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Inner Game sandywreckedmybodega/r/seduction28/11/21 02:27 AM
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Field Reportsandywreckedmybodega/r/seduction25/09/22 10:18 PM
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Resourcessandywreckedmybodega/r/seduction25/10/20 12:23 AM
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Field Reportsandywreckedmybodega/r/seduction28/07/21 02:24 AM
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Outer Game sandywreckedmybodega/r/seduction25/08/21 12:09 AM
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Date enough girls and you will get sick of women. I guarantee it. The effort it takes to get laid is not worth getting laid. It's better to just live your own life and work on yourself and find that girl organically on the path. When you focus on women too much, you start giving them power. They take your time and your energy and your emotions even when they're not physically there. You will lose so much of yourself chasing girls. You'll look back and think "man, if I just didn't focus on chicks…
/r/seduction08/10/22 04:14 AM
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It really depends, man. Men and women can be platonic. It's about establishing things beforehand. Making it clear why you're there and what you're interested in. I had one friend who was strictly platonic and we would watch YouTube and smoke cigarettes. I'd lay on her bed while she cleaned her room or tried on clothes and talked. We decided to try having sex one day and it wasn't great so we went back to hanging around and doing nothing as friends. Sometimes you can be super platonic and still g…
/r/seduction08/10/22 04:09 AM
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I do feel pretty down and I was also away at military training for 6 months and I got back not too long ago. I feel like I'm still adapting to being home and feeling down and burnt
/r/seduction26/09/22 07:04 AM
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Thank you for the great advice. I'm going to take it
/r/seduction26/09/22 02:40 AM
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Why?
/r/seduction26/09/22 01:59 AM
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Thank you for the good advice
/r/seduction26/09/22 01:59 AM
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Yeah I have no issues with that but nothing really ever comes of that. It's stopping her or getting her to stay for a Convo that gives me bad anxiety
/r/seduction26/09/22 01:15 AM
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Nice. Thanks. That guy looks like a model no wonder he has success with chicks
/r/seduction26/09/22 01:13 AM
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Truest thing I've ever heard I can't believe I spent a whole day walking in circles
/r/seduction26/09/22 01:09 AM
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Yeah that's the thing, social circle game success rate is higher but the amount of options is so much less
/r/seduction26/09/22 01:01 AM
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I mean I get a lot of matches but they're not like dying to date me or anything they barely text back. And what social circle lol I'm 27, all my friends are busy
/r/seduction26/09/22 12:58 AM
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Yeah I get girls looking at me not staring. My tinder is tumbleweeds but every now and then I'll get a girl come up to me like maybe once a year. I'm not Channing Tatum but I think I'm attractive at least enough to get attention. Here's a picture of me
/r/seduction26/09/22 12:56 AM
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What other way is there? And my game is all right, it's decent, I am a pretty attractive guy though.
/r/seduction26/09/22 12:49 AM
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Yeah I am in Manhattan. I don't know. I feel like maybe I have some anxiety that I need to handle with a therapist. But literally I have gotten blowjobs and same day lays from doing day game. So I don't know what my problem is now. It's literally the thing that has transformed my life, the only difference is that I don't have a wing and I can never approach without a wing for some reason
/r/seduction26/09/22 12:45 AM
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Thanks for this man. Could have used just a couple hours ago. I actually stopped gaming because of those guys comments.
/r/seduction26/09/22 12:35 AM
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Oh well, yeah I guess I can do that fine. I have no issues asking people for directions or dumb questions like that. It's actually committing to a legitimate approach that gives me really bad anxiety, especially being alone. I don't know if this matters either, but I definitely feel anxiety being a man in general and going up to strangers. I'm mixed, I'm not white and I'm not black. I'm Hispanic but I look more Italian. Maybe North African Mediterranean, I don't really know I'm kind of overthink…
/r/seduction26/09/22 12:35 AM
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I think I may have some underlying Anxiety issues that Are arising and I may need to see a therapist.
/r/seduction26/09/22 12:23 AM
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I'm from Jersey though so I come out here every now and then just to daygame or nightgame. I don't really have the luxury of having as many people around me all the time as here in NYC
/r/seduction26/09/22 12:17 AM
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Are you from NYC?
