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Never crossed my mind that way but now that you mentioned it.. Will definitely look into this further. Appreciated.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 09:00 PM
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I did watch that movie. The guy was a freak from what I can recall, but he did have some admirable qualities. Might have to rewatch the movie.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 09:00 PM
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Do you have any idea of how they inspire you? Like do you aspire the grit, strength, intelligence .. of the main characters or?
/r/askTRP05/12/17 08:59 PM
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So rather than being inspirational in and of itself it made you realize how bad of a position you were in personally?
/r/askTRP05/12/17 08:58 PM
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Very interesting stuff. Will definitely check them out.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 08:57 PM
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Good call. I'm generally not into Western comics but this looks like a legit story. Will look into it.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 08:56 PM
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Berserk is definitely on the list. Together with Vagabond. Both are immensely inspirational, not just for the reason you mentioned but they cut a lot deeper in almost every aspect.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 08:55 PM
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Hah, I have a feeling it could have been any series then for that matter?
/r/askTRP05/12/17 04:59 PM
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Do only that which moves you towards your mission. This mentality will make you choke tho.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 09:47 PM
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right mental framework for entrepreneurship You're probably right on that one. The website I have in mind would take time to gain traction. The idea itself is ok, but in my mind I was already working hours and on the website if I wasn't. However, I might not be spending time most efficiently that way, seeing how I could probably launch something more profitable if I work at it properly. Unscripted seems to get great reviews. Did you read it?
/r/askTRP08/09/17 05:10 PM
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Sup dude. I've been there. Good on you for spotting it early. Check out my blog if you want to read up on it: http://www.winreallife.com/blog/ If you have any questions, feel free to reply on the blog or pm me. You'll find a way. Best of luck. Time to transform!
/r/askTRP05/09/17 10:30 AM
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I'm planning on studying psychiatry down the line. Not because I give two shits about other people's problems, but because cognition is something I just find incredibly fascinating. As well as drugs. Those two things make psychiatry worth it. How the future will pan out is unsure, but I do know that my ambition goes way beyond the local manifestations of borderline mental retardation. No offense but thinking you can be some kind of white knight to them is just a delusion and if that was the back…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 03:50 PM
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I've never posted here because I always made up some sort of bullshit excuse. Shit. I've been slacking like hell for weeks and nothing has changed really. I'm putting in chaotic and extremely inefficient effort at random and I'm achieving accordingly. Time to address this non existing approach. I need a fucking plan and take action.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 03:11 PM
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Why not just ignore? You're slaving those mods like a madman haha.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 12:44 PM
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People will always cling to hope to the extent of self delusion. It's what shapes and supports ideologies. Sure TRP holds some truth, but truth in itself will never gain traction because it is disconnected from the desperate cries for delusional hope. If there's any aim to 'destroy' structures, you better be prepared to create one that sufficiently soothes the pain of the weak, in whatever way you think possible or necessary. Without such hope, you can destroy whatever you want, but people will …
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 10:25 AM
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His post history checks out just fine.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 10:04 AM
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Maybe he could text his ex-LTR to come over with HB8 already home.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 09:58 AM
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To be frank I actually do not like casual sex much and am interested in a relationship (not monogamous), so this is actually pretty frustrating to me that I've had more success with women this year of my life than any other and yet I'm still single and haven't really learned shit. I've been where you are up until recently. I've dated plenty of girls whom I fucked or gotten close to fucking who've ghosted me afterwards. Not because of my sexual performance, phycological issues or lack of self inv…
/r/askTRP25/08/17 09:32 AM
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Well you've gotta take your pick. Practical or styled.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 12:17 PM
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Ideal gender-composition? What's up with the questions on askTRP these days? I used to be able to answer at least some of them without having to dive deep into advanced mathematics. In all honesty though, if I lived in fairy tale land I'd probably fuck around and impregnate multiple women without giving a shit about how many or which gender the children would be. They would mother my children and I would father them on my spare time. Oh and the women would get along just fine with each other. Ha…
/r/askTRP24/08/17 12:11 PM
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Become a rebel and plunder dat illegal booty.
/r/askTRP24/08/17 12:09 PM
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After that you'd only need more and more plates. Good summary of TRP.
/r/askTRP23/08/17 01:36 PM
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This is objectively false. One girl I know has never told a lie. To me. Today. In fact I haven't spoken her yet. So there.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/17 09:26 AM
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Maybe she thought OP looked like a girl? badum tss
/r/TheRedPill19/08/17 09:25 AM
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"I won't fuck you as long as you have a bf."
/r/askTRP14/08/17 06:46 AM
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Do you enjoy putting a knife into 1 year old little boys' cocks? Do you think it's normal?
/r/askTRP14/08/17 06:41 AM
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I'd be fucking pissed if I got done like that myself. Genital mutilation is probably the most retarded and fucked up commonly accepted shit around. So who did this to you?
/r/askTRP14/08/17 06:39 AM
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This is what I replied to one guy a couple of months ago. I didn't "completely get rid of PE" because I don't believe that's how it works. PE is just the result of various mental and physiological conditions that add up to make you cum faster. For you most of it will be mental, but become more physiologically aware will most certainly help you as well. Feel free to ask if you need anything else. BTW I tried the kegel exercising etc but if you don't know exactly what you are doing an why, it's a …
/r/askTRP14/08/17 06:32 AM
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we didn't get to do that I didn't do that though I really wanted to This is probably the last thing you need right now: another thing to be in your head about, but it will help you down the line. In fact the whole concept is this: do what your body wants to do. Listen to your body first, then to your girl's body, then to your head. A lot of guys are so frustrated about sex because they are hearing what their body is saying, but they extract that information and put it in the brain lab for furthe…
/r/askTRP12/08/17 09:03 PM
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Based on misunderstanding and poor judgement. Pretty much like TBP.
/r/askTRP12/08/17 03:35 PM
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It looks like you're the smartest and most valuable person in this business. I'd say shoot for it with a proper plan only if you consider outcompeting these two bitches with a company of your own if it backfires. I guess plan B could be to start gauging other employees for a spot at your new business. I'm not an expert by any means on this, but it's my 2 cts for what it's worth.
/r/askTRP12/08/17 01:41 PM
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I struck me earlier how a rucksack completely destroys any adult masculine credibility. Shoulderbag seems to be the only way to go.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/17 10:18 AM
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Be prepared for starfish/dead fish fucks though How exactly does one prepare for this?
/r/askTRP11/08/17 08:59 AM
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In short, yes, you are. You're letting the opinion of other people define who you perceive yourself to be. You're never going to be worth anything if that's how you approach it.
/r/askTRP11/08/17 08:56 AM
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Where are the good old days where you could say "Google is your friend" without getting a very sour taste in your mouth...
/r/askTRP11/08/17 08:52 AM
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Spot on. There's also the variant where someone has a visible mark that would cause people to stare. I tend to look away in such cases simply out of politeness.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 06:23 PM
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I generally agree with your breakdown. I'd add as a summary: your capacity to hold determined eye contact with women human beings is directly related to your sense of self-worth. You lock eyes with a woman? You feel comfortable in honing in on your prey because you know exactly what you are looking at, what it means to you and how to handle the tension it creates. You feel worthy of the subconscious attraction. You meet a man's eyes? You engage in a battle to the death on a subconsciously level.…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 12:17 PM
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Then the entire point of practicing BJJ becomes relatively weak, no? Wouldn't traditional Jiu Jitsu for instance be better then?
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 10:03 AM
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Do you want to be a source of good in the world? Do you want to help others in any potential way? Do you have a clue what you enjoy in life? Do you know what you're good at, could get good at or want to get good at? Combine the answer to all of these questions.
/r/askTRP06/08/17 10:34 PM
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I've always wondered how useful/practical BJJ is in a streetfight. The usual replies are "it's not much use since going to the ground is always bad". Is it common for BJJ gyms to have stand-up sparring or training?
/r/TheRedPill06/08/17 10:19 PM
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Stop looking, start swallowing.
/r/askTRP06/08/17 11:33 AM
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Deep.
/r/askTRP06/08/17 09:59 AM
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Bottom line for me is that her donating is not a deal breaker. If any dude on asktrp could make 20k in one month with a painful procedure, he would, including myself. So we can't judge her based on that. Potentially becoming infertile to get paid for your motherfood with another guy is not just a painful procedure. There's so many red flags here like you already mentioned, but the act itself is the biggest of them all. She's putting her entire biological worth up for grabs. If u think we 'cant' …
/r/askTRP06/08/17 08:13 AM
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Looks/game/frame are three slices of the pussy pie. They're interdependent on each other. If one is lacking, the others will have to compensate for the total to remain the same. This. The redpilled truth in this entire 'debate' is simply that uglier guys have to put in more work to become sexually attractive. Just like broke people have to put in more work to get rich, weak people have to put in more work to get strong, etc etc. The only difference is you will never experience it from a hot pers…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/17 09:23 AM
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If your girlfriend is remotely on your level of burns it will be fine.
/r/askTRP05/08/17 09:10 AM
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That's basically the entire point. Once you learn a martial art properly you'll feel subconsciously happy about physical tension because you know there's a 98% chance the other guy's just getting closer and closer to getting knocked out. The point however is not to actually knock the guy out. The point is that your belief about the situation will manifest itself in behavior and body language which will pose a subtle frame test for the other guy. A form of amused mastery in dealing with his -in y…
/r/askTRP05/08/17 09:06 AM
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Men control their own destiny. No they don't. At best you can lay the bricks on which causality will run its course. Control is an illusion. I'm well aware that this is a sperglike comment and I agree with the premise of your sentence, but in terms of factuality, it's just not quite accurate. Peace.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/17 12:18 AM
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Good point. I'd wager ugly women got it worse than ugly men though. But yeah, it's underestimated. Anyway, just curious here, how feministic are females in Sweden?
/r/TheRedPill05/08/17 12:10 AM
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Imagine you see a diamond lying on the sidewalk. At first you're like 'Oh fuck is that thing real? No way!' then it goes more like 'Holy shit, it is, this must be worth shitloads!" but at the same time your danger detector kicks in "Why is this even here? Who dropped this? This can't be true. This is probably really sketchy stuff. I better be careful... But it's so pretty! Fuck." until eventually "Ok fuck it, I'm taking this, I hide it and walk away as if nothing happened. (yet secretly freaking…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 11:59 PM
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The only reason for her to instinctively lie about the guy is because deep down she felt caught and guilty. She went full on defensive. No innocent person would react like that. She hasn't fucked the guy per se, but she definitely still considers it to say the least. This is what causes het behavior. Draw your conclusions.
/r/askTRP04/08/17 04:06 PM
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Gauge interest from eye contact.
/r/askTRP04/08/17 12:46 PM
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You basically broke a plate before you got to spinning it. Maybe. Depending on her self respect. If she has any, you won't see her again. If she doesn't, well... up to you to decide whether that's good or bad. Zero points for courtesy though.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 09:07 AM
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Think about it. Men are the same. We don't talk about it as often but we definitely actively scout our surroundings all the time looking for something to fuck. It doesn't feel like that because it's just so natural, but if you think about it, when you move around in a public space, this is exactly what you are doing. You're basically a moving breathing pussy scanner. Also, the scan happens almost instantly. We don't really actively have to imagine fucking a girl, it's faster than that. We scan h…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 08:15 AM
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The energy source that we link to willpower is still limited. It just seems to be the case that the there are only soft limits to the effects of depleting it, which are influenced by you beliefs and mindset. It's pliable. I bet you would get similar results if you did the same test for physical tasks. People who believe they have endless energy will outperform those who believe otherwise. To me that's not evidence about the nature of willpower at all, but rather the power of one's mindset and be…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 08:01 AM
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Profound comment.
/r/askTRP02/08/17 07:26 AM
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Honestly she didn't. It's just that all before her did an even worse job. Mediocre performance becomes great if you only have worthlessness to compare to.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 06:10 PM
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Belgian too. Maggie De Block made me realize that in the end, nobody knows what the fuck they are doing with their lives, yet somehow there are still enough people who are even more clueless to vote those people into power. This way, they can be incompetent on a far broader scale. Multiply this by a couple of generations and voila, you've got yourself the shithole we live in now. Still glad our average IQ is ok though. For now at least, we'll fuck ourselves over in that regard soon enough. PS: t…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 04:51 PM
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Bought a travel trailer for $10,000 so that I have to realistically only work 20 hours a week to cover my expenses, the rest is pure profit to put into savings so I can travel. So you basically live cheaper so you can afford to work less?
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 10:31 AM
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Almost no matter how alpha you are you can't control awalt and a woman's hypergamy bro. The redpill cornerstone, she's not yours, it's just your turn. I think you make a mistake here. You can not expect to have a lasting relationship when you rely solely on your alpha traits. Being alpha generates attraction, but does not generate an emotional connection. You could reason that this is why hypergamy stays so real in so many relationships, but this is often times false as well. Men tend to soften …
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 07:24 AM
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Thank you guys. When this relationship explodes I'll be back I'm sure, but I actually rationally think this may work. Weird. I think of it as becoming a top tier performer in any 'dream' activity. When you start out it seems impossible, when you attempt it it seems insurmountably hard. When you learn how to do you it quickly realize you're for the most part clueless and incapable. Yet when you do the work, when you stick to it, when you discipline yourself, when you grind through the months and …
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 10:52 AM
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You're addicted to the dopamine shot of new information. The problem is that -as with all sources of informaton- there's no guarantee of value. Often you'll be browsing or searching but not finding. You spend hours upon hours doing this while you may only find something of worth occasionally. It's the same process as the Skinner box. You get hooked by the possibility of valuable information. However, in general it's a very ineffective way of doing so. I think plenty more people struggle with thi…
/r/askTRP31/07/17 09:00 AM
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She says you're acting different, probably because you are. My best guess is that her nuclear tactics like this one is definitely not a novelty. However in the past they were actually effective to some degree. You'd budge on this or that and she'd feel satisfied in her lust for power yet disgusted by the fact that you caved. My bet is you were on a slipperly slope where she loses all respect and attraction for you, yet will keep you as a power/validation/affectionslave while she fucks other guys…
/r/askTRP31/07/17 08:27 AM
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Easy to say on paper, but if all 4 were standing in front of you I bet it's going to be a lot harder. A 5.5 becomes a 3 with competition like that. Also, knowing that you could have had the others will fuck with your head. Your rational brain is peanuts compared to your subconscious, which basically overwhelms your being with a drive to pick the hotter girl. Don't underestimate that.
/r/askTRP29/07/17 10:51 AM
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Yeah, there's usually a lot more to these stories we read on asktrp, it's really hard for people to judge whether or not you've acted optimally. If you want to cut yourself some slack, you can still talk to her for the sake of closure. For yourself obviously, she'll probably not understand for a while at least. But it would give you a good way to get all the shit she's done off your chest and lower the chances of her bothering you still. That or you just keep ghosting her. It's what you feel mos…
/r/askTRP29/07/17 08:52 AM
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I'm probably going to get a lot of flack for this, but I don't care. It reads very smoothly how you told her to instantly fuck off when she said she wasn't exactly happy with your sexual relationship and therefore wanted to experience more. It's by the book, I know that, and there's a good reason why that's the case, but at the same time you're making a move which is socially unwise for lack of a better term. One reply mentioned that if she really did care about you, she wouldn't even conceive t…
/r/askTRP28/07/17 11:20 PM
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Online text game suddenly sounds a lot like poker.
/r/askTRP28/07/17 10:55 PM
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More than one boner is probably a little strange, yes.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/17 11:47 AM
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She's a breathing, organic fleshlight ... some lifeless wet orifice ... Slow down on the compliments there bro, people might think you're some kind of beta. On topic then. You make this seem out to be one giant fuckfest of roughness, the least intense you'll supposedly go is 'slow'. I admit roughness is a positive, but variation is key as well. No matter how rough or animalistic you fuck a girl, the same moves can get tiresome. Not that I think you'd fall into that category, just saying that eve…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/17 11:00 AM
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Looks like she was well prepared for some cuddles.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/17 10:38 AM
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probably 10 orbiters Underestimation at its best.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/17 06:40 AM
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Just make sure you're in a position where you touch eachother from the start. Then proceed with the advice given here. No need to make it rocket science either. All you need to know really is: Touch. Kiss. Make sure she's wet. Fuck. Don't put pressure on yourself.
/r/askTRP28/07/17 06:24 AM
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I feel like I should take some time off from game and just do other things. If you got this shaken from the girl's remark, then yes. Work on yourself. There's a version of you that doesn't give a shit about the opinion of other people because he knows he's acing his life. Focus on that for a bit and come back stronger.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/17 08:47 PM
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I guess half a dad is better than none.
/r/askTRP27/07/17 08:23 PM
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I just find it strange how you can view it as some kind of victory.
/r/askTRP27/07/17 06:13 PM
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You're a dad, but a parttime one. It's not something to be particularly proud of.
/r/askTRP27/07/17 01:04 PM
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Who the fuck cares about Africa. Not even the Africans care, but others should?
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 10:15 PM
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If your SMV is high enough, they will compete for you - and they're viscous about it. I'm usually pretty down to earth and not into pointless drama, but this sure does sound like a ton of (malicious) fun. Witnessing the full force of social feminine viciousness is surely a sight to behold.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 09:54 PM
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True freedom is freedom from all values (e.g., a Buddha or an Ubermensch). True freedom is also freedom from your temporary emotional state. At the end of the day though, true freedom is quite empty and if you focused on that, will feel extremely pointless. It's something that has always felt off with Buddhistic meditation practice for me. The goal is to disconnect from your desires, but this in itself makes life bland. Sure, you're more free, but you don't really desire to do anything with that…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 08:27 PM
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For one, you'll get better at the dating game. However, you'll spend a lot of time trying to get dates and going on dates with girls you'd rather run from. The ones that are at least fuckable are your target practice. With some sick luck you can maybe land a date with someone who's actually worth your time, but its rare. I upped my date game through tinder, but if you're looking for quality, daygame and to a certain extent nightgame is where it's at. Good luck.
/r/askTRP26/07/17 07:41 PM
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Do you have good photos? If you don't, don't bother. Do you enjoy spending time and effort on girls that are most likely not worth it? If you don't, don't bother. Do you like to believe that somewhere in the pile of shit you will find a diamond that was there just for you? If you do, please go ahead and have fun.
/r/askTRP26/07/17 12:44 PM
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Your reply is the perfect summarization of what's wrong with your mentality. The red flag is that you want something but don't want to put in the work. What's worse is that you don't even get the point and that you think you can 'fix' that with doing more of the same.
/r/askTRP26/07/17 12:23 PM
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I hear ya. At the end of the day one could make this an argument about 'honor'. But at this point in time it's a bit like the prisoner dilemma. You're simply shutting yourself out of so many opportunities/lays by sticking to the notion of honor that it becomes hard to justify its value. I guess honor only really 'works' if everyone adheres to it, which definitely is not the case in this day and age. I guess I'm still a sucker for the notion to some degree. I do think it still holds value. Just l…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 11:28 AM
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Just make sure not to validate it.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 10:01 AM
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I promise you, you will never get laid by staring at a woman. In general? Sure. Holding eye contact however is a different ballgame. Plenty of men can't even do it. Learning how is a first step towards improving game. Focus your gaze on your purpose is good advice though. At some point a woman can be your purpose. If you're half a man, eye contact should just be the start.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 10:01 AM
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I think the whole point JamesSkepp was trying to make is this: The girl: I might fuck you if X. You: Ok, X. So you got laid after this because you know how to proceed. The 'issue' people have with the way you played this is that by fulfilling the requirement she set for you, you've opened the door for her to slowly but gradually make sex her bargaining tool. Or at least, in theory. The idea is that you got sex by giving in to what she wanted and that this can basically become everything. The ide…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 09:25 AM
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Yes, tinder chicks are usually shit, because for women it's a different ballgame. It's impossible to be attractive and fun to be around and not get proposals or attention 24/7. For a guy, it's easy enough by not just going out often. As a result you can be a perfectly legitimate dude on tinder and find plenty of damaged goods. In most cases, there is a very good reason why girls are on there. A reason you would spot in a second in person, but is quite hard to spot online. THAT is why they are on…
/r/askTRP26/07/17 08:58 AM
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If she's is intersted, fuck her too. Either way you win.
/r/askTRP26/07/17 08:47 AM
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It can only be a red flag if you automatically assume someone is not on social media because he's a friendless loser. In your age bracket, it's simply uncommon for men to not be on social media because you value your time and social media is a poor way of spending it. The misconception above is easily dismissed if you have a good reason to not be on there. If you manage to own that and actually are an interesting person, it will probably play into your advantage more than anything else.
/r/askTRP26/07/17 08:36 AM
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This is the toughest period. You need to start trusting in your own capacity to navigate your life in the right direction. In a year or two you will probably not even remember what it's like anymore to be as lonely as you are now because you've made new friends by doing things that allow you to grow. Yes, it's a tough time right now I can imagine, but don't give in. It's at the toughest times that you need to give in the least. Trust on your ability to change for the positive and work for it. Yo…
/r/askTRP26/07/17 08:31 AM
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Just don't compliment her before she's shown reliable interest. The rest is up to you, but the more you compliment, the less your compliments are valued.
/r/askTRP26/07/17 08:28 AM
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Women outreproduce men, but the birthrates are still 1:1.
/r/askTRP26/07/17 08:25 AM
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False presumtion of what exactly?
/r/askTRP26/07/17 08:24 AM
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Change pursue to desire and it's a bit more accurate imo. But men are equally born to desire freedom, strength, power, wealth etc. And purpose surpasses all of those.
/r/askTRP25/07/17 08:40 PM
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I guess you would know.
/r/askTRP25/07/17 08:23 PM
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Obviously, who doesn't, nothing stops you from doing that. I'm just saying that not all of them are equally boring.
/r/askTRP25/07/17 08:23 PM
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It's possible in person as well. If you just want sex it's not going to be worth looking for it, but if you want more, be ruthless to those who you don't vibe with and keep hunting until you find someone that fits the bill.
/r/askTRP25/07/17 01:19 PM
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Ever vibed really well with a girl?
/r/askTRP25/07/17 11:27 AM
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Stop watching porn and meditate. You're fucking yourself in the head.
/r/askTRP25/07/17 10:14 AM
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I just want to fuck this particular one. https://www.trp.red/p/mattyanon/260 From the sidebar, with love.
/r/askTRP25/07/17 10:06 AM
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Lol. I have, but not from just not jacking off. Only from when I actually get worked up by a girl who didn't finish the job. If you seriously get blue balls from simply doing everyday things without masturbating, you have (mental) medical issues.
/r/askTRP25/07/17 10:00 AM
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Pain isn't exactly normal after two days. In fact, actual pain should never really occur regardless of how long you haven't jacked off. Go see a doctor.
/r/askTRP25/07/17 09:17 AM
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Trying to be 'smart' about everything makes you socially dumb. Actual intelligence accross the board will make you shut up and suck up a lot of stuff for the sake of letting other people feel comfortable in your presence. You'll only correct them when they ask specifically for your thoughts or advice and at the same time listen to them, and actually listen to what they say and think without jumping on the judge-train right away because you know something is like this or that. An example. I was o…
/r/askTRP25/07/17 08:50 AM
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Mostly because it's unattractive as fuck to be a lowquality entertainment consuming slob in a woman's eyes. Honestly, I despise those programs for what they stand for as well. Mindless 21st century entertainment for those who don't want to think. The thing is, there are plenty of hobbies that will allow you not to think, that's not the problem. The problem is that watching this garbage instantly reverts you to an extremely uninspiring human being. Her gut tells her to leave you, which is what sh…
/r/askTRP25/07/17 08:32 AM
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You're still stuck with the idea that every human interaction is personal. You bump someone on public transport and he freaks out? You take it personally and think it's your -personal- fault for being rude or sloppy. You talk to a girl who rejects you almost instantly? You take it personally and think who you are as a person just isn't 'worthy' of her attention. You go do a job interview and get denied the job? You take it personally and think that you are simply not capable of doing what the jo…
/r/askTRP25/07/17 08:04 AM
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It's about frame. Women want to be with someone who has the capacity to be their rock. That's why they shittest. To see if they can crack their rock. If they can, they're going to lose interest. With good reason. If a woman like her can crack you, what about the thristy horde of invading barbarians? In an LTR it's a bit more complex, but overall you need to make sure that 99% of the time, you are the rock that she desires. Mentally, physically and emotionally. However, there should a small gap i…
/r/askTRP25/07/17 07:41 AM
3

You're making a mistake here dude. Emotions are immune to reason to a very large extent. At best you will simply grow your own cognitive dissonance where you feel something but at the same time tell your mind that it's not good to do so with all the inevitable consequences of such thought processes. In my mind, sex with someone who doesn't trigger you mentally, phyiscally and emotionally is always going to be worse than with someone who does. In an ideal relationship, both of you are affected in…
/r/askTRP25/07/17 07:27 AM
1

So you're confident with what you've achieved for yourself. Good, but not great. Human beings usually find the most meaning in being of service to others. Obviously your job allows you to do that to a certain extent. However, there's no purpose in it from what I can tell. At least not yet. What purpose do you have helping others? What change do you want to help grow in the world? What do you want others to become? I think your sense of meaning and purpose is going to be along the lines of altrui…
/r/askTRP24/07/17 07:01 PM
5

