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Referring to this whole comment thread: https://www.reddit.com/r/GetMotivated/comments/ld8v33/image_helped_me_prioritize_my_day_better/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share Relevant^ Ask your girlfriends bro, they'll hopefully be happy to help and/or wing you, unless they also tell you you're fugly Af, in which case you say "I don't care, what can I do". Mix that with knowledge from seddit, and get revised comments from your friends on what goes wrong in the situation if it does. As long as y…
/r/seduction06/02/21 11:02 AM
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Eish, I'm sorry you're so set in your ways man.. Hope you can one day open up to the idea, or that we have made the first Cracks in bringing down those limiting beliefs. We're trying to tell you it can be better, it's not all about looks, there are things you can do. But if you've decided this is what it's like then it will always be True. For you.
/r/seduction05/02/21 07:30 AM
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Tl:Dr - please read the whole thing, I super want to hear what you think. Dude.. Ok I'm all about arguing (honestly I love it <3), and I hate going "my way or the highway" but this is a realization you need to have, the sooner the better. It is absolutely, undebatably 100% true. Men care WAY more about looks in a romantic partner than women. At the risk of sounding overly feminist, and it's an argument as old as time, but just look at the cosmetics industry. You say you have a bunch of female fr…
/r/seduction04/02/21 11:40 PM
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Ooh sidenote I had the same struggles with lifting for years, do you drink proteinshakes? If you don't, do. When I started drinking 2shakes a day and daily creatine, I saw WAY more progress in 3months than I did on the same training program in 3years before. Bad example, but, it shows you can Def put blood, sweat and tears into something and still fail. You gotta be open to learning where to put your focus, or how to do it smart, or else all that effort goes into banging your head against a wall…
/r/seduction04/02/21 12:23 PM
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Forever alone type guys are absolutely not necessarily ugly! :D As for the listed qualities... I have never encountered anyone who turns their back on interesting, confident and outgoing people,no matter how they look. If girls wanna sleep with you that's a whole other story, but if you do truly inhabit the qualities OP listed, it will get you in the conversation, if not to succeed the definitely to get you started testing out the skills you learn here on seddit. better yet, those qualities allo…
/r/seduction03/02/21 08:06 PM
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Not necessarily, but I agree it's highly likely. If this is something you're struggling with tho, I'd say at least in your case (from what I read here) 10/10 times it would not be because of your looks, it would be because of the perspectives you offer in this comment thread. They point to that either you are insecure about your looks, your game, whatever, and/or you put her on a pedestal, or you have decided she's vain even before the conversation starts. Ofc I don't actually know you or know w…
/r/seduction03/02/21 07:45 PM
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So, I'm just returning to the game after a 7-year relationship... And I need to get updated on this "nice guy" situation, cause wtf is going on. I like your post OP, food for thought, but you're still supporting the narrative of nice guys and bad guys, and I think that whole story is toxic, and as you say, oversimplifying things. I always loved good old Neil Strauss take on this: "Its not good guys VS bad guys, it's Strong guys VS weak guys". As I see it, being nice goes wrong in a couple differ…
/r/seduction02/02/21 10:08 AM
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Gotta agree with u/DemosBeans this is a messed up way to think, and it should be one of the initial lessons on forums like this (it used to be, but then again I'm just returning to the game after a long time) that this doesn't have to be the case. I'll tell you one thing for sure, if YOU think this is the case, it will 100% be projected onto her in all of your approaches, and your "niceness" will be construed as disingenuous EVERY time, and it sounds like it is. Being nice with a hidden agenda i…
/r/seduction02/02/21 09:40 AM
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Definitely a great time. I mean it's messed up, a lot to get used to, but you start thinking a lot, change a lot. not only because you see this shit and become globally aware, which is ofc the main deal, but you... Imagine getting a year break from your whole world, everything you know. Talk about taking a step back to look at your life man
/r/seduction10/01/18 02:14 PM
