| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Nice guy vs jerk guy. Is it a myth that one gets less sex. Not according to studiesCool! Now what does it actually mean. To be nice or a jerk. I didn't see definitions in the abstract. Like a real life example. Being a gentleman and pay for the drink. Is that nice? Personally I think nice is not the issue but too nice is. That's were I'm aiming. Nice: IE empathetic. And good body. | /r/seduction | 25/01/20 11:59 AM |
| 1 | Nice guy vs jerk guy. Is it a myth that one gets less sex. Not according to studiesWhy not be confident and nice? And good body? Then you can fuck and date. | /r/seduction | 25/01/20 11:30 AM |
| 1 | Second date after a first needy date. Afraid I'll fuck it up like always.So me being sometimes both. And anxious. That's why I'm frickin fucked. | /r/seduction | 25/01/20 10:23 AM |
| 1 | Second date after a first needy date. Afraid I'll fuck it up like always.You are spot on. But whore doesn't help for me. I tried. I crave the emotional and physical validation and pleasure that comes from a non professional women I like. I usually feel more shity when needing a whore to fulfill my needs. Plus, being highly sexual, I would need a whore 4 times a week! | /r/seduction | 25/01/20 09:43 AM |
| 1 | I need to stop being so insecureBe ready to be judged for being like that | /r/seduction | 21/01/20 06:58 PM |
| 1 | One of the most POWERFUL tools to add in your game | Disqualification |Thank you! Then teach that :) It doesn't mean I'm good at it. My dating life is really not well atm. In theory it's easier then in life. That's where I'm aiming for anyway. | /r/seduction | 21/01/20 02:23 AM |
| 2 | One of the most POWERFUL tools to add in your game | Disqualification |"I dont think we should have sex night". I'm bedazzled of this how people can shoot such a straight lie that is completely the opposite of their thinking and go on feel good about themselves. Unless, you are truly not thinking about having sex with her tonight. Which is a good thing. To actually be in that mindset of not going in a aiming mood but rather enjoy and see what happens. | /r/seduction | 20/01/20 02:08 PM |
| 1 | I'm 39 and getting judged for sleeping aroundThat's a good way in cases. In others the other person may have a point and worth listening to. | /r/seduction | 17/01/20 10:59 AM |
| 2 | I'm 39 and getting judged for sleeping aroundI like that. | /r/seduction | 17/01/20 10:05 AM |
| 3 | I'm 39 and getting judged for sleeping aroundThank you, that resontes. Down votes make no sens to me, that's fine. | /r/seduction | 17/01/20 09:20 AM |
| 1 | 3 Things To Remember When Approaching A GirlSometimes I approach girls I don't really like to sleep with but are "blond" or because I'm bored. Then it gets super hard when they are not fun. | /r/seduction | 17/01/20 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Fearing for my mental health in my seduction journey.It's good to get support here. And to meditate. Suffering from constant rejection is a real thing. Here is some reading. Same author offers meditation. https://www.academia.edu/19225608/Ostracism_Consequences_and_Coping | /r/seduction | 06/01/20 06:31 PM |
| 3 | I swear you never know what is going happen when you cold approach.You mind sharing how you day game? I find it very dificult. At clubs I have no issue whatsoever | /r/seduction | 04/01/20 06:08 PM |
| 1 | 2020 Stop faking who you are for womenI'm not buying quiet and mellow isn't sexy | /r/seduction | 02/01/20 07:00 PM |
| 1 | 2020 Stop faking who you are for womenOkey let's cut to the chase. What does be yourself actually mean for you? This is just too generic for me Be with people same as you are when you are home? React on your primal instincts? be mad when you are mad, be unrespcful, be boring, be anxious if that's "who you truly are"? Please unfold what that them means to you | /r/seduction | 02/01/20 06:58 PM |
| 2 | 2020 Stop faking who you are for womenVery nicely put. Thank you. I think it's super hard not to be ourselves anyway to a point I doubt it exists someone being not themselves for an extended time. Life, and your nature self, catches up with the fake you ar some point and brings you back. What do you think? | /r/seduction | 02/01/20 06:52 PM |
| 2 | Buzzfeed Women go day gamingIt looks like a video that mocks guys apprichaing gris | /r/seduction | 31/12/19 10:09 AM |
| 1 | Poll: what is your age?Couriocity. Who are the fellow sedittors interested in what I am. | /r/seduction | 31/12/19 09:00 AM |
| 1 | I'm very good at getting girls interested, and very good at getting them loose interestI got you. That's good wording. Because it's positive. I'm confused as well. I just go for it because I love them and the interaction and imagining it will work out. | /r/seduction | 31/12/19 08:58 AM |
| 1 | I'm very good at getting girls interested, and very good at getting them loose interestI really like your thinking as it aligns with my values of being authentic and real. Thank you for sharing this. More specifically, do you mean expressing that feeling of not being good enough and fail to keep her interested till the happy end? Isn't that a downer for her and a twist she may dislike? Because it may lead to getting out the magic, the moment, and being more mechanical. I also think it can be a downer to say upfront you want sex (or better said intimacy) and are afraid it won't hap… | /r/seduction | 31/12/19 08:49 AM |
