I'm significantly older than her (HB9), she just graduated from college. Im attractive, tall, fit, and I make 2 probably 3 times as much as her. My guess is she probably is struggling to pull 40K. I'm happy to pay for things, bc it doesn't bother me, but she doesn't typically offer. I have some mentees that I pay for all the time. It's NOT the money, at all.

I'm pretty forward though and everytime I pay for two things in a row I'll just say something along the lines of "I'll get tks one, you should grab X". With X being anything from the cab, food, whatever. She listens and continues having a good time. She listens to my suggestions/orders, is compliant in bed, overall very pleasant. We made out within 30 min of meeting, then I left her for another party. F close on date 2. We've gone on about 5 dates so far. I'd say I've paid 60% of things.

I think since she's so hot, she's used to guys bending over backwards for her. She gives me googly eyes when I tell her to get on her knees, and aims to please. Is she just oblivious about paying or am I expecting too much.

For the record, too many other red flags, would never LTR this girl.