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No one wants to benefit from anyone's suffering, it is just a fact that some people have to learn lessons from pain. Acknowledging their efforts did turn a man into a better, not necessarily for them, but for society in general isn't ridiculing them. All of the effort I put into being a pick me, I now turn and do it for myself. And in fact, it was a friend who said something similar to be that did wake me up. I needed that friend who showed me I was building a man instead of myself, and all that…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 03:07 AM
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I'm just tipsy drinking champagne and doing a facial and was trying to be funny at my own expense from the things I used to do myself. I know I upgraded men in the past who didn't know how to dress or done out properly, and my point was to thank our former self's that did teach a few guys into being better ones. Not all turned out better, but some did and they treat their wives great today. But I learned my lessons, I forgive my past self and don't hate her, I thank her for the lessons that woke…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 03:01 AM
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That's all I was trying to say. I am all for helping them when they want better for themselves. The fact is not every woman is going to get it. Some are going to cling to the pick me mindset for the life of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 02:53 AM
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No one is putting women against each other. I'm saying if anything stop with the harsh treatment of them. And some of these women choose to stay in those situations. You cannot help those who do not want to help themselves, but you can see the silver lining. They have value even when it is low, and that's all I'm pointing out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 02:49 AM
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We are all sisters. But no one can save them except themselves. You have to want to change yourself in order for real change to happen, and sometimes you have to learn the hard way. Personally, I don't have time to help women who don't want to change. If you're still actively going back to a man that cheated, used you, hit you, etc and you think all other women are jealous because at least you have a man, there is really not much I can do to help you. These are the same ones who will talk shit a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 02:47 AM
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I hear you. But some of us did have to learn the hard way. I have to believe some men can see their old behaviors, be horrifed, and do better. At the end of the day, I am the prize. Not being picked by anyone, a woman is a prize in of herself. When I'm being wooed by a man in the first few months, they will NEVER tell you they used to leech off another woman. We have to judge them based on the man you see in front of you today, not who they were in the past, just like a lot of us don't want to b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 02:43 AM
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Just because one was a pick me in the past doesn't mean she has to stay one in the future. A lot of us here used to be pick mes, and are waking up and want better. Just like some men that may not have known better in the past can learn from their manipulative behavior and do better. No one is perfect, everyone has a past, the smart ones learn from their mistakes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 02:39 AM
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No one is sacrificing them except themselves. The whole point is to get off shaming them, and realize at the end of the day we all choose our realities and decide what we will and will not accept. Being a pick me is a choice at some point in your life. Not an enemy. If this gets a pick me to wake up and look around, and realize all of her exes end up dating and marrying and treating someone else better because she chose to accept certain behaviors, then the message got the job done. I used to be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 02:37 AM
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Men should do a lot of things they don't do, but it won't stop some women from putting in the effort to make them better men in the long term. Whether the man stays with that woman or leaves her for another is up to him, but we all see how often they stay with the woman that built them up. A Pick me is a pick me for a variety of reasons. Most need therapy and a vibrator, some know better and continue to do the same thing because they choose to. That doesn't have anything to do with the current d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 02:31 AM
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No one is indulging pick mes. They are what they are out of ignorance or choice. The ones that stay bad we don't want, and the pick mes can keep them. But to ignore the fact so many women have built men who then provide for another woman is to ignore a hard reality of this world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 02:29 AM
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No man admits he used women in his past when he is trying to get a HVW, but the truth is he probably did. They don't think they are though because so many women voluntarily do the building, they think its is just a girlfriend or a relationship until their confidence is up, and they go after a woman they really want. How many male celebrities and CEOs do we see leave their first wives and long term girlfriends after they get famous? Are we going to say we really wouldn't date them if they pursued…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 02:27 AM
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Without a doubt. Hours to console her for finding out he got engaged? Told her it's not true, and asked gf to lie? Come on now...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 04:49 PM
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🤦🏾‍♀️ this man is clearly having sex with both women and is too much of a coward to tell the truth. This is also why we don't do friends with exes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 04:24 PM
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I'm so sorry you're feeling this way, but I promise, it will pass if you let it. Women have been programmed to be codependent on having any man, even if he isn't a good one. We've been conditioned to think if he lives with us, or lays his head down next to us at night, we have won a "prize" and the women sleeping alone are jealous, bitter, man hating, etc. Go to bed tonight thinking about what you can do for yourself with $15k this year for yourself. Treat yourself right. We teach others how to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 06:12 PM
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I feel you. At this point I only debate with my peers. The ignorant, I educate. Spit your truth and keep it moving. Unevolved men cannot be debated with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 06:23 AM
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You are so right about the guys who fetishize us. No, it is not a compliment to say I'm pretty for a black girl or you're in the mood for chocolate tonight. I don't like that the first thing people ask me is what I'm mixed with, like I can't be pretty and be full black? If they cannot value you for all you're worth, put that man back on the shelf for someone else to pick up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 01:59 AM
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I think it's more than just bad sex. I've had partners that couldn't make me orgasm but were amazing partners and I enjoyed sex for the bonding with them. I think the bigger issue is men feel like they deserve sex, and don't realize it is a natural consequence of treating a woman right. They want to treat them bad and neglect them, then wonder why they have to beg for sex. It's like a gardener who never waters their flowers but then complains they didn't grow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 08:23 PM
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If you've had to ask for it, or drop hints for it, it's a shut up ring
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 06:18 AM
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I feel you. I like to stay classy through all interactions because I do think that's how you stay not bitter and happy with your own decisions. At the end of the day he can't post our conversations anywhere to "show" what a gold digger I am, and he can feel the anger not me. I have too much peace at this point in my life to stop down to their level, and I believe if you show love and kindness you will be rewarded with it back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 11:28 PM
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How dare you not accept my low effort! Lol. All women a gold diggers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 11:18 PM
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It's so funny, when I was in my last relationship I was so afraid of leaving and being alone, and now I am so happy with my peace of mind I couldn't imagine giving it up for the drama I held onto so hard before again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 10:38 PM
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And they get so mad if you don't tell them upfront what your standards are so you can judge them on their true actions not them faking it to get in the pants
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 10:26 PM
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Exactly! I've been on one date and I didn't leave impressed, why would I have you in my space?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 10:25 PM
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You don't fuck it up by taking him off the pedestal it looks like you have him on. He sounds like pote tial, not a sure thing, and we don't fall in love with potential. Keep dating other guys to help you not fall so hard for this guy so fast, and just pay attention to his actions not his dating resume until he makes it clear he is heads over heels and consistent with his actions. Make him wait for sex and see how long his being nice lasts. If he can hold out over a month and still wants to domin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 04:55 PM
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It's what kept me in my relationship for 4 years too. When you've been through trauma you can recognize it so easy in others. High self esteem women have to stick together because listening to the inner thoughts of low self esteem brings you down yourself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 07:58 AM
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That's exactly what I told her, that the reason I'm saying something now is because I'd rather say it now than wish i said something at her funeral. She thought I was being too dramatic, and really believe she can keep this man in her life and keep herself and kids safe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 07:56 AM
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So true! I've had so much more peace without them both.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 07:54 AM
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Thank you. It would have been a lot worse if I had never found this sub
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 07:53 AM
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That's literally what he started doing in Vegas! He tried to start a fight between us while playing the "you're favorite of her friends" game.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 07:53 AM
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