| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| -4 | STBXW just hit me with a double whammy. Said she filed for divorce and she’s had a boyfriend for the past two months. Plans to introduce him to my daughter soon.Where’s the factual part of the comment? Looks like he was just assuming to me | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/06/24 10:36 PM |
| -5 | STBXW just hit me with a double whammy. Said she filed for divorce and she’s had a boyfriend for the past two months. Plans to introduce him to my daughter soon.There are some serious mitches in this subreddit 😂 | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/06/24 09:24 PM |
| -11 | STBXW just hit me with a double whammy. Said she filed for divorce and she’s had a boyfriend for the past two months. Plans to introduce him to my daughter soon.Looks like you have no place to judge anyone based on the type of things you post on Reddit. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/06/24 09:23 PM |
| -1 | STBXW just hit me with a double whammy. Said she filed for divorce and she’s had a boyfriend for the past two months. Plans to introduce him to my daughter soon.Is it? You must be a woman masquerading as a man in here for you to not get it lol 🤡 | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/06/24 08:41 PM |
| -3 | STBXW just hit me with a double whammy. Said she filed for divorce and she’s had a boyfriend for the past two months. Plans to introduce him to my daughter soon.I’m upset about her introducing him to our kid. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/06/24 08:34 PM |
| -2 | STBXW just hit me with a double whammy. Said she filed for divorce and she’s had a boyfriend for the past two months. Plans to introduce him to my daughter soon.We’ve been separated for over a year. Unlike a lot of the men in here I’m not gonna sit around and beg for a woman to be with me after she wants to separate. So yes, I’ve been seeing women. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/06/24 08:32 PM |
| -3 | STBXW just hit me with a double whammy. Said she filed for divorce and she’s had a boyfriend for the past two months. Plans to introduce him to my daughter soon.We’ve been separated for over a year. Unlike a lot of the men in here I’m not gonna sit around and beg for a woman to be with me after she wants to separate. So yes, I’ve been seeing women. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/06/24 08:31 PM |
| 11 | She wants to separate but still live togetherShe wants dick while living in a cheap living situation. Simple as that. You will be paying a load in child support/alimony so it’s a lose lose. Good luck man | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/06/24 06:06 PM |
| 1 | I Can’t Stop Crying TodayJust curious, how old are you and how long were you married? | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/24 08:30 PM |
| -11 | The idea of dating again disgusts me… 2 yrs post/divorce“Their bed, their naked body and smells”… yeah you might need to see a therapist bro | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/06/24 05:53 PM |
| 1 | How does this happen. Wife want divorce after 25 years marriageTypical | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/05/24 08:29 PM |
| 1 | It’s official. DivorceI don’t know you and you don’t know me. I just want to know so that I can know what to expect | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/05/24 04:48 AM |
| 2 | It’s official. DivorceSheesh how much do you make a year? | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/05/24 03:00 AM |
| 0 | So what about sex?How old are you? You’ve never desired having sex with another woman? | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/05/24 07:27 PM |
| 1 | So what about sex?Unless his wife is cheating | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/05/24 07:24 PM |
| 7 | If your wife has a “work husband” assume they will eventually hook upWOW | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/04/24 08:06 PM |
| 9 | Dating a person with little to no net worth at age 40?And don’t knock her up | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/04/24 05:05 AM |
| 9 | Why do we seem so rare?I feel this same way. I also feel this in the corporate world. It seems like everyone has a ring on their finger and constantly talks about their significant other and I very rarely see anyone actually going through a divorce. I’m also 33 and maybe just haven’t lived enough life to see it but 50% seems high. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/04/24 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Online datingFor real! I will swipe left on any off putting bios that come with a list of demands or “prove to me why you deserve me” energy | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/04/24 08:01 PM |
| 2 | Online datingThe entitlement from them is crazy | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/04/24 07:55 PM |
| 2 | Deep depressionYes, but only cause I’m broke as shit now. Once I get my money back up I’ll be fine. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/03/24 08:36 PM |
| 6 | Is your ex-wife better off after divorce?Looking forward to the days where my kids are independent and I don’t have to speak to my ex | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/03/24 01:07 AM |
| 5 | Is your ex-wife better off after divorce?Love to hear it | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/03/24 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Is your ex-wife better off after divorce?What is a lawyer? | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/03/24 12:59 AM |
| 6 | Sexually FrustratedGo hit up your neighborhood massage parlor | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/03/24 03:30 AM |
