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Keep at it! A year ago, I was a couple months into a new job and also beginning the process of changing my life. Nofap help rid me of the urge to immediately go home to watch porn. It's helped to develop stronger will power and control over my life. Combined with the principles learnt here, I feel like I have come a long way. I've met many women over the past year, now in a relationship and feel this is still only the beginning. The best is still to come!
/r/seduction28/02/14 09:04 PM
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A lot of concept can apply to more than one practice in life. Its learning a skill that can be used across multiple disciplines or make learning a future skill easier. R/seddit and r/getmotivated always there to help push a little. GL in life everyone!
/r/seduction12/02/14 07:03 PM
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Seems like you're still very early in the dating phase. Also, by not going for the sex she may interpret it as you not being confident/interested/or taking the initiative. If she wants it, she will begin to look elsewhere. So don't worry about it causing trust issues. As for the B, like others said, don't smother her. Act normally, how you attracted her. Keep about your life, have hobbies and spend time with friends. Hang out with other females. Don't overuse texting, use it for logistics and to…
/r/seduction28/01/14 06:44 PM
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it's good to have these feelings. But you also don't want to scare her off. Let her catch up to you. Let her be the one to say "I love you". Think about it logically, what is your reason for telling her your feelings. To get a response/reaction, hopefully of the same regards. A confident man doesn't need this reaction to make him feel good, he already knows his self worth. It's fine to give compliments or to state you're enjoying xyz type moments when they happen. Let her be the one to become ov…
/r/seduction28/01/14 04:00 PM
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Done this, coffee/drink date. You're telling a story and being emphatic and use the back of your hand during a gesture and slowly move it across her stomach. While sitting (angled) next to her of course.
/r/seduction05/12/13 06:15 AM
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Sparse messages to keep her interested and that you're alive. Something like recapping something exciting you did on that day with a bit of humor (usually a bit of exageration helps that). Nothing needy like hows her day, what shes up to etc.
/r/seduction17/11/13 07:57 AM
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If he's doing day game stuff or meeting people at college parties, exchanging names is fine. You're thinking too much into the old school seduction techniques when there are plenty of signs to look for. Plus, if the OP is stuck at "Hello", exchanging names won't be the make or break reason why. Exchanging names will be natural for him.
/r/seduction14/09/13 07:59 PM
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Ive never escalated and not gone for the kiss. I'm not sure there is a good reason to. Ive only escalated and been turned down from a kiss. Regardless, your sample size is probably too small and using the ladder without going for kiss is counter productive.
/r/seduction14/09/13 03:14 PM
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Using the ladder to finish a date with a kiss is still good regardless if you can't close it. You'll raise the comfort level up some for the second date.
/r/seduction14/09/13 03:13 PM
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What's your name? exchange names What are you doing on this [wonderful/overcast/chill] day in XYZ? Then talk about your day and relate to her. Just remember to balance questions and statements.
/r/seduction14/09/13 03:09 PM
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Sorry man, I got to agree with OP. But yah, go out there and get some kisses. Throwing yourself into the fire over speculating theory will help you out. Then after getting turned down can you read some suggestions to recalibrate. To OP, i had something similar happen to me. It was just the girl, had a great makeout the second date.
/r/seduction10/09/13 02:30 PM
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Head on over to /r/okcupid and check sidebar on first messages. You arent given much info, so try to make a message worth replying to.
/r/seduction09/09/13 04:51 AM
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Hey [girl] is a lazy reply. What if she forgot your name. You need texts with more substance. Google!
/r/seduction31/08/13 06:05 AM
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Been working for me. Now im at the making it stage. But the main thing is inner game. Believing in yourself. You can't fake that, you really need to believe you can accomplish it. Baby steps!
/r/seduction31/08/13 12:21 AM
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Play Truth or Dare, bring alcohol, gogogo Question is, do you have sexual tension with these friends or are they just friends. But yeah, fuck it, you only live once!
