Field report+discussion

redhawkes · 2018-01-21T11:21:42+00:00

After dropping her at her place, she teased me by bringing up inviting me over to her apartment in different contexts

She was looking for plauslible deniability to not feel like a slut, and thinking about fucking you at this point.

A simple "I have to use the bathroom", and you're in. Escalate and slay.

TheProphetPhysiquiel · 2018-01-21T06:49:48+00:00

She's definitely into it. She just won't initiate because a) you're a man and that's your job, and b) it "violates her morals," and she's already entered a verbal contract, with yourself as a witness, to not violate those morals, at least on her own terms. Next time you see her, escalate, which it sounds like you have no problem doing. Expect at least a little, if not moderate amount, of token LMR to satisfy her hamster.

You're golden bud.

BobbyPeru · 2018-01-21T06:17:53+00:00

she mentioned that this bummed her, because she "was looking forward to inviting me over because I turn her on so much," but have sex non-exclusively "went against her beliefs."

Sounds like she begging you to initiate

abenomix · 2018-01-21T06:30:17+00:00

Which plans, which attacks?! You are overthinking it. You should have done her way before writing this text!

Thotwrecker · 2018-01-22T16:05:56+00:00

She's actually running good female game. In medicine there's tons of cheating and slampieces and non-exclusive fuckery and whatnot, and she knows this. Now what happens to her if she, having developed this flirty fun vibe with a guy, gives the pussy up before getting commitment?

IE if she gives up the pussy WHILE you are in a non-committed relationship, then she becomes a slampiece. A plate. It's a gamble at that point - maybe she can use her pussy to get you to commit, but experience has taught her that once you already have the pussy, men don't feel the need to pay the commitment price afterwards.

Logical mind: "Don't give it up now, you need to get him to be your boyfriend first"

Emotional mind: "OMG lets fuck, I'm horny, but also anxious and fearful, why won't he just take charge and make me not have to think about shit?"

So it's obvious which mind you have to keep her in. Keep her thinking emotionally - this is what I do with all women from demanding career fields where I know their job keeps them in a logical state during the day. Keep them deep in their emotional state.

You have to lead. For example, you know if you go over to her apartment, you two will fuck. So the only barrier is the traditionally awkward "I'm dropping you off home now... uh, can I come up too?" barrier. It's become a trope, but it really doesn't have to be.

"I did not push to go to her place, as I didn't feel the need, and I like to take things slow." AKA, you're a beta male who doesn't take leadership. Women do not like to take things slow with superior males, and superior males don't like to take things slow if they know they really are turned on by a chick. It has to flow quickly and to her seem like "it just happened" - by artificially creating this delayed path because you're nervous about escalation, you get her thinking in terms of commitment and 3rd dates.

It's your 3rd date, you should be thinking I'm either closing this bitch now, or we're done. Asking what to do in this situation is kinda inherently flawed - you shouldn't be in this situation.

"You got anything to drink up there"

"only rose and box white wine--"

"Great I love box white wine, lets go"

Her mind: "Oh thank fucking jesus he's finally nutting up and freeing me from the responsibility of making the choice, now I can fuck him without feeling like a slut."

DrBrockStar · 2018-01-21T08:01:32+00:00

Typical shit-test.

If you want it go for it, if you make her want you that exclusive shit wont matter.

emdmarco · 2018-01-21T19:27:04+00:00

This is what I would do. Feel free to critique me, I’m relatively new to TRP and would love to get better, but I was introduced by a friend who thinks I’m ‘a natural’

I’d pull away. Give her almost zero attention from this point moving forward. let her brain analyze ‘what could I have done wrong?’ When you see her, be very polite. Say hello. But just keep walking. When she texts you, respond with mostly emoji’s. This will drive her nuts. Wait for her to initiate once or twice, and when she finally asks what’s up with you, just casually tell her that you have no intentions of being exclusive, and that you don’t want her to do anything she doesn’t want to.. but in the nicest most polite way as possible (not like a bitter angry guy, more like a dude who can get any girl he wants and if she’s not about his rules, that’s fine: he’s on to the next.) still be flirtatious, just don’t attempt to actually make plans or have long convos with her. Use more eye contact flirting, less conversational. She’ll 100% cave. And the you’ll have all the power and you’ll be playing by your rules.

You can obviously hook up with her now... but then she has the power. She can/will choose to ‘pull away’ after some smash sessions and will only give you the goods if you comply with her set of rules. So the real question, is do you want a quick nut? Or do you want a girl in the palm of your hands? Either one is fine, and either will require a different strategy.

BurnoutRS · 2018-01-21T21:10:58+00:00

Her saying "i only have sex in exclusive relationships" sounds like a shit test to me. She feels validated moralistically (that she's not a slut) by saying this line. If you can give her a reason to rationalize (hamster) her way out of this then youve passed.

Basically i think if you escalate you'll create a situation where "i dont have sex outside of exclusive relationships" turns into "I dont normally have sex outside of exclusive relationships but i was with this really cute guy and one thing led to another. Next thing I knew he was bending me over the coffee table"

TheDarknessGoat · 2018-01-22T12:29:16+00:00

You should have pushed. You expected her to say "I fuck for fun?"

She can`t feel like a slut, and she had already given you a pretty big hint on "you turn me on so much". Like someone said, all you needed was an excuse to go up on her place and make her feel like "it just happened".

That`s TRP core, women will hardly ever fully agree with words to just have sex, since it would mean to them they are a slut, just keep track of her reactions and act accordinglly. Ignore whatever they say, women are crazy.

Title	Field report+discussion
Author	DamnDatAssSoFine
Upvotes	27
Comments	22
Date	January 21, 2018 6:05 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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