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| 15 | My LTR of 2 years admitted she doesn’t want me to be in better shape than her.She's feeling your dread and she doesn't like knowing that you can hop into bed with someone else and especially one hotter than her. This phenomenon, betafying, is pretty common. I've seen great men stop coming to the gym, get fat, then have their girl dump them later. Here's a tip - she may start getting jealous and suggesting insane situations are occurring at the gym (or wherever other place you like to go that makes her feel insecure), such as - "Was Becky there? That slut whose all over yo… | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Getting Rid of a Single MomI want to just rid get of her because she's already starting to put a dent in my time, and all of the affection she shows towards me after one date and pretty unattractive. Then do that. I'm not even going to get into the huge mistake you made with giving the light of day to what is a sea of red flags. Even if those didn't exist, and this is how you feel, do it. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 09:41 PM |
| 12 | We're Right and You're WrongYou shouldn't be surprised by this. We are in a society hell-bent on "satisfying" every conceivable desire instantly. Porn, social media, video games, in the palm of your hand 24 hours a day. All of those deliberately structure the product in a way to satisfy those quick dopamine rushes, like a slot machine's algorithm. 3 months, let alone two years, of disciplined dedication to something is almost unfathomable to most people. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/19 07:06 PM |
| 2 | Shit testYes, it is a sign sex is on her mind. And an obvious one since she by necessity had to first think about sex prior to writing a text message about sex. Also, her text doesn't purport to even rule out sex on the first date, but seems to suggest you can probably fuck but you're going to have at least make her a snack or something. Usually you get, "I'm not sleeping with you", by comparison. You handled this fine and especially knowing this context. Subject to the usual caveats (outcome independenc… | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 06:28 PM |
| 3 | How to deal with knowledge that my ltr gets groped/grabbed at the clubI made a deal with her that she could only go as long as she stays sober. This is all I need to know. This is go back to basics stuff. The fact you're negotiating with your gf as if she is a dude and able to make and honour "deals" like this is a fundamental mistake. You can't negotiate her behaviour by coming to an oral contract. Women either want to please you or don't. If you make it known you don't want to go to clubs, if she earnestly wanted to please you she wouldn't go and would do stuff … | /r/askTRP | 18/04/19 06:22 PM |
| 2 | Reminder: Tinder success is a measure of real life dating successThis is incel-worthy, and bannable. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/19 04:47 PM |
| 3 | Broke it off with LTR, all my “friends” trying to fuck her not even a week laterLate to the party, but take this as a learning experience. This is interesting because ordinarily on this sub the problem is the opposite - girl fucks around with a mutual friend or something. In that situation, the solution should be obvious to the readership. This here is one that, as you can see from the responses, can be handled in different ways, but consider it a watershed moment in your understanding of fellow men. Lots of dudes will pull this stunt to their fucking brother if they could,… | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 06:12 PM |
| 2 | Dating a pornstar?I had a similar situation. I plated a high end escort. Not in the same place but when she was in town we'd do the dirty and hang out, typically once every three months. Outside of the typical considerations (wrapping it up, etc.) I was okay with it. But it was without question a plate with no future considerations beyond that. If you got the frame, abundance mentality and common sense, to make sure it stays as a plate, have at her I say. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/19 03:27 AM |
| 2 | Girl opened me and i fucked up itI don't think this is that big of a fail. I would almost never immediately push in this situation in my frat-like college days as I like to make them work a bit more. Casually running into her again, presuming she's into you, and some other similar banter occurs and you slip in something like "by my count you already me one", or whatever. She then knows you remember her, are interested, but not that interested to break up your bro time. | /r/askTRP | 25/02/19 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Got insulted over text. What went wrong ?Well I already did summarize it - one text for every two/three from her. It's not so much a rule as it is a baseline I suppose. I dont know who came up with that one first. It's pretty basic. Roosh, Chateau Heartiste maybe. Its a pretty foundational guideline. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/19 04:20 AM |
| 3 | Got insulted over text. What went wrong ?"Only one?" "Yes, why do you ask ?" Should have left it here, and waited for her to text you again to get a real sense of what's up. For the record I don't think your final text was cringeworthy bad or anything, but a tad long. If you had left it here, kept the ball in her court more, then you'd probably have had better success. There's a reason we talk about having around a 1 for 2 or 1 for 3 base rule for text messages. If she is interested, she will make it known. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 09:12 PM |
| 5 | Chicks with boyfriendsDude, you're going to have to go one level of inception deeper - these are the only girls you've fucked where you knew they had boyfriends. Any dude with a respectable N-count has fucked girls with boyfriends and you're none the wiser. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 09:02 PM |
| 2 | Discussing dress sense with Ltr in general for relationshipsThis is it. I sometimes think this place overemphasizes the need for witty A&A comebacks when, I'd say something like 75% of the time, its not needed. Ignore altogether. Or just respond, "what?" and just move on to some other topic. Sure, responding, "what? so you want me to dress you every morning?" could work, but most of the time it's just ignore stupid questions like this. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 08:52 PM |
| 7 | Wonderint HB 9 Latina plate has some psych issues?This is fairly standard operating procedure these days. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/19 03:58 PM |
| 4 | What is it with women and their frame recovery after a breakup?At best it's a nuclear comfort test. At worst, she actually is loopy enough to think this an appropriate 180 to pull based on feels. Could be either really. Dont stick around to find out. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/19 07:54 PM |
| 10 | Searching for "mens rights" now shows TwoXChromosomes, metacanada, and AskFeminists, extended search shows MR after againstmensrights 7 subs down.The only times I see racist views are about 5 minutes before the mods remove them and ban the user. | /r/MensRights | 12/01/19 04:07 AM |
| 25 | Searching for "mens rights" now shows TwoXChromosomes, metacanada, and AskFeminists, extended search shows MR after againstmensrights 7 subs down./r/metacanada is not racist at all. I just suspect people think being conservative in any way infers racism, which is the liberal trick you seem to have fallen for. | /r/MensRights | 12/01/19 04:04 AM |
| 3 | The Feminist Reaction to Day GameNo you're missing his point. Why are you giving validation to what women feel about issues when it's a complete and total waste of time. There is a huge difference between observing what women say and do and posting that here with comments, and then doing the retarded thing and engaging them with it. If you've learned anything, absolutely anything, online Twitter "feminists" bent on "smashing the patriarchy" are not to be engaged with since nothing you say matters to them. Its a waste of time. F… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/18 11:59 PM |
| 9 | Don't Get Cucked By CuckservativesOf course. I didn't even get into that conservatives have demonstrated a lack of will to be conflictual since they have now adopted being good boy conflict adverse faggots (which was another theme in your post) because we can only do one thing at a time here. I often think back to the Authoritarian Personality you brought my attention to. The fact of the matter is, the cuckservatives I see today are too conflict adverse (which is contrary to masculine natural traits) to be effective. Compromisin… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/18 04:48 AM |
| 4 | Don't Get Cucked By CuckservativesWell it's part of theme, but no problem. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/18 03:13 AM |
| 12 | Don't Get Cucked By CuckservativesYou're completely missing the damn point. Its "conservatives" who have dropped the balls more than anything since they're always compromising and pandering to entrenched interests. "I'm a conservative but I'm going to proudly go to Gay Pride with my children and watch trannies and degenerates wave their dicks around" should never be uttered, but that's what cuckservstives do now. "I'm conservative but I wont do anything about illegal immigration because my whore lobbyists from the banks told me … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/18 03:08 AM |
| 5 | Going on vacation for two weeks without LTR, worried about her cheatingYou have a long way to go here son. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/18 09:02 PM |
| 19 | PSA: How To Know You've Been Settled For.True, those words are a giveaway. But in reality there is a simple test: how enthusiastically and frequently are you fucking her? Women are not enthusiastic when fucking the "safe choice" but will often concede to occasional duty sex to preserve the BB. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/12/18 06:13 PM |
| 9 | It's cool r/niceguys. Let that NiceGuy™ (who's obviously a horrible person for wanting better for his friend) know he can find her on our sub along with the hundreds of women who rejected guys like him for jerks.I'm just emphasizing being direct. You can't let women drag out the grey area. Men should go in from second 1 making it clear what the intentions are. If it doesn't work out, move on. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 12/12/18 06:21 PM |
| 23 | It's cool r/niceguys. Let that NiceGuy™ (who's obviously a horrible person for wanting better for his friend) know he can find her on our sub along with the hundreds of women who rejected guys like him for jerks.This is on the guy though. He should know better. It's him putting up with being in the friendzone and attraction cannot be negotiated. It makes no difference if he perceives himself as a responsible partner but she isn't into him. I don't maintain friendships with girls I want to fuck who won't. I just don't do it. He would be much better off to be direct with her, getting shut down, then forgetting about her and moving on to some other thot. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 12/12/18 06:11 PM |
| 9 | "My boyfriend told me I was everything he wanted in a partner, and I told him I loved how safe he was. Because I had a habit of choosing bad boys and athletes who were fun but unpredictable. But now I wanted someone who would be a good father, and have a steady job. He packed a bag and left."Yep. That was the killer for me too. This might be the best example of a chick AF/BB'ing who has no idea she is doing it. I hope he dumps the bitch. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 12/12/18 06:07 PM |
| 6 | The path to spinsterhoodThat charm is even less in 30 year olds though. I don't find jaded and/or baby-crazy charming. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 01/12/18 04:50 PM |
| 3 | I'm a snapchat "model" to sell sexual content. Decent jobs doesn't pay me well. Men don't take me seriously.I fucked a girl a few times who was an assistant in a professional atmosphere. Her not being a professional herself but working for a reputable company. I decided to Google her for shits and she has a private Instagram but her publicly available profile pic is her without a shirt on showing her lying down. Showing tattoos as well. How fucking dumb do you have to be? One Google search and she'd be canned I'm sure. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/11/18 04:45 PM |
| 36 | The path to spinsterhoodThere is another problem though (several I'm sure). I'm in my mid 30s and I was a varsity athlete in my 20s, now have a good job, still fit, money, etc. Put another way, I'm not exactly a beta bux and I was a Chad-like figure in my 20s. Specifically for women in their 30s who are unattached is that they're outcompeted. I haven't met a mid-30s woman (absent extreme exceptions) that can compete with a 25 year old. Think about going to a bar - they're never the hottest in the bar anymore, so, why? … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/11/18 04:27 PM |
| 3 | How do you deal with the girls with lots of guy "friends"?Plate only. I view this as a major red flag (and an extension of the red flag of girls without long term friends - absent a move of some sort). See. The thing about women is that they filter each other. For better or worse, they're very judgmental about each other. It's women that judge other women, not so much men. The reason being - men will often maintain cordial relations with a shitty girl if they want to fuck her, or are fucking them. At the very least she is maintained as the token girl o… | /r/askTRP | 26/11/18 07:13 PM |
| 2 | Two Plates at the Same PartyAh yes. Fuck have I been here. Here's what i do. You're very lucky this is a big party (I've been in much closer quarters). Here's my advice in a nutshell - 1) Under no circumstance lie. Dont do it. If it comes up, it comes up, and dont make a big deal of it. Do the best you can to keep the light atmosphere through agree and amplify and so on. 2) Now that that is out of the way, just do your best so it doesnt come up and hopefully the problem goes away. Hang out with your bros, do fun shit, chat… | /r/askTRP | 24/11/18 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Does Geography really matter in meeting people?Yes. It is a crucial component. Both on a macro level (availability of options) and micro level (whether you close or not). | /r/askTRP | 23/11/18 10:25 PM |
| 1 | New GF texting a guy she met at the clubParty girls are not fit for anything but FWB at most. Next morning I checked her phone, found out she was texting a guy with very flirty messages she met at the club. Next part one. Also texted shit about me to her friends, with they calling me baby and all. All while she was sleeping with me in the bed. Next part two with extreme prejudice. This is literally cut contact type of next. I wouldn't even tolerate that from a bottom-drawer plate, let alone a gf. Stop acting like a baby, dump her. and… | /r/askTRP | 23/11/18 05:35 PM |
| 3 | Disrespectful plate snaps me a pic of another guys bedsheetsI think you handled this well enough, but this is either a hard next or hard demotion. By demotion I mean, stop entertaining any semblance of behaviour that she is anything more than the lowest drawer plate. I.e., if she texts you ignore most of the time, or purely invite over for sex, and then kick her out after. This is pretty manipulative behaviour of her, and you'd be better off hard nexting I say. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/18 08:17 PM |
| 2 | Closure Is BullshitI think the 'yet' there is because she likes the idea of him still trying for and/or orbiting. She deliberately wrote that to fuck with his head. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/18 08:34 PM |
| 2 | Am I stuck in the frame of this woman seeing me as her son's friend?I asked if she was down for lunch on Monday, since I'm moving to another city. Well... What did she say? I think this entire adventure of yours is fucking dumb for the record. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/18 01:43 AM |
| 6 | From your experience, In order to maintain a life filled with progress, friendships and sex. What’s the optimal number of plates. How often should they spin?Subjectively, three. But that's of various degrees of seriousness. One I might hang out with on a weekly basis, with two being booty call types. Usually one of those is a monthly or less basis. Whose got the damn time for more? | /r/askTRP | 18/11/18 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Should i even waste time getting the number first on OLD?I say yes. I think it's annoying using a damn app to communicate. You should close on the number virtually immediately after a match to cut to the chase. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/18 01:37 AM |
| 5 | Confused. Should I just next her?Next. She's just not that into you. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/18 06:26 PM |
| 3 | Confused. Should I just next her?This might be a next, but you might want to try a different strategy and see what comes of that: Try texting her while you're somewhere and say something to the effect of 'you should come here'. This has worked for me in the past with these types, so give it a whirl. The caution here is do this once, maybe twice. Do not overdo it, as it looks (and is) needy if you do it more than that. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/18 06:14 PM |
| 6 | Plate of 1 month asks me if I only see her for sex.I think this is a shit test 90% of the time, damn near 100% of she has only been a plate for a month. I have had it a few times and normally deflect with something like, "well the sex and the (insert thing she did once for you)". For example, "well sex and the pizza you brought me that time". | /r/askTRP | 15/11/18 01:11 AM |
| 10 | Why are there so many single women today? Because there are too few good men out there. And women deserve a good man.WE WON’T PUT UP WITH BS. Yes they fucking will. They put up with 'bullshit' from a guy they like as if it is drinking lattes at Starbucks. I plated one of these girls more than once and the shit I got away with is startling. Even young thots dont put up with some of the shit these harpies will take for one fucking night | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 12/11/18 09:46 PM |
| 5 | What do you bring to the table, to make you "deserve better"?I just hate feeling like someone's "second choice" hate feeling like someone's second choice someone's second choice welcome to the world beta bux lives in everyday | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/11/18 07:58 AM |
| 3 | the meaning behind "Broken goods"Good analysis. Broken goods can be fixed, but not by you. I think this is the strongest, practical takeaway. It is sometimes cheapened to say, 'don't stick your dick in crazy' because, well, who among us hasn't done it for Ms. Perky Tits before? Broken goods may be able to be fixed, but not by you. If anyone has been with someone who is five-star fucked in the head, you know exactly what is meant. I'm not interested in playing the roles of partner, babysitter, and therapist, with a potential par… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/18 04:23 AM |
| 8 | CNN: What if women went on a sex strike before the midterms?However in the west 1/5 is chemically lobotomized on anti depressants. And closer to half are chemically lobotomized if we use the broad definition of 'anti depressant' to include alcoholism. There is a link right now being debated at the Canada subreddit about growing concern with rapid increase of heavy drinking in women. Now, of course the data of this article is not surprising to any man in this sub. Spinsters, alpha-widows, biological lack of self-control, pretty much all of it is contribut… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/18 04:16 AM |
| 11 | [27F] "My husband is divorcing me because of a sex tape I made in the past. What's especially damaging was that in the video I was more vocal and did things that I don't do with my husband." Lots of comments supporting OP and criticizing the husband. (Follow-up post in comments)It's that but I think there's even more here that pisses off the beta, and this is where her solipsism comes into play. She knows that doing everything she can sexually, pleases her man. She did with Mark. She admits it - 'I did everything he wanted because I wanted him to love me.' But now, she isn't willing to do everything she can to please betabux. She does some things, but her level of commitment on the sexual front is lower. Far lower. That's what pisses him off. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/10/18 12:51 AM |
| 55 | [27F] "My husband is divorcing me because of a sex tape I made in the past. What's especially damaging was that in the video I was more vocal and did things that I don't do with my husband." Lots of comments supporting OP and criticizing the husband. (Follow-up post in comments)The thing is the women (and betamales) responding to OP have not figured this out. It isn't jealousy necessarily, it isn't insecurity, it's that the dude likes getting his cock sucked and coming on her face, and she'd do that for Mark because she knew it was important to him and it would make him happy with her, but she won't do it for betabux even tho it's important to him and would also make him happy with her. Put another way, if she put half as much effort into pleasing betabux sexually as s… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/10/18 08:23 PM |
| 94 | [27F] "My husband is divorcing me because of a sex tape I made in the past. What's especially damaging was that in the video I was more vocal and did things that I don't do with my husband." Lots of comments supporting OP and criticizing the husband. (Follow-up post in comments)Lots of good comments here, but to focus on the most important aspect: From the Post: Mark was a guy I dated in the past, he was the first guy that I thought I loved. With him I did a lot of stuff I wasn’t comfortable with but I did because I wanted his love and attention. And a later comment: no that isn't the case at all. The things I did with Mark that I don't do with my husband are things I legitimately did not enjoy, but only did for Mark's pleasure so he wouldn't leave me. This is crucial,… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/10/18 08:06 PM |
| 2 | What I learned from approaching over 100 women5 and 7 are wrong. The rest are okay. 5 is true for some but not nearly, not near the majority. 30 plus just have higher standards because, yes, they tend to also be looking for a provisioner. By this I mean, her at 20 care at all, her at 30 cares to an extent. Be fit and frame enough and it's generally fine. Put another way - 30 year olds care more about whether your clothes are fitted than a 20 year old. 7 is just wrong. Subject to the caveat she may be more worried if there is a possibility s… | /r/askTRP | 21/10/18 11:48 PM |
| 10 | How Can Women Find Good Men? By Fixing Themselves.I think broads can even get away without doing the full stomach. Just don't bitch and empty balls | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/10/18 02:17 AM |
| 17 | How Can Women Find Good Men? By Fixing Themselves.Stop bitching is just good advice end of sentence. This post reminds of me of an old radio show episode of Tom Leykis'. He was talking about his normal shit and a Latina stripper called in. She then talked about how the strip club was mostly men unhappy in their marriages because their wives are constantly bitching at them. Her advice to women was essentially 1) fuck your husband ; 2) Stop bitching. I mean let's face it. Most guys and I mean most guys would be perfectly fine in their marriages i… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 17/10/18 11:47 PM |
| 5 | SHIT TEST MEGATHREADMy absolute favorite move on this one is to simply drink it when they hand it to you. LOL I used to do this all the fucking time back in college when I drank more. A kindred spirit. Man, that was always a solid play. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/18 11:38 PM |
| 5 | Why are so many smart and attractive women still rolling solo? It must be because they are too awesome! /sSmart? Graduate Degrees? Good job? We don't care- and if we do care about such things, you would automatically disqualify us. Checkmate. And honestly, I've reached the point that the opposite is true. I have a semi-serious list of professions that if women do I don't think it would be possible to have a serious relationship with. I actually disqualify based on credentials in other words (absent checking every other box hard I suppose, but I've never seen it). The big three: Lawyers, Nurses, and … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 09/10/18 02:33 AM |
| 1 | How to game chick that knows your gameThots (and she’s a bartender, she’s a fucking thot) don’t care if they know you’re a player or not. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/18 07:28 PM |
| 17 | Tara Reid >>42-years-old<<, sees children and a husband in her future, but not right now as she is having fun!She's come an awful long way from the hot blonde in American Pie. And yes, by long way I mean - long way filled with drugs, alcohol, cigarettes, and cocks. She has aged horrendously. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 29/08/18 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Entertainment Can Cuck You Without You Even Realizing ItI’m actually of the same mind, but to an even further extreme. I got rid of my Netflix because I watched it so infrequently. I looked and hadn’t watched something on it in six or seven months and then saw the last real watch was when I had a friend stay with me for a bit. I think the sitting around binging Netflix behaviour is shit. I’m also in my 30s so I don’t need the ‘Netflix and chill’ thing at this point in my life. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/18 06:25 PM |
| 74 | For Online Daters, Women Peak at 18 While Men Peak at 50, Study Finds.I actually feel sorry for some of the young broad associates in my firm. They’re in a constant state of ‘well next year I’ll have time to settle down’. Fast forward five years. They’re far less attractive and now bitter alcoholic harpies. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/18 06:15 PM |
| 2 | Im trying to get with this girl but she hit me with the "not really looking for a FWB though" when i asked her to come hangout at my place. Need some guidance on how to proceed.Yes and this is one of the most frequent shit tests on the planet, and it’s been addressed hundreds of times here. You ignore these comments and continue as-was. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/18 07:55 PM |
| 2 | Im trying to get with this girl but she hit me with the "not really looking for a FWB though" when i asked her to come hangout at my place. Need some guidance on how to proceed.She responded to me with "shes not really looking for a fwb and she's doesn't know exactly what I want" referring to if i wanted a possible relationship or not. How do i proceed? Amateur hour here. How do you proceed? You pretend she didn’t say that. Ignore that comment altogether. I would usually respond by saying, ‘so Saturday, then?’ Or whatever | /r/askTRP | 17/08/18 07:50 PM |
| 4 | Vetting: How it should work.Well as answered by /u/SirKolbath, men and women are different dontcha know? It’s the N-Count for women that matters, not men. By that I mean - it is inverse. However, there’s almost no chance you’ve travelled more than I have. I was a foreign service brat (four countries) and fucking age in two of them long term. Travelled to all of them since multiple times, and have worked in two others since graduating. Currently travel inside the country about once a month and outside two or three times a y… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/18 02:15 AM |
| 1 | Vetting: How it should work.You're not a chick, is the key difference | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/18 05:41 PM |
| 6 | Vetting: How it should work.That's my feeling as well. Even the perhaps least harmful thing (full ass on social media) would be immediate crimson, blood red flag, for me. Let alone the other shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/18 02:49 PM |
| 53 | Vetting: How it should work.Interesting situation but these are obvious red flags, even before the prison-bomb was dropped. Single mom - red flag Three kids? Huge red flag Hard drug use - red flag Ass pic on social media among others? Red flag These aren’t subtle at all. And it’s not exactly groundbreaking to tell us to use social media and ask around to get background info. The best way when it isn’t in your face is get a few drinks and social engineer by pretending to be cool and ‘sex-positive’ and just get her to reveal… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/18 01:03 PM |
| 2 | All day I dream about sex with another person: "Your feelings are absolutely normal, healthy and justified"I'm not sure they 'dont give a fuck'. I think they give less fucks than the fucks given if he 'falls in love' with another woman. Men are the opposite. I've actually seen that in a friend who ultimately got divorced but his first question was 'did you fuck him' when she eventually confessed. It was the affirmative to that question which ended the relationship, not whether she loved the other man or not. The point being, it seems obvious then why chick therapists are recommending cuckoldry since … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/08/18 05:24 PM |
| 7 | All day I dream about sex with another person: "Your feelings are absolutely normal, healthy and justified"Another chose a hall pass for the summer. This is cuckoldry, as we all know. It is also feminine imperative and does not work for men, but works very well for women in a biological sense. If you head over to TRP and search around a bit, someone posted a good article awhile ago about the biological effects on men and women when it comes to infidelity, and specifically types of infidelity - emotional v physical affairs. The study found that the biological indicators of anger (perspiration, increas… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/08/18 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Have some of you experienced PE and/or ED and defeated them? If yes, how?Yes, I quit smoking altogether about ten years ago. Any is bad, but 3 a day probably isn't the end of the world. The problem is it starts at 3 a day, and then it's a little more and so on. I have a friend who manages to have one in the evening every night and he's fine. But he doesn't smoke while drinking or anything like that. I cannot. It's all or nothing for me. Or at least it was back then. Smoking is bad for getting your dick hard because it fucks up your blood vessels, making it harder for… | /r/askTRP | 06/08/18 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Skinny fat, Cut instead of bulkIndeed. I currently only use protein powder with water during work hours, but I feel I might actually be able to do fish/chicken/turkey fillets. I'm just getting used to my Instant Pot. This thing brings frozen fish fillets to edible in about 12 minutes all in, let alone the other meats in there with little to no effort. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/18 10:20 PM |
| 13 | [27F] "There's something innately weird about men having short flings with me but never calling me their official girlfriend. So seeing other people having serious relationships makes me feel really empty, depressed and that I've somehow missed the boat." (r/TwoXChromosomes)Its not even unusual. Inflated self-value is the norm, rather than the exception, in women. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/08/18 10:12 PM |
| 1 | LTR & Weed HabitIf that aint working, looks like demote bro. Again, if she only started this a month ago,maybe give her another month to see if she will defer to you / grow out of it (don't know how long you've been together), but there you go. For what its worth, I got a girl to quit that because I would be going out, working out, playing sports, doing shit, all the time when a girl who was plate was smoking weed, and I constantly teased her she'd never be as busy as me smoking weed and she gave it up. I event… | /r/askTRP | 05/08/18 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Converting Matches to LaysThe Key Indicator is: to what degree has their profile been filled out. Irrelevant factor. Most of the best chicks have nothing. Single mom harpies have their life story. I get a bunch of responses and phone numbers. But can’t get to many meet ups especially with the 8s-10s. The problem is you are shitty at setting up dates, not anything to do with profiles. Set up the fucking date. "We're going here [some hotel bar, or whatever] this night. You coming?" | /r/askTRP | 05/08/18 10:00 PM |
| 5 | Have some of you experienced PE and/or ED and defeated them? If yes, how?Diet and have lower body fat (body fat decreases testosterone, because it absorbs it, generally). Also, lower the alcohol and especially don't smoke. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/18 09:51 PM |
| 11 | help me bang this girlGuyzz, helpme try to get grrillzzz Sidebar | /r/askTRP | 05/08/18 09:44 PM |
| 5 | Soft nexted a girl who always checks my snaps. Reflections on last dateI can't even get through this without seeing what appears to be millenial-grade autism: She always checks my snap stories though, whats up with that? Im planning on just continuing no contact and forget about her. And? What do you care? And why are you counting tallies on who looks at your 'snaps'? I take a picture of her and so does she take one of me. As we're walking to the car, i say lets take a picture and i ask a guy to take a pic of us. So you can post it somewhere? Tinder? You later indi… | /r/askTRP | 05/08/18 08:39 PM |
| 2 | LTR & Weed HabitBeing insanely generous, I would give it a little longer than a month and see if she eventually tires of this phase. This is your best case scenario, and its very unlikely. Slightly more realistic? If this is an LTR you can try laying down the law. Ultimatums don't work, so don't frame it that way. Just sort of make fun of her for being a pothead and sitting around watching Netflix all day, or even say - stoners are losers or something. It's a fine line here because you don't want to appear butt… | /r/askTRP | 05/08/18 08:14 PM |
| 3 | Demote or Next.I'd keep around as a plate and pretend it didn't happen, as I feel this was a form of shit test to get a rise out of you. This is extremely common among plates if you claim to be spinning quite a few. This type of shit is a dime a dozen. My vote: Keep as plate, with a hard never promote status, until it fades away naturally as they do. I presume, of course, I don't need to explain to you why this woman is not fit for any sort of relationship. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/18 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Women don't want their partner to be more physically attractive then herI understand that. The point Im making is your theory needs to add on that its not only if the starting point is a 6 chick with a 8 dude, the chick will avoid due to the perceived SMV difference. Sometimes they will stay notwithstanding the difference because they've deluded themselves the dude is equal to her in SMV, and in those circumstances the inevitable result is betafication. She innately (but deludes herself not to actually) knows you're higher hence she will try to bring you down to her… | /r/askTRP | 05/08/18 07:33 PM |
| 2 | How to get disciplined?Everyone is different, but two that helped me: 1) Literally, not figuratively, write down goals. I do yearly at the beginning of the year, monthly at the beginning of the month, and daily at the beginning of each week. Check them off at the end of each day what you have accomplished. Eventually, the routine will give you a sense of pride in and of itself. The first time you have a full week with everything checked off feels wonderful. 2) If you're really in a rut, change your living circumstance… | /r/askTRP | 05/08/18 07:30 PM |
| 49 | [27F] "There's something innately weird about men having short flings with me but never calling me their official girlfriend. So seeing other people having serious relationships makes me feel really empty, depressed and that I've somehow missed the boat." (r/TwoXChromosomes)After the sob story, she edits it and here we have it: It seems a lot of you are acting like think I work some dead end job and live in my parents' basement. So just FYI. I'm a track and field athlete and have competed in university pageants. I'm also finishing up a PhD. I speak 6 languages and have lived in 4 countries. Worked in 2 high paying jobs/the United nations/been on television, all by the age of 27. Let's presume all of this is true and read the tea leaves. She has a decent body, okay … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/08/18 07:23 PM |
| 7 | Noticed my FWB starts typing to a text then stops, then responds after some minutes. What the hell?She saw something glitter while she was typing and it distracted her | /r/askTRP | 05/08/18 06:59 PM |
| 2 | Skinny fat, Cut instead of bulkWhy do you say no drinking calories? Not that user, but I think he is primarily referring to not drinking soft drinks and alcohol because they're the two worst offenders when it comes to drinking calories. He does indicate including protein shakes, which I believe the consensus is you'd be better off with a tilapia fillet (for example) than a protein shake. But, I too use protein powder, because I don't have the time at the moment to cook up half a dozen tilapia fillets and bring them into work … | /r/askTRP | 05/08/18 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Found out girlfriend cheatedThis come up all the time here, 'should I fuck my best friends plate/ex because they aren't technically together'. In my opinion, 'best' friend is a stretch and it was cavalier of him. Are you actually okay with it? Then so be it. If not, I have seen this in my own social circles play out, and I find dudes don't confront as such. You sort of pretend its okay, and slowly but surely, you dont hang out anymore. In other words, if youre cool with it fine. If not, fuck the confrontation just, invite … | /r/askTRP | 05/08/18 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Found out girlfriend cheatedYou'd be better off using it on some other thot. It will come across as if you care too much if you're trying to go tit-for-tat. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/18 06:11 PM |
| 2 | Women don't want their partner to be more physically attractive then her/u/DeepWall I'm going to post under this comment because I think to flesh out your idea, the story in this comment needs to be discussed. Let's all accept the hottest guy in the room can take home his choice of women for a ONS on a given night. So, if we're talking about relationships, let's say exclusivity. I'm willing to accept your basic premise (with a caveat to be discussed), that women will often avoid men they perceive much higher than them on the SMV because they know/are afraid you will… | /r/askTRP | 05/08/18 06:03 PM |
| 2 | "I'm 23 I have a 4 year old daughter I'm not looking for a lil boy to play with my mind, I needa man to stay in my heart... I'm independent and I don't need someone to bring me down, more like. Some one to hold me up :)"She's not bad looking but doesn't seem to have the muscle tone of a dancer. You don't know just how many 'strip clubs' exist in this world, do you? Fat women are strippers all over the world. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 04/08/18 06:04 PM |
| 0 | Vetting for LTR - which qualities should I look for?I think you might be going about this the wrong way. Alot of what you said were things for even a plate or FWB situation. So focus on what would promote one of those to LTR. So that means, let's get out of the way the things that you would even need for a FWB - she's good-looking, fit, you're sexually attracted to her and compatible, and you can at least tolerate her demeanor. Beyond that, it's different for everyone, but I find it's more of ruling out red flags than looking for green flags. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/18 09:05 PM |
| 0 | Fucked friends ex girlfriend, will there be consequences?This is a gay diatribe, and I'm treating you like an idiot because you are one. When you're in the real world (which you aren't yet) actions have consequences, as smart people consider those consequences prior to acting. Being cavalier about those consequences can sometimes lead to you finding yourself worse off than you were before. There is no 'different viewpoint' here. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/18 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Fucked friends ex girlfriend, will there be consequences?You had a question, I gave my opinion. I didn't actually, but this whole rant of yours stinks of a high school kid or college kid who hasn't experienced very much. I certainly don't need your shitty advice. When you grow up, you'll realize lots of men you'll be friends with are different than you. For example, I have beta friends, but damn good golfers who get me into their private clubs and I like hanging out with them. You gonna sleep with his ex of 5 years because you're so edgy? There's a gr… | /r/askTRP | 02/08/18 03:51 PM |
| 2 | Fucked friends ex girlfriend, will there be consequences?You can say that all you want but its the reality of the situation. 80% of men at least are betas, so it shouldnt be a surprise. You do you, but I haven't found plowing some slut a couple times worth ending friendships over. There can be consequences, and as long as you're fine that, then go for it. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/18 03:29 PM |
| 2 | Fucked friends ex girlfriend, will there be consequences?This depends. I have a few rules I employ, not out of morality, but because I've seen this play out. There are a group of about five close friends who I wouldn't touch their ex, no matter what, at any time. It's very easy to say, 'they shouldn't care' but lots of guys do. Entire friendships and related social circles can end because you got drunk and fucked some girl once. Is it worth it? It isn't even really about jealousy, it's about they will think, 'dude, there's plenty of fish in the sea, a… | /r/askTRP | 01/08/18 05:59 PM |
| 11 | Co-Worker/buddy sold his car and motorcycle to buy a more expensive car for his wifeIt didn't even need to be included for me to know that had happened, and she's cheated more and will continue to. No fucking doubt. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/18 04:04 PM |
| 25 | Must be over 8 inches, love God, and willing to contract an STD to apply.Selfie in a public bathroom as dating profile pic... I'm actually afraid to see what she actually looks like, if this was the best selfie she has taken of herself. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 01/08/18 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Jordan Peterson can’t handle the truth.Maybe. But I don't need a fake Internet dad. He's fucking obsessed with gay-ass 'be a respectable man, earn good boypoints' shit and be a 'chivalrous faggot.' That's why he talks about monogamous societies being better than not. Not because the individual is better off, but because society is. Dissident groups like here hate 'doing whats best' for society, because it inevitably results in men being cucked for some other group. Men pairing up, and shutting up, is essentially his way of things. Yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/18 10:18 PM |
| 0 | Jordan Peterson can’t handle the truth.Yes, but the object of this change is for societal good. The individual improvement is not taken to where it should be - improve yourself, damn the rest. It's also societal good to have babies (whether they are yours or not is irrelevant) and to stay out of trouble and be a good boy fighting wars or working for the man. Essentially, he advocates men to be better to help everyone else. Not themselves, as an end in and of itself. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/18 10:10 PM |
| 5 | Straight chicks at a gay club, who knew?Don't go to gay clubs is the feedback you want. There is really only one good reason to go - you have a gay friend and its his bday or something and you decided to show up, and then him being who he is in the situation would introduce you to straight girls / bigirls he knows. You hang out for a bit and bounce. It's not homophobia, it's just reality. Straight dudes trying to pick up chicks at a gay club without a good reason for being there (gay friend for example), is a low, low effort pick-up s… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/18 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Pickup Artists are psychopathic.it's like a whole horde of men talking about how to deceive and manipulate women Obviously JP ever never been around a mamosa fueled Sunday morning brunch with gals still in their Saturday night outfits and makeup still caked on. Par for the course for the broads when they go out. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/18 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Jordan Peterson can’t handle the truth.Was chivalry ever not a myth? I haven't looked into it, but I've always thought it was a giant shit test based in myth. In this case, literally King Arthur. But even those tales talk about chivalrous men getting cucked - Sir Gawane comes to mind, to say nothing of King Arthur himself. I can't fathom that JP would seriously advicate chivalry, considering it was never more than a myth designed to create babies (whether it is actually their's or not, is irrelevant to this goal) and have men fight f… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/18 06:08 PM |
| 0 | Jordan Peterson can’t handle the truth.I'm not an expert on Jordan Peterson. I've seen a handful of videos, never read any of his books. But I think you're missing something here: JP is obsessed with the notion of social good, rather than individual good. His entire framework is based on what is good for society as a whole rather than the individuals make up that society. This is why he loves talking about how monogamous societies have an advantage over non-monogamous societies. This is perhaps true, but better for who? The individua… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/18 05:59 PM |
| 2 | “I want to get into an open relationship with my ex because he loves me to death and would do anything for me but another guy gives me tingles. Oh, and he’s only my ex because I left him to fuck this guy.”Also note she makes no indication in her post that she desires her ex to fuck him. She probably doesnt and hasn't thought about that part. It reads to me she wants a full cuckold relationship where she fucks Chad and just cuddles and gets taken care of by the ex. Pretty bad stuff. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 29/07/18 04:42 PM |
| 3 | “I want to get into an open relationship with my ex because he loves me to death and would do anything for me but another guy gives me tingles. Oh, and he’s only my ex because I left him to fuck this guy.”This is true, and yes the guy is a fucking moron for still 'being friends' with this thot, but I'm going to give the guy a little slack: The chick does not mention anywhere that she has told him she fucked Chad. I guarantee she hasn't. Yes, he is deluding himself to an extent, but she is really being manipulative here and he might go apeshit when he finds out and hopefully cut the bitch out of his life. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 29/07/18 04:40 PM |
| 3 | The Red Pill changed my lifeIt's hard because a lot of my coworkers smoke. This is true, but fight it. I had friends who could go cold turkey and they'd come out and eat an apple while we smoked because it didn't affect him at all and he didn't want to miss the banter. I, on the other hand, had to just not go for the smoke breaks because I would eventually have a drag or bum a smoke or something. If you're really in dire straights and nothing works, the biggest former smoker in my group actually quit from hypnosis. Sounds … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/18 09:16 PM |
| 21 | Profs say female STEM grades don’t reflect ‘perceived effort’ - they propose that “science educators could redistribute grades more akin to non-STEM disciplines to increase STEM retention.”I think you're giving too much credit here. This is solipsism at its finest. These chicks are in the same classes, same study groups, labs, etc., as the guys. Its right in front of their faces. Sure, there is some proportion of stoic Laws of Power guys, but not a statistically significant amount. These chicks are just thinking I worked really hard, and boo-hoo me, and they're not even thinking about how hard the other guys are working relative to them. It doesn't enter their thought process to a… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/18 06:23 PM |
| 42 | Profs say female STEM grades don’t reflect ‘perceived effort’ - they propose that “science educators could redistribute grades more akin to non-STEM disciplines to increase STEM retention.”women's higher perceived effort levels are not rewarded perceived effort levels It just doesn't get any better than this now does it? Take note it doesn't say 'STEM grades don't reflect actual effort'. It is perceived effort. The study shows women aren't actually working as hard, or harder, than their male colleagues. In other words, women think that McNerd or Chadlogger just stroll into class, work less hard, and do as good or better when it is not reality, and we apparently need to changing gr… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/18 04:57 PM |
| 2 | "Guy no longer has interest in me because of my number of sexual partners (70+). I'm broken up about it." (r/TwoXChromosomes)he's fucked 70 guys and isn't even 23 years old yet That was the immediate thing I noticed as well. I know it's current year by 70+ by 23 is a lot of cock. Jesus, I was a stereotypical frat-bro and I didn't reach that number until around 30 I'd say. The sad thing for her is, wait until she's 30 and that count is well over 100. The beta sap she convinces to marry her then would have to be a King Cuck to put up with that. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/07/18 05:24 PM |
| 3 | [23 F] You're not a real man unless you take care of another guy's kids and give my fat ass your money!!!swipes left | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/07/18 03:51 AM |
| 2 | You Learn The Most From Your FailuresI know you were in a new city, and you didn't have a solid group, but I think you might have been much better off texting your new friends from the conference and getting them to go to a bar somewhere. Then, invite HB (and if the others want to tag along fine) to said bar to join you there. Would have maintained more control of the situation plus the likelihood of social proof. But then again, maybe they were all boners. Just a tip | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/18 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone else here do well in person/real life but have issues even getting replies on dating sites?OLD is to be used to supplement life game, not the focus of game. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/18 10:17 PM |
| 4 | How do you know if she's gonna be crazy?It's called red flags. There's loads of material on them. Also, you shouldn't be paranoid about this. It happens pretty rarely, and even moreso if you're in the top 20%. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/18 10:02 PM |
| 3 | She is not who you think she is, 6 month LTR field reportYou should know by now colourful exaggeration comes part and parcel with this sub. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/18 03:10 AM |
| 1 | She is not who you think she is, 6 month LTR field reportThere's no "come on dude" about it. When a gal admits that "it was just sex" (even if it was in reality) it means she has just come to acceptance that casual sex with dudes is meaningless. There is shamelessness there, as women who have a modicum of discretion would not use such a phrase. I consider it a major indicator of past sluttery, along with various others. Past sluttery, of course, being a solid predictor of future sluttery. Don't get me wrong, I love such women. As plates. But never mor… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/18 02:42 AM |
| 1 | She is not who you think she is, 6 month LTR field reportStop thinking about sunk costs. You've learned a valuable lesson, so it's not really a sunk cost is it? But yeah, heed my warning about that exact phrase. Women who say that phrase, are not to be trusted. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/18 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Barely legal trollop ghosts me out of nowhere and I am reminded of some important Red Pill lessons.I think you correctly diagnosed the problem, but consider yourself warned that great men fall to tight pussy everyday. I could be totally wrong, but I get the sense you might be new to this (out of a relationship maybe? I dunno) because if you're 38 in LA you should know that tight latina puss is a dime and a dozen and they're weird like that. You can't drop everything for the first young thing to spread her legs for you. You'll be back here again the next time you do that too. Stop getting weak… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/18 01:24 AM |
| 2 | She is not who you think she is, 6 month LTR field reportI'm not going to delve too much further beyond what the others have said, but here's a protip: She said she didn’t even know him and it was just sex. She said, "it was just sex", you say. Break out the scotch because that is what I call top-drawer red flag. That is, this exact phrase. 100% of my experience when a girl says, "it was just sex", talking about the past are seasoned sluts. Meaning chicks cheating on their relationships with gusto, very high count 1000 cock stares, etc. There is a thr… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/18 10:13 PM |
| 8 | From the 1970's the signs were thereThey see the rewards of what men do, but not the work that we do to earn them. It's a telling sign that the most stressful events in a woman's work day revolves around her outfit and who has 'acting bitchy' on a given day. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/18 05:27 PM |
| 2 | Why You Have OneitisI know yours is specific to GoT but let me share a story from my life when I realized I had reached peak busy, and I think this is sort of what OP is getting at. I was living in a fairly nice two-bedroom condo I owned and my cousin came to stay with me for 6 months to get set up in the city. He's around my age, clean, paid the rent, and I'm rarely home anyway due to work and so on, so it didn't bother me at all. I of course had Netflix and the usual things. He got a job pretty quickly but I star… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/18 04:54 PM |
| 8 | A glimpse into modern dating, he BF is looking for a relationship on a hook up app.She's terrified to meet people in real life. She makes herself very unapproachable. When we go out in a group as soon as any of the other girls gets any attention she shuts down, takes it personally, and then everyone can see she's not fun and guys are picking up on her uncomfortable body language So she's a basic bitch whose attractive enough to warrant just enough effort to fuck, but not attractive enough to keep them. The problem isn't Tinder honey, it's your friend's low-effort looks and low… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/07/18 06:21 PM |
| 8 | I don’t date guys under 6’3 because according to scientific calculations my ideal man is six inches tallerAnd there's also another side - there's a perfect 5'9 man who refuses to date chicks as tall or taller than him. I'm 5'9, and have fucked plenty of broads my height or taller but I'm looking for the 5'3s, 5'4s in the bar. Never had a problem with this, and shorter girls tend to be hotter. Google almost any QT celebrity/pornstar/whatever not named Taylor Swift and the lions share are under 5'6. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/07/18 12:17 AM |
| 41 | 35F wondering why she still single.I'm a 35 year old woman, according to other people I'm attractive and caring, I'm not a prize but I'm still worthy of love and when I see so many horrible abusive unpleasant people in relationships I don't see what's so wrong with me. Fat I don't believe in marriage but I'd like another chance at a good long-term relationship, ideally one that comes with a child - And there we have it - delusional. In my experience women who 'don't believe in marriage' are women like her - those who weren't able… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 04/07/18 10:35 PM |
| 94 | WAATGM in the making: All the comments are telling her to divorce her educated, successful husband because he wants to have a baby earlier rather than laterHere's the best piece of advice to her if she finds her way here: Dump him. Let this guy go find someone who isn't 'offended' by traditional roles, that enjoys everything he has to offer, and doesn't need to be 'muh feminist' to justify their existence. Dump this guy honey. You'll be much happier with your shit career worth half (at best) his, and three kitties shitting in the kitty litter located in the living room of your one bedroom apartment. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 04/07/18 04:03 AM |
