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i wanted to hit on another few questions you asked. as far as struggling with personal growth, we don't, kinda. This is one of the reasons I was drawn to her. We are our own people. We are striving for personal growth. We have our own opinions. I have goals, personally, that are for me alone. I'm trying to have groups and social circles that are just me. I want to be a better person, because that's a goal for myself. She wants to be a better person because of her own reasons. She has her goals. …
/r/becomeaman13/05/19 05:01 AM
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because i'm also shite at formatting
/r/becomeaman13/05/19 04:56 AM
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ONE i guess growth, in the sense that i said it, has become "financial" growth. We allow personal growth, as anyone should. But we do have big ideas for this family and this relationship that we create. This entity will need to be funded, either with time, money, or simply work. I think it's a struggle that most have, but I do feel lacking. It's a symptom of my father, whose ambitions outlived him. I'd own the moon, if i could make it happen. Which goes to say that "I want the best for me and my…
/r/becomeaman13/05/19 04:53 AM
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-- For your first question (2 big problems) I'm not certain if you are also asking this question of married men (I am one) ? ---Answer to first question: My wife and I are newly married, 6 months. My biggest problem is growth. We are both just barely past 30, and are now starting the family stage. She has better income than me, and is a bit impatient with huge life goals. We had already talked about expectations, with kids, moving, where to live, etc etc.... but all of this requires growth. I th…
/r/becomeaman13/05/19 03:31 AM
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Let's reverse the situation here: this is a "person going their own way." Their partner, by their account, hasn't seemed to exhibit signals of craziness, nor hasn't acted in a way that a normal person wouldn't act. This person who had gone their own way, has done so after finding out that marriages don't last , from their friend. They ghosted their partner, and had probably left without any kind of discussion. Let's do business terms: a business you've done business with, and have enjoyed profit…
/r/MGTOW16/12/18 07:55 AM
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I just met a new colleague who came from a bad background, had a kid at 17, and turned into a(n almost) millionaire by 26. We are working together to invest in real estate. Many of his clients and colleagues have families and kids. Obviously, this is one person. And obviously they didn't plan a life for themselves that included this success at that time. This was all very fortuitous. Shit's not always bad. But I know shit isn't always good either. Life is what we make of it.
/r/MGTOW17/10/18 12:53 AM
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Education and energy. Those are my two big topics that I care about. If I had the opportunity to work towards making something better I'd choose either or both of those. If it took serving local government to do so, I would. If it took making non-profit foundations in order to do so, I would. If it took making small businesses that can promote these ideas for the betterment of my community, I would. Basically, if I'm able to financially help my community, (however far reaching it is) I would. Ob…
/r/MGTOW17/10/18 12:42 AM
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Oh good lord that is my town. I'm pretty sure I saw that this summer or spring
/r/MGTOW25/09/18 11:54 PM
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I simply stopped caring about this issue and your thoughts on it
/r/askTRP22/07/18 06:11 PM
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Okay
/r/askTRP22/07/18 04:31 PM
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Okay
/r/askTRP22/07/18 04:14 PM
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We were done talking about this a week ago
/r/askTRP22/07/18 03:56 PM
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I suspect either drugs or alcohol are at play here, but he doesn't respond to wanting dinner on a Sunday night, nor suggesting another night. Scouring over previous texts, he wants to "be the big brother" but doesn't know how. Re-reading Robert Greene's 'Art of Seduction',, section about "creating a need." Can I create a problem that "only an older brother can solve" ? He seems to want to only work with ideas that he invented, or that I didn't invent but he can prosper more than me. (Again, is o…
/r/askTRP07/07/18 06:11 AM
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This helped me out once. Maybe it can help you, even somewhat. https://markmanson.net/passion
/r/askTRP19/11/17 04:27 PM
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Staying in frame, in this situation (and many management-style situations you'll deal with in life), is learning how to get others to do what you say without resorting to violence. Physical dominance works, but in limited situations. Real respect comes from being able to bend others to your will while maintaining control of yourself. The benefits are many: The other party (the people being unruly/noisy) doesn't lose respect for you having lost your temper. The other party may even give you more …
/r/TheRedPill29/02/16 03:58 AM
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Learn a new skill, get very good at it. Pick just one, master it completely. Then, you've just found a way to provide value to the economy. The economy will respond by giving you money back, in the amount by which you are valued. To make money, provide value. Learn a skill, then sell your skill.
