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Trial and error, trial and error... if you work within your bounds, you'll continuously be in your bounds. If you challenge yourself, take risk, and stop OUTSIDE those bounds, you'll see action. I would suggest you do an exercise: imagine yourself doing something--completely, entirely, like it's happening--then go out and try to do the thing. Visualization, I guess you would call it. You'll be shocked at how it makes doing the thing that much easier. Try doing it for something small. See how it …
/r/seduction09/11/13 02:56 AM
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I would highly recommend How To Win Friends first. Haven't read the second two, but the fact remains: if you can make people like you, you'll have success in life; not only that, you'll enjoy being nice right back! It's a book that, in my opinion, should be mandatory for high school.
/r/seduction09/11/13 02:53 AM
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Don't tell people how to dress.
/r/seduction28/11/12 04:17 AM
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Well, speaking of the devil... smirk, obviously
/r/seduction19/11/12 04:11 AM
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I needed this comment, and I needed the post. Although I wouldn't classify myself as an introvert, I do find myself doing mundane things and going out late nights just to snag some tail. It becomes tiring and outcome-dependent (since I go out to talk to women, my goal is to find women, and I stray from outcome-independence). Great reminder of what's important. Thanks again.
/r/seduction24/09/12 11:53 PM
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This is awesome. I think something motivational should be posted every Thurs/Fri/Sat (sure, the hours would be weird. I actually have no idea what I'm talking about). But you know what I'm talking about.
/r/seduction22/07/12 03:49 AM
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Such a cool read--saved it for later. Thanks for writing this, man.
/r/seduction21/07/12 04:52 AM
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don't say you're a pua. that's stupid. you're a guy who's more social and better with women. that's that.
/r/seduction14/07/12 02:00 AM
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The reason why this works is because you're embracing the absurd, the fact that nothing really makes sense. You're doing what society tells you you shouldn't do, and you do it with no fucks given. That'll snap you into place. For me, though, getting wrapped up in philosophy helps. Try absurdism, or existentialism. It'll help you get over all the pussy thoughts that come in your head, and also motivate you to have fun and, as Drake would say, "do you".
/r/seduction14/07/12 01:58 AM
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this man knows his dunk.
/r/seduction21/06/12 05:58 AM
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Your second is to herp the slurp.
/r/seduction20/06/12 07:54 AM
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do what you want.
/r/seduction11/06/12 07:11 AM
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that's my laundry
/r/seduction06/06/12 02:46 AM
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ITT I have no idea what's going on.
/r/seduction17/05/12 04:53 AM
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I only watche about 5 min and you made it look so easy! I love how you talked to the first girl about having a girlfriend, expanding your social circle, and goin on a double date. the whole "social circle" line always seemed so weird in print, but you pulled it off really smoothly. I'll def be watching more videos!
/r/seduction26/04/12 06:07 AM
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it's true. we're all people, people with predispositioned outlooks on life, with different pasts and different outlooks on the future. you're awesome, and you need to remind yourself of that. I need to remind myself of that. We all need to remind ourselves of that.
/r/seduction25/04/12 07:19 AM
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if I've learned one thing today, it's to be completely open, honest, and vulnerable when you feel it. some girls will respond, others won't. it sucks getting rejected, but it sucks more knowing you got rejected because you were trying to play a game. I need to let myself go, let go of expectations and live in the moment. My personality is ENFP, so I often think in terms of the future or the past. The former is unthinkable, and the latter is over. Live in the here and now, and get what you came t…
/r/seduction25/04/12 07:17 AM
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Thanks for all the kind words and the advice, everyone. unfortunately, the girl flaked on my texts, but that's just a better reason to go out and talk to more girls. we only have one life to live, so we better make the best of it... and I feel best when i get that smile, that convo, that # close. never feel defeated, never give up. I love you all.
/r/seduction25/04/12 07:12 AM
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I need that kind of self-assured, outcome independent attitude always. Great post and great reminder.
/r/seduction25/04/12 01:38 AM
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I want to personally thank you for this post. I haven't approached in a while for god knows what reason, but I saw a perfect 10 today working at a store and I just went for it. And you know what? I didn't die. And I got her number. Sure, I was nervous as fuck, but I was on such a high. So thank you.
/r/seduction25/04/12 01:34 AM
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yeah--it would've been more effective if I got it when we were at a high, and it would've been great to couple it with some kino. I was just completely out of state. Next time!
/r/seduction25/04/12 01:27 AM
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that is so, SO true. I've been stressing all day about the perfect message to text her, what to do, etc., and then I had to catch myself--this is just a girl! She's human! And the girl I want to be with will be goofy, fun, and easygoing, so I shouldn't feel so serious about it. I need to just let loose, enjoy some rejection once and awhile, and enjoy the accepted invitations even more!
