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No well-balanced person needs to drink to be able to loosen up. Do you want to be a balanced person? Then you know if it's right or wrong what you're doing.
/r/askTRP18/02/16 02:22 PM
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Women have shitty handshakes, so I usually take their hand with my left and fix the handshake. Giggles ensued.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 07:22 AM
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It's perfectly okay to touch a woman, say her arm or shoulder. You just have to calibrate when it's okay and watch her reaction. Illicit good feelings and reward her with touch. If she responds favorably you can escalate the physicality. I would advice against going for your class-mates in a sexual way. There's plenty of fish, go somewhere else for your day-game.
/r/askTRP16/02/16 06:34 AM
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They flatter and soothe each other to their faces. Then when one of them turns around, they stab them in the back only others can her but not the attacked woman. Instead of saying "stop talking shit" people just agree with them. This even happens at my kickboxing club where the female instructor got shit-talked by women to the male instructor. Instead of calling them out he just acts like a buffoon and let's it slide. "Her drills are too easy for me, it's really boring and pointless for me". Bit…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 06:29 AM
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Men who are good with women don't necessarily talk about anything different than normal conversations. They however flirt, talk sexually and touch the women. You show it through body language. Any conversation can be juicy with tonality, eye contact, good feelings and touch. When it comes to being a good conversationalist you just connect one topic to another or you keep on the same one. You talk about the other person and their interests. Yesterday I was at the gym. I saw a guy with a rugby clu…
/r/askTRP14/02/16 11:02 AM
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Having sex/getting notches is just one way of "self-improvement". It won't make you happy by itself. It's seasoning for life just like any other activity. So, you find other ways to improve and become a better man. There are numerous things one can undertake. Learn to fix cares, get a degree/learn a trade, dance, lift, martial arts, read, cook, woodwork, welding, electronics, drones, slack-lining, juggling, running, hiking, improv theater, extra jobs, volunteering, skating, inlines, rock-climbin…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 10:32 AM
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Lol indeed. The same thing happened for me. Now it's like this: I'm the most important person in my life, my self-improvement/my missions will always be more important than any woman who I accept into my life and I now know that no woman will or can make me happy. Only I can do that, from within and through this process of becoming the best I can be.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 10:24 AM
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Very much so. It's a great reminder for everyone to have. Logic over emotions. When one is faced with a situation where anxiety ramps up, we tend to go into rationalization mode. The excuses we come up with can at first glance seem innocent and logical, however, the whole rationalization was born from our anxiety and us wanting to rid ourselves of it. It's a defense mechanism. Talking to a stranger is no more difficult (in the logical sense) than riding your bike. But at some point we were anxio…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/16 11:42 AM
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Tell me about it. Ex cheated on her ex-boyfriend with me. She later cheated on me with another dude who's probably her current boyfriend. History will most likely repeat itself. I hamstered away a HUUGE red flag, because "cool, this chick likes me and wants to fuck me dry". Should never have made her anything more than a fwb. She has a history of eating disorders and was bullied as a kid. A cocktail I should've known to stay far away from. Live and learn.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/16 07:11 AM
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I've recently been meaning to write to my local news paper to speak my mind about the current trends and society in general. Then I stop myself and I realise that people will not be open for it, just like I was not open for TRP before I experienced the true nature of a woman, throwing me to the sharks. Reality is, just like you say, that people must witness the harsh reality with their own wide-open eyes before any of it can take root within them.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/16 06:42 AM
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There are three modes of living. Regression, status quo or progression. The first two will make you miserable and suck life out of you, you simply exist. The third will be the hardest, but ultimately the only one to make you feel alive.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 05:23 PM
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Sure, pussy and sex is nice and all, but cmon, you cum and your senses return - back to normal. Compare that to crossing uncharted waters, venturing into unknown lands, both exhilarated and a bit frightened about what lies across the next hill, forest or river. Keeping a look out for wild beasts, hostile natives, poisonous creatures and plants and treacherous terrain. I'm sure Marco Polo and the men like him often thought to themselves when they lay under star-filled clear skies, "fuck, wish I h…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 03:34 PM
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Being able to approach anyone of any gender is a fucking treasure. You can learn a lot of interesting stuff and hear many cool stories if you just brave up to saying hello. And you never know what the person you're talking with can offer you in return. Connections and all that jazz. Who doesn't want to be a smooth, well-connected motherfucker?
