Little back story: for the past year my ex while with me was cheating on me with an ex friend of mine. I found out, broke up with her and fucked her a few times after till I had enough and stopped talking to her.

My last message to her was, "we will catch up and talk in January next year", this being late October - early November. From that last message I found out a little later from a mutual friend, that my ex and my ex friend became a couple.

I knew it was best that I should not catch up with her again, so I went no contact and haven't spoken to her since, she then spammed me a week later saying over and over "it would be good if we could catch up, so I can return your stuff and talk"

This year, my ex texted me again, two weeks ago out of the blue saying how much it's killing her seeing photos of me and also how I told her after we broke up that we would talk in January. I haven't replied to her yet.

(I reckon it would be good to fuck her, make her a plate while she's with that guy and let him find out over the months. I don't see the point of getting revenge on her cause it's her nature but him. I know this will hurt him bad.) That would be my idea of a little revenge.

In the time between breaking up and now, I've been in a monk (bulking, reading, riding my bicycle and gyming) I've also started school.

This has just been recently, so the thoughts have just come over these last day.

If you were in my position what would you do?

Tldr: basic bitch ex comes back after a few months and wants to catch and talk.