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It's a values difference. I appreciate the lengthy reply even though I disagree, you make good points. You remind me of how I used to think, and me thinking like you is why I am able to relate to OP and give him the advice that I know he won't like, but think he needs to hear. I just believe that I cannot break the system, I can only break myself against the system. I believe society goes through popular shitty ideologies constantly, and people who make lemonade out of those shitty ideologies ar…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/16 06:53 AM
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The only thing you can do is use your upbringing to help you. You grew up with 7 in depth views of hypergamy, hamstering, BP conditioning, and AWALTry. You should know a lot more about how women / post-wall women behave and manipulate, and you can use that info to avoid traps the Chads and Thads and Brads will fall for. Gotta use your shitty childhood to give you some positive point of difference that other guys don't have. For example, I grew up poor, but used that to motivate me to get a schol…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/16 03:20 AM
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I will tell you exactly what to do. You're not going to like it, but I got wisdom on my side. I went to an super progressive, liberal elite school that had its head up its ass about these sort of things, and I shutted the fuck up and emerged with great recs, GPA, internships, and went on to a great job. By shutting the fuck up and doing what I had to. Sometimes, you need to just kiss the old, white SJW ass for show. Apologize for causing a disruption and for anything that you may have said. Let …
/r/TheRedPill13/01/16 01:56 AM
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Good shit. When I was a freshmen, I was avoiding low status guys like the plague and got swept up in trying to be the cool popular bro I never was in high school. I was that Indian kid who only hung out with white dudes, all my friends were from the frat I was in. Didn't want to associate myself with people who reminded me of who I was in the past. I realized it was a lack of confidence and insecurity that was driving that behavior. You made a best friend for life, a ride or die type of dude tha…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/16 01:42 AM
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Fair enough man, if it brings you happiness and you get it done at a reputable place, go for it.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 11:38 PM
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Accountability groups and community motivation are huge in terms of getting women to adhere to dieting / fitness goals. It's all the rage - using social media, competition, comparison, and gamification to get weak ass betas and women to mock the effects of having discipline. Yes, it is proven to work and it's proven to help you achieve goals. But the price is you do not develop a better trait, which is the ability to get the goal done yourself via internal drive and discipline. Ultimately, I'd r…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 08:41 PM
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Make him listen to this song until he gets it
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 08:30 PM
2

This is why you gotta spin enough plates to see these patterns. It's really like clockwork, isn't it? Get a bigass promotion, and like clockwork, she starts talking about marriage. Like it just came out the blue. She hits around 26/27 and most of her friends are engaged / married / expecting their first child? Like clockwork, she's going to start going baby crazy. One girl I'm seeing went home for the holidays to this big Korean wedding for her sister. I tell her she's probably going to be intol…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 07:19 PM
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I do not like the look of fake tits. Lela Star natty versus fake tits? Jenni Lee? Faye Reagan? Rebecca Linares, etc. Literally every pornstar who I consider 9/10 (petite, slim, nice ass but small waist) looks better with natural breasts. B and C cups look great on slim, athletic women. Skinnyfat pear shaped, love-handle having women... yeah, they look shitty with small tits because they got over-sized everything else, so going up 1-2 cup sizes might make them look marginally less shitty. But the…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 07:07 PM
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It's a shitty paper. It's use of textual evidence seems contrived, like he found quotes and stretched them really far to make them fit. He did a poor job of remaining objective (I believe, I think, etc.) and adhering to a clear, firm thesis. For example, if he had written "Great Gatsby, when interpretted under feminist critical theory, reads as a "anti-feminist" and patriarchal text due to Fitzgerald's focus on traditional gender dynamics being interwoven into American society. Female characters…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 06:43 PM
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Can't agree more. PU is sales, and the exact same mentality required for upper echelon sales success is required to get truly good at cold-approach game. The key is not simply knowledge, but how you can use your knowledge in real time. Yes, it's important to know a lot about your client's business needs or your customer's goals. Yes, it's important to know what women want, what motivates them, what are they afraid of, what are they greedy for. The more you know, the better you can position yours…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 07:37 AM
1

I get that as intellectual creatures, humans have an urge to discuss things with people on mediums like the internet. But for the life of me, I just don't get people who argue on news sites or youtube or anything like that. No one is interested in understanding anyone's viewpoint anymore, no one is interested in genuine discussion. Everyone is either trying to validate their own beliefs or game the karma to get the most upvoted comment. Accepting the RP to me means understanding that people do n…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 11:32 PM
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It's very simple IMO. If you are high value and looking to spin plates, ride the decline, and take advantage of party / hookup culture / hypergamy, go to the BIG BP CITIES. SF, NY, etc. If you are looking for higher (still AWALT tho) quality relationships, go to small conservative areas. If you want to learn game, go to the cities where it's hardmode, and you have rows of clubs to get VOLUME in. LA, etc. If you want to try your patience wasting time on 6s in abundance with inflated egos for the …
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 11:23 PM
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Being in a BP land is not bad. I live in the land of skinny white, asian, and indian tech dudes (plus low value hipsters and broke skinny jean types). SF. Lift weights, dress well, have game, etc and you stand out so much in the sea of blue.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 11:08 PM
1

Future Cosmo article: "How to Turn His Scrotum Switch Before He's About to Cum!"
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 01:13 AM
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That is true. I think it's also a big part of why caste system societies (Hinduism, for example) tend to have more polarized "afterlife" narratives. Grin and bear it, lose attachment to material possessions, and in the next go you'll be a king. Meanwhile the dude who won't touch you will be a cockroach.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 01:09 AM
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The reality is that people - men and women - are equally shitty. Women ping off of male leadership and are as good as they have to be. Women being shitty today is a product of lazy beta male degeneration and pussification from the 70s to today. Men built and controlled society; that we have handed it over to such a degree of female influence is our weakness, not theirs. It's interesting that the quote also puts the poor in heaven. This is called beta male wish fulfillment - most people are poor …
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 11:18 PM
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You write very interesting stuff. I think you've noticed a similar puzzle that Venkatesh Rao mentions in Gervais Principle, which is how do you actually learn DT / sociopath behavior? He writes it as "why you can't learn to be a sociopath from reading books / wikipedia". Everyone reads the same books on power, negotiation, body language, manipulation, leadership, etc, but most of it is not actionable. You're not going to become an effective sociopath, your not going to develop your own DT playbo…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 09:38 PM
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I have no beef with MGTOW in theory and would consider myself a MGTOW except for the fact that I believe dealing with women, learning game, learning plating, learning relationship management, and so on is a critically important part of becoming a man. You cannot avoid it; at some point, you need to learn how to attract women and more importantly, effectively manage them after you attract them. Most MGTOWs I've seen on the internet are correct in their theoretical knowledge, but so fucking hamste…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 09:19 PM
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RP goes hand in hand with libertarianism for me. Instead of libertarianism on a macro scale, this is libertarianism on a micro scale. I don't believe in libertarianism as a way to govern society, but I believe in it as a personal philosophy. 1) Don't rely on anyone to help you. Pull yourself up by your bootstraps. No one will build your SMV for you. 2) Money, Fame, Status, Women, etc these are the rewards of productive efforts on your part. You can increase your standing in each of these areas, …
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 04:39 PM
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I agree. I've spent a lot of time amongst conservatives and they are genuinely proud of "the American experience" and they want you to experience it as a minority. Liberal whites will tip-toe around you and try to avoid saying anything offensive, but then think they know you and know more about your own damn race / culture because of how "open" they are. They wind up thinking they know how you should behave and how you should respond to certain situations, and if you deviate from their pre-conce…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 04:16 PM
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Apparently legions of RPers have been posting and PMing people on relationships / askmen type subreddits. Telling guys to "take the red pill" or arguing about why TRP is or isn't this or that. Trying to be a RP missionary spreading the word. Who the hell is doing this? Cut that shit out, stop trying to save every beta you come across on the internet. Part of swallowing the pill and not being beta anymore is to get over this inane urge to have your newfound beliefs "validated" by having others re…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 07:57 AM
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Hahahaha this bitch did you such a big favor. She's too contemptuous of you to keep this on the DL, and now you've seen her real side. If she had played the game a little better, you're dumb ass would be married to a lawyer who's trying to stunt in Ibiza off of your salary. Don't buy real estate with her, don't marry her, cancel the honeymoon. Your relationship is your own fault now that you've got the RP knowledge to know better. Gotta be honest man, I see that you've been in denial about your …
