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| 43 | If you could write your ex's Tinder profileHi, I’m a 33 yo struggling architect who will use dating apps behind your back. Will also meet up with my ex even though you don’t approve. I’m a firm believer in the 50/50 relationship when it comes to paying for food and vacations but will also expect you to take the lead in the kitchen cause I only know how to make 2 dishes. I’ll expect you to help me out with household chores at my place but when I’m at yours, I will just nap on the couch and let you do the cooking and chores. I will also ex… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 10:18 AM |
| 106 | Do you talk to your therapist about FDS?When I describe to my therapist what I want in relationships and that I used to feel guilty about having certain boundaries against things that make me uncomfortable, she often says that: it doesn’t matter what you want from a partner is seen as ‘normal’ or ‘too much’, if that’s what you want, it’s normal for you and you shouldn’t overanalyse it or feel guilty about it. I love her for it. ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 10:35 PM |
| 58 | Ladies, how long did it take for the man's mask to slip, during dating?Thisssss. Once they ‘have’ you, they’re suddenly too busy with work/friends/other stuff to keep seeing you frequently enough. Edit: spelling | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/22 08:26 PM |
| 73 | Men will worry about wether or not their wife is having sex with them, but never consider if they are someone she even WANTS to have sex with, or enjoys what he does in bed.Oh I did this too. A guy kept pulling my hair and choking me during sex so I bit his neck in a ‘sexy’ but apparently very painful way as a revenge. This was in my pickmeisha phase but still, glad I still had it in me to bite back, literally. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 10:50 PM |
| 15 | A ‘perfect’ Xmas gift for your ‘indecisive’ gf: a flipping coin with your names on it. Great, now we can even go 50/50 on date night ideas! And it only costs $10. 🤦🏼♀️Pick-me gf level 1: accepting the worst gift ever from your LVM. Pick-me gf level 2: getting the worst date night proposal ever. I mean, it usually gets worse the more you put up with 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/21 07:05 PM |
| 48 | A ‘perfect’ Xmas gift for your ‘indecisive’ gf: a flipping coin with your names on it. Great, now we can even go 50/50 on date night ideas! And it only costs $10. 🤦🏼♀️Yeah, probably. ‘But, It was MY turn to pick date night, and I suggest we watch porn together and order cheap take-out! 🥺’ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/21 06:04 PM |
| 27 | A ‘perfect’ Xmas gift for your ‘indecisive’ gf: a flipping coin with your names on it. Great, now we can even go 50/50 on date night ideas! And it only costs $10. 🤦🏼♀️Yes!! It sounds so much more mature and it takes a lot less effort to come to a decision together. In stead of the earlier examples, where the guy only initiates asking the questions, not trying to look for options and work with you. Stating a question =/= working on solving it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/21 05:51 PM |
| 40 | A ‘perfect’ Xmas gift for your ‘indecisive’ gf: a flipping coin with your names on it. Great, now we can even go 50/50 on date night ideas! And it only costs $10. 🤦🏼♀️Lol, yes. I’d bury it in the ground. ‘Here lies the future of our one-sided relationship’ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/21 05:45 PM |
| 85 | A ‘perfect’ Xmas gift for your ‘indecisive’ gf: a flipping coin with your names on it. Great, now we can even go 50/50 on date night ideas! And it only costs $10. 🤦🏼♀️I feel you SO hard. I’ve realised that I adore decisive, spontaneous men and I hate indecisive guys. That’s such a turn-off. Especially the ‘should we leave at 7 or 8’ or ‘what should I buy for groceries?’ Like damn, I feel like your mother and you’re older than me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/21 05:43 PM |
| 94 | A ‘perfect’ Xmas gift for your ‘indecisive’ gf: a flipping coin with your names on it. Great, now we can even go 50/50 on date night ideas! And it only costs $10. 🤦🏼♀️Also: small enough to fit in her stocking? - I’m sorry, but I’m sure that for example jewellery your gf likes will do a better job 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/21 05:37 PM |
| 2 | What’s something a man did that gave you “the ick”?I guy I dated for a couple of weeks was always complimenting me on my looks, how beautiful he thinks I was. All was ok, until he mentioned I was the number #2 most beautiful woman in the world, because #1 was reserved for Ana De Armas. We were literally having pillow talk after sex when he said that. He also had ED during that. He was shocked when I stopped dating him LOL. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 11:45 AM |
