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5

A kiss is not a contract Don't make a big deal of it. Take it as a sign of interest and keep seducing her.
/r/seduction05/04/13 04:39 AM
1

Report back solider!
/r/seduction04/04/13 12:19 AM
2

Its a fine line between rejection and shit test sometimes. This situation is much different to "Hold my handbag while I go dance" or "are you a player?". Don't beat yourself up over it.
/r/seduction12/03/13 06:42 AM
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I was expecting that to be a spam article, but its actually a really good start/summary. Nice find! EDIT: Much better than the "How to seduce a man" article which includes great advice like: Give him pomegranate juice, wear a red dress, and dont worry too much about your appearance! EDIT2: I'm not interested in seducing men... just getting intel from behind enemy lines ;)
/r/seduction12/03/13 05:08 AM
3

Congratulations on cock blocking some guy. She already told you she wanted to. Not everything needs to be about game and seduction. Sometimes 2 people just want to fuck, It doesnt need to be complicated.
/r/seduction12/03/13 04:40 AM
7

This is ridiculous! Moving is not the answer! If you want to improve your social skills and get better with women, go traveling. Back pack around asia or something. You'll meet tons of people. Also remember girls in your area is not "shitting where you sleep". 99% of people you will never see again ever.
/r/seduction11/03/13 11:37 PM
15

This is a great post. Not using your phone is obvious, but you gave awesome practical advice too. HARD MODE: Go out without your phone. I did this once by accident (forgot it), but it worked out great. Good conversation topic, and when you ask for the number you tell her that you forgot your phone, steal hers, put your number in, then text yourself "hey sexy, this is [HB] from [Bar]".
/r/seduction11/03/13 11:31 PM
2

It just doesn't matter. It can't be changed so forget about it.
/r/seduction04/03/13 04:27 AM
1

I've got it good. My housemate is the king of naturals so he gives good advice, but we can still go out and have a normal fun night without any PUA lingo.
/r/seduction17/01/13 11:33 AM
11

Don't beat yourself up too much. I would feel and do exactly the same thing in your shoes. It was a mistake that you'll definitely try not to make again! "Always leave them better than you found them" should be stressed more in pickup material. Breaking hearts and hurting feelings is the worst thing about game :/
/r/seduction17/01/13 11:28 AM
1

You're very negative. Don't worry so much about the big picture and what other people are doing on seddit. Focus on the smaller goals and improving yourself.
/r/seduction17/01/13 10:03 AM
1

Random sex is not easy... yet You just got out of a relationship, don't stress and avoid getting hung up on random girls. If you seek out this 1 girl it'll seem desperate. Just keep going out and doing your thing
/r/seduction16/01/13 04:46 AM
1

If you can keep up 1 approach day like this, you will have more girls than you know what to do with!
/r/seduction16/01/13 02:12 AM
1

I'll text right after getting the number (so she has mine) then ask her out somewhere casual couple of days later. I don't like the blanket rule of "no text banter". I think it helps and with the right girl, especially if your initial interaction was really short.
/r/seduction16/01/13 02:10 AM
1

Forget about her, easy come easy go. There plenty more where that came from so don't go out of your way to find her.
/r/seduction16/01/13 02:05 AM
10

Don't be so hard on yourself, looks good to me. Try getting her to come out and meet you 1 on 1 for drinks/dancing/sex, otherwise just casually hit her up next time you're going out. Love this opener: Hey, so do you have a job? I need a woman who can support me while I played video games all day. That could work well at a bar too...
/r/seduction16/01/13 12:31 AM
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Telling her in the text that you were going to kiss her was a really good move, because otherwise it could easily interpreted as 'friends'. Without that its unlikely anything would have happened too, because honestly she initiated it :) And yeah no harm in going for the kiss way way earlier when you're out and having a great time. Way to drag it out at the end too! I would have kissed her as soon as she asked if I was serious...
/r/seduction14/01/13 02:03 AM
1

Do what YOU want man. If you are just maintaining facebook to impress girls and give the impression that you're someone else, then it's not worth it. Give less fucks and actually do interesting things, then facebook will reflect that...
/r/seduction14/01/13 12:03 AM
5

