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Not surprised to see that that scrote's active in shortcels and TRP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 08:06 PM
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Let's say it, they were raped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 01:59 PM
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This is my question too and I think we know the answer 😑 that right there is not a HVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 05:18 AM
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Oh my god the fake death has me DYING... he is a piece of work, I'm glad you seem well over that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 10:07 PM
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Every job is coercive and sex by coercion is rape, period. That's what makes prostitution different.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 11:58 AM
77

This is literally all men. You just have to see how fast their expression changes and they start trying to save face saying it's "sarcasm" when you don't take their bs with a smile and call them out on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 02:54 PM
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how cruel and how much of a loser do you have to be to spend time and energy talking to someone and pretending to be interested just to mock them later?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 01:14 AM
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I know! The only thing missing would be that it was all a bet about him making the weirdo fall for him. I'm actually scared that such psychos exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 09:39 PM
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She doesn't know and he won't tell her because he feels it would be unfair to make her feel sad just to get this guilt out of his system. Because it's super fair that she is with an asshole who's been pretending to be nice and lying to her since day one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 09:33 PM
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Yes, red flag, even if he wasn't texting other women (he probably is) he should be making you feel a priority. You are feeling like just an option, you should move on to other men and not just focus on one guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 07:27 PM
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Wtf... I can't imagine having such low self esteem and being such a doormat and encouraging a friend to also be a doormat and completely disregard her boundaries and feelings, like even when I was a pickme I was never so low. What mental gymnastics makes a man who wants to put his sexual energy on another woman who isn't his gf, exploiting that woman and objectifying her while at it, the victim here?? And she is the toxic one all of a sudden, I don't even know how to keep living on this earth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 07:03 PM
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I always keep this in mind and it's sad because there is not one example of a good marriage in my family. I feel sorry for all of them and I can tell every man in my family is LV. Makes me not want to ever get married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 06:25 PM
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I'd rather die
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 06:23 PM
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Both. Lol no, emotional games of course, but I'd stay away from a man who spends hours and hours playing video games daily too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 04:09 PM
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Watch out for the "I'm sorry you felt that way"/"I'm sorry you took it that way" types too, there are a lot of those and they're infuriating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 04:06 PM
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Same, I haven't had one single male friend who didn't sooner or later made it obvious they wanted more than friendship. They'll try any approach -one claimed to be in love with me and wrote long letters declaring this, another said he'd just like to extend our friendship to a physical level (🤢), another one said he knew I'd never be into him but found me "insanely hot" and said he'd devote himself to me if ever given the chance, long etc.- bottom line is a man will never be a true friend for a w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 03:16 PM
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They're crying "double standards" because if roles were reversed and he had said "you'd be more attractive with a tighter pussy" he would've been criticized... yeaaah bc they never shame "loose" pussies and they're also as shamed for being overweight as women. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 12:16 AM
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Agreed, my uncle got married last weekend and I'm close to him and his wife. They've been deciding their new house decor for the last weeks and I've seen them get into arguments about it and her having to compromise on the style/color of the furniture, and it rubbed me the wrong way for some reason I couldn't explain at that moment. I think the woman should be in charge of that and it bothered me that he'd turn down her ideas, she is definitely more of a homemaker than he'll ever be and takes on…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 10:56 PM
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The shape of his jaw lmaooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 02:37 PM
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Just to clarify, I singled out libfems because I believe FDS leans more towards radical feminism which I follow personally. Thank you very much for your response, for some reason I didn't see it until now, it is much appreciated <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 01:21 PM
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Exactly! Their shortcomings and lack of discipline become evident in comparison to her. They feel the need to pull her down to be on their mediocre level. Pathetic without a doubt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 04:44 AM
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Oh my god you put up with a lot, my jaw dropped more and more after each sentence. Your friend was too far gone for sure, nothing left to save there, glad you got rid of a terrible person like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 02:37 PM
