It is what it is.

stonepimpletilists · 2015-12-08T17:22:39+00:00

Theres too many external things that could make you mad. If you focused on all of them, then you are outside your own frame. and completely neglecting the postitive (self)

No one forces girls into your life, you bring them there yourself. If you can't be around them without anger, let em go, MGTOW until you're in a mental place that can handle it (or not)

the beauty of most of a mans problems today, is that they are opt-in problems. You don't have to spin plates and put up with hypergamy or solipsism. You don't have to have a kid with a wife who ball busts you. You aren't forced to interact with fellow students, besides, no one cares what you have to say anyways. You don't have to captain saveaho, the state has that in hand, or some poor beta schmuck.

You're alive in the world of abundance, with 0 responsibilities thrust on you (that you didn't sign up for) enjoy it and get off the soapbox.

OmLaLa · 2015-12-08T17:52:44+00:00

Women make shitty decisions in general, hence why men are necessary. They've always made shitty decisions.

Hypergamy and branch-swinging have literally always been there.

Women cheating on men while at war
Women sneaking over to the neighbors
Women fucking their bosses

And women will always find a means to "hamster" or justify their actions.

But that is female nature. C'est la vie. それが人生だ.

That said, we can't reasonably expect logic and rationality from the actions of a purely emotional creature.

exparadox00 · 2015-12-09T00:47:21+00:00

Great post. Tis a great feeling to become a highly desirable man through blood and sweat. Personally, I went hard in monk mode (with no knowledge of TRP) for ~1 year (put on 30 lbs muscle - powerlifting total of 1300 - read classic literature, and got a job at an investment bank) principally to impress women. Then I realized that I'm awesome and don't need them :)

Do it any way you can gentlemen, but don't assume that a woman's validation is the end - game (though it may be for some)

whisky1111 · 2015-12-08T19:52:35+00:00

Two points:

The truly self-actualized man does not give a fuck what women want or what other people have.
Women also secretly want criminals and psychopaths, so there's that.

Exogyra_Ponderosa · 2015-12-08T18:20:31+00:00

Life isn't fair. That's what fucking pisses me off. Some people get born to billionaires and others get born in the fucking slums. One has a modeling career and the other works at the gas station. People get power they don't earn by virtue of birth and nothing more. Sure you can tilt the odds but you've got to work harder than the person who it's given to. It blows.

ThrowawayYourHoodUp · 2015-12-09T10:41:19+00:00

Caterpillar to butterfly metaphor. Link to 'Wesley's Theory'.

DeputyDelicious you fucking pimp.

Words-Are-Wind · 2015-12-09T14:56:08+00:00

The hell? Literally none of the things I hate about women will make me a better man. I'm not going to become a better man because 95% of the girls around me are fat, or slutty, or fat sluts. If anything, the things I hate about women makes me lose any motivation to be around them whatsoever.

Why work out today? When I go to the grocery store later the only ones who will see my pump are fat bitches who have kids by like 2-4 different men, or maybe some older woman who is decent looking but happily married and not interested in cheating. I can try the bars on the weekends but that ends up being like a dozen or so normal guys, some of their girls, and then there's like 3 or 4 older and single women who are like 35 and 250 pounds, you know, the wrinkly heavy smoking type. Every time I leave the house for something that isn't a necessity, I end up regretting it, realizing I could've found some hot slut on kik to send me nude pics instead of wasting time and money at a bar with women who probably couldn't get me up even if I was on viagra.

Seriously, if you are letting women motivate you into being a better person, you're doing it all wrong. I started lifting for football, kept at it for the bitches, and now I'm to the point where I'm doing it for me, legit. Oneself is the only permanent reason there is to keep oneself motivated. Bitches will flake, athletic needs will change, but your own self is the one constant thing in your life.

And honestly, there are women who do scrunch their face up at fit and muscular guys. Most of them are ugly as fuck anyway, but there were a few girls I liked that were into fat and skinny men. One girl chose a fat bald man over me, and even married him. He was Omega as fuck too, the day I met him I didn't know she even had a bf, I thought he was just a friend of hers or someone else. Got to her house party, we flirted heavy with each other for like 15 minutes right off the bat, we were even touching each other, and he just sat there watching it quietly. How she could want to be with someone who is too scared to speak up and say something like, "hey, you know we are dating, right?", is beyond me. Her bf literally pulled her aside and told her to inform me that he is her bf because of it. There were other decent and good looking guys who liked her before she met that bf too, she wasn't into them either. All of her bfs were over 200 pounds of fat, not muscle. And this chick was a solid 7 too, probably closer to an 8 really. And she isn't the only fuckable girl I've met into fat or skinny guys, there's quite a few.

hamsammich20 · 2015-12-09T22:46:35+00:00

I know this all too well. Long story short, I'm short and balding, effectively removing me from the pool of "preselection". For most women, when I walk into a room, I don't even show up on their radar. I can't control short, and I can't control bald. That being said, I can't get hung up on them, either. I CAN control: exercising regularly, income (to an extent), and just in general, becoming the best version of myself. I used to be bitter as hell, but I've learned to just be the best me. I'll still get the respect from my male peers, even if I don't get it from females. In my worst case scenario, I dodge any risk of a false rape or false sexual assault charge and use my substantial income on doing things that I enjoy, period.

its-iceman · 2015-12-08T22:05:15+00:00

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Bartand · 2015-12-08T23:21:04+00:00

And making money is easy? NOpe, it isn't. Do you realize of the commodity wars, oil lost 66% gold silver and other supposed to be invincible commodity are 50% in the red since last year.

And yeah, woman doesn't care that you struggle, all they care is that you make some magic paper and number to be there if it isn't they won't care your excuses even IF TRUTH. They will move to the one who is the lucky survivor. LUCKY SURVIVOR. LUCK . . . L U C K

Title	It is what it is.
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Date	December 8, 2015 5:18 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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