Awesome man. People need to keep posting these for PUA haters to read.
/r/seduction13/01/13 11:48 PM
3

Never underestimate the power of a shit-eating grin! Nice going! Next time get her number. When you're done reminiscing about old memories with your mates, it's time to make new memories. Nothing like some fun girl stories (be it successes or rejections!) to talk about for the following week.
/r/seduction13/01/13 11:44 PM
1

You make a connection by NOT walking away as soon as you get the number. Talk, joke, find things/opinions you have in common. Unfortunately a quality girl has has no shortage of options when it comes to men, so the kind of interaction in that article just wont cut it.
/r/seduction13/01/13 11:39 PM
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You have to build up to it. She was definitely ready for a kiss. Make out for a bit, don't wait till the end of the night, keep her wanting more and gradually get more intimate as the night goes on. Asking her to your room out of the blue is not smooth at all. It should be the next natural progression after making out and getting touchy feely.
/r/seduction13/01/13 03:26 PM
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I know from my own experiences that what you say doesn't matter, but it still stops me approaching when I cant think of something. I'm going to try using "Hi" as a fallback so I have no excuses. After the first open I'm usually fine but otherwise you could just say "What are you up to today?" as a worst case fall back... NO EXCUSES!
/r/seduction13/01/13 03:15 PM
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I find that this wont actually get you dates. If your time with her is short and unremarkable, then she's not going to know what a cool and awesome guy you are and A. wont be attracted B. wont be bothered going on a date unless she's desperate. You can get make outs and numbers in 30 seconds at a club, but unless you stick around and make a connection they'll rarely even reply to a text. That said, I'm all for this as a way to practice and get better at approaching.
/r/seduction13/01/13 03:08 PM
2

Do the handshake, but make it gentle and slow and hold her hand for a fraction longer than normal. It's easy kino!
/r/seduction13/01/13 03:04 PM
2

Take both her hands and spin her around while holding on to them, and dragging her towards you. She'll end up with her back against you, and both your arms around her. It always catches them off-guard, and they love the surprise. Do just a second of seductive dancing/grinding when she's there, and then reverse the motion to push her back out in front of you. It's important that it doesn't take too long, else she will start to feel trapped, and you don't want that. This right here is gold. A well…
/r/seduction13/01/13 03:00 PM
2

In hindsight, you could do this even if you didn't leave your phone at home to mix things up a bit... Pretty standard procedure: Get her to put the number in my phone with the name, then take it and add a descriptive last name like "cute fashionista" or something funny/relevant. After parting ways, I'll text her with something relevant (ideally) and sign off with my name and an "x". If I'm lazy/drunk/uncreative a simple "Great meeting you, lets hang out again soon! x" text will do. Then if I lik…
/r/seduction13/01/13 02:49 PM
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Sharing headphones is a great lead up to a kiss ;) A kiss with a seductive soundtrack...
/r/seduction13/01/13 07:13 AM
3

I left my phone at home by accident one night and it turned out really well. It was a good conversation topic to joke about (saying how felt naked, couldn't get cute girls numbers, etc) and I'd just tell girls "give me your phone, I have to give you my number since I don't have mine". I'd put the number in and send myself a text like "hey sexy ;)" as a joke. It was a bit of fun and good to do something different.
/r/seduction13/01/13 03:45 AM
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Super small house party with some old friends. No new girls or potential make outs. At midnight, send a simple "X!" text to a girl I met a few weeks ago and had one date. She had also tried to booty call me drunk a few nights earlier but her friend cock blocked by taking the phone. She replies "come over" and sends the address saying she wants to cuddle but logistics wont allow it. Next day we text a bit and I try again for date #2 and she stops replying. NEXT!
/r/seduction02/01/13 11:43 PM
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Solid advice. When you become more confident and give less fucks, that rule of thumb still applies.
/r/seduction28/12/12 03:29 AM
2

The "nothing to lose" mindset has done wonders for me lately...
/r/seduction28/12/12 03:16 AM
9

Say "hi" to everyone when you are walking around your neighborhood. This is super low pressure and doesn't need ANY conversation afterwards. If you're walking the dog or something and pass another person, just nod and say "hi" or "good morning" and smile. That's the smallest, simplest thing I do to get the ball rolling...
/r/seduction28/12/12 03:11 AM
1