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If FDS exits and is popular it's exactly because by being honest and expecting men to be respectful and decent we get nothing but crap from them. Rules and strategies are there to protect us exactly from what you went through, you felt like you could be honest and transparent with a man who supposedly cares about you and he'd respect your wishes and do what was best for you (or more like NOT do what was obviously not right for you at the moment) the truth is he only cares about himself and his p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 01:52 PM
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I love everything about your comment, I agree wholeheartedly, thank you <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 01:02 PM
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Begging for male approval, same as all pickmes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 12:59 PM
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While soap operas are completely over the top they do show some realistic stuff. It is true that being a pickmeisha NEVER pays.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 11:26 AM
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He's never had sex in his life... his post history is him saying he should give up on finding a gf just 4 days ago and crying on shortcels bc he is 4'11. This is a desperate pathetic shitpost by an incel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 05:29 AM
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100% pornsick, yes, any mention of choking/anal/threesomes screams pornsickness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 02:15 AM
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Ohhh you're right, I shook my head at the screen at the I think I love you moment lol. You're right she seems torn between being an independent woman that doesn't need a man and loves her own space and being so desperate to be married and have kids that she went on this crazy show. I like Cameron and Lauren together though!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 02:04 AM
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I knowww while watching it I was like "no, I could not be on this show". I knew it the moment I saw Barnett making suggestive sex "jokes" in the pods and the girls laughing at that, barf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 01:25 AM
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When Damian proposed and she was like I am proposing too and got on one knee for a guy... that's pickme. I know that's not much compared to Jess and Amber but Lauren and Kelly haven't shown pickme behaviour at all for what I can remember.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 01:20 AM
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Lol I watched it with FDS perspective as well and cringed the entire time. From Gigi proposing to Damian to Amber pulling the cool girl to Jessica begging for Barnett's attention right in her fiance's face. About Barnett well he isn't ugly but what I meant is that he created that situation where he had 3 then 2 girls "fighting" for his attention, when I watched the girls going "oh I'm sure he'll pick me" I was like girl nooo, it couldn't be me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 01:15 AM
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I'm obssessed with this show lol and at the same time I can't stand anyone on it. The girls are almost all pickmes except for Lauren and Kelly maybe. Cameron is the only HVM there in my opinion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 01:08 AM
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I would also like to point out how (now that he’s with Amber) whenever someone asks him why he wants to get married or why he chose Amber, it is ALWAYS about how she makes HIM feel. YES he is sooo selfish and Amber just feeds his ego non stop being a literal Pick Me since the very start. She is always talking about him like he is the prize... where? A guy that makes you fight for his attention is a hard NO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 01:03 AM
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He is definitely a LVM, so no point in playing games with a guy like that imo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 01:01 AM
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He invited you and you didn't even enjoy yourself, to put it coldly your time was wasted. Paying would be wasting money on top of that, you have no reason to do that. Even if he is not wealthy, he asked you out, if he wants to date he knows it has a cost. He is an adult and should be aware that going on a date always comes with the risk that it may be the last one and he was willing to take that risk when he asked you out. You owe him nothing, if he is a good guy he'll find someone right for him…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 10:42 PM
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I know so young! I'm grateful he had ED though, it saved me from having sex with him lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 10:31 PM
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Also known as: my ex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 09:45 PM
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Couldn't even hide his pornsickness for 3 dates! They're so pathetic... One scrote said something very similar to me the first time we kissed, that I made him have fantasies and he'd love to have ANAL with me! Gtfo! He also said my neck was so pretty and how he'd like to choke me!! Just like you said we hadn't had sex yet and he's already making up extreme depraved porn scenarios. Sad to admit but I did continue seeing this guy ugh I was so stupid... you guessed it, he turned out to have a limp …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 07:49 PM
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I think if you have a FWB it has to be strictly sex and never expect a relationship out of that, the waiting to have sex applies when you find a man you want to have an exclusive relationship with and need to make sure he is HV. With a FWB you need to make sure he is good in bed, agiving not selfish lover, treats you with respect at all times, is responsible with his sexuality and hygiene and you don't get emotionally involved. The point of having one would be getting sexual pleasure while you'r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 01:16 PM
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lmao I feel bad for the girl but yeah, there should be a limit and this is way past it even for a pickme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 09:54 PM
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How long have you been going out for?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 09:51 PM