| 3 | When did you know it was over?Oh God I can imagine. I’m about to check it out lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/03/24 01:33 AM |
| 3 | When did you know it was over?DB? | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/03/24 01:13 AM |
| 4 | When did you know it was over?Yup… when my wife asked for an open marriage I was so thrown off cause she hadn’t been sexual at all. If anyone should’ve been suggesting an open marriage it should’ve been me! | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/03/24 11:29 PM |
| 4 | When did you know it was over?A friend of yours!? Wow, the shit I see on this app on the daily is unbelievable. How did your friend get close enough for her to even think that was a possibility. That so called friend of mine would’ve definitely gotten a 2 piece to the face | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/03/24 11:28 PM |
| 1 | When did you know it was over?Damn you had a divorce coach too? 😂 | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/03/24 11:24 PM |
| 2 | When did you know it was over?Smh Karma got her ass | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/03/24 11:23 PM |
| 8 | When did you know it was over?When she refused to see things from my perspective and compromise. Never wanted to take any accountability and blamed me for the problems in our marriage. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/03/24 11:23 PM |
| 6 | How long have you guys stayed single?Been divorced for 2 years and I’m just like you. I can’t bring myself to become emotionally attached to someone. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/03/24 09:24 PM |
| 16 | Remind me never to get married againI will never get married again unless there’s something for me to gain. Whether that be with her money to combine and build wealth together (houses etc.) or if she comes from a wealthy family where I can get a dowry. Not interested in taking care of another woman financially again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/03/24 09:23 PM |
| 3 | Remind me never to get married againAll of that without kids is crazy | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/03/24 09:20 PM |
| 8 | SadnessI’m 33. Been separated and living separately (neither of us have filed) for just over a year and a half. We were together for 10 years, married for 3 and the pain still hurts. Not so much as me wanting to be with her but I miss the family dynamic we had and in hindsight I truly believe we could’ve worked past our issues | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/02/24 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Does it ever get better or civil?Interesting, my ex becomes more rude whenever she starts seeing someone | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/02/24 09:36 AM |
| 2 | Why is it so hard to watch recent ex wife date?Weird that she wants to share details. Normally they keep that information to themselves | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/02/24 01:38 AM |
| 2 | Wife and lover not working outHelll no. You know the right answer to this. Look at how much your life has improved since she's been out of your life. DONT DO IT! | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/02/24 09:48 PM |
| 2 | After divorce, did you take the time to go through your entire photo album and social media accounts to delete pictures of your ex?The only reason why I kept everything was for our kids. I’m sure they’ll want to see some of those photos someday | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/02/24 02:42 AM |
| 4 | Did you see red flags in your inlaws, specifically your ex-MIL?Oh yeah, a ton that I ignored. I’m not a fan of my former father in law at all | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/02/24 12:19 AM |
| 8 | So disappointed in myself.It’s hard brother. Btw 2 years old is way too young to be sleeping at other people’s houses. It better be CLOSE family | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/02/24 12:18 AM |
| 6 | My Ex is having another baby (not mine thank god)They got married 3 months after your divorce was finalized? | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/02/24 06:34 PM |
| 1 | How did her family/your in laws/friend circles behave before, during and after your divorceFacts | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/02/24 03:00 AM |
| 3 | Sometimes I think others just don’t get itHe’s in the denial stage of grief. I learned that reconciliation is just a bandaid and that the true feelings and intentions will rear its ugly head in due time | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/02/24 01:20 AM |
| 2 | Sometimes I think others just don’t get itCheating is the only reason for all this | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/02/24 01:18 AM |
| 2 | I saw my x wife at Walmart and I feltThe best way to feel. Any kids with her? | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/01/24 07:27 PM |
| 10 | Time heals all woundsFor me that’s what’s making it hard. Having to see her and communicate with her | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/01/24 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Time heals all woundsDo you have kids together? | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/01/24 01:06 AM |
| 2 | When did you know the spark just wasn’t going to return?When she stopped taking accountability and blamed me for everything. When I gave her a detailed account on how I was going to fix our issues she would just move the goal post on me. She didn’t even want to go to therapy. And she would constantly lie about the smallest things which made me believe she was lying about other things. Once they go down that dark path there is no turning back. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/01/24 06:53 PM |