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 08:59 PM
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This is why you've gotta spin plates. Girls who have been passed around more times than Snoop's bong are going to rationalize and justify why they should still get the high value guy. They know how to screen for a sucker, and they will. You either will have the experience with women to see her for what she is and put her in the slutzone (plate) or you won't, and you'll get oneitis. You'll see the idealized creation your mind wants to see, the BP fantasy, not the reality of who she is. Spinning p…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 09:06 AM
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Mystery is a god of pick-up artistry and the guy who inspired me to learn it. He is incredibly good, the type of good that you get when you are driven by deep, emotional crippling. I've seen him at a seminar a long time ago and he had tremendous passion for what he does, and he brings true artistry to something that many left-brained nerds at the time tried to dissect as a science. I didn't see him in field, but little things - like the way he moved or the way he weaved in little stories seamles…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 08:49 AM
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Good, maybe this will help guys wise up to the fact that unless she's incredibly naive, sheltered, religious, or retarded... she knows exactly how she's playing the game. She knows. No point being upset though. Literally everything women provide, including pussy, is a waste of time relative to what you could be doing with your life. Busting a nut is the sweetest joy, yes, but it's never really all that productive. Inventing something, building an app, learning a skill, working with a team, train…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 08:36 AM
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Once I was arguing with my dad about something, I think I wanted to blow my summer internship money on a new car, and I said something like "why are you even telling me all this? I'm 20 and I have my own money, I pay my own way through college, and I am going to do exactly what I want to do anyway! You're blowing wind, I got money now and I can do what I want." He said that he's going to say his piece because the words wouldn't be wasted; they'd sink in either today or in ten years, but either w…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 08:04 AM
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If she couldn't get a guy to treat her like a queen, I guess this is the next best alternative.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/16 02:14 AM
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West Coast Hip Hop. West Coast hip hop was so realistic about female behavior that Common's white knight ass wrote a song dissing West Coast HH for being misogynistic. That's the shit you need. I grew up listening to this shit and it really is the truest shit ever made. Snoop, E-40, Too Short, Dre, Ice Cube, Kurupt, Tupac in thug mode not philosopher mode, Nate Dogg, Warren G, NWA, Ice-T And of course some new school dudes. I might do a post breaking down the wisdom in some old west coast hip ho…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 10:24 AM
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The Weeknd is a great story of a dude becoming RP through disillusionment with the BP fantasy of partying / drugs / girls. The change between HoB and Thursday is him swallowing the pill. He is definitely someone who understands how women works, what motivates them, who they fuck, what delusions they buy into, how women treat dudes who have money & fame versus those that don't, etc. We'll see if his music can hold up now that he's big enough to make poppy jingles that are aimed to women, not abou…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 10:12 AM
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Yeah, I am a huge believer in PHAT for aesthetics and a secondary focus on strength. I would say make sure you graduate Starting Strength after 6 months, and move the fuck on to an mass building program. If you want to train strength and you really like SS or 5x5, then make sure you up the volume by adding supplementary work. 5/3/1 + BBB has changed my perspective on lifting. Get the strength progress - slow and steady - and make sure you're also doing hypertrophy work. I think after 1 year of r…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 07:38 AM
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Yeah, it is withdrawal. Sugar withdrawal is really hard. It ain't heroin, but it's still too tough for most Americans to deal with. Carb craving, headaches, upset stomach, digestive issues, low energy.. if you are on a standard US shit tier diet, you will really feel the pain if you switch to a clean keto. Best way to taper into keto is to switch to it without going into a deficit - eat rich fatty meats, cheese, vegetables, etc. After 1-2 weeks when you've adapted, then you cut to a 500 deficit …
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 07:30 AM
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Keto with paleo ideology mixed in is really, really effective. I did higher fat lower protein than you, and was eating a shit ton of grassfed beef, fatty fish, eggs, etc plus leafy green vegetables, and I felt really mentally energetic. Physically I suffered in terms of lifts and energy, which is to be expected, but mentally I felt clean and clear. I only 2 months into my diet and I've cut about 30 lbs (admittedly 10 lbs or so of pure waterweight, but still). What most people in natural bodybuil…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 07:28 AM
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I agree with your idea. I have always thought it would be helpful that when posting a FR or especially a race-bitching or short-bitching (the short dudes don't get any pussy, wahhh!!!)... upload a pic of your torso. What do you look like in a tight v neck, show me that then we'll talk about whether it's your race holding you back. That being said though, 2 years is a good number and I personally think around 18 months is what you need at minimum to gain 2-3 SMV points. Typically in a OPTIMAL bul…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 07:16 AM
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All I see here is that you two wasted an hour of your life that you can't get back. Him... he's an idiot, that hour would not have been spent on anything worthwhile anyway. But you, if you are smart enough to be a woman and see some validity to TRP, you're smart enough to understand the infinite futility of arguing with people like that. Bottom line is that women are attracted to leadership and confidence, and this is why men must be go-getters. If you cannot approach and escalate with women, ho…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/15 09:06 AM
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Jesus. He fucked a new syllable or two into the dude's last name. They keep designing interviews with the specific purpose of hacking him down to size, but Trump gets how to speak to the lowest common denominator. You can see the way he uses repetition masterfully and distills a long sentence down to a 3-4 word tweetable, which he will emphasize again and again. He knows George doesn't have the balls to say "You didn't actually answer the question, let me repeat the question and this time speak …
/r/TheRedPill28/12/15 08:35 AM
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People here are missing the point. Atlas Shrugged and Fountainhead are shitty when you read them as novels or literature. They are shitty when interpreted as philosophical or economical works. But they provide VERY detailed, accurate, and insightful depictions of beta male mentality and societal push towards mediocrity. Essentially Rand's greatest success is her understanding of what she calls "the second rater". The dude from Fountainhead who wants to be an architect for respect of his peers an…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/15 08:09 AM
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It's true, but like all short sayings it has limited usefulness. It's not something I'd say is worth defining your worldview, but it is true. Understanding that hot women are approached constantly and have been getting hit on constantly since they were 14 is important. The hottest girls have been having guys offering them gifts, companionship, and dick constantly since before they had the maturity and knowledge to deal with it. So it's not dick that's cheap. It's MALE ATTENTION. Male attention i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/15 09:44 PM
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To add another perspective, I believe it's more important to have a checklist for yourself before entering a relationship. Women conform and adjust to fit the man they are with. You'll have good low n-count girls turning into manipulative whores on you IF you are a weak, purposeless beta with no frame and leadership. You'll have a huge party slut worshipping your dick and cooking you breakfast if you are dominant, in control, and she knows the best thing she can do for her life is keep you happy…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/15 08:20 PM
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Women consume more content than guys, it has always been and always will be. You sell SW to boys you make X profit. You sell SW to girls, the boys will see it anyway, you make 2x profit. It's really just money talking, and it's why I wasn't bothered by the film. The truth is, as much as feminists claim to want "real female characters," they are full of shit. They always freak out and throw a colossal sized fuss when characters are written like actual, real life women. They want female characters…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/15 10:28 AM
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Good question. I'll give you my take. There's two approaches, one of which will get you laid more. So it depends on what you want. Approach 1 is no shame game. This will get you laid the most, this is how I am around girls not in my social, work, or friend circle. It is being polarizing, not giving a fuck about other people catching feelings, and going for what you want. Use kino, escalate, and if she's not down, you at least have your answer ASAP so you can move on without wasting further time.…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/15 09:44 AM
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Most people on reddit freak out and don't listen to anything you have to say if you post on TRP. We are "literally Hitler" so to speak.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/15 02:01 AM
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What have you done for me lately? He had status, sure, but no utility to her or her offspring.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/15 01:19 AM
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I agree, but at the time most people were really not as cynical as we are not about rape. If a black famous dude was said to have raped someone - Tupac, Kobe, Mike Tyson, countless more - that was that, shut case, Johnson. Most people were pretty convinced he raped her.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/15 01:14 AM
