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SureImShore/r/askTRP19/01/16 09:49 PM
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The VICE Guide to Eating Pussy An oldie, but a goodie.
/r/askTRP06/06/16 04:16 PM
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Especially for those who work at a desk all day or are otherwise sedentary, lower leg strength and muscle lengthening can help significantly in this area. If your calves and hamstrings are tight and shortened (which is what occurs when you sit all day), and your ankles don't (dorsi)flex properly, it will pull your back (particularly your lower back) out of alignment. When you attempt to straighten your back to correct natural curvature, you will end up sticking out your ribs and jutting your hea…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 12:56 PM
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Nah, that would be total scarcity mentality. Mate guarding is beta as fuck. The alpha guy has his choice of the women of the tribe; there is no "his" woman. There is no "alpha female" that he values over the others. Further, if a woman would mate with a beta, it signals she is low-quality and can't secure an alpha.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 12:43 PM
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We'll call it Reflection Week. This is a great idea. I believe it would be a net positive if there was a way to limit posting and commenting by time subscribed. 15 days to comment, 30 days to post; something like that. The absolute best would be a sidebar quiz. Good call RPS, I'm looking forward to re-reading everything this weekend.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 07:37 PM
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But that means GLO couldn't sell t-shirts anymore... Then how am I going to look like a true alpha? Difference here is GLO puts a few lines at the end of his (generally high-quality) posts, and has been contributing excellent content for years. u/adrianenlightens promotes his blog in the first line of his first post on TRP. A post that is generally devoid of advice or theory with a lot of fluff before and after, and doesn't follow posting guidelines.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 08:51 PM
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TL;DR Negative self-talk can be used to your advantage with a competitive mindset.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 08:47 PM
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"Single mothers are a red flag" Their child will always come before their man. If its not your child, you're pretty low on her totem pole. You may also be raising another man's child, which sucks. Frequently, this is in relation to young single Mothers. If a girl is under 23 with a kid and is single, she's a fucking train wreck. Likely a slut with a lack of forethought and self-respect. You forgot to mention widows. I don't know if that had been discussed, but damn, nobody can control cancer/car…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 08:35 PM
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I generally date in the 22-26 range. Will go to late 20's if she takes care of herself and brings more to the table. But fact remains, even most 18 year old American women have (relative to past generations) slutted it up pretty well before you've met them. What I was getting at with OP is its not that his girl exhibited previously slutty behavior thats getting to him. Its just the idea that his special snowflake actually took and enjoyed dicks that were not his. Its an insecurity, and if you're…
/r/askTRP31/03/16 01:44 PM
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I just want to let go of this maladaptive fantasizing, any book recommendations are appreciated. This always confuses me. I get that good information can be gleaned from some books, but many guys are too quick to assume that their problems will be fixed by a good book/article/post. Want to let go of "maladaptive fantasizing"? Then like, just let go. When you catch yourself doing it, stop doing it. Do something else instead. If you have an LTR, you have a whole host of new problems. None will be …
/r/askTRP30/03/16 02:51 PM
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It seems like you're only interested in excuses. My friend also went through depression. She said counseling and drugs did little to help. Well, then, that settles all that! We can do away with the tens of millions of people (on the low end, I'm sure) whose lives have been improved through therapy, medication, or a combination of the two. I've dealt with clinical depression most of my life, and have only been addressing it with therapy and low-dose medication recently. The results have been life…
/r/becomeaman30/03/16 02:36 PM
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You've "started to try to... [read] good books and [write] your book"? "Starting to try to do things" is not doing anything, its mental masturbation. Reading is a passive activity. Writing is thinking on paper. These do not qualify as "doing" things. It doesn't sound like you've really done very much. Motivation is the result of action, not the cause of it. Don't feel like reading today? Do it anyway. Raining on a day you planned a long run? Get your rain jacket on and get after it! Feeling lazy…
/r/becomeaman30/03/16 02:12 PM
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Thanks for re-posting this here. I don't see this as really that slutty of behavior. As you get older (I'm 30), you're going to need to come to terms with the fact that any girl you get with/plate/LTR has had a decent number of dicks in her various orifices. I think this will always be an issue for dudes until they get their n-count up, but it never really goes away. I think back on by first long-term relationship (teens), took her virginity and we dated for a few years. It STILL gets to me if I…
/r/askTRP30/03/16 02:01 PM
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Respect on seeking to better yourself, but jacking up your HGH and Test at 19 likely won't do much to increase your height. Once bones fuse at the end of puberty, short of a very expensive, very dangerous surgery, there is effectively no way to increase overall height. And just checked it for you; at 5'5 you are literally exactly average height for an Indian male. Don't sweat it dude, you're probably a late bloomer and you'll naturally grow another inch or two.
/r/askTRP30/03/16 01:50 PM
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LH, TSH, Both Free and Serum testosterone
/r/askTRP30/03/16 01:46 PM
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Read the sidebar and post this in askTRP for more detailed advice. Thanks!
/r/TheRedPill30/03/16 01:43 PM
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I think this is the type of content that can turn off some of the "greater betas" (Roissey)/"Purple Pillers"/slightly naturals who find TRP. Even for someone who hasn't had much luck with women and has been Blue Pill their whole life, this story will leave you incredulous at the actions of the man: NAWALT, this dude is just a complete pussy
/r/TheRedPill30/03/16 01:15 PM
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Women are only as shitty as you let them be. This should be the slogan for TRP. Generally applies to all relationships; people treat you the way you let them.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/16 01:12 PM
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I'm speaking in aggregate. While it isn't nearly as popular in England as the Premier League, the NBA is far more popular in England than the EPL is in the US.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/16 05:50 PM
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Women are straight up self-destructing in 2016. For anyone who isn't a sports fan, know this: Kyrie Irving is a superstar. He was the #1 overall draft pick, rookie of the year, and has been an All-Star every year since his rookie season. He was given the maximum value contract allowable under the NBA labor agreement. He is one of the highest paid and most popular athletes in the most popular sports league in the world. He is friends and teammates with the most marketable and most popular pro ath…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/16 01:25 PM
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I don't believe in fixing old relationships. There is that old axom, "Its not that you really love her, you just love the idea of her." We can get wrapped up in an old LTR because essentially we do want a good LTR. After dealing with a lot of bullshit and dating and whatnot, its tempting to see that old LTR as "the one" and that we "fucked it up" and "if only" we did/didn't x y or z, things would be perfect now. Its not true for you, or for anyone. Women keep relationship scorecards and they lov…
/r/askTRP28/03/16 04:32 PM
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I don't think they differ in any significant way. Some points I remember from Models (haven't read it in years): The man must always be less invested in the relationship than the woman for it to be successful Don't be validated by women Don't be or act needy with women Act and be willing to fail Polarize people; do things that force them to decide whether they like you or not Own your flaws/defects/etc. and work to fix them A woman can be a compliment to a great life but she can never BE your li…
/r/askTRP28/03/16 03:22 PM
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If you mean in terms of physical attractiveness, for men its definitely early 30's. I'm 30 and every guy I have known since high school is better looking now than they were then, save for if they have substance abuse issues or gained a lot of weight. In terms of athletics, pro players usually talk about getting their "grown man strength" in their mid to late 20's. Your sacrum isn't fully formed until around 25. Most dudes in special forces are late 20's/early 30's. But yeah, for women its univer…
/r/askTRP25/03/16 08:26 PM
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Perspective is reality. If you try something and fail, you can learn from it and work on being better and advancing. Or, you can use it as another piece of evidence that you're a worthless piece of shit and suck at everything. Either way, you're right. No one goes through life undefeated. Believing that people do is a form of deflection and defeatism, "Woe is me... if only I were one of those 'lucky' guys, I would always win at everything!" Take stock of a wide sample of really successful guys. …
/r/askTRP25/03/16 08:20 PM
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Confirmation bias in their own minds. They see that you have a (I assume) healthy, stable relationship. The only reason this can occur (in their BP minds) is that you cherish her and put her on a pedestal and thank your lucky stars she graces you with her presence. I wouldn't sweat this too much. People who are RP aware or just generally intuitive people don't put too much weight into the thoughts or opinions of fools, even if they are friends or family.
/r/askTRP25/03/16 08:08 PM
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"ban"... for what? Dude, you're the troll here. You're not a part of this community and posting in a thread to take GLO down a few notches. He's an OG EC around these parts. I've seen the hoodies before and thought they looked pretty cool. GLO has made some posts that I have gotten a lot out of, and find him generally pretty funny. I get a cool hoodie and a dude who has added some value to my life gets some cash. Solid transaction all around if you ask me.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 08:42 PM
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Seddit is soft, but it certainly has a far better community than the harsh generalizations and racist remarks found here. Sure, whatever you say. If that's what you believe, then take my advice and go back there. I'm all for red pill ideology but am repulsed to see it now revolving around white supremacy and closed-mindedness perpetuated by users like GLO. I don't think you truly are "all for" Red Pill ideology, and it certainly doesn't "revolve around" white supremacy and closed mindedness. It …
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 08:10 PM
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Blue Pill interloper detected. Go back to seddit, faggot.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 07:26 PM
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Does no one read the stop sign before fucking posting? Fucking askTRP.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 05:36 PM
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I know that women cannot be blamed for something which is intrinsic in their nature and we need to accept their hypergampous afflictions Disagree here. I'm a dude, and violence and procreation are intrinsic to my nature. If I went around breaking shit and caving people's heads in whenever I encountered resistance, I'd be held to task for my actions. Same goes for if I went around raping bitches. Red Pill Theory gives logical explanations for women's hypergamous behavior, but it doesn't excuse th…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 04:52 PM
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You're approaching this from a bad position. You're really asking what is the best way to get people to pay attention to you and listen to what you have to say. In the instance you're talking about, don't force anything. Listen to people. Ask questions. Make connections based on what they're talking about. Be interested in what they have to say. Why would you want to be in their circle? You're your own man; you're a lone wolf. Its fucking cool that you're not in their circle; its different.
/r/askTRP18/03/16 04:32 PM
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I have this down to me being overly invested in my ego. You are correct. Here is some food for thought: I have a fairly big cock. Not massive, but I regularly get comments about it and bottom out smaller chicks. I would never wish for a smaller dick or anything, but it really sucks to have to stop fucking because you're hurting her. Also, anal is almost completely out of the question. So there's that. Guys you see in porn are in porn because they have a big dick and can stay hard for a long time…
/r/askTRP18/03/16 04:25 PM
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Like for example if I do ask I'm going to act like I don't really have to but I want to hear her say it, say how she wants me to touch her, so she's committed to admitting how attracted she is. This is great advice, and demonstrates the power of words and phrasing. "Do you want me to kiss you?" vs. "Can I kiss you?"; totally different frame and power dynamic. Good stuff.
/r/askTRP18/03/16 04:05 PM
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Me: Its not cool that you gave your number and not text me back Me: I'm kinda mad that you didn't text me back. Scarcity mentality on full display. There is no such thing as text game. They didn't text you back because they aren't interested in meeting up with you. They texted you when you called them out on it because they don't want to hurt your precious little feelings.
/r/askTRP18/03/16 04:01 PM
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I believe it was Rollo that referred to it as being your own "Mental Point of Origin." Everything in your world starts with you.
/r/askTRP18/03/16 03:43 PM
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I ask her what's wrong, and she explains that she feels anxious and pressured to have sex with me... Translation: rape. Plan your exit, now. Act like a complete Blue Pill to her for the next few days/week or whatever. Get texts from her expressing her love and admiration for you, take videos of you two being all lovey-dovey and save them forever. Do not think that it can't happen to you and that she would never do that. It can, and she would.
