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Right. I get that part, but what’s the context of him suggesting one of these former girlfriends who have messaged him to fill that role?
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/25 10:48 AM
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That doesn’t exist. Men who cheat are not selfless husbands and fathers. The situation you’re describing is so far from reality that it’s not even worth discussing. But yes, even given this extremely unrealistic set of circumstances, I’d still leave. All cheating, no matter how “good” he is otherwise, is grounds for divorce.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/25 10:22 AM
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Statistically, cohabitation should not be a prerequisite to marriage. Couples who lived together prior to getting married end up divorcing far more often than those who don’t.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/24 08:56 AM
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I realized that I like having a clean home. It's so much easier to just...live if there's not junk everywhere. And then I realized that my problems with cleaning weren't that I didn't like it, but that all that mess was just overwhelming for me. So I avoid mess piling up by just having my 3 year old help me with straightening the living room and kitchen every day. As an adult, your bedroom shouldn't be getting messy on a daily basis as long as you keep dirty clothes in a laundry basket and bathr…
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/23 02:19 PM
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Honestly, Amazon. I can't tell you the last time I bought clothes anywhere else. I just order everything in two or three sizes and return what doesn't fit since Amazon returns are literally just "drop it of at whole foods" these days. I've been able to really start curating a nice modest wardrobe between that and knitting my own clothes. Editing to add: eshakti is also a good option. They have standard sizes OR you can pay an extra fee to have their dresses custom made to your measurements. They…
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/23 03:24 AM
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Black lipstick is a no-go on femininity for me, unless it's Halloween and then all bets are off. But normally, I stick to pink nudes, brown nudes, and the very occasional classic or deep red.
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/21 09:57 AM
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I guess I'm the odd (wo)man out here. I'm a SAHM and my husband handles the finances. We sit down once a month and build a budget together for the month ahead, but he's in charge of actually making sure bills get paid. This way, I know where we're at in case something comes up and I need to spend a little money but I don't have to take on the burden of keeping up with accounts.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/21 11:03 AM
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Oh no! Don't tell me this. I had my first at 27 and we've been trying for number 2 ever since...I turned 29 today and this has me scared af for my next pregnancy.
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/21 12:37 PM
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My in-laws had a 13 year age gap. They ended up getting divorced (that's a lie, but they've been separated living in different states for 10 years, so basically), but that had nothing to do with the age gap. They were married for 20 years, and raised two kids. My sister-in-law has a great relationship with their dad (he's the older of the two); my husband's isn't as good but that's mostly because he can't be bothered to call his dad all that often. All that being said, it certainly can work, but…
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/21 12:32 PM
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It's a no for me. A man is not high value if he can't contain his sexuality within the bounds of his marriage.
/r/RedPillWives04/08/21 02:43 AM
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To be fair, I'd love a more demanding approach sometimes, but we have a 16 month old so that's not really practical for us right now. I'm sure once he's a little older and more self sufficient, sneaking off when the urge strikes will be back on the table.
/r/RedPillWives19/07/21 09:40 AM
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Sex is pretty much on command in our marriage, but that goes both ways and it's not like either of us is like, "sex. Now. Clothes off." We both sacrifice of ourselves to please the other. Of course if one of us was just really seriously not into it, that would be fine but it hasn't happened in years. It works well for us. I think that's due to 1) it going both ways and 2) pretty similar sex drives, but either way, we're both pretty happy with our sex life currently.
