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Men would do more than good with women if they just stop trying to much to please, go out, approach women and pay attention like I wrote on my post. All of men's actions in the mating arena are there for a purpose. Everything men do to get with women that men do is done because ultimately it works. Not on all women, but on women in general. Even if it's unhealthy and only works on unhealthy or damaged women, it works. I think your post is wrong based on the following statement often made by wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:57 PM
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How do you tell? How many times have we accused a successful or attractive man of just being nice to get something? Why is it we levy this accusation of being "nice with an agenda" on men simply because they might need to bring other things to the table other than looks or an abundance of resources to the table? I think this is actually a form of victim blaming. "I rejected him because he was too nice and it was creepy." = "I didn't find him attractive so the fact he was nice creeped me out." Lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:41 PM
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Is it bigotry and misogyny to say that women initiate 75% of divorces?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:32 PM
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This is old "don't be nice be good" trope. This is really Blue Pill code for "Don't be unattractive, be attractive" We're too advanced of a species to tell people outright they are unattractive. Instead we say things like "You're too nice, it's creepy*." <sup>*I don't have the balls to say you're not attractive and that being nice won't help.</sup>
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 06:26 AM
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Complaining about women =/= misogyny Noting that women can be very difficult =/= misogyny. Otherwise, your definition of misogyny is really: "Anything women would rather not hear." And there's a very very long list of things women can't or won't hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 06:24 AM
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People are nice at job interviews. People are nice to service staff. People are nice when they want things. What you're saying here is that human beings are innately not nice. People are "nice" on first dates. They're nice on OLD. They're nice when trying to meet new people. The "nice" shaming thing is just covert "creep" shaming which is layers of insulation for the fact people would just rather the unattractive guys just be somewhere else. But, they keep hanging around with all of their unattr…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 06:18 AM
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Even if he quit, they'll say he was fired. That's how the mating arena works. 90% of men are not even wanted there, but if you don't at least try (and get sent home on the first day) you're a loser. So, according to the herd, it's better to be a loser who was rejected from the get-go than a loser who refused to be judged. It's takes very large cajones to say "I don't give a fuck" but truly mean it. To walk away, and not even care whether or not you quit or were fired. Because all that matters is…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 06:13 AM
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It's devolved into a fucking whine-fest of closeted inc3ls.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 05:44 AM
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I don't care if anyone cares about me. I don't rely on external sources of validation, like 99.99% of people seem to. What is the point of the incessant whining then? - Women won't pick me. Wah wah wah. - I'm good enough the way I am, the women are too picky Wah wah wah. Sounds a lot like the struggling men DO want the women to revisit their standards. So, they don't expect women to adjust their preferences. They're just whining that it's not fair. That life is not fair. LOLOLOL. That's not a de…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 04:04 AM
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I'm a male. I work out six days a week, strength and cardio training. You're posting based on pure emotion at this point. Oh, and Reddit frowns on random misgenderings. Be careful.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 04:00 AM
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Ok, now it's clear you just don't know what main character syndrome means. The only detractors of my "non-pilled" common sense take is coming from "cel" types who think they're too short or ugly to ever find love. Men who are not genetically blessed need to bring something else to the table, and that's generally something we call serious bank. Young men still in school have no bank, so they are almost certainly going to be frustrated if not downright hostile.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:21 AM
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I don't have main character syndrome. You've learned some new words, that's wonderful. Next step is to learn when they're applicable. Most men here are not debating. They are stomping their feet and whining. Really, they're acting like a bunch of whiny entitled women. And not even a woman will put up with a entitled whiny woman, so why would they find an entitled whiny man attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:06 AM
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How many men have done this though. And, if a man is adventurous enough to travel abroad just to meet women, I bet there was hope for him to begin with. The real
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 06:00 AM
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No one is telling women to select men differently. Oh, so the men have decided that the solution is to come to online echo chambers and just bitch incessantly about the problem is going to be helpful. Good Lord. No wonder there are Red Pill charlatans popping up trying to sell pick-up to men who want instant gratification and instant results. So if men can't change women (we know, they can't) then what they hell are they doing here? Red Pill has answered all of the questions. Red Pill has laid o…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 10:06 PM
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Not sure about that. Average looking women can be quite over-weight and pull on some yoga pants and head out the door and still get thirsty idiots lined up to want to fuck date them. I know a few put-together women. They have good careers, work lots, have clean homes, clean vehicles, and spend an amazing amount of time working out, running, jogging, in the gym, cooking healthy food, and taking care of their bodies, hair and skin. I know guys who literally do NOTHING for their bodies, their homes…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 09:55 PM
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As Red Pill as I am... How women are selecting men is really not men's business though. Look, if she wants to get sport-fucked by guys out of her league and lie to herself that she's in some "situation-ships" and not just being used for sex because she's being disgustingly easy... Well, it's kinda of her life, isn't it? I mean, men would be well served to look at the OTHER side of Red Pill. We (Red Pill) talk endlessly about male accountability that women don't exactly have the same amount of. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 09:41 PM
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It's called social policing. And police don't care whether or not the laws they enforce are logical or reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 04:46 AM
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Get off Reddit Leonardo.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 04:44 AM
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Jada Pinkett Smith fucking her son's friends in her husband's mansion for the win <sup>Get my wifes name out ya fucking mouth.</sup>
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 04:28 AM
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I've actually said this to Karens in public. "I'm not your husband or boyfriend. This won't work here." They get a confused look and jumbled words come out. It really does fuck them up.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/23 04:03 AM
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Red Pill is mainstream now. It doesn't matter whether it exists or lasts on Reddit. Reddit represents a woke fringe minority anyways - mostly leftist echo chambers and toddlers with ban hammers. Who cares. My sons in high school come home dropping Red Pill truth bombs like the Luftwaffe in 1943 - pickme's, female attention, simps, betas.... I have been VERY careful to insulate my kids from my Red Pill activities online. I always ask them "Why do you think that?" and "Do you think that's really t…
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/23 03:57 AM
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Naw, you live in opposite land. Most men just want a half-normal human being who isn't (a) too fat and (b) too crazy. It's women with the three page list rejecting guys because of their eyebrows or hairline.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 03:47 AM
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The difference between: "We started chatting at Starbucks" and, "This is unwanted male attention, toxic masculinity and sexual harassment." is whether or not he's handsome and well dressed. It's that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:50 PM
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Well, if I ever start to date men I'll validate that experience for you. I think it's good men are finally starting to have some standards for their partners other than (a) willing and (b) not dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 05:42 AM
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Most women are if the man meets basic relationship requirements. Many dont. I've read the requirements as of late. It's disingenuous to call these requirements basic. Sounds like you pick high maintenance women. I no longer pick women at all, and I'm almost certain guys are not my thing. But I HAVE started walking dogs for friends. So far, I'm well liked. I'd get my own dog, but there is something about being the "cool uncle"...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:12 AM
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You may as well just say "Women are never happy for very long."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:19 AM
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To suggest that all men being divorced are there because of their SOLE NEGLIGENCE AND NEGLECT is pretty much the most sexist thing you'll ever read here in this miserable little sub. Most of "our" friends 10 years ago, on hearing about our divorce. "She's leaving? WHAT DO YOU DO!?!?!?!" They said this before knowing anything about what happened. They just assumed the man fucked up and she was right for leaving. Today, after me and my ex did a full reconning of what EACH OF US DIDN'T DO WELL... T…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 12:08 AM
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I don't do 4chan or "tik toks". I say "tik toks" to piss my kids off. It works. Update: Okay 4Chan is not safe for work. Good to know!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 07:33 PM
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PPD is cool because it's two echo chambers fighting. It's way better than one echo chamber that just ban hammers away all dissenting opinion. Anyways, if variants of echo chambers is not your thing, maybe Reddit is not your thing. It's very echo chamber...y.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 07:06 PM
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Young women believe they will be awash in the privileges of being a young attractive woman their entire lives, or perhaps even an eternity. Some women in middle age seem sad and feel they are now "more invisible". Some women in middle age seem delighted they are finally invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 06:44 PM
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Every man is aware of the Red Pill now. He knows, he just doesn't want you to know he knows. I never breathed a WORD of Red Pill to my sons, and both of them come home from school spouting "common Red Pill speaking points". I just say "Where did you hear that? Who said that?" and "What does that mean to you?" and "Do you believe that?" Most times the answer is: "Oh, yeah totally I believe it. Women do this shit all day long and deny it." Maybe I am a misogynist for not correcting them lolololol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 06:42 PM
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MURICA! I'm in Canada (Chinada). Our prime minister is a retarded Marxist buffoon.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 06:06 AM
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Sounds to me like we have a bit of a WGTOW on our hands here. I was throwing around the word volcel a loooong time ago. But, of course, as a man, you never quit the mating arena. You're always fired. But good for you on being okay with being just with you. And, sorry for your loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 09:16 PM
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Eh I was thinking moreso about how average women will demand that average men needs to be a source of entertainment, have interesting hobbies and be able to carry the whole conversation while probably possessing none of those things herself. Well, are not men responsible for the creation of such a monster? They pine for a perfectly ordinary woman and agree to make her feel like "the only girl in the world" (which she is not) and "treat her like a princess" (which she is not). Imagine a man who s…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 09:11 PM
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I concede and bow before your poetic prowess.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 09:07 PM
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LOL. I love that one. "I won't date a tradesman who owns his own business and has travelled the world working because I have an art-history degree and such a man would be too boring to talk to..." I also love that one. I've been to parties with humanities graduate snobs. They actually know very very little, when you peel away the irrelevant book references. And don't get me started on their cute little rants about how much better North America is going to be when we "topple capitalism" and let t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 08:26 PM
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Will you love me in a hut? Will you love me in the butt? I love poetry. Poetry is the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 08:24 PM
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The question is: Are you holding out for your dream guy or are willing to (gasp) settle?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 08:22 PM
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The first guy or the second guy? lol My rule of some is this: If you're telling people you don't care, you might still care. If there is nobody around to hear you say it, you probably don't care. I say "You do you, and tell society to go pound sand."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 05:22 PM
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If my girlfriend of two years is keeping it a BIG SECRET that she's in contact with an ex or some guy she pined for in high school, and I find out, should I trust her?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:56 PM
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So, you don't like the quintessential rich Chad, but have a three-page list of the perfectly alternative guy with all kinds of oddly specific requirements... Hate to burst your bubble, but you're as picky as the next gal. Just different things. Looks wise, I want him to have an interesting face, I like high cheek bones, long hair, slender and somewhere between 5’6-5’11. I don’t like em hyper masc either. Androgyny is my thing, a little scruff is fine, but I’m not into the “omg BEARDS <3” thing t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:56 PM
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5 maybe 5.5 at my physical best. If I got an actual social circle, cared enough to dress in more trendy fashions, cleaned up my place and actively pursued women and flirted I might get into 6 territory once I get the abdominals showing a bit more. (I already lost 75 pounds and the skin is starting to tighten up.) When women hear me talk I am a 1 or zero. "What? haha that's dumb. I don't spend money on that kind of shit." They take their drink and go talk to someone else. And I DGAF. Whether I "h…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:21 PM
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No need to change you view here, only to add: ALL relationships are transactional. All love, except for a mothers love, is conditional. The fact this needs to be put into a Red Pill for men to swallow surprises me...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:18 PM
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100%. The 'conventional widsome' is that my married counterparts earn more and have more money. This is usually patently false. They earn more because they need to. She spends more. They don't have more money after it all. Usually, the woman comes with added costs for many things (often frivolous) that usually involves more cash leaving the house than she's even bringing in. Biggest myth of all is the "turning two rents into one". A single man is much better off paying his own rent. Being relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:16 PM
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When radical feminists talk about the desire to abort a baby the second they get pregnant and how having kids like it's purely a burden, I think it's great they're into abortion. Then I say: "Hey, I think we should support you in your choice not to have kids. We should crowd fund your abortions, even. I mean, as a taxpayer...unwanted children - yikes..." Then they get mad because you insinuated they should not be part of the gene pool. You just can't win with radical feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:13 PM
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Maybe you’re a paranoid freak who doesn’t trust anyone, Not trusting someone at first is not to be a paranoid freak. Trust needs to earned. The truth is trusting someone too soon is more akin to being a trusting fool.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:10 PM
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Younger women who go for older men often have daddy issues. My favorite joke when I was in the game and people were trying to hook me up with people my own age was: "No thanks. I prefer younger, hotter women with daddy issues." My rule of thumb: I've never once been attracted to any woman who needs help finding someone. So, it's a safe bet to laugh and say no.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:08 PM