/r/seduction25/04/12 01:26 AM
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haha, well thanks! to be honest, I wish I was more direct--I wanted to acknowledge my feelings, say something like "You know, I have to be honest--I'm kinda nervous because you're really cute, but I was wondering if you'd like to hang out some time". I think she would've appreciated the honesty. Keep on going out there and talking to girls--if you do it every day, it'll become habit! I need to continue working on it myself.
/r/seduction25/04/12 01:25 AM
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yeah, I should've said that I enjoyed talking to her. I guess I just psyched myself out.
/r/seduction25/04/12 01:23 AM
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haha yeah, it was definitely awkward, but I'm hoping maybe she was just thrown off more than anything. we'll see...if she texts me back, that is.
/r/seduction25/04/12 01:23 AM
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thank you for this.
/r/seduction20/04/12 01:28 AM
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Just turned 22
/r/seduction09/03/12 03:07 AM
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just watched that video, and holy shit, when he talked about the flicking thing, I laughed out loud. that shit is gold! Oh god, and the coolest dad's name game. this is all so good. this is all so fucking good. and the cell phone thing. it's like standup for PUAs! I'm definitely gonna try some of these out. let me know if you find any other videos of 26... I'm having a hard time. and I'll also look into that test--I was also recently dissatisfied with my career, and I'm taking a haitus to figure…
/r/seduction08/03/12 03:15 AM
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Agreed. I see a lot of techniques here that I would never try, just because it's not me. However, I still think it's important to keep an open mind! Everyone should get out of their comfort zone every once in a while, myself included.
/r/seduction06/03/12 05:04 AM
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I just thought of something, too--maybe if you pretend it's hurt, ask her to kiss it to make it feel better. Boom.
/r/seduction06/03/12 04:33 AM
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It's hard for me to judge how much of the awkardness is due to "moving too fast" and how much is due to just not having a great connection. I'm 22, and I've been in a few relationships, and the most important advice I can give you is to date your best friend. Seriously. She should be someone that you can be your absolute, 100% self with. I'm not sure if you're in MS/HS/college, but regardless, you're constantly changing and discovering yourself--let that be what drives you! Focus on yourself and…
/r/seduction06/03/12 04:05 AM
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Get a hair trimmer (the ones that include multiple sized blades). Boom, baby!
/r/seduction06/03/12 03:57 AM
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This is really great. By creating the appearance of alpha at each group during the pregame, you solidify your social standing. And I love how you take a more relaxed approach at the club--it's almost like you've warmed up the horses before the race, and when you get to the venue, you let them go to see which one wins. I do have one question, though: If you're with a group of girls before the night, and then you kiss one, do you find it awkward if you're in a similar situation with the same girls…
/r/seduction06/03/12 03:51 AM
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If it was me, when she hit me, I'd start rubbing my arm and pretending that it really hurt. It could become an inside joke, which is vital for creating a strong, unique connection between you two. Go get 'em, Tiger.
/r/seduction06/03/12 03:44 AM
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You absolutely hit the nail on the head. I'm exactly that guy. And I agree about the authoritarian thing... although she wouldn't be someone I was interested in, it'd be fun to fuck around. I'd love to hear an FR from you, since I think we might have pretty similar personalities.
/r/seduction06/03/12 03:40 AM
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Thanks man, that was exactly the purpose of this post. Ultimately, all I can ask is that everyone develop a unique style that's all their own. For me, I love being goofy, and I think this game exemplifies it (although because of the depersonalization aspect of the internet, it may be hard to tell). Just be yourself, be unique, and have fun. Cheers!
/r/seduction06/03/12 01:33 AM
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That's awesome! And you're right--this doesn't need to be a formal thing. Just a fun idea to keep in mind.
/r/seduction06/03/12 01:31 AM
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If you read my post--and my other comments--you'll see that this game isn't something to really take seriously. If you'd be completely turned off by the idea of it, then we probably wouldn't get along too well. Darn it!
/r/seduction06/03/12 01:29 AM
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You're exactly right, and I think I like the idea of keeping it ambiguous more than buying a drink. It's just what I've been using, but it can definitely be improved. Thanks for your thoughts.
/r/seduction05/03/12 09:17 PM
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Everyone needs sex to procreate, but it might not be everybody's objective. I think what he's trying to illustrate is that some people like sex but their happiness and self-worth isn't dependent on them getting it. I think women find this more attractive than someone who feels they need to have sex, but then again, it also depends on the woman--I've met women who are really, really sexual, and some that just aren't as much.
/r/seduction05/03/12 09:14 PM
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Exactly. And to be honest, this game may not be something that clicks with who you are, and that's OK! Personally, I'm a child at heart, so something like this is fucking fun for me.
