Leaving This Sub- Give me Some Final Words of Advice

jumblepuzz · 2017-02-16T23:53:33+00:00

OP it's a NUMBERS GAME!

Above all else, you have to actually be around women to get with women.

Less than a third of Physicians are women. I imagine there aren't a lot of girls in your Pre-Med classes - and not a lot of them are even halfway good-looking (most of the attractive ones have decided to fall back on that and study something easier).

Sure, go to the gym, study hard, and look out for #1. But when you get a chance to get off campus, play up that you've been accepted to medical school. Some of the easiest lays I've ever gotten where in the summer right before I went to law school.

bossplayaintraining · 2017-02-16T22:59:20+00:00

No advice needed. You figured out what you need to do... all you got to do is actually do it

BluepillProfessor · 2017-02-17T00:09:28+00:00

Now that you are not trying just wait to see what happens.

My advice? Do not settle down with the first girl who shows you some attention cuz when you are not looking is when the beta hunters bag their kills. Plate em, don't mate em,

Thotwrecker · 2017-02-17T05:06:14+00:00

Remember this then - the long term is everything, and 99% of guys can't accomplish shit with their lives because their long term vision falls apart or changes every 3 months. They can't stick to something.

Always remember that the problem isn't women or the world or med school or whatever. There's so much fucking going on in med school, it's absurd. If you're not where you want to be with women, it's because you're weak. If you're not where you want to be fitness-wise, it's because your mind is weak. If you're not where you want to be in your career / education and you're not on a path to fix that, your mind is weak. The problem is, was, and always will be you - until you become strong.

If you lack confidence, you won't magically gain confidence by having a degree to brag about or having more money in the bank. I mean, sure, it will help, but it's not the confidence that will fill the holes in your life. You gain confidence by attacking your shortcomings head-on in the real world, and proving to yourself that you can handle whatever it is gives you anxiety or fear. So if you are afraid of talking to hot chicks in the club, there's only one thing that will give you confidence in that regard. Afraid of pursuing a passion? You have to pursue it.

Go get your MD and go monkmode, and by all means, stay off reddit. But understand that you cannot run from your fears and procrastinate dealing with them until after you have your degree. That's not going to make a man out of you, because that's just a form of hamstering.

RACCBL · 2017-02-16T23:38:21+00:00

DO NOT WAIT FOR LIFE TO HAPPEN. Don't wait to be fit to hit on women. Don't wait to get into med school to boost your confidence. Don't wait something happen to start acting. When you get to your objective, you'll only find some more obstacles in your way.

Take action now. If you keep waiting, it will never happen. Stop reading, stop thinking too much about it. Go for a walk on the campus and approach some random girls and ask for numbers. Make small talk. Swipe right on every girl on tinder and hit on all of them, even the ugly ones. You don't have to fuck her, just practice.

You're only harming yourself by waiting for X to happen to take action on Y. Stop looking for validation, embrace rejection and keep trying.

Sir_Distic · 2017-02-16T23:35:59+00:00

Learn Amused Mastery and Agree & Amplify. They work in all areas of life, not just women. School, work, friends, family, whatever.

dRePe_Thill · 2017-02-17T00:09:53+00:00

Reality makes lunatics of us all, but only those with the eyes to see and the ego to spare ever embrace it unconditionally.

max_peenor · 2017-02-17T02:37:02+00:00

Tl:DR- I'm gonna focus on me, and if the girls come, they come.

Congratulations, the pill is fully digested. Godspeed.

iND3LAW · 2017-02-16T22:59:34+00:00

Bookmark everything within the sidebar on your way out for future reference.

Good Luck.

RubyOrchid13 · 2017-02-17T03:11:59+00:00

Why not do a linear progression program like starting strength or greyskull? Only three days a week at the gym that way. More time for whatever else.

gecko408 · 2017-02-17T00:12:31+00:00

Study hard. Lift heavy. Have fun with easy women.

vagbutters · 2017-02-17T00:33:24+00:00

I was in your shoes not too long ago. Was also a pre-med student, studying for the MCAT, zero confidence, etc.

