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| 249 | Straight from the Horse's Mouth: Daniel Sloss | BOOK REPORT | san__404 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 06:52 PM |
| 214 | Do not hide 'your smarts'! | DISCUSSION | san__404 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 09:23 AM |
| 68 | A reminder to continue being a HVW and Owning your life! | SNATCH THEM COINS | san__404 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 04:15 AM |
| 4 | REMINDER: Why We Are Doing This. Every Pickme needs to hear this. | GLOBAL RESISTANCE | san__404 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 08:48 AM |
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| 14 | What Do You Ladies Think Of The Following Films? | My boyfriend dislikes all of them, but I do find it a bit of a cOiNcIdEnCe that all of them ~happen to have~ female leadsI personally enjoyed Cruella and Captain Marvel. I think the ladies here should give, Cruella a try! It was amazing, fresh and a new take on Girlhood! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 07:35 AM |
| 17 | There would be so many cockroaches with J namesNew level of letting go unlocked! I'm up for it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/22 09:26 AM |
| 8 | Ladies who have dated Desi or Muslim, how did the misogyny affect how you were treated in the relationship?Like you pointed out, the only good thing about desi (alteast, i can talk about indian) culture and those lucky enough to get a supportive family is, for women, education. (don't worry, all men are misogynist and know how men create hell for other women - but now it's going to be their daughters). Most of our parents are hell bent towards education, generally do not allow dating until you have like a stable job and if the guy isn't introduces to you through their circle of friends, which i am hi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 09:37 AM |
| 5 | Alysia Harris - This WomanLemme cry, scream and howl! Fantastic! wonderful! Chills-inducing! Thank you for sharing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/22 09:10 AM |
| 2 | Is it really worth trying to help PickMes?I used to be the dump-him friend and tried to talk about fds principles but I later realised that pickmes are dangerous not because of what they do but because of their fixed mindset. The jealousy, the drama, the picking sides wasn't worth my time anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 07:21 AM |
| 45 | How to approach multi-dating?should be called Unhinged! :)) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 07:11 AM |
| 9 | Backfooting: the Disturbing New Dating Trend Men Don't Want You to Know AboutBackfooting can take form of - -Which took me some time to realise. him: saying / makes a joke/ fun of doing something triggering. her: Then i would do this (block/not talk/leave). him: why, what happened? Why would you leave/block/not talk to me? basically make you explain your triggers and trauma and/or apologize to him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 07:10 AM |
| 2 | Indian men threatening that they won't get married as an opposition to the marital rape laws being heard in the high courts. I just have two things to say - interesting reaction and I hope these people are identified and made public so literally, no one ever marries themdamn right! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 06:58 AM |
| 2 | Straight from the Horse's Mouth: Daniel SlossI would, if you want like a chill afternoon read. It is fun in parts but I wouldn't, personally label him as a HVM. But still, he can really pack a punch in 70% of the parts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 08:01 AM |
| 1 | Straight from the Horse's Mouth: Daniel SlossYes, I liked that he was vocal about "bro-culture" and how it propagates "rape-culture" and toxic masculinity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 07:59 AM |
| 5 | Straight from the Horse's Mouth: Daniel SlossI still don't understand, so much part of his book was about them being just-friends and him being self-aware that he wasn't as much of a help as she is to him. A man will leach off you for years if you let them and then embarrass you publicly, if you let him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 07:58 AM |
| 4 | Straight from the Horse's Mouth: Daniel SlossThank you for elaborating on this point and sharing the beautiful symbolism! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/22 07:56 AM |
| 104 | Indian men threatening that they won't get married as an opposition to the marital rape laws being heard in the high courts. I just have two things to say - interesting reaction and I hope these people are identified and made public so literally, no one ever marries themYes, Please make them public. Make the pick-mes public. Make them public so that we know how they abuse their wives and how their future wives would get abused, so we know that no child or woman, hell, even a person is safe with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 07:01 PM |
| 52 | What could be better than this? India Plans to Criminalize Marital Rape, So Some Men Are Boycotting Marriage - VICEI once, had come across an article from an Indian lady gynecologist who usually comes across horrific medical cases and patients specially those where abused in their marriage and I can assure you many of our woman are shamed even for seeking help. Good move. Take the scrotes who rape out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 05:56 PM |