/r/askTRP18/03/16 03:34 PM
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AlphaHoodie ordered. Proud of my boy.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 03:24 PM
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Getting dumped is akin to being a Bernie Madoff victim. You realize everything you were promised was a lie and your money's gone. You're Red Pill aware now. You don't believe the lies anymore. All the pain and heartache and loss that you have endured has led you to where you are now. Nobody goes through life undefeated. Nobody finds the Red Pill by accident, without getting their balls kicked in. From what you shared in your post, you're still relatively young, without any kids or ex-wives to mo…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 02:45 PM
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but the male is not much involved in raising the offspring until it becomes grown enough to hunt (speaking for male offspring). Protection from predators and from what I hear from my mates who has a kid - it changes everything, turning guy who would run after chicks, laugh in the face of danger to a cautious, soft wuss You're not taking stupid risks for thrills because you have a woman and a child who depend on you. If you want to be young and wild forever, don't have kids. Men who act like teen…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 02:34 PM
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Why the fuck is this being downvoted?
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 02:31 PM
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Anyone in the entertainment business is a lunatic for getting married while they are still working. Yet it happens regularly, and they get divorced in like 18 months. Family courts (especially in CA, the bluest of blue states, both politically and in RP awareness) take your earnings over the course of the marriage and extrapolate out for a lifetime. Have two huge movie roles and earned $20Mil one year while married? OK, that means you should be making around $20Mil a year for the rest of your li…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 03:19 PM
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Texting her and meeting for coffee was "perfect"? If these were your first interactions, nothing about them could be confused with "Alpha". You had very little interaction with a girl, and no sex or even kissing, yet, "everything was perfect"? This is oneitis. "I'm looking forward to it too, and not just cause it's spring break. Lol." She says. Awesome. Does this mean to imply that she won't be hooking up with random dudes while getting loaded? Because that is a lie, and that's why she made a po…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 09:52 PM
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When the sex life is waning, the relationship is more or less over. Apply Occam's Razor. What is the most likely reason she is uninterested in sex? She has lost sexual attraction to you. "Voicing your concerns" is utterly useless; attraction can not be negotiated. Let's say you cheat on her. Its going to be difficult for you, because you're coming from a scarcity mentality and operating in her frame ("I'll cheat to show her how fucked up she's acting"). I would bet whatever girl you get with is …
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 05:30 PM
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As far as I know, when guys are referring to "lifting" they are referring to some type of strength training program using barbells and compounds lifts (like Stronglifts - solid novice program). You'll build a more manly, attractive physique - look up the difference between a guy who used to be skinny vs. put on some muscle - every part of them is physically more attractive. Also just puts you in a solid mindset and gets you working on discipline. As you mentioned, your T levels will rise, but th…
/r/askTRP09/03/16 07:59 PM
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You're probably in college, so you have access to a lot of top quality women at the peak of their SMV. In my own experience (I'm 30), the early to mid 20's (once out of school) are a more difficult time in the game for men. The women in your age group are at the top of their game, and you're competing with guys who are in their late 20's and early 30's, who have more experience (with women and life in general), more social status, and more money than you. Its always good for guys to fuck around …
/r/askTRP09/03/16 07:50 PM
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Being witty has to do with thinking quickly and knowing your audience (as a great line delivered a few seconds too late can bomb, and comedic taste varies). You have to be smart and intuitive to be witty; you can't really learn it. Same thing with being "funny" in general. There are specific things you can do to increase your endurance and strength, attain higher levels of proficiency in a language, and obviously things you can do to improve your success with women. But there isn't a "practical"…
/r/askTRP09/03/16 07:42 PM
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Work is a good place to start. If there is anyone you hit it off with, just suggest grabbing drinks or something one day. Honestly just opening up a bit (just a little bit) about your situation could be helpful. Most guys will understand where you're coming from and it won't seem odd you don't have a wide circle of friends; you just got out of a bad LTR and recently moved. Makes sense you don't have a ton on friends that live around the area. Just don't over-share regarding your ex, and fake it …
/r/askTRP09/03/16 07:34 PM
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Confidence comes from competence. Learn things and apply them. Read interesting things and broaden your knowledge base so you know your shit across a wide spectrum. Have a few drinks before and while socializing, but don't let it become a crutch/habit. And as always, give less fucks. Nobody really gives too much of a shit what you do or say; they're too self-involved. Confidence is outcome independence regarding the way others react to you. Confidence is NOT possessing the certitude that everyon…
/r/askTRP09/03/16 07:06 PM
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My mortgage, property taxes, homeowner's insurance and HOA fees COMBINED are less than she pays for rent, and I live in a relatively expensive part of the country. She makes $733.24 biweekly, $1466.48 a month. Her rent is $1245 and she spends $11.30 a day to commute. She makes -$4.50 a month before food, phone, utilities, etc.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 03:14 PM
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I don't think he is arguing that morality doesn't exist, more just wondering how the OP determines what is and is not "good" and "bad".
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 02:21 PM
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OP the examples you give do not jive with "shit tests". Stealing is illegal because we respect property rights. Testing someone's frame and fitness through verbal tests is not illegal. Grabbing a woman's tits is assault, just as grabbing a guys dick would be (though, granted, much less likely to be prosecuted/enforced with the same zeal). A better comparison to shit testing would be a guy asking a girl her age and possibly her n-count (though I personally hate this). EDIT: Further, the only reas…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 02:18 PM
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Quick definition of terms on cash basis vs. accrual basis: Cash Basis: Revenues are reported on the income statement in the period in which the cash is received from customers. Expenses are reported on the income statement when the cash is paid out. Accrual Basis: Revenues are reported on the income statement when they are earned—which often occurs before the cash is received from the customers. Expenses are reported on the income statement in the period when they occur or when they expire—which…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 10:42 PM
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But whether or not you want to believe it, the best man always wins. If you fail, figure out what went wrong, and make the changes you need to make. Only if you determine who the "best" man is by "who is currently fucking this chick." Who won the game of fucking your girl? Who knows. Maybe a rich and handsome celebrity. Maybe some chump. More applicable question: who cares? She's just some girl, and he's just some dude.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 09:35 PM
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you might suggest he needs to read the older book before Jesus) Having a bit of an epiphany here. Jesus of Nazareth, referred to by followers as "the Perfect Man", was a beta, no? He was a 33-year-old virgin who had oneitis for a post-wall whore (literally). He put others needs before his own to such an extent that he was allowed to be tortured and murdered by those who professed to be his followers. He was the Perfect Beta.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 09:24 PM
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Helps with cardio but lifting is better for fat burning imo.
/r/askTRP17/02/16 10:45 PM
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Dude, I would honestly just drop calorie goals altogether. If you stick with a strength program, you could probably eat 5000 calories a day and see very little fat gain. Starting Strength is great. One of the tenets of Starting Strength for extreme novices is GOMAD - Gallon of Milk a Day. He advises drinking a gallon of whole milk a day, in addition to regular meals. That is how important caloric surplus is when trying to add muscle.
/r/askTRP17/02/16 05:11 PM
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If you're taking each of these body types to their extremes, its asking if Superman or Incredible Hulk is better. Both are awesome, it just comes down to individual preferences. If you're gaining strength, you're almost always gaining some fat. If you're not, you're limiting your strength gains. If you do big lifts (bench/overhead press, deadlift, squat) with free weights, you are building skeletal muscle and activating your central nervous system like few exercises can do. If you keep consisten…
/r/askTRP17/02/16 05:03 PM
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Not disagreeing with the overall logic, and solid post in general. However, the tax calculation is incorrect: if you make $90751 in 2015, you pay $18481 in tax. If you paid any interest(or an expense) on anything, and drop that by a DOLLAR, to go to 90750, you suddenly only have to pay 5200 plus 25% of whatever over $37450. Which totals $14518. For a dollar, there is a $4000 penalty. Yea, debt is a beautiful thing. 90750 - 37450 = 53300 53300 * .25 = 13325 13325 + 5200 = 18525 I'm an accountant …
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 12:49 PM
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A wonderful day for the special snowflake in your life... because apparently Christmas, her birthday and your anniversary just aren't enough.
/r/askTRP12/02/16 08:44 PM
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The somatotype theory of endo/meso/ectomorph is junk psychology. It has nothing to do with fitness or nutrition and is usually just used as an excuse. Try a probiotic regimen to balance out your stomach.
/r/askTRP12/02/16 06:13 PM
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In most career paths, but especially skilled trades, experience matters more than anything. You don't have it, so you need to defer to those who do. Whether you think you are smarter than them or they have "BPD", experience trumps all. Its why a guy who has read all sorts of self-help stuff, books on game, philosophy, etc. isn't worth as much as a guy who actually goes out and gets laid. There is a common theme in your story: that others are somehow wronging you. Your bosses don't respect you. Y…
/r/askTRP12/02/16 02:08 PM
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Especially for your first time, just fuck her. Get it over with. Sex is not a big deal at all, especially for a guy. There is no such thing as a "male virgin"; just a guy who hasn't had sex yet.
/r/askTRP12/02/16 01:22 PM
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Its a common theme. You probably allowed people to walk all over you for a long time. Now, you don't take shit and it feels good. A few things could be at work here: Maybe your friends are just intimidated by the "new" you, and want you to go back to being the easily controllable, non-assertive guy you used to be. Maybe they're jealous of your success with women, because their Blue Pill conditioning tells them that chicks should want the "Nice Guys" (them). Maybe you really are going overboard a…
/r/askTRP12/02/16 01:19 PM
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You are overthinking things. As long as you're not going to an expensive dinner or some shit, this could work in your favor. Valentine's Day is the Blue Pill Christmas, not having plans and not even realizing its VD means that it doesn't even enter your mind.
/r/askTRP12/02/16 01:03 PM
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7 skills of highly effective people and one of the principals was: understand to be understood. This is good advice. Try to put yourself in his shoes and determine what it is you are doing that is rubbing him the wrong way. Even if its bullshit, he has the power in this relationship, so you have to play the game. Find something that you can connect with him on, seek his advice and counsel. Older or more experienced guys can feel threatened by the young guns and try to take them down a notch. Let…
/r/askTRP12/02/16 12:51 PM
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Its a few things. Anyone dealing drugs automatically has a DGAF attitude because they can be incarcerated for their actions at pretty much any time. They also have social proof, as they regularly have people trying to be cool with them, if only to get drugs. With the ubiquity of drug use in modern culture, they are also providing "value". The potential for being robbed is also ever-present, so most drug dealers are proficient at fighting, while some carry guns.
/r/askTRP12/02/16 12:44 PM
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I give any chick I'm interested in one flake. Shit comes up in life, maybe she didn't want to get into what it was, maybe it was embarrassing, maybe she got her period but really wants to fuck you. Shit happens. Second flake is next with almost 100% certitude, unless I like the chick, she has a (seemingly) legitimate excuse, and offers to reschedule. Keep backup plans; don't define your night around her. If there is a party going on or your friends are going to be at the bar or something later, …
/r/askTRP12/02/16 02:23 AM
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Starting Strength by Mark Rippetoe. Can't go wrong. Try to get the book if you can, as it goes in depth into proper form. This Wiki has the majority of the information you will need to get started.
/r/askTRP12/02/16 02:16 AM
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Self-respect, for one. Also you're free to pursue other women, which will teach you much more than "how to make it better" with a woman who is uninterested in making it better, at least with you. Any time I thought something was up in the past, I'd find evidence that nothing was up. You didn't find any "evidence" that nothing was up. You just didn't find any evidence that something was up. Probably because she hid or destroyed the evidence.
