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Ahh you know what, I think that may be something I neglected. Taking them at their word instead of watching their actions. It sounds like you have your shit together and I really appreciate the perspective!
/r/askTRP10/08/20 07:21 PM
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Thanks for this response! The thing that fucks with me is both times I’ve had LTRs, theyve admitted after a year that they hated all the things they found endearing. And its like I can hold frame for a year but then I guess I slip. Like even if I run a marathon, I can keep it up for along time, but after a while the boundary enforcement slips etc.
/r/askTRP10/08/20 06:59 PM
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Love your attitude dude, fuck it’s refreshing. Just realized my ex did a longer more drawn out version of this when she moved 5 hours away that only had a a hotel (no carnivals!!) then bitched cause I stayed to enjoy a town with an actual carnival scene, so you’re onto something here!
/r/askTRP10/08/20 05:09 PM
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Great perspective man, really appreciate it!
/r/askTRP09/08/20 08:14 PM
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Amen to that brother. Seems a fair balance.
/r/askTRP09/08/20 07:38 PM
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Motion passed.
/r/askTRP01/08/20 03:18 AM
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Oh shit apparently it is 78%! Fuuuck. Now might be the time to get a harem going, haha.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/20 02:40 AM
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Great job dude. I just started baby steps again too. Got a number yesterday but now I’m in my own head like “what if she’s got the virus?” Sometimes I really wish I didn’t keep up with the news so I didn’t know about the 75% heart defects from covid survivors I was reading about. It’s like, I love to fuck, but I also love my heart not to be fucked. Goddammit haha.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/20 07:21 PM
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Hey man, I think it is normal to basically burn away all the fake or unstable bridges, which in my life has resulted in me only trusting my two brothers and one friend. That's it. It sounds like everyone goes through this. Unfortunately, a red pill we often don't speak of is that most of our relationships are based on convenience. Friends in school are only friends because you go to that school. If you switch schools, new friends, while the old friendships die off. Same with friends at work, etc…
/r/askTRP28/07/20 11:13 PM
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You’re golden then. I just smile and put my fingers out in a peace sign sorta with two fingers up and come at them from in front and say “hey two seconds” (behind never works out lol). . I say “hey I just saw you and thought you were cute so had to say hello” . If I’m feeling confident they will be flattered and say “thank you” or “wow you made my day.” . At this point I wanna get out so say “hey look I gotta get going but let’s grab coffee this week.” . If they got a bf I joke that he can’t com…
/r/askTRP15/07/20 03:51 AM
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How does reddit work lol
/r/askTRP15/07/20 03:50 AM
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Tinder actually isn't a real thing man. Myself and so many other good looking guys I know get 0 results. I even decided to make a fake male model profile and it got absolutely no attention. They husslin' so may guys haha. Yet when I cold approach, it's damn near 50% close rate.
/r/askTRP15/07/20 01:11 AM
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One thing that may be a puzzle piece to help you, that just hit me like a ton of bricks fairly recently, was used to always make out with girls at the bars, but then they'd go home with someone else. You wanna do a light makeout and then say "let's get outta here". You can''t give her all the attention at once. And I bet that guy that pulled her out of the nightclub probably used the fact that you had already gotten her hot, but instead of blowing her load right there, he made her wait til they …
/r/askTRP11/07/20 06:24 PM
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Post a valid counter or shut the fuck up.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/20 03:51 AM
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Way of the wolf by Jordan Belfort has some stuff on charisma. Hes a pretty charismatic guy.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 02:03 PM
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Great fuckin' movie. But not a great FUCKIN' movie.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 05:23 AM
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If it makes you feel any better, I too lost my career and my gf because of Covid. The only thing that keeps me going is vengeance against China.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 04:51 AM
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I'm not going to even bother replying here Reading comprehension issues as well I see.
/r/askTRP04/07/20 05:38 PM
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The fact you still use the word creep means you have a long way to go. Sidebar. Now.
/r/askTRP04/07/20 05:27 PM
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Don't be hard on yourself, it was a nice shot. You looked for an alternative angle and that's respectable. You really got nothing to lose and who cares what she thinks. Try cold approach day game also. It's way better than Tinder or DMs, as most guys are too pussy to actually approach. You literally are the only competition in the room.
/r/askTRP04/07/20 05:59 AM
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I’ll be honest, nobody respects an uptight asshole who doesn’t know what he’s talking about. And I say that with the utmost respect. So get you’re shit sorted first and we can talk.
/r/askTRP04/07/20 02:27 AM
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Amen brother, I honestly wish MORE chicks liked weed.
/r/askTRP04/07/20 12:28 AM
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Holy fuck are all of you retarded? Literally everyone in here saying it's a red flag. You realize weed is the safest, non addicting drug out there? And I've never met a woman who actually liked weed. For some reason, they all HATE weed (they will start by pretending they like it but once you give them any leeway, they will start shitting on you for smoking). I love how weed's a red flag, but go ahead and keep buying these chick's alcohol. I smoke weed every day and am more athletic than most I k…
/r/askTRP03/07/20 11:53 PM
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No I've never heard of that, I've just downloaded the "top companies in region" lists and started cold calling haha. Often trying to get to a relevant manager, but receptionists can get a little guardy if they think you are trying to sell to them. So if that happens I just leave a message (with no callback rate). Sometimes I can sweet talk them and get right to the tippy top and when I do, convos go great, but they often say "I think what you're doing is great but I think we're good". But I down…
/r/askTRP03/07/20 06:42 AM
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Thanks again! You're really confirming some things I suspected, for example I was gong to try to attach some new feature to each follow up. We have the higher price now, but since I never gave the price during the initial convo, the next time I reach out can say "we're half as much as what they're paying" (while still being like ten times more than what we were charging before). And we also just upgraded this system to be able to do like 100x their capacity. So maybe I can reach out a couple wee…
/r/askTRP03/07/20 01:08 AM
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I really appreciate your help, you've given me some awesome ideas! And I had no idea about the 7 touches thing. I've started tracking when Im contacting so that I can follow up, but wasnt sure if I should do it every two weeks or once. Will try two weeks and go from there!
/r/askTRP03/07/20 12:16 AM
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Thanks a lot man! I am actually a big fan of selling to the big companies like the big 4, and actually even cold called a big 5 oil and gas company who confirmed this is something they could use, but already have in place (I actually called to sell to them but ended up getting very good market data. I didnt let them know, but we were selling ours for ten times less than their annual maintenance costs, and it does something like ten times more. So we increased our price to about half of what they…
/r/askTRP03/07/20 12:10 AM
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You're the best bro! puts on war paint
/r/askTRP03/07/20 12:02 AM
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Oh fuck Im actually putting together a presentation now!
/r/askTRP03/07/20 12:01 AM
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It's essentially a compliance service to solve a problem all companies in my area have that utilizes software to basically eliminate the need for a human to do it, eliminates errors, and is a much cheaper alternative (there's an industry wide bottle neck we have effectively opened wide up to make this possible). I used to work in finance and this was a very time consuming thing, and many companies chose not to do it which resulted in huge penalties. But the thing is, most companies don't get cau…
/r/askTRP02/07/20 11:49 PM
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Holy shit, I actually listened to this audio book years ago but at the time don't appreciate it and didn't absorb much. Think I will need to go back and check it out. Thanks a lot man!
/r/askTRP02/07/20 11:41 PM
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I'd be stupid not to take it!
/r/askTRP02/07/20 07:19 PM
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Except the box itself.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 07:29 AM
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Sounds like you want MORE competition amongst the women you are going for then?
/r/askTRP23/06/20 07:54 PM
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Fucked up how these seemingly little things give you a glimpse into her reality. My ex got drunk one night and wanted to “prank” her ex. She knew his number off by heart, so I asked if she knew mine and she didn’t. I ended it with her after she called the cops on me for storing stuff at my place that she had asked me to because she wanted it out of her dad’s place. Now suddenly I was “keeping it from her.” I say bail.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 02:40 PM
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I made the mistake one time at a mall of talking to a younger chick who looked 20. I immediately see this guy come up and it’s her dad, I’m like “ah fuck, look I thought she was 20”. He starts gettin in my face like I’m a pedo so I tell him I thought she was older. Finally he backed down when he realized I wasnt gonna back down and was ready to take it outside. He was just an asshole. But then this fuckin security guard lookin dude comes up behind me and says “we’re getting a lot of complaints f…
