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| 5 | "Some men aren't given the opportunity to show off their personality" is a victim narrative myth and a red flag.I mean it’s quite a privileged position to take if you think appearance based discrimination doesn’t exist especially when it comes to aspects like skin colour or religious presentation But this ain’t exclusive to men, women face these pressures too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 07:52 PM |
| 1 | A lot of liberal women struggle in dating because what they're truly attracted to and what they say they want are usually contradictory.Bruh ur sexual orientation is MEN, you are attracted to men. Bisexual men are still men. Until a man tells you or you find out, you have no way of knowing he’s bi or not😭, or can you smell it on them? Private matters can absolutely be a social issue, so you accept men’s choices to want women with intact hymens or low body count? Regardless of WHY they want that? That’s literally how society has upheld patriarchal structures btw people like you say they don’t wanna “interfere” Wdym and? So should… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 12:24 AM |
| 3 | A lot of liberal women struggle in dating because what they're truly attracted to and what they say they want are usually contradictory.How is it what aboutism? You said don’t talk about women’s choices in intimate matters they don’t need deconstructing. But social norms directly impact women negatively in intimate matters, so you have to be consistent and accept we can’t deconstruct intimate matter topics when the practices harm women too. The topic is not consent and men not taking no for answer, you are trying to turn this discussion into something that is not. Your sexual orientation and sexual preferences are two different … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 11:28 PM |
| 2 | A lot of liberal women struggle in dating because what they're truly attracted to and what they say they want are usually contradictory.So patriarchy or misogyny doesn’t impact how women are treated during sex? Or what dating choices women face? Do systematic influences stop magically existing and impacting anyone’s decisions because the concern is deeply intimate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 10:38 PM |
| 2 | A lot of liberal women struggle in dating because what they're truly attracted to and what they say they want are usually contradictory.Yea that’s exactly the mindset we need, that’s how religious people have gotten away with centuries of misogyny btw because that’s their “preference” cuz god said so I don’t care if you are man, woman or non binary. Everyone’s belief systems should be deconstructed to examine what they are based on. But you can use the woman card and cop out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 10:13 PM |
| 3 | A lot of liberal women struggle in dating because what they're truly attracted to and what they say they want are usually contradictory.So dating and sexual preferences are immune to requiring deconstruction? Because they are a personal matter? What kind of non sense take is that? So I am allowed to say I want a woman with her hymen attached because it’s an intimate matter and I don’t need to explain myself? Just because sex is weaponized against women under patriarchal systems doesn’t mean women cant hold problematic views on sexual matters I literally never said you CAN NOT refuse sex with bi man. Don’t try to twist this into … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 09:43 PM |
| 3 | A lot of liberal women struggle in dating because what they're truly attracted to and what they say they want are usually contradictory.Yea you are right that’s why it’s completely okay for women to be pro forced births, pro-ice, pro religion, pro racism Because hey they are women so they don’t need to explain themselves! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 09:30 PM |
| 2 | A lot of liberal women struggle in dating because what they're truly attracted to and what they say they want are usually contradictory.It’s funny you think this is personal when I have no where said that I am bi lol Again very convenient framing to make it about women and their freedom to choose who they want to have sex with when I didn’t say anything about that. Do you think people’s sexual preferences are free from criticism especially if they are women? Again if this is actually true then why don’t women go around asking every man they have sex with if they are bi? For example, no woman has ever asked me if I’m straight or … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 08:53 PM |
| 2 | A lot of liberal women struggle in dating because what they're truly attracted to and what they say they want are usually contradictory.I am not coercing anyone lol I am asking you to deconstruct why You do not know anyone’s sexuality until they tell you. So if you have a man you are attracted to and want to sleep with, WHAT changes with them being bisexual? If they didn’t tell you would’ve never known. So what does knowing that information change? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 08:29 PM |
| 3 | A lot of liberal women struggle in dating because what they're truly attracted to and what they say they want are usually contradictory.It’s an easy cop out that lets biphobic liberal women off the hook for upholding misogynistic and homophobic concepts. 1) Straight men don’t even get tested usually for years sometimes and a lot of them also use sex workers. So it’s actually about std risk, just using sexuality as your main screener is incredibly reckless for your own health. 2) What woman practically asks us a man their sexuality before hooking up on a night out? So it’s irrelevant for hookups anyways. I’ve never been asked if … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 08:07 PM |
| 1 | A lot of liberal women struggle in dating because what they're truly attracted to and what they say they want are usually contradictory.So then why did you open with STD risk being the true reason? You were arguing in bad faith when you knew the real reason all along | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 07:49 PM |
| 5 | A lot of liberal women struggle in dating because what they're truly attracted to and what they say they want are usually contradictory.Yea and most straight men dont even get tested lol so women being reckless about their sexual health is a justification for biphobia somehow? It’s not biphobic to want a std check before engaging sexually with someone btw You are assuming every bisexual man is a bottom or vers, a lot are pure tops too. And more importantly, you finally got to the crux of the idea. Women think being gay means you are not a real man cuz it likely means you get penetrated. Funny cuz don’t women get penetrated too? … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 07:34 PM |
| 0 | A lot of liberal women struggle in dating because what they're truly attracted to and what they say they want are usually contradictory.Of course not but there’s no benevolent sexism in action when discussing that scenario | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 07:17 PM |
| 2 | A lot of liberal women struggle in dating because what they're truly attracted to and what they say they want are usually contradictory.So std testing doesn’t exist anymore? And does being bisexual mean you must be sexually active? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 07:16 PM |
| 1 | A lot of liberal women struggle in dating because what they're truly attracted to and what they say they want are usually contradictory.I deffo believe that tbh, there are a lot of men who move like that too, they don’t pay out of good faith they only do it cuz they expect a certain outcome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 07:06 PM |
| 3 | A lot of liberal women struggle in dating because what they're truly attracted to and what they say they want are usually contradictory.You asked what’s appealing about conservatives men in dating, they offer acts of benevolent sexism because they think men must do X. Liberal men will not uphold these ideas and so offer no such benefits to women. It seems like what a considerable amount of women want in dating spaces is men who still uphold the benevolent aspects of sexism but dismantle the dangerous or harmful ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 06:54 PM |
| 0 | A lot of liberal women struggle in dating because what they're truly attracted to and what they say they want are usually contradictory.Yea nobody is owed or entitled to anyone’s romantic or sexual validation, I agree. But you have two men who are both attracted to you and want to date you, if one happens to also like men sometimes, what difference does it make to your monogamous relationship? Nice one calling me insecure when you are just a biphobic “liberal” woman. It’s always nice to have someone prove your point in real time 😆 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 06:41 PM |
| 1 | A lot of liberal women struggle in dating because what they're truly attracted to and what they say they want are usually contradictory.You can look up that term and educate yourself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 06:19 PM |
| 5 | A lot of liberal women struggle in dating because what they're truly attracted to and what they say they want are usually contradictory.A lot of women enjoy benevolent sexism for one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 06:17 PM |
