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| 6 | LTR Getting Out of LineI plan to reply with "Not tonight" Fail. Butthurt is evident. Instead, proceed with your life. You should stop planning your possible responses to her possible texts at some point in the future. (eyeroll....you are really in too deep with this, you realize?) When she texts, respond simply with a specific goal. Texts are for planning, not communicating any message of significance whatsoever. If you are trying to give some sort of subtext or hidden message via text, you are now doing it wrong. Whe… | /r/askTRP | 06/06/19 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Former plate told crazy brothers that I used her . How should I proceed ?Have an attorney send a letter threatening a PPO . | /r/askTRP | 28/05/19 02:09 AM |
| 2 | Still feel more like a kid and not a young adult. Anyone else feel the same?When I was young he would get angry and stressed but ever since my siblings and I got older he is an extremely amicable and silly man. Being 100% responsible for the life of a small, helpless human brings stress and concern to any well-functioning adult. When that burden goes away, a great deal of fun can now rise to the top of the to-do list. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/19 05:58 PM |
| 21 | Is wanting to be “chocked” and really “rough” sex a red flag for a LTR?Low n-count ( 4 including me) lol More like 12, of course. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/19 03:49 PM |
| 1 | How do I act around a girl after having sex and not seem beta?It’s a completely new climate that has never existed before. I was seeing this exact same shit over three decades ago. Go read history books. False rape allegations existed in the past too. Google Scottsboro Boys for a particularly egregious example. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/19 01:08 PM |
| 1 | How do I act around a girl after having sex and not seem beta?I've never ever heard of a girl claiming rape after consensual sex outside of the media. I have seen it in women multiple times in my life. Back in the day, it was how gals avoided the reputation of being easy. Even gals who otherwise had decent judgment pulled this stunt. It is like they have a switch in their head that suddenly gets flipped once they realize everyone *knows* they just got completely ploughed by that physically-attractive but socially inferior stud. To avoid further negative so… | /r/askTRP | 24/05/19 01:04 PM |
| 11 | Still feel more like a kid and not a young adult. Anyone else feel the same?I felt like a kid...until a kid showed up in my life. Then I was like a 45 year old overnight. Or, at least what I imagined a 45 year old would be like. Two decades later, my kids are grown, and I am quite excitedly turning back into a "kid" again. Except I have more money this time. And freedom. I am looking forward to cruising long distance on my motorcycle, camping alone in wilderness areas, drinking in places where I don't speak the language. Being curious, imagination, and seeking new exper… | /r/askTRP | 24/05/19 12:57 PM |
| 1 | Gf “catching up” with old ldr that ghosted her"If she didn't want to cheat on her bf..." She would be too busy giving her BF great sex on the regular to bother texting some loser (i.e., lower SMV than BF) she dumped in the past. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/19 12:48 PM |
| 3 | Gf “catching up” with old ldr that ghosted herUh, okay. So, what kind of porn are *you* watching these days....? /s | /r/askTRP | 24/05/19 12:45 PM |
| 2 | Gf “catching up” with old ldr that ghosted herI don’t understand what’s going on Hypergamy. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/19 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Gf “catching up” with old ldr that ghosted herShe is not your GF, she is simply the gal you are having sex with until you get a replacement. Don't bother confronting. Don't bother explaining. You know all you need to know, and you have your plan: find another partner for regular sex. Dump this one whenever you want. Don't complain, don't explain. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/19 12:42 PM |
| 1 | I want a harem"If a group of trans people, lesbians, or gay men did this it would ....". ...not in any way threaten the existing and emerging system of beta bucks paying for society at large. Hence, the people totally invested in or needing beta bucks paying for all the free shit have no problem with it. But if people generally adopt your Beta Fucks approach---i.e., only the guys with the wallets get the action---things are going to degrade in society. Faster than things already are. In short, as soon a… | /r/askTRP | 24/05/19 12:39 PM |
| 2 | How life works out after your wife cheatsLet me get this straight: a judge actually gave 50/50 custody, plus 60% of your assets to what is most likely a BPD psycho? Even though there is concrete proof she committed self-harm? This should be more than enough to utterly destroy the judge's career.. What you describe above is "Tuesday", not something unusual. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/19 01:13 AM |
| 1 | "The Bored Sex: Women, more than men, tend to feel stultified by long-term exclusivity—despite having been taught that they were designed for it."So why not let Rome burn and have a relaxed good ol' time. If you get fun kids, they are the best part of life. No joke. I never expected that kids would be so great to have, until I had kids. Best part of life, hands down. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/19 07:08 PM |
| 1 | "The Bored Sex: Women, more than men, tend to feel stultified by long-term exclusivity—despite having been taught that they were designed for it."Why not simply hire out a surrogate and a nanny? For guys earning in the top 10%, that would likely be a decent option. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/19 07:06 PM |
| 1 | "The Bored Sex: Women, more than men, tend to feel stultified by long-term exclusivity—despite having been taught that they were designed for it."have zero desire to invest in offspring See also the current American underclass. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/19 07:03 PM |
| 1 | "The Bored Sex: Women, more than men, tend to feel stultified by long-term exclusivity—despite having been taught that they were designed for it."And the scary part, guys, is this is all getting worse out there, not better. I look at the gals out there today, and see nothing but Kardashian wanna-bes. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/19 07:02 PM |
| 1 | LTR admits to openly flirting with guys to “finesse free drinks” They love to claim their behavior as innocent. Should I next?was thinking of taking Muay Thai or BJJ Do both. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 04:33 PM |
| 4 | LTR admits to openly flirting with guys to “finesse free drinks” They love to claim their behavior as innocent. Should I next?Get your ass in shape for the rainy day coming. It is always raining. If you don't feel the rain, it is denial. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 04:32 PM |
| 0 | You have 5 minutes to respectfully make a case against feminism. What points and sources are a must?Why would I spend time arguing someone about their religious beliefs? No minds will be changed. Instead, I accept that they believe in their god, and so long as they do not try to impact my life, we can get along fine. But when you want my money, my time, or my body for purposes of serving your religious beliefs, then I will respond first with, "no", then seek whatever means and opportunity I need to escape your plans. At present, feminism is trying real hard to find ways to bend the law to take… | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 04:09 PM |
| 16 | My lack of trust in women is making me consider a vasectomy. Please helpFirst, I got lucky and the kids have great personalities. Imagine having a really good friend who happen to be three decades younger. It is great fun to watch them experience life as it unfolds and share it with them. Great stuff. If the kids were not so great, perhaps my experience would be different. Having kids is a gamble, but when it pays off, it pays off more than the money you make or the other experiences available to you. I had a full and happy life before kids, and it was good. I enjoy… | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 03:15 PM |
| 18 | My lack of trust in women is making me consider a vasectomy. Please helpAt 22 I had no interest in kids, so I understand. Now listen to me: My life is immeasurably better for having had kids. At 22, I never would have guessed that possible. Freeze some semen or use the male contraceptives available. Hire a surrogate when the time comes. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 02:43 PM |
| 10 | Why is the world celebrating Beta Males?The other players are always welcoming and friendly to the paycheck-toting chump showing up at the poker table. Betas are the chumps. Everyone loves the chump...until his money is gone. Then they tell him to GTFO there, and smile at the next chump walking towards the table. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/19 09:23 PM |
| 7 | How am I supposed to date a girl after knowing that she’s probably spent her life sleeping with guys like you all?You should not be worrying about such things like dating a girl. That is just a social activity, not a focus of life. Your focus is properly on your career, social network, family obligations, advancement, fitness, overall health, hobbies, savings, investments, etc. Any particular female you are having sex and a good social time with is just part of the overall lifestyle package. She can be replaced, because she is completely replaceable. That does not mean you feel contempt or are rude to her. … | /r/askTRP | 05/01/19 05:22 PM |
| 3 | Why are girls so insistent that looks don't matter?If I was gay, likely. But I am not. You seem hostile, and use homosexuality as an insult. You might want to examine why you have that reaction and make that connection. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/19 05:12 PM |
| 28 | Why are girls so insistent that looks don't matter?Looks matter, it is just that the threshold where women respond is much higher. A top 10% gal is going to get tons of male attention. It is only a top 0.1% guy who gets a similar level of fascination from women. I saw this play out in real life years ago in a large city. I was friends with a guy who as Roman-god-good-looking. 6'+, a devout lifter, awesome hair, and just overall a great looking guy. When we walked down the street together, women would just stare at him as we passed. Old women, yo… | /r/askTRP | 04/01/19 01:37 AM |
| 1 | What to do when a Women shames you for only desiring sex?Why argue? When she deploys something like this to get a rise out him, he should shrug, smile, ignore, or all of the foregoing. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/18 07:54 PM |
| 31 | What to do when a Women shames you for only desiring sex?Own it. That is why she is in your life. So why bother pretending otherwise? | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 05:59 PM |
| 2 | How many ONS is too many for a potential LTR?For the Big Three Levels of Commitment (wife, mother of kids, mortgage/cohabiting LTGF) the answer is zero. Below those commitment levels, it is not really a concern---she is not inserting herself consequentially enough into your life to make her potential conduct too troubling. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/18 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Bunch of women describing red pill teachings without realizing when asked how they feel about casual sexand explicitly excludes women No, it is simply not caring if women are listening or not, and the message is not shaped to make them feel empowered or increase their self-esteem. It is just stated as it is, with all the resulting consequences being then undeniable. That strips women of one of their greatest social power assets: the gullibility of men when engaging with female sexuality. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/18 02:20 PM |
| 3 | Reading TRP truly opened my eyesStill dont see the part where you cut off contact though?? Yup. A whole lot of simpering about second, third, fourth, tenth, fortieth chances. No consequences and finality. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/18 01:44 PM |
| 6 | Reading TRP truly opened my eyesThe world finally made sense after spending decades bathing in ignorance. Not ignorance, rather you accepted the falsities of what the schools, media, colleges, churches, and government push to you. The entirety of our society depends on young, productive men being idiots and continuing to buy into this bullshit, even as it is self-evidently not true. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/18 01:40 PM |
| 10 | How TRP's Admins handled the Quarantine the worst way possibleYup. This sort of stuff goes in escalating increments, not straight to "11". | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/18 01:34 PM |
| 7 | Going on vacation for two weeks without LTR, worried about her cheatingYou need to get over your mate-guarding paranoiac oneitis. Live your life for yourself. Focus on you and what you want from life. She is not your focus. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/18 01:38 PM |
| 2 | Told plate to let me know when she’s free - good move or no you should always leadtrying to set up plans And failing, without her initiating. Sounds like she is sending that indirect message pretty clearly. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/18 08:12 PM |
| 3 | Told plate to let me know when she’s free - good move or no you should always leadMonths are going by? She is having sex with someone, but not you. I don't think that qualifies as a "plate". It makes you a possible orbiter, though. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/18 08:07 PM |
| 5 | Told plate to let me know when she’s free - good move or no you should always leadI have no idea if she was actually busy You are calling to arrange for sex. She knows that. No one is so busy over a few weeks that they have no time for sex. So the real story here is she is not interested in sex with you at this time, relative to other things she is doing. That may change. It may not. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/18 07:52 PM |
| 3 | You remember I had posted I got fired from work because of a girl?You really, really need this, friend: https://www.nbc.com/saturday-night-live/video/tv-funhouse-sexual-harassment-and-you/2751966 | /r/askTRP | 12/12/18 04:16 PM |
| 3 | My neighbor is hitting on me, but there's a slight problem. Should I still do it?Buy condoms. Then go knock on her door, and tell her you want see the decorating in her apartment. When you get to the bedroom, get started. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/18 04:06 PM |
| 45 | Plate keeps making fun of my stutterWhen she says these things next, you don't interrupt or make any comment on her rudeness. When she is done talking her shit, you immediately without another word spoken beforehand look at her calmly, coolly, without any trace of anger or upset. Pause. Then say very politely, "I have to get going. I forgot about something important." Then get up and leave. If she is at your place, go put on your shoes, open the door, and indicate it is time for her to go. If she tries to amp it up with, "Oh, what… | /r/askTRP | 06/12/18 03:43 PM |