/r/askTRP14/06/20 04:51 PM
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Fuck.
/r/askTRP13/06/20 07:32 PM
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“Computer bullshit”. Better?
/r/askTRP13/06/20 07:01 AM
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Dude I’d be careful. We still don’t know fuck about shit when it comes to this virus cause everyone is covering shot up, and noone is being tested. They say survivors have long lasting lung capacity issues, some people becoming sterile. Don’t trust hospital workers either, they’re some of the dumbest motherfuckers I know. Seriously an ex of mine was a nurse and those dumb fucks think because they work in a hospital they magically can’t get this shit.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 05:15 AM
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You sound needy as fuck. You don’t need to text every day, they smell that shit and run.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 05:03 AM
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Ahhh gotcha, probably for the best as she may have been passed out by the time you got there. But yeah usually the longer you wait the likelier they flake.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 05:33 AM
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You hung up on her and called a dude? Uhhh
/r/askTRP06/06/20 05:07 AM
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So let me get this straight. You read the sidebar and the one thing you took away from it was "mate guarding is alpha as fuck"? You got some reading comprehension problems bud.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 10:00 PM
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I dunno what a redpill women subreddit would teach that they all don’t seem to already know in regards to manipulating men. But from a brief look, I found a subreddit called something like “female dating strategy” and my god, it’s kinda like trp for men, with out any of the self improvement aspect. It’s effectively a subreddit of women waiting at the finish line and shitting on guys. Basically what everyone thinks trp is.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 06:03 PM
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Hey man fucking awesome job, I went through something similar with long distance and it’s amazing how once you see the bullshit for what it is, suddenly packing her shit goes from the hardest thing to the most rewarding thing. I love your writing style btw, fucking hilarious while also tragic. Now, for sunday, what you can expect is basically all the reasons in her mind she is now hamstering for why this happened, and guess what: she’s gonna blame you. At this point she is not who you thought sh…
/r/askTRP30/05/20 02:49 AM
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It was over as soon as it went long distance dude.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/20 06:03 AM
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From my experience and all my friends, this is standard. There’s always some underlying thought that, even when you’ve assured her there’s no issue, it will build into her mind until it rips you both apart. For me, it was marriage. She wouldn’t stop with the fights over getting married because she was insecure about all her friends being married and wanted all my time. Even after I stupidly assured her we’d be getting married, she doubled down on when etc. She ended up crossing a line and I ende…
/r/askTRP28/05/20 05:56 AM
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I’d say your best path forward is to build confidence by hitting the gym/learning bjj (unfortunately everything is shut down so wait a bit). Then also when things open, go to malls, grocery stores etc and approach a woman you see as hot and just tell her you thought she was cute (you have to blatantly let them know you are interested so they dont put you into nice guy zone) and that you had to say hello. She’ll respond positively or with a weird look at first (if you arent confident they give th…
/r/askTRP26/05/20 03:13 PM
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Read up on a user name vasily, he’s older than you and not using age as an excuse. Not to sound like a dick
/r/askTRP26/05/20 04:04 AM
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It's all good though as you are aware of it now, and the root of al neediness is lack of abundance. I notice in another comment you compared her to some other plates of yours who are 6s. Maybe it's time to focus on getting more 20 yer old 8's and that should take care of the neediness.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 01:20 AM
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I know for me, I can’t stand fucking the same person two days in a row, and when chicks get super excited after fucking me and try to set up a follow up date for the next day, it turns me off. I’m thinking “shit , give me some space, I wanna do my own shit today.” Even when friends hang out, I go radio silent for a while after hanging out, just cause that’s how I am. But sometimes they get pissy “wahh we had a great time yesterday why not hang out today!?!” So somewhere in what you wrote I’m get…
/r/askTRP25/05/20 10:44 PM
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You’re an orbiter and she is pretty clearly telling you that. You need to either find out if she’s interested or look elsewhere for a pen pal.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 07:12 PM
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It's really a no-lose situation. And let's define "going after" as just inviting her for coffee/shoot a game of pool/[insert plausible deniability]. She says she has a bf, you ignore and invite anyway. Worst she does is say no. If you are "going after" these chicks well after they have told you to fuck off, welcome to being an orbiter.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 04:31 PM
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You’re the side bitch yo. I’d next her but if I wanna see if you still got time to be like “fuck it I need some fresh air too” and third wheel the fuck out of them to see how they react.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 07:43 PM
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Just imagine being 16 and having made bank on millions of followers by showing your boobs, while your peers in high school don't even know what taxes are lmao Lol no kidding. When I was younger I used to be bitter about this kinda shit. But I realized that the long, slow burn learning curve to money made me appreciate it more and has left me more responsible. For example, my ex got a raise at work and what did she do? Blew $2k on clothes. Because you really need to look good for all the people o…
/r/askTRP17/05/20 06:08 PM
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Yeah man that blame shifting is a huge red flag. If she explodes on you for dumping her, you know that wasn't all she was doing.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 04:53 PM
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The ability for us to share info and learn the truth together is such an amazing thing. I bet if there was no internet we would all wonder if other guys are experiencing the same shit. Glad to help.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 04:21 PM
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This is awesome.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 04:58 AM
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Dude your experience is effectively a play by play of my ex ltr: -Mental health suffered because gf was spending too much time with me -additional time spent with her came out of the fitness budget -easily got triggered, likely due to not working out and also because I was falling into her frame in which every little thing is the end of the world (didnt pick up 2 things from store, left lighton, washed clothes and dishes at same time so no hot water for a bath) -which drove me to be less attract…
/r/askTRP15/05/20 03:29 AM
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Or in the pitcher lol
/r/askTRP14/05/20 11:31 PM
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Oldest was 50 and I learned another red pill that day: 50 year olds can be damn near as hot/tight as 20 year olds if they keep themselves fit. I was like “trp lied?!” Haha but of course there are exceptions to every rule and damn rights I’d put the blocks to salma hayek. But I’d much rather a 20yo salma hayek ;)
/r/askTRP14/05/20 11:24 PM
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Hey thanks for the tip! I really appreciate it. In th past I had some serious fuckarounitis but now I've been really using this time as an opportunity to improve everything. Thanks a lot!
/r/askTRP14/05/20 07:40 PM
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Was more thinking for myself as I just got laid off and there is no work around me. So thinking I may try my hand at making some print on demand designs, but have never started an online business before so am pretty nervous/overwhelmed but think I'll just tackle little bits of learning each day. If you have some cool links to anything that may have helped you start an online business, would be interested to check it out!
/r/askTRP14/05/20 06:56 PM
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You had me at “working online”, you mean like starting a business? Got any good tips?
/r/askTRP14/05/20 08:28 AM
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Yeah man I got laid off and my gf dumped me. Was tough at the onset and still is but that shit was dead weight in my life. But now Im in the same boat as you, I work out, cook healthy meals, work on projects and watch shows but damn do the days just fucking fly by. I got so bored I made a list of all the shit I could do (lift, read, bjj, yoga, running, learning new skill, apply for jobclean house/yard, etc) then I assigned them into categories (fitness, home, career, side hustle etc from 1 to wh…
/r/askTRP14/05/20 08:26 AM
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I’m working out at least 4 times a week, running 30 mins every couple days, doing yoga a couple days a week, and BJJ (solo shit right now but still works with a training dummy) and I know exactly what you mean. I just get absolutely exhausted at times, even on off days, if I just run up my stairs real quick, which is 0 effort, it’s like my body just ramps up the metabolism and I sweat/breath heavy. Even when having sex sometimes I’ll just be gassed after like a minute even though my cardio is gr…
/r/askTRP13/05/20 07:28 PM
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Reminds me of my ex, til she exploded saying she hated all that shit and did it to essentially secure my commitment, in some sort of fucked up covert contract. Fucking “nice girls” really fucked with my ability to trust, so I just don’t lol.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 06:42 PM
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Let’s be real here, there absolutely are attractive 34+ year olds. They just aren’t AS attractive as they were when they were 20.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/20 04:13 AM
