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seriously... read the side bar "What are Shit Tests and how do I handle them?"
/r/askTRP28/03/18 07:42 PM
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gold^
/r/askTRP28/03/18 12:15 PM
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*"I want to see her crawling back to me. Is this possible?" You care too much, block her and move on, you will have fully embraced TRP when you do not reaction to seeing her, hearing of her and anything related to her etc... How do you cope? always increase your SMV -lift -read side bar ... do it again.. then again -focus on finding your mission and mastering it
/r/askTRP28/03/18 12:01 PM
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Some major details were left out and I read them on the other site, your little uncle should be listening to her actions and not her words. Very poor behavior of an LTR of 1 year therefore demote to plate, hard next and start meeting other women.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 11:56 AM
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no
/r/askTRP28/03/18 11:50 AM
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"Would it be beta if I do ask her whether she hooked up with anyone tomorrow or just not mention it at all?" It's not beta, it's just irrelevant because you are the prize, DGAF and have an abundance of options. She'll probably shit test you on this since you mentioned it already, just to test your insecurity so be prepared to pass that
/r/askTRP28/03/18 11:49 AM
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-awalt -careful shitting where you eat -other coworkers probably see how you two interact, so keep that in mind -only text for logistics -text should be 2/3rds her words and replies 3/2 longer -most of this is side bar but definitely keep your distance
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 11:44 AM
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"What bothers me is the complete lack of emotional support be it affection or physical contact." dont rely on her for this "Any argument we have she tells me to find a girl that will give me these things and that she acts like this because I never loved her." just a shit test.. A&A ie. your right babe, never loved you for a second
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 01:45 PM
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side bar "Got a stranger pregnant: a guide"
/r/askTRP24/03/18 11:28 AM
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risk v reward ... your choice
/r/askTRP24/03/18 11:23 AM
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Should be worded as, potential LTRs with weak frames who are influenced by stronger female frames. She will most likely inherit yours which should be expected and then shit test you as she is influenced by her peers. Had an ex shit test me all the time but I knew that those tests werent derived from her thoughts. It was a though her friends were speaking to me through her. Then she would most likely convey my respond to them and they could gossip on it. Worth LTRing... plate first then see how i…
/r/askTRP22/03/18 01:47 PM
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she isnt telling you, why do you even have to ask? Why are you even asking us if you should ask? You are the problem, she isn't in your frame, boundaries havent been set and she is inducing dread on you.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 01:00 PM
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I referenced where I pulled it from but do some research to understand versus me telling you. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/85tjs1/dont_bend_your_schedule_to_fit_hers/ "Now she’s sending me mixed signals, but as the great Pook points out, mixed signals are the message." credit to user bluefingerblue
/r/askTRP22/03/18 12:47 PM
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run. the message is in the mixed signal
/r/askTRP22/03/18 12:32 PM
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"..saying I probably shouldn't come over Friday (tonight) because she feels bad for my girlfriend." its a Shit test, a simple agree and amplify should be the trick, maybe throw in a witty "Daddy" liner or two Something like: "Daddy gives you permission to console the GF and I'll be over at XX to address recent behavior." Its a little call back to her comment while agreeing then amplifying, I threw in a little dread with the "recent behavior" as she may be thinking what she might have done wrong.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 04:00 PM
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"The Red Pill was right all along" ... We know. - TRP community **edit: formatt, +1 for thanking community and mark as field report ;)
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 05:56 PM
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Very interesting FR, this week I hooked up with a date, went to her place and she overtly mentioned, while making out and touching, that she wanted to have a deep conversation before moving forward. I treated this as more of a shit-test and just did a quick A&A, but I think that you have a very good point that a deep conversation could mitigate the sexual vibe. I want to take another look and mention that in my earlier years of PUA sometimes having those conversations are usually to build comfor…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 10:51 PM
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YOu failed the most important shit test -- the one in your head
/r/TheRedPill10/02/18 06:21 AM
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This should be posted in asktrp.. why are you so caught up in "most alpha perspective" and "beta advice"... "What should I do?" "I myself have came to the conclusion that this girl is dead to me." Confused you are! I would reflect on your own post and figure out why you care so much and if it's worth investing the time/energy. She is an adult who is utilizing her sexuality in the entertainment business, who is also provided for by your mother, what motivation does she have to change other than h…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 05:11 PM
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"I’m nearing 26 and I’m on the tail end of my prime years. I need to do something drastic." Men hit SMV peak between around 36-37, women around 26, you don't need to do anything drastic.
/r/askTRP22/01/18 10:17 AM
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New and not sure where to start? The Red Pill Primer - A Sidebar Made Simple https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/5l4h0x/red_pill_primer_sidebar_made_simple/
/r/askTRP22/01/18 10:07 AM
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Had a friend like this, he'll reach out when his turn has ended, then you'll have to handle it accordingly.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 02:33 PM
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'my best friend asked her out to prom. She went.' Even decent guy friends don't do that, now you know you have two people to move on from. Respect for your promise of faith but there is a reason long distance relationships tend to not workout. A lesson I learned much later in life than you, that last many years, but better late than never. Anyway, you enjoyed your turn, the glass has broken and its onto more important areas of your life. Study hard, life hard and ... spin plates hard :)
/r/askTRP07/01/18 04:24 PM
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TLDR: Im a 16 yo ... thx TRP ... zero value contained in post Side note: Sidebar -> Official rules -> Address the community properly. Do not address the community with imperatives, platitudes, or shocking titles. If you have a hypothesis to address, do so with respect.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/17 08:15 AM
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Laws of power 1-12 were on clear display here. No they aren't, and even if they were a better FR would not have just briefly mentioned the book title in the last paragraph. I am open to hear your interpretation, since you mentioned Laws 1 to 12, give 4 laws and examples within the context of the FR.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/17 07:14 AM
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flair as field report do not give your advice to strippers or trp, as this post provided no value "I saw that as an opportunity to get a free private dance in exchange for my "advice"." sexual favors with woman should not be transactional "After the dance, she demanded I give her the advice right the in the room." shit test and failed when you gave into her frame your moral of the story is completely off, as none of your FR provides a law that was used or an application of it insecurities -> AWA…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/17 07:43 PM
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yup - there is close to 3.5 billion of them
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 09:44 PM
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Don't shit where you eat. Girls who want you make their intentions clear she's keeping you as a orbiter and gives you just enough to give you hope ie. a kiss and sexy pics edit: Solution - hard next Also should be posted on asktrp
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 03:54 PM
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" I don't know what makes her so special.".. Oneitis
/r/askTRP31/10/17 06:06 AM
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not that impressive .. I could do all that while prone ;)
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 12:02 AM
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I have a nice looking citizens eco drive that I wear to work - nobody knows its broken :)
/r/TheRedPill30/10/17 06:49 PM
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As for me, can't seem to do it. First, you must understand what ego is and then why you have it, for most it is a defense mechanism. For me, part of my ego was being the smartest person in the room AT ALL times. That shit is draining and once I saw it in someone else, then it was eye opening how much i cared about something so insignificant. Letting the EGO go allows a more peaceful state of mind and the embracing of IDGAF. I upvoted you, because you have identified the problem which is a massiv…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/17 06:34 PM
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"There's one girl ".... oneitis ... cured by distancing yourself from her and abundance but this is covered very heavily on the sidebar. Post should be in asktrp
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 11:39 AM
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"Been a lurker here for a while. " ANd you still haven't read the sidebar... why?
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 02:54 PM
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I would consider this more a of relationShit than a cuck, but definitely avoid all contact with her(phone, text, social media)... you know the drill
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 10:47 PM
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Ask very few questions. I disagree with this to a certain extent, because it really depends on the situation and the questions asked. Asking good questions can show a deep understanding of what ever it is you are inquiring about. I will say, as a side note, that I am a person who likes to know specific details.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/17 11:06 PM
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Another reason, I tend not to open up to those i'm not close with is that the information you provide them can be weaponized against you if that relationship/friendship falls apart. It's a hard lesson learned with people that I wasn't close with but divulged those personal details. As a result, I had to work on stronger frame as well as an attitude of IDGAF.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/17 04:59 PM
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Went straight to the comments after reading the title
/r/TheRedPill06/10/17 10:37 PM
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Ironically, even with no legacy you speak of, he will be forever infamous.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/17 04:34 AM
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"The results revealed women who had attractive husbands are obsessed with losing weight in order to look better, which, they say, makes them insecure and sad. " Competition anxiety is a beautiful concept, she knows that if she doesn't get her shit together our eyes could wonder.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/17 08:02 AM
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He saw the writing on the wall almost 100 years ago..
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 05:57 PM
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The irony of discussing ethics(leading older women on who want kids) when you slip in/before another date and proudly admit you sleep with married women or ones with bfs.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/17 04:05 PM
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I'm not too interested in women on the "heavier side" so it wouldn't get to the point of her saying that. In OPs S1 case since she admitted to wanting to fuck, I'd consider saying nothing(increases tension) or agreeing and amplifying(great against any shit test).
/r/TheRedPill24/07/17 05:14 PM
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S1: Shes projecting her insecurity by mentioning your obsession with the gym. S2: Just a massive shit test with the whole transcript/college educated bs
/r/TheRedPill23/07/17 10:44 AM
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You're not telling me nothing I don't already know You're not telling me anything* I don't already know.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/17 02:09 AM
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"It's because my SMV went up because of the environment Just like how a teacher is alpha in the classroom and a lame outside of that" contextual alpha is the term "the guy on the dance floor confidently, surrounded by people is alpha but isn't in a room full of millionaires." being a millionaire doesn't make you alpha, as you learn more you'll understand being alpha is a mindset.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/17 02:01 AM
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Sure it does, and the up votes will agree ... why risk doxing yourself? Now they know your face, next it'll be your name then perhaps your relationships and/or career. Not everyone agrees with TRP community or its concepts. You are correct, you can live your life how you choose just be aware it may have consequences.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/17 03:11 AM
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strongly agree, no need to provide photos for validation that your advice/tips/examples are working.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/17 06:30 PM
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direct ... I like it
/r/askTRP09/06/17 05:02 PM
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buffer: I value travelling hence not cancelling with this chick issue: not taking your advice of banging new chicks on trip = scarcity mentality solution: refund her ticket and understand the concept of abundance
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 07:40 PM
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She's a women so obviously... awalt even in ltrs But in this case no... Harry's cock in her mouth stopping her from doing that
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 07:30 PM
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definitely matters to know
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 07:27 PM
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good advice, in psychology terms this is called projecting.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 07:26 PM
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Condition: Scarcity mentality with the onset of oneitis Fixed by understanding the concept of abundance
/r/askTRP15/04/17 04:58 PM
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How did you come to TRP sub? Im curious how you became curious about this community
/r/askTRP15/04/17 04:53 PM
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N-Count is 12 and she's 18. Assuming you are getting the truth that is a high n-count. if I'm not available or not in town she'll hit the bars and stay out late. MASSIVELY HUGE ENORMOUS red flag Read: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/4x0xrq/my_controversial_and_old_school_rules_for_ltrs/
/r/askTRP15/04/17 04:04 AM
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Piggybacking :) It was just your turn.
/r/askTRP15/04/17 03:56 AM
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My fiancee is desperate to get married first red flag Will I be squeezed out of custody of our future children? maybe, definitely 25-33% of future paychecks for 18 years + spousal support she might get vengeful during a rough divorce. hmmmm an on-off temp divorcing a business owner/programmer..... she'll fuck you extra hard... but maybe your girl is a snowflake, unicorn or "the one" (sarcasm) She's an on-and-off temp, and thinks $1500 in her bank account is a suitable nest egg second red flag I …
/r/askTRP15/04/17 03:43 AM
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Why roll the dice with a chick that has an STD? Are you sure that herpes is the only STD? What else hasn't she told you? Why did she wait so long? As for the punishment: Depends how you value your health, in another comment you mention that 25% of females have it... so what? 75% don't have it. Anything that puts my health in jeopardy is a ghost/hard next, unless of course you have herpes and don't care what else she's hiding/carrying(std). edit: spelling
/r/askTRP15/04/17 03:26 AM
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They are relics of a time long past, where you were a naive boy, and they served as stepping stones to becoming a man. Very nice post and the sentence above is a great way to view past relationships.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 05:02 AM
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side bar link below, take a look if you havent at the divorce section, good luck https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/39fu0n/allin1_legal_guide_compilation_for_men_seeking/
/r/askTRP14/04/17 01:46 AM
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Started at 28 yo .. I just reflect on my experiences and TRP helps me understand why those events occurred.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 06:11 AM
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Awesome mindset, funny how kids 18-21 act as though they have wasted their entire lives and are doomed for eternity.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 06:09 AM
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you arent wrong, OP is trickle truthing as we call him out, he didnt provide details which was misleading
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 05:40 PM
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I'm 5000K away in Europe and she lives in America ... I fucked this girl all through out university Should've mentioned it in the post. Unless you meant to reply the post above then it seems that my question struck a nerve, why? don't forget details :)
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 05:36 PM
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Interesting perspective, I can't say that I disagree with your comment, it does make me question if OP has been FZ too. Why not try to spin her as a plate?
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 01:34 AM
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anyone know of tinder scripts?
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 11:09 PM
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excuses
/r/askTRP22/03/17 12:15 AM
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"Basically rarer than a unicorn in my state." ahahaahha wtf mate
/r/askTRP22/03/17 12:14 AM
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dont
/r/askTRP21/03/17 11:58 AM
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great advice here for OP
/r/askTRP21/03/17 11:57 AM
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why are you doing this... ...for social proof?
/r/askTRP19/03/17 10:28 AM
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Be honest are you trolling/pranking... Since you cant help yourself with even the basics of TRP then how can we help you, side bar... start reading it
/r/askTRP19/03/17 10:24 AM
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I just want to crawl in a hole in die..... you are a RP man, it could be much worse, you could be BP or a woman I am going to school for a very hard and in-demand major that has a high employment rate. solves more problems then you know, I did a stem degree and reap the rewards I am doing really well in all my other classes, but this class I am hurting on really badly. So you have a set back, learn from it and grow, also think about how you overcame it later this will be good interview material …
/r/askTRP19/03/17 10:15 AM
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depends on the situation, but if its a women I treat it as I would a child, sounds ridiculous right? so are women typically I just ignore it
/r/askTRP19/03/17 09:56 AM
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why are you doing this? beta behavior to capture images of having girls (when you don't) then posting it on social media, reeks of seeking validation.
/r/askTRP19/03/17 09:53 AM
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In your case, you should cut all forms of communication: social media, apps, email and phone
/r/askTRP19/03/17 09:50 AM
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faq> theres this one girl top post in the FUCKKINNNN sidebar... answers your question
/r/askTRP19/03/17 09:49 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k6awH5WTIOI
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 05:15 PM
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This shit drives me crazy. This is the reason you wont be able to break her frame, tame her or get her to be submissive. Some assfuck will come after me and do this with no effort bolded part is the solution, you know the answer, review being stoic, idgaf and outcome independent
/r/askTRP15/03/17 12:02 AM
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Review plate theory and abundance. Going back to revenge fuck an ex means you are still emotionally invested regardless of how you hamster it. Exes are like leftover food in the trash, we all need to eat but at what cost? Find yourself some new fresh meat.
/r/askTRP14/03/17 11:27 PM
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that's not his question, why be exclusive with a girl if you or her are going to cheat, demote her to plate. Sounds like you haven't properly vetted her and she didn't earn LTR status.
/r/askTRP14/03/17 11:22 PM
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Ghost her, delete all contact. "I want to fuck with her every day and I want her to finally learn that she is not above me." Do nothing, why? Then is shows you no longer care/ aren't emotionally invested.
/r/askTRP14/03/17 11:16 PM
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Don't over think it just be aloof, cocky, funny and mysterious These will sound stupid to men because we are overt and logical... but to women they want FEEEELZZZZ and excitement, so give it to them. I use these as foundation, the bank robber one is amazing. "still taking over the world ... from my moms basement" (ohhhhh the paradox.. delivered this line in-person shows massive DHV but equally effective over text ) "playing mario kart, then saving lives" (chicks LOVE mario kart great for pregame…
/r/askTRP14/03/17 10:54 PM
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second this comment and dont do psychology either
/r/askTRP14/03/17 01:50 PM
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bag of skittles
/r/askTRP14/03/17 01:42 PM
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"this way is dragging me down into becoming a passive, dickless, teddybear." Well that made me laugh, at least you have humour in your depressed acceptance stage. First, beta/alpha male is not a noun it's a mindset. A good read is the rational male by rollo tomassi, whats you're lifting/nutrition program like?
/r/askTRP13/03/17 12:47 AM
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multiple stages in the process, there is no set time table, read it again and try the rational male by rollo tomassi
/r/askTRP13/03/17 12:43 AM
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start at the top of the sidebar
/r/askTRP13/03/17 12:37 AM
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sidebar > faq> there's this one girl
/r/askTRP13/03/17 12:36 AM
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""What are you up to this weekend?"" Problem: she's overseas Solution: ignore & re-engage when shes back
/r/askTRP12/03/17 07:17 PM
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for logistics
/r/askTRP12/03/17 06:14 PM
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best wishes
/r/askTRP12/03/17 04:28 PM
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Finding a balance between not giving a flying fuck and not being too reckless. Find your mission/purpose in life... Dont have one? At least you now know where to start... and go to the gym
/r/askTRP12/03/17 03:41 PM
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"so you think, though, that even if I had gone down a different path and decided to settle down in my 20s monogamously, that this is what all men would have wanted?" No, if you were attractive most men would pursue you, and you would have filtered out the high and low quality. With each additional sex partner your pair bonding has been hindered, hence why men want low n-counts as partners. Optimal sexual strategy, you would have gained commitment with a high SMV male during your SMV peak (for fe…
/r/askTRP12/03/17 03:39 PM
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The rules of the game always apply, you are not a snowflake. I guess because I'm part of the poly community and see a lot of happy women in their 30s+ having loads of sex and in LTRs Happiness is all relative, of course they are going to appear happy but I would be willing to bet they would trade spots with you (F20s) and do it differently knowing what they know now. Think of it like social media, everyone is happy/rich/success/living the dream/ and FRIENDS lol right?
/r/askTRP12/03/17 02:54 PM
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You're playing a dangerous game- because you're trying to adapt a male sexual strategy as a female. It may be fine for now, but as the years tick on you'll find that quality men do not want to be with a former slut. Very well put. really well put comment here for you OP
/r/askTRP12/03/17 02:49 PM
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Keep in mind the covert ways of women, they have many means of reaching out to men: social media, phone, email ..etc. They do everything in their power to limit the suspicion, I believe this is an evolutionary survival trait. Depending on her hobbies it could be her coworker, gym friend, old high school/college friend whos back in the picture(happened to my friend) just to name a few.
/r/askTRP12/03/17 02:46 PM
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In a few years when the interest from these guys fade you will look back on your post with regret. Once this "fun" stage is over you'll realize that you have wasted two valuable assets your beauty and time. You can rationalize as "sampling" but a high SMV male will have many options and what you what have to offer won't be as appealing. "In fact, I prefer a skinny, kind of "dorky" looking man than someone with bulging pecs... but that's just a personal preference." This statement alone is you ha…
/r/askTRP12/03/17 02:41 PM
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two thoughts: ultimatums are overt and a last resort when people are feeling powerless as they perceive this as their big power move "this or else i'm doing this" It seems that you might be used as a pawn/excuse for her to leave for something/someone else. I wouldn't be surprised if she was seeing someone else and deflected that you were the reason for her leaving. where else could she go? In general, it would be other family members or a higher SMV guy than you father (could be me being harsh h…
/r/askTRP12/03/17 02:22 PM
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yes good way to think of it, dumb people are perceived as a threat but allow you to understand the sucker
/r/askTRP12/03/17 02:17 PM
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"He's probably the alpha male in the company." yes only a contextual alpha though
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 12:20 AM
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"If you dealing with a cool female (a unicorn) that's cool" Unicorns dont exsist
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 12:15 AM
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amused mastery to handle this power play move
/r/askTRP10/03/17 02:51 PM
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dont forget the concept of child support
/r/askTRP10/03/17 02:50 PM
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there's this one girl...
/r/askTRP10/03/17 02:45 PM
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Would you like me to give you a fish or teach you to how to fish?
/r/askTRP10/03/17 05:23 AM
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her getting any guy is irrelevant because you cant control that. "How do I get the IDGAF mindset?" do some research and start by typing that in the search bar, its discussed heavily on this sub. "How do I operate plate theory with her now after being broken up?" ghost her
/r/askTRP10/03/17 05:18 AM
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I agree with you, OP being a young 17M means his exposure to their innate ways have yet to be experienced.
/r/askTRP10/03/17 04:59 AM
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"How do I not care as much" review mindset of idgaf, abundance and plate theory "get her chasing me again" ghost
/r/askTRP10/03/17 04:54 AM
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you are welcome. based on your response you are being defense, projecting actually, and who knows you might gander it before asking other questions
/r/askTRP10/03/17 04:51 AM
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OP RP SIDEBAR "FITNESS AND SELF-IMPROVEMENT" -> "FR: Going to an event where you don't know anyone" click here you lazy fuck stick: 4youOP WHY OP >>> WHY?/
/r/askTRP10/03/17 04:36 AM
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Shouldnt have asked her "why" and just agreed then amplified. I would have flipped the script and tried to get her to walk you home. This is more of an advanced approach but if you place yourself as the prize and tease her that she could provide safety to you, then it gives you multiple conversation outlets. essentially you place yourself in her shoes before she pulls that on you, imagine if you suggested only walking her half way? Even that little gesture might got you laid. TLDR: flip the scri…
/r/askTRP10/03/17 04:33 AM
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Mr Rivera would skip the number and say "meet me here at (place)[bar] for (activity)[drinks] at this time YYYYY"
/r/askTRP10/03/17 04:24 AM
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"emotionally distant and refusing sex for about 2 months now." translation: she's fucking chad
/r/askTRP08/03/17 05:27 AM
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"Tl;DR: Alpha male is LTR with ... etc" Alphas don't need to refer to themselves as such, cringe worthy to read
/r/askTRP07/03/17 11:33 AM
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Potential divorce rape, alimony, child support etc... can have that effect. TRP teaches us to focus on health, wealth and whatever we have chosen to be our purpose. There are more to that list but women are usually a secondary or tertiary thought.
/r/askTRP07/03/17 08:33 AM
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In a TLDR way: The female sexual strategy is to optimize commitment/security/safety/resources from multiple males. The male's strategy is to acquire/spread his seed to multiple females ideally not providing exclusivity.
/r/askTRP07/03/17 07:01 AM
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Which colleges? roughly what is your GPA and test scores (ACT/SAT) At one highschool the NHS was 3.25 at mine it was a 3.75, so colleges dont really give a fuck because there are varying standards across the nation
/r/askTRP07/03/17 06:57 AM
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side bar material > redpill series posts > LTR RP game in 8 parts
/r/askTRP07/03/17 06:54 AM
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You have yet to hit your peak SMV and you are in an LTR with a 30F soon to be post wall and her SMV will only be decreasing. Pair Bonding with a women in this stage of her life will be difficult and I don't waste my time with LTRing these women. This behavior is strange and from my RP knowledge, proper vetting was NOT performed before the LTR nor the right frame established. I believe that your intuition is correct that the weight gain isn't noticeable. This leads me to question why she would sa…
/r/askTRP07/03/17 06:49 AM
2

Me [M] 28 and also have an engineering degree, focus on your career , we haven't even hit our SMV peak. Slay that poon and then around 33-36 start considering that.
/r/askTRP06/03/17 09:10 AM
2

she suggested a 2 month break she was already cheating and the break justifies it
/r/askTRP06/03/17 09:08 AM
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"seems incredibly naive to his intentions now" listen to her actions, not her words. She is not as naive as you think, and he has higher SMV than you otherwise she wouldn't risk going. I wouldn't let me LTR go on a date, which is exactly what she did. A properly vetted LTR chick knows that there would be MAJOR consequences, now if you do anything it might come across as mate guarding. Do not overtly confront her about this, my advice would be to slowly remove any and all investment from the rela…
/r/askTRP06/03/17 08:53 AM
2

In the gym lifting and start reading the sidebar
/r/askTRP05/03/17 12:49 AM
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T&A then GTFO
/r/askTRP05/03/17 12:40 AM
2

"I cant let you out of the friendzone but meet me at xxxxx(a place) at yyyy(a time and date)" Should not make sense to you as it's illogical, but essentially you are flipping the script on her saying that SHES in the friendzone with you :) then you as the man/captain/leader direct here where to go keep in mind you want to escalate to sex so your place is fine or a place close by
/r/askTRP05/03/17 12:07 AM
0

Amazing comment above. OP many people come here to get to where you are only to realize that true happiness is derived from following your purpose, now you begin the next chapter in your journey.
/r/askTRP05/03/17 12:01 AM
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Incorrect thinking, they'll never get the flavor of you again ;) Rejection is better than regret Rejection is good it makes us focus on becoming a better man and learn from your mistakes, at least you know where to start. You have looks down, but continue/start lifting and now just focus on how to talk to women.
/r/askTRP04/03/17 11:57 PM
1

you still have a chance, text for logistics and then escalate In the future being overt sexually with a chick you haven't fucked is like asking for a kiss ... don't say it
/r/askTRP04/03/17 11:52 PM
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read: click thank me later
/r/askTRP04/03/17 11:49 PM
1

How the fuck do I break out of this cycle? mention the attitude in the last sentence in my above comment. How can I possibly have confidence in myself when shit like this happens? Confidence is derived from accomplishments, hence why we preach lifting not only to look good but feel good that we can set goals then reach them. Essentially you take the concepts you learned from lifting and apply them to other areas of your life. How hard is it to just lick my balls and let me play with your tits? i…
/r/askTRP04/03/17 11:47 PM
1

"Could be very good looking if I lifted." Bruh... this is the first mistake then the second supplicating to her(anything pertaining to cost). Confronting women is never productive, seriously what good can come of it? We can't negotiate desire. "Oh, by the way, after all of this she has the balls to ignore my text. As if I did something wrong and she's trying to punish me by ignoring me" You invested too much (time, money, emotions) and this is very beta behavior so im not surprised to say the le…
/r/askTRP04/03/17 11:37 PM
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text for logistics, never be overt or direct until you have fucked a couple times. Advanced tactics could break the rule above but she was just playing with you, probably came across as needy and having scarcity mentality.
/r/askTRP04/03/17 11:30 PM
3

FAQ -> working with women
/r/askTRP04/03/17 11:28 PM
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"She's not a child, children don't have jiggly tits." you can hamster away all you want, but good luck explaining that to the judge
/r/askTRP04/03/17 04:08 PM
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There is a gorgeous fourteen-year-old girl The urge to fuck is high, but so are the stakes. I kissed her publicly several times ^ ChoMo status is what you are at right now AND you are still asking how to maintain sexual tension with a child(under 16 yo) as a man... you are being irrational.
/r/askTRP04/03/17 03:31 PM
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find other options, oneitis for a F14 isn't worth it and going to jail as a ChoMo is worse than a death sentence. Dont believe me? ... just spend some time researching ChoMo
/r/askTRP04/03/17 03:00 PM
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Just teasing on your terminology, it's like saying "She has a thin fat body" You seem confused with your own actions ie "I had been in a semi-open LTR for over a year - I have had sex with other girls throughout it " then say later "I was her boyfriend and she absolutely loved that" so either a she was a plate and you weren't cheating or you were in a LTR and were cheating. Plate - Woman with whom you are in a non-exclusive sexual relationship with. LTR = commitment, exclusive, monogamy(sexual r…
/r/askTRP04/03/17 02:28 PM
3

