So I'm a bit conflicted, I know that I'm not supposed to get exclusive with a guy until I'm ready, I need to know him first. But doesn't this apply to guys too? He asks me on about 1-2 dates per week and we keep chatting about ourselves, is it a good or bad thing ? He's very very respectful, charismatic, and surprisingly he works in fashion and isn't an egocentric superficial piece of shit, well educated, multilingual, and so curious and respectful of my background (I'm middle eastern), he actually makes research about my culture and asks me for details when we meet, an absolute book worm. However, he seems to be taking his time, I'm not in a rush or anything and I do like taking my time too. I just don't want to waste my time. So far no red flags.