| 5 | Women have a much easier time finding casual sex than men. The reason: menBecause society has fostered the idea that men who have lots of sex are alpha and successful whereas women who have lots of sex are cheap and not worth keeping. God is this site filled with shitheads now or what? It is not society that created picky female mate selection, it is genetics. Anyone telling you what this guy is telling you should be ignored. Female investment in offspring is vastly more than for males. It should surprise no one at all that the male versus female approach to mate sele… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/18 02:25 PM |
| 7 | The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating MarketWhat is creepy is when you see "single moms" (i.e. women who are not with their kids' genetic fathers---because in reality those dads are often quite active in the kids' lives) all but abandon their kids to chase a particular Chad. If a male is high status enough, the kids get dumped on the genetic father or a grandparent, and the gal sprints after The Chad. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/18 08:23 PM |
| 1 | What's the right amount of persistence?I would say the response is, "It'll be fun." Then you stop paying attention to her decision, and go about the business of actually having fun. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/18 07:40 PM |
| 8 | What's the right amount of persistence?it's not clear at all what her answer is Yes it is. anything other than an emphatic yes is a no Go there, at that time, and have a good time with the people there. She does not matter in the overall plan. She is simply an addition to the plan, if she wants to be. If she shows up, and seems interested in hanging out with you, great. Otherwise, move on. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/18 04:24 PM |
| 26 | "I try to be a nice guy who contributes to society and respects others; how come I'm a miserable 25-year-old virgin, whereas every bully and jerk and frat bro I know is able to get a semi-infinite supply of sex partners whom they seduce, abuse, and dump?"Now women would rather support themselves through their twenties while getting pumped and dumped If only. It is better to acknowledge that too often women engage in debt-financed "education" to get multiple, worthless degrees. Or they have fairly low-level make-work or service jobs that do not provide enough value to cover their salary, so assistance from parents or government is required. But on balance such people are not supporting themselves, they are free-riding on society, waiting for a hi… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/18 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Just a reminder to keep these wise words in mind:Religion isn't that old. You have no clue how when religious beliefs began and spread. Funeral rites evidencing a belief in the afterlife are as old as human culture itself, pre-dating modern Homo sapiens and dating back before 300,000 years ago. Consider that: people were burying their dead with grave goods and ceremonies before they were even our sub-species. The urge to believe in something is as old as our species. That does not mean there is something to believe in, but don't think for a mi… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/18 03:01 PM |
| 2 | Just a reminder to keep these wise words in mind:Firstly most of them don't start with "believe in this or else...." Of whom do you speak? Prior thinkers whose works are still read are making a case, not threatening readers from the library, and then the grave. (These guys knew they wrote for posterity, not just their close friends.) Whether you are reading deists like Jefferson or men of faith like St. Augustine, those guys knew they could not impose their will upon you via force or threat. They had to establish their place via considered app… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/18 02:45 PM |
| 0 | Just a reminder to keep these wise words in mind:but the reality is we're at a point in history lol. Like we are any different in any material way from the 99.9999% of humans that came before us. If religion was shit 100,000 years ago, it is shit now. If it was a proper part of human existence then, it is now. Pick one. But don't pretend the monkeys have changed in the past few years. They have not. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/18 02:07 PM |
| 4 | Just a reminder to keep these wise words in mind:"To find value in religion is like picking peanuts out of a pile of shit and trying to rinse them off enough so that you can eat them" That describes pretty much all attempts at learning from prior thinkers. No matter how fantastic their observations and writings, there will always be a high dross to gold ratio. Don't believe me? Go read Newton's entire collection. Try to slog through the entirety of Aristotle. Etc. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/18 02:06 PM |
| 1 | I’m depressed that I’m not chad and suck at making female friends?I’ve been too busy So enjoy your busy life, as it currently is. This post is like those overweight people who keep talking about needing a better diet and more exercise, and asking people what worked for them. But never do they stop pushing crap into their mouth or enter the gym. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/18 01:57 PM |
| 1 | I fucked up at work, had my talk with my boss, and a colleague keeps asking why i made the mistakeDepends on the mistake. Some indicate a maturing moment, some indicate an inability to do the job. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/18 01:54 PM |
| 5 | I fucked up at work, had my talk with my boss, and a colleague keeps asking why i made the mistakeYou handled it fine. Smile less when delivering such responses, though. what if she brings it up again? Response: "You need to let it go. That is not your concern." | /r/askTRP | 30/11/18 01:53 PM |
| 5 | Removing Power From Men : Mom Says 6-Year-Old Son Is Transgender. Dad Disagrees. Now He Might Lose His Son.It's not secret on TRP that feminism has been on a war path to remove power and agency from men. The quarantine line at the top of this page being one example near at hand. They are easing you into a ban but fear the optics of doing it all at once. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/18 04:50 PM |
| 51 | Americans Greatly Overestimate Percent Gay, Lesbian in U.S.more than half of the men have at least one homosexual experience in life. cough bullshit statistic cough | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/18 04:19 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else find themselves increasingly distant from female "friends"?That is not a friend, that is a person who hangs out at bars with you. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/18 01:42 PM |
| 55 | Anyone else find themselves increasingly distant from female "friends"?Almost none of those women you call friends are friends, in the sense that they are loyal, caring, trusted people in your life. They are people who know you, and may occasionally hang out with you. But you would be less than nothing to them the instant you start to be a social drag on them. Most people are that way, so it is not necessarily a woman thing. It is just that, in my experience, very few men are any good at being a friend, and almost no women are. So take a hard look at all the people… | /r/askTRP | 29/11/18 01:42 PM |
| 44 | ex-gf popped up out the blue and tried to scam me, should i fuck with her emotions?You still care too much. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/18 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Do childrens with no father figure affects their masculinity?The social science statistics regarding outcomes for males where the father is not present are readily available. The story is not a good one. Interestingly, however, where the fathers are absent due to certain supervening events (killed in the line of duty, died from disease) , *not* abandonment, the sons' outcomes improve. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/18 01:30 PM |
| 4 | How to Avoid Groups of Girls Hatting You After You Bang their FriendsShe is not entitled to a relationship or even a follow-up date with you just because you had sex. She might have forgotten that. You are not entitled to their "friendship" either. So yeah, they can group-dump you for not giving her the relationship she wanted. You seem to have forgotten that. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/18 10:00 PM |
| 4 | Long time TRP lurker looking for some advice.Quit following her around, hoping she will give you your emotional cookie and bottle. You need to go find activities that inspire you and people who value you. Be the guy you enjoy being. Let her decide if that is the guy she wants to be around. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/18 01:48 PM |
| 8 | Blue Pilled Beta Takes Power BackI'd be lying if I said I didn't still harbor some animosity and I'm coming around to acceptance. Stop hating cats for pouncing on mice. Stop hating on eagles for snatching up rabbits. And you can do this by stop being a mouse or rabbit. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/18 08:11 PM |
| 2 | Blue Pilled Beta Takes Power Backconvert both women into friends No, they are not and never will be friends. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/18 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Should I be embarrassed about getting into martial arts at 18?Yes, you should also do a grappling sport and lift weights. | /r/askTRP | 23/11/18 07:06 PM |
| 17 | Dalrock: Our family policy is designed to terrify married fathers.It seems like the only option is to find a beautiful woman to accept a surrogate pregnancy from you, and to take the child on your own once it is born. When you examine cost and risk of bad financial outcomes, for men above a certain wealth and income level, this route is certainly the less costly and risky one, as against the alternative of marriage and/or joint parental liability for maintaining the kids. Nannies would be far cheaper than alimony, asset division, and child support payments. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/18 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Girl was supposed to meet up w/ me tonight after work, we've hooked up twice before, but she is terrible at responding to texts & didn't answer a call i just made. its 11:27pm. had plans for tom. too...Do whatever you want. DGAF about her. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/17 05:03 AM |
| 7 | Girl I'm dating made a comment about male privilege and the patriarchy...Ignore it. Change the topic. Recognize that in the future she may retroactively decide and declare you abused or assaulted her, if it suits her mood. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/17 06:37 PM |
| 58 | Cuckoldry. SJWs. Hamstering. Everything so wrong with modern sexuality, in this one comic. (Not Safe For Work)when they date a rock musician and they KNOW he is with other girls. I think it was Bertrand Russell who noted that women would rather share a first rate man than have a second rate one all to themselves. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/17 08:57 PM |
| 244 | Cuckoldry. SJWs. Hamstering. Everything so wrong with modern sexuality, in this one comic. (Not Safe For Work)So....where are the comics encouraging women to be supportive of their men having children with other women, because empowerment? | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/17 06:35 PM |
| 3 | Gf says we seem distant lately."I am focused on getting my life squared away. Now let's go see that movie I have been waiting for....after we have wild monkey sex." | /r/askTRP | 06/04/17 01:27 PM |
| 2 | What to do when rejected ugly girls flip it on me and ruin my image?A gal who as not at my level once said to a mutual friend that she had rejected me or let me down easy or something. The gal was a decent enough person, and not bad looking, but I was able to date better looking women, and did. No one took her story seriously except her, because people could look at her, me, and who I was dating. The social proofs were all there in front of people. If the rejected women you describe are inserting their tale into your direct social circle, feel free to correct th… | /r/askTRP | 06/04/17 01:02 PM |
| 3 | FOW OUR FALLEN BROTHERS - Initiate them into RedPill by getting them out of the Friend Zone firstExactly. Far better to spend time with a new gal who appreciates you, rather than rehabilitate the failed LJBF dynamic into something else. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/17 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Should you ever try to explain Red Pill theory to a high end plate?No. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/17 10:12 PM |
| 22 | False Rape AllegationThe detective may simply opt not to follow up on it, because it is pointless. The prosecutor may tell the detective not to bother, after a consult. Even if the cop does follow up, and it gets to the next level, the prosecutor may, again, just close the file. For your part, your only words to any cop who calls is, "My lawyer's number is _______. I have nothing more to say to you about this." /hangup Don't listen to anything they say. Do not respond to a single question they ask. They are not ther… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/17 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Please help me debunk this bullshit claim that's been circulating latelyWhy the hell would you bother to argue with people saying such nonsense? Stop. There is no winning by discussing anything with such a person. At best, you will get very frustrated talking to morons and waste time. The only comment I would make, with a deadpan face, is ask: so to prevent crimes, like bank robbery, we should retrain criminals like bank robbers to not rob banks, rather than take security measures? Or get muggers to refrain from mugging, rather than be alert regarding surroundings a… | /r/askTRP | 25/03/17 07:16 PM |
| 2 | "I Want To Be Abstinent"Tl;DR: My GF said LJBF. End it. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/17 03:08 PM |
| 2 | I'm quitting boxing. What are some good ways to satiate my masculine need for thrill and danger?I blew out a knee in BJJ. Just saying. After football, skiing, martial arts for decades, I though my knees were freaky invulnerable, because I never had an injury to them. Then pop. Letting go of high-adrenaline sports and activities is a difficult thing. I still look at the back country skiing I did alone as a young man and think, "Maybe I have another run or two in me...." I don't, though. Same with sparring and fighting. I have lots of healed bones and other injuries, reminding me that, yes, … | /r/askTRP | 25/03/17 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Stop drinking coffee. It's beta.If I don't drink that morning latte, I may have a noticeable headache in the evening, for about an hour, or not. If that is addiction, I can live with it, because I enjoy the latte. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/17 04:18 PM |
| 12 | Stop drinking coffee. It's beta.Cripes. Nowhere does the phrase "moderate consumption" appear in your post. I drink one latte a day, and have a glass of beer or wine at night. I don't intend to quit coffee or booze, because enjoyment. People should try doing things in a moderate manner, and you may discover that, yeah, you can really enjoy potential poisons without harmful impact, but only if you moderate consumption. Same goes for exercise, work, leisure, etc.: do some, but not too much. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/17 02:30 PM |