/r/seduction30/08/13 12:55 PM
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Getting to know someone in person is way easier than getting to know someone over text. When she said she wanted to get to know you more, that was your cue to set up a date. "I'm free Wednesday or Thursday, let's meet up and continue this conversation in person over xyz coffee/drinks/icecream"
/r/seduction28/08/13 12:56 PM
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I started off in the school of indirect. Sure you avoid the immediate rejection a majoriy of the time. But the confidence you get from having the balls to go direct, you can go direct in almost any situation. High risk, high reward! GL!
/r/seduction28/08/13 03:46 AM
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Reminds me of seinfeld aka George Costanza! Leave on a high point!
/r/seduction24/08/13 04:31 PM
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Cool beans! You made the approach. Now you re-calibrate. Next time you'll push the conversation and avoid asking if she's single. She'll let you know if she isn't when you try to ask for her digits. Keep getting those reference experiences and good luck!
/r/seduction23/08/13 05:39 AM
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Are you a kid? Do you need to act like she has cooties? Do you appear attractive trying to ignore or dislike a girl who rejects your advances? If anything, it all hurts your game. You'll be "that guy" who doesn't handle rejection well, the one that the girls who begin to avoid.
/r/seduction23/08/13 05:37 AM
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Roleplay for the win! Ie, turn her comments and make her the predator. I just got back from a date. She made reference to a hotel, i told her im not that easy. She'll have to wine and dine me. She says she'll buy me drinks, i tell her she's trying to take advantage of helpless me (195 lbs fyi). I'm having fun with it and you should too.
/r/seduction22/08/13 05:46 AM
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If you want a kiss by the end of the date, you will have to progress as much as you can over that date. Quicker if you want the kiss to occur mid date. Trial and error, you won't learn if you don't make mistakes. Big risks = big rewards.
/r/seduction21/08/13 02:08 PM
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Google DiCarlo escalation ladder Never sit across, sit next to her. Excuse - it feels too interviewy to sit across. This way, easier to kino besides her hands and feet. You have access to arms, shoulders, body, thighs etc As far as how long to hold the touch. Try for short ones then go for a long one. Start the date with a hug, this sets the tone that you are a person who is fine with physical contact. GL
/r/seduction21/08/13 06:09 AM
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Im late 20s and read about the game at 22. I put it off for a long time. Now I am on track with finding what I want in life. Not only with woman. Be positive, go in with an open mind, keep at it and don't give up!
/r/seduction13/08/13 08:25 PM
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The George Costanza method. Leave at a high point. Of my prev first dates, they've all pretty long. 3 hours each, and a short one hour one where I had no attraction.
/r/seduction28/07/13 04:39 PM
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How do you structure those dates? Anything before hand, maybe dinner? Then to the beaches/lake (as a surprise) past nightfall. Then you pull out the blanket and just relax?
/r/seduction28/07/13 01:54 PM
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There is more rejection to go. Only makes you stronger mentally. Rejection from approach Rejection from number flake Rejection from kiss etc Rejection from date (no second date) Reddit.com/r/getmotivated also helps. I save images on my phone and flip through them from time to time. GL!
/r/seduction28/07/13 04:40 AM
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Grab her hair, should be pictures on how to properly grab it. You can gently put one hand around her neck. Then as you kiss, use the hand to prevent her from coming closer as you back out. She wants more but she can't have it. Bite her neck, lick it and blow it. A little tongue action behind the ear helps. Forcefully pull her in along the waist, move your hands along her body.
/r/seduction28/07/13 04:37 AM
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Any chance youre from Toronto? If so, which area did you do the golf date? 10 balls sounds fun. So a mix of and neon yellow and green.
/r/seduction28/07/13 04:30 AM
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Online game is a good supplement to gaming. I did a lot of approaches for months finding my comfort zone, getting numbers that flaked. Then I added online game and now i'm getting dates. In the end, dates are dates regardless of how you get them. But I worked on my inner game and conversation skills through day gaming. You can check out r/okcupid as well
/r/seduction14/07/13 04:43 PM
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Try to look via meetup.com or sub-pickup forums or wingman (rsd, attractionforum, simpkepickup etc). Albeit, i spent a couple months working on myself (inner game, clothing via mfa and fitness). Keep at it!
/r/seduction12/07/13 06:13 PM
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Also find other ppl with like minded interest. It helped me to see them approach and pushed me. You can also give them money ie $20x5 and you get $20 back for each approach. gl, dont think about outcome. Think about experience and references to become a better person with women.