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 02:16 PM
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Nine is just a number, but you come off as insecure and defensive about it. There's no need to validate and explain yourself, you are among people who are in the same boat as you.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 12:51 PM
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I feel your pain brother. I remember it and wasn't there long ago myself. Trust me when I say this, it will subside, and eventually, disappear. You will experience a freshness anew and see clearly again. Give it time and keep going.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 11:56 AM
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Cancelled my internet subscription in december 2015, highly recommend it. I'm at the library right now. Finished playing their piano a while back. Just talked to a guy who's going through old papers. Needing to freshen up, put on clothes and walk for x kilometers just to use the internet? I love it. Forces you to become more social and creative for how to use your freetime. Also gets you moving, since we are very sedentary today, moving around way too little. I used to stay on the computer for f…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 12:08 PM
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Good luck getting that across when there's hundreds of thirsty males jerking off to even under-average looking, fat women on things like chaturbate and gonewild. Sure, I don't disagree.. If anything, getting men to not give out attention for free, that's the gut-shot we desperately need to administer.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 11:41 AM
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Just read an article on the local paper. The whole Oscars circus. Turns out the Oscars committee decided to buckle. By 2020 they intend to increase the awards to women of different ethnicities and whatnot. Fee-fees over merit and acting skill. What a fucking travesty. Then again, it's also an example of manipulation from the parts getting their will imposed.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 11:24 AM
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I don't hold a strong opinion on jerking off or porn. What I think everyone should do, however, is to experiment and find a balance that works the best for each individual. If I jerk off too much I become dull in every sense of the word. I like that "hunger" that courses through my body when I haven't tugged the snake for a while. Not jerking off makes me feel sharp, up to a point of course. Porn on the other hand for me is a no-go. My anxiety goes up, I become jumpy to sudden movements and soun…
/r/askTRP27/01/16 11:13 AM
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I'm gonna go buddhist on you and say, don't have any expectations at all.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 09:44 AM
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Alpha, beta, omega, gamma, lambda, sigma. Wow, who actually cares in the end? I get it, they can be helpful for certain reasons. However, for many they just make things trickier than need be. Listen, the only man you want and need to be is the self-actualized man. You figure out where you are and where you want to be. You get honest with yourself, laying the pros and cons on the table and you start hustling. I'm fat. Okay, fix the diet and work-out, eat less. I'm a loner. Talk to people, everyon…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/16 11:36 AM
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Do you load 100kg onto the barbell the first time you're gonna bench press? Do you get into the Ferrari when you've never driven before, and expect to handle it like The Stig? Do you sign up for a marathon, meaning to finish it in 3 hours when you hardly get off your sofa? You learn, experience and fail. You get better, stronger and develop. Say you're a 5 in the SMV. Chicks beneath you (1-4) would love to fuck you, but you don't acknowledge them because you want hot vixens. That vixen of an 8 y…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 10:25 AM
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It will be okay, we just keep at it because we know where we will end up if we stop. Never stop. We are also the only ones to really know how much we have progressed, take pride in that. Playing to your strengths is always time well spent, especially for confidence. I'm far more comfortable in day game than I am at night game, suits my personality better. However, we need to face that ugly face as much as possible but still remember to take time to recharge ourselves so we don't get depressed an…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 10:12 AM
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For sure. A man still needs his wits about him when a woman's trying to charm him into her frame. Perhaps even more so than usual.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 07:48 PM
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Female game trumps their beauty. The former also carries over into older age. By logical reasoning it would be wise to invest more into that. But as we know, logic and women...
