seductionist123 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
70	How to Have Women Come To YOU	Fundamentals	seductionist123	/r/seduction	02/06/21 11:04 PM
67	HOW TO OBTAIN TRUE CONFIDENCE	Inner Game	seductionist123	/r/seduction	04/06/21 12:17 AM

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3	How to be comfortable in your own skin? exactly ^	/r/seduction	04/06/21 12:50 AM
1	How to Have Women Come To YOU Attraction is not a choice, men think they have to do something to get girls to like them which is why they always text and chase women away with neediness. By doing something (texting, calling all the time) they think the woman will like them more. It scares them off. Less is more. Now when I'm with the person, they have my undivided attention and energy.	/r/seduction	04/06/21 12:48 AM
2	How to Have Women Come To YOU I am not saying to not reply to texts or to not text people to play games. Genuine business is not a game nor am I saying all women are the same.I am not going to apologize for not making that person the center of my life or be at their beckon call. I text and pursue women, especially in the beginning stages. What I am saying is to not be all up in the person's face all the time. Texting, checking in, phone calls, wanting to be in contact all the time. Giving someone space by NOT being in contac…	/r/seduction	04/06/21 12:45 AM
1	How to Have Women Come To YOU You misunderstood my message. Go back and read some of the comments where I explain it further.	/r/seduction	04/06/21 12:29 AM
2	How to suggest a relationship without looking weird/needy? Just be honest bro. Call her on the phone to arrange a date. When you see her in person just treat her how you treated her when you were casually dating. Say to her "I didn't really know what I wanted a few months ago and now I realize that I want you." Now here is the catch... When you say this and lets just assume she agrees...Do not start treating her any differently. Just focus on hanging out, having fun, and hooking up. Be constantly reading her attraction level. If you come in acting 10/10…	/r/seduction	04/06/21 12:23 AM
14	How to be comfortable in your own skin? It's funny bro. I remember I used to be asking the same question many years ago. Now I am exactly what you described. I am so used to it I don't even remember what it is like to care about the stuff you're explaining. For me it was a compilation of many revelations I've had that got me there. I can tell you some of the revelations I have had that got me to this "calmness" you speak of. When you're interacting with people, girls, friends we tend to be focused on how others are perceiving us. This…	/r/seduction	04/06/21 12:07 AM
6	Got my first date tomorrow, we're going on a picnic! Put your hands out in front of you while sitting in front of her, palms up. Have her place her hands palms down on top of your hands. Then while turning your palms facing down attempt to smack the top of her hand before she moves it away. Fun and cute game lol	/r/seduction	03/06/21 10:54 PM
8	Got my first date tomorrow, we're going on a picnic! I have a great one for getting her close to you and to start the touching. I usually wait until there is a higher level of comfort and attraction built up. Ask for her hands with a smile. put your hands out with your palms facing up and ask her to lay her hands on top of yours. Then be looking into each others eyes and do the game where you have to smack her hands before she moves them. Always fun, then you're always within kissing distance. Never fails me.	/r/seduction	03/06/21 08:35 PM
1	How to Have Women Come To YOU Totally, I absolutely message/call girls to set up dates. I believe it is the man's job to initiate the pursuing in the beginning stages of the courtship. I just will do it maybe once a week. If within that week I am messaged by a woman I take the opportunity to set up the next date. If I am messaged or called I will absolutely reciprocate. It may not be within 5 minutes but I will. What I am saying is if a guy messages you and you don't reply, they text you again. Or Youguys go on a date, then …	/r/seduction	03/06/21 05:29 PM
1	How to Have Women Come To YOU I'm not saying for men to sit there like cold fish and never initiate any contact and let women do all the chasing. Men ask the women out, get their number, approach them. I would hope this is enough for a man to demonstrate interest. If you are a women, I know as well as you do that men sitting there texting you every day, all the time gets boring and predictable which is a turn off. And if a women wants me to sit there all day texting her and constantly in contact, then yes you are right we ar…	/r/seduction	03/06/21 05:17 PM
1	How to Have Women Come To YOU They are just a normal people yes. It is how men treat some women (putting them on a pedestal) that is the problem.	/r/seduction	03/06/21 05:05 PM
1	How to Have Women Come To YOU fair enough and I totally understand, I don't want to date women that are insecure.	/r/seduction	03/06/21 05:01 PM