/r/askTRP15/08/15 10:05 PM
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dude if the money isn't hurting you, and you're using protection, go for it. up the ante each time. use her for all your ridiculous fantasies. she wants it, she can find a way to be worth it.
/r/askTRP18/07/15 08:09 PM
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had a friend in college whose last name was gay. Literally, the word "gay". I know he disliked it, but he didn't ever publicly admit it. Lost touch with him after college and learned he soon legally changed his last name to Gray. Good choice on his part. If it bothers you, you can change it. Or like another commenter suggested, introduce yourself as a nickname or pseudonym
/r/askTRP01/06/15 12:44 AM
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She doesn't actually mean "are you looking for one or multiple girls" What she means is "I know you're clearly just here to fuck. Tell me that because i love hearing/believing it" Tell her you're looking for ass. Or maybe be seductive with the wording, probably
/r/askTRP18/04/15 02:10 AM
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this guy's right. no need to answer the question directly. She's calling you out, testing your ability to flirt. You directly answering a question instead of playing the game is a direct violation of the dumb game they're playing. Play within the rules. Flirt a little. She calls you a player? Are you a player? Does it matter to you? Answer how you would answer anyway. This ain't a job interview, you aren't being recorded
/r/askTRP18/04/15 02:08 AM
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Be sure of yourself. Find hobbies and interests that let you learn more about yourself. Be confident in who you are and what you want, and what you want in a partner. Then, go after that partner. If you're a 6 who wants and gets 10s, then that's who you are. Don't settle for somebody you don't want, go after who you do want
/r/askTRP14/04/15 01:20 AM
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Can you tell us, objectively, why you should or should not try to do this? The whole situation is ambiguous, neither really hugely negative or positive. Why should you re-approach her? Why should you not? maybe write these answers to yourself, and if you're unsure, then ask us. You read the same material as us, i'm nearly certain you guess our opinion.
/r/askTRP22/03/15 04:42 AM
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Right, so knock it off with those back-handed "must learn from the master, but the master isn't teaching this subject" sentences. Just do what you need to do.
/r/askTRP23/02/15 03:04 AM
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are you literally just trying to off-handedly trying to put me down? twice now, this is a "we're on different levels. you're just on a different level of conditioning and expecting rejection" not even a hint of humility. alright. sure. doesn't bother me because as it turns out "we are just on different levels of conditioning."
/r/askTRP23/02/15 02:56 AM
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oh no i agree, this seems very entry-level. I can't expect it to illicit a response other than rolled-eyes and maybe a cry of "omg you can't be serious? are you new at this? "
/r/askTRP23/02/15 02:40 AM
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excuse me if i've missed it, but i'm not finding a direct link on /r/TheRedPill 's sidebar
/r/askTRP23/02/15 02:37 AM
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Be sexual with her. Jokes and innuendo. --Yes. That particular pickup-line? NO.
/r/askTRP23/02/15 01:58 AM
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What is this an excerpt from??? Why isn't this a required reading for TRP?? This is a perfect story that adequately describes the interactions between men and women, especially for beginners who are none the wiser.
/r/askTRP23/02/15 01:46 AM
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I just took my pants off. Give me money. (make that comment, get this comment)
/r/askTRP17/01/15 01:51 AM
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What do you write about? Specifically, how do you choose the subject material that you write about? How do you become the authority on the subject to be able to repackage the information and deliver it to others?
/r/askTRP17/01/15 01:49 AM
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programmer was an idea on my list. I've tried my hand at programming a few times in the past and I just really can't find it interesting, no matter how much time I put into it. I'm not so good with playing instruments, sadly
/r/askTRP17/01/15 01:48 AM
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second comment, one of the reasons i asked the question is because i've just been at a crossroads, and feeling like i've lost what i'd been passionate about in the past. Just looking for direction, something to invest my time wisely in. Thanks for this response, that's very good advice for everyone. If this isn't a blogpost in itself, it should be.