| 24 | Bikini waxing?Shaving for me is the worst. I always have so many ingrown hairs so I just stick to waxing or trimming! And i feel it comes back so soon that I have to shave every two days because I hate the prickly pear feeling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 12:25 PM |
| 12 | A very subtle sign of a manipulative, gaslighting LVBF.Omg I’m so sorry this happened to you too! The snoring.. I feel you -.- | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 08:38 PM |
| 17 | A very subtle sign of a manipulative, gaslighting LVBF.oh my, this!! So sad if you look back on it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 01:41 PM |
| 36 | A very subtle sign of a manipulative, gaslighting LVBF.Yeah, it was really dumb behaviour. It was more like he was listening and going; “Isn’t that cool, right?” to other people, while I could see that he was capturing this information fully for the first time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 01:06 PM |
| 9 | Remember the ex you wanted to marry? Let’s all laugh togetherI can confirm that this is very, very true. One of my exes was like this, he was very overweight and generally didn’t take care of his body and hygiene. But guess what happened on our first Valentine? He told me he needed to work on a school project when I asked to do something together. Fine. But when V-Day came around, he decides it’s a good idea to have dinner with an old female friend who happened to be in town and wanted to make up for him helping her with a school project. He then accused … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 10:08 AM |
| 11 | Remember the ex you wanted to marry? Let’s all laugh togetherWhaaaat?? So the ring pop proposals aren’t a myth after all. The audacity to propose a grown woman with a 1$ piece of candy. He probably thought he was cute and quirky with that comment about which flavour.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 10:03 AM |
| 120 | Remember the ex you wanted to marry? Let’s all laugh togetherOh how this brings back memories. Glad I can see everything clear now! • 6 years older than me, I was 18 and he was 24 when we got together. • he graduated from uni but was still in an ex-alumni frat squad where he would attend frat parties with people who where my age. • he was living with 3 other guys from the same squad who where all pigs and never cleaned their kitchen mess (3 weeks old pudding on the countertop with mold on it)🤢 • He had a drinking problem that he blamed on the constant soc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 03:13 PM |
| 35 | Why? Just why?Whaaaaaat?? Why would he think that’s a good idea?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 09:51 AM |
| 1 | You should bring up periods in the initial months of talking to a new man to gauge his reaction.This!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 10:52 PM |
| 2 | You should bring up periods in the initial months of talking to a new man to gauge his reaction.I’ve ruined so many guys’ sheets because I’m a HEAVY bleeder and I even leak when I’m wearing a menstrual cup + pad. So that’s the best test for me too, seeing how they respond to a scarily amount of period blood. Even the LVX’s reactions were mature and understanding, so a HVM should definitely be handling this in a good way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 10:50 PM |
| 14 | This is a weekly reminder to women especially “creatives” to watch out for lovebombing, genuine demons lurk and will seemingly try their best to tether your guard with words to exploit your emotions and try to conquer your body.OMG this reminds me of my cheating NVM. From the beginning, he used to say things like ‘you make me feel so calm, I feel I can really be myself with you, you have this soothing energy’.. this was all a cover up for cheating behind my back and inappropriately texting 20+ girls a night asking to come over. He was 25, I was 19. Should’ve known better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 08:38 PM |
| 32 | The amount of entitlement here, and he's seeking empathy from people‘A hairy short beach ball on legs’ had me dying 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 03:58 PM |
| 114 | The amount of entitlement here, and he's seeking empathy from peopleAnd not being allowed to have glass of wine, take painkillers, eat a long list of (even healthy) foods, drink coffee, probably not being allowed to do high intensity workouts, etcetera! Sure he knows what she’s going through 😮💨 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Tom Hardy. 🔥 Bonus points for the doggos 🐶Hahaha I wanna erase those from my memory | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 09:51 AM |