They want to remember you as a big fat beta boy not a powerful strong man, you should also not be seeking compliments, that's considered external validation.
/r/askTRP04/03/17 01:20 PM
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Showed that you were outcome independent and idgaf which are attractive qualities, not surprised at all. chicks use politics to filter out guys, just a shit-test in most cases
/r/askTRP04/03/17 09:59 AM
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"I let her validate her feelings weekly. I let her know, after she's shown exclusive affection, that she's the only one I'm committed to." I could see this playing out as a mistake, it's great that you want her to feel comfortable and secure. I only do this when she comfort tests me otherwise it can be counter productive. What I mean by that is you eliminate competition anxiety, which is what keeps her tingles for you. Women who know that they are your only source of intimacy can weaponize it ag…
/r/askTRP04/03/17 09:53 AM
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"Having my thoughts sorted I gently denied saying protection first." Most likely felt rejected and then her ego needed a boost, the trust comment could be a shit or comfort test. Soft next for 3-4days then text for logistics and fuck
/r/askTRP04/03/17 09:45 AM
1

Dread is discussed heavily if he wants to save his marriage, which is the result him focusing on self-awareness/improvement
/r/askTRP04/03/17 09:42 AM
1

keep as plate, find more plates
/r/askTRP04/03/17 09:39 AM
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Tough spot, your boy is holding you back and just go with other friends, when he asks just sell it that it's an amazing place
/r/askTRP04/03/17 09:38 AM
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"Broke up with non-exclusive LTR of one year last week as I refused to completely commit. " How does one have a non-exclusive LTR? So she was a plate that wanted commitment, and now that plate has stopped spinning, just move on to your next plate.
/r/askTRP04/03/17 08:02 AM
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Just tell chicks you are an african prince and that the 6'7" bro is your bodyguard meant to keep chicks away. Then hire and fire different types of chicks all night, get creative and playful. My buddy was 6'10'' and would get opened all the time, he raises your value and you just want to pivot off it
/r/askTRP04/03/17 07:57 AM
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Beware red knighting - I would review some posts from the marriedrp sub as they might be more helpful and previous posts could give you insight on the approach
/r/askTRP04/03/17 07:23 AM
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Got laid twice tonight before and after going out (same chick plate#3) and she left. Maybe you are a champion, I got some last night(main plate), so my thought is not fucking a new chick with a tired dick. LOL I try to give a an amazing lay the first night so she never forgets :) and I have to lift early
/r/askTRP04/03/17 07:18 AM
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Don't over think it just be aloof, cocky, funny and mysterious These will sound stupid to men because we are overt and logical... but to women they want FEEEELZZZZ and excitement, so give it to them. I use these as foundation, the bank robber one is amazing. "still taking over the world ... from my moms basement" (ohhhhh the paradox.. delivered this line in-person shows massive DHV but equally effective over text ) "playing mario kart, then saving lives" (chicks LOVE mario kart great for pregame…
/r/askTRP04/03/17 07:13 AM
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"He gets all excited about doing shit and then the day something is supposed to happen he's all "Nah I dunno I just feel like staying home and watching tv"." I used to do this, think of him suffering from approach anxiety but in terms of going to a bar. He's his own worst enemy and he uses all the BS fluff not to go as a buffer from potentially getting rejected or looking like a beta or a loser who can't pull chicks. Dont get mad a him as that doesn't work, my best advice would be to agree and a…
/r/askTRP04/03/17 07:00 AM
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Competition anxiety - That's what women seek to mitigate when in relationships, when you start acting like the man again she'll fight tooth and nail. Don't apologize, continue working on yourself, I'm assuming you are living with her which is a mistake. Look to find your own place asap Pull her aside and say: "I'd like to say something regarding my behavior the last couple days.. (long pause ) and I'd like to apologize for... (pause again) absolutely nothing.." then hit the gym and let the hamst…
/r/askTRP04/03/17 04:46 AM
3

Good lesson on why we don't move in with our LTRs
/r/askTRP04/03/17 04:28 AM
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You could argue that he is the most powerful men in the world, so definitely not beta, might he have some beta tendencies .. maybe but definitely more alpha ones.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 11:01 PM
2

All good comments below, what happened that prevented the f-close? Did you attempt to re-escalate? Could you provide more information
/r/askTRP03/03/17 09:38 PM
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give us a summary
/r/askTRP03/03/17 01:34 PM
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We don't confront women, women are like children,would you confront a child?.. no it's not productive/nothing good can come from it ghost her the plate has cracked
/r/askTRP03/03/17 01:32 PM
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read it from the RP side bar: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/39fu0n/allin1_legal_guide_compilation_for_men_seeking/ You only speak on the accident to lawyers if cops/school/counselors talk to you .. even just to get your side of the story(this is a trick/technique they use to get you to speak)
/r/askTRP03/03/17 01:16 PM
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We have rules to vet our LTRs, a status they have earned through trust and knowing what is/isn't acceptable and we don't mate guard. Essentially if you have put in the work beforehand then you should be fine, if she fucks up then soft/hard next/radio silence/ ghost... depends on the situation. The gym guy isn't the problem because girls get hit on all the time ie at work, through social media, clubs, bars, social events and gyms. I don't worry about what I can't control and thats another man hit…
/r/askTRP03/03/17 09:42 AM
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Make her a back up plan, but she is definitely down to fuck, her boyfriend is delusional
/r/askTRP03/03/17 08:47 AM
0

From your previous posts, you are a 15 Male, focus on getting good grades in school and the females can wait.
/r/askTRP03/03/17 08:35 AM
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might not be as bad as you think, she may have interpreted it as you not being interested which made her more attracted(hence the fb add). facebook message her in a couple days after accepting and get number then shoot for logistics
/r/askTRP03/03/17 08:02 AM
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He does have a point, i'd believe in santa claus before a generic passage telling me what kind of man I am because of my DOB
/r/askTRP03/03/17 07:07 AM
1

Addendum: Alpha is a mindset, they possess such qualities as being stoic, outcome independent, IDGAF, abundance, non-needy and so on ... sidebar reading as mentioned is crucial for noobs
/r/askTRP03/03/17 07:01 AM
2

Just enjoy your turn. Review plate theory to understand abundance for when the time comes: click
/r/askTRP03/03/17 06:58 AM
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"Can we account for the scope of it?" What do you mean? What do you really what to know? You can roughly assume that the top 80% of the women are fucking the top 20% of men. That leaves the next 80% of the men fucking the bottom 20% of women, which means some men are having sex with their hands ;)
/r/askTRP03/03/17 06:54 AM
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Everyone can use work, its when you stop that the ego has blown out of proportion, even then you can always give back.. ie here at asktrp "She says shes learned a lot from them specifically about to love herself" Just the hamster at work, she thinks this chapter is her being "born again" but the high end count is more attributed to issues with her father. In your case, her mother appears to be the one in control/ with power so he could be a beta and the mother could have more of an influence the…
/r/askTRP03/03/17 06:50 AM
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Nine is a lot for a female not even on the bar scene, especially if you've been dating for a year. My assumptions: she's telling the truth(usually not they hamster why some don't count) she fucked 8 guys other than you before the age of 19 was not in other relationships Depending on when she started she has been soberly going through 3-5 guys per year and if was was in another relationship(s) it's worse. At her rate she could be in the 30 to 40s by her SMV peak I would say for a serious relation…
/r/askTRP03/03/17 06:32 AM
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drinking mitigates gains and effects recovery while providing no nutritional value at a cost of money and time spent elsewhere... so ...
/r/askTRP03/03/17 06:09 AM
1

her age?
/r/askTRP03/03/17 06:00 AM
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Spin as plate only, she has passed the female SMV peak [23 yo] and you have yet to hit your stride male SMV peak [36 yo]. Not only that but her past has flags, trust your RP instinct and find more plates to spin. remember: she's not yours, its just your turn
/r/askTRP03/03/17 06:00 AM
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"“question though ..XX....I have a friend I want to set you up with hahahha no pressure either way of course, let me know :)”" A & A " yea, I was more interested in her anyway".. then soft next watch the hamster spin
/r/askTRP03/03/17 05:53 AM
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" I have a really bad habit of acting slightly quieter and disconnected when he tries approaching her. " next time introduce yourself, stay until he leaves and be cordially with him, there will be tension but you dgaf and are outcome independent. Never address/ be overt that you know he's trying to game your girl. Advanced game: turning the table, you can engage them when he comes over, and slightly amog him. How? Give him tips on lifting or how to hit on your LTR (in front of her). A guy did th…
/r/askTRP03/03/17 05:47 AM
1

Good comments, as a side thought you have to be very careful, you have given this woman a lot of power. She could fuck you with your job, network, career, references and marriage. You are fraternizing with a female co-worker as a married man with 3 kids. This is a potentially worse situation that you can imagine and it appears you have become reckless. You may want to change jobs and get a fresh start then re-evaluate your marriage.
/r/askTRP03/03/17 02:49 AM
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you are a 21 yo man who doesn't know how to deal with a 12 yo kid? He doesn't respect you, this behavior will only get worse, if this were my brother he would be thankful to walk and not have a mangled face, and then he would buy me COD if he wanted to live a half decent life. Unfortunately his older brother is a beta bitch
/r/askTRP02/03/17 11:19 PM
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true
/r/askTRP02/03/17 11:19 PM
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hmmm.... trp side bar
/r/askTRP02/03/17 09:20 PM
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so.. enjoy your turn
/r/askTRP02/03/17 08:55 PM
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Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was.
/r/askTRP02/03/17 08:50 PM
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As you get older you'll realize that drinking can often unmask someone's true intentions and it serves to hamster away a decision that was made.
/r/askTRP02/03/17 08:47 PM
1

exactly what I said, the hamster spun to buffer the reality she fucked his roommate
/r/askTRP02/03/17 08:45 PM
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"Woke up to him telling me how they briefly kissed and she slept in his bed (didn't want her in mine, since both of them were drunk). They didn't have sex or anything." Look at you hamster away bro, you'll get the trickle truth here but I am 95% sure they fucked. "I told him that I'm not mad, but if something like this ever happens again we're going to have a huge problem." she a plate and it was their turn, besides they've already fucked "I'm not contacting the girl until she contacts me to sle…
/r/askTRP02/03/17 08:39 PM
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"She texts me first, always excited to see me, always wants to hold hands, sends flirty texts, rests head on shoulders, does all kinds of intimate things." text for logistics, and stop thinking/acting like a romantic, this isnt a disney movie "doesn't see us long term, and that she wanted to tell me that before we got serious". I was thinking this was a shit test, but then I read to the bottom and shes plated you (beta orbiter) you are suffering from scarcity review plate theory "My friend who i…
/r/askTRP02/03/17 08:34 PM
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I guess the advice I'm asking for is how to play this so the idea literally comes from her Makes moves, her hamster will do the work for you, just provide the plausible deniability to get her over
/r/askTRP02/03/17 08:25 PM
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c'mon bro, did you look at the side bar? literally the top link trp sidebar -> FAQ header -> there's this one girl...
/r/askTRP02/03/17 11:43 AM
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No, women attempt to sexually disqualify men they scorn or can't keep around. Example: last exgf said I had a huge dick and was the best sex ever when we fucked, then later told people I was a lazy POS who just laid there on the bed. LOL.. i just agreed and said she wanted to burn more calories
/r/askTRP02/03/17 09:06 AM
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Especially when i am insulted i just tell them im too chill and too sexy to deal with them. are you insulted by children? do you need to tell children you are chill and sexy? women act like children "Her friend to me that she didn't "want to fuck with me" but i told her "she should. She knows she wants it"" You are being too overt here, and now she knows you want to fuck her which takes away the mystery and definitely kills the sexual tension. "It gets so frustrating" Even I can sense the scarci…
/r/askTRP02/03/17 09:00 AM
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review being stoic, it deals with how to handle people/situations you can and can't control. You can't control women, you can only influence them, so if it were me in your shoes I'd fuck her and then dgaf what she says. if she says i blew my load quick or i have a shrimp size cock ... just Agree and Amplify "ya, it was more like 17.5 seconds" or "ya, its super tiny" ... then change subjects edit: Lets be honest.. its just a hb6
/r/askTRP02/03/17 08:45 AM
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I want to avoid being annoyed & hassled when confronted you avoid(flight) the situation, and your reason above is just you hamstering away this reality. This goes beyond frame and drives into your beta mindset, you will want to review alpha qualities: stoic, idgaf, outcome independence, aloof and abundance ...etc
/r/askTRP02/03/17 08:31 AM
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I know she's gonna open her loud mouth. you DGAF and practice on her while adding more plates to spin
/r/askTRP02/03/17 08:24 AM
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Your* edit: ;)
/r/askTRP02/03/17 08:20 AM
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No, you'll not get any suggestions. You'll re-edit this and provide us more context. Next time give us an example and we'll consider helping you... after you beg for forgiveness. ;) Short, sweet, powerful, overt, commanding, direct, IDGAF, outcome independent and commanding. But seriously provide us some dialog and we can help more.
/r/askTRP02/03/17 08:16 AM
2

No, just DaleUky.
/r/askTRP02/03/17 08:10 AM
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"hey" or replace this with "wait" as a side note, kissing isn't a big deal so don't make it so
/r/askTRP02/03/17 08:08 AM
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Name the kid after him.
/r/askTRP02/03/17 08:04 AM
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she was texting a chad in the bathroom, and used the tired/sickness as a means to leave you. Then when she left, her chad was fucking somebody else so she needed validation by telling you to come over. Ego boosting to her by denying the escalations, and she was playing with you the whole night. Good to not pay for more than a round and to leave after the denied escalations.
/r/askTRP02/03/17 05:20 AM
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She said she wouldn't and she did. She cannot keep promises. This is really bad, her hamster will tell you blahablalgagfbla, hard next
/r/askTRP02/03/17 04:18 AM
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Interesting viewpoint
/r/askTRP02/03/17 03:36 AM
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Addendum: Most problems in the bedroom are solved outside them, you are falling into her frame of not pleasuring her when it should be the other way around.
/r/askTRP01/03/17 07:32 PM
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Something doesn't add up, let's see if you guys agree: Joao is 24 in 2017, I'm assuming he hasn't turned 25 yet. Joao claims he joined and followed The Red pill community at 17 and followed it for two years which puts the time line from 2009 to 2011 I doubt this guy exists and is fabricated to enhance the authors claims under the premise that even their own members are turning against them. Furthermore, I don't have any proof that the TheRedPill community, on reddit(as claimed in the article), e…
/r/askTRP01/03/17 06:55 PM
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understanding this made dealing with women (mom, sisters, plates, exes) life 100% stress free, and made them see me in a more dominant way, resulting in less arguments because they knew I wouldn't play either game.
/r/askTRP01/03/17 06:35 PM
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so you lost your pre-selection (now ex-GF), coupled with no longer a mystery or a challenge. "The moment I told her I wanted to be with her" don't do this again she can sense the scarcity and need, need to frame your mind that she should want to be with you. my recommendation is too next her until she initiates
/r/askTRP01/03/17 06:31 PM
1

revenge = caring caring = emotional investment emotional investment = beta
/r/askTRP01/03/17 06:12 PM
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You need to do the vetting before promising exclusivity with her, do not let external pressures persuade you into doing something before you know what you are getting into.
/r/askTRP01/03/17 06:11 PM
1

quick sidebar search on TheRedPill sub https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3a2bl4/stoicism_101_a_primer_on_how_to_be/
/r/askTRP01/03/17 06:08 PM
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good, but even better would be assuming they are still on "I'll see you at X pm tonight." (next line your address) edit: plan a backup activity, if no show or no response or flake etc.... soft next for one week minimum
/r/askTRP01/03/17 06:04 PM
1

Top recommended book(s) for meditation and being stoic?
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 05:34 PM
1

yes
/r/askTRP01/03/17 08:30 AM
1

You'll have to go to a D1 school to get noticed(best competition) then I recommend looking at the TEs drafted over the last couple years and try to hit those metrics. By metrics I mean 40 time, bench press, broad jump, vertical etc.. 6'4'' is average but you'll have to weigh somewhere in the realm of 250lbs then have a balance of speed, power and catching ability.
/r/askTRP01/03/17 06:40 AM
2

When she was on the thinner side her SMV was a 2 then she ate relatively well and it bumped her up(SMV 3.5 - 4). However, her lack of discipline as well as the competition in the SMP pushed her in the direction of enjoying herself since the chads weren't calling. Let's keep in mind we are witnessing her SMV peak at the age of 23.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 05:00 AM
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Why make the commitment of exclusivity if you are still smashing plates? Deep down you didn't want an LTR if this is the case, next time watch out for the red flags and vet your girls
/r/askTRP28/02/17 11:28 PM
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Community college (CC) or a technical school for trades, I went to CC for maths and science it was 2,000$ total for an associates which I completed in a year (highly motivated to finish). Then went to a 4 years university for engineering 36,000$ total for the next two years. Starting salary depending on the degree is between 56,000 to 72,000
/r/askTRP28/02/17 10:36 PM
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You are misunderstanding the phrase "Women are not the prize" is to have the mentality of not pedestalizing them which mitigates oneitis as OP wanted "They are the contestants." This serves as a reminder that we are the prize, at least high SMV men are, which is exactly what we preach at TRP apology accepted
/r/askTRP28/02/17 09:49 PM
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Men have to be taller than women Height corresponds to security, safety, good genes, dominance... +1 to 2 points on the SMV scale because they are female preferences You might like big tits and big asses or pretty faces or small waists, those get + SMV points, as these are male preferences. Can't change this factor, but you can work on other areas to increase your SMV (health - fitness/nutrition, finance/career, mindset - abundance/idgaf/stoic etc..)
/r/askTRP28/02/17 03:33 PM
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Women are not the prize. They are the contestants.
/r/askTRP28/02/17 03:27 PM
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What's the best way to pass the common shit test? (read before posting next time) Sidebar -> FAQ ->"what are shit test and how to handle them" I am actually out of state now We dont do LDRs, search for "LDRs" on the community What I am doing is I am going to claim the chick before someone else does AHAHHAHAHHAHA, I'm done.
/r/askTRP28/02/17 03:06 PM
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not true - i use pre-jym and highly recommend it, rated at 9.1/10
/r/askTRP28/02/17 11:35 AM
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dont go red knighting
/r/askTRP28/02/17 11:26 AM
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addendum: He is also blowing his money as well as is health and any lifting gains.
/r/askTRP28/02/17 11:22 AM
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TLDR: harsh "She says we are moving fast and she didn't expect meeting someone like me, She is also a little unsure if our chemistry will work out when we meet." A women only puts on the brakes when she has multiple options, and the chemistry part is a common shit test to gauge your reaction. "There were layoffs in her company shortly after we connected and she said it was becoming stressful." excuse, teacher I fucked dropped this last night(potentially getting fired in 2 days due to downsize), …
/r/askTRP28/02/17 11:15 AM
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your most likely outcome, unless you start doing shit you find fun, by yourself, at least a good chunk of the time, is gonna be her living on your dime until she gets sick of it and starts pissing you off / disrespecting you / cheating on you until you kick her to the curb. OP this is good insight
/r/askTRP28/02/17 11:01 AM
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"I am living together(..) with LTR for 3 months" 1st mistake, discussed many times as to why and the first paragraph not doubt reinforces why. Many posts on this topic 2nd mistake, some activities you should be doing by yourself, best example the gym. This is where we are in our element and we focus on self-improvement and growth. 3rd mistake "he is mostly staying at home, and is becoming bored" .. this is irrelevant to you and you should not be responsible for finding her exciting activities. s…
/r/askTRP28/02/17 10:58 AM
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"I think we are transferring from "dating" to "relationship"." you(the man) are the gatekeeper of relationships and have you properly vetted her? Edit: no you haven't, see below " I knew instantly that she has a kid. It caught me off guard at first. " red flag, what else has she not told you? you may also not be getting the whole truth AWALT (trickle truth concept) "I asked this question because I want to make sure that she doesn't have "other intentions" (in other words, using me for money)." A…
/r/askTRP28/02/17 10:47 AM
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Provided a good link, by a very respected member of the community, you will learn the concept and should understand how it's used. Plate theory utilizes the concept of abundance which deals with male sexual strategy, this is a good start as you can apply the concept to friends as well as your career(creating options = power). Read through all the plate theories in this blog - 5 or 6 of them The rational male blog: https://therationalmale.com/2011/08/19/plate-theory-2/
/r/askTRP28/02/17 10:31 AM
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"Sitting at dinner, joking around, it comes up that she used to fuck one of her superiors at work, ended up reaping some benefits for that. Dude was literally twice her age." stroking her own ego, overtly attempting to display her value or what she is able to leverage from the man using her vagina, superior was most likely a contextual alpha
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 09:23 AM
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"she throws a tantrum, telling me that I was ugly and she wouldn't fuck me with a 10 foot pole." she wanted to fuck you "The other girl is super into me, and got really mad at her friend. Did I handle this right?" yes, you couldve looked at the other girl and said lets go, then taken her back and fucked
/r/askTRP28/02/17 09:19 AM
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yup, its was just your turn, she's probably fucking someone else atm
/r/askTRP28/02/17 09:15 AM
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subreddit -> theredpill -> go to search box type "abundance" -> filter on top post dont be lazy
/r/askTRP28/02/17 09:13 AM
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Red knighting - dont do it if you value your friendship ".. but .. but.. but that didnt answer my question." search box -> red knighting if you want to know why
/r/askTRP28/02/17 09:08 AM
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We are on the same page, I think it's also gross, so I had to develop my foreplay, kissing, finger and sex to high levels. As a result I tend not to want BJs but get them often due to not asking
/r/askTRP27/02/17 04:54 PM
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too old for you
/r/askTRP26/02/17 10:31 PM
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What education do you have? I always recommend a degree maybe hospitality or business that could definitely be great with your experience and give you tons of opportunities. Maybe you want to take over a business or start your own?
/r/askTRP26/02/17 10:18 PM
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The learning never stops, go to the RP sidebar > networks > TheRedPill > top posts also the marriedRP side bar has valuable information better than asktrp Check the ego if you think you know everything, and if you do then respond to some of the posts, you'll gain a better understanding when helping others as well as paying back what you've learned. You are very lucky to have RP knowledge at your age
/r/askTRP26/02/17 10:14 PM
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Out of your league concept is a social construct so that lower SMV men don't approach women, most of the time our minds are the biggest weakness. Created to let the men filter themselves out, ever question yourself.... why is she with that loser guy? League mentality Those HBs could perceive you higher SMV than you realize, yet your own insecurity/ fear of rejection limits you. Many times guys want to appear macho and hamster around this insecurity/ fear but those that work on the mindset of abu…
/r/askTRP26/02/17 10:07 PM
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spot on
/r/askTRP26/02/17 09:55 PM
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"because realistically it won't last until marriage." "I have this nagging feeling that I want to experience other girls." You know the answer
/r/askTRP26/02/17 09:55 PM
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"I have plates to keep me busy but what's going on here?" She found a dude equal or higher SMV, don't take it personal, she's definitely fucking another guy (tinder most likely). Sometimes plates stop spinning, I recommend not reaching out to her again, she'll eventually hit you back up then you can fuck again.
/r/askTRP26/02/17 09:51 PM
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talk to more women, look into abundance mentality, then this chick will be a distance memory. I was refer to girls in my social circle as friends even if I want to bang her, me calling her a friend places me in the position of power
/r/askTRP26/02/17 09:47 PM
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I didn't yet she made so many poor decisions and literally refused help from her family at one point...I just don't get it. Its because she's a woman and society feelzzz the need to help them, where as a helpless man is a loser. She knows this and her vagina when she was younger was valuable, so she could afford to be a fuck. The beta orbiters also provided some level of comfort to her as well. How do I know this? My sister is this way AWALT
/r/askTRP26/02/17 09:42 PM
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no she just inherited your frame, she'd fall right back into her old ways without you
/r/askTRP26/02/17 09:39 PM
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FUCK NO. DO. NOT. DO. IT.
/r/askTRP26/02/17 06:44 PM
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A&A then change subjects or ignore
/r/askTRP26/02/17 06:43 PM
2

are you posting this question in the right community?
/r/askTRP26/02/17 06:42 PM
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"rare but good thing in this day and age, I could be wrong though." most likely wrong **"do you think I should go for it?" yes, plate her, make her your practice plate and do not promise exclusivity if she ever mentions it. "Can this also be a case of 'shitting where I eat'?" no, unless you have group projects with her, this concept applies in the workforce
/r/askTRP26/02/17 06:18 PM
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Purse what you want man, but just remember you need to pay the bills, sleep and lift. Cutting out sleep will impact your 8/9-5 job, reduce your gains in the gym, as well as affect your mind/mindset/hormones/decision making/ motivation.
/r/askTRP26/02/17 05:45 PM
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"Wonder did I become too much of an "asshole"" According to the RP maybe not According to the social construct that you have been raised to believe .. absolutely Women are allowed to maximize their sexual strategy by finding the highest/best smv/genes to mate with then secure a resource high beta bux for security and provisioning. Why are men not allowed to date multiple women and vet them for a potential long term relationship
/r/askTRP26/02/17 05:43 PM
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PUA question better for the seduction community Think of an IOI and what the opposite of that is, not laughing, short responses, acting annoyed, checking her phone a lot, not responding to text messages. Sometimes guys look too much into this, and generally we just move on to the next chick, a chick that is interested won't confuse you.
/r/askTRP26/02/17 05:38 PM
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yo this is a fucking amazing date idea, buy hers, you need to take charge and be decisive, FR is expected
/r/askTRP26/02/17 05:24 PM
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"'If I knew this before dating you I would never be your girlfriend'" Her: you are like the chad guy they talk about on RP, I am honored to be taking your cock and thankful you haven't left me. She wouldn't have dated you because she would have been filled with competition anxiety knowing that you could leave at any moment. Girl found my "book of knowledge" and she asked "WTF is this" just told her it was a book
/r/askTRP26/02/17 03:59 PM
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I only text to get to the point of setting up logistics or sometimes just to setup up logistics, creates more mystery and then I don't run out of shit to say.
/r/askTRP26/02/17 03:54 PM
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168 hours in a week 50 for work 56 for sleep (7 days x 8 hours) 66 hours left in the week you can weight lift, meal prep, lift, study rp concepts then go out and apply them, side jobs, dance classes,lift, yoga, lift, meditation, basketball(or any sports) intramural team, lift, take course related to career growth, network or lift did i mention lifting?
/r/askTRP26/02/17 03:50 PM
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"my GFs poor decisions set her back a lot and now it's like I'm getting every Chads throwaway." I would trust your instinct, just remember she's not yours, its just your turn.
/r/askTRP26/02/17 03:44 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/5h91ec/corporateland_how_to_interview_survive_thrive_get/ really nice posts pertaining to career related activites, the second link may help you for the interview
/r/askTRP26/02/17 03:28 PM
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sexual frame read the rp sidebar > FAQ > "set a sexual frame" https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2lxtxz/frame_defining_yourself_as_a_sexual_being_sexual/
/r/askTRP26/02/17 03:25 PM
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"Living at college atm with this girl" 1st mistake The bed situation with strange kino, over analyzing IOIs and discussing school/weather is GRADE A cringe worthy. "I just feel frustrated because I had her RIGHT THERE on my bed and I thought I DID escalate." She was drier than the sahara desert "she does talk to me she always stands real close think breasts near my shoulders then steps back/looks away so I'm wondering if she's playing hard to get" she's now plating(beta orbiter) you Side thought…
/r/askTRP26/02/17 03:22 PM
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"i like you on mondays and thursdays" .. then change subjects
/r/askTRP25/02/17 10:54 PM
1