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I was ABOUT to ss this and post it here too... speechless 🤢🤢🤢 Imagine kissing and touching this man!!! Sleeping next to that! It's so disgusting I can't wrap my head around the fact that this isn't a deal-breaker. And SHE wants to buy him a new pillow with HER money? Girl dump him!! I don't even want to imagine how he is with general hygiene in other areas, if he doesn't mind rubbing his face and hair in that crap I'm sure he is not too careful with showering or washing his ass either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 09:41 PM
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Oh dear... I think they know the sad truth but just refuse to admit it, obviously it doesn't feel right but they just try so hard to convince themselves they're happy and doing what they want. With my friends I just go tough love on them and stop their fantasies fueled by other pickme friends of "he's emotionally unavailable bc he's suffered in the past", "he's insecure so you must take the lead", "it's not that he doesn't like you, he probably really is busy", "just because he doesn't want to b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 06:58 PM
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I'm glad it doesn't come off as judgemental :) Also, YES I feel the same way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 06:11 PM
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I'm 23 as well so I get exactly what you mean, I have a lot of friends aged 20-21 and the scenario is almost hopeless with all the "free love/non-monogamy/sexual empowerment" promoted hard by libfems and male "feminists".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 05:42 PM
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Re-reading my post I feel like I come off too harsh, you are right, these are women like us and coming here is the first step in the right direction. It's not easy to just leave the pickme life behind, I agree that we should interact in good faith and help the ones that are actually open to change. But it's equally important to keep saboteurs, libfem propagandists and askholes out of here. Exactly 🙌🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 05:37 PM
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Yes FWB when the man isn't getting all the benefits, I meant comments that do not imply that but more just NSA sex with guys you don't even know are worth it (or who are obviously not worth it). To have a FWB according to FDS there is quite a few standards to be met and I've seen a few comments that support just hooking up no holds barred (and getting 10+ upvotes). I also don't believe/want marriage so I know there are points we'll disagree on while still being on the same page on macro.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 05:10 PM
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Yeah I said "we all started as pickmes" for hyperbolic effect, sorry for that. I know we all don't agree on everything but I meant the cases where these opinions are obviously not on the same line as all fds advice and have an evident libfem reasoning, I think you know what I mean.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 05:01 PM
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Thank youuu that's exactly what I wanted to know, we need to be alert to keep FDS pickmeisha/scrote- free. I hope some of these pickmes can realize their worth and level up here but I know some of them just aren't going to even after reading everything we advocate for so this isn't a place for them. Edit: i forgot to say thank you for your work!! I know it must be super tiring at times and I'm really grateful for your efforts 🙌🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 04:48 PM
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Absolutely disgusting 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 07:51 PM
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If you need to vent and share personal stuff (we all do), do it with a friend from a different social circle who doesn't personally know the people involved. Obviously best would be to vet friends really well so you know they won't be sharing your stuff, but if they don't know the people you tell them about it's super safe too. Even if they're gossip girls and want to spread your stories who will want to hear gossip about people they don't even know?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 02:15 AM
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I'm the same way... I think it has to do with low self esteem and constant need of male validation. I think you need to cut them off, I know it's hard and I also used to keep guys around knowing they liked me and let the ask me out and give me compliments, I always refused vaguely still being flirty, sort of not rejecting them out right but not doing anything with them either. I needed to have these men around and keep them interested (oh dear me). At the end it's just exhausting cause you don't…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 09:40 PM
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LOL I relate sooo much girl, we need to keep a cool head!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 10:58 PM
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The post is in spanish, idk if there is an english version. Here's the link in case you're curious male tears
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 10:45 PM
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Exactly, I feel sorry for her bc I understand why she feels that way and it's not her fault... I hope she wakes up soon
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 05:22 PM
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Poor girl :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 04:34 PM
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Penis advice subs lmao! Love it, so accurate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 03:41 PM
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It's normal to feel a bit sad, I think. But just remember he is a fuckboy and there is a reason he is over there trying to make other girls fall for his BS and not with you: you are meant for someone much better. So this might be a blue valentine for you but I'm sure there are happy valentines in your future. Maybe next year, you'll share this day with a HVM who really loves and deserves you, or you'll be on your own but feeling confident and happy not needing a man by your side.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 06:48 PM
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🙌🏼 Just to imagine being in op's place made me feel lonely and just sad. OP no, you don't need him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 04:38 PM
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I've seen 2 grown men (in their 40s) talk like that about their teenage daughters, one of them showed my dad and I a picture of her saying how perfect her body is, her waist is tiny, looks good in tight clothes, etc 🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢 my dad was feeling so awkward too. Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 10:25 PM
