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About once every month or two, there's a post somewhere on Reddit, by a woman, saying something like, “My boyfriend suddenly started doing Red Pill ...
Rant/VentingArchwinger/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 03:28 PM
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The path to getting laid is actually pretty simple when you break it down into its fundamental parts. 1- Look hot. Get yourself some muscles, dress we...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill15/12/16 06:22 PM
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There's a myth floating around the manosphere about the “good alpha.” A guy who's hot, charming, successful, interesting, smart, funny, and most i...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 07:21 PM
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Society and civilization, for all the good they provide, slap us squarely across the face and rape us up the ass with one singularly painful drawback:...
Rant/VentingArchwinger/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 08:42 PM
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Many detractors of The Red Pill find the men who subscribe to this body of information to be “controlling.” Nothing could be farther from the trut...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 05:50 PM
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There was recently a man lamenting on the Married Red Pill subreddit about his wife's sexual history. He was a virgin when he met her, and to date, sh...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 06:20 PM
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There's a post floating around today from 4chan, containing a story as old as time: A guy gets dumped by his girl because she found someone better. I ...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 03:48 PM
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When you marry a woman, cohabit with her, or enter into an exclusive relationship and remain exclusive for an extended period of time, she becomes com...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 04:21 PM
862

There is a lot of Red Pill advice out there that overlaps conventional advice for attracting women. (e.g., “Be attractive; don't be unattractive.”...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 05:41 PM
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My wife is hitting the PMS portion of her cycle, which means it's comfort test time. For those of you Red Pill hellions who are married or in committe...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 04:37 AM
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The large majority of information on The Red Pill focuses on behaviors, activities, traits, and ways to develop those traits, that do one very signifi...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 07:56 PM
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The Red Pill is a relatively new phenomenon, but the need for the Red Pill is as old (or older) than many of us. In 1983, I was a toddler. I'm older t...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 08:12 PM
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A lot of people (especially new people) show up on The Red Pill wondering “What specifically do I do to improve my life?” They're not looking for ...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 09:17 PM
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There's a post today about a very pathetic man. A man who went above and beyond to try to woo a woman. The specifics don't matter, but since the post ...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill22/10/14 09:23 PM
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I used to meet a lot of women who allegedly loved me more than any man they'd ever had previously, but went to great lengths to never, ever have sex w...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 05:41 PM
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Today, let's take an honest look at what's happened in the world, and how that led to this whole Red Pill thing. Before the female empowerment movemen...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill19/04/16 06:20 PM
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The modern blue-pill world wants men to judge women using the same standards by which they judge other men. In short, disregard a woman's age or appea...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 08:41 PM
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Disney, popular culture, and modern feminism foster a viewpoint that having a woman in your life is a great reward. The modern story goes that a regul...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 02:59 PM
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Guys get rejected by women. All the time. Even really cool, really masculine, super-duper-alpha-manly-men get rejected sometimes. Rejection is no big ...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 05:29 PM
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We often see questions that go something like, “My girlfriend did [insert shitty behavior]. How do I get her to stop?” The misogynistic blue pill ...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 04:00 PM
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A man could dedicate a lifetime to combing the world for stories of women treating men poorly. Cheating on them, getting bored and leaving them, takin...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 03:04 PM
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Once in a blue moon, some girl will strike up a conversation with me at the gym. I don't wear my wedding ring when I'm at the gym – I'd dent and scr...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 04:29 PM
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One of the cores of “Red Pill theory,” if you can really call our awesome 100,000 member locker room talk a “theory,” is the dualistic mating ...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 05:27 PM
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There was a post – on Purple Pill Debate of all places – that really touched on a key element of The Red Pill: A man's power lies in his ability t...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 03:33 PM
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From time to time, we come across the writing of a passive, loser, “beta” man, in the process of attempting to reclaim his manhood and his power i...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 04:35 PM
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The Red Pill is often chided for the fact that its advocates “hate women,” and devote their lives to unsavory methods of manipulating these creatu...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 06:15 PM
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​One of the more common traits among loser guys that can't get laid is social awkwardness. Social awkwardness is one of the greatest turn-offs to wo...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 02:36 PM
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While exchanging text with some of our fine friends over at Purple Pill Debate, I accidentally came up with a four-point summary of the main concepts ...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 05:22 PM
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We often describe that men go through different stages of awareness as they learn about The Red Pill. We start off unaware, possibly even deluded, bel...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 06:14 PM
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One of the big talking points of anti-male movements is the idea of “toxic masculinity”. Essentially, this concept is an argument against gender-r...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill24/06/16 07:14 PM
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I made a comment last night in the married Red Pill sub that I really think ought to be elaborated on here, because it's something that doesn't always...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 08:45 PM
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Every so often, I read a Red Pill post that goes something like: “I've been a total asshole toward women and treated them like utter shit for the pa...