With a major difference being that a fallen natural can increase his SMV again.. the post wall female ... no so much
/r/TheRedPill25/02/17 09:17 PM
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soft next, shouldve taken up rescheduled date
/r/askTRP25/02/17 08:46 PM
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examples would be nice just A &A then change subject or ignore all together definitely go, you look butt hurt if you dont
/r/askTRP25/02/17 08:41 PM
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I'm indifferent, just going off the facts you provided, maybe listening to how you come across with women will help your future situations.
/r/askTRP25/02/17 04:34 PM
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you were powerless and gave her an ultimatum, then she said no to it
/r/askTRP25/02/17 04:26 PM
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Women love a man who is mysterious, so not displaying interesting would have definitely increased her attraction to him. "I feel like OP saying "let's do this again next Friday" after not escalating showed her that OP is interested but a bitch." Harsh but most likely true
/r/askTRP25/02/17 04:24 PM
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"she doesn't want to be anything more than friends since she just got out of a long relationship (which is true)" Shes appealing to your logical thinking, and this translates to LJBFs, a woman who wants you doesn't pull this shit. lack of attraction, and you should soft next for a couple weeks.
/r/askTRP25/02/17 04:20 PM
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Interesting approach... if you are correct that his parents are a major factor in him leaving then it could work if they become more relaxed.
/r/askTRP25/02/17 04:17 PM
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You are young and if should align with high SMV guys, they are your competition but you can learn their ways. Feeling threatened is innate but they sound valuable which you can leverage for your benefit. Lift with them, network to improve your career and watch them in social interactions, be a cool guy they can bring along.
/r/askTRP25/02/17 04:13 PM
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Just her way of displaying social status if you are high SMV and most do this because they are seeking validation and attention.
/r/askTRP25/02/17 04:09 PM
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Essentially there in an LDR, then he wants to live in with his LTR and he's modifying his career to do it => yeah he's fucked Let him go, just be there when he falls, red knighting won't change his mind.
/r/askTRP25/02/17 04:07 PM
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" However, that didn't last too long and her behaviour towards me has noticably changed." irrelevant - flattering comment that she called you alpha but in general we don't need that validation from women I also believe there can be multiple alphas in the group, yes some will be more alpha but the concept of alpha should be interpreted as having an alpha mindset. IMO a man who can practice and demonstrate the mindset of abundance, DGAF, stoic, outcome independence and discipline is alpha. "I gues…
/r/askTRP25/02/17 03:57 PM
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jealousy shit test.. that's a new term Just a common shit test where she was attempting to induce jealousy and gauge how insecure you were about other men trying to fuck her. As long as you do not mate guard and display idgaf, outcome independence and abundance you'll be fine. I would have just ignored it, maybe teased her about not giving him a chance
/r/askTRP25/02/17 03:42 PM
3

what do you mean?
/r/askTRP25/02/17 02:24 PM
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"Going to bars and parties isn't a waste of time" OP: "Subjective." yes, that's why he said it depends how you frame it - you nicely omitted that out :) "get this - a better gf (since you're into that sort of thing)." OP: this is your best piece of advice. Honestly I have considered it, but thanks for condescendingly throwing it in. OP stop being so sensitive, he's explaining the benefit of attending bars/parties and since you don't drink... 8$ for a budlight is irrelevant so you can GO :)
/r/askTRP25/02/17 08:17 AM
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He's reflecting on his relationship/connection with the woman he just fucked, and I think that after climaxing he realizes what she really means to him. He seems conflicted, from a biological standpoint he should spread his seed but the social construct in his mind, tells him that there is something wrong with having mindless sex with multiple women. I don't know if we can call it this but he seems like he's almost red pill(rp) but then has some blue pill(bp) thoughts. RP in the mindset of DGAF,…
/r/askTRP25/02/17 08:05 AM
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hahaha std chick pushed him away, damn thats kinda fucked up thinking about now
/r/askTRP25/02/17 07:33 AM
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Typically making out refers to kissing, but for the sake of semantics, the RP community knows it as kino which implies many things. "The fact that you you have to ask what to do with girl if she never begs proves to me that you have no idea what you're talking about" Not true, I was using your logic as means to help you understand why your argument didn't make sense if making out was just kissing. I just think your explanation was vague because, not that it's wrong, it didn't get into details(ba…
/r/askTRP25/02/17 07:29 AM
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hahah the irony... "I'm too busy to waste time and money going to bars and parties to catch tail, plus I don't drink." Exactly what LDRs are .. a waste of time and money Let him hamster away why he wants a LDR, everyone knows it's a buffer from having to face the reality that he fears rejection that he may not find other sources of intimacy locally while his LDR get smashed out by chad.
/r/askTRP25/02/17 06:58 AM
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Alternate who pays for the rounds or change venues and alternate who pays at that venue. If you want to do this approach have a round change venue once then get her back to your place for more drinks (review plausible deniability to get her back more smoothly). I say to play N64 mario kart, chicks love that shit and are competitive about it Essentially it ends up being an argument that had I paid for the whole thing dont argue with women, why? because they act like children and we don't argue wi…
/r/askTRP25/02/17 06:55 AM
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hahah OP just frustrated take it easy on him.
/r/askTRP25/02/17 06:44 AM
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OP you are a lazy fuck, start researching, you are welcome. "How is an ultimatum beta? You read too much into this bullshit." It’s important that you understand what an ultimatum implies. Whenever a person delivers an ultimatum, always understand that this is a declaration of powerlessness. In other words, “I am so out of control in this circumstance you must do this or I will remove either myself or you from the circumstance.” https://therationalmale.com/2012/05/07/ultimatum/
/r/askTRP25/02/17 06:43 AM
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good luck, send him a msg saying you guys are cool, he'll feel guilty about avoiding you
/r/askTRP25/02/17 06:39 AM
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nope. Your post/argument is that kissing for hours throughout the night equates to mind blowing memorable/ world changing sex. This thought process is limited, while kissing does play apart it's one piece and there are more pieces to the puzzle. I've seen many posts on asktrp where the guy mentions "we made out all night, hot and heavy then she won't text me back". "Do this for hours until she is moaning begging to get fucked " what if she never does beg? keep kissing her? LOL
/r/askTRP25/02/17 06:36 AM
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side bar -> redpill problem solver heading -> got a stranger pregnant guide https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3vri4k/you_got_a_stranger_pregnant_a_guide/
/r/askTRP25/02/17 06:16 AM
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low smv attracts low smv just how the smp works bro
/r/askTRP25/02/17 06:13 AM
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ghost
/r/askTRP25/02/17 06:12 AM
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"she told me that she has an STD (which STD doesn't matter)." OP wtf? you are risking your health for a girl you've already smashed who has an std...(if you hadnt smashed then thats another issue 2-3months of time on one chick is too much of an investment with no return). "She started telling me how difficult it has been for her to be intimate with other guys due to being psychologically damaged by her STD." review comfort tests, but i would have ejected here " I basically gave her an ultimatum"…
/r/askTRP25/02/17 06:12 AM
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Do this for hours no way, thats unproductive bro
/r/askTRP25/02/17 05:59 AM
1

std, some type of skin issue
/r/askTRP25/02/17 05:58 AM
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review comfort tests "what do I do if she decides to do this to "tease me" or to just fuck with me a bit?" leave if its at her place, it demonstrates abundance and outcome independence your place, stop completely don't whine or negotiate desire and then do another activity cook, clean, sleep... etc (take away attention from her then watch the hamster spin)
/r/askTRP25/02/17 05:53 AM
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"Am I wrong in being pissed off about this situation?" yes, he'll hamster why he couldn't make it out but ultimately his ego is the issue, he didn't want to choose you over his wife and tell you that its because of her he can't go out. Most likely a power play by her and he wants to remain in her good grace. Your friend didnt know how to handle the situation so he just avoided the potential confrontation(he choose flight). Have a friends like this, it is definitely his fault for allowing this to…
/r/askTRP25/02/17 05:48 AM
1

probably 45
/r/askTRP25/02/17 04:51 AM
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i didnt see it as an admission of guilt Thats the problem YOU don't, think how other people could view it, and your attempts to justify are irrelevant to them. She can twist the story any way and then she can say he acknowledged and apologized for the inappropriate behavior. We are in a world that men(you and I) can be accused of sexual assault based on FEEEELZ with little evidence, do not provide them with ammo.
/r/askTRP25/02/17 04:39 AM
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only if you are high smv will they show strong interest or high relative to her... so the answer to your question is no
/r/askTRP25/02/17 04:34 AM
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"But she kept trying to convince me to hear about her boyfriend but my only response was, No. " her mind trying to hamster what she was doing with you and about to do, you should have just agreed and escalated. she would have hamstered that it was the drinking and smoking as well as her telling you she had a bf that lead to her fucking you, aka not her fault that she fucked you
/r/askTRP25/02/17 04:31 AM
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""im sorry u felt that way" apologizing can be seen as an admission of guilt FYI, I would ignore then soft next for 2-3days. you should kino more during the date, shirt coming off is childs play
/r/askTRP25/02/17 04:27 AM
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You have a lot of pain ahead. A lot. Expect it. This OP, wise words above and on the comments
/r/askTRP25/02/17 03:02 AM
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This is why we do not go red knighting to friends - they are still apart of the system. Matrix quote for you: "The Matrix is a system, Neo. That system is our enemy. But when you're inside, you look around, what do you see? Businessmen, teachers, lawyers, carpenters. The very minds of the people we are trying to save. But until we do, these people are still a part of that system and that makes them our enemy. You have to understand, most of these people are not ready to be unplugged. And many of…
/r/askTRP24/02/17 02:13 AM
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follow your own advice
/r/askTRP23/02/17 09:36 PM
1

"I may die, but some may never live" nice and open ended
/r/askTRP23/02/17 09:17 PM
1

AWALT everywhere, everytime, all the time..
/r/askTRP23/02/17 09:16 PM
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nah just blow your load on her tits
/r/askTRP23/02/17 09:14 PM
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Get more plates. I assume you think it strokes your ego to fuck her all night, what are we talking about? 2,3,4 hours.. That is a waste of time, congratulations you can hold a nut, fuck 1 hour max IMO. Then resume your goals and life mission, I typically like to sleep 7-9 hours, lift, work, fuck other plates and accomplish other things so dedicating 20-25% of my day to sex is unproductive.
/r/askTRP23/02/17 09:12 PM
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high SMV is what i was thinking too
/r/askTRP23/02/17 06:53 PM
1

hahah no, there are other ways to give her attention that don't involve cost
/r/askTRP23/02/17 06:52 PM
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Treat is like a shit test and the post is annoying to read, i have to use a horizontal slide bar.
/r/askTRP23/02/17 06:50 PM
1

hahah don't actually get surgery
/r/askTRP23/02/17 06:42 PM
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"most of advice seemed to have come from people who have never experienced these type of psychological behaviors." Wrong, you are playing yourself the victim card/mentality, we all had our moment of self-enlightenment and ended up searching, as you have, for something more. 1. Stop making excuses, no one cares if you are a purple alien pixie stick figure from pluto with a 1 cm cock who has never seen a pair of tits. start with redpill sidebar - you will want to pay attention to the frame concept…
/r/askTRP23/02/17 06:41 PM
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"I don't game other girl while in LTR but..." mistake, just do it covertly as it maintains her competition anxiety. "what should I respond to the flow of jealous questions?" A&A then change subjects ie. "ya, she proposed to me the other day" then whatever subject or ignore or pressure flip "dunno, why don;t you ask her" ""Don't worry babe, I like you..."" or you got nothing to worry about babe
/r/askTRP23/02/17 06:25 PM
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reading now Edit: Thought Emotions are not the most important aspect in the "game" but definitely a component in it. Would we say the most valuable part in the car is the engine? No, what about the brand, what about the wheels, what about the ....etc. I think this sub would be better if it were placed as a category within an established community.
/r/askTRP23/02/17 06:03 PM
1

sounds like a mix of pua by throwing in some scripted lines with CF attitude
/r/askTRP23/02/17 05:55 PM
2

"nice shoes wanna fuk"
/r/askTRP23/02/17 05:50 PM
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"I had a kid with her a year and a half ago (i know, dont say it)." You fucked up, are you living with her sounds like it? thats another fuck up "Can you see whats wrong here?" Easy you got a plate pregnant, then committed to exclusivity without proper vetting and now she lives with you. I'm assuming you did this out of care for your son, which isn't a bad thing but unrealistic because this isn't what you truly want (we can tell). Essentially you now have restricted yourself by taking care/provi…
/r/askTRP23/02/17 05:48 PM
1

change (4)her to (12) her
/r/askTRP23/02/17 05:37 PM
0

" they asked if I'm happy with $X Salary. I said yes" WOW! They asked you this, and you said yes? This is a huge tell/hint that they were willing to offer you more. I would honestly counter this by informing them that another job/current role has matched this offer and then throw in a new salary and then your benefit. most people are afraid that countering/asking means that a company will rescind it offer. Think of the bigger picture here: a multiple billion/million dollar company doesn't give a…
/r/askTRP23/02/17 05:30 PM
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We don't even consider LDRs. Why? The only source of your intimacy is 3000 miles away and she'll be preparing to branch swing while hoping to lock down her alpha/beta. Besides we dont cheat when we are in relationships so this would limit grow in your new area. " Is there a way to keep her happy/believing that it's a possibility in the meantime to maintain the relationship?" No, I recommend being honest with her and saying that exclusivity is something that we can no longer do. Then start prepar…
/r/askTRP23/02/17 05:20 PM
2

throw the football* She dresses athletically, tease her about having small hands, show of some of my skills and the best part... my error throws to make her chase after it ;)
/r/askTRP23/02/17 05:10 PM
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I suspect that her number is much higher than she is leading on and that 20 is more of a misdirection. Not that it matters anyway
/r/askTRP23/02/17 05:07 PM
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Honestly, I expect the actually number to be higher too after reading the thread, a girl knows what a high number is and throwing out 20 was just to probe him.
/r/askTRP23/02/17 05:05 PM
0

friends shouldnt be cockblocking you
/r/askTRP23/02/17 07:51 AM
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don't go on dinner dates, do something cost free, interactive and something to show off your skills, ie I play tennis or throw a football around with them
/r/askTRP23/02/17 07:47 AM
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covert communication, you should know shes flirting with you, a girl who feels no emotion for you dgaf.
/r/askTRP23/02/17 07:45 AM
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the attitude is just a buffer against you rejecting them, she know that she is lower quality. Thus rejecting you boosts her ego and prevents her self-esteem from taking a hit.
/r/askTRP23/02/17 07:43 AM
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Should have vetted her more properly and framed it that this was unacceptable behavior.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 11:38 PM
1

hahahahahahahahha
/r/askTRP22/02/17 09:08 PM
1

why not go for an associates degree at a local college, you can get it done within a year for relatively cheap and do it online. edit: To circumvent the degree you should also consider networking, as the college degree just get you to the door and having connections as well as people vouching for you can go along way.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 08:07 PM
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ignore .. you both already know the answer
/r/askTRP22/02/17 08:05 PM
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"what time am I picking you up" (implied you guys are still on for the date) "still down to rob the casino of $$$ tn?" (little humor to get a y/n) "Im going to steal you from the HS event and then we are going to steal come casino $" (implied mixed with humor) you can come up with your own variatio, but it ties nicely with the casino, her function and money
/r/askTRP22/02/17 06:12 PM
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set up logistics with text, escalate in person, then smash .. sidebar material here
/r/askTRP22/02/17 06:05 PM
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k imma gonna recommend dat u jus stop talkn 2 her cuz u needi as fuk bro. y u supplicating n buyn her shit lik beer? next her azz then setup up betta logistics next time bruh. remember briffault's 1st law that cuz u invested a gud nite in her dont mean she owes u anythang in da future ... u dig? U cant b all mad n shit u know brochacho?? beta b emotional n shit, jus dont b so hard on yo-self.. u got dis!
/r/askTRP22/02/17 06:02 PM
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Where did you find this? Prove it. Male optimal sex strategy: spread his seed to as man partners as possible Female optimal sex strategy: mate with the best genes(alpha) and secure a provider with many resources/security(beta)
/r/askTRP22/02/17 05:57 PM
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Hopefully english isn't your first language, my 12 year old sister writes lik dis inna a txt msg cuz itz ez 2 communication cuz she a lazy fuk.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 05:53 PM
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Agree, not much more to add other than I never would consider a woman like this much more than a plate, she's more damaged than you know. While it is tragic of her loss that is not your problem and you should not want to inherit hers.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 05:47 PM
2

