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| 1 | What's with young girls dressing like sluts?(like wtf)Yo this has been goin on for at least 20 years trust. I was that age 10 years ago so I think I know what’s going on. These girls wanna imitate their favourite celebrities so they belong in the “tribe”, because we know they got that herd mentality. And the only celebs they saw growing up on Disney Channel, Nickelodeon sitcoms, gossip magazines, etc., or at least the main characters, dressed up like that. Social media has probably exacerbated this. I think it’s honestly more bout attention amongst… | /r/MGTOW | 26/06/20 07:39 AM |
| 13 | Laughing my way to the bankHow’d u make that happen? How tf do u make a net 20K in 3 months in a global pandemic & associated economic crash & emergence of the “delivery economy” where prices of everything r up like 25%? | /r/MGTOW | 26/06/20 07:35 AM |
| 6 | How to keep in touch with people you don't care aboutNah this doesn’t happen. I tried this, but ppl just forget about me & move on at best, or clown me & make me look like a total retard beta at worst because that’s what everyone thinks of me. It’s impossible to make friends & connections in 2020 unless u already have a bunch of them or are already famous. As it is, everyone ghosts me, I always have to initiate contact, & I’ve actually been un-friended on social media by a lot of people, and more than half the people I’ve ever met have ignored my … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/20 11:02 AM |
| 2 | How to cope with loneliness?It still hurts, so how do I deal with the pain? I want the pain to go away. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/20 05:07 PM |
| 2 | How to cope with loneliness?I feel like it doesn’t matter what I do; nothing WILL change because people don’t respect me instinctively. I’ve tried focusing on myself, but still I get nothing. And the world’s going virtual now so it’ll be impossible for me to meet people because they’re pricks & im not a 10/10 famous supermodel billionaire. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/20 04:58 PM |
| 1 | How to cope with loneliness?4 years. The loneliness still hurts. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/20 04:56 PM |
| 1 | How To AMOG Beta MalesYo to put it simply, before these times, I had no prospects for getting laid or friendship anyways (like I have a lot of people I know, but they weren’t inviting me out or anything). Imagine how heartbroken I am. Any prospect of hope I had in that avenue feels completely gone, forever. Meaning I feel doomed to live a miserable life for the rest of my life. How tf am I supposed to change my mindset when I’ve been starving all my life? | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/20 01:31 AM |
| 2 | How To AMOG Beta MalesYeah I’m a genetic beta, maybe even a genetic omega. I’m completely fucked. I want to kill myself... with the way the world is going, with #metoo, coronavirus, etc., I fear it’ll be impossible for anyone other than a genetic alpha to get laid anymore. Kill me now. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/20 09:24 PM |
| 8 | You're only seeing what's in front of you, you're not seeing what's above you.I’ve been grappling with this for years at this point & I’m glad somebody called it out. It’s led to an existential crisis, depression, & anger for me. So what can I, the common man, do? Just kill myself? That’s what I feel like everybody wants me to do deep down & that’s where everyone’s steering me. Fight back? I die & am vilified by history. Live my life the best I can? It’s getting harder & harder every day as everyone else becomes openly hostile towards me. It feels like “heads they win, ta… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/20 05:47 AM |
| 2 | What Smart Guys Fail to Understand About Beautiful Women“If you wanna have a conversation that goes something like "every woman is evil, it's all rigged against us, there's no hope, nothing we can do except cry, masturbate and scream to the world how fucked everything is, no woman of higher quality than the rest exist, they're all exactly the same..." ...then I truly feel bad for you, and probably won't respond. I've had my own trips to that place, and wouldn't wish permanent residence on my worst enemy. I'd contrast that with the frankly ridiculous … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/20 01:45 AM |
| 2 | For the Rage: stupidslutsclubI read that sub. My reaction was a combination of “wow, that happens to people?” and an angry “WHY DIDN’T THEY DO ANY OF THAT SLUTTY SHIT FOR ME?” (with me being the alpha stranger in every scenario). | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/19 09:23 PM |
| 2 | The Longest Road - Learning Game with Aspergers/Light AutismAyy can u mentor a brotha on skype? | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/19 02:35 PM |
| 1 | What I learned living out of my car in a gym parking lotHow did you manage to make it all work out? I’m 22 (almost 23) & scared of making that jump because I’m worried that if I do I will REMAIN homeless & poor for the rest of my life (then again that’ll probably happen to me anyway if I stay in Toronto), & that my parents might start a massive worldwide manhunt for me because they’re worried about me. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/19 10:16 PM |
| 15 | The Red Pill Saved My LifeHow did you get 2 jobs straight out of prison? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/19 01:02 PM |
| 153 | Women and Children FirstI like this as a reframe of “women and children first because men are disposable & nobody cares about us,” which is also true. Empowering as fuck. Comes down to what u focus on... 2 sides to every coin. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/19 02:33 PM |
| 1 | How can I turn around my life?re ADHD: I’m not taking meds. I don’t want to because I’m scared of the side effects. And I think I was mistakenly diagnosed with ADHD, personally. Still I’ll look into Scattered Minds. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/19 09:01 PM |
| 1 | How to cure anxiety of being in enclosed spaces with women?Overbearing doesn’t begin to describe it | /r/askTRP | 11/06/19 08:10 PM |
| 1 | How to cure anxiety of being in enclosed spaces with women?As a child I would get bullied by being ganged up on & yelled at by my peers and teachers at school, and my family at home. This used to happen daily in 7th-8th grade, & monthly for years after that. I would get called a creep, be threatened with violence, & nobody would ever side with me & everyone would turn against me. Also my parents basically treated me like I would always be a victim & I’d never have the ability to stand up for myself in hostile situations & that I’d always be on the losin… | /r/askTRP | 11/06/19 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Maybe Robbins can use this as a teachable moment.And with that comment, well shit. Jesus fucking Christ by the time I rise to become rich & powerful they’ll be burning men accused of sexual harassment at the stake. I’d rather be a Jew in nazi Germany or a black in Jim Crow or a North Korean prisoner/journalist reporting on Chinese human rights abuses than a Western man in 2019. At least the world felt sympathy for the first 3. The latter makes you public enemy #1 by the whole world. Fuck man. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/19 05:38 PM |
| 2 | How to get rich in a nightmarish situation?I’ve read Wall Street Playboys’ blog, their “Efficiency” book, “The Millionaire Fastlane,” & “Unscripted.” Again, read my paragraph on how much shit I’d get from my parents if I tried to go on my own path. And you know what people in Toronto go through. Try having the mental strength to apply that advice going up against all of that. Where you get passed over for jobs by FOB immigrants who have 20 years of experience willing to work for minimum wage. My parents always used to tell me as a kid, “… | /r/askTRP | 01/05/19 08:04 PM |
| 1 | How to get rich in a nightmarish situation?PM’d. Check ur inbox. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/19 07:07 PM |
| 3 | How to get rich in a nightmarish situation?No. How do I become one? | /r/askTRP | 01/05/19 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Any cities I can live in with a high income-to-cost-of-living ratio for people working in accounting & finance?My parents complaining about the costs of everything. It seems like the prices of everything have doubled in the last 10 years, & the rate of increase is increasing every year (this year, prices seem 10-20% higher than last year). Also, I read in a TorontoLife article somewhere that rent will be 11% more expensive this year than last year. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Any cities I can live in with a high income-to-cost-of-living ratio for people working in accounting & finance?That ain’t a downside for me. I don’t mind that kind of weather... love it actually. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Any cities I can live in with a high income-to-cost-of-living ratio for people working in accounting & finance?Yeah. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/19 06:14 PM |
| 2 | Mediocrity is your worst enemy - and too many men are mediocre in life outside their main job.What if you don’t have the mental energy to be good at any more than one or two things & suck shit at the rest? I find having to perform is very fucking exhausting and I get burnt out easily. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/19 10:23 AM |
| 4 | 30% of men aren’t having sex: Wat Do?Good for you. I guess that’s all you can do sometimes. To the mods & other vanguards, EC’s, & shit, if I came off like an incel or sounding extreme, that’s not me. I’m just basically in monk mode right now, & all my past traumas & other deep-level negative shit is coming up to the surface & I have no choice but to work through them, & I’m finding it really frustrating. Me working this hard for this little apparent return. Sometimes, like with this article, I still get triggered. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/19 01:17 AM |
| 6 | 30% of men aren’t having sex: Wat Do?Problem: women see all men as having less value than them in 2019. And I’ve tried knuckling down & focusing on my own aspirations... I’m doing it right now... & I ain’t got jack shit since I started. It’s not like I have women banging down my doors or even just saying hi to me. They don’t even look at me unless I have a solid conversation with them beforehand. And whenever I’ve tried to make my own way, my parents, teachers, & peers have verbally shamed me into submission & staying in the lane t… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/19 01:14 AM |
| 13 | 30% of men aren’t having sex: Wat Do?Yeah, sex would be nice. But I want to emotionally connect with people, & them vice versa. I want to feel loved by others. I want somebody to text me saying, “Hey, wanna go to (x cool event) Saturday night?” I want somebody to hug me, to show myself to. But then again, nobody gives a shit about that now. Everybody’s trapped in their “no new friends” mentality. Nobody wants new friends... they just want new followers. I want a fucking friend that I can hang out with face to face. I don’t want to … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/19 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Why do I get bullied everywhere I go? How to stop this trend?My dad does exactly that... “do this or you’ll get punished.” My mom is just like that too but she actually gives me advice. My parents were always super pessimistic & negative growing up... guess that rubbed off on me. Always telling me everyone only wants to use me, no one’s really my friend & only them & trusted family members & family friends care about me. My mom is especially paranoid about everything... she’s a hygiene freak & always thinks all of her coworkers are plotting against her. S… | /r/askTRP | 08/03/19 01:22 PM |
| 1 | Why do I get bullied everywhere I go? How to stop this trend?You’re right. You’re absolutely right. Starting today, I’m retraining my brain to see examples where the world/people neutral towards me or even “for” me, or were just acting innocently in their own self interest, instead of viewing them as “against” me. I’ve already done this with a (previously perceived by me) situation at work by asking for clarification. Turns out it was a non-issue. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/19 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Why do I get bullied everywhere I go? How to stop this trend?2 years on the RP & still a virgin: If you read my post history, you’d also know I have much bigger problems. I joined the RP during the last days before affirmative consent in Ontario... back when I still had hope. And about the mistakes... mistakes are so costly nowadays it’s actually ridiculous. If I make a mistake with a girl, that’s a #metoo case that will ruin my career & reputation forever. One financial mistake will put me in poverty for the rest of my life. As it is, the mistakes I’ve m… | /r/askTRP | 07/03/19 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Why do I get bullied everywhere I go? How to stop this trend?Ahaha I was only saying that for maximum emphasis on my anger towards this coworker. I was just enhancing the sentence dude. She talks shit behind my back (has been doing so for weeks now). When I first got my job she also used to pry into me by asking how I got hired & whatever (she was apparently thinking that I got hired as a mole for one of the managers). I just told her I applied regularly. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/19 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Why do I get bullied everywhere I go? How to stop this trend?Can you make a list of books? I’m on an audible membership rn so I have all the commuting time in the world to listen to these books. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/19 05:15 PM |
| 3 | Why do I get bullied everywhere I go? How to stop this trend?I found out from a coworker it was because I was talking really loudly relative to my coworkers. That one’s on me. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/19 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Why does every girl ever say that their ex boyfriend/current boyfriend is a physically abusive stalker who threatens them & beats the shit out of them?You in Toronto? Say less we can go out gaming together! I also think it’s more ghetto/low class/dumb girls that say that shit IMO; no chick I ran into while I was in uni said the “abuser” shit. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/19 04:49 AM |
| 12 | Lost 400lbs of Pure FatOh no, quick, you must hide now. Get off Reddit & get on tor & hide out in Cuba for the rest of your life! Jokes aside man, good shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/19 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else so low SMV/repulsive that they get bullied by 0/10 females in HS?Nah actually never had that. Was called a creep a few times & told to kill myself once. And the one time I was told to kill myself was when I was trying to get at this hot girl’s boyfriend, who was one of my friends. Idk if that counts (I guess it was a combination of she was worried I’d take his attention off her & that she was on her period at the same time). | /r/askTRP | 15/02/19 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Massive crying spells & panic attacks over the last week - what to do?Usually I’ll crash just after 8 PM, get up again around midnight & stay up again until around 4 AM. On weekends & off days. On weeknights I usually get to sleep around 10 PM. I have to wake up at 4 AM to get to work on time though. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/19 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Massive crying spells & panic attacks over the last week - what to do?Right now I’m so messed up tbh I don’t even have the self discipline to go to sleep on time. My mind runs at 200 mph in the night. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/19 01:22 AM |
| 2 | Massive crying spells & panic attacks over the last week - what to do?Yeah I think part of it is also because I’ve been snowed & iced in over the last week so I haven’t really been able to get out of the house & impose my will on life like I normally do. Imagine putting a tiger in a cage. That’s what this feels like. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/19 12:10 AM |
| 4 | Massive crying spells & panic attacks over the last week - what to do?Never taken drugs in my life. I don’t drink. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/19 08:39 PM |