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I agree about games, believe me, there's a reason reddit will fight to the death to defend gaming as a good young male hobby. I work at a company that focuses on the healthcare / interactive health applications of gamification / game design. That's a big part of why I believe the elements that make gaming so addictive can be used for driving good habits. By understanding what addicts you to certain games, you can engineer constructive hobbies to be as addictive as possible. I would post about th…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/15 01:02 AM
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Yeah, when I was young I thought having a stable job, a house, a car, etc meant that you were super happy and successful. Then I realized reaching that level isn't shit. You're slaving away to pay the bills, your job leaves you drained and tired mentally because it's not interesting to you, and you are slowly letting your body and ambition grind to a halt. You still do not have access to the top % of women, you still are not having the sex life you craved as a teenager, and you're just an averag…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/15 01:09 AM
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Kobe genetics & talent + Kobe dedication / work ethic sustained for 2+ decades is what make him 1 out of a billion. 99.9% of people never have a remote chance of ever reaching that level in any pursuit. Knowing this, you can either be fatalistic bitch, or you can work hard to maximize your potential any land as high as you can land. A fat 40 year old who wants to lose weight and get shredded will never, ever rival a genetically gifted dude who's working out in his teens. But that fat 40 year old…
/r/TheRedPill25/12/15 08:57 PM
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Playing LoL gives you immediate enjoyment and fulfillment. It's fun and because it actually does resemble the skill curve and progressive challenge overload that useful, real-life skills present, it's very easy to pour a lot of time and passion into it. But LoL is a product that 100s of very passionate, driven individuals have collaborated to make as addictive, engaging, and exciting as possible. You THINK you are accruing these skills and taking this journey of self-improvement to diamond (and …
/r/TheRedPill25/12/15 08:41 PM
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The alpha free thinkers of todays world are chasing money. You have your Elon Musks, your Peter Thiel, your Travis Kalahniuk (Uber founder/ceo) types. You have your nerd-turned-alpha types like Zuckerberg. You've got musicians building empires (Jay-Z, Lil Wayne, Dr. Dre) and breaking the cycle of being exploited by a record label by starting their own record label and developing their own artists. You've got athletes - just did a piece on Kobe. The world is getting progressively more and more te…
/r/TheRedPill25/12/15 11:58 AM
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Weak people will blame their parents, their culture, God, society, movies, TV, women, other men, club culture, colleges, sororities/frats, religion, their childhood, and everything under the fucking sun. White people are the most inclusive people in the fucking world. If you think that white people are less accepting and inclusive than Indians, you are fucking shrooming. I've lived in the deep south, in LA, in SF, and wherever I've went, I have been accepted. You know how I get treated in India?…
/r/TheRedPill25/12/15 01:35 AM
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I learned about this a long time ago and I've always thought it was one of the best examples of A) how feminism will always naturally ally with the government because they are both branches dedicated to controlling value producers (men) and B) the weapon of guilt and how guilt can destroy men where force cannot. As a man you are free to do what you want with your life, but most men voluntarily give up that freedom because they accept collective guilt for sins they did not commit. Guilting requir…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/15 03:39 AM
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Being average is the easiest form of addiction to get too deep in. Laziness has undone a lot of my friends lives, and I never thought of it as an addiction until I realized that people cannot escape from it despite wanting to if they are in too deep. Once you are gone to laziness, 99% of the time you are truly gone. Like "never will use your potential for shit" gone. Once you get lazy, you start to rationalize "average guy" hobbies as OK because your successful friend does them. You know that gu…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/15 07:25 PM
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The issue that people cannot wrap their heads around is that for tech, the work culture is a huge part of it. Nerdy dudes staying up all night for a hackathon getting fed pizza to hit a deadline that was set by someone who's not a technical guy... that's part of the culture. Working after your job to stay abreast of the latest languages and technology and trends is a part of the culture. You cannot say "I want a 100k+ job out of college, but I don't want to be a part of the tech culture." That's…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 03:16 AM
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Bottom line: to be successful in any relationship, whatever you want to call it, you must have higher value than her or she loses respect and latches onto a higher value male. What happens with poly is that she will have greater access to hot guys than you have access to hot girls. Unless you are a 1% in SMV, in which case, do whatever the fuck you want. If you're a standard attractive, successful guy with money and game, you still cannot match the abundant sexual attention a girl can rake up ef…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 04:17 AM
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I encourage men to experience paying for sex at least a few times and in a few different countries to understand the value of pussy versus money versus environment. I also recommend it for newbies to get over their anxiety, and for quick cummers to practice not nutting early. Beyond that, prostitution is like any other form of escapism. It's an escape from the hard path, which is working on your SMV and actually developing confidence, game, social skills, closer mentality, and all of the other t…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 10:43 PM
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This guy is what I call "beyond education." He realizes he is being beta as fuck about it and he probably realizes that it sucks to be sitting by twiddling thumbs as his wife gets a clit-boner for Mike from marketing. But he goes beyond refusing to change or consider other possibilities. He takes the moral high ground and claims that his path is more moral, and he's happier that way because it's the right thing to do. And other suggestions that would work to uncuck him are "immoral". See his ran…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 01:38 AM
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I am not a doctor, but I know for some muscle wasting diseases they will prescribe you steroids to help you maintain your muscle mass. Could see if you could get that and try to optimize your diet. Do what you can training and stretching and posture wise. Bottom line man, the cold sad truth of the world is that money is the end all be all. If you have money, you are set, if you don't, you will be fucked. Your healthcare will be expensive. Everything will require extra bills and no one will give …
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 06:19 AM
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Look at the way she describes it so positively and talks about how turned on and excited she was. And how she'll definitely call him back and keep trying. One benefit of modern society is that women are itching for an excuse to let their inner slut out. The moment she believes you A) do this all the time so it's no big deal and B) will not judge her at all because this is no big thing for you... she will let herself go wild. Stories like this are why guys on TRP need to separate their judgment o…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 12:42 AM
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What's interesting is you (half) nutted up, deleted her number and didn't trifle with this bullshit for 2 whole years... but then she comes around 2 fucking years later, and you fall straight back into to full beta orbiter behavioral patterns. This is the thing about 10s and why they don't have to give their orbiters shit, not even a thank you. They know there can literally be no interaction for 2 years, and out the blue if they need money, support, favors, drugs, a shoulder to cry on, a ride, e…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 06:03 PM
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You sound like you've got the basics down, so I'll give you the one piece of advice I wish I had at 19-20. I know you didn't ask for it, but your post reminded me of how I felt at 17, so I felt obligated to. Always set expectations for yourself that will force you to transform. Never set expectations that are already within your ability to achieve, because then you won't grow out of necessity to meet those challenges. Set high goals for yourself that require extreme behavior to reach. People set…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 09:14 PM
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This is a pretty stupid post which is probably about to get modspanked... but if we are doing this... Brahmins are by definition both alpha and beta. They set up a fucking system where they were on top. They had the best access to education and essentially created the value system where other lower castes were trash compared to them. They are your typical religious elite who exploited the shit out of society. They have some beta traits (disdain for physical activity and general testosterone buil…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 06:27 PM
7

One of my plates found out about PU one time and was talking about how stupid and terrible and evil it was to me. This was back at the time I had a FR blog, was 20, and was very much into PU. I think I even had a post about how I picked her up off of the metro, which if you guys know BART and the bitchiness of SF women, was a pretty herculean effort. "Nah I havent heard of this, you mean there's guys who have come up with strategies on how to sleep with women?! And they discuss it on the interne…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 06:05 PM
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Scarlett reminds me of an ex I had. Beautiful, insanely talented, intelligent, but lonely and isolated because she could not relate to women. Very manipulative, but unlike Scarlet, she had never quite realized how to use her skill to climb any one type of vertical. Her talent at basically anything she took up (singing, dancing, school, art) made her indecisive and ADD, and she always burned out her welcome with the people she was using by using them too hard and not push-pulling properly. She ha…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/15 08:46 AM
4

Narcissism (extreme self-love) helps you prioritize your interests above others, and it helps you feel entitled to good outcomes. Feeling like you are the shit due to your accomplishments, personality, struggles, and skills is CONFIDENCE. Feeling you are the shit because you are you is narcissism. It is delusional to some degree. But when you step to a 10 in the club, all logical thinking is in favor of you getting rejected; I mean, she could fuck a rapper or actor or CEO, she's hot as fuck, why…