A&A then change subjects or completely ignore it
/r/askTRP22/02/17 05:18 PM
1

"I read and read and read for months on end the knowledge you guys had to offer." You have read but not learned anything, who gives a fuck what she thinks and your weakness is an insecurity that she will sense and thus leave you for. You are making this im a virgin and sex with her a big issue and its probably giving you anxiety, go workout or do something to take your mind off it. I get the impression this is a troll post
/r/askTRP22/02/17 04:44 PM
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"Haha, are you 15yo?" Oh the contradiction... Dont swear at me but I can call you a kid and then you continue to swear. Just an emotional condescending reply that adds no value, FYI ;)
/r/askTRP22/02/17 04:34 PM
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yes he does need to swear, you are being sensitive and this ENDORSED contributor is potentially saving you 20k, a massive hassle and a friendship
/r/askTRP22/02/17 04:03 PM
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Agreed he wants you to risk 100% of your money with only a 2% return, makes no sense, your "friend" is not someone you should do business with.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 04:01 PM
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Irrelevant post, everyone's ego-investment can justify them crushing it. Many people have different purposes as well as being at different stages at life, don't worry about the keyboard warriors
/r/askTRP22/02/17 03:58 PM
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tell her, soft next for a week then reduce her to place status, LTR is comfortable but you don't really want exclusivity otherwise you wouldn't have cheated. You friends will use you cheating as leverage and hold you hostage to it which keeps you in a constant state of anxiety. You fucked up, better to deal with it now then when you least expect it in the future.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 03:55 PM
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take it.. push yourself out of that comfort zone
/r/askTRP22/02/17 03:51 PM
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she was going to fuck you, then the alpha call made her hamster a quick "my friend..." line. shes not yours, just wait your turn
/r/askTRP22/02/17 03:43 PM
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"I'm a young buck well on my way to becoming an alpha." Cringe worthy "have experience doing an unpaid internship transcribing." no one values that skill hence why they don't pay for it "was wondering if anyone had any good ideas as to where to look for online jobs involving transcribing, preferably with a quota or commission system instead of hourly pay." seriously invest in a new skill set "I know it's not a typical question on here, but I figured you guys might be tired of all these posts abo…
/r/askTRP22/02/17 02:37 PM
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"Anyway even before I was in this position I felt guilty about how easily I could have anyone I wanted. " Innately as a man we want to optimize our sexual strategy, spread our seed to many women. You understand the game, do not feel guilty, the female imperative attempts to constrain our true nature. Women and our BP bothers push down our throats that this is manipulating and you are monstrous. Side note: While mitigating our optimal sexual strategy this also services to optimize the female stra…
/r/askTRP22/02/17 02:03 PM
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"I am immediately put in the alpha male status." How did you draw this conclusion? Alphas don't need to say this overtly. "But it's also clear that she expects me to steal her away from him." Implied attraction is a good mindset "it is clear I have to initate a possible drama. To be honest, that's fine for me." why this approach? " Any strategy tips?" I would take the opposite strategy and befriend the guy, he's probably a cool dude and its possible his gf would have cute friends. They would pro…
/r/askTRP22/02/17 01:55 PM
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TLDR: OP is the victim and hamsters that it's everyone else's faulty instead of taking accountability. "I have been hitting the gym (slowed down recently due to the rain and midterms)." Look at you hamster away, you can post on reddit but not get a 45min workout in? We are not stupid. "Right now I'm in college but am at a commuter school and am not in a social fraternity, so parties aren't really a good option for me. I do have friends from a service fraternity that I am in, but everyone keeps t…
/r/askTRP22/02/17 01:49 PM
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He has an ego investment that being isolated is not beneficial therefore this coping mechanism is sarcasm. He has yet to explain why he feels this way because he knows it's irrational.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 01:39 PM
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"What happens if I don't give a fuck? " stress greatly reduced "Would I be socially isolated?" no, its an attractive quality if you stay humble and aren't reckless while being stoic, outcome independent and idgaf "It feels like I'll be very alone if idgaf." good, eventually you start to realize that no one gives a fuck about you, maybe your family. Unfortunately, I didnt have the luxury of the latter, so it amplified how quickly I needed to get much shit together.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 01:36 PM
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"Did not even bother checking up on me after a friend told her I tried to kill myself. " Attention seeking and only reinforces why she left you, emotionally unstable. "I have met a better girl now" find more "that they can walk out with no remorse for their actions because that's just the way they are " hypergamy - AWALT How do I push out the women are evil thing out of my head? The female Imperative preaches to us that women are sweet, nurturing and caring. What this does to BP men is create an…
/r/askTRP22/02/17 01:30 PM
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"She's going away for a week tomorrow. Should I just ignore her while she's away and text her asking her to come over when she's back?" yup On LTR - just don't promise her exclusivity and be covertly honest about seeing other people if she asks
/r/askTRP22/02/17 01:17 PM
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"Will she always be thinking of the biggest or best partner from time to time?" yes, nothing you can do and eventually she'll sense this insecurity "And how does that affect your future with her?" she's not yours it just your turn
/r/askTRP22/02/17 01:11 PM
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Monk mode, you dont need to justify anything to a post wall hb8 with a kid who's been divorced, time to focus on yourself. If you want to tell her something say that you're busy for the next couple of months.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 06:25 AM
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She was fucking you because you were her alpha, another alpha with higher smv came along and she started fucking him. Now that he didn't commit she's back to you and figured that she's paid her dues for an LTR. Women don't just stop fucking you for no reason then randomly start back up and demand an LTR. Also when women overtly demand an LTR is because they feel powerless and want to regain control. In your example, she was weaponizing sex as an exchange for commitment (red flag).
/r/askTRP22/02/17 05:42 AM
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absolutely, to protect yourself physically but also in case she gets ideas and claims Domestic violence or whatever her hamster comes up with.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 05:36 AM
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you are making this way too big of a deal, dont text her back as that comes across as needy and don't mention to her that shes cute (beta move) or that she ignored you. talk to more chicks, you need abundance
/r/askTRP22/02/17 05:34 AM
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TLDR: OP has oneitis "So there is this girl in my school and she is literally my dream woman. " OP read: "there's this one girl" top link sidebar
/r/askTRP21/02/17 11:58 PM
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"yea" then change subjects
/r/askTRP21/02/17 11:50 PM
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just the common victim mentality.. why can't I be tall why can't I be a leader of a sports team why am I brown why am I getting old I'm only going to be a doctor . wahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!
/r/askTRP21/02/17 10:24 PM
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You are probably overwhelmed by how shit deep you are and realized that you have a LONG road ahead to get your shit together. What you need to do is have a game plan, for you start small, write out a daily schedule and do it. Should be simple to build that confidence and then you can add to it. I'm not going to tell you anymore, research monk mode, if you truly want to change then doing this is the beginning. side Tips to increase motivation: good diet(keto highly highly recommended), lifting an…
/r/askTRP21/02/17 10:20 PM
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When it comes to the GFs of your buddies: listen to their actions not their words When it comes to your buddies look at how they change for the worse over time alpha to beta, increasing SMV is how we counter this hopefully they don't make their gfs their purpose. Don't get a gf because they have one and dont go red knighting them
/r/askTRP21/02/17 10:14 PM
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that dives more into living with an LTR but that is correct.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 10:03 PM
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I've been nearly stabbed by woman so details kinda matter. Your post should've provided more context so we can provide you more as well. I treat all women the same because they are regardless of what their hobbies are.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 10:02 PM
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You should have already joined a gym by now and you have free time to post on reddit. Anyway, at the gym i'm in hulk mode and do not associate with women during the workouts. I'll bless them with my conversation and presence before or after. I tend to find it cringe worthy when kids game women at the gym, but that's just me.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 09:52 PM
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""do you want to make it up to me"" bad you can't negotiate desire She used the disagreement as a means to bail on you, which in my experience means that either she wasn't into you or a better option came along. I would have her come make dinner with me at my apartment, and do not emotionally or monetary invest any more into her.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 09:44 PM
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"It's not like all my time in the gym will be with her btw" Look at you hamster away! Joining a gym because a girl mentions it and using it as a date to escalate with her... Honestly, you should expect harsh criticism with this post your mindset is not in the right place. Don't ask me why, it's time for you to start your homework.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 09:39 PM
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"What's the difference between online whoring and irl whoring?" little difference "but I'd say it's about as different as having an online gf and a real one for a gamer guy." big difference No gamer/youtube girls are not different than other girls they turned their hobby into a business and get paid for likes and views.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 09:32 PM
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I'd like to rip them away from that energy drain but I've never heard of anyone doing it. red knighting - very common and we highly recommend against it Gaming is a waste of time for guys, if you do it for profit than fine.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 09:24 PM
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trp: self improve and better understanding of inter-gender relations tbp: cast doubt on our purpose because they have been raised to believe others ways and their ego-investment does not allow them to see what we preach.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 09:19 PM
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The reason is competition anxiety, she no longer has to compete with other women because she is your only source of sexual intimacy. She then shapes up again looking to attract the best provider man possible while fucking the alpha. while AWALT it depends on a lot of factors an important one being age, at some point she'll value the provider/ security more of a bb because she can't retain the alpha. The way to counter this to remain high SMV and to vet your plates properly then employ dread thro…
/r/askTRP21/02/17 09:18 PM
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"What's the adulterated truth here?" you can post questions here after reading the rp sidebar, how do we know you joined 6 days ago and haven't read it? (see your comment below ) "It sounds like after 25 women just look for rich guys to date as beta bucks. " How did you decide age 25? "A lot of guys" which guys? on here RP? .. prove it Check out the SMV graphs displays the women's peak years/wall "date just rich guys" post wall women will be looking for providers as they can no longer attract al…
/r/askTRP21/02/17 08:45 PM
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Just a photo of a conversation? Thank you for providing no context, how can we even try to help you? is she a LTR/plate/have you fucked her?
/r/askTRP21/02/17 08:32 PM
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She said i have a lack of humility and i should improve that. Did she provide you a specific example or just leave it this ambiguous? it's the former then its probably one or two people who complain about you, if it's the latter then it's a non-issue and just to make you aware.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 08:07 PM
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what kind of work do you do?
/r/askTRP21/02/17 07:53 PM
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"I don't think he wants help" Wait till he wants help, this is from experience, usually something has to happen to tigger this need for help. ie jail, health scare or money issues
/r/askTRP21/02/17 07:20 PM
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So let's start by asking what do you think the problem is? You get shit done and probably make your boss look good, sounds like you are a valuable employee. Why was this brought up?
/r/askTRP21/02/17 07:18 PM
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you are right, and this is an irrelevant post
/r/askTRP21/02/17 07:15 PM
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This is slightly breaking the rules but if you played it off well it might work Tell him that someone recommended "The rational male" by Rollo Tomassi, side note you should read this too.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 07:12 PM
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So tell us the RP concept you have applied to your life? I am asking this because when you have embraced them you have the abundance, idgaf, prize, and outcome independence mindset. Then "liquid gold" covered with diamond crusted words flow out of your mouth. Go to PUA if you want more frame work
/r/askTRP21/02/17 07:05 PM
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referencing the rational male: At some point a woman will resort to overt communications when she’s run out of options in her covert communications tool set. This is the point the anxiety becomes unbearable and the need for security forces her to be overt. This is usually the stage at which she’s ask something direct like, “where is this going?” or “am I your girlfriend?” or she may even give you an ultimatum. See this for what it is, she feels powerless and this is a press to commit. So, what s…
/r/askTRP21/02/17 06:34 PM
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Never risk your health for a woman, we have an abundance of them, onto the next.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 06:27 PM
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agree. Iron rule of Tomassi #7
/r/askTRP21/02/17 06:24 PM
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"I'd like to provide him some kind of edification to stiffen his worldview but I don't know where to start." Go ahead, in a couple weeks/months your next post will be how to get my friend back after attempting to change his ego-investment of his career choices and worldviews. You are attempting to play the red knight, no matter how covert or overt you are.... a red knight is a red knight, you need to focus on yourself. We all ended up here through self-enlightenment, one day his choices may brin…
/r/askTRP21/02/17 06:23 PM
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" I can tell it's false " So can everyone else, if he holds frame then he won't come off as much of a BB, but doing it obnoixously comes across as try hard. Internalizing an alpha mindset to be innate comes with time, look into idgaf, abundance, outcome independence and being stoic.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 03:41 PM
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we are a couple decades away from that and even with all the resources here on TRP most member don't study/do their rp homework.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 03:34 PM
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" I'm still a virgin at the age of (nearly) 19 despite having high SMV through physical attractiveness, social proof, and social skills." Be honest with yourself here, you will have to put aside your ego-investment of being high smv and come to grips that its much lower than you think (this is a good start for you). "I think that I've always had a natural instinct for being cocky and funny, and having "alpha game" because of my Russian sense of humour which works super well with Canadian girls" …
/r/askTRP20/02/17 08:10 PM
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what I'm asking is why the descriptions of interactions on that sub are more lighthearted and less macho aggressive than what's described here on trp this is your subjective analysis, do you have specific examples from each community? "I'm wondering when someone who's following fairly blue pill advice on that sub starts employing the "sexist" methods espoused here, sexist only to those plugged in" was that a question? Here we preach self-improvement and better understanding of inter-gender relat…
/r/askTRP20/02/17 07:49 PM
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brew the other options, keep pushing yourself to find fresh meat, you trained a girl(s) in your past and you can do it again.
/r/askTRP20/02/17 06:55 PM
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you will need to provide way more context because you assume we know what that community says. Also elaborate on what you think we mean by treating women like children so we understand what you know about this concept.
/r/askTRP20/02/17 06:45 PM
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Don't talk to women around him and just understand that he is bp/beta bux, don't take it personal
/r/askTRP20/02/17 06:40 PM
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"The thing is she might leave her boyfriend" not your problem, don't promise or commit to a relationship "try to make me her oneitis only you can do this to yourself, review plate theory
/r/askTRP20/02/17 06:37 PM
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"My height makes me feel inferior" own it like a boss, women can sense insecurity like a 30day unflushed shit "When I go out and I get about 5 shots into me, I transform. " nah you just change your frame into what it should always be : abundance/idgaf " if I don't have a girl by my side I feel like a failure. Its sad and a very negative attitude." yes it us... outcome independence/idgaf and having plates solve this "Behind the scenes I suffer with depression" besides what i mentioned, working on…
/r/askTRP20/02/17 06:34 PM
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put a TL/DR at the top - as in edit that in now
/r/askTRP20/02/17 06:28 PM
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great response, use that for higher smv women too, creates mystery and comes off as IDGAF which spins the hamster.
/r/askTRP20/02/17 06:26 PM
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time for you to read about plate theory/abundance and idgaf
/r/askTRP20/02/17 06:24 PM
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You are her alpha, until she finds a new one you'll have access to her sexually.
/r/askTRP20/02/17 06:22 PM
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we don't argue with children, most women act like children
/r/askTRP20/02/17 02:47 PM
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deserves more like this comment
/r/askTRP20/02/17 02:42 PM
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My mom posts borderline racist shit, whatever, but recently this girl took major offense. And after having a talk today we broke up You not going to like my thought. She was fucking someone else, and the thought of commitment to her was nice in the moment when you proposed. She realized that she didn't want to be engaged and sought out an excuse to break off the engagement. I dated a chick who was a hard core liberal as well as her parents, but I told them I wanted trump. Never broke the frame o…
/r/askTRP20/02/17 02:36 PM
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Trap. I'm going to give you a clue: "At some point a woman will resort to overt communications when she’s run out of options in her covert communications tool set." TRM Ask yourself how did she come to this point and why she is requesting an LTR, then you'll have your answer.
/r/askTRP20/02/17 02:26 PM
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So i'm curious why you both are apart of this "racist" sub and continue reaching out for advice?
/r/askTRP19/02/17 05:54 PM
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"hi are you her bodyguard this evening Really good idea if you want to instigate a fight, I just introduce myself then start/continue talking to her while giving her a majority of my eye contact (80/20%). Keep in mind that most of those dude can be obiters willing to throw down to show off or prove their "love" for her. Sparking interest and walking away is also a good tactic, creates mystery.
/r/askTRP19/02/17 05:47 PM
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I can understand the different approaches when choosing to fuck an exgf and when not too. I am however more partial to walking away for a couple reasons, revenge implies that you are still emotionally invested and can be used to mitigate how much she embarrassed and humiliated you (It can never be undone). That time you spent re-initiating, talking, meeting up and fucking her could have been better used on finding/developing new plates. There is also the risk of STDs as you know she slept around…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/17 02:08 PM
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"You said 'platonically' back there, I'm not really looking to be your friend, I'm looking for more than that." Mistake, you were confrontational and overt about your desires with her, you passed the test by ignoring it. The next conversation is entering the realm of negotiated desire which never works in our favor. Even though she didn't kiss you there was something else that you did wrong. Not information in the post to tell but If i had to guess it would be how you "set up" the k-close. As fa…
/r/askTRP19/02/17 11:29 AM
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Don't post pictures of your degraded health on facebook, IMO, it looks like a childish attempt to gain sympathy and comes across as attention seeking. "sent him a short fb message saying if he believed that any of my actions were wrong or I somehow betrayed the group then he's an immature loser (hes 23-24 I am 27), has a lot to learn and If that's the case I don't have time for that low level trash." Actually this is immature of you, the more correct approach would have been ignoring or ghosting…
/r/askTRP19/02/17 11:15 AM
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"The point is college in my country is cheap compared to the US (like maybe 10k for a bachelor)." Definitely go to college, preferably a major in a stem related field, the cost you mentioned is very low and definitely worth it. The choice you have is between hard(stem) and soft(sales) skills, and the later can be trained to anyone which makes you less valuable.
/r/askTRP19/02/17 11:06 AM
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nice, just bring her a racquet too and stand a couple feet from the net and bop the ball over, literally no skill involved and you can kino (foot stance, grip on racquet, positioning on court)
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 09:36 PM
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in college I did freesbie, tennis and roller blading then drinks then told her we were playing N64 mario kart (plausible deniability)
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 09:08 PM
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I factor in cost when it comes to dates, you like movies... go with a male friend
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 09:05 PM
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they try to control men because it's our optimal sexual strategy to spread the seed. "hate it when they can control us" because we aren't the strong alpha male they thought we were "love it when they can't" because we are the strong alpha male and its caffeinates their hamster
/r/askTRP18/02/17 09:03 PM
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"plans for a movie date this Sunday." Bad idea, static and not interactive
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 08:18 PM
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what do you mean?
/r/askTRP18/02/17 06:46 PM
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I am a penguin who lifts all day and has impeccable game ! SMV 10 out of 10! Yet there is no mention of how penguins get laid?? YOU ARE all ANIMALISTS! You other members don't discuss this because you want to hold us penguins back :O
/r/askTRP18/02/17 06:44 PM
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haha ya that works then change subjects.. You can then tease her later about being a pedo
/r/askTRP18/02/17 06:32 PM
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np
/r/askTRP18/02/17 06:31 PM
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radio silence a period during which one hears anything from a normally communicative person or group. ghost definition: The practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication. Reason & benifit to ghost 3rd point in post: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2pb4fs/everything_you_need_to_know_about_shit_tests/ Another benefit: section on ghosting https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/4mt89q/the_6_stages_of_…
/r/askTRP18/02/17 06:25 PM
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side bar askhole https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2pb4fs/everything_you_need_to_know_about_shit_tests/
/r/askTRP18/02/17 06:11 PM
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"Does ghosting or radio silence mean ignoring them completely or just not initiating and keeping conversations short when they do initiate? What's the purpose of ghosting and why is it beneficial?" BROOOOO..do you want the fish or be taught how to fish?
/r/askTRP18/02/17 06:09 PM
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"Too old for you" then change the subject, never answer this question, it keeps her curious about you.
/r/askTRP18/02/17 06:06 PM
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befriend the cockblocks at the beginning
/r/askTRP18/02/17 03:47 PM
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your message game is really cringe worthy and corny. see below: https://archive.is/t96gU
/r/askTRP18/02/17 03:46 PM
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look at your sleep schedule, diet and lift hard, but it appears as though it could be more of a mental issue. Try to stay away from touching your penis and watching any type of porn
/r/askTRP18/02/17 01:44 PM
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block all forms of communication and social media to her
/r/askTRP18/02/17 01:28 PM
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Are you a man or are you a bitch, is the question you should be asking yourself. Your gf has been extremely disrespectful and probably resents you more than you know because she thought you were an apha and now you just let her walk all over you. A minimum soft next is required, then you'll have to look at yourself and ask if its worth the time to repair. Any tantrum is a soft next to negatively reinforce that behavior. Girls night out is a boundary you should've set early, nice post here: https…
/r/askTRP18/02/17 01:27 PM
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If im going to be honest this appears to be the beginning of the end, you are in an LTR and not getting laid? "dating for over 2 years, rather not break up over something petty but we never even hangout anymore. Or fuck, which goes hand in hand with hanging out" Bro if she isn't fucking you and she's mildly attractive then you need to be honest with yourself.
/r/askTRP18/02/17 09:22 AM
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"She's quite overweight" NEXT
/r/askTRP18/02/17 12:00 AM
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learn and study comfort tests, lots of good material on theredpill sub
/r/askTRP17/02/17 10:43 PM
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"ONEITIS, NEXT" ;) but seriously.. NEXT
/r/askTRP17/02/17 06:22 PM
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She's probably flunking the class... interesting thought
/r/askTRP17/02/17 06:11 PM
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you are purposely confusing everyone, you smashed your boys exe, then it became a competition with boy V to smash her. You must be close with your main boy to avoid the question I asked as well as not tell him. This is what you know the community would be disappointed with, BROs>HO
/r/askTRP17/02/17 05:59 PM
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1st look up comfort tests 2nd look up shit tests (understand the difference) 3rd work on dread I could give you the answers but if you went to theredpill subreddit and typed in those words then read the post, it provides a wealth of knowledge.
/r/askTRP17/02/17 04:21 PM
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(just so I understand) So you were originally competing for this chick with him, then justified your boys cheating to bang her?
/r/askTRP17/02/17 03:59 PM
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Hold frame that nothing happened and the touching was consensual. Maintain stoic and IDGAF attitude, you must attend class, if she skips its her problem. No one is likely to believe your story so just maintain the above mindset, if it gets legal then only talk to a lawyer. edit: as a side thought your lecturer shouldnt be getting involved, if this affects your grades you may have to go higher up at your school
/r/askTRP17/02/17 03:44 PM
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No, out of the question for me, also I don't want to deal with their real parents and potential genetic health issues.
/r/askTRP17/02/17 03:24 PM
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"She's assured me that I will not need to pay a single cent to support the child." For the love of god do not believe this, if the children see you as a father figure this could backfire with a decent lawyer "What is TRP's opinion on raising a child that's NOT(you should edit this in) genetically yours?" seriously, you are asking if we believe in cucking ourselves ?
/r/askTRP17/02/17 03:15 PM
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she assaulted you bro
/r/askTRP17/02/17 03:12 PM
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How close is your relationship between you and your boy, must be close not to tell him
/r/askTRP17/02/17 02:46 PM
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Sounds like you got out of a bad situation, I'd be curious if this has happened before or you are leaving out crucial information
/r/askTRP17/02/17 02:44 PM
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follow the money, how did they get ahold of the coke and who paid for it? If they didn't pay for it then HUGE red flag, your chicks probably fucked for it. Where were the kids?
/r/askTRP17/02/17 02:38 PM
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Sounds like you are depressed tbh, if you feel that you have achieved your goals you may look to set harder ones.
/r/askTRP17/02/17 02:14 PM
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"I don't enjoy the grind/struggle/pain." This is a troubling statement, it to me implies that you will one day revert back to old habits or cease your growth, potentially ruining your LTR. Any tips on how to enjoy the grind? You are a man, therefore we do not ask why we grind, but give us the strength to grind longer and harder. Would you rather be a women? Is this what life is? Life is what you make of it. Why would you want this for your children? To show them the path that few know, we are th…
/r/askTRP17/02/17 11:27 AM
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careful with cohabitation laws too
/r/askTRP17/02/17 11:20 AM
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Goodluck, you are at more of a cross road than you know, as I had a similar choice. To get in that car is plugging yourself back into the matrix, the old blue pill ways, there is nothing to be gained from her other than a quick hate hump and dump after talking about FEEEELLLZ.
/r/askTRP17/02/17 10:56 AM
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"they have no idea I am seeing or talking to her (hate her)." So it's now secretive and you are still emotionally invested, I'm assuming she broke up with you hence the hate. She's returning back to her beta, just be careful that you don't continue to fall for her tricks "How would you guys approach this situation from getting in the car to me being dropped back at my place? " IMO, you shouldn't get in that car, you can hamster around saying you want sex or you already made plans with her. but w…
/r/askTRP17/02/17 10:41 AM
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just ignore her, you are over thinking
/r/askTRP17/02/17 10:34 AM
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agreed: revenge = caring caring =emotional investment emotional invest = beta
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 09:44 AM
2

yes she was teasing/flirting with you
/r/askTRP17/02/17 02:47 AM
2

Horrible frame and handling of her shit, ie turning her head, just ignore that shit and move on. I wouldn't have had a second date, too much work for a chick who isn't interested
/r/askTRP17/02/17 02:09 AM
5

everyone starts somewhere and you can ask how to get better, I usually train my girls. Maybe you need a more dominate man to take charge and do what he wants.
/r/askTRP17/02/17 01:56 AM
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riding the CC greatly reduces your value, I understand were you are coming from but you should try to gain experience with one partner. For example, If i know a chick rode the CC that instantly removes her from LTR/marriage material
/r/askTRP17/02/17 01:38 AM
1

nah easy game .. why? AWALT
/r/askTRP17/02/17 12:27 AM
15

I try to avoid fighting in general, a chick is never worth a potential health risk or a permanent assault charge on my record. Might depend on the girl's status with me too.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 12:22 AM
1

You definitely still have a chance with this chick, just recalibrate, talk to new chicks and try her again later. Nexting her for a couple days could work to your benefit greatly as she'll be hamstering over why you haven't texted. GL
/r/askTRP17/02/17 12:18 AM
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"Should I straight up talk to her if she does it again, and tell her "well what have you done for me? how have you brought value into my life?" "you're not the same person I began dating" "You dont look like you're having a good time when with me" and then walk away?" No doesn't accomplish anything more than just walking away anyway. You should have vetted her before entering an LTR, I'm assuming you LTR'd her to bang her? you dirty dawg
/r/askTRP17/02/17 12:14 AM
2

Reality makes lunatics of us all, but only those with the eyes to see and the ego to spare ever embrace it unconditionally.
/r/askTRP17/02/17 12:11 AM
6

Reality makes lunatics of us all, but only those with the eyes to see and the ego to spare ever embrace it unconditionally.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 12:09 AM
1

this Just remember men are the gatekeepers of commitment so unless you agree to an LTR then just keep fucking. Never have a women weaponize her pussy to get you to commit.
/r/askTRP17/02/17 12:07 AM
1

"Her: Ya...I don't know that that's a good idea...😒 Me: What do you mean? You don't want to watch Gilmore girls with me over a glass of wine? I need to find out if Rory marries Luke!" shit test failed, your invite to get her over was very overt and saying "wanna bang at my condo" would've yielded a better result. Now, her response is just a common shit test which you flopped on hard, you were being logical which never equates to getting laid. First, you should remember the cardinal text rule 3/2…
/r/askTRP16/02/17 11:57 PM
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You called it, she wants to branch swing and was afraid to lose her alpha, just a soft next should do. Longer if needed, just trust your gut and don't commit to anything.
/r/askTRP16/02/17 11:35 PM
1

I agree SMV is very important, in his rant above the latter portion of the comment reminds me of PUA. Dress nice, fake this (confidence)or make it look like that(Alpha/apex), is one sexual strategy. I'm assuming Jax has studied to some degree pua that has worked for him and has bought into SMV concepts
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 11:31 PM
3

My personal rule is to limit fucking chicks below my SMV, as I believe doing so lowers mine
/r/askTRP16/02/17 11:08 PM
1

I was a blue piller who would badger women to hang out with me... if you keep having to ask and she isn't accepting, she isn't into you. this OP, women who are into you dont confuse you
/r/askTRP16/02/17 11:07 PM
1

side thought: in your text convo you mention how frustrated you are with her, don't do this, that brings up the pua lingo term - AFC. But on the RP side it demonstrates neediness and scarcity. Take her on a date that's more active, involves kino and plays to your strengths, if you can get 2/3 from the above do that with her. as for the text respond, just tease her and say she didn't meet the job requirements or HR determined she was a crazy. You are breaking frame in your text convo as well lol …
/r/askTRP16/02/17 11:06 PM
3

"Your ex doesn't care about you now and didn't care about you when you left. " truth
/r/askTRP16/02/17 10:13 PM
1

check out this blog https://therationalmale.com/
/r/askTRP16/02/17 10:11 PM
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This won't make you feel better but you need it. I understand your pain, my exgf was fucking my roommate and then dated for six years, that shit hurt to see them together. But we are men and thus we must continue pushing forward, listed somethings you can start today. delete ALL contacts with her - phone, email, social media dont skip rule #1 sign up for the gym and start heavy lifting - start today 5x5 training program is best read the rp side bar and then read the rational male blog or books s…
/r/askTRP16/02/17 10:04 PM
2

what do you want us to tell you?
/r/askTRP16/02/17 09:56 PM
12

I asked about this workout schedule not what you think i'm implying by the question.
/r/askTRP16/02/17 09:54 PM
2

Definitely go, bring a plate of possible review some rp concepts stoic, idgaf,outcome independence
/r/askTRP16/02/17 09:51 PM
1

tell chicks you have a gf implies pre-selection
/r/askTRP16/02/17 09:50 PM
2

"ya, i know"
/r/askTRP16/02/17 09:42 PM
2

I know this comment of hers flatters you so I won't stroke your ego too much. Basically her friends get wet over you and multiple females attracted to the same guy amplify their attraction to him. Chick probably told you this to gauge your reaction.
/r/askTRP16/02/17 09:37 PM
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what's your workout/lifting schedule like?
/r/askTRP16/02/17 09:32 PM
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I've been rejected a lot to the point where i no longer feel that anxiety you speak of, but it's a skill you need to practice (approaching). What you eventually find out is that the fear of rejection is worse than the rejection. I just think of myself as the prize and act outcome independent/dgaf.
/r/askTRP16/02/17 09:30 PM
3

preselection - good thing
/r/askTRP16/02/17 09:23 PM
1

be worthy enough to get to a date another day mindset is the 1st issue I see, she should be the one worthy enough of taking up your time.
/r/askTRP16/02/17 09:22 PM
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go and bring a plate, review idgaf, abundance and stoic concepts
/r/askTRP16/02/17 09:20 PM
3

so what's your question?
/r/askTRP16/02/17 09:14 PM
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revenge reply comment = caring caring = emotional investment emotional investment = beta Your post reinforces our belief of your weak beta faggot ass
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 08:36 PM
1

changing sleep 8-9 hours, stretching, working out, diet, noflap, no porn, no alcohol helped me
/r/askTRP16/02/17 07:00 PM
0

I think you did well, maybe avoid family death jokes, the female crying was just doing it for attention she probably had other things going on in her life. As for the bouncer kicking you out, they do that for the power and ego trip, the girls probably flirted with him then asked to kick you out. Good move on the bouncers part, a decent bouncer would have pulled one of those chicks.
/r/askTRP16/02/17 06:54 PM
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Nice, you must be running some tight game, just tell her next time: "Babe you got nothing to worry about" check this out: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/5p4w3u/be_careful_of_being_too_alpha_comfort_tests_are/
/r/askTRP16/02/17 06:45 PM
2

if you are gay and want this dude there is an altTRP otherwise act like nothing is going on
/r/askTRP16/02/17 05:47 PM
1

agreed we never live with our LTRs, hopefully you aren't getting cucked
/r/askTRP16/02/17 05:44 PM
2

"Am i too butthurt ?" yes
/r/askTRP16/02/17 05:43 PM
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Interesting, I wouldn't tell her and wait it out a couple days, at this point she knows that you know she's mad because her roommate told you. I'm thinking that your texts to her should be you setting up logistics, expect a shit and/or comfort test coming when you guys meet.
/r/askTRP16/02/17 05:41 PM
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You had the right idea in the 2nd paragraph, what makes it difficult for him is that he is living with her, so he needs to sack up then kick her out or leave himself.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 01:39 PM
0

OP I was curious about your other postings on reddit, you seem to be an avid follower of WOW, ForHonor and GhostRecon subreddits. " I'd you want to be your own fucking man stop having other cunts on the Internet tell you how to be one hey? " Maybe we should play WOW, ForHonor and GhostRecon like you? get me some beta codes bro Please wait for the redpill to digest, you would benefit greatly from this community and what it has to offer. Your anger is only a buffer to the realization that you have…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 10:28 AM
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Excellent question, think about what mindset OP should have and why he is telling this to her, you are on the right track. Then you'll know how to handle it.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 10:11 AM
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View girls as children in a sense. good advice, im using this
/r/askTRP16/02/17 08:43 AM
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I don't want to doxx myself but back before this chick was a playmate her and I had a fling in college. She's the 1% of the 1%, now after college I have to continue working on my SMV because of the competition in the real world but looks only play a fraction with or against men. Continue to lift and pursue your mission.
/r/askTRP16/02/17 08:41 AM
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haha, good catch, she could be the born again Unicorn (cue eye roll)
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 08:35 AM
1

Chick who doesn't talk to anyone, says she doesn't want to be touched then tells you to fuck off/not talk to her because of a light touch... sounds like a deeper issue. Keep in mind that dancing is most likely one of her hobbies and then she acts like this is very concerning and should not be taken lightly. I had a strong hunch while reading this she could have been sexually abused in the past, while I don't want to assume anything I was curious of what others thoughts were.
/r/askTRP16/02/17 08:33 AM
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" Only now she has requirement of 40 years I guess. " shit test and a buffer against rejection because she can't attract younger guy, she may also be used to younger guys hitting on her for the MILF fantasy. " I did ask her if she wants to go to the movies or to eat but she said no." movies is fucking terrible(static staring at a screen) and dinner puts way too much pressure on you guys(think of it like an interview). You have some work to do, all dates should be active with you in your element …
/r/askTRP16/02/17 08:09 AM
2

provide us a FR of the last girl that did this to you
/r/askTRP16/02/17 08:03 AM
1

Try to stay away from office romance, just my opinion. 1st chick. why are you meeting her every day and for hours? It displays that your time isn't valuable and you are definitely putting yourself in the friendzone. This will be further amplified if you are talking about feeeelzzz. Her being comfortable around you can sometimes work against you, what do I mean? less sexual tension To do: limit her seeing you everyday and then cut the convos to 20-30 mins then meet after work at a bar or somethin…
/r/askTRP16/02/17 07:12 AM
2

Depending on the situation it could be a shit test, I wouldn't worry about it since they are work related(work with you or a customer).
/r/askTRP16/02/17 06:39 AM
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"Honestly I think he's all talk and gets very little action in real life. You know one of those internet know it alls with a 12 inch dick a million in the bank and bangs 20 bitches a week." This is just a buffer to dampen the reality that you fucked up your frame(being the prize) with your LTR. He doesn't provide much advice because we deal with this before an LTR begins. The approach to go about this is to assess what you know and what you want. You know that your gf isn't giving you head durin…
/r/askTRP16/02/17 06:35 AM
1

men love women, women love children, children love animals
/r/askTRP16/02/17 06:17 AM
1

doing laundry, house/apartment cleaner and Sandwich maker
/r/askTRP16/02/17 05:55 AM
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OP's mistakes from his own post: " i asked if she wanted to move in." "She seemed like a unicorn." "she was a cheater in the past." "she asks to be in an open relationship, but for me to still be her bf" "I told her if she wants to fuck other people to just break up with me." "Im angrier then ive ever been. " "This morning I told her I dont love her anymore. I still do, but im trying to stop" "My advice to everyone, ... etc" Please don't listen to this kids advice, he has some work to do before …
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 05:35 AM
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Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 05:02 AM
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Sad update .. he gave her the 8===D
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 08:17 AM
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hard next, don't act like a boyfriend, and remember skittles next time.
/r/askTRP15/02/17 08:15 AM
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we don't go through the trash eating leftovers
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 02:41 AM
3

Wonder how pathetic he could be. Stop wondering, you don't give a fuck and its time to move on to greater things.
/r/askTRP14/02/17 12:17 PM
0

I would look into tips/strategy for self discipline, either that or find a couple plates to help you out ;)
/r/askTRP14/02/17 12:15 PM
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What your saying is true if and only if your SMV is at or below the level of the good ol boys. If we the good ol Rp boys stroll in at a higher SMV then essentially those girls will swing to what is perceived as higher status. So what if the good ol boys get pissed then we know this: pissed = caring caring =emotional investment emotional investment = beta Furthermore, when we come in at higher SMV those girls do lose their status because we set the new level of what status is and all women who as…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 10:43 AM
1

The thought process should be to attend college with the purpose of a job/career in mind and a technical one pay more as well as provide a way for more opportunities. What type of career do you see yourself in? As a side note, post college is way more fun, I live by myself travelling the country making 75k+ at 28 meeting chicks everywhere. These chicks approach me and with our RP knowledge we are way ahead of the game. If you work hard in college, when you graduate you can have the power to live…
/r/askTRP14/02/17 07:58 AM
1

1) overworked, stressed and depressed or 2) fitting the criteria for autism. Absolutely not, I read the rest of your comment and you are very delusional. You sound like a kid who is worried about missing out on his fun, the key TIME MANAGEMENT. I joined a fraternity for social events, worked out every other day and made sure to attend class then crushed HW assignments. Finished engineering top 3 school, job 60-75k starting, 3.02 GPA, N-count +25 with LTRs, internship JR to SR summer PM me if you…
/r/askTRP14/02/17 06:32 AM
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graduated engineering top 3 school, I've been presented more opportunities than my peers and was able to pay back my student loans very quickly. Knocked out the "harder" 100 and 200 courses at a community college during the spring/summer terms to reduce the cost and this allowed for easier fall/winter terms so that I could still socialize.
/r/askTRP14/02/17 05:12 AM
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Better late than never, I'm late 20s, we both have more time than you think and it doesn't appear from your post that you have children or were previously married. The only mistake would not be learning from the ones you made.
/r/askTRP14/02/17 04:17 AM
1

bag of skittles
/r/askTRP14/02/17 04:12 AM
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""lift and read the fkn sidebar" won't cut it." We preach this because it works, and that individual realizes the errors in their ways then starts the process of self improvement. We aren't going to create an easy to follow custom step by step of what to do, you'll have to put in the hard work, start reading the RP sidebar from the top.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 02:42 AM
1

What her twitter @? we'll help you after we assess her photos
/r/askTRP13/02/17 02:33 PM
1

MAJOR FUCKING RED FLAG. you seriously need to get your shit together
/r/askTRP13/02/17 02:30 PM
2

No doubt she fucked him, she'll trickle truth it to you.
/r/askTRP13/02/17 02:18 PM
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Side thought: Referring to yourself as "alpha" is cringe worthy, true intelligent alphas don't need to do this. This chick sounds like a plate of yours, so it's irrelevant where you think you stand in her eyes, but it would be delusional to think she isn't getting around. (not that we care) Two things are happening she probably is sending nudes and she's telling you to test your frame as well as hamster her justifications for sending them. (Her: well I told OP and he didn't care.) This definitel…
/r/askTRP13/02/17 04:03 AM
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"I sent her one text she didn't respond to so my mindset is that she can establish a bridge of communication with me whenever she wants. " Painfully to read, displays a needy/scarcity mindset, the damage may be done if she can go a week without hitting you up. Do not try to justify her lack of communications with being busy, their phone is attached to their hip, so you're saying she doesn't have 1-2mins to respond? She's talking to others guys, and you need to prepare yourself for the break up b…
/r/askTRP13/02/17 03:50 AM
1