/r/askTRP12/02/16 01:55 AM
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Cool. Seems to be working out great for you. Good luck.
/r/askTRP11/02/16 11:34 PM
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This is a really useless post and is full of Blue Pill bullshit. I would report it but I'm genuinely amused as to how guys who are so ill-informed of Red Pill concepts and have little experience with women make posts like these giving advice about game.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 11:28 PM
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I don't think you genuinely speak from your own experience either. My thoughts exactly as I was reading this post. u/BananaHammie: I think you'll find if you try chucking a "yeah i dunno just shoot me a text about x" you'd be surprised on how effective it can be. I would be very surprised; shocked even. Asking a chick for her number already puts you at a predisposition for being set up in her mind as a provider... you're already the one whose invested more by putting the power in her hands. ... …
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 11:23 PM
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What the fuck is this nonsense? No one wants to read your stupid high school drama bullshit. Reported for being useless. Scotch, Mushroom, and Coke - sound like quite the bunch of winners.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 11:10 PM
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All great leaders are alphas, but not all alphas are leaders.
/r/askTRP11/02/16 10:55 PM
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Regardless of whether she's cheating or not (spoiler alert: she is), she doesn't respect you enough to be honest with you so you should next her anyway. Want to know when is a good time to go in for the kiss? 15 minutes before you asked yourself this question. Wondering if your girl is cheating because of her shady behavior last weekend? Maybe, probably. But she has been for months, you just missed all the signs.
/r/askTRP11/02/16 10:53 PM
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Okay then , i'll get mad at you too Whoops. Never repeat something a girl says, unless its a pressure flip. Girls love them feels. She likes being mad. Not sure what she was referring to, but you could've done whatever makes her mad right then and there, say you do that all the time, mention how she's probably cute when she's mad, joke that her when mad is the least scary thing you could imagine, etc etc etc.
/r/askTRP11/02/16 10:46 PM
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I would say try and find your passion. Try lots of different stuff and see what you like and don't like. There are plenty of people who live their lives in a daily state of misery for their job, relationship, family, etc. Sure, you can do it, your life will just kind of suck. That's why hobbies are important if you're not passionate about your career (and even if you are, its always good to diversify your interests).
/r/askTRP11/02/16 10:17 PM
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Eyes Body Language Look at yourself in the mirror and try different looks. Determine what they convey to someone who would be looking at you, and proceed accordingly. Don't obsess about it; the best looking celebrities can look like shit if you take their picture from a bad angle if they're making a dumb face.
/r/askTRP11/02/16 10:14 PM
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I want to tell her that I've realized the words she said were true and it has kicked my ass. Do not do this. This is entering her frame and giving her all the power. You can say that you've been bored too, and you're glad she was the one to mention it. If you want to make it work, that's fine, but don't come out with it from the get go. Let the underlying communication be that you don't need her, and if you walk away from the relationship and never speak to her again you will be completely fine.…
/r/askTRP11/02/16 10:10 PM
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Anyone who has gone from Blue Pill to Red Pill.
/r/askTRP11/02/16 09:57 PM
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If you are not willing to take these steps, you do not want to get over her. In which case, go home and ask her to marry you. Quit trying to live with your feet in both worlds. That just gets your crotch split. This and this. OP you have a choice to make; this in-between shit won't work. If you can move your ex-LTR to plate status, you have to accept the fact that she will be fucking other guys, no questions asked. If you want to make it work, you have to be living at least somewhat near her, be…
/r/askTRP11/02/16 09:54 PM
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Conor McGregor is alpha as fuck, and I'm sure he was when he was making no money. Note that he was going to the gym everyday and fighting in a cage. This is not a unicorn; this is AWALT.
/r/askTRP11/02/16 09:49 PM
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Keep in mind the position and communication of your upper face (eyes and forehead). The same mouth position can have different non-verbal cues depending on what your eyes are doing.
/r/askTRP11/02/16 09:44 PM
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She then texts me saying that she should't be the only one having to apologize all the time Whoever is acting in the wrong is the one who should apologize. It has nothing to do with equality or balance. I should care more if I was to loose her You should not care at all if you were to lose her. She should care about losing you. the ball is in my court now and that isn't going to talk to me until I call her and tell her why I love her and that she means a lot to me Do not do this under any circum…
/r/askTRP11/02/16 09:32 PM
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In defining my experience as "rape," I'm no longer to blame. The truth always comes out. Hold out for the partners who ask if it’s OK before they touch you, who ask and mean it, who in a moment of consensual ambiguity will pause the entire act until it becomes clear. "...the partners who give you zero tingles, who make you feel as if a Sham-Wow has been inserted into and suddenly removed all moisture from your vagina" Know that these people exist. They do. They're known as "Those Who I Will Not …
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 09:05 PM
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If you're under eighteen, they can't interview you without the consent of your parents anyway. You don't really need to have a specific lawyer on call. They'll stop trying to question you if you assert attorney privilege. You literally don't have to say anything in a police interview.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 05:38 PM
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Point well taken, should have noted that to be delivered with respect and in a non-confrontational manner. Also, cops are very good at wording their statements to insinuate things without directly stating them. Sometimes when cops pull the, "lets go have a talk," etc. lines, they are trying to get you to think you are required to go with them, as in the case of an arrest (you are not permitted to resist even unlawful arrests. If a cop is arresting you, even on complete bullshit, put your hands b…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 05:33 PM
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You need to get out of your own head. Think less. It sounds counter intuitive, but thinking to yourself "What is the 'right'/Red Pill thing to do in this situation?" is a Blue Pill mindset. The problem with running away? People and places change, but you always bring yourself with you. If you are the problem (and you are), you can go to the ends of the Earth and you will still have these problems in your life. the root of everything is my social anxiety and my low self-esteem. The simple solutio…
/r/askTRP11/02/16 05:23 PM
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Excellent advice. Would also add a line to use when police want to "get your side of the story" or "have a chat down at the station": Am I under arrest/being detained? If you are not under arrest, you are under no obligation to speak with police or go anywhere with them. Cops use this as a way of gathering information by trying to seem like they're on your side, that they're reasonable actors and want to help clear you. Most people assume that if they haven't done anything wrong, they have nothi…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 04:58 PM
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The most severe and debilitating form of oneitis: a girl you haven't fucked and who has directly told you she is not interested. This dude will see her go wild for Mason, who gives zero fucks about her and won't do any of the beta bullshit that he does (flowers, favors, etc.). He will get bitter over her "choosing the 'wrong' guy," as if its actually a choice, or he is the 'right' guy. Then, NAWALT, and he will find a new special snowflake. And the cycle repeats until it (he) is broken. Do not g…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 04:45 PM
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I feel like im just being so mean to him! I want it to stop, but its been constant. I always shake my head when I see guys in relationships where they are complete supplicating betas. They are, on paper, the "perfect" guys; they cook, clean, buy their SO gifts and generally do whatever she wants/tells them. Yet pretty much universally, the women are constantly miserable. Neither understands inter gender dynamics, and the necessity of women being feminine and men being masculine. Its a train wrec…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 02:55 PM
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It would be interesting to see the attractiveness breakdown of the women surveyed. A chick who is a 5/10 knows she isn't worthy of the 9/10 guy, so she'll have to settle for a 1/10 with money. A 9/10 chick? She'll take the hot guy tonight and have the rich guy take her shopping tomorrow.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 03:35 AM
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This belongs in askTRP. Save a record of all of your texts and interactions with her. Then tell her in no uncertain terms that you are completely uninterested in being a father to her child, and will fight paternity and child support tooth and nail. The best thing for the both of you is for her to get an abortion. I find out that she didn't go through with it for emotional reasons. Which I understand, that's her decision. Legally, yes, but if true it is just as much your child as hers, and your …
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 03:25 AM
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The way I look at it, when I'm not posting or reading something on my dark little corner of the internet, there is no such thing as the Red Pill. It does not exist. I have never heard of it. I don't use reddit or message boards. I just live an awesome life, train regularly, and am well respected by my friends and colleagues. If I ever get questions regarding game or women from the Blue Pill world, I give them my best RP advice on their current situation, with none of the bitterness that sometime…
/r/askTRP11/02/16 03:16 AM
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Had a similar situation with my younger brother and older cousin. Three of the best years of my life. Living with family can occasionally be tough when you're not kids anymore, and I admit I could be a bit of a dick to my younger brother sometimes. But when it is good (which is the vast majority of the time), its really great. And it beats living with some random stranger who may be awesome but you will most likely clash with in some way and have no history with to bond over.
/r/askTRP11/02/16 02:42 AM
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Maybe she likes to wear tank tops. Its hard to hide big tits in tank tops. Yoga pants are well-suited for, you know, doing stretches and yoga stuff. Maybe it seemed she was "showing off" because you wouldn't stop staring at her? While AWALT, and AF/BB, not every second of every day and every inter gender interaction is a shit test or hypergamy in action. Chill the fuck out every now and then.
/r/askTRP10/02/16 09:54 PM
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What are you afraid of? I don't mean this hypothetically. Ask yourself honestly what is the fear you have that is causing you not to act.
/r/askTRP10/02/16 09:48 PM
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"Hey, can I kiss you?" NEVER do this. Pussy Repellent in verbal form.
/r/askTRP10/02/16 09:47 PM
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I don't disagree with the basic premise of this post, but rather than lack of deeper understanding of Red Pill concepts, I think your final sentence is a much larger problem towards progress: In order to learn, you have to read deeper and think deeper. You're still missing the point of the example you referenced. To fail, you have to actually do things, not just read about them. That is why a lot of times advice that is given is succinct and without a detailed "how-to" plan (i.e. "lift," "develo…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 09:42 PM
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All I know is there has been an uptick in what I presume to be ADHD millennials I think you hit the nail on the head right there. "ADHD" is used by millennials as an excuse for not having the discipline to study/focus/work for extended periods of time. They take a pill and magically, they are more productive. They hear about The Red Pill and think its everything they ever wanted: fuck around on the internet for a few hours, and their never-used dick will magically be awash in high quality pussy.…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 02:26 PM
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Pick-up is the how; Red Pill is the why.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 02:13 PM
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You need to take more ownership of your life and your situation. You are where you are because of your actions or lack thereof. Obviously, there are always things in life that are outside of your direct control, but you always can control how you respond to them. I hang out with fucking losers for the same reason. This could be a big part of your problem. The people you surround yourself with influence you and are a reflection of you. ...it makes me feel like someone Im not. This is flawed think…
/r/askTRP09/02/16 03:24 PM
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Grip strengtheners and tape your wrists.
/r/askTRP08/02/16 04:54 PM
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Think about hot, real girls that you want to have sex with.
/r/askTRP08/02/16 04:53 PM
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Keep TRP to yourself bud. We're Skull and Bones; outsiders are not welcome. The Matrix is a system. That system is our enemy. But when you're inside, you look around, what do you see? Businessmen, teachers, lawyers, carpenters. The very minds of the people we are trying to save. But until we do, these people are still a part of that system and that makes them our enemy. You have to understand, most of these people are not ready to be unplugged. And many of them are so inured, so hopelessly depen…
/r/askTRP08/02/16 02:52 PM
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Why would you want to start an LTR with a whore? Why is your ex living with you? My thoughts are that barring something you're not sharing these are both terrible ideas.
/r/askTRP08/02/16 02:46 PM
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Quit beating around the bush and be specific. There are no unicorns.