| 22 | What could be better than this? India Plans to Criminalize Marital Rape, So Some Men Are Boycotting Marriage - VICEExactly my thought. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 05:54 PM |
| 12 | Strategy - make him jump through hoopsThis is a very nice stategy to vet if the man can put effort and be creative. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 05:15 PM |
| 8 | Strategy - make him jump through hoopsWonderful reply! Also, we are really looking for kindness and consideration! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 05:13 PM |
| 8 | Accountability and Growth Tip: Buy a doll. Stick a post-it labelled 'My five-year-old self' onto it. Place it somewhere you'll see it.Made me sob! Thank you for sharing this incredible tip. I'm going to do this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 05:10 PM |
| 19 | The Dangers Pick Mes Pose to FDS WomenI think this is my next step in level up. It's important to realise, sadly a lot of women around us are stuck in being pick mes - specially for WOC community. And they are going to drag you down. Not only are they pleased with basic zero level efforts but also, do not actively seek independence and financial freedom that fds preaches. You are definitely the sum of five people you spend your time with and it's a lesson I need to embibe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 05:08 PM |
| 4 | How does a HVM approach a woman?Makes perfect sense. Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 08:17 AM |
| 3 | How does a HVM approach a woman?Yes, you are correct! Perfect. Thank you for giving me this perspective. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 08:17 AM |
| 130 | How does a HVM approach a woman?I'm saving this post too because I'm on the fence about this. The women gets to select if she wants him to pursue or not but again, texting first seems counterintuitive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 06:30 PM |
| 69 | Sad, unfortunate truths about the “friend zone”For real. How much that pisses them off though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 06:11 PM |
| 1 | What are some red flag books, movies, music, shows, stand up comics, podcasts/YouTube channels for men?I had a 11th grade lady prof. Recommend me Ayn Rand. I read the fountainhead. The concept was different but I just Couldn't wrap my head around the abuse/weird non-attachment, idk relationship the leads had?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 02:57 PM |
| 3 | Things I wish I could go back and say to younger versions of myselfThank you powerful internet Lady for you wisdom. Some points made me cry. Thank you for writing this. I want every lil girl to know this. Every grown women too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 06:14 PM |
| 14 | I would choose meI resonate with OP so much! anytime, ladies, you feel hidden, its actually to protect you and redirect you towards better things. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 05:54 PM |
| 2 | The more assertive I am, the happier I am! Be assertive and walk with prowessI never thought of it like that! I am the one in charge, that's powerful! Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 05:53 AM |
| 1 | The more assertive I am, the happier I am! Be assertive and walk with prowessThank you! I'll absolutely remember these. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 05:52 AM |
| 13 | The more assertive I am, the happier I am! Be assertive and walk with prowessCongratulations on standing in your power! Could you guide us on how you did it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 04:49 PM |
| 3 | If you are allergic to accountability or you call it "mean" or "making fun of someone" you don't belong on FDSFirst step to gaining power is to dropping the victim card. YOU have power and there isn't anything you cannot do or cannot get. Realise your worth ladies! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 06:46 AM |
| 32 | Eye-OpeneningCongratulations of finding this sub and understanding it! Most of us younglings owe our life to these ladies who really changed our perspective about dating and more appropriately life in general! There is no victim bashing, you might be reminded of your pickmeisha days and honestly it takes practice to learn how to continue being HVW. I dare say, all the uplifting posts, level ups, warning stories, tips and lifehacks will empower you to live your life as an individual and as a women ( not only … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 06:32 AM |
| 3 | Tl;dr I hate that my girlfriend is more successful than me and takes decisions about her life without consulting meoh god. I really want to be her minus the nvm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 07:14 AM |
| 30 | Indian scrotes discussing what they’d ask women before an arranged marriage. The audacity.Oofff! I loved every word in here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 06:46 PM |
| 42 | Indian scrotes discussing what they’d ask women before an arranged marriage. The audacity.Literally operating at the level of a fucking super computer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 06:44 PM |