| 4 | Women I barely know who nag and disrespect meBased on what? Your bitchy defensiveness. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/17 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Women I barely know who nag and disrespect mesuit yourself. (heh) | /r/askTRP | 24/03/17 12:39 AM |
| 2 | Women I barely know who nag and disrespect meLifter's physique, black leather motorcycle jacket, close-cropped hair, and an emotionless expression make all that end. Same with a well-tailored, expensive suit. Trust me. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/17 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Career question - Old boss now works for new company messaged me about coming on boardIf you have better employment options, take them. If not, take this one. No job or boss is perfect. There is no room for advancement where I'm at. So you want to be doing this same gig in 30 years, for the same money? No? Time to move. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/17 05:18 PM |
| 51 | Newcomers, DON'T be this guyOnce you're married you're already in the trap. You will give your woman power over you, end of story. You will gain very little from the marriage, and you stand to lose a lot. Middle-aged guy here. Fellows, this is something I know you younger guys struggle with, because so much of the culture pushes on you about marriage. But what this sentence says is 100% dead on. No one in America is more trapped than the 30 something guy with 2 kids and a wife who works part-time or not at all. That poor S… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/17 07:21 PM |
| 5 | They have boyfriends againYou got played to provide her a fix for the male attention addiction plenty of gals have. Not any more complicated than that. She liked the attention, and did what she had to for a bit more. But she had no intention of letting it go anywhere besides you fawning over her. Her BF probably knows she flirts and leads guys on, but does not care, because he knows guys like you just go home alone, having wasted an evening chasing his gal. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/17 03:38 PM |
| 20 | Girl that friendzoned me told me that she slept with another guy. I asked her to not talk to me anymore.You made a mistake in letting her think you were someone with whom to have that sort of coversation to begin with. You should have been emotionally distant and unavailable to her after she LJBFed you. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/17 11:39 PM |
| 3 | Anyone with any experience joining an MMA gym? Is it overhyped?Lots of those guys around. Always have been. Working out does a lot of things for you, but there are no magical powers or secret death touch moves out there. Just ain't real, folks. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/17 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Losing friendsOne comes from a family with a $50million family business, and one is from a politically connected family. I have known many people worth that or more money. I never once tried to remain friends or ingratiate myself to them because of that. I took them as they came, and did not try to keep any of them in my orbit by altering myself. I suggest my approach, rather than trying to curry favor with those people, just because they come from money. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/17 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Losing friendsthey acted like I wasn't a part of their group anymore. Crabs in a bucket. Common problem for people who are not going to take other people's shit any longer. they are good kids...they are going places Really? No, really? It became bottled up and I was hostile-ish over them excluding me and talking some shit. Let it go. There is no point to being mad at your BP friends for them being who they are. It is not your problem or your mission. Just let it go, be the happy, upbeat, moving-forward guy yo… | /r/askTRP | 20/03/17 01:39 PM |
| 12 | It is natural for a man to not want females with a high n-count.Define "Want". Do men want to have sex with physically attractive women? Obviously. Will her partner count impact that? Some but not much. Guys Do men want to give a long-term monogamous commitment to women with a high partner count? In my experience, not so much. Men feel an innate disgust regarding such things, it seems. People say it is conditioned or learned, but I don't think so. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/17 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Fucked a girl, snakey friend wants to fuck my current girl to get 'revenge'I would just sit the guy down, and say, "So I heard from X that you are pissed about me having sex with Y. And that as a result, you think you are going to sleep with gal Z, as some sort of payback. Is that true? If he drops the mask and says, "Yeah, I said that stupid stuff, and I regret it. I was just hurt because of oneitis. Totally stupid and immature. Sorry.", then you have a shot at remaining friends. If he denies it or puts his chin out and says, "Yeah, well you deserve it!" or something … | /r/askTRP | 20/03/17 01:29 PM |
| 4 | Did you feel physically sick when you started reading TRP?Nah. But then I grew up in a time and a place where people understood and accepted as obvious a lot of what The Red Pill tries to convey. Examples: Women marry/mate up, not down. Be decent in your treatment of people, but always focus on achievement in your own life, never on making your girlfriend haaaaapy. She will be far happier coupled with an ever-advancing man, than an attentive, doting loser. Women expect to be able to lean on men, not the other way around. In life, don't expect anyone to… | /r/askTRP | 20/03/17 01:24 PM |
| 189 | "Would you still date me if I was fat?" -- Squashing one of the biggest shit tests"Would you still date me if I was unemployed, awkward, and 8 inches shorter?" | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/17 01:17 PM |
| 4 | Anyone with any experience joining an MMA gym? Is it overhyped?The benefits to my life from working out in combat sports have been profound. I have been doing martial arts (TKD, Judo, BJJ, boxing, Hapkido) since I was in my teens. Fighting sports, along with lifting weights, are my primary means of working out. I have met some great people, enjoyed myself immensely, and kept the weight off. In my 40s, I have a physique guys in their 20s wish they had. I also have the ability to smile with what is likely an eerie calm and sincere enthusiasm when someone trie… | /r/askTRP | 20/03/17 01:15 PM |
| 2 | LTR driving an hour away to meet Chad from her past...Now he knows it was actually an open relationship the whole time! With women, it always is---just as soon as a high enough SMV guy raises his eyebrow in the right way at her, she gives herself the "it just happened!" pass. After seeing it so many times for so many years, I don't even get annoyed by it anymore. It is just the software that is running. Sorry, guys, that is just how evolution dealt the cards. You get no choice in the matter, except how you react to the card game's real rules (once … | /r/askTRP | 18/03/17 11:31 PM |
| 22 | LTR broke up. Now breaking my social circle apart.She is breaking my social circle apart. If she can do that, it is not your social circle. Move on with those who are valuable and show loyalty. Ignore and move on from those who choose her. No butthurt. No drama. Just keep motoring on in life, with those willing to be your social circle. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/17 05:12 PM |
| 13 | LTR driving an hour away to meet Chad from her past...Instant "over", imho. She is traveling for Chad. ANyone want to guess if she is going to be freshly-showered, waxed, coiffed, and wearing her sexiest underwear to go "have coffee with a friend?" Is anyone here actually under some sort of impression women drive an hour to see hot men they had sex with just to "catch up?" | /r/askTRP | 18/03/17 04:09 PM |
| 2 | LTR driving an hour away to meet Chad from her past...Looks like we have an Alpha Fux, Beta Bux situation here. Guess which one you are. This is the essence. Everything else everyone is saying is just word salad. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/17 04:07 PM |
| 7 | LTR driving an hour away to meet Chad from her past...Why did she tell OP the truth in that case? She didn't. She trickle-truthed. The truth is, "I am going to see a guy I am really hot for. I will be with him all day. I am pretending to myself that sex is not the outcome I am planning." You know perfectly well she will be wearing a hot outfit with sexy underwear, for her old lover. But hey, nuuuuuthing is going to happen. /slysmile | /r/askTRP | 18/03/17 04:05 PM |
| 8 | LTR driving an hour away to meet Chad from her past...Why would you bother spending so much time after she already spent a day with Chad getting railed? OP should be done with her, not trying to dread her post-coital Chad Hookup. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/17 04:03 PM |
| 6 | LTR driving an hour away to meet Chad from her past...tl;dr: She is traveling for dick. She said that he was a friend from her last job 2 years ago and they hadn't seen each other in a while. So she is a liar. Basically, once she meets Matt she'll be unavailable the rest of the entire day. She gave scant details of their past, she just kept saying "he's my friend" / "he's my good friend". /rollingeyeballs So I'm not sure what to do. She is not LTR worthy. Time to move on. I would simply understand that you two just broke up, and get on with life. I… | /r/askTRP | 18/03/17 04:00 PM |
| 2 | Is this woman worth LTR?I define LTR as someone who gets a monogamous commitment, cohabitation, and deep involvement in planning for a joint future that is not time-limited. This gal would not be slotted into that category. You can treat her fine. She can be someone you spend plenty of time with, but she is not "wife" or "wife-like" material by any stretch. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/17 01:38 PM |
| 25 | An entire company run by women on the verge of self-implosion.In all that, no discussion of its profits. Telling. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/17 01:24 AM |
| 2 | Acting beta with good friend's girl cousin.I'm in a slump, Hence this focus on some gal who is not having sex with you? I don't know what to say or reply? Don't. Go ask out other women who do want to have sex with you. Stop wasting time on ones who see you as orbiter-grade. If you want to try something with her, do it. If not, don't. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/17 09:28 PM |
| 4 | She saw beautiful guysPfft. 16? WGAF what she talks about? She is just a word-salad producer at this point. What she says is mostly irrelevant to you. You are all about grades, developing skills for your future, working out, planning your future. Or at least you should be. She is just some gal who you have some fun with. If she is not fun, start fading on her. My guess is you are not going on about other women you find sexy when hanging out with her, because you know she would find it annoying. Apparently she is not … | /r/askTRP | 12/03/17 08:55 PM |
| 2 | "Please dont leave!" (even though I am not going to fuck you), when she just wants a warm body around, that a established time to leave right?Next. You are beta fake boyfriend to her. Find a gal eager to have sex, not therapy hugs. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/17 11:51 PM |
| 327 | New "Fearless girl" statue staring down Wall Street's famous "Charging Bull" for International Woman's DayHow apt. In their minds, that is how life works. Strike a brave pose, and you will be celebrated, because something something arc towards justice. In reality, the poor, delusional girl is gutted and left for scavengers, unless her male family members save her. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/17 04:29 AM |
| 16 | Marriage? Here you go....nothing has changedDR: Chad done with her. Went back to provider. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/17 12:22 AM |
| 2 | Ghost or confront?Date her for sex. Date other women too. DGAF. Do whatever you want. No rules, apparently. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/17 12:44 PM |
| 104 | I'm being accused of rape and need help.Call a goddam lawyer, you fool. Don't run to Reddit. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/17 12:41 PM |
| 2 | Why is sports considered a beta activity?Keep it that way, trust me. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/17 12:26 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill thoughts on this article "Why Does Dating Men Make Me Feel Like Shit?"...?Eat less, feel hungry, then feel better. Dress well. Attend to hygiene. Exercise. Simple. Not easy. My bet is she is not one who can do "not easy". | /r/askTRP | 02/03/17 12:20 PM |
| 37 | Masculinity Under Attack: ESPN Has Become a Liberal, Feminist Media OutletESPN is shit. And quit watching sports generally, because the NCAA and pro leagues are all bowing and scraping to SJW bullshit. If something becomes a SJW bullhorn, drop it from your life, and speak ill of it to others. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/17 05:22 PM |
| 47 | Madonna's Confession about Having Sex with a Fat ManMale strippers are not selected based on income. Enough said, I believe, on what women really find sexually desirable. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/17 02:02 PM |
| 6 | Found out the girl im seeing has slept with 20so i can't be too harsh on her So don't be harsh. There is no reason to be harsh. She screwed some guys before you. She will screw more after you. Nothing at all to be harsh about. But there is a difference between not being harsh and giving your commitment to a woman with a high partner count. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/17 07:45 PM |
| 3 | Wife ProblemsShe has threatened to find someone else when she goes back to work and says that she will find someone else to talk to because of x y and z problem at that moment. Start planning for the break up. Consult lawyers, keep logs, etc. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/17 01:29 PM |
| 26 | Found out the girl im seeing has slept with 20She has feminists views on the sex part. Doesn't belive that sex partners matters. And she can have that belief, without you having to change it or even address it. She can believe in Zeus, unicorns, whatever she wants. But here is the big point to remember: Never, ever argue with people about issues of faith. Feminism (and this partner count issue) is an issue of faith, so there is no debating it. So don't ever. Just smile, nod, and change the topic to something you find interesting. What are y… | /r/askTRP | 23/02/17 01:17 PM |
| 2 | Found out gf cheated on me with her ex- any advice for a first time break up?Text her: "I am not into dating women who getting romantic with other people. So, best of luck to you and your baby daddy, but don't contact me ever again. Your stuff is in the mail to you." Block her on all platforms. No contact. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/17 12:38 AM |
| 1 | The Lie of Male PrivilegeYou still talk to your mother? Why? | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/17 01:58 AM |