| 2 | Massive crying spells & panic attacks over the last week - what to do?Yo no history with hormone therapy. I think I’ve been fuckin up my hormones by jacking off at least 5 times a day... so that could be another culprit. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/19 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Massive crying spells & panic attacks over the last week - what to do?Oh ok haha | /r/askTRP | 13/02/19 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Massive crying spells & panic attacks over the last week - what to do?What do you mean visual? | /r/askTRP | 13/02/19 06:41 PM |
| 3 | What led to Men becoming more Feminine?If you act masculine you get punished. Which means you can’t provide for yourself. Enough said. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/19 06:09 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with being an omega male socially & being friendless?UPDATE: I just got the guy to pay me back for the NBA game. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/19 03:20 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with being an omega male socially & being friendless?Yea but it still hurts not being able to have normal friendships like everyone else. I’m also asking how to deal with that pain psychologically & emotionally. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/19 01:38 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with being an omega male socially & being friendless?Even becoming someone valuable hasn’t worked for me. I have a university degree, I lift, I’ve saved up some money, I play piano at an expert level, I play basketball... nothing fucking works. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/19 01:33 PM |
| 5 | Shit Test your overprotective parents before it's too lateYeah I’m a conditioned, brainwashed little bitch. I realized what I was yelling was mostly based on my old social conditioning & what I was taught on the news. I was parroting shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/19 10:23 AM |
| 3 | Shit Test your overprotective parents before it's too lateFair enough. Working right now tho haha... accounting clerk... not living wage where I’m at tho if I struck out on my own... tho gettin a 3 bedroom apartment or some shit & getting a bunch of roomies to help with rent would probably help with that. And tbh, my parents have gotten way better about this stuff over the last couple of years.... but from when I was 11-19... oh my fucking god. It was like living under Gestapo. ESPECIALLY MY MOM. My Indian Mom. Worse than the NSA. On the alcohol & drug… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/19 07:53 AM |
| 17 | Shit Test your overprotective parents before it's too lateRight... except that in today’s world this is basically impossible to do. Rent is super expensive while wages are stagnant & opportunities for career advancement are non-existent, chaining the vast majority of our generation to our parents for fear of starvation otherwise. And unless you have super-connected & powerful parents (or parents with connections in general that you can use), kiss any chances of getting a job goodbye. If you have even one criminal citation from this risk-taking... which… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/19 06:55 AM |
| 3 | I feel trapped in an awful situation & like my life is over - need an escape planOh thank god. Thank you so much OMG :) | /r/askTRP | 17/01/19 08:01 PM |
| 1 | I feel trapped in an awful situation & like my life is over - need an escape planPM’d. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/19 07:48 PM |
| 1 | I feel trapped in an awful situation & like my life is over - need an escape planThe 100 lbs is with a barbel; these aren’t 2 100-lb dumbbells. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/19 07:38 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys conquer LOW days?What helped me was to stop fighting my feelings. Don’t fight it... just allow it to pass through... observe it neutrally. Just completely allow it to happen & say to yourself mentally; “OK, this is how I feel, if I’m going to do nothing, then that’s how it is.” Let that feeling FULLY wash over your body... feel it & accept it with every fiber of your being... mentally & physically... dive the fuck in. The feeling will go away on its own in a few seconds (at least it does for me). A great YouTube… | /r/askTRP | 16/01/19 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Should I pursue an Olympic sport or music?Go for fencing. You’re still young & you’ll be approaching your physical peak REALLY soon. You‘ll never get a chance like the Olympics again if you squander it now. Music is more creative/mental, so you can do it any time. | /r/askTRP | 16/01/19 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Is it socially acceptable to Cold Approach girls on a College Campus?Yea it’s definitely socially acceptable. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/18 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Why were you originally Blue-Pilled?Being scared of what my parents & other authority figures would think of me if I acted RP, & getting in trouble with them as a result & having my future career prospects consequently ruined. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/18 11:45 PM |
| 4 | How is it that you all can lift so much fucking weight? Have you been lifting since you were ten or some shit?Bro... first of all, this is the Internet. Never take anything anyone says here as absolute fact. Secondly, you’d be surprised how quickly u can gain strength if u stuck with a consistent weight program & lifted a little more (weight, reps, or both) each time. Even going for 1 more rep per set each workout.... shit adds up, it eventually becomes easier for u to lift that weight... u get stronger, u can move up to more weight. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/18 11:43 PM |
| 2 | Strength or looks?Honestly I would build a good strength base first & then go for looks. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/18 11:41 PM |
| 1 | How to stop having suicidal thoughts and being triggered every time I hear about a man getting rape charges against him on the news?Even that won’t save me bro. | /r/askTRP | 04/10/18 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Question for all my Canadian RP bros: just exactly HOW bad is the dating scene for an Indian male in Toronto?Read my post history. Toronto guy here (21/M). For your own sanity, I beg you, please, PLEASE, don’t move to Toronto. Even if I was in your situation, I’d rather take my chances with Trump. Women don’t see men as people here; they see us as subhuman slaves. | /r/askTRP | 01/10/18 10:49 AM |
| 1 | How to see myself as the prize when my observations of the SMP prove the opposite?The girls honestly dgaf about this; even if it’s genuine, they see it as nothing but tactics. They never feel like a guy is valuable enough for them to work for. In these girls’ minds, by the very act of you approaching her, you have automatically demonstrated more investment than her; thus you give more fucks than she does. She can go back to the endless amounts of Chads and orbiters she’s texting on her phone at any time, and more often than not, will do it in front of you while not giving any… | /r/askTRP | 27/09/18 04:48 PM |
| 1 | How to see myself as the prize when my observations of the SMP prove the opposite?I was talking about the former. As for the latter... yeah, it does work for that. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/18 02:52 PM |
| 1 | How to see myself as the prize when my observations of the SMP prove the opposite?Thanks for the encouragement :) | /r/askTRP | 27/09/18 02:46 PM |
| 2 | How to see myself as the prize when my observations of the SMP prove the opposite?I’ve always thought this is true, but just because you think this way doesn’t mean others believe it. That’s my problem... I need others to believe it for it to actually work. But yeah, this is how I think of it in my own mind. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/18 02:18 PM |
| 1 | How to see myself as the prize when my observations of the SMP prove the opposite?I’ve tried, but girls don’t go along with my program. The expectation is automatically set that you go along with their program and “know your place”, or else you become a pariah/outcast for being “weird”, “creepy”, “arrogant”, and “bothering the girls”. By virtue of the fact that I wasn’t one of the “approved stereotypes” and still tried to game like I was an alpha... that gave me those labels and that reputation. Women completely control the frame/narrative around here. It’s like “Big Brother”… | /r/askTRP | 27/09/18 01:42 PM |
| 1 | How to see myself as the prize when my observations of the SMP prove the opposite?True. I’m just saying that because I’m not black, and I’m not fully white (I’m mixed white/Indian), so pulling off either stereotype would be impossible for me. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/18 01:19 PM |
| 1 | How to see myself as the prize when my observations of the SMP prove the opposite?Yeah... guys never get attention from girls where I’m from. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/18 01:17 PM |
| 5 | How to see myself as the prize when my observations of the SMP prove the opposite?So lifting, game, social status, raise my SMV? On another note, idk why, but it seems like girls in my city just aren’t interested in guys unless they’re black thugs or what I mentioned in the main post. I’ve never seen a guy get a girlfriend/get laid from meeting girls in classes. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/18 01:08 PM |
| 4 | Met girl in court. Used 2nd language. Fuck 1.5hrs later. Plate.How do I get to experience this starting with no social life? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/18 01:50 PM |
| 2 | How to stop wishing I was born as someone else because of paranoid parents?This isn’t about the Asperger’s. This is about the fact that my parents apparently think everyone who ever befriends me only does so so they can rob the house with their gangs and get us all killed. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 01:42 AM |
| 3 | Former BPs, is it normal, that many of your "friends" don't like the new you?Please... they didn’t like me when I WAS BP. But yeah... I go through this whenever I try to show a backbone. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/18 12:55 PM |
| 1 | How to gain power in high school?That was a good post on real power. I don’t feel like I have it at all, though, ever had it, or ever will, simply because of the circumstances of the society I was born into (Canada), namely: being on the wrong side of a widening wealth gap, the fact that everything little is treated as a big deal, everything being insanely expensive, and being of low social status within this society. How can I gain real power, in rollo’s terms? | /r/askTRP | 20/09/18 07:25 PM |
| 1 | How to need less sleep?I usually sleep with a light blanket tho, so should I go slightly warmer? | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 03:21 PM |
| 1 | How to need less sleep?So then it also comes down to being more efficient in everything I do & optimizing my Task efficiency. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 03:21 PM |
| 1 | How to need less sleep?How cool tho? I usually sleep in a t shirt & shorts. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 03:19 PM |
| 1 | How to need less sleep?:) | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 03:15 PM |
| 1 | How to keep girls & social success off my brain despite being a virgin?What makes u think that? | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 02:11 PM |
| 3 | Recognizing PowerI don’t know how to project this though... people see right through me when I try & see that I’m a powerless bitch, always have been, and in their eyes, always will/should be. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/18 01:21 AM |
| 1 | My suicidal thoughts have come back - what to do?But I need money to pay the bills, and if girls don’t approve of me, I could have my career and life ruined and be jailed and become persona non grata courtesy of #metoo. That’s just the way things work. Still, thanks for the encouragement. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Rejoice guys, we're losing the war ! or : How I stopped worrying and learned to love the banhammerWhat do Red Pillers like me, who are in a very bad psychological place right now, do? This is the only place I can truly vent to people who understand what I’m going through; everyone in my real life is a blue pilled simp/mangina/feminist/white knight who is forcing me to embrace that lifestyle; I have only one red pilled friend within my city. And it’s not like therapy will help; that shit’s majority blue pilled, too. I’m dealing with generalized anxiety disorder, Asperger’s, and moodiness like… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/18 02:49 PM |
| 1 | How to get my CFO to mentor me?How do I inspire people to help me? I’ve never been able to achieve anything close to that; when I try, I just inspire them even more to NOT help me. Yet I’ve seen some people on TV who can just do it effortlessly. The only incentive I can give is keeping our manager off our back, which in turn keeps our team lead off our backs. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 07:07 PM |
| 1 | How to succeed in a world where you literally can’t afford to fail/get rejected despite the fact that thousands of failures & rejections are needed to achieve your dreams in life, if you get lucky enough to achieve those at all?OK how do I actually find a good, red pilled therapist that will actually help me? And I’m not trying to go on meds... I’ve heard of the side effects of that stuff and I’m not trying to get fucked up like that just for a fake sense of feeling good. I know these are just random thoughts & emotions, but I have a really hard time dealing with them. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/18 07:10 PM |
| 1 | How to succeed in a world where you literally can’t afford to fail/get rejected despite the fact that thousands of failures & rejections are needed to achieve your dreams in life, if you get lucky enough to achieve those at all?I want to do that, but I would have to do a whole bunch of paperwork & deal with a whole bunch of that type of bullshit to deal with a move like that, & frankly, that annoys me; my self discipline is ridiculously inconsistent. I think my attitude sharply limited my job prospects; I was going through massive psychological changes in university (blue to red to black pill). I think if I had stayed blue pilled, I would’ve had much better job prospects because I would’ve been much more willing to go … | /r/askTRP | 11/09/18 06:33 PM |
| 0 | How to succeed in a world where you literally can’t afford to fail/get rejected despite the fact that thousands of failures & rejections are needed to achieve your dreams in life, if you get lucky enough to achieve those at all?Honestly don’t have a plan right now because I don’t believe any plan I make is going to work and give me what I want out of life. And in Toronto... please, I was LUCKY to get this job. No one would hire me after graduation except the people that gave me this job (who only hired me because of family connections)!because I had no relevant work experience when I graduated. Trust me, LOL at the idea of any job being “below your education level” since the 2008 recession. That’s not how the market wo… | /r/askTRP | 11/09/18 06:22 PM |
| 2 | How to succeed in a world where you literally can’t afford to fail/get rejected despite the fact that thousands of failures & rejections are needed to achieve your dreams in life, if you get lucky enough to achieve those at all?I guess I’m just asking how to be able to emotionally handle failure & rejection, because I’m very bad at it. Even the thought of it sends me into a self-pitying, whining, complaining headspace. Now imagine that when you have generalized anxiety disorder... oomph. I only complain like this because I don’t feel like I am strong enough to handle, survive, and bounce back from the consequences of serious failure in life. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/18 06:17 PM |
| 1 | How to succeed in a world where you literally can’t afford to fail/get rejected despite the fact that thousands of failures & rejections are needed to achieve your dreams in life, if you get lucky enough to achieve those at all?21 years old, 22 in 2 months. Just graduated university with a bachelor’s degree in finance. Doing nothing to make more money atm because I don’t see a way to do so that’s cheap. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/18 06:15 PM |
