Summary

  • AWHTPTBLT, and TRP and girls say something but want something else.

Body

First part of the night until 12:00 am was hanging out with my 8 year GF and her research group buddies. There is two couples, her grad student mentor and his gf, and me an my gf, this guy's gf has a friend but she is ugly as hell. Then there is another guy, indian, super nice, and a Japenese Guy and Peruvian Guy, and a Korean American girl. The other guy with a GF is trying to hook up the two single guys, minus the indian guy, with girls, so he is proposing strategies. One is to have the Korean girl pretend the Japanese guy is being an asshole to her and dumping her.

All the girls jump in and say that wouldn't work, because the girls would come rushing to help the dumpee and think of the guy as an asshole. I laugh and say that actually works very well. Then they say that what would work is for one of the girls in our group to walk to some random girl and say how much of a nice guy the Japanese guy is, etc. My GF joins in with the other girls. I notice the Indian Guy buys the Korean girl a drink, gives her his coat, etc, all nice things, so I immediately pick up he is into her. But he sees him as her older brother. On the way home I take the opportunity to poke my GF with RP views, she actually agrees with me that the whole being an a-hole and dumping a fake gf actually works very well, but she says she couldn't say it in front of other girls because she might offend them. Then I bring up how the indian guy is super nice yet is single.

She says he is so sweet, blah blah. I said, yet he is single! Then she goes to say that he is single because he wants to, that any girl would be lucky to have him, blah blah. She is after all a girl, and obviously this is BS because just tonight I noticed that he super into sorta hot Asian(Korean) chick in the group, yet she sees him as a brother. So I bring it up to GF, and she confirms that indeed that he is into Korean girl, but doesn't want to move because she is too young for him.

  • TL,DR: Girls say the want a nice guy and will even hamster away the excuses as to why nice guys are single to a point that it becomes ridiculous! But who says the hamster gotta make sense.

Lessons Learned

  • Girls with hamster why nice guys are single with the craziest, most irrational arguments.

  • The girls will purposely tell you thins that do not work(i.e. Just be a nice guy and you will find the one!)

edit: I wrote this thing at 3:00 am yesterday and included unnecessary parts. Fixed!