We don't do Redpill knighting, if you value that relationship do not preach RP, fight club rule here.
/r/askTRP13/02/17 03:45 AM
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TLDR: Marriage is a scam that you RPers already know, this topic has been discussed heavily already
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 03:42 AM
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"The best gift I ever got a girl was for a girl who loved pickles and so I got her some for her birthday." I'll be 5$ less, but I'm getting my plates their own bag of skittles for v-day.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 03:38 AM
3

"love is not hate but indifference." I tried looking for that post, does anyone remember the title?
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 03:20 AM
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She isn't worth the time of day and revenge means that he cares.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 01:32 AM
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I'm surprised that you didn't expect that to be her feedback, she wanted to know if her former alpha was back but instead you fake displayed (on purpose) low SMV. Maybe you just needed to see for yourself that someone you loved would be different. Anyway her loss.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 01:31 AM
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A very limited minded post that pertains to only a portion of the community (in my opinion) and it comes across as those past a certain age are fucked. You should have thought about how a member ends up here, and what age that correlates to in general.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 01:15 AM
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You have a point here, I was thinking that I would take the class and just pretend to be the biggest beta bucks just to achieve a high grade/mark.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 12:46 AM
1

ridiculous post "I ejaculated in my jeans and underpants." Aim for the floor next time.... or her face :)
/r/TheRedPill12/02/17 08:57 AM
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revenge = caring caring = emotional investment emotional investment = beta Look up Iron rule of tomassi #7 https://therationalmale.com/category/iron-rules/
/r/askTRP12/02/17 07:34 AM
0

Troll post
/r/askTRP12/02/17 05:58 AM
1

Go ahead and read this: Sidebar -> FAQ -> "There's this one girl..."
/r/askTRP12/02/17 05:53 AM
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Would've been nice if you had mentioned SMV because this also plays a huge factor. As well as advice on what to do/not do at each stage as this unfolds, then maybe when you might cut this chick off. If I we're in an LTR (unlikely) then boundaries would have been known to her before hand, I believe there is a post on this, and she would be soft then hard nexted in the area of stage 3/4. And absolutely ghosted at stage 5, maybe beforehand depending on the situation. Other thoughts: She is very unl…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/17 05:45 AM
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So by your logic, If i am to be alpha then I must impregnate vast amounts of women. You forgot, we have something called child support that can take 25%(minimum) of our paycheck per kid, so I'm fine/dgaf if YOU think I'm a beta.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/17 05:32 AM
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fuck no to LDR
/r/askTRP11/02/17 11:06 PM
1

Funny how OP doesn't understand this advice, based on the comments he posted later and further down the post. RP sidebar material regarding female co-workers: "Do not fuck any of them. These women are off-limits for fucking. "
/r/askTRP11/02/17 11:03 PM
3

spot on, then he creeped and sent that shitty beta message
/r/askTRP11/02/17 10:47 PM
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was pleased to meet you Agree to not reply, as well as the cringe worthy message, you have framed it that she is the prize. A chick should be pleased to meet you and honored you might give her the shiny golden cock hand crafted by god himself.
/r/askTRP11/02/17 10:46 PM
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Known as mate guarding, the tip here is don't do anything, it'll make you more attractive in the eyes of your girl.
/r/askTRP11/02/17 02:37 PM
1

np goodluck
/r/askTRP11/02/17 02:34 PM
1

My issue with telling her is that it's none of her business and it accomplishes nothing more than your satisfying your needs. " I would never lie to a woman I love." You weren't exclusive according to your title, therefore you can lie to a woman you don't love. "The thing though being about SVM is that its been her constant struggle" Makes sense most women don't want to compete, not your problem. Side thoughts, I can see that you understand RP concepts but in some instances turn a blind eye to i…
/r/askTRP11/02/17 02:17 PM
1

reported
/r/askTRP11/02/17 05:47 AM
2

reported.
/r/askTRP11/02/17 05:03 AM
2

just a troll account
/r/askTRP11/02/17 05:02 AM
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Troll account - "comes from good family" .. then you say "family is spread out, they're not extremely close" lets see how you hamster this out .. HB5 at best
/r/askTRP11/02/17 04:55 AM
1

" My latest depression has been about having an average sized dick and worried that girls who have had bigger look down on me. " chicks can't tell the difference between dicks that range from 5"-7" inches, trust me. I had a chick tell me she only fucks huge dicks, and she described them as 8 inches or bigger, then I fucked her. After I asked what size she thought I was .. her response.. "just under 10ish" HAAHHHAHAHAHAHAH unless you have a micro-penis the you're fine, but this is a hurdle for yo…
/r/askTRP11/02/17 03:47 AM
2

should be on asktrp TL/DR: Don't read asktrp sidebar -> FAQ -> "There's this one girl"
/r/TheRedPill11/02/17 03:41 AM
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TL/DR: Don't read "I need advice on my case of Oneitis." RP sidebar -> FAQ -> "There's this one girl"
/r/askTRP11/02/17 03:40 AM
2

Goodluck, try to be motivated for self improvement purposes not to be motivated by revenge(ie trying to prove something to those that fucked you over). revenge = caring caring = emotional investment emotional investment = beta
/r/askTRP11/02/17 03:38 AM
1

You dont owe her anything and its her problem, remember this when considering to reconnect with a previous relationship: Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought…
/r/askTRP11/02/17 03:21 AM
2

You have much to learn, these socially unacceptable relationships/actions are social constructs created by the female imperative to enhance hypergamy. Never get into an LTR/STR and negotiate an open relationship, that isn't optimal for us. Furthermore it usually only works in theory and then breaks down over time. "o if another girl hears you're cheating or if it even looks like you cheat on girls, your reputation is gonna go down, you lose credibility, and less people will want to date you" Abs…
/r/askTRP11/02/17 03:15 AM
1

Agreed, thats why its important to identify Shit tests because women are covert communicators and sometimes they try to sneak one or two past us.
/r/askTRP11/02/17 03:00 AM
1

"She'll most likely ask if I fucked another girl since the last time we saw each other (2 weeks ago). What's the best answer? " Agree, amplify(I go with something ridiculous ) and change subject, or ignore (act aloof/amused) "ya, its been a slow 2 weeks only 32 new girls" and then change subject
/r/askTRP11/02/17 02:57 AM
1

"She freaked out, didint want to talk to me and stormed out." Obviously a mistake to tell her, otherwise its usually a women coming to terms with your SMV and that she might have competition
/r/askTRP11/02/17 02:44 AM
1

What I am pointing out here is not to get in the frame of her pussy is the prize. So that she can not try to weaponize it (restrict sex), if this does happen then soft next and if it continues later then ghost. The value I bring to my plates is my company and I pay for everything (potential beta if not handled correctly). I could give a ton of examples but you guys understand, nothing expensive essentially. The value my plates bring are a positive attitude, stress free environment (not constantl…
/r/askTRP11/02/17 02:40 AM
1

I think of sex, in a LTR, as both parties enjoying and benefitting from it, so I don't consider that value. If we take away the sex then we can start to see what she brings to the table, which is traditional chores (cleaning, cooking etc.. )
/r/askTRP11/02/17 12:45 AM
1

Why are you getting laid off, upon graduating, that seems strange? look to collect references, update resume, network with friends and apply for jobs online.
/r/askTRP10/02/17 05:39 PM
2

you understand the problem now you'll have to be self disciplined enough to stop flapping and looking at porn, I recommend complete cold turkey of both.
/r/askTRP10/02/17 01:41 PM
1

"I find her quite aesthetically pleasing as well." interesting wording.. beginning of oneitis
/r/askTRP10/02/17 01:40 PM
2

but ... but .. Why would I read sidebar when the community can spoon feed me the answers????????????????????????
/r/askTRP10/02/17 01:22 PM
1

just keep in mind that it was assumed to be used in that way, hence my reply to OP
/r/askTRP10/02/17 01:18 PM
1

"Aside from getting my money up and moving out, plus fixing my ED. I'm working on both." Good, this to me is your first priority, keep working on your career and health/fitness. "What did I just get myself into?" Tell your blue pill father what he needs to hear as you work on your goals above. "What are your thoughts, no matter how relevant they might or might not be, on this whole situation?" I don't perceive this as that bad, at least you'll be at home saving money and you'll be motivated to r…
/r/askTRP10/02/17 01:14 PM
1

For those interested in the article: divorceRAPE
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 12:04 PM
2

Not true, I do it to cover bad zits/acne in certain areas, but never to amplify the jawline.
/r/askTRP10/02/17 11:57 AM
2

"She still has archived whatsapp of their previous chat, so I read everything." mistake. it's in the past and if you set the LTR boundaries correctly then she knows that by fucking up a good thing you'll drop her. "Should I have one eye opened in next few days, weeks? No. That dude sounds needy/desperate and they are laughing at that.
/r/askTRP10/02/17 11:54 AM
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Boundaries weren't properly set to begin with. what to do now: You have an opportunity to break it off with her, IMO, at this point I would tell her if you go, then you are single. Say it in a neutral tone and that's the end of the discussion. I perceive this to be very disrespectful in an LTR.
/r/askTRP10/02/17 08:35 AM
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"1) You should have established boundaries earlier." This was your mistake, if my LTR does this she knows for a fact that I'm a stoic cold asshole that will drop her. Expect her to cheat, but don't beat yourself up over it.
/r/askTRP10/02/17 08:31 AM
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side bar "redpill problem solver" -> All-in-one Legal Guide: False rape/DV, Divorce, Child support etc
/r/askTRP10/02/17 08:27 AM
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"I confronted her and she panicked" She's a plate so it shouldn't matter and we don't confront regardless of the reaction you wanted too see. Confronting = caring. caring = emotional investment. emotional investment = beta "Thoughts? She fucked the guy?" Irrelevant, you definitely are starting to invest too much emotion into this plate.
/r/askTRP10/02/17 08:24 AM
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You pay if she listens
/r/askTRP10/02/17 08:18 AM
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found this on side bar: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/5idhp8/why_we_tell_you_not_to_cohabitate_with_a_woman/
/r/askTRP10/02/17 03:09 AM
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This guy's a troll, please don't use makeup... actually never mind. Would you be interested in a bridge for sale?
/r/askTRP10/02/17 02:20 AM
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Unsure but I read that depending on the state she could sue for support if it falls under cohabitation(unmarried but living together)
/r/askTRP10/02/17 02:17 AM
1

irrelevant
/r/askTRP10/02/17 02:11 AM
2

irrelevant revenge post. revenge = caring caring = emotional investment emotional investment = beta
/r/askTRP10/02/17 01:49 AM
2

Gym - lifting Its hard to blend in with a six pack, massive pecs and boulder size arms/shoulders
/r/askTRP10/02/17 01:45 AM
2

you are asking why people view you as creepy during an approach and are looking for the ONE correct way an event can be interpreted. nevertheless irrelevant
/r/askTRP10/02/17 01:39 AM
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"But isn't robbing her of that validation i.e. ignoring her going to just make her try harder?" yes "To the point of her begging me back or sex even being back on the table? I would consider sex with her again." do you eat food from the trash? My last exgf was an HB9, F25 yoda all the works.. could I fucked her ..yes I don't because then we fall back into the FEEELLLZZ and I can get more HB9s without baggage
/r/askTRP10/02/17 01:22 AM
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"see u at 12:30"
/r/askTRP10/02/17 01:19 AM
1

get another number and then another. set up time to meet, make sure you have logistics if you escalate
/r/askTRP10/02/17 01:19 AM
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"I've noticed the only people that think I'm creepy are the passerby's" irrelevant what others think in this situation, practice outcome independence
/r/askTRP10/02/17 01:18 AM
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definitely testing you in asking to come as well as when you are there on the date, she'll be comparing you to him .
/r/askTRP09/02/17 11:30 PM
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You and everyone else :) I'd have to write a post on it, but it starts very early in your interaction with her.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 11:09 PM
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should be on asktrp Her past LTR is irrelevant, IMO, if you were high SMV then she wouldn't give a shit about her ex, I see this as a tool to keep you in the orbit-sphere. "The next day, she starts texting me that I looked bothered and all, but I said I was fine. She kept grinding me about it then I said, "look, you kept quiet this whole month then last week you got deep on me, now youre taking back what you said. It's cool and all, but how would you feel?" " You passed the shit test, then she t…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 11:01 PM
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remember: Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was. say this every time she texts you, she's looking for validation and while you might want to fuck her..…
/r/askTRP09/02/17 10:32 PM
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"I heard elsewhere you don't want her thinking that housework is a punishment because you want her doing those things on the regular." Ironically i preach this, but its more advanced(higher level thinking) and I know how to do this, it then comes if you want the beginner advice or advanced. A Lot of guys will argue it's easy to punish her with those non sexual favors to get rid of that behavior, and they themselves do those household things anyway. (not a bad approach) On this flip side, lets sa…
/r/askTRP09/02/17 10:25 PM
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Rewarding without appearing soft - anything sexual. you and your cock are the prize Punishing without appearing cruel - non sexual favors - cleaning, cooking, taking out the trash
/r/askTRP09/02/17 09:39 PM
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""if you could do one thing to change the world, what would it be?"" "require every man to spin some plates before an LTR" she'll give ya the wTF face
/r/askTRP09/02/17 09:37 PM
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shit test.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 09:32 PM
1

dump and find new girlfriendS
/r/askTRP09/02/17 09:27 PM
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" Maybe about a 7/10 or so to most but higher to me because I like her look." That's not how it works. -1 point. HB6 ;) "Did I fuck up by not touching enough etc, or am I on the right track?" No. Start talking to more chicks, so you dont develop oneitis and hugs come across more natural
/r/askTRP09/02/17 09:27 PM
0

cold approach.. let me blindly guess that you should be on the PUA subreddit
/r/askTRP09/02/17 09:23 PM
2

look at the job responsibilites relate your experience/skills that could provide value. also, i always pretend in my mind that i have the job.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 02:00 PM
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head nod or smile to break the tension, if it makes one appear as a beta boy then at least it avoids a fight.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 01:58 PM
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unless you lied they think you have the skills so chill out
/r/askTRP09/02/17 01:57 PM
1

if you hold eye contact for too long. define this duration?
/r/askTRP09/02/17 01:55 PM
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Those 95% saw you as weak and had power over you, now the dynamics have changed in your favor. It shouldn't hurt, they serve as a reminder of how far you have come and that you must continue forward.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 01:52 PM
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"Why would you need to 'never brake eye contact first' in these situations?" You are overthinking his, try hard betas look into this aspect thinking they can demonstrate their alpha-ness. "Let this random have his little win and a boost for his ego. It is one thing, to never step back from a fight, it is another, provoking them." you must be joking...do not fight over eye contact for christ sake.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 01:47 PM
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She is a stripper providing a service and you are a paying customer, that is the extent of your relationship. She is not different and those feeellllzzz are induced to keep you in her customer base.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 01:34 PM
2

prepare for shit tests and LMR after you've escalated
/r/askTRP09/02/17 01:30 PM
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hard next, then re-engage
/r/askTRP09/02/17 01:29 PM
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"my refusal to enter her frame caused me to pass it." You passed. Multiple ways to pass a shit test but that was good, I believe had you said yes it would've be the beginning of negotiating desire, which as we know is bad. The better way to handle this would've been no sex that night, why? We want to negatively reinforce when she weaponizes her sexuality, ie do this and i'll do that. Taking away sex displays that you don't need sex (powerful effect - ABUNDANCE/IDGAF) and her hamster will be spin…
/r/askTRP09/02/17 01:27 PM
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Find a new group, those that oppose the change will only be holding you back and friends don't do that.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 01:17 PM
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"next and get someone else", is there anything else?" Fuck her then, hard next and get someone else. "If I didn't want sex and not being lonely(I am introvert with social anxiety), I would ditch her." With how you are acting and that mindset you will be sexless soon enough, unless you start changing.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 01:16 PM
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Walk away, cease contact with both and continue your journey, neither were good to have in your life. revenge = emotional investment, emotional investment = beta Doing nothing is the ultimate revenge, why? shows they weren't even worth the time, which is true, and now you get to focus on yourself.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 01:10 PM
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sucking major ball sack
/r/askTRP09/02/17 07:23 AM
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You are clearly mate guarding/jealous/emotional/lack of abundance/ and a fuck ton others. You are trolling, peace bud
/r/askTRP09/02/17 07:21 AM
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You are kidding right? Stay away from her, delete all contact, your SMV to her is -100. She doesn't feel guilty, she'll hamster a justification and you now come across as the crazy exbf.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 06:44 AM
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No that is the short and long term plan. " She wants to hear from me if I'm willing to change or not. " OMG OP.... frame/shit test... what did we fucking learn: do not enter her frame and pass this test Ignore it, act aloof or agree and change subject immediately
/r/askTRP09/02/17 06:39 AM
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TLDR: OP please slap yourself hard in the face. "basically, this girl was cool, hot, we had a lot in common" oneitis " I heard that she was flirting with this guy called Trevor" you were broken up and if it wasn't your girl who cares. "her and I got into a fight today, we aren’t dating officially but, basically together. " Beta, should've be stoic, aloof and IDGAF attitude, we dont fight with chicks because its essentially irrelevant. " I see them uploading snapchats of her with guys later on an…
/r/askTRP09/02/17 06:32 AM
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She did this to prevent herself from looking like what she is.. a slut. "She tells people I tried to/raped her and have a weird dick." Attempts to disqualify you from her competition (other females), and this is very attention seeking in terms of victim mentality which elevates her status, and mitigates that she's a slut. I am going on a thought that since you are both young that she doesn't fully understand what she has said. You need to cease contact immediately with her, hold frame that it wa…
/r/askTRP09/02/17 03:27 AM
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First like always, focus on self improvement, lifting, nutrition, school/career, life mission..etc What you want to do is talk less about feeeelzz and review the concept of soft dread(covert changes). Expect to be shit and comfort tested as she sees these changes, so review those as well. Soft next isn't relevant unless you want LTR to be your plate.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 03:20 AM
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"Just spinning plates " ahhahah ;)
/r/askTRP09/02/17 03:13 AM
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I think that if you can reflect on your relationship and understand why it ended then it will help you move on. Something isn't adding up and I'll tell you why, she is around the age of the wall, you are a man ready to commit and start a family. At age 32, I'm assuming you have a better amount of resources and you're about to hit your SMV peak in 4 years. Even if she saw you as her beta provider, that's seems too good for any chick to pass up. This leads me to believe she had other options or yo…
/r/askTRP09/02/17 03:10 AM
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Shes attempting to sexual disqualify you from the competition( likely mutual female friends), which means that you are high SMV and she wants the attention from other beta bux to validate her. TLDR: she wants you still, just ignore her and keep doing your thing.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 02:57 AM
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age?
/r/askTRP09/02/17 02:51 AM
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"Some context first -- this girl has been through a lot of shit with me." Irrelevant, look into the 3 briffault's laws, this is a harsh reality for us men. Sounds like you were once an alpha with high SMV value and she lets you get away with a ton of shit. Now that you've invested more into the relationship, you have essentially lost frame and transferred power back over. The key to remember is that she was attracted to you when you were an asshole and now she is resentful because you are being …
/r/askTRP09/02/17 02:46 AM
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How old was this girl and what was her career path?
/r/askTRP09/02/17 02:40 AM
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"My issue is when i go to confirm, I get ghosted." Couple things here, Im not sure what you are texting her but it should only pertain to hanging out again, briffault's 1st law and always make sure your logistics are good. BF 1st law: Past benefit provided by the male does not provide for continued or future association. You provided her a night of fun, entertainment, validation and a little pleasure ;) but she can get that from any guy, chicks hand of their number like candy on halloween.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 02:34 AM
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"I apologize if this all sounds pathetic and dumb." Yes it does. Apology accepted. Clearly you haven't done your reading on trp sidebar. "she's a real girl-next-door type." Sounds like the beginning of oneitis, start talking to more chicks so you can be more comfortable around them and give less fucks about each interaction. In class I focused on my grades first and foremost, but you could say "Based on your note taking/studying skills you should study with me" then get her number and read into …
/r/askTRP09/02/17 02:29 AM
1

"so maybe I'm just past my sexual prime?" No So did you really break up with your exgf and what was the situation, we are missing some pieces to the puzzle
/r/askTRP09/02/17 02:22 AM
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Agreed, he hasn't done his RP homework.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 02:19 AM
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"My buddies don't agree. They text nonstop, get clingy with girls, and always get friendzoned....When I try to give them real advice and not optimistic bullshit, they don't listen. " If you want to keep your BP friends then stop pushing RP ideas, it's the equivalent of pulling someone unwilling out of the matrix. You want to help them but until they are ready, they are your enemy( not really but you get the point). "That got me thinking, what if some girl I were interested in said this to me? Wh…
/r/askTRP09/02/17 02:18 AM
1

By being upset at being called an asshole. exactly, re-read what we've mentioned and PM us if you have more questions.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 02:09 AM
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"what do i say to girls that don't know me yet they heard I'm an asshole?" Say nothing, when new girls bring this up just act aloof and change subjects. The chick calling you an asshole is interested in you and is attempting to break your frame as well as sexually disqualify you from her competition. They disqualify you so that other girls aren't interested in you(which you can use to your advantage by following the advice above ).
/r/askTRP08/02/17 09:55 PM
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It's better to know and understand it then to remain in the matrix, albeit Cypher would disagree with me.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 09:48 PM
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Yes. Bad answer:"please can I have your number" ^ We are the prize, we have abundance, we DGAF and by answering this way falls into her frame. Better answer:"Don't make me ask twice" ^ this we'll make her think twice about playing games with daddy ;)
/r/askTRP08/02/17 09:24 PM
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"Are slow thrusts better?" No, its just a change of pace and help you from cumming quickly. "me cumming so quickly is pretty normal right?" Irrelevant, just fuck more and you'll see improvement.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 09:09 PM
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Women are experts at covert communication and can sense even the slightest display of these beta qualities. Its really what they screen for on every man, so they are very well trained
/r/askTRP08/02/17 09:05 PM
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always wear a condom, those little slut muffins want alphas to fertilize them With more experience you'll last longer, sometimes changing the rhythm of your thrusts helps Try to focus on your breathing, look up some techniques, I do this to distract my mind
/r/askTRP08/02/17 09:00 PM
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Yes, her hamster will be spinning and just act aloof to her, just keep the picture of yourself. Really good move, I never display any SO on my social media.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 08:55 PM
1

I agree with this assessment, something isn't congruent with OPs post.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 08:52 PM
1

"Thats probably true as every time I get rejected, my confidence goes down a little more." You have yet to review outcome independence, review this concept. "I feel like Ive improved myself from every angle and I dont know why I keep failing." From what im gathering you are very close to success with women, you may be subconsciously displaying neediness, outcome dependence and scarcity. You should provide a us field report, you can PM me and i'll take a look over the interact.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 08:51 PM
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"this ugly chick (HB 4) that wanted to be my girlfriend ..I kept dismissing her attempts until she got the point." Good work, dont drop your standards "What's happening now is that the HB7 kinda thinks the same and wants to challenge me for a boxing match which is a lose-lose situation for me." HB7 is just teasing you, if she thought you were a pussy then she wouldnt be talking to you. Challenge her to a wrestling match, in your bed then claim you are UNDEFEATED and the only rule is NO clothes ;…
/r/askTRP08/02/17 08:47 PM
1

goodluck
/r/askTRP08/02/17 01:12 PM
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You are displaying low SMV value change your pictures and bio
/r/askTRP08/02/17 12:40 PM
3

Sounds like you want an LTR with a chick you haven't fucked, yes?
/r/askTRP08/02/17 12:30 PM
1

"I have to go inside and evaluate who I am, where I am and who/where I want to be." Think hard about your life's mission, then you can begin to answer these questions, and as always continue lifting :)
/r/askTRP08/02/17 12:00 PM
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There are lots of holes in this post, you are actually making good points but this article needs more. Think about explaining how the guys frame was before (when she respected him) and after (when she lost it), and what caused him to break it. To give you a clue it pertains to what he initial displayed to her and the impact of failing shit tests. "You find yourself wondering "did I really mean that little to her?" Her thoughts are irrelevant, we know the answer, when she moves on to the next guy…
/r/askTRP08/02/17 11:56 AM
2

went as expected, safe word was "The redpill"
/r/askTRP08/02/17 11:41 AM
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"this is an opportunity for me to see how she acts around family and friends. " Not relevant. What benefits did you come up with, this is a massive test for you with a chick you haven't fucked. I'm assuming you aren't telling us something if you consider going. Maybe you think this earns you brownie points?
/r/askTRP08/02/17 11:38 AM
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Definitely do not say that. Link: 2nd half of the post dives into comfort tests, first part covers shit tests https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/34f6d2/the_trp_field_toolkit_part_3_shit_tests_and/
/r/askTRP08/02/17 11:34 AM
2

Don't express your dislike of orbiters, it displays that you are mate guarding, jealously and lack of abundance.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 10:45 AM
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I would never consider meeting a chicks family until I get into an LTR with her, I don't even do those after TRP, so I would advise against going.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 10:43 AM
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Review comfort tests
/r/askTRP08/02/17 10:40 AM
2

nah its a shit test
/r/askTRP08/02/17 06:39 AM
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irrelevent
/r/askTRP08/02/17 06:36 AM
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"My heart sank man." Romantic beta inside you - kill him **"Having second thoughts about whether breaking up with her was the right choice or na." Nah, look up iron rule #7, then you'll know why we dont get back with exes
/r/askTRP08/02/17 03:40 AM
2

Pros of oneitis - None
/r/askTRP08/02/17 03:37 AM
3

5 years .. thats being generous
/r/askTRP08/02/17 03:14 AM
1

No, you just re-edited it and posted this comment, you just didnt hear what you wanted too.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 01:52 AM
1

knowing and practicing RP/lifting puts you already, IMO, in the top 30% of men, now you just need to close the gap by increasing your value.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 01:41 AM
2

Wait, socialize around the place, after 20 mins then I would leave. It implies you value your time.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 01:38 AM
3

Example, Her: "Im going out with a bunch of guy friends on friday, sorry you can't come." (Here she is attempting to overtly induce jealousy on her boyfriend, and is testing him for mate-guarding, scarcity and outcome-indendency...etc) Aloof (alpha) BF, Him: "alright cool" It's like being oblivious to the situation, because do we really want our GF hanging around a bunch of thirsty FUCKs? No, She WANTS a reaction and for you to care a lot, because caring = emotional investment & emotional invest…
/r/askTRP08/02/17 01:35 AM
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Don't mate guard, it makes you look weak and displays a scarcity mindset, make plans yourself and its better if you can do it with chicks involved
/r/askTRP08/02/17 01:28 AM
1

yup right approach
/r/askTRP08/02/17 01:07 AM
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"what do i do if she calls me before the day and wants to go out? " proceed as planned, let her improvise with some other plans and she wont pull this again. Even if she promises the BEST sex ever do not budge
/r/askTRP08/02/17 01:07 AM
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act aloof and change subjects, she just needs to hamster around after fucking you. Her mind:"But I told him I had a BF!!! ALLL his fault for me falling on his cock, he shouldve been more respectful "
/r/askTRP08/02/17 12:59 AM
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"I sent her an email because there was issues with her phone at the moment. " FLAT out lie.. sneaky girl ""twenty7Lies, I have a boyfriend." and "I don't mind hanging out but you just have to keep that in mind"." Shit test, (agree, amplify and change subjects or ignore) " these are all shit tests right? Is this her hamster giving herself plausible deniability?" Common shit tests, you have higher SMV than her boyfriend or else she wouldn't be responsing
/r/askTRP08/02/17 12:57 AM
1

whats your diet like now?
/r/askTRP07/02/17 08:39 PM
1

We definitely do not fuck around with co-workers, but go ahead learning the hard way can be a good lesson
/r/askTRP07/02/17 08:38 PM
1