/r/RedPillWives19/07/21 01:28 AM
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And when housewives directly tell them that this is a choice we've made for reasons x, y, and z...I don't get why they won't leave us alone at that point.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/21 11:03 AM
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It's extremely annoying and completely counter to their professed ideology. If the idea is to allow women to live the lives we want, that should include women choosing to be housewives, or stay at home moms and seeking men who can provide that lifestyle just as much as it includes women choosing high powered careers.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/21 05:03 PM
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Just to add, I don't think it's necessary to have a formal "higher" education (i.e. college or university) or a job-specific skill to be interesting or good company. I went to one semester of college and haven't worked a job in years and even when I was working, it was just food service. But I also continue my education on my own, between researching topics I'm interested in online/reading nonfiction on specific topics and reading serious literature in my free time. I also work to cultivate my h…
/r/RedPillWives15/06/21 09:19 AM
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Lol. Most definitely not. Like I said, I've been with my husband for 10 years. It's the same as a female friend of mine from high school. I don't see her often, but when we do it's like picking up right where we left off from the last time we saw each other. I just mean it's an easy, comfortable friendship. Like any other friend you know you can be yourself and have a good time with.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/21 12:52 AM
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Been with my husband 10 years, married for 6. Husband knows about my friendship with my ex and is good with it. They don't see each other often, but get along well when they do. He's really just a good friend at this point.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/21 12:44 AM
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To be clear, I am very close with my ex. It's one of those "don't get together often, but when we do it's like no time has ever passed" relationships. Sorry if that wasn't clear originally. But yeah, you can't be that close and not take some time to get over the loss of the romantic relationship. It just doesn't work that way. One or both of you will end up all depressed. It's not worth it. I'd advise you to insist on at least a few months apart before you jump into trying to be super close frie…
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/21 03:23 PM
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You can't be friends until you both get over your romantic feelings for each other. I'm close with an ex of mine. We were friends before we dated, we dated for about a year in total, it's been over 10 years since we broke up and we're friends now. We don't see each other often (like, once every few years) and we only talk a handful of times a year outside of birthdays and holidays, but I know he's there for anything I need if I ever need. But we definitely didn't talk for a while after we broke …
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/21 03:07 PM
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While there are ways you can increase your likelihood of having an orgasm (there's a ton of great advice here), some women just don't have orgasms and 75% can't climax from penetration alone, and all of that is okay. You're not weird, or somehow wrong and you both need to understand and embrace that. Even just having you both embrace the idea that you may not have an orgasm, and that's okay, and you can still enjoy sex without it may make you more likely to have an orgasm. If you can let go of y…
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/21 03:48 PM
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(I know many ladies who “fake” moan not to boost the guy’s ego or to create a facade, but to turn themselves* on and turn those “fake” moans into real ones). Omg this. I never really noticed that this is exactly what I do, but this is exactly what I do and it works
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/21 03:39 PM
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This, but laundry. You can never just wash all your clothes and put them all away because you've gotta wear something every day.
/r/RedPillWives30/05/21 04:24 PM
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The drives seem like a great idea to get yourself out of the house for a while, and it'll be beneficial for both of you. You can ride with the windows down, get some fresh air, maybe there's a nice scenic overlook you could even sit at for a little bit and just take it all in. And he'll get the alone time it sounds like he so desperately needs.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/21 12:24 PM
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I'll wear loafers, ballet flats, light canvas type sneakers, ankle boots. Despite living in Texas heat, I sort of hate sandals, so I never wear them.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/21 01:27 AM
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Same. I'm in Texas, so the weather is always nice enough for dresses. Midi length and maxis are my favorites. I have a couple shorter ones, but with a 14 month old, they're not something I'm very comfortable wearing all that often. My husband also prefers me more feminine and in mostly dresses.
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/21 10:30 PM
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Eh, I mostly wear dresses and skirts, even for chasing kids, gardening, housework, etc. Having them in different fabrics and styles definitely helps. I've pretty much given up on all types of pants. I'll wear jeans very occasionally, but I never feel like myself in them. All that to say, you can look feminine in pants, but it takes more work and attention to detail to do it. EDIT: I somehow pushed post before I was ready. You should do whatever makes you feel most comfortable and like yourself. …
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/21 08:47 PM
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Yeah, that was my only concern in recommending it since you have a bunch of littles. We've only got one and he's still under two, so it's cheaper for us than going to the grocery store right now.
