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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Meaningful relationships from cold approaching?Yes and do it a lot | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 03:41 AM |
| 3 | Meaningful relationships from cold approaching?Can confirm that it's possible. I'm 23, Asian and 5'9" and have had 3 girlfriends from daygame, one of which is my current gf and the hottest I've ever dated. Daygame is hands down the best way to meet women, but it isn't for the faint of heart and not everyone can do it and find success before giving up. | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 01:52 AM |
| 8 | If a woman takes a long ass time to answer a text like the entire day should I wait a long ass time also?Wait twice as long to text | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 11:40 PM |
| 5 | Fear of developing reputation while daygaming at mall?Nothing wrong with gaming at the mall. I've laid 3 chicks from my local mall. One of them is my current gf, who I actually quit game for. some of my experiences are detailed on my pickup blog at cypher.game.blog So as long as you don't push past the rejection, there's nothing wrong with it and it's a great way/place to meet girls. | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 08:59 PM |
| 5 | Speaking as a woman - Don’t forget you’re always coming off as horny.People don't come to this sub to be told to "be aloof." I don't see any actually actionable steps or techniques in this post. Useless. | /r/seduction | 13/04/21 01:49 AM |
| 3 | People say “it’s just a numbers game when approaching women.” is that true????Completely agree. Pickup is at the intersection of skills, experience, and most importantly, volume. I've seen this same argument of PUAism vs natural game/skill many many times before, and I've come to the conclusion that people who don't believe in the necessity of high volume just don't have the hunger to do it. Most men are stuck in a fantasy world in which they can just dedicate enough time to studying game to the point where they are invincible sex gods, and for the most part are brainwash… | /r/seduction | 29/03/20 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Pickup Isn't PrettyYou made some valid points and I can see that your changes worked for you. I think at the end of the day, we should all do what works best for us, and that differs from person to person. For me, pickup has allowed me to get laid consistently so I will keep doing it. Admittedly, yes, one of the side effects of pickup is an inflated ego and immense stubbornness-- opinions of people against pickup don't matter to us. Once we've seen the results, why would we even consider another method? It is prob… | /r/seduction | 22/03/20 02:34 AM |
| 2 | Pickup Isn't PrettyAfter 17 years in the game, I just boiled it down to signal reading, playing out my natural character and intuition, sounds easy but is actually a long road. Ideally you have solid game and high volume. | /r/seduction | 21/03/20 03:29 AM |
| 2 | Pickup Isn't PrettyYou lead her, and by doing so test for compliance. If she isn't compliant, you go back to building interest and comfort and try to lead her again. | /r/seduction | 20/03/20 09:14 PM |
| 0 | Pickup Isn't PrettyExactly what I was getting at. | /r/seduction | 20/03/20 05:57 PM |
| 0 | Greatest tip you will ever hear.This is better than 99% of all the other shit out there lol | /r/seduction | 10/03/20 09:12 PM |
| 1 | LAY REPORT: JAPANESE EXCHANGE STUDENTYeah I basically only messaged for logistics. | /r/seduction | 10/03/20 04:24 AM |
| 3 | LAY REPORT: JAPANESE EXCHANGE STUDENTMisconception. Every girl is an individual and may behave differently from her cultural sterotypes. That's part of the excitement of game. Also, Japanese tend to be the most sexually liberated among Asian cultures, from what I've heard. | /r/seduction | 10/03/20 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Understanding Random DistributionsThis 👌👌 | /r/seduction | 06/03/20 12:58 AM |
| 2 | Understanding Random DistributionsValid point, and this is really solid advice for beginner to intermediate daygamers. However, my point with this article is that even with the best game you will ever achieve, there will still be randomness. Nobody will ever reach a point at which their game will work with even a high percentage of their sets. I'm a firm believer that after a few years of perfecting your game to an asymptotic level, the only actual thing you can control after that is your volume of approaches, and understanding … | /r/seduction | 05/03/20 08:51 PM |
| -1 | Corona virus game?"Hey babe, you the finest thing. I'd still hit if you had COVID-19." | /r/seduction | 02/03/20 04:48 PM |
| 3 | Spin kiss, lately my favourite kiss close.Have tried this, can confirm it works. | /r/seduction | 10/02/20 11:22 PM |
| 6 | That's it, I'm becoming gay.If you let her leave your sight theres a 99% chance youll never see her again. | /r/seduction | 07/02/20 08:52 PM |
| 7 | What is the best thing to ask for after a cold approach (snap, phone #, IG) ?I either get the number, or number and insta. Never just insta because 99% of the time she's baiting you to get a follow with no intention of talking to you. If she refuses the number you have to be OK with walking away. | /r/seduction | 07/02/20 08:49 PM |
| 2 | What the hell do you talk about with a complete stranger if you don't immediately know of something you have in common?Cold read. Make insights about her, not observations. Probably one of the most important skills to master in cold approach. | /r/seduction | 06/02/20 12:41 AM |
| 2 | How (or should you) ask before going in for a kiss?Don't ever ask. | /r/seduction | 05/02/20 10:56 PM |
| 2 | 100 approaches in a month - end of the monthI feel like you have too many scenarios where you don't approach. Remember that volume is critical, and if you're not approaching low probability sets and extremely difficult sets then you're missing out. I think that to get really good you have to be ruthless and unapologetic. Maybe give this some thought. | /r/seduction | 03/02/20 06:28 PM |
| 1 | 1 out of 100I'm around 1000 lifetime approaches and can confirm that this is also the case for myself. | /r/seduction | 30/01/20 03:09 AM |
| 7 | What are some Negging examples?Don't do this | /r/seduction | 27/01/20 08:42 PM |
| 2 | What are some Negging examples?I like you, but we're too similar.. we'd never get along. A push-pull neg. | /r/seduction | 27/01/20 08:42 PM |
| 47 | To those of you who went from having zero game to straight up ballers, how’d you do it?Unfortunately pickup is not something you can just study for and get good at. I've been doing it hardcore for 3 years and there is no easy way to learn quickly, you just have to go out with a few fundamentals in mind and execute, and through many many experiences you will learn what works for you. You will learn pickup is 90% a psychological battle against your own limiting beliefs. One thing that helps is having the "shark mentality" where you just believe you're aggressive and the best. Good l… | /r/seduction | 27/01/20 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Important questionI've had two girlfriends from daygame, one if which us my current girlfriend. Im in college and she was the 17th approach I made starting from the beginning of this school year, but I have done many many more approaches than that over my lifetime and have had other successes. To be honest, before those successes I was skeptical that pickup worked, but persisted and found that it does work, for me at least. Daygame pickup is extremely difficult for even the most skilled, and it's something you ca… | /r/seduction | 27/01/20 08:21 PM |
| 1 | DOING PICKUP AT A UNIVERSITYThanks this was helpful. I'm going god mode at uni right now and this makes a lot of sense. | /r/seduction | 28/08/19 03:32 PM |
| 3 | Going for my first approach in about an hour🙏🙏🙏best wishes for you my man | /r/seduction | 12/04/19 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Day gaming in CollegeI'm trying to do this too. Just YOLO | /r/seduction | 05/03/19 12:30 AM |
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