Invite them over and have them fight to the death... winner is the one you should take
/r/askTRP07/02/17 08:37 PM
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" "If it was up to my wife she'd have me retire today, she told me that last night...I said too bad babe."" Spoken like a true Bo$$
/r/askTRP07/02/17 08:36 PM
1

"is it possible that it's because of TRP?" Definitely a reach to be blaming TRP Try focusing on a different diet, sleeping more and lifting heavier, also you could be stressed depending on your type of work.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 08:34 PM
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TLDR: This is going to be harsh because you are riddled with excuses. Based on your post: overweight, don't exercise, eat junk food, sleep like shit, kids tease you because of YOUR habits, and QUIT School You need to wake the fuck up, all those diagnoses could be true and I am no doctor but FUCKKKKKKKK. If you had any discipline and dropped the victim mentality then you could start fixing your mind/life. Do this: Go to the gym and lift heavy weights, find a diet (get close to 2000-1800 calories …
/r/askTRP07/02/17 08:23 PM
1

good advice
/r/askTRP07/02/17 08:10 PM
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'who's that girl youre texting/talking to' "My other girlfriend"...then change subjects you just want me for my body/sex "Ya, but you can be funny too"...then change subject 'this guy was flirting with me/being creepy towards me blah blah blah' SOOOoooo CRAZZZZY or awesome sauce "'i miss you/do you miss me'" "Only on tuesdays and thursdays" or "NEVER" look how hot I am/I'm so hot "The sun is hotter" .. then change subject All common shit tests, be funny, IDGAF and outcome independent...all those…
/r/askTRP07/02/17 08:09 PM
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Beginning of oneitis, logistics are bad, you aren't getting sex yet, and you are talking about marriage/kids... Advice time, turn your tinder radius from 400 to 25 miles then meet and plate local chicks
/r/askTRP07/02/17 08:01 PM
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This actually makes you look like a bo$$, as long as you don't act needy or apologise you'll be good, if you have then just ignore her for a day or two. she just realized that she had competition. "Normally wouldn't care so much but she's one of the best looking I've had." Please slap yourself in the face
/r/askTRP07/02/17 07:56 PM
2

Two weeks ago I matched with a chick on tinder, the dirty talk escalated that she wanted to come over and do the fantasy rape. "I want to run around your apartment screaming and for you to wrestle me to the ground and fuck me from behind" screenshots are good, I did that shit too... some chicks will tell you this desire if you are high SMV
/r/askTRP07/02/17 04:52 PM
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How should I be responding to this? don't respond to it, let that hamster spin! " She said she would never shit test again…" LOL.. she reads TRP sidebar???? that's better than most of our members
/r/askTRP07/02/17 04:48 PM
1

She is attempting to control you through manipulation tool of breaking up, you didnt fall for that BS. This behavior needs to be punished if you want to be an a LTR, if not hard next her. Punishment, non-sexual, she should be doing your laundry, cleaning, cooking or etc... we want to negatively reinforce that behavior
/r/askTRP07/02/17 04:45 PM
1

People hate those who cut others off, because its perceived as a power play. My advice would be to continue talking as if he isn't speaking or to tell him to hold that thought. Be stoic and maintain aloofness that you were just participating in the conversation. Fuck his seniority, there is a clear lack of professionalism and respect here.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 04:39 PM
2

"I'm honestly just salty as fuck that I've just been dumped." Based off you fucking former plates and her friends, this might have been her only play/move to get back at you. "She texts me shortly after saying to never appear in her life again and to take care." Laughed at this one, just hard next her and she'll be texting you back soon.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 04:24 PM
2

Never live with a chick, never consider dating a chick living or wanting to live with other dudes, and you should get your own place then move on from her.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 04:20 PM
1

was about to post this Iron rule, thank you, hopefully OP learns
/r/askTRP07/02/17 04:11 PM
1

"Roughly equal" The dude sounds like he is treating you like a child, and you are letting him do it in front of your social circle. Not trying to be an ass but you guys are definitely not as equal as you think and I would never do this to my guy friends.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 04:08 PM
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"He'll pause as if expecting me to speak. I'll begin to speak and he will immediately start talking over me. If I continue to speak he will keep going." Interesting dynamic here, this is were I think you fall into his frame, maybe be fluctuates his tonality inducing an urge for you to speak. From my understanding of the situation, the best way to handle this would start to be comfortable in those silent uncomfortable moments. You could try being silent until he speaks again, saying something lik…
/r/askTRP07/02/17 03:54 PM
1

"Im cuter in person, when are you coming over?" depends on time of day and the SIZE of your balls
/r/askTRP07/02/17 02:39 AM
2