| 1 | How to succeed in a world where you literally can’t afford to fail/get rejected despite the fact that thousands of failures & rejections are needed to achieve your dreams in life, if you get lucky enough to achieve those at all?Right now I work as basically an invoice-processor/paper-pusher/mailroom clerk in my company’s accounts payable department (entry-level accounting). | /r/askTRP | 11/09/18 06:11 PM |
| 1 | How to get into sales?What’s your end goal? | /r/askTRP | 11/09/18 05:20 PM |
| 1 | What are the women like in your city?LMFAOOOOOOOOOO JFL OMG 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 Toronto women? HUMBLE? What parallel universe did YOU come from? What drugs are you on right now? Shit, I’d like to get transported there & leave this shitty universe behind. I’d LOVE some of your drugs right now. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/18 02:07 AM |
| 0 | Given the structure and trends of our society, I feel like it’s impossible for me to ever get laid or have a liveable wage. Feel like killing myself because of this. What to do?Define “looking decent” and having “decent social skills”. From what I see out in the real world, the only guys who get laid with girls I actually like are 6 feet tall plus, and are the alphas (or close to it) of their social networks. And those are in relationships. One night stands require at least 6’4”, chiseled & ripped, facially attractive, dressed to kill, and making enough money that blowing thousands on one night in the club won’t put a dent in your wallet. Every relationship I see, the … | /r/askTRP | 05/09/18 08:11 PM |
| 0 | Given the structure and trends of our society, I feel like it’s impossible for me to ever get laid or have a liveable wage. Feel like killing myself because of this. What to do?JFL. You basically have to be a bionic super man to get this “perfectly normal” life. Unless a perfectly normal, average job is minimum wage at your local retail/fast food joint, average money is being 5 figures in debt with no way of paying it off, and average sex is jerking off 10 times a day with bitches laughing at/ignoring you and their white knights threaten to fight you every time you even try to approach them. Idk, maybe I’m missing something here. | /r/askTRP | 05/09/18 07:27 PM |
| -3 | Given the structure and trends of our society, I feel like it’s impossible for me to ever get laid or have a liveable wage. Feel like killing myself because of this. What to do?What for? Today, I’m competing against photoshopped perfect models, billionaires with picture-perfect lives on Instagram, and drug kingpins. And all for the trashiest girls in history, half of whom purposely uglify themselves, and for worse and worse economic conditions while the elites hog everything for themselves. And I’m a broke, low-SMV, no-status loser who’s scared of getting into debt/“flexing” or sees it as pointless because everyone will continue to hate him anyway. | /r/askTRP | 05/09/18 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Given the structure and trends of our society, I feel like it’s impossible for me to ever get laid or have a liveable wage. Feel like killing myself because of this. What to do?The sidebar can only do so much bro. I’ve read it. It’s like bringing stones when the other side has, and is using, nukes. | /r/askTRP | 05/09/18 06:59 PM |
| 1 | "Why Do Girls Dump Their Boyfriends?" An introduction to Generation-Z and whats to comeLOL. It’s really that easy? Nah, getting laid in 2018 is like finding the fucking holy grail while you get shot at by every military on Earth for trying and are declared “public enemy #1” by every intelligence agency on Earth. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/18 12:20 AM |
| 1 | How to cope with the job market being so antagonistic?How do you hold frame successfully in a job interview, knowing that if you offend the interviewer, you will not get that job? Did you backpedal and try to tell them, “I might not have x, but I do have y?” Did you DEER (defend, explain, excuse, rationalize)? Did you just be honest? | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 04:32 PM |
| 1 | How to cope with the job market being so antagonistic?I meant what kind of stuff did they do or say to you? | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 04:25 PM |
| 1 | How to cope with the job market being so antagonistic?What happened in those interviews? | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 04:21 PM |
| 1 | How to cope with the job market being so antagonistic?I did. But I felt like she was out to get me. I told her, “Just keeping my options open.” | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 04:05 PM |
| 1 | How to cope with the job market being so antagonistic?Because they were temporary jobs, and where I needed to be ended (summer camp counsellor, co-op job ending with the end of the school year). And my current job’s contract is going to expire in a month. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 04:00 PM |
| -1 | How to cope with the job market being so antagonistic?Because my interviewer opened right away with it after the introduction. I felt that it was rude. I’ve also never had that happen before at any of my previous interviews. Also, I don’t have the gift of being able to instinctively dance around these questions and say the right things, or respond to shit tests. I feel defenseless against social power trips like that, like I don’t have the knowledge, power, and/or right to successfully defend myself against shit tests and techniques like that. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 03:55 PM |
| 1 | How to stop having nervous breakdowns due to psychological stress all the time?I have, but didn’t buy it. Used to before I sprained my ankles playing basketball 3 weeks ago. Fortunately, I am feeling better on that front. My ankles have their normal range of motion, but they’re weak right now, so I’m slowly working myself back in so I don’t reinsure myself (not lifting, but I did some push-ups yesterday and crunches the day before that). Again, too expensive, and my parents would think I’m ridiculous for such an idea; they think it’s all in my head and it would be very har… | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 01:18 PM |
| 2 | How to overcome the fact that destiny is against me ever becoming a man of at least moderate SMV?LOL I actually took you up on that. I was at work when you wrote this, but I came home and took a shower. I did my usual shower before remembering what you said. As soon as I did, I turned the water to the coldest setting possible. I jumped and yelled, “YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!” Then I decided to go in back first, facing away from the water, and then put my head in about 30 seconds later. I yelped and screamed for about 15 seconds before finally settling in and being like, “Yeah, I’m cool with th… | /r/askTRP | 23/08/18 10:34 PM |
| 1 | How to overcome the fact that destiny is against me ever becoming a man of at least moderate SMV?That’s another thing. I feel like I have to be amazing just to get anywhere in life these days, especially because I live in Toronto, where economic & social factors make it such that either you’re amazing, or you’re nothing. And it’s not just happening here: it’s growing worldwide as a trend. How did you manage to reconcile your own reality with this growing trend? | /r/askTRP | 23/08/18 07:02 PM |
| 1 | How to overcome the fact that destiny is against me ever becoming a man of at least moderate SMV?Yeah but it seems like in all the self-improvement stories I hear on TRP, there’s none of that stuff. They seem to just have this constant upward-trending pattern for a few years which is how they can ultimately turn their SMV around (and which is what I feel I need). If they do run into these problems, they certainly aren’t showing it, and they certainly aren’t showing the mindset needed to overcome them because they have a “keep chipping at it” attitude that doesn’t necessarily work in all cir… | /r/askTRP | 23/08/18 05:19 PM |
| 1 | How to overcome the fact that destiny is against me ever becoming a man of at least moderate SMV?You’re dealing with a symptom here. I need to deal with the overall pattern, which mutates every time. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/18 05:05 PM |
| 2 | How to stop my frame from breaking when I get laughed at?What does that do when they’re clearly trying to diminish me and think of me as beneath them? | /r/askTRP | 22/08/18 01:01 PM |
| 1 | How to keep girls & social success off my brain despite being a virgin?I live in Canada. No. If I get caught, that’s a career-ender (and possibly an SMV-ender). | /r/askTRP | 22/08/18 08:54 AM |
| 1 | How to keep girls & social success off my brain despite being a virgin?Where do you even find, and how do you become part of these social circles? For whatever reason, they’re all closed off to me. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/18 08:52 AM |
| 2 | I'm a loser and I don't want to be that anymore. I want to become a champion. Please help!If you still have a good relationship with your parents, ask them if they can hook you up with a job in your field. If and when you get that opportunity, grab it like a motherfucker, because as you know, you might only get one shot, and the vast majority of people get none. Also, start saving up for an emergency fund (6 months of living expenses in your city) just in case SHTF and your parents can’t support you anymore for whatever reason. I tried to jump from being a total loser to a champion &… | /r/askTRP | 11/08/18 07:40 AM |
| 1 | Courage, Anxiety and outcome independence. A quick guide.Yea, diagnosed with Asperger’s at 2 years old. Used to have weird talking patterns as a kid; still do when I’m really tired or distracted by my emotions. Most times, when I try to explain something, people don’t really get me. I’m angry, resentful, anxious, & feel powerless all the time. But given the financial & social conditions of today’s world, you basically have to endure this suck or risk ruining your life forever; one mistake will send you into crippling debt/make you unemployable. So I h… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/18 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Courage, Anxiety and outcome independence. A quick guide.What do you mean I have nothing to lose anymore? I’m not in debt, I have an entry-level job that’s relatively within my field, I’m healthy, & I don’t have a criminal record or an arrest. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/18 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Courage, Anxiety and outcome independence. A quick guide.LOL I had glasses from 9-16 (got contacts after that), wore braces from 13-15, was skinny, and got my haircut from my dad (usually really short all over; people would roast it calling it the “Cailou” or “Avatar” haircut because I didn’t want to go to an actual barber). I wouldn’t say I was a model, but I wasn’t ugly either. Girls actually used to call me cute. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/18 03:06 PM |
| 1 | How to stop being ashamed of my Asperger’s, & how to deal with its effects on my SMV?How do I turn the self-criticism into self confidence? I don’t know how to truly be self confident anymore. And I’ve never seen women approach, let alone line up to talk to, people with Asperger’s. We’re among the lowest-SMV men out there: too smart to be hung out with for pity reasons, but too socially retarded/stigmatized for them to like us genuinely. Typically, people with Asperger’s only hang out amongst themselves and can’t get normies/Chads to truly like them or reciprocate friendliness; … | /r/askTRP | 07/08/18 10:50 PM |
| 2 | My parents just told me “I don’t have a mean bone in my body” - makes me feel like a total beta cuck - how to develop meanness?I’m 21 and still live with them because I’m not making enough money to move out yet. Thanks for the advice. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/18 09:33 AM |
| 1 | How to stop wishing I never existed because of beta male shaming?I don’t know how to be someone that people like being around/with. It’s always eluded me, despite my best efforts to improve socially. I don’t get it: how can the most depressed-as-fuck, sad sack losers have people make an effort to say hi and hang out with me when I don’t get that at all (I.e. I have to put in the effort all the time. Nobody ever asks me how I’m doing or talks to me just to hang out with me). It’s like I have a hidden people-repellant, neon flashing “abuse me” sign, or “stay aw… | /r/askTRP | 04/08/18 10:42 PM |
| 1 | How to stop wishing I never existed because of beta male shaming?I’ve tried this. It’s never worked. I just get flipped on even harder, with others presenting themselves like saints and me as the devil because I made a social mistake just by standing up to them for something they did wrong. And they have power on their side. | /r/askTRP | 04/08/18 10:11 PM |
| 2 | How to stop wishing I never existed because of beta male shaming?I’m lifting and making money. I just need help with the emotional trauma and mindset. I need to work through it or else I’ll remain a little beta bitch for the rest of my life. | /r/askTRP | 04/08/18 10:09 PM |
| 1 | How to stop wishing I never existed because of beta male shaming?You weren’t inherently hated by the world like I am; the world gave you a chance. People out there genuinely like you, and don’t just tolerate you for the sake of appearances; that was almost never the case with me. You need to teach me your secrets. I honestly think that doing what you just described is luck/impossible (growing up poor as fuck and banging rich Asian chicks in our city). Chicks hate anyone except the top, top dudes here (at least 6’2”, white/black, muscular, good looking face an… | /r/askTRP | 04/08/18 10:05 PM |
| 1 | How to stop wishing I never existed because of beta male shaming?It’s just that things have been going so good for me lately. I’ve been back in the gym lifting for a month (and breaking a lot of plateaus), I’m about to top off my emergency fund with 6 months’ worth of living-on-my-own expenses, and after a month of killing it at my new job (big real estate property management company), I’m meeting my company’s CEO on Wednesday, and I’ve already met my company’s CFO (I work in finance at this company, so this guy’s my “big boss”). When things go this good rela… | /r/askTRP | 04/08/18 10:00 PM |
| 1 | How to not let my mind be poisoned by my work colleagues?Follow up: Today, I scored a meeting with my company’s CEO just by giving his executive assistant his class ring (25th anniversary, engineering grad) that I found in the mailroom. The executive assistant put it directly on the CEO’s desk. The meeting is on Wednesday morning. I also got to meet the company’s CFO. Advice for the CEO meeting? | /r/askTRP | 03/08/18 10:47 PM |
| 7 | How to get rid of lazy part of my brain telling me not to lift weights, & to just jerk off & surf the Internet all day?What I see in that case terrifies me. Because I know I’ll have wasted my life at that point. I do productive things (work, lift, eat healthy, etc.) but I know I still have to fight that voice every day. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/18 02:55 AM |
| 6 | How to get rid of lazy part of my brain telling me not to lift weights, & to just jerk off & surf the Internet all day?Yup. Isn’t it the ultimate shit test, though? | /r/askTRP | 02/08/18 02:52 AM |
| 13 | How to get rid of lazy part of my brain telling me not to lift weights, & to just jerk off & surf the Internet all day?Alright I’m ready to do that then | /r/askTRP | 02/08/18 02:48 AM |
| 21 | How to get rid of lazy part of my brain telling me not to lift weights, & to just jerk off & surf the Internet all day?Keep doing what I’ve been doing. Got it. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/18 01:54 AM |
| 3 | How to stop feeling like the world actively wants me to kill myself?UPDATE: Feeling pretty good right now. Decided that when I eat lunch at work, I’m going to sit facing away from the TV screen so I don’t have to watch the news. Doing that now. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/18 02:39 PM |
| 1 | DAE feel like the level of competition to get women & money is too ridiculous nowadays for too little reward?Been lifting for 2 weeks now (latest streak). I’m OK with putting in the work. It’s just that I feel like the rewards are too small compared to the work I have to put in. Compared to the 1950’s, women are much fatter, less feminine, more disgusting-looking (dyed hair & tattoos), and more openly hostile towards men, yet somehow more selective, so there’s a much smaller proportion of hot (or even fuckable) women compared to then. I would also be OK with working this hard if in the end, it gave me … | /r/askTRP | 18/07/18 04:43 PM |