| 2 | The Red Pill Has Too Much Respect For WomenMen who justify their existence (solely) on the basis of women around them are no men at all. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/18 05:21 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys recommend I go about this girl who has proclaimed herself an "asshole" and "hard to get"? She takes hours or sometimes never to respond. Very short story.I bring her back the food she likes As others have pointed out, this is a critical error. Don't ever do this. This is a guaranteed one-way trip to the friendzone. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/18 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Ever been on the recieving end of these 2 manipulation tactics?she was almost fanatical about reminding me not to cheat. That's because she has done it, is presently thinking about it if not doing it (in your case), and will continue to do it. This is one of the biggest red flags going that you have now learned. but my narcisst sister has slowly over the years turned him to a beta. This isn't unusual. It's well-known that once in a relationship women will often actively try and betafy a male because it then puts them in the driver's seat of the relationship… | /r/askTRP | 27/06/18 01:11 AM |
| 6 | what kind of oneitis is this?This is unbelievably low quality post. Sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/18 01:07 AM |
| 3 | Getting sexual immediately with a tinder chick good or bad?Dicks pics are a meme. By that I mean, you send those and they show all their friends (or in your case the tattoo artist) and they aren't really serious about it if they have a modicum of quality. You newbies need to realize the object is getting the meetup ASAP, not the quality of the texts or whatever. Bant slightly, but use the phone to organize a meet-up. It is that simple. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/18 02:19 AM |
| 1 | How long do you guys schedule first dates after asking them?Days. Three at max, but I hate those ones. Day of or day before is what you want. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/18 02:17 AM |
| 3 | Getting sexual immediately with a tinder chick good or bad?I've always found sexual bants and confidence to meet up ASAP to work better. The chicks that respond to dick vids are not even worth the trouble. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/18 02:16 AM |
| 6 | What’s your best cold open for girl/plate you have talked to in a long timeMy old go-to I still do frequently. If you're in a bar, there is a good possibility a chick will order some sort of cocktail. That's a fancy drink Opened. It doesn't even need to be fancy, just not a beer or obvious shooter, and then you chirp them for drinking girl drinks. The end. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/18 02:14 AM |
| 2 | Can't hold a flirty conversationPractice. You obviously been around bros enough to know how to bant. Just keep doing it, you'll get. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/18 02:11 AM |
| 44 | She Said, "We're Not Going To Have Sex," Three Times. You Won't Believe What Happened Next.Oftentimes, when a woman says, “We’re not going to have sex,” she’s only saying it because she’s been considering having sex with you. This is true, but you're missing the single most important point here - she said this unprompted to you. That's an obvious indicator she was thinking about it. When you're sitting around with a girl talking about sex related things already at your hotel room and she says it, that's one thing. Entirely prompted means you're 100% golden absent a fuck-up. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/18 01:15 AM |
| 8 | [22F] "I majored in Gender and Women's Studies. I'm a feminist, and hope you are too! I've been burned a lot recently and I'm perfectly fine being single. Anyone who's gonna change my mind on that is gonna have to be pretty fucking fantastic."It never ceases to amaze me how stunned these women are in their dating profiles. She would never do it, but she needs to consult a dude to teach her how to write profiles. Here sweetheart: Hey! My name is Carol. I'm a college grad, play (insert instrument) and play soccer for fun. Message me if you'd like to get to know me! Done. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/06/18 04:56 AM |
| 3 | Carol is too good for everyone, lowers her standards, but still doesnt understand why those "losers" still wont commit.Painful reading that, and her comments are worse still. I actually think this might be a troll since there seems to be some lazy contradictions. For example, she claims she's an introvert then 'eccentric' later on. Put another way, I hope thats a troll because if not that's a trainwreck | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/06/18 04:45 AM |
| 5 | Overweight, chubby 29 year old female rode the Cock Carousel, Settles for Billy Beta with "nice personality" (Read: He is a pushover and makes a lot of $$). Tells Billy in front of her slutty friends he is lucky she didn't fuck her ex-Chad at a party who has a big cock.Sidestory. There is another lesson to be learned. There are a lot of questions out there concerning learning your 'real' plate or 'real' LTR, and this guy just did one of the most important things to learn this - pick them up after they've been drinking when you're sober. It is this situation when you see who you're really dating. This example was unprompted - the girl just came out and talked to his face about big-dick Chad (and obviously insulted him). But the wise man will prompt responses fr… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/06/18 06:26 PM |
| 18 | I don’t even know where to start with dissecting this Tinderella’s profile. 2 kids, doesn’t need us, YOLO, parties, drinks, smokes and gambles. BUT, she’s a workaholic so THAT’S why she’s single. Hamster analysts, I need your help with this one.No chance when you meet up with her she looks anywhere near that. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/06/18 03:01 AM |
| 12 | [39F] "Happy Sunday funday y'all. I'm a lot of sunshine with a mix of sass. I've overcome many hardships in my life and have kept myself sane and pretty happy! I'd like to find someone who is younger that has a full time job and their own place."she's 39 and the summary of her interests is - going to the beach, drinks after work, watching movies and going to shows. This is every girl out there now. Finding women with hobbies beyond these (and 'travel') is like finding the Arc of the Covenant. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 17/06/18 03:09 PM |
| 8 | After riding the CC she can't understand why guys keep dumping her for other (better) womenAh the classic, "I'm 29 and not with someone yet, why is my body telling me something's wrong?! Pity me please!", thing. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 17/06/18 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Going to gym 6 days a week bad?Depends what you do. I wouldn't suggest hard lifting 6 days a week though. I go twice a day, five days a week. I go at this frequency for mental health because my work is so stressful. M, W, F mornings are hard lifting. I don't do any other hard lifting sessions during the week. The afternoons are all medium intensity cardio just to get out of the office (treadmill, rowing machine, bike). T, R mornings I wouldn't even go but I can't sleep in past 5:30 anymore and I do all my showering and all th… | /r/askTRP | 16/06/18 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Plating an ex?Normally it's a bad idea, but in your situation it isn't so bad. You only dated for five months, I say it's do-able, but I question your abundance mentality. Just make sure you aren't banking on this. Normally you get people who have no abundance mentality, dated a girl for five years and want their cake and eat it too. They think they can have the best of both worlds - the girl they remember, and other girls. Then it's great at first, and then you find out she fucked ten dudes in the two months… | /r/askTRP | 16/06/18 07:17 PM |
| 3 | Branch swinging - were these obvious signs?3 months is usually the perfect time for her to meet someone new and it fall through. I think this is a wise observation. Looking back, it is usually the three month mark when you get that FB msg or text. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/18 07:06 PM |
| 4 | ex girlfriend tried to contact meYou have two options, and one absolute don't option: 1) Don't respond; 2) I don't see anything inherently wrong with replying, "sorry, we're broken up", and then not responding forever. The only reason I would put 2 on the table is that 7 years is a long time, and you didn't explain the terms of this 'break'. We all know the reality terms - she's hopping on cock, and now Chad isn't returning her calls. However, if you guys said, 'let's go on a break for a few months and then discuss', I don't se… | /r/askTRP | 16/06/18 07:03 PM |
| 0 | Now I am become Chad, the destroyer of pussy.Is it all fake? Sorta in my experience. We're probably around the same age (mid-30s for me) and I just stopped caring that much about it around two or three years ago. Some chick is eyeballing me on the subway. Great. I'm trying to read my book right now. The assistant in the office is making less than subtle IOIs. Great. But I'm working right now. I haven't figured it all out yet, but the next stage for me at least went to acceptance or even apathy. For example, I keep things simple and have tw… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/18 01:19 AM |
| 18 | Single Mom unbelievably compares being ditched on a date to being a Jew during the HolocaustI've also done it once for some bullshit. It wasn't dropping that she had kids, but she was going on about something fucked up - her parents I believe? We were in our twenties, and it was awhile ago now, but sometimes it has to be done. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/06/18 12:52 AM |
| 4 | Fucked up, inappropriate comment.Am a lawyer, and stop being a pussy. Pass it off as her being a prude because 'she used to be cool'. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 03:32 AM |
| 11 | Fucked up, inappropriate comment.“I was drunk, I got dared. Won’t happen again.” Loser. Stop being a pussy, and you'll make a shit lawyer if you don't know how to shit talk. Here: "Jesus girl, there was a contest where I was dared to send it to any girl from school as a joke. I choose you because I didn't think you were such a prude to get all bent up about it. It was a joke. Relax" | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 03:23 AM |
| 1 | help me"Sorry, I don't mix business and pleasure" | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 03:20 AM |
| 4 | Shit test - “you need to find a nice girl your age and settle down and make your parents happy”Let me reiterate. No sign is good unless that sign is her agreeing to the meet-up. Until that happens, all of this is at a possibility of wasted time and effort. Your focus is not on the texts, it is getting her to meet. Anything short of that is a loss. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 03:18 AM |
| 2 | I am finally experiencing a true example of my “friends” and the “crabs in the bucket” mentality... an extreme case. I need some adviceDude. 'Friends' are disposable. Make new friends. This shit isn't cool at all. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 03:16 AM |
| 5 | Shit test - “you need to find a nice girl your age and settle down and make your parents happy”Ugh. Yes. But not thirsty things. It's more in the context of agree and amplify. "you should go find a nice girl your own age" "I'm interested in the bad girls right now actually ;)" just spitballing, that's not great, but it's that sort of context. But keep a full court press on meeting. That's the threshold between being a beta male attention fountain, and moving to fucking. Your goal is the meet up. Stay focussed on it. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 02:24 AM |
| 8 | Shit test - “you need to find a nice girl your age and settle down and make your parents happy”Go get em. Just remember - it is extremely good advice to limit texting to meet ups and so on. The reason being, if you don't - loads of chicks will text you just to feed their need for male attention, for free. Make them pay the toll my friend. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 02:18 AM |
| 12 | So this girl who was my long time close friend and i were hooking up. Last night she started sobbing when we were making out and said she cant do this...Well... you trying to meet the comfort test doesn't mean that you passed it. But either way, I think what you did is fine. I too would have bailed rather than put the effort into this. Go fuck someone else. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 01:53 AM |
| 7 | Shit test - “you need to find a nice girl your age and settle down and make your parents happy”Okay this is different. I misunderstood your initial post and assumed that since you routinely go after older women you were already fucking them, and then they would say this as pillow talk or a form of LMR. If this is prospective, this is either a comfort test easily destroyed by agree and amplify or she is trying to feed her insecurity by making you 'go for her' for free male attention. Stop this possibility by being cocky when this happens, and not texting so damn much. Just keep pushing to … | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 01:51 AM |
| 15 | Shit test - “you need to find a nice girl your age and settle down and make your parents happy”So she wants to fuck me? She sent me bikini pics a few weeks ago definitely if she's doing that. she’s going thru a divorce and? you haven't been doing this long if you think 'going through a divorce' inhibits women. The opposite occurs ordinarily. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 01:29 AM |
| 3 | Transitioning out of teenage fashionCollege is easy. In all honesty, what you're wearing doesn't matter at all relative to what type of body is putting on the clothes. If you're in good shape and attractive you can get away with jeans and tshirt every day. It's post-college when the more radical change in clothing requirements occurs. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 01:27 AM |
| 28 | Shit test - “you need to find a nice girl your age and settle down and make your parents happy”That's a shit test older women say. They get off fucking young guys, so saying shit like that, pretending they're 'giving you sage wisdom' is part of the fantasy. What do I say back? You don't say much back. They aren't serious. Some spitballing: yeah right not today at least they'll be around when I'm your age Whatever. This is easy. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 01:24 AM |
| 36 | So this girl who was my long time close friend and i were hooking up. Last night she started sobbing when we were making out and said she cant do this...Possibly there was a way around this (given she wanted some comfort, and then proceeded to text you), but erring on the side of caution I think bailing from the crazy chick was certainly not a terrible move. Honestly, I would have also bailed rather than try and deal with that mess. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 01:21 AM |
| 3 | When a girl texts you ”we ain’t sleeping together again”Dude, when a broad says, "we're not sleeping together" unprovoked like that, it means she's thinking about sleeping with you. Thing about it like this - if she wasn't even thinking about it, why would she say anything at all. Since you didn't know this, I'll presume you're new at the game and I will give you the most practical advice possible - ignore that comment. Her: what do you want to do? We ain’t sleeping together if that’s what you think, that isn’t happening again You: let's go to (inser… | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 01:09 AM |
| 6 | I Have a Boyfriend.Biggest shit test going. I usually just go with the old reliables: I have a boyfriend Do you? (with appropriate level of half-smile smirk) Or I have a boyfriend Is that right? (with appropriate level of half-smile smirk) Use either of those, and just move on. I use those two lines for pretty much everything though. We aren't having sex tonight Is that right? (appropriate level of half smile smirk) I don't like to overcomplicate things. Employ KISS. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/18 12:40 AM |
| 1 | When she mixes psychological projection, 25 years of dating assholes, capitulation and lack of self awareness, she becomes the metamorphosis of the thing she despises.I find it less of a problem if they are a bit sarcastic, but the ones who self-identify as it tend to be annoying as hell because they think it makes them 'witty'. Basically, these women think they're on a shitty sitcom where like, teenagers are all saying witty/sarcastic comments to their parents or the teacher or something. And it's so 'bad ass' when the sarcastic girl is being hilarious. That's what they think they are - witty, hilarious and totally bad ass. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 30/05/18 09:14 PM |
| 14 | [27F] Translation: "I've got my degree, my career, and my child. Now, I just need to find my Chad" ... Chad Says: "Frankly My Dear, I Don't Give a Damn"I also note that she says she 'has a law degree' not 'I'm a lawyer'. That needs further investigation. There's a reason she is not employed in her trade. Also, she's possibly embellishing a legal assistant/paralegal certificate. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/05/18 07:25 PM |
| 2 | Tinder date with F-close. What it looks like when gaining a plate goes right, and how many lessons you can extract from it.This is good. Well done. My only addition has to do with your multiple locations familiarity thing. I think we all know around here on a Tinder date it is two at minimum, I stick to two, three at most. I think there's a potential of going overboard here where if you're going to too many places, for the sake of going to places, it can fuck it up because she'll catch on you're doing all this to try and impress her. Not necessarily you personally, and it depends how much time you have ( a day vs. a… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/18 02:35 AM |
| 21 | Alpha Widow lands a nice guy.. Surprise! She's miserable and wants back on the carousel.Oh we all know how this ends: Cheat on him with Chad, just an iddy biddy cheat at first, but eventually breaks up with him All aboard the carousel Hits wall at 35. Withered and unattractive due to train of cocks, cigarettes, alcohol, lack of sleep. Blog about 'where are all the good men' Cats | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/05/18 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Carol sharing her "hoe phase victory"So overall, I think being a hoe for a couple months was good for me. It wasn't just for a couple months sugartits. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/05/18 02:22 PM |
| 71 | Cucked husband (married to a single mother) gets cheated on. Don't be that guy.Don't marry a single mother, ever. Don't even have single moms in anything higher than low-status plate, let alone marriage. The truth is, single moms (absent widows) tend to be the absolute worst sluts. It's not worth gambling. You're the prize, she's beyond desperate if she's a single mom. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/18 05:32 AM |
| 7 | Only thing women got going on for them are their bodies??Pro-tip - your response to the request to do something for a nude should have been something like, "we'll see". If you had stopped messaging her after that, there's a greater than 50% chance she'd just send it straight up with an invitation to close, or just invited you over to close. I get you're in anger phase, but eventually you'll realize confronting broads on principle is a complete waste of time and frame failure. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/18 04:03 AM |
| 17 | The Paradox of Declining Female HappinessDefinitely ironic, but I also agree the lower 80% of women are under pressure but going to the irony thing - it's their own doing. It's like a procrastinator. If you have a deadline to meet and you procrastinate, meeting that deadline by doing everything the night before when you had a week is high pressure, but you brought that on yourself. This is what women are doing. They spend 15 years building careers (with substantial affirmative action and forgiving standards), then get established, and … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/18 02:49 AM |
| 7 | China: Does (the) perfect man exist? Maybe he does exist, but why on earth would he want to marry you?The official propaganda puts it more eloquently. “As women age, they are worth less and less,” one government article reads. “So by the time they get their M.A. or Pd.D., they are already old, like yellowed pearls.” Wow. Official government propaganda with the bants. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/05/18 02:19 AM |
| 32 | The royal wedding makes them all think they are princesses"if Meghan could find someone (who is not a just someone but a prince), they too can find someone as special and high in the social hierarchy." Premise with, yes AWALT, and she came from a fucked up family so all the glitters is not gold. But, apparently Meghan Markle was also not a giant cock-carouseling thot. Apparently she was a believer in some sort of 'women's rules' thing where she was intentionally standoff-ish to men, proper dates, take it slow, that sort of thing. Her best friend (Suits… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/05/18 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Dread, while a powerful tool in a red pilled man's arsenal, doesn't work until you have her hooked in.Yes, Auvergnat nailed this and it's good you learned from the mistake when you did, but I want to bring up a couple points bearing in mind the context of Auvergnat's comment: Ashley asked me how many Tinder dates I have been on the past week, and thinking its a shit test, I responded with "6 but trying to make it 10 by tomorrow night". I talked about how Ashley was one of dozens of girls to leave me her number at the bar and how I couldn't keep up with all the numbers I got. This is way too much… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/18 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Guy rejects girl on Tinder, girl responds with vitriolic hatred and tells him to die, reddit responds with "He shouldn't have wasted her time!"For the record, I'm 100% OK with women flirting just for the sake of flirting. But they do do that a lot, Anyone who uses Tinder at all knows that women use it for two reasons - 1) Chad's cock; 2) Chad's flirtatious bants. Lots of times its not even for the cock, but the 'feelings' they get about being flirted with. The excitement, the fun, fighting insecurity, or even just to not be bored. We all know this. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/05/18 07:57 PM |
| 2 | Proof Hypergamy Is Real From a "Certified Homewrecker"This is a good way to look at it. When you get a bit older (I'm assuming because it was a grad party you're mid-20s) the prospect of sleeping with greater numbers of married women opens up, and is easy. I dont knowingly do it, anymore, for two reasons that aren't related to personal morality: 1) Self-preservation - The prospect of the jilted lover showing up with his new .45 / altercation occurs where the cops get involved which would be more trouble than its worth in Canada where I live (no sta… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/18 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Man tries to win his wife's love by giving her Teslas and expensive vacations. She returns the favor by - you guessed it - having an orgy with randos when he's gone.Exactly. And frankly, I don't even think you need that. Some beta who had his life destroyed could just fucking snap. Dude has been working his butt off to keep her happy, she treated him like human garbage for the past year, finds out she cheated with me and humiliated him? That could push him right over the edge. I can easily see that scenario playing out, let alone the roid-head or mob connection scenario. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/18 06:46 PM |
| 2 | Man tries to win his wife's love by giving her Teslas and expensive vacations. She returns the favor by - you guessed it - having an orgy with randos when he's gone.Yeah this is why I don't knowingly fuck married women. It has absolutely nothing to do with moral code but self-preservation. Going to the slut's house to fuck her in his bed is brazen, but even doing it at my place has risks. You never fucking know who you're dealing with. Even loser guys can just fucking snap (Lord knows she's been treating him like garbage the past year or more) and show up at my place with his new .45. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/18 06:04 PM |
| 4 | Wintery Knight - Woman who had sex with 18 different men shocked that men don't want to marry her.18 is nothing these days.... That's practically a minimum now | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 13/05/18 08:32 PM |
| 1 | How should i have responded to this shit test?'well it'll be our little secret' | /r/askTRP | 12/05/18 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Any short guys on here spinning hot plates or in an LTR with an HB8 or HB9?Not as short as you'd like (5'9 reporting in), but the others are right. Being tall is obviously an advantage, but it doesn't matter nearly as much as frame and game. Bear in mind - loads of very hot women are ridiculously short. Google the height of some celebrities or pornstars or whatever. Loads of them are borderline midgets (5'1) and many more are around 5'5. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/18 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Cleansing my LifeIf you don't want to do classes try getting an instant pot. This isn't some pressure cooker you'll never use, it does everything. I am a good cook and have pretty much switched to this thing for most meals now. Check out the 'paleo' diet recipes on the website, or just google whatever you want or the subreddit. This is high quality food on easy mode. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/18 03:26 AM |
| 2 | How to lose weight and stop over-eatingI think two that cannot be understated: 1) Drink water; 2) Don't drink alcohol (or at least limit it and no beer). Dude I work with lost 80lbs in a year (so he says and I believe him). I asked him what he did and he said he never ate that much always drank a lot of beer, so he cut that out and didn't drink at all for six months, now has the occasional glass of wine. Didn't how good-looking this guy was (no homo), and all it really took was elimitinating carb-alcohol drink. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/18 01:41 AM |
| 11 | Cleansing my LifeGood for you, but: I'll return after I post a 4.0 GPA on Facebook and Instagram for everyone to see after this summer. Its chicks that feel the need to use social media for self-gratification, not men. Just do it, skip this. Also, if you're in college I highly suggest to you to take up a hobby over the summer - cooking for yourself. Not that you don't necessarily but there's 'cooking' and cooking. Take a couple of cooking classes, practice. It will help with getting into shape as well. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/18 01:35 AM |
| 2 | plating a girl "friend" in friend circle?In my experience plating doesn't normally cause problems, relationships do. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/18 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Feeling betrayal from a male friendI can't tell if I'm overreacting You are. I'm not one personally for going for broads that my friends are into, but it happens and get used to it. I would also make the argument that you probably struck out with her when you couldn't hold your liquor and he was the next one up to bat. You fucked up, not him. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/18 09:10 PM |
| 2 | How many quality cardio workouts can you do a day without muscle loss?I don’t lift because it impedes my martial arts training How so? I find this hard to believe. Professional athletes of all kinds lift. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/18 08:44 PM |
| 19 | Is it OK to hit on strangers?Not only is it okay, it's mandatory. I've heard a ton of women complain about men hitting on them. Don't fucking listen to this. This is the feminine imperative trying to betafy you into a cuck to act as a wallet for them when they're done with Chad and his football team at the age of 35. Women complain when the faceless, non-existent, neckbeards creep on them. Not when the put-together Chad or Chadrick bants with them. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/18 07:45 PM |
| 2 | LTR went out last night, still isn't back. Instant hard next?B. A "work friend"? conveniently nobody with a name, and nobody she should be putting over you in the pecking order. I think this is an underrated indicator (although the updates are much more severe indicators). These people live together, how the hell are 'work friends' without names plausible at this point? | /r/askTRP | 07/05/18 07:33 PM |
| 9 | [40F] "I have 99 problems, but dick is not one of them. I'm lacking companionship."Looks like crack ain't a problem either | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/05/18 04:28 AM |
| 10 | As Carol approaches the wall she manages to hook a guy who is good enough, but she has some concerns.Yep, because that's exactly what's going to happen. It's a matter of time. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/05/18 04:27 AM |
| 2 | Girl wanted me to text her to make plans, I texted "hey" and she didn't respondThis isn't working. Ignore for now, but in future you have two options: 1) If you text at 8 or 9, it should be, 'heading here at 11 or 12' or something to that effect; 2) Do what the rest of us do - if you're going to text 'hey', text that at 11 or midnight at earliest | /r/askTRP | 05/05/18 09:50 PM |
| 1 | What’s my next moveNo harm in giving it a shot but (without more) I don't like your chances. Time urgency on your part has a tendency to appear as desperate from her POV. Give it a shot, if nothing, move on. | /r/askTRP | 05/05/18 09:34 PM |
| 51 | wife is overwhelmingly attracted to another man and is in my face about itwhom I've treated as a queen. I suspect this might be your problem... | /r/askTRP | 05/05/18 08:29 PM |
| 2 | Should I go to law school?Lawyer here, and I would probably suggest it. This is a good law school, and you will learn a lot and it will change your perspective on things, and given your current situation in life you don't need to go absolutely crazy with stress because you can always go back to your lucrative engineering position. You get the luxury of working hard, but enjoying your time - since you aren't taking on huge debt for this degree you can relax a bit more since you aren't going to be stressing constantly abou… | /r/askTRP | 05/05/18 05:20 PM |
| 8 | Older Men, Younger Women, Part IIWhenever I mention to people that I prefer girls ages 19-23 Pro-tip, you really shouldn't be mentioning stuff like this. This is something you do, not talk about. Bro-talk excepted of course, but this shouldn't be discussed by you with others, especially other women. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/18 05:13 PM |
| 4 | Single moms turn to sugar daddies to help with rising day care costsYes she is. All of them are. I got curious and played the video in the article - "Local Sugar Babies". Go to the around 1:05 mark when the woman is asked if she was ever approached for anything sexual. Her laughable response: Ummm.. I have... like... you know...[long pause].. I've had people inquire about things like that.... Such horseshit. She's a prostitute and a bad liar. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/05/18 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Serial divorce single mother is jealous at her own daughter!I can;t believe she named and posted comparison pics of her teenage daughter for this article. What a fucking slag, I find it abhorrent. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/05/18 04:07 PM |
| 8 | Lazy, post-wall divorced hag who refuses to even attempt to cook can't find a man.Yes but be very fucking prepared that it seems the vast majority of women at this point are not just refusing because 'muh feminism', but they actually can't cook and they're embarrassed to try. Women don't like being embarrassed so they will refuse to try. I haven't dated a woman who could respectably cook in years (I am a good cook, so I admittedly have high standards), but most I've dated will refuse to even try something that isn't pre-made. I remember years ago reading an article by Roosh, … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/05/18 04:04 PM |
| 2 | Lazy, post-wall divorced hag who refuses to even attempt to cook can't find a man.Indeed. I consider myself an above average cook though not professional by any means, I cook for myself (or leftovers I cooked) everyday and almost never eat out aside from appetizers out with a broad. The other day I forgot my lunch and was going to catch a movie after work so I went to a medium-tier Chinese place and just got one of the specials. This was not a shitty place in a mall, apparently respectable. During the movie, I was so fucking thirsty due to the amount of salt or whatever was i… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/05/18 03:56 PM |
| 5 | Lazy, post-wall divorced hag who refuses to even attempt to cook can't find a man.I totally agree with this comment, though I wouldn't necessarily put it in deal-breaker territory, but it is a strong red flag. Cooking (and not baking ffs, chicks love saying they don't cook but love to bake), is an essential life skill. At 30, if you don't know how to cook you're retarded. It's a great skill, it impresses people, and it's way healthier. As you said, it's a strong indicator of someone with their life and priorities straight. When women say they can't cook I view it as a mix of … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/05/18 03:41 PM |
| 3 | Yes.Another thing to bear in mind is that she still hasn't put together that for men she is attracted to, she is the female equivalent to them of the 'guy I am not attracted to'. In other words she wants guys to settle down with girls that aren't attracted to (her); but she is not willing to do the same. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/05/18 03:34 PM |
| 14 | Please DON'T Be this guyIf you have to lie about your whereabouts so your gf doesn't blow up, you are blue pilled. Absolutely right. But to give some advice here to others reading - this type of behaviour needs to be dealt with the 'if you give an inch, they'll eventually ask for a mile' mentality. From Day One do not permit this type of jealousy/pissiness/disrespect to you. Don't entertain the idea, agree and amplify the first time it happens, and don't give a fucking inch, ever. I don't even agree to text so 'they kn… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/18 06:49 PM |
| 32 | Savage Love Letter of the Day: Where Have All the Good Men Gone?All women who self-identify as 'badass' are insufferable. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/05/18 11:55 PM |
| 2 | How oneitis is bornThis is a good comment, but I would add another category, or perhaps it is clarifying something under the 'societal reinforcement informed by the feminine imperative'. There is a myth out there, seen in the media constantly, that eventually a man will meet the unicorn, get exclusive, married, kids, and life's a ball. We know the likelihood of this occurring in the textbook fashion seen in the media is so low it's completely unrealistic to think it could happen, bordering along certifiably insane… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/18 11:40 PM |
| 20 | Unhaaaapy mom divorces hardworking husband because she's "lonely". Now copes hard seeing him in the best shape of his life with younger, hotter GFThis is a great one. I remembered why I fell in love with this man and now can't help but think that he could still be mine if I had been more open to respond to his requests for some exploration in the bedroom, or worked on myself to loose the pregnancy weight, maybe even asked my mom to watch our kid to join him for a shorter trip - now this girl gets to do all these things. This is very telling. The dude told her - you need to lose weight, need to do anal or whatever, and come with me on the … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 22/04/18 09:00 PM |
| 38 | [27F] "Why it's so hard to find somebody with there shit together?" 🤔She's not 26. She's 32 at youngest, she's just lying on her profile. At least... I hope she is. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/04/18 05:33 PM |
| 3 | [37F] Where have I been all your life? DO NOT WASTE MY TIME!!!This chick has been 'the item of convenience' for 20 years to a boat load of Chads. No thankey | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/04/18 05:31 PM |
| 17 | [24F] Translation: "Shit, my friends are getting married and I'm getting fatter. Come hold me down before I float away."Christ, I can't believe she's 24. I finished reading the profile, and then saw this comment and had to look at it again because I missed that. I could have sworn she said 35. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/04/18 03:27 AM |
| 9 | Who is that guy?I actually also think this is horseshit. Dude is a white guy in Japan, pretending here its because he balled his way there because he went on Indochino and bought a tux? I spent time over there - being a white dude over there has no lessons for North America. The sole reason he was invited was because he was a white foreigner which gave the invitee status, and has nothing to do with his own accomplishments. No 'Ebay suit' passes in any serious city in the real world. His post should be - move to… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/18 04:56 AM |
| 2 | Women don't want you, they want to feel like they are too good for you. Enjoy the schadenfreude in this thread, gentlemen.Well whatever works bro. Let me tell you there may be light at the end of the tunnel. I'm in my mid-30s, and when you're older, have more money, dress better, confidence and a career you blow 20s Chad out of the water for a lot of chicks. Does it mean beabuxing, no. But you command much higher status with these women by simply existing, and the ridiculous job-interview type shit is much easier since you're older and wealthier and deemed in charge of the date. I haven't fucked a 30 year old in tw… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 17/04/18 12:18 AM |
| 3 | Women don't want you, they want to feel like they are too good for you. Enjoy the schadenfreude in this thread, gentlemen.I'm not big on MGTOW (but I know the definition is broad and is not just celibacy) simply because I am aware of this dynamic, and humour the thots I fuck. I am actually open to the idea of a relationship, so I don't qualify, but if your the MGTOW that just refuses serious relationships but no problem plating than I understand. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 17/04/18 12:12 AM |
| 8 | After years of hook ups and casual sex she finds out there are no good men. Time to stock up on pet food and antidepressantsHas anyone on this subreddit identified the process that the minds of these women go through when it’s under Hookup culture? I think you've nailed the process but Im going to flesh something else out for you here. How does hookup culture do this. So, imagine being a decently good-looking woman (let's say a 7). You're hit on virtually constantly everywhere you go since 16. This makes you feel loved and you have belonging and you're not lonely. The choices before you are monogamy or hookup culture… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 17/04/18 12:06 AM |
| 4 | After years of hook ups and casual sex she finds out there are no good men. Time to stock up on pet food and antidepressantsFunny (and definitely get those futures) but that's not what's going to happen to this chick, and sure as fuck isn't why she posted there. She wrote that in a state of red wine-induced rage because Chad blew her off again. He possibly didn't even end things with her, just didn't her text that night and she wanted attention at that moment. Then she went through the normal female emotions here - anger, IDontNeedNoMantm, and self-pity. So, she posted on Reddit to receive validation because she's a … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/04/18 11:50 PM |
| 8 | [35F] "My kid is priority #1 over my career. I feel I don't have time for both. I read the Bible and enjoy sermons because there is food."Yep. She hasn't done a handstand in ten years judging by the rest of her pictures. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/04/18 11:43 PM |
| 9 | [35F] "I've been burned, used and hurt one too many times. I've never been married because no one has proven themselves worthy yet. I'm very independent and this scares people away. Is chivalry dead?"Exactly: I'm very independent and this scares a lot of people. I'm wondering if this is actually smart since this profile is an example of dual-mating strategy because I think phrases like this are beta bait. Some beta will read that, "well I'm man enough" and proudly swipe right because he is white knighting. Of course we all know how that's going to end, but this could be this broad's logic. Play to white knights. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/04/18 11:39 PM |
| 1 | [35F] "I've been burned, used and hurt one too many times. I've never been married because no one has proven themselves worthy yet. I'm very independent and this scares people away. Is chivalry dead?"She's seen an awful lot of cocks. I'd be worn out too. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/04/18 11:36 PM |
| 6 | [35F] "I've been burned, used and hurt one too many times. I've never been married because no one has proven themselves worthy yet. I'm very independent and this scares people away. Is chivalry dead?"Yep beat me to it. That was my first read as well. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/04/18 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Women don't want you, they want to feel like they are too good for you. Enjoy the schadenfreude in this thread, gentlemen.Yep. I noticed the guy secretly went and paid his bill and left which isn't a terrible option. But I have on one occasion just excused myself to go to the bathroom and got up and left a girl with the bill when she was going on and on about some bullshit like this to me. It was awhile ago now, so I cant remember exactly. But I'm with you on this. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/04/18 11:29 PM |
| 2 | Women don't want you, they want to feel like they are too good for you. Enjoy the schadenfreude in this thread, gentlemen.then got to see them try desperately to fuck married guys This is another thing. Do you ever wonder why 'no married guys' is on every single dating profile on this sub? It's because these broads have, and will continue, to fuck married guys, and they'll not think twice. If it was such a non-thing, it wouldn't be there because in theory it should be obvious she is not interested in married guys. They are though, and they're just projecting. At my work, I'm single and younger and no slouch, but th… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/04/18 11:28 PM |
| 3 | Women don't want you, they want to feel like they are too good for you. Enjoy the schadenfreude in this thread, gentlemen.The thing I find funny here is that women's lists are all dumb as fuck. See her in the thread? It included 'be a cat person' (kek). I have dealbreakers and red flags too, but they aren't 'similar interest' stuff (I don't particularly care if she likes football or not), they are specifically designed to weed out trouble: kids smoke or hard drug use (I don't smoke weed, but occasionally having a joint wouldn't be an absolute dealbreaker, just a red flag to keep an eye on. Heroin and she's gone). d… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/04/18 11:14 PM |
| 1 | [28F] "I'm pretty independent and moving my way up at my job that I love. I work full time and spend my free time with my kid, but I'll never be a SAHM. I love my daughter, but I love making my own money. I am looking for a real relationship."I would say that she should be ashamed of what her daughter would think if she saw this profile of her in 15 years. But then again, I know her daughter is going to look and act just like her and will think it's awesome. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 13/04/18 07:19 PM |
| 4 | [22F] "I'm a single mom in a bad situation with literally nothing. I've been left one too many times by both fathers of my children. I went from a ghetto man to a working Navy-raised man and still got treated the same way. I should have just stayed with women."It would be a fool's drinking game to go on dating sites and take a shot every time you read, "I'm done with X" | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 13/04/18 06:42 PM |
| 2 | [31F] "Beautiful Blonde Pregnant Bombshell seeking Caring Genuine Generous Man"ONLY CONTACT ME IF YOU ARE IN [blank] OR GOING TO COME VISIT [blank]!!! Thanks... LOL. When option a) is lock down a beta male; and option b) is prostitute yourself out to one | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 13/04/18 06:39 PM |
| 3 | [29F] "I'm a single mother of two but I DO NOT expect you to be their father, they already have one of those for whatever he is worth. Most men just want a hookup but I'm done with that, sorry."Probably a dozen times. Girl I'm seeing I snagged her phone (playfully, she didn't care) and there were literally hundreds of selfies with like 10 in each position. It's fucking uncanny. Take a look in some thots phone sometime. I find it very intriguing. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/04/18 07:19 PM |
| 6 | mass panic at /r/dataisbeautiful when men voice their preferencesAll of these women. Every single one. Would jump on Johnny Depp's cock right now if given the opportunity. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/04/18 07:15 PM |
| 3 | [40F] "Tired of giving my all to dudes who won't meet me half way. If you're not prepared to treat me like a majestical creature to be cherished don't waist my time. You should appreciate a woman with thighs thick enough to hold the snacks during the movie."That's way more than MySpace Angle. That's just flat out lies. She doesn't look terrible at all in pic 1. Pic 2 is get out the fucking hose, we have a live one. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/04/18 07:12 PM |
| 2 | Her son was the 2nd picture. Keep it classyIt's pretty clear what I said. Single moms would be well-advised to realize it is a red flag for the vast majority of men, and a neutral flag at best. Advertising it proudly like the subject in this post is laughably deranged. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/04/18 09:20 PM |
| 57 | [F 30's] I've rode in the cock rodeo and now I've found the man of my dreams. I just don't want to look at him during sex.I foresee cheating in the very near future. Followed by getting dumped, more cocks, followed by a very long-winded post on Datingover30 when she's 39 demanding for AllTheGoodMentm to show themselves. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/04/18 06:34 PM |
| 86 | Her son was the 2nd picture. Keep it classyYou almost feel bad for these single moms that they've been indoctrinated to believe that being a single mom is in some way attractive to men. The non-stop"you go girling" of single moms by other single moms with thousand cock stares is actually doing damage to women. Let's be blunt - there is no man on the planet that views being a single mom as a positive. Not one. At absolute best there are beta males who find single mom to be neutral as opposed to a negative. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/04/18 11:38 PM |
| 1 | [28F] "I have been with 11 guys and more than half of them were a mistake to be with. I also just had a baby boy and don't do hooking up anymore. I want a man."Lifeguard ... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/04/18 11:34 PM |
| 39 | "I smoke cigs and pot. I have anxiety induced seizers. I'm trying to get welfare. Only 19, still live with my mom an can't drive yet. I spent the last 5 years with Chad, so just want to [use an emotional tampon] and not have to fuck."I'm still waiting for "weight" to be a mandatory input on these things... These women need to be fat-shamed so they'll go to the gym before posting this shit so they'll at least have a semblance of a chance of hitting a match. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 04/04/18 12:29 AM |
| 3 | Good Man Found :^)I have no doubt about it, and /u/Altknight9 described exactly my thinking. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/04/18 05:32 PM |
| 12 | Good Man Found :^)She cheats often. One time, her birth control randomly failed. And then she immediately asked for a separation to justify it. Indeed, and a major giveaway here is 'She has been completely and utterly honest with me'. This is never the case, it is a matter of degree how honest women are when it comes to shit like this, but the trickle-truth is a real thing, and I called bullshit right away. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/04/18 04:34 PM |
| 8 | Carol sends nudes to guy friend already in a relationship, then complains about getting pumped and dumped and how she wished she had a "good person" like him. Guy friend sets her straight. (r/Nicegirls)Yikes, I think this is a young Carol too, given she said he is 23 and she's probably around the same. Wait until this one evolves into 30+, anti-depressent-taking, post-wall, Carol. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 02/04/18 08:07 PM |
| 2 | Hot pornstar hits the wall in her 30s, says she is now done with her "pornstar phase", and now dreams of "becoming a wife and a mother".Party's over. Jesus, look at her. Looks like she's been working in the coal mines for the last 20 years. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 01/04/18 07:11 PM |
| 4 | Strong, independent women: "So, where have all the men gone?" (r/MGTOW)The growing confidence with which men can come out is also blamed for a shortage of eligible men; in London, according to gay pressure group Stonewall, up to 15 per cent of men are homosexual. wut? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 01/04/18 06:45 PM |
| 16 | "IM 18 AND PREGNANT!!1 I'm very blunt and take no shit from nobody. [You will have to] spoil me and take me shopping, eating out, and even then I won't be fucking you!!1 I like partying, chill and watch movies."Back off gents, she's mine. Pregnant, 18 year old retarded Muslim with a shaved head and a bitchy, entitled attitude, hits every one of my buttons. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 31/03/18 08:14 PM |
| 4 | [35F] "I am 3 months pregnant and would love to talk with a guy that is sincere in his intentions and has good morals."incredibly dull 'hobbies' [checked] | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 26/03/18 11:04 PM |
| 14 | "I love the career I'm building, but my friends and I are still single. There's been break ups, romances and casual dates in between. But for some reason few men have stuck. It's empowering the progress women have made within the last century, but discouraging when it comes to romantic partnership."Her cats won't care how smart she is either | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 26/03/18 06:38 PM |
| 0 | "I [25F] am a normal, nice person. Every guy I like runs for the hills and I don't know why."I [25F] am a normal, nice person. I've never been in a serious relationship in my life. Pick one. This is one of the more interesting profiles here because I guarantee this woman has a serious personality disorder like NPD or BPD. It is not normal to be 25 and not had even one serious relationship. Normal people are curious and at least try to have a serious relationship before 25, even fatties and ugos. This would be a huge red flag for me. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/03/18 11:30 PM |
| 35 | "Be A Good Man, Because A Woman (who friendzoned you to date jerks) Will Never Forget How You Treated Her (when she's hitting the Wall and needs a provider)."You're right she won't forget. She won't forget you when she needs to move furniture out of her apartment, or needs a free meal because she feels sad, or needs a ride to the club. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/03/18 10:23 PM |
| 3 | The Harsh TruthSo many empowered womyn in the comments! This article doesn't emphasize the real harsh truth, the one women actually know intuitively if not actively: That great nice guy "7" you could have had at 28, morphs into you settling for a "4" at 38 because you were too picky and the dating pool got flipped in men's favor. That's the real harsh truth for women. I see this everyday at my office where the big swinging dicks all have girlfriends 10-20 (yes, 20) years younger than them. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/03/18 09:58 PM |
| 3 | [30F] "Shit, I kept my [free ride]> in the friendzone too long and... and now I need to lock down Chad because I have some serious baby rabies."My crystal ball shows children out of wedlock and cats. Lots and lots of cats. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/03/18 09:51 PM |
| 8 | "Micro-cheating on my partner was the best thing ever," delusional woman says.(Xpost r/pussypass)That's actually the theme of this article. "I fucked some other dude to get my boyfriend to break up with me, but it's okay because it was all his fault anyway and it was only teeny, weeny micro cheat". The truth is, this is actually spot on because this is what women think. "I cheated, but its your fault", is said hundreds of times a day by women to men around the world. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/03/18 07:51 PM |
| 2 | Compilation of times the mainstream media has recently tried to glorify women cheating, carousel-riding and cuckoldryBecause dudes aren't okay with it. Everyone knows this. The people writing these articles are chicks who are trying to legitimize cheating/cock-carousel riding whilst married. The end. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/03/18 07:45 PM |
| 2 | [34F] "Feels like I'll miss the chance to find someone. Finding a single guy, preferably without kids, in his thirties who even wants a woman in her thirties (seems they all go after young twenty-somethings)." (r/dating_advice)or a restaurant as a waitress? If she was "reasonably attractive" as she describes herself, this is exactly what she would be doing. I'm thinking her self-assessment isn't entirely accurate, however. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/03/18 12:44 PM |
| 4 | Tips for short dudesAnother thing to add, as I'm relatively short (5'9) is that loads of hot broads are really short. I'm not saying these women are the be all end all, but they are well known - Kim Kardashian is 5'2. Emily Ratajkowski is 5'6. Riley Reid is 5'3. Kylie Jenner is 5'5. The list goes on. There are so many hot girls that sure, they want a taller dude, but with the tips here it really doesn't make that much of a difference because you're still likely to be taller. Just not as much. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/18 04:46 AM |
| 12 | [31F] "My husband found out I engaged in threesomes and casual flings at college, and I'm scared it could lead to divorce." (r/relationships)Sluts like being treated like sluts by strong men. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 08/03/18 06:31 AM |
| 34 | [31F] "My husband found out I engaged in threesomes and casual flings at college, and I'm scared it could lead to divorce." (r/relationships)I love the fact that she shits on him for divorcing her, yet she can't rationalize that even when he found out she trickle-truthed him: Probably 12-15 in total, but all my husband knows is that it was 'more than once'. How fucking stupid do you have to be not realize you're hiding information from someone, and not realize it is because you know it is because that information is damaging to you? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 08/03/18 12:45 AM |
| 97 | [31F] "My husband found out I engaged in threesomes and casual flings at college, and I'm scared it could lead to divorce." (r/relationships)didn't call me a slut or anything like that. Never once raised his voice. Part of me wishes he did, although I can't exactly say why right now. I know why. Slut. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 08/03/18 12:41 AM |
| 2 | askTRP Megathread February 28If it's a club, you isolate. Roosh actually did a decent video on this, and he's right. I'm not a big ROK fan, but he's bang on here. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7DjGxAcHCxk | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/18 10:44 PM |
| 2 | We need to start extending a hand to the omegas and soy boys.haven't had that rock bottom crashing epiphany that this shit isn't right yet. These types of men need to hit rock bottom. Frankly, the best thing we can do collectively is fuck as many of their broads as humanly possible. This is performing a much needed service. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/18 07:39 PM |
| 14 | Ohhhhhh boy!so deal When I see/hear, "so deal with it" in any unironic way, you're done. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/02/18 01:18 AM |
| 3 | Casual dating consequencesSub - Datingover30 Age - 39 LOL. Just holding on to the last year before she has to find the dating over 40 sub. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/02/18 07:12 PM |