Rant/VentingArchwinger/r/TheRedPill30/03/16 02:01 PM
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One of the greatest sources of aggravation and failure for many men, when it comes to marriage and long-term relationships, is our tendency to believe...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill05/10/15 04:38 PM
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Something we often brush aside here at The Red Pill is actually one of the main reasons people are so quick to declare this entire body of information...
Rant/VentingArchwinger/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 04:42 PM
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There's a post floating around one of the other subreddits telling the tale of a 17-year-old girl and her controlling, manipulative, abusive 23-year-o...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill16/05/14 05:40 PM
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A few months ago, my wife and I had one of our periodic talks (e.g., shit tests), where my wife comments that I've changed so much that she barely kno...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 04:54 PM
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There's been a good bit of debate over what should and shouldn't constitute rape, and what should and shouldn't constitute consent. For example, moder...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 03:34 AM
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​There's a little boy who used to attend my daughter's previous pre-school, though he just got kicked out. This is the second or third school where ...
Rant/VentingArchwinger/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 08:17 PM
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We live in a society where women are denied a very important right that cripples them: Women are denied the right to fail. Women are predisposed to av...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill05/05/17 08:40 PM
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If you want to have sex with women, you have to make sex appealing to them. Because women have a lot of choices and only so much time and energy they ...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 04:24 PM
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Another reddit user recently pointed out something frightening I'd like to explore that I hadn't thought about for awhile: Women, as a whole, are gene...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 03:00 PM
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Like most of us, before I started this wild ride, I was what we shorthand as “beta” around here. There's nothing inherently wrong with being that ...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill19/10/15 03:40 PM
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There was a stupid r/relationships post not that long ago about a girl who attempted some kind of half-breakup with her boyfriend while she went off t...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 05:21 PM
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Our little internet subculture is renowned (actually kind of demonized) for taking the position that “All Women Are Like That,” (AWALT) with regar...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 05:12 PM
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Many guys approach The Red Pill with a question that goes something like, “My girlfriend (or some girl I'm dating, fucking, or just interested in) s...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 10:15 PM
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I'll chat about this point with an anecdote rather than a bunch of dry theory, because stories are way more interesting than lectures, and I'm about t...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 03:51 PM
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So my wife has a friend visiting from out of town. A really long-time friend of hers that predates me. She's been really good to us. Gifts, meals, tak...
Rant/VentingArchwinger/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 07:31 PM
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So about three months ago, one of my neighbors (male) was chatting with another of my neighbors (female) at a block party down the street. They looked...
LTRArchwinger/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 04:27 AM
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Women are social creatures. Herd animals, really. Without attention and validation, they die (or at least become really messed up in the head). To a w...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill10/03/16 04:31 PM
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Sexual attraction is binary. A woman is either sexually attracted to you, or she isn't. There's a little bit of a sliding scale. For example, some men...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill01/08/16 04:00 PM
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A human being's power in society is primarily defined by one ability: the ability to exclude others. The boss chooses who to hire. The cool kids choos...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 03:24 PM
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I had a mild experience yesterday morning that our good friend GayLubeOil's recent post made me remember. Namely, GLO proposed a hilarious activity, d...
Rant/VentingArchwinger/r/TheRedPill06/12/14 12:34 AM
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We live in a feminist-centered society, filled with double-speak. It's a well-intended society that wants everyone to be happy, but it's a clueless so...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill21/09/16 03:42 PM
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Many penis-owning idiots surface around here with an insanely stupid thought: they think they might have finally found a girl worth spending their liv...