/r/askTRP12/12/15 08:24 AM
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You are giving her the benefits of a relationship without her giving you anything. Ideal for her. You provide her emotional validation and support (daily chit chats about whatever she wants to talk about). This female behavior stems from her desire to keep all branches primed and ready should the new Chad tire of her and not commit. Then it's back to your dumb ass. You are living in fantasy land if you think that you're being mature by "staying friends" with her. The one thing relationships subr…
/r/askTRP11/12/15 08:27 PM
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Yeah, that last part is very key for guys trying to learn PU. You can get good reactions by doing what I call "entertainer-guy" game or as you said, "talking like a woman in order to vibe with them". The thing to remember about SMV is that it's SEXUAL market value, you have to be marketing & selling yourself as a sexual threat.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 07:38 PM
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The trick is to seek excellence in a smaller set of hobbies rather than dick around with a new thing every week. Pick one hobby in the category of: Intellectual Development Physical Development Social / Leadership Career Development And be great at what you pick. I'm 24 and mine right now are - Learning / devouring knowledge on graphic design / UX design (intellectual), boxing and weight-training (physical), I go to different meetups to network and meet new people (social), and I work on a side …
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 07:58 AM
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No one knows that law better than attractive women.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 07:46 AM
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How to Win Friends and Influence People - (Pick and choose, all the ideas are not my favorite, but most are really great) The Truth about Leadership - (light-sided book on leadership based around values like honesty, communication, etc. Essential because as a leader you must at least come across as a "benevolent alpha". This book taught me the importance of doing things like bringing a subordinate in to get his feedback on a potential new hire, even if I didn't care at all about his opinion. I c…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 03:55 AM
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I do not know what you are trying to say, but the .01% of women who reach C-level positions can do just fine. Female traits taken to sociopath extremes - manipulation, using appearances and impressions to get her way, surrounding herself with very talented Wozniak-type orbiters who do the heavy lifting, etc, do make for good CEOs. I do not know what traits Meyer has and to what extent her femininity played a role in any of what you're talking about. But I do believe that while 99% of women are n…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 02:35 AM
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Well, so bridging works multiplicatively. If I have three friends I hang out with, and three sorta-friends who I just talk to in class cordially with... invite 3 of your friends, 3 of the class friends to all bring a few of their friends to an event you're hosting. This way, after a month or two, maybe 2-3 of those leads converted into friends who you regularly hang out with. Now you have 6 friends. Now you do the process on a larger scale (and continue to facilitate your old friends hanging out…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 02:24 AM
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Yeah, the way girls feel around alphas is literally a drug. You have to keep giving whatever your giving to her in stronger doses or she will seek it elsewhere. For example, Bar Refaeli complaining about how she cannot find any men to date her. Half the male population would chop a nut off to bust the other nut in her, but since she dated Leo, one of the highest SMV men, she could only get the same "high" from a more attractive, more wealthy, more famous bachelor. If you are married and win the …
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 02:13 AM
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Have you heard of the idea of "bridging"? Basically, you take the initiative to connect different 3rd parties to each other, thereby establishing yourself as the link in between. Let's say you are a part of your colleges journalism club (like school newspaper or whatever). After each issue, you guys throw a party. I would say "Hey, we'll pregame at my place this time, then we'll head out to X party." Then I'll invite a housemate and welcome him to bring his friends. I'll loudly and warmly introd…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 02:06 AM
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SMV is broken down to the following (we can debate about which ones matter more to whom, but I think we can all degree on these 4 essentials) 1) Power / Status / Influence Trumps everything else. This is the old castle that's been around for 1000 years. Built it stone by stone through practicing the art of influencing people and leadership. Always seek challenges where you can be in control, never shy away from an opportunity to increase your reach. 2) Physique / Aesthetics (Not just your appear…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 01:45 AM
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Network your ass off. I am of the opinion that there's two kids of people who get good careers going after college. Academic overachievers with stellar projects / internships / portfolios that get their way into either a top grad program or a good career track. Then there are people who network their ass off and through likability and connections will get hooked up a company where their personality can make up for their lack of academic overacheivement. I know you didn't ask for this kind of lec…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 01:30 AM
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"I'm celibate." Generally girls ask this question more in the form of "How many girls have you been with?" / "How many other girls are you seeing?" "This week?" / Look around. "I'm seeing about a dozen or so." It really doesn't matter what you say. It's that you communicate that A) you know damn well that she's testing and fishing for a reaction, B) you know that this question means she's intrigued / attracted at least a little, and you're amused, not irritated by the question, and C) you're hav…
/r/askTRP10/12/15 10:55 PM
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I was just thinking of that. Didn't watch the video, but women who grow up in poor circumstances and are coming in to America to negotiate their beauty and youth for a 58 year old dude's money... are not going to make RPWs. Foreign women are women too, there's good ones and bad ones. And if she's a hot young chick who hopped right off the columbian bus into your beamer, she's has that ambition in her. After the culture shock of moving up to your tier of lifestyle wears off, she's moving on to th…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 10:23 PM
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Yeah, I see this in a lot of "She WAS a unicorn but it turned out she was just a ho, she cheated and lied to me. AWALT" posts. Of course, at the beginning she didn't know you were a beta. You ran your game tight, you were not in love so you didn't do dumb shit like let her flake on you or cut other female leads off for her. So of course she behaved like a unicorn; she thought you were a real alpha and she acted accordingly. Once you fell in love and started to prioritize her needs, accept bratty…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 07:13 PM
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From your language I instantly see what's going on. "It's probably genetic." "Not having a good upbringing or a strong male rodemodel who taught me..." "Women are emasculating me!" (As opposed to you writing "I'm emasculating myself in front of women by acting in passive, shy, insecure, ball-lacking ways.) You are making excuses for yourself and framing things as a result of what other parties did to you There's nothing wrong with your genetics. You're childhood does not define you once you beco…
/r/askTRP10/12/15 11:40 AM
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IT IS A TEST. They use tinder for social proof and for entertainment. It's "let me show off this hunk I found to my friends and he'll entertain us and then because we all came together, sex is off the table because we'll all leave together. I get this a lot and each girl often will be on their phones a lot or have another date coming in. It's a shit test - are you so desperate for a shot at pussy that you're going to go along with her plan, and do something that she knows damn well wasn't what y…
/r/askTRP10/12/15 05:18 AM
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This is a good illustration of the futility of trying to "change" the AFBB dynamic. You cannot change the AFBB dynamic, you cannot change the carousel. You cannot stop girls from riding it, you cannot stop betas from subsidizing it, you cannot stop alphas from profiting off of it. You can choose what role you play, and that is it. You must assume formlessness and be water and all that Bruce Lee "that which you resist, persists" shit. It gets said a lot and I think the meaning gets forgotten. Her…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 05:00 AM
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A lot of my friends were like that. Young guys who could use college to set themselves up for life, but they fucked up their degree or switched into a easier major because 90% of their damn focus was going to stressing out over their GF drama. If you are under 25, do not do relations. Chase the paper, you get the hoes. Chase the hoes, you get no paper and bottom-of-the-barrell hoes. I do not know how it can be more simple - you have a finite amount of mental energy, but LTRing college girls gene…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 04:48 AM
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Purple pill means deep down you get that TRP strategies will lead to success, but you're too much of a rationalizing, philosophical moral-fag to put the advice into action. And by moralfag, this is nothing to do with gays, this is people who have the capacity to recognize a successful strategy, but they value what is considered "moral" by societal standards over what works. So they take the RP, choke it up, but they cannot go back to their BP forms of thinking. They believe half-truths like "AWA…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 04:41 AM
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This is a good point that I overlooked. If her family is VERY against her having a baby, you need to know that ASAP and factor that in. That is part of due dilligence at the "harvesting information" stage. Her family and in some cases, friends, have a tremendous influence over her choices and her thoughts. Women prove the rule "you are a sum of the 5 people you spend the most time with" and you have to leverage that. The problem is, though, most family and friends will ultimately side with her a…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 04:26 AM
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PE is evolutionary in that the most exposed times are when you are eating or having sex. If a predator or threat is going to get you, it's when you're fucking. So when you are nervous or worried or anxious, what happens is your body speeds up the busting (all it knows is hey, you might be vulnerable, let's bust and go!). In reality you're nervous because you're just kinda beta, but the body doesn't know that. This impulse gets trained from ages 11-21 because you're always in situations where you…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 12:12 AM