| 4 | Tom Hardy. 🔥 Bonus points for the doggos 🐶My pleasure! I made my own day just googling his picture too lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 09:50 AM |
| 21 | Tom Hardy. 🔥 Bonus points for the doggos 🐶THIS. His lips, intense gaze, his masculine features, love for dogs and acting skills really make him my dream guy too 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 12:05 AM |
| 1 | PSA about hormones and hormonal birth control when dating and selectingThe side effects are similar, because it’s generally the same hormones but at a lower dose. Which doesn’t mean there are no side effects. My best friend was on the hormonal IUD and completely lost her libido and attraction to her husband. When she took it out, everything came back to normal. Copper IUD is the only hormone free option out there, but might make your periods worse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 07:19 AM |
| 11 | Men don’t degrade women they love #BringBackKinkShaming2021My thoughts exactly.. She had to prove to him she was worthy of having non-degrading sex by giving birth to his child? As many people said in the comments above, this is just another example of Madonna/Whore complex.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 12:06 AM |
| 34 | Just LVM things.I suddenly see the picture of Pennywise the Clown (IT) before me, equally predatorial as these LVM 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 02:58 PM |
| 8 | I kinda want to know the most insane/funny stuff a score has ever said to you!For like 1 minute, maximum too 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 12:16 AM |
| 6 | Process Changes to the Sub, Flair, and other AnnouncementsThank you for your dedication! Happy to be in a safe environment again ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 10:07 AM |
| 18 | Just no!I would also let him eat St Ives abricot scrub so he can exfoliate from the inside out 🥰 r/hyramapproved | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 06:45 PM |
| 24 | The lies we are toldLOL. I wouldn’t be surprised if he would randomly feel entitled to ‘give advice’ to a woman in public about her hair. The audacity.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 10:39 AM |
| 4 | Residents at Waratah Lodge share their dating adviceOmg this is so wholesome! I’ll think about all of them when putting myself out there again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 10:33 AM |
| 44 | Where have all the good women gone? Scrote with ex issues laments that he only meets women with ex issues.‘Short brown hair that I consider shaving off completely’ AKA = balding LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 10:30 AM |
| 72 | Still no mention of leaving him?Same. I often feel that especially LVM are the ones to believe in the fantasy of the ‘no makeup’ - makeup looks, filters, plastic surgery and stupidly think it’s how some women look when they wake up. They are just so brainwashed by porn and instagram that they will always compare other women and even their partners with this ‘perfect’ image of a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 10:27 AM |
| 8 | It’s working...Same here! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 11:09 PM |
| 5 | Have you ever had your career/job fetishized?Not a profession, but ever since I started figure skating as a hobby, I’ve gotten multiple comments from male colleagues about ‘oh so you’re like really flexible? 😏’ or ‘so you wear those short dresses and skirts then?’. Yes Brandon, I wear nylon dresses that barely cover my ass when I’m training in the freezing cold. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 02:34 PM |
| 19 | Read it againExactly! You're not asking for too much, you're asking the wrong person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 02:01 PM |
| 10 | Never, ever settle for a scroteous LVM thinking he’ll stay loyal because you’re a literal goddess.LOL exactly! Napoleon complex comes tot mind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 10:30 PM |
| 14 | Never, ever settle for a scroteous LVM thinking he’ll stay loyal because you’re a literal goddess.True. And I didn't even pick their worst pictures lol! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 10:27 PM |
| 21 | Never, ever settle for a scroteous LVM thinking he’ll stay loyal because you’re a literal goddess.‘If I got a penny for everytime a scroteous man tried to make me lower my standards, I'd be rich enough to buy my dog a mansion.' | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 08:20 PM |
| 21 | Never, ever settle for a scroteous LVM thinking he’ll stay loyal because you’re a literal goddess.Facts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 08:06 PM |
| 48 | Never, ever settle for a scroteous LVM thinking he’ll stay loyal because you’re a literal goddess.You should google ‘Leonardo DiCaprio beach 2019’, his body didn’t age well either lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 08:05 PM |