/r/askTRP08/02/16 02:44 PM
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The VICE Guide to Eating Pussy You're welcome
/r/askTRP08/02/16 08:13 AM
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Today, she nuclear shit tested me and I fucking failed. She came to me and said Hey. Are you fucking mentally retarded? This belongs on askTRP and everything said in this post is complete horseshit. Reported. Read and learn you fucking dweeb.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 08:08 AM
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Useless bullshit. Reported.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 08:02 AM
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First off, this should be posted in askTRP. Secondly, this: Meanwhile I'm dating four or five HB7-HB9s. What a complete lie. Reported for Blue Pill faggot bullshit. Don't post on TRP.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 07:59 AM
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i shouldn't feel bad for going for what i want right? No, you should not. You should, however, read the sidebar and post questions in askTRP.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 07:54 AM
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I mean what were these hopes that you had for her? If it were to make her your girlfriend, you should have your answer. She dropped you to go fuck a guy that treated her poorly. After he was done fucking her, he dropped her low-quality ass. Now she's coming running back to you, something she wouldn't have considered doing had her ex been down to keep her around. Have some self-respect and drop her. She has zero respect for you to pull something like this.
/r/askTRP08/02/16 07:51 AM
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Its not that bad. Its better to be overweight than skinny anyway. Approach women starting now, but be completely outcome independent. And don't approach the hottest girls just yet; work your way up. If you stayed at the end of the bar and never approached, you wouldn't be fucking them anyway, so why not just take the shot? You will make an impression just by taking the chance. Most guys are pussies and don't do even that. Here is your mindset: "There is a pretty girl. Maybe she is cool and inter…
/r/askTRP08/02/16 07:43 AM
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I had hopes for her Elaborate.
/r/askTRP08/02/16 07:32 AM
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"If only women had a 'silent mode' as well..."
/r/askTRP08/02/16 07:29 AM
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You are Blue Pill at your core, my friend. Before I asked you how you knew that you loved her, I asked if you fucked her. You conveniently skirted answering that, so i know that the answer is no. I doubt she is a virgin, so this "love" you speak of apparently doesn't entail the physical realm. At least with you. The people that were supposed to raise her fucked up. It is not your job to fix her. But for some reason I see way past that. You want to see past that. You desperately want her to be so…
/r/askTRP08/02/16 07:24 AM
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She sounds like a low quality slut and you are her beta orbiter. Have you fucked her? What causes you allegedly "love" her? It's like she always gives me just enough to hold on. Its called "stringing you along" and she does it because she knows that you're weak and have no other options. I just feel like you can't help who you love. Yes, you can. "Love" is an invented thing. It means attached to or invested in. Don't be overly invested in shit; have abundance. Meet other, better women and you wi…
/r/askTRP08/02/16 05:25 AM
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Haha on a side note, the kid had a 13 pound burrito for a cock... it was almost hilarious (ill touch on how i know that in a min) I'm assuming you blew him. Not reading the rest of this wall of shit. I'm also assuming that you gave him advice because he was slightly more beta than you. Reported for unearned self-congratulatory bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 05:17 AM
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Where have you seen this? Women do not look for men with resources to mate with. Women look for men with good genetics to mate with. Women look for men with resources to care for them and their offspring.
/r/askTRP08/02/16 05:08 AM
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Money is one question out of 27. It matters, just not that much. Women will marry dorky investment bankers because they will take care of them. This doesn't mean that they have high "Sexual Market Value". They are valuable as easily manipulated beta providers.
/r/askTRP08/02/16 05:07 AM
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Few in TRP "encourage" this behavior; in fact, most are depressed by it. However, you must live life on life's terms. We didn't make things the way they are today, but wish to find the best way to live within the constraints and rules of society as presently constructed. Personally, I'm cool with it because I don't think anyone (male or female) truly likes the way things currently are. People are waking up. It may be ugly at first, but the old ways are coming back, sooner than we think.
/r/askTRP08/02/16 05:03 AM
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Money has almost nothing to do with SMV. Yes, you need to be financially self-sufficient enough to pay your bills and afford decent gear. But no woman flicks her bean thinking about a man's bank account. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks, remember? As Rollo says: Game, Looks, Status. Have two. If you can only have one, choose game. Game is your behavior. Looks are facial features, body, style, etc. (anything physical). Status is not just your friends and the number of friends you have. Its whether people …
/r/askTRP08/02/16 04:49 AM
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Women and children have feelings. Men have emotions. Understand and appreciate your emotions, but keep them in check. You control your emotions, not the other way around. If you're craving "feels", you want a Mommy. Not a woman.
/r/askTRP08/02/16 04:39 AM
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You reserve your niceness, love, and honesty to people who earn it and deserve it. There is a wide gulf between being a Nice GuyTM and being a nice guy. Blue Pill friends and family members that I try to show the truth to in a subtle way generally respond with the following: What, so I should just become some big jerk and treat people like shit?! No. That's what we call a false dichotomy. There is a lot in between being a supplicating pussy and an overbearing asshole. Find your own truth somewhe…
/r/askTRP08/02/16 04:31 AM
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No one said all women are the same. The acronym is AWALT; All Women Are Like That. It means all women follow the same basic script and have the same basic motivations. Some express this to an extreme, while others express it in a very minimal way. It's a spectrum. Guys who are "single and bitter" have few options and have to put up with unattractive women who act entitled and disrespectful. Guys who have abundance attract good looking women who are mostly well behaved.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/16 08:08 PM
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Matty, it's real. It's all real. I couldn't believe it either. The dude has a post history going back a year talking about the breakup. I feel like Cartman in the South Park episode with the people who have asses for faces. This has blown my Blue Pill incredulity fuse. I can't even shake my head and chuckle at this. This is someone's real.fucking.life.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/16 11:00 PM
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Actually good advice here. First two points on getting better being sociable with dudes, and then average/not hot chicks is good advice for someone just starting out. Some newbies think they read the sidebar and "No More Mr. Nice Guy", go to the gym a few times and they're all set to make hot chicks fall all over them because they read about "how to deal with shit tests and not lose frame." Any dude doing shit > Any dude reading shit
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 11:14 PM
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...don't court attention in the way that harms your reputation?
/r/askTRP04/02/16 06:30 PM
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The problem is that she's not quite attractive to me and the rest of the school Terrible mindset. She's not attractive or not "quite" attractive? Would you fuck her, but you're worried abut what everyone else would say? Fuck that noise. Also, yeah, its acting. So sack up and act, or give up the part. Simple as it gets.
/r/askTRP04/02/16 06:29 PM
1

How much of a handicap do 6'0 guys have compared to 6'2+ guys? And how would we compensate for this handicap. Maybe a lot, maybe a little. Depends on the girl. Why do you care if you can't change it? Height is one of the most important things to women and yet out of our control. We'd be foolish not to discuss this Disagree. Its out of your control, so fuck it. You may not be "tall" but you're definitely not "short". Fuck it dude, you're good.
/r/askTRP04/02/16 06:14 PM
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They are useful generalities, but no one is 100% alpha (or probably 100% beta, for that matter). We all do alpha things and beta things. Alpha is generally defined as doing what you want and not giving a fuck, and beta is defined as doing things others want you to do and hoping that they like you. Alpha is a mindset, not a set of behaviors. Do you put yourself first, know what your values are, and pursue your interests and goals in spite of what others think? Alpha as fuck.
/r/askTRP04/02/16 06:10 PM
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Chateau's dating market value test for men has always been a favorite of mine for guys to assess their SMV. There are ten tiers so you can use that to see where you are 1-10-wise. As another commented mentioned, if you've never had sex and have zero game, despite how classically good looking you may be, you're fairly low on the scale yourself. Also as another commented mentioned, if the answer to "would I fuck her?" is yes, just do it. She'll shit test less, be more willing to do what you want, …
/r/askTRP04/02/16 05:32 PM
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This. Don't obsess over whether every move you make is alpha or beta, or every little comment from her is a shit test.
/r/askTRP04/02/16 05:14 PM
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You're coming to the realization we all have, at different points: there is a difference between knowing the path and walking the path. Once you swallow the Red Pill and understand the concepts, there is no going back. Your mindset will be forever changed. There is no "plugging back in"; just willful ignorance of truth. Behaviors, however, are deeply ingrained in our psychological programming. Think of a football player who has a certain throwing motion that is flawed, but with which he has had …
/r/askTRP04/02/16 05:09 PM
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Even the fact that I indeed have a crush on someone makes me more motivated to do everything because I have something to work towards. This isn't a poor mindset for a newbie. I first found TRP when I was doing other self improvement stuff. I didn't have oneitis for a girl, but I always had a thing for this girl who over the years was dating someone when I was single, I was dating someone when she was single, etc. Always just wondered what could have been and was definitely too hung up on her. Af…
/r/askTRP02/02/16 10:24 PM
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Slow down your speech. Speak clearly and concisely. Don't explain yourself or describe every bit of your thought process.
/r/askTRP02/02/16 10:07 PM
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The relationship one has with their opposite sex parent colors their interactions with the opposite sex for the rest of their lives. Its one of the Red Pill tenets when screening a girl for a potential LTR: "Was her Father a positive figure in her life, and what was/is their relationship like?" Reading into Attachment Theory might provide you with some insight into this. It sounds to me like you are looking to women, girlfriends, hookers, etc. as a replacement for Motherly love and care you neve…
/r/askTRP02/02/16 07:52 PM
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Its good to push yourself and aim to be the best, while understanding and accepting that you won't always be the best and sometimes may flat-out fail. Depending on your mindset, you can actually take this as a "win". You don't feel the need to chat up a hot chick because you possess abundance mentality. You talk to hot chicks all the time so you don't need to jump on every one who shows some interest.
/r/askTRP02/02/16 04:24 AM
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The one thing I've learned so much from this is that females will NEVER lend you a hand or help someone in need. They could so easily stop my suffering and turn me into a normal functioning healthy minded guy in like a matter of days. Its not their job to fix you; its your job to fix you. You seem to be a really angry and selfish person. I doubt you're someone most people would want to be friends with or date. You're a big strong guy with anger issues who is taking steroids. You are literally a …
/r/askTRP02/02/16 01:41 AM
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Keep it to yourself man. Its not something they can help you with, and people will assume you're broken or will turn into an abuser yourself. Most people have no idea what they're talking about and will avoid you. There are certain behaviors and mindsets that are associated with what you went through, but it is possible to work through a lot of it in therapy. The website 1in6.org is a really good resource, check it out. I know what you mean in terms of sexual tastes being influenced. You should …
/r/askTRP02/02/16 12:26 AM
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I applaud your progress; your outlook is spot on. Ignoring her gives too much power. Just a smile and a simple greeting is fine. Your goal is to be completely unfazed by anything she says or does.
/r/askTRP01/02/16 08:00 PM
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Gratitude and humility. I was grateful for my shitty job and my shitty car. I realized that I am lucky to have them, and that things could be a lot worse. I humbled myself by realizing I don't really "deserve" anything - you get what you give in this life. The way you determine what your values and goals are is by trying and failing. Lots of things. You will find stuff you like, and stuff you don't like. Do more of the former and less of the latter.
/r/askTRP01/02/16 07:56 PM
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What worries me the most is being independent. No one there to make my food, wash my clothes and provide overall comfort. Awww little boy needs his Mommy! How cute. You're in your twenties and you need someone to cook for you, do laundry, and provide "comfort"? Do you even wipe your own ass? Grow the fuck up and stop being such a fucking pussy. That's my advice.