| 15 | "The Talk" is Socially Retarded, Do Not Tolerate It.The biggest point is that "the talk" should never really happen with any degree of confusion. Not one bit. When it occurs, it should be obvious that "the talk" is merely an afterthought because you've been spending enough time together (and you've done your due diligence on your end), that it's almost a laughable conversation. The point here is, we don't negotiate with pussy terrorists. We don't give in to commitment under shady or false pretenses. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/18 04:05 AM |
| 17 | Most men are losers. You can easily fuck their women.Another thing is that taken women typically have a "boring" life. They aren't out on the town every weekend, they go home to a boyfriend or husband with a dog, so on. As a result, it is easy to tap into their sense of feeling bored by being even moderately exciting. Just being around them long enough will usually cause a flip. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/18 04:29 PM |
| 27 | Most men are losers. You can easily fuck their women.Do it if you want, but: one of my best friends gf. Some black-pilled around here may take the view that if he's such a beta that he allowed this to happen means he isn't worthy of being your best friend. That is one view, it is unrealistic in my experience though. Be prepared for the consequences of him hating you for the rest of your life. I have a close net of a few bros we've been friends for 15 years and we don't cross that line. Not even with exes. I have fucked exes and so on of dudes in t… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/18 04:27 PM |
| 3 | Conquering the voices in your brain and achieving whatever you want in your life.Good post. One concept I've been thinking about doing a post on for awhile is about alcohol. I would do one for managing this in the professional world, given it is often thrust upon you. I quit drinking for a long time because it was interfering with my gains and I always overdid it, but I keep it at very small levels now in the legal world. I'm a pro at this one. However, I feel a good post would be about how to go about being in college without drinking because lots of college men feel pressu… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/18 09:03 PM |
| 2 | [22F] "I'm a single mom, looking for a guy over 6'3" no exceptions, stable housing and income, who can help make my dreams come true."Look at that fucking profile picture. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 09/02/18 11:27 PM |
| 35 | Apparently "No means no" only when women say it. (r/Nicegirls)Anyone who dates 7s or above is aware of this. This bitch is just up front about it. There is nothing more aggravating to such a woman than being turned down for sex. Nothing. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/02/18 03:14 AM |
| 1 | How to Thrive in Upside Down Clown WorldAbsolutely right. I don't view this as satirical at all, but cold hard truth. The only issue I have is that I have found the feminist exorcism to not actually need to occur as much as you would think. Pretty much every plate and LTR I've ever had agrees with everything I say and by extension this sub, and especially so after a couple of glasses of wine and this includes "feminists" in public. For brevity, I remember being younger I dated a rabid feminist back in the early 2000s, and she was all … | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/18 02:22 AM |
| 21 | When Carol asks Reddit for advice!This is fucking rich. Single mom. Wants relationship. Fucking three dudes regularly. They probably know about each other. But "why won't they commit?" Honestly, she is probably doing the right thing. No man would ever want a relationship with this woman, so she might as well enjoy FWB status ferociously while she can because she's going to be cat-lady status soon enough. The only thing, of course, is that she is too deranged to realize this fact, and can't put 2 and 2 together that it is her fau… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/01/18 08:52 PM |
| 35 | When Carol asks Reddit for advice!I used to sell myself and had a sugar daddy. Oh God. This woman is beyond the possibility of redemption, and good on Ivan and Chad "baby daddy" Thundercock. There is zero chance they would consider anything beyond a fuck buddy here, and quite rightfully so. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 28/01/18 08:48 PM |
| 3 | How to Win an Election in the MeToo eraYou should read the article about this before jumping to your conclusions. Her son is fucked in the head, by his own admission, and I believe still hates her to this day. You have to understand, she had her "girlfriend" living in the house while her husband slept downstairs, while the kids were there. Now obviously this is ultra-beta and on him; don't get me wrong about that. But the kids are seriously fucked up about it. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/18 08:48 PM |
| 25 | Feminist love throwing around privilege, yet they are the most privileged class in modern history in the WestThis is because women want a high quality man and to be desired men. This makes them happy. When you are fat, you are not desired and will not get a high quality man, ergo they are unhappy. These women then blame others for their unhappiness, rather than be self-aware and self-critical. This just isn't the genetic makeup, honest self-reflection doesn't occur. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/18 08:39 PM |
| 7 | Career woman wonders why cheating husbands don't appreciate the value of her career and money 🤔How many times have you heard, "I give the best head"? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 27/01/18 07:56 PM |
| 73 | Career woman wonders why cheating husbands don't appreciate the value of her career and money 🤔LOL. These women are a dime a dozen, and this is just a drunken rant by her own admission, not insight. Goes out with her gfs, gets wasted on wine. They all "you go girl" each other over how they've been pumped and dumped by Chad and his friends. Then not one of them is brave enough to say the elephant in the room - we are three or four decently attractive women, great careers, but we're all going home alone tonight to our small condos furnished exclusively with Ikea. The group used to be eight,… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 26/01/18 05:55 PM |
| 1 | [28F] "I have two lil girls and one on the way. Looking for someone who knows how to treat a woman right."Must Have: Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great skills This is a shocking display of a lack of awareness. This is a homemaker with GED equivalent and three kids out of wedlock (stupid), fat and ugly (no good looks here), watches shitty sitcoms (shit sense of humour), and I don't know what "great skills" means but she has zero skills to speak of. This may be the worst I've seen yet of high demand with literally nothing in return, and someone she thinks that's okay. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/01/18 05:11 AM |
| 5 | [36F] "My days of clubbing are long gone. What I’m looking for? Honesty and loyalty. They appear to have gotten lost, along with manners."That's the sad story about women like this who still have passable looks at this age. Even if she hadn't put in the note about the clubbing, this girl has definitely been fucked into oblivion. No man of decent value would even consider this, aside from a quick lay or two and ghost. She is also definitely going nuts that she is single at this age, because she's been widowed by Chad repeatedly. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/01/18 05:06 AM |
| 3 | [33F] "I have 3 kids, two I gave up for adoption and one whose dad is in prison. Just want to date a normal guy."I cant believe how many admit to having a baby daddy in jail. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/01/18 05:02 AM |
| 4 | [30sF] "Is there a shortage of older guys looking to settle down? It's not that I can’t get an attractive guy to date me, it’s just that I can’t find a guy that is looking to settle down." (r/AskWomen)In my experience, yes. There is either single moms, or those who are desperately looking to, not even have kids but, get married. Most women I've dated, when they're being honest usually after a few drinks, admit that not being married before 30 is a major milestone they'e failed to hit. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 06/01/18 04:28 AM |
| 9 | [30sF] "Is there a shortage of older guys looking to settle down? It's not that I can’t get an attractive guy to date me, it’s just that I can’t find a guy that is looking to settle down." (r/AskWomen)Exactly. I'm in my early 30s, homeowner, gym bro, lucrative career. There is just no incentive to shacking up with a 30 year old broad who just wants a relationship because she's baby crazy. Why do that, when tight 20 year old perky tits is in my playbook? Not only that but all of my broad friends in my age group who aren't married or in a serious relationship are fucking fit for a straight jacket at this point. They admit as much for fuck sakes. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/01/18 07:23 AM |
| 4 | Field Report: Hypergamy In Action, a story of two mid 30s HB9s.Late to the party but good post. Couple comments: 1) You didn't make this point explicitly but it is implied. Men cannot go through life trying to lock down the objectively hottest woman that will fuck them. I made this mistake once and never again. I'd take the 7 with a pleasant demeanour and strong family relationship who I turned down over the HB9 bitch fit for a straight jacket any day; 2) Get. The. Backstory. You did an excellent job delaying until you knew the history. This is a must. Good… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/17 11:11 PM |
| 6 | Me Too Guys! Times are a Changing Faster than we knowThis is funny because I was discussing something similar the other day amongst my fellow professional men. I have an assistant who, clearly, puts an awful lot of effort in to her dress at work. She's not particularly attractive, but the effort is there and in all honesty she looks great. Pretty but appropriate and professional. All the other girls compliment her on her hair, shoes, whatever all the time. She will never get a compliment from me on this. The risk of being perceived as sexually har… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/17 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Women don’t realize that a man’s smv has nothing to do with her own.“I feel like I’ll be forever alone. I refuse to settle and it seems like only men below my level want to date.” I fucking hate seeing "you go girl-ing" that say "don't settle". Bitch, everyone settles to some extent. I am dating an HB8 at the moment, but her friends drive me nuts so I am currently "settling" because I like everything else about her, but she doesn't check the "good social group" box. I broke up with a very hot HB9 once because I wouldn't "settle" for a fucking psycho, no matter h… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/17 09:49 PM |
| 2 | [35F] "What happened to all the gentlemen?! Please someone remind me that there are quality men out there." Her marital status and Conversation Starters provides a clue.And smokes: often. What a unicorn we have here. A heavy smoker, drug user, alcoholic waitress. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/12/17 09:29 PM |
| 4 | [37F] "Tired of one night stands. Looking for that bad boy who's a good man."These profiles, that say absolutely nothing, are a fucking dime a dozen. likes animals single mom self proclaimed "great sense of humour" "can go out and be social or stay in" How fucking boring is this person? Yet, I've probably encountered a hundred women who say the same thing in their dating profiles. She's offering nothing to the prospective suitor - she's ugly, single mom (so dad's probably gonna be hanging around for the purpose of the kid and he's probably a piece of shit), boring as shi… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/12/17 09:13 PM |
| 5 | "Have you guys noticed that more and more men are kind of dropping out of the dating scene?" (r/AskMen)Good comment section though. That's kind of encouraging. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/12/17 08:23 PM |
| 5 | Men tend to be much more capable, even in disagreement, of civil conversation about a topic without letting emotions boil over. (Video inside)Any man who has been around women longer than one hour knows this. If you've ever tried to calm a woman down because a "crisis" has occurred - i.e. a girlfriend "totally disrespected" her by inviting her to the party last minute when she should have been given ample notice - you've seen this. It's not worth it to engage in this shit on any level whatsoever. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/17 02:57 PM |
| 21 | [25F] "I see all of my friends getting engaged and married, while I give my heart to dumb douchebags. Will I ever find the right one?" (r/BreakUps)I like how the comments deny that OP should want a LTR or husband in the first place. "I want to get married" "Girl, you don't need no man. Look at me I'm 30! Stop feeling like you want a LTR at 25. It makes me feel bad | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 01/12/17 01:26 PM |
| -1 | What Traits Should You Look For In a Potential Girlfriend?One I would add to the red flag category is "self-identified bisexual". When I hear that, I know for a fact her partner count is in the dozens range, and she is a pleasure-seeker and possibly an addict to it. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/17 06:36 AM |
| 5 | [34F] "I am 5 months pregnant. Looking for financial help."My attractiveness: Very attractive Yikes. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/11/17 07:18 PM |
| 2 | The Holidays are filled with "good intentioned" Blue Pill adviceFamily is brutal for this, but it can easily be brushed off. If you can pass a simple shit test from a broad, you can pass these. The only one I struggle with being a young 30s single male in corporate is the office Xmas events. Those events the assistants and all that are women, and after a few glassses of wine will ask why I never a bring a date to them. I also brush those off, but it is definitely trickier. The rule I have been going by is that I don't bring girls to these unless it is an exc… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/17 07:20 PM |
| 3 | Girl accidently sends a voicemail into a group chat, says what most women are too afraid to admitThis is true, I've actually done this myself, and work in the industry involving a lot of said conferences. However, I think you might be missing the difference here. In the examples I gave, the women are finding fairly bad behaviour funny. I would never have laughed with my buddies how funny it would be to tell one of my exes how I cheated on her repeatedly on trips, nor would I gaslight two women at the same time for the attention (although that's par for the course for women, as you should kn… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/17 06:23 PM |
| 1 | "You are sooooo not my type!!!Bit late here, but my experience with this line is as follows: close same night. "you are soooo not my type" = "you're new and exciting" It's that simple. That line should always be interpreted as "she's into you" in woman-speak. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/17 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Be sure to make best friends with Chad Thundercock. It's eye-opening.In fairness, my most "Chad" friend is not the best looking. He is good looking, probably like an 8, maybe a high 7, but holy shit is he sharp as a tack. He is super social with dudes and chicks alike because he's funny, quick-witted, and most importantly confident. Not too dissimilar from your story, I watched this guy bike like an hour (doesn't own a car) to get to a BBQ, and within 20 minutes of meeting her he said to some girl, "so you don't want to go fuck now", proceed to take her onto the … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/17 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Hashtag Me Too- The Final Nail in the Coffin of the Modern RelationshipI agree, and I think sometimes here there is an emphasis on not working shitty jobs because for some reason people think it is poor frame. Yet, there is nothing worse for frame than a) being broke; b) living at home. I am currently an attorney, but my resume in college off the top of my head includes, warehouse general worker (forklifts and so on), dive pizza place, dive bartender, general construction, research assistant, administrative assistant, the list goes on. Not only do you learn importa… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/17 05:39 PM |
| 7 | Girl accidently sends a voicemail into a group chat, says what most women are too afraid to admitGot that right, and if you've ever had the pleasure of reading Facebook history between girlfriends, and especially slut-enabling girlfriends, you will see this. Shit I've seen in facebook messages puts male locker room talk to shame, at least in its crassness. Just off the top of my head: 1) One girl got in a small fight with her live-in boyfriend, her and her other friend laughing about how she should tell live-in boyfriend that she fucked his friend awhile ago when they were "on a break"; 2) … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/17 05:10 PM |
| 3 | Suicide statistics could be of interest to TRPNot really, but this is a heavy fucking topic man. How do you expect to have this in real life? | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/17 09:01 PM |
| 10 | Suicide statistics could be of interest to TRPCouldn't agree more, and if you are even a decent looking dude on Planet Earth you know this. 3 am calls from the chick you broke up with talking about she had to call some sort of suicide hotline or some shit. I've been there and I'm sure you have to | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/17 09:00 PM |
| 9 | Alcohol messed up my game and I've decided to stopI'll give it to you straight. You have two options: 1) Don't drink at all; or 2) Nurse a drink or two over the course of hours. The first is better for your health but often will require explanations because it is somewhat socially awkward and can be socially limiting. The second gives you the social advantages, but see below. I did the first option for years because I had a different problem than you. I could never just have one or two, it was always a dozen. Currently, I have that managed and … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/17 06:20 PM |
| 1 | I got cheated on. Don't be like me.and then she'd move the goalpost and change the subject of the argument to "I'm crying and you're not even consoling me". Fuck, been there. I usually do the, "I'm going out to give you time to think about this" routine - like you would do to a teenager, plus I need to think things through myself and these types fucking hate it when you do that. As for the rest, dude if you got out of that situation as you described with the stoic demeanor and just did it without throwing a shit fit then you are … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/17 05:10 PM |
| 23 | Those tits, manThis happens all the fucking time dude. The one I see all the time is when such women bring up their casual sex lives in front of a group or something. It's not only crass, but just flat out inappropriate. It's only to get male thirst going, that's all. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/17 05:01 PM |
| 19 | 4 Year LTR was there at my worst. Helped, nurtured, treated me like her king. She's being cheating all this fucking time.Chicks don't get that our emotions hinge on the fact that the girl is pure and doesn't give it to anyone else. I think you're right but I would go further, and I mentioned this in my response to OP in this thread. Despite the cliche of the philandering male, I think men naturally have a problem with this type of behaviour in a moral sense. If you think about this, this chick lied constantly for months to both men about what she was doing, her whereabouts, her feelings towards them, etc. She was … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/17 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend is flying here to apologize and have freaky sex, helpDo it. Then when she's gone dump her. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/17 11:31 PM |
| 1 | If I were to introduce TRP to a good buddy of mine. What would be a good post or quick read to get him interested?That works too, my point is I would go with a piece of literature before the subreddit to make sure he is interested and wants to learn more. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/17 11:19 PM |
| 1 | If I were to introduce TRP to a good buddy of mine. What would be a good post or quick read to get him interested?I would strongly advise Rollo's book or the 48 laws of power and see how he handles that first before introducing someone to here straight up. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/17 11:14 PM |
| 2 | Anybody have to deal with moving to a new state/country and losing your plates because of it?A bunch of times, and being back at square one and building up again is part of the fun and how you know if you're halfway decent at it. A blank slate has pros too you know... | /r/askTRP | 01/09/17 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Should I fuck the low SMV girl again?I'm assuming you want to fuck her, but you are questioning this because she's a 4 and dreads you a lot? I say do it. You're new and some sex might do you some good. You seem to want to anyway. As for the dreading, there was a post on the main site just the week about how to handle shit like this, and I would suggest following - pretend she didn't say it. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/17 11:11 PM |
| 5 | Intimidated by an alpha female?These chicks tend to be too much work for what it's worth because they're constantly shit testing you, and your banter game has to be very high. I've been with a couple and they do tend to become submissive when they've met the right guy who can do this. Unless you're really into her, these chicks take a lot of work, and not much reward. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/17 10:58 PM |
| 15 | 4 Year LTR was there at my worst. Helped, nurtured, treated me like her king. She's being cheating all this fucking time.Brutal dude. You'll get over this, and if this doesn't red pill you nothing will. Couple comments: First, I've always found the biggest issue men have with these situations isn't even the cheating in and of itself. Its the nonchalance with which women do it. I've hooked up with a girl who left her laptop and Facebook open and I read she said, "I love you" to a dude mere minutes after fucking me. My bro also went through a brutal breakup and he read her Facebook conversation with her bestie about… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/17 10:23 PM |
| 17 | 4 Year LTR was there at my worst. Helped, nurtured, treated me like her king. She's being cheating all this fucking time.In fairness, this wasn't a guy who knew about the relationship and just Chad'd his way through it. The guy was also lied to so he was probably pissed because she was cheating on him too. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/17 10:15 PM |
| 8 | Why women are mediocre at everything, and recognizing your androgen advantage: a neuroscience grad student's perspectiveBest post I've read in awhile. Cheers to you. At some point, you may have noticed that women who do have an obsession with a career or particular interest are oddly vacant from other aspects of their lives. If you've observed the lifestyle of successful young women up close, you know their apartments or hygiene are comically gross, or they are woefully bad cooks, or they get embarrassingly drunk and loose every weekend, or they simply let themselves go. I love this because it isn't even "oddly v… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/17 09:52 PM |
| 1 | A single action is worth years of theorizingOnce you get into law school then we got talk about that. As for your choice of law, I would caution you to consider: 1) debt you will need to take on, if any, should you pursue this. You are greatly mistaken if you think average wages have kept up with average cost of school. I know 2-3 year associates that still live at home as a result; 2) If you are doing this solely because you think it will make you rich, back out now. That's not why you should be doing it; 3) Be mindful it is not like TV.… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/17 09:03 PM |
| 3 | Girl inadvertently lays out textbook CC desires in postI've always been very attracted to him, however he has let himself go a bit and I have mentioned to him in really nice ways how to better himself. Stuff like how he can dress better, I've even offered to help him pick out things if he's unsure, we do cook a lot of healthy things together, I help him with workouts etc. I could have stopped reading right there and knew where this was going. This guy is toast. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/17 05:40 PM |
| 2 | A single action is worth years of theorizingGreat post. I really like that in here you feel confident with this decision. I say this as someone who is a private practicing lawyer in big law. I have good days and bad days, but I have some talent at what I do so I am happy with my decision to have taken all that financial risk, worked all those hours, ended a lot of friendships, etc. However, I am surrounded by an army of undead lawyers (particularly women) who spend everyday wishing they weren't here. Lots of men too. Doing something for p… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/17 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Engaged One! Grade meYou suck and go to asktrp next time | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/17 10:33 PM |
| 2 | Field Report: Do Your Best to Document ConsentI've also used, "my fingers still smell like your pussy" the morning after, and always gotten an enthusiastic response of doing it again. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/17 10:15 PM |
| 6 | Why the modern feminist movement is greatly misguided, and feminism would benefit being dissolved in order to be replaced with egalitarianism.Dude. These types of women are fucking few and far between. The vast majority are either overt feminists or don't really care but play along because it might result in cash and prizes. Why in the hell would women object to female preferenced hiring practices, higher pay and other preferential treatment on principal? Most just go along with it. Women will not cause the end of this, even if the vast majority are miserable. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/17 12:37 AM |
| 5 | Why the modern feminist movement is greatly misguided, and feminism would benefit being dissolved in order to be replaced with egalitarianism.Im just taking issue with your previous statement that women's unhappiness would be the end of it. It will not. Women cannot comprehend the problem let alone resolve it. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/17 11:51 PM |
| 9 | Why the modern feminist movement is greatly misguided, and feminism would benefit being dissolved in order to be replaced with egalitarianism.Not a chance. Women are not capable of rationalizing that being feminine, not trying to act like a man, is making them unhappy. It's only with male prodding is it possible for them to realize this. If you get laid you would know this. I've fucked dozens of feminists, like SJW types, and I'm a dick really. They all concede this point explicitly or implicitly when they're fucking dudes like us here. I fucked a girl for awhile who went all the top schools, could potentially be a feminist leader in … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/17 11:43 PM |
| 7 | Why the modern feminist movement is greatly misguided, and feminism would benefit being dissolved in order to be replaced with egalitarianism.You need to remember the statistics that women are reporting higher levels of unhappiness than before. Women themselves want to be feminine and they feel like they can't be anymore. I work with a ton of these girls, and they're often hot but they're visibly miserable at work (law firm). They have a sense of pride in what they do, but they're terribly unhappy about their life situation. They just haven't figured out why. Think about it like this - 8s and 9s will always have their cake and eat it … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/17 11:19 PM |
| 2 | Wife trying to forbid me from going to lifetime friend's baby shower b/c girlfriend of friend flaked on herYou're golden. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/17 01:25 AM |
| 1 | social circle ruined at uni... starting all over at 23Why the fuck are you being all butthurt - fine, go to drinking event, I don't fucking care. This being said, I would be shocked if you go to such a low quality college that there isn't fitness clubs, running teams, intramural sports, debating clubs, trivia teams, whatever. Fine, go to the fucking drinking shit. Your question was having to start afresh with a social circle. Do whatever you have to do. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/17 01:24 AM |
| 2 | social circle ruined at uni... starting all over at 23Yeah, I have a few clubs in mind I'll hit up, but there isn't a whole lot to do in my area besides go drinking. There is a ton of other shit besides drinking. You're just not looking hard enough. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/17 12:13 AM |
| 6 | social circle ruined at uni... starting all over at 23Just go to shit. This is only the first time this has happened to you. When you inevitably have to move for work, you will have to do it again most likely. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/17 11:43 PM |
| 1 | How to socialize without alcohol?All the more reason he shouldn't go with the allergy excuse I suppose. I never did go that far to read the book, went to a couple AA meetings, but I was lucky where I became aware early and just stopped because it was going there. It wasn't just alcohol but a lot of party drugs and it was getting nuts. Insane friends, fucking all the bad girls, etc. Long time ago now, but I still severely limit intake. I might drink a bottle of wine a month now I guess. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/17 10:57 PM |
| 34 | Wife trying to forbid me from going to lifetime friend's baby shower b/c girlfriend of friend flaked on herI'd put the foot down on this. Never allow chicks to reduce your social circle. Ever. I get she just doesn't want you to go to this event, but you can't give an inch on this. Agree and amplify, amused mastery, it's how you handle all this shit. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/17 09:49 PM |
| 3 | Is she just taking to me when bored?You haven't necessarily struck out. Friendzoning occurs more when you try and fail an escalation. Knowing a girl for a year and not having struck out and being witty and so on is not necessarily a friendzone. Try and escalate I'd say. Maybe try something like when you're cooking and she comes out again ask her if she wants to come over and try some, but she has to bring the wine. Something like that. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/17 09:46 PM |
| 2 | How to stay focused when working very long hours ?Here's my law school cheatsheet: 1) 8 hours sleep 2) Go for a run every morning. It can be 20 minutes or an hour. Whatever. Just get up and do it. 3) Lift. 3 times a week with no fuckarounditis is enough. 4) Have a plate or 2. I found a wonderful plate in my class who we would study together, and it got to the point that if either of us were getting tired we would nonchalantly ask "do you want to go have sex?" "Yeah sure, just let me finish this chapter". Both of us would routinely go out with o… | /r/askTRP | 22/08/17 09:03 PM |
| 2 | How to socialize without alcohol?Don't go with allergy then. Not to say it doesn't exist, but I've never heard of someone allergic to alcohol. I've heard allergy to specific kinds (red wine in particular due to the tanines) but it's so uncommon it sounds fake. I'm a lawyer so I know exactly the type of social environment you're talking about, but don't exclude yourself. Either don't drink openly, or don't drink covertly. Im actually at the point now that I nurse a drink, which is the easiest way, but there are loads of ways to … | /r/askTRP | 22/08/17 08:09 PM |
| 3 | How to socialize without alcohol?I'm a vet at this (not allergy, but I went through a long period of alcohol abstinence due to alcohol abuse). 1) People don't care as much as you think. Show up, have a water or a pepsi or something. No one will care. 2) If you think they might care, any bar you go to with these types have quality bartenders, and there is a fuck load of alcoholics in the world. If you discretely indicate that you want virgin rum and cokes to the bartender, give the wink and the nod, they know exactly what it mea… | /r/askTRP | 22/08/17 07:26 PM |
| 2 | Why is there a 'bro' code?My code can be broadly summarized as, "dont fuck girls that could negatively impact my reputation". So this rules out: 1) co-workers, 2) girls who are with people I know, and girls who were with very close friends. I don't want the drama that may ensue if he gets butthurt. 3) girls who are with people, long or short term, who have influence in some respect; 4) girls who I have been long term friends with because I don't want to risk social fracturing; and 5) married women in my vicinity. If peop… | /r/askTRP | 22/08/17 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Being the rebound?You handled the shit test well enough, that's all that was. This is a plate, relax, enjoy the sex. You wouldn't even be thinking about her when youre fucking a new one at college. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/17 07:12 PM |
| 2 | I cheated. Now it's getting serious. What to do?Dude. I'm going to be your best fucking friend. Don't say anything I'll tell you why. First of all, four years is fucking nothing. You could wake up a week from now and not feel it for whatever reason. Let alone years from now. Second, let's say you stay together. Do you know how mobile people are these days? The likelihood of you having to relocate for work is high and then, BAm!, you don't see anyone involved again. Also, who cares if your gf asks this chick and she acts dumb about your best f… | /r/askTRP | 22/08/17 07:03 PM |
| 33 | Young men who come here to create value in their lives, please stop smoking weed.I would even go further. Once you hit wake and bake everyday status, it's only a matter time. Every. Single. One. That I know eventually ends up neglecting things. This can be cleaning your place, lifting, going out, whatever. Eventually, you start racing home to smoke, kill an hour fucking around, then decide you'll do something, or maybe not - you have Netflix. When you reach that stage, everyone of you will start having to make excuses to yourself as to why you're not as productive as you sho… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/17 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Need to lose body fat / weight. Suggestions?Just learn to make your own meals dude. Once you get into it, there's nothing better than making your own meal. It's worlds better for you. This is how the fat guy at my bro house got in shape. He took a cooking class and really got into it, on top of lifting off course. For example, a simple pan-fried whitefish (whichever you want) with flour is easy, tastes great, and takes no time at all. If you were to make two of those with a side of asparagus and broccoli it is far better than ordering a f… | /r/askTRP | 18/08/17 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Can you trust the people 'working' in the gym?Usually there are several of them. I've seen shit ones, and awesome ones. Find the best one, who is usually clearly in the best shape himself (get a dude, not a chick). There's no shame in going to several at the same place. They're not making commissions off you so they don't care. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/17 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Just a shit test or should I end it with LTR?I'm going to third these guys man. Way too much time texting and inability to improvise. You shouldn't have given a heads up until you were out and said, "hey, got out a bit early going to head over now" "shit, sorry me and my girlfriend aren't done getting our assholes bleached. Be home around 8 like planned" "Cool, I'm going to grab a coffee/grab a drink/hit the gym/any other of the many possible things you can do to kill an hour. Text me when you're back and I'll head over." | /r/askTRP | 11/08/17 07:31 PM |
| 2 | Calling all Cassanovas on here: How do you juggle (make time) for multiple women ?How do you guys do it? Is it even possible juggling women, lets say, as many as 5 or 6? I can never do 5 or 6 longer than a month. 2 of those are getting ghosted, trimmed off like the fat on some quality meat. It's possible, but it's not going to be a good use of your time. Do you let some go purposely in order to have more time available for the hotter ones? Yes, see above. Do you run the risk of losing some unintentionally because you aren't texting them frequently or showing them enough atten… | /r/askTRP | 11/08/17 07:26 PM |
| 2 | Tell me if I'm at fault or wtf is going onDon't confront, ever. Just improve yourself, and you will probably grow on them. First impressions are important, but that's the thing- it's only the first impression. I would keep doing what you're doing, and try and befriend a couple that are around you. Offices closest to you maybe. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/17 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Old GF texts me 1.5 years after we cut contact. Her first text is a picture exposing her asshole to me... how to proceed?Common question. Its good you realized this: My only issue is that I developed "feelz" for this girl Essentially you need to make a decision about whether you think you can handle the feelz side of things. If you can then go for it. If you think this is going to be more trouble than its worth then don't respond at all. Doing that will drive her nuts anyway. 1.5 years is a long time but just assess that honestly with yourself. It's usually too much of a headache because they want a relationship a… | /r/askTRP | 11/08/17 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Really depressed and wanting to quit my job. Advice?I can't believe you just said that. This is exactly what happened to a best friend of mine (toxic relationship + stressful work) and it ended horrendously. Dude. Quit. It ain't fucking worth it. My buddy didn't take this advice and ended up getting canned for alcoholism. Quit while you are ahead. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/17 11:37 PM |
| 2 | Really depressed and wanting to quit my job. Advice?Good luck man. Seen too many descend into depression, alcoholism and in one case suicide over this. It's a fucking job, it isn't the end of the world and you'll be fine. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/17 10:05 PM |
| 3 | Really depressed and wanting to quit my job. Advice?If you do pull the trigger, on your next job interview: DO: indicate that you felt the relationship wasn't a right fit for you, but you enjoyed experience and all that. DONT: Focus too much of the interview on this. You don't want to come across as butthurt. Be positive and forward-thinking, not negative and past-thinking. Try and keep 98% of the interview on what you can do for them in a future sense. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/17 07:52 PM |
| 4 | Really depressed and wanting to quit my job. Advice?You're overestimating the value of a reference from a superior in circumstances where you quit. Employers aren't idiots and know that sometimes you have to quit. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/17 07:49 PM |
| 3 | What we should learn from James DamoreReally? I don't see any benefit to martyring myself for broad political issues. You shouldn't be reliant on this shit because self-sufficiency is the top of the TRP pyramid. I don't even care about politics in any real sense because it doesn't impact my life. I enjoy talking about it but in the run of an average day it doesn't make any difference who sits in the Iron Throne in any meaningful way. I enjoy my life the way I want due to self-sufficiency and this is what we all should be striving fo… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/17 07:43 PM |
| 1 | How much easier does having a 6-pack make it?Ever heard of Tinder? Yeah, it makes it much fucking easier | /r/askTRP | 10/08/17 07:30 PM |
| 5 | Really depressed and wanting to quit my job. Advice?If you're job is seriously making you depressed - quit dude before it ends in a catastrophe. I knew too many people who for financial reasons or just being a giant pussy refused to quit a job that made them miserable and it ended very badly every time. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/17 07:29 PM |
| 3 | Every girl I've ever been with has had daddy issues; is this a problem?Lots of girls have daddy issues. You also might need to reflect and discover you're attracted to the insecure types on a subliminal level. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/17 07:25 PM |
| 1 | I need help with friendsTeam sports. Also don't be afraid to go places yourself. I've moved more times than I can count and went to music shows/festivals by myself a bunch of times and met a group to hang out with there. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/17 07:24 PM |
| 1 | The Feminine Imperative in Corporate CultureI agree this is what happened, but I'm not sure the instant firing is ultimately bad for them. Speculating here. /u/rollo-tamassi is absolutely right about feminine correctness coming to dominate Western corporate culture. We pay this in a tax now in the form of "diversity officers" which every corporation worth a damn must hire on full time, and then throw tons of cash at to host mandatory femininity workshops/seminars. As for Google, Steven Crowder did a decent video pointing out that you coul… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/17 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Slow-playing - What? Why? When? How?Problem I see is there is a post over at asktrp fairly frequently where someone is complaining that they can close after 2 or 3 meet ups with a girl, but not the first. This upsets them for some unknown reason. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/17 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Is "Blank Space" by Taylor Swift an admission that TRP is right?Taylor Swift has made a full career of making songs that for women are "real talk". Look at the song style: I heard you've been out and about with some other girl He says what you heard is true, but I Can't stop thinking about you, and I I said I been there too a few times Broads love this because this is validating their cock carousel behaviour. They know it's wrong, but we all do it, amirite girls? Let alone how the protagonist in the song doesn't give a shit about/is attracted by Chad's woman… | /r/askTRP | 10/08/17 06:42 PM |
| 1 | How do you not care?Think about it like this. I care when it's raining out because I have to wear my rain jacket when I walk to work and I prefer not to. But, I know there is nothing I can do about it because this is just the natural way of things. I care, but I'm not butthurt about it. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/17 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Slow-playing - What? Why? When? How?The problem is I see posts where I think escalation was done too early, and unnecessarily. Again, I can't stress the situational aspect enough - Clubs, Tinder dates, music festivals, whatever, would be extremely inappropriate for this move. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/17 05:34 PM |
| 3 | Slow-playing - What? Why? When? How?I haven't dealt with LMR in years. This is part of the reason why. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/17 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Slow-playing - What? Why? When? How?Another is one where you are going into foreign territory (new college, new city, etc.) and you meet a new group of friends. I can't stress this enough (it's in my OP). This you gives you time to get the lay of the land in this potential new friend group. If you're into QT HB 8, and you have time always be flirty with her so you don't friendzone but for example, you might learn later that you're newest bro is into her. Not that you shouldn't fuck her necessarily, but if you get the sense this wi… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/17 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Reject to get in friendzone, look what happened nextThe vibe I get here, and he admitted as much in the comments, is he wanted to fuck her because she's into kinky shit. Not my bag personally, but hey. If this is the case, why did he rush into it? | /r/askTRP | 10/08/17 05:30 PM |
| 4 | Slow-playing - What? Why? When? How?Thanks bro. You know what I'm talking about. There is absolutely nothing like having gamed a girl this way. They think they are in a fairy tale and no LMR. But the bigger picture, the amount of times I've slow played even short time stuff (by one night for example), but coming across as the "cool guy", and then the next time we are out is probably over 20 where I've bagged. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/17 01:14 AM |
| 7 | Slow-playing - What? Why? When? How?I will agree it takes a form of advanced game (as you can see the FR uses several gaming strategies, which at the time was not pre-emptive). However, there are too many people here that think that "escalate immediately" is the be all end all. If you have time use it, and in many situations letting the fruit ripen, the mare get rowdy, whatever analogy you want, is far better than trying to AMOG your way into a lay. Again, it's all contextual. Only if you have the time, does this work. But it is v… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/17 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Reject to get in friendzone, look what happened nextDone | /r/askTRP | 09/08/17 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Should I give up on dating ?I hope you see how inocuous all the shit I said was. This is because most women today are entitled and get this treatment all the time from dudes, but god forbid they ever do it for a man. That wouldn't be progressive to do nice things for a man, amirite?! Let me put this another way, my count is in the 75-100 range and this is the only girl that did these things. Most are good lays, but entitled and eventually demand me to support them 100% in every way possible with nothing but pussy in exchan… | /r/askTRP | 09/08/17 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Should I give up on dating ?No problem. I can't stress number four enough. We don't expect you to try and be 50/50 partners with us during our struggles. The best first mate you can be though, the better. Another one - this girl couldn't cook for shit (like most women today) and I remember to this day being at work once and she showed up unannounced with merely a hamburger with avocado she made herself on the BBQ that day. She said, "I know I suck at cooking, but I thought you might be hungry". I have thought about that mo… | /r/askTRP | 09/08/17 06:28 PM |
| 4 | Reject to get in friendzone, look what happened nextI'm a master of slow playing. This is my main wheelhouse. I've been thinking about posting something on this for awhile now because I thinks the always escalating mantra is being misused. There's nothing more satisfying than succeeding on the slow play, there is no LMR nothing like that. Obviously it depends on the context, but if you actually have abundance mentality, it shouldn't be hard. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/17 05:52 PM |
| 1 | I'm 5'8.5/5'9 and 140 lb. Will gaining weight really benefit me?5'8- 5'9, wants to be action actor and weighs 140. LOL. I'm 5'7-5'8 and weigh 160 with around 10% body fat, maybe slightly more. You're just skinny if you think that's a good weight. I'm not bulky at all. I agree you don't want to be short, bulky guy but you're not doing it right if you weigh that. Action actor Mark Whalberg is around our height and weighs over 180 lbs dude. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/17 05:38 PM |
| 2 | Matched on Tinder with the ex of a good friendThen say, I didn't know it was her until after because I've never met her. What you're doing is coming here trying to justify this activity that you know your friend will have a problem with. The easy road, if you will. Being a man and being up front is always harder. You still haven't fucking met her. This isn't a situation where you've fallen head over heels with a broad and don't know what to do. You are failing horribly at abundance mentality if you can't even ask your friend if it's okay to… | /r/askTRP | 09/08/17 05:16 PM |
| 1 | How would you have responded in this situation?Not a huge deal and you haven't struck out yet. Just ghost until she responds and then you can try again if you want. Or you can just ghost. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/17 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Matched on Tinder with the ex of a good friendI understand that plenty. What I don't understand is why you're so fuckig afraid to ask your best friend. If you're in the right, what's the harm? Why are you hiding it all? Give your friend the opportunity to be a bro and say, "I appreciate you asking, you're a real bro, it's all good with me man". This would be a great social move for you. Let me also tell you something that I find faggy about your idea. You're acting like a chick because you think "only if it gets serious do I have to say any… | /r/askTRP | 09/08/17 05:01 PM |
| 3 | How would you have responded in this situation?Monday rolls around, she texts me again, "are you mad at me". I tell her I'm not mad, just a bit disappointed. Now, radio silence. Not terrible, but no. I would have responded late on Sunday with something to the effect of "no worries! I ended up doing X and had an interesting night! You missed out" (not those words, but that message). P.S. No doubt she was out with another Tinder date. Was her excuse that she fell asleep? | /r/askTRP | 09/08/17 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Matched on Tinder with the ex of a good friendNo, you need to think with big head not little head here. Ask yourself two things: how good of a friend is he? Might he care? If he isn't that good of a friend, whatever. If he is, and there is a chance he might not care (if he fucked one of your exes already for example) then maybe. But if he might care and you do this faggy thing of only telling him after, he might lose respect for you. This "hiding" shit doesn't go over well with most men. This is what women do. 9 years is a long time. He pro… | /r/askTRP | 09/08/17 04:34 PM |
| 3 | I just realized that I care that a woman has to know she's below me in power... why is that?Chicks rarely "know" anything when it comes to their relationship with men. It's just Dorothy in Oz, being thrown around by a tornado and running around a fairytale land. What they think they know is transient and changes on a dime. "I'm happy, I'm sad, I'm a good worker, I'm a bad worker, my boss is an asshole, I love my boss". Those sequence of thoughts can and do occur inside the minds of women in the run of a single day. You need to stop caring and apply amused mastery. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/17 04:14 PM |
| 10 | Reject to get in friendzone, look what happened nextThere are two possible explanations for this - 1) you never really had a chance because you were a beta friendzone and she wanted to go with someone else because going to shit alone as a chick is bad socially; or 2) you had a chance but fucked it up by being desperate. I don't understand the need to escalate quickly, or perhaps what I would call too quickly, when you have time. A club or a Tinde match is one thing but you met this girl the normal social way. You're going on a trip, you have tons… | /r/askTRP | 09/08/17 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Should I give up on dating ?25 isn't old. Tell you what, I'll tell you a story of a girl I dated briefly and highlight indicators that she would have been a good mate. So I met a girl who wasn't particularly attractive, a 7 I guess when I was in undergrad. This was six months before she was going to go on an exchange. Good flag one - she indicated that this would have to be a short term relationship because of upcoming exchange. Exchanges are inherently a bad thing, but this is unusual honesty in chicks. Good flag two - sh… | /r/askTRP | 09/08/17 03:45 PM |
| 2 | What does TRP think about stoners and smoking weed everyday?Thanks for admitting to this because this is what I find. One of my best friends has a good job, high potential for advancement, good looking, etc. But he smokes weed daily, wakes and bakes, etc. His apartment is very nice, but it's always a fucking mess because he never bothers to clean, never bothers to cook, etc. This is because he races home from work to smoke weed. Sits around for an hour or two watches Netflix, might do something after, then races home again. I'm not saying all usage is ba… | /r/askTRP | 09/08/17 03:20 PM |
| 3 | Friend goes on a large group trip overseas, watches as 90% of the girls cheat on their boyfriendsGood one. I have been "the other guy" many times in this situation and several times the broads did a horrible job at hiding that they had a boyfriend back home. Saying "I love you" on the phone and shit in hushed voices and coming back into the room and saying they were talking to "mom". | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/17 01:35 PM |
| 3 | How feminism destroyed my familyI'm on board about 80% with you - he should be at least plating 20 something perky tits. There is no excuse for not doing that whatsoever, but he doesn't indicate he doesn't fuck 20 year olds,so I'll give him the benefit of the doubt. However, there is a caveat here. And that is NYC. I'm not sure you know how well NYC but it is another planet when it comes to dating. First of all, loads of women of any age there are happy to just fuck. They're pretty laid back about the whole thing, and a 30-35 … | /r/askTRP | 08/08/17 10:46 PM |
| 2 | Don't even think about thinking about opening up to a womanIt's the vulnerability and any modicum of sense that you are anxious or somehow weakened by the situation. You can say, "big meeting tomorrow, going to be tough, but I'm going to kill it". You can't say,"oh my God I'm so stressed, this job is killing, and there is this big meeting tomorrow". This completely destroys the captain-first mate dynamic because you're supposed to lead and know how to traverse rough seas and hazardous shoals. She's there to do little things to help you, make dinner whil… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/17 09:56 PM |
| 2 | Google Fires Ph.D Biologist/Engineer For Claiming -- "On average, men and women biologically differ in many ways. "Indeed, but they're probably going to with some sort of argument about the memo itself being inappropriate/controversial. Essentially, not good work conduct that upset, and he know would upset, other coworkers. Something along those lines. I don't agree with the firing of course, but that's likely the substance of their argument should they have to make one. And then that issue gets to the nature of this "forum" and to what extent, if any, Google encouraged or condoned controversial or diversity… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/17 07:00 PM |
| 7 | Redpillers: What should I do?CUT! Listen to your friend. You obviously have not put the effort in to understand this if you're even questioning this. Cut contact, and read the sidebar over at the main site. Jesus, snapchat relationships. Makes me fucking urge. | /r/askTRP | 04/08/17 08:51 PM |
| 4 | Redpillers: What should I do?how should I handle the situation? Read the Sidebar. There's way too much going on here. Listen to your friend who seems to know more about this than you. Couple points to get you started: I have been told many times that I should be a model What makes you think being good looking is the be all end all? If you act like a pussy, like you did, this will not assist you. I was still taking her to a movie. This is what caused her to ghost you. This was a mistake. Needy. | /r/askTRP | 04/08/17 08:46 PM |
| 3 | Struggling with a big life decision I have coming up...You need to go. Social lives are fluid. You'll meet new friends, and fuck some new broads. | /r/askTRP | 04/08/17 08:31 PM |
| 1 | The opposite of invictus - how do you know when to just cut your losses?Well follow advice I gave, and you will learn this too | /r/askTRP | 04/08/17 08:07 PM |
| 1 | The opposite of invictus - how do you know when to just cut your losses?This is too broad to specify indicators bro. Generally speaking, the best strategy is to write down pros, cons, etc. of a situation. Go to bed. Look at list again and add anything you forgot the first time around. Assess. | /r/askTRP | 04/08/17 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Drugs and sexI second this guy, because I almost when down this road myself (alcohol was more my poison of choice though). This being said, I would be hypocritical if I didn't acknowledge how much fun I had doing this. I would strongly advise don't do this, but if you are, I will give you the real advice: Stay. The. Fuck. Away. From. Junkie. Chicks. You indicated that your girl isn't into drugs now, so if you're going to mutually experiment, that's probably the best case scenario. Just don't upgrade to a gir… | /r/askTRP | 04/08/17 07:33 PM |
