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Dale carnegie books are not meant for this generation. Read Captivate by vennsa van edwards
/r/seduction14/10/20 11:57 PM
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Welcome man. And you too
/r/seduction14/10/20 09:55 PM
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Well I understand it's a tough situation right now. Some examples are dancing, public speaking, photography, acting etc. There are some schools or clubs who does that. But if everything that u are interested in is closed then really you can't do nothing about it. What you can do is read some books like Mate- tucker max and understand some fundamental stuff. Also u can ask a frnd to take some nice pics of urs and u can experiment with them in you online dating profiles. And when everything opens …
/r/seduction14/10/20 09:53 PM
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Good question. A frnd of mine recommend me a style and I just wanted to experiment and ready to take the risk. It luckily worked out well. That's why I emphasise so much in having so many friends. It really makes ur life easy
/r/seduction14/10/20 09:47 PM
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Read the book "mate" by tucker max
/r/seduction14/10/20 09:44 PM
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I agree to the first 2 points but you really don't need to act like a prize. Like every one is normal human being and it's not a game or race where prize is given. It's just about connecting with normal people and if someone doesn't connect that's totally okay Acting as a prize will always make u feel like you have to be gamey. It's just my opinion if it works for you that's totally fine.
/r/seduction14/10/20 02:03 PM
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I m glad to help. Thanks for reading
/r/seduction14/10/20 01:50 PM
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Thanks
/r/seduction14/10/20 01:50 PM
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Well there are lot of books but I think too much reading might take too much time. There is a book called "Captivate" by Vanessa Van Edwards which I read recently and it gave me a lot of overview of basics of human psychology u need to understand and then how to act on them. It's writting in a nice way with scientific experiments. You can read it.
/r/seduction14/10/20 01:50 PM
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Hhaahhhaha. Understandable. If you go out some times I recommend asking for directions for few days if you don't have lot of opportunities at the moment. U can keep distance and still ask for directions probably.
/r/seduction07/09/20 03:24 PM
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I wish I was todd but I am not. It's a video of todd Valentine and I think he is the best in the market. Anyway opening or not opening is ur choice.
/r/seduction06/09/20 10:25 PM
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https://youtu.be/183envaOYvs Learn for the best 😉
/r/seduction06/09/20 10:22 PM
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Take it as a hint that she is not interested. Even if she is interested for sure she has a boring personality. U have to understand one thing. If u click with someone u will click. U don't have to put a lot of effort. So if she is not talking much move on.
/r/seduction22/08/20 11:05 PM
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Thanks for you thought. The main point is to rehear ur recording and video and to see how you deliver your sentences. It gives u a reality of urself and gives you an opportunity to improve ur delivery if you feel like you should. Its not only dating but also one of the way to be more charismatic.
/r/seduction20/08/20 01:15 AM
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Never saw a dumb person dating... If you think speaking abilities are not attractive then u can always stay quiet.
/r/seduction20/08/20 01:10 AM
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Good question. It is connected to seduction as you record and rewatch ur video or audio you can understand where you want to improve you speaking skill and ofcourse great speaking abilities are sexy.
/r/seduction19/08/20 09:07 PM
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Hahhahahahahahhaha. 😂😂😂😂 Savage
/r/seduction19/08/20 06:00 PM
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Awesome!
/r/seduction19/08/20 05:44 PM
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Thanks for sharing your view.
/r/seduction19/08/20 05:39 PM
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Yes this is a high risk area to go direct like daygame. U can workout near her and you have to go very low key. If she is not wearing a head phone you can ask like a neighbor 'hi! How are you doing" if you see she is enthusiastic then carry on if u see she is annoyed stop! In case she is wearing a headphone and really working out I suggest wait till she is done or wait for opportunity. Once I waved and she opened headphone and ask "can I ask u sth are these new headphones from bla bla ... Are th…
/r/seduction19/08/20 05:38 PM
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It's a relationship man. Not learning a skill set of approaching random girls on the street. Skills like expressing urself can be also learned by going to improv classes, acting class, dancing class etc. It does not have to be daygame. Don't get me wrong I am not against daygame but i don't think it's worth the effort to find a gf. It's worth if someone wants to get out of apporach anxiety.
/r/seduction06/08/20 05:38 PM
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You are right. After starting a cold approach and managing AA I am a lot better to express myself. But there were lot of situations where me and the girl had a really good time and I could tell she was totally into me. Went on an instant date, had awesome time and kissed me a lot. Planned the whole week with me but did not show up again. texted back and forth but did not actually came on date. I thought it was my fault. Then lot of my wings and friends shared the same exact experience. Therefore…
/r/seduction06/08/20 05:14 PM
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I am doing a survey. I have done like 800-1000 approach. Had few dates, few hookups and ONS. I m the person doing this survey to find out if it worth the effort as I have seen my wings are putting a lot and lot of time and effort in it. I want to see people's experience and opinion on daygame and then analyse if it is worth the effort.