| 1 | DAE feel like the level of competition to get women & money is too ridiculous nowadays for too little reward?Looks like I’ve never been well-liked anywhere; I’ve always been beaten by the rule book. Oh well, with a new job, now’s the chance to change things. On another note, how will I know if people know of me positively in the workplace? Will they tell me, will they say/do certain things, etc.? What are the signs that they like or dislike me (other than application of rules)? | /r/askTRP | 18/07/18 04:30 PM |
| 17 | TRP and Buyer's RemorseSo I can’t ever show any weakness whatsoever? So I have to be better than perfect to avoid a false rape accusation/jail? Stuff like this makes me so angry. I hate our society for this. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/18 11:55 AM |
| 0 | DAE feel like the level of competition to get women & money is too ridiculous nowadays for too little reward?Yeah I think that’s just it... I’m so impatient I want everything yesterday, & get frustrated when things don’t work like that. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/18 09:33 AM |
| 0 | The Nature of PowerI already wish I was never born in the first place. Your point? | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/18 09:23 AM |
| 1 | Why does everybody ignore/mistreat me & specifically me?Whenever I’ve tried to do that, I’ve gotten in trouble with authority figures for it and they’ve mercilessly shamed me to put me back in my place. Examples: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/8vcs4j/comment/e1npmjk?st=JJICBJ29&sh=51da1e76 | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 11:57 AM |
| 1 | How To Arouse A Girl (While You're Still In Public)But women won’t let me dominate them/never follow me as a leader/ignore me. And every time I even try to get physical, they back off. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/18 10:42 AM |
| 1 | Misogyny Is Not a Real Thing.OTOH, women hate men these days, & misandry is real. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/18 10:38 AM |
| 0 | Why does everybody ignore/mistreat me & specifically me?B/c they’re interested in spending time with everybody else... so I kind of expect equal treatment. It’s only fair. It’s because I see people treat me as nicely as their friends to my face, so I automatically think that they like me as a friend. Also, I’m hilarious (at least to myself), I can create my own fun, people have told me that I’m smart, funny, & “savage” (in the slang sense of the word, which is a complement), & I’m a great piano player (so I can help people who are music producers out… | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 10:10 AM |
| 1 | Why does everybody ignore/mistreat me & specifically me?Idk. I know my 5RM DL is 205 lbs., so I’m guessing around 215 lbs. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 09:57 AM |
| 1 | My family has a lot of “sour grapes” yet deny it & convince me I’m crazy for wanting to be alpha - how to cope?Nah just graduated university & started working. Job doesn’t pay enough for me to move out tho | /r/askTRP | 16/07/18 11:31 PM |
| 4 | Interested in unmasculine hobbyDude no one will see you as gay when you have HB9’s lining up to ride your dick like a roller coaster | /r/askTRP | 15/07/18 01:00 PM |
| 20 | Interested in unmasculine hobbyYou’re talented at it, could get rich, & are learning sales. Very masculine shit. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/18 12:48 PM |
| 4 | My family has a lot of “sour grapes” yet deny it & convince me I’m crazy for wanting to be alpha - how to cope?LOL my parents are undoubtedly losers. Looks like I’m gonna have to develop an unbreakable, rock-solid frame and game just to survive my household, let alone get with girls. Thanks. Also, what can I learn from their shiftiness? | /r/askTRP | 15/07/18 12:24 PM |
| 0 | Sour grapes and bitterness, how to detect it in people and topics that will bring out in most people except for the very few.https://reddit.app.link/NLJQQ18tzO This is basically my question to you. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/18 12:04 PM |
| 1 | "Unethical" "Machiavellian" tricks?Well yeah. I feel like everybody (the world) hates me/ignores me for malicious reasons, that girls can fuck up my life forever/get me killed (the stories are there in the news to prove it) and actually want to do this to me just because I’m a man. I don’t feel safe anywhere, & I feel like one wrong move could permanently ruin my life. I’m scared everyone around me is trying to set me up to get me killed & watch me die while maliciously laughing at me like some movie supervillain. I feel like eve… | /r/askTRP | 14/07/18 12:54 AM |
| 1 | "Unethical" "Machiavellian" tricks?OMG... I just realized that my parents never really loved me... they loved their power over me. Every time I’ve tried to be independent of them & not be like them, they’ve fiercely resisted me with shouting & threats & guilt tripping from them as well as the extended family. Ditto for basically every authority figure I’ve ever known. I don’t know how to confront them about this. I want to fight everybody, but I’m about to hit the gym. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/18 09:09 PM |
| 5 | "Unethical" "Machiavellian" tricks?I feel like these days, 99.99% of people seek to intentionally abuse others, chip away at their sense of autonomy & sense of worth haphazardly so they can feel they’ve won something. LOL at this being abnormal... everyone wants to victimize everyone else. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/18 10:10 AM |
| 1 | Stuck in the anger phase/dealing with extreme negativityLMAO yeah I’ll give that a listen on the drive home | /r/askTRP | 12/07/18 11:43 AM |
| 1 | MGTOWS Are Incels In Disguise: Don't Fall For ItSaw the pic. The question is... will they do anything that actually means a damn though? Probably not. All I’ve seen of this is mass shootings & keyboard warrioring, & that just digs them further & further into the ground & stigmatizes them more. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/18 11:07 PM |
| 6 | We Didn't Have Dad'sDamn dude :( I hope he taught you some good lessons before he left us. I personally can’t imagine life without my dad. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/18 11:04 PM |
| 6 | The sad realities of modern datingWhat magx01 said, in addition to the fact that they hate all men, want to kill you & make you kill yourself just for existing. And 99% of the men out think the same way, as they are white knights and manginas; they have serious crabs in a bucket mentality towards anyone who tries to ascend to alphadom. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/18 04:26 PM |
| 2 | Never forget your true advantageYea but I don’t know if it means anything other than a way to make yourself feel good/hamster. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/18 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Do most people want others to be weaker/not as successful as they are?Oh yeah. Everybody. So much so they try to purposely make it happen to some people (me being one of them). | /r/askTRP | 11/07/18 09:59 AM |
| 3 | Never forget your true advantage“Your true value is your knowledge of the world combined with self-value earned through hard work, suffering, & sacrifice.” Sounds pretty blue pilled to me. Especially in today’s world... people don’t give a fuck about that. Your only value in today’s world to other people is the superficial; internal value doesn’t count for shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/18 09:51 AM |
| 10 | The sad realities of modern datingNo it wouldn’t. Trust me, I live in Toronto. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/18 09:39 AM |
| 1 | Feel your emotions, don't express themThis is good and all, but feeling my pent up emotions might result in property destruction, fighting, incomprehensible & unintelligible screaming & ranting at people, & just acting severely autistic in general. Plus, if none of that happens, I feel embarrassed when others see me feeling weak emotions. The only way I am comfortable truly feeling my emotions is if I’m in private, at home alone, with no one coming in for at least an hour or no one nearby to hear/watch me. How can I feel my emotions… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/18 11:29 PM |
| 1 | How to not feel angry/depressed about seeing the state of the sexual marketplace?Oh so that explains what I’m seeing? And their natural social game is not enough to make up the difference? | /r/askTRP | 09/07/18 10:16 AM |
| 1 | How to not feel angry/depressed about seeing the state of the sexual marketplace?Really? Where I’m at, it seems like guys just keep getting hotter & fitter every year while girls get fatter & uglier. It’s like I have to try harder for much less reward, just like everything else in this world is becoming (money, power, etc.) I hate it. | /r/askTRP | 09/07/18 10:12 AM |
| 1 | How to tell my parents I don’t want to do something confidently - dealing with trauma in this area?Yup, it is. Thanks for the advice, though. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/18 05:35 AM |
| 1 | How to tell my parents I don’t want to do something confidently - dealing with trauma in this area?I already drive to & from work (fully licensed years ago) right now. Rent is at least $1.5K a month even in the outer suburbs of my city (where I work, by the way). | /r/askTRP | 08/07/18 05:33 AM |
| 1 | How to tell my parents I don’t want to do something confidently - dealing with trauma in this area?I’m working on saving up to do that right now. My job pays pretty well ($3K a month), but rent is expensive in my city, so we’ll see what happens. I’ve got 4 months worth of an emergency fund stashed away; looking to get it up to 6 before I do anything, which I should have by September. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/18 05:31 AM |
| 1 | How to tell my parents I don’t want to do something confidently - dealing with trauma in this area?Yeah I tried that just now. I wanted to shave (which I would have done had I stayed home), done my nighttime routine, & gone to sleep. I told my parents this, and they told me “You’re stuck, be flexible, you have this obsession with doing things at all hours of the night, it has to stop.” They told me to shave all at once, but I told them that in doing that, I would cut myself when it came time to shave my pubes. They then told me to shave my facial hair & armpit hair in the morning & my pubes i… | /r/askTRP | 08/07/18 05:26 AM |
| 2 | The Internal, Self-Worth, and The Key to Self-Confidence“Build the internal by conquering the external.” If that’s true, isn’t self-worth really determined by the external if you don’t naturally have it? | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/18 09:30 PM |
| 12 | What's wrong with nice guys?I don’t know how to “show people my power as a king” & “make them live it & feel it in the air.” I know it’s a mindset thing, & something you just “have.” How can I get it? | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/18 12:49 AM |
| 4 | Pt 2 : Mental Simulation and YouYou got mental antivirus? I’m infected with every type of mental malware (except oneitis, but even that pops up from time to time) | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/18 10:24 AM |
| 238 | 18 Red Flags When It Comes to Dating FemalesLOL this is EVERY girl nowadays. The ones that don’t have all of these traits are just manipulating you to maximize the pain when they cheat on you. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/18 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Courage, Anxiety and outcome independence. A quick guide.Examples: “Out with your friends, your eyes briefly meet with a hot girl”: When this happened to me in high school, my friends used to tell me, “Yo, she wants to talk to you!” The girl yelled and laughed at them, “No, I don’t!” So when I actually went up and talked to them, they would just give me the most serious look ever, one-word answers, and would recoil from physical escalations while my friends watched smirking, knowing they made me look like an idiot. My ‘friends’ were Chads btw. Nowaday… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/18 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Courage, Anxiety and outcome independence. A quick guide.Unfortunately, modern society operates a lot like a small tribe with social media; once again, rejection means being outcasted from the tribe, which now, can mean the whole world. Throughout my life, I’ve been punished/laughed at/had my frame broken for showing courage (people would always scold me for it because I made mistakes and always looked socially retarded while being courageous); courage has always gotten me into trouble, and I’ve always failed at getting people to do what I want when I… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/18 12:57 AM |
| 4 | The IDGAF paradoxThanks. I feel a lot better & a lot less confused about this paradox now. Knowing that I won’t nail this right off the bat & sometimes I might give too much or too little of a fuck makes me feel a lot better; I will make mistakes. I still feel insecure about that (given the competitiveness of today’s world), but this comment made me feel a lot less so. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/18 10:15 PM |
| 1 | My Experiences and AdviceYea but what ppl think of u means the difference between being able to survive or not nowadays. One person thinking bad of u can ruin ur career & any future prospects u might have. How do u maintain an idgaf attitude despite this paradox? | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/18 08:32 PM |
| 3 | Should I just smile & nod when my parents tell me to "respect women"?LOL I told them this when I was 13. I didn’t know or care about that rule at the time, or think it applied to me. Now I do. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/18 02:23 AM |
| 2 | I have decided to attend community college instead of attending high school for grades 9-12. Thanks for all the advice that people shared.Damn I’m surprised you can do that. Where do u live? Wish I coulda done that @ 14. The more distance I could’ve gotten from my hometown & my parents at that age the better haha | /r/askTRP | 18/06/18 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Feminists are bulliesThat’s just it. I just have to be unlucky once... and boom. It terrifies me to not be in control in that sort of way. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/18 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Feminists are bulliesNah, they’re great bullies. Anyone who can do that while simultaneously getting the government, power elite, courts, & police on their side has major manipulative skill. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/18 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Feminists are bulliesThat makes sense. But in some places, like mine (the Canadian province of Ontario), you won’t even be allowed to do that; courts throw out all evidence on your side just because. I wish it didn’t have to be like this, & people could just have carefree sex. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/18 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Feminists are bulliesYeah but I live in the west. So just move to a developing country & everything is OK? | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/18 08:14 PM |
| 2 | Feminists are bulliesLOL you made me sound like I was stooping to an SJW level. Kinda woke me up. Just realized I participate in the Oppression Olympics myself. That doesn’t change the fact that the law is on their side & against my side, but still, thanks for putting things into perspective :) | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/18 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Feminists are bulliesIn theory, yeah. In practice, it doesn’t matter when the bully (women) has the principal (law) on their side, & the law drops the hammer of its persecutive powers on you. And just like when I was getting bullied, you can’t stand up for yourself, and anything you try to do to stand up for yourself will be used against you. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/18 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Feminists are bulliesThis is what I think sometimes. If I’m gonna get bullied/abused/hurt anyways, best to show off my best self/go down fighting, so at least I can walk away with some pride and self-respect. Not getting hurt would be ideal, but considering it seems like an inevitability in today’s world, I might as well just do my best. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/18 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Feminists are bulliesSmall problem: my “bros” were apt to turn on me just like my bullies in middle school. I feel the same thing on social media today; “bros” turning on their bros the moment they get accused of sexual assault, even if falsely. I’m scared that the trauma’s happening to me again, & that I can’t escape it. Those are my fears. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/18 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Feminists are bulliesMy problem is not what happened to me. It’s the feeling that it’s happening again, and I can’t escape no matter where on Earth I go or where I retreat/withdraw to. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/18 07:03 PM |