| 1 | How did you finally decide to pull the trigger?Xyz? | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/01/24 04:20 AM |
| 2 | Help: Just seen my ex wife on dating app.This is so true. I’m in the same rut right now. Women and dating has been taking me away from my purpose. Most of them are a waste of time and resources. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/01/24 12:33 AM |
| 24 | Help: Just seen my ex wife on dating app.Your point? You’re on the same damn app! | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/01/24 12:18 AM |
| 4 | My wifeThis shit is fucking sad. And women wonder why men are bitter and skeptical going into new dating relationships | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/01/24 07:34 PM |
| 6 | I'm terrified.You’re friends with an 18 year old at 28 years old? Lol sorry just thought that’s kind of interesting | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/01/24 08:09 PM |
| 2 | I'm terrified.Man I’m in the same boat now. My divorce crippled me financially in 2023 along with losing my job. Starting a new job in a couple weeks and I’m looking forward to rebounding but my credit score is damaged. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/01/24 08:08 PM |
| 3 | Sad, just sadThank you. Well said | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/12/23 11:26 AM |
| 3 | Sad, just sadMan my ex hinted at the same exact thing! Literally verbatim… and silly ole me just shrugged it off | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/12/23 03:29 AM |
| 2 | Sad, just sadMy ex’s mom went through 2 divorces as well… and then died from a drug overdose. So you can imagine what that did to her | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/12/23 03:09 AM |
| 6 | Sad, just sadBro… right there with you. The red flags were staring me dead in the face. I had blinders on | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/12/23 03:08 AM |
| 6 | Sad, just sadYup same. My ex grew up in a tumultuous broken home so she doesn’t see any problem with this. I grew up in a 2 parent household and although my parent’s marriage was far from perfect they raised productive kids and taught us the importance of family. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/12/23 02:53 AM |
| 7 | Sad, just sadShe wants to coparent and be a part time mom. Sad generation we’re living in… | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/12/23 02:43 AM |
| 3 | Friends with your ex wifeI’m right there with you. It’s especially hard when kids are involved. Yesterday was very depressing for me | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/12/23 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Seriously curious...You must be asexual | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/01/23 04:41 PM |
| 3 | Seriously curious...A relationship without sex? What’s the point? | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/01/23 08:32 AM |
| 2 | Seriously curious...Why the hell would you do that? | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/01/23 08:23 AM |
| 1 | Seriously curious...Do you ever crave intimacy? | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/01/23 08:15 AM |
| 4 | Fellas, how long were you single til you got into a relationship again or started dating? I feel like I rushed it because I got into a relationship after being separated. And I feel like it’s affecting the relationship I’m in now cause I never got to healI’ve been separated for 2 months now and am enjoying my kitty carousel. I did meet one girl recently that I actually really like but I’m being careful | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/08/22 02:44 AM |
| 4 | Fellas, how long were you single til you got into a relationship again or started dating? I feel like I rushed it because I got into a relationship after being separated. And I feel like it’s affecting the relationship I’m in now cause I never got to heal5 years is a long time | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/08/22 02:43 AM |
| 2 | Fellas, how long were you single til you got into a relationship again or started dating? I feel like I rushed it because I got into a relationship after being separated. And I feel like it’s affecting the relationship I’m in now cause I never got to healWow lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/08/22 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Sharing child care costs when my child isn't with meYou are lucky to not pay child support when you only have every other weekend. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/08/22 04:33 AM |
| 5 | What to do…Are you really in love with her or are you terrified of being alone? That’s a real question that I had to take a deep dive and reflect on | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/08/22 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Need advice !Close app? | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/08/22 07:55 PM |
| 2 | Women friends with (non-sexual) benefitsBeing married or in a long term relationship will definitely ruin your game. The more you go out and date other women it will improve. I too am finding myself to be a little awkward. It’s a lot to adjust to. I don’t see a problem with having platonic female friends so as long as you are not spending your resources on them. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/07/22 01:07 AM |