The Apocalypse Opener is about as direct and high risk/high reward as it gets. I'm yet to try it though...
/r/seduction18/12/12 02:51 PM
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If you're talking like that, you've reinvented yourself wrong. If you truly have the confidence and ease with women, you probably wont even want this girl.
/r/seduction18/12/12 02:48 PM
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I think "NEXTing" is just a mindset to forget about her and move on, like if you've asked her out a few times and she's flaked or said no. You don't need to delete her number unless you're getting hung up on her.
/r/seduction18/12/12 02:43 PM
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Warm up by talking to cashiers and shop attendants. Just ask if they've had a busy day, smile, talk about how crazy christmas time is at the mall etc. Also ask random guys/girls if they know where a certain shop is. It just gets you in a talkative mood and relaxed.
/r/seduction18/12/12 02:39 PM
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It doesn't really matter if he does, because he'll learn what NOT to do next time.
/r/seduction18/12/12 02:36 PM
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I used to be super strict on this, and I think its a great habit/mindset to get into when you're starting out. Now that I'm way more confident and have the voice and body language to match I don't think it matters quite as much. Good tip on the subtle way of saying she looks good, will be using that fo sho.
/r/seduction18/12/12 02:32 PM
10

Reverse a car with a trailer.
/r/seduction18/12/12 02:18 PM
1

When I'm in good form, I don't give a fuck what other dudes are doing. Comparing yourself to them or showing that you've analyzed it is a bit lame, but you might be able to pull it off as a conversation starter in a fun way.
/r/seduction17/12/12 03:15 PM
1

I have been to a lot of professional type events from meetup.com, but what kind do you go to for socializing?
/r/seduction17/12/12 06:34 AM
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I try and do this every time I go out, asking a bunch of different people where a certain bar is (even though I know)
/r/seduction17/12/12 04:13 AM
4

Breaking hearts and hurting feelings is the worst part of pickup.
/r/seduction16/12/12 01:32 PM
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Blatant repost from the other day: If she's one in a million, there's 37 more like her in California Too lazy to find source or actual numbers, but you get the jist!
/r/seduction16/12/12 01:22 PM
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I was at a bar/club that had 5 or so police come in. Not for anything special, just checking for troublemakers I guess. They stood around watching the dance floor for 5 minutes and wandered out. On their way out I spoke to one of the hot young cops. Not trying to pick her up, just something casual, but it does give you a massive boost of confidence. I figure if you can casually open a cop there's no reason to be anxious about talking to random HBs...
/r/seduction16/12/12 01:14 PM
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Way easier and better with a few drinks, but slowly cutting back. I don't get wasted but a few beers and a buzz really helps. I don't like holding a drink when I'm dancing or in a crowd so that prevents me from getting smashed.
/r/seduction16/12/12 05:02 AM
2

You say you've been trying really hard (Meditation, hobbies, approaching, etc.) but have you been approaching? I've been sitting on my ass doing everything BUT approaching for ages, but as soon as I started having the balls to get out there, everything changed very quickly.
/r/seduction12/12/12 11:42 PM
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Meanwhile in another female pickup forum, this girl is writing an FR saying "If you change your mind at the last minute, just tell him you love him..." Edit: Stellar FR by the way, the only part I don't believe is the months-long dry spell ;)
/r/seduction12/12/12 11:31 PM
2

There may be some subtle 'test' from time to time in relationships but this is not one of them. Doing favors (even big ones) is fine because she should be doing them for you too. It's part of sharing your time with someone and letting them into your life.
/r/seduction11/12/12 12:16 AM
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"You miss 100% of shots you don't take" as my phone reminds me every friday night.
/r/seduction09/12/12 05:38 AM
2

The approach is killer. I'm going to try repeating those thoughts right before I approach. It's crazy that it can still be so difficult, even though I have tons of positive experiences and I'm fine once we start talking. I've never had a rejection that made me feel bad yet I still cant approach easily!
/r/seduction09/12/12 05:38 AM
2