| 4 | Update: Random Facebook MessageJesus dude, this is so easy I almost think you're humblebragging. "Ah, thinking about heading to bar X [or whatever you normally do] Saturday, if you want to come" Proceed to smash. This is fish in a barrel. | /r/askTRP | 04/08/17 07:14 PM |
| 2 | Video GamesThen you need serious lifestyle changes. Stop being a fucking pussy. If you're really into this, do it as a reward and be a high-functioning addict. You get one hour, after you've completed tasks X, Y and Z, for example. | /r/askTRP | 04/08/17 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Opinions on emotional support in LTR?You're supposed to be the captain. Be the role model, lead. A simple tip is allow her brief period of venting/emoting, and then lead in a forward-thinking way. "I understand, this is shitty, but you need to consider your options going forward. Those are..." | /r/askTRP | 04/08/17 07:09 PM |
| 3 | Update: Random Facebook MessageYou can easily smash. Just keep your frame because she's probably going to try and get you into a relationship. | /r/askTRP | 04/08/17 07:07 PM |
| 11 | How to become more charismatic | A practical analysis of Dwayne 'The Rock' Johnson and how he uses the principles outlined in 'How to win friends and influence people'Here's something to bear in mind about the Rock though, he has dealt with adversity. He was broke, like poverty broke, for awhile. His production company is called "8 Bucks" or something like that referring to a point in his life when all had to his name was 8 bucks in his pocket, and he did it to keep himself humble. I think a real difference between successful and unsuccessful men is the ability to deal with adversity. Too many men hit one roadblock and fuck up their lives. It can be big (deat… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/17 06:07 PM |
| 3 | What broke you?It's sort of a cliche, but this is the sort of thing that resolves itself with age and experience. Essentially, you are going to go through relatively quick cycles when you're in your 20s. One year you're into the pick up thing, the next into LTRs because no degeneracy. When you're older, you will have self-actualized and figured out what's best for you. I was almost pure plating and ONS in my 20s with only a few spats of LTR. I'm a pair and a spare kind of guy in my 30s. I like having a good pl… | /r/askTRP | 04/08/17 01:08 AM |
| 6 | A friend of mine grabbed my girlfriend.Two days later I confronted my friend about it and he admitted to it, but didn't see what the big deal was since my girlfriend didn't sleep with him. He said he was testing her loyalty to me for me by grabbing her. I know he is full of bullshit, but how should I handle this situation now? I think this is horseshit. He's trying to see if he can bang your girl again. The reason for this being - you let him get away with it once. You should have put your foot down then. | /r/askTRP | 03/08/17 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Don't text much since TRP, plates taking it the wrong way?You have to understand, which I think you might, is that text response time is "a thing". It's the natural evolution from the "how long do I wait after a first date to call" which I had to deal with in the late 90s and early 2000s. People think about it, analyze it, etc. Your goal shouldn't be "don't text too much because beta", it should be "what 'message' about myself do I want to send". | /r/askTRP | 03/08/17 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Going to the gym with a girl on a "first date"?Here's your problem. You need to take the word "date" out of your vocabulary right the fuck now. Dates don't exist for anyone that isn't an LTR. It is just "situations with chicks you want to bang which hopefully you can escalate. You might, you might not." In this case it's at the gym, next time might be at a cafe/bar, next time a concert, etc. Chickadee wants to hang out with you at the gym. Why the fuck not? Just do your usual routine (obviously you'll be banting/flirting more, so adjust acco… | /r/askTRP | 03/08/17 06:55 PM |
| 7 | What broke you?Two things: 1) This event occurred a long time ago. I was sort of a natural at gaming and was varsity athlete. A massively beta-fied acquaintance once bore witness to me being with Girl A for a couple of months who then took off to travel. Then I hooked up the next day with Girl B who was friends with Girl A. I then overheard him comment, "Ecoast_man must have a huge dick" to someone after a bunch of drinks. This confused me at the time, first of all because I don't have a huge dick, average siz… | /r/askTRP | 03/08/17 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Don't text much since TRP, plates taking it the wrong way?Here is my general rule, for what it's worth. I generally think about it from her end because women go crazy overthinking the "messages" in the shit you do. So I cater my text message routine to send the message I want (generally or course, there's always exceptions and you have to improvise at times). The message I send is that I'm busy at work because I'm in such high demand, at it's most basic. So my general rule to send this message is that I only respond to texts during times when it would … | /r/askTRP | 03/08/17 06:41 PM |
| 3 | A live glimpse into the female id hamsterThis isn't a RPE, but anyway. Oh and ALSO I have a history of sexual, verbal, and physical abuse so that makes it interesting I hope everyone here realizes that this is just part of the massive society-wide shit test that is modern feminism corrupting women. We have gotten to the point now that women will almost proudly talk about their past relationship abuse as if it's a medal. This is a shit test: 1) I'm a little older than most of you (early 30s) and this was fucking rare when I was in colle… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/17 05:54 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Just accidentally stood up a first dateCouple things: 1) if she's still texting you, and it isn't "fuck you, I'm out" and it is as you claim "hurts feelz", you're definitely still in. No question about it. I have done this a few times that were quite legitimately forgetting (I was in college before smartphones so there wasn't this constant communication), and it really isn't too much of a problem and is probably a good thing if you play your cards right; 2) Agree with you don't apologize, but I would handle this a little differently … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/17 05:42 PM |
| 2 | Unable to plate girl, she says I'm too much of a "player"If you are here: We kiss, grab ass and tits etc but nothing else. And getting this: Whenever I try to go any further, she accuses me of being a player and implies she wants a relationship before we do any of that. You're doing something wrong. This is in the bag, you're just fucking something up. Just agree and amplify, have some drinks, I dunno. I don't buy for a second that you're doing everything right and she's "100% serious". | /r/askTRP | 31/07/17 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Girl comes to sleep with me but doesn't want to 'sleep with me'. What gives?Okay, that explains the pillow situation. I dunno, hard to say. I would think broad strokes one or two of what the top comment on this thread is. | /r/askTRP | 31/07/17 07:48 PM |
| 5 | I feel like I'm never going to have a healthy relationship if I can't look past girls' sexual history. Is that true?I can never get over that some girls think sucking dicks isn't as big of a deal as vaginal sex. This is fucking, every girl today, I've heard people talk about the anal sex to preserve virginity- thing but never encountered that in real life. This however, I would say damn near 100% of girls I've been think this way. It's obviously hamster at work but still. It's amazing, isn't it? | /r/askTRP | 31/07/17 07:11 PM |
| 1 | How do I approach LTR shit test of GF giving me the "silent treatment".I don't have much advice here, I fucking hate this scenario, been in this exact situation (vacation, beach) twice actually. Hold out I'd say, hopefully she gets distracted by a puppy or something. Caution: there is a high possibility she will instigate a full-out fight either during the trip or immediately afterwards. If she does, the will definitely bring up other shit beyond the laptop, something you did in the past, how you "don't respect her and this laptop is just the most recent instance."… | /r/askTRP | 31/07/17 07:02 PM |
| 1 | ltr wants to see my placeDude, 1.5 years is far too long for this. I rarely say this, but she's right in this case. An LTR for 1.5 years, it's fucking weird. Now, to the advice: You're overthinking this. I lived in fucking squalor when I was in college. Like five roommates in a house in the U of T slums in downtown Toronto. Small-ass kitchen, living room could not fit all of us in it, let alone guests, one guy sleeping in a cot in the basement, etc. This doesn't matter. What does matter is that the common areas aren't a… | /r/askTRP | 31/07/17 06:55 PM |
| 2 | Entered LTR, what do I tell plates?NP, they'll almost certainly say "yes", just don't answer. Don't need to block unless they get crazy, but I've never encountered that. It's a minor annoyance that will go away in less than a month. Chicks don't inherently like coming across as desperate unless they're super-invested in you (like if they were LTRS), and superficially chicks don't like dudes cheating. They don't actually care, especially when it comes to chicks cheating, but most broads will understand that you're trying to be an … | /r/askTRP | 31/07/17 06:38 PM |
| 3 | Entered LTR, what do I tell plates?"I cant see you anymore, I promised this one girl I won't see other women for now" Don't say that, it's autistic. Here's what you say, "Listen, I started seeing someone else and things are starting to get serious so we can't continue with this. Love to stay friends though [OR] let's hang out sometime just as friends". Then she'll probably want to know who it is or keep contacting you and so on, and just don't answer. By saying, "starting to get serious" as opposed to "I have a gf now" does two t… | /r/askTRP | 31/07/17 06:29 PM |
| 4 | What can I do to get this crazy ex-plate to understand it's over?What the fuck are you doing? You just don't answer anything she sends, and she should be blocked. If she comes to your work, then that's restraining order territory. If you stopped fucking answering her messages, 9 times out of 10 they'll fuck off eventually. | /r/askTRP | 31/07/17 06:23 PM |
| 11 | Girl comes to sleep with me but doesn't want to 'sleep with me'. What gives?I think either of these two are highly probable, /u/goldenjung I'm going to throw out another possibility OP, which is part of this guy's first point (turned off by something): When it's time to 'go to bed', she gives me some shit about having only one pillow and duvet like it was my idea that she wanted to stay over. Why exactly do you have only one pillow? This seems like insanely poor planning to me, to the point it's obvious not to have one pillow. This makes me suspect you have low standard… | /r/askTRP | 31/07/17 06:18 PM |
| 4 | Short anecdote of the Chicks I've had sex with.Of the 125+ girls I've fucked, a handful were actually single. I think this is an important point. I'm probably in the 80-90 range, and only a handful weren't "with" someone else, ranging from married all the way down to fucking some other dude who thought or assumed they were exclusive. Single is different for men and women, and women are rarely "actually" single at any point after the age of 18. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/17 02:10 PM |
| 3 | Free Drink Hustle Thwarted By Holding FrameThis is obviously fake or embellished to the point of absurdity. 1) "Stand-up guy" x 2. 2) "Getting the manager". Not to say this is impossible, but I have very rarely encountered "get the manager" at a bar. In fact, I can't think of any time this has happened. Bartenders don't usually fuck around with that. This is what they, and bouncers, are there for. 3) This: When the bar tender asked if they needed anything else, I told them they should try the house cocktail as I closed out my tab. Again,… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/17 01:56 PM |
| 8 | Got a number last night, girl texted first today. Should I setup a date now?Youre golden here. Don't be too aloof. "Hey stranger, nice meeting you too" Proceed to set up date. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/17 12:13 AM |
| 11 | My mind is fucked up boys, need some adviceHere is what you're going to do: 1) Never. Speak. Of. This. Again. Ideally, this was the alcohol talking and she's embarassed and it will all blow over. 2) If it happens again, which it very well might, next time you're out drinking and you go for a smoke and she does it again, respond "you're boyfriend is X. Fuck off" in those words. Don't pussyfoot around. This is all under the assumption you don't want to fuck her and blow up the friend group. I get the sense you don't want to and this is how… | /r/askTRP | 29/07/17 11:51 PM |
| 3 | Rebuilding a social life after self ostrichismBackground, I've had to do this all my life because of having to move due to parents, school, university, work, etc. I've had to move constantly and start afresh, so for different reasons than you I've done this since I was kid. I'm going to really stress to you number five. To put it bluntly - do shit outside of your home. It really doesn't matter. Things you like or things you think you could like. Like music? Pick up the local hipster newspaper and pick out a show and go. Go by yourself if yo… | /r/askTRP | 29/07/17 11:43 PM |
| 2 | Why would anyone use pick up? Clubs etc, when you can just use tinder?You're not missing anything. I haven't been to a club in over year because of this | /r/askTRP | 29/07/17 01:01 PM |
| 2 | Took girl out on a date. She wants to Netflix and Chill tonight at her place. I have no sexual experience. Help.Whisky dick is worse than however you think being a novice will fuck it up. Don't do that, and you'll figure the rest out. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/17 11:28 PM |
| 2 | How to stop seeing my night as a failure if I don't get laid?By seeing it as a practice. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/17 10:32 PM |
| 8 | Took girl out on a date. She wants to Netflix and Chill tonight at her place. I have no sexual experience. Help.Bring a condom and don't drink too much. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/17 09:47 PM |
| 15 | Do not let her waste your time. Use your power to walk away.Good one. I get the same shit (30 yo). Fuck I find these ones annoying, but it's comes with the territory I suppose. I'll be interested to hear if the age-related shit testing slows down after you've fucked. It usually does for me. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/17 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Drink cultureThe way I see it, you have two options here: 1) /u/savagedealer is correct, you can easily skirt drinking. You can do the non-alcoholic fake drink thing, you can use family history, whatever. You can even go with "it interferes with my gainz bro", which I have personally used. No one cares after they've had a few drinks. I did this for a long time, bartenders know whats up if you discretely ask for a virgin rum and coke or whatever and they'll remember that order if you tip; 2) I'm at the stage … | /r/askTRP | 27/07/17 08:05 PM |
| 2 | 5'7" manlet here. Lacking facial aesthetics but lifting hard. Do I have any chance?Yeah it's more of a preference for me. I like my height or shorter, not that height has stopped me before under the right circumstances. I actually lost my virginity to a spicy latina who was a couple inches taller than me and a few years older than me. My point is more along the lines of - I don't even really consider it "not playing the field" to go for my height or shorter because it seems that really hot chicks aren't that tall. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/17 05:44 PM |
| 1 | She apologized for being a bitchEasy peazy. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/17 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Can someone listen to me vent?Many great men have fallen because the sense of, "but I'll never be able to do better than her" has caused uberpussification and betafication of them. I've done it myself in the past, and many bros have mine have done the same. The "she's the best I'll ever do" is a real weakness for many men. Good for you on avoiding it. Time heals all wounds, but other pussy will heal it faster. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/17 05:12 PM |
| 8 | What do I do about this insecure guy?This is work-related. I am a completely different person at work than I am outside of it, and you shouldn't be all "but I want to be myself". If you being social and jovial around the girl pisses off the guy, stop doing it if it's important at work. Plain and simple. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/17 05:08 PM |
| 3 | Literally walked away from a co worker after it was getting too complicated, now not sure what to do.You should be amused at her fickle ways and how she's not even consciously aware of what she wants. This should be funny to you. What you should do is up to you. If you want to plate this girl, then continue fucking and don't care about the other dude. You should also be escalating or fucking other women. If you don't want to plate this girl then soft next, don't create drama at work just ghost out from the extracurricular activities. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/17 05:02 PM |
| 2 | How to get into working out?You really want to get into it? The easiest way to do this at your age is to get some of your bros, or even one bro, into it too. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/17 04:54 PM |
| 11 | Literally walked away from a co worker after it was getting too complicated, now not sure what to do.She then told me that I she had to stay at the party but I was welcome to stay over and cuddle. But we weren't having sex cause we aren't dating and that she isn't dating anyone cause she just got out of a 4 year relationship. Proceeds to text you constantly Dude, this is textbook "observe what they do, not what they say". Chick obviously wanted to to bang later, you just took her at her word like an idiot. If you want to plate this girl, stop caring about Sawyer and go to the music festival and… | /r/askTRP | 27/07/17 04:47 PM |
| 1 | What is your "routine" you use at bars/clubs?What you should do is find what works for you. For example, I can't dance to save my life so club game isn't great for me. You obviously don't need to be able to dance in a club, but it helps. Think about it like that. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/17 04:45 PM |
| 4 | She apologized for being a bitchJust be aloof about it. I dealt with this constantly when I was in uni. "I'm sorry I was a bitch yesterday" "And you're not going to do it again, right?" amused serious face This is going to happen a lot. It's up to you to decide when she's hit the threshold of nexting. I studied a lot so I had a three strike rule depending on the intensity of the bitchiness. Super-bitchy is next immediately, bitchy but not that bad because she wants attention, three strikes. That's just me though. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/17 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Co-Habitation - How should I know if she is marriage material if I don't live with her first?Read the fucking post dude. It's not even me we are talking about, and I'm having trouble counterarguing this point raised by the protagonist in the story. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/17 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Co-Habitation - How should I know if she is marriage material if I don't live with her first?I'd suggest reading the rest of it, given there is a specific question that's more nuanced than that. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/17 04:23 PM |
| 3 | Howcome Shawn Mendes can sing a song called "I can treat you better than he can" and get women screaming for him and their panties wet.Because women live in a fantasy land with talking puppies and candy cane houses. In this land, their life is something bigger than it is (insignificant), and Chads and minstrels like Shawn Mendes alike are lusting after them constantly. It's a tale as old as time, like Cyrano de Bergerac. I don't know anything about Shawn Mendes, but he's probably slaying pussy irl because he's rich and famous. Leo Dicaprio is the same way - he used to play "Romeo" and "Jack" in Titanic (fantasy) while irl he wa… | /r/askTRP | 26/07/17 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Finally have a good physique… Now how do I actually benefit from it?But with male fashion standards being what they are I honestly don't think my low body fat/visible abs is worth the effort (setting aside the health benefits). It's called "shirtless selfie" and the app is called "Tinder" | /r/askTRP | 26/07/17 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Why are tattoos a red flag?Depends on the tattoo and its placement, but definitely a red flag for sluttery. I'm okay with small, discrete tattoos that are concealed 90% of the time. Sleeves and tramp stamps are a no-go. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/17 11:13 PM |
| 7 | The plate wants to date (me). Ghost, next or draw out the sex..Why do you need to stay in all the time? Is there a reason for this? I don't understand what's wrong with going out a grabbing a bite or a drink with a plate. I do it all the time. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/17 10:41 PM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts on the following names?Don't know the last one, but I like the first two. I really enjoyed Taleb's Incerto series. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/17 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Oh man what I do here? Save a guy from divorce and a lot of trouble?For what it's worth, I would also suggest not fucking her anymore, and taking a great deal of comfort that you have born witness to this personally, and know first hand the duplicitous nature of women without being the cuck of the story. This is just me though. The "should I cuck a dude?" issue has been debated here many times, so make up your own decision on that. You have my 2 cents | /r/askTRP | 26/07/17 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Had sex twice with a friend, things went south, want a subtle revenge, any advice is welcomeDude, you are in the wrong fucking sub if you are trying to get petty revenge on some chick because your butthurt because you had feefees for her. This is beyond bitch behaviour, and the type of shit neckbeards and chicks fantasize about. I'm going to be your best fucking friend here: Go out, and get fucking laid. The cliche, "living well is the best revenge" is true in this case. Forget this bitch and move the fuck on. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/17 10:13 PM |
| 2 | Oh man what I do here? Save a guy from divorce and a lot of trouble?bros before hoe Bullshit, he barely fucking knows him. OP can chime in, but I don't think this guy is OP's "bro". Look, I'm not one for this either. Not based on morality but because I've found doing this can really damage your reputation, and it's just not worth it in my mind (plus, the .45 threat). This is debated all the time here, and from the sense I get OP does not have a moral issue with banging another man's girl. That's his decision. If you're going to lecture anyone, lecture OP. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/17 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Had sex twice with a friend, things went south, want a subtle revenge, any advice is welcomeand I want to know your opinions about a good revenge (and maybe for making her fall in love with me again so I can -just fuck the pussy- this time and than make her feel like a shit. Any advice is welcome and will be used if deemed useful. Thank you guys ;=) Want advice? Grow the fuck up. Revenge porn is for losers. You won't be even thinking about her, or revenge, when you grow a set, have abundance mentality, and another little Ms. Perky Tits is sucking your dick. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/17 09:57 PM |
| 3 | Oh man what I do here? Save a guy from divorce and a lot of trouble?No, stay the fuck out of this and don't get involved. This isn't your problem. You're just the current cock on the carousel, if it's not you it would be someone else. Not saying don't continue banging her if the opportunity arises (that's your own decision), just don't step in. Look at risk/reward, you don't want this dude getting all crazy. You never fuckin' know man. He will blame you (even though it is her fault) and he might do nothing, but he also might show up at your door with his shiny n… | /r/askTRP | 26/07/17 09:52 PM |
| 0 | Co-Habitation - How should I know if she is marriage material if I don't live with her first?Don't have to be, but here in Canada it is much harder to prove this outside of marriage than in. When you're married it is default half the house and you need to disprove that with a prenup or something. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/17 09:39 PM |
| 14 | Should I go for a prostitute to lose virginity?Based on this: I'm a 20 yo guy, that had some smaller problems during teenage years that clustered into a major confidence and socializing problem. I don't think his primary issue is being a virgin, it's a lack of confidence. I don't think going to prostitutes for the rest of his life will fix this problem. It will help get the stigma of being a virgin away, which is a good thing, but that only happens once. I get the sense he wants to actually be able to game girls, not just fuck them. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/17 09:38 PM |
| 0 | Co-Habitation - How should I know if she is marriage material if I don't live with her first?Right, and this is what I honestly feel as well (I suppose he should just pull the trigger, if they want marriage, and they do). To play devil's advocate, it seems like a no risk thing to do. Maybe he finds/she finds it goes to shit when they're living together, so this way he discovers before she's entitled to have the house. Know what I mean? | /r/askTRP | 26/07/17 09:36 PM |
| 3 | Was I friendzoned? (X-Post from askseddit)I encourage you to follow through because I think some socialization with a chick will help you. Just don't have expectations. Coffee, bar, whatever you want. I was just giving an example. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/17 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Co-Habitation - How should I know if she is marriage material if I don't live with her first?The question isn't marry or not, it is co-habitate before marriage or not. In this scenario, it is accepted that they will marry. While I appreciate the response, this isn't the question asked. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/17 09:27 PM |
| 20 | Should I go for a prostitute to lose virginity?If the lack of sex/virginity is fucking with your head, sure. By this I mean, if you are finding that you are beating yourself up because you're a virgin and it's really fucking with your confidence and preventing you from approaching and so on, then yeah. Get it over with, but bear in mind that it won't solve any other problem than that. It's not a long term solution. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/17 09:26 PM |
| 2 | I don't get why guys get marriedReally? So you've never come across a preference for married men in big law? Not that I don't believe you, I'm just surprised because I've seen it for sure in two of the three gigs I've had... Maybe just coincidence. See here's what I've found. I've had perks to be "the single guy" because I am always called upon to travel for work because I don't have a wife or kids to miss me (which I like anyway, and my airmiles credit card really likes), and I was often the filler for a seat at fundraisers a… | /r/askTRP | 26/07/17 09:09 PM |
| 3 | Was I friendzoned? (X-Post from askseddit)Wouldn't that be wasted time if I know beforehand that it will lead to nothing? What makes you think that? You need to do more reading around here if you're going to take a woman at her word in this type of scenario. EDIT: How about I write her what /u/jb_trp said and combine it with your suggestion? Something like "hanks, but I have plenty of friends, and so I'm only interested in romance. If you wanna still meet, I have time on xyz"? I disagree. It's one or the other. You either say, "thanks, … | /r/askTRP | 26/07/17 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Wing woman - Any good material on that?Can't think of a specific resource but try searching "social proof" over at the main sub. By the way: but I never actually had a girl participating in the process and honestly I'm not sure how she would. She is not to participate in the process. You do not tell a girl that you want to use her presence to inflate your own social proof, just like you don't tell your kids that you're taking them to the dentist. You just have them around, and let the social dynamics do the work for you. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/17 08:58 PM |
| 3 | Was I friendzoned? (X-Post from askseddit)I'm not one to be deterred by this, but everyone's different. I would probably just ignore that text and carry on as if it was never written. Might work out, might not. Haven't had sexual contact with women for like an eternity (last time I kissed a girl was 2-3 years ago) so I think I need advice instead of making this choice before I fuck up. If this is where you are at, I would double-down on what I just said. You need some practice socializing with chicks. Period. Meet up with her, try and g… | /r/askTRP | 26/07/17 08:48 PM |
| 16 | 5'7" manlet here. Lacking facial aesthetics but lifting hard. Do I have any chance?5'7 isn't bad. It isn't distractingly short. I'm not much taller than you (5'9) and 5'7 really isn't that short. Here is something for you to bear in mind, a lot of really hot women are much shorter than you think. Look at celebrities: Kim Kardashian is 5'3, Emily Ratajkowski and Rihanna are 5'6, Riley Reid is 5'4. I've usually been the shortest of my bros going out, which means I always had the pick of the shortest girl of the group we approached, and by far the shortest one was most frequently… | /r/askTRP | 26/07/17 08:41 PM |
| 2 | I don't get why guys get marriedThere are two reasons, and a bonus third: 1) Kids. Data is irrefutable that marriage is good for child-rearing: less likely to become criminals or substance abusers, higher incomes, more stable relationships in their lives, etc. There is a reason why pretty much every civilization on Earth has this institution, and this is it. 2) Money. This is more of a modern thing, but since women "got out of the kitchen" markets have adjusted and in particular real estate. By this I mean, houses are sold at … | /r/askTRP | 26/07/17 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Ex-Gf still trying to contact/pass things to me through friends. What should I do?You're golden then. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/17 08:06 PM |
| 6 | My friend group phased me outDon't confront. This is one of two things: 1) You're a sperg who has zero social skills; 2) They suck; or (bonus) 3) the bonus suggests it is somewhere in between most likely. Don't be a bitch, but reflect why people might not want to hang out with you. Are you too assertive? A buzzkill? Etc. Could be nothing, but I would strongly advise you review this. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/17 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Asking for Her Friends Number- Dread or StupidMy play was I going to get one turned on enough to convince her friend. This occurs in the moment, not during a prospective conversation. NP. Good luck | /r/askTRP | 25/07/17 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Ex-Gf still trying to contact/pass things to me through friends. What should I do?NP. Good luck | /r/askTRP | 25/07/17 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Ex-Gf still trying to contact/pass things to me through friends. What should I do?Once again - if he is as big of a bro as you say, just lay out the situation to him. Tell him that you don't talk to her by choice and you know that she is trying to use him to get to you. He might let her down easier than ideal (rarely respond, as opposed to never), but if lay it out and tell him that you know she's up to something and want nothing to do with it. He will likely agree and just ghost. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/17 08:57 PM |
| 2 | Asking for Her Friends Number- Dread or StupidGot that right, the shit test is as old as time itself. As an aside, if you're looking for the threesome bear those two words in mind - "spontaneity" and convenience. This is how 90% of these occur outside of an LTR. It's actually not that hard to architect. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/17 08:53 PM |
| 2 | Ex-Gf still trying to contact/pass things to me through friends. What should I do?Been on both sides of this (friend and pursued, not the pursuer). Here is your out: One of my best friends in life is coming back into town permanently and texted me today saying she contacted him about me and offered him a room to stay in the house we used to live in together (me and ex, not me and him) I havent seen her or talked to her for 7 or 8 months now. If this guy is as big of a bro as you say, tell him to either tell her to fuck off, or tell him to ghost. This would be a massive violat… | /r/askTRP | 25/07/17 08:50 PM |
| 3 | Asking for Her Friends Number- Dread or StupidThat's your own fault. I'm going to tell you right now - this isn't happening. You need both chicks independently to be into you under normal circumstances. You're ruining your game by going through this chick as a middle bitch. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/17 08:41 PM |
| 3 | Asking for Her Friends Number- Dread or StupidSigh Threesomes outside of a relationship occur spontaneously (in their eyes). You architect the situation in the background, you don't get her permission first. Spontaneity and convenience are absolutely key here. You are essentially asking her permission first. I find it extremely hard to believe in 2017 and Facebook and Instagram you need to go through this middle bitch. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/17 08:29 PM |
| 1 | My girl cheated on me (Alpha) with a Beta which I suspect is bc I wouldn't give her BF/GF label yet. Broke up with her. Advice needed.This might not be your situation but I sense it may be - Remember you can't have it all, and by this I mean unless your name is Muhammed and you're a Saudi Prince you can't demand a harem to be exclusive. Can't be done today. Your choice is as follows: 1) LTR that is exclusive; 2) Non-exclusive plate. That's it. Choose which you are okay with. Frankly, I would probably suggest you need more abundance mentality and drop her because you seem put off by this. Why do you want the drama at all? | /r/askTRP | 25/07/17 06:53 PM |
| 34 | Ex is literally begging to have sex with me...Terrible idea?An age old question, and I will give you the same advice I always give. Take this from the experienced: 1) The good news. The thing about chicks is once you've fucked once, you can fuck again. This is a threshold for them. The sex will usually be good; 2) The bad news. If this is your first time in this situation, and I assume it is, "plating" or even fucking an ex when less than a year or two has passed, be careful. This is not nearly as easy as it is made out to be by some people here, and has… | /r/askTRP | 25/07/17 06:36 PM |
| 5 | Friends from beta past seem to throw jabs, or am I just being unreasonable?Don't be a pussy - this is just joshing. This is a good sign. Keep doing what you're doing and eventually you'll pull an 8 or something in front of them, and then you can starting saying, "put up or shut up". | /r/askTRP | 25/07/17 04:59 PM |
| 3 | Girl wants to reschedule dateJust don't answer and move on. If she's actually still interested she will get in touch. If it was a flake - well you already moved on. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/17 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Got banned form the irc for asking this? How to deal with their exIt definitely is. I also drop the girl by the way. I had one recently where the ex was in another city, she didn't post anything of us on her facebook (as far as I know) although maybe on some other social media, and he still messaged. How the fuck did he even know? No answer to that question is good. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/17 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Where the women at?bingo | /r/askTRP | 20/07/17 03:05 AM |
| 3 | Where the women at?If you live in any medium to large city there are a bunch of these. Ultimate frisbee, soccer, softball, rowing, touch football, running, whatever. There's a lot of these, usually teams are dying for one or two extra players. Also there's getting to know the broads on the team (and through them their friends if you want), but also you can meet good dude friends, and then get into their social circles. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/17 08:00 PM |
| 3 | My LTR is starting to look elsewhereI don't think this is hard next worthy, yet, but I would prepare for this. Couple observations: Because of some surgery I can't have sex for about 2 months. I had it 10 days ago and I haven't had sex with my LTR since then. This is obviously destroying my relationship. Why do you assume this? If I were you I would be considering the real possibility that this would have happened even if you were able to have sex. 10 days, when you can still go out and be your normal self but just can't have sex?… | /r/askTRP | 19/07/17 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Where the women at?Co-ed light competition sports. It's very easy because teams tend to have fundraisers, hang out afterwards. Stuff like that. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/17 07:12 PM |
| 22 | Girl posts her date results on the seduction subreddit. Prime example of Briffault's Law and beta bucks.I'm not as harsh as the rest of you on the guy here. Yeah, he texted a tad much in the beginning, but I have done that occasionally if I get a certain vibe. Yeah, he spent too much on the date but the comedy show is a good touch. The alcohol isn't that far off. He should have went round for round, but I don't see this as terribly fatal. The hotel, it was her fucking suggestion. I would also have interpreted that as an invitation for sex. I would also have paid if I gave a shit enough. No one spl… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/17 03:12 AM |
| 3 | When a plate tells you a secret.In fairness, she didn't admit to being an "addict" in the life destroying sense. She could have just been a hard party girl like the chicks I dated. The only reason I make that distinction is because you don't need to go full Russell Brand-addict to need to quit drinking. I quit drinking for a few years, not because I was an addict but because drunk me was very reckless and always wanted to get drugs. I drink now after more than three years of not drinking and I'm fine. If she is still drinking … | /r/askTRP | 18/07/17 09:07 PM |
| 5 | Quick question regarding text gameSo you have 30 days to kill before meeting up with her? Send her some stupid/goofy/cute whatever you want to call it on the 15th day. Not a conversation "to catch up" but like a stupid picture or a joke of some sort. That's solely to keep you on the radar. Then Day 28 or 29 or whatever text her logistics-type stuff. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/17 09:01 PM |
| 1 | What should I do about this situation?Son, son, son. You know how we always talk about that thing chicks do called "hamstering"? One of the major examples of them doing this is when they "technically" didn't do anything wrong. If you and her haven't made it clear that you're exclusive, she "technically" hasn't done anything wrong. Bet on it. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/17 08:47 PM |
| 2 | When a plate tells you a secret.I'm speaking as a guy who used to do bunch of drugs (heroin being the only one on that list I haven't done). I dated a load of bad chicks back then, and it was fun at the time, but this is not even close to LTR material, even for me who is somewhat forgiving. Here's my advice in three parts: 1) Based on this: I told her that I appreciated her telling me and that had I found out from someone else I wouldn't have talked to her again. I don't think you can handle this type of chick because that beh… | /r/askTRP | 18/07/17 08:39 PM |
| 10 | Clingy dreaded girlBut god the successes are wild - downright infatuated with me. Is this common? Not common to this level of constant texting (assuming you aren't exaggerating), but it happens. This, my friend, is your first encounter with the hot yet highly insecure girl. These exist by the millions. Some insights to think about: 1) Chicks that go on constantly about how you're out banging other girls constantly say that because they know who Chad is. They also tend to be girls who have done/do that themselves. … | /r/askTRP | 18/07/17 08:27 PM |
| 3 | UPDATE: A TEST OF YOUR GAME: Plate who I saw walking with another dude...apologizes...I reply after 4 daysYou need to listen to /u/LordThunderbolt here. I'm shocked you've been in this situation before and you're still overthinking this. All this does is lower her on the priority list to next to that household chore you keep meaning to do but never get around to it. Text her if she wants to come over, fuck her. Text her if she wants to come over, she bails, who cares. Also, i'm more interested in making this a regular plate until she does what plates do. This is your mistake. You want her to be a re… | /r/askTRP | 18/07/17 08:20 PM |
| 2 | Next my LTR?I don't know how long she has been in LTR status, that's a material fact... This being said, you are going to a dangerous path here. So heed this advice: One fuck up changes a lot of men. By this I mean, now you're going to have this thing gnawing in the back of your mind wanting to know if there was something more at that time, and gnawing if it is still going on. This is a path to beta behaviour because you will feel more pressure to be jealous, check up on her, and so on. The point I'm making… | /r/askTRP | 18/07/17 08:11 PM |
| 2 | Does half RP / half BP work better on insecure girls?You need to understand that girls on the high end of insecurity are the ones who will give their number to Chad when you're away for work or something. Insecure chicks are the ones who never end texting/FB/Insta/Snap conversations with bros they made out once at the bar, fucked, even ex-bfs who treated them like garbage. And this is the very least, at worst they're still fucking behind your back. These types of chicks are enslaved by their desire for male attention. I disagree with others here -… | /r/askTRP | 18/07/17 07:29 PM |
| 1 | 2 year Live-in LTR secretly talking to ex in instagram DM's. Need advice.I have nothing more to add but to emphasize that you would be incredibly stupid to NOT hard next her. Yes, yes, it's a hard decision. But if you keep making easy decisions all your life it will end in a catastrophe in one way or another. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/17 07:23 PM |
| 3 | Ex gf cheating on new bf with meThere's also a part of me that just wants to take advantage of her and the situation, but I don't think I'll ever really move on and improve myself if I continue to allow this to go on. This has been the bane of many men. They think that they can continue being FWB with an LTR. It can be done, but this is not for the faint of heart. I would strongly advise end this. I think I'm being played. Because you are. This is textbook shit. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/17 11:58 PM |
| 1 | hot "lesbian"Definitely plate. This is just your first time with this scenario. It also means you're actually doing well on the value thing - these closeted straight girls like high value men or nothing it seems. You have to really make an impression. My first time was a similar scenario - went to a friend's birthday party and was staying at another's friend's place given it was closer to the festivities. Had a great time, wasn't really looking to pick up, kept light bantering with a blonde all night (with s… | /r/askTRP | 17/07/17 11:31 PM |
| 7 | Help me break up with my manipulative and guilt tripping LTRLow effort post gets a low effort response. Read the fuckin' sidebar you bitch. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/17 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Need help ASAP so close but yet so far.OP this is the one you want. I want to emphasize Thunderbolt's point that this is unusually trashy. I've never once had a girl, even friends, text something like that to me. Plenty of girls are that trashy, and go around fucking a couple or more guys in a weekend, but it's something else to admit to it like that. Especially to a dude you barely know who fooled around with before. I would follow Thunderbolt's suggestion to the letter. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/17 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Cheated on GF semi recently. Does it sound like the other girl is trying to tell the GF?I made the mistake of telling this girl that I had a gf. Oh son, son, son. Live and learn I suppose, but never do this. You should never tell a ONS this information, and if you get cornered, "i.e. my friend told me you have a girlfriend", you respond with "nothing serious" and change the subject immediately. Don't ever concede this. As for whether she might tell? I would say it's unlikely because chicks don't usually want to be known as the other woman. But it could if she's a real shit disturbe… | /r/askTRP | 17/07/17 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Should I admit to my lack of experience?Don't admit this ever. Why would you? You're are your own worst enemy because you are not closing because you aren't experienced enough (in your opinion), thereby not getting more experience. If this is really bothering you, go out of town more often and turn on that app called Tinder and fuck a few more. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/17 06:39 PM |
| 3 | Whats the real reason one girl always hangs out with a group of guys?I actually view "bro chicks" as a red flag and I will tell you why. Women assert an awful lot of social control. This is why the biggest slut shamers are women. Of course, women are catty because they aren't the prettiest in the group, but women tend to be a strong indicator of bad behaviour because women shame each other far more than dudes do for such things. Is it a guarantee in your situation? No. But I remember I dated a girl once who had no female friends (aside from meeting up once every … | /r/askTRP | 15/07/17 09:47 PM |
| 2 | questions about building social circle.I'm studying computer science so my class mates are 95% male geeks If you're starting from nothing, you can call them all geeks all you want but at least they have friends. You are in no position to judge them at the moment. Befriend your classmates. If they're into lame ass shit, tag along sometimes just to practice being social. I'm friends with nerds, and I was your age I loved hanging out with them because it was usually a Saturday where I was hungover as a fish and they're hanging out bbqin… | /r/askTRP | 14/07/17 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Extremely worried about my brother.This is a medical one dude. By this I mean, this requires professional intervention. I have no idea how to go about getting that started, but this won't go away from trying to get him to go clubbing or on a trip or something. Tough situation bro. Good luck. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/17 09:40 PM |
| 2 | Closing on first datesI guess... I dunno. You're being too fuckin' needy about this. Dude, I can tell within the first 15 minutes whether me and a Tinderrella are going to fuck on the first date. By that I mean, I can tell if she's DTF on the first date. Lots of chicks aren't because it's the first time you're meeting someone. Who fuckin' cares. My first meets are short and brief and it isn't because I'm trying to score. It's because I want to make sure Ms. Perky Tits isn't actually Ms. Saggy Tits and her profile pic… | /r/askTRP | 14/07/17 09:36 PM |
| 21 | Closing on first datesI don't know why you're so upset about not fucking on the first date from a Tinder match if you close successfully on the second. I average out usually the second date also but that's to my choosing. I don't want some crazy bitch knowing where I live. Tips if you want to: 1) Your game plan looks solid (i.e. location and event wise). Wouldn't change that too much; 2) You need to change it to the weekend. This is not a good excuse: (as opposed to weekend, don't really like doing them then). If you… | /r/askTRP | 14/07/17 06:56 PM |
| -23 | Woman Experiences the Wall.. from a "what part of aging do you wish someone had warned you about" thread.Reported. This is a "tits or GTFO" zone. Also, this looks like it should be in AskTRP, but you weren't even coherent enough to formulate a question. I don't mind chicks asking questions at askTRP, but this reads like the meandering diary entry of a post-wall chick. Which evidently it is. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/17 04:14 AM |
| 7 | Is this a trap?Consider yourself warned. Dudes here act like simply demoting LTRs to plate is effortless and doesn't cause drama. It can be done, but it takes a certain type of person to be able to do this effectively. I don't know how long this is going on, but I'll tell you right now that this is offered because she is trying to fix the LTR, not because she is willing to be demoted to seeing you every now and then. Gamble if you'd like, but be forewarned that this is not easy and she won't respond as non-cha… | /r/askTRP | 14/07/17 12:08 AM |
| 1 | What's the move?Overthinking it because this happens all the fucking time. 1) Invite to some event you're already going to; 2) If she doesn't respond (likely) then don't think about it again; 3) She might respond later (as in after the event is over) you shouldn't respond for awhile. It this occurs, you need to crack a joke of some sort and try and get her attention. You shouldn't be worrying too much about this. Hot girls have dozens of dudes texting them at any given time, and a lot of the time they're with a… | /r/askTRP | 13/07/17 11:44 PM |
| 5 | Is this a trap?I give it to her, and go to the bathroom This was an error. Never allow this. Even with an LTR. This was extremely naive of you to think she wouldn't poke around. All broads do this dude. So I break things off and stop talking to her. Good move. I tell her yes because I don't like feisty I like submissive sluts. Then hang up the phone. I disagree with this. This is too blunt, chicks won't respond to this as you think, and if they do they'll feign and say they want to be that for you. You could i… | /r/askTRP | 13/07/17 11:36 PM |
| 2 | Decline of marriage hitting Vegas hardStarter husband Ha! What a great way of putting it. Couldn't agree more with your post by the way. I'm at the stage now as the young 30s lawyer (conflict guy, not deal guy) and it is startling how the broads my age, who I'm friends with, have morphed into "what have you done for me lately?" -types. Girl, you're on Tinder constantly and your returns are diminishing hard. None of it is new at this point, but it's when a man hits this age bracket when you really notice this. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/17 11:03 PM |
| 2 | [FR] "Humpday night cap downtown?"Yeah I sort of agree with the other guy that this isn't much of a FR. Frankly, you're using "social proof" wrong also. Being confident and personable isn't really what that means. That's more about proof of social value like if you showed up with your model friend, or something. I'll help you out - there is only one takeaway from this and it's abundance mentality. In the sense you got a broads number, but didn't get all excited and fucked it up by getting a giant boner and trying to force the cl… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/17 10:38 PM |
| 2 | My 30yo coworker has many plates and women love him... and he lives with his parents! How is he pulling it off???Happens. But this is the exception, not the norm. When I was in undergrad I lived in absolute shit conditions (4 bros, 1 chick) in a shit house in downtown Toronto. I'm not fucking around, the kitchen was tiny, living room wasn't big enough for all of us to sit - only 4 could fit at most at any time. One guy actually had set up a mattress in the basement. Our part time jobs were pizza maker and construction and such things. I managed to pull a few, but some of my bros regularly pulled models and… | /r/askTRP | 12/07/17 09:11 PM |
| 6 | Walked out on a date last night. Did I handle it right? What now?Handled perfectly, but you cannot ever message her again. She's fucking moving to a new city anyway bro. Totally unacceptable, and I once walked out, and I mean left a girl with a bill for less. Good job | /r/askTRP | 12/07/17 09:06 PM |
| 2 | What is the Red Pill Stance on the Bro Code? A Story.There is no bro code, with one caveat which exists for all fucking whether it's a bro situation or not: You must determine the potential social, or other, consequences that may come about, if any, if you fuck Sally. It's the same assessment you undertake about whether to fuck your colleague at work, so it isn't groundbreaking. I don't fuck with married women I know for this reason because a) it can damage my reputation when word (inevitably) gets out; and b) I don't want to risk a cuckold gettin… | /r/askTRP | 11/07/17 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Stronglifts 5x5 6 days a week?Treadmill and rowing machine typically, every gym has got those. Usually end the session with some battling ropes. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/17 04:47 PM |
| 3 | Why women deal with break ups better than menWow, great post. This should be up at the very fucking top. I actually hadn't thought of this - how by the time of the break up the dude is basically fit for a straight jacket, and the different treatment by social circles. So fucking true. To add, I always thought another factor was that men don't have a hamster. By this I mean, they can't just hamster away perceived injustice. Men by nature have a need to see justice done. They need to understand why she cheated and in many cases want to see h… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/17 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Recently learned about TRP, please feedbackSure I can apply abundance mentality though it'll be very different from that which come from actually getting laid. This is what is meant - the object is to get the jealousy tingles going in your waifu. Here that would mean fucking some other gal, but if there it means holdings hands getting bubble tea do that. The point is, at best you might get another crack at this girl, at worst you have someone else who might turn out to be a better fit anyway. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/17 04:10 PM |
| 2 | What is the correct approach when your girlfriend hates your friends?It's also part of the process of betafication to try to isolate you from your buddies. /u/MountainEphiphany - As usual, the EC is correct on all counts here but especially this one. I'm going to tell you right now, if this is the first broad that has tried this shit on you, she won't be the last. This happens to all of us eventually (the attempt at least, and in some cases they succeed) and I cannot overstate how true this is. Maybe your friends are dicks, maybe they are losers, but they are you… | /r/askTRP | 06/07/17 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Recently learned about TRP, please feedbackUnder no circumstance let her know that you read that text. Throw your mutual friend under the bus because some girl you just met wasn't feelin' it? Fuck off. Here's what you're going to do. You should apply abundance mentality, ideally hook up with some other hotty, and when she sees you with another girl she might start pushing to "hang out" with you. I've done this deliberately in the past. At worst, you're fucking some other broad and you might even get over this "love at first sight Oneitis… | /r/askTRP | 06/07/17 03:05 PM |
| 3 | Stronglifts 5x5 6 days a week?It will not be beneficial if you're doing the routine correctly. You aren't pushing hard enough during the three days if you can do this. Do what I do, use the other three days for cardio. It feels the same in the psychological sense and you should be doing cardio anyway. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/17 02:58 PM |