/r/RedPillWives24/05/21 12:10 PM
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No one mentioned it, so I will. Hello Fresh or some similar service! I just got my first box, and it seems so neat; I can't wait to cook tomorrow! You choose your meals at the beginning of the week, they deliver everything to your house, and then you throw it all together when you're ready to cook. Takes all the work out of planning and shopping.
/r/RedPillWives24/05/21 03:06 AM
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This. I was a housewife long before we had children. I think in addition to the atmosphere and environment a housewife is able to provide, a lot of men like to be the provider and take care of their woman, whether they have kids or not.
/r/RedPillWives20/05/21 02:27 AM
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I only bring it up with people who I know don't have trouble with it. I'm a double miscarriage mom, so I know the struggle Mother's Day can be. I have a 14 month old rainbow baby, and another on the way now, so everyone and their mother thinks they need to say "happy mother's day" to me and I'm a little weirded out by it still. It's a pretty bittersweet day for me, so I'm never sure how to respond.
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/21 10:45 AM
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Thanks so much! I'll look into both.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/21 03:45 PM
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Can someone tell me what FW stands for? I'm also trying to beef up my feminine content consumption also
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/21 01:08 PM
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I second Southern Living. Or maybe Reader's Digest.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/21 08:54 AM
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Also banned from that sub for participating in this sub. 😂
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/21 02:21 PM
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This was my initial thought too
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/21 08:05 PM
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What do you mean by "tell you off?" The connotation I associate with that phrase may be throwing me off, but I'm of the opinion that my husband should never "tell me off." Correct me? Absolutely. Ask/tell me to stop doing something? Sure. But to me "telling [someone] off" implies a certain level of disrespect that I know I don't deserve. We're pretty traditional, but being trad doesn't mean my husband gets to be disrespectful to his wife and the mother of his child.
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/21 04:43 AM
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I got banned from a mom sub (I don't remember which) because I've simply commented here. It's so silly.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/21 06:53 PM
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I believe that God has a plan for each person that He created. That includes whether that person gets married and to who. But I wouldn't use the term "soulmate."
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/20 11:56 AM
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I think it probably depends on the baby. I have a 9 month old and my house is cleaner than it's ever been because I'm so paranoid about him getting into stuff now that he's mobile. But my baby is also super super chill and is happy to have independent play while I clean.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/20 01:22 PM
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Once I decided that I wanted to be home full time, yes.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/20 06:36 PM
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It seems like it's probably preference. I fully agree with you though. When I was dating, my goal was the become a housewife/SAHM, so I always expected men to cover expenses because if they're unwilling to even cover the much smaller expenses of dates, how are they ever going to be okay with supporting a family without financial assistance from their wife? I've had lots of people say I'm a gold digger for holding that standard, but who cares what someone else thinks? If a man calls you a gold di…
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/20 01:56 PM
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For me, submission means that my husband makes the decisions. I expect him to seek my opinion and consider my input, but at the end of the day, it's his decision and I have to respect that even if I'm not in love with the outcome
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/20 12:08 PM
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I think "support women for their life choices" is what true feminism was originally, but it's been turned into something else entirely the last 20ish years, at least in the eyes of most self-proclaimed feminists in my generation (millennials). Feminism has become a club used to beat over the heads of people who don't agree with certain concepts of left-wing ideology or who prefer to live according to "traditional" gender roles. It's sad really, because feminism in the 19th and early 20th centuri…
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/20 11:02 AM
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You're very welcome. I promise that unnatural feeling wears off, and it becomes very normal and easy. Like any adjustment in life. Good luck, lady and enjoy your more traditional life!