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4 years of rocky relationship Boyfriend is hysterical drama queen nothing short of a headache Bf sexualizes his sister, is possessive towards her and was not supportive when her bf died Bf insults his gf's sister's looks to favor his own sister 🤦🏻‍♀️ Could he get worse??? Op must dump his ass, this guy is trash, doesn't respect his sister and sees he as an object not to mention he's sick and gross if he is actually attracted to her. I imagine he probably treats op like crap too. 🤢🤬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 10:17 PM
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The guy watches porn where the "plot" involves a guy and his step sister, the girl wants him to like her so she goes pickmeisha like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 05:00 PM
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Sweet Jesus... I wish there was a world where I didn't understand this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 09:54 PM
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I'm glad they all agreed that he's TA but what's up with a bunch of people saying it was "fair" of him to threaten to leave if she didn't get an abortion? It will NEVER be "fair" since it's the woman, her body and emotions taking the hit whether she gets an abortion or carries the pregnancy. I fucking hate it when they get defensive of the guy, makes me wanna vomit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 06:00 PM
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I'm with you here. I'd run for the hills at the sight of a small dick, even average I'd take only if the guy is very HV. When pickmeishas go "if it's too big it's painful", "size doesn't matter but how he moves", etc... yeah no, gtfo. Bigger IS better, period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 04:07 AM
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100% agreed! Whenever there are awful stories here about terrible LVM the focus should definitely not be on the "forever gf" thing, I don't think it's helpful to what we advocate here in this sub and honestly rubs me the wrong way. Like it would just be worse if that terrible LVM was her husband and it doesn't sit right to make marriage the ultimate goal (imo women are better off not married).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 12:53 AM
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She's better off without a ring from this guy, she needs to leave now! She already does all chores for him, puts up with his porn sickness and bad sex... it could only get worse if they get married!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 04:40 AM
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Oh god the fact that this is portrayed as cute/funny and normal occurrence in a girl's relationship... sigh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 03:45 PM
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I'm glad to hear that, love ♡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 02:23 PM
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I'm proud of you!! I'm so sorry you went through that, you're so brave and strong! Thing will only get better after getting rid of that disgusting pos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 01:29 PM
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You should take some time off those subs and forums. It's eye-opening and I believe there are a lot of men with that kind of sick mentality and it's good that we know how they think so we can protect ourselves and avoid them. However I do not think that type of extreme crazy (lonely psycho loser guy obssessed with trp, daydreaming about abusing and killing women and jerking off in mom's basement to rape on tape 24/7) is the norm, but the norm is pretty bad still. LVM are the norm. It's not the w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 01:24 PM
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That's exactly it!! Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 04:58 PM
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I don't like parties for the same reason, I feel like I'm just putting myself in an unbearable situation, it's full of entitled LVM who approach you aggressively and respect no boundaries. And as op said, this sex positivity fueled by libfems and pickmeisha leaves me looking like a fool/prude for wanting to dance normally and not rubbing my butt against a guy or going down twerking or making out just because we've danced for 10 min. I like to dance but at what cost!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 02:04 PM
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Noooo I don't get why they do that! Or they'll say "let's do it together"... I mean I wish but it's not even close for me yet and you're not holding it a second longer so, no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 12:00 PM
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In the words of Megan thee stallion "you know I ain't cum, boy, if you had to ask me" I find it the most annoying and absurd that they asked this when it's just obvious you did not... I feel like they just ask to make it seem like they care or so that you'll feel bad for saying no, so you'll say yes and he feels good about himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 03:34 AM
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As others have said we'll never know for sure, but his public persona is definitely that of a HVM imo. He is handsome, wealthy and famous, yet he is humble, treats his fans with respect, has an age appropiate girlfriend, always speaks highly about women, has a close relationship with his mother and sister, hard-working and very invested in his projects, etc. I think he also seems so good because other famous men are usually trash: dating girls who could be their daughters, drunks, cheaters, viol…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 09:02 PM
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I wouldn't. He could try to make you stay saying he also has feelings for you just to keep you there for him, you'd believe him and waste more time with him because he still won't commit. Even if he doesn't push you to stay, it would just feed his ego and he'll just remember you're heartbroken over him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 08:41 PM
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"Don't say you need me when you leave and you leave again. I'm stronger than all my men, except for youuu" LMAO that was my go-to song when I wanted to cry over a fuckboy... oh dear me. What about Sad girl? That's as pickme as it gets... "you haven't seen my man" yeah right lol an old manipulative cheater, i really don't know what I'm missing! Edit: just saw your edit. I honestly just take it as emotions we go through at some low points in life. I think most girls will feel that way about a man …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 04:15 AM