Agreed, I think I'm doing the same thing.
/r/seduction09/12/12 05:35 AM
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Why is that? (serious question)
/r/seduction08/12/12 03:25 AM
1

This is a not a good idea. Just get some of your friends into it, or make new friends with other cool guys. It's not rocket science, you just need someone to party with.
/r/seduction07/12/12 09:35 AM
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play it by feel Exactly. Can't use a blanket rule, except maybe at a club. I'll never buy a random chick a drink straight out, but if we're hanging out and she's cool then I'll pay, just like I would for one of my mates. If she explicitly asks me to pay then she can GTFO.
/r/seduction06/12/12 02:26 AM
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Most people have been there man. You can still be friends/friendly, but you need to stop being so available to her and stop thinking about her and pursue other girls. Sure she'll always be there, but hide her on facebook, dont message her (reply, sure, but dont initiate any bullshit). Work on meeting new women and she'll fade out of your mind. When you have your shit together and some more experience she might even show interest. The funny thing is that if you have truly grown, you probably wont…
/r/seduction06/12/12 02:20 AM
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I used to fall into this trap. Conversation is easy but it's boring. You just ask questions, bring up new topics, and it keeps going. Take everything less seriously and joke around more. I wouldn't say I'm good at flirting, but if you can at least be light hearted and joke about everything (including sex), then it'll be much more fun and the 'flirty' stuff will come more naturally. All you need to do is take a normal conversation but go off on tangents when there's something to joke about.
/r/seduction06/12/12 12:29 AM
2

I am in exactly your position! I'll have a good run of girls to date/text/whatever but as soon as it stops, even for a short time, I worry about losing momentum and think that I HAVE to go out and get more numbers etc. It's definitely not healthy to use girls for validation or fulfillment, but I think it comes from being too invested in "pickup". If you're always thinking about it and reading about it, then you'll think something is wrong when there's a drought (even a short one!). I think its b…
/r/seduction06/12/12 12:21 AM
1

Yeah you cant use a blanket rule. I'm usually a minimal texter but some girls are really receptive to it. Just don't try and get too tricky because a text can be easily misunderstood. It really helps if she is sends more and replies faster than you.
/r/seduction05/12/12 01:28 AM
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Dont let the reply time mess with your head too much. Shes busy, just as you should be. If you ask her out a few times without luck then shes probably not interested.
/r/seduction04/12/12 05:23 AM
1

You'll get better at this with experience. After you put a few girls on a pedestal and then later find out that they're not all that great, you'll learn to stop doing it as much.
/r/seduction03/12/12 02:25 AM
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Doesn't have to be awkward or weak, just be casual. "Hey man nice to meet you, I was just trying to chat up your girlfriend. Didnt realize she was taken but dont worry, she would have a bar of it - She's a keeper ;)" Makes her look good, makes you look good, makes him feel good. Everyone's a winner.
/r/seduction03/12/12 01:54 AM
1

Spend that money on a holiday to a cheap backpacking/party country, like Thailand. You'll have tons of fun, and force yourself to meet people (its much easier when travelling). Then when you get home home keep meeting people and maintain momentum!
/r/seduction03/12/12 01:47 AM
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That was incredibly painful, but I was surprised at the reactions (not that bad)
/r/seduction29/11/12 10:41 AM
3

I remember an FR on here from hurricane sandy, didn't sound too hard!
/r/seduction29/11/12 10:32 AM
5

Fuck it, make day 2 a movie at your place or something. What have you got planned?
/r/seduction29/11/12 10:30 AM
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Sounds pretty successful! Make sure logistics are sorted on day 2 ;) Definitely agree with the kino straight away. Greet her with a hug and maybe kiss. Love the make out details, so easy to escalate from there (like you did).
/r/seduction29/11/12 10:30 AM
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Say something relevant about the interaction you had like "Hey, was great meeting you yesterday, did you find [that thing you were shopping for]? -Myname" I was contemplating this last night, phone in hand, ready to write, then she text me first in that same instant. Boom! About long/short text conversations, I normally keep it to a minimum because you don't know their personality and text can be easily misinterpreted. However, this chick im texting now replies instantly to every message, even i…
/r/seduction29/11/12 10:11 AM
1