| 10 | The so-called butterflies in the stomachI'm not perfect but a few pointers. 1.Accept that you are a nice, kind and worthy person. But not everyone deserves it everytime. Give some of it to yourself. Promise to walk away and not reply. In FDS lingo - dick is abundant. Creating firm boundaries comes with practice. Now whenever I met a new person or a guy who was interested - I sat down and wrote how I felt about him right after an interaction. I did it FDS style. Listed the red flags. And that itself made me not interested. Believe me i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 06:39 PM |
| 3 | For the women who love too much -- free yourselves!!Try pdfdrive! The site generally has almost every book present. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 06:24 PM |
| 3 | FDSers who observed Mother's Day today, how was it? What did you notice through the FDS lense?I am back from college and we have a lockdown right now. So, I was able to spend this mother's day with my mom. I wrote a letter to her. Both a few flower seeds so we could plant them to mark the day and a set of books. They arrived late, today so, I hope she likes it. 🥺😔. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 06:03 PM |
| 53 | Indian scrotes discussing what they’d ask women before an arranged marriage. The audacity.Amen,Sis. What a race of significant amount of scrotes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 05:27 PM |
| 23 | The so-called butterflies in the stomachMight differ. Pre-fds, Everytime I had butterflies, it was anxiety because I knew 1. It was wrong Because the guy didn't earn it. 2. I wasn't really interested but couldn't voice a firm no. 3. Gave them the benefit of doubt. I had and still have a lot of learning and work to do Now, I'm very secure with myself and my boundaries. I do not talk to people who tend to trigger my anxiety. I have nothing to please or neither am I afraid of losing contact with them. Socializing and dating isn't suppose… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Do not hide 'your smarts'!First of all, Congratulations! We love to see a Woman Boss winning! It is a huge accomplishment and I'm pretty sure set the LVM off! 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 03:52 PM |
| 2 | Do not hide 'your smarts'!This is a cool trick! Just be careful because then they stick on like gum under the impression that you were interested. Like seriously?!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 08:10 AM |
| 40 | My small guide for the "BIG" event of meeting the family.Our culture is one of the most twisted ones. I'm not sure who wins in this game. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 05:53 PM |
| 10 | Do not hide 'your smarts'!"The thing is that even if you dumb yourself down to initially attract a man, you'll have to resort to heavy drug or alcohol use to keep up the facade." 🤣😂 This resonates with me so much. Dumb men are really dumb and mean and oblivious to themselves being dumb. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 05:27 PM |
| 3 | Do not hide 'your smarts'!Yes! Sharing instead of it being a power struggle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 05:25 PM |
| 7 | Do not hide 'your smarts'!Amen! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 05:24 PM |
| 13 | Do not hide 'your smarts'!Believe me, it isn't worth it. It's like having a pet dog, everyday peeing on your bedroom carpet and refusing to get potty trained. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 02:43 PM |
| 6 | Do not hide 'your smarts'!Yes! Nothing is outside the comprehension of a LVM's peanut sized brain. How dare you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 02:41 PM |
| 18 | Do not hide 'your smarts'!Oh! Thank you! This is an excellent article to highlight the gap between why smart, successful women frequently have to dumb down and settle for less and what your average scrote thinks he wants and in reality what his fragile ego can handle. Perfection! Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 02:38 PM |
| 16 | High Value Dates OnlyTry some other fun activity instead of eating out. Tell him at you prefer not eating out something (and mention something about your hobbies) and watch if he puts effort into making the date special. This way of vetting and how he handles a no and the efforts he takes are also important. Btw, it's great that you are leveling up by learning something that you aren't comfortable doing! As a person who struggled with the same stuff- You learn by experience. Try to eat that way at home. Go to eat al… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 08:26 AM |
| 16 | High Value Dates OnlyYou got me at the gas and money. Especially if you live far away from the city. I'm not paying anything for the first date. Also, How a man responds to traffic, people cutting lanes,during parking and a filled parking lot, how you helps you in and out of the car and in general can be really telling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 08:16 AM |
| 11 | 💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥READ THIS FOR A CHANCE TO APPEAR ON THE FDS PODCAST! 💥💥💥💥💥💥💥I'm so hyped up for this! I have a younger brother and our culture tends to keep skirting the issues around Relationships, How to be a gentleman and HVM, Consent and Sexuality. I really would like to be one person that he can consult and confide in case of doubts and not turn out like all NVM I had to deal with. Thank you so much for these! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 05:47 PM |
| 45 | As seen on a law school subreddit: "Accepted at every school I applied but waitlisted at the school in the same city as my husband. It’s an easy decision"I wish we could have a rescue mission for this brainwashed woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 08:35 AM |