| 20 | Another Dear Abby – If he knew you had a "promiscuous past" it's too late for him to say anything now.What Dear Abby is not getting: https://therationalmale.com/2013/12/03/saving-the-best/ | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/17 06:46 PM |
| 27 | Funny experience last night with beta orbiterDownside, of course, being the increased risk of contracting disease. That and sweaty man ass crack. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/17 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Coworker Shit went down… Am I being a bitter beta?Am I just being a bitter beta? Yup. Your course now is to ice this woman out completely. She is just a person you know at work. Be polite, be professional. If she asks what up, and why you are so cold, you simply say, "Don't know what you are talking about. Bob drop off those quarterly sales reports yet?" If she sputters and tries to get you to talk, cut her off and say, "I don't follow you. Let me know when Bob gets you those reports. Thanks for stopping by." | /r/askTRP | 17/02/17 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Leaving This Sub- Give me Some Final Words of Adviceyou have to actually be around women to get with women. Yup. Those medical books won't have sex with him. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/17 02:14 AM |
| 8 | 20/f virgin college student; is the CC worth it or is one guy enough to have sex with?Would you be more attracted to a man who spent his twenties chasing many women and professing his undying, yearning love for them, even if he had only met some of them that very night, and would never see them again? He wined and dined these women. Gave them all manner of attention and devotion. None of the relationships lasted very long, however. He would then run out and find another women to love "forever", or maybe a week. Yeah, think of your future husband having 20-30, heck 60, women in hi… | /r/askTRP | 17/02/17 01:46 AM |
| 7 | She broke up with me to fuck someone else on valentines day.She is a great friend You have low friendship standards | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/17 02:37 AM |
| 4 | Who marries strippers?I know some I grew up with. Marriages tend to fail. There were some attempts at settling into normal employment, which failed. Eventually they ended up as waitresses, airline personnel, or other low skill service workers. Some ended up in middle-aged second or third marriages to beta bux, which did not seem overly enjoyable for anyone. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/17 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Guys in their 20s, you don't have that much time!You obviously know me so well, keyboard swami. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/17 02:15 PM |
| 1 | What to do with women besides taking them to barsToo bad there is not an internet thingy, where you could search terms like "ideas for cool dates" and restrict the search to your geographic location, budget needs, etc. If only... | /r/askTRP | 13/02/17 02:40 AM |
| -1 | Guys in their 20s, you don't have that much time!Implying anyone can willy nilly just decide to get accepted into an elite law school after fucking up the first 20 years of their lives. Point out where I imply that. Cool strawman, bro. You can own businesses and have an elite law degree on a wall, if you have the talent and dedication. You act like those are mutually exclusive. They aren't. Quite the opposite is the case. Some of the most successful business people I know personally are law degree holders from a top tier school. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/17 01:52 AM |
| 0 | Guys in their 20s, you don't have that much time!If you could read, you would have noted I mentioned elite law schools. Outside of that tier, you will be working for crap wages in some store front, maybe as a lawyer, maybe as something else. True. But don't act like you bring that warning to the table | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/17 01:41 AM |
| 28 | Guys in their 20s, you don't have that much time!If you are one of the very few guys who in their early 20s got out of college, got a full time offer that pays decently, and started earning a decent salary before the age of 25 then count yourself lucky. As if that outcome is luck. Please. I got my professional degree and was busting hump in a large city by 25. None of that was luck, it was me focused and dedicated for 7 years on that goal. You either go hardcore accounting, STEM, med, or law (but only at an elite school) if you want your mid-t… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/02/17 12:13 AM |
| 4 | After 4 months, my ex texts...If you read this post from someone else, you would likely see the male hamster at work, trying to find an excuse to let his unfaithful oneitis back into his life. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/17 01:17 PM |
| 22 | Told my Oneitis to get the fuck out of my lifeI just didn't want to be that guy anymore So don't be. Ignore her. She is just trying to get her orbiter back. She thinks you are her "friend", and would say so, but that is just the string-you-along game she is playing, quite knowingly, even though she would deny it always. She wants your devotion and validation, because it makes her feel better. She cares not one bit what you feel like. How many times has she ever actually been a friend to you, rather than the lead singer and you the back-up d… | /r/askTRP | 12/02/17 01:11 PM |
| 7 | Should I ghost my cheating GF or catch and confront?Because when I knew I had proof she flat-out denied and I wanted to believe I was wrong. So after wasting so very much precious time on this women who lies to you and thinks of you as a fool, you are going to waste still more precious time on her? If you so much as type a reply to this or any other post, rather than simply and completely ejecting her right now from your life, you have not yet learned what this sub is trying to teach you. If she ever manages to somehow get through your delete/blo… | /r/askTRP | 12/02/17 12:56 PM |
| 5 | Asked her number via facebook, then shit testMake a joke, ask her number. Answer: Ahahah! If you were her Chad, her digits would have appeared on your screen. Fade. 3.5 billion other options. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/17 09:53 PM |
| 3 | Would lifting stunt my height growth at 17?No. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/17 06:13 PM |
| 2 | My LTR of 3 yrs fucked my personal trainer (who I was friends with) What can i do for revenge? (The guy deals steroids - carrys a knife etc)These people are not part of your life any longer. Ghost them both. Block them on all social media. Never inquire about their status with mutual acquaintances. Block them on your phone. Do not frequent any place where you know they will be, like parties of mutual acquaintances or their favorite bars. If someone brings them up to you in conversation, your only response from now on when their names come up is to say, "Hmm." And then change the topic. You do not know these people any longer. You do… | /r/askTRP | 09/02/17 02:06 PM |
| 2 | Asking if she has plans for tonight and getting "Sorry I have such a busy week!". Hard no?3.5 billion other options. Quit focusing on this one. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/17 02:01 PM |
| 69 | Hillary revealing Feminism is a bid for social domination, and NOT the "Equality" movement it's always been advertised as.Feminism dies the second all the lights go out, and don't come back on. It is an orchid that only exists in the hothouse of Western wealth, created by men. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/17 03:09 AM |
| 11 | State Sponsored Cuckoldry In FrancePfft. You think France is in any material way different from America? They have just not gotten around to actually outlawing such testing here. Whether you can admit test results into court paternity disputes is often no easier in America than in France, depending on the state. What is true in France is true here and throughout the West: Average Men not working for government, you are of very little value or concern to the Deep State government officials other than as income transfer providers. … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/17 10:27 PM |
| 2 | I AMOGed a coworker so he would not act immature anymore and he reported me to my bosses... how can I handle this?Why should I care ahout value? Because your employer sure as hell does. | /r/askTRP | 07/02/17 09:59 PM |
| 9 | I got banned from the r/ sex subDon't proselytize openly. Send a PM if you want, but don't say "Red Pill" in a post to another sub. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/17 03:22 PM |
| 20 | Trickle truth. Watch out.I give second chances. Looks to me like you give way more chances than that. Too many. I would never speak to her again. You might not think you are a fool, but she treats you like one. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/17 01:26 PM |
| 1 | I AMOGed a coworker so he would not act immature anymore and he reported me to my bosses... how can I handle this?If you are going after someone at work, it is like taking a shot at the king: don't miss. You missed. Now you suffer the consequences. So yes, apparently he can act like a childish asshole, and the bosses don't care. They do care about you and your conduct, it would seem. Act accordingly. Maybe you need to seriously consider if you, not him, are the party failing to provide enough value to the employer to warrant acting out and causing drama. Because trust me, employers will overlook a lot of BS… | /r/askTRP | 06/02/17 05:59 PM |
| 3 | Girlfriend talking to ex on a semi regular basis and kept me in the dark about it. What to do?I intend to confront her today again and plain state that she is not to talk to her ex at all. Wrong move. Instead, observe and assess. Watch her over the next few weeks and see if she is LTR material. Don't mate guard and chimp at her that she cannot do this or that. A woman worth having knows how to not put her LTR at risk. If she is putting it at risk, it is because she doesn't care. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/17 04:19 AM |
| 4 | LTR sleeps with me for a week, then one day out of the blue denies me by preemptively complaining of neck pain. How do I make sure this never happens again?Have sex with mother. Establish dominance. /eyeroll | /r/askTRP | 06/02/17 03:54 AM |
| 5 | I AMOGed a coworker so he would not act immature anymore and he reported me to my bosses... how can I handle this?Play stupid games at work, and you are apt to have bad outcomes like this. You done fucked up. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/17 03:09 AM |
| 4 | Ltr is mad at me because of how I grabbed her boob. Says it's disrespectful. Wants me to apologize and is throwing a fit.Cupping nuts is okay. Pinching grab? Not so much. Maybe she has a point? | /r/askTRP | 06/02/17 03:03 AM |
| 17 | Ltr is mad at me because of how I grabbed her boob. Says it's disrespectful. Wants me to apologize and is throwing a fit.go back to my place. yup. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/17 03:02 AM |
| 8 | My girlfriend's drunk friend tried to justify her slutty behavior and the hamster went into overdrive. What women say is not an indication of what they think.Now they're all baristas with worthless liberal arts degrees. And pissed that they cannot just snap their fingers and get a non-profit director gig paying them $70,000/year with benefits, so they can work 25 hours a week, have a small (hip, of course) staff working for them, and a budget for traveling to conferences. Because, you know, at 25, that is what they should have: a funded budget and job that pays them for their insight, wisdom, total coolness, and hip outlook. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/17 04:15 PM |
| 3 | My girlfriend's drunk friend tried to justify her slutty behavior and the hamster went into overdrive. What women say is not an indication of what they think.so people would hold you accountable. That presumes other people give a damn. Generally, they don't. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/17 04:09 PM |
| 7 | Is there a woman worth fighting for?Your daughter. Kill any fucker who messes with her safety. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/17 04:06 PM |
| 2 | Not getting divorce rapedhire. a. lawyer. Make it a competent middle-aged woman. Because you will finally have some gal who can tell it to you straight, and maybe you will believe her: AWALT. Paternity test. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/17 10:37 AM |
| 4 | Guy at work got angry at me. I chuckled. Did I handle this correctly?So long as you did not make a scene, or overreact to a non-event, sure, that is good. The less response you make to someone in that situation, the better. One thing I do when someone is escalating a conversation and raising their voice is to NEVER INTERRUPT. Just wait. When they pause, to hear your reply, you say in a very calm, even quiet voice: "You are yelling at me. It was not my intention to upset you." And then say nothing more. Just look at them. It has the effect of disarming them, as th… | /r/askTRP | 01/02/17 05:04 PM |
| 12 | How to shutdown bitches at school nagging for your homework?Just look at them straight in the eye and say, "When you come over and cook, clean my apartment, and grocery shop for me, we can talk about that." Then go back to whatever you were doing without another word. Do NOT link homework to sex in any way. Ever. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/17 04:18 PM |
| 4 | Guy at work got angry at me. I chuckled. Did I handle this correctly?It became apparent to us he actually did not know much about this as he claimed, and he suddenly became irritated and angry (mostly directed toward me). He was visibly upset and his voice level started to get higher and higher as he babbled on, saying things like "why is this a concern?", or "Call xxx instead he would know better". Just generally giving me attitude. Normally he is a super nice and polite guy though, so this was unexpected. The older you get, the less well you can deal with stres… | /r/askTRP | 01/02/17 02:11 PM |
| 1 | How do you study for 10-12 hour days?Depends on you. Some people hit that wall sooner than others, in any endeavor. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/17 02:49 PM |
| 3 | How do you study for 10-12 hour days?If you literally mean being in a library or study pod for 10-12 hours a day, you can only do that level of study for short periods of time, usually no more than a week or two right before final exams or if you have a big paper due. And then only if you break it up into 2-3 hour sessions with at an hour in between, to collect your energy, nap, eat, etc. Your normal amount of study time per day outside of class will likely be 2-4 hours, depending on the amount of reading or work you have and how g… | /r/askTRP | 31/01/17 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Guy is **SO**close.. How to push him over the edge?How do I get him to realise this? No. Your. Concern. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/17 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Guy is **SO**close.. How to push him over the edge?Could it not indicate a lack of loving her? Do you want to brew some chamomile tea and sit on the couch with us, to talk it all out? For the love of fucking Zeus, WTF do you even care this much to keep writing about it? Go focus on your job, your lifts, your hobbies, etc. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/17 03:47 PM |