| 4 | ONEitis AdviceHUGE problem is, after almost 3 years of no condoms, I'm having trouble getting used to condoms. I hear you brother. I'm going to be totally honest, I admit it's stupid due to pregnancy risk (and all that comes with that), but I used to be very reckless with this. Not so much anymore because I have a lot to lose, but this is only normal. My advice is you shouldn't be cumming in a condom, cum on her tits if that's the hard part. I kinda snapped at her and she left crying. Here is mistake one. Unf… | /r/askTRP | 06/07/17 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Can't tell if girls are just being playful or are actually interestedBe more direct. By that I mean - start dropping statements about "how she looks cute when does X" or "those yoga pants make your ass look great" shit like that. Don't sperg out about it, just drop hints that you're interested in them sexually and they'll get the picture. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/17 02:21 PM |
| 5 | I raised my SMV and now it would be easy to fuck a few of the women I know... would you do it, even if you know they would want LTRs and you just want sex?Okay. 1) Most importantly, a shit load of women are DTF under the right circumstances. Always bear this in mind. You are greatly mistaken if you believe all women are looking for long term commitment. Most women these days, even if they are looking for long term commitment give you a window of about a month or two where sex is just casual. They call it "dating". There is no shame in going about that and then when that magical time comes when she asks, "so, like, what are we?", dealing with that … | /r/askTRP | 06/07/17 02:18 PM |
| 5 | I am having a 'Chat' with LTR tomorrow...Sigh 1) Facts are necessary for this type of accusation. Suspicion shouldn't be ignored but I'll get to that next. This relationship is over whether she was cheating or not because you're going to become a possessive beta male (if you weren't already). She will resent you for this, and eventually she will cheat. 2) Next time you get this suspicion with a broad, you do one of two things. Immediately relegate her to plate status or break up entirely and move on. Or, gather evidence until you know … | /r/askTRP | 06/07/17 01:59 PM |
| 20 | Experience with escorts 100% solidified my doubts- no woman is trustworthyYep. OP's quote here: In fact, she was a middle school teacher and only did escort work on the side because "she needs to have sex every other day" and her partner doesn't do it often enough for her. This is horseshit. No woman would become a prostitute for this reason, they'll just fuck the mailman. It's only blatant hooker lies and on Reddit where we here about these women with insatiable sex drives. Doesn't happen in real life. It's also what porn stars say about why they got into porn, "I ju… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/17 11:45 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Analysis of Girl's First Impressions on First DateThis is funny, this is young me to the fucking letter. Ha, "is drunk" and "gets even more drunk" I laughed out loud. Two things: First, this is not sustainable game and should not be emulated. This is the type of thing that works for naturals. No one who has anxiety around broads should plan to get drunk and then get more drunk because it's fun sometimes. This is party boy game I guess. It works, but it's fucking reckless. Second, the sister's birthday also included "(wtf ok)" in her notes. I'm … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/17 11:33 PM |
| 13 | Warning for monogamists - she'll only prove herself trustworthy when we don't want her ass (Vindictive Women)Oh Jesus, you become so desensitized to this if you date at all in that City. Many times I've looked at my phone after a day of work and see double digit missed text messages from the same girl because I stopped writing back when it was clear there was nothing going on. We barely fucking know each other, matched on Tinder or something have never met, and she's insisting over and over "This conversation is over". Allright? Yeesh. Pretend you ended it if you'd like, just don't contact me ever agai… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/17 11:15 PM |
| 2 | Teachable Moment: Every Encounter is an OpportunityI'm easy either way. Basically if she were to hop in my car and say "Take me home, NOW, so we can fuck!" I'm down, but if I never see her again, that's totally fine, too. LOL. Indeed. If I was in "Hunter" mode, I'd have number-closed her right then and there Of course, but I'm adding to your point in that if someone wants to close under these circumstances, there is another way too. I would consider it outcome independence to compliment a broad, and then not think about it anymore until you see … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/17 09:57 PM |
| 1 | [FR] My First Date Ever As A 22 Year OldIt doesn't sound stupid. Keep it up, abundance mentality is important so bear that in mind too when you're ready. Good luck. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/17 09:26 PM |
| 1 | [FR] My First Date Ever As A 22 Year OldNP. Well if you found getting the number to be the easy part, you have a bright future. That basic level of social skill is really all you need. Couple more - 1) Once again, you're over-emphasizing kino. I mean, it's nice but it isn't required despite what others here think. Again, let a couple of drinks settle, go to the second bar, and then assess. 2) Don't be disheartened if people are ragging on you for the fact this much effort for a 6. This is your first time, you did great. But more impor… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/17 08:59 PM |
| 3 | [FR] My First Date Ever As A 22 Year OldGreat job on losing that weight. Also good job on getting the number and successfully setting up the date. You don't spend much time on your post on that part, but I imagine that was an anxious time - bantering to set up the initial date. In certain ways, that was the hardest part, so good for you. Everyone is different but a couple of suggestions for what works for me - 1) No hugs (certainly not the opening hug). The end of night one depends on the girl and the vibe, but I generally don't do th… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/17 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Teachable Moment: Every Encounter is an OpportunityI'm getting tired of repeating what I added wasn't for OP. OP added what he would have done, if he wanted to add a plate to spin. I added an easy hack for those reading on top of this. Everything I've said is in the spirit of "you should be social/approaching decent broads regularly". It should be obvious, really. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/17 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Teachable Moment: Every Encounter is an OpportunityIt was for reader, not OP. However, in maintaining the spirit of the post I wouldn't even refer to it as setting traps and baiting. It's just approaching and being social with broads. Always chatting them up. If the objective of a reader is to apply this in their personal life, then I'm giving an easy tip that works also, and especially, if they are dealing with a bit of anxiety about asking for a number after a brief encounter. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/17 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Teachable Moment: Every Encounter is an OpportunityNot missing the point - I acknowledged explicitly in my comment that I was not speaking directly to OP but for readers. It's obvious that I'm adding to OP's comments about, "if he had" been looking to meet someone, he would have done X (asked for number). | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/17 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Teachable Moment: Every Encounter is an OpportunityGood post. Couldn't agree more. The only thing I'd add is an alternative to asking for the number right away if you had been interested. You indicated it is your favorite Cafe. Which means you're probably a regular. As an alternative to asking for the number on the first encounter, you can always see her again there (she probably goes with some regularity) and then the next time you see her there, given of course you said what you did on the first encounter, you pretty much have an easy opener o… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/17 07:56 PM |
| 5 | Politically incorrect observations on nightlife.find Arab men very sleazy, creepy, I'm a fucking dude and I find these guys sleazy and creepy. They can also get handsy as you pointed out. Not all obviously, one of my bros is a Persian (not Arab I know), and because he's fit and not a fucking sleaze he does fine. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/17 04:58 PM |
| 15 | Politically incorrect observations on nightlife.Persians are an ethnic (and linguistic group), distinct from Arabs. They are the majority population of Iran, but not the entire population. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/17 04:56 PM |
| 9 | Kicked plate out of my carI don't agree with the previous comment, I think you did swimmingly. Sure, taken out of context, it might sound bad, "he got all butthurt and dropped me at a CVS! Can you believe it?!". But you provided ample context that this is not what happened. The only possible criticism would have been you might have looked better if you dropped her at her home, instead of this "friend's" place, but that's a minor detail. Sometimes I wonder if people here have ever actually had a plate because plates "kick… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/17 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Ex-gf, revenge fantasies and TRPPerfectly natural to "feel" this way from time to time. However, normally these thoughts creep into your mind because your current situation is not meeting your expectations. Put simply, when those thoughts start coming, go and do something else. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/17 06:07 PM |
| 1 | For Bros That Go To The GymThe proper etiquette is the consensus here - you can't claim shit you're not using or are planning to use. I also am of the view that if you're using something and someone also wants to use it, you should invite them to hop in between sets. Most gyms actually have a rule against resting on equipment between sets specifically for this reason, though I have never seen it enforced. The only exception I have seen to this is that I have encountered gyms that have a "supersets get priority" rule, but … | /r/askTRP | 15/05/17 04:54 AM |
| 5 | Women are petrified of failure. Use that.Great post. Anyone who has ever played anything as simple as a board game with a girl knows this. I've seen each caricature - refusing to play, the "silly defence" you described by your daughter (this is extremely common), all the way to flat out quitting and storming out of the room. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/17 10:42 PM |
| 3 | Date with Open Relationship CoupleAbundance mentality This and only this. Bear in mind, you're basically cucking a dude here. Tread lightly, and she should be at the absolute bottom of your dating priorities. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/17 04:31 AM |
| 1 | Was I being hostile?Then it was even more obvious. It should have been "another documentary I think you'd like". She counters with pool (probably because to at least go out a bit and have a few drinks, nothing wrong with that). Follow the steps I outlined. Aside from all that, take it to heart that movies in a theatre are not for this situation. Movies in a theatre are for when you have an established plate or LTR and you genuinely want to see it. It's situations where there is no ambiguity about sex later, stuff l… | /r/askTRP | 03/05/17 12:47 AM |
| 2 | Was I being hostile?You've struck out likely permanently with this one, but if you ever find yourself in this situation again - 1) pick something on Netflix; (a movie in a theatre is a "real" date by the way, which could very easily why she didn't want to do it either); 2) you invite to watch "specific movie X on Netflix"; 3) if she agrees , great, if she counters with pool; 4) you banter about how great you are at pool, and how if you win, she has to check out the Netflix movie at your place afterwards. 5) she gig… | /r/askTRP | 03/05/17 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Was I being hostile?Go get advice elsewhere if you're looking for advice you already want to hear. Movies are for fucking losers. Going somewhere without alcohol also? Christ. Big picture 1) have a good date idea in mind to begin with; 2) you're supposed to be easygoing, not a date nazi; 3) say something lighthearted, "haha, if you're good" (in response to her counter proposal. You have a long way to go, and bitching out me is a bad start. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/17 12:11 AM |
| 12 | Was I being hostile?Far too hostile. And frankly, good on the spicy Latina for calling a spade a spade. 1) what the fuck are you doing going to a movie? What are you, a 40 year old in 1995? 2) she suggests pool, which is one of my go-tos, and all around great date idea. It's one of the best out there, and you turn that down? Not only was this hostile, it was plain fucking stupid. Sorry bro- your girl has better date ideas than you, and you acted like a fucking chump during the conversation. I don't mean to be "host… | /r/askTRP | 02/05/17 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Have you "made it"? What's your life like?You shouldn't compare, but all you should know I'm in a lucrative career, in my gym at 6am five days a week (cardio two days, weight training three) and I have a full life of intramural sports, cooking and volunteer work. I'm single but a huge Tinder whore, which I somewhat need to keep under wraps from my work. Less than ten years ago, I made a decision that probably saved me from becoming an alcoholic/drug addict or arrested due too much partying, drinking, drugs and "bad" girls. This sub is n… | /r/askTRP | 02/05/17 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Great First Date, How To Proceed?Don't know you, but if you're comfortable talking, do that. Don't be a fag about it though. Let's say she calls you, cap it at 15. That seems like a good rough benchmark, but maybe this works for your game to have longer convos. It would be unusual though, so hopefully you understand my skepticism. As for the question. I don't think you should have done that to begin with, but now that you've mentioned it maybe you should bring it up. Maybe see if she brings it up first, and then if you're chatt… | /r/askTRP | 02/05/17 11:04 PM |
| 2 | Handling "Girl Code"/u/youngboomin, this is the 100% answer. What the fuck are you doing trying to fuck her friends anyway? All it's going to do is slow down progress or complicate things at best. At worst, they actually adhere to the girl code. Door open, if they reciprocate you're off to the races. In the meantime, you should seriously be focussing your efforts elsewhere. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/17 11:00 PM |
| 2 | If she asks if you do smth with others while in an open relationship what do you answer?Plates are going to do this for the rest of your life. You will get used to this. Plates need to be maintained as plates, nothing wrong with that. i believe in the sidebar there is plenty on this. Generally, you should be able to get away with deflecting the question for the first bit. After while you're going to need to address it. "I thought we had a good thing going", "I kinda like the way things are". Etc. Sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/17 10:53 PM |
| 2 | Great First Date, How To Proceed?I'm not inclined to think that either the late night convo or inviting with your bros was a good idea. The first may make you look to needy, plus you should play into her sense of wanting more of you rather than coddling to it. The second seems way too early. However, let's assume you did well in the late night talk, and your bowling plan was some sort of social proof game you run. Wait a couple of days for sure. I would think you need to mitigate a sense of you being too needy. Not saying she t… | /r/askTRP | 02/05/17 10:48 PM |
| 7 | Is it normal for a woman to bash every man at work that tells her something she doesn't like?Not uncommon - but this one is particularly bad. What a bitch. They're usually worse to other women in my experience by the way. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/17 10:40 PM |
| 1 | LTR going on friends vacation to EuropeOP, I'll give you my assessment and pro tip. This is a tough one bro. 1) I'm inclined to think /u/forreal8619 and /u/Archwinger have strong points here. Please notice that neither include even the thought of demanding she not go. So for you, this means demanding she not go is not a good course of action. Really all you can do is let her go and see what happens when she gets back. I think I would provisionally, if not permanently, follow Archwinger's advice - relegate to plate. There's nothing yo… | /r/askTRP | 02/05/17 10:34 PM |
| 2 | LPT: Leave evidence of other girls' presence at your place in order to increase pre-selection tinglesThis is exactly what I was going to say. This isn't for the faint of heart and can result in huge meltdowns. I've been on both ends of this - girl lost her fucking mind, I intentionally left hair ties on my nightstand - but it is very situational. Definitely give it a shot bros, but this is not step one if anyone is new at this. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/17 08:52 PM |
| 8 | Shit tests happen within seconds of an approachCold approaches aren't the easiest so don't overthink this, which I think you're doing. I'm not even sure this was a failed shit test from her perspective until you thought in your mind it was already failed. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/17 08:50 PM |
| 1 | AWALT Reminder for LTR'sThis is one of the largest, if not the largest, giveaways that your girl is attracted to another dude. When I say largest, I mean largest in both severity (it is a big statement), and in frequency (women do it all the time). I don't think it necessarily means she is already plotting to jump ship, but this is indeed her way of projecting her hypergamous instincts - she is essentially testing in a subconscious way whether she has "the best guy she can get". She is unaware she is doing this, but th… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/17 08:46 PM |
| 7 | How to overcome insecurities?When you have a couple plates sucking your dick on a regular basis, your insecurities magically disappear. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/17 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Limiting contact is fucking up ties with plates, and they wanna talk all the time from day 1.If you are too busy for this shit, and I see you probably are from your other comment, then stop fucking worrying about it. Sounds like your plates are looking for a dude with more time to commit. You currently do not have that time. Fuck em. There are plenty of plates. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/17 04:10 PM |
| 1 | How to 3 some?Let me know how it works out. I'm curious. I've had four or five threesomes I guess and not once have I successfully pulled this off. I have heard girls claim they would do it with a friend, especially while drunk, and not actually follow through. Not to say it's impossible, but this is not easy. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/17 04:07 PM |
| 2 | Making the princess drop her virtuesStill, I'd argue that a hug is still better than nothing. On the whole I disagree. Hugs are what beta dudes do man. Haven't you seen this in public when an obvious boner is out with a girl and they fucking hug at the end of the night? It's cringeworthy really. Unless it's at a bar and you need to move fast, I usually don't rush physical contact until I am almost certain I can bring her home. There is almost no risk in a non-bar setting to just maintaining eye contact, watching her body language … | /r/askTRP | 18/04/17 04:05 PM |
| 4 | How to 3 some?I'm almost certain there should be a response if you search the main sub. My experience is as follows. For threesomes, there are typically three types of broads: 1) Women that don't do threesomes; 2) Women that do threesomes, or potentially would do a threesome, but with someone who is not a close friend or even a "stranger" that you arrange; 3) Women that can and do threesomes with friends. My experience is the latter is the least common of the three. Bearing this in mind, you should probe the … | /r/askTRP | 18/04/17 05:59 AM |
| 1 | How else should I have answered this shit test?Not a shit test. She was just probing to see if your ex told you all the "bad shit" about her. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/17 05:49 AM |
| 3 | Making the princess drop her virtuesTL;DR - You want to get with a hotgirl but you haven't read the sidebar. Oh, one thing: then bid her farewell with a hug. Never do this. Hugs are for losers. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/17 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Is fucking on the first "date" the new normal?This depends on several factors, but the most important of which is how you met the girl. A friend of a friend I've found to be on average longer (up to 3). Tinder-rina is 1-2 at max. I feel as if your question is more about whether the new norm is first, as opposed to what it used to be in the 90s (3rd). Short answer yes. You must always press to get laid on date one, be prepared for it, and it isn't "pecks on the cheek" until the third date. You'll usually get at least a handjob or head on the… | /r/askTRP | 18/04/17 03:17 AM |
| 0 | Limiting contact is fucking up ties with plates, and they wanna talk all the time from day 1.I'm not an interesting texter No shit. You're not an interesting writer either.i can barely follow along with how bad your writing is. Stop planning shit out so much. Meet one for lunch during the week or something instead of labelling "weekend 1 is time with X" but "weekend 2 is time for Y" Jesus, I'd break up with you too you seem so dull. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/17 03:09 AM |
| 7 | Roofiesi do not want to go to jail. Well you'd better be prepared for this eventuality if you're stupid enough to try this idea. If you have only "used" weed twice before, this isn't for you. It really isn't for any man, but especially so for someone who hasn't used much drugs. I suspect little miss submissive has done more drugs than you have, which isn't usually a good thing. Stay away from the drugs, and druggie chicks man. Speaking from experience. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/17 03:01 AM |
| 2 | When do you let a new girl know?Do you even bring it up unless they do? Do not bring it up unless they do. Should you be straight up early on? Depends on your definition of "straight up". If you mean voluntarily "getting things out in the open" then no. That's what chicks do. If you mean lie about it when asked, then yes - don't lie about it. Going on a second date this week and wondering if I need to go ahead and put it out there so there's no confusion. You must be new at this "no relationship" mentality, which is a good thi… | /r/askTRP | 18/04/17 02:42 AM |
| 1 | FR: Plate saw me out with a Tinder hottieSounds like you're doing fine. Just be careful and don't make it painfully obvious you're just changing the subject. It makes you look defensive. Remember - this is your decision, not hers. There is nothing wrong with this. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/17 09:50 PM |
| 1 | FR: Plate saw me out with a Tinder hottieThat's fine, just don't "milk" it for your own interest, but don't be stoic about it either. It's a fine line but hang out with her a few times with something to distract - a Netflix chill with dinner or something. Women tend to have low attention spans and get easily distracted so do what you can to speed this process along. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/17 09:43 PM |
| 1 | FR: Plate saw me out with a Tinder hottieYeah the first time this happens its a real eye opener. My suggestion is don't "milk" this. And by that I mean, don't stay on the topic when you're with girl 1, you will probably want to because it's interesting. Just keep it simple, don't respond to walls of texts aside from one word responses, and when you meet in person don't bring this up and if she does "you know we aren't exclusive, there is nothing further to discuss", and change the subject. She wont let it go easily, but dont go on a ra… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/04/17 06:04 PM |
| 5 | (FR) Keep frame, get laid; AWALTWell keep at it, sounds like you're on the right track. To give you some colour, I got about ten years on you, and when I was your age I had a plate who was a 7 at best, realistically probably 6.5 purely physically, but she had an awesome personality. Very rare. Bit overweight, but not by much, probably 10-15 lbs I guess. But blonde and blue eyes, good skin, and so on, good rack. To this day, ten years and probably 50 or so girls later, not one can touch the head this girl gave me. I've heard gi… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/17 06:40 PM |
| 5 | (FR) Keep frame, get laid; AWALTIt's less effort, substantially less effort, to meet a 7 on Tinder and sleep with her than even getting a 9s attention a lot of the time. Shoot for the 8s and 9s, but don't needlessly limit yourself, especially with a relatively recent, probably somewhat messy, breakup. I'm at a point in my life that I don't really care about a couple points. I'm sort of seeing an 8.5 I guess at the moment, but I've turned down a bitchy 9 for a pleasant 7.5 many times. Get out there and get that experience. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/17 06:27 PM |
| 17 | (FR) Keep frame, get laid; AWALTGood line on the being a player shit test. However, (we'll call her Jessica, HB8, I don't fuck with anything under, waste of time) This is the only issue I have. To each their own, and if you're a model in your spare time than maybe this is the case, but I think you're missing out on a lot of experience by limiting yourself to HB8s. I'm not talking 5s here, but some of the best lays I've had are in the 7-8 range. This is a difficult thing because we obviously don't know each others point of refe… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/17 06:11 PM |
| 7 | 70% of Tinder Losers (users) have never met ANYONE in real life.Most women on Tinder know what this app is for, and when you ask them they will telly you "i am here to make friends, not looking for sex", yeah right. They all want sex, but they just don't want to be perceived as sluts, you can't have it all ladies. This is really the point here. They actually don't "know" what they're doing. Many say they go on Tinder "just to see" or "make friends", but in reality they're just getting pumped and dumped for the most part. They should know this, but they just … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/17 05:54 PM |
| 4 | Breaking MGTOW habits? and rant about hookup culture.I think you need more bros and more bro time with them. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/17 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Guy Creates Panty Drying Dating ResumeHilarious. During undergrad I boxed. Nothing crazy, but I boxed for the local gym in my weight class a few times. After a fight I was sitting in my corner and I had a solid pre-shiner on my right eye (it's just really red), and my friend who was in the corner put a smoke in my mouth and a stupid hat on my head. He was joking about the movie Snatch, which was in at the time. Not terribly long ago as a joke I put that picture with my Tinder profile. I'm older, but given the circumstances and shitt… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/17 11:10 PM |
| 2 | Having good looking female friends, is so incredibly sobering with many of the truths here. My experience taking the girls to a concert.If she has a cute girlfriend (at her level) when ever they, they are constantly gaming I've been saying this here for a long time on another, related, topic. There are many ploys on this sub to get a woman to "admit to" her actual sexual count. Obviously, this is a fool's errand absent objective proof (keyloggers for example, but alcohol and a fake "I'm open with female sexuality" attitude can get you close). My number one method of this - beyond ethnicity, beyond social class, beyond religion, … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/17 11:02 PM |
| 2 | LTR asked to go to house party... I apparently failed shit test?Me: "Yeah it sounds fun. Not often I get to inflate my ego watching guys hit on my girl". yeah this was a mistake. Not only does it seems insecure, but this is a bad line at any time, because I don't know who these guys are, cucks probably, that like seeing other dudes hit on their girl. It's just not a normal sentiment. I hate this shit in relationships - eliminating friends is what women do to men, not the other way around (obvious examples, exes, former FWBs excluded). Think about like this -… | /r/askTRP | 20/03/17 10:58 PM |
| 8 | FR: Tinder InsanityNP - this was one of the better FRs by the way. It's not about being paranoid by the way, and pretty much all women who are decent looking manipulate men to some extent, it's just a matter of finding out how flagrantly and nonchalantly they go about it. Put it this way - when you suggested she just block the other dudes she said "good idea". Are you telling me her reaction was, "Blocking text messages? Never heard of it" Bull. Shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/17 09:58 PM |
| 14 | FR: Tinder InsanityThis is also troubling, consider this comment part two of my parent to your post. Dude, remember when I said she is aware of her looks and has no problem using them to manipulate men? I'm warning you - she not only showed you that as evidence that she is doing so to other men, but she showed you that because it demonstrates to you, pretty much overtly, that she is in high demand so you need to be on your best behaviour. I mean if I was to show my texting with other girls to pretty much any girl … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/17 09:46 PM |
| 3 | FR: Tinder InsanityI think you're doing this fine, but of course you can always find a different woman. Wait until she doesn't like you anymore and she's pulling this shit weekly. This being said, I wouldn't necessarily be disheartened because she's actively trying to get more of a commitment. I pull that along a bit too until I'm sure I want to as well, but that's not necessarily a bad thing that a decent quality woman isn't just "totally down" with an open relationship. I fucking hate those types. However, Here'… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/17 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread March 20I've been seriously thinking about how this all would apply to the issues we see when a mid-life crisis occurs. Not that I'm right in the midst of one, I'm not yet 35. I feel the traditional knowledge on this topic around here is that only betas find themselves going through a mid-life crisis but I'm definitely starting to feel urges about making lifestyle changes away from the single, professional, Tinder-banging man-whore lifestyle. I mean it's pretty fucking dull for the most part, and I trav… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/17 09:35 PM |
| 1 | "Would you still date me if I was fat?" -- Squashing one of the biggest shit testsI don't mean to be "fuck you, you beta" -ish, so don't interpret what I'm about to say as that. I've never heard this question and I think the simple reason for that is that it is obvious to anyone who knows me how important my own physical fitness is. I work very hard at it, probably too hard , but that's more because when you've incorporated going to the gym every morning five days a week because you sit on your ass in an office all day, you can't just switch it off after years of it. What I'm… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/17 09:25 PM |
| 2 | Today I saw first hand how chicks use guys like an ATM'sYeah this is a common sighting if you spend time at bars or concerts or whatever. Good tale. I like the fact as well that she probably started at you because you were the better looking dude at the bar, and then when you swatted that away she went down the totem pole as required until she found her chumps. I haven't thought of it that way, but I'm sure that's how it goes down. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/17 09:18 PM |
| 4 | Today I saw first hand how chicks use guys like an ATM'sYou're way off. There are two basic reasons why women are doing this: 1) Lots of women don't have a ton of money. Sure, they have enough to pay the rent, but they don't view it the way you are implying. Sure, they can afford a cheap bottle of wine but that's five bucks less money they could have to go towards clothes or drinks later on. Why spend five when you can get it for free? 2) This satisfies their desire for validation in addition to point 1. She got free drinks and an evening of men stro… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/17 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Leaving This Sub- Give me Some Final Words of AdviceGym six times a week? Complete fucking waste of time. In fairness, he didn't say he lifts six times a week, but goes to the gym. I go five (weekdays) more because it grounds a sense of routine and it keeps me getting up early. Monday, Wednesday and Friday are lifting, Tuesday and Thursday is a 50 minute treadmill. I live in Canada so doing this shit outside in the Winter is not an option. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/17 05:37 PM |
| 2 | Why You Shouldn't Start With Starting StrengthI like going for a run for 10. Wakes me up since I'm a very early morning lifter. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/02/17 09:31 PM |
| 2 | Why You Shouldn't Start With Starting StrengthOf course, 10 minute run at least. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/02/17 06:52 PM |
| 4 | Why You Shouldn't Start With Starting StrengthI get your logic, but I disagree. This is really important. Even now I stretch at least 20 minutes before every session, and the hips one is three times a week. I probably don't need to now, but I learned the hard way - I went from frat bro university kid to starting attorney and fell out of shape after one year. After getting back into it I had three fairly serious injuries (rear shoulder, hip flexor and rectus ab) each one after the other. The TL;DR from that is I didn't even get a chance to s… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/02/17 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Brothers fiance hid debt from him before engagementI've never heard of Dave Ramsay, but there's also the option of doing the down payment first and rolling the unsecured debt into the secured mortgage... I didn't have a ton of student loans but I had a line of credit which got taken care of this way | /r/askTRP | 27/12/16 01:32 AM |
| 3 | Can I get your feedback on my hair? Low hair density & buzzcut.U mad bro? | /r/askTRP | 21/12/16 05:38 AM |
| 3 | Can I get your feedback on my hair? Low hair density & buzzcut.Degenerating old hag? First, I'm a dude, not a hag. Second, I'm not that old, and third I'm not degenerating. It's not even a good insult. Let's try one - Why don't you get the fuck off this sub because you're either a skinny-as-shit DJ Quall-type or a lard ass. Get the fuck out of here you fag, and head on over to MRA or truecels so you can be amongst you're brethren. Maybe you can jerk each other off there too. You're in the wrong sub fatty. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/16 05:21 AM |
| 2 | Can I get your feedback on my hair? Low hair density & buzzcut.Do you know how I know you're full of shit? Because you think that "there are many people in great shape who don't lift", and then in the same comment suggest that the dichotomy is "an athletic body" and a "bodybuilder type". Let me tell you something, the "athletic type" comes from fucking lifting you skinny/fat wad. Since you're probably a nerd, Ryan Reynolds lifts, Tobey Mcguire lifts, John Snow lifts, fucking Rory Mcilroy lifts. Fuck right off if you think people can have "an athletic body" … | /r/askTRP | 21/12/16 04:58 AM |
| 2 | Can I get your feedback on my hair? Low hair density & buzzcut.Son, there is a post on the front page of TRP right now showing how the media is calling Leonardo Di-fucking-Caprio fat while Amy Schumer is beautiful - whilst disgustingly fat. This is how women view dad bods - shame. You need to get it through your head that physical appearance in the form of lifting if crucial to being a man. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/16 02:18 AM |
| 15 | Dad bod vs knockout figure (DiCaprio vs Schumer)I hope all of you see why lifting is so god-damn important for men, at its most basic. Let's cut all the other (frankly more important) reasons to lift out and get right to it - Women don't respect out of shape men. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/16 01:34 AM |
| 41 | Dad bod vs knockout figure (DiCaprio vs Schumer)He's fucking models officially and high-end prostitutes on the side. He's a shameless manslut apparently. Good on him I say. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/16 01:30 AM |
| 0 | Put On Your Fedora And Go Your Own Way!Totally agree. I view the vast majority of MGTOWs as these apex specimens of manliness, at 3:15. In fact I posted this here a long time ago and got flak from the MGTOW for saying this is the majority of MGTOW men. I think there is a place for "real" MGTOWs, like say - Stephen Hawking or something. And even he got married I think. Beta's haven't seen the matrix, while MGTOWs have seen it and are too cowardly/lack the work ethic to play, on the whole. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/16 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Short guys please share your experiences5'8. Not terribly short, but it's undeniable that height would have been nice. This hasn't really affected things. My best wing man in my twenties was like 6'3 and the deal was we would approach and he always had to take the taller of the two. Turns out, the shorter broad was hotter a great deal of the time so it didn't really hurt. Solid wing man though. Sure, I probably could have got laid more, but as long as women aren't taller than you by more than a three inches or so you're fine. Lots of … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/16 05:35 PM |
| 1 | "I'm a Feminist, but I Like When He Comes on My Face"Women aren't in it for the politics in reality. They don't care about your views as long as you fuck them right and be the crotch rocket riding fuck boy anyway. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/16 04:41 PM |
| 2 | Wife Launches Sex-Embargo after Husband Votes for TrumpI have to premise this with it was nothing close to marriage, but it was an exclusive relationship. We had a dispute similar to this and she said no sex for a month to me.I actually pulled the nuclear option and said, "well fine I'm going to go fuck someone else then". It had the desired result, but I didn't hear the end of me saying that for awhile, "OMG I can't believe you said that to me". I probably wouldn't recommend that in short. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/16 02:43 AM |
| 2 | [FR] The time I lost my virginity and inadvertently passed a big shit test in my BB daysI like this FR, you're selling yourself short that this is nothing new for people who have been around for awhile. I'm quite intrigued by the notion that social awkwardness can inadvertently cause this. More power to you for realizing. Men are more introspective anyway. Also, I think you're making a really good point about shutting the fuck up about getting laid. This ought to be said far more often. It looks incredibly insecure when a dude does that all the time. There's obviously a time and pl… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/16 03:56 AM |
| 5 | Chick I'm dating told me last night about a "guy who was really cool" that she was talking to.Yeah. I still remember that night very well. I found it quite shocking. I mean, I'd fucked girls in relationships before, but that was something else. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/16 08:09 PM |
| 17 | Chick I'm dating told me last night about a "guy who was really cool" that she was talking to.Similar experience many years ago for me. Girl's boyfriend calling her over and over, overhear her telling him she loves him, fucked her as soon as she hung up and she told me, "I needed that". I think there's alot of us here who found this place after seeing shit like that, and just not understanding. Now we do. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/16 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Lifting is the first step to reclaiming your masculine self.Getting into the routine is the most important thing. Thus, getting to the gym is good advice. You need to survive the first two to three weeks, really a month, and then both consciously and unconsciously you will know and feel - this is my life now. I've gone from extremely regimented to not-so regimented all my life, due to a lot of travelling and so on. You will feel it when you're getting up earlier and you start naturally watching what you eat and drastically eliminating things like drinkin… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/16 06:19 PM |
| 7 | Exposing the Glitches in the MatrixYou're absolutely right, and it's already started to an extent with that meme going around with side by side pictures of Melania Trump and (insert x) former First Lady. This hypocritical activity will be increasing. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/16 05:52 PM |
| 2 | Seeking theHelp of Red Pill Legal ExpertsThis and the top comment are the best. 1) get cash now and speak with criminal defence lawyer. You should actually retain the lawyer. 2) speak frankly to the lawyer, and in particular what you said to the cops. I'd probably suggest you write it down now so you don't forget anything, and you won't waste time trying to remember or having to call lawyer back and waste fees when you remember something. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/11/16 12:18 AM |
| 3 | GayLubeOil's Definitive Treatise On Why Nobody Likes Paul ElamI read it and my point stands - don't waste your time debating SJWs. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/16 04:51 PM |
| 10 | GayLubeOil's Definitive Treatise On Why Nobody Likes Paul ElamYou'd convert more fencesitters by being ripped, having professional ambition, and receiving regular fellatio from a series of Ms. Perky Tits'. It is a complete waste of time to attempt rational debate with women, and a slightly less waste of time to attempt it with pussified men. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/16 10:31 AM |
| 3 | #NoNothingNov 2016: Give Up Vices, Forge New Habits.1) no cigarettes. I was pretty much a pack a day at one point years ago, currently maybe 2 or 3 smokes a week - let's go to zero. 2) No alcohol except with a glass of wine or two with dinners on weekends. I would go to zero, but I did that before and then even a glass of wine starts making you sick the next morning. It's important to keep a tolerance. 3) No screens after 9, unless absolutely necessary for work. Hobby. I don't really have time for a new one and the weather is bad in the North. Fo… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/16 12:23 AM |
| 41 | "I Left The Love Of My Life I Thought I Could Do Better. Now I'm Alone And Childless At 42"Look at her fucking face. 1000 cock stare if I ever saw it. I moved into a rented flat a few miles away in Hornchurch, Essex, and embraced single life with a vengeance. Confirmed | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/16 04:08 PM |
| 1 | don't understand hookup cultureYou need to lift and move out. Depending in your life situation, I'll assume the worst - you're broke and can't move out yet. Take sometime seriously lifting while you can. Not only does it have the attraction raising effect, but it will greatly affect your brain in positive ways. You'll start being more confident and creative, and your work ethic will go up. Once that happens, you'll be looking for ways to make money naturally because you're up early, energetic, looking for shit to do. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/16 02:43 PM |
| 14 | Escort I just had sex with hasn't had sex with her boyfriend of 3 years for the last 6 monthsI have a slight caveat to this. I plated an escort awhile back. I wasn't aware of it initially, and I had chalked it up to a ONS because she wasn't from town. Maybe this was technically a "sugar baby" because I was told, and it checked out, that she was there for one high end client. We met actually because her obligation was one night and she got two nights in the City paid for. Anyways, long story short these types can be quite direct if they're not trying to game you. They're typically red pi… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/16 01:45 PM |
| 2 | Night/Strip Club Gaming Exercise + ExperienceDon't get all sad or anything, but less talk more do, then more reflect, then talk. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/16 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Night/Strip Club Gaming Exercise + ExperienceI don't know what to make of this post. On the one hand, im thinking troll, on the other im thinking someone in desperate need of help and thinks this is at all appropriate. Dude, stop the strip clubs. Seriously. You're better off going with an escort than this. Rule number 2 - don't ever eat in a strip club, that is the domain of incels, and if you're trying to game a stripper, they know this. There isn't a dude they'd willingly fuck who eats in the strip club. My advice to you is spend more ti… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/16 12:11 AM |
| 2 | Your long journey, or "I can see myself with you in 5 years"This is a good point, and one which needs to be emphasized a bit more for some people here. Revenge porn stories like this are great, and I enjoyed the FR, but extremely rare. This should never be the goal of a man - to "show that bitch". Living for revenge on some broad is not a productive way to live your life. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/16 02:49 PM |
| 2 | "Sexual Assault" is Why I'm Endorsing Donald Trump for President of the United StatesWhat exactly makes you think HRC supporting is compatible with here? Forget Trump's perceived errors, talk about the Shill and her policies | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/16 11:03 PM |
| 24 | "Sexual Assault" is Why I'm Endorsing Donald Trump for President of the United StatesI actually would argue that it is incompatible to adhere to TRP and support Hillary Clinton's bid for presidency. You can not support Trump but there is no way to be an HRC supporter. RPS is absolutely right to bring this up, we've been talking about this here for years. As an aside, I also suspect Hillary actually is a misandrist. She talks about men holding her down her whole life, her husband doesn't fuck her and publicly humiliated her, she got trounced by Obama when it was her time... | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/16 03:12 PM |
| 9 | The number of cucks on polyamory sub is mind blowingAlso in my limited experience (to my knowledge anyway). I have openly been asked to bull at a bar a couple times, and the woman is fucking raw. My gut here is - you don't see a ton of actually attractive women doing this. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/16 03:43 PM |
| 2 | CorporateLand: The Deportment Department, or How to BehaveHa. It's funny you know that because I heard this story after I worked in big law in NYC and came back to Canada (don't work for Torys). I figured he had to be doing okay, given the book he must have had, but this was well before my time. Interesting. TL;DR - No one is too big to fall. Edit - I don't mean to speak for OP but I'm going to make an observation for fellow readers. Even if I hadn't been familiar with this Russian sniper before due to his previous posts, I know this isn't bullshit for… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/16 03:04 PM |
| 2 | CorporateLand: The Deportment Department, or How to BehaveThere is an infamous tale involving the alcohol portion that pretty much all lawyers worth their ass know in Canada, and a lot in the US. It happened awhile ago, so there isn't much on the Internet about it, but a major law firm merger occurred between Toronto and NYC. At the merger party, the named partner of the NYC side of the deal got obliterated, got inappropriate, and terminated the next day. To put this in context, that firm still goes by one last name, when it was planned to be two. That… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/16 02:40 PM |
| 6 | The RealThis is a great post for a few different reasons. To bring up a different aspect, I see this constantly in taxation, which came to the forefront in the US presidential election recently. I live in Canada and I can't take a shit anymore without handing over money to the state. Every dime I spend, every hour I work, even sitting on my ass watching an investment made with already-taxed money appreciate in value. "But that's going to roads and hospitals! What are you a monster!?" No it's fucking not… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/16 02:25 PM |
| 9 | Trumps latest "lewd" remarks about women have the talking heads abuzz and the wominnns are offended....There's also this which I think is bang on. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/16 09:37 PM |
| 5 | Trumps latest "lewd" remarks about women have the talking heads abuzz and the wominnns are offended....Well put. The only difference between women on this is some of them (rare) are aware of it, and others hamster it (99%). | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/16 02:49 PM |
| 28 | Trumps latest "lewd" remarks about women have the talking heads abuzz and the wominnns are offended....That's really it. He was also joking around, you can hear the either guy laughing. And fuck right off white knights. Someone (can't remember which congressman) basically unsheathed his sword (probably from under his fat rolls) and said, "women should never be spoken of like this". I'm not Donald Trump, and I've seen fucking depravity. He's definitely seen some shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/16 12:09 PM |
| 0 | Cheated on GF yesterday, feel empty as fuckIt gets much easier the next time. You can either move on confident you don't need other pussy around, or you can downgrade and get foreign pussy. Sounds like you want the former. Under no circumstance tell her. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/16 02:15 AM |
| 1 | The real gender gap: the tax gapThis is an excellent post as usual and something I've been reflecting on for some time. When I have political discussions, I often think about how their view would possibly change if they actually calculated how much they've paid into the social system (white knights). It's absolutely insane, and I'm not that old. Let alone - It's impossible to have a coherent conversation on this topic with anyone that takes more than they give (hint - they want more). | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/16 12:58 PM |
| 4 | GaylubeOil's Plan to Engineer a Race of Ultra AlphasYeah. The best gym I went to met this but I moved away sadly. Full of old motherfuckers that were jacked as well. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/16 05:14 PM |
| 3 | FR: Tinder Date with more red flags than a People's RevolutionI am going to give a piece of advice, not because I think you necessarily need it, but others. Although, I understand you hung out for the date for some IRL-trolling, it's usually not worth it. Guys, I have, quite literally, excused myself to go to the bathroom from such Tinderdates and just left five times now. It can be done, and the consequences are basically nothing once you block the number. Grow a set of balls and do it. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/16 11:34 PM |
| 2 | Amused Mastery and keeping frame makes life easy.Good FR. This is very important to know - how to deal with such men. Going all butthurt because a dude is hitting on your girl renders her pussy the Sahara. It's actually easy as well because little one-liners like this which aren't trying to look too cool work. I've said a variant of, "That's sweet, but you'll have to take me out to dinner first", probably a hundred times to dudes in this very scenario. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/16 11:13 PM |
| 1 | College Game without Drinking or SmokingI don't understand. Are you talking about attending parties? It seems here you are talking about either hosting parties or getting girls over to Netflix and chill? Also, don't buy too much to everyone here going on about amazing planned dates and rock climbing. Who in the fuck goes rock climbing constantly? I've done it like five times in my entire life and none of them were a date. If a girl wants to hang out with you at 10:00 on a Tuesday, you're not saying 'we're going to my midweek midnight … | /r/askTRP | 07/09/16 12:48 PM |
| 1 | 26m-Need a new direction?I would strongly advise moving. Doesn't need to be Tahiti, but try a bigger city out of state. If you have assets as you, just do it, you can probably find better work there. Stop the drinking right the fuck now. Not necessarily altogether, but don't go down that road, especially if you're drinking alone, which it sounds like you are. Cut that shit out now. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/16 01:54 PM |
| 1 | How to survive monk mode and not go insane?You have to try and socialize more. Even chat with the barista at the shitty campus Cafe, whatever. Meet some bros at the gym. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/16 01:48 PM |
| 2 | College Game without Drinking or SmokingBe in good shape, and work on your social skills. You can get away without smoking easily enough, if you absolutely feel like you need to then just hold a drink or order virgins. There isn't a bartender alive who doesn't 'get it' when you ask for a virgin gin and tonic. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/16 01:45 PM |
| 4 | Beta tried to crush my hand during a handshake when I was gaming his girl, did I play it right?... Look dude, good for you, but FR this rather than ask here. This is humble bragging. I don't see why you're asking this question here when it's all signs point to fuck. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/16 01:09 PM |
| 2 | LTR watches guy from top to bottomOP this is sage advice. This was almost certainly done did get a rise out of you, and you obliged her. When she brought it up again, you're best served by ending the conversation as quick as possible. It's ridiculous to entertain a discussion on how much of her possession you are. Well you were looking at that skank's tits! Well, I do have eyeballs. Wanna grab a bite to eat? Over. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/16 01:07 PM |
| 2 | Beta tried to crush my hand during a handshake when I was gaming his girl, did I play it right?You're overthinking it, you did fine. In fact, you should view it as a positive sign as Beta Ben was clearly threatened by you which means there's probably trouble in the hen house. That'll probably be fought about, and that does nothing but increase the odds of her texting you. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/16 01:03 PM |
| 2 | GF told me a gym guy complimented her looks... did I fail?Let's get this out of the way - you handled it correctly by not responding. It rarely goes astray to not respond, unless you're a text whore and it is extremely out of character and may look butthurt. Of course, you should never be a text whore, so let's assume you know that. However dude, this was a shit test. Make no mistake. It's not worth losing your shit in and of itself, but look at her response when you didn't text back. She fucking knew it was out of line. Add to the list of red flags. L… | /r/askTRP | 26/08/16 12:57 PM |
| 5 | Can you trust a girl that sees her best male friend one on one every now and then?It depends on three things - 1) History. If they've had any dalliance whatsoever in the past, No. 2) His relative SMV to you. If he is anything even approaching yours, No. 3) The circumstances. If she goes for harmless coffee once every few months, it might be okay. If she goes to stay with him, or threatens to, any time you get into a fight, No. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/16 12:52 PM |
| 2 | Advice? (Dealing with parents, moving out as a broke student)Roommates really. This is the only way to do this, and roommates are a good thing socially anyway, even if they suck it's good practice. If you have to take a student loan do it, but don't live like a king. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/16 05:08 PM |
| 3 | I took her back - It went to hellI don't really see a question, but if it makes you feel better I honestly think 'taking back an ex' is perhaps a necessary experience into becoming a man. You will learn eventually that it is always a mistake. I often say to dudes that even continuing a banging casually relationship is playing with fire. You have to be very much red to be able to handle this and control the situation. Some sage wisdom - She probably cheated on you before she moved out, but I will guarantee she fucked a dude with… | /r/askTRP | 19/08/16 04:54 PM |
| 7 | 'Freelance journalist' tells it like it is regard nerds/geeksThat's really it. For women, the difference between a wild rapist appearing and the next cock in her ass is muscles and day game. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/16 06:36 PM |
| 4 | LTR told me she wants less sexAnd that's my point. If this is occurring, it means there is tumultuous waves in paradise. Women who are into their men would never do this. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/16 07:19 PM |