1	How to Have Women Come To YOU fair enough and I totally understand, I don't want to date women that are insecure.	/r/seduction	03/06/21 05:01 PM
3	Going out with the sole intention of meeting women sets a baseline for needy, validation-seeking behavior. When out, do your own thing, and flirt if you encounter someone who interests you Truth sauce.	/r/seduction	03/06/21 03:34 PM
3	How to Have Women Come To YOU Nice! This is because you are not approval seeking and just treating them like a normal person.	/r/seduction	03/06/21 03:32 PM
8	How to Have Women Come To YOU You have missed the point of my post. This is not in regards to the initial meet. Reread it.	/r/seduction	03/06/21 03:30 PM
1	How to Have Women Come To YOU You have missed the point of my post. I'm not talking about the initial meet.	/r/seduction	03/06/21 03:28 PM
1	How to Have Women Come To YOU You have greatly misunderstood the point of the post my friend.	/r/seduction	03/06/21 03:26 PM
16	How to Have Women Come To YOU You misunderstand this my friend. I still approach woman and go for what I want. I totally agree. I am talking about the process of a woman opening up to you emotionally through the process of a courtship.	/r/seduction	02/06/21 11:26 PM
8	How to Have Women Come To YOU If you're a woman, you know as well as I do that woman's feelings develop much more slowly than men's. Men go off the physical they know instantly if they want to date a girl. Woman take time. I am just saying allow them to develop their feelings over time and let them come to you at their own pace. When they reach out, ask them out. I am simply saying go at THEIR pace. It is not about being a cold fish and not messaging them ever. Also yes, I still reach out to woman to ask them out, just not e…	/r/seduction	02/06/21 11:22 PM
9	How to Have Women Come To YOU I am not talking about not pursuing. I believe it is the man's job to initiate the courtship in the beginning. If a guy asks for your number and asks you out it is a clear enough indicator that he is interested. Also I am not referring to not texting ever. I am simply saying don't sit there all day and text all day every day and not give the woman any opportunity to pursue you. There are no games, it is called emotional intelligence.	/r/seduction	02/06/21 11:19 PM
13	How to Have Women Come To YOU You should still approach woman.	/r/seduction	02/06/21 11:14 PM
98	My first approach and why I'm an idiot "Hey I gotta run but I'd love to get a drink with you and we can further discuss our fear of big needles, when are you free?" If she likes you she will say yes, if she doesn't there is nothing you could have done. Move on	/r/seduction	02/06/21 11:11 PM
2	How to make a hiking date good? My point exactly- You want to do things where you CAN get physical and it be NATURAL. Bowling, miniature golf, drinks in a lounge etc.. Just go bowling and say loser buys ice cream afterwards ;). Going your route, You're working against yourself. Plus a hike is something I do with my sister and friends, not women I am trying to seduce.	/r/seduction	02/06/21 12:26 PM
6	When to call girl after texting? It's not a mind game if you're genuinely busy. Honestly bro you should be busy with your job, life, friends, other girls. Why does this girl all of a sudden trump everything? I mean for gods sake you talked to this girl for 5 minutes, she didn't even text you back and you're writing a reddit post on how to get her. Also as I said as to why to wait let me ask you a question. If you had 2 girls who you met, they took your phone number. One called that day and the other one called 3 days later. Idc…	/r/seduction	02/06/21 01:17 AM
1	Decided not to pull on the first date - having regrets A few things bro. One, good job for meeting a girl cold approach. Second, what is the rush to have sex with her? Women's feelings develop much slower than men. She probably wasn't ready bro let it go. You should have gone for the kiss though. Also if you make plans to hang out again during your actual date it makes you look needy as hell. In her eyes "wow he likes me way more than I like him. I can have my way with him now I won't respect him." There is no curiosity my man. Women NEED to wonder …	/r/seduction	02/06/21 12:53 AM
4	When to call girl after texting? A few things. Why are you not making a date on the spot? If you have the confidence to cold approach you should follow through with a date on the spot or plan one. She will be much less likely to break it. If you don't want to risk that kind of rejection to your face then yes get her number. I would not call her for 3 days. Women need to wonder about you bro. As for your case, you already texted her. She has your number and she did not reply. Why do you want anything to do with someone who doesn…	/r/seduction	02/06/21 12:47 AM