| 2 | Feminists are bulliesHow can I develop the strength to do that? Especially when they remind me of my past abusers? And it feels like an abuse I can’t escape? | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/18 06:54 PM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread May 23Nah. I’m calling the feminism that is basically de facto law in society exactly what it is: bullying. Because I survived a similar form of bullying. In middle school, I was known as a spaz; kids would rib on me & I’d react by fighting them/ribbing them back. These kids would always tell on me to the principal & get me in trouble while they got off scot-free & even received “Virtues” awards. It got to a point where in Grade 7, the school tried to expel me, but ended up giving me detention for the… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/18 06:45 PM |
| -1 | askTRP Megathread May 23Yeah but those shit tests are now legally enforced... meaning that they dangle the threat of permanent reputation ruin, arrest by white knight police, a guilty verdict in court/prison sentence over your head. Too scary for me. Basically, you have to be a straight-up thug who DGAF about breaking the law, because sex with women is illegal these days. At the same time, I’m still a validation whore. So I’m totally stuck. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/18 02:40 PM |
| -7 | askTRP Megathread May 23I don’t think that matters anymore. The vast majority of girls are now making a conscious effort to ignore/hate/destroy all men. They’re trying to make us kill ourselves. It’s over. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/18 01:42 PM |
| 7 | askTRP Megathread May 23People talk about alpha fux/beta bux (orbiters). But in recent years, there’s been a growing underclass of men who girls won’t even let orbit (e.g. friend requests/texts ignored, treat these guys like they don’t even exist in person). It’s like they’re invisible no matter what they do. These men refuse to be orbiters, but are also not alpha for whatever reason. These guys often have no social proof. I would know because I’ve been part of that underclass since I was a teenager. How do I get out o… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/18 01:32 PM |
| 1 | How to survive constant beta/omega male shaming from family, acquaintances, & the entire world in general as I make my self improvement journey?How so? I really don’t wanna live with this kind of fear anymore, but I feel like getting rid of it is turning a blind eye to the reality of things nowadays. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 02:37 AM |
| 1 | How to survive constant beta/omega male shaming from family, acquaintances, & the entire world in general as I make my self improvement journey?You know, the beta shaming that happens nowadays can ruin a man’s life forever. We’ve seen it with #metoo and women being able to define any encounter with men as rape nowadays (and increasingly taking the liberty of doing so). | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 02:25 AM |
| 2 | I feel too depressed to do anything with my life (21M) - how to get out of this state & be productive?Thanks just took a look at the maladaptive daydreaming subreddit. Think I have it. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 12:12 AM |
| 0 | Im burned out in 11th grade. I have exams in June. I have a lots of tests and I cant study at all. I cant focus, i have no motivatio, im always tired and i dont know how to study. Help meOh boy. I went through the same thing (exact same timing, too). Thing is, I was on some “When you wanna succeed as bad as you wanna breathe” shit at the time, & I was basically convinced that if I didn’t get into university, the rest of my life would be doomed. I also had parents who were on my ass 24/7 at the time... that helped. But at the time, I also was doin a lot of extracurricular shit. I was training for football season, I was taking driver’s ed to get my G2 license (it’s an Ontario (Can… | /r/askTRP | 21/05/18 06:31 PM |
| 1 | "How to stop being such a social cringey retard"(x-comment from the MDE sub)I’ve tried that hundreds of times & I don’t feel like it ever works. It’s not like anyone hits me up because of that even if we hit it off; they’re always too busy with their own lives to give a fuck about me unless I have some direct value I offer them (e.g. done homework assignments). Only one person genuinely likes me; everyone is trying to use me like a hustler. And that’s just the guys; girls straight up ignore me if I’m not directly talking to them, cower away from any escalation I try to … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/18 02:34 PM |
| 5 | "How to stop being such a social cringey retard"(x-comment from the MDE sub)What do I have to give to an “average, self-obsessed Norman” to win their favour & how can I give it? | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/18 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Being “genuine,” “honest,” & all that is bullshit - you have to lie & play games with everyone in order to get anything in this worldHonestly, I don’t think I’m a good person. I feel I’m manipulative because I’m deceitful in my interactions with people, & if the value of my emotional bank account could be quantified, I’d be a couple of million of dollars in debt there right now. Forget emotionally damaged, my mind is basically a radioactive warzone. I feel like I used to be a genuinely good person when I was a little kid, but my actions were totally misconstrued by those around me to seem deceitful/defiant whenever I expresse… | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Being “genuine,” “honest,” & all that is bullshit - you have to lie & play games with everyone in order to get anything in this worldWould these people also be willing to accept & welcome in new ones who show those traits? | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Being “genuine,” “honest,” & all that is bullshit - you have to lie & play games with everyone in order to get anything in this worldYeah... one problem with that. THE VAST MAJORITY OF PEOPLE (99.9999%) are fellow manipulators AND/OR emotionally damaged people with shitty boundaries. Finding honest, ethical, positive people in 2018 is like finding a hay in an ocean-sized needlestack contaminated with AIDS. I wish it were as easy as you described. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 06:49 PM |
| 0 | GrayLOL I tried that route in high school. Didn’t work for me. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/18 04:15 PM |
| 4 | Do you you really have to lift?Even if you don’t care about lifting for girls, there are plenty of health benefits, both physical & mental, from a consistent intense exercise routine. These are backed by basically every major scientific organization out there. So yeah, if you don’t lift for girls, at least do it for your own health. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/18 02:34 PM |
| 6 | May 04 - Weekly Improvement & Progress ThreadI just keep myself occupied enough that I don’t have the energy or mental space to think about them. I also have the mantra, “Trust the Process,” & recite it to myself frequently in the bathroom. I also recite it to myself whenever my mom yells at me for being unproductive/not doing exactly what she wants me to do with her life. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/18 06:06 PM |
| 21 | May 04 - Weekly Improvement & Progress ThreadGot my will & power of attorney done Returned to the gym (lifting) after the most hectic semester of my life Began to break free from my “black pill” negativity in tiny ways Went to the doctor & basically completely resolved my constipation problem Drank at least 3L of water every day for the last 9 days Started journaling & logging again | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/18 03:02 PM |
| 4 | askTRP Megathread May 02How do I get a job that’s not a dead-end job & allows for advancement in my field (finance) in today’s economic climate? I’m 21, just graduated with a finance degree from a university in Toronto, but I didn’t get work experience in the field during my time in university. I’m worried that I’ll never have anywhere close to the career I want. I’m worried I’ll get rejected by every job due to robots filtering the hiring process now & making it impossible for everyone to get work. I’m also worried ab… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/18 08:00 PM |
| 2 | Declaration of DefeatHeight: 5’11” Weight: 155 lbs. Deadlift: 205 lbs. OHP: 85 lbs. (For some reason, I can increase lower body strength easily, but upper body strength never improved after I turned 16). | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/18 12:25 AM |
| -1 | Declaration of DefeatYou read the post as well as I did. If I had any real power to change my situation, my account would be full of FR’s celebrating my success. Heck, I might’ve never needed to go here in the first place. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/18 11:58 PM |
| 16 | The Incel Revolution and how the MSM lies about the involvement of TRPIf Toronto women are such “hoes”, how come they’re impossible to pick up? | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/18 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Ubermensch Mode - The Animated Video - (Combined With IM's Monk Mode)This is a great video! But I want to keep my recovery time as low as possible (preferably, I’d like to need no recovery time for up to a year). This is because I feel like in my SMV position, I can’t afford recovery time. How do I do that? | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/18 04:53 PM |
| 89 | How to hold frame (my complete guide)Sidebar-worthy material. This is great. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/18 08:41 PM |
| 0 | askTRP Megathread April 25Hey, I just finished university (last exam today), & I have no idea what to do next with my life. Sure, I’m gonna work & all that, but I’ve been in a state of self-pity, extreme anger, & learned helplessness for so long I can barely remember what happiness feels like. I’m an Aspie virgin with no social life (the only friend I have has no clear-cut goals or ambition with his life, & just wants to gossip; everybody else is “too busy” for me, which is clearly bullshit they use to avoid me). I don’t… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/18 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread April 23It’s because if a girl gets attention, it’s like sex to her. Even if they refuse to have sex, they still get tons of attention from hordes of thirsty guys & they thrive off of it. So they say to themselves, “Why bother with sex if I can just get attention without giving it up?” They’re still getting the pleasure. It’s just chemical & mental instead of physical. And ignoring them/going MGTOW won’t change this shit, because there’ll always be thirsty guys in line. Face it. We lost, women won. And … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/18 05:34 PM |
| 6 | Self Compassion: Become Your BestGood post. Unfortunately, I live in a world where I get shamed & beaten down by society & others around me when I show self-compassion & it goes against what they want me to do (which is all the time & everywhere in 2018 just by virtue of me being a young man). It’s like it’s illegal for someone like me to have self-compassion. And I don’t have the money to escape said environment yet. How do I cope? | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/18 09:20 AM |
| 1 | Emotion + LogicGood stuff. But I feel like the negative logic & thoughts are “realistic,” and the positive logic & thoughts are “delusional.” For this strategy to work for me, I need actual proof that the positive affirmations are true. But I always dig up & focus on proof that the negative thoughts are true, which I have a lot of. Both logic & emotion break down for me, sometimes at the same time. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/18 03:13 PM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread April 04Have any of you ever done a “detox,” and if so, what was it like/how long was it for? | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/18 07:45 PM |
| 20 | askTRP Megathread March 14Look around ya. The decline’s BEEN happening, especially in the last 20 years or so. And it’s accelerating with each passing day. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/18 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Why are all girls such bitches & snobs towards me these days?Bruh 😂😂😂 | /r/askTRP | 11/03/18 10:47 PM |
| 1 | I think my "personal curse" is being cured.Yeah I’ve been feeling the curse lately. But it’s getting worse for me now, not better. How did you manage to make the curse better? | /r/askTRP | 11/03/18 10:19 PM |
| 1 | I’m very emotionally sensitive to how others react to & treat me. How to be more stoic?Just read that article. Makes sense. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/18 12:13 AM |
| 2 | askTRP Megathread March 07If that’s the case then how do those guys find the time to fuck all those girls? | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/18 04:38 PM |
| 5 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread November 27IMO, all news is fake (both mainstream & alternative)... don’t know where to get real news from | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/17 02:37 PM |
| 7 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread November 27Yup. And my parents have the nerve to tell me getting all my information & basing my life off of Internet sources is bad when they do it based on the TV shows they watch & fake news they consume. My mom always tells me, “Watch [x] movie, it’ll show you that [x aspect of blue pill reality] is true.” And my dad backs her up. I used to get super pissed off at it, but now, I don’t tell my parents anything & just stay away from them. They don’t know I’m here, why should they? They think I’m too far g… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/17 01:56 PM |
| 6 | Have some fucking standards and self respectBut girls don’t ever chase anybody except the top 0.00000001%, which I feel I’ll never become. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/17 03:49 PM |
| 9 | College: Just Fucking TryYou gotta get somewhere, right? But here’s the thing: if you get hit by a bus, you get injured/killed, everybody feels sorry for you & it’s “such a tragedy.” You become the “campus creep,” your life becomes The Walking Dead: you’re still alive, but you are raped, killed, & mutilated inside, & you have to go through that every day for the rest of your life because blue pill society unfairly judges you, & their perception is reality in this world. Basically, 1 death vs. at least 1,000 deaths. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/17 02:49 PM |
| 18 | College: Just Fucking TryYeah but those opportunities only go to the top 5%. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/17 02:39 PM |
| 10 | College: Just Fucking TryI’m in college right now. I could argue that OTOH, the risk of sexual harassment/false rape accusations are so high now that trying actually puts you in a worse position than not doing so. I mean, what’s the point of trying if you’re just gonna get labelled a campus creep? And many ppl have situations that prevent them from “trying” (having to work full-time just to pay for tuition, being poor, being in demanding majors, having to commute home to overprotective parents, etc.). | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/17 02:38 PM |
| 18 | No girl is yours and you will always be alone.I figured this out about not just women, but people as a whole. It doesn’t even have to be them being assholes; sometimes they’ll die before you do & you have to live with that loss. It’s heartbreaking, but if u can draw that sense of “I’m all I got, I’m all I need,” it’s so empowering b/c the only person who can fuck u up inside is u. I still hav to work on that part (im a very negative person & a worrywart still working through years of pent-up emotions), but I’ll get there eventually, & once … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/17 11:08 PM |