/r/askTRP17/01/15 01:46 AM
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how much time did you spend responding to my question? this is too good of an answer to just have come from the top of your head.
/r/askTRP17/01/15 01:45 AM
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this is accurate. been to the club many times with some female friends, only to be approached by hot women who pull me away from my friends. social proofing
/r/askTRP12/01/15 05:26 AM
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literally. wasting your time. i don't know what weird lesson you think you might learn from her, but you could be learning a new hobby, meeting new friends, making professional networking connections, twiddling your thumbs or ANYTHING else. your time is a valuable commodity you can't get more or less of
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 05:24 AM
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this is the guy who understood the entire point of the post.
/r/askTRP14/12/14 08:55 PM
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yes, it's the odd later internalizing i've felt. it was just weird how after she'd been crazy about me, treating me all nice, cooking for me and professing she's excited everytime i come by.... she then uses me and walks away. TRP is accurate, women only seem to respond to me when i'm acting like a living sex-god, and they don't give a shit if i want to settle down
/r/askTRP14/12/14 06:55 PM
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i don't know why you're so mad. this was a civil conversation. not asking strangers for input. just telling a story.
/r/askTRP14/12/14 06:52 PM
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you guys were blowing things waaaaayyy out of proportions. it wasn't that kind of post. i was just dumbfounded to have been used. i'll be happy to rub it in her face when she loses this guy and comes back
/r/askTRP14/12/14 05:06 PM
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haha even if she is using other guys to make me jealous (which sounds like a whole lot of effort), i couldn't care less. If she wants me, she knows where to find me. I've got other shit to worry about
/r/askTRP14/12/14 05:02 PM
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everything you said is excellent advice. I agree completely. There's just a tad more to the story that I didn't tell. Her and I had been good friends for a year, then became FWB, then I went away to California for a year. We're still friends. The only real feeling I have towards her now is, "I like her, we're still friends, and she makes poor (and quick) choices with her dating." So I'm indifferent. If she's going to keep dating every single guy that shows interest in her, I'm not bothered. She'…
/r/askTRP14/12/14 04:35 PM
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this guy is right. on all of it.
/r/askTRP14/12/14 05:16 AM
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play YOUR game, not hers. she's being a bully, a troll, a bit of a b!tch. you're the successful alpha you've always been, and you don't worry what this random girl is saying to you. you're classy, you're forward and upfront, you're not phased by her rude comments. But hold your frame. How are you frustrated by her? She's making a scene
/r/askTRP14/12/14 05:07 AM
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this seems consistent with the character of most women. you're not off. i personally don't hook up with coworkers because i'm minimalistic and i like to keep the work stress down. treat her like any other girl. either you want it (in which case you've weighed the coworker fact and you game her) or you don't. you know what you're doing in this situation, you don't need us for this
/r/askTRP14/12/14 04:58 AM
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oh you're right. sure. yep. James Bond was, as we all have long agreed, animalistic. As well as every other alpha out there. animalistic describes every one of them. other traits that we certainly use to describe a successful redpiller is the inability to seek wisdom, receive advice, and learn from others
/r/askTRP23/11/14 03:50 AM
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how old are you? wrath? swag? "stupid shit" about someone who's giving advice you asked for? sounds like i just knocked you off your frame and pissed you off. just by offering words of wisdom. i don't know your whole personal story, but you're clearly in need of some patience and lots of personal growth and maturity
/r/askTRP23/11/14 02:23 AM
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i think you misunderstood my use of the word success. if they're succeeding in knocking you off your frame.... that would be their success.
