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MALE DEPRAVITYsanguine_duality/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 06:20 AM
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I’ve seen a lot of new posts about energies, many “feminine energy” sites push for this. “The man leads”, “taking iniciative is masculine” “a woman has to REST in her femininity while her man takes care of everything”. I find weird how many women want to live like they did years ago, when they had no rights, and if a man feels I’m “mAscUliNe” because I think for myself and am opinionated, then I sure as hell don’t want him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 01:39 PM
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Yes! Alt/goth/ metal scenes are a cesspool of NVM/LVM covering each others tracks. They sleep with anything with a pulse but call women wh o r 3 s in the same breath. Where I live its riddled with abusers, sexual predators and hypocrites. They proudly display their pornsickness to the world and hate on feminism and “women stuff” Lots of women have left the scene for those reasons and they don’t care because “fUck fEmeNaz1s”. Also pickmes flock to them and they also tear each other down and help …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 06:06 PM
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Are all these guys from the same mold? “I tried to escape your energy” wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 05:31 PM
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I feel this so much! Certain FDS posts feel...alienating?. I wish there was a space or level up strategy for lonely women. Women who don’t have lots of quality men available to date (like some here say they do), women who, no matter what they do, don’t get prioritized by their friends or family. How to level up solo and get fulfillment from things besides relationships. I like meeting people, I truly do. But every time I realize I’m the one moving things forward, making plans, caring more. It ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 05:17 PM
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Thank you for this. I used to cling and have a hard time getting over my LV/NV exes because I don’t have a circle of supportive people around. I felt bad because everyone here on FDS always said: we don’t need a man, we HVW have good families , amazing friends and careers. While most of my family is abusive/ dead/ lives far away and I have no good friends. I’ve always been on my own until a man came and I made him my world. My last ex hurt the most because he was also a friend and he actually wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 09:23 PM
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I got dandruff from the stress of being with my LV/NV ex. When we broke up it magically went away. When we got back together not even a day passed and it was back. I also got reocurring yeast infections. I think I was so stressed my immune system suffered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 03:00 PM
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I believe this. In my pickme days I hung out with two men and had sex with one who I found out were rapists after the fact. One was very nice towards me and took me out with him and his friends, we just kissed. But all his friends knew he was a womanizer and they all had “locker room talk” in front of me. The other one (the one I had sex with) was PUSHY from day one, disrespected boundaries, bragged about sleeping with multiple women, was misogynistic and demanded a relationship from day one. (I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 05:05 PM
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Thank you for the kind words 💕 I hope to encounter a HVM. But if it doesn’t happen it will be okay. I will try to be more social once this pandemic ends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 04:59 AM
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I feel so lonely. I’ve always had a hard time socializing and making friends. That’s why I made lvm and nvm my world. Because at least they wanted to hang out and be with me (in the honeymoon stage). I’ve been single two years and all my friends are emotionally unavailiable and they never want to see me or put interest in me. I’m tired of always being the interested part, even in friendships. I have no men interested in me, the ones that were are LVM or fuckbois. I don’t get how other women have…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 01:27 AM
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What if this isn’t true for you because you’re really lonely? I’m an introvert and all my life I’ve faced rejection and loneliness, even since I was a child. That’s why I clung so badly to LVM/NVM. I miss my ex constantly because he is the only one that wanted to see me (in the honeymoon phase of course). Im not a bad person, I’m on therapy and people regularly come to me for advice/ to vent/ for a listening ear. But that’s it. Im not settling for a bad partner, but facing a lifetime of even mor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 12:38 AM
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Thank you! I’ve been single for more than two years after having boyfriends since 15. All LVM and NVM, and I constantly feel like there’s something wrong with me because I haven’t found someone after my last relationship. I’m in my mid twenties and I feel so much envy that everyone breaks up and finds a boyfriend two months later, other women having fun with their SO in the middle of a global pandemic. Thank you. Ive always had trouble socializing and making friends, let alone finding a decent b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 05:41 PM
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Same :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 09:11 PM
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Yes. I’ve been single two years and I crave intimacy so much. I feel so lonely, the pandemic and being surrounded by couples doesn’t help. I’ve always had a hard time attracting men, now it’s even harder because of fds standards and radical feminism. I literally have no prospects. But I fight the pickmesha thoughts to avoid chasing men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 05:08 PM