/r/askTRP30/01/16 04:10 PM
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Step 1: Succeed by maintaining outcome independence and abundance mentality. This is totally incorrect. Outcome independence means you do what you do regardless of if you succeed or fail. Game will increase your prospects of success in the sexual marketplace. It guarantees nothing. The most alpha pimp that has ever lived can claim nothing close to a 100% success rate. The reason that you don't possess outcome independence is that you have low self-esteem and are looking for validation from other…
/r/askTRP30/01/16 04:06 PM
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I'm more attractive than everyone else in my grade, or at least I think so You're skinny and you play videogames, so this is probably incorrect. My advice would be to continue to lift and make lots of friends in your school. I went to an all boys private school myself, and the vast majority of my fellow alumni are absolutely killing it in the game of life. You are in the best place you could possibly be right now, be grateful and make the most of this gift.
/r/askTRP30/01/16 03:57 PM
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Never ask a woman about her sexual history. Ever.
/r/askTRP30/01/16 03:48 PM
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but found large sections of conversations with guys that were deleted it was her complaining about how much I work and them telling her to break up with me She is texting with dudes complaining about you. They are telling her to break up with you. Then she deletes the part of the conversation where she says no and that she loves you...? Don't be a fool. Immediate next.
/r/askTRP30/01/16 03:42 PM
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I hope you realize that you have zero understanding of social dynamics and should not be making a post on TRP about such things.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 03:37 PM
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Please stop posting on TRP. This made my head hurt and is complete garbage.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 03:25 PM
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This is just obvious information and Blue Pill whining. I have no idea what you are trying to say with this post. This belongs on askTRP or PurplePillDebate.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 03:17 PM
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Former LTR, few weeks after we met. We were fucking and she tried to keep up with dirty talk: Her: "I want you to.... fucking... just... don't stop... askjfnskjfnkjnasd [just straight gibberish]" Me: "...what?" Her: "I... I don't know." Me: Grab her face and look in her eyes "Shut up." Her: giggles "OK!"
/r/askTRP29/01/16 09:44 PM
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How can I dilute these girls egos and make my brand the prize to them? Not sure what you mean here; could you be more specific? Super hot women respond to the same things all women respond to: looks, game, status. Gotta have your shit tight with all three because they're the top of the female pecking order.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 09:29 PM
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Don't message her until the next time you want to see her and don't bring it up. If she brings it up, make a joke. If she presses you, just say that you're not exclusive and you're not looking for anything exclusive. Then, next move is hers. Maintain frame.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 09:22 PM
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My time is valuable, so I'm not going to waste it reading the entirety of a rambling, useless post of obvious information that can be stated in a simple sentence: You are valuable and your time is limited, therefore your time is valuable and not to be wasted. Way too much noise-to-signal here.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 05:47 PM
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I believe he means that "winning people over" is being outcome dependent on whether they like you or not. You are going to do/say things with the sole purpose of having someone "like" you. There is nothing wrong with making friends out of enemies, if done from a position of detachment. I don't believe he was advocating a "fuck everyone" attitude; just not to possess a weak, supplicating attitude in social interactions with other men. I get really confused by posts such as these. Are you consiste…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 04:41 PM
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When a guy rips on you in good nature, he's testing whether or not you take yourself too seriously to take a joke. When you can roll with the banter, you're just proving that you're strong enough and secure enough in yourself that you're going to be cool to hang out with. Fully agree with this. "AMOGing tactics" are for beta faggots. Children get "bullied"; men bust balls.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 04:19 PM
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Let me make this clear- this is NOT sexual jealousy. I do not care whatsoever if they were to enter a new relationship similar to mine. You don't care if they were in a nice LTR where the guy fawned over her "innocence" and goodness? I see. I wouldn't care if some chick I was banging had a beta "boyfriend" either. I would care if an alpha dude was railing the shit out of her on the regular. That is sexual jealousy, and its what you have. What makes me feel repulsed and disgusted is imagining the…
/r/askTRP28/01/16 10:28 PM
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People are only as good as the world allows them to be.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 01:47 AM
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I think it’s about the way I think and reason, my view of the world, my beliefs….I think it’s in part mental. You think people are shitty to you, because they've always treated you like shit. You think women will never show sexual interest in you, because they never have. You think better looking people get treated better, because they always have and always will be. People do not respect you because you don't respect yourself. I used to be like you; searching for "the answer". That there was so…
/r/askTRP27/01/16 02:27 AM
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Wake up at the SAME EXACT TIME every single day (weekends too) Does this really work? I have sleep issues myself but I usually just power through. Some nights I get 3 hours of sleep and can work out and have energy all day. Then get what I think is solid 8 hours and I'm fatigued. But I've never followed this type of a schedule. I oversleep on weekends because I'm usually out late at least one night.
/r/askTRP27/01/16 02:12 AM
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We all have strange and contradictory social programming (men and women). The reason alcohol is so prevalent in western culture is it brings down walls and inhibitions. Its like liquid IDGAF. Having a few drinks when you're older (and more experienced) is all you'll need to "get loose", but if you're young and/or socially awkward and drinking helps, go for it. Its a fine line between awesome fun dude who likes to party and sloppy mess who can't handle his booze. Always err on the side of less dr…
/r/askTRP27/01/16 02:01 AM
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Dude, this isn't a big deal. Most people are exposed to some type of HPV over the course of their lives. Most never even get symptoms. If she had been treated for it, you only had sex once, and she didn't have any visible warts, its very unlikely you contracted it. And don't think you're some kind of leper or something. As stated, many people have been exposed to HPV. If you don't have visible warts, you can't pass it on, so don't worry about it. If you go to your urologist and you don't have an…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/16 03:19 PM
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"Alpha" = Red Pill Extrovert "Sigma" = Red Pill Introvert
/r/TheRedPill25/01/16 02:55 PM
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Roids can fuck with your natural testosterone production, be careful. Can you get erect when jerking off? Than its not a physical problem so chill out. Quit watching porn for awhile. Used to have a similar problem and after like 2 months of no porn it never happened again. Keep cool man.
/r/askTRP25/01/16 08:40 AM
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Quite the bit of male hamstering here. You didn't "over dread game" her, you were jealous and thirsty. Just because she wasn't immediately out blowing random dudes the day you broke up (....that you know of....) doesn't mean she's a unicorn. She was hanging out with and texting her ex and other dudes. AWALT, 100%. LDRs should be outlawed. You're basically just an orbiter.
/r/askTRP25/01/16 08:32 AM
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Let her find a reason to reject you, don't do it for her. It's not big, but it's not that small. If you're at the point where she's looking at your erect dick then she must like something about you. If she laughs or makes a comment she's a cunt so fuck her.
/r/askTRP25/01/16 08:14 AM
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Your life is what you make of it. People tell you life sucks after college because THEIR life has sucked after college. They fail to objectively analyze choices they've made and who they are. They have accepted that life just kinda sucks and oh well that's just how it is. Blue Pill thinking.
/r/askTRP25/01/16 08:09 AM
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Your two examples for dealing with a guy openly mocking you around women are joking about blowing him and making a kiss face? Poor form. A better tactic would be to change your mindset. As it's beneficial to assume attraction with women, assume it's just some good natured ribbing. Laugh it off and throw some shade back at him. Little kids get "made fun of". Guys bust each other's balls. Don't be so sensitive.
/r/askTRP25/01/16 07:49 AM
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The Game is a classic but there is not a ton of practical advice and it's outdated anyway. Models by Mark Manson is a personal favorite. It's mostly inner game stuff from what I remember. The guides and sidebar stuff on seddit are mostly good stuff. Don't read new comments though, that sub has turned to shit overall.
/r/askTRP25/01/16 07:36 AM
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Monk Mode is useful for people who have very specific goals in mind, and for whom socializing can be a hindrance to those goals. You will get burned out after more than a couple months; a year is madness. You will get lonely and depressed after that much time isolating yourself. The things you posted are all just positive habits to include in your life; they don't require being in "monk mode" to do. Any change takes time, regardless of the amount of effort expended. Lifting is a good example. Yo…
/r/askTRP25/01/16 07:28 AM
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I'd go with Manson.
/r/askTRP25/01/16 07:04 AM
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Sure its achievable. But the things you listed don't just happen. You have to work very hard to achieve a life like that. There are also trade-offs to all of the things you listed that you have to accept: Partying and heavy drinking eventually take a toll on your mind and body. People who are drunk or high sometimes make some really dumb mistakes and it can fuck them over pretty badly. Not to mention consent can get hazy with booze involved and we all know what that can lead to. Hot girls have t…
/r/askTRP25/01/16 03:35 AM
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Jesus, dude. I think you still have a long way to go. You mentioned a couple of times how she is hot. It doesn't matter if she is hot or a mess; this is unacceptable behavior. How you put up with this for any amount of time is beyond me. You have a lot of work to do. If you go to the party and this girl dominates your thinking, you have failed. If you don't go to the party because this girl dominates your thinking, you have failed.