| 50 | Lord if this ain't some anti-women shit.Legit. Nobody asked about an update. It would be better for her to know why so many women walked off this guy, first. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 08:23 AM |
| 4 | Weird Red Flags?Asks you why you aren't on some social media network. Gossips about a common friend. Wants to keep your relationship private even before you start dating. Repeats I'm not a perfect man. Expects you to text first or tells you that he wants to see if you would miss this dusty ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 12:45 PM |
| 2 | This woman has clearly been manipulated by a LVM who convinced her that his porn habits are to be blamed on her.One very Sad entry to pickmeisha hall of fame. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 05:45 AM |
| 4 | He made me cry last nightThis is incredible! I'm so happy for you and you deserve all this love and more! Wishing you amazing times ahead, Sister. But, continue as they say here, Vetting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 02:10 AM |
| 30 | 1.2 million likes. Countless comments from men & boys. The new generation are no more compassionate toward women & girls as we’d like to hope. Many are still raised to be disgusting, emotionless burdens on women. I at least hope the girls are being raised to not accept this behavior.I'm at the same age as yours and I promise you men of our generation are sick as fuck. I went on a general b'day party and this senior couldn't stop touching my thigh and making me uncomfortable. He later asks me if I watch porn and how he uses to learns things from it. He was 24 and he barely knew me and we are going to be getting our medical degrees in a few years. Imagine, a doctor like this. Imagine your co-workers like this, your friends and every male around you, to be like this. We live i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 02:05 AM |
| 20 | 1.2 million likes. Countless comments from men & boys. The new generation are no more compassionate toward women & girls as we’d like to hope. Many are still raised to be disgusting, emotionless burdens on women. I at least hope the girls are being raised to not accept this behavior.Yes! We need protection from these self and society proclaimed protectors. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 01:57 AM |
| 2 | I'm just perpetually angry and I don't know what to do about itIt's hard. Honestly. I feel like cutting off everyone and every male and I know. I carry a screwdriver in my bag. I wanted to take up boxing just because I really needed an outlet for this anger. But, it was just hidden misogyny in disguise, I was trying to be more male-like (not because of some hobby), I was trying to harden myself, be mean and bad and do shit that lvm do. I had no strong rolemodels to look up to without scrotes around them. then, i found fds, sat down with myself and traced ev… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 09:41 AM |
| 4 | I blocked a LVM who was fwb years ago and now he’s sending me money*DICK IS ABUNDANT* Such gold!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 09:26 AM |
| 2 | Who are your HVW role models?Wow! I want to be like her! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 09:16 AM |
| 5 | Who are your HVW role models?Famous: RBG and Meghan Markle. (With a pinch of salt, if you will, because we only know so much about them but till now everything is HVW qualities) Personally: It's sad that i really don't know any HVW through and through because asian culture is so bent towards male dominance but due to fds, i'm learning to not repeat the same mistakes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 09:15 AM |
| 2 | I am dating again and I want to share my feelings with you allI want everyone to read this post!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 09:00 AM |
| 6 | Defining GF and Wife BenefitsYes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 08:49 AM |
| 2 | The podcast has only 1 episode so far and we're already in the top 5% of podcasts. Let's see if we can get into the top 1% 🙌 New episode dropping tomorrow!women make shi*t happen! i'm so proud! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 08:45 AM |
| 16 | The same day that I posted a shot of my scientific publications on my social media, he ended our relationship with this text...Congratulations of getting a publication (that's damn hard work) and losing a time-energy-love parasite! more power to you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 08:39 AM |
| 47 | Why are some men so obsessed to keep women's standards as low as possible?amazing analysis! A woman of High self-worth and knowing of the love and respect she deserves. May we raise and be such women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 08:16 AM |
| 35 | Anyone who knowingly interacts with pedophiles cannot be trusted. Pedophiles routinely exploit their social networks to access children. Their judgement and motivations will always be suspect. Thoroughly vet everyone in your life and DO NOT IGNORE RED FLAGS.May you continue to find strength and hope! thank you for sharing your story, it takes immense courage to stand up and voice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 08:12 AM |
