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sash_northpointe/r/askMRP22/11/19 09:34 AM
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Basic Questionsash_northpointe/r/askMRP19/05/19 11:47 PM
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Basic Questionsash_northpointe/r/askMRP18/07/19 09:57 AM
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Victim Pukesash_northpointe/r/askMRP16/05/19 09:52 AM
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Thanks man, I’ll work on that. Appreciate it.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/20 07:55 PM
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Thanks man, appreciate it. I understand what you mean about it looking butthurt and weak. I don’t want to take those steps backwards as one key improvement I’ve made is not being butthurt when being rejected after initiating. I’ve also worked on destroying covert contracts, well, the ones I consciously was putting in place. But you’re right, I’m sure there are ones going that I haven’t even realised are there. I’ll squash them! Thanks man.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/20 05:57 PM
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I didn’t do a very good job at describing this situation, I was definitely the one fucking her. But I see what you mean.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/20 05:51 PM
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True. There have been a couple times in the afternoons recently where we’ve put the tv on for the kids and locked ourselves in the bedroom.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/20 05:46 PM
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OYS #13 but was last done in January. 39 y/o 6'5", 97kg (213lb) , 17.5% Body Fat Married 8 years, together 11 years Lifting: Squat: 100kg, Bench: 90kg, Row 85kg, OHP 60kg, DL 125kg Read: NMMNG x 3, MMSLP, WISNIFG x 2, Rational Male 1-3, TWOTSM, Models, Suble Art of Not Giving a Fuck, Everything is Fucked, Sovereignty, Game, The Unchained Man, How to Be a 3% Man, The Mask of Masculinity, 48 Laws of Power, Saving a Low Sex Marriage. Currently Reading: The Mindful Attraction Plan I fell off from ow…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/20 10:10 AM
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Yes! I'm pumped for this. The last couple of months my lifting has been hindered by multiple injuries, sickness, and laziness. Now that I'm on lockdown for the next few weeks, I've gotten the home gym set back up get back into some sort of routine. Looking forward to this and the rest of Days of Dread.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/20 11:22 PM
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"I understand that you feel that everything I do is just an escalation to sex. Some absolutely are. I love sex. Some are not. I love being loving. But that whole mess about what you think I want is your insecurity. Stop thinking my intentions for me." Thanks for putting that into perspective. Definitely agree it comes from her insecurities. I didn't mention in the original post but she also said that she thinks her low libido comes from past guys in her life using her for sex and growing up in h…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/20 02:09 AM
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Thanks man, I'll be rereading WISNIFG. Have you consulted a divorce lawyer to see what your situation would be like? No, I haven't. Our relationship has always been pretty good, but I definitely will if it keeps up the same way.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/20 02:05 AM
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OYS #12 Stats: * 38 y/o * 6'5", 105kg * Married 7 years, together 10 years Lifting: * Squat: 125kg * Bench: 110kg * Row: 77.5kg * OHP: 67.5kg * DL: 145kg Family Children: 3 This week I wanted to not waste the time I had left of my vacation time off work. We all went out together in the morning and then I took the kids to the park while my wife used a spa gift certificate Christmas present. After she finished we all got together again and went out to dinner. Taking more of a captain’s role in the…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/20 08:25 AM
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OYS #11 Stats: 38 y/o 6'5", 105kg Married 7 years, together 10 years Lifting: Squat: 122.5kg Bench: 110kg Row: 75kg OHP: 65kg DL: 140kg Family Children: 3 In the last week, we've spent a lot of time together as a family. It's summer here in the Southern Hemisphere so we spent the days at the lake. It's been great except for pretty much losing all routine of doing things at home especially dinnertimes and bedtimes. I've taken more of the lead in the disciplining the kids when they've acted up and…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/20 12:50 PM
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I haven’t gotten them out of the box yet.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/20 09:00 AM
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This hits the nail on the head!