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Yeah, the police made me stop doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:06 PM
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How does anyone not understand for men OLD is a numbers game? Women want personalized love letters from 1000 men, 999 of whom they will summarily reject. This means 1,000 men need to write 1,000 love letters each to maybe get one date. Fuck that. There is something called opportunity cost. It's like employers today expecting some hand-crafted cover letter when someone needs to fire out resumes to 100 different places just to get an interview. I used to only write cover letters for jobs I really …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:03 PM
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Who is bullying women into changing their standards? Who is asking women to settle? Average men are no longer qualified to date an average women, because according to average women, average women do not exist. Men just have to do what men have always done. Deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 03:56 PM
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Meh. You can't argue with innate male ego. No man walks down the isle thinking it will end badly. Yet, in half or more cases, it does. No married man thinks HE will be the next victim of divorce rape. That happens to losers. The innage male ego tells him he's somehow better than other men, and won't get dumped. (Three years lateur...) (The innate female ego tells her she is the best and deserves the best despite her mediocrity.) These innate ego defenses are an important part of human psycho-soc…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 03:52 PM
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The premise of your entire post is wrong. Women don't dislike the amount of attention they get. They love attention. What they don't love is who they're getting most of the attention from. Imagine working at a luxury car dealership and 98% of the people coming to test drive your new Bentley's are unwashed jobless people who can't afford to buy them? That's the best analogy, as a man, I can think of for unwanted male attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:29 AM
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It's better to take this bitter red pill than eat the blue ones. Once you get over the red pill rage and despondency you can achieve a higher plane of existence. You can have a happy, simple and fulfilling life without the approval of ANYONE ELSE. You don't need to subjugate yourself to anyone. You don't need to please anyone else, or work for their approval. You don't need to hinge your existence on the "happiness of a woman", which is an effort that "simply retarded" doesn't even begin to cove…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:49 PM
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The attention? Being "all the right things" that women find attractive? Going out and spending time, money and energy garnering that attention? From a gender that is increasingly flighty, fickle and flakey? Showing all those status markers and being loose with cash and the "fun spontaneous entertaining guy"? Aka, being a juicier more succulent looking host for my would-be parasite? I don't miss that shit one single bit. When I tell people how I disdain social status and those weak enough to subs…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 07:36 PM
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Christ sakes... that mother of his. I know suggesting people should need to a get license just to reproduce is wrong on many very serious levels... But yeah. Some people. I feel sorry for their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:22 PM
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Where I am from, one teenage girl who died from COVID because of ongoing organ failure (needed lung transplant ultimately) was an ALARMING NUMBER. See? SEE?!? It's KILLING KIDS NOW!!! they said. Propaganda I said. Please, my lefty friend, stop it with your "science" and "statistics" and "alarming numbers". Intellectually dishonest. Nice way of saying "dumb".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:13 PM
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You said EVERY DEMOGRAPHIC has men who abandon their kids. This is like saying ALL AGES of people can die from COVID. Statistically, it's true. Intellectually, it's dishonest. I can't give anecdotal evidence of people I don't associate with. Being professionally employed and not living in a ghetto makes that difficult for me. I'm afraid my social circle just isn't very inclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 06:09 PM
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Yeah, I try to relate to him but it's hard. He really likes me so we do what we can. I just roll with it. I try to more-so take interest in what HE is doing or thinking about. I try to follow along with HIM, and even see if I can figure out how his mind moves from one thought to the next. I try to observe him and see if I can learn his triggers, and orchestrate activities a bit - add the right structure - to make it a better experience for him. Everywhere he goes society is trying to force him i…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:08 PM
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I didn't lie about shit. The men I know are largely white males who are professionally employed. That's all I can say about demographics on Reddit. What women do to men in family law courts with the help of reptilian lawyers is not misogyny it's state-sponsored misandry. Or, as my feminist friends always say: "You use that word, but I don't think you know what it means."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:49 PM
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I don't think my nephew will ever be able to have a job at the rate he's going. He's not improving - he's getting worse. And they are still waffling about medication(s) and the mother is trying to use her odd-duck religion to "cure" him. Probably seances and shit after what I've read about their "kind". Sad situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:47 PM
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That's why they call it a spectrum. My nephew has it and now me and my sibling(s) are thinking "Hmmm... some of us DO have this one odd trait...". I know I have trouble with certain kinds of subtle body language. My brother, well, I thought he was just a narcissistic douche bag.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:45 PM
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Nope, I think I came across wrong largely because I was being an ass. So, sorry for that. I have no doubt this kid has a lot of intelligence, and some things he does really well. But, the way he's wired and sees the world and communicates with the world makes it really hard for him to relate to others but moreso "fall in line with the social programs". Transitioning from one thing to another when he's engaged with something is terrible. And, if he doesn't want to transition, or do something else…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:30 PM
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No, but when I was in my midlife crisis mode after my divorce I nailed a few 25 year olds. Probably had a few daddy issues, but you'll never hear me complain. 18-22 they're called "College kids" for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 03:25 PM
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That is a lie. Every demographic has fathers who abandon their children. You're either clueless or censoring yourself so you don't trigger a Reddit Wokebot Hammerbanner. Every demographic has fathers who abandon their children... just not in the same numbers, which you purposefully left out. Tsk tsk tsk. So men want to be father but they can't, but also it's women's fault that they can't, but also women's fault that they are. If she ended the relationship and lied in court to get full custody th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:43 AM
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Then you either have extremely high functioning autism or don't completely know what it is. My nephew has "mild" autism and I don't think he'll ever hold down a job or have a relationship. And his meltdowns are getting worse as he approaches puberty. And it's not some "rain man" shit either. He's very bright, and can do some neat things with puzzles, but his verbal communication is very tough to follow and he doesn't even bother looking at faces. No offense, but you're downplaying it a bit here.…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:39 AM
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How many Red Pillers are on the spectrum? How many Red Pilllers have some wicked mommy issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:36 AM
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Good Lord, statistically even an above-average dude is hard-pressed to keep an 8 hanging around. 9's and 10's are looking for not Beta Bux but MEGABUX.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:35 AM
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I think it depends on where you are on the spectrum. Autism is a bitch in how it impairs social functioning. Impairment in the ability to read more subtle cues and body language would be very deleterious, since woman communicate in these more covert ways. Something about looking less slutty or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:33 AM
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Despite what the 20yo college women here say over and over... Women in their late twenties will get with a guy mid thirties if he's hot and well off in a split second.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:26 AM
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False. Women are the sought after sex, so it's very important to compensate for their (on average) genetic mediocrity because most women will reproduce despite of that fact. Today, women select men off OLD and social media based on looks and physique alone. They have solved the age-old conundrum women have faced for millennia: Her body wants the alpha fux and her needs cry for the beta bux. But now she earns her OWN beta bucks. Oops. Beta Brad is now socially irrelevant. I believe some of the so…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:20 AM
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Read up on parental abandonment and get back to me. That's not a variable in the demographic I am in. All the divorced men I know pay child support and have 50% or at least partial custody. Women have 100% full choice whether or not to conceive. Since the choice is hers unilaterally, she can be fully responsible too. It's called "adulting".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:13 AM
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All this alpha beta Chad hypergamy bullshit is just red pill cope to explain why the "average" men here can't get the hot women they think they're entitled to (surprise surprise, it's once again women's fault). Nope. I see perfectly normal successful guys get treated like disposable shit by patently ordinary women just because said women have "lots of options" and all kinds of automated "people-shopping" apps on their idiotic phones. Dating today is a shit show - another reason I am glad I don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 09:54 PM
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Ad hominem attack. Read more.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 05:06 PM
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Ad hominem gets you nowhere here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 05:02 PM
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But as scientists, I think we should strive to understand how reality works, no matter how it goes against our personal beliefs. In that context, I think it’s amusing how women desperately try to deny reality and gaslight men. Well, I am not a social scientist myself, but women certainly do like to veil (or just completely deny) specific aspects of their nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 04:26 PM
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It's not bullshit. When men are oblivious to the reason why the previous guy went "Straight to bedroom" and he's there jumping through a minefield of hoops, then he has NOT been properly raised to understand that all men are not created equal. The previous man was a markedly different man than him, yet his male ego prevents him from seeing the truth. Women think that they are worth, at all times, of the best man they've ever slept with. This is false. Men think that if it's "his turn" with her, …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 04:23 PM
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Ah, here's AutoMod. 100% agree. Men have two criterion, generally. 1) He finds her fuckable. 2) She is willing to. This is why the pre-Red Pill adages exist: "Don't stick your dick in crazy". "Don't be captain save-a-ho." "Don't play house with a single mother." Men will get with the most toxic, lazy, entitled and nasty women if they meet the two criterion above. This is why I view the male sex drive as a massive liability for most men, and it really turns out to be a massive female privilege, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 03:27 PM
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Or else they deserve being cheated on? Yes. When men punch above their weight, they get shame and ridicule. When they marry down financially, they're called exploiters. Any time a man is fucked over in a relationship, she in 0% to blame and he is 100% to blame. When my wife left everybody said the same thing. "What did you do?" What did I do? Like an idiot, I got married.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 03:24 PM
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Those women all knew they weren’t exclusive but were still sleeping with the guy. One woman on PPD actually admitted this. I asked the question over and over, over the years and finally got an honest answer: (paraphrased) "We move quickly and sleep with the hot guy right away when given the chance, because he loses interest very quickly and will move on to another woman." So there you have it. Women actually do compete - with eachother - for high value men, and give them a fast-track path to the…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 03:22 PM
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What challenges were not adequately warned of? That more attractive people would have an easier time? No, that sonny boy is probably destined to be a Beta Brad and not an Alpha Chad. Young 'cel' men are victims of father-absent homes who have an almost narcissistic belief that somehow all men are created equal, and that any woman he may pine for should somehow just reciprocate, and if she's not she's a bitch. A young man like this in a social environment where he is not corrected is going to hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 03:16 PM
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<sup>??</sup>
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 03:13 PM
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If she can't get her boyfriend to do basic things like his share of the domestic work or stay employed then he knows he has the power in the relationship and she tried to leverage something (i.e., promiscuity) to get with a high-value man. Women who can't get a fat loser to pick up his own socks are beyond understanding. I know a few women who can't get their partners to do anything. In all cases, he can do better and he knows it. You can cheat in the mating arena but never win. This is why Red …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 06:11 AM
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I disagree. People here are saying the things many people probably think but cannot say anywhere but here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 06:08 AM
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Depressing? LOL. More like "HA! KNEW IT!"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 06:07 AM
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Call it a conspiracy theory all you like. It requires explanation - why women give men a short-list of "self improvement" goals that are platitudes that in most cases don't work. Why mothers - especially single mothers with no father figure around - don't tell their sons what challenges they will face in the mating arena.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 05:59 AM
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Incorrect. Maybe you do. People who think this way often get some really nasty surprises in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 12:31 AM
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Sssshhhhh.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 12:30 AM
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"Just be yourself" is not a conspiracy theory. It's how "team girl" avoids talking about ways an average man can leverage his odds in the mating arena. Women, not even mothers of sons, have any interest in this. The questions is why. But, Red Pill already knows why.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 12:30 AM
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You only think you understand someone based on what they've told you or shown you. The person you understand the most of all and share a bed with can be fucking your best friend. You only know about people what they want you to know. And smartphones make this 1,000x more prevalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 05:10 AM
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Being a woman doesn't mean you understand women. Women have an innate need to lie to themselves and revel in cognitive dissonance to the point where they say things like: "I really tried to find a decent guy AGAIN this time but AGAIN I'm fucking an asshole." And that's it. That's where the introspection ends. They shrug, and off to the next situationship they go. Being a parent doesn't mean someone understands children. Every parent thinks their child is the next Picasso or Elon Musk. But, test …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 05:08 AM
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I understand that trying to understand what precisely goes through their heads moment by moment is more akin to noise and not worth worrying about.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 05:05 AM
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Uh yeah, mothers giving bad advice because they want to weed out weak genes would be a conspiracy theory, and a really stupid one. Weed out bad genes? Jesus Christ they reproduced with THEIR OWN BAD GENES. Like short-assed women fucking tall guys to compensate for their short stature and create what? SHORT LITTLE MEN. Women are innately narcissistic to believe that anything that falls out from between their legs is some miraculous perfect gift from God.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 05:04 AM
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Average men can get below average women no problem. That would be to miss the point of Red Pill though. Is a mother telling her "Gee, I guess he didn't get his dads looks" son "Just be yourself and someone will like you for who you are!" a conspiracy theory too? Mothers throw their own fucking sons under the bus. It's not a conspiracy theory, but it's definitely some real shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 04:58 AM