2	How do you work on yourself to be more attractive? I'm not saying this is easy bro. But the key is learn how to challenge and grow without being so hard on yourself. Stop being a coach to yourself. How would you talk to your best friend who came to you with your problems? Would you shit on them and tell them just to get better? of course not you would be extremely friendly and nice to them. Make them feel better. Start learning to talk to yourself like this. You will have to catch yourself when you start being all hard on yourself and replace it…	/r/seduction	01/06/21 10:53 PM
3	How to make a hiking date good? I don't like to go on hiking dates until she is my girlfriend. The early stages I aim to increase the seductiveness of the date. There is no seductiveness or sexual anticipation in a hike. Go somewhere in the evening. Intimate, a place you can look into her eyes. The eyes are the key to it all bro.	/r/seduction	01/06/21 10:23 PM
2	How do you work on yourself to be more attractive? Literally anywhere. They key is to make it places you genuinely enjoy going to or are apart of your normal life. Grocery stores, gyms, bars etc... If you don't like going to bars then don't go to bars. It took me many years to get this mentality, but if you go out to places just to meet women it will make it much more challenging to be natural and normal which will lead to a lot more failure.	/r/seduction	01/06/21 10:16 PM
4	Guys - how did you go in for the kiss on your date? Yes, as I stated above people (women included) need to feel a certain level of safe and attraction.	/r/seduction	01/06/21 10:13 PM
2	How do you work on yourself to be more attractive? Hey what's up bro. I have some really good insight on this that has helped me along my journey. First and foremost.. Attraction is not a choice. Either a person or woman is attracted to you or they aren't. I guarantee that how you look right now, there are women out there attracted to you. The key is just putting yourself out in your life and recognizing the sings (the hard part). Don't go out to do cold approaches or that other stuff with expectations of getting laid a lot. Trust me, I have don…	/r/seduction	01/06/21 02:51 AM
1	Dealing with a negative girl The question I would have for you is why do you even want to talk to someone who is negative or does not have a high level of interest in you? People who value themselves do not do this. Cold truth, but it comes from love my man.	/r/seduction	01/06/21 12:17 AM
0	Is it okay for a 21 yo to date an almost 18yo? Honest opinion.. I'll make this easy for you. Forget everything else just answer these questions. Do you like each other? Is she attractive to you? If both are these yes, then date her.	/r/seduction	01/06/21 12:14 AM
2	Book recommendations How to be a 3% man by corey wayne. Legendary stuff	/r/seduction	31/05/21 11:46 PM
4	What would be the perfect (or more like, next to perfect) way to initiate a conversation with a really really good looking girl when even she knows that she's the center of attraction? Socialize throughout the party. When you guys are next to each other look at her and say "you are absolutely stunning (or another genuine compliment (emphasis on genuine)). Then walk away and continue about your business. If she wants to talk to you she will come back up to you. Continue to do this with all the girls (not the same compliment obviously, but break the ice). finally find a nice place to chill and let people come to you. no manipulation or bs, I only want to talk to people who genui…	/r/seduction	31/05/21 11:44 PM
1	How to respond? My question is why are you having this conversation over text lol? Texting should not be for talking, it's for setting dates and logistics. You can't make a sell over the phone as well as in person g. As far as the response, I would send her your address with a "Soo naughty ;). Well I just made dinner and need a bottle of wine (or beer or whatever) mind bringing it over?"	/r/seduction	31/05/21 10:48 PM
25	Guys - how did you go in for the kiss on your date? Easy bro. Women need to feel a certain level of safe and attraction before they will kiss you. Just hang back and focus on having fun and making her laugh (key). Pay attention to her bod language, she will start to lean in, her leg may touch hers. Pay attention to her eyes, move your eyes from her eyes to her lips while she is talking over the course of 10 seconds. If her eyes meet your lips at all go for it. If it does not happen by the end of the first date walk her to her car. walk her to her…	/r/seduction	31/05/21 10:38 PM
2	Going out solo to clubs is awkward as hell I'm assuming you texted her that night or the next day after getting her number. This takes away all the mystery and woman are attracted to mystery. Don't believe me? Well she probably has 6 other dudes doing what you did (I grew up with a sister that gets a lot of attention from guys). If you had been the one not text her she would have gone "Why hasn't he called me? (assuming she had high interest). What gives something value... SCARCITY. Contrary to popular belief... women NEED to wonder abou…	/r/seduction	31/05/21 10:30 PM