/r/askTRP23/11/14 01:20 AM
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yes and no. there are many out there who are trying to succeed in life to the demise of others. then there are those who are lost and have no idea what they're doing and probably aren't blipping your radar. have patience, stop getting mad that others are succeeding. start learning from their success and applying the lessons. be yourself, stop trying to outdo other people; outdo yourself
/r/askTRP23/11/14 12:46 AM
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really just sounds like her friend (girl B) was lonely and trying to get laid and had no social skills to hookup on her own. so the first friend (girl A) feels bad/wants to help, she goes around asking guys that she (girl A) finds attractive, and tries to set them up. so Girl A finds you attractive and has thought about sleeping with you, but decided she'd rather not be seen as a slut and instead wants to try you out on her friend. and, knowing how women act, i'm assuming she would hear about th…
/r/askTRP01/11/14 03:55 PM
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i'm assuming you're still young and still interested in going to the bars every weekend or so. The spot by the clubs sooooo much easier logistically. An easy pickup line (or one near the end of the conversation) is, "Hey my place is just a block from here and i have this Great botlle-of-wine/video-game/thing-that-we-both-like there!" so it's an easy way for someone to say yes. also, you could walk home drunk and not worry about DUIs
/r/askTRP01/11/14 03:40 PM
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clearly you're interested in her, or else you wouldn't be aware of when she is or is not sending signals. but really you're letting her take charge of your interactions with each other. You're letting her play with your emotions. Since you like her, go talk to her. Talk about whatever polite work-appropriate subject you feel like. If things go well, invite her out. Be the one in charge of the interactions between you two. Take initiative.
/r/askTRP01/11/14 03:34 PM
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or, does anybody listen to his podcasts or read any of his books?
/r/askTRP24/10/14 04:01 PM
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blame other people for your problems. go out to the clubs with no cash, no money, and it becomes the responsibility of the kindness of other strangers. you get all doll'ed up and feelin sexy and these guys OWE you because you put in so much work. THEY SHOULD be attracted to you. then a photographer doesn't want to take your picture, and it's your fault you agreed to act like a black sheep. everything is somebody else's problem.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/14 01:55 AM
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I use this post to remember my frame before first dates. It has helped tremendously
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 06:18 AM
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if i were 'the perfect husband' i don't think i'd waste a second on some broad who still wanted to waste her time being unfaithful, partying around, meeting other men, fucking other men, etc etc.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 11:57 AM
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did i say that i'm texting her? i meant that we actually talk face to face, over breakfast, sometimes late night dinners. most of the time at work. my 'text game' is limited to logistics of how we see each other outside of work.
/r/askTRP06/07/14 09:57 AM
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how insightful. i literally asked how to step up the game, and your response is "step up your game." so deep, 'BRAH'
/r/askTRP06/07/14 09:52 AM
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because clearly my life is so dull, that's all i do
/r/askTRP06/07/14 09:51 AM
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oh goddamnit this is too perfect. i've moved from indiana to california where things like this would not only be cheaper, but so much easier. i'm jealous at the ease at which this comes off
/r/askTRP03/07/14 10:37 AM
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i have nothing to lose, am 28, single, and i love a hilarious story. you best believe i am buying a coloring book and using this shit on tinder
/r/askTRP03/07/14 10:25 AM
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hey--- i don't think the first thing is a quote from my post. if you're using this as an exercise of her saying "still thinking about me?" i mean, we talk every day. sometimes very little. (we have a weird work-related-relationship) i want to get to know her asap, but also in some months
/r/askTRP03/07/14 10:16 AM
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so you generalized your anecdote, smart move.
/r/askTRP03/07/14 09:25 AM
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this guy has it down. read this.
/r/askTRP03/07/14 09:23 AM
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look dude, not every person who comes through here trying to apply TRP tactics has 100% grasp on every single aspect of its philosophy.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 09:19 AM
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THIS. very much so. do you have a tat? let her fuck you on cam (AND NOBODY ELSE, WTF DO YOU THINK) and reap the benefits. if there is any part of this deal where she's with another dude, there's no loyalty and she's just fucking people. either plate her (for awesome tattoo-related sex?) or move on.
/r/askTRP03/07/14 09:06 AM
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NAWALT......