| 9 | So trueBeing on FDS has really changed my out-look on relationships. 95% of the women are in really toxic ones but when you try to talk to them - they always want to give one more chance, another attempt even though the guy makes her cry every day. And i'm always told that crossing boundaries, possessiveness, negging, unjustified anger is just a form of love. It wears me thin to see amazing woman being brainwashed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 03:35 PM |
| 19 | “But all men watch porn -“ “Not all men!”This is why I love fds! There is no step up. You are a decent human or you aren't. No facade stays for too long. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 03:22 PM |
| 11 | Leveling up movies?I know this doesn't qualify as a movie but RBG is a pretty good documentary to see what a power couple and a HVW is in real life, standing the test of time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 01:35 PM |
| 17 | I always knew these movies were suspicious...I never liked Disney - Check - Narnia, Barbie (except a few) and always and always Studio Ghibili. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 11:22 PM |
| 2 | I bought myself a diamond ring. Marrying myself this year!What an Inspiration! I am working to reach this. More power to you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 11:19 PM |
| 2 | Realizing you have worth means breaking some pretty difficult patternsCongratulations! You are taking amazing steps for improvement! Queen! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 05:10 PM |
| 3 | Thought experimentShe is such a queen. Fuck haters. Fuck Royal family. You don't need a crown to be one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 05:09 PM |
| 8 | The Rule Of Reciprocity & How Men Exploit ItThank you for this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 05:05 PM |
| 1 | My neighbor had sex with a guy she was interested in really soon, they had a condom slip incident, and he immediately changed. This is why we vet!!Sad but true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 04:54 PM |
| 25 | Of all the Horrible Things I’ve seen from Men on Reddit, r/DeadEyes is the one that broke meThis makes me so scared and so angry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 04:28 PM |
| 21 | I am glad more and more women are having that mindset in this day and age.Preach! 🙏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 04:25 PM |
| 6 | A HVM will make you know you’re irreplaceable 💅🏼💖Yes. Lvm say - "You aren't a model but I am still satisfied with you." Or "you aren't a pageant queen but I still like you" But he's dusty ass be looking straight 2.5 on a 10 scales. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 04:24 PM |
| 5 | A HVM will make you know you’re irreplaceable 💅🏼💖I feel your pain.. But hon, My dad has manipulated and never taken care of my mom when he had to just because of his parents. It's horrible and very painful to watch specially because my mom still loves him and cannot leave but she'll never be a priority for him. That is traumatic and really not healthy. A man not standing up for himself will never stand up for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 04:22 PM |
| 17 | A good response to splitting the checkHahaha! That's some energy I want to channel. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 05:42 AM |
| 16 | HVM proposed with a Tiffany diamond after 1 year, then surprised with a bouquet and a thank you note <3Congratulations! We are so happy for you! You deserve the best. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 06:12 PM |
| 3 | #KickHimOut2020 Is Coming To An EndThank you. Yes I am. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 06:07 PM |
| 26 | #KickHimOut2020 Is Coming To An EndI'm crying. I finally set the record straight with a creep who had been giving me panic attacks. I let him know that I'm no longer afraid of him and his petty threatening - that I'm ready to take action and I have people and my parents by my side. I'm so glad to find this sub and find my courage to stand up for myself. All lvm blocked and deleted from everywhere. Thank you 2020 for some tough love and FDS for some good lessons. 💛 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 08:41 PM |
| 34 | OLD LVM don’t put in any effort into appearanceWe are entitled anyhow to a maid/banggf . Why bother? sis, I have seen the uglies scrotes have the audacity to criticize amazing, talented and beautiful women- don't worry, porn is the closest they'll ever get to looking at a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 05:26 PM |
| 19 | Promising Young Woman coming out this Christmas. The movie's about a woman's revenge on rapists and a reckoning of the social structures that perpetuate rape culture .Thanks for the recommendation! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 05:23 PM |
| 16 | An appreciation meme for all the relentless work that FDS mods do to keep unwanted comments from such people at bay. You're the real MVP.Thank you Mods! You Ladies are saving an entire generation of women. Thank you💛✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 05:22 PM |
| 9 | Shirley Temple and Lolita - If you hate Nabakov, you just don’t understand yetWTF. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 05:13 PM |
| 45 | To the women who think we are equal to menI want this engraved on my tombstone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 06:32 PM |