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What's wrong with that sub? Gorgeous women get rated 6.5 at most?? What's a 10 for them? And men who just aren't completely hideous get rated a 5. No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 03:59 AM
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Oh my god, the first one! That woman is actually successful, free, independent and happy in her own terms but nooo, she needed a manchild with gross habits (farts, messy eater, dirty clothes) to teach her true happiness and what life is about!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 03:16 AM
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Exactly, the connection was one sided sadly. He should've been texting you all saturday afternoon and trying to set up another date asap. Even the LVMs I've been with have always texted immediately and constantly through the first days after sleeping together if only to secure that they will continue to get sex. A HVM who is really interested would never go so long with no contact after such an important moment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 02:37 AM
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Oh dear, currently dealing with number one. Last guy I never considered boyfriend material bc of number 2. I wonder if I'll ever meet someone who checks all the boxes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 01:33 AM
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Exactly! If she follows FDS, she would absolutely not cry over a few LVMs. They are so delusional...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 01:15 AM
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I'm sorry you had to go through that, what a horrible man, I'm shocked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 02:11 PM
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THANK YOU. I was looking for a comment like this, this is perfect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 09:46 AM
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Oh my god girl I'm sorry you had to go through that, I'm glad you dumped that asshole! Also LMAO at "IDK WHAT A CERVIX IS", he was quite a piece of work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 02:13 PM
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They suck at pleasuring a woman and know it. They just expect us to lie about it so they can be at peace. They think just the act of touching the vulva with their fingers or tongue makes them a good lover, and they rarely do it in a satisfying way. I remember once a man was rubbing me in such a fast motion that didn't feel good and I kept telling him to go slower. By the third time I told him to go slower he raised his voice "I KNOW, I HEARD YOU"... bu you're still doing it wrong? At that point …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 12:48 PM
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Getting involved with a classmate sucks for that exact reason, but unfortunately it's hard to avoid. I'm sure you'll be over this sooner than later, I love how your focusing on yourself and your goals <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 05:23 PM
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He is definitely not worth worrying about, don't engage with guys like that anymore, now you know better. You are the prize no matter what, avoid any man who makes you feel less than that. I wish you luck dear!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 12:38 PM
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The opinion of LVM is worthless... it means nothing and says nothing about your true value. Spend some time on your own, pamper yourself and treat yourself with kindness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 10:53 AM
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It's been removed, does anyone have a ss or the text?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 12:54 PM
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How can they not see it? I feel bad for all the women who get dragged into it being told it's empowering.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 12:18 PM
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I don't think it would be pickmeisha to talk to him, of course you won't be begging him, just being friendly and showing interest. If he is HV he won't be so arrogant and proud as to let you go just because you denied him once. If his ego is really so hurt, then you're better off without IMO. Don't beat yourself up for this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 08:54 PM
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Omg i love you ♡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 02:29 AM
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Thank you, your words made me feel more at peace ♡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 12:33 AM
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I think you nailed it, I was always rather cold with him and never initiated contact or was affectionate. It's also weird that he talked to me about it because I certainly didn't ask and was just going to act normal like nothing had happened between us and he brought it up, so yes, he probably wanted me to feel bad about it even if he doesn't want to be with me. I'll forget him, don't worry, I've gotten over guys I was head over heels for in the past and this was not the case. Thanks for your re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 12:31 AM
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Yeah I'm def not interested in him anymore and I will be taking your advice, it was doomed from the start because I met him before FDS but now I know better. I will present myself HV from now on and only with men I really like and consider HV, no more NSA sex with mediocre men. Thank you for the advice <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 12:23 AM
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You are right I never ever presented myself as potencial gf and I was clear that I didn't want that, it's stupid that I'm hurt. I think I'm too used to getting validation from men so you're right about taking a break for them! About the English, thank you, my mom is a translator and taught me since I was little so I guess that is why it's alright <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 12:18 AM
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Thank you so much for this answer! You put into words how I felt but couldn't process. You absolutely are right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 12:13 AM
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