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/20 02:14 PM
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As someone who at one point could have been described as "very feminist," when I first noticed myself drifting from feminism and becoming more traditional, it felt a little weird. My mom also went through a period of single motherhood before she remarried and fed me the same line about never depending on a man and being able to take care of myself (while being a SAHM herself, go figure). I've also had my fair share of people on the internet attacking me for choosing to live according to traditio…
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/20 11:32 AM
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I'm very confused as to what you think that "something to it" might be.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/20 10:26 AM
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A lot of older guys exclusively date young women because they seek out control or because women their age won’t put up with their behavior. This is what I came here to say. Actively seeking a much older man specifically and putting it out there that that's what you're looking for would likely draw out some creeps and abusers; not the kind of situation anyone wants to get themselves into.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/20 10:44 AM
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I came here to say this, but I knew in my heart it had already been said. I think it might be r/abrathatfits though. I can never remember which subs are acronyms and which aren't. Either way, ABTF is amazing! Everyone is super helpful and friendly and finding your true size and learning about what bras best compliment your size and shape can absolutely improve your confidence as well as you comfort level. I was wearing a bra more than 5 cup sizes too small and the difference in my ABTF size vs m…
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/20 01:33 AM
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Conservative churches. Very conservative churches. For reference, I'm a confessional Lutheran, and almost all the moms at my church homeschool, so I'd think it would be more likely to meet such a woman at a church similar to mine
/r/RPChristians09/09/20 01:25 AM
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We'll bury it. But I do have a question. It's literally fucked up to tell your wife "more clothes is more mistery" and somewhere deep inside, you know that. How is this fucked up? I see it as a man who has a preference for modesty and prefers his wife present herself as such, even if it's just at home.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/20 01:09 PM
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Sure, you didn't even know about it, but it made your life hell Um, yeah? You don't have to know the cause of an issue to recognize that there is an issue. Our sex life sucked. I could recognize that. That doesn't mean I always knew why. My bad, you sound like a lovely gal, that is very satisfied. Honest mistake. Not sure why I ever though you're trapped in a relationship void of desire and passion. Yeah, dude. Your bad. We had issues in the past, that doesn't mean the issues still exist Oh, com…
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/20 12:41 PM
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I just love how you think you know me, my husband, and our life. Drop the "we did" attitude first - he did it for you, and you know it. You MADE him do it. Two things: 1) I didn't make him do anything. I didn't even know he watched porn, and if he did, I didn't care. He came to me and told me he felt he had a problem and wanted to quit. 2) Getting him over it was absolutely a joint effort. Not only that, but I had a lot of hurt over it that I also had to get over as well. We both had to heal. ..…
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/20 10:40 AM
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Deleted my comment because I dropped my phone and in the process of catching it, I accidentally hit 0 and then 'post.' My b. How would you suggest I go about helping my husband fix ED and lack of interest in sex brought on by excessive porn use other than by restricting porn use? This is an arrangement we equally agreed on. It's not like I'm forcing him to not watch porn.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/20 05:02 PM
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And that's what these women that hate on men getting themselves off without them want - control over their men. I have absolutely no desire to control my husband. I want my husband to be interested in sex with me and porn gets in the way of that. The man had ED and almost no sex drive at 25 because of porn. I'm sorry that I want my husband to want me and not be so disconnected that he can't even stay hard and present in the moment. Also, men can totally get themselves off without porn. No one is…
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/20 12:50 PM
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There's no porn in our marriage whatsoever. I used to not care, but my husband's use of porn was addictive in nature and severely impacted our actual sex life, so we agreed on no more porn. It really takes a lot of uncertainty out of relationships, I think.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/20 01:58 PM
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Wholeheartedly agree. I hate the way full coverage tops make me look like I'm about to split a seam. Scoopneck and boatneck are my favorites.
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/20 08:48 PM
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For me, it's hard to completely cover cleavage. I'm pretty large chested, and also hate necklines that hit close to my neck (they make me feel claustrophobic), so I oftentimes have a tiny bit of cleavage going on. Just the very tops of my breasts visible. I usually pair it with a midi or maxi skirt/dress or jeans/full length pants to balance it.
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/20 02:10 PM
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Same. I watch Ben daily. I pay for a whole entire Daily Wire subscription, for crying out loud. I was also watching Abby regularly for months before I realized she was his sister. Now I'm kicking myself because they look so much alike. How did I not know? I'm dumb I guess.
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/20 01:14 PM
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I really like her actually. But I've been watching her brother for years, so no surprise there.
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/20 01:11 PM
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