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Preach! Definitely working on this these days, thanks for putting it to words. We need reminding of this over and over, i think it's one of the big issues many come here to solve for themselves. I know that was my motivation in the beginning, and now, back in the game after two years with a GF I feel that blues when i don't have any girls on the line, or when shit goes badly. Ironically I am reading this from a mudhut in Africa, out volunteering for a year, and I can most def testify to what you…
/r/seduction06/01/18 09:13 PM
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Yo i need some advice and this post popped into my head, cause it's very connected to the 9th statement here.. Wanted to ask OP, but he's gone apparently. You backing the statement, maybe i could ask you instead? (Sent a PM)
/r/seduction27/12/17 05:55 PM
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Hey, i'm up from Scandinavia, we're no better, seemingly no one ever talks to strangers. It's still an excuse and a limiting belief tho. Don't confuse 'no one is talking' with 'no one wants to talk (to me)'. If you get in the simple habit of making small conversation, just saying hi to people, complementing someone on whatever, small comments about something happening or whatever, you see that people are more open than you might think. When you never talk to people yourself, everyone seems a lot…
/r/seduction04/12/17 09:06 PM
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Hmmm I get and love the intention, getting emotionally provoked by shitty ppl is something I'd like to avoid as well haha. still not sure if I understand tho, seems a little bit like excusing shitty behavior in others, and/or disregarding them (as weak or too impulsive?) for acting with their emotions
/r/seduction03/12/17 07:08 AM
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Great stuff, just wrote them down for myself... Only one I didn't quite get is #9? Care to elaborate?
/r/seduction02/12/17 08:05 PM
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I had the exact same "problem" back before i met my GF of 3 years now. I was about your age too. It's frustrating not knowing what you do right, but, what i did was use it to gain experience, confidence, the right mindset, social proof, everything you need. You can really adapt to the mindset that your personality naturally attracts girls, because it does. When you embrace that, you will be able to use it more actively, approaching without worrying about techniques and theory, just knowing that …
/r/seduction29/08/16 10:14 AM
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I would think the exact opposite, since the gesture would have much less intimate -> sexual meaning/tension to those who have used it their whole lives??
/r/seduction05/04/16 10:39 PM
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I think Liam's approach was stellar, cool, calm, collected and direct Really? I think it was hesitant, passive, dull, and the way he just creeped up from behind was just... Creepy. I'm not familiar with this guy, or the channel, but, i think this one seems unlikely. I'm no hater or disbeliever, i know very well it's possible to do it, but not quite like this
/r/seduction05/04/16 10:33 PM
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Great stuff! I've been gone from the community for a while, don't know if this is a common topic now, but this is the best shit on social media game i've seen.
/r/seduction26/02/16 10:05 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3L7onO_WHoM I think Yad sums this up nicely right here. Action creates motivation, both for making it to that big step, but also to exceed beyond it. To make a big step for the first time shold motivate you to try to make the same level again. To try to avoid restin on your laurels, assess what you think made everything click, and go for it again!
/r/seduction13/02/16 10:07 PM
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But I realize most people started having sex around 16 so everyone has at least 5-10 years of regular sex lives and I've had a week lol. Fuck, I'm a mess... Fewer than you think man. In my experience, when you ain't fucking, you tend to think everyone else is getting laid left and right, but as it turns out, that's not so true, and it definitely does not make you a mess. It seems like being good in bed has become a big deal to you, and even that right there puts you ahead man! congrats! Read som…
/r/seduction13/11/15 06:08 PM
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Thanks man, it is kind of tough. I've just finished reading "What to say when you talk to yourself", and I think I'm gonna apply some techniques from there, but had a quick look at "The compound effect", looks like a good read!
/r/seduction23/10/14 10:40 AM
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I'm busting my ass in there 3-4 times a week already ;) good habits from the army. I love working out, it's a great stress-relief, i get to look good, and I get so much more energy from it! I'll have to work on my confidence though..