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 07:05 PM
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Fucking chicken and weird guy in the corner. Buddy, you are weighing yourself down with your negative self-talk before others have even noticed you. It's okay to be weird, awkward and all that jazz. You don't expect you will be this socially advanced barfly spitting tingle-talk the first time you go out solo. Like everything else it has its learning curve. The whole wallflower sitting akwardly in the corner is all about how you behave and come off. Negative self-talk is a self-fulfilling prophec…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 06:49 PM
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One thing's for sure, people more readily share the video where a cat gets a post-it plastered to its face and acts all weird than the video where some long-bearded fat dude discusses how Gatling and Maxim revolutionized warfare.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 06:13 PM
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Makes me think of kickboxing class. My partner today told me how my technique was lacking, what I could improve and also how to better defend myself to lessen the damage. Here you have two guys kicking each other, bruising each other, training ourselves but at the same time giving feedback to each other that we can't see as easily from our own perspective. The time before I paired up with a small girl. I told her, showed her, yet she didn't do a single thing I told her to help her technique. She…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 08:49 PM
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Shit stained boxers? Test her submissiveness by telling her to wipe your ass properly.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 08:19 PM
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The one constant with you and all those women? You. When a girl sees you as way above her, she will go out of her way to do things for you. If you haven't experienced it it's most likely you who's not invoking such acts spontaneously in the women.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 08:18 PM
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I was a social and talkative kid. That changed and in my teenage years I hid in the world of computers, the internet, games and porn. I realized that I can't moderate my internet-usage well enough at this stage. I cancelled my internet subscription. Since january the first I have no internet at home. I use the library's, parents' or school's. This forces me to do stuff, i.e. going out on town talking to people, working out, playing instruments, getting enough sleep, eating well, reading interest…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 08:09 AM
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I too did the whole read everything and do nothing. It comes as no surprise that things started to fall into place when I started approaching people and being more social. Doing NoNothingNovember (a disciplinary month where we removed three vices and added a good habit) did good for my discipline. Discipline is crucial and will put you towards what you know you want and need and not towards useless activities that numb you and waste your time. Learn to relish in the uncomfortable. My approach an…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 07:57 AM
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I'm paraphrasing: How do you kill a god? You make him doubt himself. When you carry yourself like a man, people will test you. They will try to get under your skin, to expose that chink in your armor. If you truly own it, you won't react, defend or explain. Water off a goose's back.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/16 05:06 PM
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We are fools to expect accountability from creatures that survive through manipulation. Men see accountability as a measure of character. Women see it as cold, heavy shackles. It is not natural for women, that's why men have to enforce it, not through logic and words, but action and superiority.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/16 04:48 PM
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There is calibration when one transitions from a BP to RP mindset. Going from one extreme to the other. From meek to brutish. I personally love this calibration, I feel like a kid again. I focus on myself. I do and say what pleases me. What you are writing about sounds like what comes after. When balance has been reached. Where I let chicks have some leeway, where I don't mind jumping through hoops to get some ass. Right now, I don't particularly enjoy hoops. Maybe I never will. However, I do no…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/16 04:27 PM
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First of all, consider the years you were plugged in. Two years put against that is not a long time per se. Secondly, your transformation is well under way but I notice you are focused on results. An attitude that has been very important to me is the idea that the process of becoming is more important than the actual becoming (the result). It's far easier to accept yourself when you value your work ethics more than your achievements. This journey ends when we die. Complacency makes a man rot fro…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 08:55 AM
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Use your environment to your amusement. We did as kids, no reason to stop as adults.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/16 02:32 PM
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An exception does not disprove the rule.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 03:19 PM
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Just do you buddy. If you're happy what difference does it make what number others apply to your women? None at all. For the record, I'm like you. I value personality, behavior, charm and attitude for more than looks. Do I want to fuck her? Yes or no. Simple.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 02:56 PM