| 2 | A lot of liberal women struggle in dating because what they're truly attracted to and what they say they want are usually contradictory.Like I said, if certain women want to engage in those dynamics and suffer, that’s their problem. As an ex religious person, it baffles me how so many women defend religion and willingly uphold the patriarchal values in it. Then complain about misogyny. My own family has women shaming me for leaving religion and it’s honestly just sad. Their inability to deconstruct their social conditioning only harms them. A lot of great women who are ethically consistent and very sensible tho, why would I wast… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 06:15 PM |
| 5 | A lot of liberal women struggle in dating because what they're truly attracted to and what they say they want are usually contradictory.First off: you do not know that the reason you were rejected is because you weren’t perceived as masculine enough, you are assuming this for the women, unfairly as well. Secondly; If certain liberal women are engaging in cognitive dissonance and uphold patriarchal ideas where it benefits them then that’s their issue to figure out. There’s no use in assuming just because a woman is liberal she automatically is ethically consistent. A lot of straight liberal women are disgustingly biphobic towards… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 06:08 PM |
| – | Is it bad that I cut ties and ignore women after rejection?Idk about you but I see women first as a human being and second a romantic interest. If I am dating you it’s impossible that I don’t also like you platonically. If we got along so well and they are a kind person, why would I miss on a great person just cuz I am bitter they don’t like me romantically? Friend zone is not some punishment, being someone’s friend isn’t some trap. Maybe it is if all women are to you is a sexual conquest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/26 10:01 AM |
| – | It's always considered men responsibility to make women feel safe around them.Why do men like you just automatically resort non sense fictional scenarios Who said individual women are incapable of being sexist or oppressive? The discussion about system and the defensive men who support it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 06:59 PM |
| – | It's always considered men responsibility to make women feel safe around them.I’m a door mat for recognizing systemic oppressions half the planet faces? Cool story | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 06:57 PM |
| 0 | Women will never be stuck alone.YOU diminish male sexual assault victims by denying how their biggest assaulters (90%+) are other men. If men stopped raping other men, most men wouldn’t be sexual assault victims anymore. Go ahead show me the statistics of: What % of sexual assault victims that are male were attacked by women What % of sexual assault victims that were women were attacked by women No one said women are angels but they do not in any way contribute to systemic oppression of others especially using sexual violence.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 02:30 AM |
| 0 | Women will never be stuck alone.Yea I wonder who the perpetrators of male sexual violence victims are? Overwhelmingly other men! So yea maybe men should stop raping women and men then! You are defensive because you take the criticisms of systemic oppression personally that’s none of my business. That’s like a cop crying they are one of the good ones when they are part of a corrupt abusing authority, no one cares. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 02:15 AM |
| 0 | Women will never be stuck alone.Sorry lil bro I ain’t reading allat but yea as expected I triggered the cry baby but but men are good rant I didn’t ask for your personal life rant bro you can keep it to yourself while you diminish the reality of gender based violence against women upheld through social norms | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 02:07 AM |
| 2 | Women will never be stuck alone.Well cuz men complain about the access of options women have (mainly just sex options) and blame them for it. Why don’t men stop lowering their standards when looking for sex and accept being single? The reason I brought it up is that women never being alone is not some thing of luck they have; most of this lack of loneliness they have is just based on men wanting to hit so is that really something good? Oh yea go figure you are another one of those defensive men who start crying when men have t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 01:35 AM |
| 2 | Women will never be stuck alone.The skew is is certainly one sided tho, nobody says a desperate woman has never existed but let’s not sit here and pretend that most men don’t just get into relationships for consistent coochie | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Most guys wouldn't feel happy being catcalledIt’s not love tho it’s just attraction | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 05:55 AM |
| 5 | Most guys wouldn't feel happy being catcalledI think the true litmus test is straight men being cat called by gay men, cuz then they can actually feel what it’s like to be pestered by someone who they aren’t attracted to while also feeling threatened cuz ofc another is much more of a physical test I personally always feel threatened when other men cat call me for exactly that reason | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 05:37 AM |
| 0 | Most guys wouldn't feel happy being catcalledI don’t agree As someone who’s been cat called by both men and women here’s what I can say truthfully: Men: I’m not gay but I am like kinda bi (very small niche of men I find attractive) and I hate getting cat called by men cuz most I don’t find attractive, happens when I frequent gay bars w friends Women: Only happened on a few rare occasions, and I loved every moment of it even though on most occasions the women weren’t attractive at all cuz it’s so rare lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 05:31 AM |
| 0 | No woman who is not already thinking about divorce will actually gonna divorce you for getting a paternity testJust trust me bro | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 12:05 AM |
| 1 | No woman who is not already thinking about divorce will actually gonna divorce you for getting a paternity testWhy luckily? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 11:56 PM |
| 3 | Women who don't pay for thier stuff or avoid 50-50 are red flags.Well yea, I am a simp to the mother of my children, are you good? 😂 Nope there is no such thing as 50/50 because you will never have a child come out ur nether regions and face permanent life altering impacts of that You are forever indebted to the woman you have kids with lil bro | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 11:55 PM |
| 1 | No woman who is not already thinking about divorce will actually gonna divorce you for getting a paternity testOkay that’s ur right to do so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 11:17 PM |
| 9 | Women will never be stuck alone.Exactlyyy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 07:30 PM |
| 11 | Women will never be stuck alone.They will also likely never be left alone to exist in their bodies without being objectified and sexualized It seems to me like men just have no standards and will jump at the first woman who likes them back. Maybe men should stop being so desperate then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 07:16 PM |
| -1 | No woman who is not already thinking about divorce will actually gonna divorce you for getting a paternity testWell depends if it’s a character trait the couple wants to work through | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 05:42 PM |
| 2 | No woman who is not already thinking about divorce will actually gonna divorce you for getting a paternity testYea I agree and ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 05:36 PM |
| 7 | No woman who is not already thinking about divorce will actually gonna divorce you for getting a paternity testOk man no one is believing that one lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 03:00 PM |
| 0 | No woman who is not already thinking about divorce will actually gonna divorce you for getting a paternity testCheating isn’t normal? I’d say it definitely is altho the data shows men do cheat more by a bit. Paternity fraud isnt the norm for sure, I’m not saying it applies to every man. A lot of men do rape their wives, it is a real threat that you should protect yourself against. I would not have anything against my wife using safeguards at home to help her in case of DV or SV. I would support that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 02:13 PM |
| – | it is acceptible for women to dress in revealing outfits only because of male-dominated psyopsWell you’d be wrong there too because other straight guys walking with their partners compliment my physique all the time in the summer and ask me for my workout split 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 02:07 PM |
| -8 | No woman who is not already thinking about divorce will actually gonna divorce you for getting a paternity testDamn we just went 0 to 100 outta nowhere, but yea better the marriage is over than being a clown and raising someone else’s kid tho Lets not pretend like paternity fraud doesn’t exist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 01:56 PM |