Hah, maybe we should start one. I've actually thought things through a bit further than what I've posted. Not sure why you're getting all this hate though, seems religion or lack of it will always be a tricky subject. Anyway, enjoy your birthday!
/r/askTRP24/07/17 06:44 PM
5

Interesting. I think atheism in general is still in its infancy. The only real difference between atheists and believers, is as you pointed out, the genuine belief in magical fairytales. Jordan Peterson has some interesting insights on this, being that these fairytales are simply a mythical representation of the story of man himself and that the message is more important than the factuality of the story. Take the ark of Noah for example. It's entwined with divine intervention type of bullshit an…
/r/askTRP24/07/17 05:09 PM
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TRP is great at shittest defusing. It seems that when it comes to comfort tests.. not so much. Most of the answers (and content) here evolves around keeping a plate spinning in the most enjoyable way possible. That certainly has its merits, but a plate is not an LTR. At leas not an LTR you are serious about. You always spin plates with the knowledge that at some point, plates break. Yes, AWALT and hypergamy most definitely are still in practice in an LTR, but at the same time, having a lasting L…
/r/askTRP24/07/17 04:51 PM
1

I was the classic BP romantic who would only 'make a move' if I really wanted her. Each and every time I fucked shit up with that strat up until the point where I realized fuck this shit, this is not working at all. In fact it's making me miserable. So then I turned it around 180 and decided to throw my idealized romantic sense of 'love' in the bin and start practicing game on every girl that was not ugly. My standards went from 8.5+ only to 5.5+. Even those on the lower end I would not really e…
/r/askTRP24/07/17 06:50 AM
1

Well from a biochem perspective, you could argue the transfats in peanuts (due to heating) could not be as healthy as say unheated fish fats or plant based oils. That's just nitpicking though. Overall, your body needs variation in order to make sure you get all the different building blocks and vitamins. Another very important aspect which I don't find in your original mealplan is fibres. You'll only really get those from fruits and vegs. I don't know how deep you guys went into gut bacteria, bu…
/r/askTRP23/07/17 07:37 AM
2

Reread what you wrote. You want to look like X, but you dismiss good food as being 'expensive'. You ARE what you eat dude. Everything you put in your mouth is eventually going to become a part of who you are. The fact that you trained 2 years and only gained fat is telling. You might have done the training, but you're treating your own flesh and blood as if it deserves nothing better than peanuts, toast, pasta and protein shakes. Drop the goddamn shakes and eat proper food. EAT VEGETABLES, FRUIT…
/r/askTRP22/07/17 09:54 PM
1

In my opinion (I'm from Belgium), it really doesn't matter that much where you are from or where you are at the spot. What matters more is knowing what you're after and where to get it. You want to bang sluts? Hit bars, night clubs, cheap malls and places where they'd generally hang out. You want an LTR with someone who's got half a brain? Hit college campuses, ideally the ones without the humanities or law. Any science or med faculties should yield better results. Libraries might work too. Of c…
/r/askTRP22/07/17 09:42 PM
2

Recently met someone from Canada and Ukraine who were visiting my country (Belgium). Still amazed at how they were eachother's polar opposites. The Urkanian girl is innocent, barely had sex, respectful and traditional. The Canadian had done as much drugs at 19 as I did at 27 and rambled on about how the male hierarchy is oppressing femininity. She was well traveled but also entitled as fuck. Not to mention, the Urkanian girl was thin. The canadian... well, she looked thin on her photos, but in r…
/r/askTRP21/07/17 08:58 AM
2

No clue about the exact effects, but consider minimizing plastics and scratching cans and pans. Also filter your water. At the end of the day it's going to be better if you do, regardless of the amount of impact it has.
/r/askTRP14/07/17 05:10 PM
2

Do you drink tap water and frequently put your food or drinks in contact with plastics?
/r/askTRP14/07/17 04:49 PM
2

Glad I could help. As with anything, it's a learning curve, but another nifty benefit you get from it is that you'll get better at picking up signals from others when they tiptoe around the truth. Usually something's not right in that case and it can help resolve the situation.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/17 10:09 PM
1

Just checking whether you did all the obvious stuff such as blocking all light and noise, and getting a quality mattress?
/r/askTRP06/07/17 07:49 PM
22

Don't shit where you eat. Otherwise just make your terms clear and hit it.
/r/askTRP06/07/17 07:08 AM
5

You classify them as a hot chick before you classify them as a human being. Turn that shit around and interact from there. The moment you make the interaction about you gaining something from her, you lost.
/r/askTRP01/07/17 03:47 PM
5

Not OP, but... Would the red pill biological take on it be that post-wall women are seen as completely undesirable for anything other than sex (if that) past a certain age? Fixed. Red pill is just a term used to cover a certain approach to truth that does not sugarcoat anything. It's about the facing and accepting the cold hard reality and going from there. I don't think anyone honestly cares about who you are and what you do with your life. That's up to you to decide. Whether you are a 40 year …
/r/askTRP01/07/17 07:23 AM
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Get in there you stud. Feel her up nice and good. Get those fatrolls between your fingers. Squeeze that lipid love like you mean it. We all know this is what you want to hear. This is the validation you needed to let go and unleash the inner whaler in you. MAN THE HARPOONS!
/r/askTRP29/06/17 04:58 PM
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Ah... The eternal struggle between the juggler and the wobble of a plate. Looks like it's her time, or about to be.
/r/askTRP28/06/17 03:39 PM
1

absolutely gorgeous. Strong 7 Strong 7 and absolutely gorgeous is a but of an euphemism in my book.
/r/askTRP27/06/17 08:25 PM
9

Please teach us, sensei.
/r/askTRP27/06/17 08:24 PM
6

Yeah, a truly sincere smile is. The one you bring up because you're so goddamn satisfied with life that you can't help but smile. It radiates happiness and people are drawn to it. However, you can't really fake it. People will notice and you'll end up being better off not smiling in the first place.
/r/askTRP27/06/17 03:48 PM
1

Exactly. No one is born equally, but everyone has the ability to improve or deteriorate from their starting point. Obviously you could also mention upbringing and parenting, which will be a powerful enabling or disabling factor, but it terms of being able to mold your own self esteem, it all really begins once you're able and willing to take full responsibility for who you aim to become.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/17 07:33 AM
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Horses are gigantic babies that can make them orgasm without having their number. Femininity solved. The rest of their existence becomes irrelevant.
/r/askTRP26/06/17 02:50 PM
1

Ultimately it should be up to women to be selecting men, and factoring the in the kinds of aspects you describe before deciding to give any intimacy. The reality of modern day society though is that most women do not - and instead go where their feelings // attractions take them. This is true, and it is highly related to our valueless hedonistic culture. However it's not solely on the female to 'be the bigger man' when it comes to relationships. At least if you are talking about healthy, serious…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 10:26 AM
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You've been brainwashed mate. Open your eyes. Non Muslim men have to pay a small jizya too just like everybody does. "Just like everybody does." Islam divides the world into muslims and non-muslims and suppresses those who do not agree. If you truly can not see how this is the embodiment of inequality I'm sorry for your enormous cognitive dissonance. him and his family never attacked any innocent civilians. Obviously. No army in the world has ever attacked innocent civilians. And guess what, no …
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 06:12 AM
1

I agree with that, but it doesn't contradict what I said. The specificity of the role you take is indeed not equal to hers. Just like she will -preferably- take a more caring, supportive role, you will take a more leading and protective role. In order to do so you must be one step ahead and she may follow. However, you can only fully devote yourself to that task when you have someone there to take care of your logistics and nourishment. Obviously you can do everything yourself as well, but it wo…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/17 06:02 AM
1

The idea of associating (above) is that you believe it, feel it, intellectualize (call on your experience) until it is true. This can work, for sure. I'm just saying that there's two different approaches you can take from there. You could either do the actual work to make it true, aided by your self induced beliefs (which is perfectly fine) OR you could become so infatuated with your created beliefs of your ability that you lose the motivation to do the work. Whether that's a problem depends on …
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 09:12 PM
1

The idea that nobody is more important than yourself is narcisstic. Nope, it's reality. Narcisism is believing that you are the best. Nobody is more important to you than yourself. If you weren't there, there would be nothing.
/r/askTRP25/06/17 09:02 PM
1

Exhausting all your physical strength in what resembles battlerage. You know, that thing men used to be able to do before guns existed.
/r/askTRP25/06/17 08:59 PM
2

Yeah, the interviews do seem to be the most interesting from my perspective. I live in Belgium, not too far from the UK then heh. I'm very familiar with the whole foreign labour force concept. It's been a disaster for all parties involved. The migrants thought at first that they'd return to their home countries, but they never did. Our states bred complacency in them and allowed their families to come over without knowing what the fuck they were doing. So we had this generation who never felt li…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 04:51 PM
2

When's the last time you let the inner beast out? In your case, have you even ever done that?
/r/askTRP25/06/17 04:34 PM
2

The thing is, I've been following this trend for years. I live in a European suburb with a high percentage muslim population. I know the West is in a state of decay. What I'm interested in is what to do about it. Obviously reading his book won't hurt one bit, but I've read plenty of books like it in the past and they usually don't go much further than saying: "Open your eyes. We are (about to get) fucked." I want to contemplate on what's next. What's our answer, or what should it be? In fact I'v…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 04:21 PM
2

Heh, yeah, I've been following Murray for a while on YT and such, but I don't think I'll get the book because I already know what's in there in broad lines. I'm interested in what comes after. In the conclusions and solutions that should be drawn from that knowledge.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 04:09 PM
1

Honesty does not mean you can not be selective. You can be perfectly honest in your approaches to strangers, but at the same time be perfectly selective of which personal truths you are unveiling. Complete silence and honesty do not have to contradict eachother. At most, there is the unwillingness of being open, which is perfectly reasonable, especially towards strangers.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 04:07 PM
1

Feminists make the same mistake, just like the entire postmodern ideology. They place value judgements on truths that do not have inherent value. Value is a human construct placed upon the world, created to divide it into categories that serve purpose or pose threats. Feminists believe masculinity poses a threat, but that is only so because they refuse to acknowledge their own femininity and therefore push themselves into the realm of masculinity. True masculinity. With which of course they can …
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 03:11 PM
1

Honesty is earned (and it should not be freely given). I believe you are mistaking honesty for trust.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 03:05 PM
1

I completely agree that they are fundamentally different, but I don't agree that you can therefore unequivocally derive a value judgement of the two. The value judgement needs a certain point of orientation. You could pick something like protection. Using protection as a viewpoint, sure, man's love for a woman (and child) is more generally protective. Looking at a woman's love, she is far more likely to protect her child than her man, thus it is in the very least more selective and in terms of p…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 02:56 PM
2

CBT & NLP = Skipping to the end and realizing the middle doesn't matter. The point is that the middle does matter. Again, using antidepressants as a metaphore here: depression is like being stuck in a pit with no way out. Antidepressants can make you feel as if the pit really isn't that deep and that it's possible to get out of it. However, the pit is still just as deep as it was before you took the antidepressants. Your life and its environment is still just as shitty and the circumstances that…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 02:39 PM
2

Polarity has no inherent value judgement. South is not better than North. Plus is not better than Minus. A positive charge is not better than a negative charge. Masculinity is not better than Femininity. Like positive and negative charges, they attract, but they are of equal value. This does not mean they are physically equal.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 02:21 PM
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Your claim that the masculine-feminine dynamic must be value based is simply not true. Masculinity and femininity are two sides of the same coin. Both have their own strengths and weaknesses. If there would have been an inherent hierarchical value, evolution would have wiped the differences out, because that which is superior will proliferate at the expense of the other. The only reason why one would force a value judgement on it (in favor of the masculine of course) is to cover up their own ins…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 02:03 PM
3

Islam is about egalitarianism. Wow. No. It's about world domination and male dominance. Male muslims are clearly the top of the hierarchy, with every other being on earth being lower than them. You even yourself say that the man can say divorce three times and be divorced. It doesn't work like that for women. Very egalitarian. Sorry but you're delusional about the nature of Islam. People fear for their lives because they don't take the shit it forces them to do anymore every single day. It's a t…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 01:56 PM
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You're mistaking inequality in biological terms with value based inequality. Being biologically different from one another does not logically imply a difference in opinionated value. This value judgement is manmade, the biological reality is not. Also, you can be perfectly honest in game. Honesty only relates to yourself. Before you can be dishonest to someone, you have to be dishonest to yourself. You can be selective in your interaction, but that doesn't mean you are dishonest.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 12:57 PM
1

Do you even lift, bro?
/r/askTRP25/06/17 12:34 PM
3

I don't want to blame Soy as a culprit but could it be having feminizing effects? Probably the most masculine question I've read so far. You're good bro. /s
/r/askTRP25/06/17 12:29 PM
1

She also hides the extent of her habit from me and tells me she cannot be honest because it brings up painful emotions. Facing those emotions is the only way she will ever get past them. You can either help her with that (if she wants to do it) or leave her. Your call.
/r/askTRP25/06/17 12:27 PM
1

Not at all. It's always better to do what you enjoy for the sake of it than to try and change yourself into something else for the sake of others. Your humor will develop when you age, but it's much harder to relearn yourself to do stuff simply because you enjoy them once you started self censoring yourself. Never self censor. It will come off as inauthetic and tryhard and will only backfire at the end.
/r/askTRP25/06/17 11:04 AM
0

Is that you?
/r/askTRP25/06/17 10:58 AM
2

Keep your goofball attitude. It's killer, trust me. The biggest mistake many guys make is that they get in their own heads too much when they talk to women. The only little extra you need is to be able to switch it up and transition into 'serious mode'. Or rather, rapport building mode. The general idea is to really look and really listen. She's wearing some accessory which looks south american? Tell her she looks like she's been to SA recently. Her intonation changes when a certain topic comes …
/r/askTRP25/06/17 10:53 AM
2

It depends on what you want. The big difference between SMV and game is that SMV gets girls infatuated (long term), game is merely short term sexual attraction. If your endgoal is to master LTRs, you'll definitely need both. However, if your endgoal is to become the ultimate pussy slayah, you're far better off fully investing into game. In fact, low SMV (or at least perceived low SMV) will play in your favor! There are plenty of girls who just want dick. You would be that guy, without really hav…
/r/askTRP25/06/17 10:42 AM
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I've been in a similar situation. What got me out was learning game, not lifting. I know now that the key is not this or that specific type of activity. It's as you say, something you can do obsessively instead. Obviously, being physically removed from you addiction helps, but for me, it wasn't really necessary. Instead of gaming I'd spend hours learning about game online and trying it out in the weekends. Overall, you simply need to come to terms with your reality in real life, and if you have …
/r/TheRedPill24/06/17 06:47 PM
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That will kill your addiction immediately. No. Your brain's still the same. If you're not careful, it will find a new, more insiduous way to satisfy the cravings.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/17 06:42 PM
1

I'd say you're actually in a better position than you think. You know your position is shit, so no point defending that. You know you want to improve. Great. All you need to know now is in which direction. Where to bro? ('more money' is not the answer)
/r/askTRP24/06/17 05:18 PM
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Well there you go don't you? Figure it out. Pen+paper+zero distractions. Write down values, interests, goals, skills, ambitions. Ask yourself why you're writing them down. Ask yourself how you can create value by living according to what you wrote down. Ask yourself who you can create value for, how and why. It won't answer everything on the spot, but it will kickstart your journey towards finding your way. Before you know it, you'll know it and then the real work starts.
/r/askTRP24/06/17 05:11 PM
4

doing stuff that works Anti depressants at first may seem like they work, too. That does not mean they solve the actual problem. Again, I'm not saying it's worthless, I'm just saying it's dangerous to see it as a solution when it's merely a symptomatic coping mechanism.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/17 03:22 PM
8

If you think all women are out there for grabs and literally every word they say is a shit test then you're going to be in for a very rough ride. The key to getting laid on tinder is not to master every conversation and lead it into a date. The key is to set up everything in order to bait out those who are already DTF and not waste your time with women who say they are looking for something serious. Most of them, most of the time actually do mean that when they say it. They are literally looking…
/r/askTRP24/06/17 02:09 PM
4

Sure, like antidepressants cure depressions. (They don't.) I'm not saying it can't possibly benefit anyone in any way. I'm saying that it's a poor symptomatic approach to a deeply ingrained problem, with the real risk of fooling yourself into thinking that you're actually solving the problem simply by being selective in your perception of reality. Like antidepressants, they can serve as a kickstarter for real progress, but to portray this as an actual cure is comical at best and otherwise potent…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/17 01:54 PM
2

Pretty much what has been said already, but I also swapped my plastic toothbrush for a wooden one with pig hair.
/r/askTRP24/06/17 11:26 AM
4

this is how stereotypes are born
/r/TheRedPill24/06/17 11:17 AM
4

You're setting yourself up for self instigated chronic cognitive dissonance. In simpler terms, you're training yourself to lie to yourself. However way you try to spin this, it's simply counterproductive in the long term, at the very least in terms of mental health. I disagree with your idea of the superior attitude because you don't make the distinction between actualized superiority and genetic superiority. The latte can have some nasty implementations and completely destroys the equal value p…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/17 11:05 AM
1

Who would have guessed that the answer to feelings of inferiority actually is... becoming less inferior! Shocker. It's a tough road though, I'll admit. Admitting that you can use some help with it is probably the hardest part. Something which is a lot harder if there's nobody around with ways to help you in the first place. I believe this kind of discourse is going to become more and more common for those who want to climb in our social environment, and I applaud the effort. The thing is though,…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/17 10:35 AM
-5

This is some self masturbatory shit. If you actually accomplish stuff you will feel good about it. Implying that indoctrinating yourself with the significance of these actions will somehow improve your life is weak at best. Nobody ignores their own successes, but if you're after self esteem, it's probably better to focus on growth that enables those successes in the first place, rather than risking complacency by jerking off at your own accomplishments from the past.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/17 10:16 AM
3

It's tricky. Your feels aren't nothing. Power through them enough and you'll burn yourself out, throwing yourself further back than where you were before you started. On the other hand, listen to them too much and you'll end up no-lifing precious time which is needed to accomplish the things that matter to you. The solution is two fold. First, find what truly matters to you. At times where you need to show determination and grit, you need something to graft your determination onto. This is why h…
/r/askTRP23/06/17 09:20 PM
1

Not all gifts are appropriate.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 05:09 PM
1

Yeah, if you share the core values then specifics probably won't matter as much.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 04:35 PM
2

Focus first and foremost on your own personal development. This includes social interactions, but most importantly a purpose that does not entail any other specific person. Figure out what kind of value you want to create, for who and how. Work on that to the point where you can live off of it. During these efforts, talk to women and try to find a worthwhile prospect.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 04:23 PM
1

You're making the nonsensical claim here. Not me.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 04:12 PM
1

There's plenty of evidence which I'm not going to dig up for you, but in reality it's not THE determining factor of the wellbeing of the child. It's just one. There's tons of factors. Obviously you can tip the balance in ways that who the parents really are becomes irrelevant, but that doesn't make the factor irrelevant on itself. Look believe what you want, I don't really care. But common sense goes a long way sometimes. To claim that there is no benefit in being raised by your biological paren…
/r/askTRP22/06/17 04:09 PM
1

The problem is that she will hold it against you for confronting her bullshit. Getting your bullshit confronted doesn't feel good, for nobody. But girls are especially bad at this. They're not used to grinding through the dirt to get a gem. They get the gems thrown at them. They can't fathom what it takes to get those damn gems (truths) out of the earth. The thing is, politics is very deeply entrenched with the belief system in the brain. This in turn is linked to the identity. It can get messy …
/r/askTRP22/06/17 04:01 PM
1

If you want to make an honest comparison, you'll need to consider equal parenting value of the biological and non-biological parents. In that case, only another stable couple can come close to the same results the parents would have had. Single parents or any other form of 'modern' parenting is objectively worse for the child.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 03:54 PM
3

Having to support all those kids and whatnot (not to mention pushing them out of your vagina and wrecking your body) being stuck with them alone if your mate selection was bogus... shivers I find it absolutely horrifying that people these days are so goddamn hedonistic that their view on life has become so superficial that the only thing they see is stimulation of the senses and economical impact. Sure raising kids will not be the best sensual stimulation. You can fuck around and party for that.…
/r/askTRP22/06/17 03:43 PM
1

The opposite?
/r/askTRP22/06/17 03:30 PM
1

Family yes, marriage, not necessarily. But I would be very reluctant with sexual activity and focus primarily on screening men for worthy candidates. Which unfortunately would be very hard, as it is for men in this day and age too. Basically if a family is the goal, act like it. Some of my recent replies to other thread go into more detail, but that's the general idea.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 02:50 PM
1

Here's how I see it: a man's attraction is based primarily on a woman's appearance. A woman's attraction is based primarily on a man's behavior (frame). Both of these can fade at different speeds, but don't necessarily have to if you make conscious efforts to keep them in check. This goes for both parties. You could call it attraction managment. Obviously there are several different aspects of which attraction consists and you can't control everything, but if the foundations are right, you can g…
/r/askTRP22/06/17 02:11 PM
2

If you think that that's what going to make or break your success, then I'm afraid you are to a certain degree delusional, yes. It can help you out but in the end, initial attraction is going to fade for both sides. The key is to be aware and honest about this. Make sure your goals and values are as aligned as possible before you decide to go for it and keep working on it with and open and honest approach. The key is trust. If you can't trust someone, it won't work, guaranteed. I'd say that's fa…
/r/askTRP22/06/17 01:27 PM
1

It's simple biology. Putting it into practice however is an entirely different matter.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 01:21 PM
1

I feel the same way, but there's something missing from your reasoning. You don't really seem to grasp the fact that nothing you can say or do to them will actually grant you the desired outcome. Why would they listen? Why is your message special? Nobody cares. I believe the only real way to make a dent is to focus on yourself and become someone people actually want to listen to (regardless of what your actual message is) . Once there, you'll need to have the dignity to use that power for good r…
/r/askTRP22/06/17 01:17 PM
2

It's obviously possible. Will it be easy? No. Possible? Sure.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 01:07 PM
1

If you do your research you can cum inside her perfectly fine and not worry about pregnancy. However this means you absolutely need to make sure you know what the fuck you are doing. There's various techniques such as measuring temperature and viscosity of vaginal slime that can determine in which stage of the ovulation your gf is. This gives you certain time windows where you can have sex without risking a child. Obviously there are no hard boundaries and it is very easy to fuck up if you have …
/r/askTRP22/06/17 11:29 AM
2

Human children are better off being raised by their biological mother and father. In the sense that you care about the well-being of your offspring, a woman NEEDS a man. Obviously, since it's 2017 women these days are being applauded for putting their own interests above their children's. So yeah, they like to think that they don't need shit.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 11:23 AM
1

Well the thing with locks (especially headlocks) is that if you don't submit, you can forget the option of choosing to submit in the first place. There's a vid of a guy choking an aggressive dude out in the metro. It's probably the best thing he could have done. The guy didn't tap at all, in fact he tried to get back up afterwards showing no sign of remorse. Once he realized he's overpowered he starts to pry for pity, playing the victim. These guys simply can't reason for shit anymore. I guess t…
/r/askTRP22/06/17 10:06 AM
1

Complex question. First off it depends on what you want for yourself. If you're smitten with the joy of having sex and don't care about kids, you should be able to get yourself a confident guy or two who have their shit together and a strong frame and sex drive. Attraction really isn't the hard part for women if you're reasonably attractive. Take proper care of yourself and embrace your femininity. The hard part is probably to find a guy matching the criteria as plenty of guys won't even be remo…
/r/askTRP22/06/17 07:24 AM
1

Good points. I guess it's naive to think that a guy who's mentally unstable enough to resort to violence against an absolute monstrosity such as myself would be reasonable to calm down by talking to him. Just kidding, I'm not that big at all, but yeah. Usually the aggressor's mental state is going to be far removed from considering a peaceful outcome. I am really curious as to what extent mental states are pliable though, in any situation.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 06:56 AM
1

They want the comfort of mutual exclusive emotional investment. Men can desire this just as equally. This is perfectly natural. However, it's commonly denounced here due to the implications such a desire holds for most men and their relationships, in most situations.
/r/askTRP21/06/17 09:31 PM
6

The big lie consists mainly of the cultural remnants of religious and postmodern thinking in the western society. Monogamous marriage is praised, the true extent of human sexuality still not fully acknowledged. This is in combination with the surge of feminism and the erosion of the social structures that were a result of a more firm grip of religion on society. Even though the extent of sexual behavior is not fully acknowledged, hedonistic, short sighted sexual activity is being praised. Mainly…
/r/askTRP21/06/17 09:25 PM
1

Then guard your mental space. Every time you catch yourself thinking about her, you're not thinking about your own growth. It's not as bad as it sounds, but just become mentally aware and don't let it get out of hand.
/r/askTRP21/06/17 05:42 PM
7

I can only imagine fucking in a car to be physically limiting, but a threesome?
/r/TheRedPill21/06/17 05:38 PM
2

How did you guys get together? Most of these first time relationships are just ways to ride the mutual dopamine wave until it fades enough to realize that you are not as compatible as you thought. LTRs are only worth it if you want to go all the way with her. If you don't see that happening, don't bother too much and keep working on yourself. This includes your social skills.
/r/askTRP21/06/17 05:34 PM
9

You're managing your emotional investment poorly. Keep fucking her if you want, but take a step back and look at the situation you're in. If you stay emotionally invested with this chick it is going to self destruct sooner or later. Look for less of a freak if you want the emotional investment part. You could even do that while you enjoy this ride. Obviously marry her tho, that's going to make it easier while it lasts.
/r/askTRP21/06/17 03:30 PM
1