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If you let a girl wear the pants, she more than likely will wear the pants.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 02:30 PM
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I'm an avid people watcher. You learn a lot from observing social dynamics as an outsider. It is sad to witness that the majority of couples I see have a twisted dynamic. The man is the servant, the woman the duchess. She commands, he obeys. When they move in public, she leads and he follows. He asks, she can't decide. He's the mule, she packs onto his back her shopping bags. Weak, appeasing, directionless, orbiting. There is no spark, no emotion. Just seething contempt from the women. They both…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 01:36 PM
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Thanks for sharing mate. My ex cheated on me this summer. I tried to work it out, but well, you know how that goes.. I have also taken the asshole route as a natural reaction. Looking back I see so many things gone awry. Many men need to get got to learn, I was one of them. It's liberating to be the asshole, and as you said, eye-opening. I'm not on your level, but make sure to look out for Man number One in every situation. This snake is slowly shedding its old skin.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/16 07:34 PM
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Your hesitation stems from you spending too much time inside your head, listening to your Ego. It is a conflict where two forces struggle for separate goals. Your Ego is watching out for itself through self-preservation. Its tactic is to rationalize why you should not undertake a specific action. You on the other hand want something, in this situation, being sexual with someone. You are judging yourself internally (not manly) and externally (off-putting). Reality seems to be completely different…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 07:54 PM
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Being cheated on by my ex was probably the worst thing I've gone through, emotionally and mentally. I struggled. This happened in June this year. Now, I rarely think about her. Your body and mind is so attached to her, that you think this will never pass. I didn't sleep with another chick to flush my ex out of my system. I wasn't able to, too damaged. In hindsight, I also think it wouldn't have worked even if I was able. I hated women too. That too will pass. And you will grow from it, so long y…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 09:09 PM
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The world being unfair is not what is pissing you off. What is pissing you off is you not accepting that the world is unfair. The wind blows whichever way. Face it, and struggle. Turn with it, and fly.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 08:44 PM
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I picked up my ex, like you pick up an infant belly down. Rocked her back and forth. Gush. Did electrical installments with a chick. Picked up a heavy bundle of insulated copper cables, front squatted them and swung them on my shoulder. "Do you need help with that? Oh, or you could just do that... giggles"
/r/askTRP29/10/15 08:16 PM
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One doesn't become a smooth and skilled conversationalist through using canned lines. It makes one stiff. Experience starts out stiff, cause you're learning the ropes. While you get better, you start loosening up, it's gradually becoming instinct. The ring starts to feel like the arena you belong in. I'm in school for a male-dominated profession. I was slow and clumsy in my bouts with guys, and the sparring started instantly. This one teacher especially likes hitting hard, in a jabbing way. At f…
/r/askTRP29/10/15 07:41 PM
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Her lovey-dovey question leaves me thinking you are approaching intimacy with her backwards. I interpret her question llike "why won't you man up and go for it?" The scenario gives me sensitive and careful vibes from you. If you want to fuck the chick, you should be taking charge and going for it, passionately. You can be lovey-dovey post-coitus.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 03:46 PM
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Have fun with smashing future attempts at trying to dominate you socially. I sure do. Learn to distinguish between situations that your compliance is beneficial for you and situations where you just say no. Beneficial: teacher/boss/employer asks you to help with something. Do it, don't nag or show displeasure. Shows you are willing to further the common good, you have work ethic etc. Of course there will be situations here too that can seem sketchy, but in the long run strive to leave a good imp…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 03:15 PM
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I'm training to become an electrician. At school there's this one chick whose conversations I regularly overhear. She has no handle on the technicality she's studying and the teachers are lax with her. Add to that her beta orbiter who often helps her and explains basic shit she should know by now. They don't even have to be attractive, some men will still fawn over them, thinking it'll get them laid if they help her out and make her laugh all the time.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 02:46 PM
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Boys bond through testing each other, mentally and physically. We insult, wrestle and box. It's natural, and most of the time just playful boyishness. We do this for a damn good reason, to ready ourselves for when shit gets real. When we grow older we still have this drive, but it gravitates more towards the vocal and mental aspect. Many go into martial arts and sports, perhaps to continue fostering it. All of this brings about that competitive attitude which is so needed. Add to that thicker sk…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 07:34 PM