I love the instant make out! It's pretty easy to turn these into a lay BUT be warned - if you actually want to ask her out later it's best to talk a bit more and make a connection. If all you've done is drunkenly make out on the dance floor then she wont know what an awesome person you are and will often flake on other plans.
/r/seduction28/11/12 11:40 PM
1

Agree with you here. I was going to write some FRs but decided it wasn't really 'seduction'. I have to admit that now I'm able to get laid pretty easily by a girl that's just DTF, it has taken the pressure off and changed my mindset.
/r/seduction28/11/12 11:35 PM
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I think with FRs people want to know less about what happened and more about how it happened. For example: It went great with the opener(situational) but went south as the AMOG got weary. That's what happened, how what was the opener? What was the situation? What did AMOG do? I'm also trying to help out a willing friend, but he is the real "hard case". Lots of social anxiety etc. Forget talking to everyone, him talking to anyone would be a huge achievement! He's also a big hater when it comes to…
/r/seduction27/11/12 01:45 AM
1

"Funny" shirts are a bit cheesy, but I have a couple of tees with cool designs that get a LOT of comments. I only have 2 shirts like that and they're wearing out, but that would probably be a better option.
/r/seduction22/11/12 11:51 PM
2

I think you know the answer to this.
/r/seduction19/11/12 02:24 PM
2

Nah fuck that, drink! After a couple of beers I become the person that I want to be all the time. It gives you good reference experiences and you'll have all these good memories of when you did something confidently and how it panned out. I've reduced how much I drink when I go out (don't get wasted, but still love a few beers). It only becomes and issue in the long term if you can't get any results without it. Also don't drink if you become a douchenozzle when you're drunk.
/r/seduction19/11/12 02:10 PM
1

It gets easier but won't go away! It's hard, embrace it! What helps me is warming up. EXAMPLE: If I'm going out and have been home all day, I'll walk to the train and say hi to anyone I pass. Not a conversation, just a smile + nod + friendly "Hi". Next I'll talk to anyone at the train station "Do you know when the next train is?" etc. Once I've arrived, sometimes I'll ask people/groups/guys/girls where the bar im going is like I've never been there. Ask several people along the way. After arrivi…
/r/seduction19/11/12 02:05 PM
5

I cant dance for shit but if it's a really 'on' night and i'm having an awesome time dancing, I'll sometimes point at a girl on the edge and motion for her to come over, or if she makes eye contact just smile and grab her hand and pull her in lightly. This would probably only work if you're already having an awesome time and are in state. It she doesn't dig it she'll let go, and you can shrug it off and keep dancing, but if you pick the girl right she'll normally be up for a dance. This is all w…
/r/seduction19/11/12 09:24 AM
1

Where did you get her number?
/r/seduction16/11/12 03:40 AM
3

Thats the issue with text, really hard to make jokes/be witty unless you know her personality and she knows yours...
/r/seduction16/11/12 03:38 AM
2

Try and joke around with people and have a fun conversation. If your conversations are like a Q&A it gets old pretty quick.
/r/seduction15/11/12 02:27 PM
1

It's exactly this. Like learning the guitar and sucking at it constantly, you love motivation. I remember my first ever daytime cold approach that ended in an awkward number close. I was fucking bulletproof for the rest of the day. Never felt so good in my life.
/r/seduction15/11/12 02:25 PM
1

Sounds fine man, forget about losing momentum. Just remember the rush at that "fuck it" moment when you approached the first 2 girls.
/r/seduction15/11/12 02:20 PM
2

I couldnt finish reading it because of the grey text on grey background ಠ_ಠ
/r/seduction15/11/12 04:49 AM
1

I noticed the other day that my /r/seduction account is 2 years old and was kind of let down by my progress... BUT... the last couple of months have been ridiculous for me. If it 'clicks' for you like it did for me, you will look back and laugh. I've done more in the last 2 months than I have in the last 2 years. Do whatever it takes to get that breakthrough and it will probably be the most satisfying/rewarding thing you've done. Keep at it!
/r/seduction13/11/12 02:27 PM
2

Do they teach you much at improv or do you just get thrown in the deep end?
/r/seduction13/11/12 09:07 AM
2