| 31 | Even your family girl, learned it the hard way. Only you are responsible to know what is best that you need to grow.All women need to know this. People want you to be good but not better than them. This includes your friends, your family, your acquaintance. You have only yourself to rely on. This means nobody's coming to save you. This also means there is nobody to stop you from achieving greatness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 07:02 AM |
| 1 | Girls are posting this picture all over their Instagrams. Toxic pick me culture is believing that you are some sort of mystical godly creature that's more worthy and deserving of love than other womenYes, definitely it has been a very difficult time. I'm grateful that you are supportive and careful about your friend, you might be causing a heartbreak but saving a life. I'm just praying that she is able to thrive out of there and all the more power to you! Thank you for being there and being vigilant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 06:48 AM |
| 3 | Girls are posting this picture all over their Instagrams. Toxic pick me culture is believing that you are some sort of mystical godly creature that's more worthy and deserving of love than other womenHaving a close friend for a pickme actually hurts your heart. I introduced mine to FDS, she didn't even try to go through it. Would have changed her life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 06:15 AM |
| 35 | Confronted my (27F) husband (34M) about his porn use today... This is how it went.You have been so brave! Please ensure your and your child's safety as soon as possible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 06:14 PM |
| 2 | It's annoying when I tell my doctor I'm not sexually active and she doesn't believe me.Yes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 05:10 PM |
| 6 | Always trust your gut instinct. It's not snooping, it's basically confirming your suspicions. Once again proved men ain't shit. A HVM will give you no reason to snoop. You'll always feel safe and secure.Woho! this is so great! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Which of you saved this girl?I hope someone did alert me too but Next time imma be that woman! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 04:34 AM |
| 16 | How to raise a hvm....My mom makes my brother and I do every part of the chore in halves. Like I do the dishes, he arranges them, I dust the house,he folds the clothes etc. We are pretty well off and my South Asian grandparents hate to see my brother working. But he has no respite, neither does my mother place him on an altar for doing basic shit like this. I'm older than him so some more responsibility but I'm thankful to my mother that she ain't raising an ungrateful little a**hole like the other SA men I have met. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 04:31 AM |
| 1 | I wish I had been taught to be unconcerned instead of nice. And isn’t this proof?Thank you! These will definitely be helpful! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 05:54 PM |
| 3 | My friend she wouldn’t mind being casually proposed to while doing dishes or taking out garbage - I hope I never get to this pointLow funds is not synonymous for low effort! Perfect! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 01:43 PM |
| 8 | I wish I had been taught to be unconcerned instead of nice. And isn’t this proof?Teach my your ways! I'm too polite and people take me as a pushover. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 01:40 PM |
| 3 | Do what you want until they’ve fully committed ladiesPreach! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 01:32 PM |
| 6 | If a man tells you that you can do better - BELIEVE HIM.True! Experience is a horrible teacher but it bought me to fds. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 10:04 AM |
| 26 | My male family doctor turned out to be a sex abuserPlease chose female doctors. There have been so many studies showing them to be better surgeons and physicians. I cannot vouch for all but it is your safest and best bet. There have been so many horror stories in medicine of male doctors being grossly incompetent. Also, slightly exaggerate your pain scale specially if you are a female and ask them to write that no diagnostic test was performed and patient wasn't advised anything because it can be a case of professional negligence. In case a male… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 08:51 PM |
| 3 | Subtle red flags to watch out forHuge red flag! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 03:18 PM |
| 13 | Subtle red flags to watch out forWeird but the ones I found - 1.The guy who wants to take things "too" fast. 2.Tries to imitate his friends, obsessively 3.Tells the whole town that you are talking to him. 4.Can seem funny but Dinner dates are important because I have seen NVM be so focused on eating that they forget common curtseys and manners. 5. Repeatedly boasting about how he is dominating and a go getter - irl these are pests who have no self confidence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 02:58 PM |
| 5 | Subtle red flags to watch out forImportant! Waste of your time and potential! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 02:52 PM |
| 4 | This within i split secondA really ugly NVM was pestering me for a relationship, continuously targeted my self-esteem and when I politely told him, I'm not interested --- He had the audacity to ask me if I was a lesbian since I wasn't attracted to his ugly ass!!!? Like I wish I were so I wouldn't have to deal with the likes of you and would find a fulfilling relationship with a brilliant woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 06:52 AM |