| 1 | I'm very good at getting girls interested, and very good at getting them loose interestI'm very comfortable with my sexuall skills and totally into women. I think it's more about fear of past experience repeating themselves, fear of reliving rejection, and a need of reassurance that it will be fine and we will end up actually being close even by the end of the night. In that sense it could be performance anxiety of my psychological state. That I may say something that will spoil it. She will see in me a side she won't like. Etc. | /r/seduction | 31/12/19 08:03 AM |
| 1 | Be careful with being vulnerable on reddit. Some redditors may or will use it against you.Good for you are capable of that! | /r/seduction | 30/12/19 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Be careful with being vulnerable on reddit. Some redditors may or will use it against you.Thank you so much for this. I kind of felt bad yesterday for publishing the story because people went hard on him. I didn't put a nickname but it's possible to dig and know who he is. I felt as if I was shaming him myself. I know it's not so true. | /r/seduction | 30/12/19 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Be careful with being vulnerable on reddit. Some redditors may or will use it against you.I'm sorry to read about your past abuse and thanks for sharing this. I think we can go easy and not personal. It wasn't the intent. I'm sure he learned. Otherwise i may regret posting this.. | /r/seduction | 29/12/19 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Be careful with being vulnerable on reddit. Some redditors may or will use it against you.I think those are great inputs, the kind of stuff that turns the internet into a kind of magic. I forgave myself for oversharing because it showed me the other side of the coin. Thank you my friend 😊 | /r/seduction | 29/12/19 04:56 PM |
| 2 | Be careful with being vulnerable on reddit. Some redditors may or will use it against you.Spot on dude. You read me well and it's been like that for sometime. I.don't know how to sort it. | /r/seduction | 29/12/19 01:04 PM |
| 2 | Yesterday I was on a date for the first time after a cold approach thanks to this community. You can do it as well.You are welcome. You got it man. They will love you. You have good communication skills, just try to chill and believe in yourself. Keep trying and use every encounter as a lesson and let it go light heartedly. | /r/seduction | 28/12/19 04:17 PM |
| 2 | Yesterday I was on a date for the first time after a cold approach thanks to this community. You can do it as well.Thank you my friend. Here you go https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/11piau/above_the_game_part_1_primer_on_who_you_will/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share | /r/seduction | 28/12/19 06:29 AM |
| 3 | Yesterday I was on a date for the first time after a cold approach thanks to this community. You can do it as well.Thanks ! Here you go https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/11piau/above_the_game_part_1_primer_on_who_you_will/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share | /r/seduction | 27/12/19 05:41 PM |
| 0 | When you think of being sex friends with a girl you just met, when do you let her know that?It's totally on me. That I let myself pay attention to random idiots on the internet. | /r/seduction | 27/12/19 02:24 AM |
| -1 | When you think of being sex friends with a girl you just met, when do you let her know that?You idiot. I read your push notification just before going in a date with her and my anxiety went to the sky and couldn't handle it. Although she said without me asking that really liked my wishing message I couldn't get out your shaming from my head. Yes I have anxiety issues. It doesn't make me a creep. That's why I'm here for. For support and to improve. Not to get dragged down and be called names. She was super into me and I was too anxious so it went down the toilet. It is just mean what yo… | /r/seduction | 27/12/19 02:18 AM |
| 1 | When you think of being sex friends with a girl you just met, when do you let her know that?Haha. Cool! | /r/seduction | 25/12/19 06:23 PM |
| 1 | When you think of being sex friends with a girl you just met, when do you let her know that?Sorry i got a bit anxious because of your comments. Does my comment below make things more clear? Thank you | /r/seduction | 25/12/19 04:43 PM |
| 1 | When you think of being sex friends with a girl you just met, when do you let her know that?Get it now. You are doing some heavy projections here. Not at all what's happening. | /r/seduction | 25/12/19 04:24 PM |
| 1 | When you think of being sex friends with a girl you just met, when do you let her know that?You saying this move screwed up things? I thought it would be a nice gesture to build rapport. Because she wished me nice things when we exchanged and fixed a meeting. And I forgot to wish her back. | /r/seduction | 25/12/19 04:20 PM |
| 1 | When you think of being sex friends with a girl you just met, when do you let her know that?Ouch. That was triggering. Not what I wanted to hear now. Why so? She appreciated and received it very well. | /r/seduction | 25/12/19 04:03 PM |