Same here. I used to only dance like an idiot when I was REALLY drunk, now I've progressed enough to dance like and idiot when I'm only MODERATELY drunk. Makes for some really good nights and easy make outs.
/r/seduction13/11/12 08:05 AM
3

Also how does one approach a girl who's listing to music minding her own business? "Hey... What are you listening to?" Edit: She'll say "The Smiths" or whatever, then you've got something to talk about. When that runs out ask and name and see what shes up to today. As always, you can go direct and tell her she's cute and you just had to talk to her.
/r/seduction13/11/12 07:24 AM
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Stop thinking about her and continue seducing other girls. When you do eventually see her again randomly, don't hesitate for a second to talk to her and get her number.
/r/seduction13/11/12 07:17 AM
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Just add a winky face so she knows you're joking, bitches love winky faces ;)
/r/seduction13/11/12 02:02 AM
3

Fuck yeah, spot on. It's not worth dwelling on unless this happens 100 times in a row. It's just one chick and you cant get em all. Sounds like OP aced it so don't worry. Upvote for Jay Z! "I've got a million ways to get it..."
/r/seduction09/11/12 06:35 AM
2

That situation would be pretty overwhelming, but for a confident person there is no better scenario that a room full of girls talking about sexy stuff. Sounds like a dream! Just have fun and joke around too. Embrace it! Learn something new about bras. Jokingly ask if they'd think a guy was a slut if they could undo their bra one handed, or get them to teach you! Sounds like fun to me...
/r/seduction09/11/12 06:29 AM
4

The only way is to do chat her up and get the number before she gives her information for work. DO NOT take the number without asking. Not only is it creepy but it might get you fired.
/r/seduction09/11/12 06:18 AM
2

I was going to ask this question yesterday! Good ideas. I'd go for one of the more 'fun' ones. Cold sales calls would be OK but something like bar tending or mall kiosk would be more fun and casual.
/r/seduction09/11/12 12:51 AM
2

Wait... there are times that drunken cuddling DOESN'T lead to sex?!
/r/seduction08/11/12 04:18 AM
2

Turns out you weren't going to follow up, so her instincts were right.
/r/seduction08/11/12 04:16 AM
6

Amen to that! Being disinterested with a few HB9s does wonders for the confidence as well
/r/seduction08/11/12 03:47 AM
3

Just checked your last post and I remember reading it a month ago. Seems like you're killin it! How are your dates going?
/r/seduction08/11/12 03:30 AM
11

I just set that quote as a reminder in my phone for 10pm on friday
/r/seduction08/11/12 12:41 AM
6

Love the first text. Would love to see more examples like that for inspiration. Waiting till 5:30 was a nice touch too, I like your style. Get typing on that coffee date FR!!
/r/seduction07/11/12 11:14 PM
1

Agreed! Upvotes all 'round!
/r/seduction07/11/12 02:00 AM
1

Good tips, and of course she just may not be interested. I know if I'm not keen on a girl, it's a drag to reply and I'll take a while. I met and slept with a girl on the weekend, exchanged a couple of messages and now she has essentially stopped replying. I'll still hit her up later in the week, but you can't be taking it personally every time if they dont reply (or take a while)...
/r/seduction06/11/12 02:42 PM
3

The more time you spend with her/more attraction you build the better her response will be generally. I've got tons of numbers after making out on the dancefloor and barely exchanging words, but they flake way more than someone you've had a decent chat with. Probably because they don't know what an awesome guy you are yet...
/r/seduction06/11/12 06:24 AM
1

Ah high school... If I started reading seddit at 16 I'd be a god with women by now. Don't worry about it until it's an issue (goes for everything in life). She hasn't even replied yet. Besides you've already made the deal with your friend - game on! Just dont get butt hurt if he gets there first, give him a high five.
/r/seduction06/11/12 06:21 AM
2

You know, this line would be good right after you get her number. While she's still standing there, call her, then use that line. Hell, I'd say it out loud even if she hung up.
/r/seduction06/11/12 06:14 AM
1