| 15 | Never, ever settle for a scroteous LVM thinking he’ll stay loyal because you’re a literal goddess.Eva Longoria! She’s stunning. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 08:04 PM |
| 12 | I'm thinking I didn't miss much....‘Go dominate a sock’ LOL I’m DED | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 08:22 AM |
| 10 | Keep ignoring and blocking them ladies 💅Omg YES! I’d be happy to contribute daily 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 11:46 PM |
| 12 | Keep ignoring and blocking them ladies 💅Thanks haha! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 10:46 PM |
| 12 | Keep ignoring and blocking them ladies 💅Hahaha I had too much fun making this LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 10:46 PM |
| 19 | Keep ignoring and blocking them ladies 💅It’s the OG version! The scene with the centaurs and unicorns 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 10:46 PM |
| 29 | someone pls pick herOMG just discovered that on her TikTok, she posted another video about house chores! It goes like this: ’When I cook, clean the house, do the laundry, nobody sees that. But when I sit down with my phone, he says: You’re always on your phone! And that is exactly what you get for being a pickmeisha and inspringing others to do the same stupid shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 03:00 PM |
| 9 | 'You should feel lucky that I picked you, because for our first date I will cook for you, fuck you for free, and judge you for being promiscious while doing so' SMHAh yes, and don’t forget the lock! 🔒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 08:40 PM |
| 196 | 'You should feel lucky that I picked you, because for our first date I will cook for you, fuck you for free, and judge you for being promiscious while doing so' SMH‘A woman is like a diamond... You’re too broke to afford her’. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 02:02 PM |
| 28 | Ultimate pickmeisha behaviour covered up by a 'prank' video where she tricks her bf of 14 years (!!) into going down on one knee. SMH.LOL Exactly.. Someone also commented that if they would marry, she would be the most beautiful bride and her comment was ‘ty 🥺’. It’s so sad to see such a beautiful, successful woman trying to be picked so badly.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 01:46 PM |
| 21 | Ultimate pickmeisha behaviour covered up by a 'prank' video where she tricks her bf of 14 years (!!) into going down on one knee. SMH.Riiight? And he just yeets tf away from her 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 01:38 PM |
| 62 | Ultimate pickmeisha behaviour covered up by a 'prank' video where she tricks her bf of 14 years (!!) into going down on one knee. SMH.A little backstory: She's the dutch owner of an immensly successful haircare company (he's just a nobody LVM just stringing along) , one look at her insta and you can see she's drop dead gorgeous too. She mentions that people keep asking her when they will get married, and that she's the one 'who doesn't want to get married' and so she posted this as a 'joke'. Joke's on her.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 11:39 AM |
| 237 | The media will tell you that no matter how much you improve yourself, whether physically, mentally, or emotionally, you should keep the same low standards, when it comes to a partner. Also notice how it only works one way. It's going to be a no from me.Seth Rogen 🥱 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 07:48 PM |
| 87 | Do you ever just wonder why you still like men...Lol so true. No one wants your dusty WW2 sperm, Stefan. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 03:39 PM |
| 5 | I’m speechless about what things LVM can say to get attention (this screenshot was taken in Feb. I’ve deleted my app account)Wow, that went from zero to minus 300 real quick LOL. Men are always complaining about fake profiles on dating apps from escorts but they're the ones bluntly asking for sexual services. Wtf is up with that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 11:53 AM |
| 3 | Guy is mad the girl didn’t offer to pay or split the bill by their 3rd date, he complained and she dumped him. Now he’s whining lmaoOP posted it below! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 11:53 PM |
| 108 | Guy is mad the girl didn’t offer to pay or split the bill by their 3rd date, he complained and she dumped him. Now he’s whining lmaoOmg I laughed so hard with the full story and all the pickmeisha's in the comments saying 'I would never let a guy pay for me!!'. He also added 'too bad because she's really attractive' LOL. Glad she knows her worth! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 09:06 PM |