| 10 | Trauma cycle on our gender....I watched knock down the house and was crying through out. What a magnificent and strong woman! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 04:10 PM |
| 3 | What IS it with men and rankings?I would be surprised if they even touched a 2. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 05:20 PM |
| 7 | Examples of disrespectYes Sister! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 05:09 PM |
| 4 | Look at this beautiful 65 years old woman but these red pillers say women hit the wall at 30. It's not true. Women are very attractive older too and women need to embrace their unique beauty and love themselves from inside out. Don't listen to those idiots. Love yourself at any age.You are beautifulThank you! ✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 02:44 AM |
| 10 | This is what indian women deal with. Then these guys wonder why the world thinks so low of them.They feel they are entitled to everything because it has been so for a long time. Media, cultures and society puts them on a pedestal for being born. Imagine a women staying no?! Incel shit starts. She's a bitch. How dare she? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 11:37 AM |
| 7 | This is what indian women deal with. Then these guys wonder why the world thinks so low of them.The situation is pathetic. With LVMs on the rise. They are everywhere and pickmeishas too. Our sisters have been so brain washed to not look beyond being subservient and sweet and all sacrificing. I'm sick and angry at all of it. And somehow I'm told that my anger is my naivety. When will we really stand up for ourselves? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 11:35 AM |
| 12 | Look at this beautiful 65 years old woman but these red pillers say women hit the wall at 30. It's not true. Women are very attractive older too and women need to embrace their unique beauty and love themselves from inside out. Don't listen to those idiots. Love yourself at any age.You are beautifulI aspire to be you! How do you take care of your skin? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 11:20 AM |
| 1 | Just a few reminders for all the High Value Queens on here...Yes and also I'm assuming both of you are adults., that means there should be confidence and communication between you two. I feel this sudden silence and disappearing can be to keep you guessin as to what you did wrong, what needs to be done, how to make him feel better when he can communicate that freely to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 03:43 PM |
| 10 | Just a few reminders for all the High Value Queens on here...a lot of narcs pull this i'm depressed, become my therapist shit. You genuinely asked him, he didn't reply- this can be a sort of negging too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 05:50 AM |
| 3 | Playing Block-a-mole... Lesson on Limiting AccessSame here. It gives me a panic attack to see his emails in the junk. I wish I had never met him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 05:20 PM |
| 26 | International Men's Day is on 11/19. Placing bets for men completely ignoring this day until International Women's Day (3/8), specifically to ask "BuT wHaT aBoUt MeN?!""A day of shit." Well said. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 05:22 AM |
| 18 | Girls who are mature for their age...You can be mature and good and not realize the shit people do because you would never do that to others. That is why Subs like this help. Awareness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 05:15 AM |
| 39 | Poor woman, awful husbandMade me cry too. Imagine being a mother and caring for kids and being disrespected and not loved and humilated for it. Women sacrifice so much of themselves to give birth-the pain, the post partum depressions, their career, their entire biology changes. Imagine being a nincompoop to shit on your wife like this. :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 05:51 PM |
| 33 | Could your lack of sexual interest in your man actually be the result of hidden contempt?I always thought i was being too picky and insensitive when i was literally suddenly repulsed by them but nope that was just my ideals crashing and reality turning up.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 04:29 AM |
| 3 | A reminder to continue being a HVW and Owning your life!Secrets of Six-Figure Women by Barbara Stanny :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 04:20 AM |
| 12 | What theory explains why women seem to just be better quality than men, especially in the last 10-20 years?Woah...is this for real? any papers? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 07:30 AM |
| 6 | A reminder to continue being a HVW and Owning your life!Congratulation for the level up! That is such an insightful observation. The book also mentions networking and getting to know specific salaries being paid for your qualifications and changing jobs if your demand for raise is not accepted in 2 years. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 07:28 AM |
| 6 | A reminder to continue being a HVW and Owning your life!I wholeheartedly do! It's really inspiring to see women from all fields with the same doubts as us making big and building other women up. Please try it once! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 04:27 AM |