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Don't squeeze your mushroom tip so damn hard when you jerk off. Stop watching porn. The visuals of the girl you're with will never live up to Alexis Texas shaking her watermelon ass-cheeks on a pringles can dick. If you gotta masturbate, do it with mental stimulation and keep a relaxed grip in your dick. Get thin condoms. Do not think about when you are going to come during sex. Enjoy each thrust for what it is, don't be thinking "alright it's been 30 minutes she's going to get antsy." Get in be…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 12:00 AM
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I think I misread your post for another that was saying to sneak it to her in her food or something. My bad, I agree that if you can get her to take it voluntarily then and there, that is ideal.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 09:41 AM
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Yeah, a big pro of vasalgel is that couples will not have to foist hormonal BC on the woman. It is terrible for them, and there's a lot of science on this, and it's a huge expense that taxpayers now have to provide for women en masse. Vasalgel is the game-changer that will potentially save women from all kinds of crap in 30-40 years. My ex stopped hormonal BC for a non-hormonal IUD, and she lost 10 lbs, had a huge spike in sex drive, lost acne, less mood swings, and more energy. Helped her kick …
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 09:38 AM
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The following is just my opinion, because we're talking about stuff that does not, to my knowledge, really have sufficient science / psychology behind it to speak definitively: I get what you are saying, but I think it's coming out wrong. SOMETIMES extremely high levels of empathy can often express in individuals similarly to extremely low levels of empathy. Sadism is not part of DT and it's a fairly useless trait, as opposed to the functionality provided by N/P/M triad traits. Very sadistic peo…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 09:24 AM
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If she is financially very secure, high self-confidence, completely and totally wanting the baby, and has a family that supports her decision, you will not succeed. I mean, it is possible that it could be pulled off by someone significantly more talented at this than me, but in that situation, I would adjust my strategy. Like I said, you have to study her and her behavior and her motivations. What does she want? Why did she pick you to knock her up? What does she fear? Maybe she wants her own pr…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 09:09 AM
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Yeah, I think most people reacting badly honestly just do not understand that this is the mirror approach to how women play & win the game. Or rather for those who get their panties in a bunch about generalizations, IF you are in a situation with a woman trying to exploit you in this or a similar fashion, this method of thinking is your best bet. As men, this behavior comes consciously, whereas women have the luxury of rationalizing manipulation to the degree that they are not fully conscious of…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 08:43 AM
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I thought I explained that this is for after the rational conversation failed. If she's a sane person who values your agency as well as her agency, you do not need my tips to have a rational conversation with her. Explain why you think it's a bad idea, convince her based on future outcomes, tie positive outcomes to abortion and negative outcomes to carry the child, and focus on setting a firm date. Support her and take her to the clinic. This is not something you need my novel about, because if …
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 12:53 AM
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TRP is not about being alpha or beta, it is about winning at sexual strategy. If you are a mentally ill idiot who's made a poor choice, and you do not want to accept the consequences for your decision and you want to try to win despite knowing you deserve a loss... consider the options I'm describing. If you want to be a moral good dude, a "benevolent alpha" as I think of it, then don't use this strategy. At the end of the day, we each have a different tolerance for manipulation and machiavellia…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 12:48 AM
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Don't, you will go to jail. If she has a miscarriage, she will seek medical care, and they will most likely run a check for substances like you posted. I wouldn't risk it, definitely not in the developed world. Especially because judges WILL make an example out to you and ram the book so far up your ass you're spitting out ink.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 12:39 AM
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Pakistan is actually a really beautiful country if you get out and explore, do some hiking, etc. If you live in one of the more young & affluent areas, you can live pretty well for pretty cheap. I do not recommend it for probably 99% of people here, but if you like the challenges and learning experiences, Pakistan might be the shithole you've been looking for.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 12:37 AM
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Bigger men are using you. Not like in the caveman days where the biggest spear-wielding tribal dude might spear you and fuck your bitch on your leopard skin. But probably 95% of the workforce is being paid crumbs to sacrifice their whole lives towards making the top %ers, the "bigger men" some nice profits. If you think the world has gotten any less cannibalistic, you are wrong. I'm currently reading a lot of literature on some of the top chinese businessmen, billionaires who collectively have r…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 12:35 AM
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Indeed. I have experienced female guilt a few times, and it generally turned out to either be "I'm upset I got a negative consequence (I'm guilty and ashamed because I got caught or my plan failed, not because of the damage to you)" or it turns out to be "I feel terrible and guilty and horrible, and I blame you for me feeling that way, so I cannot bear to be around you." (Then you hear about how she doesn't want you involved in the child's life). Self-interest in it's most naked form often paral…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 12:28 AM
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Yeah, this will kill you in social circles. You are burning any mutual friends and acquantances, they are gone. If you are proactive with your professional life (explain to your boss that there's someone trying to ruin your reputation and has been stalking you, you are afraid they make show up at your workplace, you want advice on how best to proceed) you can pre-empt her trying to get you fired. If she works at the same place, you probably are fucked.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 12:21 AM
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Yup, this is what rubbed me the wrong way about the other "You got a stranger pregnant" post. Once again, I totally respect his choice and I admire his commitment to long-term game that's manipulative in it's own way. But he accepted the no-win situation without questioning. "Well, that's what happens, she wants a baby, so I guess I'm on board, take your prenatal vitamins!" When you are in a no-win situation, you still need to question "how do I win?" This attitude is what I believe my short Asi…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 12:18 AM
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Yeah. My intention is that as a male, you should consider all options and then pick. You should not ONLY consider "benevolent" options and "responsible good alpha protector" options like the post I was responding to. You should walk down this rabbit hole and at least consider the moral, the amoral, the good, the ugly, the manipulative, the direct, etc. Effective leaders and men consider all options. If you are stuck in a predicament like this, you need to at least bring some DT game to the table…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 12:09 AM
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Yes, this is all I'm trying to say. You cannot fight a sociopathic system that preys off of value-producers (men and a select few women), and a predatory female if you are not willing to play to win. It is game theory. If you and I are playing a game involving persuasion, pressure, decision-making, rules, quasi-rules, doublespeak, etc... (aka the court game in modern America), and you are playing to dominate me, and I am playing to dominate you, we might tie. If you are playing to dominate me, a…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 12:03 AM
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No, don't drug her, you will go to jail if caught. Seen it a few times in the news, after she takes the pills and has a miscarriage, she is going to go to the doctor, and they will probably identify it. I agree with everything else you said, but I do believe crumbling mifepristone into her breakfast smoothie is a ticket to prison. Someone more knowledgable can correct me if I'm wrong.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 11:57 PM
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Yeah, this is basically the optimal course of action when you truly hold the cards. When she holds the cards (you are both American citizens) you this course probably won't work.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 11:55 PM
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You have about 4 months (provided she tells you within 3 or so weeks of conception). You should be aiming to close quick, as you are working against a clock and she will progressively build attachment as a child. This is a part of mastering TEMPO, which is one of the hardest and most important things to master for career advancement - when do you go slow, when to you accelerate, when to you push with desperate breakneck pace, when do you back off. There is no prescription; you must be collecting…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 11:48 PM
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If you are not willing to exploit and abuse you are not a psychopath, and that is OK. If you have really low empathy and high machiavelliansim, but for some reason you have moral scruples preventing you from this kind of behavior, that's fine. Try to ask her to and convince her, and when she says no, you just accept it. If you are not willing to do what it takes, that's OK, but you cannot ask for the same results as the guy who has zero guilt or remorse, and will do whatever it takes.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 10:06 PM
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I agree, and I really felt straight dudes can learn a lot from this post. TRPers can be very limited in terms of the content they want to consume, like we have 500 articles on game, AWALT, and hypergamy, but go fuck yourself if you want to write from a different perspective.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 08:15 AM