| 4 | Getting older - Is there anyway to get my SMV as high as early to mid 20's males?If OP was some secret agent alpha sigma whatever, he would not be here wondering how to compete. He would be too busy slaying at life like Conan. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/17 03:44 PM |
| 9 | My company refuses to give me more money and treats me like a junior... Would you leak confidential information so they get in trouble and I can leave happy?Go find a new job. Don't do anything to hurt this company. Just move on. That is how things go. Be professional. Learn how to leave a job without making anyone mad. BTW, the world doesn't care enough about your company to pay any attention to what you intend to leak. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/17 09:49 PM |
| 27 | Girls at the gym wearing headphonesIf Ryan Gosling interrupts their jam, they will peel off those headphones with a grin and eyes alight, say, "Hi!" while waiting to see what the guy says next. Headphones will be put down. Machine will be put on hold. And her body will turn to the guy, as she focuses all her attention on him. If Jonah Hill interrupts their jam, they will put on RBF and move one earphone barely to the side, ask "What?" with the most flat, unemotional tone you ever heard. Make of that what you will. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/17 09:46 PM |
| 1 | I snooped at her messaging, and I'm know a better man thanks to it.I was speaking generally. And this account is my third REddit account. The other two were both endorsed contributor. I been here since the member list was in the thousands. Low thousands. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/17 09:41 PM |
| 1 | I snooped at her messaging, and I'm know a better man thanks to it.It has nothing to do with intelligence. Actually, it very much designates you as being no less than the top quintile, likely the top 10%. That said, being in the top 10% doesn't mean a ton. It is like being a top 10% football player. Good enough to make high school varsity starting squad. Nothing more. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/17 09:24 PM |
| 7 | I snooped at her messaging, and I'm know a better man thanks to it.Because at some point, kids/marriage enter the mix, and suddenly you have her big brother the State living in your marriage, and he is 350 pounds of 'roided up badass. And he is totally on her side. Totally. At her command, he wrecks you. Women know this. And being what they are, they think that is a good thing to introduce into the mix. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/17 09:10 PM |
| 214 | I snooped at her messaging, and I'm know a better man thanks to it.She has had sex with more guys than she admitted to me, I found like 10 different stories, at least Before I met JacquesNicoleSonne, I never thought I would find someone as good as my ex regarding sex and cuddles. Now that I’ve found him, I know I can find another This is what inability to pair bond looks like. You are about as vital to her as that expensive purse or her favorite pair of designer shoes. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/17 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Intimidated by bigger dudes that can beat me up?First off, stop worrying about fighting big guys. If you move through life without looking for trouble or reacting much to others looking for it, very little trouble will find its way to you. When talking about street fighting, you are talking about a low probability event in most people's lives that you have a lot of control over. Don't hang out where fights go down, and don't go looking for fights where they may jump off. 99.9% of the problem is solved. You should be more concerned about multi… | /r/askTRP | 26/01/17 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Should I sacrifice my next three months to have a 3.5 gpa or settle for a 3.475 and not worry about it?Long term? That will not matter much to the world or in your life. Becoming a dependable revenue-generation source for your employer will be the key, not what your GPA was in undergraduate studies. That said, I am the wrong person to ask. I graduated summa, and yes, I am obnoxiously proud of my nerdy, grade-grubbing younger self for having done so. There was a point to it, though, beyond pride: that high GPA set me up to go to an elite graduate school and launch a professional career. So there w… | /r/askTRP | 26/01/17 03:40 PM |
| 4 | How should I deal with this person that lives in my apartment building?Have a place to hang your bike in your apartment, with a rubber mat under it, so the wet tires drip there, not on your floor. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/17 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Waitress at place I frequent passively aggressively insulting me. I don't even know her. Not sure how to react.Why would you bother to think about it at all? Life is filled with things that are immaterial. This is one of them. Let it go... | /r/askTRP | 25/01/17 08:58 PM |
| 14 | OkCupid's Depressing Confirmation of the 80/20 Rule - The Majority of Men are Invisible to WomenCan confirm. Source: I had a buddy who is Greek-god handsome. You should see the interest he generates in women just walking down the street in a suit. They nearly break their necks looking at him as he passes by. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/17 03:56 PM |
| 7 | My parents won't let me do lifting because I'm 16. any alternatives?You can consult online resources for excellent resistance exercises using only body-weight. A weight room is not required to build muscle and get in shape. That said, there is no reason not to be in weight rooms at your age. At 16, you are perfectly suited to be in a weight room. High schools all across America are filled with 16-17 year olds who lift daily. Just make sure you get some knowledgeable instruction regarding proper form and exercises from a credentialed, experienced weight trainer. … | /r/askTRP | 25/01/17 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Friend with benefits traded sex to fix her phone, why do I even care?Are you sure this person has the requisite character and value to be called your friend? | /r/askTRP | 25/01/17 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Military guy looking for adviceI love history. I listen to podcasts, read books, etc. History won't pay the bills very well, though, so for me history is a hobby, not a profession. Perhaps you are that .001% that can write really well and produce some sort of entertainment product or lecture series to support yourself using your knowledge of history. But what does your engineering mind tell you about those odds? | /r/askTRP | 20/01/17 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Experienced cheating via "Emotional Infidelity"...with a Celebrity of all people, and a childhood hero at that. Mentality needed to get through the process of "NEXTING"?I was seriously pissed off and heart broken because I loved this gal so much- I cleaned her blood off the floor for crying out loud, took care of her when she was sick, took her out to nice dinners, tried to be an in general good boyfriend for her, and this is how I'm repaid. What part of Briffault's Law don't you understand, Mr. Covert Contract? We've had issues in the relationship before in the past with her being honest with me Is this you trying to hamster away that she is a lunatic who lies… | /r/askTRP | 20/01/17 05:09 PM |
| 2 | OneitisIt's been 3 years. For a girl who you never so much as held the hand of? You very much need to go out and have sex with other women, immediately. As in this week. Keep doing that. Go live life. After you have dated about 10 other gals, you will no longer be obsessing about some gal you haven't had any true interaction with (Facebook is fake interaction---she is not thinking of you AT ALL) in years. Years. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/17 03:51 PM |
| 2 | Bitter Beta or Avoiding Fake People?Based on what you write here, you have very little basis for calling her "fake." Let me suggest an alternative viewpoint, which I think better accords with the facts you outline above: She is seeing that you might be more than some potentially "creepy" guy who asks pretty women to model for him. At this point, she would get points from me for not falling for the "hey, wanna do some modeling...?" line from some strange guy who approaches her at work. Instead, she rejected that in a polite way, an… | /r/askTRP | 20/01/17 03:06 PM |
| 25 | I was bad mouthed by ex during breakup while staying completely silent. My friends are insisting me to give her a hate message. What's your opinion ?Nope. She does not matter. What do you care what immaterial people say about you? You don't. Just smile, shake your head, and say, "Well, I hope she is doing well." Then change the topic. You just keep motoring on forward. | /r/askTRP | 20/01/17 02:53 PM |
| 2 | Is it worth banging a fatty so she'll tell her friends?My guess is the fat girl will have "dibs" on you forever in that group, and because you may well be the best guy she ever got with, all her friends will respect it, unless you are so Chadish that Chad is nervous around you (in which case they will steal you). BTW, You are not that Chadish, because you are here asking about fatties. | /r/askTRP | 20/01/17 01:59 PM |
| 1 | failed shit-test, couldent fuck, soft nexted, what do I do because I see her often?we are both 16 Guess what, champ? You likely have too high of expectations. Not every 16 year old female is ready to have sex. No matter how good you think your "game" is, she is not there yet. So you likely need to step back, and stop pushing for something that, if you get it, may bring with it way more trouble than it is worth. In short, maybe you need to consider one of the gals who is sprinting to have sex with you, not this one, who is obviously reluctant to have sex with you. Don't be a je… | /r/askTRP | 20/01/17 01:45 PM |
| 1 | A coworker (woman) went behind my back and convinced my boss to get me to do her job... how can I put an end to this?When is the last time she came through and helped you out on your job? Does she reciprocate your favors, or is this a one-way dependency/entitlement? Perhaps you need to read "No More Mr. Nice Guy." You are not the asshole here, she is, and you need to stop feeling guilt where you have nothing to be guilty about. | /r/askTRP | 19/01/17 09:01 PM |
| 2 | Atheists of /r/theredpill, why are you atheists?Nowhere did I say what I believe. I offered an off-hand definition, and a pithy observation made by others. Look again at your reaction and ask yourself, why do you need to write what you do? Who are you trying to convince? BTW, I was reading philosophy and religion texts before most of the people at this site were born. I don't think Hitchens or Dawkins had anything to say that others had not said many times before, and much better. | /r/askTRP | 19/01/17 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Why does everyone think they are smart?Every read those surveys where people rate how good they are at driving, or how good a sexual partner they are? Everyone thinks they are above average. Given that, why would people think their IQ is average or below? See also Dunning-Kruger Effect. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dunning%E2%80%93Kruger_effect | /r/askTRP | 19/01/17 08:08 PM |
| 3 | failed shit-test, couldent fuck, soft nexted, what do I do because I see her often?Be polite, nice, upbeat, and social. Treat her well and be as witty and entertaining towards her as you would any other person in your social group whose company you enjoy. Never give any indication whatsoever that you are in any way upset or bothered by your failed attempt at seduction. If she brings it up, stay smiling, don't react, and simply inquire, "Is there something you want to talk about?" Let her indicate an interest in resuming anything, if that is her intent. Once she sees you DGAF, … | /r/askTRP | 19/01/17 05:07 PM |
| 9 | Atheists of /r/theredpill, why are you atheists?My definition of atheism: when living cells die, oblivion awaits. There is no consciousness of any kind after cellular chemical processes cease. This is equally true of all cell-based life---bacteria, worms, rabbits, plants, and higher primates. I once read an interesting way of explaining an atheist's lack of faith in divine beings stated thusly: Of the thousands of gods believed in by humanity over the prior millennia of human history, today's atheists simply believe in one fewer than everyone… | /r/askTRP | 19/01/17 05:00 PM |
| 11 | Does feminism naturally attract the insane?Does feminism naturally attract the insane? Your question is so loaded that you are not really seeking a sincere response, and so don't be surprised when people essentially say, "fuck off". It is no different than someone showing up and saying, "Does the redpill naturally attract hate-filled neckbeards?" Now, regarding your inquiry, my response would be, "it depends". If by "feminism" you mean the notion that adult women should be able to vote, decide whom to marry, work for their own benefit, c… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/01/17 02:47 PM |
| 1 | A coworker (woman) went behind my back and convinced my boss to get me to do her job... how can I put an end to this?This bitch has no issues saying to him, jokingly, "csdx doesn't want to participate in the conference call" or "wait, this is a tricky part, let's ask csdx", etc. Don't joke in response. Go very flat emotionally and say, without inflection, "I have no issues participating in this one call. But this is not my project, and I do not want anyone on this call assuming I am taking any ownership of the issues discussed here. I am fine with offering this modest amount of assistance, but [Gal] is the pro… | /r/askTRP | 19/01/17 02:00 PM |
| 2 | Frame for when you're forced to interact with a woman who's making it painfully clear she doesn't find you attractive?Why does she matter in any way? Billions of women. One does not matter. | /r/askTRP | 19/01/17 03:35 AM |
| 2 | Just got LJBF line from a Plate? Thoughts?Blah blah blah. No. Point. | /r/askTRP | 19/01/17 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Just got LJBF line from a Plate? Thoughts?Don't text back. Ghost. | /r/askTRP | 19/01/17 03:31 AM |
| 3 | Online dating is 1/4 escorts now looking for "roses" after backpage closes adult sectionEven ugly girls are getting paid a lot by wealthy men to fuck. Those sorts of men are often paying those women not for sex, but rather to go away after the sex, and leave the men to their busy lives. The guys do not want a divorce and all the drama that results. They guys just want some NSA sex, which is often not available to them. Why? Because as soon as gals find out the guys have money, the demands for a relationship begin. And if the guy has a wife and kids at home, well, does he really wan… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/17 10:30 PM |