/r/askTRP22/01/16 09:00 PM
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Ex contacted me asking how my major's going 5 months after we broke up after growing appart/I let attraction die. Been no contact ever since. Should I reply at all? Quite a bit of male hamstering going on here. She didn't ask how your major is going, it was a throwaway comment. You didn't "break up", you got dumped. You didn't grow apart or let attraction die, you didn't give her tingles anymore, she was already fucking someone else, or had someone else lined up. No contact? You texted her "a da…
/r/askTRP22/01/16 08:43 PM
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Dominance and variety are active, while emotion are immersion are more passive. The circumstances for these two are established outside of the bedroom, prior to sex. Emotion is a by-product of having her invested in you (tingles). Just game her, use dread, and amused mastery. Never say "I love you." Say, "you love me, don't you?" This varies a lot from woman to woman. the ones in the book seem more like dominant dirty talk than emotional talk. ... that is the point. It isn't called "loving emoti…
/r/askTRP22/01/16 06:05 PM
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I'm trying to make new friends, getting closer to some of my coworkers but I still don't have someone close enough to talk about the struggles and difficulties of my day-to-day life. That's not what friends are for; that is what mommies are for. I have no problem talking with my friends about struggles and helping them with road bumps in their life because it is .001% of my total interactions with them. If I had someone in my life (even a close friend) who my entire relationship with them was he…
/r/askTRP22/01/16 05:53 PM
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What should I do? I have no idea, you are using generalities so it is really hard to diagnose exactly what is wrong and how to fix it. I'll give my opinions based on the info I know: All my friends have basically abandoned me. People gravitate towards others who provide some value to them. Whether its a fun time, good conversation/advice, loyalty/honesty, a good fuck etc, people don't keep others around who don't give value. My thoughts are that you were/are probably a "taker" or "emotional vamp…
/r/askTRP22/01/16 05:41 PM
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Her boss is a beta. Writing a handwritten note to a girl who is your subordinate opens you up to all kinds of liabilities. Thirsty and weak. If she mentions (especially after sex) that a guy is "super attractive", you should be worried. He makes sexual jokes with her AND he's a dick (aka alpha)? RED ALERT. However, fret not my friend. If the guy is truly an alpha he is not dumb enough to shit where he eats because he has an abundance mentality and your chick is just another woman. If the guy sho…
/r/askTRP22/01/16 05:11 PM
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Your anger can be a gift, but rage is a liability. I've struggled with this myself recently. These are only feelings, and your actions should not be guided by your feelings. Assault your feelings with logic: Why am I angry? Can I change whatever it is that makes me angry? Is there a more constructive way to think about that which is making me angry? "Letting out" your anger is an action, and actions become habits. I need to let it out to stay sane or I'm going to explode. Really? You will litera…
/r/askTRP22/01/16 04:47 PM
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I want to talk to people, but when it comes down to actually doing, I never actually want to do it. Yet I still don't desire to meet new people (but I want too) Once I realized my lack of social ability it took me 6 months to get completely over it or so I thought. It's not my social abilities, thats not the issue I can talk to people just fine. I just don't want to talk to people. But at the same time I want to go out & meet new people. You sound very confused about who you are and want you act…
/r/askTRP22/01/16 04:30 PM
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Sounds like someone is short and has a small dick. Also is beta and lacks in fundamental understanding of Red Pill principles. Quit posting here until you learn your shit; this is just noise.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 04:04 PM
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What a dumb fucking post. Read and learn, kid. Nobody here needs your lessons or advice.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 03:59 PM
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Nonsense. Bullshit. Worthless.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 03:52 PM
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Excellent RP advice from a reality show about two professional wrestlers.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 03:48 PM
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What the fuck is this? I have definitely met more beta faggot loser pothead "bros" in frats than true alphas. Many guys join frats because they lack social skills and have no issue getting humiliated by other dudes for the chance of getting a fat drunken slob of a sorority girl and having some "friends". Get a clue.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 03:39 PM
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First time posting so please forgive me. I will not forgive you. This post is completely worthless.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 03:26 PM
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My thought is that your analysis is poorly worded and complete nonsense. Everything in this post is incorrect.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 03:06 PM
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What the fuck is this shit? Nobody gives a fuck your bitch tits are smaller than they used to be. Complete shit post.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 02:50 PM
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All of this. OP, how do you have money for video games if you haven't seen a job in years? Your post is a list of reasons why your life sucks and it will never be better, coupled with blaming things outside of your control for your current situation. A better, more productive way to look at life is to take total responsibility for yourself and everything that happens to you. We all get dealt bad hands in some way, we all have bad things happen, things which aren't "fair", etc. All you can do is …
/r/askTRP20/01/16 02:39 PM
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Nah. Most people in the west (male and female) are overweight or obese. Being thin already sets you apart.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 02:28 PM
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BTW, Bar and alcohol is not an option due to body building. You don't have to drink at a bar. Sets a good frame as well that you're not judgmental about her having drinks but you have higher priorities at the moment.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 02:22 PM
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Its normal and natural to be angry to some extent, but its not helpful to you. Women are going to do women stuff, and you're not going to change that. Its much more productive to accept things for what they are, and focus your finite mental resources on living the best life you can within the environment as it exists. Free your mind from the rules that you used to think applied, or you believe "should" apply. Live in the real and accept life on life's terms. I'd like to get to a place where I ca…
/r/askTRP20/01/16 02:18 PM
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If by "getting big" you mean becoming a juiced up gym rat, don't worry yourself. That takes a lot of time and effort, and usually some type of steroids. Being "big" as in having muscle and strength on your frame is a great goal. I don't believe one ever "stops"; you want to always be improving, always shooting higher. You will see some significant gains in the first few months of lifting, but the rate of return tapers off as you train more. This kind of stuff is about changing your habit and min…
/r/askTRP20/01/16 01:58 PM
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Been a solid year since I swallowed the pill. A lot of these traits come out more with Blue Pill guys, to be honest. Mostly my Brother and Father. My brother is beta to the core, actually said that I "triggered" him last time we got in an argument. I'm bigger and tougher than him, even though I've never laid a finger on him in my adult life, I guess he gets intimidated when a man raises his voice. My Father is also kind of a bitch. It's a damn shame. He was a Division I college football running …
/r/askTRP20/01/16 02:40 AM
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The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi is probably the best overall "guide" to Red Pill ideology. Swallowing the Pill isn't really a process, its just about adopting a mindset and outlook. Anything that helps you improve yourself, even if the mindset of the book is technically Blue Pill, is a net positive. Kick ass in your studies, that is the most important thing right now. Begin a weight lifting routine; I recommend Starting Strength, but Stronglifts 5x5 is also good for novice lifters. Clean up y…
/r/askTRP19/01/16 10:18 PM
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Shoot for a girl a little lower on the SMV scale than you usually go for. She'll be more willing to put up with stuff than a girl who has more options. Gotta crawl before you can walk. Go to a urologist to rule out anything physical. It will put your mind at ease. Get full lab panel with TSH, Testoterone, etc. Your urologist will probably give you a viagra sample or something; keep it in your pocket and use it if you need it. That alone will probably help out. Yeah and don't jerk off. Like, once…
/r/askTRP14/01/16 08:30 PM
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A lot of us came here, or eventually ended up finding TRP, because of a similar situation to yours. I had a five year LTR cheat on me. Girl who was objectively not up to my SMV, even back then, and I treated her like a queen. Dinners, presents, vacations, going out with her friends, the works. Yuck. The thing is, if I didn't go through that, I would still be that same guy. And if you didn't go through this, you would still be the same guy, ten years from now. It would have all fallen apart event…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/16 10:01 PM
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They are also volunteering their time and potentially their lives to a sham system that will gladly send them off to lose a limb or to die in some godforsaken part of the world so others can make a buck off of human suffering.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/16 06:19 PM
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First flake gets a pass; shit happens. Second flake is possible next. If I like the girl I'll give another chance but I'll mention this is her last chance. Third flake is a hard next. She obviously has no concern for your time.
/r/askTRP10/01/16 10:28 PM
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Sex is supposed to be fun, not a performance. Just try to relax as much as possible and have fun. Don't go too fast and breathe deep. Change positions and/or go down on her/finger her for a bit if you feel you're getting too close to soon. tl;dr give less fucks and have fun
/r/askTRP10/01/16 10:22 PM
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Joe Rogan Experience.
/r/askTRP10/01/16 10:20 PM
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This was the first person she was ever in love with and now she hates him. Sounds like some serious emotional tension there. She said that she thinks that he still likes her...!? Dude.... I don't want to tell her to stop talking to him. I want her to realise that it's a shitty thing to do Good luck with that. Who ended the relationship between her and her ex? How long have you and her been together?
/r/askTRP07/01/16 08:45 PM
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Also, I told her that if I ever found out that she initiated a conversation with him I'd be pissed off She's told me and even showed me their conversation with each other between them. Sweet frame, where have you gone?
/r/askTRP07/01/16 08:42 PM
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Be careful on the back and forth. If she ribs you and you do the same back at her it will seem like she hit your feels. When she does it to you agree and amplify. Throw some shade at her (in a playful way) if she is giving IOIs.
/r/askTRP07/01/16 07:53 PM
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As mentioned in the Mystery thread, there was a point in The Game where Mystery got severe oneitis for some Russian stripper chick, who at the time was banging some other dude in the house they all shared. I have to profess ignorance as to the actual history of the movement, but I believe TRP came from dudes who were formerly on seddit/PUA forums (could be totally off on this). Personally, it always seemed to me that the mindset of the PUA stuff was coming from what we now call Blue Pill: "you'r…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 07:20 PM
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I read an interview with him in the Guardian that I think summed up his thinking fairly well. He struggled with monogamy, constantly cheating on his then-girlfriend, before and after sex rehab. He came to realize that he wanted children, and that raising children in a two-parent household is whats best. He didn't apologize for anything he had ever done, in fact, he stated that he thinks the "PUA Style" part of his life was important for becoming who he is now. He didn't drop any special snowflak…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 05:34 PM
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Anytime you shout, you are breaking frame. 100%. Getting mad and losing your cool means things are out of your control, and you can't deal with it. If a chick is flipping out and yelling, acting up, etc., use a low voice with a calm tone and see how quickly she follows suit. Specific to the question of, "how do you stop being scared?": You have to accept that anything can happen, at any time. If you say, "excuse me" to someone as you walk past them, they might be a deranged psychopath and stab y…
/r/askTRP07/01/16 04:40 PM
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Do whatever. If you want to quit women forever because you have a statistically average (not really small) dick size, go for it. Personally, I think that is a pussy way out. How many chicks have you been with? Its way more annoying to have to constantly stop/change positions because you're bottoming her out. Way more opportunity for anal as well. I'm not going to bullshit you and say its better to have a small dick than a big dick. I wouldn't bullshit another person who was short and wishes he w…
/r/askTRP07/01/16 04:31 PM
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I've had issues with both over the course of my life, to an embarrassing degree. I am now at the point where I can do either once in a blue moon, don't think about it, never let it even come close to a habit. My advice: stay away from both, 100%, for at least 90 days. I'd go for 6 months without the weed. Both of these things have powerful effects on your brain, and you need significant time off to rewire those pathways via neuroplasticity. You also need to effectively change your mindset to bot…
/r/askTRP07/01/16 04:20 PM
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Enjoy this time, for it will not last. The amount of power you hold in the relationship when she has said "I love you" and you have not reciprocated is unparalleled. If she pushes you on why you haven't said it, "I'm not one of those guys who just goes around saying it to get what he wants. When I'm there, I'll tell you, but I'm not there yet."
/r/askTRP07/01/16 04:10 PM
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Basics are everything. Agreed, I view them as the fundamentals. Such a shame to see asktrp posts like: should I text back or play dread game?... did I pass this shit test or should I soft next her?... how do I respond to this flake?... Amused Mastery or Agree and Amplify?... And on and on. Even though they won't admit it, and therefore won't improve and will continue to fail regardless of what actions they take, the next part of the equation usually comes down to: ...because this girl REALLY IS …
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 04:03 PM
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Right on the money, on all accounts. I recognized this guy's writing style and sob story. He's been posting about this cunt for months on here and asktrp. He never changes and he refuses to reconsider the marriage. He's a fucking lost cause. He'll be back in a year or so after she's fucking another dude and he gets divorce raped.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 03:49 PM
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Good on you, dude, onward and upward. I really enjoy your posts.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 03:45 PM
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I have seen this same fucking post from you multiple times, both on here and asktrp. How much advice do you need? Why do you continue to believe things will change? What THE FUCK is wrong with you? I give up. Enjoy a continued miserable life, which will only get worse once you're married. I can't wait for the post 18 months from now about how she's fucking some other dude and taking half of your shit. Have fun.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 03:43 PM
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would it be fair to claim a victory / benchmark if she then shows interest as a result? The thing is, women tend to put people into boxes. She's put you into the box of beta chump, since, using your own words, she "emotionally abused and manipulated your weakness." She is always going to see you like that. You could become the most alpha Chad on the planet, but she'll never forget you being weak. She'll figure its all an act. Women don't want guys to "improve" or "grow" they want guys to just ge…
/r/askTRP06/01/16 09:12 PM
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Embrace the pain. Hold onto it and don't forget that this is the inevitable result of oneities. Every. Single. Time. Sometimes shit just hurts. Don't fight it.
/r/askTRP06/01/16 08:49 PM
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I would say fuck benchmarks. Its good to acknowledge "victories" and that you handled situations better than you did in the past, but it can lead to becoming complacent. ALWAYS be improving, never slow down, never think to yourself, "I've got this". A lot of the pick-up/seduction stuff is RP in action, but not in mindset. Its all a facade to lure a girl in, and then once you've "won her over", dudes revert to their BP selves, and shit falls apart. One absolute truth that I have learned the hard …
/r/askTRP06/01/16 08:44 PM
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If you don't like her, don't get into an LTR with her in the first place. Don't do that from the outset; she needs to earn that shit. Start her out as a plate, then move up to fuck buddy, then can her move up to LTR, provided she is worth it and you like her. Shouldn't demote unless she fucks something up, and shouldn't promote unless she does something to earn it. EDIT: I re-read your post, and if you need to work on your game, for the love of God, DO NOT get into an LTR. LTR's require the tigh…
/r/askTRP06/01/16 08:13 PM
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Thought processes become ingrained and die hard. Mindset and self-image are important factors in how you evaluate yourself and your successes and failures. If you have a poor self-image/low confidence, perceived failures or missed opportunities are just another in a long line of experiences validating the idea that you're a fuckup. If you have a positive self-image and are confident, failure becomes just another thing to learn from. You can laugh at how you goofed when you approached that hot gi…
/r/askTRP06/01/16 08:09 PM
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Could you give an example?