/r/seduction23/10/14 10:23 AM
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You call 12-14 women at 23 near absolute zero? Well you're doing something right.... I would describe myself as socially successful, but I don't match you for shit, so, maybe being social is overrated? If you want new friends, I would start with the people you do sports with, people at your gym etc. just force yourself to go and say hi!
/r/seduction03/09/14 08:47 PM
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If this is how you feel then it probably does come through in your interactions. I don't know the whole story here, but this looks like some pride shit. It happens, and it sucks, but yeah, you liked the boost you got from this girl, and this other guy took that away from you. You need to just accept it man. If you really wanted her, you would have gone for it when you had the chance, but it doesn't sound like you did. This other guy did a fair deal, acted where you didn't, so don't feel embarras…
/r/seduction03/09/14 08:33 PM
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As a fellow gent who also has big problems with this when out of training, i have found a couple of tricks for it; I watched a video from here once. I don't remember who, but someone gave a seminar saying that AA is your worst enemy (shocker), but taking the initiative is really all you have to do! Always keep her responsible for keeping the interaction moving, stay alpha in the conversation. Ask simple questions like "so, where are you from?", and expect an answer you can build on. If the answe…
/r/seduction28/08/14 09:21 PM
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man you need to get real here! You telling me there is nothing you like? No interests whatsoever, apart from the internet? As bl1y said, don't wait, go out now, get some shit done. One of the main mantras in the game is that your journey, you're experiences and your life-story is the highest and only priority. Your life is a mad rollercoaster-ride! Whenever you meet someone awesome, you might invite them to join you on your ride, but your goals, wishes and ambitions are always the number one pri…
/r/seduction10/07/13 08:01 AM
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Trust-issues is tough... I think it's something you need to talk to her about when the time is right, but I wouldn't know, I've never let my guard down ever. I wish I could
/r/seduction09/07/13 11:51 PM
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You don't wanna be a chat bot, and you shouldn't want to be more interesting, cause you're not, so it would be fake. You should want to tell her what's the shit. What you think is so awesome she just has to hear about it. That's how you make a connection with her, and show what you are passionate about. That's interesting.
/r/seduction09/07/13 11:44 PM
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I'm fucking this girl, and she likes me a lot. I like her too, but she's not that hot, and I have another girlfriend I'm hoping to see again in a few days. I could just end it. Only problem, the new girl is part of an awesome gang I like to hang with, and I don't wanna fuck up my relationship with them. Also she has a black belt in Karate... How do I end things smoothly!?
/r/seduction09/07/13 11:36 PM
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I have major problems with displaying/having any confidence, even though i've got every reason to be confident as fuck. What should i be working on? full post
/r/seduction09/07/13 08:22 PM
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Not at all. You can't let wether you are confident or not depend on something you clearly suck at, no offence. I take it your life revolves around more than just picking up women, so, why are you an awesome guy? Write a list if you have to, and use it to feel good about yourself! fuck the looks! And when girls call you ugly, if you're not already doing it, stand up for yourself. Don't go "ok...", go "hey what the hell? How cynical are you to just say that to a guys face!? I may be ugly, but at l…
/r/seduction30/01/13 01:19 PM
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great boost in both confidence and results
/r/seduction30/01/13 09:47 AM
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me or him?
/r/seduction30/01/13 09:45 AM
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ok, i think that might be your problem... I just think i'm too ugly for results. If you think you are too ugly for results, then you are, and then you're not expecting any results. i'm no pro, and i'm overly sensitive about my looks. Also: how to display confidence don't seem like you have too much confidence to me, or at least there seems to be a big whole in it when it comes to your looks. How you gonna display what you don't have? Strong reality and confidence can not be faked. It can be achi…
/r/seduction30/01/13 09:43 AM
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loved Juliens shit, he was awesome, great vid, good motivator, but man, fuck Owen! I even watched the "knock 'em of the fence" video of his (about people either loving you or hating you, nothing in between), but seriously, i don't see how anyone could like that guy. When giving lectures he always seems so tense, and at times fake, and watching some of his field vids, he is a complete ashole to people around him. an arrogant shmuck
/r/seduction30/01/13 09:34 AM
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it is one of the best feels ever, when all you can think is "YEEEEEEEEES! AWESOME!!!!!!"