| 2 | Online dating is 1/4 escorts now looking for "roses" after backpage closes adult sectionMajority of blacks and Latinos are living in poverty. Nope. Wrong. "According to the 2014 U.S. Census Bureau ACS study (see charts below) 27% of all African American men, women and children live below the poverty level compared to just 11% of all Americans. An even higher percentage (38%) of Black children live in poverty compared to 22% of all children in America. The poverty rate for working-age Black women (26%) which consists of women ages 18 to 64 is higher than that of working-age Black me… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/17 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Online dating is 1/4 escorts now looking for "roses" after backpage closes adult sectionActually, just holding the prisoners is not terribly profitable. It is the to the very, very reliably-employed prison guards and other prison industrial complex voters. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/17 10:18 PM |
| 2 | A coworker (woman) went behind my back and convinced my boss to get me to do her job... how can I put an end to this?they cant blame you for being sick now can they? In corporateworld, the hunt for the guilty is not a rational, fair process. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/17 10:10 PM |
| 3 | A coworker (woman) went behind my back and convinced my boss to get me to do her job... how can I put an end to this?You would get promoted over her if he's a competent boss. In corporateworld, a competent boss also has to make sure the HR harpies don't come down on him/her for not promoting enough women. If boss thinks (s)he can get his/her diversity numbers up, and OP will continue to be the uncomplaining burro doing the work, guess what happens? Not meritocracy, I assure you. I have been working for over 30 years, and I have been everywhere from one-man shops to Fortune 500 corps. This is what is out there,… | /r/askTRP | 18/01/17 10:07 PM |
| -2 | Please convince me to leave my wife of 6 months who started an affair 2 months in/r/survivinginfidelity | /r/askTRP | 18/01/17 09:57 PM |
| 2 | Got ROBBED and barely anything about it. What is a good martial art to learn and how can I better deal with confrontation against bigger, more intimidating men?Carry pepper spray, study Krav Maga, BJJ, and boxing. Learn that a punch you see coming is not as scary as you think, and that you are typically better off not fighting in nearly all situations. When you do have to fight, though, make damn sure you win. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/17 09:21 PM |
| 1 | "She's Probably Out Getting Fucked"Remember John Kerry's running mate John Edwards, he got a woman pregnant while his wife had cancer. Yeah, and I am betting John Edwards' wife had not had sex with her husband with a smile on her RBF for 10 years prior to Edwards knocking that other woman up. When I see some middle-age battle-ax woman hollering about her cheating husband, the first thing I tend to think is, "When is the last time you fucked him with a sincere, warm interest in sex with him?" Because the answer is almost always, "… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/17 08:41 PM |
| 2 | "She's Probably Out Getting Fucked"Broad-sweeping generalizations are never truthful. I guess we have to chuck out as untruthful philosophy and large chunks of history's better lessons for us. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/17 08:36 PM |
| 7 | A coworker (woman) went behind my back and convinced my boss to get me to do her job... how can I put an end to this?I am not even involved anymore... That becomes your only response to every and any request to help. she went behind my back and commented to our boss how the client wanted a meeting and how the client said it would be cool if I was there and of course, my boss said we both had to go Go back to your boss and say, politely, "This is confusing the client, boss, and may make the client unhappy. I am not involved anymore. By having me go to meetings, the client may think I am. We need to stop confusi… | /r/askTRP | 18/01/17 08:25 PM |
| 2 | Dating GF and she just started a women's study class..I did tell her that I didn't agree with all of those things Why are you even discussing her wiccan religion whatever bullshit class? | /r/askTRP | 18/01/17 03:25 AM |
| 3 | Schools offer ‘safe spaces’ to combat ‘toxic masculinity’They remain DEPENDENT on masculinity, and they hate it. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/17 12:34 AM |
| 2 | Getting out of the "relationship material" category and into the "good time" categoryHow old are the gals? If they are late 20s or so, yeah, they are looking for a husband and provider. Period. At that point, any Chad is going to have to be more Chad than Chad to get a woman nearing 30 to stop hunting for her provider. She had her fun in her teens and twenties. But now? Sheeeeeeet. She is burning daylight, and has no time for flings. Clock be ticking. And here you come: A little bit Chad. A whole lot of provision. The perfect provider. Beta Bux with just enough Chad to keep them… | /r/askTRP | 14/01/17 11:03 PM |
| 3 | Unless you are willing to take steroids, you would be better of just focusing on making money/getting statusYou are not going to get "OMG look at that 240 pound monster" results if you start at 155 lean weight and stay clean. Lifting hard and diet can only do so much, it is true. But you can definitely get to the point where women swolest you and other men envy your physique and wish they were carrying your muscle mass. Source: my life. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/17 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Unless you are willing to take steroids, you would be better of just focusing on making money/getting statusDivision III ball is high school extended, only less important. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/17 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Trouble at work with illogical co-worker (female software dev)Find other employment. Play nice until you do. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/17 02:18 PM |
| 1 | How to face the girl who rejected me few months back?you could approach her again & get rejected again. Yeah, followed by her worried request that HR look into her stalker from college. Don't shit where you eat. And never, ever, ever ask out a woman at work AGAIN after being rejected once. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/17 08:39 PM |
| 2 | How to face the girl who rejected me few months back?how should i act? Smile and say, "Hi, Tamara. Nice to see you again." But keep moving and resume reading the newspaper until the meeting begins. No need to bother pretending you have any more connection than former passing acquaintances. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/17 08:38 PM |
| 6 | My sister is telling me not to lift because it gives off the impression that I'm trying to compensate for my lack of height?I really don't know what to believe at this point. Believe what is undeniable: your sister is not supportive of your attempts at fitness and self-improvement. What not to believe: that she has any idea what she is talking about. Likely she doesn't. All she knows is her brother is crawling out of the beta box her and your family have put you into for 25 years. Women do not like it when you crawl out of the beta box, even if they are your own family members. I'm thinking about giving up lifting be… | /r/askTRP | 11/01/17 08:32 PM |
| 3 | When to employ radio silenceTwo ducked invites without an attempt at reschedule? I'd stop trying. But if you want to have another go at it, your next (and last) invite is to a function where others will also be present. Make sure it is something fun and diverting, so it is a good thing to go to. If she begs off, without her trying to reschedule, don't ever contact her again. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/17 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Had to face ex twice in last two days-held frame but still wondering if there was anything else I could have done.Just stop being where she is. Now. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/17 09:46 PM |
| 2 | The Red Pill mods are being white knight fags. I am calling for cleaning house on them.The red pill mods Which ones, and what evidence do you have? are banning people Which people, and for what specific incidents? in the red pill forums, which ones? for making the bitter women over at RPW, bitter. Citations to specific instances demonstrating this? Please check the threads in this sub-reddit Don't expect others to do the work to support your allegations. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/17 07:50 PM |
| 5 | Plate loves her husband but still sucks my cockWomen tend to want whatever is exactly the worst most exciting thing for them at that time. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/17 05:36 PM |
| 4 | Ex gf turned plate and bestfriend were planning to sleep together. How should I handle this?I feel that she was doing this with my best friend to get back at me for pissing her off recently by accidentally smashing her phone screen and being reluctant to pay for it. So in her mind, she is using sex with your friend to hurt you? Delete. Block. No contact. Never let that kind of person stay in your life. As for the guy, the basic rule is never mess with any gal that is going to put your good male friendships at risk. That guy should observe that, but don't you bother to enforce it. Just … | /r/askTRP | 08/01/17 09:58 PM |
| 4 | LTR texts me, calls me "idiot" - haven't text backMe: Thank you :) Way to supplicate. "So, is this how it's going to be? You're not going to talk to me?" Who is this? | /r/askTRP | 07/01/17 02:43 AM |
| 1 | I just realised my gf is an alpha widow. Already in love. What do?How are your career prospects coming along? Are you building a good network of quality social and professional contacts? Are your friends and family getting value from knowing you? Are your friends and family giving value back to you? Do you have productive and fun hobbies you enjoy? Those are your proper concerns, not this woman who sees you as the disappointment she must accept, after being broken by the man she still wants. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/17 02:32 AM |
| 1 | I'm done getting treated like shit at work by one of my coworkers and I'll destroy him. Does it always come done to this?I have a weird but likable personality You. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/17 06:51 PM |
| 2 | I'm done getting treated like shit at work by one of my coworkers and I'll destroy him. Does it always come done to this?He's trying to get others to dislike me. So be professional, dependable, honest and straightforward with others. They will eventually make a decision as to who they respect more. Those that pick you, great. Those that pick him, <shrug>. WGAF? | /r/askTRP | 06/01/17 05:11 PM |
| 1 | I'm done getting treated like shit at work by one of my coworkers and I'll destroy him. Does it always come done to this?You need to focus more on your performance and your value to the organization, and much, much less on him and his social skills. He does not matter, and you should regard him as just another piece of furniture around the office. Be polite and direct and plainspoken when dealing with him about an office issue. Never say anything to him at all about non-work matters. No matter what he baits you with, you do not respond expect to refocus back on whatever work task requires your interaction. When yo… | /r/askTRP | 06/01/17 05:09 PM |
| 2 | How to get through the anger/hate stage with an ExShe still texts me and I don't reply. Why don't you have it on "straight to delete" block? I can't stop wanting revenge or bad things to happen to her. So don't fight it. When you feel that way, accept that it is normal and to be expected. When you feel that way, gently laugh at yourself for being human--i.e., wound up about someone who no longer matters to you, but who provokes feelings of shame, because of how you reacted to her. Remind yourself to never react to mistreatment like you did with… | /r/askTRP | 03/01/17 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Did I overreact? Hard nexted girl in middle of the date.You already spent too much time thinking about this. Move on. She is irrelevant to you now. Be polite if you ever see her, but be distant. Never bad mouth her or mention her at all. If anyone else you know asks about her, you shrug, and change the topic. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/17 05:37 PM |
| 6 | Girlfriend just texted me this: should i use dread or next herWhen she asks you what's up, just tell her you've been busy. And make sure you are busy in those days. Don't just say it. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/17 12:43 AM |
| 5 | Leaving in the middle of a date if the girl is just terrible?After five minutes of that, you should have just told her she was being rude, you expected her to be more polite, but since she was not, the date is over. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/17 03:17 PM |
| 5 | It blows my mind that this is legal and women get away with it.The federal government supporting the Civil Rights Movement had guns. Lots of them. Before the feds backed the movement, well, 1880-1940 is no shining light for civil rights, eh? Ghandi, like MLK Jr., had the good sense to be trying these tactics with democracies where the rule of law and limited government were part of the ethic. Communism and fascism would have simply shot those men, along with all their followers. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/16 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Good friend got cheated on with his girlfriend and one of his "BEST FRIENDS" AT A PARTY HE WAS AT, is in complete denial it's almost insane, STILL WITH HER, and now i don't want to talk to him because of his stupidity. Am i wrong?Not your monkey, so don't make it your circus. You told him what you know, now drop it and say nothing more. His choice. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/16 01:42 PM |
| 3 | BPD ex gf, HELP!Oh, sure, by all means, continue your immature revenge fantasies, because further interaction with her will be a GREAT way to spend your time. I mean, it is not like you are risking your future by allowing some crazy, amoral person into your life. Great plan! Or, you could recognize that you---not she---are to blame for your lack of discipline and self-restraint. Don't let someone like this into your life. And when you find out you have let someone like her into your life, kick them out of your … | /r/askTRP | 28/12/16 02:53 AM |
| 55 | Beta Males agrees to an open marriage with his wife of 13 years, Wife meets Chad and he gives her the ThundercockTl;dr: cuckold fetishist writing fiction. Reposted here. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/16 11:14 PM |
| 12 | Lost girlfriend to hotter/bigger guy./r/survivinginfidelity | /r/askTRP | 19/12/16 05:11 PM |
| 50 | Princeton suspends men swim and diving team over interal team emailsIron Law of Group Punishment: Whenever you see group punishment for the actions of some members of the group, you will see a group of men. Women are rarely punished for actions, and never simply because they are part of a group of women, some of whom did something wrong. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/16 12:23 AM |
| 3 | Girlfriend meets Chad at party. Has a wild weekend of rough sex. Get's pregnant. Want's to keep the child and stay with Boyfriend, and Boyfriend agrees.That post is so fake, I am hoping the mods here take this down, because there is no point adding to the nonsense. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/16 06:48 PM |
| 2 | Example of a beta cuck....I'd probably just show up with a new hot young piece of ass to the party and mingle with all the mom's friends Yup. When you have really moved on, it shows, and everyone sees it. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/16 03:28 PM |