| – | it is acceptible for women to dress in revealing outfits only because of male-dominated psyopsThat’s not true lol, plenty of the woman I dated loved seeing me in a short sleeve t shirt or tank that showed my arms and vascularity They also loved seeing me in short shorts Most attention on dating apps I receive are from pics where I am in fact showing skin | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 01:53 PM |
| 0 | No woman who is not already thinking about divorce will actually gonna divorce you for getting a paternity testWell that comparison makes no sense because a woman has complete insight on paternity certainty and a man has 0 insight. And of course the men asking implies they don’t trust her, lot of untrustworthy men and women out there who people are married to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 01:50 PM |
| 3 | No woman who is not already thinking about divorce will actually gonna divorce you for getting a paternity testThat makes no sense, of course that implies that she’s cheating because paternity certainty lies with the woman? She knows who inseminated her at all times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 01:45 PM |
| 2 | No woman who is not already thinking about divorce will actually gonna divorce you for getting a paternity testRealistically paternity fraud can be a real concern especially if you are mingling with women embedded in the “baby daddy” culture. No woman tho is gonna put up with that kinda framing tbh even if she knows she’s frauding. I think it’s pretty safe to assume a lot of women would file for divorce if you directly asked for a paternity test especially if you are married. I wonder tho what such women would say if for example their husband denied them from checking his phone. Isn’t it kinda the same p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 01:43 PM |
| 12 | Women who don't pay for thier stuff or avoid 50-50 are red flags.Ah yes just get your uterus removed it’s so easy and convenient! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 07:49 AM |
| 8 | Women who don't pay for thier stuff or avoid 50-50 are red flags.How does my personal approach to a relationship dynamic change the actual realities of motherhood in modern society? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 06:48 AM |
| 12 | Women who don't pay for thier stuff or avoid 50-50 are red flags.Tbh just because paying for a woman or them being financially dependent on you was part of a traditional value system does not mean it can’t also be part of an equity focused system. I as a man will never have to menstruate, constantly worry about a pervasive threat to bodily autonomy under the social norms that present globally and face the pain and risks that come with pregnancy. So is it really ever fair for things to be 50/50 even if a woman makes her own money or has a job? Also you talk ab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Men Love Objectification, When it Benefits ThemOh well I didn’t read that post, but not surprised that a man would make that claim tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 12:53 AM |
| 5 | Men Love Objectification, When it Benefits ThemWell if you mean some other post then yea unless it’s referenced here how would i know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 12:51 AM |
| 0 | Men Love Objectification, When it Benefits ThemYea people who deceive or lie to others for their own pleasure are not good yea. But I don’t get ur point really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 12:41 AM |
| 2 | Men Love Objectification, When it Benefits ThemYea and how is that a good feeling? To know the desire you feel is not sincere? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 11:54 PM |
| 8 | Men Love Objectification, When it Benefits ThemI don’t think they enjoy that? It’s almost out of necessity; they would much rather that stripper or that woman overseas like them for free Who would want to be objectified without a benefit lol? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 09:37 PM |
| 2 | Where is it ok to "cold approach" woman?Yup u should see me at Costco, I’m like a maniac running around with my shopping list. I have no interest to talk to anyone let alone grab samples. Forget about romantic under tones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 05:45 AM |
| 1 | Where is it ok to "cold approach" woman?Yea but doesn’t mean women are there to meet you They might be there just to dance with their friends and that’s not an invitation to be approach especially when it’s usually with the ulterior motive of just getting Laid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 05:43 AM |
| 2 | Where is it ok to "cold approach" woman?Gym isn’t a place to socialize tho? I go to the gym to lock in and get my workout done asap cuz it’s like my medicine for longevity, im not there to talk to anyone But if im joining drop in volley ball or doing a hot yoga class at the same gym? Very different and much more open to socialize | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/26 05:42 AM |
| 2 | What are men wanting in terms of dating?Thanks but the reality is people with all sorts of values and even value clashes partner up I think more men need have a spine and honour whatever framework they believe in, instead of just trying to force the outcome of having a dating partner | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 07:43 AM |
| 3 | What are men wanting in terms of dating?I can’t speak for all men, we aren’t a hive mind. I am not looking to just date any woman. I personally want someone with whom there is strong mutual attraction physically and shared values (I don’t ask for anything I don’t have). If I am looking for something serious, other values become more flexible. For me the value part mainly looks like: No religious affiliations or bigoted beliefs, active and healthy evidence based lifestyle, no substance use at all (weed, alcohol etc), career in a profes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 06:58 AM |
| – | Most 'Nice' guys aren't nice at all. They just lack standards, boundaries and integrity while making it as niceness.Agreed, if your niceness is contingent on someone willing to sleep with you then you aren’t really nice. Also, being nice is not a pantie dropper for anyone in isolation. Attempting to moralize attraction is a bad road to go down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 01:23 PM |
| – | is it better to be a guys type physically or personality wise?You weren’t serious but still seeing each other tho right? Honestly that sucks I’d never say that to anyone I’m seeing in any romantic capacity Porn doesn’t really have to be whatever, you should decide the boundaries you are comfortable with. Honestly his action to visit those sites while having a gf sucks esp if in secret and I can imagine that hurts a lot, you deserve a partner who only has eyes for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 10:04 AM |
| – | is it better to be a guys type physically or personality wise?Well if you want to be in a relationship with me then you need to be both my type physically and personality wise. If you ONLY care about outcomes and just want a boy friend then being a man’s physical type is better cuz men who just want you for sex will larp to keep you around and maybe get attached over time But what fulfillment would you get out of a relationship like that? Also has ur bf openly advertised what his type is to you? Knowing that you are the exact opposite? Cuz that would be pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/26 10:00 AM |
| 2 | Women have delusions of grandeur in relationshipsLet me grab my popcorn and go on a hunt for those 🤧 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 05:53 AM |
| 3 | Women have delusions of grandeur in relationshipsMaybe I should make some low effort generalization posts about men 😈 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 05:50 AM |
| 4 | Women have delusions of grandeur in relationshipsIdk it doesn’t say anywhere in the description that low effort criticisms of women is all what this sub is supposed to be about 😬 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 05:36 AM |
| 3 | Women have delusions of grandeur in relationshipsI’m ngl dude I only joined this sub recently but why do I always just get posts about men moaning about dating and holding a pitch fork at women. It’s actually so boring | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 05:20 AM |
| 2 | People are too in love with social media validation to give it up for a partner who doesn’t beat that attentionNope, almost all I have found myself attached to were completely normal women that looked nothing like influencers and I had eyes for no one else I always will be more than happy with one person who I find attractive and has the same values as me. For some odd reason as man I only get hit on when I’m dating someone but i genuinely couldn’t care less if I adore my partner. I think the issue w people who settle or aren’t happy with their partners, the validation is dangerous for them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 06:30 PM |