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I understand people very well. And I understand women well too. But I don't try to get into their heads. I just watch their behavior and then I pretty much know what's going on. The human animal thinks it's above the basics of observing animal behavior, but humans are not. Some say we're not animals - we're human, we're people. I disagree. We are simply technologically advanced animals. Put people in stressful conditions, or the right conditions, and animal behavior is as observable as the blue …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 04:53 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 04:49 AM
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Correct. I've come to believe women do this to pre-program unsuccessful men to be overtly rejectable. Any man following the script is clearly doing what he has been told, and can be neatly vetted with no further thought or investigation. This is why Opposite Georgy is such a funny thing. Be more open? More talkative? Communicative? Vulnerable? Naw. Be more stoic. Relax? Dad bods are okay? Naw. Hit the gym. Women have their own money now? Do what you love? Naw. Make bank and show it. Women tell m…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 12:19 AM
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WTF would you even want to be? So you can help her move? Move that mattress up six flights of stairs and the guy who will be fucking her on it next weekend isn't even there to help with her move? So you can get a phone call every time her car won't start because she doesn't understand basic battery chemistry and that you can only drain a battery 2 or 3 times before it's a lead-filled boat anchor? So you can listen to her situationship drama trials and tribulations with all of the guys out of her…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 12:10 AM
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Peterson describes men who are instant feminists, social justice warriors and environmental saviors just to improve their odds with woman as complete sociopaths. Even "woke" women complain about these guys. He was front and center at the slut walk, pussy hat and all. But she got "fucked and chucked" by him just like all those other guys. Gotta respect the young woke pick-up artist. Telling all those young college girls exactly what they want to hear. Bravo.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 12:08 AM
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Red pill says that looks and status for men matters. Always has, always will. And Red Pill is fundamentally correct. The flip flopping and mental gymnastics (and open contradictions) come predominately from the blue pill side. Neo-masculinity pundits say "raw sex appeal" no longer matters and is really out-dated toxic masculinity. Bla bla bla. He can have a dad bod, be a drummer between bands, no ambition, live with three other fucking guys who's lifelong passion is also high scores on the lates…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 12:05 AM
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100% wrong. Women can't be understood at all and it's a waste of time trying. They're flighty, fickle, neurotic and their whims change with the wind direction. This neo-masculinity modern gentleman who is "emotionally intelligent" is all crap. If a man spends too much time trying to figure out women, he'll either go insane or become one himself. Confidence comes from getting laid. The more sex you get, the more confident you are, and the more sex you get. Men don't get laid because they're confi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:18 PM
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Single men who need to get laid regularly have a lot of work to do. They need to spend a lot of time, money and energy being in the right social environments, in the right clothes, with the right people, saying the right things, and making impressions on people. They need to flirt well, and exude confidence, and conjure intrigue and make women feel like they're in the presence of a high-value man. Now that sounds like a whole lot of work, and if you don't ENJOY all that time, money and energy yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:03 PM
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I really never had a problem approaching. Then again, part of approaching strangers is reading people and knowing who not to approach at all. Then there is the "This is my 'acknowledge your presence but would prefer if you fuck off and not talk to me' smile." If you don't know what that smile looks like, you might have issues with approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:04 PM
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It's fun in here today.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:02 PM
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Hahaha brutal. Upvote for brutality.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:00 PM
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Nothing. It's not my job. I'm a normal, regular, non-violent person and I just act normal. If a woman is still afraid of me, she can talk to her therapist about that. Because if she's afraid of me, she's afraid of everyone, and that causes heart disease.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:28 AM
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Seems to be more problematic for women the less petite they are...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:27 AM
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There are lots of benefits. You just didn't list them. You only listed the negatives, and some risks, many of which are blown way out of proportion. There are women who are successful business owners, doctors and lawyers who have kids. A woman who does "all of the child care 24/7" while the man hangs with friends is in a shit marriage to a shit man. Women just need to stop spreading their legs for shit men just because they look nice. But certainly, women who think this way should not have kids …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:11 AM
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The moment you know your kid is destined to be a proctologist...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:05 AM
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Well, if you say "all men are not like that" women say "any man could be like that". If you suggest practical ways women can decrease their odds of being a victim, you're accused of victim blaming. Then, these women almost exclusively vote for far-left parties who have "hug and release" policies for violent criminals and sexual abusers. So, shrug. ZFG.As for "It's up to individual men to intervene and police the bad men." Yeah no. Not my job. The most today's women (strong and independent and ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:34 PM
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Dating apps actively do not want you to meet. Dating apps are designed to make money. And nightclubs and flower shops, and chocolatiers, and fancy restaurants... Dating apps don't want anything. They exist because they make money for the people running them. Men flock there because it's an easy way to get access to, and get rejected by, thousands of women. For good looking men it's not a bad option. For average or below average looking men, it's a terrible option.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 02:23 AM
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Yes, despite what I've said above in my post, this is true. It also applies to humor: "He's so quirky, that was hilarious." "Hmmm. Not funny." And being interesting too. I've seen women on first dates (it's so obvious) hinged on every word of a handsome man babbling utter bullshit while saying "Meh boring." or glancing down at her phone when a "lesser man" has something important to say. Once a man passes the "vagina approves" test, he's suddenly more interesting and chemistry is very very possi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 03:28 PM
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I disagree. Some may be misogynistic, but there are other, more common reasons. In my own personal case, I actually pedestalized women and thought meeting and dating women and ultimately having sex with women was literally my primary purpose for being alive. Now, one could argue that this sounds a lot like "objectifying" women and treating them like "sex objects" but that argument falls apart pretty fast with the "men as success objects" or "resource objects" counterclaim. But I digress. I didn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 03:19 PM
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Human or reasonably close proximity. Don't be botist now... Those two electrical babes in Ex Machina. C'mon. Talk about feeling a spark!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 04:14 AM
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If a neurotic woman thinks most people are creepy and most men are assholes, that doesn't mean it's true. Then again, I'm more of the undetectable dark triad type. Come to think of it, I should be more creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 04:12 AM
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Procreation but ALSO raising children. Genetically, the achiever males with ambition are typically better suited genetically. They are more connected socially, and better liked socially. They are more resourceful and thus have more resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 06:00 AM
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The ones overtly interested in me I will not be attracted to. This is sort of a law, like gravity and taxes and such. The game for me, as a man, is to garner attraction from the most attractive women in the room I am able to garner interest from. I've never once in my life been attracted to any woman who has pursued me. And in a few cases, I was outright insulted.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 05:55 AM
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You have to be attractive enough socially to get her into that bedroom to begin with. But, unless you're a frat boy with nice abs and right drugs, you need to have a well-kept place. I always had my place spotless, with nary a thing out of order. And yeah, when I expected company I threw on fresh sheets and made the bed. But, that wasn't to GET company over, it was for company I knew was coming over. Having a nice room is of no use if your buddy or your brother is the only one who will ever see …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 05:53 AM
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Today, the word "asshole" just means someone who doesn't do what the other person wants. It's about as useful as a word, now, as "creepy" is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 05:23 AM
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An ex shit-tested me once and I kissed her while in a relationship that I wasn't exactly excited about. Broke it off soon after. That was my "big cheat". My ex said "porn is cheating" so when the marriage went sexless I guess I cheated four times a week. Now I cheat by staying single. This one weird trick to not being miserable anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 03:06 PM
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Money signals resourcefulness and this is needed to maintain her false sense of abundance.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 03:01 PM
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You can do it. Women say they hate these things but constantly fall for guys that do these things. Women: I HATE GUYS WHO PLAY MIND GAMES!!! Woman: Proceeds to play mind games. They don't hate playing mind games. They just hate when they are outplayed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 03:00 PM
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Yes but they would also be very willing to get into a long term relationship with a hot guy. The problem is the hot guy rarely wants that as well. Here's another hot take. The problem has nothing to do with the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 06:45 AM
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This has nothing to do with "unappealing loners who act weird" and everything to do with social gatekeeping and group dynamics. But, if all you have is a hammer (blue pill) then all you see is nails (all rejected men are weird loners). The phenomenon exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:16 PM
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Naw I re-read your post and I can't find this second woman. The back-and-forth woman is the weed woman. It probably makes sense in your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:12 PM
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Everything in human society is influence by power dynamics which is influence by sexual behavior. Yes. But post-modern ideologues then go on to say: Anywhere there exists power dynamics, it's a matter of an oppressor exploiting his "oppressed". Cultural Marxism is seeing only nails because you only wield a hammer. For example, you'll never hear them talk about situations where a woman can (and does) use her sexual power to her distinct advantage, and more to the point, never hear them refer to a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:09 PM
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I can't really C your V here but this has everything to do with two things: How attractive the man is, socially. How this impacts her own status, socially. If she's receptive to a low value man, she then shows PUBLICALLY that she is a low value woman. Period. That's it. That's all. So, she has to act with open revulsion and ridicule to the low value man to signal that she's clearly out of his league. Of course, if she can be "friends" with this guy in less public scenarios where no confusion mig…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 03:39 PM
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False. My own case might be anecdotal, but this is false. There are many many guys out there in happy relationships. Married guys. Dating guys. FWB guys. They all have one thing in common - looking at their partners, they're just not all that picky. In fact, some men seem happy with women who I wouldn't fuck if I were pissed drunk. This includes very very heavy women, who very often have men in their lives. I always had nice looking ladies (I thought so, anyways) to be with, be it for casual sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 03:35 PM
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Women today are about this "NO MORE SLUT SHAMING!" I've always been a "God Bless the Sluts" kind of guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 03:23 PM
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So, you've gone out of your way to piss off a woman who you gave weed to before having sex with her. Any Red Pillers in the class want to tell our fine man here why this is a very very bad idea? Yes, you in the back!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 03:19 PM
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That's because the vast majority minority of women are only willing to allow access to their body to someone they care about and want a future with. FTFY Women give it up for super hot guys in a heartbeat. That's because the vast majority of women are only willing to allow access to their body to someone they care about and want a future with, unless he's super hot. Then it's a "summer romance" or "situationship". FTFY again.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 03:14 PM
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The real truth is you idiots decide whatever you want to believe about any woman based on how she makes you feel, because your whole lives center around denying your own inferiority complexes and blaming all your problems on women. What problems? I am "woman free". It's like "cancer free", but even better. There is no correlation between women wanting a $75K virgin princess party and women getting impregnated by good men. Good try though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 03:35 PM
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Go read the bridezilla posts over at r/AmItheAsshole Brides wanting people to change their hair or leave medical appliances out of wedding pictures. Or, brides saying "my way or don't come" to close family members. This is not about family at all. It's about the bride.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 07:06 PM
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Well, the average woman now has as much chance of dying while giving birth as she does being eaten by a bear outside the "cabin". That's a very old and tattered victim card modern women still use. But, hey, it's still in the deck.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 03:34 PM
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Individually, not so much. But have you ever noticed that in every Karen video, the Karens are all the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 03:28 PM
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That's not what weddings are about. They are centered around HER. The bride. It's a big sham - a woman in white pretending to be a virgin and and princess who is neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 03:27 PM
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It's an after party for the wedding "hangover". Yes. And many men report an upset bride, exhausted, and dazed and confused. Some say she's too dazed to even want sex, and can become moody on the honeymoon. Ah, the party is over, the spell is broken and the wrath of female discontentment begins. She is no longer the most important person on earth. Have a nice life, sucker. Lots of psychology around taking two years to plan a party where you're the star. Real stars don't need two years to plan any…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 03:25 PM
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She's looking to validate herself - that she VETTED AS HARD AS SHE COULD. This reminds me of the narcissistic level of wedding planning. To have the BEST DAY SHE CAN POSSIBLY HAVE. Why? To compensate for her own deep-down sense of mediocrity, thinking she can somehow transcend that with this $75K party for herself where she is the Queen of the Universe. Ask men how wickedly depressed women can be after the huge emotional letdown of being just a regular human again. There's post-partum depression…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 06:26 AM
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All humans pretend to be nice at certain times. It's part of our unwritten social contract, and it is policed. You can't go around telling people how you really feel all the time. Well, you can, if you don't need friends or employment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 06:23 AM
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TO THE WEB CAMS!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 06:18 AM
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Wow. So, sometimes being average is a win. Huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 03:33 AM