| 4 | Example of a beta cuck....When that cunt divorces the man, the child becomes a "snow". How many children to you currently have? | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/16 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Girl telling others that she's using meShrug and say, "I do not control or care what she does. That is on her. I have other things on my mind." | /r/askTRP | 16/12/16 03:24 PM |
| 2 | Girl telling others that she's using meNever respond to any of her texts or inquiries. At all. Next time she sees you in person and says, "Hey, why are you not responding?", just look at her with a blank face and say, "Hmm? I was busy. Oh, look, there is Sarah. I need to talk to her. Later" Then backturn and to talk to others. When in your group, no complaining, no explaining, no further discussion of any of this with anyone. When people try to stir it up, you shrug and say, "I don't know what you are talking about. I'm fine with her… | /r/askTRP | 16/12/16 01:41 PM |
| 6 | Bad Boss, Not moving Up, but locked inThe manager got really weird saying I shouldn't be comparing myself to my colleagues and I need to be extremely careful when doing so..further on to say that, that person has plenty of experience in her prior role in with business partnering (but it's still less than mine). She said I need to get over this negativity of comparing myself to people. That is their way of saying you are not as good as you think you are, and you need to STFU. One thing you can and should do is avoid, avoid avoid any … | /r/askTRP | 16/12/16 01:25 PM |
| 2 | Is being in a good relationship with a 6/10 something I should appreciate or turn my nose up at?I'm not sure what I'm after in life. I think this is the issue, not the gal. u/redisthecoldestcolor says it best above. Read what he said again. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/16 03:06 PM |
| 4 | GF and school tripI would say make sure you get all your expenses reimbursed by the school. Jesus, guys, people travel as part of education and careers and such. Get a grip. Now, if she is going to Jamaica for a week of drinking and such with her three single friends who all cheat on their boyfriends every chance they get, well, that is a different story. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/16 08:29 PM |
| 31 | "he had no right to an opinion on the subject of abortion because he was a man"If this was America, rather than Canada, cue employment discrimination lawsuits and hefty payout to male teacher...if he has the good sense to file an action. But Canada? Ha. Dude is screwed. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/16 07:45 PM |
| 2 | What's the big deal about cheating?Why should you dump a girl you're in a relationship with because she slept with some other guy? Because you are not into that. It is no more complicated than people do not like sharing their mates, because biology. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/16 05:02 PM |
| 2 | Rhetorical question: How many truly attractive, sexually appealing women do you know who can maintain a multi-year relationship?The purpose of RP is to get the 10 that will adore you as greek god. Then this place has a purpose that, perhaps, only .001% of men can realistically pull off. That is like saying the purpose of /fitness is to get the reader a job as a major league ballplayer center-fielder with a .300 average. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/16 03:45 PM |
| 9 | Rhetorical question: How many truly attractive, sexually appealing women do you know who can maintain a multi-year relationship?I have met plenty of them in life. I have met a lot more who do not have their shit together, though. Same as guys, in that regard. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/16 03:40 PM |
| 2 | Porn star...the ultimate red-pill job?Don't fall for the Apex Fallacy. The life of a top tier male pornographic performer whose name you know is much different from the other 99% of those guys, who no one pays any attention to. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/16 01:59 PM |
| 3 | So I want to swallow the red pill but I don't know where to startHit the weight room 3 days a week. Join a Crossfit or laid back combat arts class. No more junk food. Eat well and get 8 hours of sleep every night by going to bed early. Read the sidebar. Not everything on the sidebar will speak to you, but take from it what works for you and makes sense. Spend time with male friends who bring you up and support you. Eject anyone who is a leech or is like a crab pulling you back into the bucket of suck they dwell in. Talk less, listen more, in every setting. Te… | /r/askTRP | 08/12/16 01:40 PM |
| 17 | Date loses someone close mid-date, how does an alpha react?Like a regular human being: express your sympathy, offer assistance. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/16 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Broke up with cheating girlfriend, need some adviceI just don't know what to do from here on out. Read. The. Sidebar. I developed such a dependence and reliance on her. And that typically won't work out well for any guy. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/16 07:00 PM |
| 2 | Broke up with cheating girlfriend, need some adviceI just cant help but feel like maybe I'm wrong in some ways, is monogamy really "right"? "Right" is not the correct word. Rather is expected monogamy from your partner typical for most people. The answer is, "yes". The overwhelmingly majority of people (we are talking 98-99%) in a relationship want their partner to remain sexually exclusive. Only about 1-2% of long term relationships are "open", in the sense the partners agree to non-exclusive sexual relations. In your case, your ex simply wante… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/16 06:59 PM |
| 9 | LTR of 2 years at university, defying me knowingly.she has a whore roommate who tries to convince my LTR to cheat on me, and always wants her to to go out clubbing/ to bars with her. This may hurt a bit, be warned... That "whore roommate" is the friend your LTR specifically selected as a confidant and keeps around, 100% by choice. So you should immediately stop paying any attention to what that "whore roommate" is about, and instead contemplate more fully what it means about your LTR that the "whore roomnate" is still in your LTR's life. Your LT… | /r/askTRP | 07/12/16 03:56 PM |
| 3 | Both of us cheated, need some help.And he is giving it to you. You are in this situation because you have not fully taken in the learning available to you on the sidebar. Well, that and you are 18. Your need is not what secret handshake to use here to solve a problem. Your need is to spend time incorporating into your worldview some of the wisdom you can pick up from the sidebar. Read it all. Take the parts that are useful and make sense to you. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/16 12:23 AM |
| 6 | Last night....Don't call her a "plate" if, in fact, in her mind you are in a monogamous relationship with her. If that is the case, she is not a plate, she is a girlfriend you are lying to and cheating on. Don't come her pretending you are plating a gal you are simply sneaking around on and not telling her the score. If she really is a plate---i.e., she knows damn well that you are having sex with other women, because you have been clear about this---what do you care if she wants to look at your phone? It wil… | /r/askTRP | 06/12/16 05:46 PM |
| 8 | In rejection and in friend zone - ignore her and go completely dread or talk to her when she talks to you?There is no rope. There is no "in". There is only her appetite for validation. Don't feed it. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/16 12:32 PM |
| 18 | The 300lb invisible man.Good work, brother. Keep lifting. And consider joining a boxing gym or laid back BJJ workout. (Some gym where guys have fun, play safe, and don't take themselves too seriously.) You will not regret it. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/16 02:49 PM |
| 3 | "Just let her win arguments and everyone will be happy. The guy will never be right." Is this feminism? I see married men saying this all the timeAnd when they get cranky, and say, "What you, some sort of therapist? GTF outta here!", respond calmly with "Hey man, I care, and the way you are talking, it sounds like you have kind of given up being heard by your wife. If so, I feel for you. I hear that from a lot of guys. Some of them turned it around. You ever heard of No More Mr. Nice Guy/Athol Kay/etc.? You should check it out." | /r/askTRP | 05/12/16 02:01 PM |
| 7 | TRP Newbie Ready For Monk Mode!Sorry, but it seems that on this board, monk mode is more properly described as "Hide from reality and pretend it is self-improvement" mode. Unless you have some big life challenge that requires a few months of intense focus (a medical licensing exam, first year of a difficult grad program, training for the Olympics, etc.), there is no need for monk mode stuff. Improving a life is about incremental improvements and daily discipline in most instances, not grand gestures and 8 week programs. Wheth… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/16 01:54 PM |
| 2 | Women getting loud during shittestsGetting louder is typically the way any person---male or female---tests your composure and resolve. Yelling back is one way to respond, but I find the more effective way is to not smile, not yell, and not joke. Rather, a simple, flat, "Why are you yelling?" tends to turn the spotlight back on their conduct. Often the response will be, still yelled "I am not yelling." Just looking at them with a "Oh, really?" expression usually brings the conversation level way back down. Feel free to change the … | /r/askTRP | 05/12/16 01:49 AM |
| 1 | I'm firmly stuck in the denial phase...because I haven't seen TRP happen in real life. How do I move the fuck on?It is very much about vetting. Most women are like most men: not worth much to you and unlikely to treat you well, because they are people, and that is what people do. The number of men and women you will encounter over your lifetime who warrant the deep commitment of friendship or partnership is very, very few. Be very picky in who you call friend or partner. Very picky. The women were the same before and after. They kept going to the same churches, hanging with the same friends, etc. You then … | /r/askTRP | 01/12/16 09:06 PM |
| 1 | I'm firmly stuck in the denial phase...because I haven't seen TRP happen in real life. How do I move the fuck on?Gals in high school would sneak over to my house in high school for some fun, without the boyfriends' knowledge. One time, I double-dated to prom with a gal I had sex with one week before prom. Her boyfriend had no idea. At prom, she and I slipped away to have some fun right there in the dance. Gals with boyfriends would do things like this with me and a scant few other guys I knew of, without any apparent guilt on the part of the gals. And then, when I would see them with their boyfriends later… | /r/askTRP | 01/12/16 07:52 PM |
| 4 | My boss asked me if I was willing to support him firing a guy for insulting the owners behind their backs (the same guy who gave me a really hard time in the past). What should I do?I have no proof of this, just the fact I was there. Your word is proof. It is up to others to assess how credible your word is. Always maintain your reputation as honest and dependable, and your word will be all the proof people need. Fail to maintain such a reputation, and people will not put much worth to your word. In this case, if you have facts (i.e., who, what, where, when, how) to share that you witnesses firsthand, you should be fine. If you have some opinions (i.e., how you "feelz" abou… | /r/askTRP | 01/12/16 07:32 PM |
| 46 | Girl Ive been fucking the past three months says my dick is smallI may or may not have oneitis Magic 8 Ball says you do. I'm thinking of bailing ship. I can't put up with the disrespect. Gee, really? Because she sounds like a keeper.../s | /r/askTRP | 30/11/16 05:29 PM |
| 21 | Trp view on the whole "her past is fucking with me" issue in LTRs??It really only bothers you if (1) go have some oneitis going and (2) the other guy was getting the alpha sex, and you are getting the provider sex. If the gal is losing her mind having sex with you and wild in bed, you won't much care about some poor schlep who got awkward starfish sex from her after prom. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/16 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on backpacking/travelling?If you are burned out by your job, and want more free time to have fun, get a new job. Don't fall into using dramatic acts and geography (i.e., long trip) to solve non-geographic issues. That is classic bad decision-making people too often do: "I hate my current work life demands....so I will drop off the grid for a year!" Nah, just throttle down the work life demands and up your free time by transitioning to something else. Add in more of what you like in life. Also, wandering around with a bac… | /r/askTRP | 29/11/16 03:53 PM |
| 4 | How do I deal with my girlfriends constant bitchy attitude and shit tests?We end up yelling at each other, she gives me the silent treatment and I end up almost 'begging' for forgiveness. So you break frame, scream like a chimp, then sob for forgiveness? Sidebar. Clearly you have not read it I didn't know what to say So say nothing, ignore her shit and change the topic. How did you fix it? Quit calling her. Make her come over to your place, because you never go to hers. When she starts up with her shit, tell her to get out, now, because you are done with her shit. In … | /r/askTRP | 28/11/16 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on backpacking/travelling?but the upsides are potentially endless What upside is there that you cannot achieve via six weeks vacation a year? Find a job that gives you more time off, and go enjoy yourself. I bummed around Europe and the Mediterranean twice in college. It really is not the Life Changing Experience (tm) people sell it as. Frankly, I met a lot of boring people who thought putting visas in their passport was somehow making them cultured, smarter, or something. It wasn't. I enjoyed the places I went. I still … | /r/askTRP | 28/11/16 10:23 PM |
| 4 | Girlfriend cheats on her boyfriend because "she wants to experience". Tells beta boyfriend about the chating, and he takes her back.Now for fairness, she has to pay her BF a night with a high quality escort with her own money. Fairness would be she has to split his resources with the other woman bearing his children, and never complain about it. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/16 03:44 PM |
| 2 | Got stood up, but another chance?Try again. When you meet her, say nothing about the prior flaking or the need to reschedule. Act as though it never happened. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/16 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Married for 7 years. 3 year old daughter (who is my everything). Wife is depressed, in therapy, and abusive. I wonder if TRP will help?Lawyer. Quit getting reddit advice on shit that matters. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/16 06:48 PM |