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You raise a very good counterpoint and I appreciate your sharing a perspective that is effectively as alien as it gets for me (I’ve flown once in my life and it was to mexico lol). I need to make some pilot friends! However, in this situation it sounds like the pilot has a covert contract where he wants to fuck this chick but doesn’t have the balls to outright express it, so likely offers to fly as a means to impress chicks in hopes they fuck him in return for his favor.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/20 04:11 AM
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Hey man, I'm really sorry for your loss. This is a tough time for you as you've lost your father and the woman you most likely loved. It's fucking hard man, and not only are you entitled to some emotion, you need to just give yourself time to process those emotions. It's fucking tough man, I get it. But tough times don't last, tough people do. This Covid situation has fucked so many people over, and I myself lost my job, which resulted in my gf leaving shortly after as well. Give yourself time, …
/r/askTRP12/05/20 06:07 PM
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Nice job, bud. You're on the right track and worlds ahead of people who are treating this like a vacation. Keep it up.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/20 05:24 AM
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You sound like you're still in the anger phase. It's ok to provide feedback without sounding butthurt. And easy on the yoga, champ, it's so much easier to pull of a triangle choke in BJJ with that shit.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/20 05:23 AM
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Thats enough for me to be happy and boring Dude I’m laughing my ass off because this is the exact conclusion I’ve landed on lately. And even during sex I don’t give a fuck about being some “sex god” (got halfway through the book and realized I’m just happy with boring sex as long as I get off - I don’t even bother eating these chicks out anymore as who knows where the fuck that pussy’s been). 1 - 3 times and I get bored of the same chick so it’s perfect!
/r/askTRP12/05/20 04:05 AM
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The part about death giving life meaning is so true. Your post really resonates with me as I’ve had good friends die in the past and in a strange way it made me appreciate life more.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 02:34 AM
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Fap daily. Nofap fucks with the piping.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 03:38 PM
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Are you saying you later found out the reason you were sidelined was directly because of shitting where you eat? How so?
/r/askTRP10/05/20 10:25 PM
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Oh I see, you're still butthurt. Thought you were over that.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 07:13 PM
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Yeah man, in no way intended to be an in-depth look at things but didn't see anyone really giving you a decent answer.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 07:12 PM
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Get the fuck out of here with your blue pill shit.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 07:05 PM
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I think I read the only bond that matters is the mother/child one, as she is the only one who can be certain the child is hers in pre-historic times. Apparently the men and women of the tribe as a whole helped raise the children and had initiation rights into manhood and shit. Obviously men are not heartless robots, I know I can be a deep ocean of emotion at times but am able to observe and let it pass. Nowadays, hypergamous women will literally fuck til they’re pregnant, abort the kid or pawn i…
/r/askTRP10/05/20 07:03 PM
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The way I see it, I look to nature for guidance (and before this comes off al “woo woo” here’s what I mean): Men have just a shitload of sperm. A single man could repopulate the earth if he had to. This is necessary for survival. Monogamy appears unnatural here. Women have one egg a month. A woman can only have one child at a time (ok maybe she has twins or some shit). Monogamy appears natural here. But now we got women trying to act like men, fucking everything that moves, but women develop att…
/r/askTRP10/05/20 06:49 PM
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Haha thanks man! THis looks great! I've been familiar with flograppling but had no idea about flowrestling. Ya know, they say the Gracies are the GOATs, but I say today it's you my man!
/r/TheRedPill10/05/20 06:03 PM
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Hey I do BJJ under the Gracies which is the gold standard of BJJ, and they have a lot of stuff online, but I notice there don't seem to be many "division I university" schools that teach what the universities teach. With Covid, everyone is doing online, do you know of any division I university style online courses to get the "gold standard" of wrestling? And shit, same with boxing come to think of it. Anyone got some good links? I fuckin miss sparring but built a shitty grappling dummy out of a …
/r/TheRedPill10/05/20 05:36 PM
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This is the red pill. You get 0 days off.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 05:32 PM
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Could you imagine? Guys like us would be given healthy doses of sedatives to help us get in line.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/20 07:57 PM
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Dude, I think you have connected even more of the pieces. Zoo-panda-esque death spiral is similar to what I have heard. Shit the two could be completely related. given that sex is inherently 'dangerous/exciting/naughty', it seems like that attitude will crush your will to live, or at least the desire to fuck and procreate. Hit the nail on the head.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/20 04:30 PM
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Very interesting observation. I think the implications for this could be significant. For example, in Canada I (well, before Covid) day game chicks at grocery stores, malls, everywhere and they would all say "you are so bold, you made my day, noone does this anymore!" and I would either get the number or they have a bf. But the thing is, I think most guys see cold approaching as against the rules. "Don't wanna bother her, she seems to be having a great day!" But when we "break those rules" and j…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/20 03:35 PM
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Thanks man you’ve inspired what I will be doing today! Keep up the great work!
/r/askTRP07/05/20 01:31 PM
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Hahaha actually?! Man this has been an insane revelation to me. I'm really blown away by this. And how I am just finding out about this now.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/20 07:31 AM
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This has been really eye opening. When I was a kid, Japan seemed like the land of the future. But it seems to be one giant mental health tinder box instead. Hope you are still able to enjoy your time there.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/20 11:05 PM
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Anywhere you recommend looking into this, or books you read that helped you figure it out? I got laid off, am busting my ass learning new skills like programming and want to add some entrepeneurial skills too. Thanks and keep it up!
/r/askTRP05/05/20 04:03 PM
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Looking at this, it sounds like you are coming off kinda needy and almost "girlfriend"-ish. Too much pillow talk, and why are you talking to her about how much you like her bf? You should just ghost her for a few days, get some other numbers, then drop a "hey I'm doing (insert plausible deniability - game of pool, board game, supper), you should come hang out." If she gives wishy washy shit like "maybe" or some excuse, next her. It's not worth pursuing a chick who just isn't reciprocating.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 01:11 AM
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Boxing for standup, BJJ for ground. Most fights go to the ground so I'd say prioritize BJJ, but do eventually learn Boxing.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 04:08 AM
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Oh fuck yeah, I've been training for this all lockdown. Dumped my long-term LTR just before lockdown as I was feeling like Theoden from LOTR. But now I'm awake! Working out from home, keeping up with BJJ, Yoga, cardio. I'm gonna be ready for this thing. Anything you guys planning on doing differently to max out on the target rich environment?
/r/TheRedPill01/05/20 06:39 PM
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Oh I forgot to mention this is a very prestigious university, but not quite Ivy League level like they got in US.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 02:36 PM
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A lot of great comments here but figured I would add my 2 cents. I have this theory, based on life experience, that friendships are based on convenience. For example, you go to the same school, work at the same job, etc. But when one moves away, the friendship naturally ends. Same with if you change too much from your existing friends. I was in your spot and had to ultimately ditch the friends because they were unwilling to see beyond their bias that I was a fuckboy. They would cockblock when a …
/r/askTRP01/05/20 05:51 AM
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Amazing post my dude!
/r/askTRP28/04/20 08:27 PM
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Just dumped my ex, gonna take your advice. But this quarantine shit is fucked. You doin monk mode til it blows over or still picking up?
/r/askTRP23/04/20 04:56 AM
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If we define red pill ideas as truths that are hard to swallow (santa's not real, everybody dies, the alpha fucks/beta bucks, etc) then I've had this deep rooted red pill idea that, while it scared me at first, I've come to accept. Friends are only friends out of situational convenience. If you were locked up in prison, you might become best friends with your cell mate. You guys might go through years of the toughest shit and get through with only each other to thank for it. But once you got out…
/r/askTRP12/04/20 12:38 AM
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Don't do it man, ten years back I got into a year long relationship and she made me wait for sex. We never had it and I finally smartened up and dumped her ass. Oh and I lost my virginity at 27, and sex is not worth waiting for. Fuck it's actually infuriating how not worth the wait sex is. Fuck people who hype it up as the be all end all. I wasted a lot of good years focusing on how to get laid instead of pursuing hobbies and careers that actually matter.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 04:13 PM
9