| 2 | Emotional peaks and valleysSame. And all the good women are not as attractive (overweight) lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/07/22 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Is it me or have things shifted from women wanting to keep the child from you to “it’s my free weekend/day” “I have plans”. It’s like part of the reason for this divorce is so she can enjoy her 50/50Am I being shadow banned!? | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/07/22 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Seriously, it’s true.Right like what is he complaining about 😂. I thought this story was going to end much worse | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/07/22 07:55 PM |
| 3 | finally feeling like myself againThis is refreshing. I’m 2 months into this and I literally find myself going crazy. It’s much harder when you throw a young child into the mix and I have so much spite for my ex it’s hard to control. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/07/22 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Harassment by YellowFever46Why don’t you just block him? | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/07/22 02:15 AM |
| 4 | What is the minimum age a man should get married and what should he know coming into the marriage?30 | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/07/22 06:34 AM |
| 4 | Left my wife and 3 month oldRaccoon is Definitely a girl | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/06/22 04:33 AM |
| 9 | Left my wife and 3 month oldBoth of their money? We got a mole gentlemen lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/06/22 04:27 AM |
| 3 | Left my wife and 3 month oldWhy did you volunteer child support and not ask for 50/50? | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/06/22 04:23 AM |
| 1 | The evil B**** strikes again…I tried to keep this shorter but I just had to let it all out | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/06/22 09:44 PM |
| 4 | Top 5 reasons your marriage failed and who initiated the divorce?Communication/inconsistency with words and actions Dead bedroom Lack of emotional intimacy (started to feel like she didn’t care about my well-being as much as I cared about hers) Conflicting visions/life goals Resentment over the past I’ll say the main thing however was the fact we outgrew one another after being together 11 years since our early 20s. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/06/22 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Ex Wife is going out with female co workers, but she made it a challenge to find out. Why?So she’s hooking up with a married man? Shows her character lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/06/22 02:44 PM |
| 3 | Ex Wife is going out with female co workers, but she made it a challenge to find out. Why?If you need to contact her, you got her number… | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/06/22 07:13 AM |
| 3 | Anyone else just laugh at the advice given in other subs?I don’t even bother looking because I know my eyes would be rolled to the back of my head the whole time. It is funny because 90% are destined for divorce anyways. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/06/22 06:38 PM |
| 3 | Fixing your marriage, what did you try to do?I will say from my experience and the women I have come across either personally or vicariously through another individual, once they’re done it’s really hard to get them to change their mind | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/06/22 04:57 AM |
| 1 | My cheating ex is struggling right now. I hate that I care.You said she made her own bed. Just curious to know how you guys split? Was it a mutual decision? | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/06/22 03:41 AM |
| 1 | My cheating ex is struggling right now. I hate that I care.Wow given all that she still cheated? How did she make her own bed? | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/06/22 03:10 AM |
| 30 | My cheating ex is struggling right now. I hate that I care.I am a little worried about my ex’s quality of living and finances when I move too. I think women have a very hard time looking at the big picture and think everything is gonna be ok. Then reality hits them like a ton of bricks and by then it’s too late. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/06/22 07:48 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else find it hard to be around their married friends?I’ve been noticing red flags in my friend’s wives also lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/06/22 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Supposed to see my parents today since we decided to split and I’m dreading it.So it was actually a good time. We had a really good conversation and they both assured me where their allegiance lies. They wish the best for me and my daughter. At the end of the day we just want an amicable divorce without me having to pay child support. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/06/22 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Supposed to see my parents today since we decided to split and I’m dreading it.True | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/06/22 12:27 AM |
| 3 | Supposed to see my parents today since we decided to split and I’m dreading it.Update: I’m here… wish me luck | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/06/22 08:28 PM |
| 3 | Supposed to see my parents today since we decided to split and I’m dreading it.Funny update. So she texts our group chat with my mom, dad, ex and myself asking what time we’re gonna be there (knowing my ex isn’t going) at 6am and I take a while to respond and then she texts my ex asking if I’m still going… like why not just text me directly? | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/06/22 04:10 PM |
| 2 | Supposed to see my parents today since we decided to split and I’m dreading it.Valid. I just have a lot to explain. They don’t even know that I’m moving into my new apartment in a week lol. I know they’re not gonna like that | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/06/22 04:08 PM |