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I just realized that I spent all of my teen years and half of my early twenties chasing men and validation instead of discovering myself and building my future. Was it worth it? No. Every single one of those men were unavailable at best and abusive at worst and none of them are on my life right now. Not worth it at all. If I had spent all the energy I spent on men on myself and in building good friendships with other women, I’ll be in a completely different place right now. I’m glad I saw the li…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 04:11 PM
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What if the new woman (Idk if they’re official yet) posts about him (poems about him, gifts he gave her, post pics with him) and he barely posts her? They went on a trip and she posted lots of pictures, even pics of him solo, and he posted one picture of the both of them? He does something that has women seeing him as the prize, I know me and his ex did. The new girl actually tried to talk to me and become my friend, but I found out she has something with my ex and I blocked her. It makes me ang…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 04:55 PM
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What if the new woman (Idk if they’re official yet) posts about him (poems about him, gifts he gave her, post pics with him) and he barely posts her? They went on a trip and she posted lots of pictures, even pics of him solo, and he posted one picture of the both of them? He does something that has women seeing him as the prize, I know me and his ex did. The new girl actually tried to talk to me and become my friend, but I found out she had something with my ex and I blocked her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 04:51 PM
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I found out an ex watched mother-son p0r N 🤢. We were in highschool
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 05:51 AM
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Same. I was starting to think something was wrong with me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 02:24 AM
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This is spot on and something my cheating ex did with me and his partners. Could you recommend some books or resources on this please?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 09:39 PM
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Of course I keep score. I don’t want to keep being someone’s unpaid therapist (doormat). I’m not needy or transactional for demanding the respect that I deserve and mantaining my boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 10:33 PM
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How is mindy a pickme?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 04:17 PM
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I’ve never encountered a HVM, and I’ve been dating since I was 15. I’ve been taking a long break from dating and romantic relationships, but I’ve always found hard to get a boyfriend, even LVM ones. I’m not ugly or mean. People tend to come for me for advice and venting but that’s it. The men I like never like me back. So it makes sense to me to become a WGTOW. I won’t settle for mediocre friendships who just want to take from me, or predatory men (which are the only ones interested). It’s great…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 10:59 PM
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Thank you. I’m glad you’re living a fulfilling life with yourself and your furbbabies. The financial independence part is a tricky goal for me because it might take me longer than others. (I’m aiming for a career change since I don’t like my major.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 10:56 PM
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What do you do in your spare time? I’m close to mid twenties and I’m coming to terms to being alone forever. I’ve been single for almost two years. All my friends from college have distanced themselves and have boyfriends, some of them are living together with their boyfriends. I have hobbies and I’m considering a career change. I’m lonely 85% of the time. It’s just hard realizing that my dream about living with a SO and having a solid group of friends is an unattainable fantasy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 07:47 PM
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Thank you. Thank you. Seriously. I used to only care about romantic relationships. Then, once I got burned for the 100th time, I turned my focus on friendship. I realized that my friendships weren’t more fulfilling than my relationships/ situationships with LVM/NVM. Most of my family of origin is abusive or neglectful. During this pandemic I’ve come to terms with my perpetual loneliness and I’m quite of okay. But I wonder what will happen when my few semi okay family members die. No boyfriend, n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 07:37 PM
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This. I’ve always wanted boyfriends because I’ve been alone since childhood. Always the weird, rejected person. I wanted a friend group like people in media seem to have. But I never found it. The times when I had a boyfriend I would cling to him because he seemed to be the only one that saw me and actually wanted to spend time with me (for the honeymoon phase at least). I can’t relate to the girl in the image that has multiple healthy and fulfilling relationships. That isn’t the case at all for…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 07:31 PM
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Looking back after escaping that house and those people...every single relationship I’ve ever had, was because I needed an escape. Not a boyfriend. At the time I thought I was “in love”. They all ended badly tho, and now, after almost 2 years single and celibate, I don’t feel ready for a relationship at all. I don’t see the point, I want someone who adores me and cherishes me but that is so rare and, the truth is, idk what I could even do for them since I feel so broken.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 07:23 PM
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What if they haven’t reached out at all but they try to look like you, post that they miss you along with a pic of you and date someone that looks like you ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 04:51 PM