/r/seduction26/09/22 12:15 AM
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Like where?
/r/seduction26/09/22 12:14 AM
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Approach anxiety
/r/seduction26/09/22 12:10 AM
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When I'm in the interaction I'm usually pretty fine. I don't lack social skills or anything, if anything. I'm just hypervigilant of people overhearing my conversation or people thinking I'm weird. Which is why it's so much easier for me to go out with a wing. But I don't want to rely on someone else, I came out today to try to get out of my comfort zone and I failed pretty miserably. I have literally zero women in my life right now, and for the attention I get, it's pretty surprising because I'm…
/r/seduction26/09/22 12:06 AM
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Yeah but working with my Dad is one of the best things that's ever happened to me. I love my dad and we're making 1k+/week after taxes working like 4 days right now
/r/seduction25/09/22 11:32 PM
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I started a business with my father recently and I'd have to move the entire thing. It would be a huge pain
/r/seduction25/09/22 11:26 PM
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Yeah but I've been living here my entire life (north Jersey). This city is trash, the people are shit and the city smells and looks like shit. I used to live out in Chicago and I'd bike ride, take dips in the lake and go to concerts. Here it's just a bunch of pompous trannies and people from Europe who don't have social skills. I like the emo/metal/punk rock scene but there's none of that shit here. I also like to make art but nobody's ever down except to play music. I like to explore the outdoo…
/r/seduction25/09/22 11:10 PM
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It's weird sometimes but bro... I've been with dozens and dozens of chicks. It's not like I'm a virgin who just started this shit. I've gotten blowjobs in my car, same day lays, makeouts, dates. The ones that find it weird can go fuck themselves bro, they're just NPCs, I'm not here so people can think highly of me. I come out for a purpose. I've been gaming in NYC since I was 19, I used to lie about my age and get into bars and hook up with girls in their late twenties/early thirties. Everybody'…
/r/seduction25/09/22 11:06 PM
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Lol idk man I'm kinda kidding but man I'm not into like museums and galleries and shit like that. I'm either hanging out with friends or working. I have hobbies I do on my own
/r/seduction25/09/22 10:52 PM
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I'm not into that gay shit. I have things to do
/r/seduction25/09/22 10:48 PM
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Of course you did. And I'm an astronaut
/r/seduction25/09/22 10:47 PM
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I've had plenty of success with women. Where Are your 2-3, girlfriends?
/r/seduction25/09/22 10:46 PM
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This is my side quest, I don't come out here 99 hrs a week it's like a 3-4 times a month kinda thing between this and night game
/r/seduction25/09/22 10:40 PM
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Like where? I go out every now and then at night but there's no other places really that I know of. I like it with a wing but alone it's nerve racking.
/r/seduction25/09/22 10:36 PM
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No it won't lol I have my own business, I play the drums, I have friends family and a normal life. Coming out on a Sunday to pick up chicks is not weird, shit accelerates the process. I've met tons of chicks doing this (with a wing), alone is the hard part. You are the weirdo. Why are you so negative and judgemental? Did someone hurt you?
/r/seduction25/09/22 10:33 PM
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Bro you can come to Washington square right now and meet me and we will see who is weirder. Meeting women is not weird. You're the weird one who frequents seduction subreddits and doesn't approach women in the streets. There's literally a billion women out here and you sit in your apartment all day judging people who fuck the same girls you gaze at when you walk to the store. Literally come meet me I'm here right now
/r/seduction25/09/22 10:24 PM
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I do the night stuff too but I like the daytime stuff better... I'm not a weirdo and I'm not creeping girls out, fuck outta here.