/r/seduction12/07/13 03:22 PM
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Yup, wkend of 25th i think
/r/seduction04/07/13 02:57 AM
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There are a bunch of guys approaching, go on a Saturday. two weeks ago I ran into Andy Yosha of daygame.com, he had just got tossed from the mall for doing too many approaches. He also kiss closed a girl within a couple minutes of the interaction. Beast.
/r/seduction03/07/13 11:09 PM
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Meetup.com Go to a PUA daygame meetup run by Alton/EJ (cost you $20-40) and befriend all the guys. Or just go around eaton centre and talk to guys who are obviously approaching. As for nightgame, idk,
/r/seduction03/07/13 05:50 AM
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Text her, I know this may be soon, but I think I Love You! I can picture us with 4 kids living in the city.
/r/seduction03/07/13 05:44 AM
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I find with the approach, you disregard it because she knows nothing about you. But after a date, its more personal. You've opened up to her, and now she is rejecting you as a person.
/r/seduction27/06/13 06:18 PM
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What do you open with going direct? Does your wing imed jump in or do you have a signal?
/r/seduction25/06/13 05:15 AM
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Start with innunedos
/r/seduction17/06/13 08:34 PM
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How do you approach the idea for FWB. I assume there are girls who you like who will not want any of that. Guess you just have to risk losing them from the rotation if you dont want to have a serious relationship. Do you feel any of your relationships are more serious than the next? Thanks
/r/seduction17/06/13 06:52 PM
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Good stuff, only comments "Am i attractive?", get rid of that. It is needy. Its like askin a girl on a date, do you like me? Its a turn off. Assume attraction and go forward!
/r/seduction14/06/13 07:18 AM
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Lord's kiss
/r/seduction12/06/13 05:35 AM
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Thanks for the tips. I got an e-mail notification that she revisited my profile about an hour ago. So I may send something back. I also got another one going, I'll be sure to focus on learning more about them through open-ended questions and keeping my replies short or witty. Honestly, I was just going through the list of people who were online and cute and just forming messages, guess that one hooked.
/r/seduction06/06/13 04:01 PM
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Gotcha! Putting it into the memory bank.
/r/seduction06/06/13 04:58 AM
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When you go for the cheek kiss. Is it, hug, turn face towards them and light kiss on cheeks. How do they react, and how do you react to their reaction?
/r/seduction06/06/13 04:29 AM
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How has your luck been with online game?
/r/seduction06/06/13 01:50 AM
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TofuTofu's guide was solid
/r/seduction05/06/13 09:26 PM
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I'll report back. I'll probably send something on Sunday night.
/r/seduction05/06/13 08:17 PM
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True, I will consider this for future message. Keep my responses/statements quick to the point. I guess online is a bit different then day game. During day game, I sort of offer up stories to avoid asking a lot of questions. Keep it a good mix of information/plans and about her.
/r/seduction05/06/13 08:17 PM
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i'll check it out. Wow, 1 full month, and you just sent one text and didn't push it any further by re-msging her. nice I was using my TofuTofu's old guide as my reference. Mind if I send u some messages from time to time? PS, what was the popular texting app? WhatsApp? Didn't seem like a number exchange.
/r/seduction05/06/13 08:13 PM
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Nice, its 4 pm here. Wish I could be drunk. When you suggest texting. Do you ask for hers or give yours and ask for hers. What reasoning do you include to suggest the switch from okcupid to text
/r/seduction05/06/13 07:57 PM
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That was my original thought as well. It's like going in for a kiss and not getting it. You go on as if nothing happened. And then try again. The way I feel it, you got nothing to lose by sending another message. It's like with a stale number. I may have 10 on the backburner who didn't reply, text all of them after 3 weeks, and whooops 1-2 initiate again. Just got to play the numbers game.
/r/seduction05/06/13 07:47 PM
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Okay, that's tough. I got one with 2 paragraphs, so that would mean a couple lines. I will admit, some of my msg look like a block of text. need to keep it more straight to the point.