| 3 | Married for 7 years. 3 year old daughter (who is my everything). Wife is depressed, in therapy, and abusive. I wonder if TRP will help?Call a lawyer. Get a divorce. Before we leave... her father comes up to me, and drops this piece of wisdom.... "No matter what, always stand up for your wife" Tell that asshole to fuck off. Be pissed when you do it. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/16 06:47 PM |
| 16 | Girlfriend wants to bring over guy friend to sleep at our's place90 days into a relationship, she should be brightening her mood with marathon weekends of sex with you. Not a good sign that she is willing to squander that chance for hanging out with another guy. A really bad sign, actually. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/16 01:17 PM |
| 10 | "I don't see you as a man," A girl drops the bitter pill on a beta orbiter.but when he's older I'm going to It will be too late by then to help much. Start when he is very young. Be an example of a solid, dependable guy in his life. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/16 05:47 PM |
| 2 | My BP friend was about to get into a relationship with a girl, but she turned him down. Now he won't stop hanging out with her. How do I tell him it won't work out?The most you ever say to someone repeatedly honing their stupid is to point out the results they are getting from their approach, and ask them if they are going to keep trying the same approach. I find that works with businesspeople I give advice to. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/16 05:19 PM |
| 2 | Former "Friends" InterferringThere is a part of me that wants her to send me a screenshot of the conversation so Why? This is not court, and you don't need to produce evidence. Just delete the guy from you life, and if he ever confronts you, just say, "I saw your text to my gal. We are done." /backturn | /r/askTRP | 22/11/16 02:04 AM |
| 28 | [update] what happened to my fiancéShe contacted me recently Block her. Never speak to her again. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/16 02:02 AM |
| 2 | Tinder shit test"I don't know you well enough to go for that". "Okay." Then move on. (And remember: She would meet Tom Hiddleston in an alley off Skid Row at 3 am.) | /r/askTRP | 18/11/16 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Have you stayed with a cheater after the fact?Why are you posting here? You know you need to dump her and go no contact. There is no magic potion here that will reanimate what she killed when she had sex with another man. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/16 03:29 PM |
| 2 | GF wants to experience uni life and go casual. I'm hurt what to do?You have to make sure you keep it strictly casual. The number of 20-ish guys who can pull this off in this situation is about the same percentage as guys who can double-tomahawk jam a basketball. Better for OP to go the route of no contact. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/16 05:41 PM |
| 0 | Advice on being threatened / Fucked my friend's girlfriendTalk to an attorney about an court order of no contact. If he is making threats to harm you, be proactive and use those threats as evidence in the request for a court order. Court orders tend to throw cold water on everyone except the truly mentally deranged. This guy is not deranged, he is just upset. Will the police care at all about my past drug use? No. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/16 02:05 PM |
| 56 | GF wants to experience uni life and go casual. I'm hurt what to do?This notion that you can "pause" the man's commitment in order to go have sex with other men is a very bizarre thing among the younger crowd today. Where the hell does it come from? It is not like you can actually hit a pause button on such things, despite what Reddit tries to say. I wonder what her attitude would be if he said, "Hey, yeah, you are totally right. I am falling in love with another woman who is just so wonderful. For now, why don't you and I have sex regularly, and I will see how … | /r/askTRP | 17/11/16 01:26 PM |
| 21 | GF wants to experience uni life and go casual. I'm hurt what to do?TL;DR: GF is having sex with other guys. Wants to keep me around for BF duties, whenever she needs them. Duuuuuuump her immediately, and go no contact. All these guys saying, "Oh, be cool and plate her" are not being realistic. The first time it is in your face that she is coming back from sexing someone else, and expects you to now chat with her about whatever inane topic she would blather about to her neutered cuckold, you may well blow a circuit at it. That is just negative mojo in your life,… | /r/askTRP | 17/11/16 01:15 PM |
| 5 | Chick apprehensive about work next day, so I rescheduled date. Told her she needs to make it up to me by sending me selfies. No response for 2 daysI would agree. However... Male hamster alert. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/16 01:57 AM |
| 11 | Guy tries to kiss gf and grabs assme: Ill beat the shit out of him! Fail. Never the response. shes probably gonna see him again due to the mutual friends Then it is on her to make it clear, to the other friends and this guy, that any further attempts to touch her will be met with assault charges. He is not welcome to touch her, and she is "icked" by it. He knows that. So touching her becomes a crime. (No, really, it is.) [I want to] teach this Guy a lesson! What, how to lose your frame and look like a screaming, mate-guarding ch… | /r/askTRP | 16/11/16 05:04 PM |
| 2 | What do you guys think about martial arts?Do martial arts because you enjoy them, if you do, in fact, enjoy them. Don't do it because you think it will make you some super-buff body model. That is more dependent on genetics than the sport you play. (Source: martial artist for 30 years, lifter, and possessor of low body fat) | /r/askTRP | 15/11/16 04:55 PM |
| 2 | Advice for interacting with Plate's with very rich 'rockstar' boyfriend.She is a groupie/plate for him, is my guess, not a GF. Why do you care about interacting with him? Just another guy who is plating your plate. If you care, it is oneitis or mate-guarding rearing its ugly snout. She is not worthy of LTR status, right? So remind yourself that she is not yours, at all. She is just some gal. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/16 12:03 AM |
| 8 | Slowly becoming beta in my relationshipMan, are you getting tested by her. And you are failing, BTW. she said [she] keep[s] picking fights because I'm too clam and she loves to see me angry it shows I care. Calmly tell her---once---that she will be dumped if she doesn't get over that need to piss you off, because it is a very unattractive trait. Next time she does it, just say, "remember what I said?" And then change the topic and ignore any attempt to re-initiate the argument. Leave if she won't drop it. She constantly gets hit on b… | /r/askTRP | 08/11/16 04:01 PM |
| 26 | Successful 30+ olds. What is your number 1 'tip' for any rep piller in their early 20s.Get your sleep, eat right, exercise 5-6 days a week. When you exercise, do things you like, so you keep doing it. When you eat right, eat things you like (totally possible), so you don't need to "diet". Good health is a key component to a good life. Focus on your overall career, not just your job. I started work in factories and cleaning toilets. By 29, I was working in a glass tower in a world-class city, doing things people make movies about. But in my teens, I was laying the foundation for th… | /r/askTRP | 04/11/16 07:44 PM |
| 6 | GF is up for a threesome, but with another dude. No thanks.Next time it comes up... You are still dating a woman who wanted to have sex with another guy, while you watch? M'kay. Your call, but I know what I would do. | /r/askTRP | 03/11/16 07:41 PM |
| 1 | BPD ex called the police on me for 'posting her nudes' to 'shame'I just want to know if there's anything I should do to prevent this from going further. Have a lawyer send her a letter telling her to stop claiming you are engaged in such conduct and that any further claims on her part, or any further attempts to contact you, will be grounds for legal action on your part. | /r/askTRP | 03/11/16 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Competing with celebrity?You her beta. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/16 11:19 AM |
| 2 | College Application - Suspension Explanation(1) Too many words. In order to justify their job, the people you are sending this to depend on finding opportunities for fighting the modern collegiate evil of young males accused of sexual predation. Since their mortgage payment depends on finding that evil, frequently, every word you say is scrutinized to see if it permits further actions against you. Her accusations are NOT read in a similar way, but rather her words are taken totally at face value, and perhaps even rounded "up" to something… | /r/askTRP | 31/10/16 07:10 PM |
| 2 | What high intensity sports/hobbies do you do?Leaving a gut pile near near where you hunt is a great way to attract coyotes, wolves, and other things that would also like to kill your intended prey. Burying the guts helps, but better not to leave all that gore there, to attract other predators. So no, I try not to do that where I may still hunt again. | /r/askTRP | 31/10/16 03:39 PM |
| 4 | What high intensity sports/hobbies do you do?Weights, grappling/combat sports, hunting (ever drag 180 pounds of dead animal a quarter mile through wild-growth woods? Now that is a workout). | /r/askTRP | 31/10/16 01:06 PM |
| 9 | Do women really cheat as much as reddit says?Whomever you choose to get into a LTR relationship with, any number of bad outcomes can result. Cancer or other mortal illness. Drinking problem. Infidelity. Monetary profligacy. Surprising maternal ineptitude. Ongoing depressive lethargy. Obsessing about whether someone you date will, over the course of years and years, have sex with another person is a really bad idea. What you should be focused on is what goals you have, and how a particular person will fit in with them. Having a lazy, drunke… | /r/askTRP | 31/10/16 12:55 PM |
| 3 | "We have the emotional, but not the physical"I think a problem a lot of men have is that they base their value on how successful they are with women. That's just sad. I definitely learned a major lesson and am going to really focus on internalizing my worth, not seeking validation at the end of my dick. Are you here to troll or what? You were looking for a sexual partner. This gal did not want the job. Nexting a person who simply doesn't want to have sex with you is perfectly fine, gentlemen, and is typically the proper course. Always reme… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/16 02:23 PM |
| 2 | Down the rabbit hole.Is my LTR an alpha widow?She rode the cock carousel. Her first boyfriend was pretty alpha. Hooked up with me, in her late thirties. being honest, my game has slipped. I should have vetted harder to begin with. I don't think there are any questions you need to ask of us. You already know enough. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/16 12:40 PM |
| 4 | Any advice on how to prevent mental time being spent on slander from my ex during our blue pill divorce?So yeah, accept that she was having an affair with this guy, and that your marriage ended because you were no longer going to look the other way. If her family wants to hamster all that away, fine. You cannot get others to accept your view of things. Don't bother trying. Accept that her family is going to reinterpret things in ways that make her the heroine, and you the villain. Their view of the marital breakup does not affect you in any way that you should care about any longer. All you can do… | /r/askTRP | 26/10/16 04:28 PM |
| 2 | What to say when a girl talks about another guy?No. Not if you don't make a scene about the whole thing. In general, when someone starts saying stupid or boring things that waste your time, the best response is to nod, look at your watch, and explain that you have another commitment, and it was nice seeing them. Then leave their company soon after. People will either figure out to stop saying boring or stupid things, or not. There is no rule that you have to keep hanging out with people who are wasting your time. That is true for business and… | /r/askTRP | 26/10/16 04:23 PM |
| 1 | What to say when a girl talks about another guy?You could do what you should do every time someone starts talking about boring, pointless stuff: excuse yourself because you have better things to attend to in life. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/16 12:29 PM |
| 1 | I never had the chance to party hard, get wasted, and live the hedonist lifestyle in college. How difficult would it be for me to make up for lost time in my 30s?It seems like according to TRP, in your 30s, you become a boring, bitter, and cynical shut in that hates partying, chasing women, socializing, and getting laid. Show three examples. You somehow become a loner that takes pleasure in lonely hobbies, doesn't have any good friends, is very bitter towards life, and sees himself as way beyond partying and drinking and getting laid. Show three examples. Or GTFO, because in truth, it is clear you are full of shit. This sub does not promote or suggest th… | /r/askTRP | 25/10/16 07:00 PM |
| 4 | Married and want a divorce since TRPQuit your simpering. Divorce her if you don't want to stay married. Her being pregnant doesn't change that. It just means that if don't divorce, you'll be miserable and a father married to a woman you don't want to be married to. The alternative is you are still being a father, without being married to a woman who makes you miserable. Oh, and paternity test, of course. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/16 05:55 PM |
| 34 | There is a girl in my community who falsely accuses men of rape and harassment. How should I handle the situation?Hire a lawyer. Have him send her a letter outlining her behavior and demanding it stop. Have the lawyer share that letter with the coop, and insist that the coop ban her from further participation in the community. Couch it in terms of a harassing, somewhat disturbed woman with a history of malicious, false conduct. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/16 04:49 PM |
| 2 | Late Night Realization about LTRAm i resisting the red pill?Why do i feel this way? Mix of sunk cost fallacy and denial. Keep staring at reality unflinchingly and it gets easier over time. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/16 11:59 AM |
| 2 | Orbiting Ex GFYou are the beta bux who she will use for boyfriend privileges---rides, emotioanl support, etc.---while she chases hot times with hotter guys. There is no "why" she does this to explore or explain beyond she wants what she wants. And she wants this, it appears. Your only choice is to go no contact or play the role of chump she wants out of you. Never take her back. Never give her status above a ONS. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/16 07:49 PM |
| 1 | GIRLFRIEND WITHDREW SEX FOR THE FIRST TIME!Cut the strings Yes. make her my puppet. Why should you give that much concern to that? You should be too busy focused on your career, physical condition, social network, hobbies, investments, etc. to worry about whether she is your puppet or not. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/16 12:53 PM |
| 1 | GIRLFRIEND WITHDREW SEX FOR THE FIRST TIME!The worst case of oneitis seen here in a while. You are doing everything wrong. Read the sidebar again, and again. You have absorbed nothing from it. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/16 12:43 PM |
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