| 4 | Supposed to see my parents today since we decided to split and I’m dreading it.Thank you sir. I just picked the book up yesterday. Can’t wait to read it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/06/22 03:35 PM |
| 4 | Back to APSame lol… based on the way I’ve seen it be used I’m guessing it is the guy they cheated on their husband with | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/06/22 11:28 AM |
| 1 | I almost want a whole new friend group…How would I know? Lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/06/22 07:16 PM |
| 1 | should I divorce him?Ha… I could never imagine this dynamic as my ex never initiated sex. We went 3 months without sex when we decided to call it quits. We also have a child but she always used that as an excuse because she was “tired”. He could have low testosterone which in turn lowers his sex drive. Maybe he can get that checked out. Are there other problems in your marriage aside from sex? | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/06/22 05:40 PM |
| 3 | For the first time I’m in my life I feel insecureI feel all of this. Your last sentence hits home with me too. I refuse to go after anyone who’s lower than my ex. I will only date up. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/06/22 04:43 PM |
| 1 | My own mother giving me grief over this...I feel this 1000%. I feel like no one can truly understand what I’m going through in my personal circle so what’s the use? I know what you mean by using it against you later | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/06/22 04:26 PM |
| 1 | My own mother giving me grief over this...Damn man can’t believe what I’m reading about your mom. Choosing to invite the new bf over for dinner!? Wow… Sounds like you’re closer to peace with everything so good on you man. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/06/22 08:55 PM |
| 1 | My own mother giving me grief over this...Wow I really made some typos on the original comment | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/06/22 06:52 PM |
| 3 | My own mother giving me grief over this...Makes a lot of sense. My ex would always make slight comments to my bachelor friends that appeared to live a fun life. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/06/22 04:31 PM |
| 2 | My own mother giving me grief over this...Real talk. For the record I am pretty active go to the gym, play basketball, hike, and I am contemplating joining this boxing gym but it’s $200 a month and my expenses just jumped exponentially. Thanks | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/06/22 04:03 PM |
| 3 | My own mother giving me grief over this...Wow spot on again. My buddy that said “you gotta be around friends at this time” was hanging out with a group of our friends and his wife was there. I was social on Friday and didn’t really feel like hanging out Saturday and Sunday. His wife and my ex have recently grown very close after a trip they did together (funny how they weren’t that close the previous 6 years while we were together). I partly did not want to meet up with them because I did not want to see her. But I’m the bad guy if I sa… | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/06/22 04:01 PM |
| 8 | My own mother giving me grief over this...Wow man. Spot on with me. My mom had 3 sons and my ex was the daughter she never had. Edit: my ex never cheated (as far as I know) | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/06/22 03:57 PM |
| 2 | 39(M) Moved out leaving wife and 5 year old son behind.wow | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/06/22 02:24 PM |
| 1 | 39(M) Moved out leaving wife and 5 year old son behind.Did you go 1700 miles away because that’s where family is? | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/06/22 01:08 PM |
| 2 | 39(M) Moved out leaving wife and 5 year old son behind.She made way more than you and you still paid the rent? | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/06/22 01:06 PM |
| 2 | For the first time I’m in my life I feel insecureHow funny my ex only wanted one too. After being pregnant before and wanting a second child. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/06/22 04:52 AM |
| 3 | For the first time I’m in my life I feel insecureThat’s real | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/06/22 04:51 AM |
| 2 | I finally had sex with someone new!Needed this. Thank you and I’m happy for you! | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/06/22 03:30 AM |
| 1 | (37) At the point of hiring a sex worker.I get it man. I’d probably be willing to have NSA sex with my ex again. Mostly because I’m not too into my other sexual prospects atm. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/06/22 11:20 AM |
| 1 | Feel like dating will be a challenge…Smart haha | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/06/22 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else find it hard to be around their married friends?I’m 32. Friend group is around the same age. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/06/22 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else find it hard to be around their married friends?I feel you bro | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/06/22 05:37 AM |
| -2 | What is the most seamless way to get divorced?Oh man thank you that’s such great advise 🙄 | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/06/22 12:12 AM |
| 1 | A QuandaryYou have a lot to consider. I’m in a different situation where I’m in the early years of marriage. Probably much easier decision for me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/22 02:00 PM |
| 2 | A QuandaryFuck her life worry about your own. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/22 03:33 AM |