| 47 | LTR told me she wants less sexHer sending you that link is a big red flag. I'm just going to be honest here - any time sex has declined when I'm in a good relationship (and even bad ones) and I was the one not initiating, the women demanded to know why the sex had declined, as women innately know that if you aren't fucking them, there is high risk you are fucking someone else. I'm not saying this is necessarily the case with your broad, but in my experience women do not tolerate a decline in sex (until they're readying a bra… | /r/askTRP | 12/07/16 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Nervous about a partyHere's a couple that I do - 1) Be positive, but don't try and dominate the conversation or be the centre of attention. Not yet anyway, if that's your thing. Just be cool, 'hey, I'm X, how you doin?' 'Right on', give firm handshakes, etc. 2) I tend to seek out gentlemen at the outset. See what the bros are like, get to know them, hang out for a bit. That's also a canary for me because of all the bros suck, then I might even bail, or attempt to just go straight for the broads. It depends how BP th… | /r/askTRP | 12/07/16 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Pokemon Go Get LaidThis is what I'm talking about. I'm in Canada and we don't have it yet, but I'm just waiting. Beyond even where I live, I do a lot of travel in a given year and I'm always looking for new ways to meet people if I take a couple days off to explore. I can very much see this being a great way to meet some local people. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/16 04:23 PM |
| 3 | 11 Lessons I've learned from all my past failures (For younger Guys especially)6 is the single most important gaming advice. This took some time for me to learn. I know a lot of interesting shit but nobody wants to fuck the guy who is weirdly talking about off-topic shit. 8 is a good one too. I feel as if this is a common mistake amongst guys here, just basing it on questions over at askTRP. Yeah, non-faggy negging, when executed correctly, is a good strategy but don't be a fucking cunt. Being the fun conversational guy will get you laid 100x more than trying to be alpha-b… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/16 01:48 PM |
| 18 | Consensual, Yet Unintentional Sex. The Latest, from our favourite subTale as old as time. 1) I'd bet my credit cards this isn't the first time. No fucking way. 2) Oddly capable therapist... That's a new one... Normally it's 'do more chores around the house' or 'why don't you think about an open relationship'.... 3) A travelling woman is not to be trusted. The stories I could tell from the law world... 4) It's been said here many times, but it bears repeating - Avoid women who claim to have been raped in the past. If it's true, which it could very well be in this … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/16 01:40 PM |
| 1 | FR:FR:Behind every married beta there is a woman waiting to be fucked. If you're literally Hitler you can actually scout out available pussy by shaking a man's hand. Bonus:Beta males are "nice guys" who one must be wary before trusting.Agreed. I think this story is worthwhile, but the analysis isn't great. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/16 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Canada Environment Minister: Climate Change is SexistThis is the great debate. Whether JT actually believes this shit or simply putting on an act because it's popular. I know for a fact he isn't bright, and he was at least basically a doofus. Cringe-worthy around women as well. That being said, the LPC has very good electioneering strategists in its fold, so he could just be doing what he is told and doing it for the free vacations | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/16 11:15 AM |
| 2 | Simple but hard-to-swallow message for a RP life: Don't drink booze.I think this might really be a key to this. I fucking hated London for this reason. Bad drinking cultures might be the real criminal here. Not that individual responsibility isn't the key, but if this is what is considered 'normal' socially then it's just a shit place. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/16 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Simple but hard-to-swallow message for a RP life: Don't drink booze.Much more than that. While I get that this is not necessarily geared towards alcoholics and all that, I think the notion of drinking all the time is romanticized in media. You see your rock stars, actors, even characters in movies will drink and they always look awesome, just slurring their words. Alcoholics are fucking fat in real life. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/16 05:13 PM |
| 3 | Simple but hard-to-swallow message for a RP life: Don't drink booze.This is a good post. Couple of observations - 1) Not everyone needs this because they have the requisite self-control, lots don't though. However, for those saying 'I don't need to do this because I'm not an alcoholic', focus on whether you might want to do it; 2) While lots of successful people do drink, there are many successful people on the record who don't drink. Trump comes to mind immediately. George W Bush gave up drinking for years before being President, loads of athletes, etc; 3) Gain… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/16 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Simple but hard-to-swallow message for a RP life: Don't drink booze.Protip - if you pay, keep the receipt. Not fool proof, but it is evidence of how much was consumed at the bar at least. Doesnt really apply to a club, but I do this because I'm used to having to expense client dinners and so on relatively frequently, so I always have receipts to have reimbursed. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/16 04:52 PM |
| 6 | "I want all the perks of maternity leave — without having any kids"Wow. The 'lesser extent, men' comment would be astounding to pre-TRP me. This is to be expected. This is solipsism at its finest. An observation to bear in mind - the conclusion a man would draw under these circumstances is that all this extra time I am doing at work justifies why I get paid more because I'm working longer hours. This woman is unable to come to this logical conclusion. Instead, she's in the world of men and has realized that it's not all staying late with cigars and single malt … | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/16 04:34 PM |
| -1 | Emma Watson: Star SJW Linked to Panama Papers LeakNo, boy. I work for this crowd and even accepting these types of dealings they pay far more than 'their fair share' because even 10% income greatly exceeds the contributions of the vast majority of everyone else. How do you define 'fair share'? At what point do these people and myself included, end up paying more than the fair share. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/16 09:41 PM |
| 0 | Emma Watson: Star SJW Linked to Panama Papers LeakAnd your condescending post amazes me. The post you were responding was addressing that socialist cucks who have never made a dime in their lives constantly harp on 'paying their fair share'. Okay. Do you know in my country my income level (which isn't the top) pays for almost 20% of all tax revenue for the government, despite that we are approximately 5% of the population? We are talking about my fair share. According to your bullshit logic I should be paying more? My fair share is even more th… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/16 07:51 PM |
| 1 | I Love Women, I Do Not Respect ThemThis should almost be appendixed to the OP. This is a really good point. I had thought of this before obviously, but the is well-articulated. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/16 06:46 PM |
| 2 | Red Flags: How to Judge your potential LTRCouple of points - 1) to fuse two of your points, if a girl refuses to speak about her Exes whatsoever, or if the descriptions/explanations don't add up (well we only dated for a couple of months, yet clearly it was a year or more). This type of past-hiding is a huge red flag for me. 2) Friends. Both know and assess her friends. Sluty friends are not phased by, or even encourage, sluttery amongst their ilk. Secondly, I don't trust girls that have very short term friends. I don't mean to say you … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/16 10:55 PM |
| 4 | Guy on OKCupid subreddit needs emotional support, displays vulnerability in front of his girlfriend. Guess what happens next.That's definitely true to an extent but the beta males in law school weren't thinking that way, and that's the point I was getting at. The beta dudes thought, mistakenly, that showing vulnerability due to the stress levels was acceptable and ended up getting cucked by Chad and/or dumped. There were some dudes, me included, who realized that this was a ticket to golden pussy and capitalized. It's like that Seinfeld episode when Elaine gets dumped by a mes student once he passes his exams because … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/16 01:05 AM |
| 9 | Guy on OKCupid subreddit needs emotional support, displays vulnerability in front of his girlfriend. Guess what happens next.I remember this happened to a bunch of dudes in law school. Those are some pretty fucking important exams, and it's extremely stressful because it's marked on a curve. They told their non-law gals their stressors and bunch of them got dumped before the exams. It's crazy what the survival rate of men going into law school with pre-existing non-law girlfriends, at least where I went. Without exaggerating id say it's around 10% | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/16 10:46 PM |
| 2 | Canadian Prime Minister Teaches Men How To Be Better FeministsHe's fucking definitely getting pegged, or even is a cuck and allows other men in the bed. Although, there is an interesting side story going on where apparently Sophie same some awkward things in an interview when asked how their marriage was which strongly alluded to past cheating. Jury's out for me on that, but in keeping a tab that maybe he learned a little more in his drama courses than he lets on and this is a huge act. That's more of a hope, because I know people that ran in his circle cl… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/16 07:15 PM |
| 3 | Canadian Prime Minister Teaches Men How To Be Better FeministsTo be fair, I don't actually think PET was a cuck. Yeah she went and banged some rock stars, but the worst kept secret is that he was doing everyone also, and continued to do so long after Maggie was in the nuthouse. My theory is that his lack of caring despite her extreme level shit tests drove her literally insane. They stayed together (and even later divorced) solely for political purposes. I find it hard to label him a cuck under these circumstances. That being said, I otherwise hate both Tr… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/16 07:09 PM |
| 2 | [FR] My first week of TRPThe Vanguard here is dead on. You can say anything that isn't cringe-worthy on topics of broad appeal. In /u/YouDislikeMyOpinion 's example there are actually two broad appeal topics there which makes that brilliant - travel and food. She is likely to bite on at least one of those. Others examples include - school/college, sports, music, etc. For the record with OP, I'm chalking that one up to both of these people are relatively new at it, thus she is likely contributing to the difficulty level. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/16 01:53 PM |
| 2 | Hambeasts have a bachelorette party with a nude male "model"This isn't a surprise. There was a AMA or AskReddit or something from male strippers. It was discussed here. None of this should be surprising. The dudes were talking about getting blown constantly | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/16 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Mythbusting: "A Man Must Always Approach"I like this because it's true. Also, TBH I don't like being pursued (aggressively, all women pursue subtly which is fine) merely because I don't get the same satisfaction. I like the game involved, conquering and what not. Now, not that I haven't accepted the aggressive bang before (let the man who hasn't cast the first stone), but I've also thrown these types out of my place or left them at the bar. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/16 01:12 PM |
| 1 | Best cities in the USA for bachelors, both old and young. Feel free to add to this very short list!It's expensive to live, but it's really not that expensive to game quality women. I lived in Brooklyn and the dudes across the street who frequented the neighbourhood watering hole were broke-ass counter-culture-types and they were pulling tons of ass. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/16 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Best cities in the USA for bachelors, both old and young. Feel free to add to this very short list!Ha that's true. The interesting thing about Montreal is that it is the anti-LA or anti-Vancouver. As long as you're decently in shape, are relatively confident, and have some degree of game knowledge, you can pull unusually good-looking women. They don't seem to care as much about looks (within reason). I've seen my chubby, unemployed friend pull an honest 8.5. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/16 08:28 PM |
| 2 | Best cities in the USA for bachelors, both old and young. Feel free to add to this very short list!Toronto does suck, being in a scene is not even enough for the most part. I'm in a couple scenes there and I'm still tinder-whoring. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/16 08:23 PM |
| 2 | Best cities in the USA for bachelors, both old and young. Feel free to add to this very short list!I'd love to see that FR. I've never had as much time as I'd like to get out there because I'm always in for work, but I dig that place big time. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/16 08:20 PM |
| 2 | Best cities in the USA for bachelors, both old and young. Feel free to add to this very short list!Absolutely true, the key there is to stick with the francophones if you can do it. Ottawa is atrocious, and Toronto is pretty bad too. Toronto is substantially better than Ottawa but Montreal is by far the best in Canada. It's easily a top five in North America. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/16 08:17 PM |
| 8 | Best cities in the USA for bachelors, both old and young. Feel free to add to this very short list!By unique I imagine you mean 'shit'. I'm not a big drinker, but Fuck is it hard because everything is so spread the fuck out and you have to drive it what must be the worst traffic outside of Beijing. Don't get me wrong, women are more than 'cute', full-out babes who are wannabe models and actresses working in every bar or cafe. Awesome weather, but I've found it very challenging logistically... | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/16 08:14 PM |
| 3 | How to bang on a first date - By Luke MooneyIndeed. It's obviously something that comes with experience but I find it's usually overcome by gradually increasing physical contact. 'No? Well let's check this show out...' Or whatever, and start with an arm around if she's really prickly. Normally you can go right to spooning if you've made it this far, and then it's just escalating. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/16 02:56 PM |
| 18 | How to bang on a first date - By Luke MooneyThis is an easy one. When spot one or two is complete, you just simply say, 'so looks like you owe me a drink, I know this place just down the road...' I've probably said a variant of that line 50 times. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/16 02:53 PM |
| 2 | FR: Hilarious Dread Game in CollegeAgreed. This isn't dread in any sense. It's a ditty of gaming a girl but in no way is this dread. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/16 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Real life Chad brags about bedding 2500 womenThis is the thing that makes me skeptical. To be perfectly honest I don't know what my count is. Plus or minus 50 I guess? It seems extremely unlikely for someone to have kept count to that number, beyond the problem with simple math. That being said, it's possible if he made a point of counting. But beyond that - it's obviously working for this guy to be cocky as shit, so padding the number is just running that game. Good on him I suppose. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/16 10:19 PM |
| 2 | CorporateLand: Working With Working Women In The Modern Corporate EnvironmentGreat post as usual. Because women understand other women, and they hate each other. This sentence could warrant a post in its own, I'd have to reflect on it more though. Anyone who has been in the corporate world becomes well aware of gender differences do this. I've heard far more young women in my career complain of their treatment by the other women than 'the patriarchy'. It's a really important point, that would go without saying for someone here but for others, to not get involved in these… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/16 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Lifting and 40+ hour professional work week is HARD!There is great advice here, I will emphasize a couple points- 1) become a morning person through trial and error of you have to, and see if you can find a gym nearby work. I do about 45 minutes of cardio in the early mornings, and then do my morning routine in the gym bathroom (shaving, even ironing my shirt if it got wrinkly on the way over). You'd be surprised how many guys do this. 2) You need to spend some good portion of your Saturday or Sunday planning the week. By that I mean, have your f… | /r/askTRP | 21/04/16 12:55 AM |
| 1 | I am a cuckold and I need helpYou have an enormous way to go. I don't say that derisively, just actually. As everyone else suggested, you need to spend some serious time reading the sidebar and not just reading, mulling it over and reflecting on it. You seriously need to rethink probably everything you're doing, and also seek some medical advice on the premature ejaculation issue. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/16 12:48 AM |
| 2 | Tips on quitting smoking?I'm going to throw in some more. This is a cliche but try and limit or eliminate shit you used to do with it. Coffee is a big one. Yeah, it sucks hard knocking off two at once, but I've found the 7 days thing to be true. Lifting is huge. The first two weeks when you don't have dragon lungs you'll be lifting so much harder, it is its own reward. Finally, 'it's never just one'. You may get to a point (where I am, after much trial and error) where can I have a smoke over a card game and I don't nee… | /r/askTRP | 19/04/16 02:16 AM |
| 1 | My uncle will die tonight, death comes for us all.Good to see you're making the best of this situation. Good luck. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/16 02:09 AM |
| 5 | TRP spilling out in TwoXHaha. I don't normally like these posts here, but this one is excellent. Lots going on here but the solipsism by Ms. Strong Independent and the commenters is too god. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/16 11:09 AM |
| 1 | When Plates CollideThe massive social proof from other girls fucking you will always, ALWAYS, make them more attracted to you. This is actually true. Additionally, if you are trying to hook a certain hottie, engineering her seeing you with another hottie works as well (not all the time now, but I would say my success rate is around 75% with this strategy). Also - maybe a year ago there was an excellent field report from someone who was driving with plate 2, and plate 1 spotted them from the street, and he just wav… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/16 10:53 PM |
| 1 | My roommate is the most pathetic beta I've ever met and a textbook bluepiller. Don't be like him.This is exactly how I felt. I've let friends stay at my place for a week under normal circumstances, and two or more if they were going through rough times (just moved to the City, moving out from a girlfriend, etc). Now, I won't allow him to be a slob and not contribute in any way, but I'm not a prick about it. Being a good guest is an important lesson but being a good host is important too. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/16 10:26 PM |
| 18 | Amy Schumer blasts Glamour magazine for including her in plus-size edition (I'm not FAT!!!)From the article of her in a bikini- The Comedy Central star displayed her curvaceous figure in a bandeau bikini and color coordinated bottoms. Now that's fucking generous. We all need to bear in mind here as well is that she is 34, turning 35 in a couple of months. This women is walled. Women at this point in their lives are ultra-sensitive to their relative position in the SMP. I guarantee she threw a fucking hissy fit and probably cried. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/16 03:21 AM |
| 4 | Remember: A Woman Will Have Sex With A Man She Doesn't Love, But She'll Never Love A Man She's Not Having Sex WithThis is a good point, but this makes me think of a cautionary note - Pretty much all the men I know that got oneitis and/or got completely fucked over by a girl was due to her fucking his brains out. Almost always by mentally fucked up women who will go to A2M if it is done to them, but are fit for straight jackets outside of bed. While the quality of sex is important, like a drug this can fuck with good men's heads... | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/16 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Lessons from a borderline woman - pt 1 confirmation of TRP truths and red flags of a BPD woman.Indeed, but it's worse than that. It wasn't just because she's a sloot. She did it deliberately to fuck with him. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/16 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Panama Papers indicate divorce laws a key driver for offshore trusts.As do I, and they are both rich and smart. Inheritance is a thing for sure for these types, but people who have had money in their family have family lawyers and so on and are much more aware of the disaster that can be caused by shitnami divorce. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/16 08:37 PM |
| 3 | Lessons from a borderline woman - pt 1 confirmation of TRP truths and red flags of a BPD woman.Indeed. One basically ruined my friends life for a period. They do fucked up things too man, like fuck with your head and relationships. This one ended up doing all sorts of fucked up shit - false police calls, sleeping with his friends, etc. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/16 12:51 PM |
| 2 | Lessons from a borderline woman - pt 1 confirmation of TRP truths and red flags of a BPD woman.Is there even a spectrum for this? I sort of thought it was all or nothing, you have it or not. I say this because I don't just next BPD (to my knowledge I haven't encountered it) but pretty much all mental health issues. There is an evolutionary function about this - I don't want my children to have added family history (Alcoholism runs rampant on my side of the family), but my experience with women with obvious mental health issues prior to taking the pill has been nothing but trouble. To be h… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/16 12:46 PM |
| 7 | Panama Papers indicate divorce laws a key driver for offshore trusts.Indeed. By no means do I intend its unanimous. Its insane to me that these types spend their entire lives assessing risk in investments, and then fail horribly at assessing the risk in their marriages because vagina. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/16 12:36 PM |
| 1 | Panama Papers indicate divorce laws a key driver for offshore trusts.I would stick to trusts and pre-nups. I think of this stuff as the domain of the very wealthy (and if you are, go for it!). Even then, trusts held outside are enormously difficult to trace. I would suggest something like this if you were to inherit a shit ton of money from granny moneybags, such that if no one is aware of it, it won't be taken into account for support purposes... | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/16 11:56 AM |
| 10 | Panama Papers indicate divorce laws a key driver for offshore trusts.This is the domain of the alpha players. They've been doing this for decades. A lot of these guys are natural alphas and are typically smart as hell, so you better believe they're 'hoping for the best, preparing for the worst' as they say, when it comes to marriage. This isn't the only way either. A famous example was Ronald Perelman's divorce from Ellen Barkin. This guy is a billionaire corporate raider, and apparently paid out a few millions (pennies relatively) in this divorce. I can't confir… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/16 11:50 AM |
| 1 | It is Literally 2016Indeed. And Trump is literally Hitler | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/16 02:11 AM |
| 1 | "UVA Jackie" Doesn't Want To Testify Under OathAnd another case of a landwhale batting out of her league. I fucking knew I was going to see this - a chubby five with a dude who could pull much better after a week on this sub. I would bet my credit cards this ends in a divorce rape at best. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/16 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Approaching Wall Feminist says the housing crisis is so much crueler for single women - says it's so much worse for a woman to share a house. Special snowflake!This is absolutely true, but I'm going to add a point I've been saying for a long time. Feminism was a willing contributor to this phenomenon, and while possibly the primary cause, it is certainly a major one. I'll say it again to the feminists - be careful what you wish for. I think this is obvious- the destruction of the nuclear family and the rise of independent women had a consequence - the market reacted. Houses were once based on a single income, now that there are smart independent women,… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/16 06:32 PM |
| 2 | Trickle Down Media WhoreWow. I don't have anything constructive to add aside from that's respectful. Well done sir. I'm presuming they avoided any further talk with you after the great response? | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/16 07:25 PM |
| 1 | [FR] No longer a 24 year old virginThe only caution I will give you is beware when you meet someone who fucks your brains out and let's you do whatever you want. Beware. Dark triad women/black widows have been using this to manipulate men for years. So many great men have been ruined by this. When you meet such a woman, don't let it drive you mad. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/16 06:12 PM |
| 1 | [FR] No longer a 24 year old virginExcellent response, and obviously you've been reading the right stuff here. The amount of my friends that come to me and talk about how they can't understand why someone in friended them or blocked them on some app is disgusting. My response is always - who gives a fuck? | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/16 06:08 PM |
| 3 | [FR] No longer a 24 year old virginThis is true, but anyone who has smoked reads that statement and nods because they've been there. I'm quit for good a few years ago, but along the way I had quit and restart so many times it pathetic. You fall into a state of 'I'm never not quitting'. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/16 06:04 PM |
| 4 | [FR] Friday 12th of February, 2016 “My boyfriend is dickless"I've travelled quite a bit, and I will confirm Amsterdam is top notch. Actually all of the Netherlands is. One comment I have- obviously for a man, frame, social proof and social skills are the key factors. In terms of pure looks though, Dutch men tend to be objectively quite good looking and tall. I'm not slouch myself, but it was intimidating when I first went there many years ago. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/16 05:57 PM |
| 1 | The Golden Rule: How To Not Get Fucked In BusinessThis is an excellent post, coming from a corporate litigator. I have seen this happen so many times. I actually don't take the 'jilted business' case' unless I get a substantial retainer. That being said, I hope your 'Lessons Learned' are read by the audience, as that is an excellent overview of your main point. This is great advice - all that glitters is not gold, people will eat you alive when it suits them, and don't put all your eggs in one basket. I hope readers realize this is your point. … | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/16 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Even if your SMV is super high, you can be accused of rape by alpha-widows. Cover your ass and save emails / evidence. Good news though: People are starting to wake up. Exhibit AToronto is fucking brutal dude, seriously. I used to live there and pass through frequently. It's a dreadful place in the context of this conversation - it's overrun by aggressive feminists (Big Red is from Toronto) and beta fags. It's really bad. Yeah I got lots of friends there and you can get laid easy enough (not as easy as it should be), but the ratios are shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/16 08:26 PM |
| 2 | FR: Plate tries to set my 6 month calendar mid - blowjobDidn't catch that. Probably downvoted, and probably rightfully so if that's the case. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/16 10:32 PM |
| 2 | TRP is a place for losersIs that really the case? I didn't get that sense from /u/gaylubeoil 's posts, which seem to suggest we are looking at mostly college students. I mean, perhaps they're well off in the grand scheme of things comparatively, but I don't get the sense most are like zaitsev for example? | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/16 03:09 PM |
| 13 | TRP is a place for losersWe have grown in a feminized world in absence of a strong male role models and wrong upbringing. We are angry because we have been robbed of our potential as a male homo sapiens. This wrong upbringing and environment is toxic to masculinity, that is why we are losers. Now I have mixed views on Joe Rogan, but he always talks about this. Loser men are losers because they aren't forced to hunt anymore, and can instead head to the grocery store and pick up pre-made wings and Mountain Dew. This is hi… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/16 02:36 PM |
| 2 | FR: Plate tries to set my 6 month calendar mid - blowjobI don't know why you're getting so much hate? I agree - I would not stand for this. She's clearly using sex as a form of bargaining trick, almost like she is trying positive conditioning like you're one of Pavlov's bitches or something. After the act is sort of the same, but excusable; during the act itself? | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/16 02:30 PM |
| 5 | Trolls, concern trolls, and the way we weed you out.Also, I don't think it's right for mods to call anyone here idiots like that. This embodies concern trolling in my opinion. It reminds me of Canadian hate speech law where it has been decided that even "truthful" speech, can be hateful. If people are being idiots, then they're going to be called idiots, notwithstanding their feelings. The unsubscribe button is at your disposal if you disagree. Also, these posts seemed obvious to me. These are life tips by men designed for men to get ahead. Case/… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/16 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Donald Trump teaches us something very important. Never bow down when put on the spot infront of a women.I don't disagree with that, I acknowledged it. But the twitter ragefests are childish, I don't see a counterargument to that. It's like Facebook rants... | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/16 05:22 AM |
| -1 | Donald Trump teaches us something very important. Never bow down when put on the spot infront of a women.Trump has quick witted comebacks to lots of things, which I like. And you can see from people who talk about him that he's apparently pretty social. However, the teenage twitter ragefests are bullshit man. If anyone did that here, who wasn't a billionaire, we would say that's fucking pussy shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/16 03:13 AM |
| 2 | Change.org post to ban Roosh books such as Bang on grounds of 'being a rape apologist'Change.org is for losers. Also, I can always tell a SJW-liberal progressive type because they're solution to almost everything is "get the government to ban it". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/16 10:46 PM |
| 1 | How does BP explain the 'field report' success stories where the guy exhibits extremely cuntish behaviour but still succeeds?He is just giving it a shot. It said he had never been to a bar before, and he is likely just trying something new. Also, if he hasn't been to a bar before, guaranteed he doesn't have friends who do it. This is an extraordinary situation, granted, but why the fuck not? Better than being at home playing video games or something. Maybe he'll go there and make some friends, or realize he doesn't like bars so he'll try pick up ball, or volunteering... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/16 10:43 PM |
| 1 | How does BP explain the 'field report' success stories where the guy exhibits extremely cuntish behaviour but still succeeds?It's being held up as success as someone who went to a bar for the first time and decided to show some balls and be social. There are inevitable slip ups, it's pretty hard for men to do - go to a bar by themselves and socialize like this. It's why most don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/16 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Men without friendsI've read several posts on this topic here, you should run a search in the sub. Look, I think the hardest thing is to acknowledge is you need to forget about your old friends, in that sort of way. Don't abandon them, but you need to expand your network and it takes work. It's trite to say but join shit, volunteer, whatever. I've found my old friends aren't likely to join me in Vegas, but they'll have a barbecue with a bunch of people to meet, or somewhere you can bring someone. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/16 06:20 AM |
| 3 | Men without friendsWas looking for this comment. Transient lawyer here. I've lived in fucking maybe a dozen places, and that's just setting a benchmark of a minimum of three months. I've also made friends doing unusual activities, including community art classes. Recently discovered non-competitive running clubs too (which are all across the globe, by the way), and they are a motley crew of hardcore drinkers (if you want to just have some good old fashioned college fun once in a while). All the people I met outsid… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/16 06:15 AM |
| 1 | In a relationship? Keylog the bitch and meet your girl. It won't be pretty.simple.. just pick up their phone. do they lose their fucking mind? Just from seeing you pick it up. RED FLAG I agree, and I'd like to emphasize that this is a learned reflex by cheaters. It doesn't necessarily mean she is cheating on you, at that given time, but it means at best she has learned to be protective due to something in the past, likely getting caught cheating. You know what I mean, it's not a calculated reaction but an almost instinctual reaction if she leaps up to snatch the phone … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/16 06:08 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Are you okay with women using toys during or after sex?Have done it many times during sex, and have no problem with it. Have never encountered it occurring after-the-fact, and I would have a problem with it primarily for the reasons stated by /u/GaiusScaevolus. Sex is an ongoing thing, so there should be no reason for that to occur in my experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/16 05:35 AM |
| 5 | How does BP explain the 'field report' success stories where the guy exhibits extremely cuntish behaviour but still succeeds?For the record, I think embellishment is a given in first, I'm unsure if it's entirely made up though. The second one seems unlikely to be made up. Even so, by his own admission he made an ass out of himself at times, but he admitted he's new at it, I don't think he deserves scorn. Also for the record, oddly enough I too noted that straightening v curling comment, both for being incorrect, and for being a silly conclusion to draw. Any guy who has dated a naturally curly haired girl knows this. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/16 05:32 AM |
| 1 | Sex is one of the hardest things to accomplish these days for young men.In your defence, I'm not from London, been there many times, lots of friends there, but it is a famously tough place to bang quality girls. It's not just that it's a world city, New York is the city and its a fucking sex circus there. The women don't even mind being plated really as long as you have a modicum of a professional career. If you're in finance, you should seriously consider hopping over. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/16 04:01 AM |
| 1 | (Field Report) - When The Red Pill Stopped Being A Theory and Became a Truer Reality than I could ever imagineI think you might be on to something there. The only thing I would add is that the "allure of the affair" that they've seen in movies is also a strong contributing factor. Look at these texts, she is getting off not only on the actual sex itself, but being a "bad girl" for cheating. Once isolated from prying eyes (mother hens, but even friends really), girls with boyfriends seem to take less work, all things being equal... | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/16 03:52 AM |
| 4 | UK Police now requiring men to inform them BEFORE having sex or face jailtime. Thoughts?I would be interested to see that. I mean... this is affronting basic criminal law principles. Blackstone being the big one (a proper English gentleman). I see serious legal implications with this... Let alone the abhorrent invasion of privacy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/16 03:53 AM |
| 8 | UK Police now requiring men to inform them BEFORE having sex or face jailtime. Thoughts?So just the lawyer stereotypically "clarifying" the law, even when it's a redundant point :p In seriousness: Double jeopardy is a powerful tool to protect defendants. This is exactly how I framed it in my mind, a form of double jeopardy. Glad you said it, so it means I'm not completely off-base. For the record, this would also never fly in Canada either. I'm not part of the criminal crowd, but I can say this with 95% certainty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/16 03:39 AM |
| 2 | UK Police now requiring men to inform them BEFORE having sex or face jailtime. Thoughts?It wouldn't. It wouldn't fly in Canada either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/16 02:44 AM |
| 8 | UK Police now requiring men to inform them BEFORE having sex or face jailtime. Thoughts?Hardly an argument Leane.... The foundation of the criminal law is being affronted here. Sue him in civil court if you want the preponderance of evidence standard.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/16 02:41 AM |
| 7 | Would you ever date a teen mom/dad? Why or why not?I wouldn't date any single mom, let alone teenage pregnancy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/16 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Canadian PM says "Men and Women shouldn't be afraid to be feminists"More of a rhombus on this sub I suppose... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/16 02:08 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Racial SJ movements are pushing feminism out of the spotlight, and into the ground.I think you're on the right track, but there are still many feminist movements and shaming. Is it playing second fiddle to race? Perhaps, and from what I can tell, rightfully so - white women are doing great in Canada. But, there are still legions of womens studies scholars and so on. BLM was huge, but so was mattress girl. Also, here is my prediction - Clinton will win the democratic nomination, and as we all know - she is going full tilt on womens issue. Once Sanders is gone, I suspect income … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/16 02:07 AM |
| 6 | Canadian PM says "Men and Women shouldn't be afraid to be feminists"My sense is that there seem to be five posited explanation - 1) Women are not-calculatingly contrary to feminism (primarily because they have whatever they want), but are just going about their lives and not caring (sort of what CIS is getting at); 2) Women have good men around them, and are actively disavowing feminism because they've thought about it and are calling bullshit (sort of what you are getting at, as well as Lucillo and wtknight) 3) Women are repulsed by such women, primarily becaus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/16 01:58 AM |
| 4 | Canadian PM says "Men and Women shouldn't be afraid to be feminists"Rebel gets a bad rep in circles, but it's not bad. Just like any news source you have to be critical. G&M, Star, Huff Po, Vice, all have to be looked at critically, but they have good stuff there. On the merits - let's see when he starts living up to his real election promises first, I agree. That being said, I also know people who know him very well, and Gavin is right on the fact that he isn't particularly bright. In fact, that shouldn't be controversial, he hasn't branded himself as an intell… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/16 01:52 AM |
| 1 | How do I up my pre-selection game? What are some good techniques of info I could use to my advantage?game the bartender so when you walk in next time she knows you by name and smiles and waives to you. Good one. I was just about to post something to this effect. /u/muddpup64 - stacking the deck is by far the easiest way to do this. If you're doing the bar thing, befriend the bartender, doorman, security guard, and ideally the DJ/band. Then, you get your prospect to meet you there, and your social proof is through the roof when she sees how awesome you are to everyone. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/16 12:15 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Everyone starts somewhere.Good effort, and way to show some balls. Nightwing has it covered pretty well, a couple points of my own - Obviously the hailmary stands out, but I think you've learned your lesson. Don't play too many "games" because it can comes across as contrived. I get you're wading into the water here, so whatever helps make you more comfortable. Eventually, you won't need these though when you can talk seamlessly. I start getting shit from BF & GF about not buying Blonde a drink. I explain I’m a feminist,… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/16 11:48 PM |
| 2 | For the members that have been on here for a long time, can you give a summary of /r/purplepilldebate? What progress has been made on the main issues that were up for debate?It's an interesting place to debate a controversial topic amongst interested people. I spend more time reading than commenting, I usually don't have a ton to add because someone already has made the point / counterpoint. That's probably a good thing. But, alot of the same discussions over and over again, with the rare one worth commenting on. Also, both "sides" tend to resort to snark rather than logic. As for posting, I spend too much trying to keep people on track and limiting derailing to irr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/16 11:00 PM |
| 4 | Canadian PM says "Men and Women shouldn't be afraid to be feminists"Not really relevant, I'm not taking sides on Gamergate, as I don't think grown men should be playing video games in the first place... Again, I don't know why you're making this point, this is you- Calling yourself a feminist wasn't such a controversial thing a few years ago. This seems very much in line with what Milo said anyway - numbers are decreasing. Debate the cause, but you seem to agree that there has been a change here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/16 10:57 PM |
| 5 | Canadian PM says "Men and Women shouldn't be afraid to be feminists"Another sigh We're having a discussion here, and we're accepting something for the sake of argument. Fact of the matter is, Trudeau obviously believes people are afraid to call themselves feminist. Now, he could be wrong altogether, but Milo (and others! feminists even!) have noted that this is true. Therefore, it could either be that people have always been afraid to self-identify as feminist, or more to what Milo says, it is decreasing over time. As I mentioned elsewhere, we are accepting this… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/16 10:52 PM |
| 4 | Canadian PM says "Men and Women shouldn't be afraid to be feminists"Ok sure, so you're positing that a possible explanation for the decrease is negative treatment of those who self-identify as feminist women? Now I ran into that argument elsewhere, and it's clearly a possibility. We don't have data on this, but my gut on this is - this implies that a very large volume of women have performed this "trial and error" of self-identifying as feminist and it causing negative consequences, and to be generous - lets include women (like what you're getting at) who have f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/16 10:36 PM |
| 3 | Canadian PM says "Men and Women shouldn't be afraid to be feminists"Yeah, it is hyperbole - I think that's obvious? Moving on... because they've had people react negatively/aggressively towards them for it. Where did this occur (off Reddit, of course)? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/16 10:24 PM |
| 5 | Canadian PM says "Men and Women shouldn't be afraid to be feminists"I dont know why you're the only one who can't understand accepting for the purpose of argument, everyone else got it? Let's just get to the point- I still disagree with you. Feminism has evolved and been successful such that much of what used to just be considered feminism is now considered parts of our value system. Current feminism may be seen as more radical and thus people may identify with tenets of feminism from 1960's or 70's while rejecting today's feminism. See, this is something? An ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/16 10:23 PM |
| 3 | Canadian PM says "Men and Women shouldn't be afraid to be feminists"I'd take 65 year old Putin still. He has been doing this all his life while Trudeau casually boxed. If you've seen the fight, it's obviously amateur stuff, it looked like Rocky IV by the end of it. Just wild punches... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/16 10:08 PM |
| 6 | Canadian PM says "Men and Women shouldn't be afraid to be feminists"Well you mustn't like him that much, considering he would get destroyed by Putin who is a life-long martial arts guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/16 09:59 PM |
| 7 | Canadian PM says "Men and Women shouldn't be afraid to be feminists"Where's your data first of all? Sigh, this is a common retort that seems to be merely to derail the conversation. Answer - I discussed this in my OP. I am not necessarily trying to be rude, but this is explained. We are accepting for the sake of argument that Trudeau has adopted Milo's statistics. It's not a huge leap in logic to get there, the only thing missing from Trudeau specifically said was that it was decreasing rather than people were always afraid to say it. It could be that, for the s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/16 09:26 PM |
| 8 | Canadian PM says "Men and Women shouldn't be afraid to be feminists"You're not answering my question, but going on some sort of rant. My question is - data exists that fewer people, men and women, are self-identifying as feminists. What is the explanation for this trend? You have not answered this question, but said I think feminists genuinely believe in its tenets. In which case, the implied answer you are giving is that there are fewer people who believe in its tenets? Is this correct? My point is that most people aren't feminists to make your dick hard. I don… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/16 09:05 PM |
| 4 | Canadian PM says "Men and Women shouldn't be afraid to be feminists"Yes but he is taking in generalizations (patterns) which seems to be correct. There are obviously many women that don't fit the pattern, and if you're one of them - okay. It doesn't mean the pattern doesn't exist. However, more poignantly, as I mentioned, Trudeau specifically appointed a gender parity Cabinet specifically to "correct" the gender imbalance in Cabinet (which isn't really based in reality in modern times, given the past government was almost at parity without a publicly stated gend… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/16 08:58 PM |
| 8 | Canadian PM says "Men and Women shouldn't be afraid to be feminists"I ran into this argument before, and it isn't solipsism. Both men and women are aware of the dynamics of attractiveness, and being attractive is a good thing for your social economics (get hired more, generally more successful, etc). I don't have the link on me, but I don't think that's a controversial point. In the same way that men know that being a fat, neckbeard is unattractive, unmasculine and ought to be avoided, women know that being aggressive and crass is unfeminine and unattractive. Th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/16 08:48 PM |
| 11 | Canadian PM says "Men and Women shouldn't be afraid to be feminists"It's terrible. Let alone this is from the article I cite: When Trudeau won a majority government on Oct. 19, much of the ensuing international coverage focused on his physical appearance. I don't care about this personally (attractiveness can and should be used in politics), but for the MRA types, I mean this is an obvious double-standard. No one gave a shit in Canada, in fact it was encouraged. Presumably if it was a woman the pundits would be all over it, calling it misogyny. Obviously that pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/16 08:42 PM |
| 4 | Canadian PM says "Men and Women shouldn't be afraid to be feminists"Most women knows lots of good men: fathers, husbands, brothers, friends, workmates etc. So when radical feminists come out and make negative generalizations and then call themselves "feminists," most of them aren't going to identify with the term. I don't think it has as much to do with "trying to appear feminine." This is a good point too. I am erring on the side of self-serving reasons (attractiveness) than altruism (defending men), but I think you're on to something with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/16 08:36 PM |
| 6 | Canadian PM says "Men and Women shouldn't be afraid to be feminists"I think you're making a good point, as I've said many times that pretty much all women I've been with will openly hate on post-wall, fat, and Big Red-type women. The go with the flow attitude I would say is dominant. I put more emphasis on the unattractiveness / negative consequences to their SMV. In line with what was said earlier, women know parading around Yonge street in body paint with the word "slut" on a sign is unfeminine behaviour and will inevitably decrease their SMV when it comes to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/16 08:33 PM |
| 6 | Canadian PM says "Men and Women shouldn't be afraid to be feminists"Roughly my stated theory was in agreement with yours - negative association with radical, unfeminine, crass behaviour - so I'm not necessarily disagreeing with you. However, I am troubled by the notion that "radical feminism" is confined to "radical expressions of otherwise legitimate feminism". That seems to be a shaky distinction for me... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/16 08:26 PM |
| 5 | Canadian PM says "Men and Women shouldn't be afraid to be feminists"I think you're going to run into trouble that there is a difference between "radical feminism" and "feminism". I'm not the best equipped for this particular debate, but I'm pretty sure other commentators here will debate that point. For example, Slutwalks are likely attributed to "radical feminism", but that's merely a radical expression of a "feminist" belief, no? PS: Justin Trudeau is awesome I strongly disagree. But that's a topic for another sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/16 08:11 PM |
| 3 | Are you offended by Trump's comment implying men are rapists?If you go to France, please go and give one of those refugees big hug from me, please. Long ago, before all this talk of Trump and so on, I still remember taking the chunnel to London. If anyone saw the amount of refugees literally living under the bridges Calais waiting somehow to get to England it'd make you sick. The obvious answer is they shouldn't have gotten there in the first place, a literal or metaphorical wall would have helped everyone involved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/16 06:36 PM |
| 7 | Go Full PatriarchPro Tip - if you get caught, say "well, what are names but a socially constructed label, I know you as a person" then name off x, y facts she told you about herself. This actually works. Plus it's hilarious. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/16 12:29 AM |
| 2 | Go Full PatriarchI don't mean to be presumptuous but I think you're missing the point /u/gaylubeoil is making here. I have had nothing to add, so I've done nothing but upvote on this, but he is correct that modern feminism comes from the Frankfurt school, which had its theoretical roots based in communism. Put simply, you're right, but the theme of this post is getting at where feminism came from, not the outcome - which you have quite accurately described. That's how I read it anyway. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/16 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Tuition From Tragedy - Ben's StoryGreat point. When I look back on my LTRs since joining here I can easily spot when dread was in effect, and it was never done in a calculated way, but more in a morally-neutral 'selfish' way. I hadn't contemplated the effect of this until it has been identified here, but it occurs due precisely what you are saying. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/16 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP about Girls/Guys Night OutHa you're right. But I love my rolls and Doritos. Figured you would love such men Pandy, since you're surrounded by them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/16 04:41 AM |
| 1 | Q4RP about Girls/Guys Night OutI'm pretty sure the odd bachelor party won't kill me. But then again it is AB so we have full cows on our nachos.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/16 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Q4RP about Girls/Guys Night OutThere's a difference between 'girls night' and 'girls night out'. This thread is about the latter specifically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/16 03:45 AM |
| 2 | Q4RP about Girls/Guys Night OutYour lame. There's nothing wrong with going to strip club because what are you trying to do, sleep with the stripper? no. It's just shit-talking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/16 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP about Girls/Guys Night OutOnly the pretty ones :p | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/16 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP about Girls/Guys Night OutI'm not going to Reddit for advice on what my girlfriend is doing on 'girls night out', I was asked a question and gave my opinion. Anyone who doesn't understand a generalization and how to apply it, is a moron, so I'm not accepting a lot of this. I am seeing the same trend everywhere because it's true. I don't require a moron sociologist to tell me what I'm seeing either. Again, the fact you can't understand you're an outlier is troubling... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/16 09:19 PM |
| 2 | A proposed, new solution to the rape dilemmaThis is unrealistic. Whether it's a policy not to make it 'public' it will occur. Obviously trough gossip, but it will get out one way or another. Everyone loves a juicy story and this would be one of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/16 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP about Girls/Guys Night OutNo. I think the generalization I am making is supported by evidence, and in particular that you are an outlier. That doesn't actually refute a generalization that outliers exist. It refutes a universality or a law, but not a generalization, and I am sure my generalization is not unsound. My anecdotal evidence is not actually that bad, given that I've lived in several countries, and thus from a cross-cultural perspective this is actually true. Girls night out means a bar, at best, but ordinarily … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/16 09:01 PM |
| 2 | Q4RP about Girls/Guys Night OutI dislike the trend in life where generalizations are misunderstood for what they are - generalizations. There is nothing wrong with them as it is noticing a pattern. Fine, exchange 'invariably' with 'the vast majority'. I'm going to go out on a limb here - someone who has gone to a bar 'only twice' is unusual or atypical. I actually don't think I know anyone who fits that definition, but I'm not denying it exists. It's extraordinary though. Also, it might appear to be semantics but I actually t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/16 08:34 PM |