NA chicks in Europe are considered extremely loose and forward by European standards, but I wouldn't be surprised if they were less so back home. Overall, EU chicks are more grounded I guess. Not as shallow overall and possibly less whalesized, but these are broad generalisations. Pretty useless question tho.
/r/askTRP21/06/17 03:10 PM
1

Why are you telling this to us when you could say it to your girlfriend? Tell her the truth.
/r/askTRP21/06/17 02:40 PM
1

Ideally I'd love to master standing arm/wrist/finger/joint locks. Sure, I'll take a hit, but once I've got a hold of the guy he's basically in my control. Good takedown/swipe techniques are also key of course. Sure the real fun starts when they're on the ground, but I don't care as much since if I want the guy to receive serious injure plain old stomping will work fine. The problem with striking is that the tension doesn't really get resolved. If anything it worsens.
/r/askTRP21/06/17 01:51 PM
2

Good luck with whatever you decide to do. Oh and one last tip: if she doesn't agree or wants to cut corners, drop her. Respect starts with yourself.
/r/askTRP21/06/17 12:50 PM
6

What. The. Fuck.
/r/askTRP21/06/17 12:48 PM
3

If you don't know the difference between empathy and compassion, might wanna look it up.
/r/askTRP21/06/17 12:12 PM
1

What the fuck do you want dude? Have her change her behavior so you can have a smooth relationship where you don't freak out all the time? You want her to change so that you don't have to? What is it? To be honest your biggest problem is this: you have no clue what you want and how to get it. Let's say you actually want to have a serious monogamous relationship with this girl. Ok fine, then you will need to act like it: Give her the talk. Tell her that if she wants to keep seeing you, there are …
/r/askTRP21/06/17 11:56 AM
8

I'm a timetraveler from the future and I came here to say this: This guy fucks.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/17 11:34 AM
1

If I could do it again, I would do it all over.
/r/askTRP21/06/17 07:33 AM
1

Evolutionary fear of being rejected. AKA approach anxiety. Totally. Whatever you want it to be. It could be direct and honest. ??? Didn't read, but probably so yes. If you catch a girl checking you out, you got 2 choices: go and say hi or pussy out and 'keep frame' ???
/r/askTRP21/06/17 07:30 AM
3

Haha, this right here is why they block you dude.
/r/askTRP21/06/17 07:24 AM
1

You'll learn to look for kino friendly elements in bars soon enough. As mentioned above, pool tables, couches, bar seats, ...
/r/askTRP21/06/17 07:22 AM
1

Walking wins hands down. She'll be most at ease and plenty opportunity for casual kino.
/r/askTRP21/06/17 07:20 AM
3

I was thinking the other way around. muay thai/boxing for a year and then stick to BJJ. Once you can strike and learn to interact with punches you're good, but technique in BJJ can always be improved on? Only downside is lack of standing combat in BJJ
/r/askTRP21/06/17 07:18 AM
1

Username checks out. Seriously tho, it's how men strategize. They analyse, plan, rationalize and think. This also goes for sexuality. Her calling you a pervert for acting like a man is like you calling her a fake doll because she wears make up. She probably won't understand if you explain because women don't consciously think about it like men do. Heck, it's probably why they feel 'entitled' to it, because they don't put in conscious effort. But guess what, every guy thinks about it consciously,…
/r/askTRP21/06/17 07:13 AM
4

Passing on my genes is essentially what got my out of my downward spiral. Failed college due to excessive gaming since I was 10, stumbled around the lowest tiers of the job market while living at my parents' house. At one point I realized I've always wanted kids. My kids. And a woman to raise them with. Not just a woman, a woman of my choosing. At that point in time it dawned on me that I would be the last person I'd date if I was a girl. Cue responsibility and self ownership and I've been on th…
/r/askTRP20/06/17 08:47 PM
1

Pen and paper. List: Interests, goals, values, skills. Answer: What has my life been so far? Where do I want it to go? What are my pitfalls? How do I want to create value? To who? How do I think about the world and the problems it presents? How do I operate? Analytical? Impulsive? Technical?
/r/askTRP20/06/17 08:34 PM
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To be frank, that post supports quite the underhand tactics. Insinuating that asking for commitment is somehow an unhonorable move on her part. As if she's the one destroying something great. Women want commitment. We all know that. What's wrong in simply being honest about the whole thing? The outcome will be fairly similar, only more honorably dealt with. The key is to be ready to walk away from the get go, that much is certain.
/r/askTRP20/06/17 08:29 PM
0

Once you've taken the pill, wearing leather and sunglasses is mandatory when out in the matrix.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 06:15 PM
5

Bring a physical notebook and a pen or 2 to write down thoughts at the end of the day.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 06:13 PM
10

Act like they don't exist. Sure they're annoying as fuck, but simply deny their existance and go about your day. Oh and be happy about it, that pisses them off bigtime.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 05:08 PM
2

In both cases I saw the text, didn't open it...went off and did something else...15 minutes after the previously agreed time I replied with "Oh...just got this..." Then of course she would freak out... Chances of this happening are slim to say the least. Most of them just decided they don't give a shit. If they did, they would have notified you earlier about the 'thing', which is pretty much the only case in which you can reliably try to get her to reschedule. Sure it might be salvagable with th…
/r/askTRP19/06/17 05:05 PM
2

You're welcome. It's just the theory though, the practice is another matter. ;)
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/17 03:49 PM
1

It's not easy, but it's the only way to reduce frustration in your life. By learning how to accept what is and what is not in your power to change, you will notice that you become a lot less attached to outcomes you can not guarantee. The fact that people do not follow up perfectly to advice is not something you can control. Instead of being angry at the guy for making mistakes that he was going to make due to how his brain functions, you can choose to be satisfied with yourself for doing your p…
/r/askTRP19/06/17 02:52 PM
3

You're tormenting yourself through your self perpetuated illusion of control over the interactions. You acted and you got results. Your mind tricked you into thinking that you gained control over the system while that's not how it works. It's a cumulation of laws of causality. Sure, some of the causes required for the outcome you desire are within your capacity, but the majority are not. If you truly had control, you wouldn't need game. You would simply be able to bypass the system alltogether. …
/r/askTRP19/06/17 02:44 PM
1

Ever heard of Epictetus? Here's a quote: "Men are disturbed not by things, but by the views which they take of things. " You're getting angered because reality does not align with your judgement of how you want reality to be. It's when you start to accept reality for what it is that you can move forward. You can't change people by showing them the light. You can only do you and lead by example. They will see it at their own pace, or not. That is up to them, not you.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 02:06 PM
1

You got her in the bag if you really want. We can't tell you if you do tho. Plate status at most.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 02:03 PM
5

Is it posssible to friend zone a woman I thought i could but turns out i cant i thought that if i act like im her friend, treat her like a friend she (HB7) would think of me as being her friend and her friend only basically treat her like one of my guy friends and it would stay like that Holy mother of syntax.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 12:52 PM
1

Tough call, but judging from Tommy Robinson, you'd basically be the state's puppet. Not a good place to be at right now imo. If you could work your way up to SWAT-like police force, you'll have plenty of action in the coming years if that's what you're after. Other than that you could always try it out if the leaving period isn't unreal.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 12:50 PM
3

Or will we women also bore our man if we compliment him too much?? It's about honesty. Speak the truth. If you feel he did something right, you can compliment him for it. However, don't ever sugarcoat the truth. If he made a mistake in his approach, or if he's sloppy, don't leave it out. Don't ignore it. Focus on the objective reality and how growth might be possible, not on an idealized version of it. Men like it when someone tells them the truth (usually). It shows the confidence and respect n…
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/17 12:47 PM
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I was raised partly by a nanny who got along really well with our family. My mom worked full-time so there was no way for her to be there. However, at times we had to get a replacement nanny and I recall it to be a horrendous affair. I'm sure that this is what happens at daycare as well and I'll always refuse to set up such an arrangement with my future kids. The ideal picture is to have a stay at home mom as my partner who's happy to do so. I wouldn't mind her working on the side or whatever if…
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/17 12:40 PM
1

"Is there anything in your past that still makes you emotional?" You could ask this. This guy sounds like he's traumatized by something and he's not over it. He's internalized it and it erupts when he stops putting up his facade. In theory, I'm sure this guy can recover, but you can't make him and chances are he won't appreciate your intentions when you try to help him do so. After all, he probably hasn't even properly accepted his reality. It's on him to overcome it and break free. As for yours…
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/17 12:35 PM
1

But.. he's totally missing out on the advice that shy men should just look for shy girls and that there's absolutely nothing wrong with how they are and that they will find someone special in the end!
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 12:28 PM
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His wife is 20 years older. Dunno about the herpes though. About kids, well, the number (and quality) of eggs in women decrease when they age. Look it up, it's downhill from birth basically, but especially bad after 35ish. Genetic disorders are much more frequent at that age. You could in theory go for it, but it's a risk you need to keep in mind.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 11:16 AM
1

Yup. It's toxic. Not sure how to expose/defuse it tho should you wish to do so in a similar situation.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 11:13 AM
2

If Macron can do it, you can too. Go free world! Forget about children though.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 11:09 AM
1

Frustration turned into anger and resentment. You're immune to her 'charm', she can't cope with it. She's going to become a real sweetheart when she gets closer to the wall I'm sure.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 10:56 AM
1

Yeah, they don't even know themselves what is going on. Their subconscious is in firm control. They just rationalize in hindsight.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 10:33 AM
1

I meant after you quit your job. It doesn't have to be in a foreign country or expensive. Just backpacking through natural reserves for instance is a great way to break free for a while.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 10:32 AM
1

It's interesting how counterintuitive this is. You actually have to try way harder to show you're 'really truly' interested in her to shush her hamster saying "this guy lacks confidence and just wants an easy lay". They are effectively cutting themselves out of the market since if you're putting in that much effort for an chick, you wouldn't pick an ugly one.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 10:20 AM
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It's tricky. Not much you can really do there unless you do indeed have strong eye contact. In that case, confidently sign her to come over. If she does, you obviously get up and talk to her. If she doesn't, you might still have a chance if you happen to bump into eachother later, but at least you tried.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 10:17 AM
1

Tough question. I'm normally not a fan of delaying the obvious, but I will say that quitting addictive behavior is easier if it's accompagnied with a change of scenery. Be it mental or physical, or both. The path of least resistance is probably to combine those efforts with some sort of traveling activity where you can come to your senses and work on yourself in between relaxing. It's a good way to relieve the early cravings, but beware about returning to old settings and routines. It might seem…
/r/askTRP19/06/17 10:13 AM
3

Be in the moment and be 100% in tune with who you are and where you are going in life. In other words, sort yourself out. It's the closest you can get.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 10:10 AM
4

Chad is that you? Seriously, the moment you think it's up to her is the moment things die out. All they way until you're in an actual relationship with her.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 08:18 AM
1

I just got out of one I've been in since I was 23. That's why you weren't insecure about your age. There was nobody judging you. All in all it's not such a big deal if you don't act like your general hitting-the-wall woman who's too good for the people who actually want her. You got that out of this confrontation so you're one step ahead of your competition. Oh and last but not least, sure, age is a factor, but there are plenty of women over 30 who are more attractive than most women under. It's…
/r/askTRP19/06/17 08:16 AM
1

Learn game. There's no quick fix. Learn body language and conversation skills. Deep diving, creating rapport, eye contact, ... And focus on yourself, not on a specific chick.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 08:12 AM
2

You're thinking of it the wrong way. Giving her attention is a gift. Getting her off is a bigger gift. Being emotionally invested is a massive gift. That's what you use to reward good behavior. Material gifts are simply cultural. Don't do it if it's not expected. Except do it when it's unexpected. But don't give random stuff. Give stuff that you know she wants for a specific reason. Give her an unexpected trip to x or y. Give her a new drawing set because she likes to draw and complains about he…
/r/askTRP19/06/17 08:09 AM
5

I want her to initiate physical contact. You want her to take up the masculine role because you're too scared to do it yourself. You seductive Casanova you. Surely this attitude is making her wet. She's in the exact same position. It's up to you to do something about it. Or be a pussy and let it be a dead end.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 08:02 AM
1

I didn't have an insecurity about it but all of the sudden I am reeling in horror at my new found, deep, terrible insecurity which has been newly created. It's been there all along. You just got confronted with it. Sure it doesn't feel good, but it's better to face it and accept it. That's the only way to move on. Welcome to the red pill. Do you want an LTR? Start learning to tell which guys just want sex and which are serious. You've got to realize that often the most sexually attractive guys a…
/r/askTRP19/06/17 07:59 AM
2

2 great friends of mine who were best friends among eachother completely destroyed that relationship over a girl. She was and is a great catch. One of them is still together with her and it's likely they'll get a family going one day. I don't believe they hate eachother now, but it's a tragedy in my opinion. As for your case, look, let's be honest. This isn't going to work. The girl isn't interested. In fact, she wouldn't mind if you went for it it seems. It boils down to this, in human sexualit…
/r/askTRP19/06/17 07:44 AM
5

do I have a chance ? Do you have a dick?
/r/askTRP19/06/17 07:36 AM
2

Mein Kampf.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 07:35 AM
2

Ever did something great the first time you ever did it?
/r/askTRP19/06/17 07:34 AM
1

In all honesty if the guy knows what he's doing it's nothing to worry about. If not, it's still mostly on him not to fuck up.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 07:32 AM
1

Check out similar blogs, see what works and what doesn't. However, just start out small and write. A big factor is how well you write and how good your content is. You can't get that from your competition, although you could get a feel for a certain style. Biggest thing is to get it out there. You can always backtrack on the layout and webdesign, you can't backtrack on the spur of the moment. The more you do, the more you learn. Don't spend too much time contemplating. It's not that hard. Oh and…
/r/askTRP19/06/17 07:29 AM
3

Lead by example and surround yourself with people who help you achieve. Maybe your old friends will pick up on it, maybe not. Their loss. You can't save them, they can only save themselves.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 07:26 AM
2

It's gonna suck, but you're gonna learn. If you don't do it you're not gonna learn. Do it.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 07:24 AM
18

Congratsulations, you won the interwebs. You're right, but it's just one of those things.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 07:22 AM
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The difference between you and him is that he doesn't think. He doesn't think about what he should be doing nor what other people think of him. Indirectly, this shows great confidence. You on the other hand (definitely compared to him) will be in your head, having trouble to be in the moment and behave unapologetically in the way that you want. You're encaged by your thoughts. It's not about being 'funny'. It's about uncompromisingly being yourself. Stop caring about his success and start living…
/r/askTRP19/06/17 07:21 AM
1

If you're a catch to them, even pretending to like just one of them will sting the others. You're better off not giving them any signals, or giving them all signals equally.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 06:32 AM
2

She's the one plating you instead of the other way around. You could be worse off, but the only way to 'fix' that is to raise your SMV.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 06:24 AM
3

Complacency and genuine interest in other men.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 06:23 AM
1

Agree and amplify could work. "We're getting married next month." Then when they keep asking tell them that if there's anything worth mentioning, they'll know.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 06:17 AM
4

Read the damn sidebar dude holy shit. "IF YOUR PROBLEM IS "THERE IS THIS ONE GIRL", YOU'RE DOING IT WRONG." It's on the sidebar for a reason. SORT YOURSELF
/r/askTRP19/06/17 06:09 AM
2

recently I have been acting different. ... I haven't been acting different. See what happened there? Don't bother yourself with what other people think and keep improving.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 06:05 AM
1

Meditate. Be in the moment.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 06:04 AM
1

Go for it then.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 06:02 AM
1

Are you angry at betas too?
/r/askTRP19/06/17 06:00 AM
3

That's unrespectful to say the least.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 05:57 AM
0

Yeah. Just be honest with her. Tease the shit out of her, sell it like an experience she can use for a real relationship if you like, but be honest.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 05:56 AM
2

Moving on is pretty specific. We're not saying this because we're happy to deny you of sex. We're saying this because not moving on is a blow to your self respect which should only really be on the up from here on out. Unless you stick to what you're trying to do here of course. To think that you could get anything out of this without paying a high cost is simply ignorant.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 05:49 AM
0

Wrap it up.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 05:46 AM
1

Get a basic but technically outstanding car that's simply fun to drive. Mazda usually does a good job at this. Not standing out and yet having a quality ride will pay dividends in the long run.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 05:44 AM
5

Except normal though.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 05:24 AM
1

Seems like personality will be the hardest to 'boost'. How are you on confidence/amused mastery, general positivity and vulnerability? Any known trouble there? Trauma's of some sort? I haven't personally used it yet, but I did something similar based on my own research. You could check out selfauthoring by JBPeterson to work on your inner game.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 05:22 AM
1

You'll always be able to learn from him. He'll have to wait until you surpass him to learn from you. It's only negative if you make it out to be.
/r/askTRP19/06/17 05:14 AM
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I agree with the eugenics thing in theory but in practice it's really tough figuring out actual measures without fucking things up one way or another. I can see how the vasectomies could lead to an increase in STDs and sexual transgressive behavior for instance. Maybe something along the lines of fertility and maturity tests, which you can take before pregnancy and get massive financial benefit from if you pass it and get pregnant within the next 5 years or something.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 08:30 PM
6

Well this pretty much goes for every single child. Unfortunately, these days its usually the dumb irresponsible welfare state supported retards who get a fuckton of kids who then whine about the 'privilege' of children who had responsible parents.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 08:19 PM
5

Yeah, male genes also become more fucked over time unfortunately.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 08:18 PM
5

Lol. I just had a crazy thought. The ultimate dad. Guy freezes his sperm, goes monogamoes and raises his kids. Once they're grown, divorce and do it over again with your preserved goods and a fresh woman. Rinse and repeat until you're too old. Let's say you could get 3 families out of it if you're dedicated. Obviously few men would ever want to live such a life, but if you're set on spreading your genes in a children-worthy way, this is pretty legit. Completely mental, but legit.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 07:04 PM
1

That's actually a good response.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 06:43 PM
7

I sincerely believe men have always been the ones responsible for wordly things and humanity's place in the world. Women for the reproduction and creation of humanity itself. Today we're seeing women claiming their place in the space of worldly power and even go so far as to say that men are of no use in reproduction. Women want it all. They want the fruits of the reproduction AND of the wordly achievements. Yet they don't want any responsibility for it. In fact they can't even fathom what such …
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 06:26 PM
7

The bible is just an amalgamate of mythological (historical) common knowledge about life. I personally don't care for its religious aspect and I agree that the scientific method is superior. However, if you can look beyond the religious bullshit side, there's a lot of passed-on-through-generations wisdom in there that has been thrown out together with religion. That's a problem. Why? Because those are very valuable lessons learned by generations upon generations of human civilization. The idea t…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 06:21 PM
13

Don't cling to the fruits of your labor. Build a man-cave. If that were true tho, the entire list would be verrrry up for interpretation.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 06:16 PM
1

It's time to, instead, tell women to quiet down and get out of the way. Then, when there's room to do so and one can expect some modicum of appreciation (to say nothing of admiration), men will naturally take up the sacrificial roles that they crave. I disagree. You're basically saying we can't be good men because womyn. You're blaming women for not being able to be self reliant and that if only we got some appreciation for our efforts, we would actually do something. This is completely false. F…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 06:11 PM
3

How can you deal with the incongruent proof that red pill theory is competitive driven while studies done by researchers show that group living, cooperation and love actually lead to greater amount of happiness. It's a stage you go through. You want what you don't have until you have it. Then you want something else you don't have etc etc. If you're far enough up Maslow's pyramid, you're in a good position to realize you're just running in a treadmill without meaning. That's when meaning and pur…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 01:45 PM
1

This doesn't mean absolute eternal Truth doesn't exist but that we always fall short of it. There are differences in our approximation of the truth though. I do believe it's possible to achieve the closest possible approximation. Otherwise you end up in post-modernistic nihilism.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 01:29 PM
2

I believe the reason why you are being criticized is because of the fact that people disagree on what the highest tier of masculinity looks like. TRP is clearly united on the definition of the lowest tier, aka betadom. However, from tier 2 onwards, people's opinion already starts to differ. Most believe that those who think tier 2 consists of an LTR are still residing in tier 1. I would cautiously agree on that, but perhaps not for the same reasons as someone else. I believe that and LTR is an o…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 12:51 PM
1

So what do you think it means to be a man?
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 12:43 PM
1

Simple. Become more confident with the whole ordeal. (talking, setting up dates, going on dates, kissing, getting her back to your place, fucking, keeping frame) You can only do it by practicing. Take action. I've been into similar situations maybe a year ago. However, at this point I woulnd't be fazed because I've been there. Just keep climbing. It's not unreachable, you're just not there yet. Accept it for what it is.
/r/askTRP18/06/17 11:36 AM
1

Never discuss politics with women you're dating unless you are extremely well versed in it and know exactly what you are doing. Most girls beliefs about the world are completely naive and irrational. Unfortunately, this is entwined with their sense of self, and pointing out its flaws will feel like you're probing the validity of their identity. Even though you may be perfectly rational and correct, she will not make the distinction of the pain caused by truth or the pain caused by you as a perso…
/r/askTRP18/06/17 11:27 AM
2

In that case, stick to the basics. Lead, hold your frame and keep it fun. Enjoy yourself and let her be part of your fun while she's around. As for a date, just stick to your own fun for now. Preferably choose an activity where you know your way around. Avoid cinemas until its in the bag. Something mildly active like minigolf or some casual event type of activity is perfect. Especially if you decide to get drinks, don't stay in one place and don't force sexual actions. Switch bars at least once …
/r/askTRP18/06/17 11:08 AM
7

I'm not sure whether childess pacifism is a rational ideal for masculinity.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 10:51 AM
2

Agreed. Skip the thought of getting laid for now and work on your fundamentals until you genuinely love yourself.
/r/askTRP18/06/17 10:33 AM
1

Ok. What do you want out of this? Or rather, how do you see your self development?
/r/askTRP18/06/17 10:30 AM
1

How old are you?
/r/askTRP18/06/17 10:03 AM
4

No real reason is bullshit. Obviously you have a reason. Why are you looking for ways to not be honest?
/r/askTRP18/06/17 10:02 AM
3

Jesus Christ dude. You're real deep in the downward spiral. At this point, forget about getting laid. Forget about escorts, forget about kissing, forget about PIV stuff, forget it. Start with the fucking basics. Step 1: Lift. Fix your wardrobe, get a good haircut. Meditate. AKA respect yourself properly. Learn to love yourself. Appreciate the fact that you are breathing by making the best out of it. Step 2: Start investing in your social development properly. Journal your progress and tactics. S…
/r/askTRP18/06/17 09:59 AM
1

Read how to get laid like a warlord and report back to base camp. (sidebar askTRP)
/r/askTRP18/06/17 09:44 AM
4

For me, physical attraction numero uno. Emotional and intellectual connection numero dos. The rest is irrelevant. Besides STDs.
/r/askTRP18/06/17 09:41 AM
1

This isn't really about being alpha or not. It's about respecting your own boundaries. If someone crosses them, you draw your conclusions. Depending on who it is, be clear about what happened and where you stand or simply cut them off without further notice.
/r/askTRP18/06/17 09:39 AM
3

In an LTR things are a bit more complicated. However, the general idea still stands. She wants to feel loved, special, protected and attracted. Alpha behavior in general will cover the latter 2/3 to an extent and it keeps them around for sex until they want more, aka love, commitment, trust, etc. So for an LTR you need to make sure you've got that covered. The key is to balance it out. Hold your frame like you would normally, genuine abundance mentality, drive, confidence etc still run the show.…
/r/askTRP18/06/17 09:31 AM
2

You're asking us where to find a post on the sidebar?
/r/askTRP18/06/17 09:18 AM
4

Gunz blazing huh. Backpedaling is only going to make it worse at this point. Text purely for logistics now. Set up a meeting, but don't say that you meant that in the first place. Don't backpedal. Also don't ever mention sex or hooking up again. Act like it never happened and you want to meet up. If she's somewhat interested you have a shot. If not, so be it.
/r/askTRP18/06/17 08:26 AM
2

I'm trying to avoid oneitis here. Too late for that lol, she's already blowing away her competition without even having kissed her. Also, the way you describe her it seems you don't want to plate her, you want to LTR her. I'm not here to judge, but either of those is doomed to fail since you lack the ability to walk away effortlessly. Just accept reality and know that at some point you will fuck up. You're still learning, do your best and take this as a lesson.
/r/askTRP18/06/17 08:20 AM
3

Looks like you seriously need to consider respecting yourself before respecting others.
/r/askTRP17/06/17 09:09 PM
1

Depends entirely on what you're looking for, but yes.
/r/askTRP17/06/17 09:03 PM
3

21 Studios has definitely been a great source for growth for me. Great content on there. I'd say it's pretty on point. The underlying geste is generally that you're swimming in options and you're genuinely trying to figure out if she's worth your time besides for what's between her legs. Even when that's not the case, which it won't be for most guys, it portrays at the very least that you consider yourself worthy of swimming in options and that it's really only a manner of spending the time and …
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 02:14 PM
2

About the conversational skills. Instead of laying down the obvious cards you have in your hand, simply don't refer to them. The key is to be genuinely interested in this girl('s demeanour). Probe her worth. Probe her attitude towards the small and big stuff whenver it comes up. Ask how she sees herself, the world, her actions, etc and why. Tell them your observations (you look like you're the type of person that x or y) and be able to back up those statements with reason. Who you are and what y…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 09:55 AM
2