LTRArchwinger/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 08:32 PM
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A significant focus here at The Red Pill is the transactional nature of relationships. Men exchange time, resources, attention, and commitment for sex...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill30/11/15 03:07 PM
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One of the reasons it's so difficult for a “beta” man to break free of his unsuccessful pattern of behaviors is a fact we often neglect, or at lea...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 03:38 PM
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The conventional advice given to men for dealing with women is “just treat them like human beings.” This advice is typically offered as a counterp...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 03:41 PM
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We discuss the shortcomings of women and the shortcomings of marriage quite a bit around here, for obvious reasons: Marriage is a one-sided, ass-rapin...
LTRArchwinger/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 04:07 PM
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It's 5:AM, and you pull yourself out of bed to hit the gym. Your wife, girlfriend, plate, or just some chick you've been fucking is next to you. You f...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 08:13 PM
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I'm going to start with something a little basic but very wise that I'm stealing from Athol Kay's Married Men Sex Life Primer: “You are not your bra...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 07:56 PM
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We get a lot of flack over our popular acronym “AWALT” – All Women Are Like That. It's a great reminder, every time we're surprised by how slutt...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 04:56 PM
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Back when Japan was cool, sex and relationships were respected. Almost revered. Husbands and wives, who loved each other fiercely, rarely touched in p...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 04:20 PM
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​There's an internet meme about marriage out there that makes the point that every time somebody is murdered, the very first person the police suspe...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 05:38 PM
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It's become somewhat fashionable for women (feminist or otherwise), male feminists, and even men's rights advocates to eschew the usual pro-woman, pro...
Rant/VentingArchwinger/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 07:17 PM
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We are a small minority of men, living in a blue pill world. A feminized world, really. Girl world. And girl world loves the topic of relationships, a...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 07:14 PM
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The Red Pill often espouses that men have been sold a false bill of goods. Taught the wrong behaviors and the wrong way of life when it comes to women...
Off TopicArchwinger/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 04:22 PM
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If your wife (or girlfriend) left you tomorrow, would this be a significant setback in your sex life? Or would your sex life actually improve? If you ...
LTRArchwinger/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 03:35 PM
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I was inspired today by our resident Superstar Gaylubeoil and decided that the new year is as good a time as any to try to make the world a better pla...
Rant/VentingArchwinger/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 07:19 PM
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Women will often whine, ad nauseam, about how men only want sex, men only appreciate them for their looks, and men never appreciate them for their inn...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 03:10 PM
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Reality flies in the face of the adage “love conquers all.” We have a 50% divorce rate, 40% of women cheat on their partners at least once (and th...
Rant/VentingArchwinger/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 09:09 PM
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Time and time again, our little group of dark, evil, woman-hating virgins is accused of being vile, immature manipulators. Technically, any time a hum...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 07:59 PM
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A lot of Red Pill advice changes slightly when you're married. Once you've married a woman, things are different. When you have children, things chang...
LTRArchwinger/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 03:58 PM
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There was a time in my life, not that long ago, when you might have thought I was obsessed with food. No, I wasn't fat, nor was I a professional chef....
Rant/VentingArchwinger/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 08:39 PM
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One of the core principles of The Red Pill is that women are the gatekeepers of sex, while men are the gatekeepers of commitment. This is a bit of an ...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 06:19 PM
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“The Handmaid's Tale” is a novel, written in the mid-1980s by a female Canadian author of moderate renown. It's a popular book in hardcore womens'...
CultureArchwinger/r/TheRedPill29/05/17 05:10 AM
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One of the reasons The Red Pill is at odds with the rest of society is that modern society has decided to declare war on the old-school society that c...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 06:48 PM
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A recent submission to The Red Pill subreddit sparked some interesting discussion regarding the concept of engaging in long-term relationships (LTRs) ...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill28/11/16 06:19 PM
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Men seeking to have sex with women, that fail at this task, are often shamed. Reviled. How dare he, an unattractive man, attempt to assert his wants, ...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 11:04 PM
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We go on and on about how crippling and expensive divorce [rape] can be, and use that as one (of many) bases to encourage men to never get married. So...
