| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | He is looking for 'no standards and no requirements'Dude has skinnier arms than me. Hit the gym bro | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 08:31 AM |
| 3 | Facts.Or forced to lose weight, dress right, get fit and get hair regrowth treatment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 10:52 AM |
| 2 | Facts.This is why I only date attractive men. Fk it. If they can punch above all the time, Im gonna do it too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 10:51 AM |
| 3 | Beware when dating men in your country of origin that are expats/have recently moved from overseas/are on working, study VISAs etcYeah Ive tried Croatian expats too they are just as bad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 12:17 AM |
| 2 | Kristen Bell's husband says "America's sweetheart has some character defects" in a live interview with her... thoughts?He is such a dudebro | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 09:21 AM |
| 1 | Sister is dating this potential LVM however he makes her happy for now. How to advise her?Well yeah. I'm his age and apart from 'fun and good times' I wouldn't go there. I earn double his salary, take care of my appearance and dont act creepy... In spite of having a mental illness as well | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 11:00 PM |
| 8 | Sister is dating this potential LVM however he makes her happy for now. How to advise her?That's what I told her. However he seems really keen on pressuring her to commit to him but for some reason she just cant introduce him as her boyfriend to anyone, it's like she's embarrassed by him or something. Her friends seem to criticise her a lot saying she can do better. Idk it's a hard one and I'm trying to be supportive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 12:09 PM |
| 7 | Billie EilishMy bf is a HVM and likes her. Says she is uber talented, interesting, deep and takes no shit. I agree with him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 11:12 AM |
| 26 | Billie EilishShe's a breath of fresh air in a world that sexualises young women. I hope she sticks to her guns | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 10:55 AM |
| 16 | Sister is dating this potential LVM however he makes her happy for now. How to advise her?Good point sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 10:51 AM |
| 1 | Is there a certain age at which a man, if still single, becomes questionable?100% | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 11:53 PM |
| 4 | Is there a certain age at which a man, if still single, becomes questionable?Yep. I think men benefit more from relationships anyway. Why wouldn't they want to seek a life companion for emotional support, someone to love and give to, someone they can have sex with, and so forth. So if they aren't looking for that, why? Plenty of wonderful women out there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 04:00 AM |
| 17 | Is there a certain age at which a man, if still single, becomes questionable?Yeah my ex is now 37 still single. He's a psychology professor and good looking, everything looks right on paper. Never mind he beat me up back in the day. I can see women in his career fawning over him with no idea he is a psychopath on the inside | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 09:46 PM |
| 3 | Is there a certain age at which a man, if still single, becomes questionable?He wasn't though, my friend has been tracking his history and he hasn't had a girlfriend like since he was 24 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 09:44 PM |
| 28 | Is there a certain age at which a man, if still single, becomes questionable?I'm talking for men only. Men and women have different influences and motivations at times. More HVW than HVM in society more than likely | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 10:05 AM |
| 2 | It's Not Your Imagination - Dating Does Get Worse Over 30IDK the dating quality I had at 19 was no better than at 29 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 08:35 AM |
| 32 | Elon Musk is the perfect example of a LVM with money.Elon is an overrated asshole | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 12:16 AM |
| 2 | Men texting you after a long period of timeMaybe. But some of these women are not weak or willing and they will still persist with sending texts. I remember going on two dates with a guy, being like no thanks and he still would text from time to time even though I didn't reply. To me he was weak and willing and gave no fks about coming across that way | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 10:10 PM |
| 23 | Men texting you after a long period of timeRegret at what they let go. Too bad. Block and let them suffer | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 11:26 AM |
| 29 | Get this through your head ladies!!!Yeahhh. I lost count the amount of times I was obsessed with a guy only to be the one breaking up with him after ten months lol after finding out how annoying / dysfunctional / boring he was | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 11:19 AM |
| 7 | What a wild time to be alive :)How is this a good thing? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 06:02 AM |
| 5 | My friend’s bf (both 34) messaged me on tinder while she was overseas at a funeral. He didn’t recognise me.Yeah I was seeing a guy who used couch surfing and I swear he used it to meet and get laid | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 08:07 AM |