I've found that from all forms of entertainment, historical or truth based stories (through any non participatory medium) provide both the most reward and the best impact on my overal performance. Obviously cutting the time invested in them in up to you. For me, it's mainly historical series/movies/books/manga on cultures and people whom I find admirable. Basically the life and struggles of the heroic archetype as JBPeterson would call them. Anything that you can relate to in your own way that i…
/r/askTRP17/06/17 09:15 AM
1

Pretty much this. The way I approached this was to ask who I wanted to be of value to and in what way. Basically the good old 'what you're good at', 'what you enjoy', 'what others need' triad. The key is to get specific. Pinpoint your ideal and your nemesis and anchor your actions and goals upon that. A hero's struggles are always real and meaningful. The reality of your struggles will be beyond doubt, their meaningfulness however is entirely up to you.
/r/askTRP16/06/17 09:25 PM
3

What's your purpose?
/r/askTRP16/06/17 02:55 PM
1

Clothes are irrelevant. Take him to the gym and martial arts class.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 07:19 AM
1

Hi. I'm a guy who intends to have a family one day so take from this what you will, but this might be something to think about; you are the offspring of an unbroken chain of parents all the way down to the beginning of life 3.2 billion years ago. For me. That's a big part of why I want kids. I feel there's no better way to celebrate life . Nothing beats sharing the joy of living.. with your own children. Yeah I'm romanticizing it, and it will suck at times. But I can assure you that sucky times …
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/17 08:24 AM
1

Because I thought my perspective could be beneficial.
/r/askTRP10/06/17 04:44 PM
1

people really questioned what postmodern really even was Well yeah, that's the essence of postmodernism, using the absurdity of extreme doubt to 'prove' that truth doesn't exist. Unfortunately it seems to hold a point on a superficial level, which entices many to use it to push there narrative, but it really is nothing more than circular reasoning. It says there is no truth only to claim that that idea is a truth on itself, which is of course intellectually dishonest to say the least. However, t…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 12:44 PM
3

Nothing beats human connection.
/r/askTRP09/06/17 03:15 PM
5

Go out and start out with interacting without projecting intent other than the (friendly) interaction itself. Once you're comfortable with that (not that hard because it's quite empowering to experience your capacity for creating positive social interactions), get more in tune with your attraction towards women. Once you feel it, interact with them like you would with any other person as you did before. You don't need shit from them. You're basically offering them the pleasantry of friendly soci…
/r/askTRP09/06/17 10:40 AM
5

So why did you read this if you can be out getting laid 24/7?
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 10:32 AM
2

This leads me to believe that every person growing up must realize at some point that your parents could never guide you in the things they themselves never realized about themselves. Exactly and I believe it's up to our generation to finally put an end to this nonsense. The first step is to become knowledgable of how to truly develop oneself, the second is for these people to have children and pass on this knowledge. Not only what it means to be responsible, but why it matters to develop yourse…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 08:15 PM
3

You can apply it to most mind enhancing substances.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 03:18 PM
1

This just proves that intelligence is no guarantee for wisdom.
/r/askTRP08/06/17 11:52 AM
2

It's like using a cheat in a game. You're artificially improving, without doing the work. The problem lies in the fact that you view this as a viable method of acquiring that mental clarity, while it's nothing but an artificial boost which lasts a couple of hours before the after effects kick in. It gives you a false notion of the availabilty of peak performance. I've done it twice. Just enough to know what it is and how it feels. Why do I not do it anymore? Because I know that such mental clari…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 11:45 AM
15

Whatever it is, addiction is something entirely the responsibility of the person who has it. This doesn't fly for children and adolescents though. These people still need to learn how to handle responsibility. You can't expect them to already have it mastered before they are fully developed. (~25) Porn is one of the many multimedia addictions young people get hooked on. Just like social media validation and gaming. People often start to get attached at very young ages, where the idea of responsi…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 11:31 AM
2

I don't want to hurt his feelings Too late. He doesn't make you wet. Think about your options for a second though. If you tell him, what could be the best possible consequence? He suddenly turns into an attractive stud? Highly unlikely. Even if he doesn't take it personally, probably your best outcome is even more awkwardness due to his conscious effort to remedy the situation. If you don't tell him, things won't change, for better or worse. That leaves you with the option of leaving him... From…
/r/askTRP05/06/17 02:30 PM
2

My social circle is small and that's my biggest focus right now. Your social circle has close to nothing to do with the women you have sex with.
/r/askTRP04/06/17 07:04 AM
4

Every 'cheat' has its cost.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/17 06:56 AM
38

At least you got a workout out of it.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 10:56 AM
1

Fake. Nobody actually calls anymore. /s
/r/askTRP02/06/17 08:31 PM
1

Could it be that there are LTR-types? There's always that handful of chicks who are pretty much exclusively in LTRs lasting several years. Some even roll along with one dude for over 10 years and counting. Obviously they don't really count towards the dating market, but I'm just saying they do exist. The question is, is it possible to snag them at a certain point in time as an older guy?
/r/askTRP02/06/17 11:47 AM
1

I'm joking. Tbh it sounds pretty fucked up and I can't imagine her doing this with good intentions.
/r/askTRP01/06/17 10:29 AM
1

DUDE! It's totally on! Can't you see how she's convincing you you're in the same boat as her only to be able to have crazy sex with you? /s
/r/askTRP01/06/17 07:10 AM
-1

Thanks to our amazing governments we don't even have to leave our country to see what it's like in a 3rd world country in Europe.
/r/askTRP01/06/17 07:05 AM
5

Congratsulations. You finally figured out that pretending to be outside/above/beyond the dominance hierarchy is an illusion. Good luck with your climb. May you soar towards great heights.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 04:13 PM
5

Well for one it's going to allow you to actually feel the sensations properly instead of fixating on visual stimulation. Another one is conditioning. On the one hand you're conditioning yourself to associate any nude/sexuality with ejaculating, which again won't help you when you're struggling with PE. But also, watching porn itself may become yet another way in which you condition yourself to get deeper into the dopamine craving and release spiral. Last but not least, it gives you a very specif…
/r/askTRP29/05/17 07:01 PM
14

If you haven't already, cut the porn. Other than that, two things: You are conceptualizing sexuality in your brain. Meaning, you subconsciously work yourself up towards the idea of sex. You are way more tense (strong muscle tension is an important factor of orgasms), your mind becomes laser focused on steering the interaction towards the sexual act etc. Basically your entire being is geared towards the idea of sex. Meanwhile, the idea of sex is pretty much dumbed down to ejaculating. After all, …
/r/askTRP29/05/17 01:30 PM
2

After just few days ... I feel that very deep parts of me which we usually can't influence, deep rooted mental processes and reactions changed. Ok, enough broscience. Your hormonal circuits are simply acting differently, but your brain is still hardwired pretty much the same way. It takes over 90 days or more to rewire your neural circuits. There is healthy masturbation. No shit sherlock. I don't mean to be rude here but TL;DR is: I jerked off way too much, now I fixed it and I feel better. Nofa…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 07:50 PM
1

Who do you want to help? and Do you ever want kids?
/r/askTRP27/05/17 05:10 PM
1

Seems she doesn't want to have a baby, she just doesn't want to NOT have a baby. You might have an argument with the lesser of two evils theory, but it's probably pretty weak. Did you read this post? https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3vri4k/you_got_a_stranger_pregnant_a_guide/ Good luck in any case...
/r/askTRP26/05/17 03:16 PM
1

Fair enough. I've had some insights on this and am working on putting it into one cohesive whole. I agree with you though, I constantly amaze myself at how little moral progression secular society is making. I guess I'll have to start with doing so myself.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 12:23 PM
2

Religion is the only thing Not really. It's the values within religion. But also, social control. It's possible to have those without the religious part. However, such a society does not exist as of yet.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 11:23 AM
7

When has it ever been easier for a woman to find quality mates in no time at all? I think you meant just mates. The quality these days is hard to come by. Like OP mentioned, top 20% is a walk in the park by simply knowing what you're doing.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 11:14 AM
1

The progression of humanity one the one hand. The wellbeing of myself and my future bloodline on the other.
/r/askTRP25/05/17 07:31 PM
1

What isn't growing is decaying. Genetic physical growth stops at a certain point, however you can still induce muscle growth, become smarter, faster, fitter, wiser, better at x or y, more social, ... etc. What brings positivity to me is to align this inherent capacity for growth with my own personal values and interests. It comes down to believing in your own ability and exploiting it for your prefered purposes. Regardless of who you are and how you act, you have certain imbedded beliefs. Instea…
/r/askTRP25/05/17 02:12 PM
1

Another option is writing. By writing stuff down (preferably by hand), you are forcing yourself to organize your thoughts. If you use this to organize your perception of who you are (past, present and future) and what your values and interests are, you will notice considerable progress. You will able to draw new conclusions and deduct actionable steps which help you towards the future you have now specified.
/r/askTRP22/05/17 03:38 PM
1

Ever considered meditation?
/r/askTRP22/05/17 10:03 AM
1

Texting is and always will be a recipe for disaster. Hence, only text for logistics. In this case, a forced LDR situation, I would argue the same. Only text for logistics. Logistics being either Skype or a phone call. Do not hold an actual conversation through text. Sure, it may just be misunderstandings, but the female brain does not comprehend the rational consequences of misunderstandings as it comprehends the emotional consequences. Aka, you can only lose. At least in a phone call you can se…
/r/askTRP21/05/17 08:30 PM
1

Obviously the dental hygiene industry has still got a massive grip on your cognitive functions. To Oral B or not to Oral B?
/r/askTRP21/05/17 08:24 PM
2

She wants to feel a connection that goes deeper than the dominance dynamic on which your relationship is running right now. Basically, she's asking you to be a genuine human being. Depending on where you want to take this, you might want to oblige, or not. The question is whether you could even if you wanted to.
/r/askTRP21/05/17 08:20 PM
1

Might want to check out selfauthoring.com by Jordan Peterson and his crew.
/r/askTRP21/05/17 07:29 PM
1

Hey mate, I recently gave my first talk about gaming addiction to high schoolers. I've gamed hardcore until 2013 and still climbing from the personal recession it caused. The funny thing is, once you start climbing, there's no stopping you. I feel I've already surpassed many of my peers who were in a vastly better position a couple of years ago. When I was first recovering I assembled a blog with some insights I gained. I'm about to overhaul it with more up to date infor and formatting this summ…
/r/askTRP20/05/17 11:07 AM
1

PM me with your questions, I'll do my best to help out.
/r/askTRP19/05/17 10:43 AM
3

But who's the third?
/r/askTRP17/05/17 07:53 PM
36

Victim mentality alert. Start taking life into your own hands and stop blaming others. That's all you need to know right now.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 05:38 PM
1

Meditate.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 05:08 PM
1

The one common denominator here is that you can't seem to refrain from judging. Try to reserve your judgement unless specifically asked for and focus on getting the message. Girls love that shit.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 05:07 PM
4

I agree with what you wrote. In fact, I wrote a post like this a few days ago. Some dude told me it was written by someone who doesn't eat meat, whatever that's supposed to mean. All I'm saying is, good luck getting this message accross, it seems many here still let their egos lead them on.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 02:31 PM
1

I found TRP through pick-up, and I found pick-up through throwing away my youth for video games. I'm from Western Europe. Unlike Eastern Europe, our culture is probably closer to the US and has pretty much been eroded to the bone. There are no traditional values anymore and all that's left is a free-for-all liberal ideology spouting freedom equality and diversity. Post modernism and cultural marxism are running wild and our entire system has become aimless. At the same time materialistic thinkin…
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/17 12:47 PM
3

Woujo's emotional investment post comes to mind.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 11:52 AM
-6

It's our job to make it so that it is.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 10:23 AM
1

I think most of it is already there usually. It's just other mental activity that gets in the way more often than not. I remember learning game and missing out on so much potential k- or f-closes simply because I was too preoccupied with approach anxiety and strategies. The tricky part is that it's mainly confidence which can bring you the peace of mind to allow your emotional intelligence to do its work. And confidence isn't an overnight gain.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 03:05 PM
3

You're right, but it wasn't entirely serious, the main thing about the line is it's inherent wordplay: "Hi, nice genes." Because that's essentially what your subconscious is telling you.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 05:36 AM
2

Remember that time before you were born when you were asked whether you wanted to live or not and you replied "only if it's easy"? Nope. You had no say in whether you lived or not. You just got born. Now you're acting as if other people can have an impact on who you are, when you yourself can barely scratch the fucking surface if you try. You're taking life way too personal and serious. Life is meaningless in its essence. You're just here. Yes, there is pain. Yes, there is suffering, you already…
/r/askTRP15/05/17 02:26 PM
2

We should train ourselves to have a go-to beta behavior so grossly over the top that it freaks out every woman, disgusting and repelling them, leaving them confused about their normally on point intuition. If you think about it, men's sexual potential is so workable that we have the potential to become better at both attraction and aversion.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/17 09:36 PM
29

To that guy, everyone except himself is too many.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/17 08:27 AM
3

Probably because they are two different sides of the same coin. Biological/physical peak or societal peak. The shredded guy can't properly touch an instrument while the artist can't properly lift a sack of potatoes. Both are means to gain some sort of traction on the dominant side of society's hierarchy. Woman's interest generally isn't based on an either or mentality. As long as the trait functions in some form or another to make their partners appear higher up in the hierarchy, they can feel a…
/r/askTRP12/05/17 12:15 PM
2

Every effort has a certain point at which it becomes fun. Fun can occur in various different ways. (Feeling strong after workouts, actually solving hard equations with ease, mental clarity after meditation, ...) Instead of focussing on the hard part that proceeds the fun part, prime your brain with the idea of having fun while doing the effort until the fun becomes reality. The problem is that the hard part always proceeds the fun part, hence the term effort. It is very easy to narrow the effort…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 05:51 PM
1

In theory you could cave and make them lose interest by breaking your own frame. But all that just for the sake of losing attraction? Let them make the mistakes. Consider them to hold zero sexual value and hold your frame as you would normally. Obviously the easy part is strategizing, putting it into practice might not be so evident. There's a good chance they will pull out the big guns to seduce you if it's really as bad as you said it was. All in all, if it comes down to it, you could consider…
/r/askTRP11/05/17 07:53 AM
3

So your parents fucked eachother, gave birth to you and now they're acting as if sex is a crime? Get the fuck outta here you hypocritical ignorant douchebags. Should have known what you started. What the hell do they expect in the first place? That you would be some kind of asexual freak just to please their utopian image of a child? Your situation probably isn't easily solved judging by their delusions, but yeah..
/r/askTRP07/05/17 11:49 AM
1

(Day)game in areas with plausible deniability. Library, gym, campus surroundings, public transport, bars, etc. There will be plenty of girls who are open to older guys. If you have any game it should be pretty effective.
/r/askTRP05/05/17 10:47 AM
7

Everyman should know how to fight and eat. And shoot and meditate and make bank and lift and read and game and ... The question is how do you incorporate all these things properly.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 01:32 PM
2

I personally wouldn't go down that road because it would mean fucking with my own integrity. I value that above any comfort or woman.
/r/askTRP28/04/17 03:06 PM
11

Yes it is a problem. Smart people tend to be be smart because their brains inspect and criticise their environment more carefully than less intelligent people. In other words, a more developed consciousness leads to more thinking. People tell others not to give a fuck, but in reality, it's not really how it works. Giving a fuck about something requires you to actually think about it, while in practice, what makes 'IDGAF' behavior so succesful is not 'deciding to not give a fuck after considering…
/r/askTRP28/04/17 10:31 AM
2

I still struggle with this myself, but I think the key lies in habit building. The exact do's and don'ts are still a mystery to me though. (How many habits at a time, when to add more, etc) In general though, biorythm is massive. Get that sorted first. Go to bed and wake up at a set time. From there, think of how you want your day to look like and consider your current schedule. What's already in place, what needs work. Work on the most important habit first and keep being consistent until you c…
/r/askTRP25/04/17 08:32 PM
1

I wish my plates had companies I could enjoy. Unless you mean Pussy Inc.
/r/askTRP25/04/17 12:10 PM
1

Sure, it's a tough nut to crack, but taking prescription drugs without medical advice is just not smart. Especially if it's not the only solution.
/r/askTRP25/04/17 11:37 AM
1

You're treating symptoms with prescription drugs. Honestly it's pretty dumb.
/r/askTRP25/04/17 10:25 AM
2

You're making it sound as if approaching isn't necessary anymore then. Chances are that even when you are top 10%, you frequent circles of similarly tiered people, making it relatively harder to stand out unless you deliberately go to different social groups. I agree that approaching shouldn't be a big deal tho. Rather than calling it an approach, calling it a conversation might already help. The emphasis should be on the interaction, not the result.
/r/askTRP25/04/17 09:20 AM
2

This is usually in your head. And tinder makes it worse in a sense because from the get go your mind is oversexualizing these women. The problem with PE in my case at least was that my brain was worked up towards sex, regardless of whether or not the girl was even worth having sex with irl. The fact that I already knew why I was there and what the goal was, combined with a lack of sex with other women completely geared my entire body towards cumming. Again, regardless of the different other indi…
/r/askTRP25/04/17 06:41 AM
1

Secondly, No Western country is anywhere near collapse in the foreseeable future. Period. Large European cities are no longer primarily white. Whites are fleeing to the suburbs and countriside. Immigrants keep reproducing and expanding until the its the whites who live in virtual ghettos in their own country. Intimidation, aggression and terrorism will keep rising until everyone and their cat has given up the thought of resistance. That is the foreseeable future for Western Europe if nothing dra…
/r/askTRP24/04/17 02:10 PM
1

Basically yes. Talking too much is usually a sign of trying to validate yourself. Obviously there's nothing wrong with talking. There is with self validation.
/r/askTRP23/04/17 12:00 PM
2

;) This guy fucks.
/r/askTRP23/04/17 11:59 AM
1

Lol. He's saying become more centered. And I'm saying detach from your ego. Good luck.
/r/askTRP23/04/17 11:56 AM
2

Your consciousness is heavily entangled with your ego. Your ego is ultimately scared of vulnerability. You just can't accept it. You can't handle it, so you tell yourself vulnerability is a weakness that you can't allow. You pretend to be above vulnerability and use anger as a protection from it. Every time someone confronts your with your inherent vulnerability, you instantly let anger overwhelm you as a form of self (ego) defense. You let anger manifest into violence and at the end of the day …
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 11:35 AM
0

Your numbers for Belgium are false, except for the major cities. In all honesty I believe our society is going to become horrendous within the next two generations. I only have to look at elementary school classes and I know enough.
/r/askTRP22/04/17 01:34 PM
1

You're looking for a meaningful struggle. I have that too. Some sort of test. A challenge to face reality in its purest form. The rawness of life and death situations. You know, you could go out and do what you currently have in mind. Easily. Go to Liberia or some other African shithole. Go play Islamic jihadist in Syria. Go. Do it. See how real it feels. But that wouldn't suffice would it? You wouldn't feel as if you were fighting for a part of yourself. It wouldn't spark the core of who you ar…
/r/askTRP22/04/17 12:00 PM
1

Do you have your own place? If yes, showing off a good looking body is worth it. If no, don't bother, random hookups are out of the question anyway, so aim for another target audience.
/r/askTRP21/04/17 10:27 AM
1

I used to spin plates until I met my current GF who was was plate. Exactly how I plan to roll.
/r/askTRP21/04/17 10:18 AM
1

You literally just say what you feel in the moment. It takes mental awareness to become better at this, but in essence it's nothing more than realizing how you perceive her and tell her about it. "Hi, I just saw you and I wanted to meet you." "Hi, I think you look cute. I'm x."
/r/askTRP21/04/17 10:10 AM
2

I disagree with your thesis, Islamists care only about their own ideology. They simply take whatever they can get and when it doesn't suit their agenda anymore (aka they are powerful enough), they will mercilessly get rid of it. Insteresting topic though, I have been thinking quite thoroughly on this for years now. I read you offered someone to read your thesis. I'd like to and give you some of my thoughts on it if you want. As for the confused little man, do not waste your time talking to him. …
/r/askTRP20/04/17 05:46 PM
60

Their male hamster is fit as fuck.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 08:51 PM
93

Blue pilled men pretend they transcend the struggle for power.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 08:44 PM
2

You're highly overestimating your ability to control your thoughts. You don't get aroused by beauty "because you choose to". You get aroused because your subconscious brain gets triggered to the degree that your conscious brain becomes aware of it. Now you're asking whether u should act in a specific way to generate attraction. With the above knowledge, the only really viable option is to own your subconscious desires in a healthy way and in the mean time work on yourself so that women get the s…
/r/askTRP17/04/17 07:20 AM
1

I never thought that was worth it regardless. I just lift, eat clean and sleep well. It's not as effective as the religious approach, but it works and I like to believe it's a lot more sustainable. Guess we're on a pretty similar page then.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 01:47 PM
1

Well, what are you planning to do after you 'got the body you want?'.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 01:24 PM
1

Pretty much all of these guys look good yet they are at vastly different weights. Height and general thickness are factors, but you obviously also see guys who are significantly taller or shorter in the same weight classes. I will admit that I would probably sign for Ngannou's physical potential, but in reality I know that I'm never going to perform optimally at that weight. At 6'0" with a relatively thin frame, I'm currently at Welterweight and confident that I could perform well at Middleweigh…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 12:41 PM
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I really don't want to have to spend more than a year getting the body I want. Lifting isn't about 'getting a body you want'. At least not for me.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 12:12 PM
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1 rep max 200 lbs is achievable within a year of working out I'd say. It's not that easy tho. Some people have to start with just the fucking bar.
/r/askTRP16/04/17 09:50 AM
1

Praying won't give you the mindfulness benefits. Your call tho.
/r/askTRP15/04/17 09:46 PM
1

Don't do that. She will just ghost that. Pretend that you forgot and only take action if she contacts you. If she doesn't, the date is off. Basically it's over until she contacts you.
/r/askTRP15/04/17 08:52 PM
2

Physically move your device to where you can't access it. Whatever that may mean to you. Do it.
/r/askTRP15/04/17 08:49 PM
1

Try meditating and focusing on the moment instead of the future. Also break things down in small actionable chunks while planning so you don't have to look at it as a giant task.
/r/askTRP15/04/17 08:48 PM
1

Good point. It was just a poor example, obviously if u notice that she's nervous, try to take some tension away from the interaction by lightening things up.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/17 08:42 PM
3

You know the answer to that question yourself. If you want an honest solution, you'll have to be honest about the effort. It takes time and dedication. Just keep in mind who you're doing it for.
/r/askTRP15/04/17 03:39 PM
1

Intellect is a turn on. Keep it up!
/r/askTRP15/04/17 09:21 AM
1

The difference is that PUA focuses on game rather than self development. TRP does the opposite.
/r/askTRP15/04/17 09:13 AM
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As the other guy said, first off, manage your multimedia usage. What I do is leave my phone at home when I go to classes. Try to put boundaries at home too, not on time, but on physical location. Only use PCs or laptops in one room or floor. Second is sleeping pattern. Make sure you find yourself a regular time to go to bed and to wake up. It sounds simple but it's harder than you think. If you nailed these two things, you're ready to incorporate new habits. Focus on these first though.
/r/askTRP15/04/17 09:07 AM
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meditate in a social situation ? If you mean problems talking to girls, the key is to use your awareness to find out what you sense about her and to notice whenever you feel like living up to expectations. From there, distinguish the two and act on your intuition, not your expected behavior. For instance you might sense she's being nervous and you pick up on it but instead you ask her how her day was because you think it's expected for you to show interest. Don't do that. Instead go with your ob…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/17 08:54 AM
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If you are at that stage of growth I agree that following intuition is going to prevent progress more than it encourages. The key however is to know when you have learned enough to let intuition kick back in. Good luck.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 12:23 PM
1

Username checks out
/r/askTRP14/04/17 07:33 AM
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Honestly though, the type of girl that attempts to take advantage of the situation that rapidly is an enormous red flag. Continuing the interaction is a serious breach of your own intuition. Not worth it whatsoever.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 07:21 AM
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You should touch and escalate without overly showing your attraction. Eye contact is important. The best way to do so is by changing locations at least once, preferably twice. When you get up and walk you can get some touch in. Near the end of the date u can pull her next to you for a bit when you're walking her wherever she needs to be. Right now your biggest problem is being too emotionally invested. Check the main sub. It will sabotage your touching and escalating because you will feel like y…
/r/askTRP13/04/17 09:06 AM
1

Depending on how deep the rabbithole went for you this might be useful: http://www.winreallife.com/a-permanent-solution-to-gaming-addiction/
/r/askTRP13/04/17 08:55 AM
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Check the main sub for your answer. Hint: don't do it. Let it come up naturally and it'll have double the effect.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 08:45 AM
11

He is direct Looks like you have zero experience with a man who's actually direct.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/17 08:28 AM
3

Could it be that we are in the presence of what some call a 'natural alpha'?
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 12:03 PM
2

Well, we agree that in the presence of an alpha man, women melt to their childish selves. They feel protected and taken care of so they can let go of the reigns and be who they really love to be. Do you think women who work for a living have the luxury to do this in their workplace? Nope. They are producing testosterone to keep them strong enough to get through the day putting up a facade. The last thing they can do is let go. The whole reason feminism arose was because inevitably, many relation…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 09:12 AM
1