| 7 | Expecting Men to Pay for First Dates Is EntitlementWhy are going on dinner dates as your first date lol? If you entertain transactional dynamics then don’t be shocked. Also to note that nothing in life is really 50/50. Women do face significantly greater risks when it comes to dating and sex. Now whether that warrants a man paying for the date or if a paying for a date helps in any way is a separate discussion. If you don’t want to pay for dinners just ask women out on coffee dates lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/26 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Men should not be seeking dating advice from womenWdym my gut feelings? Gendered based violence is the lived experience of women and it’s not “random” criminal violence. They face this threat even roaming around in public not just from men who are close to them. Women constantly have to protect themselves from the threat of violence after sexually rejecting men. Keep dismissing the lived realities of women and make sure you communicate this attitude to the women around you, they will really appreciate the heads up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Men should not be seeking dating advice from womenThe fact you demand perfect statistics before believing the lived experiences of women shows exactly where your head is at. You clearly must not have any women in your life that you care about because virtually every women has experienced some form of harassment when simply existing. More importantly, DASFV or dating app facilitated sexual violence is a formally documented concept. https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2020/03/06/young-women-often-face-sexual-harassment-online-including-on-dat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 07:03 PM |
| 2 | Men should not be seeking dating advice from womenBiased towards what exactly? Being against systemic oppression of women? How many women face life threatening attacks or harassment for simply rejecting advances of men? Of course you think my argument is baseless, the patriarchy is too sweet and convenient for ya | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 06:28 PM |
| 0 | Men should not be seeking dating advice from womenMost men certainly don’t, the misogyny and entitlement to romantic validation from women is rampant these days If you aren’t this kind of person then you wouldn’t get defensive and keep moving along | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 05:32 PM |
| 2 | men DO care about a woman’s incomeI mean I’m ngl I care about her income and education, it’s deffo a non negotiable for me to atleast have an undergrad degree and be in a professional industry but If she’s not attractive enough then none of it matters tbh Ive tried dating some women who were incredibly intelligent but I wasn’t attracted to them, and I couldn’t proceed further after a few dates As I get wealthier and proceed in my career, I honestly do think I might just stop caring about how much a woman makes as long she’s not … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 07:22 AM |
| -1 | Men should not be seeking dating advice from womenDo men have any baseline understanding of women’s loneliness? Or do you think just because someone will have sex with you that means you can never be lonely Why should women give two shit about men’s dating issues? When men as a whole don’t even care about their safety and well being? Women are out here worried about their livelihood on most days and you are worried about getting a kiss. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 06:53 PM |
| – | CMV: Penis size does matter, bigger may not always be better but smaller than average is a dating death sentence.Holy reach man, a practical discussion about size and how much it matters is not a kink or fetish tho Yes men in general use their genitalia to act like hornballs but that not what this post is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 12:33 AM |
| – | CMV: Penis size does matter, bigger may not always be better but smaller than average is a dating death sentence.This is not a fetish topic tho but pop off AI slop queen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 12:13 AM |
| – | CMV: Penis size does matter, bigger may not always be better but smaller than average is a dating death sentence.True but also if size really mattered that much, a lot of women wouldn’t get off with fingering | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/26 11:56 PM |
| 3 | Women couldn’t even begin to understand what real loneliness isExactly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/26 01:46 PM |
| 22 | Women couldn’t even begin to understand what real loneliness isYou could have sex every day and be in a relationship but be incredibly lonely, it’s actually a reality for many women whose husbands just married them because they wanted an on demand sex toy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/26 01:43 PM |
| 5 | Women couldn’t even begin to understand what real loneliness isYet the ugly dude hot woman trope is so common? It’s much more like that men never date an ugly woman and actually respect her? Men couldn’t begin to understand what it’s like to live a life where sex isn’t the only thing that’s part of your identity Sex sex sex it’s all you mfs talk abt | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/26 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Would you ever let men penetrate you for money?Who cares about attraction here? This about hard cash | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/26 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Would you ever let men penetrate you for money?Exactly, so it’s not the action of penetration itself which is the issue necessarily, it’s the social norms attached to it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/26 05:58 AM |
| 1 | Would you ever let men penetrate you for money?Yes ik but some forms of modern labour slavery isn’t much different in a practical sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/26 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Would you ever let men penetrate you for money?Also tons of slave trade practices present for trad labourer work too, people are trafficked to fish for example in Asia | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/26 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Would you ever let men penetrate you for money?Only because trad labor work has labour laws and sex work is illegal If there were labor laws around sex work then the reality would be different would it not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/26 05:20 AM |
| 1 | Would you ever let men penetrate you for money?I mean sure but not impossible certainly if life changing money is on the line I’m sure I could train my butthole to take an average size peenar if I worked up to it over a few weeks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/26 05:07 AM |
| 1 | Would you ever let men penetrate you for money?I mean sure who isn’t it valuable for I guess | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/26 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Would you ever let men penetrate you for money?Yea ngl that’s true, maybe not designed to then but u can certainly train urself to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/26 05:01 AM |
| 1 | Would you ever let men penetrate you for money?Not really cuz their reasons for saying no are different than yours, mainly it’s the idea that’s it’s gay Also the question was for men anyways | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/26 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Would you ever let men penetrate you for money?Yea that’s why I said don’t do it then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/26 04:14 AM |
| 1 | Would you ever let men penetrate you for money?Okay ur an angel then but most people don’t wanna work for free, they wanna be paid for their labour They don’t have to be a stranger, you can discuss the boundaries of the agreement before hand If you feel like it’s rape then yes don’t do it, but you are consenting for cash that’s the premise If you don’t want the money that’s fine just give it to me lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/26 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Would you ever let men penetrate you for money?Well receptive anal sex doesn’t have to hurt, you can train your body for it, if large sums of money are on the line You would do your job if you weren’t paid lol? The whole premise here is that you have to find a way to be accepting for penetration for money. I ain’t doing all this for 1000$ but certainly do it for 100k I am consenting to have somebody enter me for cash, what the other person perceives it as is none of my business. It’s not sex to me cuz I’m not participating in any meaningful … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/26 03:55 AM |
| 2 | Would you ever let men penetrate you for money?Why do I write like a German? I’m from Canada | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/26 03:52 AM |
| 0 | Would you ever let men penetrate you for money?LMAO I don’t blame you for believing that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/26 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Would you ever let men penetrate you for money?Real response for what? My discussion was centered around the prompt from the start And i didn’t deflect I agreed with you that sex work is exploitative for most | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/26 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Would you ever let men penetrate you for money?Also u can just train urself to take whatever size. If 100,000 is on the line, I can easily train my body to take it I just don’t buy it that some ppl are saying they won’t do it for any price | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/26 03:21 AM |