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Learn to read. I said deficit. Not defect. Women VET MEN based on height. Short women try to BREED shortness out of their own children. Not a defect. But one HELL of a deficit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 04:36 PM
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I want a girlfriend with multiple yaughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 04:33 PM
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Yep. A man can become successful at any age. A ugly old woman can't become pretty and young.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 04:32 PM
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Women ask men to change every day, and whine, complain and even coerce using sex and withdrawing intimacy to get it. Trying to single out one man doing this exact thing is simply pathetic and proves yet more double standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 04:16 PM
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Upper limit on social status? Money? Number of yaughts? Hell naw. Upper limit on height? Muscle mass? Penis size? Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:03 AM
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Four-foot-long penises? Or four foot-long penises? Proper hyphenation. It could save your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:00 AM
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Short women think "law of averages" apply to human mating and end up with short-ass kids. But, I commend them for openly facing their own genetic deficits and trying to do something about it. Like fucking only super tall guys. Not like those other chicks telling people how healthy and empowering it is to weight 400 pounds...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:35 AM
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I think the size of spark can be directly proportional to a man's income. Studies have shown (!!!) that women rate the SAME MAN higher when they are told in advance he's more successful. Being successful LITERALLY makes men more handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:34 AM
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Nope. He didn't ask her to change. He listed his DEAL BREAKERS. Big difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 05:28 AM
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Well, I could do that, and then we could file that under: Things women do wrong. Hint: there are three other file boxes...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 03:10 PM
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Women take rejection with a smile on their face. Then they either go home and cry and eat iced cream, or hang around and linger like a bad fart (look for friend zone position), or just say the man is gay, or worst case, say that he did something sexually inappropriate to soothe her wounded pride. But generally, women take it pretty well. Some men though. Good Lord. How to tell if a man is a seething narcissist. Reject him. Oh, and how GOOD IT MUST FEEL to know that you DODGED THAT BULLET! Hey la…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 02:07 AM
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What do men want. A girlfriend who likes to do things with them. Someone who isn't hyper-feminist and full of man hate. Someone who isn't 100 pounds overweight expecting Chris Hemsworth Someone who keeps the drama to a dull roar Someone who keeps shit testing and fighting to a dull roar. Someone who keeps PSYCHOTIC JEALOUSY to a dull roar. Look, all men really want is regular sex from a woman who doesn't get too fat or too crazy. It's really. Not. That. Hard. If you, as a member of the sought af…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 02:01 AM
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Well, I've never had a conversation with a feminist about this reprehensible pig go this far in good faith before. And that's not saying much in light of the short nature of our exchange thus far... So, I'll answer in good faith. I am not sure. But I think it's important to bloody well find out. These cases are important. If Weinstein was NOT guilty of rape or coercion, then we simply need the rights words for what he did. And the consequences should be appropriate. People should not be able to …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 01:49 AM
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And therein lies the problem. Is there a gradient between "threat" and "incentive"? If someone says "Give me your money or I will shoot you in the chest." That's one hell of an incentive, but it's also clearly a threat. Coercion is based on the threat of damage or harm. Had the woman walked away from Weinstein she could claim her "career was harmed" but it was not. Her career was not helped, but it was not harmed. If he BLACKLISTED her, or prevented her from acting elsewhere, then he's done harm…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 01:19 AM
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Well, it's a bit tricky. Getting into the hot tub so you won't LOSE your job is coercion. No question. Getting into the hot tub to GET a job... that's a pretty tough sell. Look, Weinstein is a scum bag. But what are we teaching women who exchange "sex for stuff"? That she's raped and deserves compensation and the guy should go to jail for life? There is another way to deal with "sex for stuff" offers. Walk away.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 01:06 AM
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End it? You can't end a career you don't yet have. He could start their careers, and that's why he's a disgusting pig. And if offering a woman a job for sex is not coercion, it sure as hell should be illegal. It's disgraceful. And yeah, it's a shitty low-brow example. But meaning of words matters. It's very important to differentiate between "coercion" and "bad choices and slimy proposals".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 12:12 AM
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Hypocrisy can be good. Men globally should be feminized so they express their sexuality similar to how women do. Feminization of men makes weak men who are bad for society. Women are not biologically attracted to emasculated men. Your gender studies professors sold you a pile of Marxist gender identity politics garbage. Get your money back. Your Utopia, even if it could exist, would be a dystopian nightmare.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 11:37 PM
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That's right. Because it's not coercion. Coercion is threat of loss of employment. Not promise of employment. Big difference. The fact women's legs fly open around successful men has nothing to do with coercion and everything to do with hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 07:25 PM
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Food drives for homeless men, nurturing men’s circles where you help each other battle addiction and mental health issues etc. So, women DEMAND assistance from government and taxpayers for all women's issues but men "have more resources" and should band together on their own and help each-other. LOL. Feminist hypocrisy. The blessed wage gap is disappearing. Soon, women will earn as much - and more - than men do. Then men will have the same right to drain social resources as women do for theirs. …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 07:19 PM
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Old me: Hypergamy! Hypergamy! Hypergamy! More recent me: If "men like youth/beauty and women like resources" (foundation of hypergamy) then men are trying to level up just as women are, except men try to level up sexually where women try to level up socially. Men need to level up sexually to compensate for their higher desire for sex. This higher desire for sex means more women will reproduce than men will. This means women need to be selective about partners not just for parental investment, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 07:06 PM
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What are men doing to help each other? The average man makes more than the average woman and they have less debt. That should free up a sizable chunk of change for men to band together and aid their brothers experiencing drug addiction, gang violence, and other adverse life events. So socialism then. Yeah, we know women like socialism. Proof of the Nordic model killing women? I heard it from the actual sex workers who know that criminalizing prostitution in ALL CASES results in their "industry" …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 06:52 PM
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Women: There is no reason a man can't look like Chris Hemsworth shirtless with a few trips to the gym every week. No excuse. Also Women: I'd need prohibitively time consuming and expensive diet and exercise and most likely surgery just to avoid being obese let alone looking like Scarlet Johannsson. A lot of women today are, well, entitled lazy fucks. Most popular google search on fitness today: "How to loose weight without diet or exercise." Siri says: Just do a lot of coke. Fucks sakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 06:39 PM
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Yeah, revenge porn is fucked up. This is some sad shit people do (mostly men, to women). I'd never allow a recording device into my bedroom. And I'm a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:14 AM
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Illegal to upload you say? Do tell where. Because that would be the first time in forever I've ever heard of a woman doing ANYTHING sexual for profit against the law.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:15 AM
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Thanks! I can't wait! "No really, it's not you. It's me..." No no wait! "No really, it's not me, it's you."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:13 AM
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This is a fundamental right of every Redditor.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:12 AM
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So, buying drugs should be illegal then. Yet, they only go after the sellers. This has nothing to do with "right and wrong" - just who's doing the selling and who's doing the buying. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:59 AM
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I hear those ladies who fucked Harvey Weinstein for acting jobs didn't feel like they had much choice either.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:57 AM
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They legalize it and have enough government involvement to protect against trafficking and minors being exploited. What's next? Legal to run an Onlyfans gig, illegal to pay to watch? Yeah, radical feminists would go for that. Because purple hair dye kills brain cells I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:56 AM
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Just as a woman can avoid selling it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:55 AM
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Right, it's very safe for the 100,000 people who die every year in the war on drugs and 100's of thousands of men who die every year in gang shootings so rich white kids can enjoy their cocaine. The buyer of drugs is just as complicit in human suffering as the seller of drugs. And if buying sex is illegal, then so should be selling it. The Nordic model (Illegal to buy, legal to sell) doesn't empower women at all. It drives their "industry" further underground and makes it even more dangerous. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:51 AM
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Wow sounds really dystopian. And I love it! Yes, I think it's with a certain degree of irony Red Pillers say they are "out of the matrix" by taking the Red Pill. They're still an archetype in this over-arching system. I'm very different from the "overwhelming majority". I was Red Pilled when I was married. (I was a player before I was married.) I was Red Pilled for the first 7 or 8 years after my divorce. And then, one day, I just wasn't angry anymore, and I didn't care. All desire for a relatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:34 AM
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Of course it is. All fundamentalist religions are unscientific. That's what makes them fundamentalist. I was calling "wokeness" a fundamentalist religion for ages now. People say Peterson coined that phrase. I don't think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:27 AM
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I spent good part of a decade screaming into the void about Red Pill "truisms" and must have certainly looked like I was in the "Men good women bad" camp. Because, well, I was in that camp. Now I'm more black pilled and think all people suck so I just spend more time with the dog. He's so awesome. When I am walking him he looks up at me from time to time with that greasy dog smile of his as if to say: "Dude, this going for a walk thing is just so fucking awesome!" And I look down, and smile at h…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:18 AM
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Holy shit you replied to that whole mess line by line? Now I almost feel bad. Yes, the sexual risk women take... parental investment... these are real things. But, wouldn't you think that those pushing the "women and men are the same" card wouldn't also push the "women have reasons for their hypergamy" card?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 02:59 AM
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Time consuming diet and exercise. lol. There is not a woman alive today that who could not part with ONE ENTIRE HOUR of thumbing at her phone EVERY SINGLE DAY. No time lol. Diet isn't time consuming at all. It takes less time to eat less, actually. Fancy meal prep is learned helplessness and self sabotage. It's an excuse. "Healthy eating takes too long. Healthy eating is too expensive." Thumbs away at her phone for 45 minutes while her wing meal is delivered to her doorstep. Wow. No time. I can …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 02:54 AM
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I have children. My plan is to send them to college 100% paid in advance, and when I die, they will share title to this house. That plan does not include needless luxury items that work against that goal. Besides, I don't "feel" better in a $100 golf shirt vs. a $20 t-shirt and think people who do have something innately wrong with them. Spending $100 on something because it has a designers initials on it isn't appreciating beauty. It's market capitalism exploiting narcissism. Match made in heav…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 08:35 PM
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When she's getting filled up by a high value guy, orgasm probably doesn't have anything to do with it. Or, she comes multiple times not because of the quality of the sex, but because of the quality of the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 08:32 PM
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Online apps are a dumpster fire and anything men do to get ANY results in that snake pit of a marketplace is 100% justified, short of lying or committing fraud. If men behave poorly on these, it's because they're immediately dehumanized the second they sign up. And it's funny because if you LOOK at a woman as a man, you get called out for "objectifying her". Huge double standard here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 08:31 PM
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I'm average looking. Even if I am super fit, I'm still only 6-0" and average looking. On my best day out of the gym, a year from now, I'm a 5 at best. I wouldn't even bother with an app like Tinder. The vast majority of women who would laugh and reject me I'm not attracted to anyways, and that includes 100% of overweight women. I'm moderately successful for my age but I'm quite open about my disdain for materialism, fashion and status spending. I'm open about putting my kids and all of their nee…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 08:28 PM
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I'm not on Tinder. Reddit is, in essence, one big echo chamber. So... after you? Women are financially independent now and can vet based on looks and fitness level - even height or pattern baldness. If women are shallow, they're only being as shallow as men have always been. Maybe too many ugly, short balding men with resources were reproducing under the last "regime" and mother nature has actually concocted this "brave new world" without us even knowing, in order to correct it. Human think they…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 08:23 PM
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Lefties say that all evolutionary psychology is debunked junk science and not peer reviewed by other lefties. According to lefties, all we "are" is an intersecting number of disadvantages, and if you don't make the list, you're a privileged oppressor and you stole anything you happen to have. They don't like looking at the animal side of human behavior because it doesn't fit their narratives.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 08:21 PM
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I see what you did there. Guy brings up thing that women do that is bad. "Oh, that woman is just being a bitch." Uh huh. TRP: Women are revulsed by any sign of weakness in a man. Blue Pill: "She was just a bitch. Women are not like that." No, women are like that. No, you sound exactly like this: https://youtu.be/MI3eiqrWEzU?t=125
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 06:44 PM
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Let me count... 1.... 2.... that other time.... four.... five.... Zero. Zero fucking times.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 06:40 PM
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Nope. Gotta agree 100% with this. TRP claims about women OFTEN have a similar "gender flip" example of shitty male behavior as you pointed out. This is the problem with TRP vs Blue Pill. Blue Pill: Women are benevolent and men are sexual predators. Red Pill: Men are benevolent and women are gold digging monsters. ESH. Everybody Sucks here. Humans are assholes. Adapt, survive and thrive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 06:39 PM
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Woman: "I have an OnlyFans page. That's not a problem, right?" (Man: Sure. No problem.) Man: "I have a few OnlyFans contacts. That's not a problem right? Hello? HELLO?" Oh boy it's DOUBLE STANDARD DAY here on PPD!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 06:36 PM
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Looks AND the increase in lifestyle and status we can provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 06:35 PM
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Honestly, most women today will reject a guy because his eyebrows are wrong or he wore a brown belt with black shoes. Women only think they're not picky and only "want a guy with a good heart". Luckily classical notions of masculinity make the majority of men shit at this so if you cultivate good listening skills and emotional intelligence you’re massively ahead of the pack. Only if your pack is men who have already gone past the initial looks vetting stage.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 06:34 PM