Exactly my tactic. That's how I upped my date game.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 07:43 PM
0

Gotta agree with the OP thing. It's more a matter of going after what you want. The chances of her being receptive without making eye contact are too high not to go for it.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 07:40 PM
13

Standing in front of them is the only way to make it work consistently. Just don't mimick their sidestep when they decide to go around. That's dumb.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 07:33 PM
3

Sad but true. Instead of focusing on the known behavior of women it might be a good idea to invest into shaping better men.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 04:28 PM
2

Deservingness and rights are meaningless constructs on themselves. As humans, we have built them to try to bypass nature's lack of structure and hierarchy. In nature, there are no rights and no being deserves anything other than that which it can claim for itself while fending off contenders. Confidence comes not from holding on to constructs, but from growing the capacity to claim the things you want in life and being strong enough to hold on to them. This takes strength and grit. The problem w…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 01:00 PM
1

Being better than who you were yesterday simply feels incredible.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 09:49 AM
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If you are not feeling growth you will feel like you are dying. I've pretty much lived the life you describe. You will feel incredibly shitty because literally everything in life will be too far out of your comfort zone to even consider. You will feel frustrated 24/7 by the fact that nothing that you dream of is within your reach while your comfort zone shrinks until the point where you lose your job, your friends and your fat gf and just want to kill yourself. Feel free to go there, but I'm now…
/r/askTRP10/04/17 09:47 AM
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Lol you honestly think she would tell her family? It's her who's gonna get the beating. Just ease her in and out of it when you decide to cut contact at whatever point. The only way you will risk anything is if you take her virginity and then drop her like a bag of bricks.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 09:39 AM
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List all your interests, skills and traits be it good or bad. Write down everything by hand and filter out the doubles and get down to your core values. From there, you can start thinking about job types that fit those values and skills. Don't worry about what u can study, focus on the way you think about problems, how you interact with other people, your general ambition etc. Ask yourself how you can best help others with your specific traits. Your best 'job' is a combination of doing something…
/r/askTRP10/04/17 09:28 AM
1

Pick up a side job doing literally whatever is not killing your mental state and start looking into entrepreneurship. You might even stumble upon something interesting along the way.
/r/askTRP09/04/17 07:50 PM
2

They're only worth it when you do a quick workout before you jump in. Otherwise I prefer warm then cold.
/r/askTRP09/04/17 07:40 PM
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You've got some serious mental issues dude. SERIOUS issues. Get help.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 04:05 PM
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No offense but this reads as if you expect them to entertain you because you are special or some shit. She's on a date with you to probe your worth. Are you exciting enough for her to go out with again or are you going to listen like a mute to her hamster and afterwards pretend that you had a good time? These girls have limitless options and they are looking for something out of the ordinary. They want to be made to shut up, led, carried, pushed, laughed at and treated like a little kid in a way…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 08:40 AM
2

Why? Just do a thumb battle to see who's gonna touch their phone and show it.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 08:32 AM
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Sleeping around with random girls who you don't even have a connection with is a waste of time. Bad sex, possible drama. Selecting plates carefully is an entirely different story.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 08:27 AM
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Everyone is a quick nut to some one of certain social statuses. Social status has got nothing to do with it. It's a matter of connection. I personally haven't felt a true connection except for maybe 2-3 girls in my entire life. That however doesn't mean the other girls I've met can't have amazing synergy with other guys. Just not with me. Social status is completely irrelevant, it just plays a role in whether or not they will ever get to know eachother. I'm currently sleeping with girls whom I j…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 01:32 PM
1

I started t with 6+ and from there build towards 7 and 8+ once I got some regulars.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 07:55 PM
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That IS how it works... Once you get good. It's just that you won't get good anytime soon if you only stick to hot chicks.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 06:50 PM
4

Obviously you counter their tea with an offer to clean their living room afterwards as to not leave their place dirtier than before. Then a secondary tea is mandatory as a final farewell.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 06:12 PM
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Yup, just like blue pilled guys will do the same for an LTR with a perceived unicorn.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 01:08 PM
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Women don't initiate the interaction because there are too many risks involved. What if the guy she opens up is actually a cowardly and incredibly needy beta that won't let go? What if the guy perceives her move as desperate or slutty? The chances are actually quite high, whereas they are next to nonexistant when throwing out the bait. Depending on how obvious the bait is of course. Active pursuit is a strategic failure for women. I think the same reasoning goes for initiating commitment. Even t…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 10:34 AM
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Yep, I can't believe this thing is being upvoted.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 08:39 AM
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Don't mix women and plugged-in friends. It's just a terrible combo with you being the primary loser of the deal. Your friends have a good chance of becoming jealous of your success as well. I generally split my entertainment into guy time and game time. Or, when I go out with the guys, I make sure I game outside of their direct environment.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 10:30 PM
4

What if I'm not called Brandon tho? Like.. what do I do??
/r/TheRedPill02/04/17 03:19 PM
1

Stop 'trying' and start 'being'.
/r/askTRP31/03/17 03:19 PM
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I personally wouldn't be too hard on her but that's just me. I would reply, but stick to your guns. Something along the lines of "You heard what I said, get your shit together and we will talk on monday."
/r/askTRP31/03/17 03:18 PM
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ill just have to let my self be creative again. It took me quite some effort letting go of my conditioned 'socially acceptable' self censorship. I was always thinking of how I should act rather than how I felt like acting. Mindfulness meditation helped a lot.
/r/askTRP31/03/17 03:05 PM
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The ego as in how you describe it is actually an illusion. Yes, you can construct it and fall back on it, but in reality, there is no such thing in your mind. It remains your own created idea and nothing more. It's a pretty tough concept to grasp, but non-duality meditation goes deeper into that. Many people have experienced so called ego death. Meaning that their constructed egos 'died' some way or another through a realisation of its illusionary nature. However, this did not cause them to sudd…
/r/askTRP31/03/17 03:02 PM
1

What the other commenter said: work on gaming 10s. Obviously not actively, but use this period of calm to invest more time into your SMV. Mold the rock into a diamond. I personally haven't got enough time/money to do everything on my list right now regardless of women. Surely you still have room for growth somewhere.
/r/askTRP31/03/17 09:23 AM
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True, but I don't agree that this is a matter of winning or losing. Even by doing what he does there is nothing to 'win'.
/r/askTRP30/03/17 12:58 PM
2

Yup, also choosing a chick who genuinely adores you and your personality helps too
/r/askTRP30/03/17 12:30 PM
1

The fuck are you trying to say? That he's doing the right thing?
/r/askTRP30/03/17 12:19 PM
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Ok, so you got fucked over. You decided it was her fault, not yours. You then irrationally decided her and some other girls' so called faults extrapolate to ALL girls. Now you let this bullshit reasoning become the source of your own (un)happiness. I hope you realize you are messing up here. You are dealing with women. You KNOW how they act. It's as sound as any hard science really. Women are hypergamous. Let them betafy you and they will find another dick to suck. YOU KNOW THIS. How can you pos…
/r/askTRP30/03/17 10:34 AM
3

Just get no nonsense black framed glasses that fit.
/r/askTRP30/03/17 10:11 AM
1

You mean with women? In her case specifically, I usually talk about how they look in a joking but brutally honest way. And this is broad, not just how they actually look, but what type of girl is see them as, what type of actions I bet they can't not do etc. I basically verbalize my intuition about her and our environment in a playful way. 'he looks like he just did meth' / 'why is everyone so fucking stressed today' / 'that dog looks retarded' etc etc. Make shit up that ties into your surroundi…
/r/askTRP30/03/17 10:05 AM
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Well, it's not really an art in the sense that men could become equally skilled in it. Women simply use the idea of sex for leverage, men simply don't have access to such a leverage. We COULD use the threat of force as a leverage, but we generally don't rely on it because that's just poor strategy in the long run. Using sex in that way is simply a lot less risky and more effective at the same time. On the other hand it is also looked down upon because it requires them to give up a part of their …
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 05:05 PM
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She probably didn't want to fuck you because she saw LTR potential due to your traits. You did well imo. Forget her, she might contact you later on, only this time there's no denying what for.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 10:48 AM
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Ego is for those who don't have confidence. Confidence is a muscle, you need to work it out for it to grow. Self esteem is easily mistaken for a different wording for ego. I prefer to use self respect. It envelopes a much broader spectrum and is linked to self love. Consider yourself to be your own child and take care of yourself as if you were. Most people don't even care about themselves properly while having high self esteem and big egos.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 09:56 PM
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Dig deep down and ask yourself what kind of responses you would prefer to read here. Listen to that. In all honesty I think you would regret not doing it more than doing it.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 09:51 PM
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Let's not kid ourselves. Wiser words are impossible.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 09:48 PM
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I don't understand it. I have clicked with girls to the extent that it made all other girls seem as if they were from a different planet. All I'm looking for in a true LTR is a mutual connection on that level, combined with physical attraction. I honestly don't see why I should care if she fucked 30 other dudes. I do understand the romantic notion of being her first, but especially with hot chicks that just seems like an even greater risk in the long run. Somewhere somehow she will get charmed b…
/r/askTRP28/03/17 09:44 PM
2

Just out of curiosity, how did you get familiar with the whole bdsm scene in the first place?
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 09:24 PM
2

If you're with a girl you're not interested in except for sex, don't even think about pulling shit like that. If you're with a girl you're actually seriously interested in, you have no choice but to ease your personality onto her. Either she digs it or she doesn't, but there's no point holding back if you are looking for someone to be with frequently. It's a good way to see if you guys click or not.
/r/askTRP27/03/17 12:58 PM
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Looks like you want a relationship. If you were interested in spinning plates, your current situation would be ideal. Never hurts to have one in your backpocket. Your situation is only tricky when you're really looking for something more emotionally involved. In either case I would keep fucking her, but at the same time focus on your proirities aka SMV and new girls. Just be aware of the risk you are taking and be prepared to bail before burning.
/r/askTRP27/03/17 12:54 PM
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Amp up the roughness in refined manner. Take it slowly and gauge their response to your moves. Quite easy to read when they are into it or not. Girls might love rough sex, but they can certainly be turned off by brutishness. The best sex for a girl is on her maximum desired roughness AND comfort level. It's your job to discover the money spot.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 10:53 AM
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I can only imagine how rough and slow your recovery would have been if you never stumbled upon trp. I wonder what caused Western society to degrade like this. Why has the truth been buried under such a pile of bullshit?
/r/TheRedPill26/03/17 10:30 PM
2

I never used books. Always girlschase.com, the natural lifestyles and 21 convention on yt.
/r/askTRP26/03/17 03:59 PM
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Strange, many people experience a renewed joy in life after going through something like that. Seems like you had the exact opposite. First off, do you take any meds? Good chance they fuck up your mood. Same with bad food and lack of exercise. If it's neither of those, your neural pathways probably structured themselves towards this state. My best advice would be vipassana meditation. Pick it up and enroll into a 10 day meditation retreat. They are absolutely free, you only need to free up time.…
/r/askTRP26/03/17 09:39 AM
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No offense but this post makes you seem pretty damn autistic. "I read this. Try. Not work. What is problem?" This isn't some kind of child's play dude. It's serious fucking business. You're trying to crack the evolutionary code of how to reproduce and you think you can just swoop in, put on an act and expect success. Honestly, the most important thing you need is probably maturity. Start there.
/r/askTRP25/03/17 11:49 PM
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You broke frame. You lost. Learn and move on. There are more hb9s in the world.
/r/askTRP25/03/17 11:39 PM
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The biggest factor for me was whether or not I actually vibed well with the girl or not. This might seem a little counter intuitive, but it's actually logical in a way. Whenever I am genuinely enjoying my time with a girl regardless of sex, I last a lot longer and there's not a single trace of performance anxiety to be found. I simply feel perfectly at ease in her presence, which takes off all the pressure. Not only do I not care about performing, I don't think about coming. And my subconscious …
/r/askTRP23/03/17 10:32 PM
2

How to love yourself more? Simple. Know yourself more. Start exploring who you are by actually listening to your own feelings and opinions on matters while you are actively doing things. Take the time to reflect on situations, emotions, successes, failures. Ask yourself what you lean towards, which traits you admire, what you absolutely hate. Get intimate with your body. Instead of taking touch for granted, try to really feel. Try to see as if you were blind your entire life. Reconnect with the …
/r/askTRP18/03/17 10:47 PM
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How to love yourself more? Simple. Know yourself more. Start exploring who you are by actually listening to your own feelings and opinions on matters while you are actively doing things. Take the time to reflect on situations, emotions, successes, failures. Ask yourself what you lean towards, which traits you admire, what you absolutely hate. Get intimate with your body. Instead of taking touch for granted, try to really feel. Try to see as if you were blind your entire life. Reconnect with the …
/r/askTRP18/03/17 10:47 PM
2

Yeah, that's one of the things I touch on in one of my posts as well I believe. Young people grow up fulfilling ambitions pushed on them through their environments without ever given the freedom to truly stop and think what they want for themselves regardless of anyone else. It's fucking up so many people, especially girls who get trapped and risk becoming anorexic because they are too damn scared to even consider not fulfilling external ambitions. Guys tend to shrug it off more easily, but that…
/r/askTRP09/03/17 09:51 PM
1

I usually ask when she IS free to start out with. (eg what does the rest of your week look like?)
/r/askTRP09/03/17 09:42 PM
1

I probably forgot a lot of great men but that guy did stand out. Masutatsu Oyama is another legend.
/r/askTRP09/03/17 09:34 PM
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I've basically been in a similar situation as you are in now. I wrote some thoughts about it on a website I created, feel free to check it out. It's a bit outdated so I'll just give my brief view of your situation. First off you have no clue what you want from live or what to do with it. Secondly, you are still human, meaning you still crave some sort of achievement, or at least whatever comes close to it. Enter gaming, the mother of artificial achievement. It soaks up your ambition and sense of…
/r/askTRP09/03/17 09:22 PM
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Miyamoto Musashi, many old school generals, Carl Sagan, Dawkins, Hitchens, Sam Harris, Buddha, Geert Wilders, Pim Fortuyn, Kazushi Sakuraba, Ramon Dekkers and other fighters, ... Basically anyone who knows what he wants and achieves it through hard work, dedication and self control.
/r/askTRP09/03/17 08:40 PM
2

Incredibly eloquent man with an honest view.
/r/askTRP09/03/17 08:35 PM
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You're venting on the internet about some fat cunt you shouldn't even consider worthy of your eye contact. I don't know about you but I'd call this an actual issue.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 10:54 PM
1

Not familiar with those, but thank you for the praise. Unfortunately I don't always live by my creed heh.
/r/askTRP27/02/17 09:45 PM
2

Full retard mode is on it seems. Good luck with your fairy tales.
/r/askTRP02/01/17 07:42 PM
1

">First of God isn't real, get over it. Prove he isn't." Religion's gods are immensely extraordinary claims. To make such claims, you need extraordinary evidence, which you can not provide. It is not the the disbelievers task to do so, it is yours. Something does not exist simply because you can not prove otherwise. That's just a simple cognitive error. On the other hand that does not mean praying can not have a mental impact. However, mindulfness meditation and praying are completely different …
/r/askTRP02/01/17 09:09 AM
2

Start looking into setting up a sidebusiness perhaps?
/r/askTRP23/12/16 12:52 PM
1

Did anyone say Tug Toner? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iA11rek6_Ik
/r/askTRP23/12/16 12:51 PM
1

I'm in a similar situation. Although less severe. I failed for the med school entry test and am now plowing through an inbetween year. I already 'wasted' my youth though and will be about 10 years older than my fellow students when I finally get started. At this point it still is not a certainty either. However, I have many other lesser goals that I can work towards in the mean time which can keep me occupied. Some tie in better with my main ambition than others and I tend to prioritize those. T…
/r/askTRP18/12/16 02:05 PM
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There is a more universal concept that encompasses the love of the self. Love of the self could easily be mistaken for love of the ego. However, if you go deeper into consciousness, non dualistic meditation and understanding the self, you will realize that the ego is an illusion. This is quite deep matter that isn't easy to understand at first, but it is something to look into if you are serious about it. The overarching concept is the love of, or maybe even the blessing (secular term) of being …
/r/askTRP17/12/16 12:58 PM
1

Oh yeah, one last thing I forgot to mention, the trick is to keep adding weight every session. Obviously not a lot. The general rule is 1lbs for upperbody such as overhead press and 2lbs for lower such as squat and deadlift. Once you fail to reach 5 or more reps at the last set, lower your weight with 10%. From there keep adding each session until you break through. My gym didn't have such small weights so I brought my own, but you could also seperate your increase into two or three sessions and…
/r/askTRP26/11/16 11:44 PM
2

Hi there. I bought the book about 9 months ago. Results have been better than anything i've done before. Mainly because it's the first time I'm actually following a program, but also because it's simply good. The progression system makes it fun and challenging regardless of what weight you are lifting. Also, you will make slow but steady progress and have a good view on the bigger picture. 3x5 really is the core of the program, but in the book you will notice that he mentions around 3 warmup set…
/r/askTRP26/11/16 08:35 AM
1

You can only find direction by discovering yourself. Have you sat down yet with pen and paper to list all your interests, skills, hobbies, aversions, job interests? Do you have any idea of the 'type' of person you are? What intrigues you? How you approach day to day problems, how your thinking pattern works? Try to figure out those questions and your scope will be a lot narrower. Your direction is usually a mixture of values, skills(future or present), interests and possibly environment. Like th…
/r/askTRP04/11/16 11:29 AM
1

Get money. But more importantly, get friends who share your view. Go out, talk to people who like going out, invite people and make sure the night is a blast, get invited, etc etc. Make sure you can afford to do so both time, money and energy wise in your weekdays without feeling like shit every time the buzzer goes off in the morning. Plenty of time to abandon the hedonistic lifestyle after you indulged yourself with it. I personally don't like the idea, but that's cus I've already been there. …
/r/askTRP25/10/16 08:56 PM
1

I was always the motivated but never actually went to the gym consistently enough type until I started to follow a program, so good idea. What appealed to me most at the time was Greyskull LP. Been working out at least 3x per week ever since (10 months ago). Also, ALWAYS WARM THE FUCK UP. PROPERLY. And of course master form before weights. Chances are you will get injuries. Minimize them.
/r/askTRP25/10/16 08:50 PM
0

You're getting half the required amount of sleep. That's a problem.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 07:24 AM
8

Three months is nothing. If you already want to bang fat chicks now you'll probably be banging them for a long time. Dont bother. Focus on yourself.
/r/askTRP21/10/16 07:01 AM
1

Find out what sparks your emotions. Interest, frustration, whatever. Try to pin point the most capable subject in that regard and find your way of contributing towards meaningful improvement. Ignore the whole money aspect. Ask yourself what you think really matters despite knowing nothing matters in the end. How can you be of value. What kind of value do you want to create. The key is to find something worthwhile to work towards. Without it, you will always feel depleted regardless of how succes…
/r/askTRP17/10/16 11:21 AM
2

Get some purpose in your life. Waking up the next day with zero willpower to make progress towards your purpose will very quickly deal with your inability to say no. Simply put, find something you want out of life more than your desire for comfort.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 09:47 AM
2

As a male, fucking everyone you can get at some point is a stage in your sexual development in my opinion. Of course if it genuinely does not spark even the slightest bit of interest for you, don't bother, but if it does, it is preferable that you live through that phase sooner rather than later. You want to have that experience over with by the time you are ready to settle down with/for an LTR. Whether or not doing so makes you any less of a loser is an utterly irrelevant question as the notion…
/r/askTRP14/10/16 04:53 PM
4

"Hey me and my family live in a macho controlled fantasy world and if something isn't to our likening we will cause completely disproportional drama." Does that sound worth it to you at all? You got her number, you can get more.
/r/askTRP14/10/16 12:46 PM
1

Live now, if you appreciate her show it now. At the same time realize that whatever compassion and love you can give to others you must first give to yourself. Yes these are clichés, but they hold true meaning. If you can't honestly say that you love yourself you will always feel slightly hollow in situations where you are supposed to feel something.
/r/askTRP01/10/16 11:10 PM
1

Correction: the ones you think you like. Usually you don't really like them all that much once you meet up in real life, but at that point you already feel somewhat invested. Of course you can always get lucky though
/r/askTRP28/09/16 07:33 PM
5

Confidence in general as well as relative self esteem. If you perceive yourself to be of lower status than your conversation partner, eye contact will be hard. Eye contact is a form of social tension. If you feel (often subconsciously) unable to deal with or simply uncomfortable with the escalation that follows from the tension, you will instinctively break the tension prematurely, aka you will look away. With males this usually implies physical escalation (even in friendly conversation), with f…
/r/askTRP27/09/16 10:27 AM
1

What you can do is escalate, get her as wet as she gets and then tell her it's time to leave. When she asks why you reply with something along the lines of "don't come back until you are single". On the other hand, she will probably expect a relationship if she does come back, but it's up to you how to handle it from there.
/r/askTRP03/09/16 07:46 AM
1

Pretending doesn't work if you're aiming at a longterm solution. Only proper self esteem growth and flow can do that. As an in between though, pretending is your best shot.
/r/askTRP02/09/16 07:51 PM
1

Hector Castillo I think his name is. He's on girlschase.com. Not sure if his book is out yet but he has decent articles there as well.
/r/askTRP02/09/16 06:42 AM
2

A serious lsd or psilocybin trip is not something you can 'just put yourself through'. I agree that th e effects of most drugs are achievable is some form or another while sober though. It just takes shitloads of conscious effort.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 02:32 PM
2

The antidepressants should be completely out of your system, yep. Medical advice is necessary for this. Preferably medical assistance all the way would be even better, but then again the guy who would do that is the guy who prescribed anti depressants in the first place..
/r/askTRP31/08/16 01:15 PM
0

Your guy will need to 1. Get off the meds asap 2. Experience a significant emotional experience and get shaken to the core 3. Take the time on his own to regain composure and self reflect 4. Figure out what he wants out of life for himself and himself alone You can help him with this, but it won't be obvious. In a sense though, you will need to 'let go' of him for a while at least. Say about three months from when he's had his SEE(sign emo exp). Enough to let him find his own path. Meanwhile you…
/r/askTRP31/08/16 12:32 PM
10

Maybe your girlffriend slapped you because of your butthurt reactions?
/r/askTRP31/08/16 07:20 AM
2

Too much. Never prioritize her.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 02:43 PM
1

Confidence is always the most important factor. The rest matters to an extent, but compared to confidence, it's fluff. Just like you care more about a girl's looks than her confidence or IQ. That's why the partying dipshit who oozes confidence will always be attractive.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 10:50 AM
1

You must be getting laid a ton.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 10:35 AM
0

Haven't done a threesome before at all, kinda iffy on it Yeah threesomes are definitely something special. Getting your dick sucked by another guy on the other hand is standard practice.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 10:32 AM
2

Kudos for leaving.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 01:36 PM
9

You finally know what you want? You sure don't seem like it from this post. I'm about to hit 27 and start med school which will take me 12 years to complete. I'm looking forward to it because it means I will finally be making real progress to the most fulfilling future I can imagine. I don't care about being almost 10 years older than the other students. I don't care about what they might think of me. I'm there for myself and I know I will gradually connect with others simply as one human to ano…
/r/askTRP27/08/16 07:37 AM
1

I know that, at its core, its just thinking to yourself without any distraction from the outside world and just thinking about life I guess, and I've tried that, but I'm struggling to see what there is to gain. This isn't actual meditation. It's self reflection. This book goes into a lot of detail if you're interested: https://www.amazon.com/Mind-Illuminated-Complete-Meditation-Integrating/dp/0990847705/ref=sr_1_19?ie=UTF8&qid=1472224345&sr=8-19&keywords=meditation
/r/askTRP26/08/16 03:14 PM
1

Well said. Unfortunately the West has become so arrogant that it thinks it's above communities (at least the EU) and identity. Pretending we don't need anything but capitalism, individualism and 'values'. The rest will all fall in its place from there. Unfortunately humans have always best functioned in communities, and the strongest most threatening one is right in our faces (Islam). The worst part is that most people are too blinded to see what's really going on. How weak our lack of cohesion …
/r/askTRP26/08/16 09:17 AM
1

He's a complete dick. Simply stop hanging with him. You calling him out is not going to change him, it's just going to inversely affect his rationale: "Oh you don't like it? Well, even if just for the sake of disagreeing with you, I will simply do it even more." If you really HAVE to be involved with him (you shouldn't be though), just refuse to acknowledge his existence. Don't waste your energy on the guy.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 09:02 AM
7

They want to kill you regardless. Might as well fuck her.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 08:54 AM
1

Aspiring psychiatrist here as well. Currently studying to get into med school tough, at 26.. Exam is the 30th of August. Good luck with your finals! Keep in mind that regardless of whether you succeed or not, you'll always be miles ahead of people like me.
/r/askTRP22/08/16 03:03 PM
0

Please don't have kids for the sake of instant meaning. You will raise them as a pussy. If you want to quit your job and do something else, fucking make it happen? What are you waiting for? It's easily doable to transition in say 3 years at most. Plenty of time to have kids after that if you're ready for it.
/r/askTRP22/08/16 05:47 AM
1

Definitely use this line on tinder.
/r/askTRP22/08/16 05:43 AM
1

Why not put it to use in another discipline such as MMA? Or get wrecked again as a noob in BJJ for example?
/r/askTRP19/08/16 03:03 PM
3