/r/askTRP05/01/16 06:16 PM
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The reason you offered a disclaimer is because you inherently know what you're doing is complaining about your height. What would you do with this knowledge, if one gave it to you? Only approach short women? Do the vast majority of women like taller men? Yes, its dominant and attractive. If you want to know at what height women will find you tall and attractive, you're in for a long wait.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 06:08 PM
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They know I am a hard dick and nothing more. And this is good and it works well since it is in fact all I am offering them. Well, there you have it. If that's all you offer of value then that's all they're going to use you for. There's a billion hard dicks in the world that have other things attached to them. Sex is more than just physical, and if you can wow them and give them multiple orgasms and fuck them like few ever have, she'll keep coming back. I don't know what to make of the complement…
/r/askTRP05/01/16 06:00 PM
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You're worrying too much about something that you can't control. Focus on what you can control and improve that. For example, if you're 5'8 and jacked, that is more attractive than a guy who is 6'2 and super skinny. Become the best version of you and don't waste time on something you have zero control over.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 05:38 PM
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awwww she misses her beta bucks. This, and only this. "...took the chance and been in a relationship with you." Translation: ...took the chance on a safe beta bucks and hopped off the CC before I was ready/my SMV declined enough where I had to/got sick of the Chad pump n dump.' "...I guess you could say I miss you." translation: ...I guess you could say I miss the attention/validation/everything except tingles that I got from you. "We had fun together when we hung out." translation: We had fun, …
/r/askTRP05/01/16 03:01 PM
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Civilization is already collapsing due to a feminine-primary outlook that advocates moving away from traditional family units. TRP did not cause this problem; TRP is the cure to this problem. If EVERYONE followed TRP, the human race would cease to exist. I understand your line of thinking, but I completely disagree. If everyone followed TRP, women would eventually fall back into line, and there would be a return to a male-dominated civilization. One that would be successful, sustainable, and pre…
/r/askTRP05/01/16 02:47 PM
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(am i allowed feelings?) No, you are not. Women have feelings; men have emotions.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 02:40 PM
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Her answer was 'seriously?' She's insinuating that if she became less attractive you should still feel lucky to have sex with her. This was a test, and you did fail. First response would have been a joke, agree and amplify, etc. If she pushed you for a real answer, a bit of amused mastery, "... is that a serious question?"
/r/askTRP05/01/16 02:36 PM
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She says she wants to see me, but refused to sleep on the first date. There are plenty of women like this. If you are pushing hard for sex the first time meeting or hanging out with a girl, it comes off as thirsty. The attitude to have is you're not worried about having sex with her, because you have an abundance mentality, so you don't "need" to bang her. ... a girl who does not play games ... AWALT. Putting the precondition that she will not have sex with you on the first date is playing games…
/r/askTRP05/01/16 02:29 PM
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This post is a great example of everything to never do. You have a SEVERE case of oneitis. NEXT, immediately, and do not look back. You are her beta orbiter, and squarely in the friendzone. This woman will never respect you. Do yourself a favor and cut all contact ASAP.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 02:23 PM
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If you're bitter and her actions are bringing down your vacation, you've lost frame. Next her and game other girls while on vacation, I'm sure there are plenty of women there who are down.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 02:08 PM
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I think it gets in between teeth better, and gets in the back of the mouth where brushing is difficult. Gargling cleans the back of the throat where you might cause yourself to gag with brushing.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 02:03 PM
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I have, and your post made me realize I need to get back to using it. I generally limit my dairy and salt intake, and don't eat much seafood (main dietary sources of iodine). Took it last year, it seemed to generally improved my mood, sleep, and concentration. I alternated between adding it to water and a few drops under the tongue, which were pretty nasty. Going to try seaweed/kelp supplements as well.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 02:02 PM
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I use mouthwash after floss and before tongue scraper.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 01:51 PM
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It's like OP is just saying Red Pill buzzwords, without any comprehension. This post is Blue Pill to the core.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 05:58 AM
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This terrible post should be removed.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 05:15 AM
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She also could just be telling you its Tom when its a dozen other dudes. If your SMV was high enough she would drop this guy like a ton of bricks the first time you said don't text him. These are all shit tests, and you are failing. She is lying to you and openly in communication with another dude who she was into and who is into her. Why would you even consider staying with a chick like this? Because she's a "HB9"? Scarcity mentality, son.
/r/askTRP30/12/15 05:53 PM
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Laugh and give it back better. Agree and amplify, "nah there isn't enough meat on that one. People "make fun of you" when you catch feelings. Guys "bust balls" when you DGAF.
/r/askTRP30/12/15 02:32 PM
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Its all about cost and rewards. The reward of going out with your friends until late in the am is that its fun and you probably have the potential to meet some women. Although, if you're partying hard and getting rowdy with your bros, that can turn some women off. The cost is that you are going to do absolutely jack and shit the next day. Don't even lie to yourself that you'll get up early and do shit. If you're going out raising hell to the point you are sleeping until 4pm, the next day is shot…
/r/askTRP30/12/15 02:09 PM
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Just remember that they were in your shoes one day. And as you mentioned, just watch those who have walked the path before and learn as much as you can. From what I've observed of men who have become successful, is they are able to check their ego with their superiors. Not being "beta", but just realistic enough to say to themselves, "OK, this guy knows more than me, I'm going to listen to what he has to say and apply it as best I can."
/r/askTRP30/12/15 02:01 PM
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Jeez there seem to be a lot of these posts today. You don't need to "release" nearly as much as you think you do. The body has ways of expelling it if you really do have a buildup of semen. I try to never watch porn. Its fucked IMO; its basically self-induced cuckoldry. Jerking off while watching another dude plow a chick? Kinda gay. There are a lot of benefits to cutting it out, if its a habit. Even if its not, at a minimum, it gives you more motivation to go out and get laid. If it is a proble…
/r/askTRP30/12/15 01:50 PM
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Quit porn and quit fapping. 90 Days to reset you brain. After that, keep it to once a week at most and use your brain not porn. Your life will change. If you're 25 and having boner problems, its a serious issue. Take care of yourself.
/r/askTRP30/12/15 01:43 PM
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You're not a pussy bro. You have been told most of your life, by mostly well-meaning people I imagine, that doing what you're currently doing is "wrong" or "manipulative". Its natural to have some mental push-back after so many years of conditioning. My personal philosophy is I just don't bullshit them. If they ask straight-up if I'm seeing other women I either turn it into a joke or say, "yeah, every now and then." If they pressure you into commitment, just calmly go with "I could see that one …
/r/askTRP30/12/15 01:37 PM
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I think it leads to a tendency pedestalize, induces more social anxiety, and less motivation to go out and approach. If you can't go a week to ten days without, you're probably using it too much. Its good to to take a month (even up to 90 days) off to "reset" you brain. After that, keep it to once a week at most, and when you do, focus on thinking about women that you haven't had sex with yet, but want to.
/r/askTRP30/12/15 01:29 PM
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Intermittent Fasting changed my life. Leangains.com
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 12:51 PM
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I don't think the mod said that. Cynical is saying "you must have money, status, a social network, etc." to get women. But who is saying that? Game trumps all was the first thing I said. I'm not sure who is posting these things but I don't think they're a common outlook Example: "Have money." OK, sure, a guy who has money in the bank is more attractive than a guy who needs to find change in the sofa to go to the bar. But a hard-working, small business owner, comfortably middle class guy is gener…
/r/seduction26/12/15 03:47 AM
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I wouldn't worry too much about sexual anxiety when you haven't even met this girl in real life. It could be a fake account for all you know. Don't put the horse before the carriage. Set up a time and place to meet her, and take it from there. Best advice for a first timer is breathe deep and slow and go slower than you think you need to, both will help you last longer. Sex isn't a big deal for guys, she may even find it endearing she is your first.
/r/seduction26/12/15 03:12 AM
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Work on what you're weakest at. I was in a similar place to you a few years ago. Couldn't figure out why I wasn't confident when I had a great job, owned my own place, tall, funny, smart, good looking etc. The thing I was most insecure about was lack of strength/overall fitness. I was always thin/skinny and I always hated it. Focused on that for several months, and even though I'm far from a gym rat now, the confidence that came from working on my own weakest link carried over into other areas.
/r/seduction26/12/15 02:55 AM
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Game trumps all. But if you don't work on yourself, become and put forth to the world the best version of yourself, you're playing on hard mode. You don't need to have movie-star good looks, a Men's Fitness model body, make $3 million a year, or be stand-up comic level funny to have success with women. As the mod succinctly put it, if you want someone to tell you that tons of women will "love you just the way you are", in spite of the fact that you are an unattractive man and behave in unattract…
/r/seduction23/12/15 05:28 PM
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All great comments in this thread. I haven't been on this sub in years, but the advice quality overall is top notch. Unfortunately, posts like these really bum me out. As someone else pointed out, whenever I see a post like this usually people talk about everything else except the major factor: Stop jerking off and stop watching porn. For awhile. Like, months. You will have more energy, more drive to be social, and you'll just straight up want to get out of your room and do things. Your confiden…
/r/seduction23/12/15 05:07 PM
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Lorde is awful looking. Terrible body, meh face.
/r/seduction23/12/15 05:02 PM
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But why do you want to know what happened? I think you want her to say that she was just into a one night stand so your ego doesn't get hurt that she wasn't into you or you were bad in bed or whatever. Maybe not in your messages, but you are definitely being needy now. She didn't message you back right away after sleeping with you one time? Maybe she was busy? Maybe she didn't check her Tinder looking for other dudes because she just went out with a cool guy who she hopes she gave her number to?…
/r/seduction23/12/15 04:59 PM
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Lots of people; its become fairly well known with that VH1 show with Mystery back in the day.
/r/seduction23/12/15 04:55 PM
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You are not confident and your "tactics" are bullshit. Develop yourself as a man and you will attract women. You don't need to "trick" them into being attracted to you. The reason some people attract crazy girls is because they are kind of crazy themselves. "Crazy" usually isn't the right word; its needy and lacking positive self-image. You're a needy dude and you attracted a needy chick. Work on not being needy and drop the PUA "tactics". I couldn't believe this beautiful girl was still talking…
/r/seduction23/12/15 04:53 PM
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Excellent post. It really is all about the abundance mindset.
/r/seduction23/12/15 04:46 PM
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Girls will pull this shit when they stop getting attention from you. Once she knows you're still "into her" and she can get attention from you, she'll return to bitch mode. There's a tendency to idealize a relationship when its over; thinking of only the good times, great sex, etc. Remember all the bullshit she pulled. THAT is who she really is. Cut contact. Do not respond to her texts, calls, etc. Once she realizes you're doing this, she'll come up with bullshit excuses to try to get you back o…
/r/seduction23/12/15 04:45 PM
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"One year" older than you? It would be a problem if you were like, 7. Its not a shit test; she's just not interested. There are plenty of hot babes your own age, don't waste your time with bullshit my dude.