Men's RightsArchwinger/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 03:27 PM
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We live in a sexually liberated age. Hardly anybody abstains from sex until marriage. The few that do are usually psycho-religious nutjobs. The majori...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 02:36 PM
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Marriages are like a different language. You live in a house with a stranger. So does she. Neither one of you is the person the other dated. She's so ...
LTRArchwinger/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 09:32 PM
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I have long touted the position that sexual attraction and emotional intimacy are completely separate pillars of a relationship. This flies in the fac...
Archwinger/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/17 06:26 PM
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Despite what you may think, what you may have heard, or what you may be looking for, The Red Pill is not a path to happiness. If anything, it's the op...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 03:44 PM
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Hi, guys. So lately, I've been thinking about money. Because frankly, money is more important than women. You can buy a lot more happiness than you ca...
Off TopicArchwinger/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 11:01 PM
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When evaluating the value of women and men, The Red Pill primarily focuses on the Social/Sexual Market Value (SMV) of individuals. To a lesser extent,...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 06:17 PM
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Detractors of The Red Pill like to conceptually subdivide the subject matter you can find around here into two categories: 1) “Self-Improvement”; ...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 02:07 AM
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People (women mostly, but some manginas) often complain that the game theory/seduction tactics advocated by The Red Pill and other sites are dishonest...
Rant/VentingArchwinger/r/TheRedPill18/10/13 06:34 PM
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So I was perusing Rollo's newest post at The Rational Male, and one particular point lept out at me: men desire security. This was hardly the overridi...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 06:30 PM
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We put one of my wife's friends up in our guest room this weekend; he was in from out of town for a conference. We're all up late, drinking beers (win...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 03:01 AM
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So I wake up every morning at 5:AM to leave the apartment and drive to the gym, missing traffic and getting my workout in before work. I'm tough to ge...
Blue Pill ExampleArchwinger/r/TheRedPill16/10/13 07:36 PM
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Over on The Blue Pill, they posted a link to “Why does he do that?” a book about abusive men and what makes them tick inside. I love a good read, ...
Men's RightsArchwinger/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 10:02 PM
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I'm leaving town tomorrow, so I figured I'd post week 8 a day early: Your social life. The most important trait a married man can cultivate – even m...
Archwinger/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/16 06:07 PM
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So my mother-in-law is a bit of a pack-rat. We're talking VHS tapes of shows that haven't been on the air since the 80s, newspapers and magazines from...
Archwinger/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/15 04:31 AM
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Detractors of The Red Pill have a fairly negative image of “Twerpers” in the real world. They read a bunch of angry, woman-hating rants on the int...
Question for BluePillArchwinger/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/15 05:11 PM
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Rant/VentingArchwinger/r/TheRedPill15/10/13 03:07 PM
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I've been told (actually, preached at) by modern feminists that as a man, I have absolutely no clue what it's like to grow up as a woman in the world ...
Blue Pill ExampleArchwinger/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 06:36 PM
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One of the more common insults tossed at The Red Pill is that the community encourages rape. This very serious accusation generally stems from two pri...
Question For BluepillArchwinger/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/14 08:00 PM
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Red Pill and Blue Pill advocates both tend to agree that two consenting adults can have whatever kind of relationship they want to have – as long as...
Question for BluePillArchwinger/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/15 09:02 PM
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A little analogy for you guys today: Many individuals who are called upon to deliver a speech stumble due to nervousness and anxiety. It's a disaster....
MetaArchwinger/r/TheRedPill15/01/14 04:18 PM
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The Red Pill focuses, quite a bit (nearly exclusively), on being a man – namely, on being “alpha,” in such a way that's attractive to women. As ...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill06/11/13 06:06 PM
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My theory of the day: What if the whole issue behind this Red Pill phenomenon isn't whether Red Pill behaviors “work” or not? What if the real iss...
Archwinger/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/14 07:43 PM
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It's a common blue pill position that sex really isn't as huge of an issue as The Red Pill makes it out to be. Blue pill advocates are very strongly i...
Question for BluePillArchwinger/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 07:23 PM
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I just got into work late today from our daughter's first dancing recital. She's three, so it's a bit of a stretch to call any of the activities “da...
Red Pill TheoryArchwinger/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 04:12 PM
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