I got out of a relationship and, since sex is new to me (mid 30's) I'm used to jerkin off and just getting on with my day, however in my relationship, I found it was tricky to go longer than a couple mins at a time, and then I'd need to wait maybe 5 mins to get hard again. Some nights I could go 3 or 4 times.

My ex said she wished I would pop a pill and she could ride me all night long, but I don't know if I believe in"performance enhancement", so we never did it. Kinda regretting it now, as being able to go marathon style is really tempting...

Advice?