/r/seduction30/01/13 09:30 AM
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yes
/r/seduction30/01/13 09:14 AM
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What would you say to the facially ugly guy? i would say looks don't matter shit, as long as you don't let it. experienced this through one of my best friends. He is a ugly fellow, had low confidence and all that, but he still blew through the roof, and he has surpassed me on every level of game. sticking points are: smell, always smell awesome. Shower, cologne, deodorant etc. Go to the gym. Watch progress, but it is also a great stress-relief, focusin your energy and so on. It's awesome. Always…
/r/seduction30/01/13 09:12 AM
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Awesome but hard to own. You have to really OWN this one
/r/seduction24/12/12 10:25 PM
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Man that's awesome! I like the way you think, respect for taking initiative. Like so many others i just don't have the time, but i would love to come visit you during the summer, if the offer still stands by then. This, this is what the game is really all about! Meeting new people, going on adventures, traveling, living life, all in the company of HB's ofc. damn...
/r/seduction13/12/12 06:38 PM
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thank you very much
/r/seduction04/12/12 05:26 PM
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Yep, we're all sluts
/r/seduction01/12/12 10:49 AM
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i already know this. It takes practice though...
/r/seduction01/12/12 10:18 AM
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Tolle?
/r/seduction28/11/12 09:59 PM
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oh so true
/r/seduction28/11/12 09:56 PM
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yeah... couldn't figure out if it was a joke or not
/r/seduction28/11/12 09:55 PM
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eh fuck this... i'm just mad cause i have a good game but still can't do a stone cold approach...
/r/seduction28/11/12 02:31 PM
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The key here, why it's so giving, is to get over awkwardness and social anxiety. This is absolutely a great way to do that, and i'm not saying i can do what OP does, but i don't see the point of randomly talking to strangers just to do it. I have no motivation of talking to these people. The key is just to get immune to awkwardness. This is hard, but if you can remain calm and relaxed, you end up on top. It is a actually a proven dominance technique, just being silent, relaxed, smiling. This giv…
/r/seduction28/11/12 02:28 PM
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I know exactly the feel, standing there, thinking "what do i say, what do i say, this is a great opportunity!" What i've found is that talking just for the talking is boring, not stimulating. If you have nothing to say, you have nothing to say, but that doesn't mean you have to completely ignore the persons existence. Look him/her in the eyes, smile and say hi (this can be done with anyone you just randomly make eye-contact with). If you look relaxed and happy, they will want to talk to you. It'…
/r/seduction28/11/12 02:17 PM
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yo OP, listen to this. When talking about sex with girls, try to always be subtle (read GSF0's comment). it makes you much more mysterious, gives you the element of surprise in the bedroom, and the she having to wonder what you're going to do makes her THAT much more turned on, because SHE has to imagine it, and no one knows better what she likes than herself. This works wonders for dirty-talk as well, but depends on how the sexual tone is. Set it kind of smooth, and don't say "i'm gonna do this…
/r/seduction28/11/12 02:05 PM
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ey sounds like we're the same kind of guy. Building up sick amounts of tension getting her all crazy, man there's just something about that... You said you experiment with this, what's your go to moves? have you found anything interesting?
/r/seduction28/11/12 01:52 PM
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whats this?
/r/seduction28/11/12 01:23 PM
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aah i love the 5 lies game (nr. 8), always a success
/r/seduction28/11/12 01:12 PM
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ey i heard that book fucks you up man, what's it all about?
/r/seduction28/11/12 08:38 AM
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that's true...
/r/seduction26/11/12 09:49 PM
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nah i know, it's just kind of annoying....