This would work simply because you're making your intentions clear, you could say anything, but I don't think it would be as effective on really hot girls that get hit on all the time. It feels kind beta. I don't ask about the boyfriend, it just gives her an out. Don't ask if you can call, tell her you're going to call etc. It's subtle, but I reckon that stronger/alpha mindset would do wonders for your % ;)
/r/seduction06/11/12 05:54 AM
3

Same. I'm not sorry so why would I say it?
/r/seduction06/11/12 05:41 AM
10

Another one of my favs: http://www.brotips.com/93
/r/seduction06/11/12 05:34 AM
1

That was my first and only thought, but this thread is full of brilliant answers!
/r/seduction05/11/12 11:59 PM
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Nice use of the bold 'lessons', that should become standard! Sounds like an awesome night. The whole 'smoking' thing doesn't have to go down like that though. You said you don't normally smoke, don't let a girl change that!
/r/seduction04/11/12 06:42 AM
1

Smile and go over to her. "You can't look at me like that and not say hi! I'm Nny7229..." or something like that
/r/seduction25/09/12 10:32 AM
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I saw a girl smiling this morning and should have said "Hey you look really happy, having a good day?" Being told you look happy is a pretty great compliment, and she's already in a good mood so she could be up for a chat.
/r/seduction24/09/12 04:31 AM
2

Don't put so much pressure on every little interaction. You're just saying "Hi" and having a chat. Maybe she's up for it, maybe not. She's not going to be any worse off, and either are you...
/r/seduction13/09/12 04:59 AM
9

Everyone wants the easy way out. I wish there was a pill to get a set of killer abs, but there's not. If it was easy then everyone would do it. Like you I've been reading way too much and not doing enough. Just yesterday I made my first real challenging cold approach and I feel like a changed man. 10 seconds of real interaction will get you further than 100 hours on seddit. Just start super small. Use one of your 86,400 seconds to say good morning to an old lady doing her gardening when you're o…
/r/seduction13/09/12 04:54 AM
1

Same in my family, so I see where you're coming from. But you dont become an alcoholic just from drinking. It's a way of trying trying to deal with bigger problems like depression etc. I drink and I don't think there's anything wrong with it if you're doing it from a fun and social place. I have my own "rules", like not drinking alone or to make myself feel better. You're obviously aware of it, so just try and keep your wits about you. That said, there's tons of pickup guys that don't drink, so …
/r/seduction01/09/12 03:48 AM
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This is the sort of shit I went through which lead me to find seddit in the first place. Unfortunately she's just not keen man. You've got to take the hit move on. You had some game and got her interested, but you can't force these things in the long term. If she didn't feel the connection then don't take it personally. Get on with your own life and forget about her with time. You don't need to make it awkward, yeah it's tough to see her at the wedding etc but just be friendly and keep focus on …
/r/seduction01/09/12 03:39 AM
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As a guy with a hot girlfriend that goes out without me, I think your point still stands. They are still insecure and want to get dressed up, drink and have fun with the girls, all while getting lots of attention from guys to make them feel good. I don't think there's anything wrong with that, but it takes every ounce of effort not to become a needy/jealous/beta/bitch when she does it. If you're with a girl, you cant say you wouldn't like to just go hang with the guys occasionally too...
/r/seduction01/09/12 03:17 AM
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Black Keys [/thread]
/r/seduction30/08/12 12:03 PM
1

This is white knight bullshit. Women like sex too. Im_a_rapist ಠ_ಠ
/r/seduction18/01/12 02:14 AM
1

This would be good if you're out with a friend that also has AA. It encourages you to match or better the other persons number of approaches.
/r/seduction18/01/12 02:07 AM
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Upvote for tl;dr!
/r/seduction18/01/12 01:44 AM
1

Try not to make any judgments before you meet her. I don't like the idea of a forced date, but I'm all for meeting friends of friends. Just do a group outing with your mutual friend and a bunch of people, introduce yourself, if you hit it off then keep working your magic.
/r/seduction12/01/12 04:31 AM
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The reason he's nailing it with the girls is because he THINKS they're down to fuck. Every single time I've closed it's because I know that she is keen. Whether she actually is or not is another story, but when I act like it's a done deal it always turns out well. It's not the girls behavior, it's his.
/r/seduction12/01/12 01:40 AM
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That's fair enough, but instead of "that's cool", a more fun/alpha response would be "I've known you 5 minutes and you're already telling me your problems?!" (taken from the 'shit tests' sidebar link)
/r/seduction12/01/12 01:28 AM
9