| 9 | Just a reminder that being a “girly” girl is totally awesome and valid and to shame girls for being feminine is to give in to a patriarchal culture that demonizes femininity because it’s largely associated with womanhood in a world that hates women. We can be feminine for ourselves, as well!Grace Kelly on the outside, Grace Jones on the inside Ok this is my new life mantra haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 03:16 PM |
| 17 | Just a reminder that being a “girly” girl is totally awesome and valid and to shame girls for being feminine is to give in to a patriarchal culture that demonizes femininity because it’s largely associated with womanhood in a world that hates women. We can be feminine for ourselves, as well!If the Hermes bag is real, it's a total of at least 12k haha. One day... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 03:15 PM |
| 27 | Just a reminder that being a “girly” girl is totally awesome and valid and to shame girls for being feminine is to give in to a patriarchal culture that demonizes femininity because it’s largely associated with womanhood in a world that hates women. We can be feminine for ourselves, as well!Elisabetta Franchi and french brands such as Maje have similar styles! Ok, It's not cheap like Zara, but a lot cheaper than Chanel! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 03:13 PM |
| 120 | Buying your fiancee a ring like this just because it is the cheapest.....If a guy would propose to me with this, I'd be happy to decline. It looks like the band is made out of iron wire and the stone looks like a Swarovski bead. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 04:19 PM |
| 10 | Young woman is in a situationship without even realising it. I hope she leaves.After reading your post and commenting on it, I'm very happy to see you here! Honestly, if he didn't do it before you decide to end things, his intention was probably to string you along much longer. If he suddenly wants to make it official, he's only doing it because he's afraid of losing the non-commital gf benefits. It won't be sincere. Keep that in mind and keep us updated! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 08:30 PM |
| 2 | Charismatic Introverted WomenI feel Jamie Lee Curtis has a similar vibe! Cool, collected, doesn’t take shit from anyone, but remains calm and charismatic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 09:57 AM |
| 8 | LVM Behavior, what are your examples?First date with my ex (I was 22 and a real pickmeisha): We went for drinks in a cafe, and before leaving and paying, I went to the restroom. When I came out, he was standing outside already, so I figured he already payed. I went outside, we took off, until the waitress came running after me saying that I didn't pay my 2 drinks (for about $5) yet. This a-hole only payed for himself and said: "I thought you went to the bar to pay for your drinks when you returned from the restroom...'. Stupidly, I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 01:29 PM |
| 43 | Remember thisSo basically, LVM are the contemporary version of incubus, lol. It really makes sense now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 11:22 AM |
| 21 | Don't agree to blind dates: don't waste your timeI'm surprised you could stand him for 30 minutes lol.. Based on his crying/screaming/stalking reaction after the rejection, he has catfished a lot of girls before you too with the same outcome. Also, why the hell did your friends told you not to be picky? I hope they learned too by seeing what this outcome was.. I'm glad you got home safe after such a horrible encounter! (Also: hello fellow dutch-speaker!) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 07:25 AM |
| 40 | If you feel the need to text paragraphs, you've already lost. Explaining to someone who doesn't want to understand is a waste of time.Exactly! It always feels good to just ventilate by writing it down for yourself. And then realising they aren't worth more than 3 characters. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 01:20 PM |
| 32 | A cautionary tale about the dangers of settling for a LVMAnd probably earns more, too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 09:52 PM |
| 2 | Poll: Has anyone ever NOT blocked a guy and something worthwhile happened?My ex sent me a message a couple of weeks ago. ( He was a dick in the relationship and after, so I don't know why I didn't block him sooner.) He sent a reply on my insta story of me figure skating, and he said it looked as if I've progressed a lot (yuck) and he asked when he could see me skate sometime (double yuck). Mind you, this guy is expecting a baby this year. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 10:47 AM |
| 1 | You’re going to need a drink after reading this. I know I doWTF. Does anyone has a link? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 07:28 PM |
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