To be frank, this isn't very good advice if you care about your mental health. Emotions are there for a reason. Listening, or rather acknowledging and accepting in the moment is definitely a healthier approach. However that doesn't mean that you have to show the outside world how they affect you.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 07:30 PM
1

The best in the world or number one in something will send you off onto a wild goosechase with no tangible result. Also, these two inherently imply that you compare yourself to others. Try to forumlate it into something that is based on yourself rather than your position regarding others. For instance getting a PhD (or more) in psychology on a topic that is ultimately interesing and relevant to you. As you progress you will get closer and closer not only to your goal but your own interests. Anot…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/16 09:47 AM
1

It's probably even more obvious in person. Here's what you need to do: Take a step back from setting goals. Breathe, relax. Acknowledge and accept your current self with all its flaws, but also with all its potential and good traits. Start figuring out how to do you for you. How to optimize your own existence. Work with what you've got right now. Find a purpose or meaning. Grow. All this is purely personal. NO OTHER PEOPLE should be included here. They are not you, they don't know what makes you…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 09:36 PM
1

Some hamsters have a rather wicked influence. The less affection you show, the more likely he is to commit. Just play it slow. He will love it and you will get what you need.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 05:38 PM
1

Depends on her honesty. No way to know for sure really.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 05:35 PM
6

Tell her you're comfortable taking it slow. At the same time, keep escalating steadily until you hit a barrier. Let it cool off a bit and then go at it again. It boils down to inuition though, because as soon as she senses you're only focussing on pushing her, you're done. Keep it fun and flirtatious, escalate when it's right. In other words, you're going to be investing a lot more than with usual chicks, you decide whether it's worth it.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 02:33 PM
1

Might be baiting you to think you've got a shot. I'd go with not taking it too seriously and acknowledge it with a counter greeting, but nothing more. See how long they keep it up.
/r/askTRP15/08/16 01:11 PM
2

What's your purpose in life?
/r/askTRP13/08/16 07:38 AM
1

You're on the right track mate, I personally really liked a lot of 21 convention's and the natural lifestyle's youtube content. As well as the girlschase blog. Good luck!
/r/askTRP12/08/16 10:29 PM
1

Not very hard to please are you? You'll be swimming in bliss before you know it
/r/askTRP12/08/16 10:06 PM
2

I thought it was called taxes these days..
/r/askTRP12/08/16 03:13 PM
2

Marriage kills the theoretical replacability, which indeed removes her need to stay sharp. You would be trading money for a worse relationship. Your choice.
/r/askTRP12/08/16 07:13 AM
3

Because he knows you have a way harder time finding other, more attractive men. If he really wants kids and a mother to raise them, he's playing it right. Besides the point here, but considering getting in better shape. You will feel better and prevent yourself from a lot of health issues down the line. Besides, your kid will benefit too.
/r/askTRP12/08/16 07:06 AM
2

You've got a long way to go.. First step: enjoy being alone.
/r/askTRP12/08/16 06:57 AM
1

Why do you really want to work there? It's obvious this isn't your lifelong dream.
/r/askTRP12/08/16 06:53 AM
1

Do you ever decide to just enjoy yourself regardless of whether or not you interact with women when you go out? Also, progress is not a linear curve. You're in a downward motion right now, but the upward spike is right around the corner. Trust in the overall progress and know that progress follows no master. It comes with the right amount of time and effort. You can not control it and neither should you try. The best thing for you right now is to rewind and start enjoying yourself again in the f…
/r/askTRP12/08/16 06:48 AM
2

I get that an open relationship is only worthwhile when your SMV is high enough for you to benefit, but could you perhaps explain the difference between an open relation ship with a girl and a girl that you're plating? Is there even a difference?
/r/askTRP11/08/16 03:55 PM
1

Give her one more chance. Nexting her for this is simply stupid. Tell her a day next week and sort it out. Don't text too much until then. If she flakes again that time, tell her "k" and let it go. If she really really wants to meet up after that tell her she needs to set it up because you're done investing in her.
/r/askTRP11/08/16 12:33 PM
2

You did. You're welcome. You care too much about what other people think of you because you are insecure, which in turn stems from your lack of purpose and fulfillment. As you mentioned, it certainly hinders your social interactions. My suggestion for you would be to take some time in the evenings with just you, a pen and some paper. Ask yourself what you're good at, how you think, what you like to do, what your values are and how you could combine these into the most fulfilling type of activity…
/r/askTRP11/08/16 09:17 AM
2

What in your world, specifically, is not the way you would like it to be?
/r/askTRP10/08/16 08:26 PM
1

Me too. I just experienced that your approach is more risky. Could work just as well though
/r/askTRP10/08/16 08:22 PM
2

Interaction purely for reassurance is a bad move. It's probably better to set up the date in stages and use that as a means to call. Don't ask either. For example you've established that you would get drinks together. Good. Now you can proceed with "I'll call you later tonight to get the specifics sorted" Rejection is ok, but decreasing the chances for rejection is even more ok in my book.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 05:24 PM
1

I flunked out so I can give you a heads up of what's to come should you do the same. If I understand correctly you're in a position now that does not align with your preferred direction in life. I was too. I'm not sure why but cards seem a good analogy. Right now you're holding a hand of which you dislike the odds. You're tempted to fold the hand and see what the next hand brings, hoping for something better, a fresh start, something more interesting, whatever as long as it's not this shitty han…
/r/askTRP10/08/16 05:11 PM
2

In that situation it is very likely that you will get a "No sorry can't talk atm" Also, breakfast before work? Sounds like a shitload of effort to me.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 04:34 PM
2

Never finding that again is your judgement of reality. It is not reality itself. You can not fully accept reality whilst judging it. You seem to be convinced that you will never find that again, however all you are really doing is creating a self fulfilling prophecy. If I told myself I will never eat a cherry as delicious as the one I ate two years ago, chances are I will not even touch cherries anymore since I have predetermined that they are inferior. Let alone being able to observe its sensat…
/r/askTRP10/08/16 04:24 PM
1

Hahah, it's not meant as exercise at all. Walk as slow as you can, sit whenever and wherever your feel is pleasant. Instead of thinking of doing something, try to clear your mind and absorb your surroundings naturally. See, smell, hear, feel, ... without actually consciously trying to do these things. Just observe reality. You could do this while sitting, but that would become way too boring really quickly if you pick one spot, especially indoors. All in all it can't hurt trying. You might end u…
/r/askTRP10/08/16 04:07 PM
1

Let yourself drown in the emotion. Don't try to fight it. Go all the way, accept it completely. That's the only way to get past it. Additionally, use it as a lesson for the future. Learn from your mistakes and apply the knowledge. Right now you are still dealing with lingering oneitis because you never accepted reality. As long as you don't accept it you can't learn from it either.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 12:40 PM
1

Taking walks could work.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 12:22 PM
3

I've been there. You will burn out within a couple of weeks, resulting in a longer period where you revert to old habits coupled with the added mental blow of failure. Good luck. :)
/r/askTRP10/08/16 12:19 PM
1

I started 'lifting' when I was 16 but I failed to be consistent nor did I have a proper workout routine. I had a pair of dumbells and a pullup bar. That's it. On top of that I didn't really know the proper exercises. What got to me the most though was a severe lack of consistency. Ideally you would find a friend who is as eager as you to work out and start getting proficient in bodyweight workouts. It's simply a lot harder to drop out with a friend to keep you accountable. You can throw in dumbe…
/r/askTRP09/08/16 10:35 AM
2

As long as you are oozing confidence and solid frame, it really doesn't matter much what you say. Also, you'll need to be 'lucky' to be talking to a receptive girl. Then again, that's not luck, that's just trying enough until it works. Check out naked guy picks up girls. If you have half his confidence, you're good.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 04:56 PM
2

Looks like you're spiraling into neediness. I'm not sure if this is a solution to your problem, but it might help to game girls you're not that attracted to, just to counter your neediness. With them you will feel like you've got nothing to lose anyway. Once you succeeded at that, work your way up.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 11:41 AM
1

You're focussing on the wrong thing. Addiction is caused by a lack of purpose or meaning, combined with an addictive substance. However, as long as you lack purpose or meaning, ANY substance/activity can become addictive. What I suggest is that you turn your whole idea of progress upside down. Forget about not binging or indulging into your usual highs. Seriously do not spend any time or effort into trying to fight them. However, spend your time and energy into finding a larger meaning or purpos…
/r/askTRP08/08/16 11:33 AM
1

Your own brainfarts were more important than genuinely having a good time with her. You got what you deserved honestly. Lesson learned.
/r/askTRP06/08/16 12:37 PM
1

What's your purpose in life?
/r/askTRP05/08/16 10:48 AM
1

Money, health, status, ... All these rather essential things are in fact secondary. Yet, I'm still working on them day in day out. Why? Because I have a higher purpose that requires me to be at the top of my potential. I want to be the best father I can possibly be. This means I have to have top relationship skills to find a worthy mother for my children. I have to be in top shape. I have to be able to provide for not only my relationship, but my children to be. I have to be mentally fit, being …
/r/askTRP05/08/16 10:36 AM
1

Confidence. Get your inner shit sorted. Make sure you have a purpose/meaning in life and live by it. Own your shit. Own yourself. In all honesty it's a pretty tough task because it's not as clear cut as lifting, but the moment you start working in the direction that is right for you, you will feel better than ever. People pick up on that. It won't make you 'hot' per se, but it will make people gravtitate towards your presence. Close enough I guess.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 09:07 PM
1

Looks like you've set your sights on splitting up, which does seem the best choice. However I'm inclined to ask; have you pointed it out yet? The fact that she blames others for her own lack of improvement? This is probably the best place for her to start. It seems that she does want to change for the better, but is overwhelmed by your progress. I can't shake the feeling that there is some potential here which you could help unfold. That is if you would deem it worthwhile. If not, definitely pro…
/r/askTRP04/08/16 08:57 PM
1

Only someone who still wants that girl would bother with questions such as these. Spend your time interacting with other chicks dude, she ain't worth your mental energy. If you have no interest in her you have nothing to worry about. Even in the incredibly unlikely event that her new bf calls you out you can just honestly say you're not interested in her and you were simply joking around with your colleague.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 11:41 AM
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Don't bother trying to become top 10% or whatever random bullshit number because A) There is no point in comparing yourself to others. You will always tend to compare yourself with what you are not/don't have, making you forever dissatisfied with what you are/have. B) It's impossible to define what the top 10% is. Women have their own preferences. And so should you. A better approach is to become your own best version and start looking for the women who dig your type. Become the top version of y…
/r/askTRP04/08/16 11:36 AM
0

Books and youtube videos are fine for people in their teens or early twenties eager to learn but who are low on cash. In your situation I would look into booking an immersive real life course with respected seduction coaches. Preferably a rather long and intensive one since you start from the very beginning. Looks up the Natural Lifestyles. Even though I haven't actually worked with them, I learned a shit ton by soaking up their knowledge.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 11:30 AM
1

You don't need to fix your ego. An ego is used as a smokescreen defense for insecurities. Apparently she probed and went right through yours since it's not in full working order. However, an ego for defensive purposes is always going to be flawed no matter what. It will never be able to cope with direct attacks. The problem with ego is that it does not help you grow as a person, quite the contrary. It allows you to remain in your shitty insecure state with a sense of false security. Nothing more…
/r/askTRP02/08/16 09:06 AM
2

The best way to get rid of judgement I found was through meditation. Look up vipassana 10 day retreat. It should be absolutely free and open to everyone. May not be close by though. Look at this post you've made. You describe how you judge others only to judge yourself. Result? Other people join in to judge you on their turn. You're in a vicious circle. But you are not trapped. You are only trapped as long as you are convinced that you are. The moment you harness the idea that there is a way out…
/r/askTRP31/07/16 10:19 PM
2

Am actually studying to get into med school myself at 26.
/r/askTRP31/07/16 06:14 PM
2

You feel "less than" because you feel less than you know you could be. Something still is not right in your life. What is your long term goal or ambition? How are you trying to improve the world you live in? What is your ultimate contribution? Once you've found what fulfills yourself to the core, this feeling will start evaporating. You just know that you are walking the right path and that whether or not a chick digs you is completely irrelevant. It's basically ultimate self confidence. Of cour…
/r/askTRP31/07/16 01:09 PM
3

I use it to keep track of my numbers.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 05:40 PM
3

Hey man, I'm in the same boat as you. I believe the guilt hasn't got anything to do with sexual strategy or sex on its own. Sex is sex. Imagine the date was rather shit because you didn't quite like her, yet you would still have had sex. Would you feel guilty afterwards for taking your chances with other girls? Fuck no. You know you have no emotional interest in that person, so you there's nothing to respect. Guilt is an emotion. It's only coming up because you feel emotionally connected to some…
/r/askTRP29/07/16 09:19 AM
1

Sounds like it's more about the people you surround yourself with than you yourself. The situation you are in might be depressing right now, but focus on what you can control and put effort into improving your social circle. Mercilessly cut out toxicity from your life. We're talking survival here.
/r/askTRP28/07/16 04:15 PM
3

Masterful guide Vasiliy. I am wondering though. I'm an introvereted intuitive and caring kind of guy with zero experience telling girls what to do or bossing them around. Through TRP I'm dipping my toes into it a little, but points like this one: -You ARE the Boss of Her. You take NONE of her shit. It's like catnip for them. You impose your will. One told me she was going to get a tattoo--because really, go ruin yourself to show how edgy you are. So I told the ONLY tat she was allowed to have wa…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/16 10:09 AM
-1

To be honest I think RSD stuff is cringeworthy. They lack finesse. Look up James Marshall and see if he has anything to say that is applicable to your situation.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 10:12 PM
1

Good thing is the only way to get ready for that kind of a girl is to be with one. I'd disagree. I believe the only way to get ready for that is by capitalizing your own full potential and thereby maximizing your self esteem and self love. Meditation is helpful amongst of course striving to be the best version of yourself, but there is a certain state of bliss that comes with it that just makes you radiate lovability. This state also guarantees solid frame, because you know that you are doing th…
/r/askTRP22/07/16 09:33 AM
2

The first couple of questions, no not really. I think the three that I consider to be openers all share on common element that's not present in the former questions: they inquire for self questioning and validation towards me. Basically, it makes them think about what to answer and why, however within a specific boundary as to prevent their brains from overloading. Additionally, you can tell a lot from the replies. My standard opener is "What is X (yes, her name) looking for on tinder?" because …
/r/askTRP22/07/16 09:19 AM
1

Pretty much this. What it also does is remove the mystery and tension in terms of your attraction towards her. You've basically communicated you're already worthy of my attraction regardless what happens next in one sentence.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 09:09 AM
3

What I have learned is to ask easy questions. By easy, I mean clear, simply and precise. There should be no effort required to pull the answer from her reality or feelings and reply it. Additionally, try to prevent dead end questions where elaboration is pointless. Good examples: "What's your favorite drink?" - This is a reality. There's nothing for her to think twice about or worry about phrasing. "Do you prefer bars over clubs?" Personal preference. This is a good example of a non dead end que…
/r/askTRP21/07/16 05:29 PM
1

Staying at home means shrinking your comfort zone. Going out means expanding your comfort zone. The smaller your comfort zone, the worse you will feel outside of it and vice versa. At a certain point, your comfort zone will be so small that you will not even feel comfortable in what's left of your comfort zone. Given enough time, you will live in a zone where comfort has completely evaporated. In other words, you are 100% depressed. Everything takes more effort than it should and the reward is c…
/r/askTRP19/07/16 03:17 PM
3

I improve because I want to be able to choose the women that also improve and take care of themselves. An added bonus is that the women that don't suddenly become easily accessible, even though they're not that attractive anymore. Improving myself means I don't have to settle for less. It's all about options really.
/r/askTRP17/07/16 06:42 PM
1

The question is how do you find a fulfilling activity. Money is irrelevant. When you find what is fulfilling to you, start looking for ways to tie money into the equasion.
/r/askTRP14/07/16 10:20 AM
1

I honestly wouldn't want to pick my friends that way though. It might just be me, but if they're the intoxicated bunch you're referring to, I'm not going to waste my time befriending them. I'd much rather figure out in which areas I want to grow and look for connections there. Working out, dancing, martial arts, creative skills, toastmasters, meetups, sports, ... Stuff like that. Same goes for chicks to be honest. If you want people that you perceive to be worthwhile, look for them in places and…
/r/askTRP02/07/16 06:43 PM
1

https://www.hsph.harvard.edu/nutritionsource/calcium-full-story/ The thing is, you don't need it at all. I'm not against it entirely, but if you're going for dairy products, clean cheeses and yoghurts are more interesting than milk.
/r/askTRP22/06/16 01:52 PM
2

milk is not good for you at all the only thing you should drink is water, the rest is fluff at best
/r/askTRP20/06/16 03:52 PM
3

You're nervous because you're insecure and not thoroughly enjoying being you. It's like expecting to catch fish without putting out your net. Your mental state is subpar and deep down you know this. You know that you're competing with people who are not only physically but also mentally vastly superior to you. The above is actually the first mistake. Thinking that your feeling of unworthiness and thus nervousness stems from your value compared to others. Sure, there'll always be a better catch s…
/r/askTRP16/06/16 01:37 PM
1

Is setting a timeframe as in "let me know by x or I'm planning something else" a viable option?
/r/askTRP10/06/16 11:38 AM
1

What happens after you die is irrelevant. It's about how you perceive your own life that matters. It just happens to be so that if you are truly and honestly proud of how you are lived, others tend to think so as well. Just as others will love you if you love yourself. Eastern philosophy is big on this. Living a life that is respectable and honorful in every aspect, if not the most in the small things. How you treat yourself. How you treat your surroundings. How you treat others. There are endle…
/r/askTRP10/06/16 09:20 AM
1

Another tip is to have your main question in a separate text and following it up with something along the lines of "Hi by the way!" This way only ur 2nd message will be visible to her without actually opening the conversation. However the phrasing indicates you actually said something other than simply hi, which has a higher chance of sparking her interest than simply saying hi or asking a question without a follow up message.
/r/askTRP04/06/16 12:51 PM
1

I usually open with "What are you looking for on tinder?“ Also common questions I like to ask are "What led you to installing tinder?" Or "Why are you still single?" This one is great for teasing them and letting them question themselves. Obviously be ready to answer your own question. Mix in some interest in who they are, what they do and how they look and propose a meet up during or after that. I usually gage the type of person she is and act accordingly.
/r/askTRP04/06/16 09:24 AM
1

Figure out what would make you truly proud of yourself for achieving it. Then do it. Only think of girls after a minimum of success in that regard. Nothing that does not really matter to you will make you proud though, you'll need to figure out what's worth your time and effort.
/r/askTRP26/04/16 07:18 AM
1

To be honest, in my opinion you can never be old enough. Or rather, you can never be mature enough to have children. Children are like women but on a whole other level. There's no way out with them if you want to do it right. What I'm saying is that age itself does not mean all that much, but how you deal with the world does. That being said, I don't believe people are generally mature enough before their 30s to really know what's what in a way they can translate to their offspring. Of course th…
/r/askTRP25/04/16 09:38 PM
5

When does the "hair is greasy as fuck due to skipping shampoo phase" end?
/r/askTRP21/04/16 09:42 AM
1

Feels like wanting kids but not wanting to take up the responsibility of parenting to be frank.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/16 05:02 PM
1

What exactly do you mean by the RP lifestyle?
/r/askTRP18/04/16 10:24 AM
2

Ok, so to beat procrastination you will need 2 crucial elements: A single minded purpose and unyielding determination to progress. You will have to be convinced on a deeper level of the reason for doing what you want to be doing. You can convince yourself short term, but overall you want to known deep down that what you are doing is truly what you should be doing if you love yourself. As long as you half ass your conviction, you will struggle to be determined about your purpose and about your pr…
/r/askTRP17/04/16 07:34 PM
5

Validating her online is probably a good way to ensure she ignores you to be honest. It just shouts "Hey I like you, pls talk". Either talk to her or don't imo.
/r/askTRP17/04/16 07:14 PM
2

Strength is for you. Abs is for pussy. Do you.
/r/askTRP14/04/16 04:37 PM
11

You treated her like a human being? Never treat her like a human being bro. In all seriousness though, most women are absolutely clueless about their own feelings and how they actually function. Usually rationality and logic are as effective as politcal correctness is for solving the cause of society's issues. It just doesn't work. Quite the contrary even. A good rule of thumb is to see emotional fits such as these as a cry for frame. Her frame in such an instance just shattered. It's tempting t…
/r/askTRP12/04/16 07:49 PM
1

A jet pack... Operation... I lick you... Belinda... The ninja made a movement. Anybody need this sign? Benny Lava! I'm looking in a pill. I don't see how you Indians can still be blue pill after Benny Lava dropped these massive hints. Probably the most obvious one: Now poop on them Oliver!
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 02:13 PM
10

I wouldn' bother contemplating it. As long as she's a good plate there's no reason to worry. The whole idea behind spinning plates is to not have to worry about incidents like that. If you were talking about an LTR it would be a different story.
/r/askTRP12/04/16 08:28 AM
1

Step 1: Clarify your relationship with plate 1. Step 2: Hang out with potential plate number 2. Step 3: Tell her "she knew exactly what she was getting herself into" when/if required and that "if she wants your attention/affection she'll have to take it or leave it". Step 4: Sit back & relax.
/r/askTRP09/04/16 08:52 PM
-2

"Look harder, I'm pretty sure I've got 'awesome' written all over me."
/r/askTRP09/04/16 05:50 PM
4

Love doesn't exist, god doesn't exist, justice and freedom doesn't exist, friend doesn't exist. Modern society is fucked up. Love exists. In fact you possess a vast, undepletable capacity to love. I know because I've felt this straight from the motherfucking source. It's like taking MDMA but without taking MDMA. Actual, real organic pure and limitless love. You can feel it too. It only takes a shitload of meditation, patience and perseverance. It's a worthwhile experience though because it will …
/r/askTRP09/04/16 05:45 PM
3

That's why you need to switch your focus. Your only motive should be to have a pleasant interaction with other people and once you're comfortable with that, with girls in particular. Your one and only goal when reaching out for an interaction should be your own entertainment through connection. If you enjoy yourself while interacting with her, tell her and go from there. It flows naturally that way. What's the point talking to someone if you don't care about how your interaction actually goes. I…
/r/askTRP08/04/16 10:04 PM
5

Forget women and focus on interactions. Practice interacting with people you encounter or pass by. Take baby steps and do not exclude anyone. Try not to judge others. If it's a person, interact. Just smiling is a good start. If you're consistent, interacting will become part of your comfort zone. Then you can think about taking it to the next step with girls.
/r/askTRP08/04/16 09:17 PM
7

Better to finger the woman than to lose.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 06:09 PM
1

Great stuff. OP as well. I always think of the movie Grizzly Man when I think about frame. Another example of how losing frame ends up in death.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 06:08 PM
1

Might as well next her if you're going to rape the experience by having sex like that.
/r/askTRP08/04/16 05:24 PM
1

Haha. You probably have it down already. Apparently you just weren't aware of it.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 02:46 PM
2

In the end I think the emotional crack made you even more attractive in a way. Or rather, your ability to shape up again and regain composure after that. Both in the sense of nexting her as well as in the sense of picking up your old ability to do yourself for you and love every bit of it. Honestly, if you would plan for establishing a strong connection with a woman with minimal emotion but maximum effect, you'd have a hard time planning out things to go as 'well' as they went. You did well. The…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 02:33 PM
0

A diet that systematically forces you to take supplements is not a healthy diet. That's all there is to it.
/r/askTRP08/04/16 11:05 AM
9

So she doesn't deserve your time anymore but you decide to drive her to her fucking date? Tell her something came up and next her, seriously, get your shit together. Her bf actually sounds like he's getting the better deal here.
/r/askTRP08/04/16 11:00 AM
2

Fuck women? Or the % below you? Options, options..
/r/askTRP08/04/16 10:47 AM
1

Yes but in that majority (50%) you can still be in the lower half. And in that majority (25%) the same, and then, in that one, and.... There's always a but.
/r/askTRP08/04/16 10:43 AM
1

I'm totally adding "TOP 10% IN SOMALIA" to my CV.
/r/askTRP08/04/16 10:42 AM
2

True indeed. Thanks heavens for those endless amounts of poor bastards. "There there ego, everything will be fine, we are in the top % after all, now let's play some WoW."
/r/askTRP08/04/16 10:40 AM
4

Omg. You didn't build her a house? Worthless POS..
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 10:13 AM
4

This is like a riddle. M amount of males and F amount of females and attend Activity X. M-1 = beta males Ratio of good/bad girls is unknown. Age gap is >20. What is Activity X?
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 09:45 PM
1

Also, by not judging on looks, you will be less prone to be intimidated by beauty.
/r/askTRP07/04/16 04:09 PM
1

Like all interactions: Person + Person = Emotional. NOT Person + Person = Personal. From there we can deduce that: You + Womyn = Emotional with Womyn = any woman on this planet. Therefore: Does it matter what SHE thinks? = No. Does it matter the best approach is for HER? = No. Does it matter who SHE is? = No. The only thing that matters is the emotion you carry. A naturally playful, positive and confident vibe is always attractive. It's not what you say, but how you say it, how you carry yoursel…
/r/askTRP07/04/16 04:07 PM
2