| 81 | My grandpa has alzheimer's and the only person he recognizes is my grandma🥺🥺😭 Op this was so sweet! Loved how he made sure your grandma was comfortable and understood her little habits and loved her so much. Regards and love to your grandpa and grandma. Thank you for sharing this with us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 06:34 AM |
| 1 | Interesting spot from the local bookstore, her face says it all 😂I want to buy this and carry it with me everywhere.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 06:21 AM |
| 3 | Women's EnlightenmentI'm crying.. This is so needed! 🥺 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 06:16 AM |
| 3 | This is why we say no to coffee dates. Before finding FDS, I agreed to a coffee date. He was supposed to text me a time to meet but never did. The NEXT DAY he asked me why I didn't wake him upThe bar was so low, right on the ground but this LVM dug a hole and never even made it to the other side. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 06:12 AM |
| 2 | Female mentors are divine treasuresThis is an incredible step you are taking! I hope you emerge even better and full of vigor. More power to you! ✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 07:19 PM |
| 3 | Female mentors are divine treasuresThis makes me so happy and hopeful! May the mentee become amazing mentor too! We need you! ✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 08:53 AM |
| 25 | My LVM brother and his live-in girlfriend of 5 years criticized me today for my status as a single woman.Wohoo! 🤩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 08:46 AM |
| 16 | This is why Reddit’s favourite adage of “just communicate” is so inappropriate. Communication means nothing if you’re with someone who is committed to misunderstanding you.You said it! ✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 10:20 AM |
| 15 | Was dating always this terrible?This is so true! Ngl, As a person who's 20 rn, it's really normal to see boys who'll text you 24/7 and confess their "deepest" love and affection for you on text or on call but won't have the guts to talk to you, face to face like are you fr???!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 07:31 AM |
| 6 | Look at this incel bullshit, they've put "sex" under basic physiological needs. Normalizing rape logic as "education" 🙄🤮Morality, respect for others, security comes later than sexual needs. No wonder.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 07:25 AM |
| 3 | Woke Queen. The comments are gold.Women suffer, are belittled, harassed, raped, beaten to death and killed. This is a complete sentence. Don't add your clauses to this. Make your own. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 07:23 AM |
| 6 | Can I brag about my HVM?This is so cute! My Heart just swells up! I'm so happy for you, OP! You deserve it! 💛 Pet your doggos for me please!💛 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Thank you FDS! 💛Lol. Tell me about it. He hid his age - he was an immediate senior that makes him 20 at most but voila! I checked his library card - 23!! I was 19 then. It confused me as he was snitching about his friend having a girlfriend who was one year older than him. So many red flags.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 03:59 PM |
| 10 | Ladies, look out for each other! We are all queens, and we need to support each other as suchIf even one women raises her voice against a man, stay away from him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 08:20 AM |
| 2 | Thank you FDS! 💛It's really cathartic to sit with ourselves and root out all the parts of us we don't want to face and the mistakes we have done! It is a huge step and I'm so proud of you for doing that! 💛💛💛 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 08:16 AM |
| 2 | Thank you FDS! 💛Yes, it pains me that so many intelligent and wonderful women are stuck in this vortex of under estimating their worth and value and overestimating what men are and can offer. I'm glad we found FDS in time! 💛 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 08:14 AM |
| 2 | Thank you FDS! 💛Yes Sis 💛! I hope you achieve all your goals and work on your happiness! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 08:11 AM |
| 31 | So... This got me thinking lolOnly and only if the person adds extra 5 levels of value and joy to my day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 08:06 AM |
| 39 | In what ways do you practice assertiveness? (STEM pursuers)We are no first-timers to the blant sexist attitude that is present in STEM field. But your face and personality has no correlation to the brain rot that exists so I'll support that you don't backstab yourself for being a woman and a smart one at that. You have nothing to prove to anybody, keep working on projects, assignments, keep your scores high and keep networking and your passion alive. Your immediate environment may not support you but your credentials will shine through and take you bett… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 08:02 AM |
| 3 | Thank you FDS! 💛Thank you! I believe your daughters would benefit from your knowledge and experience and thank you for staying updated and strong for them. It takes strong and loving mothers to raise even better and stronger daughters! 💛 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 04:20 AM |
| 7 | Thank you FDS! 💛Yes, thank you! I think I saw it being mentioned on some other subreddit and navigated here. Have a great day/night! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 04:16 AM |
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