/r/seduction06/08/20 04:21 PM
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I am pretty excited too. I am not sure if it is worth the effort. A guy is doing day cold approach for 2 years and did more than 3-4 thousand approaches. He thinks he is getting better and better. But I want to do an analysis of average people's results and girl's opinions because it is a huge investment of time.
/r/seduction06/08/20 04:09 PM
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Perfect suggestions.
/r/seduction06/08/20 09:43 AM
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Take your time to heal. I understand the feeling. The best suggestions I can give is always hangout with friends, talk to your therapist, and when u feel better again try to date someone new. Don't force urself to get into some relationship now. It is painful and you have to accept it and give yourself some time to heal.
/r/seduction06/08/20 09:42 AM
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With all my heart I can tell you "go ahead girl". I respect your decision and yeah start apporaching. Go a bit soft and low key rather than coming too strong. As a guy I can tell if a women shows too much interested and be too direct at the initial stage of conversation guys freak out a bit. But you will find it yourself. Cheers.
/r/seduction05/08/20 09:01 PM
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Yes. As long as you are playing a "win-win" it's is great. There are lot of girls just looking for sex and it is perfectly okay. And through practice what you are developing is getting out of your comfort zone and expressing yourself. Which is good. I always respect and endorse cold approach, which helps to overcome shyness and anxiety. And conversation skills can be developed by taking public speaking course.
/r/seduction02/08/20 10:52 AM
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I agree. There are some genuine good guys but they always see their asshole frnds is always getting laid as a result they feel self doubt. But the important thing is the demographic. Assholes guys attracts girls with asshole personality and there are too many of them, specially in clubs. But the genuine good guy is looking for a gf in the club which doesn't work out for obvious reasons. Instead if they look for someone on the things they are passionate about for example art or science classes th…
/r/seduction01/08/20 08:25 PM
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Hahhahaha. Thanks for sharing your experience. I know men like that. And I expect men to back off as soon as the girl says "I have a boy friend" at the beginning of conversation. but some guys gets guidence from "pickup guru" to be "persistent". What can I say... it's a bit sad and make it like "I have to win", instead of having a "we both can have a win win situation".
/r/seduction01/08/20 12:18 PM
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I respect that and I understand. But when you are in a date with a guy, what I meant is without being rude you can just end the date with and excuse. And later u can text him about you are not interested. Sth like that
/r/seduction01/08/20 10:26 AM
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Read the book "Mate: Become the Man Women Want" by Geoffrey Miller and Tucker Max. You will find everything you need to know.
/r/seduction01/08/20 12:23 AM
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one more book which is underrated but the book is gold is "mate- tucker max"
/r/seduction30/07/20 07:46 PM
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which country do you live in? if the situation is bad then don't do it at all. And if you really want to do it make sure you maintain your distance and try not to shake hands etc.
/r/seduction30/07/20 07:32 AM
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Todd Valentine. Todd is God.
/r/seduction30/07/20 02:06 AM
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Why don't you invest some time in courses like public speaking, or acting, or dancing? Cold approach is a good way to get out of approach anxiety but it will never teach you how to build connections and get socially tuned. In a cold approach, an interaction lasts for a very very short period of time. And you keep doing the same stuff over and over again. On the other hand, if you attend those classes, mentioned above, you get to know more people and spend more time with them. As a plus, these cl…
/r/seduction30/07/20 01:56 AM
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yes women love guys who stick around. good post
/r/seduction23/07/20 10:19 PM
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If you can carry it, sure...
/r/seduction22/07/20 05:08 PM
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This kind of opener is just a waste of time in my experience. it takes you nowhere. If you wanna play low key in day game you can compliment on outfit shoes or the situation but these things are a total waste of both party's time.
/r/seduction22/07/20 04:57 PM
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Yes, You are absolutely right. I think it is a basic common thing like approaching a girl is like not hit and run or warm up its like giving your 100% on each set. I think what makes one good and makes other bad is just the details. If the intention is to just do 500 by saying Hi then they will just waste time without learning anything. Thanks for your comment man. May be we can talk some time soon. :)
/r/seduction22/07/20 04:41 PM
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i started with this ​ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QN94HBA75b4
/r/seduction21/07/20 12:23 AM
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i think this will help you. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QN94HBA75b4
/r/seduction21/07/20 12:20 AM
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Great job
/r/seduction01/07/20 09:10 PM
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