I've been in a drought lately, so recently when I've been talking to girls I've had this nervous feeling. The feeling is 'don't blow it, don't say anything stupid, don't be an asshole, don't be too funny because she might not get the joke, etc.' I'm over thinking and under doing.

Basically, I get this nervous feeling in my stomach when a girl talks/texts to me or when I talk/text to her. It's that feeling that you get before you go into an interview. I hate it and I feel like it's attributing to my drought. I feel like I need to change my attitude towards women. What should my attitude be?

Edit: I've tried the 'fuck it' attitude and it doesn't work for me.

Edit 2: I just blew it with a girl that I work with today, this was the trigger for this post. I was talking to her on the phone and got kind of flirty and she seemed to be responsive to it. Later I was talking to her about some work related stuff, and put a comment out there that didn't get a response, when I feel that it should have.