Great point. It's already changed so much in the past month. Now they only let one person in the gas station at a time, lots of people work from home, etc etc. In an apocalypse where gas is cheap and sanitizer expensive, Amazon Purell deliveries may look more like this
/r/TheRedPill02/04/20 04:21 PM
8

This comment got me thinking. Care to elaborate?
/r/TheRedPill02/04/20 03:44 PM
1

Hey great points on the interest and duns number! I've been on both sides of the fence, requesting payments and withholding payments as long as I can without pushing it too far (I find 60 days is the sweet spot, any more and the company is pinching pennies).
/r/askTRP01/04/20 04:18 AM
2

I found out I was pretty good at collections and have over $50M under my belt (unfortunately noone gives a shit about this skill, which I wish I could turn into a side gig as I'm so fucking good haha) so might as well share some of what I've learned. Find the accounts payable email address Send an email with a copy of the invoice, along with all of the backup, as well as the signed contract or anything that constitutes an agreement to pay. In this email say "hello, I am forecasting cash flows an…
/r/askTRP31/03/20 10:27 PM
1

This sounds like something I'd like to try. But how do you manage it logistically? My LTR did said she was cool with me sleeping with other women as long as it wasn't romantic, as I had confided I didn't want to settle down til I got the fucking out of me. As soon as she said that I haven't brought it up again in case she decides to retroactively change her mind. So now I have a green light but mentally I feel like I'm cheating. I did go on one date but didn't pursue it as I started feeling guil…
/r/askTRP25/03/20 02:53 PM
1

I went through something similar and wanted to probe a little to see what everyone had on me, other than what they remember. So I started to embrace it, which I knew would piss them off, because they wanted to shame me. So I would say something like "Oh man that was a great time, my fanbase was really huge, but I wish I had a copy of some of those songs." Turned out noone had a copy, so eventually any time someone would bring it up in a negative light, I would spin my music as a positive. Eventu…
/r/askTRP19/03/20 05:19 PM
2

Can you elaborate on #3?
/r/askTRP12/03/20 05:26 PM
1

How'd you handle the logistics of this harem, like how did you not get caught, or were you clear from the start? Are you still doing it? Thanks!
/r/askTRP06/03/20 06:24 PM
1

Well she drives out to see me almost every weekend, and takes great offense when I "need some space", and also she only has pics of us on her phone, so I think she is super obsessed with me, but yet she hates her dad so much she moved out of the free home he let her live in, and now her plight is that she can't afford to move back, unless she moves in with me. But she won't move in with me unless I propose, and that shit just rubs me the wrong way.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 08:07 PM
1

Well we originally did breakup and I was seeing other girls for two months during that time. Then she reached out and I had this epiphany that the casual sex from these randoms didn't "mean" anything compared to "what we had" and then I slowly gave in to a relationship again. I don't think she's banging other guys, as the population of that town is so small, and she's obsessed with me, when she visits my picture is her phone background, she doesn't use social media etc, only has pictures of us o…
/r/askTRP03/03/20 05:59 PM
5

Damn, they let cucks like you on here?
/r/askTRP05/02/20 06:20 AM
1

Haha right, you clearly didn't absorb anything you fuckin idiot.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 03:09 PM
1

Haha I didn’t think you incels knew about TRP. Funny, I fuck within a couple days of using this every time. I guess your game sucks, read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 08:46 AM
3

Invite her to coffee, it’s non threatening and you can easily segway into “hey I’m having a great time, wasgonna check out a movie at my place, why dont you come along and I’ll kick you out when its over”. Then when shes at your place ask if she wants a drink, then game on.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 06:51 AM
2

In the day. At the mall, grocery store, etc. usually they say they have a bf, so you can just say “that’s too bad, well it was cool meeting you.” Generally they will be impressed you had the balls to come up to them. It’s a numbers game so maybe 1 in 10 or so will be a number close. After that, just set up a meetup somewhere. Isolate to your place after etc.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 09:18 PM
3

Day game is 100% easier and the girls dont have their guards up as much. Just go up to a chick and tell her you saw her and think she's cute. Introduce yourself, then say "I gotta get goin, but let's grab coffee this week". Give her your phone with the contact entry screen and let her fill it out. Too easy.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 07:00 PM
1

I logged in recently and there's girls using the same pictures I recognized from like 4 years ago.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 06:45 PM
1

Thanks for the perspective, I realized as soon as she said she was cool with it that I just need to not mention it again, and if she finds out, can just cite our previous convo (whereas if I bring it up again, there’s the possibility she could backtrack on her words). Then again, I realize I shouldn’t care whether she knows or not, as I am the prize and she would be missing out without me. . Also, there seems to be this desire on her part that she would only move back to my city if she moves in …
/r/askTRP02/11/19 10:06 PM
2

Hey have you ever written up how you make that work? Does she live with you? I convinced my gf into a one way open relationship that she said she was cool with, but still seem to view it as cheating and so just need to start getting plates again. She’s also out of town so would work nicely with my schedule. Thanks again!
/r/askTRP02/11/19 05:49 PM
2

You guys both sound really insecure talkin dicks with other guys, and giving chicks hard times for dick sizes. If you want to be truly confident, accept that you are good enough. Not trying to sound like a dick, either (pun intended?!).
/r/askTRP26/10/19 02:00 AM
192

I used to feel the same but had an epiphany: if people don’t give a shit about you, then you are completely free to do whatever you want. As soon as I realized this, I started goin to clubs alone, exploring the city, day gaming etc. and the more I did it, the more confident and comfortable in my skin I became. And guess what, people started to gravitate to me, inviting me out etc. You are coming from a place of neediness by “being such a good friend”, which turns people off on a subconscious lev…
/r/askTRP25/10/19 12:29 AM
5

Always be scanning the room for potential threats, don't let anyone sneak up on you. I like to play a game "who can see me but I can't see them?" and usually I'll take a quick look around and sure enough, someone is either looking my way, or is in a place where they could have snuck up and one-punched me. You can tell I grew up in a rough neighborhood lol. . Also checking out chicks. Look them in the eye, then overtly check out their bodies, smile, and then go back to work.
/r/askTRP24/10/19 08:20 PM
11

I banged a 49/yo who looked 30 and she was same situation as yours. But she mentioned she goes out to this cougar bar every weekend. So I hate to break another red pill to you, but the wall ain’t always 30 and this 49/yo is still swimmin in young dick. If she won’t meet for drinks, next her.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 09:44 PM
9

Sorry to hear, man. How’d you find out?
/r/askTRP19/10/19 03:28 AM
1

Interesting points you've made, it ties into my philosophy to essentially "be a man", don't identify with traits that you associate with a man by checking them off a list.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/19 07:00 PM
5

He’s making fun of you, because every guy in here was raised to treat women with respect and be a nice guy, but we all know how that turns out. They go for the badass, mysterious, confident guys instead, which is why TRP is here.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 11:48 PM
2

I took my ex back and things were good at first but I'm now realizing why she was an ex, and think it was ultimately good taking her back just for this lesson. I care for her less than I did before and it kinda feels like pet sematary thing, where she is "back" but "she's" not back... hard to explain...
/r/askTRP11/10/19 05:48 PM
3

I have a pack that I got prescribed but as soon as I got it, was like my dick started working again. So now I have this "ego thing" where I want to use it on some days, but figure I'll become reliant on it. Also are you saying it gives you a raging erection for 72 hours? Shit I can't be walkin around with an erection for 3 days lol. . Thanks for any feedback!
/r/askTRP09/10/19 09:54 PM
2

That glow is interesting. I lost like 80 lbs a while back and decided to go to that orange theory fitness. After the first class of cardio, I legit self-tanned my skin to the point it actually peeled like a real sun tan (there was no way I could have tanned like that because it was winter, and they don't use tanning lights there).
/r/askTRP08/10/19 11:14 PM
24

Haha picturing chick's yelling "Yah-Weh!!" in bed. "Bitch, just say God how bout that."
/r/askTRP02/10/19 03:34 PM
1

Theres lots of options for bigger guys. Watch Royce Grace vs Kimo and you’ll see technique can overcome size differences. Also I am 210 now after bulking from 150 and guys said I felt heavier at 150 because I was using subtle techniques to make me heavier and gas em, as opposed to lately where Ive just relied on my extra weight.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 04:53 PM
7