It's easy to read words said here and just not heed them. If I could give you some advice, it would be to take your life seriously right now. No sacrifices when it comes to dieting/gym-- this will be tough as FUCK when you're studying for the MCAT, especially when your stomach is grumbling and you need to cover two more chapters for the day. But be patient, give it time, and remember that, just like the MCAT, your physical transformation takes time/discipline.

BTW, why are you taking your MCAT in August? I'm assuming that you're applying for next year's cycle if that's the case, since it's extremely late and puts you at an advantage, unless you score well and apply to DO schools. Also, don't apply to Caribbean schools if you're a US student-- it's just not worth the struggle you have to go through to find a residency.

RedPillRisingFromAsh · 2017-02-17T01:32:01+00:00

That is red pill bro -you're living it

chaxmerry · 2017-02-17T11:17:21+00:00

Ignore PUA games. Work on yourself instead of your ability to meet women like people seem to be saying here.

"So i've decided to make studies my number 1 priority and gym 6x a week till august which is when i write my exam. I feel that lifting for the next two years and getting accepted to med school will give me confidence and boost my SMV and honestly i just dont want to waste any more time learning about how to get girls"

This is exactly what you should do. Congrats on figuring that out.

royal_fucktard · 2017-02-17T11:26:23+00:00

I know it sounds cliche but the reason you can't get laid is because you want to get laid. Yes, this concept doesn't make sense and yes it sucks to it's core but believe me. The moment you TRULY do not care about women and getting laid, you find other things to occupy your thoughts with.

That alone makes women wet, the fact that they have no bearing, control, or power over you. You just do you and forget about the women for now. Around 27-35 they will come from all directions. This will be extremely hard because you have nothing but testosterone coursing through your body at your age. Focus hard to channel it into some other obsession besides sex (and video games)!

Go do some shit like learn to kayak, hiking, or go fishing. Develop an outdoor hobby or exercise practice (yoga) that will land you in with certain groups of people (usually fit, hott chicks). But don't forget the big picture, they're only going to come when you stop wanting them.

I'm 32 and just about any girl who I develop regular contact with fucks me eventually. Sad part is I've given up and truly don't give a shit if they even come back, but it still keeps happening.

fitGautama · 2017-02-17T14:07:32+00:00

I'm gonna focus on me, and if the girls come, they come.

You know everything you need to know.

NeoreactionSafe · 2017-02-17T14:35:40+00:00

Be honest with your condition.

The world has many sluts and few women who really desire motherhood.

You are young enough (still) to find a woman who is interested in motherhood and if you find one then I'd move on it.

Just relax and realize most of these girls now are obviously going down the path of slutty behavior and eventual spinsterhood and misery. Don't envy their path and don't envy their male equivalent we call Chad Thundercock.

As a 55 year old guy myself I was fortunate to grow up in a time of both innocence and sexual abundance. The beginning of this process of inversion (where we are now) was pleasurable because it was before the 20%/80% rule became the standard. Women back then "experimented" with sex with just about everyone. Only in the 1990's and after did "Game" and the "Player" become the understood way things work. It was necessary to first (through the Blue Pill mythology) destroy the family. Then once the family was destroyed the Blue Pill mythology elevated slut culture and the Players.

You must "Kill the Beta" which is the sense of approval and participation in this huge mess (Blue Pill mythology) and chart an independent path in life.

My advice:

Think for yourself
Think for yourself
Think for yourself

ozaku7 · 2017-02-17T14:50:48+00:00

In my opinion, your mistake is that you focus on getting laid too much. There is so much more in the world to get the fullest out of the 80 years you will spend here on earth. Improve yourself, do it for yourself, not your dick that needs to get wet. Women are a lagging indicator of success. You need to be succesful for yourself for a while before women start to notice it. They want confident winners and not insecure losers.

Get the pussy out of your head, think of YOU. Improve your fitness, improve your brain, improve your social skills and set expencations low, but welcome anything that's better than expected. Work towards a goal step by step, where only taking the next step is the most important one.

