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honestly the reasons guys are worried about ur # shows ur self respect & integrity & if ur trustworthy or not - when a guy asks you do not need to straight up say 5 & someone having a lower # than u doesn’t make them more valuable than u - a girl could be 30 & have a body count of 8 but they were all long term relationships & i would say that is more virtuous than a 19 year old with 4 that were one night stands or friends with benefits.., you don’t need to feel bad but you need to figure out wha…
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/24 01:48 AM
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thank you for caring. haha. she just asks me how i feel & i feel frustrated he says all these things that he loves me and he acts like it for a week and then starts acting like he doesn’t care about me at all - then apologizes & i feel mad at myself for still caring.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/23 04:05 AM
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i did both those things. but i’m struggling so much emotionally. are there any good books to read on this? how can i build back my self respect? i feel so worthless i let him treat me like that (& that i still love him now)
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/23 03:27 AM
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i agree, but he says other guys would look at him as weak if i’m coming across like i want attention from other guys
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/23 03:43 PM
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like he says i touch my hair a lot other guys, or my posture changes like i’m not wanting them to notice me & find me attractive & he says that makes him look weak as a man. i’m not thinking oh i want to touch my hair right now so some guy will notice me! i touch my hair when other guys aren’t around but he’s noticed it esp when there other guys. maybe i am wanting guys in general to find me attractive, but i don’t know if that’s wrong or natural, maybe i feel like there is a little power imbala…
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/23 03:41 PM
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I agree. It’s also the level of respect you have for the man when he is vulnerable. Are you just starting to date & you don’t know if you like him & he starts crying & makes you feel like you have to handle all his emotions & make him feel better when all you wanted was lunch. Or do you really like him & wish he would open up to you & he reveals something about himself in a unneedy way & you feel lucky you’re the one who he told this too.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/19 03:20 AM
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I think it is feminine to accept what your man offers. If he offers you a purse or a fancy dinner, you should accept & let him lead. If she is asking for those things & trying to make him give them to her, then she is using him & can not be respecting him & therefor not happy. It sounds like you are wanting your man to give more to you. You should add value because your man is adding value to your life. How low would you feel if you could not add value to a mans life? & why are you judging what …
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/19 03:06 AM
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Yes I love this. I feel like I was much more assertive & aggressive before the red pill & then once I learned it I became more feminine & submissive & had trouble learning the balance of being girly & trusting & respectful & standing up for myself & not caring what they thought about me. But the 2 aren’t in opposition. When we try to not make the guy uncomfortable with how we are feeling, we are unintentionally saying “your comfort is more important & valuable than who I am & what I stand for.” …
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/19 02:37 AM
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Why are we putting men on the pedestal? As red pill we are agreeing that we try to get the most high value guy because we are trying to date up. It’s in our nature. On red pill men all they talk about is strategy. How to bed the most women. This is a strategy. Thank you. Why are we trying to put another woman down for thinking of her benefits of this strategy. Isn’t that what we are saying is in our nature? To be with the best man (where we get the most benefits?)
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/19 06:18 AM
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