| 4 | How to develop a “go-getter,” “take-what-you-want,” “IDGAF” mentality (20M)?Because EVERYBODY in my life mindfucks me to think they’re better than me by exaggerating my weaknesses & contrasting it with “perfect, wise, me.” Also, I’m terrified (both really scared & really angry) of the State-sanctioned psychological & emotional terrorists & bullies known as “women.” | /r/askTRP | 14/11/17 03:32 PM |
| 6 | Approval vs CompanionshipBecause if you don’t get a woman’s approval these days (which is fleeting), you have no career prospects, you could be thrown in jail, & you could be beaten up/killed by white knights. My take on it, from what I’ve heard on this sub as well as my own experiences. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/17 07:52 PM |
| 2 | Never Over Invest (Time, Money, Energy)Can you tell if a boss is gonna be a bitch immediately? And if so what are the signs? | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/17 02:29 PM |
| 2 | After hearing about what happened to Louis CK, I’m really angry & scaredBro even I know if u invite chicks to ur apartment u fuck them u don’t masturbate in front of them. Then what was the point of takin those chicks there anyway u could’ve stayed home & done it by urself. But thanks for that | /r/askTRP | 10/11/17 03:32 AM |
| 2 | After hearing about what happened to Louis CK, I’m really angry & scaredHaha thanks | /r/askTRP | 10/11/17 01:53 AM |
| 10 | Are Western men oppressed?Nah these articles are just attention-grabbing traps. As soon as they get a chance they’re gonna become radical on a level that we can’t even imagine right now. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/17 06:33 PM |
| 2 | Things You Should NEVER Say To A Woman (Red Pill Edition)And I’m assuming it’s possible for me to show my interest to them without directly telling them about it. I think escalation is the way to go about it. And I also think that instead of asking, “Can I get your phone number?” and shit like that, I should turn it into commands. Correct me if I’m wrong. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/17 04:12 PM |
| 8 | Things You Should NEVER Say To A Woman (Red Pill Edition)And now I don’t get how to talk to a girl. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/17 03:15 PM |
| 2 | This is how girls feel almost every time they have sexIt’s not that they don’t like sex, it’s that they can get it so easily that it’s something they take for granted. Think about it, if you had hundreds of girls throwing themselves at you every day through all media platforms & out in the real world, eventually, you’d develop that attitude too. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/11/17 12:59 PM |
| -1 | Dealing with fear of failure & feelings of hopelessness & pointlessness?Ok. But with all the competition, isn’t the cost of failure ridiculously high nowadays? Like “1 innocent mistake/misstep can fuck up the rest of your life & set you back 5-10 years” high? Or am I wrong? | /r/askTRP | 07/11/17 02:36 PM |
| 2 | Confused with what “focusing on myself” meansAight thanks for clearing it up. | /r/askTRP | 05/11/17 06:03 AM |
| 0 | Some thougts about #metoo and Sexual Harassment HysteriaI’m so scared of this too. Main reason why I have approach anxiety... these hoes can fuck up my life forever & I think most of them know it. What’s worse is that most of these hoes know it & treat ALL men like they are beneath them... we’re worse than the dogshit underneath their shoes. I’ve seen it with my own eyes. It’s like these hoes don’t even want men, all they want is power. Power motherfuckers, power. And if u even try to test them, they have hordes of white knights that will kill u at a… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/17 07:25 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with “weak emotions” - talk about them anonymously or stay silent/stoic?I have Spalding. Never thought of turning it into a Wilson. And yeah I’ve seen that movie. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/17 07:14 PM |
| 0 | How to deal with “weak emotions” - talk about them anonymously or stay silent/stoic?Ok how can I start practicing handling my own emotional problems without relying on others as a crutch? | /r/askTRP | 02/11/17 06:26 PM |
| 2 | Even Family Can Sometimes Try to Get in the WayBut happy meals became unkeewwwll like 10 years ago! | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/17 11:16 PM |
| 6 | Even Family Can Sometimes Try to Get in the WayIt was a step outside my comfort zone & it was against my parents wishes. It helped. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/17 11:15 PM |
| 29 | Even Family Can Sometimes Try to Get in the WayMy mom & other female relatives were the same way whenever I tried to “become a man” - quitting video games, intermittent lifting, investing in bitcoin, growing a beard, getting the life coach that brought me here, quitting fast food, & quitting my other bad habits... said I should “focus on my studies,” that I “look ugly,” that I’m “wasting money & letting opportunities pass me by,” & that “those new people I’m hanging out with are no good.” And I couldn’t ignore it b/c a lot of the time, they … | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/17 12:00 AM |
| 2 | Putting in any effort at all places you ahead of 80% of men.Wish I could, but harder than it sounds. I frequently get bronchitis now (3 times in the last 5 months). The thought police are so prevalent & pervasive now that even if I show an ounce of testosterone, I’ll instantly get ostracized & put back in my place. If not by social media or by family/“friends” who are “concerned” for me, big daddy government will do it & make me look like the bad guy, which will kill any prospects I have... forever. Don’t believe me, look at all the sexual harassment law… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/17 05:33 AM |
| 2 | Autism is not a real illness. (winning!)Clinically diagnosed with autism at the age of 3 (20 yo now). Know a lot of others who are the same way. I beg to differ. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/17 02:21 PM |
| 5 | Asshole Status is the only wayHow do I act this way when literally EVERYBODY pushes me down as soon as I try? | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/17 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Learn To Take A HitI am like this but idk what to do about it b/c I always feel like that threat is lurking around the corner given past life experiences. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/17 02:37 AM |
| 1 | How do I put myself to sleep quickly without fapping?How can I get more melatonin /magnesium in my body? | /r/askTRP | 27/09/17 03:55 PM |
| 8 | How do I put myself to sleep quickly without fapping?Bruh I live in a suburb outside of Toronto. The commute is RIDICULOUS. Add to that the fact that I poop in the morning... yeah. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/17 03:11 PM |
| 1 | How to become the best at what you doHow can you use only 20% of your mental energy on a job and the other 80% on self-improvement? Seems impossible to me b/c everyone I’ve ever seen uses all their mental energy on a job, with none left over for self-improvement. I fall into this pattern too as a student, using 95% of my mental energy just to get through my coursework every week & manage my time without too much procrastination (I’m majoring in finance btw) | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/17 01:43 PM |
| 2 | If you want to write about an uncontrollable feature about yourself, write about how to either minimize its setbacks or how to maximize its returns. Do not post it otherwise.I'm naturally loud but I kind of talk fast & have an increasing tonal inflection. Thanks for the tip 👍🏼 | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/17 03:00 AM |
| 2 | Parents checked my search history and found a few TRP articles... sh*t storm ensures.No matter what, remember: "This is just temporary, it will pass." You've got a month left there? Make a countdown for yourself: "Days Until I Get Out of There," & every day, take 1 day off of it. DO NOT LET YOUR PARENTS SEE THIS. And another piece of advice I'm gonna give the whole of TRP: any time before you get off the web, ALWAYS DELETE YOUR INTERNET HISTORY. Make it a habit. No one else in the real world that I know personally (not counting NSA & other bullshit) knows I'm here for that very … | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/17 02:02 PM |
| 9 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread August 14If you keep a habit going for long enough, it becomes you. I haven't even been keeping my bad habits log for the last 3 weeks (got bronchitis, then had final exams) & I still stayed away from all of them. I've even managed to moderate my time spent gaming & masturbating by using sessions of those habits as rewards for studying a certain amount (e.g. half an hour of gaming for every chapter of textbook note taking & reading completed. On another note, while sick, I still found a way to work out (… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/17 02:06 PM |
| 1 | How to be a Social Butterfly [Part 2: Methods]Like this post... but one problem. I tried this in high school, & got exposed as a "fake". Didn't know how to handle it, so my self-esteem got crushed. I lied about my life experiences to seem cool, so that might've hurt me, but still. I wanna do this, but I'm scared of that happening again, & the cognitive dissonance I felt during that time was ridiculous. I felt like I was putting on 2 fronts: one for my peers (an alpha front) & one for my parents (a beta front). How do I avoid this dilemma? | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/17 03:19 AM |
| -8 | Started reading The Slight Edge (It was recommended here) and the first thing I thought was, I should really start fastingBruh I eat 3 meals a day fuck u mean mans eat 6 meals a day. Anyway drink lots of water when u fast. You'll get hunger pangs & shit but you'll adjust in about a week | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/17 10:39 PM |
| 4 | Successful people aren't Demi-Gods with insane willpower and incredible productivity skills. They are normal people who understood the importance of the small seemingly insignificant daily disciplines. They understood how these disciplines leveraged with time could make them unstoppable.True, but you missed one key ingredient: These successful people can stay healthy/lucky. Sayin this as someone suffering through his 12th day of a bronchitis attack, & whose illnesses always seem to be conveniently timed right after he makes major breakthroughs in his life. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/17 03:19 PM |
| 3 | Male Attractiveness to Women as Explained by Evolutionary PsychologyYou can argue that nowadays trying to fuck a girl is life threatening... what with the girl hanging the threat of accusing you of rape & destroying your life & future prospects at will, not to mention the countless white knights she can send after you (both civilians & police) who have the weapons & mentality to kill you if they think you're mistreating her. We're all betas in this system, no way around it. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/17 03:45 AM |
| 23 | How to Deal with an Angry GirlfriendTo quote the wise Chris Rock: "If your woman is mad at you, leave her at home. A mad woman will do ANYTHING to see you get your ass kicked." | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/17 02:23 PM |
| 8 | Give her spaceDid not ignore that disclaimer | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/17 01:49 PM |
| 10 | 6 Common Things Women Say To Show DisinterestWhat if girls tell you: - "I have a boyfriend" - "You're just a friend" - "No English" - "I don't give out my number randomly to guys on the [wherever]/guys I just met" Well, those are the ones I've gotten so far. I know that "creepy" means unattractive trying to act alpha. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/17 01:15 PM |
| 18 | Give her spaceYeah... except if I ignore girls, I don't even exist to them. Girls have so many options these days guys that ignore them might as well not exist; same for most guys that talk to them. But then again, what do I know? I'm a skinny, 5'11" 20-year-old. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/17 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread June 19Nah... from what I've observed, it's an abundance of 5 and belows, a decent number of 6's & 7's, & very few 8's & 9's. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/17 03:35 PM |
| 113 | Women have unlimited sexual options - the brutal red pill on female lay countsIn other news, the sky is blue. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/17 04:16 AM |
| – | How to Train Your Brain to Wake Up Like a Coked Out MadmanFirst thing I do when I wake up is take a nice, big, steamy dump. When you need to push out those brown nuggets, it gets all the grogginess/sluggishness out of you. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/17 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Having kids with the most fertile (attractive) woman possible in order to make your kids more (attractive) and have an easier lifeUm... duhhhhhhhhhhh Every man knows this subconsciously (many consciously). But with common sense being very hard to come by these days, good for you. I'd send you a medal, but I'm broke as fuck right now | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/17 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Brutal redpill that no one here ever talks about, how physically attractive you REALLY are, as judged by science and womenLOL I'm a mixed white/Indian guy & I have full lips & a bit of a "Jewish nose" for some reason. My philtrum is past the line, chin actually lines up with the philtrum... I think I'm fine 😊 Just curious as to your thoughts on a mixed white/Indian guy with the vital features, but very full lips and a sorta-Jewish nose. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/17 02:34 AM |
| 4 | Brutal redpill that no one here ever talks about, how physically attractive you REALLY are, as judged by science and womenSo... my chin falls just short of meeting my upper lip (I have full lips for whatever reason), and my entire nose, lips, & chin are past that imaginary line. Thoughts? | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/17 01:35 AM |
| 12 | askTRP Megathread May 17If going from beta to alpha is as common as you guys make it out to be, how come I've never seen it in my own life? From what I've seen, the alphas/Chads have either always been naturals, or had those traits anyway (e.g. athletic, good-looking, etc.) & just started becoming more outgoing. I've never seen a full-blown change from low to high SMV, from beta to alpha. Those who have tried usually slip back into their old beta habits within a month, either through subtle group pressure/getting lazy.… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/17 01:29 PM |
| 9 | Close ALL fraternities!!!!!We don't have frats at my university (Canada, banned b/c of "discrimination"), but we do have interuniversity frats. Going into senior year tho, didn't find out about this until junior year... guess I missed the boat. Oh well, it is what it is. Hope the courts have the balls to NOT ban frats... it's the last vestige of masculinity left in education (save for all-boys schools). | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/17 04:13 AM |
| 2 | Hard Work Pays OffWhat was your daily schedule for all of this? | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/17 04:10 AM |
| 3 | askTRP Megathread May 10How do I get my lower & upper abs to develop to the same level of muscle as my middle abs? I'm doing the A-40 Core Set right now, but only 10 reps/exercise instead of 40. As a result, my middle abs have prominent muscle, but my lower abs seem to show very little muscle. They're not "rocks" like my middle abs, despite the fact you can see the outline of where they would be on my stomach. And my upper abs can barely be seen. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/17 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Career advice: take higher pay or stay in an area I enjoy?Take a look at how much the expenses will be in your new area vs. your old area. If the extra expenses in your new area (e.g. rent, housing, depreciation on car, fuel, etc.) cancel out/are greater than the salary jump you'll get, or if you're planning on starting a home-based business within the next month or so, stay. Otherwise, money talks, bullshit walks. Take the new job. You can always move back to the old area if a better opportunity comes up there/if you make enough money to get an EVEN N… | /r/askTRP | 09/05/17 11:58 PM |