/r/seduction05/06/13 07:44 PM
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It's just a hooking point to get the conversation going. Find something similar, then ask a question. I tried not to be like the 100 guys who make comments based on their looks. So I never mentioned that in any of the messages. I tried to write things based on their profile. Do I care if she watches Ally McBeal, not really. If she said something like Community, then I could thread off that. Like meeting Jim Rash, going to California for SDCC, got to start somewhere. If she mentioned she travels …
/r/seduction05/06/13 07:41 PM
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I proposed tomorrow (as in 7~730 pm today). So you're saying, play the humor card. Like on Sunday send: "I can't you believe it, I waited all night by that coffee stand on Wednesday night and you stood me up. That's it, we're getting a divorce. I'm also taking all the ice cream too! Just kidding ;) Here's a story yada yada yada, this past weekend, yada yada yada. How was your weekend, tell me something exciting that happened." Then let it play out again for 2-3 messages or ask for the meet again…
/r/seduction05/06/13 06:39 PM
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What is the 1/3 method? thanks
/r/seduction05/06/13 06:34 PM
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cool, can you point out specifically what came across as a 13 year old girl? need to make mental note
/r/seduction05/06/13 05:34 PM
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agreed, back burner for now. I'm thinking, a message sunday evening, talking about something funny that happened over the weekend. Like a mis-timed kiss, don't react to it, ignore it, and continue.
/r/seduction05/06/13 05:33 PM
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thats what okc forum mostly said too. said I was too pushy. I thought it was like asking for a number during day game. "lets exchange numbers and continue this conversation over a coffee/drink" type statement
/r/seduction05/06/13 05:31 PM
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live and learn.
/r/seduction05/06/13 05:30 PM
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I started a month ago, i really see a difference now. Feel it too!
/r/seduction01/06/13 06:48 AM
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Well done. This is motivational, she is very cute. An 8 in my books!
/r/seduction30/05/13 05:15 AM
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Hey, have you heard of simple pickup? They have a video online where they meet girls during the day and get their numbers. One videos involes them seated in a wheelchair. Check it out and best of luck. PS, try to get their number. Take the initiative without being passive. Best of luck!
/r/seduction20/05/13 06:44 AM
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Going direct is fine. Mystery Method is an old model focusing on indirect game. His structure in terms of attraction, comfort and sex is good though. You'll stand out over other college kids who can barely make eye contact. Its a matter of volume. If you dont want to approach more than two girls per week at your campus, try other places. Bookstores, malls, or go to another campus and run game (youre waiting for a frd and saw her...).
/r/seduction16/05/13 05:29 AM
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It's what Mystery calls a "hoop"
/r/seduction15/05/13 03:23 AM
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The next thing to know is how to properly carry condoms around. Putting them into your wallet will usually subject them to increased warmth (backpocket, rubbing etc) and pressure, increasing the chance the rubber will break when being used. Invest in a carrying case, something like a business card case will do and cost very cheap online (I think I got mine for a couple bucks ~$2-3 shipped via eBay) and looks classy enough that they won't know.
/r/seduction14/05/13 03:14 AM
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I met some ppl off meetup.com to daygame
/r/seduction13/05/13 04:51 AM
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If youre worried about age, ask. How were exams or you look young, how old are you. As for other stuff like car, etc. dont worry about that. You're just making excuses. You could meet really cool people, but youre internalizing excuses and that will be your brick wall. If after you meet them, that it becomes a problem, you can address it then by moving on after you have the facts. Not by your assumptions.
/r/seduction13/05/13 04:49 AM
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I think if you work on seduction, working on your life seems to work in parallel. You recognize parts of your life that needs improvement (fitness, work, etc) and do them at the same time. While some get so caught up in working on themself pre seduction, that by the time they have it figured out, theyre lost and still dont know how to make an approach. They have great inner game, can meditate, awesome job, great car and condo but still can't open a women. So i say work on it both at the same tim…
/r/seduction13/05/13 04:33 AM
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Barkeep, we are celebrating a birthday. shots of your finest tap water for the lady! Me: amused Her:???
/r/seduction10/05/13 05:24 AM
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Too needy?
/r/seduction26/04/13 05:10 AM
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So youre saying to assume everything is a shit test!