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You can’t generalize like this. Not all affair partners are ugly and evil people. Maybe they are naive and inexperienced, maybe they come from trauma or have really really low self esteem because they’ve had a shifty life. Maybe they don’t know better. It just hurts me reading women getting described this way. When I was younger, I was a cheating partner many times. Until I got therapy and became a feminist and got burned enough. Women can change with help and information. Often the LVM were old…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 02:31 AM
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My ex told me he used to be in relationships with girls he didn’t even like. I truly couldn’t get it, why would you be with someone you can’t stand? I thought he was lying to make me feel better (I’m different! He likes me! 🤦🏻‍♀️). But now I realize he might have actually been telling the truth for once lol. Of course in one of our fights he told me that he had been trying to push me away for all the relationship because he didn’t like me either. He did all of what this post says: cry like a bab…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 04:36 PM
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Same. I spend my free time drawing or hang out with my mom. As an almost mid 20’s woman, I feel like a loser. My friends are moving in with their boyfriends or spend time with other friends (even prior to the pandemic) I’m used to doing everything alone: going to concerts, going for coffee. I used to go out with men and desperately wanted a boyfriend to actually have someone to hang out with and someone that wants to be with me. (Later even the LVM didn’t want to hang out with me. Please tell me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 05:00 PM
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I love that book, I read it when I was very young and it broke my heart. It still does, every time I read it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 03:05 PM
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Same! Even by family and friends
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 08:13 PM
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Unlike those women who are super bossy, I can change a tire. #girlboss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 05:27 PM
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My ex stole a bedsheet from when he was on the hospital (it had the hospital logo all over it). He told me he did it because it was a shroud. (My ex was a goth). Another guy I hanged out with when I was a pick me told me he hadn’t changed his sheets (after I had stayed over). Another ex slept on a bare mattress with just a sheet to cover himself. Ew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 05:14 PM
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Jesus, I really be wanting to date again and then come here and see this. Divine timing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 05:06 PM
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Im constantly told I’m intimidating (idk why tho) and, recently, that it seems that “for a man to approach me he must be great” (or something like that and the only men who approach me directly are mostly LVM/NVM fuckbois or men with narcissistic traits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 07:07 PM
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23 :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 10:53 PM
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They think they’re the prize
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 01:11 PM
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And yet so many men don’t even do it. It’s sad how this is considered HV
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 07:37 PM
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I hate that this is considered outstanding and amazing. It should be the norm tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 12:48 PM
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Someone’s downvoting my comments lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 02:43 AM
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Hmm I mean I have like two guys who used to be interested in me but I was never sure about them, one is definitely LV and the other was really nice, a man had never treated me better (but he honestly did the bare minimum lol). But now after a year he’s dating someone during the pandemic 🙄 and he has tried to text me a couple of times so I’m sure he‘d not HV at all. So yeah. No HVM for me :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 01:32 PM
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I have a different look and personality and I’m an introvert. So I guess that explains it. Idk, ever since being a pickme I had trouble with being liked (that’s why I was a pickme lol) in working on it on therapy but I really thought some of the ladies here were “fighting men off”. Normally I don’t let it get to me but sometimes I feel lonely (specially during the pandemic).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 01:29 PM
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This feels so much better. I try to not get sad about it but even when I was a pickme I had a hard time dating. People always say I look “imposing” and “intimidating”. When I got approached it was mostly for my looks or men stopped being interested after knowing me. (They turned out to be LV anyway).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 01:28 PM
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Oh, I get it now. Im not doing old. I think it’s selfish and irresponsible to date during a pandemic lol. And I hardly find men attractive where I live.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 01:25 PM
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Am I the only lady here who genuinely finds hard to find guys interested in her? :/ I’m not ugly so I don’t get it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 09:55 PM
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I was waiting for someone to mention this show on this sub. It’s so illustrative of the importance of vetting and leaving after the first red flag. And NEVER BUILD A MAN. Seriously everyday I’m more and more convinced of being single forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 04:05 PM