| 25 | Building Power – 200,000+ Subscribers, A New DirectionI think GEOTRP but I'm not sure. But yeah, I live in toronto too, I'd be down for an RP connect in a city where almost every man is a beta cuck & every chick is an entitled bitch. The worst part about this is that VERY FEW of the girls you can daygame are actually hot; you usually see average or below-average quality girls who think they're above all men. And don't get me started on the epidemics of HB5's carrying around bouquets of flowers, or everybody keeping to themselves, the hordes of orbi… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/17 05:51 PM |
| 1 | How can I train myself to interact like an "amused mastery"-type alpha male faster?Yeah that's about it. Thanks | /r/askTRP | 04/05/17 09:26 PM |
| 2 | Why do people here focus so much on lifting ?Health benefits, looking better, having the confidence to be able to fight potential attackers, girls being attracted to muscles... really, the list of benefits to lifting goes on. Muscles don't attract girls by themselves, but they help your chances, and why wouldn't you wanna do something that would help your chances with girls? | /r/askTRP | 04/05/17 08:44 PM |
| 2 | Those of you who have tried and gone through IF, how do you deal with stomach growls?It does go away in time... it's perfectly normal in the beginning though, just ignore it & stick to your intervals, & your body will eventually adapt | /r/askTRP | 24/04/17 03:34 PM |
| 4 | How the modern marriage contract destroyed the institution of marriageSame thing would go for dating in general, or even approaching them with modern affirmative consent laws | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/17 09:11 PM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread April 12Basically right after I introduce myself. Since I don't really have anything going on right now, but I'm a student in an intense program, I have to rush a lot of approaches (daygaming due to not having a lot of time), & I'm really uncomfortable with directly showing my interest to a girl (if you do that, they instantly reject you), anything I try to do essentially comes out forced (I feel weird when I try to say/do anything because of it). I then tend to quickly eject because I feel awkward abou… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/17 11:47 PM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread April 12I've noticed that in my latest interactions with girls, they're usually excited to meet me at first, but when we start talking, they become very serious & reserved (e.g. giving me one-liner answers, disengaged body language & facial expressions, & just overall acting detached). It doesn't help that I really don't have anything interesting going on right now, and that it's that time of year where everybody's getting ready for finals. What can I do to keep that excitement going/ramp it up? Also, h… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/17 11:05 PM |
| 3 | [Serious] What was your reason for not killing yourself when you had the chance?I was scared of surviving my attempt & ending up a vegetable for the rest of my life... that and the fact that I was scared of going to hell (in case it exists) | /r/askTRP | 12/04/17 01:38 AM |
| 8 | askTRP Megathread April 05It's that when I see a REALLY hot girl, I tend to start blushing when I talk to her. I'm really embarrassed about it (especially since I'm a dude, and it's chicks that are normally supposed to blush). | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/17 02:59 PM |
| 27 | askTRP Megathread April 05How do I beat approach anxiety? Lately, I've been seeing a BUNCH of hot girls pretty much everywhere I go, and I have a ton of free time after finishing all my projects & homework for the semester (I'm in university), but I can't work up the courage to approach them. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/17 02:42 PM |
| 1 | What you see ain't what you get...The top pic still looks like they're wearing makeup | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/17 02:26 PM |
| 2 | Heard a group of girls talking about the CC & consider marriage a "safety net" - quick RP refresherWhat's even sadder is that guys are so thirsty nowadays that Billy & Bob will go along with the girls' plan anyway even though they know exactly what's going on. Two of my friends were chewing out one of their good friends for this the other day. Apparently, he had a meltdown over text about his girlfriend "treating him like shit" & sent it to my friends, who were NOT amused. They even called what they had to do an "intervention." | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/17 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Even gay men were Red Pill back in the dayTIL booze is healthier than soda | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/17 07:15 PM |
| 3 | March 31 - Weekly Improvement & Progress ThreadThe question with that girl you ghosted is, were you smashing or not? | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/17 03:17 PM |
| 5 | March 31 - Weekly Improvement & Progress ThreadFinished almost all my projects for the rest of the semester: Success Resolved my RDSP "accidentally misspelled email address" issue with my bank (yeah, I'm a sperg): Success Got a haircut for the first time in 2 months & trimmed my facial, armpit, & pubic hair for the first time in 2 weeks: Success Went to a networking event: Success Introduced myself to the most important person in the room fearlessly, but forgot to ask for his business card: Success/Fail Asked a pretty girl I had just met to … | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/17 03:16 PM |
| 3 | Stop drinking coffee. It's beta.I was never really a coffee drinker; thanks for the PSA to the rest of these RP'ers. But from what I've seen from my friends, once you start drinking coffee regularly, you never shake it because you become used to a lifestyle that requires you to drink coffee to stay awake. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/17 02:25 PM |
| 2 | Does the 1999 film, Love Stinks, embody the red pill view of marriage?Remember... this is a movie. TRP has a rule about not posting fictional examples. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/17 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Try and think of improving yourself as a game.I like to think of it more as a real-life, more mundane version of ''My Career'' mode in NBA 2K, or ''Superstar'' mode in Madden | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/17 05:33 AM |
| 7 | Shower Thought: Will Homosexuals go extinct in the future?I think homosexuality is randomly occurring | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/17 12:47 PM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread March 01True, but I always seem to be missing the ''power'' element. How can I convey it? | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/17 12:53 AM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread March 01I've been told a lot on this forum lately that what's holding me back from success with women (& people in general) is my demeanour, body language, attitude, & behaviour. What type of demeanour/attitude/behaviour/body language should I use to be more successful with women (and people in general)? I want to go from a people-repellant to a people-attractor. It's like I can't convey my positive traits properly. P.S. I have asperger's. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/17 12:39 AM |
| 18 | What is this feeling?Your body's not used to this. Give it time, keep doing what you're doing, & you'll adapt. These feelings that you have... it's a shit test. Push through them, & you'll be fine | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/17 04:10 PM |
| 1 | There are zero reasons to have "girl friends" and how I got played and disrespectedYou can have female friends. Just don't entertain the idea of dating them because if you befriend them, that ain't gonna happen... and remember, the rules of RP behaviour still apply. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/17 04:54 AM |
| 8 | We're living in hypercompetitive times - being average doesn't cut it anymoreTop 20% is an understatement. More like top 10% | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/17 10:21 PM |
| 72 | Living with female roommate - FR/RantSo you're living with a girl you ain't screwing? If you have the income to do so, move out. NOW. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/17 08:53 PM |
| 47 | Leaving This Sub- Give me Some Final Words of AdviceNo advice needed. You figured out what you need to do... all you got to do is actually do it | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/17 10:59 PM |
| 0 | (FR/Rant) Women acting unbelievably entitled around me the moment they meet meYeah I remember trying nofap out for like 1-2 weeks at a time (due to the study that you should masturbate every 7th day for optimal testosterone)... I noticed a lot of hot chicks would purposely sit next to me on the subway. What would be the effects over a longer period of time, though? I've heard it makes some people lose their sex drive, & in my case, the one time I hit 2 weeks, I was violent towards the end, always smashing stuff & shit & just feeling like punching out everybody (though I n… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/17 06:07 PM |
| 4 | (FR/Rant) Women acting unbelievably entitled around me the moment they meet meGot any neck exercises for me? I kinda don't know what to do there | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/17 05:56 PM |
| 1 | (FR/Rant) Women acting unbelievably entitled around me the moment they meet meWhat do you mean by ''murderer game''? Never heard that one before | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/17 05:55 PM |
| 4 | (FR/Rant) Women acting unbelievably entitled around me the moment they meet meI have hobbies, but they're mostly solo/guy-only stuff (e.g. writing, playing basketball, going for walks, driving around). Like I said, I live in Toronto, & from what I've heard (and seen), girls are naturally super-entitled here. I'm meeting these girls in class, on my university campus, at the malls, on the subway going to school, etc. I went to a club for my friend's birthday just before I found this place and it was this times 10: Girls basically laughed in my face/ignored me there. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/17 05:53 PM |
| 6 | (FR/Rant) Women acting unbelievably entitled around me the moment they meet meYeah but what are you supposed to do when ALL the women you come across don't even try to prove their value to you, & shit test you all the time? | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/17 05:45 PM |
| 2 | Any advice for a youngin with 10 grand?Do you still have money coming in? If you do (probably more than $100/month), you could put the 10k away as emergency money. If you don't, keep 1500 for yourself, & put 8500 away as emergency money (100x12 = 1200/year for expenses plus 300 if you wanna do something nice for yourself; you need enough money on you for at least a year). | /r/askTRP | 05/02/17 04:19 PM |
| 2 | Any advice for a youngin with 10 grand?Just put this away somewhere as emergency money if this 10k is the only money you have (I'm 20, I did this). Alternately, if you have debts, you could use the money to pay them off... part of living a minimalist lifestyle is being debt-free. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/17 04:12 PM |
| 0 | best way to end video game addiction?Go to the stopgaming subreddit. They have a whole ''Game Quitters'' forum now. Seriously, if it's this much of a problem for you, get off TRP & focus entirely on quitting video games. Also, throw out/sell/uninstall/delete EVERYTHING related to gaming from any devices you have. And don't think of quitting video games for good; that'll just intimidate you. Try to go 90 days without gaming first, & then see how you feel after that; if you don't wanna play, then don't play. You also need a reason to… | /r/askTRP | 04/02/17 12:03 AM |
| 2 | I feel like I'm going to be beta male forever. There's no hope, is there?Ugh... get rid of the video games & TV-watching. They're both time-wasting activities. You'll find yourself getting so bored you'll put all that time into fixing the problems you just described. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/17 02:06 AM |
| 3 | What are some alpha habits that just feel good to do?What... why would u even piss on the side of toilet water? Didn't know that was even a thing... guess I learn something new every day | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/17 01:30 PM |
| -2 | A social media investment I made in college that paid off massively in regards to women and social life after college.Every guy starting in MIDDLE SCHOOL should do this. That's when the game starts. This should be sidebar material for our younger readers (middle school, high school, college). | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/17 04:12 PM |
| 1 | How to get past her “bitch shield” and into her knickersHey, I read your article. The problem is, even when I say ''I'm kidding'' when I know girls are getting offended, they take it like I'm insulting them & get angry with me. I even got punched in the stomach once by an HB8 blonde for a neg when I laughed & called her a ''dumb blonde'' in class for not being able to get a question we were doing. What should I do? | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/17 03:35 PM |
| 6 | Do Natural Alphas Even Exist?Everybody learns how to be an alpha, there's no real such thing as a ''natural''. Some just learn way earlier than others, due to positive feedback from childhood. But as long as it appears effortless, it doesn't matter; that's the goal here. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/17 03:26 PM |
| 6 | New Year's Resolutions Are Bullshit: Learn How To Achieve Your Goals(Sun Tzu Style)Fuck new year's resolutions... if you wanna change something, change it RIGHT NOW. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/17 03:44 AM |
| 1 | On Jan 1, I realized how boring and weak I really amBruh I had the same problem when I quit video games/porn/etc. What you need to do is make your new side hobby something you're absolutely passionate about. For example, as a kid, I loved playing basketball (I'm pretty obsessed with the sport to this day) & dreamed of making the NBA. Obviously, I can't do that, but I'll still pick up a ball and shoot around when I have spare time on the weekends. I'm 20, BTW. I had to rediscover this passion after quitting video games & porn, & it might be the sa… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/17 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Seduction = OVER-escalationHow would this work in a university campus though? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/17 03:28 PM |
| 4 | Poisonous beliefs about life after college, why you need to lose them, and the truth about life after college.I'm in college right now... this post just convinced me that everyone deals with me, but no one really likes me. Nobody from my college even hits me up to hang out with me... so yeah. Nobody wants to really be around me, & I'm desperate to change that. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/16 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Success Tip: Take Notes.. Literally.Thank you, iPhone Notes & Reminders apps | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/16 03:12 PM |
| 1 | If white blondes are the "hottest girls" why don't brunettes dye their hair blonde?They do... all the time. Girls I've talked to have even told me this, straight up b/c I usually joke with blondes that they're ''dumb blondes''. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/16 01:28 PM |
| 48 | I got rejected last night, and my life endedThanks for the morning laugh bro. I needed it after I was sent to the homeless shelter for my behaviour in the club last night | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/16 03:00 PM |
| 2 | Women are attracted to transcendent menWhat if you have nothing to begin with? How do you build that abundance mentality? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/16 02:26 PM |
| 3 | Lifting without a gym.Body weight exercises can also be used as foundational exercises for kids until they're old enough to lift without damaging their growth plates (13-14). That way, when they finally really start lifting, they already have a functional strength & athleticism base that'll give them an advantage. I did taekwondo & played basketball on the school team as a kid; this was basically 30 minutes/session. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/16 05:52 AM |
| 1 | Escorts - tips, how to stay safe, what to do?Been checking backpages, but that's really it. Haven't messaged or called one yet. What else would you recommend? Thanks tho | /r/askTRP | 15/12/16 07:55 PM |