/r/seduction23/12/15 04:37 PM
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Agree with all the other comments. You have zero to lose and everything to gain. If she's not interested, she wasn't interested before, and the only thing that changed is now you know, and don't have to waste anymore time on her. If she's interested, now you know and can invest more time in her. To be honest, as another commenter pointed out, its difficult to change a woman's opinion of you. They tend to put people in boxes, and once the "needy/clingy" label is applied, its difficult to change t…
/r/seduction23/12/15 04:35 PM
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I disagree with you on this. It seems like you're seeking some type of validation from her, either that she had a good time and wants to see you again or she's "just not that into you" (translation: its not you its me!"), and are upset that she is not providing it. Tinder should be used just to find matches, with a few quick messages back and forth. Once she indicates she wants to meet, give her your number and tell her to call or text you to set up details. I don't know the details of your mess…
/r/seduction23/12/15 04:30 PM
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Dudes hit peak SMV in early 30's; don't buy the "you're getting old settle down" bullshit. Get out of this mess, take 3-6 months and focus on becoming the most masculine version of yourself possible, and live like that for the rest of your life. I guarantee in a year or two you will look back on this time in your life and shake your head at how you could have judged things so wrongly.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 07:52 PM
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This is just personal preference. If I'm in a relationship where its communicated we're exclusive, I don't fuck around behind her back. Not because of her, because of me. I keep my word, regardless of what others do or don't do. When I'm just spinning plates, I'm honest about that as well. "I like spending time with you, but I'm not looking for anything serious right now. Maybe in the future, but not now." Its important to be complete, regardless of relationship status. What I'm trying to get at…
/r/askTRP15/12/15 07:44 PM
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"Yeah, I see a lot of girls... I see a lot of GUYS, too." -Bobby Boucher voice I know I need to date a few girls at a time inorder to stop the feeling of neediness and dependence I disagree with this. To stop feeling needy and dependent, you need to first BE non-needy and independent. If you base your neediness on how many plates you are spinning, you are still operating within a female frame; just more than one female. In terms of abundance mentality, I don't think there is anything wrong with …
/r/askTRP15/12/15 07:15 PM
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Think less, plan less, DO more. People can get so wrapped up in plans, "motivation", confidence, etc. Motivation and confidence comes from doing shit, not the other way around. Anyone who has been fat and out of shape their whole life doesn't just wake up one day and say: "Ya know what, this whole sitting on my comfy couch, watching my favorite shows on TV and eating delicious sugary foods all the time thing sucks! I'd like to drive/walk somewhere far away, put my body through hell for an hour o…
/r/askTRP15/12/15 02:20 PM
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She is setting you up for a flake. Scheduling so far out, telling you to remind her; she's going to say she forgot and has something going on the day before. Proceed as if this is not going to happen. The time isn't a huge deal because (just being honest) this is unlikely to happen. Try to set something up for later in the day. You can then cancel that date if things go well, have a backup in case this falls through, and even play some games if things are going well: "Hey, this was fun, I have p…
/r/askTRP14/12/15 09:00 PM
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Experience is more important than education. You're not on anyone's schedule but your own. "well on your way" is a relative phrase. You know what you need to do; I would consider that well on your way. I took a similar path as you; fucked around, failed out of school, etc. Went back, finished my degree while working full time. Learned invaluable lessons about discipline and success. The guys I looked up to five years ago as "well on their way"/"having it all together" have narrow skills and work…
/r/askTRP14/12/15 07:25 PM
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Shit test.
/r/askTRP14/12/15 07:13 PM
2

Start laying down tracks and eventually things become easier. Remember when you were a kid and you hated brushing your teeth or taking a shower when your parents told you to? Do you "like" doing those things now? Probably not. You just do them because they are requirements. Its about forming habits. In the initial stages, there is a "pain period" where your mind will actively resist it. This is not your "normal" behavior. Your "normal" behavior has allowed you to survive all these years. Our stu…
/r/askTRP14/12/15 07:10 PM
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Am I coming off as clingy and needy? Yes. Am I caring too much about little things of no consequence? Yes. Am I spending too much time thinking about her? Yes. Should I always initiate texting because it's expected or stay distant? No, don't always initiate. Let her miss you. Should I always escalate with her IRL? Yes. Should I flirt with other girls? Yes, even when you're with her. Should I always flat out tell her what I feel (re: texting habits, stuff that annoys me, etc.)? It depends. Don't …
/r/askTRP14/12/15 06:52 PM
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If this is real (which I almost don't believe it is), you need to start at square one. She was practically throwing herself at you. Going forward, you honestly may have fucked it up so bad that she's uninterested. You fucked up at least nine different times (likely closer to 20), and she was STILL wanting you to kiss her the morning after. This is where I honestly give women a good amount of credit. If they are into a dude and attracted to him they really will put up with a lot of horseshit to h…
/r/askTRP14/12/15 06:43 PM
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Losing your shit = losing your frame. People treat you the way you let them. Start with a clean slate; forget the past bullshit. If he bails on you, just drop a, You: "dude, what happened last night? Thought we were meeting up at the bar?" Him: "[some bullshit excuse]" You: "OK, just in the future, let me know if something happens so I'm not waiting around with my thumb up my ass." If it continues after a few times of the above: You: "Dude, what the fuck, again? You always pull this shit with me…
/r/askTRP14/12/15 06:19 PM
1

Let people know you are looking to go out. "I'm always looking for fun shit to do, hit me up if something is going on next Friday". Provide value. Be the guy that brings good beer/booze/weed/whatever. Be funny and generally a good time. People will want you around. But again, people need to know you want to hang out. Most people have very fragile egos. If they text someone to come to a party and the response is "thanks for the invite, but I'm (legitimately) busy tonight, maybe next week", people…
/r/askTRP14/12/15 06:08 PM
1

Katt Williams said it best: If people are hating on you for no good reason, it means you're doing something right.
/r/askTRP14/12/15 06:02 PM
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You're worried about having an STD but don't want to get checked if you have an STD. You're bothered about going to prostitutes but everyone says its OK so you think you shouldn't be bothered. I gave you simple, direct solutions to your problems and you choose not to do them. You're saying the solutions are too hard and you want easier ones (which don't exist). I guess my advice would be to keep being miserable.
/r/askTRP14/12/15 06:00 PM
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I agree with what everyone else has posted. However, as you are unwilling to modify your plan to marry her (for whatever reason), instead of a top-down approach, try starting small and building on it: Tell her she is not to put you down or make jokes at your expense in front of others. If she frets and whines just calmly inform her that you are not asking her, you are telling her. You're missing the forest for the trees here. You understand that you need to be in good shape, be dominant, have a …
/r/askTRP14/12/15 05:21 PM
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Are you ashamed because you got blown by a hooker, or something else? If its for getting a hooker, you really shouldn't be too ashamed. Plenty of guys have done it before, or paid a stripper to blow them at a bachelor party, whatever. If you're afraid you caught a disease, get yourself checked out. Go to your GP or a minute clinic or planned parenthood or some shit. There is a very low probability you caught something from PROTECTED oral sex. Feeling infatuated with a certain sex worker is also …
/r/askTRP14/12/15 05:02 PM
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Watch out for false rape allegations. This. Save all of these texts.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 04:42 PM
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Excellent link. Was thinking of Rollo as I was reading this. From Mr. Tomassi's post: Corey Worthington is a piss poor example of a human being, but he’s a textbook example of Alpha. I could use a lot of adjectives to describe this kid, but “beta” wouldn’t be one of them. You work hard to be a “better man”, you put in the self analysis, you paid your dues coming to terms with unplugging and reinventing yourself. You’re a success, Corey is fuck-up. Corey’s not a better Man than you are, however, …
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 05:58 PM
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Men have nowhere else to feel it and talk about it. Nowhere. There are other places, but the guys will get the same tired answers and excuses: NAWALT. "Be Yourself". "Lower your standards". "Maybe you should have done x,y,z differently?". "Have you thought about HER needs/desires/choices?!". And the process just repeats itself. And eventually, some guys just think there is no way out or way to make it better, and its really fucking sad. They are REALLY pissed that many of them are in situations …
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 05:33 PM
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Solid post. He probably would have been better off grabbing another seat, chatting her up after class with the old Beta Game standard, "saw you talking to Gadnuk_ before class... you know that dude is like a 'player', right? I just don't want to see you get hurt..." Ha Always better to be a real nobody than a fake somebody. I don't think a man should ever lie about who he is. Obfuscate, misdirect, agree and amplify, etc... but never straight up claim that you are something you're not. IMO, bette…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 05:14 PM
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I agree that there is more talk about "healthy eating/lifestyle/exercise, etc.". But its mostly just talk. The big difference in daily life is the internet. In previous generations socializing, schooling, working (even mundane office jobs), sexual activity, shopping, marketing, etc. all involved some level of getting up off your ass and moving your body. Now, everything can be done with double-chin agape staring at a screen a foot in front of you and slightly moving your hands. I don't think tha…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 04:57 PM
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Agreed. The transition from aloof/playing with phone/resting bitch face to bedroom eyes/"take me home and fuck me right now" = priceless.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 04:47 PM
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Also, if you have your 'feelings hurt' because someone was 'mean' you, you're not a man, regardless of whether you have a dick or not. You're a pussy. Women run and hide when their feels are hurt. You guys are becoming what you claim to hate.
/r/MGTOW18/08/15 10:43 PM
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Dude, he deleted the post he linked to... op talked about how he beat his ex, apparently had 'crazy orgies with 3 or 4 girls' (sure, bud), and everybody is so mean and life is so hard and why won't people be nice to me?? Yeah, life fucking sucks sometimes. You can be a man and face it and live life on life's terms (while working to make it better), or take your ball and go home with your tail in between your legs. I don't disagree with much of the MGTOW philosophy. But a man accepts things will …
/r/MGTOW18/08/15 10:38 PM
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What the fuck am I reading
/r/MGTOW18/08/15 07:42 PM
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You don't want affection from women, but you have a girlfriend. It just makes me feel very sad for you, as sitting at home not working all day is lazy and pathetic.
/r/MGTOW18/08/15 07:40 PM
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Don't worry, you will never receive affection from anyone, based on your outlook. You are insecure and weak, as you blame everyone and everything else for your problems instead of looking at your pathetic self, grabbing your fucking balls, and making yourself a better person. OMG GIRLS R MEAN!!!!!
/r/MGTOW18/08/15 07:32 PM
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That post was the most insane shit I have ever read. If that is indicative of what MGTOWs think and feel, you 100% deserve everything that happens to you. You don't deserve the affection of ANY woman, let alone a high quality woman. Get a fucking clue!
/r/MGTOW18/08/15 07:15 PM
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This is Water by David Foster Wallace.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 07:47 PM
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Pretty telling that there isn't even the thought of reciprocation of this 'friendship'. Nothing along the lines of, "I'm there for him, as well, if he has any issues." "I would/do cover for him, when he needs it." etc. "I asked if he'd be ready to help me move again like last time." Classic! A rational adult request would be, "I know you helped me move recently, which was very much appreciated, and is there any way you could help out again? I'll buy food, beer, etc. its a really big help and I a…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 07:14 PM
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This is a great post man, and I identify a lot with what you wrote. I think you have such a solid Red Pill outlook on women, and your previous interactions with them, similar to the way I look at it: There isn't anything really 'good' or 'bad' about hypergamy, female mating strategy, AFBB, etc. It just kind of is. And in their own way, women are trying to help us be the guys they want. They just have difficulty admitting to themselves what they want, so this comes out in 'friend zoning' Betas, r…
/r/ThankTRP05/08/15 04:57 PM
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Don't wait for anything. I just turned 30, and while it is still "young", the more shit you have together now, the more enjoyable your life will be. What can you do now? Learn, study, get all the education and develop every skill that you can. Try a lot of different things. At the worst, you will know something that you are not good at or don't enjoy. Number one piece of advice: do not make women your primary focus or even motivation. Your peak SMV isn't for another 7-8 years, at the earliest. P…
/r/seduction06/07/15 05:04 PM
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Backed on No More Mr. Nice Guy and Models.
/r/seduction06/07/15 04:58 PM
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