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Same. My ex ended up sobbing about “being stupid and ruining good things for himself” and then ended up running into traffic. He said he closed his eyes “to end it all”. Guess what? I went from being pissed and demanding answers about the cheating to telling him I loved him and walking him to a therapist office (which he never entered anyways). I should’ve dumped him right there. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 12:13 AM
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Same! As a poster above said: “what’s your problem?” Or just ignoring me and leaving the room. Maybe that’s why so many of us saw LV and NV communication as normal and expected.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 12:11 AM
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Im early 20s. I’ve told my mom the same thing and she replies with “there are still good ones”. Where???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 05:02 PM
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The depravity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 04:55 PM
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Exactly, lots of women like stereotypical male hobbies and interests. It’s not that hard to find a girl that loves shooter/ horror games and lifts heavy at the gym. I’ve seen lots of them. I know lots of party women too. But if she lifts heavier than them, they get insecure and neg her. If she likes videogames, they gatekeep and call her a poser and if she drinks, that’s not “wife material” and “she doesn’t respect herself”. I bet they just want a woman who will mold herself for the particular b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 05:50 PM
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-Gave him a shoulder massage in public -Waited for him at the hospital to get out of surgery with his (toxic) family and went walking home alone at night (he dumped me like a month later). -Still went to visit him (while all of his friends were gone and he told me I’ve always been there for him). - Same man as above, I had sex with him because he got mad because I was tired because “we didn’t have sex and he spent 5 dollars in the hotel room we were”. He made me feel guilty (he was starting his …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 04:21 PM
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We we should start to refer to them as males
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 04:11 PM
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I’m not sure I agree with this. I’ve only dated LVM and NVM and NVM we’re way better by far. Maybe I got the rare breed that cared about my pleasure but assuming good in bed= HV is dangerous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 01:43 PM
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It’s misogyny, in some places fathers take their sons or even pay prostitutes for them to have their first time. 🤮 My LV/NV ex told me his father offered to do that when he was a teen but that “he didn’t do it because it was gross” who knows ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 01:25 PM
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Why? I’m not from the US so I don’t get what’s so special about him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 09:33 PM
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Ew. Hello, Spanish speaker here too. A lvm who used me for sex constantly asked me out during this pandemic, I never agreed. Yesterday he wrote to me to tell me his cousin has COVID. They don’t give a damn about their health, let alone other people’s health.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 03:47 PM
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Thank you. I am. I think at this point, my faith on men is almost completely destroyed (I’m glad). I think all my relationships have been with LV and NV men. I’d rather be alone than settle again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 06:38 PM
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After another bad relationship I went out with a LVM and a NVM. The first one played with my feelings because “he is not ready for a relationship”. The last one ended up spying me in the bathroom to intimidate me and calling me 3 months later. (He dumped me on a rage and was mad that I didn’t beg). I’ve been celibate since then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 03:03 PM
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He did what??! When??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 05:48 PM
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I wish I could eat like that and have that body lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 05:48 PM
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Say what you want about the kardashians, but they’re successful, attractive and could do anything they wanted. And be with ANYONE. I don’t get why they keep choosing less successful, ugly NVM to be with and have children with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 05:43 PM
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“eMpOwErIng” 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 05:02 PM
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Find a passion! I’m a loner and former pickmeisha who’s had a hard time with dating and socializing. I also come from an abusive background and I’ve been in therapy for years. I’m not fully healed yet, but my self worth and self love increased tremendously when I found hobbies and dedicated time to them. I built consistency with myself, slowly and over a period of time. Seeing the results of my work is very gratifying for me and helped me to “see my value” a bit more. Learn something new everyda…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 01:55 PM
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While is good that you feel this way towards someone, this isn’t the right mentality. “Men act right for the right person” is a myth. This places responsibility in women for men’s actions and promotes the toxic mentality that “he’s just not that into you” (something that contributes to low self worth in women). A HVM would treat everyone with decency and kindness and treat the person he chooses to date with respect and honesty. If “he doesn’t feel that way”, he would end things respectfully with…