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I know a lot of gay men (perks of living in SF) who have complained about how women do not see them as a person with their own character, hobbies, traits, and interests. Women see them as a prop, a gay bestie to do chick shit with and show off. It sucks for the gay dude because they are interchangeable; they are just a source of non-threatening validation and entertainment. Some gay guys who are always seen with a few girls, who always seem super cheerful in the role of "one of the girls"... I h…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 08:10 AM
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If you look like a tank, my experience is you will look really good once you cut hard. I mean, you know your shape more than I do, but I had the tank appearance due to me getting way into lifting without dietary management (high muscle high fat, 6'2") and I've been cutting weight since October and it's already getting great results. If you're lean already and still experiencing chicks thinking you're too big, then disregard my comment, but if you're rocking the powerlifter "musclefat" look, then…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 02:40 AM
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This really makes you think about different societies where certain male behaviors, rites of passages, and challenges were non-negotiable. Every male spends 2 years in the army, gets whipped into functional shape, faces death and injury, learns to bond with male comrades, and so on. Being a lazy, fat gamer slob with a ponytail is not an option. This guy's story sounds to be like someone consistently given too many choices starting at a young age. I honestly think if our society made certain acti…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 10:00 PM
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You have to understand that this is a result of you sending her mixed messages. She doesn't know if you're a cock to ride on the carousel to kill time or if you have LTR-potential, because you communicated in alpha and beta ways. If you want a plate, fucking spin her like a plate. If you try to do both, you confuse the shit out of her and drive her crazy. She needs to know her role, and you must establish and maintain that role firmly, as that is what gives her the behavioral guidelines she'll a…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/15 11:48 PM
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I hope that as TRP grows, we avoid participating in the Reddit / social media game. I get that this is pretty funny, but actually debating and explaining to BPers is pointless. There are going to be more and more articles on progressively more mainstream websites about TRP, it's inevitable. I hope we remember not to bite and provide them with adclicks; no need to do our part in starting an online back-and-forth. If you observe how society / feminist media has basically demolished and ridiculed M…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/15 10:11 PM
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Yeah, I get that, and that's why I'll agree he's talented and smart. But I also think, if this is all calculated behavior from him, he's still making the choice to be this Zoe Deschanelian awkward-cute male, and the last thing we need is more pussified men on tv. But I can definitely see now that you can interpret the show in a RP way - for example his lack of frame and purpose in the last episode basically caused his already crazy chick to go way off the deep end. You can definitely see how the…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 07:40 AM
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Look dude, you can not like it all you want, but there is no point to expecting more from women than they can give. A woman is only going to be AS GOOD AS SHE HAS TO BE. And in our society where MEN, not women but men, cater to their every whims and orbit and support them... they don't really have to be good at all. I do not hate women because men dropped the ball. We designed and created the greatest society the world has ever known and we handed it off to female imperatives. The patriarchy is …
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 02:52 AM
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Man fuck Aziz. The dude is talented, yes, and but his whole shtick is being a awkwardly beta and feminine. The one time us brown folk get an indian starring on TV and he forwards the same old short, skinny-fat, awkward, goofy, completely non-sexual image.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 02:35 AM
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I have no firsthand knowledge of that. My friend lives in Makati where he says it's pretty safe and there's plenty of other expats. You need to make local friends and/or pay locals to do the bargaining for you sometimes to avoid getting scammed, but I think it's not quite "pack heat and sleep with 1 eye open" hood life.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 02:03 AM
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Wanting things to be all positive and focused on the goodness and all is a form of BP. The reality is ugly and harsh, and what 90% of men are going to experience in the sexual or financial marketplaces is the loser's perspective. Most men are not going to even experience what it's like to play the game from a higher SMV point than the women they are after, and as such, they will not see the positive. I get that the negativity might get you down, but wanting to see something else because it's eas…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 09:17 PM
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Yes, it's worth it if you can use it as a stepping stone. For example, let's take the route that kids go along at big 3 consulting firms. In college, you spend your summers doing bitch work at prestigious internships, after graduation, you're going to put in 3-4 years of burnout work weeks and high travel. You'll make top cheddar though, with the only people in the same league being the kids who got banking jobs, software engineers at top firms or petroleum engineers. You're company will pay you…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 07:16 AM
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You do not know what you want to do with your life. Which means you have no way of measuring up whether you feel like you are succeeding on that path or not. You know that there's more to life that fucking thots, that's why you are deriving happiness from sex. You know there's gotta be something better than sacrificing your time and body for a steady military wage, so even if your military career start is something you want for yourself, you do not know how to feel about it. You know that you ar…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 01:59 AM
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Speak with intention. I do not say things just to say things. I have a purpose behind something I say. If I tell a girl at the club "Damn, you look good, let's dance, follow me" it's because my honest thought process is "Damn, she looks sexy as fuck, I want that grinding on my dick." She can tell it's sexual and she sees that I'm assuming her compliance. If I make small talk, there's a point to it, I'm not just asking questions to ask questions. I'm getting to know her and seeing what kind of pe…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/15 10:00 PM
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Wrote it. Male solipsism is basically "I think other people work the same way as me - I know how my mind works, and because all I know is me and my narrow perspective, I extrapolate and assume others are like me." It comes down to one of my favorite quotes (admittedly by a feminist author Anais Nin): "We do not see things as they are, we see things as we are." That is the danger with male solipsism and you see it in business and in relationships. I assume that because I am loyal, hardworking, sm…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/15 09:40 PM
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high SMV is not confined to finances. Sexual market value is often greatly supplemented by finances, but how many beta bucks do you know who clear 200+k a year? I mean, yeah I have no idea if OP is telling the truth, but assuming he is, then he's decently high SMV if he's in great shape and positioned near lots of women. Sure he's not going to be getting high status women to commit to him and date him or anything (low RMV, relationship market value), in his sexual market, he's doing a lot better…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/15 06:26 AM
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These are basic RP ideas that I believe fall under AWALT and hypergamy. The reason I spelled them out specifically is because a LOT I believe gets lost in the "Term-Soup" that we have at TRP. We all can chirp AWALT and Briffault's Law and SMV and hypergamy and female solipsism and AF/BB all we want, but that's pointless if you don't truly and deeply understand what these ideas mean. What I'm trying to say is, understanding the definition of hypergamy is not enough. You have to understand that if…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/15 02:01 AM
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Honestly that's the best way to combat the 24->29 5 lbs per year weight gain plan that a lot of women undergo. Comfort bulking I call it. I got myself a cardiobunny as a "workout buddy" and she lost 20 lbs in 2 months. I had done the whole "help your GF workout, diet together so she feels like it's not just her, etc" kind of crap for a while and it didn't work. Dread game is the strongest motivator in the world for women, and as such, it's dangerously powerful. Use it with discretion, but you ha…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 11:11 PM
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Yeah... don't discuss career matters with women. Act, then inform her of how you acted. Unless it's something like moving to a new city which you might want to discuss with her, she'll always react better if you present it AFTER your mind has been made up. Also might want to reconsider this chick. You can bat a lot higher now as a dude making 160k with a lot of freetime to go out meet women.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 11:06 PM
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There are a few immutable laws at work here that I hope people recognize instead of getting caught in the "wrap b4 tap" and "fuck the Julias" simplifications. Law 1 - All female gratitude has an expiration date. Period. No matter what you do for her, no matter what sacrifices you make, it's in the past and it will not factor into her current behavior. Guys are creatures of memory - we believe that our good deeds accrue respect and invisible credits. I helped my bro out to get a solid internship,…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 11:00 PM
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I'm 24 so my experience is limited, but my experience has been to just BS your current salary intelligently. My first job out of college I worked for a high tier startup and didn't negotiate very well because to me 120k a year plus all these perks was crazy. I realized I could have pushed it to about 130k, maybe 140k as I had really solid internship experience too. So when I hopped after a 1.5 years, I just said my salary was 140k, which was believable for my role. They came in at 155k plus a si…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/15 07:58 PM