/r/seduction26/11/12 01:38 PM
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but i'm still the same person, that may be why it feels so weird. I'm still just me, doing what i've always done, i still view being good with women as a goal, i still have all those old thoughts, but suddenly i'm already there...
/r/seduction26/11/12 01:36 PM
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i'm also still the same person, that may be why it feels so weird. I'm still just me, doing what i've always done, i still view being good with women as a echelon like you said, but suddenly i'm already there...
/r/seduction26/11/12 01:34 PM
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Think i'm the same. Of course i know what i am doing, strong eye-contact (key), good positure, making inside jokes on spot when possible, teasing and flirting when i know the time is right, still working on getting my kino smoother, always ben a sticking-point for me. BUT, i'm not doing anything different than what i've always tried to do, so why is it that suddenly it started working? My theory is the inner game. The new mindset gives me a good sense of entitlement, before i thought i was desti…
/r/seduction26/11/12 01:29 PM
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Hah! That's hilarious, but nah they real. Found them while watchin a RSD video where they mentioned self-amusement, so i googled it. It's all about lowering your expectations to what's funny and what's not. Like a weird haircut, or making bad jokes about everything, just initiating having fun, just because it is funnier than just sitting there, examples at home, on the bus etc. It linked to another article about extreme self-love, about how it releases stress and anxiety just thinking you're the…
/r/seduction26/11/12 01:12 PM
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well funny that you mention that, like i said, i go to a lot of parties, and i've had quite a few chances to get laid, last one with the HB9 in the post, but i somehow always manage to back out from that part... so yeah still a virgin (by some weird subconscious choise)
/r/seduction26/11/12 12:34 PM
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It just Makes it sound practiced. Like shouting: "I FOUND THIS ON THE INTERNET, GIVE ME ATTENTION"
/r/seduction24/10/12 06:33 AM
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Living in Norway makes it kinda lame since these only work in english... it's just not the same
/r/seduction23/10/12 08:14 PM
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Cheers man, thats awesome! If you want to get better at kissing, play the trumpet. I love my trumpet-lips, always get to hear i'm a good kisser
/r/seduction21/10/12 01:00 PM
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hmm i might be wrong but i think he's drunk
/r/seduction21/10/12 12:54 PM
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Same problem, doesn't matter how well you know them, shit is still hard. I hate to make this a strategy, since i feel like it should come naturally, i know these people for christ sake, but here is one way: /r/todayilearned is full of topics to get you started keep the spotlight on them as much as possible, ppl loves talking about themselves. search for words! What the other person really wants to talk about is ALWAYS hidden between the lines somewhere. Parroting. If you run out of things to tal…
/r/seduction20/10/12 10:47 PM
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i am ashamed of this guy, he's making a complete douche of himself, he seems like an arrogant prick, and his AMOG game is silk thin. His moves are not hard to counter, it's just busting him at being a douche...
/r/seduction19/10/12 09:16 PM
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Best response. As letsgocrazy said you trap him, you're not blowing it up, so you can move on quickly
/r/seduction19/10/12 08:56 PM
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You're blowing it up, rather than ignoring it
/r/seduction19/10/12 08:54 PM
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took me 2 sec to come up with a response: "Are you kidding? If i were eavesdropping on you, why would i use the same line as you on purpose?"
/r/seduction19/10/12 08:46 PM
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This is soo true, and critical for your game and mental energy, at least for beginners. I've been there myself oh so many times, working what i knew for some reason was a dead end. This is that reason! Thanks for defining it!
/r/seduction19/10/12 09:10 AM
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well lots of people. handshakes vary from person to person. "Unfortunately, throughout the years, you will have experienced many different versions of the handshake which may not have left a positive impression on you"
/r/seduction15/10/12 09:17 PM
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ye, definetly gonna use that one
/r/seduction17/08/12 02:37 PM
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awesome story! Now it's my turn...