Less sleep will degrade your performace on these two though. In the long run 5hrs is destructive. Try to have some readily available bodyweight exercises as study breaks and work them daily I'd say.
/r/askTRP07/04/16 09:24 AM
3

Or did he?
/r/askTRP05/04/16 08:44 PM
8

might as well get escorts
/r/askTRP05/04/16 01:58 PM
2

Seriously though, you're looking for an LTR. The key is to ease down on the direct intent and make bonding a priority. In other words, get to know her before you fuck her. As long as you're playing the sexuality card women will judge you on that primarily. As a result, you're competing against chads on your weak front. You're not going to win this. Instead, use your charm to compete against the betas.
/r/askTRP05/04/16 11:33 AM
1

Your best option is probably to get a different username.
/r/askTRP05/04/16 11:30 AM
2

Fuck milk. Fuck protein powder. Fuck lack of veggies. Eat until you are full or slightly over that and you're fine if you want to gain muscle mass. It's way more important to keep eating healthy though. I'm on track to go from 69kg to 80kg through lean gains. I eat varied meals, I follow my training schedule and I sleep properly. This has become a habit for me at this point so no more gaps in my progress as long as I remain without injury. I'm confident that I'll reach my goal. It this point gai…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 07:49 PM
1

I will raise my children so that they have values which they want to live by. That does not mean they won't make mistakes or mess around, but the only way I'd be really worrying about such things is when I haven't raised them properly. Our generation is not raised to handle the unsurpassed amount of freedom and opportunity. I won't make that mistake as a parent. It cost me too much myself. I respect that it can be fulfilling to you, but I think fucking sluts is like fucking whores. You're not cr…
/r/askTRP01/04/16 11:18 AM
2

Hah. Well gaming actually has a big part in why I have trouble defining what it is that makes me truly enjoy myself. It took up so much of my time and creativity once which could have benefited me in real life. Oh well, there's always now.
/r/askTRP01/04/16 11:12 AM
1

I'm not much of a bar guy to begin with Be the guy you are, but up your exposure. Bars are pointless if you're not used to enjoying your time there. Have fun the way you like to and make sure it's not within your own home.
/r/askTRP31/03/16 08:30 PM
1

Now he does. What else can he learn from you? My advice: love yourself regardless of ANYTHING in life. Love yourself because you breahte. Love yourself because you are. Love the gift of being alive and act accordingly. Do not let anything or anyone ever interfere with that.
/r/askTRP31/03/16 08:26 PM
1

I don't think I'll get married, but I've always loved kids and I feel I'd make a great dad. In fact, my longest term goal in life is to be the best dad I can possibly be. I feel it's the best way I can possibly honor the gift of life that I was given so many years ago. Fucking sluts is fun, but it will never be fulfilling. At least for me. They're two different things. By the way, I live in Europe.
/r/askTRP31/03/16 08:22 PM
1

I haven't been in a relationship with those girls because there was no logistical possibility. I'm saying it originates from a deep level of understanding. You could call it friendship, sure. Although friendship is too broad of a term, it could implicate a far shallower connection. Romantic feelings for them were not out of the question. Emotion is involved, so sure, if you want to call that beta be my guest. However the rational knowledge is still there too. It's up to you to keep your head coo…
/r/askTRP31/03/16 07:20 PM
7

"Little things like this" I too wish they'd just put which wine goes best with which asshole flavor on the label. It's in the little things..
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 01:33 PM
2

It could be dangerous for your mental health to be stuck between burning out due to personal growth pressure and the uselessness of existence. You can't feel good taking it easy, but at the same time your efforts are somehow pointless. Moderation doesn't necessarily provide an answer to that dilemma from a theoretical point of view.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 01:03 PM
3

"So I wanted to fuck around as much as possible with women who weren't worthy of my kids, but you are." The romance is strong.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 09:35 AM
2

It's not just the contraceptives, artificial hormones are fucking everywhere. Plastic has become irreplacable.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 09:33 AM
2

The times where you could earn your place in heaven just by not doing things is indeed over. Unfortunately, that mentality still lives on. Only this time the blanket covering the sheep's eyes isn't made out of religion, it's made of consumption. Instead of playing on our spirituality, it plays on our greed. I'm not even sure which of the two is worse. I definitely agree that is a hard truth to see though. There is no solace in death or complacency, which means time is always our enemy and lack o…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 09:28 AM
1

Romantic feelings can be a possible byproduct of a mutual understanding at a very deep level, but it's not the essence of the relationship.
/r/askTRP30/03/16 08:07 PM
1

To be honest I wouldn't have known it was possible until I experienced it myself. It's very likely that you haven't. Romance might not be the right word though, profound understanding is a better description.
/r/askTRP30/03/16 11:04 AM
1

That's the thing, you don't. It's not common to connect with someone deeply enough. You'll know when you do though, there's a level of understanding which is completely different from the usual. Stay true to yourself will increase the chances of it ever happening.
/r/askTRP29/03/16 10:07 PM
1

If you are of the same opinion as him it does. Regardless though, tinder is something you can have lying around and shouldn't keep you from real life seduction.
/r/askTRP29/03/16 12:28 PM
1

Quality over quantity.
/r/askTRP29/03/16 12:21 PM
1

If you want to find out, just do it. If not, don't. There's no point in describing it.
/r/askTRP28/03/16 11:49 PM
1

It's a different kind of feeling really. It's not on a scale of hotness.
/r/askTRP28/03/16 05:29 PM
4

Mindfulness In Plain English is probably the best starters book
/r/askTRP28/03/16 10:45 AM
1

One doesnt't exclude the other. It's a different experience. Except for being close minded there's no reason to be against it. I can understand not wanting to put in effort though.
/r/askTRP28/03/16 10:37 AM
2

Become aware of who you are. I've written this reply in another thread: Start investigating your own interests and what you feel naturally inclined to like. What is the common thread? What's the underlying value or concept? The goal is to find the core principles of what makes things effortlessly interesting to you. Another approach would be to make a list of all your strengths, interests and values without censorship. Out of these three lists, distill the most prominent and important ones to gi…
/r/askTRP27/03/16 10:01 PM
2

Why would you not want to?
/r/askTRP27/03/16 07:36 PM
14

Become aware of your desire for comfort and learn to break free from it. This single lesson took me well over 12 years to learn...
/r/askTRP27/03/16 12:34 PM
2

Connected sex is on a whole other level. Think of souls melting into one. The problem is that bp media had always claimed that every other form of sex is bad. It's not, it's quite good, but there is more than just sex to be had...
/r/askTRP27/03/16 10:06 AM
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BPA and other xeno-estrogens Avoid BPA like the plague. Filter your water, don't heat up food or drinks in plastic containers. Switch to natural care products and be aware of the chemicals that are all around. Fucking hell mate. I went on a quick google investigation spree and the results are terrifying. I've read in my biology material for med school that male sperm effeciency and potency has decreased dramatically since WW2. Oestrogenic plastic got big in the 1950s. That shit is all over us to…
/r/askTRP27/03/16 01:23 AM
1

Do you make them wet first?
/r/askTRP27/03/16 12:52 AM
1

Very true, but what I wanted to say is that -through leadership- you'd make sure the once hot 25 year old won't turn into an unfuckable troll.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 10:12 PM
3

Unfortunately it is those who do not even consider justification in the first place who end up procreating. That on itself might be a reason to father children who stand for something.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 03:40 PM
0

The women you'd want to marry (considering you are redpill) will be plenty fuckable when she's 40.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 03:31 PM
1

It's a bit like uncovering hidden artefacts. The information you're looking for already exists, you just have to find the right angle. With that in mind, a good way of making progress is to start investigating your own interests and what you feel naturally inclined to like. What is the common thread? What's the underlying value or concept? The goal is to find the core principles of what makes things effortlessly interesting to you. Another approach would be to make a list of all your strengths, …
/r/askTRP26/03/16 12:24 PM
1

Careful. Willpower is very limited. You will burn through it rapidly and as a result lose progress in the long run. Say you wake up at 11am now (go to sleep at 1pm) and have an irregular lifting pattern without any other activities. You read all the good advice here and get yourself madly motivated. Great. Except, doing more than getting to bed and waking up sooner + have set lifting days is going to be your limit for the first few weeks. Only add new routines after you've been able to wake up a…
/r/askTRP26/03/16 09:42 AM
1

To know how they can give meaning to life. The rest will follow from there.
/r/askTRP26/03/16 09:33 AM
1

Is it? I mean I get what you're saying but if all of us truly lived what we preached wouldn't we like.. not be here? Your comment made me wonder that, and yes I do know I am guilty as charged. PS: video games are the lethal ingredient in the pussyfication of our society...
/r/TheRedPill25/03/16 11:00 PM
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Seems like you need to start seeing what you want to see rather than what's right in front of you. The key of course lies in knowing what you want to see. What captures your attention naturally, what are you values, etc. Might be worthwhile to do some soulsearching on the matter and go from there. The realm of the aimless mind is indeed filled with bullshit instant gratification, fake shit and dumb sex. It's useless, but it's great at capturing the aim- and brainless minds...
/r/askTRP25/03/16 10:21 PM
4

It's the other way around mate. Do the activities you like because you like them, not because someone you think you like likes them. If you don't, your frame is dead before it even got a chance to be built. But you are right when it comes to building social circles. Build them around the activities you enjoy.
/r/askTRP25/03/16 02:23 PM
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Because they are fed and believe the bp nonsense notion that everyone is kind and loving as long as you respect them unconditionally. Or some shit like that.
/r/askTRP22/03/16 06:27 PM
1

It's all in there, yeah, its unnatural availability and impact on the brain is the main problem. Best chances for recovery is to cut that shit out as much as possible. Start practicing mindfulness meditation (Mindfulness in Plain English: book) and pick up more non internet activities. Fuck even tinder can be a way to sustain your current need for dopamine. In fact, you'll notice your brain will try to find ways to satisfy the need. Sure, don't chastise yourself, but be aware of your thoughts an…
/r/askTRP20/03/16 04:26 PM
1

Your behavior is what's cultivating your attention span. Gaming on such a regular basis has a significant effect on your brain. Gaming is a form of dopamine release. Because it's so quick and frequent, your brain starts to adapt to be able to cope with the new amount of dopamine. However, this also means that your brain is now restructuring itself away from the ability to be at peace with low or zero dopamine triggering activities, aka anything that requires your focused attention for longer per…
/r/askTRP20/03/16 04:15 PM
0

Do you play video games?
/r/askTRP19/03/16 10:21 PM
6

If she wants your babies, she wants your soul...
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 09:10 AM
11

Most things like that all have their reasons with religion. I loathe islam as much as anyone, but in most religions, wisdom has soaked in in some sense or another. There's little practical advise that isn't actually useful in some way or another, as questionable as it can be.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 09:04 AM
3

Getting the girl of your oneitis is inversely proportional to your feelings for her. Give zero shits? Your chances are maxed. Still stuck in oneitis? Not a fucking chance. In other words, forget it. By the time you have a chance, she won't be special anymore.
/r/askTRP17/03/16 08:58 AM
2

I compiled it over the three years since I've quit gaming. Of course I've been reading a lot of content regarding addiction and distraction etc as well as my own experience and those I came in contact with. My theory is that young people these days get bombarded with stimuli without being taught properly how to deal with them. At the same there's an underdevelopment of important aspects of personal growth such as purpose, direction, self management and discipline. Add to that the fact that both …
/r/askTRP16/03/16 10:16 PM
6

Ex video game addict and author of the blog winreallife.com here. Video game addiction is actually a consequence of a combination of various factors. These may include aimlessness or lack of pupose, fleeing from discomfort into distraction, lack of discipline, physical predisposition to artificial dopamine sources (like gaming, internet, ...) and physical availability of distraction opportunities. The best way to get rid of your addiction is to tackle these issues on all fronts. I'm working on a…
/r/askTRP16/03/16 03:25 PM
1

I see what you mean and I agree as to the implications, but it's tricky for beginners to confuse influencing others to be a byproduct of your actions and mindset rather than to be a reason for action. I agree with you though.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 06:54 PM
7

I've noticed that men and women in urban areas are much more open and experienced in terms of relationships. As a result much more likely to switch partners or cheat. Of course the opportinities are a lot more frequent as well. I'm thinking about trekking through rural areas and establishing contact with locals might be one of the last viable options in the West. Of course it's slow going and requires more effort than you might be willing to put in.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 04:33 PM
2

I believe others shouldn't be a factor in what kind of man you become. Both in the positive as the negative sense. Working on who you will be should be an effort that stands on its own. My philosophy is that because life is a gift, I must respect it to the best of my ability. The only 'problem' is that there is no perspective without the gift of life, which makes it hard to capture its true value, thus putting the task of valuing it into my own hands and making it easy to judge not on its true v…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 04:16 PM
2

Sounds like it'll be some sort of vlog rather than structured content. Nothing wrong with that if that's your goal of course, or is there anything else you hope to achieve by doing this?
/r/askTRP15/03/16 12:53 PM
1

In this case you're using humor to up the tension, rather than diffuse it. I definitely agree that it can be used both ways.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 09:49 AM
2

I tried to create a morning routine where I stretch, work out and meditate before I started my day. Ended up feeling burnt out after a month. How did you start?
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 07:55 AM
1

Don't try to extrapolate from wolves, they have a very different mating and social system than humans. Shall we ditch the whole alpha beta concept as well then? (Not that I'd mind)
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 07:48 AM
2

True, I guess I should've made it more clear that it is the case for humor used as a way to relieve tension.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 08:07 PM
1

I just visualised some sort of magical TRP mentor in Tiroler outfit shouting "helloooo.. Disney fantasty!" with an Austrian accent as a wake up call to the OP. Echo galore of course.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 06:35 PM
4

Women are so fucking easy if you think about it: Give her no reason to feel bad feelings while keeping the good feelings flowing? -> She thinks you like her personally and will in turn like you personally. Don't create a feel-good flow and give her reasons to feel bad (about anything)? -> She thinks you are a poor human being and targeting her personally, which makes her despise you as a person. Men learn it the hard way that human interaction in essence is not personal, women never learn it at …
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 06:32 PM
2

Look for articles on escalation on girlschase.com
/r/askTRP14/03/16 06:23 PM
1

There's two ways of going at it. One is indeed to keep bombarding yourself with shots, the other is to achieve peace of mind without. Honestly, in the long run, the latter is going to give you the best ROI since you'll still be able to experience all the new stuff only with a more grounded perspective. Short term.. well, new experiences are probably easier. It's up to you to decide in the end.
/r/askTRP13/03/16 10:53 AM
2

What I understand from reading your post is that you are using results as a means to validate yourself. Deep down you are still insecure. Women like you? Your subconscious gets a happiness shot. You're rocking it in the gym? Your subconscious gets a happines shot. You excell at your hobbies? Same thing. You sit at home without any significant progress? Your subconscious is in agony, crying out for a shot of validation, a shot of happiness. You feel empty and shallow without it. Deep down you are…
/r/askTRP12/03/16 11:35 PM
1

PM me why you feel this way.
/r/askTRP12/03/16 11:26 PM
1

"Tell me where or what." can also be a form of taking charge. Might not hurt to throw it in occasionally if you want her input but don't want to come over as aimless.
/r/askTRP12/03/16 12:46 AM
1

Glad I could help. I recognize your situation. Try not to forget to enjoy yourself while walking down your path. I made that mistake recently, along with basing my self worth on the condition of achievements. I wasn't having fun anymore and thus lost the energy required to achieve my goals, resulting in a downward spiral. You don't need any specific alignment of realities to love being alive. You are here, that on itself is worth loving. Try not to take yourself too seriously and enjoy the ride.…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/16 06:02 PM
1

Looks like you would much rather enjoy the company of people who are on your level than the friends you're used to seeing. Obviously that's not an easy thing to establish, but it might be worth spending time making it happen instead of spending more time and effort towards a social dead end.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/16 01:23 PM
2

Good write up! Just out of curiosity though, how old are you?
/r/TheRedPill11/03/16 01:09 PM
6

I feel being able to fight grants you two things: Confidence. Being able to physically overpower others around you, or at least feeling truthfully confident about your ability to do so is just a different dimension of confidence on its own. It enhances your overall confidence a lot. Intent. With this truthful confidence comes your ability to portray killing intent and achieve primal dominance. This shit worked for millions of years and it still does. This is how animals assert themselves. In fac…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 08:27 AM
1

What you're really saying is that you can't work on relationships, they work or they don't. Once they start going downhill it's all out of your hands and nothing to do about it. That's just not true.
/r/askTRP08/03/16 10:07 PM
2

I don't think believer is the right word. Recognizing the truth is probably a better statement.
/r/askTRP08/03/16 06:46 PM
1

I'm asking because being 'alpha' (for lack of a better word) comes down to leading. I just noticed that, at least for myself, when I live on my own, I get a way more natural feel for leading because I have to lead my own life 24/7 anyway. I'm used to it regardless of whether there's someone else with me. However when I live with others, I'm automatically inclined to compromise at least some of my autonomy. With parents it's even worse. For me, I had the hardest time keeping up leadership when I …
/r/askTRP08/03/16 06:04 PM
1

Possibly, however free will is an illusion. People do as they are conditioned and unfortunately, it's not hard to condition people in fucked up ways in the first 18 years of their lives. That doesn't mean that it's anyone's fault, but it might not be the healthiest approach to blame yourself for the choices you made in the past. The best thing you can do is to acknowledge it and become aware of your present reality and choose wisely from here.
/r/askTRP08/03/16 08:35 AM
1

Do you live alone?
/r/askTRP08/03/16 08:05 AM
1

Mind altering experiences given the proper preparations are immensely valuable. I personally prefer to go the 'natty' route and pick my own mushrooms near where I live. The hunt is almost as satisfactory as the trip itself.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 09:02 PM
2

I feel meditation helps give you control over your trip. It allows you to stop your train of thought and let a fresh one arise. Very useful imo.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 05:27 PM
2

Why did he pick on you instead of someone else?
/r/askTRP06/03/16 05:22 PM
1

The whales?
/r/askTRP05/03/16 09:29 PM
1

Damn. You've experienced the most gentle TRP invoking moment I've read so far. I'm glad it did the trick for you!
/r/askTRP01/03/16 10:07 PM
2

Would you go as far as being grateful for the in your face wake up call? The more I read these stories the more I dread not the disastrous events, but the mediocrity of 'good enough' relationships, marriages and lives where the truth will always flirt with the surface but never actually has a chance to truly reveal itself.
/r/askTRP01/03/16 10:05 PM
2

I am so grateful for having the internet at such a young age (now 26), yet being spared from the Youtube babysit parenting that is possible nowadays. Sure, it got me hooked on online gaming for years, but it also got me in touch with invaluable life lessons and essential male knowledge. I'd gladly make that trade any day.
/r/askTRP01/03/16 09:52 PM
1

Start acting on that feeling where something about a person sparks your interest, or when something happens that allows you to strike up a conversation. Don't go for numbers or anything, just do this until it's second nature. Of course you can go for a number if you feel you really click with someone, but getting used to just talking to people will free you up a lot and prevent the usual anxiety that arises from seeing your interactions in a win/lose duality instead of a mutual experience.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/16 08:09 AM
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It's not about managing your time. It's about managing your present. Become the master of your decisions in the moment and you will always act when the time is ripe. Of course this is easier said than done, however mindfulness will be a tremendous help. Become aware of your decisionmaking the very moment it is taking place in your head. Being complacent? Catch that and counteract the process. Take action when you catch yourself trying to slack off. Repeated effort in this area will cause your se…
/r/askTRP29/02/16 10:11 PM
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I agree with you. An escort will not solve anything. You will only feel as empty as you're used to feeling after the act. If there is absolutely nobody you can talk to in your neighbourhood as in old friends or family, take responsibility and set making friends as your number one goal. Vow to become a social mastermind. A great tool for this is meditation. It teaches you to be outcome independent (not clingy in social situations) and in the moment (capable of making an impression). Of course the…
/r/askTRP29/02/16 11:05 AM
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Become a succesful Psychiatrist. Write books. Scratch that. Bestsellers. Gather enough passive income streams to make a living off of. Learn how to fly a helicopter. Own a helicopter. Master the bachelor game. Start a family. Travel the wilderness for 6 months or more. Solo. Travel the world. Become the best father I can possibly be. Find and walk the middle road between real life functionality and enlightenment. Become a succesful politician. I think I'll start with that.
/r/askTRP28/02/16 11:09 PM
2