| 7 | Woman asks if she's the asshole for letting a man pay for their date, Reddit says yesMy ex was and a year in for Christmas he got me a lame ass present that cost him $10. I left him after that but should have read the first warning sign. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 11:32 AM |
| 2 | Dating: when I was single amount of times a guy would 'schedule' a date but not follow up was incredible. Low effort and not worthy of a second chance.Unfortunately he is. Found his LinkedIn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 06:25 AM |
| 1 | Dating: when I was single amount of times a guy would 'schedule' a date but not follow up was incredible. Low effort and not worthy of a second chance.Ahhahha best reply | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 06:23 AM |
| 2 | Dating: when I was single amount of times a guy would 'schedule' a date but not follow up was incredible. Low effort and not worthy of a second chance.100%. Excellent observation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 06:23 AM |
| 12 | Dating: when I was single amount of times a guy would 'schedule' a date but not follow up was incredible. Low effort and not worthy of a second chance.Yeah the weird thing was, whilst they were texting, he sent her a picture of his neice's birthday party he claimed to be at. She found his instagram and that EXACT SAME picture was on his instagram... From three years ago. She didn't even ask him for a picture so no idea why he felt compelled to send her an old photo when it was from years ago... Never sat right with me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 09:15 PM |
| 6 | Dating: when I was single amount of times a guy would 'schedule' a date but not follow up was incredible. Low effort and not worthy of a second chance.I agree, it came across as very robotic and disinterested. Like yeah, let's just get this date over and done with | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 09:08 PM |
| 6 | Comedy hour... What's the longest time period a man has reached out to you after?I had one the other day from... Two and a half years. I didn't recognise him or the number and asked him about ten times until I remembered. He even had the audacity to text hey are you still alive? No sorry brother I'm dead. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 08:32 AM |
| 1 | Relationship GoalsYup. Which is why this study was such a surprise | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 07:46 AM |
| 90 | Relationship GoalsMillennial men are more sexist. Research shows | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 09:09 AM |
| 1 | When males give you the creep stare in public, don’t look away. Deliberately give them a complete face and body scan and sneer at them like you’re contemptuously noticing their presence long enough to memorize details about them for a future police sketch.I frown at all men I pass on the street. Works a treat | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 11:29 AM |
| 5 | Gang of women in India who track down & beat abusive husbands with brooms.Hahahhahahahahaha OMG this is too great | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 09:30 AM |
| 1 | How is this normal!?! *waves arms in every direction* 30+ yo Men need to be told to shower and brush their teeth before a date!?! WHY DO THEY NOT KNOW THIS!?That sub is so sad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 12:31 AM |
| 13 | 80% of men desire only the top 20% of women.This is so true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 04:51 AM |
| 2 | Men act single even if they have a gf or are marriedYup. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 10:08 PM |
| 11 | Ben Affleck regrets losing Jennifer Garner because of course he does.Is it just me or was he truly being himself in gone girl | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 05:11 AM |
| 5 | r/Raleigh (North Carolina) and r/Croatia are in FDS’ top 10 subs with the most user overlap. Are the men there particularly bad lol?! Just curious!They're all programmers. We should add 'programmer' to the list of likely LVMs. I've never met one who wasn't slightly antisocial and strange. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 04:47 AM |
| 4 | r/Raleigh (North Carolina) and r/Croatia are in FDS’ top 10 subs with the most user overlap. Are the men there particularly bad lol?! Just curious!He'd only be commenting if he was triggered by the truth otherwise why waste his energy for loool Also being a cat lady is fkn great. Cats are cuddly and loyal and freedom from manbabies is always worth it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 04:44 AM |
| 2 | r/Raleigh (North Carolina) and r/Croatia are in FDS’ top 10 subs with the most user overlap. Are the men there particularly bad lol?! Just curious!Bro the kolo they dance is Serbian not even Croatian. It's called the uzicko kolo. Yeah nicely tell him that you're Croatian NOT fkn from the Vatican so church is optional. Conflating croatianism with catholicism just makes it seem like we have no cultural identity without it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 04:37 AM |
| 6 | r/Raleigh (North Carolina) and r/Croatia are in FDS’ top 10 subs with the most user overlap. Are the men there particularly bad lol?! Just curious!Strange I feel safer in Croatia than Australia when walking the streets. The men in Croatia dont tend to grope in public... the misogyny is more restrained for their intimate relationships | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 02:47 AM |