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/20 10:56 AM
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Sounds similar...but was this one. intimacy deck
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/20 10:48 AM
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OYS #10 Stats: 38 y/o 6'5", 105kg Married 7 years, together 10 years Lifting: Squat: 120kg Bench: 100kg for reps Row: 70kg OHP: 60kg DL: 130kg Family Children: 3 Things around the house have quieted down this week after a busy holiday period. We've had people coming and staying on and off the last couple weeks. Last week, my older daughters were away at summer camp and it was just my son left at home, so I got to spend a lot of time with just him and took him out to do a lot of fun 1-on-1 activi…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/20 09:13 PM
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OYS #9 Stats: 38 y/o 6'5", 105kg Married 7 years, together 10 years Lifting: Squat: 110kg Bench: 100kg x 8 Row: 65kg OHP: 55kg DL: 120kg Family Children: 3 School is finishing up for the holidays for the kids and they will have 6 weeks off. I will maximize my time with them and take them out to do different things and let my wife have a break. This week I took my almost 4 y/o son out to the river/forest area near our house. We hiked around the hills until he picked out the Christmas tree. We cut…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/19 10:58 PM
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Thanks. They used to be some faggy ones until getting some advice about them in a post a couple weeks.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/19 05:53 PM
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I tore my calf muscle a couple of months ago so haven’t been increasing the weight in the squat or DL. I’ve just been doing higher reps at those weights.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/19 05:50 PM
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OYS #8 Stats: 38 y/o 6'5", 105kg Married 7 years, together 10 years Lifting: Squat: 90kg x 7 Bench: 100kg x 8 Row: 65kg OHP: 50kg DL: 100kg Family Children: 3 I'm trying to do more leading lately. This week I took the kids swimming one day and out for ice cream after school another day. Tomorrow or Thursday I'm going to take them out to the woods to chop down a Christmas tree. I took the lead on getting a tenant is a small workspace we have that my wife didn't want to deal with. The tenant moved…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/19 11:10 AM
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OYS #7 Stats: 38 y/o 6'5", 105kg Married 7 years, together 10 years Lifting: Squat: 80kg Bench: 95kg Row: 60kg OHP: 50kg DL: 100kg Family Children: 3 Family life has been good this week. I took my son to work with me on Sunday. My wife and one of my daughters was away last night for a hospital appointment this morning. I had the other two kids and we spent the evening riding bikes, playing Lego. One of my goals is to lead the family more, and not be a drunk captain any longer. Reading Finished: …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/19 10:52 AM
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110% true. Thanks for the wake up.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/19 07:36 PM
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Thanks man. I’m in.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/19 07:32 PM
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OYS #6 - First OYS in 5 months. Stats: 38 y/o 6'5", 105kg Married 7 years, together 10 years Lifting: Squat: 80kg Bench: 95kg Row: 60kg OHP: 50kg DL: 100kg I've been back at the gym the last 4 weeks after a month away on vacation and about 5-6 weeks of not going to gym due to torn calf muscle. Family Children: 3 We had a weekend out of town this past weekend. It was a good break but it was too wet and cold outside to do much with the kids. Reading Finished: MMSLP, WISNIFG, NMMNG x 2, Rational Ma…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/19 10:36 AM
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Specifically about not getting the kids ready fast enough and out the door fast enough, even though I was taking them to school and we were still early. But also just mainly general bitchiness.
/r/askMRP22/11/19 09:53 AM
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Thanks man, Last night was the comforting, etc. Today was the shitty behaviour directed at me and the kids. And my thoughts exactly that it’s not our fault this happened to her friend. I know now that I should have nipped the bad behaviour in the bud instead of ignoring it.
/r/askMRP22/11/19 09:50 AM
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She’s only known her for a year or so, but is kind of a mentor to my wife.
/r/askMRP22/11/19 09:41 AM
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Thanks for the suggestions. Just downloaded Roosh’s Game. I first read The Game about 10 years ago and loved it.
/r/askMRP19/07/19 07:52 AM
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Thanks. Have the Sidebar books but just found the Advanced Reading link.