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Thank you for writing this post. I went through many of these stages with my ex. It was, however, too little, too late. I learned a lot from it though, and as we know, it's an ongoing process. I used to crap my pants mentally on those rare occasions that I spontaneously spat out some semi-offensive line to people, and afterwards realized what I "had done". Oftentimes, nothing bad happened. Well, at least not something majorly bad. I never saw it for what it was, until I found TRP. When I grew up…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/15 06:53 PM
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My ex would probably have been a travel widow, if only she had had the discipline to hold a job and save some money to use for such travel. She's currently (as far as I know) in therapy for depression. She mentioned on numerous occasions how she wished we had just gone away someplace new, away from everything. She didn't take it well when I told her how her self-hatred and shitty thoughts would follow her wherever she'd go, that she could not escape them, that she had to face them head on. Only …
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 07:38 PM
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I ain't even mad any more seeing and hearing shit like this.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 03:42 PM
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What has given me great comfort and empowerment is the realization and internalization of the philosophy that a man can free himself through sincere actions and words. You take action and speak from your core and you feel great. This creates a positive reinforcement loop -- you want to do it more and more. As a result, things bother me far less. It's a solid foundation to have and I enjoy laying every brick of it.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/15 03:16 PM
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Six months or five years doesn't make a difference. Both are LTRs if the intent of the couple is to stick with it for the long term, hence the name.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/15 08:43 PM
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Maybe you don't understand because you never did any of those things yourself.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/15 08:27 PM
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I've come clean, time to move on. I agree, the name calling stops now.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/15 07:16 AM
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They are not married, thankfully. This is the first time I've seen him in a few years, so no. Knew about him dating a mom, never met her. I really have to think about bringing it up. Any suggestions for how would be appreciated.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 10:04 PM
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I will write something that I'm ashamed of. I wrote a "gf cheated on me, this is how I dealt with it"-post here on TRP this summer. I handled it well and people cheered me on. I felt good. Then I caved. I started contacting her, trying to get closure, working through all our emotions. I lacked accountability to you guys, so I removed my user in shame. At many points I even tried to comfort her. Get that shit, comforting the person who cheated on me. Backbone? Pride? I had none of those. I was a …
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 09:55 PM
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Don't fail? I very much disagree. Many men, myself included, are here because we failed in some way. Failure is crucial. Keep an open mind and learn from your failures. If I hadn't been cheated on by my gf I would probably still be complacent and stuck in my usual routine. I failed in my relationship, as a partner and as a man and leader. She found someone else and branch swung. If you don't fail and accept failure it just means you are still too comfortable in yourself as a person, and in your …
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 11:57 AM
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I really like this write-up, thanks for sharing. I used to be very social as a kid, unashamedly so. I lost that part of myself growing up and am now getting it back. It's not easy per se, but very rewarding. I started asking for cigarettes, then moved on to talking with bartenders/pub patrons sitting next to me. I started saying hello to random strangers on the streets. A couple of days ago I opened a cute chick at the beach. I went into the conversation unknowingly in Mode A. There we are, stan…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 11:17 AM
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State a place where you want to eat and is somewhat convenient for everyone. Go have dinner. Those who show up, show up.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 11:27 PM
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Our minds still function like when we lived in small settlements, where we knew everyone. A stranger interjecting himself into an already established environment could be trouble, since no one knows him or what he wants. The unease we see is others trying to figure is out, their natural reaction overwhelms their social persona - they are unable to output the usual social pleasantries. Living in densely populated areas would then have detrimental effects of us putting up thicker and wider walls, …
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 09:56 AM
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My girlfriend recently cheated on me. I was devastated. However, it awoke something within me. I realized that the way I lived can not continue, or I will die a miserable man, never having lived. I started taking steps to become better, to embrace the uncomfortable situations, to push myself, to rise above my former self. Two weeks ago I could hardly force myself to talk to strangers. I started asking for cigarettes. At first I was very anxious. Now when I ask people I barely feel any anxiety. I…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 11:36 PM
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