| 7 | I feel like this is an example of MALE solipsism that frequently comes up...correct me if I'm wrong? and other ponderingsIndeed. I think an interesting CMV would be - Rebound fucks are a predominantly female activity - for this reason. Guys do it too, I agree. But not nearly as much as women. Women tend to have 'Justin Case' waiting on the sidelines because the prospect of being alone is far more damaging to a woman's emotional stability and self-esteem than a man's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/16 08:19 PM |
| 2 | Q4RP about Girls/Guys Night OutFirst, I'm not assuming I specifically said 'while it can be true...' Second, I think this control defeats the point because this isnt the case ordinarily that 'guys night out' is clubbing. However, I'll play. Obviously it can be true that dudes going to clubs are going for female validation. However, I don't think that's the norm, from my experience. Anytime I've done that, aside from a bunch of single guys going to pick up (which isn't the scenario we are talking about), we're just going to ge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/16 08:15 PM |
| 2 | Q4RP about Girls/Guys Night OutWell it's open to interpretation. Feel free to interpret it as 'going dancing' meaning something more sinister - DFMOs for example. Or interpret it as not scary quotes, but quotes highlighting the common phrase. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/16 07:43 PM |
| 6 | Q4RP about Girls/Guys Night OutBang on. I can say with confidence that the vast majority of bachelor parties I've been on (the ultimate guys night out) didn't involve clubs or strippers or any of that shit. It's paintball, and drinking games, and ordering in food, and shit talking each other at a cottage or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/16 07:05 PM |
| 8 | Q4RP about Girls/Guys Night OutNo, and this goes back to people applying the same standard to men and women. While it can be true, most 'guys nights out' are not even comparable to a 'girls night out' when it comes to this. Dudes don't dress up and elicit sexual responses from women. Most of the time, it's doing something 'manly' sports with nachos, pool, pokers, etc. and drinking too much liquor to remember passing out on your friends couch. A girls night out is invariably dressing slutty, pre-drinking with wine and shots, a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/16 07:03 PM |
| 16 | I feel like this is an example of MALE solipsism that frequently comes up...correct me if I'm wrong? and other ponderingsThis is a the first decent question I've seen in awhile. Here's my counterargument about how number two is real - See having a vagina means you always have options, either actual or potential. It is definitely true that women yearn for a top 20% man, but most women can't achieve this aside from getting pumped and dumped by hanging out until last call. However, women can and do often make 'satisficing' choices for men, meaning they will tolerate someone who isn't good enough for their long term g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/16 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Men are By Some Distance the Majority Perpetrators of Crime, Violence and Sexual AssaultI don't think this is controversial. Milo talks about this in a fairly convincing way that men are more likely to fall on the extremes of IQ tests for example, meaning they are more likely to be genius/club-draggers, while women tend to cluster around the mean. I do think the domestic violence statistics are severely skewed however due to the far greater social stigma attached to men who are victims of domestic violence than women when it comes to reporting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/16 01:19 AM |
| 3 | What's your opinion on double standards?Double standards by the common understanding assumes that the two groups are the same, which they are not. Being a man has advantages, the biggest one being that my sperm doesn't dry up at 30, so I'm able to focus on my career and not risk children because I can date younger. TnA gets a pussy pass sure, but I get my own advantages. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/16 08:42 PM |
| 2 | How would you want a woman to tell you about her N?It's about delivery. If it appears like you're reading from a script, that's a bad thing. Men like me are probing for as close as possible to honesty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/16 08:27 PM |
| 2 | How would you want a woman to tell you about her N?No - too much detail is lying. I would say the best answer, which I've rarely seen is something along the lines of: I had a long term boyfriend for approximately 3 years, then it didn't work out and I was single for awhile and dated (meaning actually dated) a couple guys, then I had another long term relationship... Something like that. I don't like sluts, but I also don't like branch swingers who have never been single ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/16 07:35 PM |
| 4 | How would you want a woman to tell you about her N?The only way to get a response with a semblance of reliability is through deception. Pretend I'm a sex positive beta, probably after a few glasses of wine. Whatever comes out of that, is the best response, as it is most likely to be closer to the truth (bearing in mind, you never get the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/16 06:22 PM |
| 5 | How would you define patriarchy?A social construct invented by feminists to be used as a bogeyman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/16 06:16 PM |
| 2 | Question for BP: What is so offensive about the Captain/First Mate marriage dynamic?Worse. Far, far worse... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/16 12:53 AM |
| 2 | Question for BP: What is so offensive about the Captain/First Mate marriage dynamic?This is a dumb comment. First of all, when did I say that I personally disclose this at any time (which I don't). Second, announcing anything in a socially awkward way will reap the reward of social awkwardness. I'm talking about men in general, in a social situation, where we control for social awkwardness. Even when the situation calls for it, if a dude says, 'Me? Well, I dunno, I think I would prefer a marriage with traditional dynamics', you will get the stink eye. I'm too smart to do this, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/16 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Question for BP: What is so offensive about the Captain/First Mate marriage dynamic?Come on that disingenuous and you know it (I hope). Maybe it depends on where you live and grow up, but I can say for sure in Canada that a man saying this aloud in public would get the stink eye from every woman and beta male in the room. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/16 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Is marriage a bad choice for a young woman?You know me better than that. The 'party crowd' nearby your neck of the woods is a start. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/16 06:01 PM |
| 4 | This is what feminism is and has always been, right back to the birth of the suffrage movementAnd you bring that bitch up again. And this is new information which confirms my earlier prediction when we discussed this - she is a bitch and is forcing everyone else who doesn't have the same corporate liability as she to do her work for her. I'd be outraged if I was a shareholder. Its funny my statement about scotch and cigars went over your head, because that's what all women think CEOs do all day, not busting their ass. Now, i really do hope you're holding true to your feminist ideals and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/16 04:56 AM |
| 11 | This is what feminism is and has always been, right back to the birth of the suffrage movementWorkplaces are not family friendly. Women are often expected to take on full time work, plus be the ones to stay at home with sick kids, plus be the ones to do most of the housework, plus do most of the caring for children. This is a problem with your expectations, or those of your partner, not your employer. You cant have it all and be mommy and the partner in the law firm, because your annual draw is directly tied to yearly performance, often calculated on an hourly basis. You can't expect to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/16 04:34 AM |
| 5 | Is marriage a bad choice for a young woman?In fairness, the fact that this seems so fantastical to you is probably a good thing because it means you've never been around this scene. That statement is only slightly hyperbolic, doing blow off girls tits is not even unusual there, at least when I was around that crowd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/16 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Is marriage a bad choice for a young woman?That's not my question, those are the assumptions we are accepting for the sake of argument. Don't argue against the assumption. Let me rewrite it - if we accept the argument that women can marry 'too young', can they also marry 'too old'? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/16 01:04 AM |
| 0 | Is marriage a bad choice for a young woman?...then I'd advise them to marry an older man. He's more likely to be well-established, which means their household will be more stable. He is also more likely to have calmed down a bit since his youth, which means their relationship will be more stable. This is what I'm screaming! This is exactly the plan for many of us TRP men. Women here and elsewhere don't agree with it, but this is the correct course of action for many men, and the younger women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/16 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Is marriage a bad choice for a young woman?I am just going to accept the implied concession that, again assuming both parties want kids, a man is probably better off going for a lower age bracket. You're forgetting that assumption - her advantage is having kids (again, you seem horrified by the notion that a woman could merely want to have kids). I think this is done because what you're describing is fundamentally opposed to my view, this notion of calculating advantages and power and so on. I asked this question to you for a reason, and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/16 10:56 PM |
| 5 | Isn't TRP a way of rationalizing womens high standards for men?I said it was well-explained and start with the side bar. I did not say it was 'simply' explained for those who lack the attention span. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/16 10:40 PM |
| 4 | Isn't TRP a way of rationalizing womens high standards for men?No worries, why women date certain kinds of men is well-explained over there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/16 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Is marriage a bad choice for a young woman?So you do agree then with the notion that there is a 'wall' for women at around that age bracket 32-35? I'm not trying to put words in your mouth, so forget TRP's discussions on 'the wall'. But for a man who is interested in having kids, he would be relatively well-advised, all things being equal, to avoid a woman of this age bracket? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/16 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Is marriage a bad choice for a young woman?Would you agree that the other end of your rant can occur? Meaning, women can wait too long to get married as well as getting married too quickly? For the record, I don't agree with your characterization and your disdain for housewives who rear children is bleeding through the screen. That being said, let's focus on my question and see if something productive can occur. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/16 09:35 PM |
| 0 | Is marriage a bad choice for a young woman?Did /u/atlas_b_shruggin make a post on this theory? I'd be interested to read it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/16 09:31 PM |
| 3 | Is marriage a bad choice for a young woman?Im going to box this question in because I don't want any tangents- This study aside, so based on your own point of view, if we accept that many women still want to have children, then are you willing to concede that a woman who is unmarried at 35 has made a mistake then? Forget about men, and lets specifically assume this woman follows the general trend of wanting children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/16 09:28 PM |
| 13 | Are feminists saving or ruining sex?Sounds like how babies live. I'm assuming we would be taken over by wild animals eventually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/16 08:05 PM |
| 14 | Are feminists saving or ruining sex?Feminism? No, I don't support it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/16 07:57 PM |
| 18 | Are feminists saving or ruining sex?My view is they haven't just saved, but instead created debaucherous sex demons like me. Some of the shit I've gotten away with over the years with Western women (not the bred South Americans) is kinda appalling now thinking about it. However, while it hasn't 'ruined', it has succeeded in severely wounding the prospective mother pool in the West. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/16 07:26 PM |
| 22 | Is marriage a bad choice for a young woman?First, if marriage is a lost cause, it is a lost cause for men not women. Second, it obviously depends on the individual. However, there is something in between married at 18 and cock carouseling sluttery for ten to fifteen years. By that I mean, I would say it's probably a safer bet to wait a bit for both sexes, but in no circumstance will letting the rugby boys do Coke of your tits in between blowjobs a good idea. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/16 07:09 PM |
| 5 | Isn't TRP a way of rationalizing womens high standards for men?Well, let me take you on a journey. It's starts by the sidebar over at TRP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/16 06:57 PM |
| 6 | Isn't TRP a way of rationalizing womens high standards for men?I know fucking dozens of women who have fucked shitty people, whether that's a drug dealer, or a predatory boss/'friend' that all of her girlfriends told her he was a dick before, and so on. Sure, some of these women have diagnosable mental health issues, but certainly not all. They're just acting on their instincts. I don't any men who have wilfully fucked a sex trafficker or child exploiter | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/16 05:46 PM |
| 9 | Isn't TRP a way of rationalizing womens high standards for men?No, but I'll clear up a preliminary point. TRP is a 'rationalization' in the sense that it is an explanation of sexual strategy. It does not however rationalize the high standards of women. Women's standards don't necessarily correlate with a traditional understanding of a high value man. Women's attractions to drug dealers, losers, bad boys of all types are easily explainable by what TRP is pushing, it is not explainable merely by 'women have high standards'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/16 05:37 PM |
| 2 | Do men want to be liberated from their traditional gender roles?Wait a minute. Are you telling me all this time I thought TRP was a kitchen appliance I was wrong? I'm going to have to go back and look up what analogy means I guess... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/16 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Do men want to be liberated from their traditional gender roles?And hot ovens can be damaging to women, but only if they're already too stupid (or in the case of Ms. Plath, mentally unstable) to use them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/16 05:12 AM |
| 2 | Do men want to be liberated from their traditional gender roles?No I don't wish for this, and I disagree with the argument that feminism has failed in its mission to do this for men. Feminism has never been about liberating men from traditional roles. Secondly, I would argue that a by-product of feminism has been to change male gender roles (not liberate), as it has encouraged beta fags and SAHDs and other abominations of the male virtues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/16 05:08 AM |
| 0 | Is today's media promoting cuckoldry / death of masculine white men?And Leia. But don't tell Carrie Fosher that - she'd call me a misogynist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/16 05:04 AM |
| 1 | How Common is the Knowledge of Divorce Rape?Men are aware of it. I can confidently say that even my beta friends are aware of this notion, and have for the most part taken protective measures with their finances (trusts and things). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/16 04:59 AM |
| 1 | Pill poppers, what's wrong with this pictureWell I'm a true gentleman, since i spotted said 'issue'. However, I'm probably a true jackass then as well since I don't do anything about this issue in real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/16 04:58 AM |
| 15 | Woman flirts with and agrees to shower with man, sex happens, she accuses him of rape and documents the whole thing on Instagram whilst naked in the shower, gets publicity from the media and has the man arrested.Chick goes on an anti-rape tour No-one pays attention (I am from South Africa and I can confirm that this tour was never in the news over here) Thanks for confirming that, and I think this is exactly what is going on. I found this 'stop rape world tour' detail immediately jumped out at me. The chances of this seem astronomically low - that an anti-rape advocate, on a 'world tour', stops in the rape capital of the world, accepts a friendly invitation for a shower from a stranger, and then gets ra… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/16 04:39 AM |
| 2 | A Redpill Guide for the Intern entering the Rat RaceThanks for reading. Good luck. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/16 11:54 PM |
| 2 | Minimise Your Interaction TimeA common shit test here (perhaps that is not the right term) is that women will often attempt to get you to stop doing things that make you spend less time than them. The amount of times I've heard, "Who does that?" in reference to working late hours or going to the gym at 6 in the morning could fill a book. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/16 07:26 PM |
| 1 | A Redpill Guide for the Intern entering the Rat RaceI'm actually with you on this one. Despite the downfalls of "the big bad corporation", the biggest upside is that the ceiling for success is much higher. The public sector tends to be more about seniority than ability, and my anecdotal evidence suggests that seniority is merely one factor of overall productivity / usefulness. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/16 05:55 PM |
| 1 | A Redpill Guide for the Intern entering the Rat RaceNetworking is a tough skill to acquire to those who aren't social to begin with. It can be done, but like being in good shape it takes months of work and practice. Here is my general advice for men, which is so easy it's stupid - think about your past experiences, which people you liked and didn't, and be like the people you liked. Remember that boner who kept raising his hand in class at college? Don't be him. Remember that guy who thought he was too cool for everything? Don't be him either. Th… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/16 05:33 PM |
| 1 | A Redpill Guide for the Intern entering the Rat Race1) a lot of these types are dicks, so you'll have to be ready for that. That being said, I mentioned elsewhere there are so many people in these firms that based purely on numbers finding a non-dick isn't as hard as you think. It's really personality and how you carry yourself. 2) you shouldn't think about tech in this way. You have to understand that most people here know divk about anything beyond auto-correct and excel. You can really impress people with it. Case and point, I befriended one g… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/16 05:23 PM |
| 2 | A Redpill Guide for the Intern entering the Rat RaceHa, this is true. That being said, whether this is law, finance, medicine, whatever. The lifestyle described in here is not for everyone, no matter what the vocation. I think this is a useful article because too many people think Wall Street is like Wolf of Wall Street or, for women, Sex and the City. It's not nearly as glamourous as people think. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/16 05:14 PM |
| 1 | A Redpill Guide for the Intern entering the Rat RaceThis is true to an extent but a lot of skills need developing in such environments. Also, many people don't have the skill set or acumen to start literally from the ground up. This lifestyle is often used as a training ground to start up later. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/16 05:11 PM |
| 1 | A Redpill Guide for the Intern entering the Rat RaceMe personally, im not as jaded as that because as a matter of perspective I found this time useful. That being said, it's clearly unsustainable. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/16 05:10 PM |
| 1 | A Redpill Guide for the Intern entering the Rat RaceIt's always been good for ONS, and to an extent plate spinning, but it is more challenging for anything beyond that because, with some justification, it will be difficult to provide commitment. That's less of a criticism of the women and more of a realistic statement of fact. Tinder is a god-send, but you really need to treat like the gay crowd treat grinder. Don't put up with stalling on their end, if there is a match we are meeting at my time, or no time. Beyond the fact that this is a success… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/16 05:06 PM |
| 1 | A Redpill Guide for the Intern entering the Rat RaceHa, good man. If you want to play with us big boys - it doesn't come naturally to succeed here. That being said, a true alpha is our client so if you have family money, you're quite correct. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/16 03:56 AM |
| 1 | A Redpill Guide for the Intern entering the Rat RaceI think you're correct in an overriding way, however smoking can evoke certain benefits. The reason I'm hating on it is that I've found the smokers know it's a shitty habit so you won't get judged, let alone the ill-effects on your health. For the record, I am stating this position with an embarrassingly high level of hypocrisy, as I smoked for a long time and have gotten laid, social interactions, and even work benefits from it. If you can handle it, having the occasional smoke can work very we… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/16 03:52 AM |
| 1 | A Redpill Guide for the Intern entering the Rat RaceHaving made those mistakes. I mentioned explicitly that I learned many of these from trial and error. Depending on how bad it was, it is not a bad thing to learn it personally. My go-to line is "I'm just here for your company" when there's an office tradition event. Superficially buy into the bullshit. You shouldn't even really have a go-to line, just go there and make the best of it. If you are in big business, sometimes it's useful to go hang out with your old friends and tell them, "man, it w… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/16 02:56 AM |
| 1 | A Redpill Guide for the Intern entering the Rat RaceThe term optics has been co-opted by those who pretend they ar successful. I think you're correct on that. That being said, it is still a very real thing. I appreciate your response, and your earlier comments. This sub has been a fountain of useful information, and ordinarily I simply read and up vote. The fact that I am merely one of several posting about corporate advice is a sort of "western problems" phenomenon, meaning I am happy that is the worst we can complain about here. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/16 02:51 AM |
| 1 | A Redpill Guide for the Intern entering the Rat RaceFair enough, and good for you, it's those high pressure jobs that create real men in my opinion. I will agree notionally that the term optics is annoying (although a necessary one when context demands it), as with proactive (the correct term is pre-emptive), and so on. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/16 02:14 AM |
| 2 | A Redpill Guide for the Intern entering the Rat RaceAbsolutely. I actually have a story of a great man who got fucked because of this. Know your place is an important lesson. Thanks for reading. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/16 02:11 AM |
| 1 | A Redpill Guide for the Intern entering the Rat RaceYeah well to be slightly presumptuous, you wouldn't last in this environment. Also, to suggest optics don't matter is bad policy in general to all those (including myself) who aren't either child prodigies or rich kids who get to go to Wharton and then become VCs on their parents' capital. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/16 02:09 AM |
| 6 | A Redpill Guide for the Intern entering the Rat RaceThank you. This is obviously sound advice, that should be understood axiomatically. That being said, big business types have very loose boundaries when it comes to these types of things. As long as you remain in control, don't black out, and don't become potential fodder for a sexual harassment claim, you'll be fine. By this I mean, have the nice scotch, cigars, etc. Don't be a 'can't hold his liquor' child, but don't be a prude. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/16 01:10 AM |
| 2 | A Redpill Guide for the Intern entering the Rat RaceAs a word of encouragement, I like military types and not just out of sense of patriotic guilt. Military types tend to exhibit self-control, they respect authority (rank not the man, is very important in big business), and a personal one - they have a sense of duty when it comes to clothing. Every military man I've met would be mortified to dress like a slob, even on their days off. Good luck (Lady Fortune has been very kind to me over the years, and it's a major factor). | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/16 12:23 AM |
| 2 | A Redpill Guide for the Intern entering the Rat RaceWell this advice was geared towards interns dealing with their fellow intern. However, I agree only to an extent here as someone who has already passed the threshold of being required to be a mentor to clerks. Obviously, I throw an inhuman amount of work their way, and many times it is because I just don't want to do it. That being said, I maintain an open door policy to the young ones. Perhaps it is a lawyer thing, but I actually think it's part of the job description to be a mentor, whether it… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/16 12:17 AM |
| 3 | Handling Mental Illnesses for the TRP ManA great doctor explained this in very simple to understand terms - 'Do you honestly think everyone has the same chemistry in their brains?' That's how doctors think, it's chemistry to them and when you think about it - genetics, diet, living conditions, it makes a lot of sense. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/16 11:49 PM |
| 2 | A Redpill Guide for the Intern entering the Rat RaceThank you for the observation. An interesting thing about gossip in big office environments is that is very often self-inflected wounds. Places like NYC, Toronto, Chicago, Boston are so big that if you go on a bender and hang out with strippers and blow, it is extremely unlikely to get back to the office gossip, as compared with smaller cities. The point being, I've found the targets of gossip often did it to themselves by telling someone 'confidentially' which can be a fatal error. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/16 11:31 PM |
| 1 | A Redpill Guide for the Intern entering the Rat RaceDeloitte offers a lot of services and I've viewed them as a financial / accounting firm rather than 'consulting' as such, given a law firm would likely meet this definition of consulting. They way I view firms like these is that the most successful carve a niche for themselves after the obligatory time of learning the ropes and gaining enough knowledge and confidence in skills. However, consulting as a concept is generally accepted as one path of earning very good money for service-based entrepr… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/16 11:24 PM |
| 1 | A Redpill Guide for the Intern entering the Rat RaceBest you can do. As mentioned, in moreso advising about what I know which is large office environments where there are lacunae of many things, but people is not one of them. It's also very easy, given everyone spends most of their waking moments in close quarters at all hours. As applied to smaller work environments, my suspicion would be adopt this as best you can. You can only play the cards your dealt, but seeking out good advice is an important step on your way to success. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/16 11:19 PM |
| 2 | A Redpill Guide for the Intern entering the Rat RaceThank you. I think we are on the same page actually, because there is nothing worse than the 'intentional outlier'. I intentionally wrote a somewhat controversial point because these types very much feel pressured to go to everything. I'm saying you don't need to go to everything, and you especially don't need to adopt the bad habits of the rest. Use judgment (and your mentor) to make this distinction is all. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/16 11:17 PM |
| 2 | A Redpill Guide for the Intern entering the Rat RaceThank you for the compliments, but I will tell you why specifically I added the sections you've criticized - primarily I did that myself. It is much easier to blend in and just do everyone else does, and in this place a lot of this is alcohol and food related. Mark my words, if you do not make it a priority to know which things are mandatory and optional, and then maximizing that time doing things that are awesome to you, it could be reading a fucking book for all I care, you will become one of … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/16 09:54 PM |
| 1 | A Redpill Guide for the Intern entering the Rat RaceTo follow-up, as I have to run, take a look at this article from Business Insider. http://www.businessinsider.com/why-are-lawyers-unhappy-with-their-jobs-2013-11 This is funny to me, because he definitely is not making this up. Switch around from M and A to securities litigation references and I could have written this, minus as jaded as he is. It should be re-titled: "Life on Wall Street," as it is not exclusive to lawyers, but all the big business types there. It is also incorrectly titled bec… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/16 09:37 PM |
| 2 | A Redpill Guide for the Intern entering the Rat RaceActually I don't mean those, but if it happens to work great. Middle-senior male ally, ideally in your practice group, associate, whatever. These people exist if you're social enough, and just being approachable and sharing some mutual interests to hook him in is usually all it takes. Grab lunch, grab a beer, catch a game, whatever. Men like doing men shit, and it's just applying HTMFAIP, should work. Obviously don't be a leach / needy, but you will need such an ally. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/16 09:25 PM |
| 3 | A Redpill Guide for the Intern entering the Rat RaceSure. Undertake a realistic assessment of your skills, interests and goals, and then do your research by talking with people in the industries you perceive as most closely aligned with same. Don't try and become an IB if you can't work the numbers, don't become a Skadden lawyer if you don't have the focus or social skills, stuff like that. Don't do either if you want more time in the evenings and weekends to accomplish other goals (if you have a side business for example). Also, be absolutely su… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/16 08:35 PM |
| 2 | Telling women they are fat and uglyI think some clarifications are required: 1) Fat woman online, SJWing about fat acceptance and so on? Fair game. I wouldn't do it (I don't really care enough to blackknight), but anyone who goes on Twitter or Instagram and is making this shit an issue should expect it. Frankly, it isn't even really trolling because its arguably the other side of the debate. Grow thicker skin, or get out of the debate. 2) Fat women online not talking about this topic? I wouldn't do it, I can't see any situation t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/16 08:05 PM |
| 14 | Making your son pay to take you out on a dateSimultaneously, another testament to a child's need of a strong father figure, and another indictment of the growing, pulsating mound of horror that is single motherhood in the West. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/16 07:42 PM |
| 11 | A Redpill Guide for the Intern entering the Rat RaceIf you work at a firm where everyone in charge smokes, congrats. You've just learned a new hobby. In these firms, you don't socialize with anyone in charge, let alone "everyone". Smoke breaks don't occur like at government-run post offices where everyone fucks off at 10:30. They are sporadic, whenever you get a chance, and frankly you will almost never leave your office (you will be eating there as well) because missing a call can fuck you. What I am referring to here is the usuals who will come… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/16 06:41 PM |
| 3 | Instruction For A Polite FeministAnd the mere idea that attraction is teachable implies it is mundane and mechanical, rather than mysterious and magical as a woman's fantasy prone emotions would drive her to believe. I love this point. I've been thinking about this recently, so I will elaborate briefly because there is a lesson for men here. When we look at "pop culture" (movies, television, etc.), pretty much all the best men (badasses, wealthy, etc) are already there when the action unfolds. Very rarely do you see a Tyler Dur… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/16 01:28 PM |
| 4 | Arctic Monkeys lead singer's ex highschool girlfriend 'regrets' splitting up with him and going for an older guy.I've been a fan of these guys for years, so I'm biased - loved this song. However, to make a serious point which I've made before - the fact of the matter is, many TRP truths, if not all of them, we are all innately aware of them. Women are aware of the wall, just as much as men are aware that the best men get all the women. Songs like this, and others, demonstrate that you don't need to be a deep philosopher to be aware of the sexual dynamics at play. Understanding and articulating them, is a d… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/15 09:41 PM |
| 2 | Do the cons of marriage outweigh the pros?you're right, you checkmated me right there! Good one bro! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/15 03:12 PM |
| 3 | Do the cons of marriage outweigh the pros?Productivity is the big one. When I was working for this company (years ago now) they showed me this predictive model they had about it. The productivity difference was startling, in particular for straight women, then men. The only outliers who were unpredictable were gay men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/15 11:41 PM |
| 3 | Do the cons of marriage outweigh the pros?Well that's above and beyond, the intel part. Good for you. Knowing the gossip is key, obviously you're aware your marriage is a partnership. Locating a woman who can do the cocktail dress and socialize appropriately in this environment is hard these days. To give a particular example, I don't get to pick my clients and while some are great, others are very much "old school" and if they were to make a "sexist" comment, I can't have a woman trying to correct him and then going on a feminist tirad… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/15 11:30 PM |
| 3 | Do the cons of marriage outweigh the pros?In one way it is old school, but it another it is not. This applies to the women who are clients we have as well. They all have husbands, and no matter what a three-way dinner is awkward, and unless it is civil partnership or something, it just cannot work. Even then, people are more "at ease" when its marriage and they don't have to wonder in their heads "why they aren't married". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/15 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Do the cons of marriage outweigh the pros?Indeed. To be honest, I've lowered my previously super high superficial standards a bit, not a lot, but a bit, if I can find my Jackie Kennedy-type. I say that somewhat jokingly, but I'm super attune in the wild now for "classy" women that can do the cocktail dress, and socialize appropriately in this environment. You'd be surprised (or maybe not) how hard this is to find. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/15 11:07 PM |
| 6 | Do the cons of marriage outweigh the pros?No computer engineer I know makes more than me that I know, at least none that still refer to themselves as computer engineers. You're probably a helpdesk guy we call for problems with software (not even hardware, which takes a real computer engineer). Go back to your dew buddy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/15 10:27 PM |
| 7 | Do the cons of marriage outweigh the pros?Well considering how uneducated your comments have been (At first you think it's Saudi Arabia, then you backtrack to - oh right, the West, but the West I was too good for!), I'd say you're lying. That, or maybe you're telling the truth and you are uneducated but in the drug trade, that right Jose? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/15 09:21 PM |
| 8 | Do the cons of marriage outweigh the pros?ANND it took only slightly longer than usual to resort to personal attacks. If you must know, oil and gas attorney, you can try and guess where. Whether fortunately or unfortunately, this is the truth. And if you plan on getting into the echelons of the business world, more power to you, but don't try and host dinners with your "life partner" or 7 cats. Not going to work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/15 09:06 PM |
| 11 | Do the cons of marriage outweigh the pros?Typical remark from someone outside of the real world. I don't mean to be condescending but this is how it works "up there". Why are Bill and Hillary still married? This stuff matters. Maybe not in college campus dorms, but when you're hosting politicians and bankers, it does. It's indicator of a "stable personal life". I also know that from doing employment contract work for a headhunter company who was a client. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/15 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Is fucking an ex fwbs best friend possible?Nah, don't listen to the others. Don't bet the farm on it, but you're clearly pre-selected here, plus many women are enamoured with "being bad", meaning banging a friend's ex. Good messaging, just play it cool from now until that party. See how she is in person, and if you sense something a the party, flick her a similar message during the party (girls check their phones constantly, so she'll get it). | /r/askTRP | 30/12/15 08:16 PM |
| 4 | Need Some Quick AdviceThis was handled terribly, but because that has already been pointed out, I will provide what I think you should have done. Let's assume the "talk-fest" introduction wasn't a mistake to begin with, and let's go to the task at hand. 4 hours go by - No message from you is the correct response. Now, given that you did that I get the sense you were doing nothing worthwhile at that time? You should have been doing something else, and when I say that I mean it could be studying, hanging out with frien… | /r/askTRP | 30/12/15 08:13 PM |
| 7 | Do the cons of marriage outweigh the pros?To be honest? For me optics. Due to my profession, I can't be inviting clients or bosses in for dinner with an unmarried woman. It's just the way it is. It's like how Western politicians almost always need to be married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/15 07:59 PM |
| 3 | How to open a conversation with a random girl on the streets?Keep It Simple Stupid. Keep it to one sentence. A classic one I rely on in cafe's is when you see a girl with some sort of sugary-coffee drink is, "well, that's a fancy drink". It's stupid, but given the mounds of cream and sugar tots on coffee-based drinks these days, it's kinda funny. Note - this applies also at bars when they order their orange-infused, appletinis with a cherry (or whatever the fuck) KISS. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/15 07:58 PM |
| 2 | Doing threesomes and using my LTR as a wingwomanYep. And to speak to those besides OP, this is why I don't partake in this in LTR's. I'd have a problem with it to be honest, and because I suspect it might be interpreted that she could go for a F on F and I wouldn't care. Secondly, even if that didn't happen, women tend to have no cumming or mouthkissing rules or something, which is unnatural during the act itself. My personal view is if you're going for a threesome, go all in. That's just my experience though, and if you can do OP's situation… | /r/askTRP | 30/12/15 07:45 PM |
| 1 | CMV: men are sickened by beta men the same way women are sickened by slutsIndeed. The hot ones stay in the closet as far as men are concerned. But when it's 'drinks with the girls night' they let it all out, and that's why the non-sluts hate them. That's also why men need AWALT because they hide it from us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/15 07:00 PM |
| 1 | CMV: men are sickened by beta men the same way women are sickened by slutsIn many cases this is true, they tend to be more physically appealing, hence AWALT. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/15 06:56 PM |
| 3 | CMV: men are sickened by beta men the same way women are sickened by slutsJust noticed part two of my comment isn't here (mobile). Not-slut women, hate sluts. They hang out with them only to silently hate on them. But then again, women are much more naturally attuned to the intra-sex competition for a mate than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/15 06:53 PM |
| 4 | CMV: men are sickened by beta men the same way women are sickened by slutsNot sickened, but we know how to identify and it is done early in the interaction. We see this in playground bullying. That being said, I hang out with betas all the time. A lot of them are good for a high-end conversation over a drink or something. Not wingmen though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/15 06:42 PM |
| 4 | Do the cons of marriage outweigh the pros?It's absolutely true. In my field it's very important, and there are a lot of dynamics at play that just don't work. Typically the schmoozee is male when I'm the schmoozer. Which means, I need a woman to be there so they can go chat about the linens or whatever when we go have cigars and talk business. It's the way of the world (although I'm using purposefully inflammatory examples). His wife can't be a third wheel. Also, it looks bad if I'm bringing a new girl to every event. Great for me perso… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/15 06:32 PM |
| 7 | Do the cons of marriage outweigh the pros?Social status matters. For people in certain fields which involve schmoozing, business, politics and in my case, law, it matters greatly. I have so far been disadvantaged by not being able to brig clients in for dinner at my place because the dynamics don't work unless you're married. Let alone, receptions, weddings, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/15 06:22 PM |
| 4 | Doing threesomes and using my LTR as a wingwomanI'll give some specifics to this. For the record I've never done this with an LTR because I prefer monogamy in that regard, but if you're cool with it, all the more power. I use to do this with plates, one in particular who was a firecracker Montrealer (partying, drugs, so on, not for the faint of heart). Our best success occurred typically in person (not online) at a bar, and preferably an after-hours bar. Not a shady one, and try and stay away from the druggies. You can't drink too much, but d… | /r/askTRP | 30/12/15 06:10 PM |
| 10 | Do the cons of marriage outweigh the pros?if we assume all marriages have the same statistical probability of divorce, then yes the risk outweighs the reward. However, we know that's not the case. A well-run marriage with a respectable man who knows his marriage is tied to his value and a respectable woman who knows the same, the benefit would outweigh the risk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/15 06:01 PM |
| 3 | Can an overweight man have a sex life like an overweight female?All things being equal, probably not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/15 05:57 PM |
| 1 | There is no easy mode. I was a built college football player at a major university, but still couldn't get women because I behaved like a beta. Why acting the part is more important than looking the part.This is an interesting post, like Michael's Story in a way. A very important message that looks is not even half the battle. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/15 05:47 PM |
| 1 | How late can a man remain a virgin before you assume he has some sort of major defect?I think this is probably the best answer here, in that it's realistic and is grounded in the 'why'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/15 04:22 PM |
| 6 | Are women really as oblivious or delusional about their true RMV as TRP seems to think?A lot of it is because a lot of high SMV men are willing to bang the odd 6 or 7 when bored or drunk. Whether it's full on cock carousel or not, the effect it is it gets these women's hopes up. They think, if only I had done X or Y maybe he would have stayed and had a relationship with me. I'm convinced this is why I find that the 6-7.5 women I've been with let me do all sorts of fucked up shit. We call it alpha-windowing but it's very much real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/15 04:17 PM |
| 1 | If the blue pill is against blanket, generalizing statements, why do they make blanket statements about TRP?do you know what a generalization is? I explained it in fairly pedestrian terms, yet you still didn't understand my point. Given the childish nature of the response (smiley faces and such) I'm going to draw on my data of such posters and conclude you are either 1) young; 2) a woman. I'll be bold and say you're a young woman. See? That's me employing a generalization based on data. Now, I did that facetiously, so get back to my original point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/15 03:36 PM |
| 4 | Are heterosexual men, in RP terms, sexually attracted to male dominance?This is where your argument goes to shit because of the absurd assumption that women outside of prison lack the same out of agency as a prag. I don't think you even read the article you linked, because this is an absurd notion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/15 02:49 PM |
| 1 | UK Home Secretary lobbies for Investigatory Powers Bill: PPD, how comfortable does this make you feel browsing and posting here/TRP/the Manosphere?You need to elect Ted Cruz then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/15 02:39 PM |
| 1 | UK Home Secretary lobbies for Investigatory Powers Bill: PPD, how comfortable does this make you feel browsing and posting here/TRP/the Manosphere?Well it is an abominable encroachment of the state into the lives of private citizens. This is not justifiable in any sense of the word. That being the said, I don't think posting in the 'manosphere' is the problem, not will t make a difference to my UK friends' lives in this regard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/15 02:38 PM |
| 6 | If the blue pill is against blanket, generalizing statements, why do they make blanket statements about TRP?Well there is a prevailing view, especially here, that 'generalizations are wrong'. It's not true at all. What is wrong is incorrect interpretation of the pattern, faulty data and so on. Generalizations run the world - insurance, employment, pretty much any decision that can be made and reduced to a model. Higher insurance rates for men (based on the well-founded generalization than young men are more likely to riskier drivers). As a thought experiment, I wonder what would be the outcome if the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/15 02:13 PM |
| 20 | If the blue pill is against blanket, generalizing statements, why do they make blanket statements about TRP?Well no, obviously your generalizations are better because it sounds better when you say it. I will make the counterargument that you are in far worse a position to make your generalizations because you haven't met or seen a TRP man who posts there. Your generalization is based entirely on your own speculation and imagination. In other words - zero evidence. To be honest, the only person who can probably attest to the average TRP man is /u/gaylubeoil On the other hand me, and probably everyone i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/15 03:48 AM |
| 1 | If the blue pill is against blanket, generalizing statements, why do they make blanket statements about TRP?You're right, this was supposed to go another. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/15 03:47 AM |
| 1 | What percent of women do you think are attracted to their partners?The problem with this is that you're oversimplifying hypergamy. Sure, X% of women are in relationships which means there is some level of attraction. But hypergamy means that a woman's attraction is relative to what else is out there. If she is with a man who she perceives as the best available, she'll be content. A great example I read about recently was the tumultuous tale of Wendi Deng. Comes over to the US from China to study business and lives with a married couple while studying, and the w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/15 05:02 PM |
| 2 | Wife cheats on husband due to lack of sex. Husband blames himself.A story as old as time itself. Sad really. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/15 10:04 PM |
| 2 | Men peak in their 30's because they build themselves up VS beta bucksNo. We have good fitness, we have money, we have influence and awesome homes. Being successful in life isn't beta bux. Giving it away for free (milk and cows and so on) for the prospect of getting laid is the beta bux trait. The problem is women, not men. Women think by fucking me they get to tap into my resources. Not a chance, at least not by fucking me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/15 11:50 PM |
| 1 | I'm Milo Yiannopoulos, AMACanada for sure. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/15 11:21 PM |
| 1 | I'm Milo Yiannopoulos, AMAMilo, thanks for stopping by. To make a couple of preliminary points I think you're bang on about two things- 1) that gay men and TRP men (men in generally really, aside from the manginas) are allies in the war against tatted horrors that is feminism (I mentioned earlier I'm in the law/finance sector and I have actually has these discussions with gay men, who happen to be top-billers in the firm); and 2) I think you're absolutely correct that for most of us men we need to wait for the social-Jus… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/15 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Where the hell did my sex-drive go?I was going to make this exact post. Listen to this comment. This happened to a colleague of mine, he ended up quitting his job and went to a completely different sector for far less pay but he is now basically jacked, divorced (sorry - this is a likelihood) and I haven't seen him happier. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/15 08:33 PM |
| 5 | Taking Social Psychology Class and Professor Mentions The Red PillWeirdly enough it seems to also be getting a message across to women. Less than a quarter of American women self-identify as feminist now. I'd like to think TRP men play a role in this. I've always agree'd and amplified the question of 'are you a feminist' and mock the whole thing. As I've said before, high value women will usually laugh along and join me in making fun of obese, tatted mounds of horror, when I do so. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/15 04:32 PM |
| 3 | Taking Social Psychology Class and Professor Mentions The Red PillYou shouldn't read too much into this, this is simple insulting. Women know that men get insulted for being called virgins, it's simply an insult. Saying men have a small dick is the same thing. We get this all the time here. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/15 04:28 PM |
| 4 | I'm Milo Yiannopoulos, AMAThis is definitely true, as an observation from a straight man in the law/finance sector. Most gay men I know in these areas work crazy hours, don't want kids (good thing in this area), dress the part immaculately (that stereotype is true) in exchange for bonuses and their annual trip wherever with their boyfriends. These guys fucking hate the gender gap myth and so on because they simply work harder. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/15 06:08 PM |
| 1 | After TRP, I realize how Beta I really was..Oh man. That's a terrible ending. God on you for realizing this. To put it simply - always remember you are the prize. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/15 11:08 PM |
| 1 | The Crime of Rape - A Legal PrimerI'll take a run - A - rape and murder B- accessory after the fact to the crime of murder, but possibly part of the rape as well, not sure about that one though. C - more challenging, if intoxication was to the point of lack of mens rea which is extreme. Id say he wasn't considering he was able to tell the story to B afterwards. He was part of the rape group (I would guess) but it seems he was passed out for the murder. D - rape and murder E- rape and murder | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/15 01:22 AM |
| 1 | The Crime of Rape - A Legal PrimerIn fairness, the answer to this goes beyond the law you described here. The inchoate crimes here, and wilfull blindness, greatly complicate this scenario... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/15 12:47 AM |
| 3 | AMA - Milo Yiannopoulos - Thursday, Dec 10th, 5pm London time, (12pm EST) on TRPIn fairness, they both acknowledge that. Milo has said repeatedly he wouldn't be taken seriously if he wasn't blowing black guys. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/15 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Don't be like BenSafada I'm joking. Hard luck for Beninho. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/15 11:38 PM |
| 2 | CorporateLand: How to Handle Salary Negotiations.First ballot post. I completely agree with all of this (fellow initiated dark lord of the law). I would like to hear your thoughts on internal salary negotiation. I say this for a couple reasons, most importantly it is very different than outside. However, I am about to do it myself. I have the number one rule down - I have a significant BATNA, and I intend to use that as leverage. That's a risky move, to disclose a headhunter interest, but I'm willing to do it. Thoughts, maybe another post? Goo… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/15 11:34 PM |
| 4 | Why is RP so Afraid of Feminists?I just have higher standards | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/15 01:00 AM |
| 6 | Why is RP so Afraid of Feminists?We aren't afraid, we just know that they will make shitty long term potential. These women are typically anti-feminity, unattractive, think they are smarter than they actually are and bore me with their pseudo-intellectual rants, can't have children (despite that they often want to), etc. It's a big red flag really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/15 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Jezebel reader takes the red pillIf I've said once, I've said it a million times - all women are acutely aware of the wall whether it's consciously or subconsciously. What a true TRP man needs to do is cash in on this. I wrote before that I've gamed many pre-wall women by making fun of post-wall women to them. They laugh and thinks it's hilarious because the wall hasn't hit them. Post wall women, depending on your level of acquaintance, will also acknowledge this. I have explicitly said to 30+ women that they need to start worr… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/11/15 04:06 AM |
| 9 | According to feminist research standards 50+% of women are rapistsSee this is the problem with the statistics that strong independent feminists and, in this case, the men are giving. Having sex with someone who is impaired differs drastically than someone who is unconscious. I've explained before I use to drink too much. I have had sex hundreds of times while my "judgment was impaired" and 99% of those times was with someone whose judgment was "also impaired". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/15 02:01 AM |
| 21 | CMV: SMV is relative and therefore generally useless as a metricI should request that the following quote be placed on the sidebar - 'There is a difference between generally, and universally.' Just because there is the odd bangable girl who likes fucking deformed midgets, doesn't mean that generally bangable girls don't want to fuck Chad. It's obviously subjective. What we are doing is called 'noticing a pattern'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/15 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Found a quick way to shut down a shit-testerSorry tried to link back but it doesn't look like I can. Search 'Wall' and I have a post there 7 months ago entitled 'Joking about the wall - one of my go-to's'. Start there but I can add way more. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/15 02:34 AM |