| 1 | Would you ever let men penetrate you for money?Not tryna convince you otherwise just deconstruct and understand your why. If you don’t wanna discuss it then yea ofc don’t, I won’t broach the topic further | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/26 03:19 AM |
| 0 | Would you ever let men penetrate you for money?Well yea I’m not denying the reality of sex work for most people but that wasn’t really the question of the prompt I never said this would be empowering either But if you can be penetrated anally as a man for money with no other harmful consequences, why not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/26 03:06 AM |
| 0 | Would you ever let men penetrate you for money?So is it okay if a woman pegs you? You can’t say receptive anal is gay now if a woman does it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/26 02:51 AM |
| 0 | Would you ever let men penetrate you for money?I mean either you explain why or you don’t even know yourself You shit logs out of that hole so it’s not like you aren’t designed to take it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/26 02:45 AM |
| 0 | Would you ever let men penetrate you for money?But why am I under valued here? I’m getting money on my terms, nobody is forcing me? I just give someone access to my hole for a few minutes to make money? I literally give access to my body for hours every week for money at a corporate job. How would this be any different. Especially since the framing of the question suggests I am in complete control of the outcomes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/26 02:43 AM |
| -1 | Would you ever let men penetrate you for money?Some also can’t read I guess, did you not see where I said fair enough? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/26 02:40 AM |
| -1 | Would you ever let men penetrate you for money?I mean isn’t it your ego that dictates your self worth Why are you worth any less if you earn money by letting an object enter you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/26 02:39 AM |
| -1 | Would you ever let men penetrate you for money?Fair enough but for me this would be very easy to compartmentalize and I’ve never done receptive anal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/26 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Would you ever let men penetrate you for money?You can’t set ur ego aside for a bit for some money? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/26 02:27 AM |
| 6 | Would you ever let men penetrate you for money?Who said you have to enjoy it? It’s for money, we do many things for money we don’t find pleasurable You take a shit every day, you are used to phallic adjacent objects going in and out of your hole already | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/26 02:25 AM |
| 2 | Would you ever let men penetrate you for money?Exactly, they aren’t willing to deconstruct like this cuz they might not like what they find at the end of it 😟 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/26 02:23 AM |
| -6 | Would you ever let men penetrate you for money?I mean that’s just a cop out, if you deconstruct why you won’t take it up the ass from a purely logical standpoint, it’s just your ego being bruised Like what are the logical reasons you will not take money to let a phallic object enter your rear end ? No one said you have to find it pleasurable, it’s for money | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/26 02:22 AM |
| -1 | Would you ever let men penetrate you for money?Who cares if you are building something or not, both require physical labour. It’s just social labelling that we perceive sex work to be so offensive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/26 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Would you ever let men penetrate you for money?You are attracted to bending over on a laptop for a salary or pouring cement? Who said you have to be turned on, you just let someone use ur hole and u get paid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/26 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Would you ever let men penetrate you for money?How is it different than laying bricks or pouring cement for 12 hours that is taxing on your back and whole body Ngl being homeless instead of taking it up the butt is crazy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/26 01:43 AM |
| -4 | Would you ever let men penetrate you for money?Considering most labour is taxing on the body in some way ,sex work in isolation is pretty chill Especially getting fucked cuz I don’t even have to look at them or anything. I prolly wouldn’t kiss a man for money but taking it up the butt seems chill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/26 01:42 AM |
| 3 | Most of men's issues can be dealt with common sense legislation and that's what makes feminist EVILYup and u will find such men unsurprisingly are also pro forced birth, they don’t actually care about anyone’s well being they just care about control I honestly didn’t think it was most men either until I started entering these spaces and see how many men talk, actually disheartening | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 08:13 AM |
| 1 | Most of men's issues can be dealt with common sense legislation and that's what makes feminist EVILBy should it be equal if the parent is negligent? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 07:59 AM |
| 2 | Most of men's issues can be dealt with common sense legislation and that's what makes feminist EVILYup I know that’s why I mentioned it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 07:59 AM |
| 3 | Most of men's issues can be dealt with common sense legislation and that's what makes feminist EVILI mean custody rates are like that for cases cuz men don’t even fight for their kids lol Go look up the rate at which men get custody when they actually try and come back | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/26 07:38 AM |
| 2 | The reason why young people are having less sex is pretty straight forward.Yea that’s fair enough, I would agree with that premise more | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 10:39 PM |
| 0 | The reason why young people are having less sex is pretty straight forward.If their inability to have sex is indicative of some larger social development deficit then it can be a crisis | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 10:16 PM |
| 0 | The reason why young people are having less sex is pretty straight forward.Like I said, who said sex is limited to penetration? I agree with you about the complications but teenagers are raging with sex hormones either way, they will get curious and explore. Telling them they just shouldn’t have it won’t fix anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 10:07 PM |
| 2 | The reason why young people are having less sex is pretty straight forward.The reason is they are chronically online and lack of co ed interactions Normal people have had sex all the time in person, this chad narrative is silly and only really relates to online culture | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 07:03 PM |
| -1 | The reason why young people are having less sex is pretty straight forward.Why not? Their biology would argue otherwise. Also sex isn’t just penetrative, it’s a social milestone activity and important for their own development and mental health. It’s part of being feeling desired. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 06:59 PM |
| 8 | The "patriarchy" didn't teach men to hide their feelings. Life did.Did you just compare interpersonal bonding with geopolitical unrest? Ru okay 😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 08:54 PM |
| 2 | The "patriarchy" didn't teach men to hide their feelings. Life did.So why don’t you become the change? Find another man to bond with, let him cry with you? Then you cry with him? That’s how you build community Open up show love to people; you will receive love back | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 07:32 PM |
| 7 | It's always considered men responsibility to make women feel safe around them.Yes women can uphold problematic structures at an individual level like any human? I am well aware of benevolent sexism but the point was about systemic issues that cause imminent harm. Women face a systemic threat to their livelihood at the hands of men. That’s really it. That doesn’t mean all women are angels or perfect in every regard. So not sure what exactly you are constituting as special treatment here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 07:38 PM |
| 11 | It's always considered men responsibility to make women feel safe around them.I am man who walks around daily and interacts with women, no one has ever called me a misogynist for simply existing? But how many woman are sexualized/graped/harassed for simply existing? If women wanna call me a misogynist to protect themselves I actually have no issue, but they actually don’t even ask for that. Do you leave your house at all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 07:19 PM |
| 9 | It's always considered men responsibility to make women feel safe around them.Well yea if women face a systemic threat to their livelihood from men overall, then men at an individual need to make sure they don’t contribute to that? Most women just ask you to leave them alone or treat them like normal humans tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 06:58 PM |