/r/askTRP03/07/14 08:58 AM
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what kind of responses do you get from the other half (who do not 'flake out' ) ?? i'm assuming your main problems are: 1: your dates are not enticing enough 2: you did not spend enough time selling yourself. look, a lot of my first encounters with women i've met online are just drinks at a bar. i don't even promise them more than that. i don't promise them something awesome, exciting, exhilarating, none of that. i promise them ME. so i say i'll meet them at whatever bar, but ONLY AFTER i've don…
/r/askTRP03/07/14 08:57 AM
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i'm (80%) sure this was written in jest, but is actually true.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 08:42 AM
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because sometimes women just want to feel sexy. sometimes they want to feel like they thought up (and purchased) a way to make themselves feel sexy for their man. you can sit here all day and control every dollar and every single decision, but i mean COME ON, women know how to be sexy. just keep them wanting you
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 08:41 AM
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legit question: have you ever run a business or been general manager of a business? i'd like to hear about how you delegate decisions when your entire day becomes making those decisions and not planning for your success.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 08:37 AM
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i actually like everything about this story: you and your wife have come to a mutual decision on how your money is spent. you and she both respect that decision. you both have found a way to respect your decision of money spending while allowing for a reward system and are both happy with it. the main aspect i like about this, is that you (as the leader of the household) have made a responsible decision, and you both have respected that decision. neither of you ended up skirting the rules.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 08:28 AM
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Get her tipsy?
/r/askTRP01/07/14 05:02 AM
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Be interested in who they are as a person. Then we will have to tell you to stop talking, because you'll be doing it so much.
/r/askTRP27/06/14 10:33 PM
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"...so women aren't an issue" then why is this one? seriously, dude. she's a person, a real one. treat her like a person and not a trophy and you'll fare much better. albeit, i'm sure she's susceptible to the same flaws that many women are. So check the sidebar for links about game and text game.
/r/askTRP23/06/14 07:16 PM
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you're thirsty as fuck. No, i don't think you should leave your number. Do you work together? I'm assuming, from context, that you do. Wait till your next shift together, strike up another conversation, find some common ground, then invite her to something cool that you can do together. I'm going to tell you up front, that trying to take out a married woman is coming with some baggage: either husband finds out and starts chasing you down, or there's ridiculous time-constraint excuses of "not bei…
/r/askTRP08/06/14 09:06 AM
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Go up for the single guys' garter catch. Dance with a bridesmaid. Have some champagne. Find an empty room and close the deal with that bridesmaid.
/r/askTRP15/05/14 03:36 AM
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Took a cue from Christian McQueen's blog. told a fwb that knew I was just coming over for dinner and dessert to wait at her door with only her panties on, blindfolded, kneeling. When I knocked, she opened the door, I close it behind me and stick myself in her mouth. I used and abused her the whole night. At points I was straight rude and demanding. She ate it up and keeps telling me how unbelievably sexy it was. That's when I knew that TRP works; being a commanding alpha makes the panties wet.
/r/askTRP08/05/14 06:13 AM
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i only read the title. you're 18. your life is not fucked. it is not too late to turn it around, and start building it from scratch.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/14 07:39 AM
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it's never been funny, clever, or pushing any boundaries. why do you really care?
/r/TheRedPill20/04/14 07:38 AM
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if $100, and $1000 aren't so different, i'm trying to budge my way into the solar industry. trying to be the change that puts USA in the lead. i could use some money to get my certifications.
/r/askTRP12/04/14 12:45 PM
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she's going to increase the bet until she can't get more out of you. if she's offering to fuck you for money that she knows you have, she's going to increase how much 'fucking her' costs, until you stop paying.
/r/askTRP12/04/14 12:37 PM
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you can get it without paying. your rationale of "shit it's not that much" is exactly what she is think you will say. she thinks she can get sex and 'some' money from you, at the same time. this is exactly what i do when i have a pocket pair, above 9's. tens, jacks, queens, etc.... i'm going to pretend that i aint got shit, and that you've got all the power. then, something else hits and BAM! i've got a 3ofA_K/flush/full_house/etc. i make you think like you're not giving up much. then i let you …
/r/askTRP12/04/14 12:34 PM
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You might be actually depressed. How often do you exercise? I've been mildly depressed, and exercise helps. Cardio, lifting weights, make sure to get it all. Do you eat right? A diet full of vegetables and fruits and proteins? These are little thingsthat actually hhelp cbat depression. Also, if the above are norms for you and you still feel the same, it wouldn't be beyond reason to seek professional psychiatric help. I'm no doctor, but I've been through this before.