/r/seduction12/08/12 01:18 PM
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you need to give less fucks about your ego, and allow yourself to be satisfied whenever you accomplish something big, like this first approach. I mean, fuck what you should've done, this was major, this made your day, THIS is life! and if there is something you should do, it's enjoy it as much as possible.
/r/seduction12/08/12 01:14 PM
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For me it has taken 1 year after discovering seddit to get just slightly out of my comfort-zone, so yea i guess i'm kinda still a newbie, but this kind of girls are just amazing. Your game was great, creative, spontaneous, but she opened up to you right after that first line "Fuck, I'm not myself with cute girls around me"! she saw your struggle, and wanted to show you that you can just relax and have fun around HBs! I know i've gotten SO much confidence from these girls, and they've helped me s…
/r/seduction20/06/12 02:32 PM
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Ah! i liked this one, only prob is this: hold onto her hand for an extra 3-4 seconds and say + maintain eye contact the entire time. Let go of her hand when she breaks eye contact. These usually don't match. She won't keep the eye contact with a stranger like yourself for that long. How do u keep it?
/r/seduction19/06/12 08:13 AM
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If you really knew EVERYONE in your high school, u don't need to be here
/r/seduction11/06/12 07:43 AM
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When I wrote this it was ca 01:30 for me too, that's a legitimate excuse, but just until morning....
/r/seduction11/06/12 07:41 AM
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No? You don't need money to fucking walk in the street and talk to people!
/r/seduction11/06/12 07:39 AM
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This is so easy to say, yet look down the comments. Excuses, everyone saying why they can't. Of course they CAN, it takes fucking less than a minute! It's mental blocks and limiting beliefs keeping these people in their chairs reading, i know because i've been one of them for almost a year now. It's hard doing those first approaches.
/r/seduction10/06/12 10:29 PM
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i'm 17 and afraid to become you. I've now spent almost a year having This in my closet, but i just never get my act together and do it. What i'm trying to tell you is that having this book, having all the tools you need to change, is NOTHING if you don't do your part. It is going to be hard, but you are going to make it if you set your mind to it, and i hope some day soon so will i.
/r/seduction10/06/12 03:26 PM
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dafuq?
/r/seduction10/06/12 03:18 PM
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2x Upvote, this is genious
/r/seduction17/04/12 08:42 PM
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that mindset doesn't get you anywhere 0.o i had the same mentality, but when you approach, you will have to take responsibility for keeping the conversation going, people ARE awkward....
/r/seduction17/04/12 08:39 PM
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That's just shallow and stupid, I never hook up with someone ONLY based on looks, I always need to get to know the girl a little
/r/seduction17/01/12 12:12 AM
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then we r alike... i guess u just have to let all of your social barriers and limits go, giving the impression that this is totally natural, but again i never got past day 4, so
/r/seduction30/11/11 06:17 PM
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i too think doing it together as a group makes it easier and more giving, going out with friends, kinda workin on a project, competing a little and most importantly give feedback to each other! As a matter of fact i live in Norway, so maybe i could get together with your guy and discuss game sometime, if we're at the same place ;) where u from anyways?
/r/seduction30/11/11 06:14 PM
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what can i say, i'm still a recovering AFC tryin to get somewhere with this after lurking for 3 months... I guess like u said, smalltalk is something u learn by doing, that it becomes easier to come up with topics after u've done it a few times. I totally get how talking where noone else talkes is alpha, it's just u know, the part where u actually do it.... I'm thinking of doing Neil Strauss 30-day challenge, if anyone wanna do it with me let me know :P
/r/seduction29/11/11 08:47 PM
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I like your thinking in step 2, thats how i usually think as well, but i still find it hard to do random approaches, especially since i live in Norway, a country where NOONE talks to strangers. This leaves me with all the work of keeping the conversation going, and since i'm not good at smalltalk, it usually starts and ends with a one-liner like "this train is always late". How do u take it further than this?
/r/seduction28/11/11 02:23 PM
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