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TRP isn't about empathy and shit, but the OP is in pain, he's looking to vent. I lost my uncle to living in the BP fantasyland about his weight and health, and it is painful to feel like there's nothing I could do to help him stop fucking up his life. I think this is what he's getting at - how do you deal with the fact that people you love deeply are going to ruin their life, and they could be helped by knowledge that you have but cannot give? I agree it's not bringing us any immediate advice or…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/15 08:05 PM
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NEVER let a roommate bring in people to live off of the lease. I have managed property and I have always seen this create bad circumstances, especially with the college age crowd. They form units and use numbers to try to overwhelm group decisions, place an unfair burden on shared resources, cause drama, and tear apart friendships. I know it sounds melodramatic, but I'm just telling you what I've experienced countless times. Don't let a couple take a spot on the lease meant for 1 person. If they…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/15 07:59 PM
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Yeah, go in with a chick. No straight man enjoys dancing like a jackass alone in close proximity to, but not really part of, a group. It's weird and hovery - it shows that you're doing something you don't enjoy to try to be like others. If you have to pick up off the dance floor, walk straight and directly to the girl, ideally facing you so she sees you approaching, put out your hand and smile, and if she takes your hand, pull her front to front facing you, but with some distance at first. Dance…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/15 07:35 PM
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Yeah man, the best way to improve at club game is to be very social with everyone. Guys, uggs n fuggs, hot girls, groups, bouncers, bartenders. You get in a good zone where you are comfortable and you feel entitled - not entitled in a bad way, but the best way I can describe it is you start to assume that it's natural and normal for people to respond well to you, and when it doesn't happen, it's like "huh, that girl is weird, wonder what her problem is, OH WELL, that girl over there is hot." Bec…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/15 07:12 PM
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The "red pill" is a set of concepts, a way of viewing the world, a symbol, a disillusionment process, and a pathway towards "higher SMV". It is such a broad umbrella that it cannot really be defined universally for all men. It's a science and a philosophy and a self-help process. Which means some of it is going to be infallible and some of it isn't. It is infallible truth that, minus those with specific health disorders, if you lift progressively heavier weights and eat lean meats and vegetables…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/15 05:29 AM
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Novices often try to overcompensate with witty or smart lines because they want to get a positive reaction from a girl. I've done a ton of club game and got results of many styles of approaches, but I think as you get more experience, you will realize that it's best not to try to "amuse" her in the dancing monkey / "entertainer guy" sense. Don't try to say something James Bondy or clever, don't be thinking about negs and shit. There are two techniques you have to master and they are both pretty …
/r/TheRedPill30/11/15 02:24 AM
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They horseshitted you around the real answer. Plenty of startups without the perks of google are working their employees very hard. Google does that because turnover at a company like google where they have put significant agony over recruiting and developing the best is vastly more expensive. Employees are working 100 hours at Goldman Sachs, but turnover is cheaper - you assume people will burn out and you groom the new crop to replace them. Your company also doesn't emulate stuff google does b…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 10:42 AM
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Not completely. If you are good at design or sales, you can do very well here. Graphic designers, UI/UX etc are very valued and well compensated if they are good - and they can also juggle freelance projects for the extra cash. Sales - many, many startups are looking for people who can develop and execute sales pipelines.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 10:32 AM
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Yeah, that's completely off. You do not have to live in Palo Alto / mountainview to work at google, nor do you have to pay 4k for an apartment even if you did want to. My starting salary was 110k and my company was not in the same league as google, but it's basically mandatory for high tier startups and companies to offer food, transit, gym subsidies, and so on. If you're at google, you've got all your meals covered, breakfast lunch and dinner. Shuttles, caltrain subsidy, x amount in uber credit…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 10:29 AM
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Physical appearance is second to status / fame / SMV for women. That's always been true, always will be. Tinder on the other hand reduces it to just physical (you can convey some degree of status on Tinder, but it's largely just a physical first impression site). So you'll see women on tinder choosing completely by physique and appearance, but in the real world, those traits play second fiddle to how you convey your status.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/15 05:19 PM
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One thing to understand is that 95+% of men are way too "beta" on the spectrum between the two. The reason TRP is going to focus on developing what we call "alpha" traits or high "SMV" is because nobody needs any help developing beta traits. You get those by virtue of living in modern society and going to an environment like school. A guy doesn't need us to teach him about putting a woman's needs before his own because he gets taught that by his momma. He doesn't need us to teach him to communic…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/15 10:38 PM
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It's irrelevant how I see my mother and sister. TRP is about sexual strategy (and the things associated with it, being high status, social skills, building your body and mind, etc). I study two types of women - the women I want to bang, the women I want to LTR. I know there are amazing women kicking ass in the lab, in the military, being great wives, starting up companies, doing all kinds of impressive shit. One of my friends is ugly as a gremlin, but she's a kind person who's started up her own…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/15 08:43 PM
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I got pussy early in life and it actually fucked me up some. You don't get it, being put in less favorable circumstances as a child / teen forces you to become stronger, tenacious, and motivated. You get psychological leverage that the trustfund chad doesn't get. That's why a lot of rich baby boomer's kids do drugs and leech of their parents even into their 20s. They are weak. The high school naturals - SOME will go on to continue success in life, and some will become lazy underachievers who wif…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/15 11:05 AM
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People also do not understand the full implications of women's dualistic nature. They do not extend AF/BB to it's logical conclusion which is that women behave and come across completely different when they are with alphas versus betas. She is literally a different person when she's with her beta fiance than she is when she's at DJ tiesto's backstage party. If you've ever been with a girl who seems nice and caring and flirty and sweet when she's with you, but is a completely twisted bitch to her…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 06:42 AM
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Yeah, beta is a whole collection of traits that are associated with people of low SMV. Most men across the world regardless of race are "betas". TRP will improve if it stops using specific words as giant umbrella terms, because noobies just repeat those umbrella terms without actually understanding what they mean. Pinning down specific beta traits (self-consciousness, nervousness, anxiety, approval-seeking, risk-averse, follower mentality, low social status, social awkwardness, bad posture, lack…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 08:52 PM
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Bottom line is you need to be very good in a few key areas to compensate. Most of my short friends aren't getting much pussy, true, but they also suck in these areas for the most part. The ones who are getting laid have the following in spades. Looks: Muscular & lean, sub 10% BF. Good skin, good haircut. Dress: Either they dress edgy in a fashionable way that grabs attention yet differentiates them, or they rock the "I have more money than you" dress. Social Situation: This is really key, they a…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 08:40 PM
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I hope that one day TRP can stop having this topic pop up in pathetic ways. Your post is spot on and something I've been telling to Asian / Indian friends who bitch about the same thing. Shut the fuck up and view the positives. You're from a culture that cares about education, achievement, gender roles, and so on. No one stopped you from exercising and doing sports, learning cool hobbies, or socializing. You chose to internalize the expectations for how an Indian / Asian should behave - nothing …
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 11:18 AM
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That's the thing people don't understand - betas are no less selfish than alphas. They care about other betas about as much as a hot girl does; if shaming a beta guy trying pickup in a club will get him a laugh from the girl he orbits, he's going to do it and feel proud of himself for doing so. Betas often have hamsters the size of hippos and will actually convince themselves that they are one of the alphas. Many minor managers for example - still losers in the larger economic game - will live i…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 10:59 AM
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Make a Tinder-specific FB profile (shirtless photos, modified last name, a few photos of you around hot girls / in cool situations). Put that you graduated Stanford and work at a hedge fund. Link that with Tinder and play the part. As long as you're in good shape and have game, they will believe you're a big shot. This can be leveraged to the advantage of higher smv guys. I completely 100% agree this is a disgusting example of today's attitudes and pandering, but there's always a way to game the…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 09:55 PM
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90% of men aren't getting much sex at all. If you're a dude on reddit of the 13-29 age... you're at least going to inspect this "sex-obsessed lair of misogyny and pick-up artistry." That was my reaction to David motherfucking DeAngelo back in the day. "This looks gay as hell, I get pussy... once in a while. After dating a girl 3 times. A few bangs a year. Ok, maybe I'll check this out, I can admit I'm not that great at this stuff." Most men that come here ain't gonna like it, but their going to …
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 10:51 AM