| 2 | If you have to perform niceness or play jester on a date, then you’re not actually desired.Dude why do u keep bringing random arguments, who said anything about men being special Constant goal post shifts, good bye girl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 10:30 PM |
| 2 | If you have to perform niceness or play jester on a date, then you’re not actually desired.Girl what part of America ru in, go to any bar on a Friday. It’s pretty normal to take someone home after. Ru a Mormon or something Casual sex is pretty common here, i literally live in the states 😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 10:25 PM |
| 2 | If you have to perform niceness or play jester on a date, then you’re not actually desired.You are playing dumb in terms of comparing a sex worker’s risks of STDs to those of a regular person who engages in casual. We all know the kind of men I described exist. I don’t get ur point in all these, u keep using false equivalents | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 09:22 PM |
| 2 | If you have to perform niceness or play jester on a date, then you’re not actually desired.Casual sex is usually an ongoing encounter tho? It’s not random one night stands even then, taking a new girl home every weekend does not have the same risk profile as fucking 10 new people every day. Why are we being so bad faith? To be honest for the guys that just see women as a hole, your argument is prolly right but again it costs money. I don’t think these kinda men care about STDs either way also. I personally care more about being desired, I wanna have mutually enjoyable sex with someone… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 08:32 PM |
| 2 | If you have to perform niceness or play jester on a date, then you’re not actually desired.No because they fuck new people a lot increasing their risk. Most people don’t fuck new sexual partners multiple times a day. So that comparison makes no sense. I never said all sex workers are trafficked or slaves, but most are since it’s criminalized and connected to trafficking/crime rings. Pimps have always been a thing. If you are referring to high end independent escorts who chose their own clientele and charge exorbitant prices. Most men can’t even afford that, so your argument crumbles t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 08:23 PM |
| 2 | If you have to perform niceness or play jester on a date, then you’re not actually desired.I mean even medically engaging with sex workers places you in the high risk profile for STDs It’s pretty obvious why, because sex workers have a much higher frequency of novel sexual interactions compared to a regular person Don’t play dumb now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 08:09 PM |
| 3 | How many of you are actively dating? Why or why not?I couldn’t actively date if I even tried, get 0 likes or matches on dating apps I’m not going to approach random women only cuz I find them attractive that’s odd I don’t meet women my age in hobbies i frequent in I can’t even get basic desire going with any woman let alone women that would meet my preferred standards in regards to personality, values, education, attractiveness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 07:37 PM |
| 1 | If you have to perform niceness or play jester on a date, then you’re not actually desired.What? Escorts being trafficked is common everywhere? It has nothing to do with the men you mentioned Regular strangers are not exposed to the same std risks as sex workers that’s absurd | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 07:19 PM |
| 2 | If you have to perform niceness or play jester on a date, then you’re not actually desired.First off, if we even ignore the problematic consent/trafficking aspect of escorts. It’s temporary, comes with many limitations of what you can do and also carries high risk of STDs, getting robbed etc. If you see things from a lens of short term attraction then yea sure being hot is the easiest way in. But who is to say other methods are not viable at all? If I’m not attractive but being funny and a good time can get me laid with the same chick as an attractive guy, why shouldn’t I try? Ofc loo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 05:17 PM |
| 2 | What is your tinder opener strategyLook at her profile and bio try to create something witty and slightly flirtatious. This for the age group 18-22. Older than that idk how their mentality works. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 07:45 PM |
| 6 | [URGENT] Going out clubbing for the 1st time. I need your advice!Dress nice, ideally wear something that makes u stand out, whether it be colour or design wise Don’t drink so much that u embarrass urself If eye contact occurs don’t be the first one to stop it If the same girl persists contact, smile and based on her body language approach or don’t | /r/askTRP | 11/01/19 03:31 PM |
| 5 | Which movies have redpill content?I can’t believe no one has said MAD MEN edit: just realized he said movie but this is still worthwhile imo | /r/askTRP | 09/01/19 03:56 PM |
| 2 | I'm such a beta still. How do I get rid of this?this isn’t a drama serial, you don’t “portray” the attitude you become it, Reading the sidebar won’t automatically change ur life you have to slowly introduce those behaviours until they become a habit stop putting girls on a pedestal and relax If you’re naturally busy you won’t find the time to reply to them urself, ur bored on break ? Read a book, catch up on school work Girls can smell the sweaty try hard balls from miles away | /r/askTRP | 21/12/18 09:13 AM |
| 1 | Should I use Instagram?Dude it’s December, summer is literally half a year away. Put on some nice clothes, go to a frat party or something and grab a picture with ur mates. Follow mutuals/people in ur college and increase your followers. Before my first year in uni there was a fb group of all the new incoming students and everyone gave out their socials. Literally gained 500 followers in less than a month. Came second year I did the same thing but this time I followed freshmen that had mutuals with my present follower… | /r/askTRP | 02/12/18 06:51 AM |
| 4 | Should I use Instagram?Yes because if you don’t have any posts on your Instagram you’re considered weird and anti social. Why don’t you go pick the most good looking kid/popular in your high school and see his Instagram. Nice clean pictures on your Instagram are actually are a really easy way to grab the attention of women who are around you but never got the chance to interact with you. **This is especially relevant in the age group 18-24 after that no one cares if you have Instagram or not | /r/askTRP | 02/12/18 03:51 AM |
| 3 | Received a suspicious text from my ex GF earlier tonight. I didn’t respond but now what.That’s one of the pettiest things I’ve ever heard a girl do | /r/askTRP | 17/11/18 02:22 PM |
| 1 | What’s a certain behavior/trait about a girl that turns you on?we are animals when humans lick their fingers after eating research has shown an increase in digestive enzymes | /r/askTRP | 17/11/18 12:34 PM |
| 1 | What’s a certain behavior/trait about a girl that turns you on?How the else is one suppose to eat a fucking burger? With a fork n knife? U r probably one of those dumb fucks who thought girls don’t fart or shit when u were a kid | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Pls help me recover this convoCan’t expect to succeed everytime it’s a different age group so it’s different mechanics | /r/askTRP | 14/11/18 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Pls help me recover this convoAny ideas what i can say to restart the convo | /r/askTRP | 14/11/18 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Pls help me recover this convoIn uni so texting is also needed for rapport | /r/askTRP | 14/11/18 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Pls help me recover this convoI’m meeting other ppl but I think I can close this | /r/askTRP | 14/11/18 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Pls help me recover this convoMost girls at uni need rapport before they agree to meet cuz everyone is busy | /r/askTRP | 14/11/18 01:51 AM |
| 2 | Taking girl on tinder from uni to McDonald’s near my house, how do I close?You got me I’m from the GTA | /r/askTRP | 13/11/18 08:18 AM |
| 1 | 4 same girls always keep matching with meLmaooo *same | /r/askTRP | 30/10/18 09:22 PM |
| 1 | 4 same girls always keep matching with meexplain the super like tho | /r/askTRP | 30/10/18 08:06 PM |
| 1 | 4 same girls always keep matching with meThese 4 are the only sane matches everyone else is different | /r/askTRP | 30/10/18 08:06 PM |
| 1 | 4 same girls always keep matching with meIt’s a small campus and I’ve also matched with them atleast 8 times | /r/askTRP | 30/10/18 08:06 PM |
| 1 | High SMV hobbies for teensOkay well ur 14 so first off take it easy. You don’t need to be getting banged at 14, come back when ur 25 cuz that’s when its MAYBE an issue. Although I can guarantee you that if u lift properly for 11 years there isn’t a chance in hell you wouldn’t have been laid by then. Keep it simple. I’d say prioritize in this order. I’m 19 and in a pretty solid premed program so I’m not just talking gibberish, I’ve been there. Discipline. Weekend or weekdays wake up at the same time etc. It’s a basic buil… | /r/askTRP | 26/10/18 02:09 AM |
