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seekingagirl/r/seduction30/05/12 09:30 PM
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seekingagirl/r/seduction18/05/12 10:31 PM
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What if you're not into Asians and don't want to die in a Russian gulag?
/r/seduction27/07/24 04:05 PM
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You have to remind yourself that if you don't do anything, nothing will happen. It will never fall into your lap. I recommend you just plan it out way in advance like a small vacation. No need to go full-hog like some people have said. Plan ahead: one night in two weeks; you and a buddy will go out and have the best night ever and the women will thank you!
/r/seduction06/06/12 09:10 PM
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Here's the deal: people tend to want something/someone who is equal or better than themselves. If you're a 7, you want an 8. If you're an 8, you want a 9. The ebb and flow is that if you're a 7 who wants an 8, the 8 wants a 9. She's initially out of reach for you. This shows in your interactions because of the way she'll treat you (initially). Your job is to make up the difference with the skills and techniques you learn here on Seddit. So while you're fawning over the +1 girl the -1 girl (a 6 i…
/r/seduction06/06/12 02:58 PM
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Scratching. Leave battle scars for tales of yore.
/r/seduction06/06/12 02:48 PM
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The same stuff over in /r/Sex
/r/seduction06/06/12 02:46 PM
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This is common and risidual of having expectations. Remember to always be outcome independent. I find that once I know she's really into me I don't talk as much as I flirt and kino and because I know she likes it I feel more confident. Use it to your advantage!
/r/seduction06/06/12 02:45 PM
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It's easier with a large group of guys. I recommend you take over the pools! MGM, Planet Hollywood, Caesar's. Go to the local clubs and split the $500 for a table/bottle service. Why the hell not!
/r/seduction05/06/12 06:18 PM
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Yup. Watch for girls who are overly eager to hang out/meet you.
/r/seduction05/06/12 06:11 PM
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This is similar to what's called The Passion Trap (formerly The Passion Paradox). Dean Delis wrote a book about it. The positions you're talking about are called the "one-up" and "one-down" positions. Essentially, the person in the one-down position is more invested in the relationship and the harder they try, the further they push the one-up away. The one-up is the person who is most willing to walk away. If you're truly interested in learning about how to control this I highly recommend this b…
/r/seduction05/06/12 06:05 PM
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Learning the art of seduction is about increasing your odds. It's not a magic pill that will get you in bed with any woman. It just gives you the tools you need to get any woman. That being said, the best PUAs out there fail way more than they succeed, but they succeed, on average, above the rest of the fold who rely on "getting lucky" because they've mastered these techniques.
/r/seduction04/06/12 03:25 PM
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Sweet! It's important that you remember that night the next time you're in a situation. Just remember that you're awesome and you've already scored an HB10, so you KNOW they're attracted to you. I do this a lot when I get nervous; I just think back to all the other times hot women were all over me.
/r/seduction04/06/12 03:18 PM
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I usually ask them what they're after: "So, what are you looking for?" And go from there. It'll usually end up with them asking you in return. By that time you'll have a good idea on how to word it but usually it'll be something like "I'm not expecting anything or looking for anything specific. I'm gonna go with the flow and just have fun."
/r/seduction04/06/12 03:03 PM
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Not necessarily. In the best of circumstances this can happen. But, as Mystery has put it, it usually takes about 7 hours worth of comfort and rapport building until a girl is ready to sleep with you (I don't know how how accurate this is, but I imagine it's a good estimate on average). Whether that's done in one night or over the course of a month is moot. In this particular situation, her and I just happened to be around each other a few times due to out social circles. I never even had her nu…
/r/seduction31/05/12 09:44 PM
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Ignore what everyone else is saying about phone numbers. They mean shit. The sad truth is almost any girl in almost any situation will give you their number, if for no other reason as to not be rude or to get rid of you! The real challenge you face is flaking. 90% of those women will flake on you. I think this is the significance of game. Ultimately, your game would be so spot on that they'd be seeking you out or, better yet, take her home that night!
/r/seduction31/05/12 08:14 PM
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If you check the OP neither of us wanted anything serious. "Building rapport" over a couple of weeks didn't mean we were hanging out or chatting over the phone or anything personal; we just ran into each other a few times over the course of a couple of weeks. And, I had other options going on (still do) while this was happening. We both like each other -- that much is clear -- but neither wants or is ready for anything serious. We will continue to enjoy each other's company, come what may!
/r/seduction31/05/12 08:02 PM
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Confidence and being outcome independent.
/r/seduction31/05/12 02:12 PM
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I agree. I think this was part of the reason I got pissed off at first. I felt like, "Come on! What's the big deal?"
/r/seduction31/05/12 02:10 PM
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You should think of everybody as someone awesome and potentially interesting to get to know because you can add value to each others' lives. No expectations except to see if they're fit for your awesomeness.
/r/seduction31/05/12 02:07 PM
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Thanks for the support. Couple of replied below: I spent a couple of weeks building rapport Too long, You should of dropped it and moved on and she would come running to you. This is what happened. By building rapport over a couple of weeks, I meant running into her two or three times due to our social circles. It wasn't like I had her number and chatted her up or asked her out. Besides, I had other women to keep me busy. It was into the second and third time I saw her that I started coming off …
/r/seduction31/05/12 02:03 PM
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Hah, Amen brotha! Thanks!
/r/seduction30/05/12 09:43 PM
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What helps me is to stop thinking of these girls as people you want to sleep with (or anything specific). You're getting nervous because you have a specific goal in mind and the idea of failing to meet that goal manifests as nerves. Part of being confident is to realize you don't care how the intereaction turns out; you don't need her. Good luck!