porn induced ED - you have to go cold turkey (noflap, no porn viewing, no flap with porn) recovery can be 3 to 12 months depending on how long you've done this.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 02:35 AM
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"I didn't mention sex, I just wanted to help you study, because I care for you." (facepalm) Promise me to re-read your comment above after studying the concepts I mention below and TRP sidebar. You'll see how far you've come. This is really cringe worthy, clearly you haven't done your RP studying, incredible how you manage to break almost a dozen RP concepts over two posts. Concepts to review: Shit test, oneitis, outcome independence, IDGAF, abundance, focusing on your mission(studying > pursuin…
/r/askTRP07/02/17 02:25 AM
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Briffault's law 1. Past benefit provided by the male does not provide for continued or future association. You provided her entertainment, fun and validation all night and if she felt that you were high SMV then you would've had future association.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 01:50 AM
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You make your own decisions, throw your own dice. Parents very often have deep subconscious conflicts with this simple fact. They will admit it, if forced, but then they continue to act like they own you, you are always wrong they are always right well articulated.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 01:40 AM
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All you have to do is be stoic and hold frame, generally the less you react to them causes those around to question him. The white knight(WK) either ejects for looking like a fool or escalates their behavior hoping you break frame. For example, let's assume: WK knows OP "games" chicks and WK likes Chick A OP starts talking to Chick A, WK looks over and see his romantic interest talking to OP. Since WK is a BB, he says "Hey BACK OFF" or "LEAVE HER alone" and then justifies his deduction to the gr…
/r/askTRP07/02/17 01:33 AM
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"I feel in the wrong, and owe an apology." Don't... you are a busy man, and apologizing doesn't really accomplish anything. Look into the mirror TONIGHT! Take a breath and apologise for not apologising to anyone.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 01:16 AM
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Just a another step in the journey towards the mission. :)
/r/askTRP06/02/17 11:01 PM
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"The golden question is, am I wrong?, Have I been listening to too much of myself? Have I actually put my girl on a pedestal and I don't even realize it? " No, follow your mission and if the gf adds value keep her, I believe you answered this question yourself in the paragraph above. "I do not see him as a role model for many reasons, and have reaffirmed such to him." I have learned also that family can sometimes deter you from your mission. Maybe he doesn't see your vision as clearly as you do,…
/r/askTRP06/02/17 10:44 PM
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HAHAHAHHAHAH (amused mastery) OK (agree) U mad bro? (Amplfying) .... can we be friends? (change subject) This kid(Gawernator)is a jokester, he downvoted me because he disagreed with a text response that displayed IDGAF. Go ahead down vote again.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 09:37 PM
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I like waffles ;)
/r/askTRP06/02/17 09:30 PM
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np
/r/askTRP06/02/17 09:27 PM
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What's there to comfort? That you are a boss with high SMV and that you aren't going to be suckered into giving up the abundance you've earned. Females act this way to trap the Alpha.. you become beta if you fall for this trap.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 09:26 PM
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"a fellow BP classmate (who I tried to give relationship advice to) " Never give advice on game, I've lost friends over doing this, close friends unfortunately. "BP alpha'd me by being super aggressive and protective." Nah, he's just white knighting " He shat on all the vibes and started acting like a little bitch. He literally tore down my narrative. The girl didnt seem to mind." Very beta of him, hold frame be stoic and act aloof and this should send him into further white knighting. " how do …
/r/askTRP06/02/17 09:20 PM
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i am a douchebag and have frequently called out others for refusing to actually do some groundwork. dayum I do this too, but seriously members just want answers feed to them instead of having to put in the effort to learn the concept(s).
/r/askTRP06/02/17 09:09 PM
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walk over to her then say: Nice shoes..(pause for 3 seconds) .. wanna fuck (what she says next is irrelevant) then change subject and act aloof to her reaction. displays outcome independence and IDGAF
/r/askTRP06/02/17 09:05 PM
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"LTR doesn't like new body now?" Easy reasoning, you've increased your SMV and now she has more competition, you'll attract more women and she's afraid too lose you
/r/askTRP06/02/17 09:03 PM
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"No girlfriend. Virgin. Never kissed." Irrelevant. "I don't even know how to think anymore." Good thing you have TRP. First things first, no more BS excuses(you are responsible for yourself), start today with: Job - get paid (everyone starts somewhere) Gym - lifting heavy - builds confidence and your physique Career - figure out how to go back to school start today
/r/askTRP06/02/17 08:58 PM
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"How is cheating a beta move?" then you say "It shows abundance mentality, displays you have multiple options and are not ready to commit" Cheating implies that you are in some type of relationship, but then you oddly say pounding chicks is a sign you are not ready to commit. RELATIONSHIP = COMMITMENT. I wouldn't say committing to a girl(STR/LTR) then fucking others is beta, it just means you are being an asshole (irrelevant to me/us). The effort to deal with that drama is inefficient use of our…
/r/askTRP06/02/17 08:52 PM
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""Well, I have been thinking ....BLAHBLAHAHA I've been flirting with you and I don't want to lead you on, I'm sorry"" Just a common shit test. Remember: We listen to a woman's ACTIONS, NOT her words "she's in my class it's really convienent, and helpful because we could study together, plus it makes the class more enjoyable." Focus on your studies. "we did our little hold hands thing on the way to lecture this morning" Stop doing this shit. ""We can be friends" decent responses: "nah", "good ide…
/r/askTRP06/02/17 08:40 PM
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Apologizing for being silent? Never apologize for focusing on yourself, you can tell them you were busy, but if they are negative then they weren't your friend.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 08:34 PM
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*"Also, I have one female friend that I speak to and she is extremely jealous of. I never bring the female friend around her because of this jealousy, but she says she's jealous because I never brought her around to see that nothing was going on between us. I think she has a point there." * She has no point. You are doing excellent work, do not change anything. "I bought her a really nice expensive gift for her birthday, try to talk about "us" and what "we're" doing so she knows i'm including he…
/r/askTRP06/02/17 08:29 PM
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Stay single. Find more chicks to add as plates
/r/askTRP06/02/17 08:17 PM
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I'm wondering, am I the only guy that thinks like this? No, I practice with/on them and good for creating abundance mentality How low on that scale would you go? 6
/r/askTRP06/02/17 07:24 PM
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Just a shit test, my girl did this to me yesterday, and she was blowing up my phone. I responded with "sooooo crazzzzzzzy" and ignored her for the rest of the day. Its attention seeking and overtly attempting to induce jealousy, pass the shit test like a stoic boss and you are good.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 07:19 PM
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"I call Gf some days later and she tells me she is sorry for her actions and will change." exGF realized she didn't have better options so she wanted you back "Unsure to go back in or stay single and begin journey to RP alpha." Stay single, soft next her then plate her (if you want), remember: Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the tr…
/r/askTRP06/02/17 07:14 PM
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Thank me later click: https://archive.is/t96gU
/r/askTRP06/02/17 03:43 PM
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About 13.5 seconds. Then I remembered: She's not yours, it was just your turn
/r/askTRP06/02/17 03:41 PM
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text her: "It's cool that you fucked another guy, you don't have to be cold to me anymore" it'll make the transition to plate status easier
/r/askTRP06/02/17 03:03 PM
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plate and get a couple more thrusts in this time
/r/askTRP06/02/17 03:00 PM
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I don't really know if she fucked a chad She did. Ask her if you don't believe me.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 02:59 PM
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Im totally fixed on this girl. oneitis - you should have learned this concept too, go study please.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 02:55 PM
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I thought that if I don't contact her she will think that I am not interested in her anymore. That is a good thing, you take away attention and she'll warm up, you should have learned this by now.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 02:54 PM
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why are you not dumping her?
/r/askTRP06/02/17 02:51 PM
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"The Saturday in the first week something changed." Sorry to inform you, but she fucked a Chad "I really don't know what to do now. Seriously." You are not going to like this answer, but you are experiencing the beginning of a break up and you are in denial of it. She has already branch swung and you need to focus on yourself, dump her and cease contact. Advice: Get to the gym, talk to new chick, focus on your school, career, life mission and do not contact this girl. We have a lot of experience…
/r/askTRP06/02/17 02:37 PM
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I go for efficiency and recommend it, only chill with her if you are trying to fuck, you should always try to be fucking(unless you want to be her beta orbiter).
/r/askTRP06/02/17 12:54 PM
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Exactly why you shouldn't spend money on movies - think of dates like: walking, biking, zoo, tennis, frisbee or ADVENTURING(park, forest or abandoned places) get creative
/r/askTRP06/02/17 08:23 AM
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np goodluck
/r/askTRP06/02/17 08:19 AM
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"But the sex is awful." Okay next her and move on
/r/askTRP06/02/17 08:18 AM
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GOD no.. never take a chick to a movie It's a waste of time and money, and awkward as fuck, i'd rather be kinoing then escalating to a place to fuck.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 08:16 AM
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" I told her how I felt three weeks ago but it didn't work out and now this" BIG fucking mistake... I couldn't find the blog but it basically describes that women love trying to figure out men. Keeping her in a state of mystery creates intrigue and her hamster mind NEEDS to know how you feel and your life story, give this up and you lose value. "Today she's being really weird like only giving me one word answers while texting when usually she's a great conversationalist." From what you've said, …
/r/askTRP06/02/17 08:14 AM
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Ignore, don't add back, let her see how awesome you are and carry on to the next.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 08:01 AM
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I think this is your way of dealing with rejection, you buffer it by only dealing with 10% of the women in the population. True 9s and 10s are a dime a dozen say 1 in 50(9s) or 1 in 100(10s), so you need to reality check yourself. It might also be an ego thing in your case as well, maybe you like doing the rejecting? "Abundance mentality?" how many 9s and 10s are you plating ...I know the answer ...you are a goof Get out there and fuck those 6,7,8s, but then again you are my competition so maybe…
/r/askTRP06/02/17 05:26 AM
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kino and escalate, then you'll find out
/r/askTRP06/02/17 05:16 AM
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bed
/r/askTRP06/02/17 05:15 AM
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hahahah ^ thats good
/r/askTRP06/02/17 04:45 AM
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listen to her actions not her words
/r/askTRP06/02/17 04:43 AM
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No, definitely the piano then listed some ridiculous reasons.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 04:36 AM
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Fight with your words, it's good that you can defend yourself physically, but after the age of 18 you can go to jail/prison depending on the situation.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 04:24 AM
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TLDR: Harsh analysis, but you are acting very beta and her chad is talking to her again. Be stoic. Next her 2-3 days and find new POON "Upon coming home I confronted her about this", "I intend to confront her today again" and the you give give her an ultimatum? -> "plain state that she is not to talk to her ex at all." Noob level 9000. This shows a lot of neediness, emotional instability and lack of abundance, you can not control desire. Her reason of leaving her EX is just fluff and I believe s…
/r/askTRP06/02/17 04:17 AM
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"Aliens abducted my phone .. I had to sneak into the mother ship earlier today ... there was death...lots of DEAATH ... then I retrieved it from the lost and found."
/r/askTRP06/02/17 03:55 AM
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" I'm thinking just soft next her and meet another girl tonight." Always a solid plan
/r/askTRP06/02/17 03:38 AM
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Have you figured out a way to make up for last night yet? This is a shit test. Do not apologise or "take her out this week" it acknowledges that you fucked up and puts you into her frame.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 03:19 AM
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Didn't even read OPs post, dont shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 03:02 AM
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"The only downfall is she's a bit of a slut" Good, she can train you and then you can practice on her before ground n' pounding that university pussy
/r/askTRP06/02/17 12:54 AM
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np goodluck
/r/askTRP06/02/17 12:28 AM
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Don't beat yourself up over it, this actually makes you look good, as from her view it appeared you had better plans. Don't bring it up or ever mention you fell asleep, her hamster will be firing, just re-schedule. If she mentions it just reschedule, expect her to shit test you because she isn't used to getting flaked.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 12:15 AM
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"She already knows he wants to break up, so that ship has sailed" Her hamster is in full throttle, really big mistake, be careful. If he truly wants out then he needs to just do it and not drag it out. With that, you should help him move as a friend and witness, and the sooner the better. He should NOT be alone with this chick because then she can claim anything and he won't have evidence to dispute it.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 12:03 AM
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"have fun" or "good luck" works then look for more chicks to plate
/r/askTRP05/02/17 11:59 PM
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me either, i just searched for the quote
/r/askTRP05/02/17 11:57 PM
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"My friend says though (whose fat but pretty alpha tbh) that it doesn't matter cuz I'm still ugly in the face and that I'll get more bitches but they won't be as quality as I want." He is not your friend, drop him and find people who are supportive of your goals, he sounds very insecure.
/r/askTRP05/02/17 11:50 PM
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Any other details we should know? still would radio silence 2-3days
/r/askTRP05/02/17 11:39 PM
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"he had him cut from his family, friends, money, telephone, internet and everything. " Yup AWALT "Can I tell him she is a psycopath bitch or will that make him defensive?" He'll definitely get defensive and claim she's different around you, she's a great person or she's not always like that .. yadadadada. "He thinks he can meet her, I think thats a bad idea. Any thougths?" Very Bad, if I were you he needs to get out and do it as quietly as possible, if she suspects anything then she becomes unpr…
/r/askTRP05/02/17 11:38 PM
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""I just didn't know what to do because the guy I was talking to forever came back in the picture and he confused everything for me " She perceives you as her plate (beta -orbiter) seeking validation and emotional support because her alpha male is giving her attention again. I have a strong suspicion that this guy is higher SMV than you(harsh I know). He has been radio silencing her, and she's confused on how to handle him and wants your support(betas provide that). This is not a shit or comfort…
/r/askTRP05/02/17 11:28 PM
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Most women are so covert sometimes Chad doesn't know, A couple times I looked at a chicks facebook and there's a relationship status or another guy in her picture. Usually, I don't find out until much later when she attempts to overtly induce jealousy that she had/has options.
/r/askTRP05/02/17 11:13 PM
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not - not false
/r/askTRP05/02/17 11:09 PM
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I dance with them - fuck it But in all honesty they probably see you as low SMV and think they have a chance. Excuse yourself to get a drink/bathroom break or what and then rejoin in 5 minutes
/r/askTRP05/02/17 11:08 PM
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"making fun of him, telling others to ignore him (he hated when I did this with him in the room), calling him out on every childish behavior" .. Mistake (co-worker hates you) " I would criticize and mock the bosses" .. EVEN bigger mistake (bosses will hate you) "(normal office gossip) ".. BIG FUCKING Mistake (talking shit about everyone - now everyone hates you) So you read some PUA because you were annoyed with an arrogant co-worker and then applied it and want the redpill community to bail you…
/r/askTRP05/02/17 11:02 PM
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Thanks for typing that out, i'm going to comeback and provide my thoughts later tonight, what I did notice was your experience with women branch swinging to other men (in this case white). Keep in mind losing a oneitis to a chad is common, and usually she's lost before chad gets there (AWALT). Oneitis is the epitome of a beta, a one legged PURPLE man with a little dick.... but badass personality is more attractive to her. In this case, I believe another man who had higher SMV just swooped in and…
/r/askTRP05/02/17 10:53 PM
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true, thats why i advocate COLD FUCKING TURKEY to accelerate the process.
/r/askTRP05/02/17 10:26 PM
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wiki is a good start, that where I began, I did it to understand why I was fearful of my opponents in sports competition and then it helped me in areas such as sexaul strategy and career.
/r/askTRP05/02/17 10:25 PM
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How many times were you flaping to porn per week (be honest) and how long(in years)? You most likely have porn induced ED which took me 8-12 weeks to fix, everything else looks fine. You must immediately stop flapping, watching porn and definitely stop flapping to porn. COLD FUCKING TURKEY You don't look at anything sexually graphic on a phone, computer or TV. Give it time 8-12 weeks, but can be as long as 26 weeks depending on how kinky/dirty the porn was.
/r/askTRP05/02/17 09:30 PM
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You come across as a logical guy someone who is analytical so to speak, which is why it's hard to understand this concept. So provide me from your logical observation your arguments and conclusion, and we'll start there.
/r/askTRP05/02/17 09:28 PM
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she was kinda starfishing No she was waiting for daddy(YOU!) to tell her what to do. "I'm just saying it's a ridiculously unbelievable situation to be in for a lifetime loser " No one cares, if you keep saying this in your mind you will project it sub-consciously and she will notice. Then you wonder why she stopped talking to you.
/r/askTRP05/02/17 09:18 PM
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Noflap and no porn, ceasing will make your cock hard as fuck if she just touches you(sleeping and dieting also factor into this). "I'm saying tips and tricks to make her wet / horny enough to take the lead a little bit" You taking the lead (dominance/alpha) gets her wet not the other way around. I'm assuming you want a woman to dominate you which a porno fantasy(fuck her a couple times then you can get into that). " Even with my excess confidence it's very very hard to not totally freak. " LOL "…
/r/askTRP05/02/17 08:59 PM
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cali, northern virginia/dc, chicago
/r/askTRP05/02/17 08:48 PM
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"There's more higher SMV white guys than higher SMV indian and korean guys out there." What proof do you have of this? a woman told you? all women tell you? remember listen to a woman's actions not her words.
/r/askTRP05/02/17 08:46 PM
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Joking eases the sexual tension(VERY BAD), dog somewhat cockblocked you, you were being a pussy by making it a big deal to kiss... Get her over again, kino as before and then just either kiss her or say something like "come here..." and start making out. While doing this grab her ass and tits, she'll probably shit test you but so read up on passing those. shit test tip: A. agree, amplify and change subject or B. agree and amplify or c. ignore girls say dumb irrelevant shit all the time before fu…
/r/askTRP05/02/17 08:39 PM
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Should've tried pulling her back before the end of the night, you could have thrown in plausible deniability to pull her back. (ie. stopped making out and mention you have XXX back at your place.) XXX = something situational you guys talked about or showing her something "On three occasions she suggested moving to a more secluded area " .. my bedroom is secluded, why didn't you say that? Also you failed A shit test, the age question ..... HUGE SHIT TEST response: "too old for you" or "that's rud…
/r/askTRP05/02/17 08:24 PM
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"I would ever want to try and reconstruct the relationship?" No " How can I best take advantage of this situation after being aware of a woman's true nature." Move on Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth d…
/r/askTRP05/02/17 08:07 PM
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concepts for you to review: IDGAF and outcome independence
/r/askTRP05/02/17 07:50 PM
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"I could tell she was bummed down" She should be grateful that you blessed her with your cock, for only she received the prize all women seek. Feel better? ....Good
/r/askTRP05/02/17 07:49 PM
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Cut out anything that could release dopamine, why? Dopamine gives you that "high" and constantly tiggering these highs cause a person to go to more extremes to get it back. also dopamine = blue pill read: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/356j96/dopamine/
/r/askTRP05/02/17 07:44 PM
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"How do I accept it and find comfort with this type of discomforting feeling?" Start reviewing concepts on IDGAF and outcome independence.
/r/askTRP05/02/17 07:39 PM
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dumb
/r/askTRP05/02/17 07:38 PM
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"We can generally agree that white men have it the easiest of all the races in terms of attracting women" Victim Mentality. This is an excuse, as a white dude I hear ALL the time that chicks want exoctic guys(black guys w BBC, persian guys because of their skin, european guys because of their accent), do i give a fuck? No You could be blue, purple or pink, if you are physically fit and have a high SMV women will gravitate to you.
/r/askTRP05/02/17 07:37 PM
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Seriously, NEVER, you will lose friends over this. "“The Matrix is a system, Neo. That system is our enemy. But when you're inside, you look around, what do you see? Businessmen, teachers, lawyers, carpenters. The very minds of the people we are trying to save. But until we do, these people are still a part of that system and that makes them our enemy. You have to understand, most of these people are not ready to be unplugged. And many of them are so inured, so hopelessly dependent on the system…
/r/askTRP05/02/17 05:50 PM
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shit test, would've responded with: "too old for you" (my favorite) "thats rude to ask" (sarcastic voice) "are you hitting on me?" (flip the script on her)
/r/askTRP05/02/17 11:04 AM
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I can't practice TRP at ALL because I am not given a chance OP you are playing the victim card hard all post and the last line is the epitome of it, I can't tell if you are trolling us or not.
/r/askTRP05/02/17 08:06 AM
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You could be displaying high SMV and they are seeking your approval/validation.
/r/askTRP05/02/17 07:00 AM
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If you become a high SMV you can can white, black or purple women
/r/askTRP05/02/17 06:38 AM
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"Indian is currently the worst race to be." self limiting thought/ excuse ... rid yourself of these. "they really don't like Indian guys in places like New York and New Jersey." what? where did you hear this because I see Indian guys doing well over here on the east coast.
/r/askTRP05/02/17 05:50 AM
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no problem
/r/askTRP05/02/17 05:47 AM
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" I'm way too comfortable around you, I love how we never run out of stuff to talk about BFF". I'm thinking this is a shit test. "She gets a call from her sister and I take her home." why didn't you escalate in the car? or when you guys just sat and talked?
/r/askTRP05/02/17 05:46 AM
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no, you did well, stop seeking approval through her responses. remember: Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was.
/r/askTRP05/02/17 05:14 AM
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here it is: listen to her actions not her words https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/497l53/listen_to_her_actions_not_her_words/
/r/askTRP05/02/17 04:37 AM
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"she can't be surprised that I didn't contact her, you know? It's what she wanted." There is a valuable lesson to be learned my friend. Don't listen to her words, Watch her actions. ie classic example: "We aren't having sex today"
/r/askTRP05/02/17 04:17 AM
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IT/computer science/engineering: 60k starting Interviewing for a job that takes me into 6 figures annually on monday, studying right now for it. me: engineering m 28 If you never want to have to worry about money or finding a job again, then this is a good route.
/r/askTRP05/02/17 04:12 AM
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Savage comment but true, just ask your : "Am I a man or Am I a bitch"
/r/askTRP05/02/17 04:04 AM
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reported
/r/askTRP05/02/17 03:59 AM
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start going to the gym and lifting weights
/r/askTRP05/02/17 03:56 AM
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"I ignored the texts, but... I feel childish and beta ignoring completely." Don't feel that way, on your end you look alpha AF actually, put yourself in her shoes, she's thinking: "why hasn't he said ANYTHING, OMG, WTF... 3 months! did he have other options ??? Was I not good enough??? does he not care???" her hamster is running wild, respond with: a. no response b. nah c. no thanks So let's analyze her behavior and then think of the motivator behind it. Her behavior is communicating via text to…
/r/askTRP05/02/17 03:52 AM
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Unethical is all relative and SJW throw that around to get all riled up, but I consider this in the chamber of secrets: https://illimitablemen.com/power/ Read it ALL for understanding and application
/r/askTRP05/02/17 12:43 AM
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A man offering way too much upfront commitment in exchange for not enough affection/sex is not only a poor SMP negotiator, supplicating like this makes him downright unattractive even to low-value women. READ:https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/5s3zoz/fuckonomics_205_beating_briffaults_law_and_covert/
/r/askTRP05/02/17 12:28 AM
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What Arcturus said, as well sometimes you should reflect on how far you've come. The type of questions you are asking are going from HOW(beginner) to OPTIMIZATION(intermediate), which is more advanced thinking and that's good. What you are learning is that you have A LOT to learn, what you want to think about is prioritizing. Think about what's important first because not all these activities are equal. Keep moving forward, you are doing fine
/r/askTRP05/02/17 12:09 AM
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From my perspective, I try to focus on self-improvement and my life's mission as well as aspects that could facilitate those two things. I try my best to mitigate costs(not just financial) along the way, and in your case the investment in this women will cost time, energy, money as well as other things I can't imagine you experiencing. There are a lot of fish in the sea, so it's up to you what the next step is, but I don't see this going in a positive direction for you.
/r/askTRP05/02/17 12:01 AM
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You are in a tough spot, and you won't like my answer, but if you want it then you'll have to watch out for numero uno. PM me or reply
/r/askTRP04/02/17 11:31 PM
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these are concepts that address his questions, YOU can spoon feed him the answers. How to not feel jealousy when your woman are flirting with other guys in front of you? abundance mentality How should you react to this in front of others?IDGAF
/r/askTRP04/02/17 11:26 PM
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You are not going to like this answer (and slightly depressing at first) : It doesn't matter, why? ... hypergamy - AWALT That's why we preach self improvement and focusing on our life's mission.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 11:11 PM
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Focus on your mission and self improvement, start today! Gym - lifting, diet, sleep, career develop, thinking/finding about life's mission should be your focus for now. If you don't have these yet, figure out why then start there.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 11:07 PM
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Go to have fun bro and show people you are a cool dude. IF he cock blocks.. maintain the IDGAF attitude "If I get drunk this guy is gonna tell my parents." FUCK it .. dont worry, just say that guy was wasted Look into outcome dependency/IDGAF... Show up in just your ninja turtle underwear with sunglasses, tell the crew you only respond to those that call you DADDY. Don't take life too seriously and have fun
/r/askTRP04/02/17 10:45 PM
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She's your ex so it's irrelevant, but usually those guys shes fucking have high SMV/abundance so they don't have to give her commitment. She most likely discussed it with them, they denied it to her and she was fine fucking an alpha. Until someone of equal of higher value can provide her commitment, the dynamic changes if shes post wall because now she needs to look for a provider since the alphas couldn't commit and her SMV is declining.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 10:39 PM
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Depends on the boundary and what status she has earned with me. For example, an LTR who cheat, then I'd reduce to low place status or drop. What, boundary are you referring to here because not all boundaries are the same.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 10:32 PM
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TLDR: I was a bit harsh but I provided my thoughts and you should definitely soft next this chick, then move to plating(if you want too). "So I've been dating this rich girl for over a month with no action. " Irrelevant of her perceived high status, never move into any type of relationship(plates, STR, LTR, LDR, marriage) without fucking. " She says she won't just fuck anyone and wants to see if I'm "worth it". " translation: you are my beta orbiter and i'm waiting for other high SMV men to show…
/r/askTRP04/02/17 10:25 PM
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Highly recommend "The Rational Male" by Rollo T. and reading into Stoicism
/r/askTRP04/02/17 10:02 PM
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" I know it's pathetic" yes it is, but you've identified the issue and post it for help, and I respect that. READ: https://therationalmale.com/2016/12/28/disassembling-oneitis/ then read: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/5kqdyg/what_i_learned_from_fucking_my_oneitis/ if you have any questions, let me know
/r/askTRP04/02/17 10:00 PM
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Focusing on yourself, embracing the mindset of IDGAF, abundance and outcome independence
/r/askTRP04/02/17 09:53 PM
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Most girls are relatively attracted to the same qualities so they probably picked up on some beta qualities, you seem to know your weakness, see below: " Unfortunately, I'm generally very talkative when I'm in a good mood...my good mood often comes across as desperate, and my bad moods come across as "relaxed." Good self awareness, try to control those emotions, look into stoicism
/r/askTRP04/02/17 09:50 PM
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This is a great post, first you have to ask yourself: Why do you get this feeling of being too old?
/r/askTRP04/02/17 09:42 PM
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Emotional commitment = beta. Reactivity = emotional commitment. Caring = emotional commitment.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 09:40 PM
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"he said I'm average looking like most people and that I'm too serious, sad and intense and that is highly unattractive." Your doctor is RP "I have an otherwise rather successful life but relationships with women." Focus on yourself: lift hard, eat well, crush that degree, look into interships/jobs and the women will come. You may not be as successful as your peer YET, but your time will come. Also you come across as emotional (not a bad thing), you need to control it though, look into Stoicism.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 08:47 PM
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It is universal.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 08:43 PM
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Definitely bro code violation, expect him to find out and prepare for it(later down the road), other than that expect shit tests and pass them.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 08:42 PM
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you've pretended to be a 13 yo and 17yo on your other accounts, clicking X now
/r/askTRP04/02/17 08:17 PM
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Troll post - reported - you created this account 1 hour ago
/r/askTRP04/02/17 08:12 PM
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"For guys that don't drink does it affect your success with women? " No
/r/askTRP04/02/17 08:05 PM
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Review outcome independence and IDGAF, fortunately you are a man so unless you have extremely good (not you) or bad facial (not you) features then you are fine. Ya people may notice, ya people might stare, ya people might make a comment.. but they really don't care and neither should you.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 08:02 PM
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Well I have had unprotected sex and finished inside before under that pretense. Very manipulative behavior, exgf pulled this shit on me and I've seen it before w/ friends. So what I did was cut off the sex and went radio silence until she got tested. Do you have kids with her? if no, see below: Also from this comment you made "one time she threatened me to not doubt her baby again" this would imply she's lied to you before and is a extremely manipulating comment.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 07:20 PM
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Its kinda too late for that what do you mean?
/r/askTRP04/02/17 07:12 PM
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lift bigger (squat, deadlift and bench), noflap, no porn and 8 hours minimum sleep
/r/askTRP04/02/17 07:11 PM
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Do not cum in her under the impression she is already pregnant, she could be playing the angle that she's already pregnant so it wont matter. "any questioning is just doubt and lack of trust in her. " irrelevant, question her because you need answers to prepare for the next steps
/r/askTRP04/02/17 07:08 PM
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Get her tested, her subjective thoughts/feelings are irrelevant and after the test you'll know the facts.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 06:39 PM
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Continue plating, and "One girl flat-out hard nexted me upon finding out that I'm also dating another one." remember she's not yours, it just your turn. "after a while they will always admit they feel they are being taken advantage of (sex, yet no commitment)." Not surprised by her comment, the older the women the more often I hear this being made. FYI This is optimal Male sex strategy and female's push the opposite(no sex, commitment first) on us high value men.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 06:37 PM
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"Being the beta fag that I am, I ignore her and continue to lift as hard as I can." This is not you being a beta fag, I focus on myself at the gym, that is our time.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 06:31 PM
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why not?
/r/askTRP04/02/17 06:27 PM
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I am curious why in the last 18 hours this is the third poster mentioning social life after college or into the 30s. So what i've noticed is that this community has a wide range of individuals that are from different backgrounds and experiences while of course being at different stages in their life. To provide an example, RP-PLAYER1(P1): an EC could have come to TRP because he was divorce raped and now owes alimony+child support for the next 18 years. On the flip side, RP-PLAYER2(P2) is a guy w…
/r/askTRP04/02/17 06:24 PM
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"So a woman straight up telling you she wants you to lead would do good by you?" Try it and let us know what his response is, I don't think you can go wrong. You could say that I want you to lead, I find leaders of men/women a VERY attractive quality and you possess these abilities. This might give him a confidence boost, while it may be temporary but to transform a follower into a leader over a couple lines is impossible. I would positively reinforce leadership decisions/actions. Good or bad, i…
/r/askTRP04/02/17 05:52 PM
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Don't worry about what men tell women and vice-versa we think and communicate differently(covertly/overtly, logical/emotional). example from your comment: "I can bring up that I would love him making decisions without my input in the form of a story or example?" This is you being covert, TRP men pick up on this because we understand women and look for it but I doubt he will. I believe you want a confident man because a confident one knows what he wants, how he wants it, what to look for and pote…
/r/askTRP04/02/17 07:49 AM
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No problem, I knew something was different from the wording of the question. "I know that being direct and telling him is not the way to do it." Why not? "..but outside of sex is more difficult" What areas are you referring too?
/r/askTRP04/02/17 06:01 AM
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Might want you check your comprehension skills before getting butt hurt. What do you think my comment means?
/r/askTRP04/02/17 05:53 AM
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Proper response: Agree and Amplify, Nuke, refuse to take seriously and remain emotionally unfazed. Try different approaches to her shit tests.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 05:47 AM
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Women ALWAYS try to beta men. Emotional commitment = beta. Reactivity = emotional commitment. Caring = emotional commitment.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 05:44 AM
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The question is general in itself and not clear, I'd recommend looking into framing. If you can elaborate on what or why you want this then I can help more.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 05:37 AM
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"The thing that got me though, is I tried to escalate to sex again and she said "no I'm not having sex with you so don't even try making me horny."" Used sex as a weapon against you, has she done this before? I'm assuming there's more to the story than her shit testing you and then going straight to the sex. My recommendation is to go radio silence for a day, and this behavior needs to be negatively reinforced. The punishment should be someone NONsexual to make up for this behavior and it can no…
/r/askTRP04/02/17 05:24 AM
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Big mistake, what she was attracted too has changed, be careful, just keep in mind hypergamy and AWALT. BY neglecting yourself you lose SMV and I'm imaging other areas are affected by your lack of motivation, you open up the opportunity for her to consider branch swinging if another high value guy comes around. You need to transition your workout philosophy from attracting chicks when single(not a bad motivation) to doing it for yourself regardless of relationship status. Remember this : Marriag…
/r/askTRP04/02/17 05:03 AM
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should've plated, don't need to promise commitment if you don't want it.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 04:47 AM
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go to married redpill sub reddit
/r/askTRP04/02/17 03:57 AM
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OP - I dominated college and that was without a sick job, awesome body and TRP knowledge, so I have no idea WTF you are talking about.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 02:49 AM
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What are you guys doing tomorrow? Ice skating is the perfect date for kino-ing, which is very strange, you fucked up somewhere. I would be escalating to a place for sex if you do meet tomorrow, otherwise wait till monday
/r/askTRP04/02/17 02:46 AM
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try to learn from our comments OP
/r/askTRP04/02/17 02:26 AM
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Bro I like the ambition, you are sending some SUPER MASSSIVELY cringe worthy texts, and i'm surprised she sent you a text back. Usually guys just get completely ignored. Im going to be honest, the approach from the beginning is weak/bad, and have some work to do. creeping on a gym girls IG and then messaging her when you see her at the gym = low confidence as well as creepy and buffers the rejection than just going up to her in the gym . The texts are plain, boring, uncreative, needy and validat…
/r/askTRP04/02/17 02:18 AM
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call her a uber/lyft (taxi)
/r/askTRP04/02/17 01:28 AM
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wait - I made this mistake, still did well, but had regrets.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 01:25 AM
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were you saying that lacking these personality is low smv in general or was your comment based on my personality's description? in general, obviously since i don't know you, practicing frame helped me as well. "should I bother gaming chicks yet or wait it out until I am where I want to be?" Don't over think this, focus on yourself and the mission(80%), but also keep/ generate options with chicks(20%). Thats how i break it down, the good old 80/20 rule.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 01:19 AM
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How to do the things you fear? You are afraid of rejection, just look into outcome independence and IDGAF. Also looking into what the psychology of fear is could help
/r/askTRP04/02/17 01:10 AM
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Shit test - you answered fine best approach: agree, amplify and change subject ie "ya, she could've seen us fucking, x" x = Whatever subject you want, something non sexual
/r/askTRP04/02/17 01:00 AM
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wait another 30-45 mins, she could be weighing her options, then fire off "did you get lost looking for my chocolate?"
/r/askTRP04/02/17 12:58 AM
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"What I'm looking for is advice." Don't kill yourself "I see the fat fuck staring back at me in the mirror." You'll want to start lifting heavy and focus on nutrition, links in sidebar. Nutrition is the key because you can't out work/lose fat with a bad diet. "Recently I even tried to plate up with a coworker.. BLAHBLAHALASsdjsd" We do not shit where we eat and your co-workers opinions of you are irrelevant, stop apologizing and look into the concept of outcome independency/IDGAF. "I get the kno…
/r/askTRP04/02/17 12:54 AM
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Agreed, she tested you here and you failed, Jackgetsit is 100% correct. The only thing to add here is that you reinforced her belief of being a beta by ignoring her, it shows you are emotionally. I woud radio silence her, study the concepts mentioned and re-engage at a later time. If she mentions it then play it off like you didn't notice anything and change subjects
/r/askTRP04/02/17 12:45 AM
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out of shape/fat = low smv face, unless you look fucking ugly or great = irrelevant personality if not outcome indenpendent, idgaf or abundance then probably low smv glasses drop those indicates bad health, go with contacts. what I can do in all these domains to improve my SMV? Start heavy lifting no one will say to your face that you look fat or your stomach is bad. Focus on your life's mission, and cater your choices, education and network around that. As men our SMV value peaks at 36 so focus…
/r/askTRP04/02/17 12:39 AM
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outcome independence - you are the prize and she'll be lucky to taste your galaxy chocolate covered cock
/r/askTRP04/02/17 12:33 AM
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stupid - pua opinion opener - we are bosses over here and don't need scripts
/r/askTRP04/02/17 12:31 AM
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ICE COLD "it is, and don't forget the chocolate I like galaxy. "
/r/askTRP04/02/17 12:29 AM
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1st rule, don't go on dates without a potential to get laid, which means you want logistics. (you unnecessarily restrict yourself) "Also went great but this time I felt like I was getting mixed signals." You had weak frame, you gauged her "feelings" thought the date wasn't going well and it affected your confidence. Just review frame ie outcome independency, idgaf and abundance "How to go on from here?" Focus on studying frame/mindset, meet new chicks, figure out logistics, don't text her for 3 …
/r/askTRP04/02/17 12:26 AM
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"Its is, and don't forget the x, i like y " Have her pick up either wine or chocolate and follow below: x= wine or chocolate y= if wine then say "i like merlot" or if chocolate "i like dark chocolate' Strategy: agree and change subject do not break frame if she brings up booty call, just tell her again "dont forget the chocolate"
/r/askTRP04/02/17 12:19 AM
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"I dont get why girls wont reply or text me first." 1. you come across as needy (beta quality) multiple texts demonstrate this 2. she's texting someone who has more SMV, possible since she just met you "Like almost never. It's me who has to text first every damn time and ask her for next meeting." You sound frustrated, and probably convey this subconsciously through words/actions to girls, they keep up on these easily and fast. " mean, if they dont find me atractive then why the fuck they are me…
/r/askTRP04/02/17 12:13 AM
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Don't go to the movies, why? it's not interactive, costs money and little kino to be had. At your age I explored cool areas with chicks and played casual tennis (girls dress slutty and tease them because they suck). Girls will try to make you out as a dick, maybe even shit test you about talking to others or being a player, blahahah etc... look how to pass these shit test (aka study) and if you dont want a chick then ghost/next/radio silence her
/r/askTRP04/02/17 12:02 AM
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I did competitive gaming for a year and stopped 3 weeks ago. Just think about what's important in your life and what's not, hiding your system or selling it won't be enough. You'll have to change whats on the inside and then have the discipline. I walk past my ps4 everyday as a reminder of what is not important, kick this habit asap.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 11:57 PM
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""so what time are we doing tonight? I'm out with my parents till 7 xx"." Correct response, would have been: "I'll see later at xpm", keep plans a mystery = excitement for her hamster "Waited till 5pm and text her something along the lines of "so yeah, about tonight... I can't make it ;) Jokes." about tonight... I can't make it ;) Jokes. I strongly discourage guys from saying "JK, jokes, im sorry" anything that distracts from your original comment, why? it breaks the sexual tension and your fram…
/r/askTRP03/02/17 11:44 PM
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So you went to the plugged in and told them your RP toughts, what did you expect?
/r/askTRP03/02/17 11:33 PM
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Until she fucks your high smv friend then divorce rapes you for your house, car, child support and alimony support. Then you owe half your pay checks to her for 18 years while you realized how you've squandered your life and never accomplished your dreams
/r/askTRP03/02/17 11:24 PM
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no problem, you will have tough choices ahead, but that is part of being a man. good luck and study hard
/r/askTRP03/02/17 11:16 PM
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You are in the depression stage : https://therationalmale.com/2012/07/25/the-5-stages-of-unplugging/ Its better than being plugged in TRUST ME, you just dont see it yet, start with sidebar reading
/r/askTRP03/02/17 11:14 PM
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irrelevant, you aren't picking sides.. this is doing what's best for you. You are a man now and need to begin your life's purpose, she will understand in the future, it will be hard for her to let go of you.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 11:10 PM
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"ya its gonna get weird, bring your favorite pjs" agree, amplify and change subject, and NO smileys (seriously no smileys to shit tests)
/r/askTRP03/02/17 11:08 PM
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fine - highway, go to your dads and study
/r/askTRP03/02/17 11:05 PM
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"My mother is overbearing, pushy and I don't feel I'm allowed the space to become the man I want to be. " This is an excuse, you need to put yourself first so whatever you need to do to help you pass that exam(s).
/r/askTRP03/02/17 11:05 PM
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never call a girl sweetie/cutie/honey bf has a point "I met the girl on Tinder" - shes DTF Easy game, ignore the boyfriend he sees you as a sexual rival, and is hoping to intimidate you. Just communicate with her under the mindset you IDGAF, abundance and outcome independent. She will shit test you about her BF be prepared, this means she likes you and is evaluating her options of him relative to you. You should NEVER bring him up, if he is acting this needy he'll blow himself out with her.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 11:02 PM