We’d all rather just fuck em, but you gotta give em plausible deniability. Yes put a movie on, then escalate.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 12:02 AM
3

Exact same thing happened to me and I came out a champ. Here's what I did. First I scheduled time with the instructor. I explained the situation, but not in a "I'm the victim way", just facts, and how I am now in a predicament where I have to start from scratch. The instructor agreed it was ridiculous and allowed me to just submit my own project, which essentially followed the work I had already done with them. I actually got a better mark too and learned that I had to be a charismatic speaker, …
/r/askTRP27/09/19 03:09 AM
5

Sounds like a pyramid scheme. Jk, it sounds like the group is getting along fine without you. Why not start a different friend group.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 08:08 PM
1

Live Action Role Playing where you pretend to be in a medieval battle with wizards and shit, using plastic swords. Watch "Role Models" and you'll get it.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 06:41 PM
3

Cant remember where I heard it but this rule has served me well: don’t smack a girl’s ass unless you’ve fucked her. . Looks thirsty otherwise.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 04:22 AM
4

Do you do any martial arts? This is pretty normal, even for a trained person. I do BJJ and find I am a lot calmer in these situations because I know how to handle myself thanks to the training. As a result, people tend to fuck with me less.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 05:53 PM
-11

Just be honest, like its not a big deal. If she judges you for having too low of a body count, then she obviously has a ridiculously high count and you just dodged a potential STD bullet.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 11:13 PM
4

That's the spirit! Salsa sounds like it would be a great place for pickup. Might have to add that to my list haha.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 09:25 PM
5

Ghost and hit the grocery stores/coffee shops/book stores/malls/anywhere but tinder or bars/clubs for new leads.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 09:00 PM
2

I went to a doctor who referred me to a physiotherapist for the exact same thing. Within minutes she diagnosed the cause of my pain as being caused by poor squatting form (was leaning forward, impinging my shoulder). I fixed my squat form (bought adidas leistung lifting shoes which provide a wedge which fixed my squatting form), and have been better ever since.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 08:26 PM
0

I went to a doctor who referred me to a physiotherapist for the exact same thing. Within minutes she diagnosed the cause of my pain as being caused by poor squatting form (was leaning forward, impinging my shoulder). I fixed my squat form (bought adida leistung lifting shoes which provide a wedge which fixed my squatting form).
/r/askTRP18/09/19 08:19 PM
5

Shoulda told her "this cute girl I work with said she thinks I should be on the Bachelor, even offered to help me "audition". . Get the dread going.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 05:14 PM
6

Can't find the actual Gracie Combatives video (a certain bay of pirates may know where to look) but this rear takedown is really effective. BJJ, look into it.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 03:50 AM
3

Just ignore and move on.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 10:39 PM
13

Banged a 49 year old milf who looked 35. Saw her walking on my way to the gym so pulled over up the road, got out and pretended to just be going for a jog. Stopped and chatted her up (said she was cute, commented on how beautiful it was outside, and said we should grab coffee in the week), then said I had to get back to my jog. Messaged her and invited her over for a game of pool and some drinks. When she got there, she kept saying she couldn't believe she was actually in my house and how guys n…
/r/askTRP17/09/19 09:25 PM
1

Ouch, you gotta lose this victim mentality. Sounds like you are hamstering reasons why you didn’t fuck her (she’s a mom, oh wait no she’s a colleague, umm she said it would complicate things, yeah that’s it!). . 100% she did all that with “Chad” but the only difference is you allowed her to lead. All you woulda needed to do was whisper in her ear “I won’t tell if you don’t” and then make out with her/isolate/take home blah blah.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 02:40 PM
2

Just wanted to chime in to say I do miss day game. Still keep it up as a catch and release thing to keep me sharp but, I miss the chase.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 12:50 AM
16

Ah man, sorry to hear that. How far along in the payments did you get, and did he pay you back?
/r/askTRP10/09/19 10:53 PM
1

I was actually at 12% getting no results, but I think it’s because I subconsciously viewed myself as weak even though I was pushin good weight, so started bulking and eating a lot while doing a strength program. As I gained weight and strength, I assumed it was a 50/50 mix of fat and muscle, which caused me to become more confident. I became more outgoing and chicks loved it. Then I re-did the DEXA scan and was horrified to find I gain all fat. Haha not one lb of muscle. This was a couple months…
/r/askTRP07/09/19 02:49 AM
6

I agree it’s nothing revolutionary and essentially the “big takeaway” that I got was that there are women who are naturally into you, women who are neutral, and woman who will never be into you. So approach until you find the ones who are into you. That and “don’t come across as needy”.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 12:07 AM
2

Ahh I gotcha. I think there are some major "self limiting beliefs" around here, like chicks only want rich guys, tall guys, jacked guys, and it essentially prevents them from even taking a shot. Honestly, day game feels like a cheat code, the girls don't have their "bitchy bar attitudes" (most likely because they are "supposed" to be picked up at the bar, but not at the grocery store, so they never see it coming. . Strangely enough, I get the best results with women when I am at 30% bf vs 15% (w…
/r/askTRP06/09/19 11:25 PM
16

Here's the thing. Most girls don't get approached anymore. The guys are all on tinder or bumble and every guy I have told "go approach that chick over there" has reacted like I was basically telling him to jump into a fire. . I bet this guy actually made a move, while all the "chads" stood around looking for her instagram or facebook account. You know what chicks love? Confidence. And if a (fat) guy has the balls to approach while all the studs are sitting on the sidelines jerking off to their p…
/r/askTRP06/09/19 10:49 PM
2

Jerk some dude off. Duh.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 04:14 AM
11

My god, this made me realize, until the bottom 80% of men can experience and realize sex is nothing special, we will live in a world where those same men bend over backwards to appease women (judges, lawyers, etc). Surely some thirsty ass judges are handing down sentences to innocent men that encourage women to behave this way. If it works they will do it.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/19 04:38 AM
2

Well said man!
/r/askTRP20/08/19 06:42 AM
7

Sorry dude, she's not into you but doesn't have the balls the tell you (probably because some assholes have lit into her in the past for the same behavior, so it's easier to just say 'tomorrow, tomorrow' and then hope you get the message, than it is to confront you that she isn't interested.) Just go for other chicks.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 07:54 PM
2

I know a lot of people in here will tell you to say something that "sounds" clever, like "Oh good, he can pay for us" or "Oh I thought we were talking about things we would cheat on". It never works. They giggle and move on. Just find girls that don't have bf's. This is coming from a guy with a lot of quality day game experience.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 04:53 PM
1

Haha oh shit you know, come to think of it, this individual who cockblocked me just married a chick who begged me to fuck her when they had a break not too long ago (I suspect maybe he knows and as you said got jealous that I could pull another chick). Luckily I don't see him much, but my bro is another who would cockblock me by saying I have a gf, but thinking he is doing me a favor by helping me "preserve the sanctity of my relationship".
/r/askTRP24/07/19 08:18 PM
1

Hey thanks for this response, it seems I still GAF quite a bit more than I realized. I also just realized I think a part of it is also giving a fuck about the "shaming" of others in relationships when they know I have a gf. I still do "catch and release" to get numbers but then I just throw them away. So for example, I threw a bachelor party for my bro a couple weeks back, and just as I was getting a number, one of the other dudes who is maried says "hey what are you doing, you have a gf!" and t…
/r/askTRP24/07/19 07:07 PM
11

I've been enjoying your perspective lately and it seems you are a well rounded guy, fit, confident etc. You definitely seem to walk the talk. Would appreciate your input on "amorality" as this amoral thing has had me stuck lately. I had a plate who I promoted to LTR after like 7 months that had some daddy issues and moved out of town for another job, She didn't tell me about her hatred for her dad, so for months I thought she just cold heartedly dumped my ass and moved. She opened up about her d…
/r/askTRP24/07/19 06:03 PM
11

Don't pick up chicks at the club and definitely don't do drugs as a replacement for game. Chicks at the mall/grocery store/out walking are all prime targets and most guys are too pussy to approach.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 06:47 PM
58