| 7 | What and How?Funny how women always switch it back on you. My ex was an expert at that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/06/22 11:48 AM |
| 2 | What and How?Man so sorry to hear that. As an aspiring home owner myself I can understand how frustrating this would be. I’m in a similarly situation now where in order for me to be close to my daughter I have to rent and can’t afford to buy a home for at least 80 miles. A dilemma I struggle with daily. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/06/22 11:47 AM |
| 2 | Lost my friends.Yup. Her and my mom are close too so I’m pretty sure she told her some shit. It’s sad but my relationship with my mom isn’t that good rn cause of this (and many other things but that’s beside the point). Like everyone says time heals wounds. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/06/22 01:06 AM |
| 3 | Lost my friends.A lot of women value their friendships more than their personal relationships with their significant other so she most likely did damage control early on to ensure that the friends would take her side. She most likely fabricated her side of the story to make her look like the victim. Been there… the real ones will stick around | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/06/22 12:07 AM |
| 8 | I gotta ask, does it ever get better? The hate for your ex wife?Real talk brother | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/06/22 07:33 PM |
| 2 | I gotta ask, does it ever get better? The hate for your ex wife?Man I’d sure like to know too. I’m very early in our divorce stage and I still live with her until July but I just can’t help but to despise her with such venom. Just shocking how selfish she is. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/06/22 07:15 PM |
| 2 | What do you guys want post divorce?Yessir do you. Dating is expensive | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/06/22 01:08 AM |
| 2 | What do you guys want post divorce?That part | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/22 06:54 PM |
| 2 | Where to live?I have a 4yo daughter and I couldn’t imagine having a roommate. Don’t think it’d be possible honestly | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/22 04:08 AM |
| 2 | What do you guys want post divorce?Heard that | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/05/22 04:11 PM |
| 10 | I want to have sexual relations with a woman...And not to mention you probably spend less with an escort when it’s all said and done. With dating you gotta add up all the restaurant bills and what not | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/05/22 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Feeling aimless todayI feel for you brother. It’s just sad how selfish these women are | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/05/22 04:36 AM |
| 1 | How do I vacation, alone?Single cruises exist? Lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/05/22 03:59 AM |
| 1 | How do I vacation, alone?Kind of in a similar situation. I want to do some international traveling and might have to do it by myself. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/05/22 03:53 AM |
| 3 | What do you guys want post divorce?Good on you my man | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/05/22 03:45 AM |
| 6 | What do you guys want post divorce?Good for you my man. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/05/22 10:51 PM |
| 10 | A month and some change left of living in the same house as this woman and I can’t wait to get out.Yup. This generation of women are so misguided | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/05/22 06:02 PM |
| 14 | A month and some change left of living in the same house as this woman and I can’t wait to get out.They’re clueless to it all because that’s what they expect. I think my STBXW is in for a rude awakening when I leave. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/05/22 05:45 PM |
| 0 | When you have childrenYou guys sound seasoned lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/05/22 05:43 PM |
| 2 | Did you guys take the ring you gave her back?Hey this place is for men only LOL | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/05/22 10:28 PM |
| 3 | Did you guys take the ring you gave her back?Yup. This is what I wanna do | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/05/22 01:52 PM |
| 3 | Did you guys take the ring you gave her back?Good on you brother | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/05/22 12:37 AM |
| 3 | Did you guys take the ring you gave her back?Of course she did | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/05/22 12:35 AM |
| 7 | Did you guys take the ring you gave her back?Ur right the whole idea of marriage is so archaic | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/05/22 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Did you guys take the ring you gave her back?So you let her keep it and sell it or she did it without consulting you? | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/05/22 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Does “The woman you marry is not the same woman you divorce” ring true for you?Absolutely | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/05/22 07:58 PM |
| 2 | It’s crazy how many women of this generation don’t even care to try and fix issues in marriage. I am truly shocked on how fast and easy she was willing to give all this up…Facts | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/05/22 06:36 PM |