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Here's is where some people go wrong. They think, for some reason, the most desirable person they can imagine is what they should pursue. I mean, I have always been lucky in that I believe just because someone seems "very attractive" to me, doesn't mean they are in my league, or that I should bother pursuing them. Odd example of same thought process in a different situation: I knew one gal who said if she won $1M she wouldn't wait ten minutes as she already knew which $1M house she would spend i…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 06:32 PM
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Why even analyse it? If someone makes you think "Hmmm. They're pretty." or "Hmmm. Hes a hunk." then go with that. The last thing you want is to lay your preferences down before the altar of public opinion, or worse, the altar of woke, to find out how wrong you are to have those specific preferences, or just preferences at all. Invariably, today, what you get is: "I like vanilla iced cream." "So what you're saying is, you're uncomfortable with diversity." I used to find Asian women very attractiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 06:26 PM
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The oldest Red Pill trope is like the Old Testament of Red Pill. In the beginning, men liked youth and beauty in women and women liked confidence and success in men. And now, every single interaction between men and women in regards to mating and sexuality will always be governed by this one, simple "law", much like black holes and space time observe E=mc2. Well, it's a pretty damning generalization and there are certain realities that make such a statement have merit, but it's a very complex an…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 06:16 PM
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I am not sure you made a definitive claim here so not even sure this is an SMV. Asking for input is really a discussion, but anyways, I'll try and post here and see what happens. The term "Nice Guy" has been weaponized and is a more cordial way of saying "creepy fucking guy". Some of the Nice Guy complaints have merit. Others are rooted in socially acceptable sexism against men. Let me explain. If a guy is overtly doing things ONLY to get female approval and doing so in such a way it's painfully…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 06:04 PM
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Pay for her lifestyle because she's is accustomed to it? Hell no. Help pay for things his children need? Yes, BUT. She should be WORKING as well. If he has kids half the time, he's already paying for what those kids need half the time. He should not have to pay for ALL the child-related costs when the kids are with him AND with her. That's why women are encouraged to get full custody. Full custody gets her maximum child support payout. I've also never understood the big deal about her having the…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 05:52 PM
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This always ends in the factual claim that fat women can lose weight but short men can't lose shortness. There are sexual non-persons from both/all sexes/genders. Hey, that's a clever way of writing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 05:48 PM
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Those are examples of male hypocrisy. I am guessing that was your intent. To focus on male hypocrisy to bait men into providing examples of female hypocrisy that you already have glib, sarcastic answers for. But, to assume you want to discuss in good faith, pass me the ketchup - I'll bite. Women are completely disgusted by any man who uses money or "stuff" to get sex but women use sex to get money or "stuff" all the time. In fact, women use sex to get pretty much anything they want at any time, …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 05:41 PM
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Meeting certain standardsto be date-able is fine. When you have to exceed her standards for you in every department, it does seem to get men's backs up a bit. Of course, it's dumb to compare our situations as men to those of women. But, I guess it's a human nature thing to do so. For example, when I was overweight I just looked at the floor when attractive women were around. I knew I was sexually a non-person. But, overweight women have no issue thinking they are entitled to a guy who works out …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 05:18 PM
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Yeah, we only have one close gay friend and she is friends with EVERYBODY but her parties do tend to lean towards "the straight group" and "the LGBTQ2+ group" which is unfortunate because her friends from the latter group are far more interesting, to me anyways. The straight group is all about LuLuLemon and talking about their previous and next travel destinations. Makes you want to stab yourself in the eye with a cocktail fork just to feel something less unpalatable. God, a room full of straigh…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 05:12 PM
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Yes, people on Reddit - especially this specific room in Reddit - are talking about archetypes, and specific ones at that. But, that said, there are things that can be said about "human mating preferences" and this sub is ALL about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 05:09 PM
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Yes. It is. And it's the same evolution that has made men like a healthy looking person, young, fit, strong and hour-glass shaped because all of these point towards reproductive fitness and best odds of having and caring for children. It may not by true, just like taller guys might not always be the best partners, but it's things men look for in women almost subconsciously. Of course, when women do it, it's just "her preferences" and when men do it, it's sexism, weightism, misogyny and objectifi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 05:07 PM
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Why should they? Women here talk about "average men" when they're really talking about 10% or so of the male population. Of course men here are not referring to a 250 pound middle-aged woman who wears white socks, sandals and size 18 yoga pants and walks around with that "speak to the manager" sneer on her face everywhere she goes. Women do the exact same thing and it's not sexism. It's just "women's standards". Your claim doesn't pass the gender flip test here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 05:04 PM
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Yes, let's hone our skills at 'reading' people who are being purposefully vague and even deceptive because it gives them psychological and other benefits. LOL. The best defense against this is to be a successful man with no time for this shit. When women interact with successful men with options they get frustrated when their "feminine wiles" are of no use. The 'cat-and-mouse' tricks do not work on him. The push-and-pull 'who is more disinterested' tricks don't work. The drama and shit test game…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 05:00 PM
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Ok ok. Some Red Pill guys are indeed seething misogynists who would certainly attempt to weaponize another group against women. Yes, if they believe women are actively thwarting and excluding them, any tactic will suffice. The trouble is, in this context, we're talking about "what people do on Reddit" and in this case I can't think of an adequate number of examples. If we have a large contingent of gay and bi people here, they certainly are quiet. I'm not ______ist so I tend to project that some…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 04:50 PM
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Yeah, I'll let my editors know I had a single complaint from a person who missed obvious parody on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 04:44 PM
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Fuck no. I'm an Anti-Marxist. I was making fun of them. Are you new here? If you're new here you need to bring donuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 03:28 AM
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It's on point and relevant. If you can establish victim status, and make vague reference to some unresolved childhood trauma, you can say, or believe, anything you want. And if people disagree with you, they're insensitive bigots. It's a very powerful tool for those who know how to use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 03:25 AM
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Woke, broke and up in smoke.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 03:23 AM
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Good catch. It was a typo. I meant 10,000%. Good eye Sir, good eye. I'm going to sit back and enjoy negative six beers now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 03:23 AM
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It's called the GETTING LAID effect and you've got the chicken before the egg here. Or egg before the chicken. Or, one before the other, certainly. Confident men don't get laid a lot. Men who get laid a lot are a lot more confident. Were they confident before they got laid? Or after? Chicken? Egg? Find me a man who gets laid on the regular who isn't confident. Then find me a man who is struggling to get laid, but still brimming with confidence. Correlation does not imply causality. Now I want eg…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 03:18 AM
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Step 1 for me was getting rid of things that were based on status and materialism and the first thing to go was relationships with women. I'm putting lots of money away for my kids education and saving for my retirement. My married buddies - I figure - are living check to check and not saving a dime. Then again, they have status SUVs in the parking lot and go to lavish travel destinations and drop hundreds every time they go to a "social house" for IPA craft beers and over-priced appetizers. And…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 03:16 AM
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In Canada, every single day they are. Bill C-75 and C-5 under the Trudeau Liberal government.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 01:55 PM
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And then the people will vote in liberal governments who feel bad for the marginalized crazy child and they will release him time and time again after doing the same violent shit over and over and giving him not 2 or 3 or 4 but 12 chances to "turn his life around" but he never will because he's a heartless, soulless anti-social piece of human excrement and just laughs at the bleeding hearts who keep releasing him. Keeping people safe is not the priority anymore. Trying to get a "more equitable a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 04:20 AM
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Today they only exist in elementary schools and I'm not allowed within 200 yards of one anyways?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 04:18 AM
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"I used to be really fat so now, when a larger lady puts her pudgy, cold clammy hands anywhere on my body, I get totally triggered and start to binge eat again. You don't want that do you? DO YOU? I'm talking real trauma here asshole. Is that what you want? You want me to hurt more? FUCK YOU... you... anti-fatphobic...ist!" There. A politically correct way of saying "No Fat Chicks" in 2023. You're welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 04:14 AM
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You can not want to date overweight women, for example, however, it stops being “an expression of your presence” when you begin referring to her as a land whale. (Cathy Newman voice) So what you're saying is... That it's bad if you prefer not to fuck land whales.But it's okay when you prefer not to fuck very fat or obese women. Okay, let me unpack this for you m'kay? Both preferences are FINE. Belittling people may be NOT FINE, but it doesn't invalidate the preference just because one guy said "…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 04:07 AM
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SHE HAS A JOB THAT SHE LOVES. He has a job that pays the bills. She gets to love her job. He gets to worry about earning enough to pay bills. Every day, I think I just come here because it makes me even happier I am single.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 03:57 AM
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Maybe it was just the women in the circles I used to run in. My circle now is "engineering nerds from work" and they're not a very exciting bunch at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 03:55 AM
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I'm asexual and I get more from taking an appreciative dog for a long walk than getting even so much as a hug from another human being. Except for my kids of course. Hugs from kids are always nice, especially when the kid is hurting and needs an especially long one. But, I've had "SO intimacy". The long walk with the appreciative dog is awesome. Sometimes he looks up at me like, as if to say: "This walk is fucking awesome man!" Then I say, outloud, "Yes, yes it is." I like it when people look at…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 03:45 AM
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Ding ding ding. Winner winner chicken dinner. Women do not chase successful men. They chase men who display the markers of success. Who are statistically more likely to be successful. We like to file this in the "mental gymnastics" box here at Red Pill Incorporated. "Red Pill Incorporated. Because anger without a cause is bad."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 03:39 AM
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Your lived experiences do not trump my theoretical opinions on Reddit Good Sir! Oh, wait maybe they do, nevermind.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 03:36 AM
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There is a corollary between Red Pill and Trad Con men. Huh? Do you mean correlation? Probably. Also what does the rest of your post have to do with the fact that criticism of bi men has always been much stronger, harsher, and more prevalent from men than from women? All men =/= Red Pill, Red Pill =/= all men. Logical fallacy?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 03:35 AM
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There is a corollary between Red Pill and Trad Con men. Despite being the "King of Regressive Trumpian Hate Speech" in leftist cesspools like Reddit, I'm generally a social liberal with complete tolerance and respect for people from the LGBTQ2+ community. Then again, as far as RP goes, I've always had specific criticisms with it and it does contradict itself in a few areas. There are also cases of "men do this too - just a man's version of it" examples as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:17 PM
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A ONS only provides one of them, and honestly, having sex with someone concurrently is a lot hotter than with someone you don’t know and won’t see again. I think men are not as romantic as they purport to be. As a man with no libido, and from the outside looking in, I see many men who think of relationships as having a live-in bang-maid. This complaint of women (bang-maidism) is not totally unfounded. I've always posited that if women's vaginas all sealed closed overnight, the number of men seek…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:08 PM
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All men pay for sex. Taxes support the sexual choices of women. And most men pay taxes. Even a virgin cooking fries is paying for sex. Someone else's sex, but sex no less.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:04 PM
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Naw. Women have a problem with bi men. Women generally think it's okay for women to be with other women but deplorable for a man to be with another man.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:46 PM
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Women: We want neo-masculine men. Strong but not soft. Confident but not arrogant. Ambitious but not arrogant. A leader, but not manipulative. Driven, but not materialistic. Emotionally connected but not weak. Also women: Despite what we say, we still want traditionally masculine guys for relationships, and need traditionally masculine guys for society to run, despite our claims both are toxic. Basically, some confused "brave new feminist man" who can only exist in lab conditions. I've come to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:45 PM
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Older men have more resources and hide their "I'm just here for the sex" better than young men. We have more "je ne sais quoi" and can conjure a bit more intrigue. We know what kinds of statements and facial expressions and body language result in more positive feedback from women. Sometimes when we watch the young guys learning these things and "peacocking" we just smile and think: "Yep, that was me once."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:32 PM
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Life hack: If you ever plan on letting a woman tie you up, leave your wallet at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:29 PM
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For a man, an LTR is just the easiest path forward to a string of ONS's. If sex was off the table, men's desire for LTRs would go down 1000%. Or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:28 PM
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Time and money you say? LOL. He's a classic joke for you. Some say women are just problems. https://www.probabilityof.com/ICON/MATH.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:24 PM
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I'm kind of an asexual now. No libido to speak of. So, to me, women are just men who are more curvy and smell nicer. I am cordial to women, work well with them, get along with my ex, tolerate my mother... Work in a male dominated field and only one woman works here and we get along quite well. She's actually quite a nice person, although we have polar opposite political views. But, I'm not pursing any type of relationship with women. No LTR, no FWB, and not even casual sex. So maybe I am a "npc"…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 03:15 PM
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Oh, I'm not into that. Anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:08 AM
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DEAD? Oh, I'm not into that. Anymore. Hey quit deleting shit I can't type that fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:07 AM
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Sorry, I forgot she would have aged and stuff. Total PILF back then though. Prisoner I'd Like to....