/r/seduction05/03/12 07:10 PM
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I think if you view this as a conversation/interaction being dominated by a points game, you're viewing it in the wrong light. It shouldn't be the focus--it should come out naturally, organically. Think of it like an inside joke, because really, it could turn into one. Here's an example: Let's say she does karaoke, and she totally nails it! She comes down from the stage feeling hot as shit, and you give her a high-five, a great big hug, then tell her you give her 1 point for that, just to be a l…
/r/seduction05/03/12 07:09 PM
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I guess the reason why I think it'd be more effective telling them earlier on is because it then plants the seed in their mind that these "points" will be given to them based off of what they do, and they have no idea what triggers it. Because of this, they'll do/try things that they might not normally do--this results in them having more fun, and you giving them value. In their brain, they'll equate their elevated senses and fun times with hanging out with being around you. I'm planning on doin…
/r/seduction05/03/12 07:03 PM
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Don't knock it 'til you rock it, brotha.
/r/seduction05/03/12 06:58 PM
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Maybe I should explain: I'm the kind of guy who's really goofy. When I ultimately settle down, I want to be with a best friend--someone who I can laugh with all the time, be silly, and just make absolutely zero sense with. That's the kind of guy who I am. So with this game, it's two part: 1. It amuses me and the girl, and 2. I can tell if she's someone who I'd want to be with. Ultimately, everything I've learned here is preparing me to become who I TRULY am (in confidence, self-love, etc.). Whil…
/r/seduction05/03/12 06:58 PM
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Thanks man! That really means a lot. I was a lurker here for a few months, and I gained SO much self confidence, outcome independence, etc. I feel like the least I can do is contribute some fun tricks I've used/thought of, and help others out who're on the pathway towards total ALPHA status. Even more than that, though, Seddit has taught me to become more of who I really am. I can only hope the same for everyone else. I'd love to read an FR from you sometime!
/r/seduction05/03/12 06:55 PM
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To be honest, I've never read Mystery--just Magic Bullets. If you try it out, let us know how it goes!
/r/seduction05/03/12 06:53 PM
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Awesome! Let us know how it goes!
/r/seduction05/03/12 06:50 PM
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Very cool! I like the idea of them being able to spend it on a date.
/r/seduction05/03/12 06:50 PM
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Don't bash it until you try it, V8.
/r/seduction05/03/12 06:48 PM
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Yep! In the end, this is really just a fun game that adds to your own uniqueness, and that you can pull out whenever you're feeling confident/fun/flirty. It's not a magic bullet... just a fun tool for your tool belt. Tool belt? The fuck am I talking about?
/r/seduction05/03/12 06:47 PM
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fuck yes.
/r/seduction05/03/12 06:45 PM
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Good suggestion. You're right, it should just be fun, and I think that when you're in the field--and you're using PUA techniques--you'll be able to flow with a game like this naturally. And to touch on your last paragraph, I guess the real idea here is that it elevates the stakes--it sort of eggs her on to become MORE fun and to start enjoying herself (giving value). It's pretty win-win.
/r/seduction05/03/12 06:44 PM
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Definitely! I'll be honest, I know I've used this in the field, but my memory is shit, so I can't remember with who/when/the outcome. Mainly I've used this through texting, which has worked out great. However, it doesn't mean it wouldn't be gold in the field, and there's only way to find out. I'll be going out in the next few days, and I'll do an FR!
/r/seduction05/03/12 06:42 PM
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Exactly. I probably should've mentioned that you need to build at least a little rapport before pulling this off. It's something that I've come up with organically--I'm not the kind of guy to "rack up games" and then throw them out haphazardly. If I click with someone, I'll just throw something out like this to make our interaction more fun.
/r/seduction05/03/12 06:39 PM
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I'm going to have to politely disagree with you, but to each his/her own.
/r/seduction05/03/12 06:36 PM
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great read, brother! keep that shit up, and give us some more FRs as they come.
/r/seduction05/03/12 01:38 AM
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we're gonna need to see some proof. for mathematics.
/r/seduction03/03/12 12:15 AM
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Bonus points if you make them smile doing something random and goofy! Let loose and have fun--even if they're laughing at you, it doesn't matter as long as you're enjoying it. Girls dig that shit.
/r/seduction03/03/12 12:14 AM
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That sounds pretty sweet. I love to do really goofy stuff... just trying to elicit reactions. It's sort of like a game!
/r/seduction03/03/12 12:13 AM
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hey brother, i'm kinda drunk, but I'll try to offer some advice. try humming verrrry low tones with your chin against your chest, then raise your chin towards the ceiling, all the while doing the same low-hum. this is because it trains your adam's apple to stay down. here's an example-- make a very low voice, and feel your adam's apple. it stays low, right? now make a higher voice-- it shoots up! if you train your Adams apple to stay down, it'll make your voice clearer and lower. also try drinki…
/r/seduction16/02/12 01:41 AM
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can't upvote this enough. it should be vital to read this book in school.
/r/seduction11/02/12 02:52 AM
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you said it, brotha! way to go!
/r/seduction28/01/12 05:11 PM
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