| 7 | Escorts - tips, how to stay safe, what to do?You get what I mean, it's super hard | /r/askTRP | 15/12/16 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Escorts - tips, how to stay safe, what to do?Kk thanks for all that. If I actually follow through with this, I'll keep that in mind. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/16 05:14 PM |
| 2 | Escorts - tips, how to stay safe, what to do?LOL most pussy is public nowadays... if you're in the top 10% in SMV & social status. And even then, half of today's girls are psycho-crazy. Therefore, you could make the same argument for most of today's non-prostitute girls. You know what they say, ''It ain't your girl, it's just your turn.'' But aside from that, yeah, I am a little worried about getting arrested. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/16 04:47 PM |
| 6 | Escorts - tips, how to stay safe, what to do?I live in Toronto. Escorts are legal here, & dating/getting girls here is ''Dark Souls'' difficulty. 90% of the even decently attractive girls my age that I know have boyfriends already | /r/askTRP | 15/12/16 04:42 PM |
| 1 | What kind of advice would you impart on these that swallowed the pill in their teens?I would start getting capital by selling off any old stuff you/your parents/extended family/friends don't use anymore. You can either do this on Craigslist/Amazon/eBay (one/two items a day), or host a big garage sale. Once you've done that, it's really up to you. Any business idea can be good so long as it follows the 5 Commandments, as outlined in The Millionaire Fastlane: Need Entry Control Scale Time You should probably read The Millionaire Fastlane for more info on this subject. And it's not… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/16 12:51 AM |
| 1 | What kind of advice would you impart on these that swallowed the pill in their teens?The mall, the amusement park, on the bus/subway (assuming this guy hasn't gotten a car yet), even on the street... pretty much anywhere. Hot high school chicks are everywhere if you look hard enough. You can also find hot college/uni chicks pretty much anywhere, chat them up too. College visits (if you're doing them) are absolutely IDEAL for this kind of shit; if he does it right, it could give him massive social proof by the time he officially starts. Then again, I live in a huge metro area, so… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/16 04:24 PM |
| 2 | What kind of advice would you impart on these that swallowed the pill in their teens?GIVE UP VIDEO GAMES, PORN, MASTURBATION, & ANY OTHER FORMS OF PROCRASTINATION. Yes, I know everybody says the first step is often lifting, but this shit is really addicting in your teens; if you don't get rid of these, you're screwed. You'll always be hamstering a way out of doing what you need to improve yourself. Join a team sport with high social status (football, basketball, baseball, soccer, etc.). That'll give you a new social circle, & many of these sports have lifting programs anyway. It… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/16 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Women Perceive SMV as a Weighted AverageNah, that's bullshit, asshole behaviour is the ONLY winning behaviour in life. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/16 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Cold Showers Every Day Of The YearBut what if you take a shower right before bed? I've tried the cold showers thing before, and it only wakes me up, while hot showers make me more relaxed, which is kind of the goal I want to achieve. Do the other benefits more than make up for it? Is the idea of taking evening showers wrong? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/16 01:33 PM |
| 6 | New 'study:' Masculine men more likely to be mentally illReally? The only time I was diagnosed with mental illness (and generally felt like shit) was when I wasn't embracing the masculinity norms above | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/16 12:49 PM |
| 1 | Daily logs have revealed huge problems still exist - How do I fix them?Good points. I've noticed that I enjoy things that I teach myself; courses where the content is provided by a professor/teacher/whatever, not so much. If I was teaching the concepts I'm learning to myself, I think I'd work harder because deep down, I'd look at it as something ''I want to do.'' For example, when I stumbled on The Millionaire Fastlane, I finished it within a day, & could get 90% on an exam on it within a month of reading it about 10 times over, but because I have a professor & str… | /r/askTRP | 10/11/16 10:49 PM |
| 3 | Drink more waterBuy that fresh Cambodian breast milk. If Diddy can manage an empire on it, drastic improvements are ahead for us | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/16 02:57 PM |
| 3 | Avoiding Victim Mentality is a keystone to frameIt's that I want to succeed, I just needed to know if I still had as much of a chance as anybody else. Thanks for that :) | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/16 01:38 PM |
| 4 | Avoiding Victim Mentality is a keystone to frameWhat about Asperger's/autism (legitimately diagnosed at the age of 2, went for therapy & everything in my early childhood, clinically confirmed)? Could that count as RP victim mentality (due to effectively having no innate ''Game'' or even social skills, & having to work 10 times as hard as everyone else to learn that from scratch), or is that lumped in with the BP ''any other mental disorder commonly self-diagnosed'' category? | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/16 01:25 PM |
| 1 | An observation: It's like every life stage got moved backwards, college became high school, 20s became college, and 30 became the new 20.Nah, in my experience it's actually been pushed forward: middle school is the new high school, high school is the new university, & university is the new 20's. I'm from Canada, though, & 19 years old, & go to a commuter uni, so YMMV. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/16 03:09 AM |
| 6 | #NoNothingNov 2016: Give Up Vices, Forge New Habits.I said masturbation (having sex with myself). Sex with a girl is still something I'm gonna do when the opportunity presents itself | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/16 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Which book has had THE most impact on your life?How to be an Alpha Male by John Alexander | /r/askTRP | 01/11/16 07:47 PM |
| 2 | Inside the beta: The lookI'll PM u on Friday if I'm available. Got a lot to do in school this week | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/16 07:42 PM |
| 23 | #NoNothingNov 2016: Give Up Vices, Forge New Habits.Vices: Masturbation/porn Lying in bed for reasons other than sleeping Drinking anything other than water Habit: Study first thing in the morning (after morning routine that consists of brushing teeth, breakfast, shitting) Follow me on trp.red (same username) for daily updates! | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/16 07:41 PM |
| 2 | Inside the beta: The lookGirls look at me... about 3/4 look away immediately & with the other 1/4, I don't want to hold gaze, so I never directly look at them just because I don't wanna seem too thirsty. I live in Toronto, BTW. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/16 07:23 PM |
| 0 | Should I post a picture of myself, & if so, how do I do it?I just never got an accurate assessment, that's all, & my goal is to get down to 10% BF, but everyone that's seen my body & every method (ranging from parents to mirror assessment to a home weight scale) is giving me different numbers, from as low as 6-7% to as high as 15%. I want to settle this once and for all. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/16 03:48 PM |
| 4 | The book that change my lifeWhile you're at it, John Alexander's How to Become an Alpha Male is always a good read. It's like David DeAngelo's ''Double Your Dating'', but with lifestyle tips for people who are really struggling. As a bullied 13-year-old, that book literally saved my life while also marking the beginning of the unraveling of my personal Matrix. (I'm 19 now) | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/16 05:43 PM |
| 2 | The only reason Gable Tostee has a chance at his murder trial is because he was recording audio on his phone.So you think I'll be fine with just voice memos? | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/16 02:02 PM |
| 7 | The only reason Gable Tostee has a chance at his murder trial is because he was recording audio on his phone.What recording app do you use OP? Have an iPhone; best I've got right now is voice memos | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/16 03:45 PM |
| 1 | TRP has heightened anxiety problems - starting to feel depressed & ''bottled up''; have approach anxietyDoing that already | /r/askTRP | 30/09/16 01:01 AM |
| 0 | How to stop being ignored?The weird thing is, I used to be that person, in high school & up until the end of my first year of uni. I learned it from PUA; it allowed me to be voted high school valedictorian. Problem is, because I didn't have my looks & style together at the time (didn't start wearing contacts until Grade 11, braces for first two years of high school, bad mohawk haircut), some girls would call me a ''creep'' because of it. And their guy friends would just shit test & white knight the hell out of me for doi… | /r/askTRP | 29/09/16 03:12 AM |
| 1 | My friends abuse their self. They have no self awareness, and no idea why they're doing what they're doing.9th grade?! I thought that was only true on shows like South Park and Family Guy... where the hell did u grow up? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/16 11:14 PM |
| 7 | My friends abuse their self. They have no self awareness, and no idea why they're doing what they're doing.I've actually seen people fall into it as early as 11th grade. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/16 01:06 AM |
| 2 | How to deal with illness, TRP styleTake deep breaths in & out while pooping & close your eyes, as if you're meditating. Don't try to force it out | /r/askTRP | 26/09/16 12:53 AM |
| 1 | TRP Mentorship Idea.Shit I'm in for some mentorship | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/16 12:30 PM |
| 1 | On The Importance of ReflectionsThat's actually how I've always masturbated. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/16 12:25 PM |
| 3 | Unplugging from the financial Blue Pill and swallowing the Red Pill.Yeah all the awareness & reading in the world doesn't mean shit if you don't act on it, whether you succeed or make mistakes. You're gonna fuck up, but when you hit it right... it's that much sweeter. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/16 09:51 PM |
| 1 | 19M - Mom threatening to send me to psychological therapy for speaking RP views on women - has also told my dad to "give me a lecture"I shouldn't have even argued tho, now that I think about it. I should've just kept my fuckin mouth shut & as soon as my mom said stuff, I should've been saying, ''Thanks, but I gotta brush my teeth right now.'' I also have to just STFU & keep doing my own thing if people try to start shit with me. I think that's the lesson I've learned from this. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/16 07:23 PM |
| 1 | 19M - Mom threatening to send me to psychological therapy for speaking RP views on women - has also told my dad to "give me a lecture"I ain't blamin one bit of that on asperger's. That was my fuck-up. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/16 06:39 PM |
| 2 | 19M - Mom threatening to send me to psychological therapy for speaking RP views on women - has also told my dad to "give me a lecture"Agreed. I've noticed that mostly, when I STFU, my parents & I get along just fine. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/16 01:59 PM |
| 0 | 19M - Mom threatening to send me to psychological therapy for speaking RP views on women - has also told my dad to "give me a lecture"Yeah, I think I am. I think my ego is so angry after years and years of being beat down, and figuring out the truth, that it's looking to lash out any way it can. My ego's like those teens you see on Maury that are all like, "You can't tell me what to do," but with RP knowledge. I think that's what gets me in trouble a lot of the time: I have a pissed-off ego that feels like it's never gotten the respect & admiration it feels it deserves (i.e. the respect & admiration Chad gets). Any advice on h… | /r/askTRP | 14/09/16 01:58 PM |
| 4 | The producer's mindset.I figured this out about a week after quitting video games (Been off of them for 1 year, 3 months now), when I read The Millionaire Fastlane. Good to know u figured this out | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/16 03:28 PM |
| 2 | The ONLY Way To Handle Flakes.In the Toronto area. On any given day I commute, there's 20-25 different situations (day game alone, not including work, as I'm a student & doing my own thing for money). About 3-5 hot girls per situation. Do the math: 20x3 or 25x5 ... That's an average of 60-125 hot girls every day. Day game alone. And I'm a student living in the burbs. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/16 12:30 PM |
| 3 | Kill Two Birds With One Stone. Create a habit, and monitor a current distraction.What about an uphill sprint workout outside your house? What I usually do for HIIT is 1 50m sprint, 1 100m sprint, 1 200m sprint, 1 100m sprint, & 1 50m sprint. Since my house is at the bottom of the street elevation-wise, this is actually a hell of a workout. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/16 02:21 PM |
| 3 | The definition of rape has permanently shifted. The courts have been corrupted.Thanks for these tips man. She doesn't bring status (just fleeting popularity based on her youth). She doesn't bring strength of character. She'll never be loyal to you like a man. She will never be unemotional and logical over the long term like a man can be. She will never work as hard as a man. She will never take the financial and physical risks of a man. She will never accumulate wealth and physical strength like a man. She will never be able to cooperate in huge groups of women like a man … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/16 04:09 AM |
| 2 | The definition of rape has permanently shifted. The courts have been corrupted.Yeah I'm considering it now, Eastern European white chicks got them looks & femininity though, not like these butches I see running around my campus. Then again, AWALT, so still gotta step my SMV up while I'm here. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/16 03:40 AM |
| 11 | The definition of rape has permanently shifted. The courts have been corrupted.Thanks so much for this dude. Yeah, I almost forgot. Thinking about killing myself out of fear of never getting laid is a Blue Pill move, & I put pussy on way too high of a pedestal with my initial reaction. That was my bad. Still internalizing everything on the sidebar, but took me until about 45 minutes ago to stop panicking. No longer feel suicidal. I'm good. Building wealth: I've got this book I'm working on, & I'm actually on the brink of getting my piano teaching degree, but I don't really… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/16 05:19 AM |
| 5 | The definition of rape has permanently shifted. The courts have been corrupted.So what am I supposed to do now? It's not like I have a lot of money or anything | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/16 04:19 AM |
| 12 | The definition of rape has permanently shifted. The courts have been corrupted.I live in Toronto, 19M virgin. I want to kill myself now. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/16 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill MusicToo $hort - 19,999: Basically life from the perspective of a famous Chad. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/16 06:43 PM |
| -1 | Why doesn't the red pill community do any sort of meetups?Roosh V tried that a few months ago. Look how that worked out for him. You want the same thing to happen to us? | /r/askTRP | 02/07/16 04:29 AM |
| 4 | You Can't Go Back19 years old, and yeah, I used to have a lot of regrets about mistakes that I made in my life. Not giving up video games until I was 18 & playing them for hours a day when I should have been lifting & partying, being too shy to talk to certain girls in school, getting into stupid fights during my middle school years that got me in a lot of trouble... basically a lot of stupid shit. I used to dwell on these regrets on a daily basis, until one day, I confided in my dad and he told me this: "Every … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/16 02:07 AM |
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