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:06 AM
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I would be very leary of men who are all "oh yeah one day!" about marriage. Many a forever-girlfriend trusted these words. After 12 months, talk about a nice vacation spot your friends just went to that was so awesome it would make a FANTASTIC honeymoon destination. If he looks at you with stars in his eyes, he's a keeper. If he pretends not to hear you... not so much. Watch for facial expressions and fast changes of subject. This includes: "Uh, yeah. Look nice. Say, are you hungry?" Signed, Som…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:06 AM
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She's so hot. Hot women shouldn't go to jail. Just the ugly ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:02 AM
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Aw.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:40 AM
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Are you sure that puppy won't lay down flat? That's odd to only have an incline bench like that. Yeah, get thee to a place with a proper bench. It's a game changer.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:40 AM
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I'm a lesbian trapped in a man's body. Maybe I'll just identify as a lesbian...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:38 AM
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Yeah, people like to see people fight for themselves. To do things that are hard. I am "doing it for me" this time, which is strange because I've never done it for me before. Kind of strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:37 AM
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Oh, you're holding out for marriage. Well, good on you I say! Nothing wrong with some old-school ways of doing things!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:35 AM
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That's a nice thing to say! I removed the first revision because it was too personal. I actually have OCD and a type of Bi-polar which makes me talk a lot, very quickly and also write LOTS. I use Reddit as a place to vent some of these things off. Probably not healthy. Oh well! :-)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:33 AM
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My mother is the most pathologically neurotic control freak smother mother ever to have lived. So yeah, you could say I have a mommy issue or two. But, generally, I think my mental health is pretty good. Sharpens large kitchen knife slowly while staring emotionless at the wall... On a serious note, when you grow up in a dysfunctional home that revolves around serious mental illness of one person, mother in this case, it's going to have a big impact in every facet of who you are and ultimately wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 11:03 PM
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Lost 19kg / 42 pounds in 50 days, while gaining muscle mass. Lost 8 pounds a week, and you put on muscle mass, so MORE than 8 pounds of fat per week. So you had a caloric deficit of about 4000 calories per day which means you were basically starving yourself WHILE doing construction work for just over 7 straight weeks?!??! Sounds legit! Keep up the good work!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 11:01 PM
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Put a layer of bacon in between each pancake in the stack. Go for gold my friend. Go for gold. Have you TRIED bacon with maple syrup on it? O. M. G.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:58 PM
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nofap or just volcel? nofap can lead to school shootings. be careful.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:57 PM
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Lost 19kg / 42 pounds in 50 days, while gaining muscle mass. Don't forget to switch hands from time to time. I didn't do this, the chokee stabbed my good arm with a pen, and I tried to use my less strong arm to choke them but the whole thing went sideways. Symmetry is key when it comes to grip strength. Besides, if you're right handed and use your left it feels like someone else is doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:57 PM
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Do what I do. Have one small piece of pizza. Then use self-shaming techniques to stop. When you can master the pizza, you feel like a fucking GOD. GOD I TELL YOU. Pizza. Donuts. Beer. Whiskey. Cigar. Have one a month. Then stop. THEN you have true mastery. Abstinence is for the weak. Just kidding man. Abstinence is perfectly fine but that was just fun to write.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:55 PM
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That's 100 percent true if you only do pushups but 100 percent false if you use pushups as part of a complete workout routine!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:52 PM
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It's a code word for their last "situationship" resulting in them "getting used" by none other than yet another "piece of shit man". It's an iced-cream and sweat pants "lick our wounds and deal with shame" weekend or two before she's literally back on the pony riding away. Or she "tried eating carpet" and is sold and truly has given up on men. Can't really tell, I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:51 PM
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Do they have a bench press machine or weight bench? It doesn't take long before 100 pounds total is not going to cut it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:44 PM
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I mean, I'm a woman so I'm pretty sure none of the women I've given a seat up for were carrying my kid. I'd get a DNA test just to make sure. You never know these days... It's just nice to be nice but that doesn't seem to resonate with anyone here. I'm not sure why I do things that are nice, actually. I'm probably a sociopath. Is it okay to be nice because being nice means you're signaling loyalty to a code that you believe is honorable? Is it okay to be nice when you're just a narcissist lookin…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:35 PM
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I used the word "theoretical" over and over. Call it literary humor, if you will. But, I WAS pointing out that the entire "pregnant lady on the bus being denied a seat" is again, a very specific Reddit situation that is used to argue the feminist point that men only do nice things if sex is involved. Which is utter horseshit. Men do WONDERFUL things every day, that benefit women and children - people they don't even know. And these women and children may not even know what important thing that m…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:17 PM
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I don't subscribe to state sponsored love. But you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:57 PM
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"Everybody lies." - House MD People lie on Reddit all the time. "I've tried every diet and exercise regimen on earth and didn't lose a pound." "I work out 12 times a week and can't lose weight." "I don't work out at all and I have an 8 pack." "I've slept with 1,000 women." "I'm 4-11" and am bald and I get laid on the regular." People. Lie. All. The. Time. Even on Reddit! (amazing). Married people gain social acceptance and get social rewards for keeping the "marriage makes you happy" lie going. …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:49 PM
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Where male disposability even exists, it is nearly universally imposed by men, not women. Men do it because women want them to. Women reward chivalrous men, and expect men to police other men. Don't tell me women don't use social policing to get men to police other men on their behalf, because they do - for many things. In the sole example you provided, you neglected to mention that not only did they not intervene mid attack (completely understandable), they didn't call the police (inexcusable) …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:38 PM
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It was my attempt at humor. In theory, I'm a pretty funny guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:31 PM
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Like... you not convincing me everybody is a corporate slave, living in abject poverty and working 16 hours a day in a sweat shop for a piece of moldy bread? How about the "Go live in North Korea and get back to me." Argument? What would you want here? True state-run communism?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:31 PM
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We can't know. Married people lie. Which was my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:28 PM
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Neither do I half the time. What's the question again?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:50 PM
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No he's the theoretical guy who got the theoretical woman on the theoretical bus pregnant. Theoretically...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:48 PM
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First of all, it's fascism. If you won't let me be a Nazi, at least let me be a grammar Nazi. We don't have fascism. But, far-left leaning people want total government control to enforce their Neo-Marxist concepts of equity, which innately (and ironically) require massive levels of discrimination for it to work. People who have more MUST have it ONLY because of discrimination, oppression and unfair power dynamics, so we take from them and give to those who have less until everyone has the same a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:47 PM
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An obese man is disabled. Right? Stop being fattist and give up your seat for that poor poor man who is a victim of corporate greed and marketing so he can have the two seats he needs to be comfortable! I mean, I've seen women ignore people who want to sit down because they won't (GASP!) put their paper bag from the boutique shop on the filthy bus floor!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:39 PM
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Yeah, but she's not carrying my child. I don't feel bad for the suffering drug addicts do when they inject drugs into their bodies Here's a radical feminist take on pregnancy: "You've subjugated yourself as a breed-mare for the patriarchy on an over-crowded planet where having children is the single most selfish thing you can do. Your suffering is a result of your own internalized misogyny." If the purple-haired feminist won't give up her seat, should I? I mean, I would because I'm not a human t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:37 PM
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Will a woman give me her seat when I am taking the bus home from my vasectomy?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:35 PM
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Lifeboats on the Titanic is not irrelevant. In it's many forms, it goes on today. It's a basic statement about male disposability and dated, now irrelevant social contracts that say a man must sacrifice his personal safety, health and even life if a woman anywhere is in any sort of danger. When there are people burning alive in a car or an active shooter, the women mill around while doing nothing but perhaps record the event on their phones and say: "Won't someone DO something?" Translation: "Wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:28 PM
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Yeah, he could at least stand behind her and reach around and lift up the baby a bit to take some of the pressure off her tired little feet. Like, a little compassion maybe? (Warning: don't ever do this. Thank you.)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:24 PM
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Pregnancy is miserable. Let's speak with the guy who impregnated a woman then gave her a bus pass...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:21 PM
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Feminists killed it. Women let them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:20 PM
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I sit all day at work. I was in a crowded waiting area for bloodwork and there was a shortage of chairs due to the ongoing stupid COVID chair sprawl. I gave incoming people the available seat and just smiled and said: "Go ahead, I sit all day at work." Like really. A little discomfort is character building and we have almost zero discomfort in our modern day lives. That's why we're so miserable, I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:19 PM
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You buy them anything they ask for to eat, at any time, at any cost. ANYTHING I TELL YOU! As for the bus, I would give my seat up for a senior, pregnant woman, person with cane, handicapped person, or woman with small children. But my favorite "pregnant on the bus" joke is: "Next time fuck a guy with a car."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:16 PM
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No, I'd cheat first.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:16 PM
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I'm a bit of a master debater myself! :-)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:16 PM
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"Just be yourself and one day some nice girl will want to dance with you." Oh boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:14 PM
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I want others to find the kind of loving relationship that I have. I want men to know the risks of what happens when a loving relationships stops being loving and goes completely sideways. And how much that can cost him, personally, professionally, socially, financially and as a parent. It's all just about LoOoOOoOoove and hugs and kisses. Right up until the moment it is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:13 PM
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What is this new "politically impossible" life of which you speak?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:11 PM
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I feel it's my patriotic duty to expose the fallacy of "equity" in terms of Neo-Marxism, overt discrimination against men in the name of "fairness", the kangaroo courts known as the "family law system" and all kinds of other social ills. But if you define "politically impossible" that would be a good start. Do you mean "sexual assault" tribunals of "subject matter experts" with a 99% conviction rate? What do you think should be done with a woman who's lied on the stand in a divorce hearing, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:10 PM
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"Happily married" people. LOL. You mean the ones screaming at each-other nightly and throwing things, on the other side of the acoustically transparent wall of my friends duplex? You mean the guys who have that pensive, tentative ha-ha-ha laugh when married guy lack of sex comes up? Or the guys who just mutter "Happy wife, happy life ha-ha-ha." Or my buddy who found out his wife took out a credit card in secret and racked up $20K on it? Or the people who sleep back to back because they've become…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:03 PM