/r/seduction30/05/12 09:39 PM
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Yes, there is. Work on improving yourself and once you realize how awesome you are, it'll become easier. If you don't do that first, you will fail so much that it'll compound the problem. Fix the underlying issues first and, like 4FF41R said, read the side bars (especially the part about INNER GAME). Good luck!
/r/seduction30/05/12 09:35 PM
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You want to convey interest without being needy. She has to feel wanted but not needed. Furthermore, she wants to feel like she's the most wanted. For most women the only way they can feel this way is for men to "chase" them, i.e., they need to see overtly conveyed interest over a period of time, through whatever obstacles. This, however, makes you beholden to her instead of it being mutal (or better, her beholden to you). The goal of the community is to convey these ideas and feelings to women …
/r/seduction30/05/12 09:05 PM
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This! Happens ALL the time. Girls try subtle ways of letting you know that's it's "not the right time". Live and learn to look for these cues because it's very important!
/r/seduction29/05/12 08:05 PM
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Being outcome independent means (1) knowing who you are, (2) being who you are regardless of how others around you act (and react). This can translate into many things, but mainly confidence and congruency. Another way to look at it is that you do not derive your identity or self-worth from others. In the context of seducing women, you want to be the dominant, alpha male, i.e., "I have fun, do what I want, and very little bothers me (because I am that awesome)." So if a woman flakes out on you, …
/r/seduction29/05/12 06:40 PM
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These "lines" portray concepts that are proven to work. Sometimes it's difficult to exaplain in a way that's palpable. For instance, when reading these lines or even simply observing them they do seem very contrived and cheesy. But, imagine a top Hollywood actor portraying a confident, suave womanizer with perfect delivery in the correct situation, then you'd see them for what they're truly worth. Most of the failures I've experienced (or seen) were while I was using canned material but felt unn…
/r/seduction29/05/12 06:06 PM
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I explained why we get more intimidated around more beautiful women. Like most people, you assume that good looking women who place value on their appearance are shallow and have nothing else going for them. This is not true. A high value woman, regardless of where she places her value, will want a high value man. If a beautiful woman has high value in her appearance or character, etc., she will generally seek out the same. If she has both, why would she settle or anything less? The same applies…
/r/seduction25/05/12 02:22 PM
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Not necessarily. The only part that's really true is that he's doing it wrong. In most polyamorous relationships, both people have other partners lined up and usually communicate constantly and ONLY enjoy another partner when they BOTH have options. And they usually agree on who's okay and who's not. And they are not just one night stands; they are often times meaningful relationships, though less dominant than the primary. Bottom line, the OP needs to straighten this out because as of right now…
/r/seduction24/05/12 10:24 PM
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Are you looking for a graceful exit, because that's all these lines will give you? If you're looking for good "boyfriend destoyers" you'll have to dig deeper. These one liners aren't going to do anything to make her forget about her bf. You need to think bigger/longer than that. You might be able to disarm a girl momentarily with a destroyer, but you still have to follow it up with something that keeps her interested in keeping you around, even though she just told you she has a boyfriend. For t…
/r/seduction24/05/12 10:17 PM
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Planet Hollywood has some awesome new pools as well. I found it difficult to game in Vegas during the day, especially at the pools. You just have way too much competition. But there were times out at the clubs that girls came up to us and even got some make-outs. My biggest advice would be to bring a big group of friends with you, preferably single men, or a few validating women (at least 4 or 5 people). It would be much easier. Also, watch out for hookers in the clubs. There were a couple of ti…
/r/seduction24/05/12 10:11 PM
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Ahh. No matter anyone's level, we're always improving and learning new things!
/r/seduction24/05/12 10:02 PM
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Very interesting question. I would think the HB8 would probably get hit on more in general, but it would depend on location and their approachability. In a bar/club I think the HB10 would win out. Everyday situations? Probably the HB8.
/r/seduction24/05/12 09:00 PM
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Higher-value women go for higher-value men. We get intimidated because we second guess whether or not our value matches theirs. Obvously, the more attractive they are, the more value we have to live up to.
/r/seduction24/05/12 08:58 PM
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IDGI?
/r/seduction24/05/12 08:54 PM
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I agree. I believe that "hot women don't get hit on" is a complete myth. Every hot woman I know gets hit on constantly. Go to any bar and the hottest women are hit on constantly. What I think these women really mean are that they don't get hit on by good men, i.e., "high-value" men.
/r/seduction24/05/12 03:09 PM
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She's just not sleeping with me right now. I'm sleeping with other girls and she knows that. The question is do I keep her around anyway and/or put up with her b.s. And/or push through? Is it more alpha to keep her around anyway or to drop her?
/r/seduction18/05/12 10:57 PM
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I agree simply because it helps inner game. The "so what" part is that you can have more overall success the sooner you realize where some of these limits are. Not only that, but it would help some people get over some of their blow outs. I've seen very average or unattractive men go for straight 10s and their success rate is low if nil. Sometimes you have to lower the target a little. I had a similar problem early on in that I would only go for the absolute hottest women around, maybe 1 or 2 gi…
/r/seduction26/04/12 04:34 PM
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Right after I responded, I saw this link: There are Two Enormous Elephants in the Room
/r/seduction26/04/12 02:21 PM
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The community in general: Looks don't matter Any guy could get any girl Lack of specialized material for naturals and good looking people I think convincing people #1/#2 are true help them shed self limitations, but is misleading. Natural looks affect how much effort is required. Some women will sleep with you simply because you look good. I think it was David Wygant who once said you could put him in a fat suit and he could seduce any woman. I know way too many (beautiful) women who are too pic…
/r/seduction26/04/12 02:10 PM
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