I have a theory that it's almost impossible to change someone's opinion of you once they see you in a vulnerable state. . Family: They've all seen you as a snot nosed kid for most of your life so, barring some amazing accomplishment, you will just be "littleelmoboy". "Remember that time you shit your pants in the playground! Haha" Solution: Suck it up, they are family, and even if you invent the new facebook, will always be "littleelmoboy" . Work: Did you come in as an entry level clerk? Well yo…
/r/askTRP15/07/19 09:40 PM
3

Cue /u/gaylubeoil personally attacked
/r/askTRP02/07/19 07:57 AM
2

Great comment man. It actually came as a surprise because every woman I approach tells me how they never get approached anymore unless they are at a nightclub. Whereas I'm approaching at the mall, the gym, out when I'm running, grocery store, everywhere.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/19 07:35 PM
11

Tinder is absolutely bs. I get great responses from women in person but no matches on tinder. So I tried an experiment where I created a new account with a male model’s pictures. He got the same results I did - none. So it looks like they only show you to others if you pay. I wasn't willing to test that theory with my wallet.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/19 09:19 PM
1

It absolutely is. I get great responses from women in person but no matches on tinder. So I tried an experiment where I created a new account with a male model’s pictures. He got the same results I did - none. So it looks like they only show you to others if you pay.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 06:13 PM
15

I've invested 15 years in a finance career but keep getting told I have too much personality for finance and that I would be perfect for sales. I've actually hit a career plateau because of this and am thinking it might be time to play to my strengths and get into sales, but I fear being an older guy who's "late to the game". What are some good entry level sales positions that allow for fairly quick upward mobility? Also, this is a great post!
/r/TheRedPill12/06/19 07:15 PM
1

Get checked for STIs.
/r/askTRP08/06/19 06:05 AM
1

Vasilly I really appreciate this response. I hold your advice to the highest standards and am currently making my way through the corporateland series. This is great advice and I am going to re-read this to ensure I've caught everything. Thanks again!
/r/askTRP08/06/19 04:43 AM
3

This is a great response, I really appreciate your taking the time to write this out. I'm going to give it a few reads to truly take it all in. Nice work!
/r/askTRP08/06/19 03:27 AM
3

Only fuck hotties.
/r/askTRP05/06/19 03:32 AM
1

Thanks man, really appreciate it!
/r/TheRedPill30/05/19 09:20 PM
1

Any good yoga channels on youtube you recommend? I want to get into it more for BJJ so lots of hip work would be sweet.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/19 08:05 PM
1

It totally is a mine field dude. I had a 9 out on a date and made out with her. She had to go to a different city early the next day for work, so I Ieft her with the kiss in order to not cone across as needy. She went from texting constantly to ghost, even though she texted right after the kiss that she wants to meet soon.
/r/askTRP07/05/19 09:22 PM
2

That’s a great point actually. I’ve got some ideas on consulting stuff I could do, like I’m amazing at AR collections, yet noone wants to pay me to collect money for them. Need to read up on sales skills. Thanks for the advice bud!
/r/askTRP07/05/19 09:17 PM
-1

Haha I must have the worst luck but I was up at 215lbs maybe 35% bf, got no results, then when all out and cut down to 150lbs @ 10%, no results. At this point I'm dirty bulking and am back to 200lbs, with no results. but I'm out there grinding every day, day approach after day approach.
/r/askTRP07/05/19 03:45 AM
12

Hey thanks man I appreciate the encouragement!
/r/askTRP04/05/19 05:44 AM
26

Stuck at $80k and can't break it :(. $100k would be the sweet spot but just can't crack it.
/r/askTRP04/05/19 04:09 AM
3

Hey which main thread are you referring? Sounds like there's more gold like this in there.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 05:51 PM
2

This is a good question. For some reason, when people apologize to me, the further the apology from the act, the more angry I get when they do apologize. Like it validates that I was wronged. But I don't show it, I just tell them no worries. Maybe I'll bust their balls a bit, "don't let it happen again" with a cocky smirk. Reaction seems to be proportionate to loss of frame. A larger angry reaction means a larger loss in frame, from what I've seen. So saying "no worries" kinda makes you the bigg…
/r/askTRP29/03/19 05:35 AM
1

Thanks for this response! Yeah, she had an IUD so we would go raw, which likely contributed. Shoulda done the edging thing. Will give it a shot with the next plate.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 01:16 AM
1

Thanks man, this is a great response and I agree.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 10:58 AM
1

Thanks a lot man, really appreciate your response.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 10:57 AM
1

Thanks for this man, it totally caught me off guard but she is the sweetest person and after hearing about this and seeing how well adjusted she is 10 years later and how she really got her life together, I agree we all make mistakes. I appreciate your response and empathize with your situation. Hope you are doing great now!
/r/askTRP10/01/19 10:41 AM
2

I think you need to fuck a bunch of other chicks, sounds like you have oneitis and, like a bunch of other guys are saying here, these party resorts are actually the things that red-pilled me before I knew what it was. Basically every chick was banging dudes every night even though they had bfs back home (one told me it was her bfs fault for not coming, and almost banged me but her friend cock blocked me, but she definitely banged some other dude). I came home and realized the women are more rese…
/r/askTRP27/11/18 04:33 AM
3

Have you fucked her yet?
/r/askTRP27/11/18 04:03 AM
3

You look fine dude, I was on tinder for a while and got no quality matches., Started doing day game when I realized NOBODY has the balls to approach chicks in the day (so many women called me brave and I got a lot of numbers). I gave them some pics I had on tinder and they said I looked so good. yet when I was on tinder I got no love. I think tinder doesn't show you to quality matches unless you pay, so why not just skip the system and get out there and take advantage of day game, which everyone…
/r/askTRP07/11/18 06:30 PM
1

I was actually like this over the summer. had done everythign right, approaching, lifting, was getting numbers but lots of flakes. My brother kinda saved me though by asking if I had given up. I thought about it and realized that I had. And He kinda pushed me to keep getting out there. As a result, I landed a great chick recently and realize I don't care what those girls who rejected me thought.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 06:40 PM
1

I would honestly just act like nothing happened. Had a chick pull some shit over text. I ghosted her for a week then just invited her over and she apologized relentlessly.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 11:49 PM
1

Hey thanks for this response! Yeah come to think of it, off the bat I had a relaxed, confident and funny vibe. I also don't text her much, and go weeks sometimes without seeing her, and when she is with me it's pretty much constant makeout/sex followed by good cuddling and emotional talk, like how I felt so close to her when I was inside her (thanks to the sex god method on that one). I also got in a street fight not long ago and so she saw that I won't back down from an altercation.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 03:41 PM
2

Haha good to know! Guess I need to keep shopping around just in case.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 09:36 PM
1

I don't understand, my girl never shit tests me, unless they are so subtle I'm just acing them. But this girl is like worshiping me... writing love letters, saying how perfect I am etc. Maybe that's just because I've only been seeing her 2 months?
/r/askTRP16/10/18 09:20 PM
1

Ah! It was right in front of my face the whole time. Thanks for pointing this out man.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 09:07 PM
1

This is gold man, thanks a lot. So far it sounds like I am handling it well but I am going to re-read your post as it is full of great advice.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 10:13 PM
1

Thanks a lot for this response, you actually cleared up alot for me. And yeah it’s girls from various circles so good point that it’s not even a big issue. And her emotions aren’t my problem. Thanks again!
/r/askTRP09/10/18 07:31 PM
4

Interesting, I noticed they often wouldn’t stop if I was just like “hey” or whatever, so I started doing the finger thing and they started (like a peace symbol) and they started to stop. As for how man, I seem to be at 1 out of 5 will give me their number, and then 50/50 they flake, but recently Ive been moving faster, setting up dates within a couple days so less chsn e to flake.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/18 01:13 PM
7

And the beauty of it is that you are really just competing with anyone immediately around you, so your odds are better. On tinder it's like you are competing with everyone around you for miles (though I swear they don't show your profile unless you subscribe, so you just waste your time swiping all fucking day).
/r/TheRedPill22/08/18 05:21 AM
13