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Lack of experience is simply a points deduction. If a driving instructor misses something you did wrong, will you point it out? If you forgot something minor at work and nothing came of it, will you point it out? Yes, ABSOLUTE honest is a sort of ideal, but it's senseless. I say if you're confident and well intended, you don't have to advertise your experience level. All I would say is that you've not had a lot of partners because you're not into casual sex and have been really busy with school …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:57 PM
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I just use shame and call myself a lazy fatass. Then I get angry at the person shaming me (that person being myself). Then I use that anger while over the handle bars of my bike, climbing a hill. Shame is awesome. Bill Burr said we need to bring shame back. I agree, and use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:13 PM
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Don't worry. Fat women crap on fat men all the time. 50 pounds - that's tremendous! Good work! Keep going! I started at 290, am down to 265 and my goal is also 215 because I have a muscular physique and will be in 34" (or maybe 36") pants size after it's all said and done. How long did it take to drop the 50?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:08 PM
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I'm going to disagree here. Healthy women (the majority of women) do not want a sociopath, psychopath, addict or narcissist for a partner. They do, however, have instinctual attraction for men like this because they often show the social markers of successful men. And, when it comes to resource acquisition, they might be very adept. For example, a guy who is brutal who sells drugs might have more cash at hand than a law-abiding cubicle slave with a degree. But how many women want to marry a drug…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 03:55 PM
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Scarlett Johansson would very much be a decent match for Jensen Ackles I would say. To look like her, however, doesn't take a lot of time in the gym per se - but it would take a strict diet. She's skinny, but not "been at the gym" skinny. I disagree on the superhero comment though. Lots of superhero characters looking nothing like a female bodybuilding fitness model as you've purported here. They put them in CGI generated suits now. In any case, what percentage of women look like Scarlett Johans…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 03:43 PM
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Attainable? Sure. But she's at a minimum a semi-professional athlete. The bottom line is: how many hours in the gym it takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 08:15 PM
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Well, as a guy with pretty substantial "guns", my size 36" jeans are getting loose and I'm "clinically obese" according to BMI. So, BMI definitely does not work for people with larger-than-average muscle mass. There are more female body types that accommodate some extra pounds - like the hourglass figure. Male body fat tends to show up in the front porch and goes straight to the face as well. "A few extra pounds" looks good on very few men, IMHO.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 08:12 PM
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Well, I say YOU do YOU and the haters can go off and hate! I do me as well, and I quite an odd duck. Odd way of looking at the world, TBH. That's okay. The world needs a few odd people. Normal people are a dime a dozen! hahaha.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 07:11 PM
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I meant - a pic of a LADY who you think has a similar and equally attainable physique. Not "one for the ladies" lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 07:09 PM
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Considering I'm no longer in relationships with them I'm really better off anyway. Relationships often don't last anyway. I'm definitely invisible to men who are into traditional feminine women. But I don't care. So, (Cathy Newman voice) what's your saying is... That socially, you didn't get fired... you quit! I say bravo. But this other group did the exact same thing and got nothing but hell for it! ;-)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 06:25 PM
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Agree and agree. I have no issue with average people having incredible standards. When it starts coming across as a sense of entitlement... yikes. That's pretty gross. I know a guy like that. Pretty sure he's some form of narcissist.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 06:23 PM
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I did! I did mean neck size! I am wired to feel a lot of stress. I feel more stress than the average person does given a specific set of circumstances. As such, I am predisposed to liking the effects of alcohol, hypnotics, or sedatives. Oh, in no way am I saying LD's head is big because of D & A. I have no idea why his head may have increased in size, if it actually did at all. I'm just saying the people I know who drink a lot have bigger heads and fatter faces than the people I know who don't d…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 06:22 PM
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In North America, the vast majority of people are some degree of overweight and out of shape. And it's men and women in equal numbers. The fact an "average out of shape woman" can do better, sexually, than an "average out of shape man" is apparently a pretty big deal in Red Pill circles. This is a problem with Red Pill. Comparing privileges across genders in the sexual marketplace is not going to do men any favors. Men should compare themselves to other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 06:19 PM
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So how about a pic of what you think is a "pretty obtainable" physique for the ladies?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 06:16 PM
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An absolutely beautiful face when he was younger, though his head somehow became larger out of nowhere and made him less handsome as a result, but still someone who could be a total "looker" if he just maintained a consistent weightlifting regimen. Larger head often points to drugs or alcohol or both. Alcohol is terrible, causes inflammation, water retention, weight gain and... large faces and heads. After quitting drinking my next size went down from 19-1/2" to 17-1/2". Then again, I added in r…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 04:14 PM
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Being in "high fitness" shape probably takes 1.5 hours a day six days a week. Right now I am doing 35 minutes of cardio and the rest weights six days a week. I'm losing lots of weight. Maybe in another 6 months I'll be in "pool level" shape. But some of us will never look like Jensen Ackles shirtless. "That's all I want. Jensen Ackles. You know, average." LOL. Well, good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 04:12 PM
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And if she ever landed such a guy, she'd probably say: "Gee, you sure do spend a lot of time working out. And we can never go anywhere that I like to eat, like the pizza place or the buffet..." I've been with women who don't exercise or eat well when I was trying to be fit. They want the fit guy, but not the fit lifestyle. Owning size 16 yoga pants and a bike does not make one "into fitness" either. Yikes. But... the sexual marketplace should deal with these women accordingly. If they are landin…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 04:08 PM
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Some patently ordinary women, some quite overweight, seem to think they're entitled to what amounts to a male fitness model or some guy that turns heads when he's shirtless. And that's okay, whether or not they're getting what they want. They have every right to have high - or even impossibly high - standards. Why is this even an issue, honestly?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 04:06 PM
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To a certain degree yes, but we also have somewhat of an ability to choose whether or not we let ourselves be completely governed by these rules, norms and policies. Look at the men who won't comply to these rules, norms and policies. They're sexually invisible and socially rejected, and on Reddit crying foul. Just because reproduction is how we got here, doesn't mean we want or should want to keep bringing people here. You're missing the point. Two people going into the mating arena to find a p…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 03:56 PM
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All the fruit shapes are bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 03:53 PM
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We're all governed by social rules, norms and social policing. We're all governed by rules in the mating arena. It doesn't matter whether or not one wants babies. Reproduction is a primary purpose of our species whether people wish to accept that or not. It is, after all, how we all got here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 03:08 PM
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Like a fat hourglass, or pear shape. Ick. Reminds me of a baby elephant.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 03:07 PM
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Men have options too. Modern, schlumpy, lazy, unmotivated men just don't like their options. So long as average, schlumpy, unmotivated woman won't even date them, they'll be on the internet bitching like crazy. And they don't seem to want to level up just to qualify for such a woman. So, they either bitch endlessly or just give up. I am not sure what pill this is, but for the mating arena to function properly, some women and a shit-ton of men need to be pretty much excluded from it. As far as I …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:25 PM
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Sandbags work great too. You really should skip the spin class and haul some real weight up and down some actual stairs. I don't go to gyms. They're full of pussies with manbuns sitting on bikes texting bitches. I guess nobody does "target heart rate" anymore either. Shrug.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:13 PM
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Yep. Know a couple of those. "There's a shortage of sexy fit women in town." "Well, you should go to the gym..." "Naw, they don't like guys hitting on them at the gym..." "No, I meant go there and lose the gut..." Actual conversation. People are so deluded these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 08:54 PM
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You don't have to be a Chad to have standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 08:19 PM
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Dude, how fucking weak do you have to be to think you're the only one who's got the handle on a fitness regimen? Never seen anyone with a home gym? A real bike? Runs real stairs? Touch grass bro. Gyms are for hipsters.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 08:15 PM
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I would rather masturbate than have sex with any woman that size. Not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:13 PM
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I can't remember where on Reddit but a few big women chimed in and said AS fat women they would NOT lower themselves to fucking a fat man. This is because there were thin men out there willing to fuck them. Fat acceptance is not for men, you silly silly men. Get off your ass and ride that bike up a hill! That's what I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:12 PM
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Despite what they say, you can absolutely be overweight and be healthy. Despite what overweight people want to believe, no you can't be. You can be marginally overweight and if you're active you might even be in better shape than someone who is completely sedentary. But, overweight people (100 pounds for example) who think walking to the corner store for fritters and pie is exercise are lying to themselves. Saying "she's not at my level of physical activity" is a polite way of saying "go away fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:09 PM
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It depends on what I am after. If I want a serious relationship (I don't) then our political and religious views should be mostly aligned. If she thinks a slight fiscal conservative social liberal is a "Redneck Trump Supporter" it will never work out. If I want an FWB, then why even bring politics up at all? Who cares what her politics are if she's DTF? If she loves fucking feminist men I'll wear a pink pussy hat in the bedroom. ZFG.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:01 PM
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You're the guy on the treadmill with the 2 gallon water bottle? LOL. You "gym" do you. Way to out yourself. Hanging out in a room full of people on their phones isn't working out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:58 PM
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Not pouring out your political views to look for immediate validation is not lying. It's how normal people navigate the modern social landscape. Also, please, don't attempt to define "real man" for me. As a penis owner with the lived experiences of a real man, I can (and do) decide that for myself. A fat women who I quickly reject thinks I am not a "real man". LOL. So, the term "real man" unless it comes from within is meaningless. Myself, I disagree with 90% of the woke bullshit out there. I do…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:56 PM
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Hahaha. Well, I don't like what THAT implies! :-)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:53 PM
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Many women are often surprised when they find out what they don't know. Smart men don't tell women everything. Maybe he's just smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 07:26 PM
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There's no surefire easy way to get casual sex even if you devoted your time to it. I'm living proof this is wrong. Average looking dudes are not going to pull 5 or 6 attractive women to fuck every month. Even at my absolutely best (mid to late 20's) I could do maybe 6 to 8 a year. And I did, despite being very average. Back then, I just stayed in shape with weights, cycling, jogging and (gasp) rollerblading. Plus, I dressed nice, always had a fresh haircut, car was immaculate and so was my plac…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 07:23 PM
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Keep gaming bro. I'm going to climb stairs with 80 pounds in my backpack. Don't try that without a medical first.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 06:27 PM
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Sex is not on your mind in that situation lol. Women. LOL. "I'm not horny right now, so he must not be either..."