| 1 | High SMV hobbies for teensI’d pick a language start learning it, not only is it a great ice breaker with girls but it’s insane for your cognitive function and future job applications. Try to pick something with a lot of international reach like French or German | /r/askTRP | 26/10/18 01:55 AM |
| 1 | High SMV hobbies for teensModel United Nations/ Debate or any club that does public speaking | /r/askTRP | 26/10/18 01:47 AM |
| 26 | What's the beta habit you had the hardest time giving up?Being a romantic lil bitch, I used to be a sucker for romance | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 01:15 AM |
| 4 | Taking girl on tinder from uni to McDonald’s near my house, how do I close?That was a figure of speech but okay, Chad. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/18 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Taking girl on tinder from uni to McDonald’s near my house, how do I close?What a small world lmao , Imma try something similar. She’s French so hopefully I get to hear some French gibberish | /r/askTRP | 16/10/18 01:08 PM |
| 2 | Taking girl on tinder from uni to McDonald’s near my house, how do I close?Canada actually Lool it’s cuz McDonald’s is on our student plan but I personally meal prep. But hey u gotta treat yo self once in a while | /r/askTRP | 16/10/18 01:07 PM |
| 15 | Taking girl on tinder from uni to McDonald’s near my house, how do I close?Jheez that’s actually a good idea there’s a lake park nearby my house I totally forgot about that, ur a G | /r/askTRP | 16/10/18 12:25 PM |
| 7 | Taking girl on tinder from uni to McDonald’s near my house, how do I close?She’s not a “woman”, we r students and it’s not uncommon here | /r/askTRP | 16/10/18 11:55 AM |
| 1 | Taking girl on tinder from uni to McDonald’s near my house, how do I close?Bud loves his salads eh? Mcds has salads tho | /r/askTRP | 16/10/18 11:43 AM |
| 1 | Taking girl on tinder from uni to McDonald’s near my house, how do I close?Lmao I’m not paying for her mcds plus I got 10,000 coupons in my mail I’ll just give her one. It’s not dinner tbh, no one “sits and eats” at McDonald’s here | /r/askTRP | 16/10/18 11:35 AM |
| 2 | Was into a girl she told me she wasn't interested.U probably gave her some sort of red flag talking about ur previous relationships | /r/askTRP | 12/10/18 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Hit the gym up againAlthough I don’t agree with the whole “programming” of strong lift as it lacks a lot of key areas. The idea of 5x5 is a tried and tested rep/set range especially for compound movements. Especially for beginners to kick start their strength curve. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/18 06:56 AM |
| 1 | What to do if there is no place to have sex?It’s definitely harder to escalate in public most women are more wary especially if they just met you. But nonetheless possible, if there are any public parks or lakes nearby that’s probably your best bet. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/18 11:33 AM |
| 5 | Hit the gym up againI suggest starting with Strong lifts 5x5 to build the basic foundation for muscle and strength. You may add exercises as necessary that aren’t included in the program. If you are intermediate I suggest Layne Norton’s PHAT program. It’s not about how many “times” a week you go to the gym. Your main goal for hypertrophy should be around 20 weekly sets per major muscle group. Try drinking a protein shake/consume protein in between/immediately after your workout, I found it helps to reduce symptoms … | /r/askTRP | 06/10/18 11:30 AM |
| 1 | Fat buddy msgs attractive girls “wanna fuck” 40% reply with yes, how?Honestly I should probably do that, the result will be the same but I’m just surprised because I thought him being overweight would result in very few matches that would be dtf | /r/askTRP | 21/08/18 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Fat buddy msgs attractive girls “wanna fuck” 40% reply with yes, how?As I said in the past 4 days he’s already been with 2 of them and all of them are attractive 8-9, as mentioned the typical white girl with a lean body. The reason I asked the question in the first place is because I figure out the answer myself. If uve read the sidebar and material feel free to answer it | /r/askTRP | 20/08/18 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Fat buddy msgs attractive girls “wanna fuck” 40% reply with yes, how?He’s already shagged two girls of them in the last 4 days and that’s only cuz his mom won’t give him the car every night... | /r/askTRP | 20/08/18 07:45 PM |
| 0 | Any redpill advice specifically for school?If ur gonna bang an ugly chick make sure no one sees it, girls will look down on you and it will ruin your reputation | /r/askTRP | 19/08/18 05:32 PM |
| 9 | "I can't do this, I'm a virgin"Next party hook up with someone else and all of a sudden she’s not a virgin anymore | /r/askTRP | 12/08/18 05:14 AM |
| 1 | Looking For Some Podcasts I Can Listen To On Spotify With Red Pill Principles. Thank YouJust download the overcast app, you can download podcasts for free and play them offline. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 11:46 PM |
| 1 | What does redpill think of John Cena, a high SMV, getting dumped by his fiancé before their wedding?I don’t think that’s true, he has fulfilled the most make a wish foundation wishes by anyone, you can’t fake doing that | /r/askTRP | 25/07/18 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Family sees me as low value, can't take this shit, how do I deal with this?Sometimes I wonder how something so singular and straight forward can have such a huge impact on your everyday life | /r/askTRP | 20/07/18 11:28 AM |
| 3 | Should I apologise?Unless her parents grounded her and took away her sugar allowance for the week there’s no need to apologize ma dude. Us teens are always skipping our curfew it’s not the end of the world. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/18 11:11 AM |
| 1 | do unattractive women serve any purpose?Most unattractive women actually end up doing better than their respective male counterparts | /r/askTRP | 15/07/18 10:17 AM |
| 2 | Is it normal im not having sex at all at 24?Best way to meet girls or anyone really is through mutual friends, how big is your social circle ? | /r/askTRP | 15/07/18 09:43 AM |
| 2 | Best way to get girls to text lessI personally find calling and talking over the phone for a few mins is better and allows you to get away with not texting. You can’t completely shut them off you have to keep them engaged just a little bit. Especially, if it’s a plate you want to keep for a not so short term period. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/18 09:25 AM |
| 1 | Transitioning out of teenage fashiona) fit - find one that suits ur body b) open the colour wheel look at what colours complement what c) don’t be afraid to experiment - the most compliments I’ve got were due to a pink button up even tho I barely wear bright colours d) if you have a wider frame - try to avoid stripes in general e) go on instagram look at the models aged 25+ and how they are dressing | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 05:24 AM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread June 06Recently watched the Kissing Booth movie with my mom and sister cuz it was move night and it was their pick. For those who didnt watch it, girl is best friends with a guy since a kid but the guy has a super hot chad brother. She’s sweet innocent and the brother is a player fucks around. But with her he becomes a emotional beta. If a regular guy acted the way he did in a relationship, the girl would legit break up with him the next day. Why does he get away with it? I’m fairly to TRP and know tha… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/18 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Should I send one my plates a pic of me out with another girlThis has nothin to do with preselection, she’s already a plate | /r/askTRP | 02/06/18 06:41 AM |
| 1 | Should I send one my plates a pic of me out with another girlNah dude a few of plates isn’t much to brag about, I just wanted advice | /r/askTRP | 02/06/18 05:20 AM |
| 1 | Should I send one my plates a pic of me out with another girlThe hand eating is genius I’m goin with that Why wasn’t the permission message a good move? | /r/askTRP | 02/06/18 04:06 AM |
| 1 | A Little Reminder: DO NOT talk about "feelings" to WomenWhat do you say to her when she says that you never open up to her or that you never talk to her about your issues? | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/18 09:09 PM |
| 2 | My friend just fucked my girlfriend and bragged about it to all our social circle friends.Jokes aside, maybe when you found him doing it or something you could’ve beat his ass but doing it now is pointless and will only show everyone how hurt you were so don’t do it | /r/askTRP | 27/05/18 08:53 PM |
| 5 | My friend just fucked my girlfriend and bragged about it to all our social circle friends.^ nothing better than a little male to male combat to death for ultimate alpha status | /r/askTRP | 27/05/18 08:52 PM |
| 3 | My parents are pestering me for an arranged marriage.... what can I do?The women dominate because half the guys who get arranged married are beta pussies who’ve never touched a girl in their life It’s maybe the best way to have control of a woman if you did it right as long as you make sure you use what TRP has taught you. In my opinion semi/arranged marriages are actually a very good option if you have a high SMV cuz your parents can find you a banging HB9-10 instead you having to waste years at the bar or swiping on your phone | /r/askTRP | 26/05/18 06:23 PM |