I like this one. Follow up with "Does yours let you talk to people without permission?"
/r/seduction12/01/12 01:25 AM
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Excatly man, you've got some good points. Now we've got a decent thread with some different points of view for people to consider, instead of a big circlejerk.
/r/seduction06/01/12 01:41 AM
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It's absolutely possible. I'm not normally the hater and my inner game is fine, I just wanted to restore some balance the 50 comments along the lines of "omg you're a boss, best FR I've read". Real or not, it doesnt effect me in the slightest. It's the new guys that worship posts like this and treat it like gospel. To those people: just keep a level head. Consider the things you read and who says them.
/r/seduction06/01/12 01:24 AM
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or some very creative writing... It just reads like a fantasy. Dude in his late 30s fingering a smokin young HB he just met on a plane?! Some of these comments make me cringe. Kudos if it's true but for any new guys are reading, this is not reality.
/r/seduction06/01/12 12:08 AM
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http://imgur.com/Nk9sj
/r/seduction02/01/12 03:54 AM
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Don't shit where you eat... Just kidding, you're in university - fuck. Everything.
/r/seduction21/09/11 01:12 PM
1

But in this particular philosophy, marriage is like getting the boulder to the top of the hill. All this gaming we do is rolling boulders to get them to the top of the hill. "Your options are get pissed when they roll back down, or chill out and not let it bother you." I know it's over-simplified, but at least it's thought provoking!
/r/seduction22/08/11 09:13 AM
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I'd do the same thing if it was my sister. No need for subtlety when it comes to cock blocking family ;)
/r/seduction08/07/11 04:23 AM
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Reply was: "Probably not, she was very drunk and has a boyfriend. Sorry!!" Case closed!
/r/seduction28/03/11 12:01 AM
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Yep thats the one. I didn't include the name unfortunately but I'll find a way to work it in later if she replies. Next time I'll be texting straight after I think
/r/seduction27/03/11 04:55 PM
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That would have been a good move, just so she's got my number. Given how keen she was, there's no need to try and be overly witty.
/r/seduction27/03/11 04:33 PM
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Good tips on kino. Asking wasn't totally out of the blue, it was like you said - we were talking about local bands/bars and she's heard of my favorite venue but never been there, so I told her to give me her number and i'll let her know next time there's an awesome gig on. Just sent her a variation of the top comment here which is perfect: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/fnh86/whats_a_good_text_opener_if_she_doesnt_know_my/
/r/seduction27/03/11 04:31 PM
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Wasn't too obvious. Got sick of waiting for the close so I got the number half way though. I'm thinking a playful text is in order tonight, since I can't set up a date for a few days. I was waiting for the end to number close, but it was taking too long so fuck it, just went for it half way though. I got a small laugh and no resistance. It wasn't smooth, but hey, it was effective.
/r/seduction27/03/11 10:53 AM
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|at several points she talked down her boob size My response is normally "Any more than a handful and you're just being greedy ;)" Gets a laugh and gives you an excuse to double check with your hand.
/r/seduction24/01/11 02:18 PM
1

Man sounds like you would have been sorted if you could isolate at the end of the night. Might need to talk to your mate so he's a bit more perceptive to what's going on.
/r/seduction23/01/11 04:29 AM
1

I go out a fair bit, but I've always just hung with friends and never gone out of my comfort zone. This was the first proper night out armed with all the new found knowledge from seddit. I regretted posting this FR because there wasn't much technique for others to learn from. Seriously, no opening, no dialogue and the only kino was on the d-floor. The main thing is that I fell into a lucky situation with a keen HB, but made the most of it by being confident! Definitely drank too much. I need to …
/r/seduction23/01/11 04:18 AM
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Cheers! I posted this when I got home regretted it in the morning. Thanks for the surprising positive response. Dancing is just confidence really, I'll get there eventually :P
/r/seduction23/01/11 04:05 AM
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It's not going to work. Not with that attitude...
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