| 8 | r/Raleigh (North Carolina) and r/Croatia are in FDS’ top 10 subs with the most user overlap. Are the men there particularly bad lol?! Just curious!Right. Any male military party is horrendous and is responsible for raping and torturing women. TBH. Some less so, but hardly any are truly innocent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 02:44 AM |
| 6 | r/Raleigh (North Carolina) and r/Croatia are in FDS’ top 10 subs with the most user overlap. Are the men there particularly bad lol?! Just curious!Yes and the ones in the diaspora are EVEN WORSE. There is one guy in the diaspora who makes merchandise with the Ustasa / Nazi symbols and diasporians snap it up like its cake. Embarrassing. One lesser evil doesn't mean it is good! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 02:42 AM |
| 3 | r/Raleigh (North Carolina) and r/Croatia are in FDS’ top 10 subs with the most user overlap. Are the men there particularly bad lol?! Just curious!OMG everything resonates. Especially giving them a pass because they speak your language. Guilty of this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 02:20 AM |
| 3 | r/Raleigh (North Carolina) and r/Croatia are in FDS’ top 10 subs with the most user overlap. Are the men there particularly bad lol?! Just curious!Haha really. I'll check it out!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 02:15 AM |
| 10 | r/Raleigh (North Carolina) and r/Croatia are in FDS’ top 10 subs with the most user overlap. Are the men there particularly bad lol?! Just curious!Oh definitely. My parents came from Croatia to Australia in 1988 and I was born here in 1989. I identify more as Croatian. I dated a lot of Croatian men in the diaspora and a FOB. Awful. To be honest with my Australian boyfriend I do miss aspects of my culture I can't share with him BUT it's impossible to find it all in one person. I chose freedom over tradition in the end. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 02:13 AM |
| 18 | r/Raleigh (North Carolina) and r/Croatia are in FDS’ top 10 subs with the most user overlap. Are the men there particularly bad lol?! Just curious!Dont. Marry a foreigner. My boyfriend is Australian, still very masculine yet a true egalitarian. He appreciates me if I just make him a cup of coffee whereas Croatian men expect the world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 01:37 AM |
| 16 | r/Raleigh (North Carolina) and r/Croatia are in FDS’ top 10 subs with the most user overlap. Are the men there particularly bad lol?! Just curious!Yeah the men continue to live a bachelor, carefree life well into their old age... and even when married with kids. The WORST man I met online was Macedonian. He pretended to be single. He was a doctor. When I Facebooked him, he was on his honeymoon yet making plans to see me within a week. And didn't think to put his profile on private. He is now divorced obviously and I feel sorry for his ex wife. He is Australian and went back to Macedonia to marry a local village girl who was probably cluele… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 01:33 AM |
| 24 | r/Raleigh (North Carolina) and r/Croatia are in FDS’ top 10 subs with the most user overlap. Are the men there particularly bad lol?! Just curious!To be fair I do fault their mothers for partly raising them as demigods | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 11:24 PM |
| 43 | r/Raleigh (North Carolina) and r/Croatia are in FDS’ top 10 subs with the most user overlap. Are the men there particularly bad lol?! Just curious!I'm Croatian and I agree with you 100%. They all expect models mummy mcbangmaids but deliver nothing of value. Since I've stopped dating Croatian men I've never been happier. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 10:45 PM |
| 31 | r/Raleigh (North Carolina) and r/Croatia are in FDS’ top 10 subs with the most user overlap. Are the men there particularly bad lol?! Just curious!I'm Croatian and Croatian men are the most misogynistic traditional guys I've ever met. My current boyfriend is Australian and dear lord it's so much easier. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 10:43 PM |
| 5 | Funny because it’s true especially on OLDOath. Men struggle so bad to be balanced | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 10:37 PM |
| 3 | Not Attracted to the Male MentalityA man's intelligence and occupation have nothing to do with his level of empathy, care and social justice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 08:30 AM |
| 3 | DON’T EVER LET HIM STRING YOU ALONG. EVER! Wilmer Valderrama is engaged to Amanda Pacheco after less than a year of dating. Demi Lovato’s fans are spiraling due to him never proposing to her during the course of their six-year relationship.100%. I always say wait a year at least. The abusers and desperates always rush | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 10:31 AM |
| 3 | Know your worthYeah I mean, with a dead mother who passed away in strange circumstances, a father who cheated on his mother and a paedophile uncle...im not surprised. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 11:37 PM |
| 5 | Feeling despondent about OLD, LVM, and just dating in general.That was me exactly until I found a HVM. And I mean, I upgraded significantly from all my exes and fuckboys. Looks, personality, finances... Everything. If someone told me I'd end up with this guy I wouldn't have believed you two years ago. I should have set the bar higher. Remember - the fuxkboy is never a barometer of what you can get and deserve. Just gotta keep weeding them out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 06:36 AM |