/r/askMRP18/07/19 10:42 AM
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Thanks man, I’ve only just begun and have made big changes and have seen huge improvements in a short span of time with the help of the sidebar and guys on here. Still miles to go for me, but yes, will keep it going.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/19 10:37 AM
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Thanks man and thanks for pointing out the excuses. Gotta get rid of them.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/19 11:37 PM
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OYS #5 Stats: 38 y/o 6'5", 105kg Married 7 years, together 10 years Lifting: Squat: 100kg Bench: 97.5kg Row: 75kg OHP: 65kg DL: 130kg Lifting was going well, but was out of town all weekend and my back has been sore the last few days. Family Children: 5/5/3 We had a weekend out of town this past weekend. It was a good break but it was too wet and cold outside to do much with the kids. Reading Finished: MMSLP, WISNIFG, NMMNG x 2, Rational Male Vol 1 & 2, Models, The Unchained Man - Alpha 2.0 Curr…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/19 09:45 AM
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Yes, I can see how they relate. The guy’s trip is heading up to a friend’s place about 5 hours away then driving another hour and a half to this little mountains holiday town with a few other guys. We’ve rented a house and will probably play some golf, do some mountain biking and party.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/05/19 03:25 AM
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Thank you! I’ve found SALSM to be the best book so far for putting a plan to action.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/19 06:20 PM
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OYS #4 Stats: 38 y/o 6'5", 105kg Married 7 years, together 10 years Lifting: Squat: 95kg Bench: 95kg Row: 70kg OHP: 60kg DL: 114kg Lifting still going well. I'm starting to hit some of my pre-injury weights from about a year ago. ​ Family Children: 5/5/3 Family life is improving. I've taken more control of discipline of the kids. I've been able to spend more time with them as well, which they love. We're dogsitting some friends' dog for a couple of weeks and have been taking the dog for walks wh…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/19 09:11 AM
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Wait? What? Jon Snow kills Danyrys? Ha
/r/askMRP23/05/19 09:33 PM
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Yes, you’re right. It was fucking stupid. I’m reading Blue Pill Professor’s book now.
/r/askMRP23/05/19 07:04 PM
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This analogy is gold. Thanks for sharing.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/19 03:12 AM
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Thanks for that. I should have taken charge and not let it have gotten to me. Next time.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/19 10:28 PM
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Thanks man
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/19 08:30 PM
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Thanks man, I will definitely do this.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/19 08:29 PM
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Sorry, I probably didn’t explain enough in the post. When she cums, she is finished. She’s too sensitive to touch or anything else. So the “put it in” makes it feel like pity sex and she then just constantly tells me to finish. So, the opting out was more in frustration and just the knowing from previous experience that it would just be bad sex.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/19 08:29 PM
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Thanks for this. You’re right.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/19 06:55 PM
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I’m very sorry to hear about your son. Thanks for sharing your story to help me with mine. It’s much appreciated. I’m the same way with both her and the other kids. Always watching for signs and symptoms that the tumour brought when it’s been explained that it was just bad shit luck, and nothing to worry about with the other kids. I need to cut that shit out. As far as the connection goal, I’ll be changing it up next week to other goals that build this and attractiveness. As I learned about myse…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/19 06:52 PM
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When in a month long drought, I do want sex all the time. But yes, definitely see how that the constant initiating will be routine and boring. I’ll flirt more and game my wife everyday. Thanks for the feedback!
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/19 06:42 PM
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Thanks man. I’ll have a look.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/19 06:38 PM
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Thanks for pointing me in his direction. I will read it. I have the book, “Meditations” by Marcus Aurelius and will be reading it next on my list. No meds, occasional weed, very little alcohol, occasional porn with my wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/19 06:38 PM
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You’re correct. The goal is putting that advice to work.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/19 10:07 AM
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From what I understand, it is if I get denied and get butthurt that makes me look needy. Someone please correct me if I’m wrong.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/19 10:04 AM
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OYS #3 Stats: 38 y/o 6'5", 105kg Married 7 years, together 10 years Lifting: Squat: 95kg Bench: 90kg Row: 65kg OHP: 60kg DL: 110 Lifting has been going well. I'm getting in 3x a week and adding in some running and other accessory lifts on those days. I'm still building up weights after a back injury a year ago kept me out of the gym for about 9 months. ​ Background: Born and raised in the US, moved overseas to play rugby, met my wife and currently live overseas. In the past, when I was single, I…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/19 09:35 AM
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I should explain better. You’re right, In that context it is creepy. It was while both asleep and spooning. So, maybe a little creepy still but not consciously.