It was only after I stopped caring about getting my dick wet and genuinely more about myself by going out more (during the day, take a hike, explore), meeting new people, improving myself and enjoying life, that I got my dick wet, which shouldn't be treated anything more than a side-dish, where your own life and experiences are the main course. Your side dish doesn't make your disgusting main dish delicious.

redwoodblock · 2017-02-17T15:37:04+00:00

Get into medical school, go to residency in a field you enjoy. It can be miserable, but it's so worth it when you're done.

GayLubeOil · 2017-02-17T14:50:44+00:00

The first few sentences of this post clearly illustrate that you have failed to obtain the most important lesson from this community: positive outlook aka frame.

This post is a clear cut example of a beta giving up and going to being beta.

OP isn't getting laid because of his mental outlook because women are biologicaly programed not to fuck sad depressed beta Billy bobs.

nsquared5 · 2017-02-17T01:33:37+00:00

Just have fun doing whatever you are doing. Stay optimistic and positive and your results will improve significantly!

Embiid4Prez · 2017-02-17T04:00:48+00:00

Fake it till you make it. It's not that simple, but make it that simple.

bitchyeah · 2017-02-17T15:53:07+00:00

I'll tell you this. Lots of guys have a hard time with girls when they are still in school, unless you work out a lot. The moment you graduate and start working it will change. Your confidence will naturally grow, you'll have money, you won't look like a kid. Just don't forget what you've learned, and when you graduate youll be doing lots of fucking for the next 10-20 years.

Johnny_Monsanto · 2017-02-17T00:11:00+00:00

Don't listen to these dumbfucks here telling you to chase after pussy. You are young. Focus on yourself 100% and become a great doctor. Once you do you will be drowning in pussy and money and all the hardwork would have been worth it. If you have time you might want to approach but be always aware that your life and your career go first.

uniqueusrnaim · 2017-02-17T03:35:44+00:00

Memento Morri. Just don't give a fuck, we are all headed to the same place, death, accept it and do the best to raise your SMV. You are overthinking about stuff that you'll laugh about in a short period.

exquecher · 2017-02-17T06:05:41+00:00

Holy shit, this was me down to the tee months ago. Lost my v-card recently though, been following this sub for several months, and been lifting heavy. If you're not a pussy, you'll PM me and give me some more details.

edit: what your plan likely is now will eternally transform you into a BB, just so you know.

Original_Dankster · 2017-02-17T16:21:36+00:00

Agreed with others here - no advice needed, you got this under control and you've got your priorities straight. Women will come, and surprisingly, they'll start falling into your lap eventually with little effort. Just focus on three things for the next couple years: Finances, fitness and studies. Do those and you'll be fine.

nonthaki · 2017-02-17T17:17:24+00:00

My advice is : The best advice you can get is from Experience . There are certain things that you can and will only learn if you experience.

I could give you very helpful advice regarding how people are and about life in general, but I will refrain from doing that, because the advice is easy to read and understand, but difficult to actually feel what its about - And thats why you need to experience women and SMP in general to learn what it is .

Equada · 2017-02-17T17:40:43+00:00

Guy, probably the best decision you can make. There's way more to life than getting laid, and focusing on you it truly the only way to be happy. External validation via getting laid is still external validation, it requires someone else to provide your happiness.

I do well with ladies, always have, but my game has always been your TL:DR. I have never chased a girl, tried to "get the girl", etc. Never been my thing. Instead, I go to the gym, I focus on what makes me happy and what benefits my life, and the girls come. The same will happen to you.

Just beware of the games they play. The Red Pill offers a lot of ways to protect yourself from them. It's not a new thing either, it's just new in the sense it's been more defined. Listen to The Faces - Ooo La La, it describes the dangers of the blue pill wonderfully.

RickThacker · 2017-02-17T17:43:21+00:00

I found RP after my first year of med school, but I can tell you for a fact that getting into med school is like a cheat code.