| 8 | Let’s talk about forever-fiancé apologistsYes. But abusive men also tend to propose early to lock you in. My ex did at like 8 months and then did a 180. Some happy medium is best. It really does take a good year to really know someone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 06:27 AM |
| 5 | Example of a HVM responding in a HVM way to his friend's shitty behaviour.Yes they were all like that in college. And made zero effort with their appearance | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 11:11 PM |
| 3 | Example of a HVM responding in a HVM way to his friend's shitty behaviour.Bahaha this is great!! I actually find the finance guys better than the philosophy and humanities guys, although definitely more boring. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Example of a HVM responding in a HVM way to his friend's shitty behaviour.No she has no idea. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 11:08 PM |
| 4 | Example of a HVM responding in a HVM way to his friend's shitty behaviour.My ex is a psychology professor and beat me up and stalked me for over a year ten years ago. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 11:07 PM |
| 9 | “She is crazy!!” is any man’s favorite description of a woman he used to date 🙄Any man who says this is crazy himself. The last guy was a straight up weirdo... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 11:52 PM |
| 3 | Men who string women along for sex are a special kind of evil.I tell them I dont want anything serious with them and they still settle for just sex though... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 09:45 PM |
| 42 | Men who string women along for sex are a special kind of evil.I have to admit I have NSA sex with men who want a relationship with me but I dont want one with them, because they are the only ones that can respect me enough. Men who want NSA sex are always disrespectful in one way or another | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 11:28 PM |
| 8 | Porn sickness tells: Early male pattern baldingThese were in their 30s. Lol They also thought they were mega catches even though they didn't pay for a full date. One I'm pretty sure was homeless at one stage. His ex was a model and he never got over how she could just 'leave him...' Im sure being with her for NINE years with no proposal played a part... Her now husband is this rich doctor who flies her around the world...I bet you he is fuming LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 11:02 AM |
| 9 | Midweek FDS Chat 1/8/20I think I had the same guy DM me Lol. If he does again he's getting blocked | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 11:30 PM |
| 15 | Midweek FDS Chat 1/8/20Yes. I just got PMd by an angry male with one of my comments like bro seriously | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 11:29 PM |
| 2 | Where to find HVM?Well I found one on bumble | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 10:58 PM |
| 22 | Porn sickness tells: Early male pattern baldingThis is true. The last two fuckboys I encountered were bald with beards and chest hair | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 10:56 PM |
| 18 | Saw this on Instagram and thought of you ladies. What a queen.I've done this. We were fk buddies for a year or two (my choosing) and when I moved on, he'd keep referring to "the relationship we had." He literally thought we were in a relationship...which goes to show most LVMs will put in the least amount of effort into a relationship. I kept reminding him we had no relationship lol hence why I act so differently with my now boyfriend | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 10:53 PM |
| 1 | What do you do if the guy doesn’t confirm the date until the day of?My current boyfriend didn't confirm the date of so I didn't get ready. At our supposed meeting time, he was there and texted me "I'm here." I was about to cancel, but still ended up showering, doing my hair and makeup. He waited two hours for me at the bar and was not annoyed at all. He is a keeper. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 05:21 AM |
| 8 | My biggest regret is having "boyfriends" in my 20s. Don't do it.Same. My problem was that many of my friends had boyfriends and immediately dropped their friends. Or got married young and had kids and I was the single outsider. I wish I joined a feminist or lesbian community even though I'm not a lesbian to find better friends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 05:06 AM |
| 1 | "If You Don't Marry A Past Slut, Then You'll End Up In A Sexless Marriage!"Do you ever wonder why they stop having sex with their men? Is it because men become lazy, no longer flirt with their wife, retain an air of independence or have their own interests and hobbies? Because they dont help out as much with chores and the women are just too damn tired for sex? Because they sit in front of the TV, stop going gym, eat crappy food and put on weight? Take her for granted?? Men who get sex in marriage continue to work on themselves and their marriage every single day. They… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/18 12:10 AM |
| 2 | Men short change themselves by dating women in their 30's?OMG you guys are all so depressing lol. I know heaps of cool people who get together in their 30s and are full of life. Makes me think you all dont get out or socialise enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/18 11:50 PM |
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