| 2 | What are Some Examples of Shit Tests?Go on TRP and find the side bar link to the guide to shit tests also just put the words “shit test” in the search bar there and read the appropriate posts | /r/askTRP | 26/05/18 05:35 AM |
| 2 | Drunk hookup keeps apologizing for feeling sick and not going the whole 9 yardsThat’s why I love living in Canada but being from a culture where arranged marriages are a thing cuz I can keep at it and maybe find the “one” if not I know my parents will set me up with a hottie either way, my dads boss who’s American rants to my dad all the time about how he’s so lucky that he has a wife like my mom cuz “Stephanie” is eating his head away as the guy has to go be a CFO from 9 to 5 and then come back to make dinner cuz it’s Tuesday and it’s his turn loool, the fact so many men … | /r/askTRP | 21/05/18 06:25 AM |
| 2 | Drunk hookup keeps apologizing for feeling sick and not going the whole 9 yardsWell first and foremost this might shock shrink ur balls and brain but I actually plan on getting semi and or fully arranged married (not due to religious or cultural reasons). I’ve thought about and for many reasons that I’ve discussed with my dad for hours and hours it’s really a whole discussion, I think it’s my best shot as long as I don’t mess up and maintain my physique and have good wealth etc. Etc. he and my mom are arranged and they’ve been married as long as I can remember and we both … | /r/askTRP | 21/05/18 06:05 AM |
| 1 | Drunk hookup keeps apologizing for feeling sick and not going the whole 9 yardsI’m actually really curious to know ur experience in regards to this | /r/askTRP | 21/05/18 05:26 AM |
| 1 | Drunk hookup keeps apologizing for feeling sick and not going the whole 9 yardsI realize the importance of me leading the escalations but in my experience as a first year university student thus far, especially when it comes to escalation, it has always worked in my favour when I let the women escalate first. Maybe it’s this small bubble I live in and this won’t work in the real world as I age but let’s say me and the buddies go to a frat party/club use approach A and most if not all of my friends use approach B and there’s the guys who go simply to drink beer get fat and … | /r/askTRP | 21/05/18 05:25 AM |
| 1 | Drunk hookup keeps apologizing for feeling sick and not going the whole 9 yardsMy biggest issue is that I can’t find that right balance of indifference and sometimes it’s perceived as I’m not making a move, I’ve literally had two girls tell me straight to my face they were dtf but got upset that I didn’t give a fuck and always ignored them and one at a frat even called me a “pussy” lmao. As frustrating as that was I put it behind me and moved on and figured it’s best to stay consistent with this indifferent attitude as it better than “caring” and a being pushover. I assume… | /r/askTRP | 21/05/18 04:46 AM |
| 1 | Need help escalating tinder convoBy convos I mean maybe 5 or 6 texts in total and I think u have to TALK to someone to build interest, especially when girls have so many options on tinder. Trying to engage them in an interesting convo has always worked for me. I’m not taking her out to drinks, I’m meeting her at a bar that’s in close proximity to my place, I usually ask them to buy me drinks something I have learned through trp a while back | /r/askTRP | 02/05/18 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Need help escalating tinder convoWdym interest? | /r/askTRP | 02/05/18 10:41 PM |
| 6 | What if i live with my parents?Idk where u live so can’t really comment on the geography but a quick shag in the woody trails by the lake is my go to | /r/askTRP | 02/05/18 08:09 AM |
| 11 | Some people say approach , approach and approach , while others say quit chasing pussy and it’ll come to you. Which is it?I couldn’t agree more, only thing I’d add is with sexualizing, timing is key, for example at a party if you flirt with a girl while her fat bitchy best friends r there, they will just start pulling her away | /r/askTRP | 27/04/18 06:39 AM |
| 59 | Some people say approach , approach and approach , while others say quit chasing pussy and it’ll come to you. Which is it?It depends on the context, let’s say you go to a party with mutual friends, if you don’t try to mingle and “let the pussy come to you” that’s dumb cuz u have to talk to get to know ppl but don’t be weird and try to flirt with every girl in the room Alternatively, if your at the library or at work it’s stupid to talk to every girl you see walking, but maybe you see this girl everyday who keeps staring and making eye contact, maybe talking to her wouldn’t be a bad idea? Just use common sense based… | /r/askTRP | 27/04/18 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Why do beautiful girls have fat friends?a girl I know says they are the “DUF, designated ugly friend so everyone else can feel better about themselves, she said it in such a trivial way too, girls are ruthless sometimes | /r/askTRP | 27/04/18 12:56 AM |
| 1 | Plate asked me what kind of things did I do with my ex,best response?She meant it sexually, so maybe she’s trying to see how far I got with her? | /r/askTRP | 25/04/18 09:10 AM |
| 1 | Plate asked me what kind of things did I do with my ex,best response?Best response as in the wittiest | /r/askTRP | 25/04/18 08:44 AM |
| 6 | Addicted to huge tits.. (shitpost)I remember seeing a really good post here a while which something like, if someone asks what happened last night all you have to do is say you got laid u don’t have to tell them who or how. You do what you want and like, it’s your life! | /r/askTRP | 21/04/18 06:36 AM |
| 2 | How hard is it to get hot chicksIt all depends on context, a hot girl who works as a cashier and lived with her parents and doesn’t really have any friends - easy pull A hot girl who has a successful job or goes to a good uni and has a big social circle - quite harder Considering ur shredded it shouldn’t be that hard, just follow the principles you have learned here | /r/askTRP | 20/04/18 08:41 PM |
| 3 | Can you still be friends with a girl but not her beta orbiter?Yea ofc u can be friends but the only truly way is if a) you are not attracted to her or b) you guys make it clear that one or both or you are not interested I have 2 really close friends that are women, but both of them have had a boyfriend for years and I’m not interested in them but they are great ppl to be around. I just try to pass their shit tests and limit communication outside of meeting up, e.g. when they need the attention I kindly direct them towards their boyfriend or just don’t repl… | /r/askTRP | 20/04/18 08:37 PM |
| 2 | To those who are getting over an ex or oneitis that dumped them - Stop being a BitchSome women die giving birth, you ever go into taking a shit knowing you might die?? | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/18 03:42 PM |
| 14 | To those who are getting over an ex or oneitis that dumped them - Stop being a BitchI wouldn’t say there are cowards, most women are actually very strong willed an example would be the fact that a grown fetus comes out of their vag, it’s just that some women are immature especially at a young and primarily don’t like to deal with conflict | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/18 04:19 AM |
| 25 | To those who are getting over an ex or oneitis that dumped them - Stop being a BitchThanks for this!! Had to end it my ex who was my best friend but she basically acted so shit so that she would force me to break up with her. This the exact approach I followed and it helped me so much. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/18 01:54 AM |
| 2 | I'm seeing alot of super hot middle eastern chicks on instagram married to fat, ugly, and/or balding men.Most them are arranged marriaged | /r/askTRP | 15/04/18 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Best witty TRP response to if ex asks if we can still be best friends? (best friends prior to breakup)Lmfaoo braid the hair man that’s such a good Reply to a shit test, do u have any links to read up more about shit tests? I’m generally a witty guy but sometimes on the spot it’s hard especially when I like the girl a lot | /r/askTRP | 13/04/18 06:43 AM |
| 1 | Best witty TRP response to if ex asks if we can still be best friends? (best friends prior to breakup)Knowing her tho she’s just gonna be like I know ur not being serious or something like that how would I handle that scenario | /r/askTRP | 13/04/18 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Best witty TRP response to if ex asks if we can still be best friends? (best friends prior to breakup)Dude this is the answer I’ve been looking for thanks a ton! This fits perfectly especially with the kind of girl she is, she’ll get the idea | /r/askTRP | 13/04/18 03:53 AM |
| 1 | Best witty TRP response to if ex asks if we can still be best friends? (best friends prior to breakup)Thanks for that I’ll definitely read up on the push/pull stuff again. The thing is tho I’m only interested in the sex with her and if she asks r we friends I don’t want to say yes because then I’m friend zoned but also I don’t want to say no because then she might think I don’t want to talk to her. I wanna say something that would indirectly tell her that my only interest is sexual | /r/askTRP | 13/04/18 03:38 AM |
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