| 5 | Found a quick way to shut down a shit-testerI made a post on this awhile ago. I use 'the wall' all the fucking time while gaming. This is a great concept because you can either make the approaching womyn feel tingles, or joke about it with the college girls about the already too far gone. All women know about the wall, either consciously or subconsciously. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/15 11:25 PM |
| 1 | My Estimation of AttractionThis is true to an extent, but I think there is a 'sweet spot' for men. A man who is a 6 or below with game is topping up at a 7.5 maybe. A 10 with no game is still probably not getting much less than an 8. However, I think this advice is aimed at the 7-8.5 men. A 7 dude can really go far with game, 9.5s maybe even a 10. I still remember this time when a fuckig ginger dude with the Irish charm, but a reasonable beer gut, little attention to anything else. He was a 7 at best. He just slayed it wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/15 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Arent only "beta" guys attracted to the Red Pill in the first place?Plenty of axioms, like existence, are 'convenient fictions'. However, it's not a convenient fiction to affix a label to a real trend. Such as AWALT. But it's more than that. Its indisputable that the top tier men get a majority of worthwhile pussy, surely you're not disputing that? If so - the precise figures are irrelevant. Using 80/20 is just the popular shorthand conveying this idea. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/15 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Give her a specific invitation to go out rather than a vague "Want to do something tonight?"Anziz Anzari is a beta-fag, but this is a good post. Conversely, if I'm feeling like thinking outside the box, you can be overly vague and it can work on the right propose. 'Tonight.' 'What, do what tonight?' 'I'll pick you up, and you'll see' This actually works in the right circumstance. What doesn't work is 'hey lets do something tonight, what do you want to do?' | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/15 11:07 PM |
| 2 | Arent only "beta" guys attracted to the Red Pill in the first place?Ph. D. in semen donation? First, what the fuck is that? Second, what exactly are you studying that this is a prof in a course you are taking? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/15 10:09 PM |
| 0 | Arent only "beta" guys attracted to the Red Pill in the first place?Fair enough, I'm sure if you rooted around you would find it. I am not one of the TRP men who participate here and post links to everything. Some do, but I didn't join TRP based on a "discovery" of scientific knowledge. It just very much conforms with my own anecdotal experience. As an aside, just a cautionary note - you won't get very far debating the TRP crowd by saying - "you say 20% of men get all the good pussy, and I agree that a smaller proportion of men get most of the good pussy, but sh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/15 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Arent only "beta" guys attracted to the Red Pill in the first place?You should do a lot more research on TRP if you're feeling bold enough to draw conclusions of its user-base. It's a basic guiding principle that the top 20% of men get virtually all of the worthwhile pussy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/15 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Men Only- Which would you marry?The 8. She would raise my social proof, thus unknowingly contributing to me scoring on the side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/15 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Arent only "beta" guys attracted to the Red Pill in the first place?I am not sure "beta" is the right word, but I'll go with it. It's a pure numbers thing that 80% of men in the West are beta, so it shouldn't be surprising that most were betas or are going through beta withdrawal. Also, the top-tier alphas (musicians, actors, political power brokers, millionaires and billionaires) aren't going to TRP and are probably not going on reddit at all unless it's an AMA and they are the subject. However, it isn't all betas though. I wouldn't classify myself as a top tie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/15 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Females at the age 45 are now 20% childfree (up from 1/9 in the 1940s), partially due to hypergamy: Is this due to female's bad choices or men being "selfish"? Bring on the debate!At best you can say it's confirmation bias. My point is - this strong, independent woman's anecdotal evidence is irrelevant to the topic at hand | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/15 08:30 PM |
| 0 | Females at the age 45 are now 20% childfree (up from 1/9 in the 1940s), partially due to hypergamy: Is this due to female's bad choices or men being "selfish"? Bring on the debate!No. The article discusses how a post-wall woman is lamenting how she doesn't have kids when she thought she would. OP is making the point that this isn't abnormal. There is a difference between noticing a pattern and the universal. Hence why the 'strong, independent woman' I was responding to - her anecdotal evidence is irrelevant. No one is claiming universality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/15 08:06 PM |
| 0 | Females at the age 45 are now 20% childfree (up from 1/9 in the 1940s), partially due to hypergamy: Is this due to female's bad choices or men being "selfish"? Bring on the debate!No. I'm saying based on the subject matter of the article in question, your comment is irrelevant. This woman is talking about how she wanted to have kids. If she said she didn't want to have kids anyway, you would have a point. However, we are discussing this article. Please stay on topic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/15 07:55 PM |
| 0 | Females at the age 45 are now 20% childfree (up from 1/9 in the 1940s), partially due to hypergamy: Is this due to female's bad choices or men being "selfish"? Bring on the debate!you didn't even read the article. It clearly states that she 'wasn't opposed to having kids' and that she didn't expect to be the age she is without kids. obviously he got bored with her and he will literally have a lineup of young, hotter, more fertile women waiting to jump on his cock. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/15 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Why has there not been a male-empowered movement alongside feminism? Why has traditional masculinity been dissolved?It hasn't. They've successfully lobbied for laws that they can ditch their BB to fuck Chad and get a bonus for doing so, also laws that allow them to get impregnated by Chad and have BB pay for the child and so on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/15 06:40 PM |
| 2 | What about the women who don't vote for the liberals?This argument is never, maybe rarely, made seriously. It's actually Ann Coulter who says this, and that's not because she believes women shouldn't vote, but because the Republicans would win every time if it was the case, which is a sacrifice she is willing to make. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/15 06:38 PM |
| 1 | does anyone else agree with my prediction about a possible future for the human species?There will b sexbots and virtual porn but I don't think the 'traditional' family structure will die. It will become (read- is becoming) less universal, but it is still the general trend by a long shot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/15 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Which culture do you think will end up being more dominant ?Western Culture will dominate because it is superior than the alternatives in every way possible. Yes, there is the threat of feminization and so on. But the elites will never be feminized. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/15 12:50 AM |
| 2 | Girl wants to meet but then says she's sort of seeing someone and to "not charm her pants off"Fair enough. I would strongly advise you continue by pursuing on the weekend. Whether you send a pic or a text or something. The big thing is don't be desperate and don't appear to overthink it. Write nothing longer than a few words. Friday at around 930 or 10 try, 'so how's being busy?' | /r/askTRP | 12/11/15 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Girl wants to meet but then says she's sort of seeing someone and to "not charm her pants off"Well my post here is sort of think outside the box. The tried, tested and true method is what you named before - party here tonight. A big thing I forgot is - don't fucking listen to her that 'she's busy'. I always ignore that. I would send her a text Friday or Saturday regardless if she says she's busy. I'll give you another outside-the-box one I use. Meet girl at party, exchange numbers, and then you will eventually be made Facebook friends. I did this whether she said she was busy or not, but… | /r/askTRP | 12/11/15 12:16 AM |
| 5 | How can I be an ''asshole''?First thing - you are asking the wrong question. You shouldn't be asking 'how do I be an asshole'. You should be asking 'how do I put my own interests above everything else?' Most people have been conditioned that you should do everything for others. Girl wants you to come over and hangout because she failed a test? Sorry, you're too busy studying so you can ace your test. Girl wants you to take 'the two of you' on a trip? Maybe, if you pay for half. You're too busy saving up to buy your first h… | /r/askTRP | 11/11/15 11:56 PM |
| 2 | Girl wants to meet but then says she's sort of seeing someone and to "not charm her pants off"This takes some improvisation and you need to learn what works best for you and the situation. If you stopped texting and she texted out of nowhere before, try responding with - 'Shame.' Put the ball in her court and make her work/sweat a bit. You could not respond until Friday at an acceptable hour. For example, if you're going to a party or something on Friday, send her a picture of something funny at your friend's place while you're pre-drinking (9ish). My bro had a full scale cutout of Bill … | /r/askTRP | 11/11/15 11:38 PM |
| 2 | Is Bachelorhood After 30 Rare?Quirk of my local area/lifestyle? Or do you guys see this dynamic where you're at? Obviously location is an issue. Rural community vs. NYC is vastly different in this regard. However, if you are in a decent location, the answer is 'yes,but'. The majority of your old friends will be in relationships, beta buxing, raising kids and so on. The key here is - it is a lot harder when you're thirty. When you're in college, it's easy as shit because you walk into parties every weekend, road trips, whatev… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/15 11:30 PM |
| 3 | Girl wants to meet but then says she's sort of seeing someone and to "not charm her pants off"Well, she's working hard to force a BB frame with you. I interpreted this entirely differently. I think this is an IOI. She's already been charmed with him from his text game, game at the party, probably thinks he is good looking, etc. If anything, this is a test to see if she is the alpha she thinks he might be (who will indeed charm her pants off, as he is been doing so far, which she truly wants) or a BB who is going to back off like bitch. She wouldnt be agreeing to be meeting up with him if… | /r/askTRP | 11/11/15 11:02 PM |
| 3 | /r/TheRedPill enters TOP 300 subredditsWe are making an impact. It's coincidental, but interesting, that the very same day this occurs we have another post showing mainstream media using our terminology and tacitly acknowledging our validity. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/15 05:38 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Plate's friend got violent with her boyfriendI have very little optimism for the uninitiated. If this guy was a natural alpha, he's almost certainly sticking around because she fucks his brains out to another planet. Many of these types will end up back where they started. But good luck to him. Anyways you gotta look out for number one, and I don't have a thing to add. Excellent FR. I hope to see more from you. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/15 08:40 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Plate's friend got violent with her boyfriendDisagree. This isn't the men's rights sub. We are all well aware of the pussy pass here. Why should he have done that? Stuck around, for hours, given a police statement, when nothing would come of it. You know why this is pointless? Is because the victim in this case wouldn't fucking cooperate with officials, even if this was a good decision. I stand by that he handled this perfectly, and if anything should have done less to help the dude. However, if we are going to go down the altruism road, h… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/15 06:21 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Plate's friend got violent with her boyfriendNot true at all. I know a ton of betas who would respond with this with even more shit. I have a theory for this - The primary reason is that schools have done away with bullying. Now, these skinny douches think they can lip off to anyone and there will be no retaliation. Bullying had an important role in teaching people not to lip off to others. Now we have an army of skinny betas attacking everyone online and in person. Now, it doesn't mean don't give one a smack when its deserved. I just don'… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/15 06:02 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Plate's friend got violent with her boyfriendCorrect answer. You're on a roll. White knight beta faggots are best to be ignored. If things get testy I black knight them by calling them a fag or something. But that's like one in 99 (since the vast majority of men are white knight beta fags). | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/15 05:57 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Plate's friend got violent with her boyfriendWhy bother? He was there, helped the dude out. Why spend the next two hours hanging out at the scene and then giving a statement? Fact of the matter is, beta needs to break up with the bitch. He would be better off hanging out with him than getting the 5-0 involved. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/15 05:54 AM |
| 0 | [FR] Plate's friend got violent with her boyfriendDecking white knights isn't the way to go. I've taken to just black knighting them. I go with deliberately inflammatory shit, at least in this type of situation where I don't just ignore them as usual. Something like- 'Stop being a faggot, that bitch over there just punched this guy in the face. Fuck off'. Something like that. White knights are typically part of the liberal left so they hate words like fag and bitch and so on. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/15 05:52 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Plate's friend got violent with her boyfriendMy interpretation of this FR reminds me of something similar which happened to me, without the escalation to violence. I would say that she saw your high SMV and resented what she couldn't have This is exactly what is going on. I said elsewhere- she is either alpha-widowed or just a cock hungry feminist. Women hate submissive betas like her BF. Her feelz overcame her. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/15 05:48 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Plate's friend got violent with her boyfriendI think this is one for the vault. I actually had a full comment doing a play-by-play, but it was just me saying - you handled that perfectly over and over. So let's keep this as concise as possible. I can't reiterate this enough - you obviously know how to maintain frame. I don't know what you did to get your FWB to recognize that, but you were clearly the high value man to all involved in this conversation. Great deflections, great shit test responses - well done. These bitches are a dime a do… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/15 05:43 AM |
| 3 | Jerry Seinfeld's wife is a perfect example of AWALTIn the words of Bill Burr, she's nothing more than a babysitter who became a millionaire as a result. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/15 04:55 AM |
| 3 | Real teenagers are great practice for 'virtual' teenagersI side with GLO amongst others. Over at PPD I've said it dozens of times. It is a huge strength that we don't tone police like the rest of the fags on Reddit. Fuck pandering, that's what losers do and I wouldn't even come to this sub if it became a tone-policed version. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/15 04:53 AM |
| -8 | FR: She cheats because she is bored.I wasn't worried? Not sure the point of your comment. Anyone with an above Down Syndrome's IQ would understand my comment. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/15 04:50 AM |
| 0 | It's Not Your Imagination, Single Women: There Literally Aren't Enough Men Out There | VICE | United StatesWell not the subreddit. No. But I've been applying the core aspects for years, and it is directly responsible for me being the fun guy to hang out with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/15 04:46 AM |
| 10 | FR: She cheats because she is bored.But, but, but if a woman cheats it's because she was feeling lonely and fucking Chad was the only viable option? It's not her fault really? Never mind if it's a guy, he should have 'sought counselling' for his perverse needs. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/15 03:01 AM |
| 1 | In a thread about height, AskWomen faces an existential crisis - they can't admit to wanting tall alphas, but they can't help it!No. Women love 'systemic' problems when it allegedly affects women. Every feminist I know days the word 'systemic' every odd sentence. Yet when it comes to 'systemic' based on biology (men like tits, women like tall Chads) apparently it doesn't exist. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/15 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Liquor Store, Liquor Store, Bar, Beauty Supply, Bar, Gas Station, Beauty Salon, Church: Female Hypergamy in depressed economic timesCan confirm and agreed. Good to see you back BPP. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/15 02:46 AM |
| 1 | So long as you are not unattractive, your Personality / charisma can take you very far.A true RP man, that is single, doesn't limit himself to such markets. He has a harem of potentials and actuals of all brackets. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/15 12:11 AM |
| 2 | So long as you are not unattractive, your Personality / charisma can take you very far.I disagree to an extent. Being a male who is a six and confident and so on is clearly better than not. However, a six male has no chance in Tinder or POF online dating. The 6 male needs to do everything in his power to bring him to a hard 7.5 or 8 if he wants these forbidden fruits. Obviously, all bets are off if he's rich and drives an Aston Martin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/15 12:09 AM |
| 0 | It's Not Your Imagination, Single Women: There Literally Aren't Enough Men Out There | VICE | United StatesNo. I'm sorry to hear about this history. However. I'm sorry you think women hate you, but I personally hate you for the choices you've made. Just as fat adults cannot be relinquished of their choices even if they had a shitty childhood, you cannot escape the hatred you recieve for subscribing to TRP. I don't think women hate me. The amount of women I am 'friends' with and fuck would suggest otherwise. You are very misinformed on what TRP is if you think it is solely a remedy for dejected men. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/15 05:44 AM |
| 1 | TRP Proves that All Men Need Female ValidationYou're missing my point. Men obviously want approval from women. Women also want approval from men. That's the base of what we were talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/15 06:26 PM |
| 2 | TRP Proves that All Men Need Female ValidationFair enough. But I doubt that is controversial. Aside from MGTOWs, the average male wants approval of women, as do women wanting approval of men. If your post is as base as that, then it's not even worth debating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/15 06:09 PM |
| 1 | TRP Proves that All Men Need Female ValidationNo. The key lesson of TRP is being self-sufficient which includes abundance mentality. Female approval isn't the end game, it is the by-product of being a man. A fruit of your labour, but not all fruits. Self-improvement is done for you and you only, and getting pussy is a usual consequence of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/15 05:56 PM |
| 3 | Sarcastically got the "you're such a gentleman shit test" and how to deal with shit tests from girls you're not interested in?Not sure. Normally, I get 'you're no gentleman' which is quickly followed up with 'and you're no lady'. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/15 11:46 PM |
| 2 | Should the government do more to get women into the workforce?Have we really built a society that "relies" on women in the workforce? Should the government provide free child care, so that the ladies can get back in the factories, where they belong? 1) yes. Looking at housing prices. A by-product of the push for women in the workplace is that the cost of real estate is aimed towards two income households now. I personally am aware of this, knowing several institutional real estate developers who have tripled or more the value of their portfolio in the last… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/15 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill: Do you believe feminism is just a giant shit test? If yes, how so?Generally yes. It's basically a decentralized lobbyist. It isn't about equal anything but advancing the interests of women, period. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/15 12:46 AM |
| 1 | [FR]Local Bar ONSWingman (or wing woman, whether she's aware of that fact or not) is almost always preferred, depending on the situation. However, I think OP's main point was have a good wingman. That's a very important caveat. My best buddy is highly social but is horrendous at picking up the social cues necessary for a wingman. In particular, he fucking never backs off when the 'pair up' occurs, like in this story. It's always a big 'group social' for him, and I got tired of waiting until the girls went to the… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/15 09:32 PM |
| 8 | [FR]Local Bar ONSNice one on the 'get food' move. I use that one as well all the time. Especially so when I'm travelling for work (and it's not 2:30 am). 'Wanna grab some food? Nachos or something? There's a pretty good bar where I'm staying' (don't use the word hotel, it's a anti-slut defence trigger). | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/15 09:28 PM |
| 1 | True or false: We can tell a lot about the character and value system of someone who has a high number of sexual partners.No. Perhaps it is higher, I doubt it's a likelihood level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/15 12:52 AM |
| 1 | True or false: We can tell a lot about the character and value system of someone who has a high number of sexual partners.The struggle is real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/15 12:52 AM |
| 1 | True or false: We can tell a lot about the character and value system of someone who has a high number of sexual partners.Keep your 'lolz' to yourself. It's relative to a major extent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/15 10:45 PM |
| 0 | True or false: We can tell a lot about the character and value system of someone who has a high number of sexual partners.Definitely true, and true for both genders but for different reasons. High partner count in women generally indicates a higher likelihood of mental health issues - insecurity, bi-polar, etc. For men, it is more likely to indicate high value, but perhaps with a tinge of relationship anxiety. And relationship anxiety does not necessarily mean anything bad, except for being risk adverse (which is good). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/15 07:36 PM |
| 1 | All Pills: What are your thoughts on The Matrix and how it fits in with the whole "pill" theme here?I think you're reading too much into it. The point is opening your eyes to 'reality'. It has nothing to do with machines runnings or so on. It's a simplistic analogy, but it resonates to the common folk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/15 07:33 PM |
| 0 | What songs remind you of the other pill?For dudes- John Legend probably. For strong independent women - Meghan Trainor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/15 07:26 PM |
| 1 | CMV: It is hypocritical for a man to be promiscuous but prefer a non-promiscuous woman for long term relationships.Because you're being simplistic and assuming the factors that enable a man and a woman to be a slut are the same. They are not. A female 6 can have a partner count of 100+ if she's that insecure and such. A male 6 cannot. Male sluts are typically high value males. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/15 10:22 PM |
| 6 | CMV: It is hypocritical for a man to be promiscuous but prefer a non-promiscuous woman for long term relationships.No it doesn't. Being a loose slut has little correlation to mate-desirability. The opposite is true for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/15 03:20 AM |
| 6 | CMV: It is hypocritical for a man to be promiscuous but prefer a non-promiscuous woman for long term relationships.Ugh. For the hundredth time- A girl spreading her legs and getting fucked, is worlds easier than a man doing the same thing. A woman slut does not indicate really any good personal characteristics (and actually it is negative ones, like insecurity). A dude doing the same thing indicates many positive ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/15 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Weirdest Celebrity Crush?Yeah I like that album as well. I'm more attracted to her because I'm very much sick of dating basic bitches with no personality and a nice set of cans. I think she'd be an awesome date because she's at least interesting, plus she'd be a challenge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/15 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Weirdest Celebrity Crush?Lily Allen. She is the exact opposite of what my TRP knowledge would suggest to date. However, she is a date for me, just because I imagine she'd be a fun date. Relationship would be out of the question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/15 05:01 AM |
| 1 | Should employers give special treatment to single mothers of troubled children, or just fire them? And, how should employers deal with female bickering?Terminate. She is unlikely to have the resources to challenge in court, even if she had a claim (which seems unlikely anyway) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/15 04:53 AM |
| 5 | How would you define being respectful to a woman?Just made the comment. Completely agree that men and women generally mean different things by 'respect'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/15 05:37 AM |
| 4 | How would you define being respectful to a woman?I'm going to summarize another great TRP writer. Men and women have different definitions of respect. For a man, respect means admiration of another. Someone counsel you seek. For a woman it means, 'don't hurt my feelings'. When women say 'respect', they are talking about their fragile sensibilities, not admiration. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/15 05:36 AM |
| 9 | If a woman treats all men as potentially dangerous, the way red pillers treat all women as potential cheaters/manipulaters, etc, is that okay with you?This is exactly how my hypothetical daughters will be trained. I will ensure that they know AMALT (all men are trying to fuck them, including their orbiters). There is absolutely nothing wrong with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/15 05:26 AM |
| 0 | If women want respect, we have to be men.The woman who are respected are woman who take on traditional male roles like Marie Curie, Ronda Rousey, Margaret Thatcher, and Emmy Noether. Society values acheivement and contribution. It doesn't value simple, humble supportive roles. Yes, they are respected for their obviously respectable achievements. I have had several female lawyer mentors who were brilliant. This isn't the issue though. TRP blames the influx of 'masculine career woman' on feminism, but they don't understand that this hier… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/15 05:01 AM |
| 6 | All Pills: Can nice guy game come from a woman?Can it come from a woman? Of course? If you mean that women just need to stand there, be not fat and no visible scars, yes. She doesn't need to initiate conversations, game, anything. Is this a real question or? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/15 04:52 AM |
| 0 | Personality types (mtbi) at PPD.The tests are generally crap, however just for fun: ESTP The picture is also an accurate representation of me. Also: ESTPs are the likeliest personality type to make a lifestyle of risky behavior. They live in the moment and dive into the action – they are the eye of the storm. People with the ESTP personality type enjoy drama, passion, and pleasure, not for emotional thrills, but because it's so stimulating to their logical minds. I do enjoy conducting social experiments for my own amusement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/15 05:37 PM |
| 8 | Do any of you have trouble responding with a level head to certain posters you have strong/personal opinions on?No. But there are several who are unwilling to accept that they're starting from false premises, which means in less likely to engage in any kind of discourse, rational or otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/15 05:12 PM |
| 4 | Are women "losing the dating game", and how much sympathy do you feel for "high-achieving" middle-aged women who can't find a husband?Neither is deserving of sympathy. In both cases, if they are content with their life situation, then they don't want sympathy. If they are not content, then they made poor life choices. It's not my role to feel bad for people who regret their decisions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/15 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Keeping your maiden nameThis is classic example that bloopers take everything literally. Yet no comment on the substance of my post, wonder why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/15 12:26 AM |
| 2 | Tone Policing; what is it and what role should it have here?Wow! And I only go on reddit with my mobile, which has been for over a year, and this is the first time you've noticed an autocorrect in any of my posts (where grammar is immaculate). Lolz amirite? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/15 10:19 PM |
| 4 | The Red Pill Tone?A trper pointed out the blue pill subreddit is just as nasty/mean, which is an admittal that /r/theredpill has a nasty/mean tone and isn't really masculine unless blue pill is a den of hypermasculinity too (link). Nope. You are being oversimplistic as usual. It's not just using literary devices, it is the ways in which they are used. Men - 'stop being a faggot, you pussy' Bloopers - 'sha, right! Because being a man is toooootally hard! /s ;p amirite!' See the difference? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/15 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Keeping your maiden nameIt's called being a red flag, not a certainty (that's the definition of a red flag, it's a warning). I already said I view it as a warning of feminist BS. Don't care about it on the merits (read my comment again, please). I also don't care for 'well they do it in China!' Arguments. They also are communists, and purportedly eat dogs, have a steady diet of rice and UN food packets, and abort girls for being girls. You're actually making me less convinced it is a good thing if you're trying to say … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/15 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Keeping your maiden nameDid you not read my comment, or what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/15 10:05 PM |
| 4 | I'm a red piller, but I don't agree with the concept of the wall. Any opinions from other red pillers?NYC is where ovaries go to die. They're promiscuous and fucking a bunch of dudes, but they're not getting married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/15 12:56 AM |
| 1 | Tone Policing; what is it and what role should it have here?There's a great expression at my golf course - 'the first liar ain't got a chance'. This hits the nail right on the head about how men socially talk to each other - it's full of hyperbole, exaggeration, one-up manship and so on. This is just normal talk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/15 12:53 AM |
| 6 | Tone Policing; what is it and what role should it have here?I would strongly suggest we are? Even the bloopers here admit that GLO, JP, Whisper and Archwinger are good writers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/15 09:55 PM |
| 3 | Tone Policing; what is it and what role should it have here?Men always speak in exaggeration amongst each other. Whether that is talking about 'the HB10 they took him and was a slut in bed' to the 'fucking bitch of a prof who have them a C in physics', to the 'amazing ball game they played'. This is how men talk. We just dont care if it hurts youre sensibilities if you overhear us in the lockerroom (read- skimming TRP, a sub not for you). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/15 09:54 PM |
| 5 | Tone Policing; what is it and what role should it have here?How would it take away credentials, when they moderate another sub which tasks them with removing tone policing. Surely, they would be an authority on what is, or is not, tone-policing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/15 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Tone Policing; what is it and what role should it have here?Well I would disagree with him (assuming your interpretation of what he said is correct). The language used is because men talk like this. We are speaking in a language that men understand. This is why blooper analysis is so fundamentally flawed. They are not men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/15 09:48 PM |
| 6 | Tone Policing; what is it and what role should it have here?There is plenty of reasons to use exaggerations, sarcasm, as well as literary devices which TRP is chalk full of (we are the better writers). If you have a basic education in literature you would know that tone is a major component of literary skill. It conveys a message, in and of itself. Bloopers are unable to grasp this concept, and instead take everything literally. Which surprises me, given the amount of Arts degrees bloopers have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/15 09:40 PM |
| 6 | Tone Policing; what is it and what role should it have here?Tone policing is against the rules at TRP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/15 09:37 PM |
| 3 | Your struggle and pain? Women neither understand nor give much of a fuck.This is an excellent point, and needs to be emphasized and re-emphasized through this sub and to the masses. Women are repulsed by struggling men. This doesn't necessarily mean poor men, but struggling men. The confident guy with little money is far more attractive than the guy who is barely treading water, worrying constantly, being insecure, etc, but with decent money. Women like things being easy. Whether that means 'your place is just around the corner, no big deal' after a night in the bar,… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/15 09:36 PM |
| 1 | It's Not Your Imagination, Single Women: There Literally Aren't Enough Men Out There | VICE | United StatesNo. There is a massive history of incels, and men who married young, who did great things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/15 09:31 PM |
| 6 | Tone Policing; what is it and what role should it have here?I'll let an RP mod answer your question on what is tone-policing. But- I understand that TRP doesn't endorse this. But intentional or not, their views on women cause a deep anger, and inspire feelings of just murder. I wouldn't label this tone-policing. It's just plain wrong, and is so chalk full of causal fallacies that I'm not even going to get into it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/15 09:25 PM |
| 4 | should we teach how mating and sex really are to prevent other incels acting out?It's inclusion on this sub for me is classic 'jump the gun' internet advocacy. No one bothers to look beyond the fact that he was purportedly on a 4chan thread which talked about betas, despite the more important information gained since then. This is why I refuse 'link-offs' on this site, because linking something presumes the accuracy of the primary data, and the reporters interpretation of the data. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/15 09:13 PM |
| 10 | should we teach how mating and sex really are to prevent other incels acting out?I'm challenging this on the basis that I don't think this had jackshit to do with AF/BB. This guy had significant mental health issues, explicitly a problem with religion, apparently mommy-attachment issues, divorced parents, and so on. If sexual frustration played any role, it seems likely it was relatively minor, and at best one factor of several. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/15 08:51 PM |
| 15 | Lets Make Incel Camps (Not that kind of Camp here me out!)This is what Roosh does, except he just does talks instead of 'camps'. Look at what happened to him. If he's going to be labelled a 'rape trainer', then good luck trying to run one of these 'rapist' camps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/15 01:19 PM |
| 2 | How much would legalizing prostitution actually change things for angry, ‘frustrated’ incels?I don't think it's that. It's clearly mental health issues, likely coupled with lack of social support networks (family, friends). Mental health issues make people crazy, and loneliness also makes people crazy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/15 01:12 PM |
| 2 | What is your pill and what is your opinion on sex work?Plus it would make my work parties and client development more fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/15 02:23 AM |
| 3 | Why should men be disposable soldiers ?There will not be a draft, unless aliens invade, so it won't happen. When shit hits the fan, women will not be on the front lines because the militaries of the world know that the vast majority of women cannot compete physically with women. This is why the physical standards are lowered for women in today's military - they know we aren't talking a total war. It's not going to happen anyway, and you're obviously delusional if you think men aren't physically stronger than women, which is a require… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/15 01:54 AM |
| 1 | It's Not Your Imagination, Single Women: There Literally Aren't Enough Men Out There | VICE | United StatesDay to day routine, however arduous, is not 'ambitious' it is 'industrious'. Ambitious would be going to war with the hopes of becoming a war hero, amid great odds of death. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/15 09:31 PM |
| 2 | What is your pill and what is your opinion on sex work?Red. Also, I've never paid for sex (but did once plate an escort, unbeknownst to me for awhile). I don't see why it should be prohibited, because I don't think it is the role of the state to regulate the voluntary behaviour of adults unless it causes harm to others. Now, it can criminalize issues with trafficking, blackmail, minors, zoning, etc. But it's not the role of the state to tell me I can't pay an adult for sex, and a woman that she can't accept it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/15 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Why is it a binary thing if a woman keeps maiden name or she doesn't?It's not binary. It's just that keeping a maiden name or hyphenating is a red flag that I'm with a feminist, who is likely going to harp on me for all kinds of shit. But a red flag, is just a red flag. It doesn't necessarily mean this, and what you have described appears tolerable. I also mentioned last time I'm aware that certain professionals (doctors in particular) and academics (name recognition purposes) tend to keep their names for these reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/15 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Why should men be disposable soldiers ?Not going to happen, absent alien invasion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/15 08:19 PM |
| 4 | Why should men be disposable soldiers ?How so? You know very little of warfare if you need more proof of this. Proof? When was the last time they were conscripted? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/15 04:56 PM |
| 2 | Why should men be disposable soldiers ?Men should have the right to think about themselves and not allow society to treat them as disposable or any government brainwash them into thinking they have an obligation to participate in wars for the sake of vague ideas like "nation" , "religion" , "family" which could mean different things to different people . You know nothing of violence if you are making this statement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/15 04:12 AM |
| 10 | Why should men be disposable soldiers ?Both sides need to stop talking about conscription. Technology has replaced a need for this. Secondly, no women would not be conscripted. Thirdly, 'Saddam was a terror, but apparently gave good education' sounds like 'ISIS is bad, but at least their carbon footprint isn't so bad'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/15 04:09 AM |
| 2 | Why should men be disposable soldiers ?Because most women can't do ruck marches and I don't want them on the front lines fucking it up with their trigger warnings. Men go to war because we are better at it. Plain and simple. I don't want to live in a time where 'equality' will cost lives. Secondly, the feminist movement (aside from the three renegades) won't have then there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/15 04:06 AM |
| 1 | It's Not Your Imagination, Single Women: There Literally Aren't Enough Men Out There | VICE | United StatesVice used to be good until Gavin left. Now it's just Huff Po with swear words. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/15 04:00 AM |
| 1 | It's Not Your Imagination, Single Women: There Literally Aren't Enough Men Out There | VICE | United StatesI would disagree. Men are not naturally inclined to sloth. Men have for thousands of years worked, not just for forced labour, but because men are naturally ambitious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/15 03:59 AM |
| 2 | Egghead got me thinking... about female woes vs. male woes.That's a good explanation. However, this guy is quite obviously suffering from mental health issues. You can tell from the smoking, drinking, etc. those eye bags are from self-medicating something. That being said, the female equivalent to him is still getting laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/15 03:54 AM |
| 4 | For Blue and Red: How do you define modern feminism?A political lobbyist group who acts in their own self-interest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/15 01:01 AM |
| -2 | Gender & Online HarassmentMaybe. But the ones I've seen have talked about teenage boys being a primary victim. Point is, despite the rhetoric, women don't have a monopoly on online sexual harassment. Hence, why I question it being couched in gender. It's a problem for both. What's controversial about that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/15 04:08 AM |
| -1 | Gender & Online HarassmentI'm talking specifically about this scam. And again, anonymity does not guarantee anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/15 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Gender & Online HarassmentNo but it's not widely disproportionate. Also, it's abundantly obvious to me why women are more likely to be subject to 'sexual' harassment as opposed to 'non-sexual' harassment like run of the mill death threats. The people doing this are fucking trolls. They will say whatever they believe will most likely get under the person's skin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/15 03:57 AM |
| 0 | Gender & Online HarassmentYou can use your google function as well as I. This is a very real thing. If I could find a buzzfeed article to satisfy your insatiable desire for a link for 'proof' I'm sure I could with five minutes of work. I don't know why you're denying this on this particular ground. Moreover, if you Wikipedia Nigerian scam (the non-sexual version) I'm sure it will discuss how the victims are too embarrassed to come forward. It's a hugely embarrassing thing, and thus it is assuredly under-reported. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/15 03:54 AM |
| 0 | Gender & Online HarassmentBlackmailing in this way was equated to revenge porn. I would argue both fall under the definition of sexual harassment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/15 03:52 AM |
| 2 | Gender & Online HarassmentI refuse to do link-offs. See my explanation below. Also, mass media is just that. It's not exactly 'proof'. This is happening, and feminists love talking about 'under reporting'. I'm fucking positive this is under reported by nature of it alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/15 03:47 AM |
| 0 | Gender & Online HarassmentNo. I refuse to do 'link-offs' on this site. I'm on a mobile and it took me two seconds to google this and I put the first one up. This is real, and I've read about it many times. Frankly, it shouldn't be surprising. Some incel meets a 'hot babe' online who starts flirting with him to get naked. This is so easily foreseeable in modern times, I wonder why you are challenging that this has happened 'only twice'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/15 03:45 AM |
| 2 | Gender & Online HarassmentI never said it was exclusive. I question the assertion it is disproportionately women facing this, is my point. I might be able to compromise and say it is done differently to men and women, but I won't allow revisionist feminist-BS to go unchallenged. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/15 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Gender & Online HarassmentI attached a link if you'd like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/15 03:37 AM |
| -1 | Gender & Online HarassmentNot particularly, I just read about it all the time. I doubt they would go as far as to publish it when it happens to men as opposed to say, Amanda Todd. here is one though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/15 03:35 AM |
| 10 | Is being kinky in a relationship often a requirement these days and is it because of porn?I don't think so. I think fewer men having sex is due to porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/15 03:22 AM |
| -1 | Gender & Online HarassmentNah. From what I can tell it's young men who are primarily the victims of the blackmailers from Nigeria. These types pretend they are hot women and ask for then to Skype with them, and the real adept ones run videos instead of Skype in order to get the dude to jerk off or whatever. Then they blackmail them for cash or they'll post it online. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/15 03:20 AM |
| 3 | Keeping your maiden nameWell government offices are incompetent, as are their workers typically. So I sympathize with you there. Laziness is still a red flag. It's an afternoon where most women will have to be on Facebook on their mobile using data as opposed on Facebook at their office. I don't see the difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/15 03:18 AM |
| 11 | Keeping your maiden nameNo. Those who think having a 'strong independent womyn' as a wife would. I am one of those. I travel for weeks at a time for work, and even when I'm home I'm in my office typically 10 hours. I'm not looking for such a woman in a relationship with me, because it doesn't suit my lifestyle. Unless... Having preferences means being insecure to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/15 03:17 AM |
| 3 | Keeping your maiden nameLaziness is also a red flag. The only possible exception for me is some professionals pretty much have to keep their maiden names, like doctors. However, I've found the opposite to occur where female doctors rush to get married prior to graduation for this specific reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/15 02:40 AM |
| 10 | Keeping your maiden nameIt's not about that, it's because it's a red flag. If this is insisted upon, is not in and of itself problematic, but it's a sure fire sign of a feminist. And thus in likely going to be subjected to a plethora of other feminist shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/15 02:35 AM |
| 2 | How bad were you before you discovered TRP? Did any of you have a loving, happy relationship, if so what made you take the pill?I don't know what this is, and I'm not going to a sub without some explanation as to why this is relevant whatsoever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/15 06:06 PM |
| 3 | How bad were you before you discovered TRP? Did any of you have a loving, happy relationship, if so what made you take the pill?I grew up as a foreigner in foreign lands due to foreign service parents. Returned to Canada for post-secondary. I was never beta-fied as such, because I spent my formative years cleaning up as a gringo. That being said, definitely been burned a few times before but nothing that elicited an 'anger stage'. I joined this after finding an article on ROTK which resonated, and one thing led to another. So, no story of an incel who raged through his cheezy binges and found TRP. Sorry. Normal guys who … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/15 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Are women 'irrational' and men 'rational'?I see it said a lot here by red pillers that women are irrational. I don't understand it. I agree that we (women) usually are more emotional than men but I don't get why this is irrational. Rationality means rational-decision making. This is a specific thing which means that one takes the time to assess their own self-interest, gather the maximum amount of information, assess which choices would provide the best outcome relative to their self-interest, and go with it. Emotion-based decision-maki… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/15 12:52 AM |
| 2 | As a women..You're going to have to write more than that. I don't see a 'debate' in your post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/15 12:43 AM |
| 8 | What are some positive traits you admire in the opposite gender?I've dated some enormously socially skilled women. Jackie Kennedy-level social skills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/15 02:18 AM |
| 1 | For those who want LTR...if you "next" every girl who doesn't put out after a week, how do you expect to marry/date a virgin?That is not the red pill plan. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/15 03:48 AM |
| 2 | women in denial, the bullshit of victimhoodIn fairness to Leane, I'll back her up that judges, and especially juries, don't seem to favour women in this situation. I've never done criminal law and it seems like a dreadful practice area, but the criminal law crowd I know say that in a jury women are particularly more judgmental of women complainants and defendants. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/15 10:01 PM |
| 8 | women in denial, the bullshit of victimhoodThe problem being pointed out is that women think that if they can't remember having sex the night before, she therefore was passed out. I've challenged this here multiple times, due to being a reformed party dude near-pirate level alcohol abuser. I have had sex, and came, many times when I was blacked out. I have no memory of it, yet I was clearly not 'passed out'. Just because a woman can't remember the night before, doesn't mean she wasn't enthusiastically sucking a dick the night before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/15 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Do women ACTUALLY like men?Probably 50? And even then, I'm sure i could do pretty well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/15 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Do women ACTUALLY like men?They like male attention, male wallets and alpha sperm. That's about all their interested in, in men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/15 11:37 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever known an obese man that was successful with women?Fat yes, obese no. I've heard of them, like Jack Black or Tom Leykis, but I've never seen this in real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/15 03:12 AM |
| 7 | Both pills: What do you think about women who don't wear makeup?Negatively. It's a myth that women look better "without makeup" because any woman that is still attractive without makeup looks better with makeup. How have you seen celebrities? How many women think they're hotter without make up than Penelope Cruz (always wears makeup, and is a makeup salesperson), Margo Robbie, Kate Upton, Salma Hayek, Gisele Bundchen (whatever your poison is). All of these women wear makeup on the red carpet, modelling, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/15 04:40 AM |
| 7 | Left-Wing Bias in the Academy Finally Confirmed (and the paper is by Leftists, no less)I agree that one paper doesn't confirm anything. In fact, I think that it is one of BP's flaws that they point to one paper in one field, and claim "touchdown". Anyone with even moderate experience with academia knows that you have to read many papers to get a sense of things. However, the rest of your questions don't mean much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/15 04:19 AM |
| 1 | CMV: There are no 8+ guys on TRPNot true at all, from my experience. I've been relatively consistent, I'd like to say I'm an 8 or at least a 7.5, for years. I've never gotten more ONS' since becoming a lawyer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/15 03:45 AM |
| 2 | CMV: There are no 8+ guys on TRPNah. The thing is a picture of a man who is a '7' physically can easily become an '8' for women because they're attracted to a range of other qualities. A '7' with good game, money and his shit together, can be transformed into a 9 for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/15 03:44 AM |
| 11 | CMV: There are no 8+ guys on TRPI would probably say those guys are higher than an 8. But I don't think there are a ton of RP guys claiming they are 8s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/15 03:41 AM |
| 9 | Redpillers: Should women get fake boobs?I think some women probably should, as with any plastic surgery that genuinely enhances physical attractiveness. That being said, I mean this that hoping technology is improved that it isn't flagrant. Natural is always better than artificial. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/15 03:40 AM |
| 1 | Guy is annoyed that his girlfriend forces him to become friends with her past fuckbuddies. AskWomen: "Ugh, man up and stop complaining!"Ah yes. I totally adhere to the mighty Tom Leykis on this point. If you want to hang out with your ex's, that's fine, but we won't be in a relationship. We can fuck, but there will be no relationship between us. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/15 02:25 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Hollywood rom-coms, chick flicks and mainstream romance movies all serve to pacify women’s demands of a plugged-in Alpha (in practice, a Better Beta or Beta Bux)I think there is some merit here. I think a lot of Zach Braffs (losers) are at least hopeful that there is a Natalie Portman (manic pixie girl) out there for them. The only thing that I find unconvincing is that while I didn't go to high school in the West, but I did go to college. I feel as if this delusion would be destroyed within days of college, when the jocks, rich kids, and drug dealers start slaying women immediately. So I think these are just examples of entertainment (read- escapism). … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/15 01:55 AM |
| 5 | AWALTIt's a hyperbole, in a way, but there is a great deal of truth here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/15 01:30 AM |
| 1 | GF wants to go to nightclubs with her single friend.Never, ever, underestimate the power of slut-enabling friends. Even if you were dating Lady Madonna herself for 4 years, slut-enabling friends will whisper sweet nothings into her ear about the sweet taste of the slut-apple. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/15 10:20 PM |
| 1 | GF wants to go to nightclubs with her single friend.And this is even more fuel on this fire, OP. LDR is fraught with risk, period. I would calmly relegate to plate for her going out like this, even if it wasn't LDR. This should be your nail in the coffin that makes you sleep better at night that ending the LDR was the correct move. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/15 10:16 PM |
| 1 | TRP is suicidal at young ages.Ha, I'm curious as well. This is a 'ballsy' move. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/15 02:20 PM |
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