When I was in college, most girls were interested by the fact that I was a pre-med student but I was only able to leverage it infrequently.

Now, anytime I mention I'm a medical student most girls will get interested enough for me to leverage a phone number. For basically every girl. I mean literally 99 out of the last 100 girls I've asked for a phone number has given it to me. This still doesn't always lead to a date or a hookup, but the SMV calculation is real.

My buddy just finished medical school and is a resident physician now. He changed his occupation to "physician" on CMB and Bumble, and his match rate skyrocketed. He literally gets a steady stream of matches daily. The constant attention doesn't hurt his game either.

In this episode of Seinfeld, Elaine dates a medical student and helps him become a doctor. Having sex was gonna be his big prize for passing..lol. Watch what happens: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AkTVquH2O9Y

keithmcd901 · 2017-02-17T18:01:40+00:00

Work on your life how you see fit.

Have a goals 1. Financially 2. Where you want to work and do with your life 3. Get in shape or learn a martial art 4. Go out and make MALE friends at the gym and in you classes.

Also talk to women when you can, it can just be the coffee bitch in the morning. Don't just become a basement dweller and gym rat, create a social life where you go out with friends once a week.

Be bold, and go up to women, use tinder and say what ever the fuck you want.

If your life isn't making you happy, it's YOU that must change it, YOU are in charge of your future.

TRP is mostly about women and trying to get laid (because that's alot of what every guy wants). But focus on your own self improvement. And if being a virgin really bothers your get a prostitute, like 4 times a year to keep your dick happy.

Women don't make your life happy you do.

Mescuzzi · 2017-02-17T18:25:33+00:00

For the love of all things TRP, read this book The Slight Edge and realize that shit isnt going to happen overnight! You need to make a conscious effort into little actions daily, which will compound (interest) into significant changes with time being on your side.

You are young, time is on your side Do not give up on women. Take it from a 31 year old who blew his 20s being a little beta billy bitch. Stop feeling sad for yourself. Read The Rational Male (which, if you've been a lurker, you SHOULD and HAVE already read this book).

But if you're going to roll over like a beta, at least take my advice about The Slight Edge if nothing else. Fuck, I wish I read this book YEARS ago.

StoicCrane · 2017-02-17T18:48:47+00:00

I'm gonna focus on me, and if the girls come, they come.

Summed it up nicely here. The more you develop yourself the higher your value will become in relation to other men and most women you'll come across.

Invest in your personal own process and let what happen may. Remember women are an added bonus for creating an amazing life for yourself. Avoid making them the goal otherwise they'll take mire from you than they could ever give.

SlippinJimmii · 2017-02-17T19:31:53+00:00

if only more people got of the sub to take action, good luck. be the best you, as cliche as that sounds once you achieve this and take control of yourself there wont be much to stop you getting what you want.

Umbrifer · 2017-02-17T19:36:20+00:00

Study Hard, Lift often. Talk to girls regardless of how scared you are.

Dank_Meems · 2017-02-17T20:01:27+00:00

Don't listen to these douche bags and how many girls you have to fuck. Just do what you have to do, pass your tests, get big, and the girls will come dude. Just don't let them take advantage of you because they will not come until you have all the shit you've been working for. They don't want you, they want your shit, just remember that.

confusedperson421 · 2017-02-16T23:38:14+00:00

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TJCombo07 · 2017-02-16T23:55:06+00:00

All I can say is that you need to lose your virginity and become comfortable with women before med school. You will have little free time and will be surrounded by ugly women. You want to maximize your success during your free time in led school. Now is the time to meet women.

reggieray · 2017-02-17T05:45:23+00:00

Gym six times a week? Complete fucking waste of time. There is no way you can apply any intensity to six workouts in a week. Three times maximum, gentlemen. You're going there just to go, not to accomplish anything. Which is fine, but just be clear about what you're doing, cuz it ain't training.

Title	Leaving This Sub- Give me Some Final Words of Advice
Author	winu96
Upvotes	23
Comments	84
Date	February 16, 2017 10:56 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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