| 1 | When you think of being sex friends with a girl you just met, when do you let her know that?I'm with you on that. The unexplained comment bellow claiming I'm being creepy doesn't help to the chill factor | /r/seduction | 25/12/19 03:58 PM |
| 1 | When you think of being sex friends with a girl you just met, when do you let her know that?I guess you are right. I'm curious, did you see the girl's comment below that she would take it that it's serious? | /r/seduction | 25/12/19 12:54 AM |
| 1 | When you think of being sex friends with a girl you just met, when do you let her know that?Got it. I already sent her wishes for holidays and thinking this may mislead. It's too late now? | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 11:24 PM |
| 1 | When you think of being sex friends with a girl you just met, when do you let her know that?Makes sens. Thanks. You think it's lost now because It will be confusing if I tell her that now? And now I'll overthink it when is the right moment to say it | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 11:10 PM |
| 5 | When you think of being sex friends with a girl you just met, when do you let her know that?Good question. It may sound silly. This though came up to me after I wrote her a cold message (ie: unexpected) wishing her nice holidays. I was thinking, maybe this sort of things are done only to one that girlfriend material. Or she may think that. | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 05:16 PM |
| 2 | I'm having an identity crisis since I discovered this community. Please help.Thanks dude! I appreciate you sharing this. Just another reminder how my laziness to meditate affects me and I got to do that. | /r/seduction | 24/12/19 04:49 PM |
| -1 | How do you deal with the social stigma around using PUA/game websites ? And what are your own thoughts about using it?Ok. How about minimizing women to asses? | /r/seduction | 22/12/19 08:04 AM |
| 1 | How do you deal with the social stigma around using PUA/game websites ? And what are your own thoughts about using it?Can I PM you? | /r/seduction | 22/12/19 06:56 AM |
| 2 | How do you deal with the social stigma around using PUA/game websites ? And what are your own thoughts about using it?Comparing women to toilet seats, that's a yikes. | /r/seduction | 22/12/19 01:30 AM |
| 1 | Intense pain after loosing a girl a club yesterday.👍🙏 | /r/seduction | 15/12/19 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Intense pain after loosing a girl a club yesterday.Wow dude. That's so helpful and detailed. Thanks for the headsup. I think it's pretty cool you picked up from one experience ;) I did the hips touch, push and pull, her hands on shoulders, was sensually moving my hands on her sides up and down. At one point, and this happens often, she took a certain move of mine as a sign to turn around when I hold one of her hands high above her head, then come closer. When this happens I seem to judge it's a childish move and try to 'fix it'.. Takes practice,… | /r/seduction | 15/12/19 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Intense pain after loosing a girl a club yesterday.Bu the way it's interesting how this frustrating energy turned into motivating energy today after writing and reading you. I guess any energy is as good and makes one feel alive. | /r/seduction | 15/12/19 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Intense pain after loosing a girl a club yesterday.Okey! Have a nice Sunday! | /r/seduction | 15/12/19 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Intense pain after loosing a girl a club yesterday.Yes. In poker game they call it tilting. | /r/seduction | 15/12/19 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Intense pain after loosing a girl a club yesterday.Btw this happens to me often. Getting shy and lost when dancing! | /r/seduction | 15/12/19 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Intense pain after loosing a girl a club yesterday.That makes sense. Thanks. How about dancing? Do you have a mindset when dancing? I was dancing and she enjoyed it and mildly reciprocating. Then i got mentally tired after a few minutes of initiating and she was off. I may also have been too envious in my gaze. Is it hard for you as well to find synchronicit and calm? For that gay it was so easy I swear. I didn't even see them talking (they may have talked before). He just approached and danced close behind her. Getting away and coming back a fe… | /r/seduction | 15/12/19 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Intense pain after loosing a girl a club yesterday.Brilliant, Thank you! Please see my question in the other comment. | /r/seduction | 15/12/19 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Intense pain after loosing a girl a club yesterday.Brilliant advice. Thank you so much. Could you reply to my question in the above comment. | /r/seduction | 15/12/19 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Intense pain after loosing a girl a club yesterday.Thank you. Brilliant advice. I may be projecting here, just wondering, Do you get awkward /blocked about coming back and trying again if it's a small club and the runner of the place saw you get frustrated and randomly approaching girls afterwards? | /r/seduction | 15/12/19 04:17 PM |
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