/r/askFDS13/07/20 09:43 PM
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All this time people have told me that I’m “demanding” and “I expect too much from other people”. Apparently wanting common courtesy, reciprocal emotional labour, respect and on time responses are too much to ask. (I get it, people are busy, but we make time for what we value, if you take more than a day to reply, don’t expect me to still be interested, specially if you weren’t like this in the beginning). I’m not just talking about men. I have this issue with family, friendships and acquaintanc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 02:07 PM
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I love this show lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 01:57 PM
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Whats the name of this show? Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 03:50 AM
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So what if we’re unattractive? Unattractive men think they deserve a mommy bangmaid just for existing. And that women should chase men and fuck them even if they treat them like trash. God forbid “unattractive” women want to date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 04:51 PM
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My family
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 05:00 PM
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are you me? Creepy goth guy who had a kid at 19, cheater, pathological bum who posts pictures of his ex with sad captions almost 2 years after the break up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 09:30 PM
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Thank you so much. I’m worried because this seems inconsistent with his past behaviors. All the time I knew him he showed indifference or apathy/ disdain towards his exes. He “hated” social media and cellphones and after we broke up, he started posting a lot and he now has more than 2000 friends (mostly women from other places, one of them even commented the picture saying that “he looks amazing”). I forgot to add he also dyed his hair like mine, the exact place and color (it’s a distinctive loo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 05:42 PM
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Those are pictures I sent to him when we were dating. It’s really hard to get justice around here and they won’t take me seriously since he hasn’t contacted me at all and those are pictures of my face :/ plus with the corona situation. I hope he stops.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 05:16 PM
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Ladies. I would like your opinion and advice. My ex is posting PICTURES OF MY FACE on his profile. For more context: Back when I was a pickme I dated the “love of my life”. An lvm who had a kid at 19 and was a disaster. Typical bad boy. I grew to love him because he treated me well at the beginning, even though we started through cheating (I apologized and made amends with his ex and now we’re on good terms). In the end, after almost two years he asked for a break because our relationship was co…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 04:23 PM
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My ex nvm who I took back after “a break” and then ignored me until I dumped him, just started posting pictures of me on his fb and saying he misses me (almost two years later). I shouldn’t have been lurking, but I reported the pictures. I don’t get it. He was done with the relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 08:35 PM
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Grew up with abusive family so I had no self esteem, no social skills aside from people pleasing, no self love and no self respect. That guy was like my savior in my eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 04:02 PM
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It’s been almost two years and I sometimes I still check his profile. Ive cut off many men for being overtly or covertly sexist or anti feminist and I feel so lonely. All my friends have boyfriends and I worry I’ll never have sex again. I come here and read the posts daily and I try to accept that I may never find a HVM. Sometimes I’m okay with that but sometimes I don’t. I hate that I’m so wired for male validation that if a man is nice to me I get the thought of “maybe he could be the one”. I’…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 04:50 PM
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They always use the fight excuse. I knew a lvm who would attempt to fool his gf because she saw hickeys on his neck. hE gOt iNtO a fIgHt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 09:12 PM
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I’ve been here since November and I feel the same. I’ve had more peace and stability being alone and reading FDS than chasing men and being in a relationship with a LVM. The system is rigged against us, even with therapy and self development, the one element that keeps us stuck, suffering and broken is chasing male validation. Im thankful for FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 07:36 PM
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I know some 30 year olds like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 03:01 PM
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I hate that this is so universal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 02:28 PM
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A guy I dated when I was a pickme, sexually harassed me. He spied me when I was about to pee, so, when someone was “tAlKinG tO hIm” instead of calling the cops, the scrote said: we can’t even do anything anymore, because of these femin zi wh res”. So, they do think like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 04:17 PM
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This is so eye opening and so true. It’s because men hate women. Society hates women. It’s misogyny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 03:56 PM
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“The gatekeepers of birth.” This sounds powerful. I’ll start saying this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 05:40 PM
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Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 05:29 PM