/r/askMRP21/05/19 01:51 AM
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This is gold. Thanks for sharing!
/r/askMRP21/05/19 01:48 AM
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Thanks man. Those were my thoughts too.
/r/askMRP20/05/19 07:31 AM
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You’re right. I didn’t consciously want to be looking for validation but can see how that looks in hindsight. I was just giving the reply of what I had been told from a commenter on my OYS that I believed was true. Next time, I’ll STFU. I struggle with frame and even how to keep it.
/r/askMRP20/05/19 07:15 AM
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Thanks for the response. I agree that I think it’s BS too. I’m definitely working on my game, looks and the rest of my self. I’m still struggling on frame.
/r/askMRP20/05/19 07:13 AM
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Basically, it was getting into bed and it’s freezing out so she was cold and wanted me to hug and cuddle until she got warm and that’s when the taking began. I am the to initiate 99.9% of the time and she needs a lot of foreplay to get into the mood. Usually this is with some porn, hugging and touching. Even trying to give oral straight away has her bitching and complaining cause she’s not warmed up yet, which kills the mood.
/r/askMRP20/05/19 07:10 AM
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Thanks for that. I’m still plugging away and you’re correct, I have a lot of work to do. I’ve been going monk the last few weeks as focussing on the gym and myself. Initiated a couple of days ago and got the talk I mentioned in my post and the promise of the next night. Fast forward to next night, we watched some porn, she came too quick and then gave a 5 minute blowjob. That’s pretty much it all month, including a week of Shark Week. Appreciate the advice.
/r/askMRP20/05/19 07:05 AM
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My history is when I was single, I was an alpha. But when in a relationship would turn into a complete Beta. This includes most of my 9 year relationship with my wife. When reading NMMNG, it was me 100%. So have been starting to sort shit the last few months. I know I have a looooong way to go.
/r/askMRP20/05/19 07:00 AM
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Yes I am.
/r/askMRP20/05/19 05:52 AM
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The last time out of the ordinary was the last time we had sex about a month ago. Rubbing her pussy through her clothes while she was asleep and woke up dripping. Car - Never On washer - never Shower - honeymoon 7 years ago New vibrator - Christmas, used once Tied up - never
/r/askMRP20/05/19 05:45 AM
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OYS #2...a little late to the party. Stats: 38 y/o 6'5", 105kg Married 7 years, together 10 years Lifting: Squat: 95kg Bench: 85kg Row: 65kg OHP: 57.5kg DL: 105kg Lifting has been going well. I'm getting in 3x a week and adding in some running and other accessory lifts on those days. I'm still building up weights after a back injury a year ago kept me out of the gym for about 9 months. Background: Born and raised in the US, moved overseas at age 26 to play rugby, met my wife and currently living…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/19 08:00 AM
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I agree. I've just started it and it's the best one I've read so far.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/19 06:48 AM
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Thanks! Found and purchased.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/19 11:11 AM
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You're right, my number one goal at the moment is getting more attractive. ​ I've been trying to be more of a jerk, although I think sometimes I find myself going a bit Rambo, am acting like a dick, then just giving her the silent treatment. ​ Will keep working on it.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/19 10:59 AM
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OYS #1 - Stats: 38 y/o, 6'5", 105kg, I injured my back just over a year ago and finally getting back into the gym. Prior to injury was doing Crossfit for 3-4 days a week for the last few couple of years. Now I've started SL5x5 and have been going for two weeks. These are my latest 5x5 stats: Squat 90kg, Bench 80 kg, Row 60kg, OHP - 55kg, DL 102kg. Background: Born and raised in the US, moved overseas at age 26 to play rugby, met my wife and currently living in New Zealand. In the past, when I wa…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/19 10:59 AM
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