What I usually do is: Say “hey, two seconds” and hold up two fingers Once she stops, I say “hey my name is X” and go for a light hand shake I say “look I thought you were cute and had to say hello” She says something like “oh” Then I say “I’m in a bit of a rush but we should grab a coffee some time”. If she says ok, I give her my phone to enter her Take off Sometimes before 1, if we are standing in the same place I’ll make a comment about the surroundings (recently a bunch of people were in line…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/18 11:25 PM
18

Was wondering the same thing until I realized I was trying to get laid through tinder and bars on weekends. I’m pretty certain that tinder doesnt show you to anybody unless you pay the subscription, and I noticed chicks at the bars go and dance then head to mcdonalds then home with each other, as they have their orbiters etc, so its just a validation thing for them at these bars and not to get laid (they dont NEED to go to bars to get laid in other words). Decided to delete tinder and started as…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/18 10:50 PM
3

This sounds exactly like my situation and its really fucking with me.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/18 04:10 PM
6

I’m curious, in these situations what should you do with the condom? I wouldn’t put it past some of these chicks to dig it out of the garbage and empty it into themselves.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 10:23 PM
231

“Just make $150k a year, it’s THAT easy”.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 12:39 AM
1

Hey man this is an awesome post. Can you provide any more input on how to dress like you are the alpha.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 02:21 PM
2

Thanks a lot for your feedback, this sounds spot on. Gonna reflect on your post as there is a lot of good advice in here.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 02:36 AM
3

This is great, really appreciate your help! It looks like I just gotta keep testing and calibrating. I like the variety here too, gives me a lot of good options.
/r/askTRP28/05/18 04:20 PM
1

Thanks a lot for the feedback man, can you give some ideas of alpha, charming, witty messages I can practice in the future?
/r/askTRP28/05/18 03:39 PM
3

This is such a great answer, thanks man!
/r/TheRedPill17/05/18 07:55 PM
4

What does a modern day Chad do if he finds his Jane in the sack with another dude? I mean on the one hand you wanna knock some sense into him, but at the same time, he could easily be you at any given time.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/18 07:41 PM
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Oh don’t get me wrong I game too, but I think you nailed it. You have other hobbies like lifting, banging, etc (great job btw). But this guy got divorced (she initiated) and I tried to get him to see the light with subtle redpill truths (its not easy to wake someone up so I tread carefully).
/r/TheRedPill12/05/18 03:32 AM
222

Christ, I know a guy who doesn't even PLAY fortnite... he WATCHES other dudes play it on youtube...
/r/TheRedPill12/05/18 12:28 AM
2

Thanks for this response. I feel like I'm starting from scratch after years of armchair theory reading. I've been going out lately and realizing I don't know as much as I thought I did. Been watching some Tom Torero in field stuff and tested it out to mixed results. Gonna be approaching a lot more. Kicking myself for all those wasted years but better now than never.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/18 12:25 AM
2

What’s wrong with starting strength?
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 10:43 PM
1

Best resources on game? Thanks in advance!
/r/TheRedPill10/05/18 09:00 PM
50

Funny, I know a guy who was too fat to ride a zipline. So he doubled down and lost a ton of weight and got his zipline ride after all.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/18 05:32 AM
4

This is good advice. It's a bitter medicine like Buckley's, but it works.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 02:57 PM
6

Man I think you hit the nail on the head. I've been letting my ego get to me and as a result stopped putting myself into a position where I would get out of my comfort zone and able to take rejections like a champ. That guy you described, shit that's powerful. To be able to take rejection and not even be phased. I really appreciate this comment.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 02:56 PM
1

One said she moves “granny slow” but in the same evening explained how all her friends are guys and also would never meet on a weekend. I got the feeling she was banging these dudes for fun so I ghosted her. Another one gave last minute resistance so I went back to watchin a movie. Then went back to making out and she said “maybe I should leave”, and I fucked up and said “no no it’s all good”. She stayed and made out a bit more but it was clear she was holding back. Shoulda probably told her to …
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 06:09 AM
3

Thanks man, sometimes its hard to remember which way is up. Just gotta keep improving myself and not taking the rejections too seriously. It’s actually more the time wasting spent setting up a coffee meet, meeting them, setting up a follow up at my place, doing that song and dance, and then finding out it was all a waste. Almost feels better to just say fuck trying with women altogether but that doesn’t seem right.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 05:11 AM
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I went through an intense Jan to Mar and was rejected by a shitload of chicks. Got a bunch back to my place but couldnt close and they ghosted. Now I just feel numb, like that scene from Private Ryan where it’s like the shellshock shit. I just look at chicks and feel disgust, disappointment and indifference. Like I shoulda gotten some fuckin results. Sorry had to get this out and just feel like “rejection is awesome!” posts piss me off when I look through the lens of my own experience.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 03:30 AM
3

Great job dude, I had a similar experience but I had a hardcore rugburn on my forehead from bjj practicing the rear clinch, and those outfits (gis) are dry and very textured, so an aggressive opponent will test your ability to hold him. Anyways, wore a bandaid on my forehead to work and everywhere else, and I completely forgot about it. But EVERYONE opened me and it gave me a cool segue to talk about my passion, which chicks love to see.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 01:46 PM
5

Thanks man, you the real mvp!
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 09:51 PM
9

This sounds good but Im having trouble with what you mean by A+A and LCF. Never seen these terms before lol.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 07:52 PM
4

This hit too close to home, only I’m an accountant. I used to wonder why every publicly traded company I worked for had a shitload of old erp software that was never kept up to date and always required the digital equivalent of duct tape and hope to keep it together. It’s the leadership. My last company I was at, the Controller quit within a month and left me in charge of 3 direct reports. I had no idea what to do but I told everyone we were going to get through this and that I was going to help…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/18 01:01 PM
1

Yup those are my 3 too. Wonder if anything else comes close to em.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 09:48 PM
1

Got any good reading on push/pull? And keep up the good work
/r/TheRedPill12/03/18 05:55 AM
2

This reminds me of a thing I read here on Reddit in the Science sub I think. Basically it said at some point each human takes on an immortality project (raising kids, religion, creating a business that will last long after they are gone, etc). When people attack a person's religion, or children etc, they are attacking that person's view of their own immortality. Ties into what you said about how people are really chasing the feeling while they are alive that they have created something that will…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 04:29 PM
4

I had a leg injury from squatting, and it wouldnt go away for like 8 months. Then I read this thing from the guy who wrote Starting Strength about how the best way to heal injured muscles is to work them out lightly at first but gradually increasing the weight and really focusing on form. So I started squatting light and gradually increased the weight and the issue went away. It sounds like yours was a bit more than that, but maybe combining the workout with physio could help. I think it had som…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 01:01 AM
1

I call that catch and release. Feel free to go forth and use it :)
/r/TheRedPill06/03/18 12:34 AM
1

Just frustrated, been working out for the past two years, still got a ways to go, been cold approaching, hitting tinder, reading the side bar, and dudes who don't even try are getting the chicks.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 07:39 PM
2

Ahhh that makes sense. So they DID go back to his place to drop off the car. Then uber’d out from there and it was too little too late at that point. Thanks man!
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 03:53 PM
3

I see a lot of guys ripping on what he did without discussing what he should have done. Does this sound right: If they wanted to keep drinking, he should have just left his car wherever it was parked and cabbed it with her back to his place (wait wtf, he says they got an uber, why was the car an issue?), while teasing her about how responsible she is (is this any good: We could never be fuck buddies because I'm so wreckless and you're too cautious?). Shouldn't have had more than a couple drinks …
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 03:43 PM
2

Sending Muscles and Swoles your way!
/r/TheRedPill28/01/18 07:36 PM
1

Oh crazy I suspected a bit of that was happening. Shit that's exactly whatg I'm gonna do. Max out the lifts at the deficit and then be real careful to ensure I'm leanin bulking and just gonna be a beast at it.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/18 07:46 PM
1

Yeah i think once I've hit the "visible abs" target, I can start upping the calories a bit to give me the muscles more fuel. Hard increasing the lifts on a caloric deficit but it slowly goes up (though nothing compared to a bulk I think).
/r/TheRedPill26/01/18 07:36 PM
1

Well I'm 32 so still fairly young. I do the starting strength program (the name makes it sound like a beginner program but apparently the guy has trained top athletes). I built a gym in my basement with a power rack and bench so there's no excuses because its literally in the next room haha
/r/TheRedPill26/01/18 07:24 PM
1