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I have noticed the dead eyes too! What do you think it means? Or what causes it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 12:07 AM
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I can’t wait to move out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 05:39 PM
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Thank you. I always felt bad due to the “he’s not that into you” narrative. It made me feel like if I was good enough, he would fall in love with me and “change”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 04:24 PM
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Cringe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 03:50 PM
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Same! Ahhh I love this community
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 01:59 PM
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Thank you so much! I constantly felt bad and lonely because no one wanted to be with me, and now with my FDS mindset even less. I thought I might be doing something wrong. Thank you so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 04:09 AM
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I wanna know too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 04:03 AM
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This perpetuates the toxic idea that “meeting the right woman” can change a man. LV is LV, it doesn’t matter if you’re a queen or a pickmeisha. HV man will be respectful of and kind with everybody, regardless if he’s interested in them or not. LVM will pretend for a while but they will always come back to their bad behavior.
/r/askFDS28/04/20 09:03 PM
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When I was a “not like the other girls” girl back in high school and middle school it was also because the girls I saw as “normal” and “desirable” constantly bullied me, the alternative chubby girl who no one noticed or bullied. I wanted to distance myself from them as much as possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 04:00 PM
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When he never scheduled a third date and then claimed he was busy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 08:41 PM
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Plus a HVM will not leave on read
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 09:04 PM
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Thank you. I needed this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 05:28 PM
2

Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 03:14 AM
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Amber is a huge clown. Have you seen the reunion? Barnettt is trying so hard not to laugh at amber throwing a fit because he loves having women compete for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 11:56 PM
4

I didn’t know there was a difference between a pickmeisha and a lvwoman. What do you think the distinction is?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 11:53 PM
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They seem cute but I don’t get how can they be HV. The premise of the show seems nice and all but isn’t it quite desperate to marry someone you just met?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 06:57 PM
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What do you think about post pods Barnett? He seemed dedicated to amber and only amber. Was he still LV after that ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 06:55 PM
5

Half the time I stare back they kept staring and it’s like an uncomfortable stare contest. They take it as a challenge and it’s scary. Lately I’ve been insulting them, not the best idea but I’m so angry at them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 02:38 PM
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Community dick. Ewwww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 02:04 AM
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I think we might need a plan B sub? Or something? Feminism and empowering women is always met with resistance, specially from males. I don’t doubt they’ll try to sabotage or bring down this sub at one point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 01:48 AM
2

I wanna know too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 03:28 PM
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Sometimes it’s so hard and so lonely because the men I like never like me back. But I remember I’d rather be lonely than be with someone I’m not attracted to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 03:21 AM
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There’s an older woman who’s sad and alone after a divorce and then she meets a younger and attractive man. She starts dating him and tells him about her past, he’s like a dream, making her feel appreciated and courted. Until he proposes. Then he turns into a nightmare. It was likely he was a sociopath. But he showed all HVM behaviour until he locked her down. I think it serves us an example to never fully trust men and to always be careful. Had she followed FDS and not let her guard down becaus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 11:44 PM
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Omg yes! And I’ve sadly seen so many young women and teens saying they want a bf like Joe because he’s obsessed with Beck (and they see it as a man actually caring about you). Like men’s underperformance on everything makes an obsessed guy seem like a dream. 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 11:18 PM
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Didn’t know *
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 07:09 AM
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I didn’t knew the director and yeah the movie was bad lol. But the guy totally appeared HV At first until they got married, then it was terrifying. My post still stands and I wish to know more recommendations. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 07:08 AM
2

Same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 05:03 AM
5

I wanna know too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 10:19 PM
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I can’t 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 04:27 PM
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