/r/seduction24/04/13 05:12 AM
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Great job, reminds me of a time where I was that guy. I was so unaware, what to do, blech.
/r/seduction10/04/13 07:48 PM
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I carry two in an aluminum business card case. You can buy them off ebay for $1 or so.
/r/seduction03/03/13 07:24 AM
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Great stuff as always Eric
/r/seduction20/02/13 04:30 AM
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Why is he a douche? He manned up and cut the relationship instead of dangling her along. So many guys stay in bad relationships, because they don't think they can find someone else to like them.
/r/seduction12/02/13 06:21 AM
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Watch some youtube videos by Sasha Daygame. He lets them pass and then comes up from behind so hes walking side ny side and taps their arms to get their attention. Enjoy
/r/seduction02/02/13 09:06 AM
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Great stuff, did you hit up Stc or EC?
/r/seduction26/11/12 06:19 AM
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Go for the hookup, she wants it. Either you can give it to her or she can find it somewhere else. Sex can lead to relationship, glgl
/r/seduction25/11/12 08:07 AM
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Check out kaseemg interview on youtube with skin diamond, he pulls this game on her.
/r/seduction03/10/12 04:35 AM
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Leo DiCaprio had that problem until he found the game and met Mystery.
/r/seduction04/08/12 07:24 AM
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Don't ask obvious question unless you have a reason for asking it. Ie, instead of asking why she is at the mall (I bet 90% say shopping), ask her what she is shopping for. Then transition to a statement like why you are at the mall, waiting to meet up with friends etc. Then transition back to a question/statement/cold read like, let me guess you're a business student. I think saying excuse me is fine. This is daygame, so socially calibrating. Read up on Soul's daygame manual, and it'll help with…
/r/seduction25/07/12 07:05 AM
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Sasha daygame, Eric disco, mark Manson, soul, etc Ideally, you learn from one and stick to that and go from there Soul from love systems has a daygame book out there
/r/seduction25/07/12 06:57 AM
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Approach!
/r/seduction13/07/12 06:38 AM
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How can I pass up a free app :D thxs
/r/seduction06/05/12 09:48 AM
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I work out! When I walk in the spot, this is what I see Everybody stops and they staring at me I got passion in my pants and I ain't afraid to show it I'm sexy and I know it
/r/seduction27/04/12 06:54 AM
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Could you pm me as well? Thanks
/r/seduction25/04/12 06:58 AM
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Good stuff Thanks When do you think you will have it finished?
/r/seduction24/04/12 05:46 AM
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They were set to give a talk at UC Berkley, and but the planned protest canceled the event.
/r/seduction24/03/12 08:30 AM
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Sleep is important, threesomes can wait for another day!
/r/seduction19/03/12 07:17 AM
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He said he never got a solid hard on and couldn't cum. Never said he didn't stick it in her.
/r/seduction28/02/12 04:41 PM
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Tvt7LXLZs48
/r/seduction16/02/12 07:35 AM
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You got to meet Stone Cold Steve Austin! I Very Cool!
/r/seduction31/01/12 08:52 AM
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Ignore her for a bit, she knows you're chasing, and then send her a light text in a week or so. Otherwise you're coming off as needy. Like "wow I thought I saw you at the Place! Turns out it was your doppleganger! " A msg where if she doesn't respond, you don't lose value since this wasn't a question.
/r/seduction18/01/12 07:49 AM
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High risk high return. Wouldn't it be unauthentic to ask an opinion about something that you could care less about. Being authentic would be telling her what's on your mind, you find her cute and want to meet her.
/r/seduction10/01/12 08:09 AM
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You're fucked! But this is would be a good read for you. Post Masculine's STD Guide
/r/seduction09/01/12 12:31 AM
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Op, and I could not find this instructor's website. I want to sign up for a bootcamp with this Dennis character asap!
/r/seduction07/01/12 11:26 AM
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Don't go to the place where she works...stalkerish Hit her up on FB and then move the chat to phone.
/r/seduction04/01/12 07:54 AM
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Awesome FR, I hope that's where my game will be in 1 yr :)
/r/seduction04/01/12 02:52 AM
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