Nothing to say.

Archwinger · 2017-03-30T11:15:26+00:00

This gets better as you get older and actually do shut with your life. Assuming you are a reasonably normal person who actually develops skills and hobbies.

You also need to focus on being present. Actually listening to people. Taking an interest in learning about something from someone else, asking questions.

Not every conversation is going to be earth shattering, but if you can't take pleasure in a little friendly chat, that outs you as an unfuckable social retard.

Certifiedfamilylaw · 2017-03-30T04:32:58+00:00

Dont say anything

king_kay_ · 2017-03-30T08:17:45+00:00

Maybe because your life is boring?

Do more interesting shit. Find new hobbies. Travel more. Put yourself in more interesting/exciting situations.

That's the basis of your storytelling content.

Learn how to small talk (FORD method: Family, Occupation, Recreation, Dreams). Find commonality with them and every now and then disagree for polarity (makes the conversation more interesting).

Read more, listen to podcasts, watch stand up comedies.

i just find the wrong things interesting and feel like a narcissist sort of, but know i'm not impressive yet so i don't talk about my physique or education or any stupid shit like that.

Comedians do this all the time, ranting over stupid shit but they are able to bring the audience to their frame. How? Make your content sound like gold and make it relatable. Put your heart and soul into it, bring the picture to life.

Fox_Red · 2017-03-30T07:00:35+00:00

Honestly just be playful, you don't need to talk about anything specific. Girls love to talk, most dates I've been in have been the girl just talking about herself and me asking questions.

Frigzy · 2017-03-30T10:05:52+00:00

You mean with women?

In her case specifically, I usually talk about how they look in a joking but brutally honest way. And this is broad, not just how they actually look, but what type of girl is see them as, what type of actions I bet they can't not do etc.

I basically verbalize my intuition about her and our environment in a playful way. 'he looks like he just did meth' / 'why is everyone so fucking stressed today' / 'that dog looks retarded' etc etc. Make shit up that ties into your surroundings, be creative.

In general, I basically try to augment reality with my imagination and then put it into words so that it becomes part of our interaction.

Overall, this is utterly meaningless bullshit, but it is playful and carefree. I enjoy myself doing it, so it's definitely better than talking about mundane bullshit. Sure, I would prefer only talking when something interesting is discussed, but it's virtually impossible to give off a playful vibe that way. No point bothering with actually relevant topics when talking to women imo.

Fakcount · 2017-03-30T11:34:14+00:00

99.99999999% of people have nothing to say!!!! i LOVE those who do it in silence :)

REYMIFAH · 2017-03-30T20:05:16+00:00

Sounds like you're just too focused on the fact you have nothing to say. Listen and pay attention. People genuinely feel better after a good interaction, try to make people smile.

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Title	Nothing to say.
Author	Tzar21
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Date	March 30, 2017 4:15 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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