Why does everybody ignore/mistreat me & specifically me?

some-pseudonym · 2018-07-17T11:06:38+00:00

I used to be in your spot back when i was in school. The problem starts with your family only as you said your mom makes decisions for you. This makes you underconfident at places where your mom isnt there to help you out but you haven't had much experience in being responsible for your own life. These things make you underconfident and irresponsible. The world we live in, people will walk all over you if they see you're weak. Start working out and build those muscles. Stop being friendly. Be mean. Be confronting. Look people into their eyes. Speak less and whenever you speak make sure its something clever or witty but dont do that too often or you'll just be some wanna be. Do this and people will listen when you talk. Most importantly dont feel sorry for yourself. Dont sympathise on yourself. If they dont want your friendship its their loss. Live like Others want your company and They should earn it. If you dont hold yourself high in your own eyes, noone else will do that either.

abudun79 · 2018-07-17T11:36:39+00:00

I cannot tell you the exact why, because you gave absolutely no information about you - besides that you are an emo sissy.

What I know is, that in nearly every group above 20 people (no matter how it was formed), there usually is someone who qualifies as the punching-bag. It's not like every group needs one, or chooses one, it's just as if 1 in every 20 or so people, is someone who's a worthless piece of shit, in the eyes of the other 19. And if he's/she's in more groups, it's usually always him/her. And you sound like that someone.

I have no clue why some people are like that or why the others abuse those people all the time. Maybe because that one is bad in taking and giving shit as it is common. As a kid I've always been on the giving end of that equation, but I don't know why I did that. Peer pressure? Your SMV is irrelevant to that, as long as you're the default punching-bag before everything else.

The only suggestion that I have is: Remove yourself as much as possible from the people treat you as their punching-bag and let it be history. Look forward and start to improve - learn skills, lift like hell, read, educate yourself, and try not to go back and show anyone how you changed. You'll get in contact with others through your new activities.

Good luck.

Kommanderdude · 2018-07-17T13:37:46+00:00

Stop being a weird ass beta cock fag.

resnine · 2018-07-17T15:24:24+00:00

Just basing this off the title. You have male solipsism, the world is not out to get you. In fact, the majority of people could care less about you, it's just part of the human condition to think that all things revolve around you. Honestly you are the only one that cares the most about yourself. To be quite blunt 99.999% of all people who ever lived you've never heard of and are dust in the wind. 1000 years from now no one will care what you said or did, unless you are the rare exception. Most of what you do does not matter, it matters infinitely more to you than anyone else. And this is the trick, to realize your own delusional thinking. That you are in fact deluding yourself into thinking all these people care. They might place their eyes on your momentarily but they'll forget and go on to the next thing. You'll realize the majority of the things you do, no one gives one iota about. And even in the moment where you feel embarrassed, that will soon pass. You can basically do anything you want (within reason) and no one will give a real shit after enough time. Someday, hopefully soon you'll realize how pointless and small the things that you are thinking right now.

CalvinRichland · 2018-07-17T18:06:34+00:00

This is so simple. Anytime someone does not treat you right they are not your friend. Problem solved.

vandaalen · 2018-07-17T09:56:44+00:00

Your whole attitude is wrong. What's your 1RM DL?

Title	Why does everybody ignore/mistreat me & specifically me?
Author	bossplayaintraining
Upvotes	2
Comments	11
Date	July 17, 2018 9:43 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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