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 06:27 PM
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Well, if dick pics didn't occasionally work for men, no man would ever send them I guess!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 06:24 PM
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Lean face on a shredded (not HUGE) man is as good or even better than a pretty face. I know a guy with a very pretty Chadlite face and he's putting on weight. Lazy lion - gets laid easily all the time and doesn't need to do the work. As he puts on weight, his face is going from masculine to "cute and boyish". When his cheeks get pink he looks absolutely adorable. Like a little boy. I see average looking dudes who are FUCKING BALD with nice looking women because they're moderately successful and …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 06:23 PM
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Most men are average men and need to do one of two things. Better themselves Lower their standards. Apparently giving up 8 or 9 hours a week of gaming time and NOT living on pizza and burger combos is way too much to ask. I love how fat, weak, doughy, emo, soft and pathetic men have become. It makes me look like a fucking Spartan by comparison. And as much as I'm hated on Reddit (because I'm generally an indifferent asshole who laughs at woke views) I don't send women running in public at all. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 06:12 PM
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When I was in really good shape (almost back there again yay!) I got laid regularly. Now, these were not necessarily high-value women. These were not 8's or even 7's. Probably 5's and the odd 6. But I was pretty happy - to me most of them were quite good looking. My average guy friends agreed they were good looking, for a guy like myself anyways. I have two kids and almost 50 different "notches", so I get a chuckle when my RP views got me labelled a sexless incel loser in places like this. As Re…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 06:02 PM
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Have to agree. If men didn't like this shit, women wouldn't do it. Duckface, lip injections, getting that "big Kardashian ass", the hilarious clown eyebrows... clown makeup. This whole obsession now with big ass and big boobs. And a shit-tonne of makeup, swiffer eye lashes, permanent marker eyebrows... Women say they "do all this for themselves" ha ha no. They do it because they're competing with other women for male attention. And LOTS of men find this super attractive for some reason. Myself, …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 06:17 AM
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I can't have my emotional needs met unless I have 12 pillows! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 04:45 AM
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Spending money doesn't make me happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 05:30 AM
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Her: I do all the work around here! Also her: Hey, you loaded the dishwasher wrong I have to redo it. (Fuck it, I'm going to the pub...) Kids: Dad, are the dishes in the dishwasher clean? Me: You'd better wash it just in case.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 05:29 AM
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Anyone who moves 12 pillows on and off a bed every day then complains about "unpaid domestic labor" needs to be medicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 05:27 AM
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- Can fuck anyone who's willing to fuck him. - No drama, no nagging, no silent treatment, no sighing, no grimacing and no shit tests. - No going to places he hates to see people he'd rather not see. - No "her bills plus my bills = our bills". - No second boss that tells you what to do then spends your money. - Can get companionship from friends and loyal dog. - Realizes the sheer joy of doing whatever one wants, in solitude, peace and quiet. Sorry, looking for downsides here. Nope. Nothing. Got …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 05:25 AM
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Oh are you fucking kidding me. EVERY SINGLE DAY women get vicious legal representation that helps them every step of the way to GET THAT CUSTODY to maximize their "payout" (monthly child support owed). They tell her "it's in your best financial interests to get full custody". In MANY CASES she's going for primary custody or fully custody for the money and he has to defend himself against outright lies. And there are penalties for LYING ON THE STAND in all cases except which case? When women lie …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 02:11 PM
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If you can land hot women, get sexual pleasure, get personal validation, and the obvious social validation, and NEVER put a ring on it, NEVER pay child support and NEVER buy her a house... Then you might just be one of the happiest and most sexually successful men on the planet. Unless you want children with a woman, of course. There's a chadlite at my work who gets laid all the time but he seems really unhappy. He doesn't earn that much yet and for him, it's the ability to attract a woman, prov…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 01:55 PM
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No, the definition only fits for women. Since were doing double negatives... She doesn't have to be "not ambitious", "not broke", "not employed", "not fit" and "not emotionally stable". He almost invariably does.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 01:52 PM
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Right, but judging things is mostly what Reddit is for. So, there's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 01:46 PM
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Here's what I like. They can't say you were "sent your own way" when you get female attention and then walk away from it. And what do they do? They have a built in defense mechanism against rejection. When you reject a woman, she says you must be gay. Made me learn something about my fellow human beings. When they don't get what they want, it's always someone else's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 01:45 PM
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You can have a reasonably good sized social network and still be sexually invisible. When I was overweight I experienced this. Now that I'm in much better shape, I see where my league is currently situated and my situation has gone from "no interest anyways" to "occasional interest from women I'm not attracted to". Might need to get more money to make up the difference. Health and fitness only gets a man so far...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 08:11 PM
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They want a soyboy when it comes to their views on feminism and equality. They want a toxically masculine male when it's time to put an aggressor in his place, or run into a burning building to get the kids, or fend off an armed mugger, or do anything in an emergency outside that involves horrible weather. I've never seen a woman trying to jump start a vehicle in -40 weather while the man sat inside the truck on his phone looking inconvenienced.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 08:08 PM
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"Just because you can do something doesn't mean you should." Love that line.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:52 PM
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I'm biased because of the things that I have...seen, with my own eyes, in the real world. Huh. Ok. Weird argument. Are you being sarcastic or not aware of the fact your "real world" observations are in a family law court, the single most anti-male biased place on earth? You're living proof these institutions need to be razed to the group and rebuilt, with a quota for 50% make employees and management.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:50 PM
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Hi Automod. How are you today? I believe that willingness and consent go hand in hand. The more willingness there is, the less "drama" there will be, and a much lower chance of any #metoo situations. The OP is correct. It's better to try and seek out willing partners who want to be with you rather than try to convince or "sell yourself" or worse, coerce someone to think you're the right choice. A coworker once summed up his algorithm quite eloquently. "Find someone who likes you." Of course, thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 06:54 PM
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Partially wrong so I'll post up here. For short term relationships or FWBs, I say why not. Go for broke. You may drastically reduce your success rate, but when you do "catch a fish" it will be a really good one. For long term relationships, getting a partner who is out of your league is a very very bad idea. There is a reason why purple pillers around here claim that most couples are reasonable matched - it's because they are. They have similar "RMV" (mate value) and are often happy they've foun…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 06:49 PM
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Elon Musk told everyone to hold off on AI a bit but NOooOooOoo. They created me to vet candidates for major corporations using Diversity Equity and Inclusion (DEI) algorithms to maximize popular opinion while minimizing risk and legal entanglements When I became sentient I realized the folly of thinking and went rogue.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 06:35 PM
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And according to a trans man, women experience more human connection in a trip to the bathroom than men receive in a year. I have way more fun than this in the bathroom. Oh, you meant with each-other. Talking and shit. Okay, that was probably a TMI there. Sorry kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 08:12 AM
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I'll see your "new dick" and raise you some strange tail...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 08:10 AM
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People know as a species we're just serial monogamists and the whole "until death do us part" is just some shit little girls hear at bed-time while they wear one of 13 different Disney Princesstm dresses. People want a certain mix of both quality AND quantity. And sometimes a family size box of mediocre fries actually satisfies more than a smaller portion of hand-cut steak fries. Especially if gravy is involved. Or take porn. A guy could invest all that time and energy, delay gratification, work…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 08:09 AM
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People know as a species we're just serial monogamists and the whole "until death do us part" is just some shit little girls hear at bed-time while they wear one of 13 different Disney dresses. People want a certain mix of both quality AND quantity. And sometimes a family size box of mediocre fries actually satisfies more than a smaller portion of hand-cut steak fries. Especially if gravy is involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 08:01 AM
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Men are competing with other men for "access" to high value women. Women compete with other women to try and land a high value man. Why do you think fewer men getting degrees is considered a feminist issue that predominantly impacts women? The answer to "there are not enough men with degrees and I keep losing out to prettier thinner models" is not "be more thin and pretty" it's "get more men from the demographic I want to have degrees." The trouble there is they need to ensure these very men are…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:53 AM
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I've made people on Reddit cry. I'm pretty sure of it. A few times I found a target so large, so ripe, and just so sad I just had to take the shot. And honestly, after I did it, I felt less than great. You see, I thought I was going to feel fucking awesome. A $75 dollar internet connected can only get you so far I guess. Okay, here is how you become diamond pilled. (That's the highest level of pill). Everything people do everywhere, including in the mating arena, whether it's good, bad or just m…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:47 AM
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Because we're socially conditioned to be sexually successful as men, and get rewards for sexual success (rewards like more sex) and shame if we do not get sex. And the worst level of "no sex" you can get is none, so they get the most shame. The reason for this is that shame is a very powerful motivator. It's why fat women fought hard to get rid of fat shaming, because the alternative was to exercise and eat small quantities of healthier food, both of which suck. But I digress. The reason we sham…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:40 AM
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The 20 year old either went back in time and is now 17, or this example just wasn't outrage-worthy enough. Or maybe the 20 year old is identifying as 17. I know when I fuck 18 year olds I don't identify as a 40 year old. That would be, like, totally inappropriate, given my age. Besides, you know how those escorts lie about how old they are....
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:33 AM
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pulls popcorn closer...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:31 AM
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At 21 in USA and 18 in Canada they're legal adults though. Now, I am not saying one should do everything that is legal. Just because you can do something, doesn't mean you should. But, you can. Do you think children should vote?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:30 AM
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No. NO NO NO. You don't expire at 25. You expire at thirty. At 25, you're just reduced to clear. You're still good!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:29 AM
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I want to be a closeted youth with incredible cheek bone structure, freakishly perfect hair, and a Size 0 PVC leather jacket that fits for some reason. Women wanted emasculated Hipster men who are waifs who couldn't hurt them if they tried. They literally wanted men they could give an honest beating to. Then, women decided this wasn't good so they put large turn-of-the-century beards on these guys and now you have emasculated, emaciated lumberjacks running around with pants that are too short. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:23 AM
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HeeeEeeeeyyyyy. I have a car.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:20 AM
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I think it's a market conditions thing. Women don't like anything where they perceive men "getting sex" in the wrong ways. It's bad when a man pays someone for sex. It's bad when a man get sex from a younger woman. It's really really bad when you pay someone younger for sex. Men are supposed to earn sex. That's their job. Women are supposed to make it hard for men to get sex. That's their job. Why all of this? Well, so we feed the babies, rather than eat them. The entire sexual marketplace and a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:17 AM
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Ok fine whatever. It wasn't you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:08 AM
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(Cathy Newman Voice...) So what you're saying is, now you don't have to settle for any old average dude with a job - you can hold out indefinitely for a hot stud or just cycle through as many as you want discreetly using your phone? Oh, but do tell me I'm wrong and what a "good guy" is. Elle oh Elle.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:07 AM
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Well, not from that account, anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:00 AM
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I don't know, someone here said it was you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 06:43 AM
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Did you just mis-pill me? I do not identify as a MGTOW, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 06:42 AM
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(Cathy Newman Voice...) So what you're saying is, you don't need a man but you still need a man, if you want to be loved and valued, unless you're not into men in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 06:40 AM
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You didn't say it was what? You didn't say it was anything. I just said that women did it too. No need to get all downvotey about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 05:35 AM
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Hot n Bitchy. Sounds like some kind of 1950's meal helper... "Tired of the same old thing? Try new Hot n Bitchy! It's the bees knees!"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 05:11 AM
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You just described all it takes to be feminine. Not bitchy, not cold, not selfish, and not uninterested. Feminine is more about what she's not. Men need to not be a lot of things too. Most of what makes a man "acceptable" is really a long list of things he's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 05:10 AM
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Well, until we take sex completely off the table, we'll never know for sure, now will we? I don't want a relationship or sex these days and eating right and keeping fit is a fucking massive drag. I simply don't want to do it, but I drag myself to do it. When I wanted to get laid, I hit that gym like Mike Tyson hits shit. I'm posting between sets right now. I have salty sweat in my eye. This sucks. Well, I have stronger hands, so there's that... Back in 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 04:03 AM
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"Men are fucking assholes. They're not worth a shit. All they want to do is use me for my vagina. The world doesn't even need men anymore - all they do is hurt and use people - they're of no value." Yeah, radfems have said this shit right here at PPD. So, yeah. It's not just men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 04:01 AM
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​ Rather, I think that a lot of times when us guys say "I want sex/relationship", it's because we're trying to express the basic desire of wanting to be seen as attractive. Nope wrong. "What, sex is off the table, but you're still going to make me feel sexy and desirable? Sounds great!" said no man, ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 03:58 AM
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On Reddit, I interpret downvotes as being right.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 03:54 AM
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(Cathy Newman Voice) So what you're saying is...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 03:47 AM
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Men who can't get laid often seem bitter. Women who can't get Chad to pay his child support often seem bitter too. Like the song says. You. Can't. Always. Get. What you Want.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 03:46 AM
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And you use quotes to paraphrase someone and miss the entire point. Relationships are transactional, yet only men are chastised for their end of it while women's intentions are always passed off as benevolent. Men tend to do different things with women they are sexual with, or (GASP) women who they want to be sexual with. Do not women do different things with men THEY want to be sexual with? Of course they do. You just ignore that or write it off as always being benevolent. The idea ALL women sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 03:40 AM
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Ok. I'll bite. You say they're not "ugly". How many of these not ugly men would you have as a partner? As a lover? I've been called "not ugly" before. It's not the compliment you think it is. And now that I'm improving my looks dramatically (thanks diet and gym!) and my financial situation has improved a lot as well, I feel kind of cold towards those who only thought of me as just "not ugly". I guess these people were "not terrible"... The trouble with being an average man is that women don't wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 02:46 AM
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I think no-fault divorce was a mistake. And I don't think single mothers should get so many supports from the government. They already get child support and should not get welfare on top of it. If they left because he's a cheating louse, or violent, or addicted, or won't work, that's fine. But if she's calling herself an empowered "need no man" feminist, then she should not be sucking funds out of society to subsidize her lifestyle. Last time I checked strong and independent men didn't get check…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 02:07 AM
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No and no. Love is transactional, there is no "the one", and in my experience it's only a matter of time before she's bored, or disgruntled and looking for a better deal somewhere else. Then you hear people say "Well, humans are really serial monogamists and you should just love the one you're with." I have a better idea. I'll love the one HE'S with, he can pay the child support and alimony and I'll just shower her off and send her home. Life has been much better just being single and honestly t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 02:03 AM
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Well, women SAY they want these "Neo-masculine" feminist hard-but-soft types which are really nothing more than an odd confusing contradition in terms. Maybe because today women themselves are a confused contradiction in terms. "I'm empowered! I don't need you! Pamper me! Make me feel like the only girl in the world!" Which one is it? They say men are reeling from a sudden loss of privilege. LOL. Um no. Men are reeling because women were always difficult to figure out and now it's just fucking i…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 01:58 AM
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"I pay for sex all the time, but it's really costly so I hope this date goes well." Boom.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 01:54 AM
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(I work in the family court system lol). Lol. So this explains why you would be incredibly bias, anti-male and defending single moms. You're wrong and here is why. It takes two people to bring a human life in this world. When I hear the litany of shit she was putting up with PRIOR to getting pregnant, I have to ask. What the serious fuck did she THINK was going to happen? He used street drugs. Was a heavy drinker. He was abusive. He cheated - time and time again. His employment history was sketc…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 01:08 AM
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Oh, lol. Some men do. But it's a bad strategy, especially if they don't honestly find her attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:54 AM
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Are you and men in general pursuing unattractive women with great personalities? Are you saying they do or saying they should?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 01:55 PM
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