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At 5'10 145 just keep up a lean bulk. When you start to go above 12-13% bodyfat, cut down to 8-9% bodyfat, then repeat the bulk. Muscle mass + low body fat + v taper is what looks the sexiest. The issue is being muscular and fat winds up with you looking soft and beefy, and you lose some of your V taper. V taper (the ratio of shoulders to waist) is our aesthetic equivalent of the "waist to hip ratio" for women. That's what across cultures and history even people have found universally desired - …
/r/askTRP07/11/15 04:36 AM
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A lot of what your saying is over-simplifying it, like "all hot blondes in the US are sorority girls who get married after college". What you want isn't "blonde girls" - what you want is the specific type of girl who you felt caused you some wound in your adolescent years. But even if you could, it wouldn't help, really. Because what you missed out on is the feeling of being 14/15 and knowing that someone finds you attractive, and someone you think of as beautiful and socially above you actually…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 04:25 AM
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Spanish girls go for Chads & Daniel Craig type British guys, as well as lighter Europeans from what I've seen. I had OK success in Seville and great success in Salamanca when I visited (Salamanca is full of foreign exchange girls that are way hotter than Spanish girls IMO). Spanish girls are dying their hair blonde in pretty large numbers or in blonde streaks, and they have this whole trying to be very white thing going on - they are looking to get piped typically by high status Euro / American …
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 05:34 PM
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People want what they were denied in their formative years. HS/college. There is a lot of psychological pain and anger that Asian/Indian guys have towards two types of women - hot white chicks and "race traitors" of their race. It's fucking retarded and I applaud the mods for getting rid of a lot of this whiney shit. I am Indian and I get it, believe me I do, it's fucking hard growing up feeling like your assumed to be some nerdy goof, and seeing every girl you develop feelings for not think of …
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 05:27 PM
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I don't know who you are responding to, but alpha simply means the people (or the traits typically associated with people when used as an adjective) who are ON TOP of the social / sexual pyramid. So if we are talking about alpha males as pertaining to the sexual pyramid, we are indeed talking about the traits and personality that top %ers - aka people killing top tier pussy - tend to have. If we are talking about the career world, "alphas" typically display charisma, some degree of sociopathy, s…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 10:36 AM
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Girls withhold sex when they think of it as a "date". That's why dating blows - she fucks on the first night when it's you two chilling or just hanging out or hitting up a bar together or whatever it is. But if you had put it into the dating framework, she will at best think of you as somewhere in between the AF and BB spectrum. She has to use the dates now to evaluate where you are and dole out sex accordingly. That's why chicks will seriously believe they only fuck on the first date, even thou…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 11:42 PM
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Yup, that's saying no to the free lunch or in this case, the "fake" lunch. If a cheap alternative to the real thing comes along and requires way less effort to achieve it, it often looks like a very attractive option, but it's the worst thing you can do. For people who are low on willpower on any area of their life, I'm willing to gamble that they have some kind of "fake/free lunch" they are enjoying that is serving as an outlet to their masculine will - video games, porn, netflix, excessive spo…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 09:01 PM
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It's a choice. I enjoy the game a lot more than in HS / college and I did get laid then. The difference for me was that back then I was self-conscious and putting so much effort into it, and getting all bent out of shape about pussy. Young dudes are so busy trying to look cool and stunt that they aren't sufficiently enjoying the woman and the sex. Now I appreciate the good parts of her femininity and know how to handle the bad parts of it. I remember in college I was fucking this cool chick on t…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 10:29 AM
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I think it boils down to two different things. 1 - you've gotta want it really, really bad, and 2 - there has to be real consequences / real rewards at stake. Most people don't want anything BAD. You think you want pussy, but you don't want pussy more than you want to avoid social rejection and be lazy on a friday night. You want to be a rich, but not as badly as you want to exist in this state of escapism with video games, porn, and weed. You want sex, but not as bad as you want to be cool - so…
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 03:13 AM
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The number one problem with TRP and reddit's marriage is that social media and online communities are inherently designed to be based on validation, keyboard jockeying, spectatorism, and so on. The main problem I see with guys on PU sites like RSD or even on here is that they are living their lives vicariously through the community or specific members achievements. They are idolizing other men on here and parroting everything they say, instead of going OUT into the world and discovering these pr…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 08:59 PM
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Trust the process, but dude, you need to make sure you're doing the process right. Get over your lack of sexual experience. Fuck a hog and hold on tight, don't judge yourself just learn to enjoy and be comfortable with sex. Or get yourself an escort / hooker and practice until you can get out of your head enough to properly bust nuts. Attitude wise, you are hamstringing yourself. I'm not going to say to be all idealistic and noxiously positive, but if you feel like you are the "bottom bitch" alr…
/r/askTRP04/11/15 06:38 PM
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Incorporate TRP by building your SMV. SMV translates down into the building up your skillset, physique, reputation / network, and game. It's not any one thing, and if you are doing the right things in hs (playing sports, building towards an equitable career, exploring constructive hobbies, socializing, trying to fuck girls, etc) you are going to naturally build up your SMV in many regards. Work out, take up every opportunity to party and socialize (as long as your grades aren't hurting), avoid e…
/r/askTRP04/11/15 10:55 AM
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How does it work out in your mind that you can "assert dominance" over the other dudes who piped the girl who you are taking out to dinners and shit? You need to think straight, if she fucked around with 3 people within a close friend circle, she is a chick getting passed around the crew. Fucking a lot within a social circle and making a lotta male friends eskimo bros is sign of a thot. You can't LTR that, you can enjoy her as a fun plate or be FWBs, but she has a lot of red flags. Not just the …
/r/askTRP04/11/15 10:43 AM
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Yeah, you mention one of the main flaws in the "most women can find their free ride regardless of what they do" argument which is that those women can ONLY do that when there are large proportions of financially successful guys. As the millennials struggle to build real careers / homes and the baby boomers transition fully into their retirement / death stage, there's going to be less beta buck candidates. Most people are not making 100k, and 100k isn't even shit anymore if a girl wants the lifes…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 08:49 AM
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This is a great point. I've learned a shit ton of how social dynamics, chick strategies, and sexual competition work by traveling the world. Trying to have sex by pick up local chicks some nights, and paying differing amounts for a huge range of different chicks really teaches you a lot. You definitely learn how to read people and develop the "selector" mentality.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 08:37 AM
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I agree. Hookup culture is here to stay, and betas are not going to have some kind of uprising where they "retame and re-house their women!" How ridiculous. Alphas and women want this kind of ecosystem - and most betas actually think they want it. Technology is going to evolve faster than this backlash - as long as there is a demand for top men and all women (60% of society) to have consequence free sex, people are going to innovate and create ways for them to do so.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 07:23 AM
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This is a great post and I agree there's a dangerous tendency to invent these excessive "justice porn" fantasies as a way of feeling better. Nerds do it here for jocks ("they will be broke beer belly losers reliving their glory days while I run a hot start up") and it gets cloying - no dude, face the reality, SOME jocks will wind up like that, some will network well in college, get a cushy job, get fast-tracked to more senior positions because they are likable and confident, and will 30 years la…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 07:14 AM
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Do it. I got myself a bmw 4 series convertible (aka not even their upper models, got it lightly used, etc). Chicks don't know anything beyond the brand, and I've pulled a few chicks from it alone. Young asian chicks mostly. They are not shitty people, they just want high value / fun guys, and they have had it pounded into their head that guys in flashy cars are higher value. Especially in major cities, most young chicks aren't really digging for cash yet, they are digging for "fun" and parties. …
/r/askTRP02/11/15 02:30 AM
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Yeah, this is the equivalent of how girls try to save destructive bad boys with deep, brooding issues. You cannot break the crazy, you can only break yourself against the crazy. I think that's the toughest part about RP that women have to deal with - once they have gotten baggage, they have fucking baggage. It's not going anywhere, you don't get "debaggaged" by some studly captain-save-a-hoe who heals your heart like in the movies. You don't take a fucking trek up the PCT for 6 months and have y…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 01:14 AM
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Long post because some of the replies in here had me feeling some type of way. I've been browsing TRP and been involved with early PU way back in the day, but never really participated. Mainly because I had an active, semi-popular reddit account on a few subs I would hang out on, and I didn't want people to flame me for being on RP. But I read this and knew what I had to do. Reddit is a massive fucking waste of time if you're not using it for something very specific and beneficial. Learning abou…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/15 09:04 AM
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