| 5 | It’s crazy how many women of this generation don’t even care to try and fix issues in marriage. I am truly shocked on how fast and easy she was willing to give all this up…Yeah my wife is talking about us not being married but still living together (like roommates) because it is expensive where we live. I’d rather move on completely that way I can start my new life quicker. Makes you realize how many couples are together strictly because of living expenses. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/05/22 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else in the early stages of divorce/separation and telling friends and family?My problem is none of my wife's close friends are married and they're not necessarily high character relationship women themselves... | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/05/22 04:16 PM |
| 2 | It’s crazy how many women of this generation don’t even care to try and fix issues in marriage. I am truly shocked on how fast and easy she was willing to give all this up…THAT PART. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/05/22 04:10 PM |
| 4 | It’s crazy how many women of this generation don’t even care to try and fix issues in marriage. I am truly shocked on how fast and easy she was willing to give all this up…Do you think you two will be able to live separately? | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/05/22 04:04 PM |
| 1 | has anyone ever just up and moved 100s of miles away after divorce?You don’t have kids and you can find work in another area… yeah you have absolutely nothing holding you back. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/05/22 05:03 AM |
| 2 | It’s crazy how many women of this generation don’t even care to try and fix issues in marriage. I am truly shocked on how fast and easy she was willing to give all this up…Why are you here? | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/05/22 04:52 AM |
| 10 | It’s crazy how many women of this generation don’t even care to try and fix issues in marriage. I am truly shocked on how fast and easy she was willing to give all this up…It’s shocking when she surprises you with how evil she really is | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/05/22 04:51 AM |
| 3 | It’s crazy how many women of this generation don’t even care to try and fix issues in marriage. I am truly shocked on how fast and easy she was willing to give all this up…Yessss. Very similar situation as far as trying to get to the results and apologizing for my wrong doings but while at the same time discussing where things need to improve on her end too | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/05/22 04:49 AM |
| 2 | It’s crazy how many women of this generation don’t even care to try and fix issues in marriage. I am truly shocked on how fast and easy she was willing to give all this up…Thank you | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/05/22 04:48 AM |
| 1 | It’s crazy how many women of this generation don’t even care to try and fix issues in marriage. I am truly shocked on how fast and easy she was willing to give all this up…A pornstar escort that I never saw… | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/05/22 04:46 AM |
| 2 | It’s crazy how many women of this generation don’t even care to try and fix issues in marriage. I am truly shocked on how fast and easy she was willing to give all this up…I definitely feel like she has an ego about this like she wants to come across as the one who initiated it with her friends. I brought up divorce during heated conversations but everything I’ve said was always rooted in “let’s try to figure this out and get to the issues at hand” | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/05/22 04:45 AM |
| 6 | It’s crazy how many women of this generation don’t even care to try and fix issues in marriage. I am truly shocked on how fast and easy she was willing to give all this up…LOVE THIS. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/05/22 04:41 AM |
| 2 | It’s crazy how many women of this generation don’t even care to try and fix issues in marriage. I am truly shocked on how fast and easy she was willing to give all this up…Ha funny that you would jump to conclusions regarding that. She never found out about that as those were one off times. I go to massage parlors during times she doesn’t know about. Let’s see your skeletons now. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/05/22 04:39 AM |
| 2 | It’s crazy how many women of this generation don’t even care to try and fix issues in marriage. I am truly shocked on how fast and easy she was willing to give all this up…Now can we pull your skeletons out of your closet? | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/05/22 04:37 AM |
| 13 | It’s crazy how many women of this generation don’t even care to try and fix issues in marriage. I am truly shocked on how fast and easy she was willing to give all this up…That part… my STBEW isn’t even interested in couples therapy because she knows she wouldn’t able to discuss her faults | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/05/22 04:25 AM |
| 15 | It’s crazy how many women of this generation don’t even care to try and fix issues in marriage. I am truly shocked on how fast and easy she was willing to give all this up…So do we. GL brother | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/05/22 08:56 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else in the early stages of divorce/separation and telling friends and family?This! The first sentence. When I begin to tell people what went wrong I have a hard time because like you said it’s so much context that I’d literally have to break down 10 years of build up shit from our relationship | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/05/22 09:09 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else in the early stages of divorce/separation and telling friends and family?That would piss me off omg | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/05/22 09:07 AM |
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