/r/askTRP07/04/14 10:05 AM
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this almost sounds like a famous eastern-religious quote. is it?
/r/askTRP22/03/14 07:29 PM
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yeah this girl has "rules" that she, herself, doesn't even follow. Doesn't sound like she knows what she wants or how to display discipline in order to get it. AND she's already talking about dating you. She doesn't sound like a girl who is date-able. Bangable? That's your call. But I wouldn't 'date' her. At least not under current circumstances
/r/askTRP22/03/14 07:27 PM
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this is good advice. i agree. you can't put all your eggs into one basket. go and meet women in various other places.
/r/askTRP08/02/14 08:28 PM
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you should wait a few days, find something cool for the both of you to do, and ask her to it. make it a specific event or activity: "i'm going to go see this show friday at 8. come along?" let her know the activity, the time, and the day. but in the mean time, i don't see your situation as being inherently bad. she was interested in the possibility of seeing you again, give her that opportunity. if it were me, i would get my guy friends together to go see some live music at a bar. i'd invite her…
/r/askTRP08/02/14 04:19 AM
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agreed. every one of these. including time. this is the exact, concise reply i was planning on writing.
/r/askTRP17/01/14 10:30 PM
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the positives outweigh the negatives. living alone when you're single is the right move to make if you can afford it. also, you're a grown-ass man. this is a decision you can make on your own
/r/TheRedPill07/12/13 09:10 PM
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not often....?
/r/askTRP06/12/13 05:29 AM
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don't be at her beck and call, but i'd say try it again. just because she flaked out, it shouldn't make you mad. don't turn your back on her, but don't let her keep you on a leash. if she wants it later, give it to her later
/r/askTRP05/12/13 08:30 PM
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good responses. you can kinda see where my 4th and 5th beers hit. i gotta keep in mind how much i'm drinking, because it affected my responses
/r/askTRP05/12/13 08:25 PM
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i'm sure you've got plenty of recommendations. care to list them?
/r/askTRP05/12/13 09:29 AM
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yep. came off as not wanting to be creepy. instead became creepy. didn't keep my frame.
/r/askTRP05/12/13 09:27 AM
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this. this is helpful. in every simplifying way it can be. edit: my bad, forgot to click on the 'text game' link. oops.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/13 09:14 AM
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i like your second approach.
/r/askTRP05/12/13 09:14 AM
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links?
/r/TheRedPill05/12/13 09:06 AM
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to the rhythm of a song.
/r/askTRP05/12/13 09:03 AM
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oh i'd been drinking.... i agree. had my priorities
/r/TheRedPill05/12/13 09:02 AM
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tell me what i did wrong, tell me what to do right? how do i improve?
/r/TheRedPill05/12/13 09:00 AM
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handle of liquor, party game, and small snack item. i always have those three available. costs ~20 bucks total. (handle of liquor can be substituted for 6/12-pack beer) (party games are optional) so: booze + snack, minimum
/r/askTRP05/12/13 08:57 AM
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Agreed. The last line gave it away. Be a man, give your girl what she wants, she won't be looking for strange
/r/TheRedPill28/11/13 10:02 AM
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Vagina*** like 8times
/r/TheRedPill26/11/13 08:25 PM
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The word is "ensue"
/r/TheRedPill26/11/13 05:17 AM
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You have a history of abuse and sexual coercion. And your SO wants you to do this in bed? Do you realize you have intimate knowledge of this? It may hurt and be a little awkward at first, but give the lady what she wants in bed. Come to terms with your past and figure out how you can use your experiences in a positive way
/r/TheRedPill10/10/13 01:41 AM
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I can't figure out what response you're expecting from us. This girl has come to a self- realization, and has lost confidence in herself. She wants to feel empowered. She wants to be attractive. Typical. She probably won't be getting much until she figures this out. At least, I'd stay away from any girl who openly admitted she doesn't know who she is. Its not my job to change other people
/r/TheRedPill10/10/13 01:27 AM
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