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I hear you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 06:15 AM
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Yes. Where do you find those?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 05:56 AM
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I was in the past. It never seemed to help. It felt like I was sitting there whining for 50mins. I learn more from the internet. I meditate almost daily which helps a lot. I've come a looooong way believe it or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 05:55 AM
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I'm sorry I'm frustrating. Now I'm just crying because I feel like a fucking mess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 05:49 AM
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I am so grateful to you and all the women on this sub. I have already learned so much! Thank you thank you! I was with a narcissist for 8 years who ended up in jail for attacking me. So I really hope I got that one down. I'm just grappling with the emotions and anxiety I'm having with this guy. I'm 52 and still suck at this. I was abandoned at birth and put in a foster home until I was adopted by a misogynist and a pickme. So my examples in life have been very poor. I am so happy I found FDS. I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 03:40 AM
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OMG! I just watched it. I totally fell for the "I". Won't do that again thanks to you ladies here at fds!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 03:10 AM
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Yep that's me. This experience is helping me learn. That's how I have to look at it. Thank you and I'm sorry you have the same issue. It sucks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 03:02 AM
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Not a troll, just dumb when it comes to men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 02:57 AM
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You are so right! Thank you. This is why I posted on this sub. I knew I would get amazing advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 02:56 AM
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I know I know. I'm trying real hard but the feelings are so damn strong. I think I need therapy...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 02:51 AM
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Thank you for this! Boy, have I written it down!! I can't communicate my feelings to him so my journal is filling up. Lol!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 02:43 AM
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You are so right! I am trying real hard to keep all this in the front of my mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 02:40 AM
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He is so sweet and sincere and genuine. That's what attracts me so much. I don't think he means to do it. I think he is affraid of attachment. But...I could be totally wrong so I will keep this in mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 02:38 AM
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Yes! This! So hard to do tho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 02:35 AM
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Wish I could see it. If anyone knows about it please post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 02:34 AM
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This is great! Describes me exactly but I've improved a bit and have more self esteem. He is definitely avoidant. So ya...it will never work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 02:32 AM
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I can do all these things but...are you worth it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 11:46 PM
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This didnt post so trying again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 06:05 PM
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I loved Daughter of Fortune! I live near San Francisco so it was amazing to envision what it was like there during the gold rush. I just finished Ines of My Soul. Here is one of my favorite quotes from that book. "Courage is a virtue appreciated in a male but considered a defect in our gender. Bold women are a threat to a world that is badly out of balance, in favor of men. That is why they work so hard to mistreat us and destroy us. But remember that bold women are like cockroaches: step on one…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 06:02 PM
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If you like historical fiction I highly recommend anything by Isabel Allende. She writes from the womans perspective and shes an amazing writer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 04:48 PM
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Such good points! Men are mainly motivated by sex. If they get that from porn then why try to be a good person or better yourself. Pre internet men had to work on themselves to get sex. We women need to hold them to that standard. Too many women (pickmes) are trying to compete with porn. Don't do it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 04:40 PM
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Ugh! I cringe just reading that. My natural response is "fuck you!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 12:20 AM
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Yep! LMFAO! I know these guys well!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 10:06 PM
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Thank you for this!! I will look into those resources. I've never been a jealous person so I don't think that's the issue. I guess I just don't want him to find another suger mama. He doesn't deserve it! He 59 for fucks sake! Grow the fuck up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 03:54 PM
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Right!? She also texted "WTF?" So hopefully she sees thru him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 03:51 PM
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I know...I feel bad for her. Shes a total pickme like me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 03:50 PM
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I'm weeding them out. Now taking my mom's advice after all these years. I can still hear her saying "you need to be alone for awhile". Yes I Do! And I am...and loving it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 03:49 PM
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Funny thing...I know her because we were with the same guy previously. She had 2 kids from him and I had 1 so our kids are siblings. The guy was a totally lying narcissist motherfucker who ended up in jail for attacking me. I was with him for 8 years! Ugh! We are both pickmes obviously. I thought I learned but then I ended up with that LVM she was at the bar with. I saw her earlier yesterday and I told her about this FDS sub. Lol! I also explained how this bar guy is an LVM. So then she runs int…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 03:46 PM
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We have to teach them or they'll never learn!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 11:31 PM
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I think Pretty in Pink messed with my head the most. I think the thing to remember is that movies are only entertaining because it's about human 'Drama'. We are programmed to be dramatic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 11:28 PM
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