/r/seduction25/09/22 10:20 PM
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Probably NYC or Miami. But be prepared for women that are full of Shit. Lots of hot chicks though. If you want more genuine chicks I'd suggest Chicago
/r/seduction01/12/21 02:55 AM
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But to truly answer your question I guess surrogate mothers. But even that would require an egg and a womb. Unless there's some sort of artificial womb
/r/seduction29/11/21 02:06 PM
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If you take out the sentence "a woman requires your seed to procreate" then the paragraph kinda makes sense though. I'm a 26 year old on a seduction forum, I didn't write this for a master's degrees thesis. I jotted it down and submitted it from the top of my head
/r/seduction29/11/21 02:03 PM
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Dude I said what I said and I apologized. Get the fk over it. I told you I meant it more in an evolutionary sense. A caveman can hunt and fend for a single child but a cave woman would have a much harder time
/r/seduction29/11/21 01:59 PM
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👑👑 fly high King
/r/seduction28/11/21 07:38 PM
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It was more for the sake of the post and it was geared toward younger single men. I meant it more on a biological/evolutionary level, not so much a modern one. Didn't mean any disrespect towards single moms. And you're right, all babies need a sperm and an egg
/r/seduction28/11/21 06:05 PM
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It's nothing special. If you like huge rats and being bribed by homeless people then it's the place to be
/r/seduction28/11/21 08:53 AM
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Spot on dude. As for the micro level shit I think it comes down to how our genes react. The game is the game. It's played how we play it. It's played how it plays us. "Inherent" Nice reply dude. I'm from NYC. Whereabouts do you roam
/r/seduction28/11/21 08:22 AM
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Hey. Lol. What city are you from
/r/seduction28/11/21 07:34 AM
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College girls are retarded dude good luck
/r/seduction26/08/21 02:24 AM
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It's not really that I live in fear of being disrespected, I just feel that I can't tell whether a girl is shit testing me or not. I think the issue is that I can't accurately diagnose whether she's doing a shit test or just rejecting me.
/r/seduction25/08/21 01:52 AM
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Ok, so how do I deal with them?
/r/seduction25/08/21 01:04 AM
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PROUD. Good job dude.
/r/seduction17/08/21 08:23 PM
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I'd rather not spend $2,000 a month in NYC for a 6x6 room although I do have friends who let me pull to their places, and a lot of girls I talk to have their own place
/r/seduction29/07/21 04:57 PM
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No I do not right now
/r/seduction28/07/21 03:42 PM
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Funny you mention that because I have actually felt vibes of uncomfort and it's typically because I go for the pull too early... Maybe I should back off and take it slower. I'm definitely a personable person but I get a little impatient and jump the gun quickly.
/r/seduction28/07/21 03:09 AM
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Like a hotel? I mean I've offered hotels to all four of these women
/r/seduction28/07/21 02:50 AM
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Oh I see what you mean. Well I mean, I'm not doing anything weird or repulsive lol I'm very gentle and I only escalate when they reciprocate. First one was a make out on the street. Girl took an Uber home. Second was a make out in a bar. Third was a pull into a hotel, both of us on the bed making out, she didn't tell her friend to leave the room to give us privacy and then ended up telling me to go home. Third was today, 8 hour date and we were in a car making out, feeling eachother up, and she …
/r/seduction28/07/21 02:46 AM
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My technique is typically just to "get to know the girl" by building rapport and then escalating from there physically. I'm a pretty funny guy and I'm intellectual and calm so I don't find it hard to catch interest. But I find myself trying to break down walls with a plastic spoon once I get to the point of LMR. Literally I've been pants down with these chicks and they always seem to back off..
/r/seduction28/07/21 02:37 AM
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I don't think you have to make an decision at all. Just go with the flow and see what happens. There's no harm in reaching out and there's also no harm in not reaching out. In my personal opinion, it just sounds like any normal dating scenario. I am a guy and I used to say the same thing to dates because I just wasn't ready to put my emotions on the line. It could be the same for her. There is no real way to tell. And there is no sense in thinking more about it. Do nothing, or do something... yo…
/r/seduction05/06/21 04:27 PM
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Facts
/r/seduction05/12/20 01:09 AM
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Sure, why not?
/r/seduction25/10/20 03:03 AM
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Humans in general (not just women) will say they want one thing and be wrong about it. You can either ask them or try to escalate things and see how receptive they are. Or both. Lol
/r/seduction22/10/20 06:15 PM
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