Haha true enough. Height: 6'2" Weight: 174 lbs as of this morning, down from 230 (still got some love handles but they're quickly disappearing so think I'm gonna go down to 160 and see how I'm lookin, then try to bulk up to 180 and ultimately a fairly lean 200). Squat: 200lbs Bench: 160lbs Deadlift: 250lbs Not the greatest numbers but I'm really focusing on form to ensure I don't pull something that sets me back 6 months (one of the reason I got up to 230, as I tried to push too hard too fast). …
/r/TheRedPill26/01/18 06:41 PM
1

Yeah man, lately the fat has just been flyin off as I've re-affirmed my commitment to eating healthy and working out (I didn't stop over the past couple years, but just kinda slowed the efforts as I was getting burnt out, and have now dug deeper and am back to giving 100%).
/r/TheRedPill26/01/18 06:26 PM
1

Haha amen to that, I’m maybe 20 lbs away from seeing my abs. At that point I’ll be cut but will need to transition into a slow bulk to ensure the fat doesn’t come back. Just hope these chicks don’t expect much experience from an older guy with less sexual experience than some of these 20 year old guys that are lucky enough to be bangin at that age lol. Although all I care about is bustin a nut, long as I get mine I’m good haha.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/18 05:03 PM
1

Shit that last sentence is somethin I hadn’t thought of. Inhibition is all in the mind, so really its nothing to worry about. I bet by doin the same things sober (dancing, pushing boundaries) would train that sober.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/18 07:02 AM
1

Yeah I'm a different guy when I drink. No anxiety, etc. But the problem is one drink gets lonely, ya know. And my game falls apart after one too many. I stopped drinking to excess as a somewhat new years resolution. My limit is maybe 2 or 3 drinks, and only one or two days max a week.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/18 06:29 AM
3

Lol, makes me feel like even more shit knowing that I'm just not getting any, regardless of age, effort, whatever. But that's a bad attitude and I'm workin on it. Guess I've had too many chicks tell me they just got out of a relationship and would totally bang if we met any other time. Then I find out they banged some other dude the night before. Guess I'm so numb to it all I don't really give a fuck anymore. But I do, so I just gotta accept that I'll have the bad days, remembering all the shit …
/r/TheRedPill26/01/18 06:26 AM
2

Oh crazy, so you're buddy is banging co-workers, and it's increasing his perceived SMV? Does he care if anyone finds out? And good on ya for not putting so much pressure on yourself to lose your virginity. I was drunk when I lost mine and don't fully remember everything.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/18 06:14 AM
3

Guess I need some better Tinder pics ;p. Congrats bud!
/r/TheRedPill26/01/18 06:12 AM
2

Really appreciate the suggestion. I'll keep it in the back pocket just in case I'm in the same position next time I head to Tijuana.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/18 06:11 AM
7

I envy ya bud, my first lay was at 28, I was drunk and don't remember much of it. And then second is yet to come, but I feel I'm making progress. Sometimes the hooker thing crosses my mind, and I don't judge for it, but I think I might keep trying for the free stuff haha. Congrats on your progress!
/r/TheRedPill26/01/18 04:06 AM
5

I had a tough past, and found a note I wrote back when I was 25 about how the situation was. I likely have some PTSD but am in a much better place than I was. I think you are absolutely right my mentality is defeating me. In a fucked up way I have a no fucks given attitude to the point where I don't really give a fuck whether I succeed or fail. But I've been to the bottom and came back and ultimately know that I do care and that's why, for the past 2 years, I've been consistently hitting the gym…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/18 03:31 AM
5

Thanks for this comment, I think sometimes I take it too seriously and forget the key ingredient: It's supposed to be fun. Of course! haha really appreciate your response.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/18 01:47 AM
2

Yeah that's a good point. It's easy to lose the weight now that I've got it down to a science, and I've read the sidebar but think I need to go through it again to fully internalize everything. I think one thing is that I try to remember everything, but my memory ain't the greatest (would always have to cram for a test the night before in order to get things to stick just long enough to use em). Got any personal fav readings on how to project a more high value status? I used to have a ton of fri…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/18 12:25 AM
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There's still a ways to go but in the last year I'm down 50 lbs, and been buying better clothes. I'm making good progress on the self improvement side but still no results with the women. Comin off a 4 year dry spell so I think there's still some old circuitry in there gettin crossed but I'm keepin at it day by day. Thanks for the pep talk!
/r/TheRedPill26/01/18 12:05 AM
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Ugh no kidding. The chicks our age are all washed up, bitchy shells of their former selves, and the young ones seem to suddenly prefer guys their age (go figure, when I was 20, the chicks all wanted 30 year olds). Ah well, at least we found it lol
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 11:31 PM
1

Thanks for this link! Great read. Really shook me out of my "stupor"
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 02:59 AM
2

Yep I just soft nexted her, sent her an invite to hang out just after posting this topic and she says "some time after sunday." Likely she's got some cocks lined up til then. Haha fuck am I glad I discovered TRP. The hardest part of it all was getting used to rejection and not becoming attached to chicks. So this is really nothing lost, was just the "best" lead at this time, but I'm down 50 lbs and have gotten a decent wardrobe so shouldn't have too much trouble now that I'm out there grinding.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 02:05 AM
3

Thank you for your comment MentORPHEUS! Yup, no love for this one, worst case gonna ditch or plate (depending on how our next meetup goes). I'm gonna look more into body language and push-pull. I can't seem to find any good readings on "game" though (everyone says see the sidebar, I'm reading "The Game" but it's like, I aint about to walk around with a man purse full of magic tricks haha)
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 01:45 AM
2

Yeah I'm the one doing all the work. Though she did text me a few days before the coffee thing saying she wished I came out to the club with her. So who knows?
/r/TheRedPill24/01/18 07:28 PM
2

Thanks a lot for this detailed response. I admit I mighta been a bit harsh on the "shit behaviour" comment. I think you're right, though. Like if we were dating (I'm not looking for a LTR tbh though), that would make me think she probably does that to all guys, so I guess it's good she doesn't just jump right into bed. Yeah what the hell, got nothing to lose really, other than an evening like you said. Really appreciate you hearing this out.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/18 06:49 PM
3

So prior to the coffee date we had agreeed to meet at 8pm. She said she forgot her friend's bday at 8:30pm and wanted to see if we could meet earlier at 7pm (plan was to kinda follow the lazy lay guide, meet close to closing, then transition to my place). I'm thinking this may have been a test and that I should have said "no" but I said cool, we'll meet at 7. I'd say we were vibing pretty good, had her laughing, light kino. When I cut it short at 8 to get her on her way, I walked her to her car …
/r/TheRedPill24/01/18 06:07 PM
1

Invited a girl out for coffee a couple weeks back. Went well, no kiss though. A week later I invited her to my place for pool and a movie. Pool went well, I won the first game, she won the second, but the movie she kinda froze up, had concealed body language. Tried to go for the kiss but she said she moves slow “like Grandma slow” she said. At the end of the night, went for another kiss but again same line, she moves slow. I pretty much soft nexted her at this point but what do you think, give h…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/18 05:03 PM
1

Awesome job man. Please write a quick field report on how you managed to re-initiate and hook up with the older woman (logistics, etc). Keep it up!
/r/seduction20/01/12 02:51 AM
8

Could you expand on this?
/r/seduction09/01/12 07:29 AM
1

Thanks for this post, I appreciate your input and you're exactly right. When Im depressd I'm beta as fuck, totally focused on negative internal thoughts, but when Im out of that state, I feel so confident and focused on the external world around me, I open everyone, and just feel great. I guess I needed to vent and have some kind of reassurance, as I would never tell any of this to anyone IRL, and when I'm back in alpha mode I can look back at this and see just how fucking big a difference mind …
/r/seduction15/07/11 09:22 PM
5

Thanks man, some solid advice right there.
/r/seduction16/09/10 06:33 AM
2

This is exactly the case :)
/r/seduction03/09/10 07:50 PM
3

This sentence just broke a barrier for me. Feel free to elaborate, you've already blown my mind.
/r/seduction03/09/10 05:25 AM
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