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"What are some shit tests you've all done on women?" I test their frame to see if they believe their own BS, they fail because they don't expect to be challenged increasing their attraction to me " Did you have a specific goal in mind regarding the result you wanted? " Creates the illusion I am the prize and the selector "Or is using them more a steering motion for women?" They do this to decipher if you are actually the man you present yourself to be, used to break your frame, same concept as i…
/r/askTRP03/02/17 10:55 PM
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Review -IDGAF
/r/askTRP03/02/17 10:52 PM
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ppzhao gets it, this was a shit and would be a decent response.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 10:51 PM
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"You really worry me sometimes. I feel the need to mother you" Shit test ""you give me anxiety with how weird you are"" shit test Side: she's testing your frame, how did you respond?
/r/askTRP03/02/17 10:49 PM
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I understand the challenge/excitement of smashing a taken chick, then throw in the fact you liked this chick and it gets revenge over someone who fucked you over 10 years ago... we both know what you want to do.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 10:42 PM
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Too generic to give feedback but chicks have tons of dudes doing this to them, essentially your group has to provide more value than others. Ask yourself how do I/my crew differentiate from the competition.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 10:38 PM
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" I'm just wondering if anyone else has had any experience with girls with depression? Is it a red flag, or can it work in some cases? Any advice?" red flag no doubt, agree with EC here, do NOT play Capt'n save a HO
/r/askTRP03/02/17 10:34 PM
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second abdada here
/r/askTRP03/02/17 10:33 PM
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"seems a bit cruel to me" hypergamy is cruel
/r/askTRP03/02/17 10:31 PM
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"he simply tells me how she's in a very depressed phase and is pushing me away by her behavior because of how down she feels, whilst saying that she needs her family right now, specifically her mother and god, also apologized to me." translation: She found someone else do not believe her BS for one second. "I feel the 'human' thing to do would be to go over, surprise her and comfort her but I don't think you guys would agree with me." No, radio silence her for two weeks
/r/askTRP03/02/17 10:30 PM
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"But I would want to know, for future use, if it would be a good idea to try to hook up with their friends. Could that backfire on me here in the workplace?" yes Dangerous game, do you think a chick is worth the risk of your career and reputation ? If yes then you do not understand TRP, why? you are choosing 1 chick >lifes mission
/r/askTRP03/02/17 10:26 PM
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Wants your attention knowing you get notifications, she hoping you reach out to her as a result of your curiosity. "I'll admit, part of me is still a bit raw about the whole my friend betraying me and hooking up with the girl he knew I was obsessed with, so I really wouldn't feel guilty about hooking up with his wife if it's on the table." Get over it, getting revenge with actions over 10 years is only keeping you in the past. I imagine she is probing you to get a reaction, I'd move on here to o…
/r/askTRP03/02/17 10:21 PM
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"My dilemma is then, how do I present commonly accepted RP teachings in such a manner as to not get fired myself, and to ensure I can make my charges the most capable leaders, military officers, and men in the future?" No, this is known as red pill knighting, you will be shunned and outcast, trust me. Don't share it with family, friends or co-workers. Think of the matrix, why didn't they try to unplug everyone at once? These people are apart of the system and they'll doing anything to maintain/f…
/r/askTRP03/02/17 10:08 PM
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"Was that a fail?" No What's the best answer you have ever given that instantly turned her on cause you passed the test? "Im too old for you" then change subject
/r/askTRP03/02/17 01:48 PM
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Irrelevant what her thoughts are, you are a wine my man, the older the better. You won't understand that but chicks love more experienced, successful and stable guys. PROTIP: if she calls you old that is a MEGA SHIT test.. when you pass then you get the poon btw im 28 M and 19-21 Fs do this all the time to me so you are fine
/r/askTRP03/02/17 10:40 AM
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No, you are there for yourself and this is the time for self improvement, no obstacles will get in your way.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 10:32 AM
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"Too old for you" then change the subject, never answer this question, it keeps her curious about you.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 10:31 AM
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Interesting, I hardly invest emotional events from the past into my chicks, it usually irrelevant to them anyway. I could see it being used a little bit in the comfort stage before seduction but otherwise nice holding frame, you dont need to take advice from her.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 10:29 AM
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go to the gym and write out your life's mission(don't have ..think on it)
/r/askTRP03/02/17 09:54 AM
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You are on a dangerous path, I believe that you want this girl because you can't face rejection/are hiding from a more normal HB. I cannot advise anymore, good luck.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 09:40 AM
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you were 17 on the other post with erectile dysfunction
/r/askTRP03/02/17 09:35 AM
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That detail helps more, but from this comment: "now looking back I'm not sure if i should've said that stuff. " There is a reason you mentioned this, maybe you felt the dynamic in the conversation change, something in your instinct gave you this indication. So what happened after you told her this, give us details.. what was her body language like, what was her reaction, her mood.. etc
/r/askTRP03/02/17 09:34 AM
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troll posting
/r/askTRP03/02/17 09:19 AM
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troll post
/r/askTRP03/02/17 09:17 AM
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"I've met a college girl who is sad, lonely and bipolar." OP you know what we are going to tell you, we do not "practice" anything on the emotionally unstable regardless of our experience. How old are you?
/r/askTRP03/02/17 09:13 AM
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"which led to me talking about my personal history. " mistake Hurt you but no in a smv way, chicks like a mystery and they like figuring out what makes you tick, logically it makes sense to open up but you did it too early. If anything you might've showed a beta tendencies (no offense) depending on how intense the conversation got, remember we are to be stoic. There are some great reads on that in this community. EXTRA I had to pay my own way too, and guess what? no one gives a fuck it can only …
/r/askTRP03/02/17 09:07 AM
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pull some ass see if she can get you hard, work on yourself in the mean time, it'll be a challenge but take it one day at a time.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 08:24 AM
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(3 months minimum) seriously cold turkey, COLD. No flap, no porn and definitely no flap with watching porn.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 08:19 AM
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1-2 weeks LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL. These guys haven't experienced what you've been through, its like a clean person giving a hardcore druggie advice, they have no idea how bad it is.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 08:18 AM
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Don't be I had it at 27 with an HB8, it was embarrassing but she was a nurse and told me what to do. "Unfortunately this is true. But how will I know when I'm cured without testing out my dick with a woman?" You'll want to fuck everything that walks(3 months minimum), but seriously cold turkey, COLD. No flap, no porn and definitely no flap with watching porn.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 08:15 AM
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"Other than that, my brain wiring isn't suitable to just get off on regular sex with a woman." Seriously, stop flapping. " I realize I have a serious porn addiction" stop flapping Yes, you have porn induced ED and I am not joking, you need to stop watching porn and stop flapping. If you have been doing this for years then it might take 3-12 months, don't believe me? Do some research on it, you must have been looking at some pretty kinky shit to get this deep.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 08:09 AM
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Thanks for sharing, good to know Tank just downloaded the RP self evident program into your brain.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 08:01 AM
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No one cares if you are short, and you are young so you'll grow. Learn to pass shit tests, dont be lazy, found this in 5 seconds https://illimitablemen.com/2014/12/14/the-shit-test-encyclopedia/ Guys shit on you to disqualify you as a sexual rival, won't be the last time either. Get to the gym, focus on mission, read trp sidebar
/r/askTRP03/02/17 07:52 AM
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exactly, you beat me too it :)
/r/askTRP03/02/17 07:46 AM
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Simple, you male (Logical) argued with a female (emotional), never a good thing. As you know it was a mistake arguing with an emotionally charged female because they literally don't understand rational solutions in this state. I would have agreed with her, told her to go back inside and I'll handle it. Side: "it's literally the same as being out with a girl, and having her punch some guy in the stomach and then hiding behind you" If she assaults someone then she is on her own, our health is one …
/r/askTRP03/02/17 07:41 AM
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I get suspicious when a youtube video has comments and the rating bar disabled, not to mention it's two hours, can you give us a TLDW (didn't watch) summary.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 06:30 AM
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Honestly I just use the app and swipe right on as many chicks as possible. Then try to move onto getting a date with HB6.5s and above, then move to the ground n pound ;)
/r/askTRP03/02/17 06:16 AM
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Two things I noticed i'd recommend not doing getting a 2nd dog and getting into an LTR as you mentioned, both I believe would only facilitate in this lonely and emotional stage. You have a tricky post here because you workout, sleep, have decent hobbies, understand rp concepts, decent job and a future business plan. My thought is that while you've provided us a nice and long post, that there is more to your story, something is missing. Below reveals the root issue: "I'm feeling kind of emotionle…
/r/askTRP03/02/17 06:12 AM
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I havent heard this term, what is tinder slideshow?
/r/askTRP03/02/17 05:57 AM
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"it appears escalating and practicing with women I find attractive is my biggest thing." You are the prize, present yourself in a way that projects IDGAF and abundance, look this up and study it.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 05:56 AM
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"how should I act?" Similar as before just a tad less of a dick, expect her to pull the same shit, don't fail this time. "How should I maintain the balance so we can be mutually respectable to each other? " Similar as before just a tad less of a dick "did I already fuck up the dynamic by submitting to her frame?" You fucked up, but you are going in with a IDGAF attitude. If she attempts to guilt you then you are falling into her frame that you are a savage dick. If/when she does this ignore her …
/r/askTRP03/02/17 05:52 AM
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Sounds like a rant post "tinder bitches - they were both a hassle and a waste of my time" In PUA terms you sound like average frustrated chump, provide us with a field report and we can help you out with this. I have a tinder plus account and I am fairly successful, keep in mind the goal is to escalate[get on dates] as fast as possible on these sites.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 05:41 AM
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"she didn't even bother to wear makeup or do her hair. " She was comfortable but probably isn't trying to fuck you, hence the lack of effort, I am under the impression you told her that you liked her (mistake). Think about it, her value is in her sexual appeal, why would she not look her best for you? Work on framing that you are THE PRIZE and display to her that she needs to impress you to earn the D. Your mind will be blown by the level of effort she puts into her appearance.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 05:30 AM
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Deny to the grave, if other girls in the social circle shit test you on the hook up, then they want to fuck you. Depending on where you stand in the group is whether or not she'll tell her friends, ie if you more beta she'll be covert because it'll lower her value or if you on the top (more alpha/leader) then she'll be overt. In being overt she'll think telling her girls disqualifies others from pursuing you(this makes you look good AF).
/r/askTRP03/02/17 05:18 AM
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Changing up my diet, identifying what stressed me out and sleeping helped me with this issue. Staying busy with sidebar is always good, knowledge is power.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 05:11 AM
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"There's a girl at my work who has a crush on me" Do NOT attempt to pursue a chick at work, we do not shit where we eat. Start lifting, read trp sidebar, try going out with friends and work on your mission in life (dont have one? then start finding out)
/r/askTRP03/02/17 05:07 AM
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"I have anger problems and I am emotionally unstable." bad, beta tendency, you want to look into stoicism. "She broke down in tears again and said that she doesn't think she can be friends with me anymore because ..etc" Hard to tell from your description, but i'm leaning towards a shit test over a comfort test, in which case you should've Agreed and Amplified(not possible with your chick IMO), Nuked, refused to take seriously and remain emotionally unfazed. "I told her that I am struggling with …
/r/askTRP03/02/17 05:04 AM
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"Instead of being the athlete or the guy whose parents let him play sports, he was told to stay inside by his parents and as a result resorted to playing videogames and eating junk food." Take accountability here, this is not your parents fault, you are responsible for yourself. Nevertheless it is never too late, and in your early 20s is a good time to start. Males peak physically on average around 28/29 and nutrition is half the battle maybe even moreso. Depends on your level of dedication, if …
/r/askTRP03/02/17 04:47 AM
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You guys make a lot of sense, I'll keep my ego investment into this as low as possible so to understand others points of view on this subject.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 03:20 AM
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"I am a highly sexually charged human being, I have no filter, I say whatever the fuck I want, and the girls, they EAT THAT SHIT UP." Highly sexually charged, probably from NoFlap, decent diet and working out. Furthermore, this is good mindset as it demonstrates to them[girls] abundance men., idgaf and outcome independence. I would go more into the details like above of the RP concepts you are applying as it helps readers know what to look up. For example "Now this is the hard part, you must be …
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 02:34 AM
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Same shit with me, I recommend buying a carry around jumper starter off amazon or going to your local auto shop to charge/replace your battery. The carry around jumper starter is quick and easy, albeit I did look stupid for awhile having to jump my shit all the time.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 02:25 AM
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In college they rode the CC to find the highest SMV guys (usually in fraternities or athletes) and now they can jump on a newer ride CC 2.0. Not surprised. AWALT.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 02:21 AM
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Find out what is holding you back and start, maybe you are scared of looking like a weak pussy, dont be... everyone starts somewhere and neglecting to go is the worst.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 02:18 AM
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goodluck
/r/askTRP03/02/17 02:14 AM
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No, not possible but.. Surgery they inject fat to increase girth, otherwise you can create the illusion of size through good diet, working out and shaving pubic hair.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 02:12 AM
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Not texting her creates mystery, think less is more, and this advice is given because a lot of guys say stupid shit that ends up backfiring on them
/r/askTRP03/02/17 02:09 AM
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"This seems like a darker side of rp and the spinning of plates. Have you guys experienced something similar? How do you handle it?" I covered this.. I have you to cover the others :)
/r/askTRP03/02/17 02:01 AM
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I'm going a little off course with this just because of her age, her being a slacker could be her attributed to you having your shit together and she sees you as a provider. I would be cautious here, especially as she nears closer to the age of 21, right now her age restricts her from a lot of nightlife activities. Be prepared for her going out, unfortunately my friend was in a similar situation with a "perfect christian" girl. My buddy 25 dated a chick from 18 to 21 and literally a month after …
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 01:57 AM
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no doubt you are getting played, chicks have their phone on hand 24/7, she's just ignoring you. Ghost mode, remember we analyze her actions NOT her words, clearly she is leading you on.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 01:33 AM
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I'd go back to the basics here and focus on yourself, continue lifting and find that life mission. Look into going into Monk Mode, just take a step back to go a few forward.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 01:29 AM
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"Do you ever think about me" shit test Depends what you want, just keep in mind you want to display IDGAF and abundance.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 01:24 AM
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"Side note, do you guys think there's a breaking point for plates where they expect commitment for further sex?" We don't negotiate for sex (ie commitment for sex )
/r/askTRP03/02/17 01:22 AM
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Remain stoic, she is looking for you to be her rock, this comes across as a comfort test to me. Comfort Tests: An often emotional and flailing about test to determine if you 'love' her and will comfort her with your masculine presence when necessary. Are you her rock? They come from a place of desperation and pain and are usually pleading and begging. Proper response: Take her in your arms, give her some of your masculine energy and calm, and don't let go until she is reassured that everything i…
/r/askTRP03/02/17 01:21 AM
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If you want, should be easy if you have an iphone or android, it covers your back no doubt.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 01:08 AM
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Outcome independence is key My roommate had a great line "we'll cross that bridge when we get there" then change subject
/r/askTRP03/02/17 01:07 AM
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fair enough, sounds like you are going for a LTR, check out vetting concepts/posts
/r/askTRP03/02/17 01:05 AM
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No just leave, if you tell her then the hamster starts to spin and then she might pull some crazy shit
/r/askTRP03/02/17 01:00 AM
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Not much information was provided, but I would get on the plane and never look back, I did this to my LTR of 5 year... best decision ever.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 12:59 AM
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"(no sex has happened yet)" ummm what? The redpill way would not be putting yourself in this position. Shes A.) fucking someone else B.) waiting to find someone else C.) why are you still talking to her Next her and the question is irrelevant
/r/askTRP03/02/17 12:56 AM
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"What happens? Bf is on hook for child support? Assuming there's a break up" She most likely will keep the baby because she wanted to deceive the fuck out of the guy. Obviously we'll be on the hook for child support, good luck proving fraudulent behavior on the women in court. He'll definitely want to get a paternity test to confirm if the child is his, which he should do before signing any papers his exgf gives him. If he signs, then he risks paying for child support of another man's child.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 12:51 AM
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Be efficient, less is more and she thinks you are attractive enough to have swiped right. Go for meet up asap, my dialogue below, irrelevant what she says.......(savage i know). ME: Hi her: blaahhahgaha ME: why are you on tinder? her: blaahhahgaha ME: Im looking for something similar, but im not in a rush her: blaahhahgaha ME: you seem interesting, whats your number, im free after 730pm most night her: number (I assume the sale) If she doesn't respond within 24-36 hours then i send the next line…
/r/askTRP03/02/17 12:43 AM
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Keep working on yourself and fucks sake 24yo, you are a baby.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 12:38 AM
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"They love it, but they're there to dance, not meet guys." - plausible deniability(PD) learn this concept. HAAHAha "there to dance, not meet guys." suuuuuuurreeee trp teaches us to see through this, your advantage is that you are athletic and can dance. Ask her out to drinks after then invite her to your place to "practice" more (an example of PD) Note to self: dayum i need to learn dancing
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 12:37 AM
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"My goal has been to make many friends with women, but it hasn't gotten me anywhere."..."never had a hookup or a LTR." Change your goal, look into the concept of plating, you might be interested in taking this approach with women. It sounds as though you might be too focused on comfort without creating sexual tension or escalating. You'd have to provide more information on how you achieve this goal of friend-zoning yourself. Generally, this is a beta tendency, they hope providing emotional suppo…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 12:03 AM
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We come to the redpill for a sexual strategy, only to discover that it doesn't exist. quite the paradox
/r/askTRP02/02/17 11:39 PM
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Lift at least 3 times per week, focus on compound movements: squats, deadlifts, press. eat well, focus good hygiene and style Sleep at least 8 hours nightly. find your life's mission find who can help you in that mission save and invest in your money when you have time, learn more rp concepts and apply them to your life compare this list with yours, and notice what I didn't mention on this list .
/r/askTRP02/02/17 11:02 PM
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"Then she did the "I will be vulnerable and sad and cry" method which usually is my weakness." Classic manipulation. Just remember: When you take away attention and commitment is when the power dynamic switches. You took away attention, and her hamster started spinning, why did he stop talking to me???? Then she resorts to different tactics that become more extreme to get back what she lost. Unless there is a reason that you need to contact her then stay away, she is an exe for a reason.
/r/askTRP02/02/17 10:56 PM
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PM - if you have more links or material that could be added
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 09:56 PM
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I recommend reading what the community has defined as alpha v beta before posting to a newbie who will be mislead by what you've provided "A Beta is someone who hasn't taken the red pill. " um? No "An alpha is a man who knows what's really up, and uses it to his advantage." What? "Be an Alpha" Alpha is a mindset.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 09:35 PM
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Check under sidebar to the right section on "Rules and Glossary" - Glossary of terms and acronyms. "If women are as emotionally immature and ridiculous as you all make out, are you saying your own use for them is sex?" No, I want my laundry, cooking and cleaning done too.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 09:28 PM
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"For someone it's easier, for someone like me, always so sensitive, it's just like saying that all my life so far (I'm 27) it's been a lie." - yes, you have been lied too just as everyone else has been. Im late 20s as well, my journey started with PUA before thinking to myself there has to be something more, then after a bad relationship and her wild justifications (glitch in the matrix) my confusion lead me here for answers. ― Morpheus The Matrix: Let me tell you why you're here. You're here be…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 04:35 PM
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She wasn't yours, it was just your turn. "In the end, this might be better for me." It will be better for you. Start lifting and focus on reading some of the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 03:44 AM
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"I just wanted to talk to someone" Ya that person is a lawyer now, spend the money, higher quality one is better. Do not contact that chick. Get a lawyer, seriously do not talk to anyone without a lawyer present. No one cares that you were raped and bring this up only makes you look worse, if you didn't do it then no sweat. You'll need any type of proof that it was consensual, texts, calls, photos, video records of you and her (street corner cams, office cams, bar cams etc..). Have you hooked up…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 02:04 AM
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hahaa many articles written on SMV as well as this graph, but you only asked for the graph. Do some research, this is widely accepted throughout the community.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 12:36 AM
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"how do you handle the people who match with you but clearly aren't as interested as this girl was?" Thats why you try to meet as soon as possible, clearly your girl was into you and DTF. I'd have to write a post on it because if I just tell you what I do then you'll want to know the psychology behind it. But basically, I swipe right on EVERY girl, I cut out all chicks 6.5/10 and below(roughly have 800 matches), On my matches my mind is framed that they are DTF, I have my lines written out on my…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 12:26 AM
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https://rationalmale.files.wordpress.com/2012/05/smv_curve1.jpg
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 12:12 AM
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"Go figure Nice Guys fall prey to the two-faced preying nature of BPDs disguised as soul mates or house pets. Based on what he told me about her shady behavior lately, she's found a new man." Translation: Woman utilizing hypergamy by trapping BP beta for provisioning purposes under the the social construct soulmate myth. Women optimizing her sexual strategy by locking in BP beta and fucking an alpha. LESSON: AWALT
/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 06:06 PM
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Alpha is a mindset https://therationalmale.com/2011/10/20/alpha/ https://therationalmale.com/2012/02/21/defining-alpha/ https://therationalmale.com/2012/06/29/the-origin-of-alpha/
/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 12:32 AM
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"she just happen to be getting on her car, so I follow her" I'm calling BS on this, society would call this stalking, don't insult our intelligence. Nevertheless, you came to the right community to help you. You sound like a frustrated chump, so you need to start working on yourself and you aren't beta, you have a beta mindset. The best place is to start at the top of the RP sidebar and go to the bottom. I would mitigate contact with your exwife as much as possible.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 09:45 PM
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Nice, l can re-redirect them here, these are crucial reads to help them understand how to break down that ego investment of what they formerly believed.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 09:18 PM
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Thirded. Wants to justify banging him during your "break" .. sneaky girl
/r/askTRP31/01/17 07:56 PM
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OP - Open your mouth for daddy and say AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
/r/askTRP31/01/17 07:54 PM
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YOU dirty dog. I like it. With the cheating, if you suspect it, trust your instincts.. don't try to rationalize it with him being a beta. Why wouldn't this sister your dating, try to sleep with another one of her sister's ex/bfs? She did it with you, obviously no loyalty to each other.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 07:43 PM
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"Yet sometimes they hangout alone when the other friends don´t have the time and i'm asking myself what the possibility of cheating is." Yes, your sister's boyfriend has banged your girl, let me ask what else would a guy and girl not related be doing alone? Why would he be alone with her if he wasn't getting any? He's preselected by your sister and hanging out alone with an attractive girl(unless she's ugly). Here's the kicker.. she know's you'll never find out, women are very covert
/r/askTRP31/01/17 07:31 PM
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"Maybe a post prioritizing some areas to look at. You could write this. I can post it this weekend and give you credit if it's good enough." that's fine I'll PM what I put together
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 07:11 PM
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Had this thought the other day actually, since making changes I was surprised that this could come from males, but sound advice to cut them out when possible. I think where there could be difficulty is cutting these men out in the workforce, social circle or mutual hobbies/clubs. What are your thoughts on handling the situation then?
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 06:49 PM
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water works/ crying = manipulation
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 06:38 PM
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Clearly you have not done your reading, this post is ridiculous, do not go out looking for a fatty to transform.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 06:33 PM
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Post on: Alpha being a mindset thoughts on plating in the workforce - was downvoted a ton for discouraging it How to handle HBs who use sexuality to make up for their bad behaviors - ie sexuality as a weapon, maybe we have something out here already idk Would you recommend RPers to study PUA , what areas do you like/dislike? Sidebar reading- thought for noobs to navigate it, usually we tell them read sidebar, but there is a lot of information and they might get discouraged. Maybe a post prioriti…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 06:29 PM
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"This girl must be devoted to you" OP, what did we learn about hypergamy? If she loses weight her SMV will increase and she'll branch swing to optimize her sexual strategy. AWALT. Doesn't matter if they are fat, skinny or Orb shaped
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 06:07 PM
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Okay - just watching out since it wasn't mentioned in the post.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 06:00 PM
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This is the disagreement I have with your argument, essentially it's saying genetic factors (things we can't control) dictate your ability to get laid. My disagreement is derived from its incompleteness, and it's an incorrect assumption to say well if all else were equal then these 4 factors would dictate that ability. When have we ever gone to a party where we all have the same muscle mass, style, hygiene, wealth, social status? To counter your argument: Let's consider a male 36(SMV peak for me…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 05:56 PM
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"You have to understand, most of these people are not ready to be unplugged. And many of them are so inured, so hopelessly dependent on the system, that they will fight to protect it." ― Morpheus The Matrix
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 05:31 PM
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"my plan is to go lean before trying to build any actual muscles." Start today - trust me, you are afraid confront this fear.. I have been there when you conquer this it will be your foundation of confidence. PM me TLDR: start today
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 05:29 PM
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He is the shit. I like details, once we understand the game at a high level its the smaller things that we can improve on
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 05:13 PM
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I'm glad you mentioned this because I was about to write this out, IMO she won. why? I think that you handled it well until the end, there are a couple things that could've been said or done on your part when she made that power play statement. You held frame to the very end and then BOOOOM BJ! What just happened she used her sexuality as a weapon, what did she learn? SEXUAL favors solves problems, she could now think cool I only have to give BJs when i'm bad, which you do NOT want to condition …
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 05:09 PM
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Agreed, it would need to be dynamic to mitigate that issue but at a higher level, one would have to ask themselves why they are here at TRP. They'll get out of this community what they put into it, if they want to cheat to post some bs many will see right through it. Otherwise a test would only enhance the communities knowledge, provide more value to members reading the posts and retain the dedicated.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 04:50 PM
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Really nice FR, must have taken a couples days to write and excellent format. I think with your background in PUA they teach you how to act the shit, confirmed with your comment below: "I am not the shit, but I can very well act like I am (maybe that does make me the shit, though), and so can you." There are some really good posts on Frame and your mission, which can help you internalize (inner game (pua lingo)) that you are THE SHIT to push past this acting phase.. btw you are the shit.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 04:36 PM
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I disagree, but I'm open to hear these other paths
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 04:21 PM
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TLDR: I unplugged myself after a breakup then realized that outside the matrix was a lot of work. During this time I had a roller coaster of emotions and plugged myself back in ... oh! here's some redpill advice. You sound like Cypher from the Matrix, enjoy the juicy steak! Not to be a dick, but I'm going to have to disagree that you've made it, as your title would indicate. From the post you seem to be yo-yoing back and forth, I thought why is he gaming 5 times a week? why were you not working …
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 03:53 PM
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“The Iron never lies to you. You can walk outside and listen to all kinds of talk, get told that you’re a god or a total bastard. The Iron will always kick you the real deal. The Iron is the great reference point, the all-knowing perspective giver. Always there like a beacon in the pitch black. I have found the Iron to be my greatest friend. It never freaks out on me, never runs. Friends may come and go. But two hundred pounds is always two hundred pounds.” - One of my favorite quotes by Henry
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 03:42 PM
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"a lot of guys are skipping steps, filling their minds trying to determine what actions are alpha and beta." Its unbelievable, Rollo explains his thoughts on "Alpha" in the FIRST 20-25 pages of TRM, maybe we should have an exam and when you pass it then you can post on the community.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 03:39 PM
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"I actually bought a barbell and a power cage form Amazon to start lifting." Get a gym membership, you will feel uncomfortable and won't be able to lift much initial but now is the time to face your fears. I guarantee this alone will be the start of the foundation of building the confidence you need to be successful in other areas of your life. Don't make excuses to avoid the gym!
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 01:47 AM
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If your assumption is correct then I would agree with your explanation, but only OP can confirm and re-edit so there isn't confusion. But until then, I have to stand by my initial comment because it comes across as though we shouldn't worry about shit testing.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 01:39 AM
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"You think pumping iron is a natural thing to do?" Yes we do, that's why we advocate it
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 11:52 PM
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"You worrying that saying you had a good time is coming off as weak, so you're just as paranoid" Well since I don't say anything the next morning, you just sound immature because I called you out on collecting evidence due to paranoia
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 11:44 PM
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Sounds like paranoia, I see your point, but disagree since OP said "I dropped her off at her car around 1:30ish.", she wouldn't stay with a rapist until the afternoon and then get in a car with him.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 11:07 PM
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"Shit testing? Who really cares?" OP you are killing me here, this is a very important concept and generally where a lot of our community struggles. Please view the sidebar under references there are two links to read.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 10:37 PM
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The SMV paragraph, I wanted to point out my thoughts on it. " You control it about as much as some company controls it's stock price." what? A person can definitely affect their SMV through change, that is why we are here at trp. The most common theme we discuss is self improvement ie get your ass in the gym and start lifting, and that's just one aspect. Other changes that can be made to affect SMV learning new skills to get a better job or style, or creating/joining a network of high value peop…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 10:32 PM
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Not aware of the full post, but he seems to have struck a nerve to get her to respond to his post, then to tweet it out and shame him with the frog/virigin comment.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 09:15 PM
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You should looking into what it means to be "alpha", usually those that call themselves this are "betas" who have underlying insecurities. Your perception of "alpha" is what society has made you believe. To help you get over the ego-investment of this term, i'm going to ask you a brutal question... If you are so alpha why are you failing with women? Alpha is a mindset not define by physique, monetary value, leadership, or material items. Start out by reading the rational man by Rollo T. as well …
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 09:09 PM
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Good FR "I was a mixture of annoyed and confused but tried to play it off. How do you think I should have handled that?" You handled it well read up on IDGAF "Stay on point in texting. You don’t always know what they’ll say and it’s easier to clarify misunderstandings in person. " No, this just comes down to frame control, remember goal is to meet up [THE NEXT DAY] Me: I had a great time last night. I wouldn't have texted her first, my thoughts are it can come across as needy and lack of abundan…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 08:35 PM
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"(I was staying with family and I have no idea where she was staying for the night)." Plan for logistics unless you plan for phone numbers which is not optimal sexual strategy "I watched her leave as I celebrated ecstatically in my head." -Epitome of bp beta - refresh on abundance mentality "Now this may not sound like much to some of you, but this was a HUGE win for me" - refer to comment above " But this was a huge validation of what I've been reading and working towards for the past year or s…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 05:40 PM
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I've noticed their negative remarks to our sexuality endeavors comes when they are general in the presence of others (if not then just a standard shit-test). I think they believe it increases their value by upholding the female imperative while also disqualifying that man in the eyes of her competitors (other women). Also, now that we know trp, it's funny when the white knight/BB(s) rally together in agree with her. Why else would they call you out for being a pig? Another point is that these ar…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 04:41 PM
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Good observations, I keep my tinder messages/interactions short as well going straight for the kill (a date). You should post a follow up FR on how those dates went after that short message, ie if they mention the short message, if they flake or any other behaviors. "Pre-selection can be an incredible tool when coupled with an abundance mindset and an IDGAF attitude." I disagree here, and would rearrange this sentence as such as such: "An abundance mindset and an IDGAF attitude are incredible to…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 04:29 PM
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"TRP's mission is to discuss men's identity, sexual strategy, and options in the context of our current global culture for the benefit of men. Anyone who does not share that goal will be banned the instant we detect them." -Sidebar official rules Didn't get much from this post but above is a good reminder of what to do when considering a post to the community.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 01:37 PM
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"Men spend their entire lives fighting to get credit for their virtuous behavior, women spend theirs fighting to avoid punishment for their depraved behaviors." Very well put.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 01:27 PM
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The amount of time associated with going through all her social media platforms, then going through her posts and likes is way too time consuming. I can see your point that we get more insight into her mindset, but when I'm spinning plates I literally IDGAF what she does on SM and prefer if she doesn't post anything about me. If you are in an LTR reviewing all that shit, I think you most likely don't trust her and it'll only cause paranoia.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 12:50 PM
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I did competitive gaming and it is time consuming and stressful would highly recommend dropping it. Played Rainbow 6 siege and I was top 1% but it definitely wasn't worth it looking back.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 03:43 AM
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TL/DR: OPs post corresponds with SMV and we dive into what the rational male defines as alpha. Alpha behaviors are manifestations of an alpha mindset. I'm going to have to disagree with OP here, as this is more SMV(not to mention we have a graph for this) and I'll reference The Rational Male(TRM) by Rollo Tomassi which I use as a foundation for TRP concepts(alpha mindset here). *Lets go over a couple points from TRM * -Alpha is a mindset, not a demographic -You are not Alpha because of your achi…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 12:50 AM
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A pure raw Alpha is unclouded by pretense, afterthought, or conscious awareness of any influence that could have a hope of prompting introspection on his state. watch the youtube clip of: corey worthington, then re-read the shit I posted
/r/askTRP30/01/17 12:28 AM
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I'll reference The Rational Male(TRM) by Rollo which I use as a foundation for TRP concepts(alpha mindset here). *Lets go over a couple points from TRM * Alpha is a mindset, not a demographic. You are not Alpha because of your achievements. You have your achievements because you are Alpha. -Alpha behaviors are manifestations of an alpha mindset. What many believe in the community is that everyone posses Beta and Alpha traits, but those that are Alpha have more of the latter. A pure raw Alpha is …
/r/askTRP30/01/17 12:02 AM
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/r/TheRedPill29/01/17 11:50 PM
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You are a little naive, but that's okay, ask yourself what else could your girlfriend and her ex boyfriend being doing a week by themselves? Not to be insensitive but unless she's living in the hospital then that's A LOT of time together. See how she reacts to you asking to pay for a motel nearby, you don't actually have to do it. So to address, your feelings, I want you to read The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi. I was thinking what are these feelings associated with and you are in the first st…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/17 10:21 PM
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/r/TheRedPill29/01/17 10:06 PM
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For terms - sidebar - Glossary of term and acronyms (2015). Welcome to the redpill, please invest your time in the sidebar. I am afraid my advice will fall on deaf ears because you are new, which is not a bad thing. I can already tell you've probably had the thought "dRePe_thill she is different and she would never fuck her ex" as it was never mentioned in your post. (Maybe you dont care if she is?) But I'll play devil's advocate, I get the impression you might be suffering from oneitis, why els…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/17 09:47 PM
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So why has she been on and off, did you next or ghost her, we like these details because it lets us help you. What does staying with her baby daddy mean? This is a red flag IMO. "I'm trying a new style on putting me first." - Good new style, do not revert back to putting anyone else before yourself (selfish we know) My opinion is to either plate this girl or ghost her completely. Now lets review her staying at the baby daddy's place for a week. You came here for us to tell you what you have had …
/r/TheRedPill29/01/17 09:14 PM
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OP this post is all over the place and discusses many things with interesting analogies ... Nevertheless, I'll focus on what the title mentioned because I want to share my point of view on plates and oneitis. Just some OP comments below: -1. "Don't rely on plates to cure oneitis." -2. "Also, to be clear: the purpose of plates is to create an evaluation scheme for the women you talk to/date (i.e. Which one 'wins'). I was merely commenting I don't think plates should be used to cure "oneitis". I'l…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/17 08:52 PM
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Dox: search for and publish private or identifying information about (a particular individual) on the Internet, typically with malicious intent. You have balls of steel to post yourself, i'd crop your face, this community does have white knights and feminists (the plugged in) who could dox you. Just watching out for you bro
/r/TheRedPill29/01/17 07:42 PM
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Made this mistake in my last LTR with a girl named Christina... before we started dating, her friends nicknamed her "Craystina" or "Cray". In RP terms she was very interesting(HB9) which suckered me into an LTR.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/17 12:56 PM
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I agree..what OP should have ended with is "Fuck bitches, get money"
/r/TheRedPill29/01/17 12:05 PM
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"(blah blah blah)....you just have to decide how you feel about it[sex] after." One word:Unbelievable. Maybe I should videotape all my bang sessions, let me weigh my options: invasion of privacy (misdemeanor) or rape charge (essentially a male death sentence). So did you let her sober up and bang her?
/r/TheRedPill29/01/17 11:59 AM
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What did I just read? .. this should be flaired under rant then deleted, furthermore, if we could deem this relevant then I recommend the PUA subreddit
/r/TheRedPill29/01/17 11:46 AM
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Can you take a look at my theory, higher up in the posts, OP and I had different opinions of framing in the relationship as well as rewards/punishments. Appears on my screen as 2nd from the top.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/17 01:30 AM
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Have you tried implementing hard or soft dread, assuming you want sex? There was an interesting post earlier that mentioned the wife had deprived him of sex for so long that eventually when she came around he literally wasn't simulated by her anymore. Wonder if you would have that issue or not because 10 years.. 10 years is a long time.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/17 01:14 AM
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Thanks for posting, I am not a competent dancer myself, but what your FR taught was preparation. How can we accomplish this without a dance partner? Youtube (just found a ton of videos) or getting a private lesson from an instructor (the investment could save you an experience like OP). "I could see in her body language and conversation when we left together that my status was diminished in her eyes." Appears as though frame was lost and she was not in your frame, which only enhanced her resentm…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/17 10:00 PM
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Taken from the rational male: 1. you are not alpha because of your achievements 2. you have achievements because you are alpha 3. alpha behaviors are manifestations of an alpha mindset Anyway, I am not a fan of discussing the topic of alpha because a lot of people have their own subjective thoughts on it and tend to mold it to better suit themselves. My general theory is that a person who is alpha has more alpha traits then beta ones, we could argue that trump is alpha but even he displays beta …
/r/TheRedPill28/01/17 06:18 PM
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Welcome to TRP. Just remember "She's not yours, its just your turn". I read some of your previous posts on reddit dating, and not to be a dick but this is your post on another reddit forum:"I'm 25. My girlfriend is 42. She's been divorced three times, and dated a few guys after that." why do that to yourself? You dodged a bullet Pro-tip read trp sidebar and I would be very carefully sharing this knowledge with those who are not unplugged.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/17 06:07 PM
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