Find your pain. Dig down and figure out what you lack most in your life. Find out what you crave the most. Find out what makes you most miserable. From there, take the responsibility for resolving the situation yourself. Do the work, climb the mountain, go at it with realism and determination. The key is to make slow, but steady long term progression and eventually cure yourself from that deep pain. This is your test. If you pass this test, you know you will be able of overcoming whatever pain i…
/r/becomeaman28/02/16 04:23 PM
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Your insecurity is cringeworthy. I couldn't read the entire post. The biggest problem with the entire situation that I can see is the fact that you are still in environment blaming mode. Things will only change once you start taking the full, complete 100% responsibility for you, yourself and your happiness in life. Work on that and 'troubles' such as the ones mentioned here will melt like snow.
/r/askTRP28/02/16 04:06 PM
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You've checkmated yourself. This is the risk of the game. Your game plan was short term victory over anything else. With good reason since most victories do not become greater the longer you wait to achieve them. However with this girl, you feel as if you've blown your chances for long term victory by choosing this tactic. I know the feeling. At the same time, nailing a long term tactic with a girl such as her is expert level game. Chances are very likely that you would have failed trying anythi…
/r/askTRP28/02/16 03:59 PM
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I've made a full recovery from gaming addiction which made me realize a couple of things. Gaming, like porn, is not the cause of your pain. It is not the problem, but it can be problematic. The very first step is to take the necessary action to prevent it from being problematic for a significant amound of time (90+ days). Your problem is that you are wandering around aimlessly, mindlessly. Leaving you frustrated. You know deep down that this is beneath your self worth. The second step is to ackn…
/r/askTRP28/02/16 01:06 AM
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What if you add the kid's potential? Are their total combined potentials highest when he does or does not adopt him? It's actually pretty clear which is the better choice if you put it this way in my opinion.
/r/askTRP28/02/16 12:35 AM
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I'm not entirely sure how you define a 'strong ego', but without more information, I'd have to disagree. Yes, the ego helps you function in the real world, but I'm not sure if strong is the right term. I believe an ego should be somewhat flexible, lean and open. It should get molded through time without breaking or causing harm. The problem with 'strong' ego's is that they are counterproductive at times. Of course, I might just have a different definition of strong.
/r/askTRP27/02/16 05:04 PM
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Meditation and figuring out thinking patterns are two different things. Mediation requires you to let thoughts arise and pass without dwelling on them. Just being in the moment instead of in your head. Figuring out what's on your mind and more importantly why and what to do about it is basically the other approach: lock in on a thinking pattern and dig deaper by confronting yourself with it. Writing or speech will help you with this and open up insights that you never would be able to reach with…
/r/askTRP27/02/16 05:00 PM
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Heh.. I'm currently out with a spinal injury in my neck due to tensing my neck muscles during the final reps during overhead press and triceps pulldowns. I wasn't doing anything crazy, but I won't be able to lift again for at least a couple of weeks... Form and self awareness is everything!
/r/askTRP25/02/16 09:01 PM
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To be honest, I'm not in your position, but I do have some experience. I've gotten bored very quickly because indeed, the game remains the same, only the person changes. My approach to the whole thing from this point is that I will pursue my passion and only really spend my effort looking for women in that light. If a cute girl happens to pass me by, I'll probably see what she's about if I'm in the mood, but the times where I actively invest time to set something up out of the blue are pretty mu…
/r/askTRP24/02/16 11:19 PM
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So on TRP we tend to know the nature of women. This case is a clear example of that. However, I do not agree with the idea that he's rewarding the woman, or worse, that he should consider taking action against her. The lady in questions acts perfectly in line with Red Pill knowledge. It is the married man in this case who isn't. It is his responsibility to apply RP theory into practice to keep her in check. In fact, because his wife his cheating on her, he's probably closer than ever to getting …
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 11:11 AM
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Ryan Gosling in Drive seems to be the type of guy you're talking about. The key to mastering this is to master your frame and quiet personal amusement (being in the moment works wonders).
/r/askTRP21/02/16 01:41 AM
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Also, remove all pictures of you online. This works wonders. Except for Tinder. I've considered removing Facebook, but it's still useful for several reasons. Though I guess none that can't be dealt with... Hmmm.
/r/askTRP21/02/16 01:38 AM
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I guess I just don't trust the laws enough to deal with this. It's not a faggot way by the way, it's just not the most 'civil' way.
/r/askTRP19/02/16 10:15 PM
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I don't get why nobody has told you to stand up for yourself yet. Don't like to get touched by him? Tell him to stop. He doesn't listen? Tell him you punch out his teeth if he does not. If he doesn't respect your boundaries, you shouldn't respect his. Record these things if you must. Oh and actually be prepared to fight the dickhead. The reason why he acts like this is because he gets away with it. If you want him to stop, you're going to have to be the one to make him stop. Take responsibility …
/r/askTRP19/02/16 03:15 PM
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I'm not talking about the Arabs who've had to put up with a lot of shit. I'm talking about the ones that are here in Europe. For generations now. You can call me a moron all you like but it's not going to change the truth Europe is facing. It'll be Europe's biggest challenge in the 21st century. Enjoy extrapolating your personal anekdotes though, it seems like you're enjoying yourself.
/r/askTRP19/02/16 02:47 PM
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People hate Arabs in Europe, and then they wonder why Arabs don't want to play nice in return. You've got it backwards mate. We play nice to everyone, the Arabs are overrepresented in the group of the people who abuse that. Asians don't do that for instance. WW2 was bad, but in a different way. This is taking way longer, is way more subtle and is most likely way harder to deal with. It's a cultural war more than a military one. Nonetheless, should Europe lose this war, it will lose its identity.…
/r/askTRP19/02/16 02:33 PM
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I've lived with arabs and spent enough time with them, and while I'm not they're biggest fans, they're nothing like TRP presents them to be. That's very cute. First of all though, I've never said anything about any race. I'm not sure why you need to bring race into this when it's rather irrelevant. Poor people are poor people regardless of their background. I'm not talking purely financial either. You can be a poor fuck who's wealthy. Anyway since you brought up Arabs. I've lived amongst them my…
/r/askTRP19/02/16 11:37 AM
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We (men in the Western world) were taught to think rather than to trust our gut. Intellect over intuition. While it's useful to learn for learning new stuff, it's horrible for accessing the old inner wisdom. Which is why it's a good idea to direct some of that intellect towards connecting with your own intuition. Time to balance that sucker out. Great reply. I was skimming the comments as I usually do and bumped into yours. You've hit all the nails on the head, which saves me time and energy. Th…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 12:46 AM
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You're forgetting the part where those people do become a problem. And they will because they feel they will have very legitimate reasons. The problem is that the lazy bastards are also the ones who blame and shame. The ones who feel victimized and the ones who resort to violence because they can't handle reality. At this rate, that group is growing rapidly. In fact, here in Europe, we're importing them en masse. As if we didn't already had enough of them to begin with. Poor people. Mentally, ph…
/r/askTRP19/02/16 12:29 AM
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As long as you're feeling delighted by being master of the body you have, lifting is not a priority. The thing is though, in this day and age, most men can not honestly say that. Which is why the LIFT mantra exists. If it doesn't apply to you, ignore it. If you can't stand positive advice to those who may benefit from it, good luck finding help yourself should you ever need it.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 10:08 PM
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Unfortunately, often the people who need it most are the furthest removed from ever receiving it. Such is life I guess... Just glad it's not mine. Hah.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 02:02 AM
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Taking yourself and everything you're involving yourself in too seriously is a tricky trap. I've been there myself. At the end of the ride I got myself burned out and disconnected from my ability to be playful and casual. I realized I had a problem when I noticed I didn't know what loosened me up anymore. I didn't know what activities I enjoyed doing without adding extra significance to them and simply enjoy being present while doing them. Diet is a good example. Due to my investigative nature, …
/r/askTRP11/02/16 06:13 PM
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You're only seeing what you want to see bro... You're in a self fulfilling prophecy. Relax. Nobody gives a shit about eachother when it comes down to it. Gender, age, status, race, all that shit doesn't fucking matter. We all think we're the star in our own life and consider the rest part of the scenery. You're acting as if the outside world is out to get you. Well, as long as you believe it is, it will be. Stop deluding yourself and trying to justify hate. You may hate fucking purple lizards wi…
/r/askTRP10/02/16 10:50 PM
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You're doing it wrong. Hatred stems from a form of inability to cope with your external reality. Because your ego can't cope with it, it turns the exterior into an enemy. This way it shields itself from introspection, which is the only way of solving your issue of malcontentment. The problem is that it has to face an initial load of negative emotion, that's why the ego tries to shield you from it. Stop looking outward with anger. Start looking inward with courage.
/r/askTRP10/02/16 10:40 PM
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Mental weakness. Softness. That is the cause, you are weak. You train the body to become physically strong; you train the mind to become mentally strong. How do you go about this though? What's the gameplan? I know I'm pretty weak in terms of discipline, but at the same time I'm clueless how to tackle the problem. I don't even know whether it's my personality or my conditioning that makes me so hard to discipline.
/r/askTRP10/02/16 10:36 PM
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Funny, I was about to reach Diamond (highest tier back then) when it dawned on me.. To the real world, Diamond I is as worthless as Bronze fucking V. It's possibly worse since you've spent all this time and effort into an activity that holds no depth other than short term rewards. It's like entertainment fast food. Sure it tastes good at first but when it sinks in it, the worthlesness is all that remains.
/r/askTRP10/02/16 09:04 PM
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The new Aristotle is among us.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 04:24 PM
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I wouldn't be too sure about that. I'm not saying it's not a good idea, but I'd suggest you start out with meditation, it's going to do a lot of good even without therapy and you can still see from there. Or combine both of course. You'll get there, trust me. It just might not seem like it right now.
/r/askTRP10/02/16 02:21 PM
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Just a quick note on that. Don't do it for others, do it for yourself. You've only got one fucking life to live, so might as well kick ass at it. It just so happens that doing so is incredibly attractive. ;) Being content with being you on itself is probably one of the most powerful, but overlooked factors in attraction.
/r/askTRP10/02/16 01:08 AM
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INTP here as well. First things first: you'll never be as alpha as extroverted types can be. Since we're talking personality types and alpha beta stuff anyway, consider sigma to be your highest tier. I personally like being the odd one out, not belonging to a pack but being a master on my own. I can fit in where I want or just as well decide not to interact alltogether and be equally fine. I think it's because I love freedom so much, but I'm digressing. I've been on the self improvement journey …
/r/askTRP10/02/16 12:33 AM
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Abstinence is holy for muslims. I mean sure, having a prophet marrying a 9 year old still isn't exactly laudable, but still. Towards non-muslims however, it's the opposite. They get free reign because hey, those creatures are worth less than you right? This is exactly the mentality that enables human beings to behave the way they did in Cologne. An ugly and misplaced sense of superiority and entitlement.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 11:30 AM
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Considering the amount of stuff Islam requires you to do (prayers, good deeds, good behavior, fasting, abstinence...), I think the "work on him/herself" part is pretty well covered. This alone hurts the credibility of your entire comment. You can do all these things without actually working on yourself. And that is exactly why it's so shit. It allows people to think they're making some sort of spiritual progress because some retarded book told them they would be rewarded when it doesn't fucking …
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 11:20 AM
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Yes. I live very close to a muslim ghetto in a city with about the most ethnic diversity in the world. It's quite clear how they top the charts in terms of combining misplaced superiority, playing the victim and entitlement. Add some egocentrism and generally childish mentality to the mix and you get to experience their added 'value' on a regular basis. Because Islam teaches muslims that they are inherently better beings than others, this is what you get, while they push for more and more benefi…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 11:05 AM
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Islam is attractive because it's the lazy man or woman's ticket to a close knit ingroup where all the good intentions get projected towards. It's lazy because a true spiritually honorable community or religion would recommend its followers to project those intentions globally, meaning one would have to work on himself or herself to overcome his current state and grow in a spiritual way. Islam allows you not to do so, in fact it expects you not to, since that negative energy can be put to good us…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 09:40 PM
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Well, the long term answer is to become a master of your inner game which will allow you to radiate warmth and happiness. This undoubtedly will improve your interactions. Other than that, just try to become more present and aware of your behavior and change it in the proper direction. More lively, more truthfully engaged and interested and better posture/body language. Of course, it helps to talk about topics that you generally care about...
/r/askTRP08/02/16 08:52 PM
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Looks like you have troubles being happy with being the current you. Truth is most people have trouble with that, it's a damn epidemic. However the majority is able to mask this up well enough not to let it shine through too much on a daily basis. In your particular case, it seems like your external factors are currently mediocre at best, especially in a relative sense. (no more gf, no real friends, etc) While your environment does influence your overall happiness, it can never truly fulfill you…
/r/askTRP07/02/16 05:29 PM
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Could you elaborate? I'm not familiar with Rene Girard unfortunately.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 03:56 PM
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They're not but I prefer harmony of over disharmony and aggravation. Personal preference I guess
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 04:17 PM
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Nothing I say goes against that and I fully acknowledge its validity. However women who are smart enough will also realize the value of wisdom. Sure, strength probably still tops it in hierarchy, but strength and wisdom(including kindness and honesty) will always trump strength and manipulation in the long run. That is if happiness is of any concern to you.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 12:51 AM
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As nice as it is to know the psychology behind all this, Machiavelli's advice here will only make you and those around you miserable and anxious to lose control. There's no way in hell that I would ever consider this to be a viable option in life. You know, there is another way. Namely to build a connection with someone, superior to all other connections you or she has or ever had. If you're a beta this won't work out, but if you're either sigma or alpha, this is a way, way healthier approach to…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 06:35 PM
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I don't think it's about one falling short to the other, more like one catering to a different pool of mates than the other. It really boils down to introverts vs extraverts. While introvert girls might feel tingles for alphas, sigmas will always have the upper hand when it comes to a showdown. The connection is just deeper. Same for the other way around. I think the main takeaway from these 'labels' is to know yourself and focus on your strengths, aka your ideal mate pool. Shit gets a shitton e…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 12:08 PM
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You're obviously not the oldest chap around. Good to start early. Two tips though: Do something about your grammar. It's horrendous. Don't drink and game. You won't make real progression and you risk conditioning yourself to only be able to talk to girls when you're drunk.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 12:36 AM
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I second that opinion.
/r/askTRP09/01/16 12:08 AM
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Well said.
/r/askTRP07/01/16 02:01 PM
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I'm sorry but this is only going to get you closer to burning out than an actual long term solution. Discipline takes willpower. A lot of it. Trying to apply it in a situation where you can only lose is bound for failure. Every time you don't do porn or weed you're not going to feel it as a reward, but every time you end up giving it, you're going to feel miserable as fuck, further decreasing your overall willpower. The best way to stay clear of these things is to have a damn good reason to do s…
/r/askTRP07/01/16 01:59 PM
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Blue pill ever liked anything then?
/r/askTRP05/01/16 08:59 AM
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Looks like some people are interested. I think it might be a good idea to keep the groups fairly small, say around 5-8 people. No point in making a big group where nobody knows what's going on. TRP reddit is a better place for that anyway. I'm going to create a Skype group by PMing my Skype info to the Europeans since it's easier to manage with timezones and stuff. Perhaps someone could take the initiative for the US? Looks like there's a couple of people from NYC here. Could be the beginning of…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/16 02:09 PM
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Yeah, it really boils down to acting on what you can change (yourself) and accepting what you can't (female psychology). Go with that and see where it leads you. Or rather, where you lead yourself. ;)
/r/askTRP03/01/16 12:32 AM
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I want to create vids like that. Beautiful stuff.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/16 11:35 PM
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Aight, finally someone I can truly resonate with. Here's my deal; I was full beta until I met a girl whom I was totally into. With her, it clicked, but given how beta I still was, it never worked out. In hindsight, I missed some very obvious IOI's by being convinced of the notion that taking it slow with girls you really cared about was actually effective. After one last very cringeworthy attempt to win her over, I decided to cut out the bullshit and take seduction seriously. I strated to learn …
/r/askTRP02/01/16 10:56 PM
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I've replied to the guy who asked the question initially, might be worthwhile to check it out.
/r/askTRP02/01/16 10:29 PM
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Waking up by Sam Harris is a very interesting read on this subject. http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1451636016/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=1451636016&linkCode=as2&tag=wireli08-20&linkId=CSLQO2UCBZ5KBF6U For meditation, I recommend starting by reading this book and to take it from there. Meditation in essence is a technique to help you break through conditioning so don't expect miracles from the start. Master the technique and see from there. http://www.amazon.com/g…
/r/askTRP02/01/16 10:28 PM
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Dissolution of the ego and thus access to your core self through meditation and mind training. In other words, you work to dissolve the conditioning that is currently preventing you from being your true self. Yes, this is possible, but as mentioned, it takes a lot of effort. In fact, if this is your ultimate goal, your best bet is to become a fulltime monk. The fewer distractions, the faster you will progress.
/r/askTRP02/01/16 12:14 AM
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The thing is though, in a relationship it doesn't matter whether a girl objectively meets the 'unicorn criteria' or not. What matters is how you perceive her. If you truly believe she is a unicorn, you're digging your own grave. If you simply recognize that a girl has all the traits of a so called unicorn without actually giving it any further thought and simply classify her as any other girl, your chances of keeping her the way you found her are a lot higher.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/16 04:20 AM
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And this proves to be one of those areas where religion still holds more value compared to non-belief. A girl who vehemently believes in the sacrity of marriage will at least attempt to look beyond giving in to her urges for the 'attraction'-feeling towards men. Atheist women have far less motivation to keep a relationship beyond attraction value. In a way, I think the red pill community is uncovering the ways of religion and how to preserve the value which religion offers, even for non believer…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/16 04:14 AM
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Cheers bro, much appreciated!
/r/askTRP27/12/15 12:23 PM
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Add depth to your swoleness by becoming great at a martial art. Give your muscles a purpose and the ability to protect what's dear to you.
/r/askTRP27/12/15 12:17 AM
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I'm 26 and only ok on the last three points. The only reason I'm able to live with myself is becasuse I've got the top three queued to fall into place during 2016. By this time next year I should be able to tick off all the boxes. Mind you I've wasted away 5 years from 18-23 on gaming addiction and a failed uni career. I've spent the last 3 finding myself, establishing frame and inner game and just learning game overall. The rest is just about to fall into place. For the guy who's got his head s…
/r/askTRP27/12/15 12:12 AM
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Your scared of change because your ego is leading your mental conversation. I understand where you're coming from, but I can only tell you what I know. Honestly I don't give the slightest fuck about you or your feelings. However you do. You posted here because your true self is screaming for help. It's caught in a trap. The question is who are you going to allow to lead your life. Your ego? Or who you really are deep down? You know where both paths lead now. It's your choice.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 04:33 PM
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You are turning things around. One of the biggest mistakes we make as human beings is to wait or hope for an outside confirmation so that we may love ourselves. This might work for those who are 'lucky', but in the end they are even worse off because they start believing this trick actually makes them happy. Truth is it doesn't. It only satisfies their ego, which leaves their inner selves permanently at a loss. A deep unfulfillable void that they do not understand and try to fill with external v…
/r/askTRP25/12/15 04:25 PM
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That is a personal question each and every one of the individuals has to ask themselves. The truth is, there is no external or universal 'correct' answer. There are only answers you can give yourself. In the end it doesn't matter whether you live or die. It doesn't matter whether any person lives or dies. It doesn't matter whether earth exists or not. The universe is the ultimate embodiment of the IDGAF mentality. It does not care. The question is what you do with that knowledge. For me personal…
/r/askTRP25/12/15 11:55 AM
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Actually, it sounds like you need to find a way to stop yourself from making up reasons for anything NOT to be interesting. Fuck dude, you're alive. You're a human being. You're the pinnacle of billions of years of evolution of life and you have trouble finding stuff interesting? Here's an idea, start with the fact that you're actually here, alive, breathing air that goes through your lungs, into your bloodstream and on to power your system. You're an absolutely amazing piece of 'machinery'. And…
/r/askTRP25/12/15 12:13 AM
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This question was my wake up call to break free from my gaming addiction. Back then: fuck no. Now: fuck yes.
/r/askTRP24/12/15 07:27 PM
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Definitely on the 6th day. I remember being bored with the pace and I ran ahead of the instructions when I suddenly got overwhelmed by it. One of the consequences was that my ego got boosted haha. Even though it was definitely worthwhile, it had a lot of side-effects which I knew I'd have to work on again. Then again the side-effects are probably inevitable after you've experienced it the first time. It's not all rainbows and sunshine though, pretty much every single other hour was a struggle. V…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/15 05:01 PM
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Funnily enough I started out by reading Mindfulness in Plain English myself. But for me, it wasn't until I went to the 10 day course until I fully realized how meditation actually worked. You don't see much different from what you normally see, but you feel and experience it all on a completely different level. There is no more pain (where there used to be from sitting, trust me), it all dissolved into a blissful and ultra heightened form of awareness of yourself in the first place but also of y…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/15 12:30 PM
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Couldn't have said it better.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/15 12:32 AM
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I wish I could First of all, you can. Seriously it is possible. But (there's always...) there's two (three actually) different directions this route can take: You tell here exactly what you think with nothing but the intent of saying what lies on your mind. Oddly enough, this means that you do not really care about them, but you care enough about the general situation and what it does to you to speak out. In a sense, it makes you look like an inconsiderate asshole. Not a good social status to as…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 11:53 PM
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I know, I've been doing Vipassana meditation for 2 years and I've been to one of those 10 day course. It's where I first experienced the state mentioned in the OP, only in an even purer form since I had zero distraction around me. It was amazing and slightly frightening. I feared I'd have to give up judgement 100%, along with meat, alcohol and other substances, women, ... Basicly give up on who I am, just to feel like that. As I mentioned above, I've recently discovered and I experience that thi…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 11:32 PM
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You see? I cannot help you. Only you can help you. Your journey to find you will be much different than my journey to find me. I can, however, give you some guidance. This was my point. I probably haven't communicated it clearly enough though. Buddha (I don't really give a damn who he was or what he means to anyone) can not help me. You're right. But what he learned can. Not what he learned about himself, but how he learned about himself. Awareness meditation is a technique which allows for the …
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 11:22 PM
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I once had to deal with an elderly women who was completely into all that shit. I made fun of it but not too much to actually get her to think I found it too hilariously retarded to actual consider seriously. She invited me to a 'course' on it, which I accepted. It was fairly interesting if you switch off your critical mind and just soak everything in, but if you don't, it's cringeworthy. At one point she was laying out all the attributes the different planets represent and how they can impact p…
/r/askTRP22/12/15 04:06 PM
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This is essentially why the buddha sat under the tree for so long. Break free from the conditioned self and unleash the true self. He did it through meditation: learning to approach his conditioning in an unjudgemental way until it evaporated. That brings is to the problem with this information. It is correct, certainly, but it almost takes one who's already there to truly grasp its meaning. To others, it's just vague guidance which they struggle to put into practice. How would you go about this…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/15 10:53 PM
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Own being a virgin and at the same time realize that it's not a big fucking deal. Be confident with yourself. Own being yourself. If it does come down to her calling you out on whatever point in time, respond: "I am, and you're the one who's going to teach me how it's done." Honestly the least attractive way to behave is to be visibly/overly nervous, anxious or insecure. Especially at times when things are heating up and especially about things that do not actually matter.
/r/askTRP21/12/15 01:17 AM
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Your first and foremost, number one goal which proceeds all goals. The goal of goals: To love being alive on this planet in the form of your current self. Accept the reality that you are the only true source for your own happiness and wellbeing. Own that fact. Only you can think positively about life and you as a person. Only you can enjoy walking in the sun. And only you can be the one cursing yourself for things you can't control or change at that moment, outside, walking in the exact same sun…
/r/askTRP21/12/15 01:07 AM
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Might is Right by Ragnar Redbeard on power and ideology. The book of five rings is pretty badass as well imho. I would suggest 48 laws of power but I found it hard to get anything out of it. It was educational but not grasping. So I guess I wouldn't. Book of Pook is mad good too, as others have suggested. Probably the one he'll devoure the easiest. The game is a motivational motherfucker as well. There's tons of great books out there... Also, this might help if he can't even get himself to read …
/r/askTRP21/12/15 12:50 AM
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This should keep you fit until you find a gym of sorts. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZA8GzhFh_CQ
/r/askTRP21/12/15 12:45 AM
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Amazing. Well done dude! What made you pull the trigger on your former self?
/r/ThankTRP19/12/15 06:12 PM
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Ok so the general advice is: (long term) goals, meditate, practice discipline to earn self respect, face adversity etc. All good advice, but flawed in one area. Motivation and determination. Lack of self esteem will eat those for breakfast and shit on them for brunch, if that makes any sense. I've been there myself. More often than I wanted to. This whole experience of you asking this question on reddit will progress as follows: Get more motivated than usual. Set long term goals. Practice for a …
/r/askTRP19/12/15 02:23 AM
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Playing on insecurities is one of the psychological tricks in the marketing book that works. Marketing may very well seem PC on the surface, but the way it actually works remains raw psychology. To answer your question though, I'm sure I have at one point, but I generally avoid or ignore ads that are unrelated to my personal immediate interests.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/15 01:10 AM
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Sup Gale, apparently your comments seem to strike me in just the right way to provoke a reply. Hah. I haven't seen the Star Wars but was considering it. Seems like there's no rush. Anyway, I think marketing is probably one of the areas PC just can not touch to its core. Sure, on the surface you won't be able to get away with actively going against the stream just for the sake of doing so, but marketing really truly shines on the subconscious level. Colors for example play a significant role in m…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 10:49 PM
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Great post. Nobody gives a shit about you. Only you can do that, and it is only when you become amazing at giving shits about yourself, others will notice. Not because they care about you, but because deep down they feel they have something to gain by connecting with you.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 12:41 AM
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It's like most things in our brief existence really. You can use it to your advantage, or you can cry about it. It's up to you.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 12:29 AM
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I believe I'm in a very similar place right now. However I'm starting to realize that my worry about others not caring stems from the fact that my self-esteem is damaged, which goes way deeper than my business plans. Sadly it's far from unrelated since I won't be able to keep it up if I feel like shit. Here's the theory: because I do not seem to love me for being me and do not love doing me for the sake of doing my own thing, I seem to be feeling a constant emotional void. An unfulfillable hole …
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 12:23 AM
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The city I live next to is actually quite cool, but my direct neighbourhood is just a social wasteland. The people who still live here are either old, socially retarded or foreign (mostly muslim). If I go further away from the city it gets better again and same goes for the inner city, which still remains far too unexplored in my case. There's tons of "hip" places and shops around which I really haven't ever visited. I just never went to the city other than the usual shopping for clothes in the …
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 11:14 PM
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I like the aimless adventure idea, but I find myself in a suburbian area surrounded by either familiar or just rather shitty places/people. I guess I need to start from somewhere else than my own house.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 06:05 PM
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So we've come to the point where a man can not enjoy his time on his own terms without being called "fucking pathetic" because he didn't go for a number?
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 01:28 PM
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Sounds familiar to a European 26 year old. I wonder what your idea of fun is nowadays then though? Most people my age seem to still be stuck in the 'mindlessly fuck shit up in the weekend' mentality.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/15 01:17 PM
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Looks like you're on the right track then, keep it up! :)
/r/TheRedPill12/12/15 03:49 PM
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"turned out a loser 34 year old virgin" This is exactly the kind of negative thinking that helped you get where you are now. The only way you're going to turn into someone who's not a loser is by first of all changing the way you think about yourself.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/15 12:15 AM
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Would Blue Pillers actually serve that good of a purpose though?
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 09:46 PM
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There's a big difference between gaming competitively and playing actual sports competitively. Real life sports have at least some benefits that carry over to real life, whereas competitive gaming has bar none. On top of that, it is addictive. Gaming is pretty much the polar opposite of self development. Obviously, being amongst the absolute top of any activity that has a large following will make you reasonably popular in certain communities, but if you are part of the 99.99% that does not make…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 11:14 PM
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The natural way to get a well defined physique would be through physical combat practice and hard labor. Most of which is now gone or outsourced. Physical fitness however still represents what it used to. A man who's strong, masculine, autonomous and capable of protecting what's dear to him. In this day and age, it is not a survival necessity to carry these traits, instead it's a choice. If these values do not mean anything to you, there's no reason to spend effort solidifying them. However, wom…
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 06:14 PM
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Unfortunately I live in Belgium with nowhere near enough wild nature for me to do so easily. Hence I'm planning to spend a couple of months trekking through northern Europe once I've got my middle-long term goals covered. Wandering is awesome.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 03:07 PM
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Never forget to enjoy yourself. Seriously. TRP is probably the best online self improvement community for men, but by focusing so much on 'getting there', it becomes easy to become too serious about life. Do not make this mistake and remember to have fun while making the right choices, rather than to make the right choices as if that's all that matters in life. Also, don't be too hard on yourself all the time. Usually a setback happens for a reason. Find what you were missing and pick yourself u…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 01:06 PM
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Why wish? This is probably the easiest thing to make yourself and have a laugh with.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 12:03 AM
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This is exactly the fun, playful attitude women are looking for bro, keep it up!
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 12:00 AM
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First of all, trying out everything and anything that sparks your interest is a good starting point. Approach things with an open mind and judge after you feel you went in deep enough to know what it's like. After that, get so good at something that you can add in your own creativity. This takes time and effort but eventually it will pay off tremendously as it opens up endless opportunities. Arts and sports are great options. Lastly, read and meditate. These two are just too valuable to pass up …
/r/becomeaman30/11/15 01:14 PM
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I disagree. Our natural state is actually bliss and boundless unconditional love. I came quite close to this state for about 30 minutes by going on one of those 10 day Vipassana meditation retreats. Envy, hate and other stuff spawns from the way we've been conditioned to be since birth. Possibly enforced by generations of similar lifestyles and states. Although I'm not strong enough on epigenetics to actually know for sure. I'm saying this with confidence though because the blissful state is act…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 09:56 PM
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Find the place where you can have the most fun without women. There's nothing sexier than a high SMV guy who knows how to be adventurous and have a good time in doing what he enjoys doing most. Try to combine such a location with a decent availability of women and practice (day)game while you're out doing your thing. The whole idea of going out of your way to meet/fuck/date/entertain women is already flawed as it is an artificial experience which focuses on the woman's pleasure and is likely to …
/r/TheRedPill27/06/15 09:26 AM
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